1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from Coast to Coast AM on 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio and welcome back to Coast to Coast George Nori 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 1: with you. After twenty five years of gambling, Howard reback 4 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 1: overcame his own addiction and his living proof that an 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: addiction can be cured quickly and permanently. Howard has built 6 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: a new career as a counselor, television and radio personality, 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: court appointed therapist for those in real financial trouble trying 8 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: to avoid jail, for example, from fraudulent acts. Howard's experience 9 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: led him to create a unique approach to creating compulsive 10 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: gambling based on practical methods and proven results. His website, 11 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: the rebakgroup dot com, is linked up at Coast to 12 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: Coast am dot com. Howard, welcome back. How are you doing, George. 13 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 1: I'm doing great. Thank you ever so much having me back. 14 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: It really adnice to be here. Thank you. Looking forward 15 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: to this. So you're in the States, You're Canada right 16 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: about now? No, right now, I am in the Montreal, 17 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: Canada home base. And it is a beautiful fifty two 18 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: three degrees clear, but it's ten after three in the morning. 19 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:07,320 Speaker 1: That's the only difference. Wow, but you know how many 20 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:11,319 Speaker 1: millions of people are uppowered at this hour? Absolutely now, 21 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:15,320 Speaker 1: everything is going good. I want to first obviously thank 22 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: you George for having me back. Let me wish you 23 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: the whole Coast team. All of your listeners are very 24 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 1: happy Ramadan, a very happy Easter, and of course a 25 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: very happy Passover. And it's just nice to be here 26 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 1: and to be able to be the voice for so many, 27 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 1: hundreds of thousands of people that aren't as lucky as 28 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 1: I that I get to talk about it and try 29 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: and help others. Let's talk about this addiction for a moment, 30 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: exactly what is the addiction and then tell us about 31 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: the gambling addiction part of it. I'm not so sure 32 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: that I'm smart enough to be able to delineate between 33 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: what the difference may be. But in my case, when 34 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: I found out what an actual casino was and what 35 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: the world of gaming was all about, just like your 36 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: intro song right after the news with Frank Sinatra, I 37 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: fell in love with it and never in a million 38 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: years that I ever think that it could turn into 39 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 1: something that would literally change my life to the negative. 40 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: Of course, for the first twenty three twenty four twenty 41 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 1: five years, and it just somehow seeps into your blood. 42 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:28,119 Speaker 1: It becomes part of your DNA, and you literally literally 43 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: you eat, sleep, drink and think about the world of 44 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:35,639 Speaker 1: gambling twenty five hours a day, not even twenty four. 45 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 1: And it messed my life. It ruined my life. But 46 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: as you said before, very lucky to be able to 47 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: come out of the proverbial tunnel on the other end 48 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 1: at the right old age in my early sixties and 49 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 1: have turned things around. And and I really am the 50 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: voice for those who just can't seem to get out 51 00:02:56,600 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: of the grips of gambling, George. And there's a big frience, Howard, 52 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: between those people want to go to Vegas or go 53 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,679 Speaker 1: to their local casino, have a little fun and come 54 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: home and stuff like that. I want people to understand 55 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: that not everybody's an addicted gambler, right, Oh, of course, 56 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: of course, I was never big on numbers and stats, 57 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 1: because everybody, you know, issue their own numbers. But the 58 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: number I like to use that I'm comfortable with is 59 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: that probably somewhere everythink four and six percent of those 60 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: that gamble are pathological gamblers, which obviously means that ninety 61 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: five aren't which is to your point exactly. Now tell 62 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 1: us how do you hit the bottom and how you 63 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: pulled yourself back up? Oh God, As I said last time, 64 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: I think when I was on in October, it's only 65 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: a two hour show. Can I Can I do all 66 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: that plus you? Plus you get calls in there in 67 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: In my case, it was not unique because now I 68 00:03:58,080 --> 00:03:59,839 Speaker 1: do this for a living as you as you will 69 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: know one. As you mentioned at the beginning of the show, 70 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: I had a family intervention and in full transparency and disclosure. 71 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: As you mentioned last time, you're friendly with my brother 72 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: who was home listening in Los Angeles with like stim 73 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: listening to you and I talk, and he's been there 74 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: with me since since day one, and unbeknownst to me, 75 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: I had a family intervention set up in Los Angeles, 76 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 1: actually in my brother's house. This goes back, you know, 77 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 1: twenty plus years ago, and my family called me out 78 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: on it. I lied, I told stories, which is line, 79 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 1: and my whole demeanor as a married man had changed tremendously. 