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Speaker 2: It could be hard, but what if all the bridesmaids,

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Speaker 2: oh for everybody. It was all around, Oprah Winfrey, that's right.

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Speaker 1: You get enough, you get to know. Yeah, we should

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Speaker 1: I like that.

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Speaker 1: After she was ready, we went downstairs and the elevator

426
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 1: doors opened. My eyes went straight to Emily. The other

427
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: girls were all celebrating and clapping and hugging Victoria. It

428
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 1: was just seconds, but I saw her face fell and

429
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 1: her eyes get shiny, before she composed herself and hugged everyone,

430
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:24,320
Speaker 1: pretending to be happy. God, she almost broke down in

431
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 1: tears because she's like having to put on such a

432
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 1: face because she has to be happy that the wedding's continuing. Yep,

433
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,879
Speaker 1: which also that's maybe that's also another reason why she

434
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,120
Speaker 1: continued with like the wedding up to a certain point,

435
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 1: to kind of torture Emily a little bit. We all

436
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 1: took a picture in the garden across the street from

437
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,159
Speaker 1: the building, and then headed out to the church. We

438
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 1: met the rest of the wedding party. There we do

439
00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:51,360
Speaker 1: the groom's first look the pictures, all that jazz. Victoria

440
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 1: sent everyone inside to take places and asks me and

441
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: Emily to come with her to this little chapel outside

442
00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 1: to fix something in Emily's dress. Get in there for

443
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 1: getting there, ladies and gentlemen into the home run. That's

444
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 1: when Victoria dropped the bomb on Emily. This I am

445
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:12,119
Speaker 1: quoting and translating from the video I took, which I

446
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:16,159
Speaker 1: absolutely won't share in all coups. I know Sam is

447
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 1: thatdh Come on, Sam is the context king he needs,

448
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,119
Speaker 1: He needs that context. Context. He sits on a throne

449
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 1: of context. Victoria. I'm glad you're here, and I brought

450
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: you here, Emily to tell you that I know all

451
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: about the affair of yours and my fiance. I know

452
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 1: you're pregnant and it's victors. I've known since Friday evening. Emily,

453
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: what are we gonna do? Why didn't you say anything?

454
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: Why didn't you do anything? Victoria? Because I wanted us

455
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 1: to reach this point when you see me as a

456
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 1: bride about to marry the man you say is the

457
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 1: love of your life, to make sure that you know

458
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:52,679
Speaker 1: and understand there's no way, even being pregnant with his baby,

459
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 1: he's going to choose you over me, that he wants

460
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 1: you for fun and he wants me for his life.

461
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 1: Oh that is fucking brutal cold and got to give

462
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 1: it to her. She didn't do it like at the

463
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 1: chapel and like big whole thing event. Dude, I'm getting chilled.

464
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 1: That was this damn bro that's cold blooded. After that,

465
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 1: Emily said she was sorry and ran crying out of

466
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 1: the chapel and the church. She was pale and very upset,

467
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 1: and I have no idea where she is and I

468
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 1: don't care much. Victoria almost broke down too, but I

469
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 1: left her to calm down and want to tell the

470
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,400
Speaker 1: rest of the bridal party that she needed a moment

471
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 1: that Emily felt ill and left and Victoria got nervous

472
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:38,879
Speaker 1: because of it. I went back in with Victoria. I

473
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 1: helped him fix a little makeup and hair that was

474
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 1: out of place, and we went back to the party,

475
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 1: and the wedding went on just as plant. Dude, it's

476
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 1: it's still going for now, still going just as planned.

477
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 1: Religious wedding first, then the civil wedding, and then to

478
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 1: the reception. I noticed Victor counting the bridesmaids a couple

479
00:26:57,080 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 1: of times, but I said nothing. Yeah, He's like, oh, oh,

480
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,400
Speaker 1: it looks like Emily's out of here, so uh, who's

481
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 1: gonna be next, you know, I gotta get one of

482
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 1: Hope's other eligible. We arrive at the venue, everyone sits,

483
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 1: The bride and the groom are presented to everyone. There's clapping.

484
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,440
Speaker 1: The meal starts, and at the end of the meal,

485
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:20,640
Speaker 1: when toasts are to come, Victoria drops bomb number.

486
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,160
Speaker 2: Two toast at the toast. She's doing at the toast,

487
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 2: that's a classic.

488
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,680
Speaker 1: She stands up and asks me for the little gift box. Again,

489
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,360
Speaker 1: I'm quoting and translating from the video I took. Oh

490
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 1: my god, Victoria, thank you all for being here with

491
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: Victor and I for coming to celebrate our wedding, our families,

492
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,199
Speaker 1: and our friends. As some of you have noticed, one

493
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 1: of my bridesmaids, Emily, is not here right now. At

494
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 1: the mention of Emily, Victor's smile fell off. Victoria. But

495
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: I don't want her absence to ruin the party. I

496
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 1: prepared a little surprise for my husband, Victor. Then she

497
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 1: hands into a little box. He was trembling as he

498
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 1: opened it up and took out little baby shoes. I

499
00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:02,120
Speaker 1: could see faces start to light up thinking Victoria was pregnant,

500
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 1: Because I mean, think about it, this is.

501
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 2: Gonna be such whiplash dude. Victor was pale as drywall.

502
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,880
Speaker 1: Victoria and I want to congratulate him because even when

503
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 1: I won't become a mom, he will become a dad

504
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 1: of Emily's baby. Oh bro, she's got the juice. Dude.

505
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 2: I would be like if I was if I was Victor,

506
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 2: I would be shitting my pants. I would cry and run,

507
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 2: cry and run.

508
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:36,879
Speaker 1: My god, the silence afterwards was absolutely terrifying. Could you

509
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 1: imagine sitting there and that just happened. What do you

510
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 1: what's the response? I would I would be standing over

511
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 1: the shock. Oh my god. But we didn't stay to

512
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 1: see the aftermath of everyone understanding what had just happened.

