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Speaker 1: Text you will healing textual. It is time for the

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Speaker 1: segment that was originally called facts healing when we started

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Speaker 1: it back in the eighties. Yeah, and who knows, maybe

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Speaker 1: someday it'll become DM healing, But for now, with the

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Speaker 1: way technology is, we call it textual healing. If you

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Speaker 1: haven't heard it before, it's basically our way of helping

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Speaker 1: out listeners who have an issue in the texting department.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they're not very good at it, maybe the situation

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Speaker 1: is uncomfortable and they just aren't sure what to say.

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Speaker 1: Whatever it is will help them out. So who is

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Speaker 1: today's honored guest that needs a little tender textual healing.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Diana. Diana, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, thanks, I'm glad we're not faxing like the old days.

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Speaker 2: I used to take a long time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Diana, tell us a little bit about the situation

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Speaker 1: that you're dealing with and how we can help heal

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Speaker 1: you textually.

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Speaker 3: Okay. So I really really want to reconcile with my

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I no, No, your best friend.

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Speaker 3: Well, we've known each other for twenty years and I've

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Speaker 3: gotten a huge site about six months ago.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Wow, what was the fight.

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Speaker 3: Over she forgot my birthday?

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Speaker 2: Oh so you literally she wasn't apologetically. Why is he laughing?

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Speaker 3: He's so rude, Jose, this is fun.

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Speaker 1: So you get upset when we forget your birthday?

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Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, but yeah, really.

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Speaker 1: Mad, I don't expect you guys. I mean your friends

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Speaker 3: Well? The reason why I was so upset is because

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Speaker 3: last year, for her birthday, I organized a trip with

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Speaker 3: I baked her this beautiful cake and like, I made

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Speaker 3: it a really special day for her, Okay, And so

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Speaker 3: she forgot mine, and so I sent her a long

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Speaker 4: Oh was that after your birthday drinks?

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Speaker 2: Because I don't think that was a good idea.

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Speaker 3: No, it was, like I want to say, I don't know,

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Speaker 4: I mean, was she apologetic though, because it is something

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Speaker 3: She told me I was being dramatic, but she promised

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Speaker 1: Me, okay, to dinner something. Yeah, it could have been

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Speaker 2: Yeah right, it happened.

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Speaker 3: I was like, fine, you know that sounds great. So

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Speaker 3: I waited and I waited. Three days later, still nothing

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Speaker 2: Same? Okay? Is there something going on in her life?

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Speaker 4: Is she may be dating a new guy and like

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Speaker 4: I'm being serious, like it's just friends fall off for

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Speaker 3: But she would have told me maybe she's planning the

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Speaker 4: Six months later, six months later, or maybe she was

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Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, I truly, honestly do not know

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Speaker 1: No sixths okay?

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Speaker 4: Wow, Wow, she's had plenty of time to make it

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Speaker 1: What makes you want to reach out to her and

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Speaker 3: So I am a little scrolling through instead the other

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Speaker 1: My god, whoa.

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Speaker 4: I know?

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Speaker 3: And guess what I do. I'm also expecting and we're

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Speaker 2: Oh, you're gonna have best friend baby maybe the same year.

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Speaker 2: As my best friend.

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Speaker 4: It is so fund babies anyway.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you guys just gotta get over this. I mean,

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Speaker 1: She didn't say she's over it though, Yeah, but I.

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Speaker 3: Just don't know how to restart the conversation, you know

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Speaker 2: Layers to it.

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Speaker 1: That you're pregnant, well maybe we should focus on fixing

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Speaker 3: My baby's kidded than your baby.

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Speaker 2: You guys are not that petty.

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Speaker 1: So we just need to restart the conversation in a

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, Okay, this broken.

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Speaker 1: Is fixing broken relationships that she creates all the time.

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Speaker 1: So what do you say?

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Speaker 4: Okay, listen, you need to come in strong with something funny.

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Speaker 4: You need an inside joke between you two. You need

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to.

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Speaker 4: I mean, the first opener you have is obviously the

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Speaker 2: I mean you have to be excited for her.

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Speaker 3: No, I really like that.

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Speaker 1: Oh her baby, her.

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Speaker 2: Baby, the friends baby.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, be excited for her. I thought you met make

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Speaker 4: Something like oh my god, I saw your Instagram.