80 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: I had made the cardinal sin by borrowing money from 81 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: the wrong people, and that just devastated me and worried. 82 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: The The Gebs have obviously on a on a daily basis, 83 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 1: and I became a different person. And my family is 84 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: filled with very bright people, and they cut onto me. 85 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: And like I said, I had an intervention in Los Angeles, 86 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: and I thought I was going there for a few 87 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 1: days to hang out with my brother and had in 88 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 1: and out burgers. But that's not the case. And at 89 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 1: a certain point, George in his home, in his home, 90 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 1: I could picture the share that I was sitting there 91 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: along with a couple of cousins and Billy. They called 92 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: me out on it, and I just gave up. I 93 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 1: gave in, and thank god I did. Thank god they did, 94 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 1: and thank God that they knew what they were doing. 95 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 1: And I don't know if I could have lasted George 96 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: much longer. Howard, deep deep down inside, did you know 97 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:05,479 Speaker 1: you had a problem? Oh? Absolutely absolutely. I used to 98 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: have what I call the three o'clock sweats, when you 99 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 1: wake up three o'clock in the morning sweating about the 100 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:15,679 Speaker 1: money you owe, and how sick it was in my brain, 101 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 1: how sick it was to actually worry about the money 102 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: that I owed, in addition to worrying about where I'll 103 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: get the next chunk of change to go back and play. 104 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 1: How crazy. Is that? I mean, I'm I didn't go 105 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 1: to Yale or Harvard, but I still went to college. 106 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: I'd like to think that I'm above average intelligence, but 107 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: it completely takes over every aspect of your life, including 108 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: the thinking process, which I didn't have at a whole. 109 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: Imagine to know you owe so much and still look 110 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 1: where you can get The next six it was to 111 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: say awful with the understatement of the year. Yeah, I'm 112 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:04,479 Speaker 1: assuming that you lost a lot. What if you had won? 113 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: What would have changed? It's a great it's a great question, 114 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 1: you know. When I was on a roll winning, which, 115 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: by the way, again in full disclosure, full transparency, it 116 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: doesn't happen for very long if you're a sick damit. 117 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 1: Like I was a good roll, and a good span 118 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 1: could be a couple of days, certainly not more than 119 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: a week. So when things went well, they went fantastically well. 120 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 1: And it's the old it's the old theory. When you win, 121 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: you think that you have your system in place and 122 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 1: that you know better than everybody else, which of course 123 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: is complete nonsense because the only ones that win are 124 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 1: the casino operators and or the government that owns the casino. 125 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 1: Vegas was not built by winners, that's for sure, well said, 126 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: exactly well said. And when I was on a losing streak, 127 00:07:55,240 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: which would be um most of the time, it was horrific. 128 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: But what we do as as and I don't want 129 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 1: to keep using the term sit gamblers, because I think 130 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: everybody can be fixed. And that's that's my motives operandian 131 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 1: life right now. To help everybody, estectually of those that 132 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: think they can get help, is to change the mode 133 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 1: of thinking that you cannot win, and I repeat, unless 134 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: you're the owner of the casino, nothing goes on forever. Obviously, 135 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: it's all luck. There are no systems, and the only 136 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 1: way to really win is not gamble. That's it. It's 137 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 1: really simple. But while you're in the throes of gambling, 138 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: it's very tough to get out because we chase the 139 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:48,319 Speaker 1: money that we lost, which can never happen. You can 140 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:51,959 Speaker 1: never get it back, it doesn't happen. I'm act this 141 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 1: for forty plus years, George, on both sides of the game, 142 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 1: and I've never seen it happen yet. And the only 143 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:02,959 Speaker 1: way out of the grips of the gambling world is 144 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:07,719 Speaker 1: to quickness. That's it. Now, stuff put the Brakes on 145 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 1: what is the definition of an addicted gambler? Is that 146 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 1: somebody who loses more than they have. I mean, what 147 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 1: if what if you're Jeff Bezos and you've got billions 148 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 1: of dollars and so he goes to Vegas, gambles a million, 149 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:26,079 Speaker 1: loses it and says and says, well, I got two 150 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 1: hundred million left or two hundred billion? Does that make 151 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 1: him an addicted gambler? It's it's it's a great question. 