513
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 1: We left through the kitchen and got into Jack's car

514
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 1: without the trailer now and left. Victoria sent the screenshots

515
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,479
Speaker 1: revealing the pregnancy and the cheating to the family groups

516
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: hours of Victoria's the wedding planning group and their work

517
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 1: group from the hospital. We're in another city in the

518
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 1: next state. Now we send a message to our families

519
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 1: that were fine and that we've turned off the phones.

520
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: I'm only taking this little time to do the much

521
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 1: promised update. We will see what tomorrow brings. Wow, I

522
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 1: think that was some of the most like nuclear revenge

523
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 1: that we've seen. And like I would say well thought out,

524
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 1: too well thought out, because I mean, like, look, she

525
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 1: was insanely wronged. So but there are options that could

526
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: be you know, potentially too nuclear. So maybe this is

527
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: the question for go too far? Did she go too far?

528
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 1: Did she go far enough? Did she go far enough?

529
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 1: I feel like she definitely went far enough, right, Yeah,

530
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: I think she went far enough. Yeah, But did she

531
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 1: go too far? I don't know. I like, I don't

532
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: know if I would ever do something like that. I

533
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: think personally I wouldn't. But like, I don't think she's

534
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: an asshole necessarily if you think about this too. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

535
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:08,479
Speaker 1: Like I don't think she's an asshole. Victor had all

536
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: the chance in the world to tell her all of

537
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 1: this before the wedding, right because and he like went

538
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: along with marrying her, which is like a huge like

539
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,640
Speaker 1: she deserves that honesty that he never gave her, you know.

540
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 1: So his clock kind of ran out, and it's like, well,

541
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 1: the ball's in my court now, buddy, and I am

542
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 1: going to swing for the fences. I'm going to Michael

543
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 1: Jordan Windmill slam dunk and break the backboard on you.

544
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 2: That backboard is shattered, and so is Victor's hopes and

545
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 2: dream truly true.

546
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: That's a video. I hope it's posted somewhere. She said

547
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: she's out at all caps, absolutely not sharing, But is

548
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: that posted anywhere? You think? I mean, if she didn't

549
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: want to share it on here, she definitely probably shared

550
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: it in the family group. So you think like they

551
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 1: shared the screenshots proving that it was cheating.

552
00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I would love to know what you

553
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 2: guys think, like, Yeah, did she go far enough or

554
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 2: did she go too far?

555
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: Put your answers in the comments so you know it's

556
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:05,959
Speaker 1: not going too far.

557
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 2: Sim reading this next story, Yeah baby, let's go. My

558
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 2: dad is having an affair and now my parents are

559
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 2: blaming me for it, really blaming the child.

560
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean the child was hooking up with the

561
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: dad though. Well that's that's the post banter hook right there.

562
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 1: Just kidding.

563
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 2: Today I experienced the definition of f around and find out.

564
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 1: Okay, some backstory.

565
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 2: Almost a year ago, my family experienced the loss of

566
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 2: my grandpa, my dad's father. He started having more emotional outbursts,

567
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 2: being more reclusive, et cetera, and we tried our best

568
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 2: to be understanding and to help him in any way

569
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 2: he needed. He found himself a therapist and seemed to

570
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 2: be working through a lot of his feelings and thoughts.

571
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 2: He still wasn't acting entirely like him, but death affects

572
00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 2: everyone differently, and this made his behavior easy to excuse.

573
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: Right, just because you're dying doesn't mean you can be

574
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: a dick.

575
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 2: Come on, bro, My dad and I don't live in

576
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 2: the same city, and so we often meet up at

577
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 2: halfway points for lunch. We've always been closed, so it's

578
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 2: commonplace for us to talk about our feelings, emotions, and

579
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 2: recent life events.

580
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: With each other. Oh okay, so we got the backstory, John,

581
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 1: Now into the story story. God, that's front story. I've

582
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 1: seen enough, booty. Now we want to see some bring

583
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 1: it back around. During our first lunch since my grandpa's passing,

584
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: I noticed my dad talking a lot about this new

585
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 1: girl at his work.

586
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 2: We'll call her Stacy. He said that Stacy was helping

587
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 2: him a lot with his trauma and being there for him,

588
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 2: you know, just helping like him with his emotional releases. Yeah,

589
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 2: he's he's got a lot to release a lot of

590
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 2: up just emotions, you.

591
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 1: Know, they kind of just spill everywhere.

592
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 2: She just lay down and relaxed. Yeah, let him, let

593
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 2: you know, someone take care of it from husband has

594
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 2: been through some similar traumas that my dad had experienced,

595
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 2: and that was being brought up in therapy, so he

596
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 2: said she offered him support. He really felt he could

597
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 2: be himself around her. He made it abundantly clear that

598
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 2: he did not feel he could be himself around his

599
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 2: wife of twenty years, my mom, but that he could

600
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 2: with Stacy. M I thought this was an odd comment

601
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 2: to make, and I think this is where my suspicions

602
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 2: of their real intentions began. But I knew he was struggling,

603
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 2: and it made me feel relieved that he had someoney trusted.

604
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 2: It struck me a little weird that she was twenty nine,

605
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 2: but again, sometimes workplaces can create weird and unexpected friendships,

606
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 2: and with me being twenty six, I wondered if maybe

607
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 2: he saw her as another daughter since I wasn't able

608
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 2: to be around much do at a distance.

609
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 1: Well, she does call him daddy. Wooooo what sh He

610
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 1: assured me that Stacy was married to a man named

611
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 1: I Andrew. Well, why assure you she's married. Yeah, yeah,

612
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 1: I also assure you were banging. Yeah.

613
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 2: They were strictly friends, but in his own words, people

614
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 2: from his work had started to think something was going

615
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 2: on between them. Oh so they had stopped talking at

616
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 2: work and had moved to texting.

617
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:20,760
Speaker 1: Oh dear, texting, Oh no, snapading receipts, snapchatting.

618
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 2: He even went so far as to later in the

619
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,800
Speaker 2: conversation say that he thinks a strong marriage should be

620
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 2: able to survive someone cheating. What's one of the people,

621
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 2: Oh jeez, I spit hella. What's with people saying like, oh,

622
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:34,720
Speaker 2: cheating makes a relationship stronger.

