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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glazer. Yes, Nicky here, I am just making

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Speaker 1: sure it's recording everyone. Yes, it is. One second. We're

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Speaker 1: doing it. We're doing it. We're back, We're back, We're back.

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Speaker 1: High guys, how's it going. It's Nicky Glazer. It's Nicky

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Speaker 1: Glazer Podcast, straight from St. Louis. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: I'm straight, honestly. Uh, it's always always questioning, always question

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Speaker 1: Leave yourself open, leave your options open, y'all. No, um, No,

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling pretty straight. Uh recently, I gotta I gotta

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Speaker 1: say watching f Boy Island getting kind of turned on, Um,

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Speaker 1: watching The Bachelorette last night, feeling the opposite of what

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Speaker 1: turned on? Is Uh, just uncomfortable last night watching the

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Speaker 1: knowing what I know about reality TV, having a little

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Speaker 1: bit of an insider's peek behind the scenes. I gotta say,

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Speaker 1: on f Boy Island, there wasn't this kind of Um,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It's like Katie on the Bachelorette. I

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Speaker 1: know you guys, if you're not watching, you like legit,

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Speaker 1: don't care and know that I have you in mind

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Speaker 1: while I'm telling you this, so I will keep you

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Speaker 1: informed enough so that you might care. The Bachelor atte Katie.

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Speaker 1: I feel for her. One guy she was really into

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Speaker 1: left because he has like a son, and he was like,

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Speaker 1: this is too much. I missed that episode. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what happened, but she was really into him, but

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Speaker 1: he was like, I gotta go. She was always sad.

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Speaker 1: Then there was this guy Greg who, Um, he's so

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Speaker 1: tall and handsome as hell. I don't know, I just

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Speaker 1: I thought he was shorter, um, and then it turns

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Speaker 1: out I think eas tall and um, really he's a cuteie.

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Speaker 1: He looks like Ryan Gosling. He picks her up when

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Speaker 1: they're um, Like they were on a date and they

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Speaker 1: and like she's she's one of these girls that loves

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Speaker 1: wrapping her legs around guys when she jumps up and

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Speaker 1: then like a little baby, wraps her legs around them,

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Speaker 1: which it's cute for like one time, I think Claire

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Speaker 1: started this, to be honest with you, Claire, the thirty

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Speaker 1: nine year old bachelorette who when they when they decided

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Speaker 1: to have a thirty nine year old bachelot, that's when

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Speaker 1: COVID started. I'm not saying that it is connected but

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Speaker 1: the world can't handle a bachelorette in her late thirties.

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Speaker 1: That's when the chaos erupted and her season ended early

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Speaker 1: because she knew what she wanted Um, and she wanted

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Speaker 1: Dale and they're still together. So this guy, Greg really cute,

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Speaker 1: liked her a lot. Um, it was down to him

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Speaker 1: and two other guys. They do the hometowns all right. Now.

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Speaker 1: Hometowns are when you go and you meet their family. Um.

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Speaker 1: But because of COVID the past couple of seasons of

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Speaker 1: the Bachelorette, no hometowns. The hometowns come to you, so

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Speaker 1: you know their parents, or their sister or their aunt

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Speaker 1: who they feel like it's a sister. But who's really

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Speaker 1: one of the worst people I've ever seen on TV.

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Speaker 1: The sister last Katie's aunt, sister, her aunt who she

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Speaker 1: She goes, Um, they go to visit, you know, and

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Speaker 1: like get to do the hometown date, which is just

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Speaker 1: like hanging out in this marriott you know, uh lounge

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Speaker 1: That was this week, I'm all over the place, guys,

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Speaker 1: get to the aunt in a second. Greg said his

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Speaker 1: feelings for Katie. He was like, you fill a hole

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Speaker 1: because she was like, I'm gonna give you the roast tonight,

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Speaker 1: I'm projecting here because I've been in relationships on both

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Speaker 1: I'm too embarrassed to ask what do you want? Because

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Speaker 1: about gas lighting? So I go, Okay, Now she's accusing

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Speaker 1: to manipulatively abuse people. And gas lighting has intent behind it.

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Speaker 1: It's not like something you act in only do I

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Speaker 1: think gaslighting need You need to be like, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: nothing against me. Gas Lighting is when if you don't

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Speaker 1: much right now, there's these like mental health words and

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Speaker 1: like and I don't, I don't, I don't. I'm about

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Speaker 1: to take a stab in the dark about what gaslighting is. Uh,

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Speaker 1: And I gotta turn on a gaslight because it's it's

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Speaker 1: but there was a play where a guy, what, oh, no,

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Speaker 1: it is about the lights On this play, this guy

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Speaker 1: uncomfortable and important but uncomfortable like and then the Chris

425
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:52,720
Speaker 1: Harrison thing. We are owed this in Bachelor Nation and

426
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:54,560
Speaker 1: I'm still a fan of that franchise even though the

427
00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,960
Speaker 1: season was really boring and they should have looked into Okay,

428
00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:00,880
Speaker 1: So anyway, Katie, I'm you. The part where we meet

429
00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:06,840
Speaker 1: Katie's aunt. Yes, aunt with a C instead of an A. Yes,

430
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:14,200
Speaker 1: they meet, Yeah, yes, wait what so Blake is now

431
00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,720
Speaker 1: the last one. By the way, Andrew got this recap

432
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:18,479
Speaker 1: last night because he walked out of his room as

433
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm watching this and I go, let me catch up.