152 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 1: It's like a very skinny person going to a buffet 153 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:38,959 Speaker 1: and eating them out. You know, are they you know, 154 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: are they expected eats? Well, the answer is yes. And 155 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: I like to you the example. And I don't want 156 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:49,319 Speaker 1: to throw names around, but it's it's public knowledge that 157 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 1: mister Jordan of basketball fame is a crazed gambler, just 158 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 1: like Barkley is. And I only say that because they 159 00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 1: go on National Phoebe and they talk about it. A 160 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: matter of fact, Markley was unfound maybe but a month ago, 161 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:05,679 Speaker 1: and I saw the interview and I cringed. I was 162 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:08,199 Speaker 1: embarrassed for him. He was laughing. He would say that 163 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:10,679 Speaker 1: he would go and again to your point, George, he 164 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 1: would go to Vegas and he would lose two three 165 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: millions to the weekend and you know, you know, go 166 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: back Monday morning and say the food was great, really really, 167 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 1: So the answer is whether you can afford it or not. 168 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: Anybody that could costively go to Vegas to the weekend, 169 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 1: lose two three four million dollars and come back and smile, 170 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 1: I think is a very sick person. That's my opinion. 171 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:40,599 Speaker 1: Only he probably would would would would argue with me, 172 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: saying you're in trouble, Howard. I'm not. I can pay 173 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: my bills. Yeah that might be true, but that doesn't 174 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 1: mean that yambling three million every weekend because you can 175 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:55,200 Speaker 1: afford it doesn't make you sick. It does in my opinion. 176 00:10:55,559 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: Can you spot an addicted gambler? That's my I love 177 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 1: that question. That's my forte George. When when I go 178 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:07,079 Speaker 1: to the casino and people laugh. I spend more time 179 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:09,439 Speaker 1: in the casino now than I used to when I 180 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:13,959 Speaker 1: was a gambler because I obviously worked there. Most of 181 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 1: my cases take place in the casino, following husbands or 182 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: wives or what have you. The answer is categorically yes, 183 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 1: I could literally within fifteen minutes when I walk and 184 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: I can spot I'm not going to say everybody. That 185 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 1: would be a stretch and a lie. But I could 186 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:33,959 Speaker 1: spot easily ten fifteen people who really should be home 187 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 1: watching television or more importantly, home listening to Coast to Coast, 188 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: because they should certainly not be in the casino. It's 189 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:43,319 Speaker 1: the body language of George, which I studied and I love. 190 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 1: But the cop and sweating, the twitching, the nervousness, talking 191 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: to themselves, talking to the machines, swearing at the machines, 192 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 1: hitting the machines. You know, people played glad Jack who 193 00:11:56,520 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 1: talk to the cards. Really? I mean I don't so so, yeah, 194 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 1: I can. I can spot a pathological gambler a mile away. Absolutely. 195 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: What creates the addiction for something like gambling? What are 196 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: they after? What are they missing in their life that 197 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:15,199 Speaker 1: they need to replace it with a gambling you know, again, 198 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 1: again a great question, because I've always asked that of myself, George. 199 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 1: And as I've mentioned, and I'll mention this publicly in 200 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 1: front of millions of people, I laughed for nothing. M 201 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: I come from a great middle class family in Montreal. 202 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: Dad who was a lawyer, Mom had her own business. 203 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: The greatest brother that any human being could possibly ask 204 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 1: for as you well know, full disclosure. You know who 205 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,959 Speaker 1: he is the greatest guy in the world I had 206 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: and I left for a full disclosure. He's a very 207 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 1: successful Hollywood writer for television shows. Okay, I don't want 208 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: Billy's heads to swell while he's listening, But that's all true. 209 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 1: I've had more Importanney. George just a great human being, 210 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:06,679 Speaker 1: a great family man, and helped me through thick and 211 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: Finn through help. But yes, so's that's my brother and he, 212 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 1: even though he moved away forty plus years ago to 213 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:18,439 Speaker 1: New York in LA we still speak these days since 214 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 1: our parents are gone. We probably speak five to seven 215 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 1: times a week, sometimes twice in a day, texting all 216 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 1: the time. He just wished me good luck before I 217 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:30,079 Speaker 1: came on the air a little while ago. And I 218 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:32,959 Speaker 1: had a sister who unfortunately passed away at fifty two, 219 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: and she was the greatest woman in the world too, 220 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: Cornell University grad a genius. So all that to say 221 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 1: is that my background I lacked for nothing. I wanted 222 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: to be a pilot, and my dad made sure that 223 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 1: I went to flight school while I was going to university, 224 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 1: and I did beat my dream and I did become 225 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 1: a pilot, so I really have no complaints. So all 226 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:00,439 Speaker 1: that to say, why did I become addicted to gambling? 