623
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:38,360
Speaker 1: It's Sam, you gotta go through the passages, the seven

624
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,240
Speaker 1: rings of fire. I'm gonna go through the crucible. Baby.

625
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 1: I'm doing you such a favor. You know how strong

626
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 1: I want us to be? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I cheated

627
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:50,439
Speaker 1: on you seven times this week for us. I cheat

628
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 1: with every woman I see because I'm doing it for you,

629
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 1: big yeah, babe. It's like it's like Gryffindor's sword. You know,

630
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 1: if it stabs something strong than it, then it becomes

631
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: stronger than that material.

632
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 2: And that's why when it stabbed the Basilisk, it could

633
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 2: now stab anything that was more intense than a basilisk,

634
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 2: and that's why I could kill horcruxes.

635
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: That's right, baby, And I'm about I'm about to kill

636
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:15,800
Speaker 1: your horrec crux if you pick up what I'm looking.

637
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:19,879
Speaker 2: Yeahs oh god, I'm deep into the Harry Potter lore.

638
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 1: Right. No, I'm here for it. I will hang with

639
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 1: you there. You know about that about Griffndor's sword, right,

640
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 1: I forgot that? So yeah, like anything, it's like it stabs,

641
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:32,240
Speaker 1: it becomes stronger than that thing. I like that sucks

642
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: its power out. Yep.

643
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,399
Speaker 2: I assured him that that wasn't healthy and that I'm

644
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:39,320
Speaker 2: not sure what kind of relationship he wanted with his wife,

645
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 2: but I did not want a relationship founded on infidelity. Obviously,

646
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 2: my alarm bells were going off with a little information

647
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,720
Speaker 2: I had on Stacy. I went and found her online.

648
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 2: Oh boy, I stalked her, and just like my dad said,

649
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 2: she was seemingly in a young, happy marriage with Andrew.

650
00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 2: She kept her social media pretty private, but from what

651
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 2: I could see, she looked like your average twenty nine

652
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 2: year old woman. I couldn't possibly imagine what she would

653
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 2: want with my dad, and if anything, I thought maybe

654
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 2: my dad had a work crush that he was reading

655
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 2: too much into. No one wants to think that their

656
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 2: dad could be capable of a full blown affair. Yeah,

657
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 2: but some dads are. Yep, some dads are. I also

658
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 2: wonder I want to know what her dad looks like like?

659
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:25,720
Speaker 2: Is he is he Dilph Materia?

660
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 1: Is he a silver fox? Does look like Brad Pitt? This?

661
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 1: It looks Sam gave me like, no look I've ever

662
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:38,320
Speaker 1: received from them before.

663
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 2: For anyone who doesn't know my dad constantly around the

664
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 2: world gets told like that he looks like Brad Pitt.

665
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,759
Speaker 2: To the point where he was in Spain a group

666
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 2: of school children asked to take pictures with him.

667
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 1: It was just like Brad Pitt, Brad Pitt, where's Angelina?

668
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 1: My mom told me to, uh share this picture of

669
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: my dad. Oh, here we go, the most recent one.

670
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: You're just you're just adding to the lord, dude, the

671
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 1: lore of your dad on this podcast. There's a lot

672
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 1: of lore and I'm getting heated in anticipation. So this

673
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 1: is this is Pops, who there he is? And then

674
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 1: this is one more. Oh yeah, dude, so he's got it,

675
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 1: he's got Yeah, I have something to look forward in

676
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 1: my jeans. Thanks John for that. Yeah, there we go,

677
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: like father like man from one Daddy. It's like so

678
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: high s e O. The clicks are the click through

679
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 1: rate is through the roots.

680
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:50,800
Speaker 2: We were looking up yesterday like the other day, and

681
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 2: apparently when you type in Samuel Donner on Google, girlfriend

682
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 2: is like third type in type in Samuel Daughter Google

683
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 2: Incogniti mode on incognito.

684
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 1: Wait there shure screen too, uh file new incognito. Yeah,

685
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 1: there you go. Maybe you have to go on Google. Yeah,

686
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:14,240
Speaker 1: I think you have to Google dot com. Yeah, dude,

687
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:20,920
Speaker 1: that is so funny. That is so funny. We should

688
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 1: advertise against that Samuel's Donner girlfriend. But I want to

689
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:31,360
Speaker 1: find out the answer. Listen to today's episode. That's a

690
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:33,320
Speaker 1: pretty good ad right there. I mean, it's all my

691
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 1: fucking just Instagram's Samuel Donner Alert baby, what's good? Poppy?

692
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 1: Damn damn? Can I sit in those glasses looking like

693
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 1: an egg chair? I want to plant my ass in. Dude,

694
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,919
Speaker 1: can we get that Samuel daughter on the podcast? Yeah?

695
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:59,359
Speaker 2: Dude, I you know, I actually I know. We could

696
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,319
Speaker 2: have the other Samuel Donner from the UK on the pod.

697
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 1: Did we get Samuel Donners and John Fryes on the

698
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 1: show and just do a casting call doppelganger named Doppelganger.

699
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 1: Have you contacted any John Fryes. I need to contact

700
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 1: the John Fry who produced for the outcast because we're

701
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 1: going to make a song called John Fry featuring John Fry.

702
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 1: You should totally need to do that named doppelganger episode. Yeah,

703
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:24,800
Speaker 1: big stuff, I already got mine. You ready to go.

704
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 2: I really I made a group chat with all the

705
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:30,840
Speaker 2: Sam Donners across the world. Really yeah, I have it

706
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,800
Speaker 2: like that's on. It's pretty incredible.

707
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 1: They I got a pretty good response to it. Actually,

708
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 1: check us out, take us out. Chick It Chicken Chicken.

709
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 1: Maybe we have five Sam's and five John's. Just a

710
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: whole a gang an army.

711
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 2: Over the next few visits with my dad, I would

712
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:52,359
Speaker 2: hear him continually talk about Stacy when telling stories about work.

713
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,719
Speaker 2: We're talking about his friends. She always seemed to come up.