434
00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:24,199
Speaker 1: Justin's going home, Blake is still here. She doesn't even

435
00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,200
Speaker 1: really even like Blake. Blake was just like an after

436
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:27,919
Speaker 1: He wasn't even on the show until a couple of

437
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 1: weeks ago. So now Blake is the one. She's dead

438
00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 1: set on it. Blake knows he's the one now Suddenly

439
00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 1: he's like uh. Then he meets because he's actually he's

440
00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 1: all in until he meets her mom and her count aunt.

441
00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 1: So I wish I had clips up of this. You

442
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 1: guys gotta if you don't know, if you didn't watch this,

443
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 1: you gotta go watch his her aunt and how she talks.

444
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,240
Speaker 1: She goes, you don't matter to us at all. You know,

445
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 1: you don't matter. She says, it's a Blake on their

446
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 1: one on one. And by the way, Katie sets up

447
00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 1: her aunt before she meets. They're going in and Katie's

448
00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:01,239
Speaker 1: in everybody She goes, I'm a little nervous about him

449
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 1: meeting my aunt. She's like my sister, but she's really cold.

450
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,439
Speaker 1: She goes she's a really she's a tough cookie, and

451
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:12,440
Speaker 1: she's really cold and almost like off pudding, and Blake

452
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:14,920
Speaker 1: goes in for a hug, you know what I mean.

453
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 1: Oh God, she goes into she's a bigger girl. But

454
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 1: that has nothing to do with any of them. And so, um,

455
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:25,199
Speaker 1: you're a pizza ship. I didn't say, how dare you

456
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:29,120
Speaker 1: talking about pizza? Yeah? Well, why I'm just walking around

457
00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 1: keep going. Okay, So that is a funnier thing to

458
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,399
Speaker 1: say than a piece of ship, to call someone a

459
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:36,399
Speaker 1: pizza ship, because pizza ships can be really disgusting, like

460
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 1: a little Caesar ship, like gross pizza. I mean, pizza

461
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 1: destroys my butthole. But we don't need to get I'm

462
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 1: gonna call you a pizza ship. Now, I got crushed, asshole.

463
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: Oh no today, no, two days ago. It's okay, though,

464
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 1: let's go keep going. I don't want my pass to

465
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 1: get into okay. So yeah, it gets in the way

466
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 1: of so much in my life. So then, um, tell

467
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,719
Speaker 1: me what you thought of the aunt because I hated her.

468
00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 1: So she goes in for a hug and he gives him.

469
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:02,880
Speaker 1: She goes, no, we're gonna stick to this, that's her tone,

470
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 1: and she shakes his hand. I mean, this is like,

471
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,119
Speaker 1: you've seen the show, you dumb bitch. You know that

472
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 1: you're supposed to be nice to the guy that Katie

473
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 1: has already chosen. Come on, Well, here's the thing. I'm

474
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: watching the show, and if I'm watching as someone that

475
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 1: had never worked on one reality show, I would say

476
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 1: this aunt is horrendous. This aunt is terrible. But I

477
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 1: wouldn't be surprised if a producer was like, hey, why

478
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:28,439
Speaker 1: don't you step up? You're being a fucking duathead a

479
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,399
Speaker 1: little bit? Why not? Why why we go? Why do

480
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 1: you say no? We we know producers fun with the show. No, no,

481
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 1: they not. They don't funk with the family. I swear

482
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 1: to god maybe they didn't. Because the thing is they

483
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:44,399
Speaker 1: want to make Katie on these shows. This is what

484
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:47,679
Speaker 1: I know about these shows. This is the secret. The

485
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 1: person that is the Bachelor Bachelorette is vetted like a president.

486
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:55,320
Speaker 1: You guys like, they want this. They're developing talent at ABC.

487
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 1: They want this person to be a hero. They never

488
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 1: want to choose someone as there they choose the people

489
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:03,679
Speaker 1: that are contestants. Those can be terrible people, or they

490
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 1: can have family members that are insane. But when they

491
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: are doing the bachelor, they or Bachelorette, they really want

492
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: this person. No matter what this person does, they will

493
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,200
Speaker 1: always frame it that this person is the right one

494
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 1: because that is that's our queen, that is our king.

495
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 1: We cannot they and they have control over the narrative

496
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 1: about this person, and they'll never make that person look bad,

497
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 1: even if that person is bad. But I don't. I

498
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: would argue that it doesn't. It doesn't make Katie look bad,

499
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 1: it makes her aunt look bad. We all have a

500
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 1: shitty aunt, and I don't if you have a shitty

501
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 1: aunt or a shitty relative, that doesn't make me think you.

502
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:45,439
Speaker 1: But the president his his family is uh scrutinized just

503
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 1: as much as he is and is a reflection of him.

504
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 1: So I really honestly don't think that they knew this

505
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 1: aunt was going to be as terrible. Luckily she's it

506
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:55,360
Speaker 1: was fascinating how bad she was because she sits down

507
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: with Blake and she says, you don't matter to us,

508
00:24:57,880 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 1: We don't need you in this family. This is a

509
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:01,880
Speaker 1: family of strong women. We don't need you, and it's

510
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:04,880
Speaker 1: like this, these women have convinced themselves that they don't

511
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: need men and they hate men because I'm guessing terrible

512
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: things happen to them from men, and that's understandable, that's

513
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: just my guess, um. But the truth is, like they

514
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:21,400
Speaker 1: are making Blake feel so alienated and this is his girlfriend, Like,

515
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 1: this is Katie who's he's chosen him, that he's not

516
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 1: like being. It's not deciding whether or not that he's it.