227 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 1: I can't tell you. I don't want to make up 228 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:05,680 Speaker 1: an answer, and I've been thinking about that three years 229 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 1: and years. I don't know. I think I just loved 230 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 1: the excitement of being in a casino. Oh yeah, but 231 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 1: couldn't you have done that without being addicted? Probably? But 232 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 1: my problem was, as I remember it only going back 233 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: forty plus years, is when I first began gambling. We 234 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 1: have to remember that gambling really was only in the 235 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: form of an actual casino. Let's turn the clock back 236 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: forty plus years, right, So at that time there were 237 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 1: no casinos in Canada. As a matter of fact, the 238 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 1: first casino in Canada or here in Montreal, opened up 239 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 1: in October of ninety three. It's going to be thirty 240 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: years this October that the Montreal Casino exists, meaning for 241 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 1: the ten years prior to that, the only gambling I 242 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 1: did was driving down to Atlantic City with my wife 243 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: and or my folks, or on my own, or taking 244 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 1: a trip down to Vegas, and I just literally ate 245 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: it up. I loved it. I'm pretty good in math. 246 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 1: I must say I sort of found out that I 247 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: could not count cards, but some type of photographic memory 248 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 1: when I was in flight school. So that helped me 249 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 1: play blackjack. But again, forty plus years, who am I kidding? 250 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:24,600 Speaker 1: How much did it help? I ruined my life, So 251 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 1: I suppose my counting was not that great and my 252 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 1: math was not good enough. It's difficult. I know a 253 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 1: lot of Hollywood people who love Vegas, but I would 254 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: not call them addicted. They just go and have fun 255 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 1: and they come back and they do their thing. I 256 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: used to have a rule. I used to have a 257 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 1: rule to take as much as you could lose, and 258 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 1: that's it. And if you lose it, you lose it 259 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 1: one hundred percent, George, And that's that's a great mantres 260 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 1: to go by. The problem is nowadays, of course, with 261 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 1: the access of everybody having credit cards and debit cards 262 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 1: and what have you, people can get money from from 263 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 1: from all different places when they're away, and it's always 264 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 1: you know that one more, want more, one more. But 265 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: you're right. Ninety five percent of those that gamble do 266 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 1: not have the problem, and they do go and they 267 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 1: have fun, they see a show, they dine with their 268 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 1: partner or their family. They enjoy themselves to sit by 269 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 1: the pool in Vegas when the weather is suitable, and 270 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 1: they just enjoy annoy the people, the people watching. Absolutely, 271 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 1: in those days, I could not care less about the food. 272 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 1: I could not care less about the pool. I could 273 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: not care less about people watching. All I wanted to 274 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 1: do was sit at a blackjack table, and the faster 275 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 1: dealers the deal the happier I was, which was completely 276 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: ludicrits because another little stat obviously they're going to win, 277 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 1: which means the fast that the more you're gonna lose, 278 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 1: the faster you're gonna lose, and the more depressed you're 279 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 1: gonna be. I did nothing right except stopping. And there's 280 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:11,720 Speaker 1: nothing worse than getting a dealer who has no personality. 281 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 1: Oh my, they sapped you, They sapped the table. Oh absolutely. 282 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 1: There's a great story that I didn't tell when I 283 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 1: was on the airback in October. The great story, and 284 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 1: I could say it publicly because it's not Yeah, there's 285 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 1: something wrong with the story. I was playing blackjack with 286 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 1: Aaron Spelling at Caesar's and I didn't really know who 287 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:38,360 Speaker 1: he was until somebody said, you know who sitting next 288 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 1: to you great producers. One of the greatest, absolutely, and 289 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:47,119 Speaker 1: this has to make you laugh. In contrast to talking 290 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 1: about Jordan and Berkeley, it was him and I playing, 291 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:54,639 Speaker 1: and I don't want to lie. I don't remember. I 292 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,880 Speaker 1: was probably playing twenty five or fifty dollars a hand 293 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 1: blackjack George Coast to Coast listeners, Mister Spelling was playing 294 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 1: two dollars a hand. You're going back thirty plus years, 295 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:09,480 Speaker 1: and they had black jack for two dollars and five 296 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:13,960 Speaker 1: dollars a hand, two dollars a hand. The dealer had 297 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 1: an ace and he literally stopped the game, looked at 298 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 1: me and said, just a minute, sir, And he was 299 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 1: thinking if we should take insurance for a dollar. So 300 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:29,119 Speaker 1: there you go. That that just goes to show about 301 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 1: like my late aunt used to say, that's why Hinz 302 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 1: makes fifty seven varieties, all kinds of people. And he 303 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:38,119 Speaker 1: lost about a hundred bucks and he was not a 304 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:42,200 Speaker 1: happy happy probably, and that was probably the apex of 305 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 1: his career when like every second show on television was 306 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 1: his love for a buck. I remember saying, mister Spelling, 307 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:53,640 Speaker 1: here's a white ship. Can we please continue playing? Listen 308 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 1: to more Coast to Coast AM every weeknight at one 309 00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 1: am Eastern and go to Coast to Coast am dot 310 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 1: m for more