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Speaker 1: And this girl is your bff? Right, yes? Isn't There

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Speaker 1: is there a special way that, like girls talk bff

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Speaker 1: I don't know when women talk with their close friends.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's a different language. It's a combination

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Speaker 1: between compliments and dishes at the same time. You know what,

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Speaker 1: it's like, your hair looks gorgeous. I hate you right now,

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Speaker 1: It's perfect. I love you. You're stupid.

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Speaker 3: You've got my relationship with my girlfriends.

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Speaker 1: Is that maybe that's just younger?

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Speaker 1: You've at I watched Clueless the other night, and shaming

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Speaker 2: Okay, they're not at that point right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, whatever it is, however, you and Diana talk

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Speaker 1: I guess.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I love what you said. It says, oh,

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Speaker 3: I just saw you on Insta. I'm crying with joy

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and say I miss you. You need to tell

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Speaker 1: Well, now you're sounding needy.

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Speaker 2: You can be needy with your BF. Up. It's just

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Speaker 1: I was going to suggest asking a question. So it's like,

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy, I'm crying. How far along are you?

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Speaker 2: Or how are you feeling? I mean, just more.

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Speaker 1: General, how's it going?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, question because she may be vomiting every ten minutes.

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Speaker 1: That's good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I like that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what are you gonna write? Diana?

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Speaker 3: I just saw you on Instagram. I'm crying with joy

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Speaker 3: and happiness for you. Congratulations on the baby. I miss

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Speaker 2: How are you feeling?

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Speaker 1: How you feel?

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Speaker 3: How are you feeling that?

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Speaker 1: I don't think I don't think we need this one.

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Speaker 2: Send it, send.

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Speaker 3: It, I'm sending all right, there we go.

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Speaker 1: That's the first step.

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Speaker 2: You guys, relationship is good. That is a good start.

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Speaker 1: Okay, maybe we'll call her a skank In the next.

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Speaker 4: Text, she obviously is she's I know, so we're gonna

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Speaker 1: We'll come back and well she if she texted you anything.

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Speaker 1: When we continue Textual Healing right after this, if you're

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Speaker 1: just tuning in to the second part of Textual Healing,

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Speaker 1: we're on the phone with one of our listeners, Diana,

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Speaker 4: Jeff, No, we do, just not every time we talk

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Speaker 2: Absolutely No.

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Speaker 1: I think every time you do, you call each other

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I'm an adult, still buy in the necklaces.

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Speaker 1: And Diana has been in a little bit of a

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Speaker 1: and saw her best friend is pregnant. Oh wow, and

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Speaker 1: Diana is also pregnant. I'm also pregnant. So now is

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Speaker 1: her a text basically saying congratulations on your baby. I'm

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Speaker 1: so happy for you. How are things going? And has

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is sweet. Okay, what did she say?

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Speaker 3: She said, why are you texting me? Did I miss

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Speaker 2: Oh? That's salty, Wow, salty.

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Speaker 1: Kind of surprised that you're laughing.

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Speaker 2: Shade.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm gonna cry if I don't laugh.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 4: I'm impressed at her level too, Yeah, that's expert level.

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Speaker 1: Also, did she miss your half birthday? Because I was

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Speaker 1: kind of rude? Okay, so what are we going to

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Speaker 2: This is bad?

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Speaker 4: I don't I think that this gives you an opening

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 4: You need to apologize and just say I think I overreacted.

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Speaker 1: And maybe laugh at yourself, maybe be like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I was so dumb about that. I overreacted. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I would never do that personally, but I

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Speaker 1: Then you need to be the bigger person. Birthdays don't matter,

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Speaker 1: you know, we matter. You can even put the sorry

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, okay, so you're right. Oh my god, I

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Speaker 1: Call yourself stupid.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't think it's bad. I don't, because come on,

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Speaker 1: Of humility goes a long way and getting people to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was just something stupid to get angry at.

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Speaker 1: Okay and then say I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you just say can we move forward? Can

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, can we move on and get past this?

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Speaker 1: That's good.

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Speaker 2: Wow, you're a good friend.

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Speaker 1: Done this. I think this is good. I think we

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sending Cool.

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Speaker 2: What do we do If she's like, no, I don't

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Speaker 2: want to get past it, well, then she's not a

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Speaker 1: I mean, like, I mean, if you're saying you're sorry

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Speaker 1: awful of them to keep piling on.

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Speaker 3: Okay, she's sexty and she's sexting.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we got the dots going, Yeah, I see the

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Speaker 1: gods here, it is here, it is okay, thanks, thanks, thanks,

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Speaker 1: just thank I don't like this girl. Yeah, okay, so

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Speaker 1: you wrote I'm so sorry. I was being really dumb

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Speaker 1: about that. Can we squash this? And she said thanks?