517
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: He's it at this point, and they're being so men

518
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: to him right out of the gate and saying, we

519
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 1: don't need you. You're um, it doesn't matter what you

520
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: are like around me, it's whether Katie wants to. And

521
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 1: it's like, well, then why are you being such a

522
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 1: bit if your opinion doesn't matter? And she just says

523
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 1: the rudest stuff I've ever seen, And the thing is,

524
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 1: now I go, oh, this is why Katie is who

525
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,640
Speaker 1: I what I've observed, someone who can't express their feelings,

526
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:56,159
Speaker 1: someone who um seems to be wrapped up in the

527
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 1: show and being the Bachelorette more than finding love, which

528
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 1: is under standable. It's a show, and maybe she's smart

529
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: in that way. But she comes from these two people

530
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:08,400
Speaker 1: that are so so sad and stuff sick and suffering

531
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: from what I can see. And yes, I did just

532
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 1: call one of them a dumb bitch. But with love,

533
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: I mean, you can be a dumb bitch and I

534
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: can still love you. But her aunt, who I'm terrified

535
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:20,639
Speaker 1: of and would run from, I'm just gonna let that

536
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 1: sit there. Um, she I would be so scared of her. Well,

537
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,119
Speaker 1: but they're they're all they've all been really hurt before

538
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,679
Speaker 1: by I'm guessing then, and I would guess that that

539
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,160
Speaker 1: is where this is coming from. But they were Where

540
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 1: is the father? Do we know where the father is

541
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 1: or any of the men in her life? I mean,

542
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 1: do we know the backstory? They probably did. I know

543
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: that she definitely comes from a broken home, and and

544
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: so does Blake. Blake never Blake said last night. Is

545
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 1: father never said I love you until recently. Have you

546
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: seen his jaw? Maybe yeah, maybe he got it from

547
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 1: his mama and his dad's like, that's not my jaw son,

548
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 1: and it made him or maybe the Maleman had a

549
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 1: strong jaw or something. I don't know. The dad figured

550
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 1: the mom cheated. Um, I just want to see me

551
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 1: one of those big job breakers. See what happens like

552
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 1: rock Oh yeah, just one of those giant ones that

553
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 1: would make your tongue blade as a kid, it would

554
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 1: scrape off my taste and for another hour. Oh my god.

555
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: So I'm so sorry this turned into a bachelor at

556
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: I like it. I'm obsessed with analyzing these people. And yeah,

557
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 1: the gaslight thing, I mean that was wild. And then

558
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:33,719
Speaker 1: but you said an interesting thing last night when we

559
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 1: were watching and you were swinging that weird practice golf club.

560
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 1: And by the way, I think, my if you're listening

561
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 1: this before ten pm Central time, my Instagram stories document

562
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,239
Speaker 1: this whole thing and you can watch that and it's

563
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 1: pretty funny. Um you said when she was meeting them,

564
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 1: when he was meeting the moms, and the moms say,

565
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: this is a household of strong women and you need

566
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 1: to fit in with these. Like it was something about

567
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 1: like the can can you handle the women in this family?

568
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: You go, this is why men run or something like that.

569
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 1: You said some what did you say? You go, this

570
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 1: is why women? Well, I think when you meet any

571
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:13,159
Speaker 1: family and they come at you strongly, this is you know,

572
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: everyone's afraid of meeting in laws and it's already frightening.

573
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 1: And if you're gonna come in and be questioning us

574
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 1: right away, it's it's just another reason for a guy

575
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 1: not to commit. It's like I was already having second

576
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: thoughts about this relationship, and now your aunt is telling

577
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: me I'm worth nothing and saying like, she goes um,

578
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 1: and he goes, yeah, I witnessed a really bad marriage.

579
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 1: She goes, marriage is, marriage is tough and blake. My

580
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 1: parents I witnessed, yes, So he goes yeah. I mean

581
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 1: I witnessed my parents marriage crumble and it was it

582
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 1: was awful. It was a nightmare. And what did she say?

583
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 1: She goes, that's different. Is one thing experience seeing a

584
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 1: train wreck. It's another thing experiencing a train And guess what,

585
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 1: he was a passenger in the train wreck. He was

586
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 1: in that train wreck. You had no control. Go fund yourself.

587
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 1: I'm so sick of this aunt. Um. But yes, I

588
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 1: I also was saying about that guy when she called

589
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 1: him an actor, it's such a good we haven't got

590
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: then apparently, Okay, oh man, it's Tuesday. You know what

591
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 1: I always say about Tuesday gets overlooked, But boy, could

592
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: it still be a good time. I hope you're having

593
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 1: all the swells out there, everybody. All right, Andrew tell

594
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: us about what happened. Because Greg, who was the guy

595
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: that wanted to hear his feelings the feelings from Katie,

596
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 1: got called a gas lighter on TV. He goes to

597
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: this after. So after the show, they have this audience,

598
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 1: a Bachelor Nation, which is all just like women in

599
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: their forties going, Oh, that's all they do the whole time.

600
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: They just give. They just do whatever the producers want

601
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 1: them to do, which is make Katie look like the

602
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 1: right one. Never make Katie out to be the villain,

603
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 1: no matter what cut around footage that makes Katie look bad.