714
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 2: I couldn't help but notice that he would avoid calling

715
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,879
Speaker 2: her by name. She would just be she or her

716
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,920
Speaker 2: or girl from work. It says if he completely forgot

717
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 2: the things he had told me about her, or as

718
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 2: if he was afraid to say her name around me,

719
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:11,879
Speaker 2: infidelity is never mentioned again, but he's always talking about

720
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 2: how he's fighting with my mom Lily, how as he

721
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:16,839
Speaker 2: goes through therapy, she might not like the man he's

722
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:20,839
Speaker 2: becoming because that man is cheating every day, this twenty

723
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 2: nine year old. He tells me how he's standing his

724
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 2: ground and getting into verbal arguments with her. I imagine

725
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 2: this is self sabotage due to his guilt because of

726
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 2: the cheating. Probably super true. Yeah, fast forward to today,

727
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 2: about a year since I first heard about Stacy. I

728
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 2: went on my laptop, which I do not use often.

729
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,840
Speaker 2: I opened Instagram and I realized I still had.

730
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: My dad's logging credentials saved on my computer from a

731
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 1: one off back in twenty sixteen. My dad is and

732
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:47,919
Speaker 1: always has been.

733
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 2: Sketchy with his passwords, so I assume that likely it

734
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 2: wouldn't work, but I tried the log in anyways, I

735
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 2: love Emily sixty nine.

736
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 1: I love Stacy sixty nine. To my surprise, I was

737
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 1: in Oh God, she cracked the coach.

738
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 2: I won't even pretend like I didn't know exactly what

739
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 2: I was looking for, or like I'm above looking through

740
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 2: his DMS. This is also where I eft around and

741
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 2: found out, Oh no, I opened their dms, which.

742
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 1: Were pretty bleak. At first, I thought I could rest

743
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 1: my suspicions, more like hoped, until I couldn't. It started

744
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,800
Speaker 1: out with sending corny photos to each other, things about

745
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 1: you can kiss me whenever you want, I'm yours, and

746
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 1: your arms feel like home and I'm homesick, okay, a

747
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 1: little cute like I mean a little cute like I'm

748
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 1: gonna ravage your body with my twenty three inch pirates

749
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:40,319
Speaker 1: kid gravy. I'm not trying to set sail on that ship.

750
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:43,880
Speaker 1: That's all I know. It's like, oh, like, I feel

751
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:50,240
Speaker 1: like I'm home in your arms. Beat of shit? Awful,

752
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:56,240
Speaker 1: I guys. Also, our producer Riley thought that women really

753
00:41:56,360 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 1: really like when men go yeah no, because he saw

754
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 1: a sarcastic TikTok online comment below. You're probably a woman

755
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 1: watching this comment below. If you like men barking? Yeah?

756
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:09,840
Speaker 1: Do you like men barking? We will put it to that.

757
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:29,279
Speaker 1: Do you like that? Your small noises have always impressed me?

758
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,400
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, it's one of your best impressed you.

759
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 1: There's that one too, that's a that's a pigeon. That

760
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:45,479
Speaker 1: that's pretty good. This is a spaceship. We have come,

761
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 1: Danaly probe you No, not my butthole. It feels like

762
00:42:53,600 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 1: I'm there. I'm not excited for this colonoscopy. You know,

763
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: I have to like I have to get like picked

764
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 1: up by someone because I have to be drugged. Damn

765
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 1: you have a driver. Huh you got a driver? Yeah,

766
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: my parents are gonna pick me out. There we go.

767
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 1: But dude, like, not excited doesn't sound super fun. Not excited?

768
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 1: You're supposed to get a coolonosky when you're like fifty, Dude,

769
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: what treat are you going to get yourself for going?

770
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 1: What treat? Yeah, dude, is anal not treat enough. I mean,

771
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 1: that's a pretty big treat to fasten me. But like

772
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 1: you know, let's let's let's shower. Move doctor, doctor, is

773
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 1: this milky discharge? Normal? It's a present meant to be

774
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 1: in myself. This is a job for me and me alone,

775
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:49,800
Speaker 1: all right? Anyways, really juvenile, weird shit things I wouldn't

776
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 1: send to a coworker if you paid me. Still in

777
00:43:53,280 --> 00:44:00,040
Speaker 1: the Nile, I kept scrolling and that's when I saw it. Nudies. No,

778
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: But the question is is it from Papa or Stacy

779
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 1: is Stacy a mom? Un Does you have it going on?

780
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 1: She has it going on? She apparently does. She's not

781
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:11,800
Speaker 1: a mom, but she'll steal your dad. Apparently.

782
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, Sirrie, all right, what who do you think do

783
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 2: you think it's from? In the comments? Would you rather

784
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 2: see nudes from your dad or nudes from your mom?

785
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 1: Oh?

786
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 2: Answers in the comments, John, which nudes when you're out

787
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:30,879
Speaker 2: of Oh my god?

788
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:35,399
Speaker 1: The next sentence, which one do you want to see?

789
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 1: And from her? Thank God?

790
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 2: Sexting conversations about their existing partners and the potential of

791
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 2: leaving them for each other, I Love you, conversations with

792
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 2: their plans to sleep together for the first time, et cetera,

793
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 2: et cetera, et cetera.

794
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 1: You get the picture. They amy and slept together week.

795
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 1: Sauce Dog, you're sending nudes before you've done the d

796
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,600
Speaker 1: It seems like commit Yeah, commit, you know, if you've

797
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 1: got to fucking do it, do it. Commit to not

798
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 1: committing to your wife. I mean, at this point you've done.

799
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: At this point, you know it's over, you know, seal

800
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:14,320
Speaker 1: the deal, get it over with, get it over with.

801
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: All of my suspicions were laid out in front of me.

802
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 1: He was willing to risk it all for a married

803
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 1: woman three years older than his daughter. Yep, I mean yeah,

804
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: but like three years older. That's like almost like a generation.

805
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 1: Oh apparently seven months you know old makes you a.

806
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 2: Fossil, literally a millennial. Yeah, so basically I am me

807
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 2: and Riley over here at gen Z. Yeah, dude, these

808
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 2: these young whipper staffers over here.

809
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 1: It's high five to Riley. Oh yeah, by the way,

810
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, you know we get each other. Oh

811
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 1: I'm sure fun over there too. He was willing to.