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Speaker 3: Thanks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if she's a woman of little words, maybe she

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Speaker 4: really means thank you.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: I just think that I need to get to her

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Speaker 1: I'm with you, Dan, and we need to figure out

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Speaker 1: a way to melt the iceberg.

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Speaker 2: That's it. The pregnancy though, Like, does she know you're pregnant.

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Speaker 3: I haven't told her, no, but have you, Like.

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Speaker 4: Can you say, did you post it? Like, can you say, hey,

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Speaker 2: Saw I'm pregnant too. We're doing around the same time.

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Speaker 3: Oh I like that. Okay, be happy for me. She

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Speaker 3: loves me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. And if anything can bring best friends together, it's babies.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 1: And heel broken relationships too, I've heard.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's always good if you have a bad relationship,

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Speaker 1: You're right, baby, They're like miracle cream. It's amazing. You

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Speaker 1: just rub them anywhere and they fix it.

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Speaker 3: It's like a love ball.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but No, I do agree with Brooke with what

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Speaker 4: This is a big text to tell someone like, well,

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Speaker 2: Have you posted on on social media about being pregnant?

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Speaker 3: I certainly have?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, okay, So just say yeah, I don't know

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Speaker 4: Too, like okay, like that happy heart face, yeah she is.

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Speaker 3: I wish they had like a little pregnant emoji, happy

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Speaker 2: Lots of heart. There you go, and then tell her

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think that's and let's not go too

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, So this is what I'm gonna write is

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you saw, but I'm pregnant too,

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, that sounds good heart and pregnant lady emotion,

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Speaker 3: Saying maybe I'm okay, I know we're gonna have like

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Speaker 2: Really excited that you're pregnant the same time? Is your

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Speaker 1: All I do think this is I mean, I don't

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Speaker 1: just don't want to. She's already texting, Wow, all right,

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Speaker 3: She says cool? If they're born on the same day,

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Speaker 3: maybe I can forget both of their birthday.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's funny.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna forget your baby's birthday. That's funny.

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Speaker 2: I think she's making a joke. She's making a june.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to call her up. And you're such

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Speaker 3: a snot, but I can't do that.

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Speaker 2: You need to do cry. Laughing emojis like dead, like dear.

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Speaker 1: Streaming emoji tone is really hard to read in the text.

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Speaker 3: Messages and texting do not mix.

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Speaker 1: So, Diana, you know your friend better than we do.

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Speaker 1: Do you think she's kidding or do you think she's

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Speaker 3: Again, I think she's kidding, So let's respond with the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you are?

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Speaker 2: You right back and you say ha ha. Don't worry,

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Speaker 2: I'll remember for both of us.

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Speaker 1: That's cute.

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Speaker 3: Oh I like that, and then I can put I

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Speaker 3: miss laughing with you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that was cute.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sending that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I I feel like we're kind of becoming

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Speaker 3: Oh, you guys are so sweet. I'm gonna cry again.

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Speaker 1: Okay. So we sent that last message. You laughed and

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Speaker 1: I miss laughing with you.

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Speaker 3: Yep, I said that.

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Speaker 2: That's so good. Female friendships are so good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just know they sound great.

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Speaker 2: They are just for the other girl's texting scares me

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really complicated and lots of emotions, and it's

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Speaker 1: a roller coaster. Some days you love each other, other

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Speaker 1: days you hate each other. But no, okay, this is

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Speaker 2: Here, okay, in.

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Speaker 3: The moment of truth. Okay, here it is. I I

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Speaker 3: guess I miss you too, and I have a secret

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Speaker 3: I've been wanting to tell you dot dot decae dotting.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, more, okay, here it is. Oh god, the

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Speaker 3: father of my baby is your boyfriend?

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Speaker 1: What? What is that a joke?

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Speaker 2: You guys?

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Speaker 3: Of course it's a joke.

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Speaker 1: Are you sure I don't feel comfortable laughing at them?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think it's funny.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure it's funny.

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Speaker 2: Funny joke.

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Speaker 3: Here's another one. Okay, and she says, here comes l

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Speaker 3: Let's get coffee. You stupid. Yeah, really not funny, really

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Speaker 3: not so funny.

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Speaker 2: I love her.

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Speaker 1: Women humor so different than guy you were, Because if

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Speaker 1: I was a textos, a like guess what I just

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Speaker 1: slept with your mom, it doesn't go over that well.

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Speaker 3: Shut up, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.