604
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 1: Even though they do that, Katie still to me came

605
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 1: off not great. And by the way, I just want

606
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: to say this with love, Katie, whatever you're going through

607
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: that made you made me say these things about you,

608
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: I am projecting. I've been through them too. You're not

609
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: a bad person, You're just um, Yeah, you're just reacting

610
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 1: to your environment and the way you were raised. All right, So,

611
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 1: before Bachelor, Uh, Katie, Thurston and Blake could officially flaunt

612
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:23,960
Speaker 1: their engagement to the world, Katie had to first have

613
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: an uncomfortable conversation with her former love interest, Greg gets

614
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,800
Speaker 1: brought on the after the final rows, so she's already

615
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 1: chosen Blake. Blake proposes because I believe he was pressured

616
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 1: by the Bachelor producers to propose, because they said to him,

617
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 1: I bet you anything, I bet you anything. Guys they

618
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 1: said if because she just got lost. She just got

619
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 1: left by two guys that were in her final four,

620
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: and and then she sends justin home, she chooses like

621
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: if Blake. After so Blake meets the parents or the

622
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 1: mom and the count and he is like, I mean aunt,

623
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: and he is shaken. You can tell that this is

624
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: like what you just said. And that's what caused an

625
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 1: earthquake in California. Oh my god, it was in New Mexico,

626
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 1: but it yeah, the California felt it. So so then

627
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 1: we are being bullies right now. We are being real

628
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 1: Katie's ants right now, and I gotta say that, but okay.

629
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: So then Blake is like having all he has to

630
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 1: go through this whole rigamar role of going to pick

631
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: out engagement rings because it's at the end of the engagement.

632
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 1: This guy who's on the fence about a girl needs

633
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 1: to propose. It's so stupid. So then he goes to

634
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 1: pick out Neil Lane engagement rings. Neil Lane is this

635
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 1: like guy that sells the engagement rings who I think

636
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: has a hand in financing Bachelor, and so they keep

637
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 1: him around because there's Tassia Tasha, one of the co hosts.

638
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 1: Usually they go to nel Lane's shop, but they're in

639
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 1: New Mexico because COVID, so Tassia the co host uh

640
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 1: face times with Neil Lane. They have this weird dumb thing.

641
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 1: Then Tassia is kneel Lane in the thing has all

642
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: the rings and Blake has to go pick one out

643
00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: to propose to King get a free ring. Yeah well no,

644
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 1: it's watch more than that because they would not have

645
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: this old man on TV for no reason. There's something

646
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: going not they well maybe these do, but like it's

647
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 1: they have the budget for that. They definitely. But here's

648
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: the thing with the engagement. Can I ask you if

649
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 1: if you like random numbers and whatever, you know, him

650
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: engaging to her will help him in so many ways

651
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: financially getting a bigger audience, getting more people to like him.

652
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 1: That's exactly what the producer said to him. Listen, you

653
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 1: want you want. This is this is me being a producer. Okay,

654
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 1: stop that he's doing an impression of the fish that

655
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 1: you would find in the deep sea, one of those

656
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 1: you know, angler fishes that you can't see unless you

657
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: have the you go and you scuba dive really down

658
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: deep and Marianna Trench. Okay, so that's what they Okay,

659
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: we're so he gave her multiple orgasms. Blake definitely ate

660
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: some pussy and yeah, I mean he was. He probably

661
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 1: ate her lower back. He like went through behind and

662
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 1: kind of scraped your lower back. So then so then okay,

663
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 1: here's here's me. If I'm a producer and I want

664
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 1: Blake to reject Katie, if I think that's gonna be

665
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: good for the show, this is what I would say.

666
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: So Blake, you, Um, tomorrow is the big day. I

667
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 1: know I'm a little nervous about it. Um, well you

668
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 1: should be. I think that. Um. I gotta let you know.

669
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 1: If you proposed to Katie and you you walk out

670
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 1: of here with Katie tomorrow, the rest if you're unsure

671
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 1: at all, the rest of your life, you'll be hearing

672
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: Katie's name. You'll be approached about Katie. You'll be asked

673
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 1: about Katie. When you long after you move on with

674
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 1: another family and have kids of your own, people will

675
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 1: still say, what have you talked to Katie? You'll be

676
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: getting bothered by it the rest of your life. And

677
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: if you proposed to her and then you guys break up,

678
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: it's not gonna look good on you, Blake. It's not

679
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 1: gonna look good. Um you should. I'm just letting you

680
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 1: know that you can do what you want. But the

681
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation is going to They're very loyal to our

682
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 1: bachelorette and it's not going to be good for you.

683
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: But what if she says no, Like then I look

684
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: like an idiot? Um, Blake. I think you can kind

685
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,760
Speaker 1: of surmise from the time that you spent with Katie

686
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 1: and Um, I can give you a look right now

687
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 1: that will ensure that you know that she'll say yes, right, Okay, yes,

688
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 1: Now here's here's a Bachelor producer if you want Blake

689
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 1: to propose. I was a little confused by Okay, what

690
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 1: what Blake? What Blake? You said? So if I don't propose,

691
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: people are going to bring up Katie the rest of

692
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 1: my life. Yeah, they're gonna They're gonna yeah, yeah, They're

693
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 1: gonna bring up Katie the rest of your life, so

694
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 1: if you change so, they'd use the same argument. That's

695
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: that's why I'm about to confuse you. Let me let

696
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: me tell you that when you were on a reality

697
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 1: show and this did not happen on f boy to

698
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 1: my knowledge, but I know that you can. These people

699
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: don't talk to any want to accept producers, and they

700
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 1: really trust producers, as they should. But producers obviously have

701
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,760
Speaker 1: the company that there the show is airing on their minds.