812
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 2: Hurt the woman he had supposedly loved for twenty years,

813
00:45:54,840 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 2: destroy his family, destroy Stacy's family for what absolute effings elfishness.

814
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 2: The worst part for me was that they actively talk

815
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:06,319
Speaker 2: about their existing partners in this chat. Stacy's always making

816
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 2: fun of my mom. Does Lily wear Lacey bras for you?

817
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 2: Does Lily let you go down on her with her?

818
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 1: Bush? Did nine to eleven? Well? As if Stacy, I

819
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:19,840
Speaker 1: just I heard I saw it heard Bush.

820
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 2: All then, as if Stacy couldn't become more of a

821
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 2: disgusting human, as if she's not already sleeping with a married.

822
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 1: Fifty three year old of too she.

823
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:35,400
Speaker 2: Has to degrade his wife, an innocent victim in this situation.

824
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 2: They assure each other that they love their current partners

825
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:40,719
Speaker 2: so much that it hurts, and they don't understand how

826
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 2: they can have the capacity to love two people at

827
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 2: the same time. It's disgusting and childish, and I don't

828
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 2: know how it ends they still work together closely. I

829
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 2: cannot bring myself to tell my mom. I don't want

830
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 2: my dad to know.

831
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 1: I know.

832
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 2: I don't want him to feel back into a corner

833
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 2: like he has to tell my mom. I want him

834
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 2: to tell my mom because he knows it's the right

835
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 2: thing to do. I've looked up to my dad my

836
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 2: whole life, and I feel like the whole view I

837
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 2: have had of him as a selfless, loving, caring family

838
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 2: man has been shattered. I'm so disappointed in his actions

839
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 2: and I don't know what to do. It's eating away

840
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 2: at me. And I do have some edits, some comments

841
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 2: and a fat, juicy update. But what do you think, John,

842
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 2: do you think ope should tell tell the truth?

843
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:28,799
Speaker 1: So we've had this predicament many times before on this show,

844
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: and I think this is no different where you go

845
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 1: to the person who's cheating and you say, look, you

846
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 1: need to tell this person that you're cheating. Now, do

847
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 1: you give the ultimatum on like tell her? Or maybe

848
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 1: it's like, hey, tell them, I know, so just tell

849
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:48,720
Speaker 1: them and then you if you absolutely need to enforce

850
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: the I'll tell them. If you don't, if they keep

851
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 1: kicking the can down the road, I think that's the move.

852
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, because like, I mean, you have an obligation to

853
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 2: your mom, right, yes, exactly, I think so. Yeah, I

854
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 2: mean ideally he tells, but obligation to.

855
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:03,320
Speaker 1: The mom one hundred percent. One hundred percent.

856
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 2: Okay, So some edits to clarify. I was told it

857
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 2: would be beneficial to add that my parents do have

858
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 2: a kid who is a minor who lives with them.

859
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 2: I have not known about this affair the entire time.

860
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 2: I found out about it on Thursday, So please stop

861
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,359
Speaker 2: saying that I'm intentionally holding a secret for my father.

862
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 2: My parents share an email account, and I will not

863
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 2: see my mom in person until probably Christmas. So here

864
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 2: are some relevant comments. Stinston five five five says, armed

865
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 2: with this info, I would set up a one on

866
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 2: one meeting with mom and tell her and bring an evidence.

867
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 2: In volatile situations, like this, it is best to be

868
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 2: proactive versus reactive. Advise her to go into stealth mode

869
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 2: and to act like nothing is going on. Next Steps one.

870
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 2: Help mom find two to three divorce attorneys and schedule

871
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 2: the consults. The consult is usually free. Have her present

872
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 2: the circumstances and find out their approach. She can then

873
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 2: decide whose style she likes most and retain them. Have

874
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 2: her gathered the following documents. A last three years of

875
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 2: tax returns, B twelve months bank statements, retirement account statements,

876
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 2: investment statements, see copies of mortgage deed titled to the

877
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 2: home d if they own a vacation or rental real estate,

878
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 2: make copies of those dogs from c E twelve months

879
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,160
Speaker 2: worth of credit card statements, cell phone bills. Have your

880
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 2: mom try to see if she can get access to

881
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 2: his wallet while he's sleeping, and if so, check if

882
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 2: there's any new credit cards.

883
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 1: As she finds them, screenshot them. What state are you in?

884
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: Depending on the answer, infidelity may qualify her for a

885
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 1: fault for the divorce violence. Helping her prepare for this

886
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 1: will give her a leg up for softer landing. If

887
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 1: you can find the info for her affair partner's spouse.

888
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 1: She can and should make contact the day your dad

889
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:34,399
Speaker 1: is served by the way he can be served at work,

890
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 1: play stupid games when stupid prizes and ope, he replied,

891
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: I've decided to take your advice. I'm going to tell

892
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:44,719
Speaker 1: my mom as she deserves to have the upper hand

893
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:46,680
Speaker 1: in the decision making since my father has been the

894
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 1: holder of all the decisions for the past months unbeknownst

895
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 1: to her. I'm currently just waiting for a time when

896
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 1: she is not around my dad so I can call

897
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:57,320
Speaker 1: her and drop nub bomb. They're currently driving up to

898
00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 1: their cottage together, so it doesn't feel fair for me

899
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 1: to not let her have room degrieves slash figure out

900
00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 1: her next move. I will post an official update when

901
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 1: I have one, most likely Monday when she goes into work,

902
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:11,400
Speaker 1: and here is the update we've all been waiting for,

903
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 1: boys and girls. October twenty third, so I finally called

904
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,160
Speaker 1: my mom. Her and my dad had spent the day

905
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:21,319
Speaker 1: together at their cottage, so I waited until they were

906
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 1: home and then asked if she could go somewhere alone

907
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 1: so we could talk on the phone. Her reaction was

908
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 1: nothing like I imagined. She sounded like she already knew.

909
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 1: Her reaction also made me feel like this wasn't the

910
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 1: first time this has happened. She left and asked me

911
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 1: what I thought I saw. She blamed herself and said

912
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 1: that she doesn't meet my dad's needs. Oh.