702
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 1: So now you're Blake, and I want to get you

703
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 1: to propose. Okay, Blake, how are you feeling about tomorrow

704
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: big day? I don't know. I'm nervous. After meeting the

705
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,839
Speaker 1: end and her family, it just didn't really understandable. Now

706
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 1: you gotta understand. Um. I just want you to know,

707
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 1: and you can do whatever you want tomorrow. If you

708
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 1: don't propose to Katie or if wait, is this me

709
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 1: trying to get you to I feel like last time

710
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,399
Speaker 1: I tried to get you to propose. I'm just okay,

711
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 1: let me just say, Blake, I don't I'm not gonna

712
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 1: tell you what to do, but if you if you

713
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 1: break up with her, UM, tomorrow. Oh that's what I

714
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 1: said before. People are gonna come after you right the

715
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 1: rest of your life. You're going to be a villain

716
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 1: because that is not because Katie is on on board man,

717
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,760
Speaker 1: she sent justin home for you. She took all these chances.

718
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 1: It's not gonna look good for you. And it's just

719
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 1: a proposal, you know, it's it doesn't you're not aried yet,

720
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 1: there's no legal contract. But I just gotta let you

721
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,760
Speaker 1: know that like it won't. It's it's just not gonna

722
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: look good. Now. If I want him to break up

723
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 1: with her tomorrow, I say, Blake, so tomorrow if you, um,

724
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 1: if you propose to Katie, I gotta let you know

725
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:17,879
Speaker 1: that if you change your mind eventually, it's gonna look

726
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 1: really really bad. So um, it's what if I stay

727
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 1: with her but not propose, is that bad? Let me

728
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:30,839
Speaker 1: talk producers, and I think I'll declare that that's too

729
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 1: boring and we need a proposal because ABC is a

730
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 1: Christian network, clearly because we operate under this. But I

731
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 1: already had premarital sex, whether multiple times, we don't mind that.

732
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 1: See much like Christians, we it's a gray area and

733
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 1: we pick and choose what um what is godly and

734
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 1: what isn't based on what we what we like at

735
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 1: the moment, So we we don't mind if you like

736
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 1: bang a ton before having sex, because that's like it

737
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,040
Speaker 1: doesn't matter, but we do need to send in a

738
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:04,280
Speaker 1: proposal because that it's the higher stakes. And you know, steaks,

739
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 1: you eat them like potato chips, So I sometimes eat

740
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 1: the bones and not the steak. Is that weird? I

741
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 1: think that someone got in, Blake said, because Blake was

742
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 1: very on the fence. And if you were Katie and

743
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: saw that Blake, if you were Katie watching this later

744
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: and saw Blake him hawing back and forth about whether

745
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 1: or not he was going to propose, and then he does,

746
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 1: I would be like, I want to got to be

747
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 1: so sure the day what about her conversation with Greg?

748
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 1: If I was Blake seeing that conversation, I'm thinking, it's

749
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 1: kind of like what we talked about yesterday. So tell

750
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:41,319
Speaker 1: me what happened in the conversation with after the Rose,

751
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: because you said that once. If you were Blake and

752
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:46,240
Speaker 1: she and she chose you, and then she you saw

753
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: how how Katie was so upset about Greg in After

754
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 1: the Rose, you would have been can you pull up

755
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 1: the article when I was looking at her face and

756
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 1: how upset she was with Greg for being an actor,

757
00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 1: for gaslighting, for leaving her. I mean, I mean, it's

758
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 1: just that you could tell that Katie still has feelings.

759
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 1: She goes, Oh, I'm over you, I'm great, Blake is amazing,

760
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 1: and we're I've never been happier. But it doesn't chate

761
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 1: the fact that when I I am angry when I

762
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 1: watched the show back and see how much you gasol

763
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 1: at me. And it's just like in the whole audience cheers,

764
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 1: they call him an actor because he's taken acting lessons,

765
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 1: and she's like, I don't have a problem with you

766
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 1: being an actor. You can come be an actor and

767
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 1: come on the show. I have a problem with you

768
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 1: acting with me and saying all these things. It was

769
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 1: just like, oh, I hear all, I hear? Is I

770
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 1: love you so much? And your jaws so much smaller,

771
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 1: and you have nicer hair and we look more like

772
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 1: Greg said to her, and this is what he said.

773
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: And I think with these reality shows, you forget this.

774
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 1: And I think Casey was kind of trying to say

775
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 1: it in a much more browy way to see Jay

776
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,760
Speaker 1: when he was on this show, uh funk Boy Island,

777
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 1: which is on HBO. Yeah, yeah, a relationship with a

778
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 1: two way street. And yes, I know you're the bachelrette,

779
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: but still that doesn't put you any higher in this

780
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 1: relationship and me and lower heart out to you. I

781
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 1: emptied my heart out to you on that couch and

782
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: all I got was a pat on the back after it.

783
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: I just wanted something real at the end of the day.

784
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 1: Go go Greg, Go and listen. Greg is not perfect.

785
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 1: Katie's not perfect. I know this. I don't. I don't

786
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,439
Speaker 1: really think Katie is a bad person, and I am.

787
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,279
Speaker 1: I just don't like how she is being heralded as

788
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 1: this hero and Greg is this like abusive, manipulative gas

789
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 1: lighting tool that we all like hate. And all these

790
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 1: women it was like a fucking rally against men, and

791
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 1: they were so mad at him, and he said he

792
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: has to wait for applause breaks when she goes and

793
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: by the way, we know you're not mayor Meryl Streep.

794
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:38,879
Speaker 1: You're not that good. He makes a joke and he goes,

795
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 1: I wasn't acting, I'm not Meryl Streep and toes, oh,

796
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:44,319
Speaker 1: we know, we know, And then everyone's like, yeah, and

797
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 1: it's like he made that joke, Katie, not you. He

798
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:48,360
Speaker 1: just made that joke. You just stole his joke and

799
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 1: then made it yours and now everyone's appotting you. It

800
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 1: was just like gross, and I didn't like it. And

801
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 1: it's all about this. We have to always make our

802
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,839
Speaker 1: queen look good, even if she might be the one

803
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: that There's something so ridiculous about being like you're just

804
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 1: doing it for the show and attention. It's like people

805
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,320
Speaker 1: are doing that. Of course they are. Why would it

806
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 1: is so ridiculous to think that you were going to

807
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:14,359
Speaker 1: come on a show and you are gonna find love. Yes,

808
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,759
Speaker 1: it happens. That's why, Like when these guys go there's

809
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:18,880
Speaker 1: one guy on her season, I think it was her season.

810
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 1: That's that they found out he was there to be

811
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 1: on TV and like too, and and he goes, if

812
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 1: I found love, that would be great, but like, I'm

813
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 1: doing this for the adventure and the exposure and like

814
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,320
Speaker 1: you know, and it was like the worst thing he

815
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 1: could have said. And I go, that's the most honest thing.

816
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: And by the way, he goes, and I did find it.

817
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 1: I really like her. I didn't expect to, but you

818
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:42,520
Speaker 1: can't come into the show being a pcent ready to

819
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 1: propose to this girl and just and have her on

820
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 1: this pedestal that she gets to decide. They get to

821
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 1: decide too. That's why I like, I mean, I'm seriously

822
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 1: not just promoting f Way Island, but I that we're

823
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:57,799
Speaker 1: very aware on that show that people are there not

824
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: just for love, but for Instagram likes, for for celebrity.

825
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 1: I'm still on the fence about Garrett. I don't know

826
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:07,720
Speaker 1: what he's there for. He keeps saying, I like Sarah,

827
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 1: I like Sarah, and I go do you? I like

828
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:12,760
Speaker 1: want to trust you and I and I do Garrett,

829
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:14,360
Speaker 1: But like, did you get to the part where he

830
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 1: started crying, yes, talk about Meryl Street. That's what I'm saying.

831
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: Garrett is either one of the best actors of our

832
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 1: generation or or he must feel multiple things at the

833
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 1: same time, Like I don't know what's going on. Garrett

834
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 1: today posted something Garrett Moronsky Moronsky on Instagram. He's on

835
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 1: He's posted today on his Instagram this video with him

836
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 1: and Greg Mattellis, and he's talking about how like tonight

837
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 1: it's it's you know, before one of the dates and

838
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 1: he's like, tonight, I'm gonna get spicy with Sarah. I've

839
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 1: been too vulnerable. And Greg he's like, I'm trying to

840
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 1: get vulnerable with Nikki. I want to get that kiss.

841
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 1: And he's like, man, I've been vulnerable, that's all I've

842
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: been doing. So now tonight I'm getting spicy. And I

843
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 1: wrote underneath, I go more vulnerable, less spicy, like, I

844
00:41:56,040 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: love that Garrett is honest. Garrett, to me, he might

845
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 1: it might come out that he's lying. I don't know.

846
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 1: I mean, I do know, but like it might come

847
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: out that he's lying. But to me, I think Garrett

848
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 1: is more honest than anyone on the show, almost because

849
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 1: at least we have these guys saying in interviews with

850
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:18,439
Speaker 1: producers who they really are, and they could be lying

851
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 1: to them too. But it is just beyond me that

852
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 1: anyone would go in a reality show wanting to be like,

853
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 1: knowing that they're going to come off looking like a liar.

854
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 1: The problem for being with the Batcher Batcher like you're

855
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 1: it's just so it's like a soap opera. Soap opera,

856
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:36,840
Speaker 1: I know that you struggle with things that have hygiene

857
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: in in the title, which so yeah, I just said that,

858
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 1: like I didn't get what you You don't like soap

859
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 1: and like cultured entertainment Boe Island. Man. Um, so I

860
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 1: don't know what an opera. Yeah, you're I'm gaslighting you

861
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: big time right now. Yesterday Nikki said a gaslight is

862
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:03,399
Speaker 1: when you fart. I always no one made that joke.

863
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 1: I was like, so, anyway I could do it, and

864
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 1: I've never done because I'm scared of what would happen.