913
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 2: I explained to her that it's not fair and that

914
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 2: she doesn't deserve to be lied to and cheated on

915
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:52,839
Speaker 2: and put at risk for sdds. I said the way

916
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 2: they spoke about my mom and the chat was disgusting

917
00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:57,799
Speaker 2: and that this was wrong. She asked to see screenshots,

918
00:50:57,840 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 2: so I sent.

919
00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:00,800
Speaker 1: Them to her. She kept reassuring me that her and

920
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 1: my dad were in it for the long haul and

921
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't divorce. I wonder if he's got her like brainwashed

922
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 1: into thinking all this. What if she's cheating too? WHOA, No,

923
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think. I don't think

924
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 1: that's true. But anything's possible.

925
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 2: Maybe they have some kind of agreement. Yeah, maybe it's

926
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:23,919
Speaker 2: an open relationship and she doesn't want to tell ope.

927
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, yeah, yeah, that that seems pretty plausible. Why

928
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:29,920
Speaker 1: would you be so calm and collected about it? It

929
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:32,880
Speaker 1: is weird, right, It is very strange. I told her

930
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 1: I didn't care about that.

931
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:36,359
Speaker 2: I said, no matter her decision, I supported her either way,

932
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:39,400
Speaker 2: even though it wasn't what I was anticipating. I felt relieved.

933
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 2: I felt like a weight had been lifted. She thanked

934
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 2: me for telling her and said that I would always

935
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:46,239
Speaker 2: be her sweet girl. Everything seemed to be going well

936
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 2: until she spoke to Slash, confronted my dad and called

937
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 2: me back. I don't know what happened with the conversation

938
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 2: between her and my dad, but it's clear that he

939
00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 2: is a master manipulator and not all the person I

940
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:04,440
Speaker 2: thought he was prior to all this. Yep, my mom's

941
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:08,320
Speaker 2: tone had completely shifted on the phone. She was scolding me.

942
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 2: He confirmed the affair. He confirmed everything I had said

943
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 2: and brought forward to her. And somehow they're blaming me. Oh,

944
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:18,320
Speaker 2: they're telling me I'm wrong. My mom told me that

945
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:20,960
Speaker 2: she's read all the screenshots I sent, but had nothing

946
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 2: to say about them. They're staying together, and in her words,

947
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:25,799
Speaker 2: this is just a bump of the road. They've had

948
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 2: highs and lows. They'll I have lows again. I'm sure

949
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 2: they will with this cheating, fucking scum bag that she's

950
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:34,879
Speaker 2: married with. Right, I said I would support her either way.

951
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 1: So I can't be mad, but I can't help at

952
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 1: be sad at how low she thinks of herself to

953
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:40,560
Speaker 1: accept this behavior.

954
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:43,360
Speaker 2: I love your dad and he loves me. What a

955
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:46,800
Speaker 2: horrible message to send to your child. Fucking crazy, it

956
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 2: really is, though, I mean, this is like even a

957
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,880
Speaker 2: worse response than what it was initially, because now it's like,

958
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 2: not only not only do I not only do I

959
00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:58,840
Speaker 2: not really care or expect this kind of behavior to me,

960
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 2: but you are a terrible daughter for bringing this up.

961
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's It's very clear that the dad has

962
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 1: just maybe over all the years they've been married, he's

963
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 1: just been slowly like kind of brainwashing her the whole

964
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 1: time up till up to this point. She told me

965
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,920
Speaker 1: that guilt does bad things to people, and that she

966
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 1: thinks I got myself worked up over nothing.

967
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 2: Nude, bro, that's not nothing, making fun of her, leaving her,

968
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:29,160
Speaker 2: trying to leave her, maybe because he didn't actually like

969
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:30,080
Speaker 2: do the deed.

970
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:33,759
Speaker 1: She's not really worried, did they? So they still to

971
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 1: this day have not done the deed though, No, as

972
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 1: of what we know.

973
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 2: Ah, that's I mean, she told me I was wrong

974
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 2: to look at his Instagram messages and that it was

975
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 2: a breach of trust. Ironic considering my dad committed the

976
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 2: biggest breach of trust. There isn't a meriage.

977
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:51,440
Speaker 1: Hello. I also never would have looked at his messages

978
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:54,280
Speaker 1: had he not planted this seed of infidelity in my brain.

979
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 1: She explained, my dad is very angry with me, and

980
00:53:57,480 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 1: she doesn't know if our relationship is repearable. Really, I

981
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 1: assume my dad would be mad at me, of course,

982
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 1: but for my mom to seemingly side with them and

983
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 1: turn her back on me too is almost too much

984
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 1: to take insane. I never would have expected this. No,

985
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have either. I wouldn't have either, so bad

986
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:17,919
Speaker 1: he Why, godly, how do you get to that point? Dude?

987
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 1: It's gotta be. I mean, look, they're fifty three. They

988
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:23,359
Speaker 1: have a twenty six year old daughter, which means they've

989
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:26,319
Speaker 1: been together in some form of fashion for at least

990
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:29,360
Speaker 1: probably those twenty six years something like that. That's a

991
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 1: long time to be able to slowly chip away and like,

992
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:38,560
Speaker 1: you know, convince someone that, like, oh, like you need me,

993
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 1: you know, do these things to serve me, that kind

994
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 1: of thing. But it's just it's just so sad. It's

995
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 1: so insane. Yikes, dide, yikes.

996
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:49,399
Speaker 2: I know she's being manipulated, but this is where it ends.

997
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 2: I guess I can't stand to look at either of them.

998
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 2: I feel like I was just orphaned. I can't fight

999
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,240
Speaker 2: a fight. No one wants me to on their behalf.

1000
00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:59,080
Speaker 2: Deep down, I know I'm not to blame for this,

1001
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, but it's really hard to not

1002
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 2: feel awful when your parents, whom you've trusted, turn their

1003
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 2: back on you, especially when she's trying to do something

1004
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 2: that she feels is right.

1005
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 1: Totally.

1006
00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:09,920
Speaker 2: I do feel like I did right by myself in

1007
00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:11,719
Speaker 2: telling my mom the truth, but I can't help but

1008
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:13,879
Speaker 2: think that everything would have been easier if I never

1009
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 2: said anything. My dad still follows Stacy. He has blocked

1010
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 2: me and my fiance and all social media platforms. He's

1011
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 2: quite literally showing that he chooses his affair partner over

1012
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 2: his daughter. I know he's reacting out of embarrassment and anger,

1013
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 2: but I blocked him in return. He doesn't get to

1014
00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 2: choose when he comes back in my life. All of

1015
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 2: this hurts a lot, and there is some relevant comments

1016
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:36,320
Speaker 2: and some updates.

1017
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 1: Let's get into it.

1018
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 2: A Goorious bum says, like you said, this wasn't the

1019
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:43,960
Speaker 2: first time, and it may well be that they already

1020
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 2: have an understanding about extramarital affairs and that may run

1021
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 2: both ways, which is kind of what we said earlier.

1022
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:54,120
Speaker 1: Maybe, but at this point, I feel like it would

1023
00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:58,839
Speaker 1: be said right like, hey, yeah, like me and I'm

1024
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:01,279
Speaker 1: not worried because we're in a relationship or something along

1025
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:01,840
Speaker 1: those lines.

1026
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:05,600
Speaker 2: And why would you like blame the daughter because if

1027
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:08,520
Speaker 2: she doesn't know if I had an open relationship with

1028
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 2: like if I was the dad and the mom, if

1029
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 2: I was the dad and I had an open relationship

1030
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:16,320
Speaker 2: with my partner and I had a kid and the

1031
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:19,359
Speaker 2: kid was like to my mom, look what the dad's doing.

1032
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 2: The mom would be like, honey, I appreciate what you're doing,

1033
00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:25,320
Speaker 2: but it's wrong of you to stoop on your father's stuff.

1034
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 2: And also there's something we haven't told you open marriage

1035
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 2: r yes.

1036
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:32,440
Speaker 1: And then bam, it's fine, but that should be like

1037
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:35,399
Speaker 1: I feel like that should be communicated to the kid,

1038
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 1: And they're literally blaming her at this point. So it's

1039
00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 1: like I feel like the possibility at this point of

1040
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 1: the open marriage is like out of the window. Yeah,

1041
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 1: but maybe there. I mean, there has to be an understanding.

1042
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 1: If their wife is meanting this way, maybe the understanding

1043
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 1: is that the dad has just freaking got got the

1044
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: wife wrapped around his finger.

1045
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems more like a manipulation rather than understanding.

1046
00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:59,760
Speaker 2: So notifying her didn't tell her much she didn't already

1047
00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 2: know and said just made it awkward for her to

1048
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:04,239
Speaker 2: discuss it with you. Ultimately, people are complicated, and you

1049
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 2: don't know their sexual history, which predates your existence. It

1050
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:11,719
Speaker 2: is and will remain fundamentally unknowable to you. Your dad

1051
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 2: is a piece of shit though, for how he reacted

1052
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 2: to you and OPI replies. In Stacy and my Dad's DMS,

1053
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:19,400
Speaker 2: they both outlined the follow out they believe would occur

1054
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 2: if their respective partners found out about the affair. I

1055
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 2: don't believe even if my mom and dad have a

1056
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 2: don't ask, don't tell policy. Like another reditor suggested that

1057
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 2: it is a two way street, We're absolutely correct. I

1058
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 2: don't know their agreements within their marriage, nor do I

1059
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 2: want to.

1060
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:32,959
Speaker 1: Lol.

1061
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 2: Seeing the things that my dad has said and his

1062
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:37,240
Speaker 2: DMS was way more than I ever needed to know.

1063
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 2: I do find my dad's reaction of anger very telling, though, honestly,

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Speaker 2: the relationship I have with my dad, he probably would

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Speaker 2: have just told me their agreement had there been one.

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Speaker 2: And then Chrissy Lee ninety says, have you ever asked

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Speaker 2: your mother if she'd expect you to stay in that

1068
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 2: situation if you were in her shoes? If she says no,

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Speaker 2: I asked her what example she thinks she's setting by

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Speaker 2: doing so herself?

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Speaker 1: Great point.

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Speaker 2: You can support her and distance yourself from the situation

1073
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:02,400
Speaker 2: and from them them blaming you for telling the truth

1074
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Speaker 2: is wrong and separate of the support for what she chooses.

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Speaker 2: And you can also support her and choose to limit

1076
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 2: or forego the relationship you have with your father entirely.

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Speaker 2: I have a feeling when your wedding approaches, your father

1078
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 2: is going to want to play perfect dad in all

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Speaker 2: the events and pictures.

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Speaker 1: Will you allow him to? And then OPI replies, when

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00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 1: it comes to my mom, I told her I would

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Speaker 1: support her either way, as much as I don't agree

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Speaker 1: with her choice. I'm not in her position, and I

1084
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:29,280
Speaker 1: don't know what kind of factors are coming to play

1085
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:30,919
Speaker 1: for her to stay. Who knows.

1086
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 2: They could be waiting for my younger brother to move

1087
00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 2: out before they call it quits for now. I am

1088
00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 2: no contact with my father and I'm willing to be

1089
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:39,320
Speaker 2: low contact with my mom. But no one has spoken

1090
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 2: to me since, so I think it might be no

1091
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 2: contact with all as it stands currently, I don't anticipate

1092
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:47,240
Speaker 2: inviting my father to my wedding, which is really hard

1093
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 2: to stomach. We never plan for a big wedding, so

1094
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 2: his presence was definitely going to be a big one

1095
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 2: on our day unless something is massively repaired during that time.

1096
00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 2: I don't need the added stress.

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00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 1: That is a wrap. That's where Ope leaves it complicate,

1098
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 1: very complicated. I mean, it's yeah, it just sounds like

1099
00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 1: the dad has somehow tricked the life into, you know,

1100
00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 1: being like, oh, I didn't satisfy him. I didn't do this,

1101
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 1: I didn't do that. That's why there's a justifiable reason.

1102
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Speaker 1: We'll get stronger for it, Like yep, ye, man, if

1103
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 1: the relationship, if that strength strengthened relationships, then their relationship

1104
00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 1: would be a diamond at this point. Because that's that's

1105
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 1: a lot of pressure, A lot of pressure, A lot

1106
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 1: of pressure. I mean, I think, like I think this.