865
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,439
Speaker 1: Let's try it. No, I have been not gassy lately

866
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 1: at all because I've been having so much Uh the

867
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 1: other kind of sack does because there the thing is,

868
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:26,319
Speaker 1: it's interesting, like my I'm looking up with someone right

869
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 1: now that we have an arrangement where you know, I

870
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: don't let them have sex with me, like no penis

871
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 1: in my vagina. Sorry to like really take a sharp

872
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,439
Speaker 1: turn here, but I think everyone's just breathing a sigh

873
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 1: of released. Yes, Nicky, please talk about anal and stop

874
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 1: talking about the bachelorette. Um. Yeah, in it and it

875
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: hurts me and makes me feel a little bit uneasy

876
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:50,440
Speaker 1: the next day. Um, I'm very like a sensitive It

877
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 1: is so weird having so so anyway, I just have

878
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:58,720
Speaker 1: to say that having regular anal sex, I'm so sorry

879
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 1: to anyone who listens to this, who loves me or

880
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 1: works for me, Please stop having regular anal sex. There's

881
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,759
Speaker 1: nothing to be ashamed of because first of all, gay men,

882
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 1: gay men have anal sex and relationships every day and

883
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: no one goes your your your poop is gonna fall

884
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: out when you're at store bucks. Your alsehold is going

885
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: to be open all the time. It doesn't do that

886
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:22,840
Speaker 1: unless you're doing insane things. But um, I will say

887
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 1: that because that's the kind of sex I'm having. And

888
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 1: when I do hook up, and sometimes if I want

889
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 1: to have a hook up, I have to like think

890
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 1: about the food that I eat and like when I eat,

891
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 1: and it has drawn me to less uh gaseous foods,

892
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 1: Like I don't want salads and like vegetables as much,

893
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 1: and not because because I want to have anal sex,

894
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 1: not because I'm not Like my taste have been become

895
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:49,759
Speaker 1: more like I'm I'm eating regularly because I know the

896
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: type of time of day I might be having it

897
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:55,479
Speaker 1: and I'm like very regular now because of anal sex.

898
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: It's like helps my digestive system. I just love the

899
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,720
Speaker 1: idea of a of an anal sex diet where there's

900
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:05,400
Speaker 1: no fiber, not one gramma fiber, so that you just

901
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 1: get stopped up. No, you need lots of fiber, actually,

902
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 1: but then when all the time, No, but it keeps

903
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: you regular regular, So you go, okay, like you know

904
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 1: how your dog is regular. Like I take Luigi for

905
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: a walk in the morning, he poops, then he eats

906
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 1: his breakfast, and then later in the night, around six pm,

907
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 1: he poops again, and it's like it's like clockwork. You

908
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 1: can do that for your own body. And then Luigi

909
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 1: has anal sex all night. But I do see you

910
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: eating grass in the yard, dude, and I kind of

911
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 1: scoop my butt on the carpet after I eat. I

912
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:39,919
Speaker 1: thought was coffee. Okay, alright, we're having fun in here,

913
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 1: are we doing? Why do I care? No, let's just

914
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: do one more news story and then we'll get to

915
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: why do I care? All right, Um, okay, so I'll

916
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:49,920
Speaker 1: go back to this one. Um okay. Some some dating

917
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 1: deal breakers from men. Women talk about all the different

918
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 1: deal breakers that they get. I'm sorry. Men talk about

919
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 1: all the different deal breakers that women do want dates

920
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 1: that turn them off. I'm riveted Okay, all right, here's

921
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 1: a few and then we could keep going downh my god,

922
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear what you think about these two. Okay,

923
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 1: always wants to know where you are. So if a

924
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:13,880
Speaker 1: woman always wants to know where you are, if they

925
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: mentioned that on the day, like I don't know when

926
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: that would really come out on the date, that would

927
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 1: be more of a dating thing. But yeah, yeah, yeah,

928
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: that's that's insane girls. Yeah, I none of them. Are

929
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 1: any of these gonna shock me. I mean, that's just

930
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 1: a woman that super always talk like that. I do

931
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 1: like doing that. I think that's why I know it

932
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: chose this. Um, it's not that I like to talk

933
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,320
Speaker 1: about my exes. I like to talk about what happened

934
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 1: in the past so that we can shape like our

935
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 1: past is part of us. And so I don't want

936
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,319
Speaker 1: to say, like, oh, it sucked me so good. I

937
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 1: was having anals like, I don't want to do that

938
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 1: and like put that over a guy. But I just

939
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 1: want to acknowledge that I have experiences with men in

940
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 1: the past that have dictated the way I handled this one. Yes,

941
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 1: now I bring up something from Foy Island, which I

942
00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:01,360
Speaker 1: thought was great when Sarah Row was in the canoe

943
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 1: with Josh and she was going off about like Garrett

944
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 1: and his ex girlfriend and stuff, and Josh said the

945
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: best thing. He's like, I'm on this canoe, like I'm

946
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 1: on this day, trying to enjoy my time with Sara.

947
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 1: But she keeps talking about Garrett, and I think he's

948
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 1: going to go and complain, but then he says the

949
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:21,600
Speaker 1: kindest thing. He goes, I just want to show her

950
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:23,799
Speaker 1: that I support her, and then I'm here for her.