1107
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:37,200
Speaker 1: This is what leads to the question.

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00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:42,840
Speaker 2: Let's say you have an unconventional or like kind of

1109
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 2: secret marital understanding? Yeah, do you slash? When do you

1110
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:52,640
Speaker 2: tell your children if you have an open marriage? And

1111
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 2: actually some people in the comments have told us they

1112
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 2: have open marriages. There was a bunch of open marriage

1113
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 2: comments recently. Let me search that up really quick. But

1114
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:06,280
Speaker 2: if you have an open marriage and you have children,

1115
01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:08,920
Speaker 2: at what point do you tell your children? Because eventually

1116
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 2: some curious child is going to be like, why is

1117
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 2: mommy always coming back with you know, hickeys when daddy

1118
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 2: isn't here? You know that's they're going to investigate, and

1119
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:21,880
Speaker 2: they're gonna be like, oh, ship, my parents are cheating

1120
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 2: on each other. And then like do you get ahead

1121
01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 2: of it?

1122
01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:30,280
Speaker 1: I've had a relationship, What would you do? I kind

1123
01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:33,959
Speaker 1: of want to ask a side question to that, which

1124
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 1: is do you have to do you have to tell

1125
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Speaker 1: your children? Because I totally hear what you say, like

1126
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 1: chances are like something you know could come out and

1127
01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 1: then they have to reveal it. But like if you

1128
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:50,520
Speaker 1: think about you know, your your your parents' life of

1129
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 1: doing it, does it need to be publicly known to

1130
01:00:56,960 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 1: the kid? I don't know. I think it's an interesting

1131
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 1: question or kind of thought experiment to ask, Yeah, you know,

1132
01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 1: because their uh sex life is private with the two

1133
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 1: of them, is it not? Does that not carry over

1134
01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:13,440
Speaker 1: if they're consensually having other partners in the mix as well?

1135
01:01:13,760 --> 01:01:16,600
Speaker 2: I mean, I think it does carry over obviously, Like

1136
01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 2: your sex life is not broadcasted to your children, right right?

1137
01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 1: Right? But in this case, it's like, will they eventually

1138
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:28,240
Speaker 1: find out? And if they do find out, do you

1139
01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:30,320
Speaker 1: get situations like this? Well, it sounds like this guy

1140
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 1: is like just straight up cheating.

1141
01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 2: Right, right, But even like, let's let's let's assume they

1142
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:37,760
Speaker 2: did have an understanding, right, like this kid goes to

1143
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:45,480
Speaker 2: this whole fucking whirlwind of emotions to discover that it's okay.

1144
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess, yeah, maybe you do. Someone I

1145
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:55,000
Speaker 2: remember we were talking about a story and it was like,

1146
01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 2: when when is the right time to tell your children

1147
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:04,040
Speaker 2: about sex or drugs or whatever? Yeah, and huh someone

1148
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:10,040
Speaker 2: said when they ask ah, And I thought that was

1149
01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:15,880
Speaker 2: like parenting the parenting bar. But is that even true?

1150
01:02:16,440 --> 01:02:18,920
Speaker 2: Because I never I never asked my parents about that

1151
01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:20,760
Speaker 2: stuff because I felt like it was too awkward.

1152
01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:24,400
Speaker 1: You're right, You're right, I don't think I don't Fortunately,

1153
01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 1: I don't think you can. In an ideal world, they do,

1154
01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 1: and then it's like, but I think ninety nine percent

1155
01:02:30,160 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 1: of kids will not ask. Actually, no, I think about it.

1156
01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:36,960
Speaker 2: Also, Uh, this is somewhat related. Dagger Girl two five

1157
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:39,640
Speaker 2: three commented on one of our videos. We opened our

1158
01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 2: marriage and he wasn't getting the attention, so he asked

1159
01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 2: to close it. I'm not really sure what to do now,

1160
01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 2: girl girl, you got you got many takers. Maybe help

1161
01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:53,960
Speaker 2: your hobby out, you know, lend him some of your

1162
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 2: riz ba, be his wingman there. Actually, that's probably that's

1163
01:02:58,240 --> 01:02:59,920
Speaker 2: a good solution if you're if your hubby is not

1164
01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:00,720
Speaker 2: get an action.

1165
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:04,439
Speaker 1: If you're in a truly like open marriage in that sense,

1166
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:07,960
Speaker 1: then yeah, help help your husband sleep with somebody else.

1167
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 1: I mean, I think that's the only option if, like,

1168
01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:15,600
Speaker 1: if you don't want to close the marriage, right, that's

1169
01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:19,880
Speaker 1: that's it. Also, I think, like generally, I think.

1170
01:03:21,360 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 2: The opening of the marriage should be mutual and the

1171
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 2: continually the continuation of the opening should be mutual too.

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01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:33,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know, but put your answers below. I

1173
01:03:33,480 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 1: want to. I want to I want to know from

1174
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:39,720
Speaker 1: all of our our open relationship hose and how hooetts.

1175
01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:43,160
Speaker 1: We're curious. We're curious, but you know that you're hoes.

1176
01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:47,760
Speaker 1: I'm just to be clear, to set the records, the

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01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 1: records late to.

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Speaker 2: All of our our humans are beautiful people, are beautiful

1179
01:03:53,240 --> 01:03:59,160
Speaker 2: people doing other beautiful people. Indeed outside of their marriage, well,

1180
01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:00,919
Speaker 2: I guess in their marriag because the marriage is open,

1181
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:02,959
Speaker 2: the marriage contains that, it is true.

1182
01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 1: We got the whole world in our marriage. That was good.

1183
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:09,560
Speaker 1: That was good.

1184
01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, let us know in the comments below. I think

1185
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:14,400
Speaker 2: that's a that's a wrap on this episode. Yeah, it's

1186
01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:19,400
Speaker 2: a double episode, baby, just gidding. We're continuing, going to

1187
01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:20,560
Speaker 2: this next story.

1188
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Speaker 1: Let's get it.