951
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love Josh. I didn't want to cry,

952
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 1: Like I haven't seen that episode. I love Josh so much,

953
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 1: you guys, if you're watching, Josh is the sweetest. He

954
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 1: wears a hatted eliminations. He is so supportive in my

955
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,839
Speaker 1: d M s too. He like he just goes, girl,

956
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 1: You're like, you're killing it. Like he's so sweet. I

957
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:46,280
Speaker 1: love Josh. Josh is a great person and the and

958
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 1: and we'll talk about the end of f Way Island

959
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 1: when it happens. But I have a lot to say

960
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: about all that. Josh is a real great guy. And

961
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 1: is he and f boy or a nice guy? We

962
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 1: don't know? Wait have they revealed yet? Oh yeah, So

963
00:47:58,040 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: we know. Okay, I don't want to say in case

964
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 1: people haven't caught that yet up but episode of five,

965
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:07,479
Speaker 1: I believe everyone is revealed um or six. Yeah, but look,

966
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 1: you could talk about your ex is, but you can

967
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 1: also show what you've learned from past relationships just through

968
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 1: your actions, and it doesn't have to be specific. Like again,

969
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: I know we talked about that before, but we don't

970
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: have to get into the specifics of it. I could

971
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,799
Speaker 1: see from how you treat me that you've learned from

972
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 1: past mistakes with exces, You've grown without me needing to

973
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:31,840
Speaker 1: know why exactly. For me, it helps to acknowledge that

974
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 1: there were people in my life and to reference them,

975
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 1: to be able to say them by name to you.

976
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 1: That's important to me in a relationship that a guy

977
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 1: is not jealous of, because if I'm bringing it up

978
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 1: to make you jealous, that's a whole other thing, and

979
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,439
Speaker 1: that is that's usually I think this is a red

980
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,319
Speaker 1: flag to men because if a girl's talking about exce

981
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,319
Speaker 1: a lot, she's probably still hung up on them. What

982
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: I'm talking about is I want to be able to

983
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 1: go when I dated Jeff, when I dated Chris in

984
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 1: a relationship, I want a guy to be able to

985
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:00,400
Speaker 1: know that those people who those people, or kind of

986
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 1: know the background just for the sake of the story,

987
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 1: not because when you go to a new job, you

988
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,720
Speaker 1: don't get to not talk about your other jobs because

989
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,200
Speaker 1: that job is jealous. When you meet a new friend,

990
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: you don't get to not talk about your old friends.

991
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:14,760
Speaker 1: It's like, if I'm still hung up on the person,

992
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 1: that's a whole other issue. But if it's just me

993
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:20,319
Speaker 1: referencing something from my past and now I can't say

994
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 1: his name because my boyfriend is gonna get jealous, and

995
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 1: instead I have to just lead by my actions, and like,

996
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:34,400
Speaker 1: that's bullshit. Is if you're feeling jealousy because the woman

997
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: is doing it to make you jealous, that's that is

998
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:40,799
Speaker 1: a very valuing you know, because let's say if we're

999
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: in a relationship and I'm talking about my ex a

1000
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: lot and you this is what you could do. You

1001
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 1: could say, Hey, I've noticed that you've been mentioning this

1002
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: X a lot and you seem kind of like still

1003
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:52,760
Speaker 1: upset about things. It's making me feel a little insecure

1004
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:55,719
Speaker 1: because I know that when I'm still upset about something,

1005
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:58,399
Speaker 1: it means it's unresolved to me, so you can say

1006
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 1: from your experience that you can aim it from. Like

1007
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 1: if I were to be talking about it next as much,

1008
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 1: I know it would be because I was still hung

1009
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:07,360
Speaker 1: up on them. I just want to know, Um, what

1010
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 1: where is this coming from? That you're talking about them

1011
00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 1: so much? Because as sad as it is for me

1012
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:14,399
Speaker 1: to admit, it's making me feel insecure and I don't

1013
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:18,279
Speaker 1: want to feel that way with you. So um, you

1014
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 1: can just say your feelings like it doesn't make me

1015
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:21,799
Speaker 1: feel good when I hear about this X, and the

1016
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 1: person can either validate your feelings and say I understand

1017
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 1: that would trigger you. Can I let you know that

1018
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 1: I'm only bring up this X because I feel that

1019
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:32,400
Speaker 1: in a relationship I should be able to reference other people.

1020
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:35,879
Speaker 1: And I will continue to do that, but I will

1021
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,720
Speaker 1: take into consideration that it does make you feel sad

1022
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 1: and um, and I don't want to make you feel sad.

1023
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 1: So um, But okay, can we just say, give me

1024
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 1: an example of when you why and when you would

1025
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 1: reference the next Okay, I got one. Uh. Let's say

1026
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:54,239
Speaker 1: we are going we are on a date, and we

1027
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:58,879
Speaker 1: are at a restaurant and um, uh, the last time

1028
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: I was at this restaurant. We had a so one

1029
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 1: time when I was This is a true story. So

1030
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:03,840
Speaker 1: if I went to a restaurant on the date with

1031
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,839
Speaker 1: a guy with my boyfriend, we're in a good relationship,

1032
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 1: and we go to this restaurant, at this particular restaurant,

1033
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 1: I'm sure I'm trying to think of. There was this

1034
00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 1: moment that I went with my ex boyfriend to a restaurant.

1035
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: In the waiter, we got like an appetizer that was

1036
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 1: like kind of like should we get this? Okay, let's

1037
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:19,920
Speaker 1: get it. We got it and we didn't touch it

1038
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 1: because it was so gross, And the waiter came back

1039
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 1: over and I just he goes, did you not like that?

1040
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 1: And I go, it's honestly like disgusting. It like looks bad,

1041
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: it tastes bad. In the waiter grabbed it off the

1042
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 1: plate and threw it on the floor and goes, I

1043
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:37,320
Speaker 1: hate this dish. You're right, And we laughed so fucking hard.

1044
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,799
Speaker 1: It was so funny. And let me just say, though,

1045
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: Let's say let's say that my boyfriend and that circumstance

1046
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 1: did something hilarious. Maybe he did the thing that like that.

1047
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,719
Speaker 1: There's a story that happened at that restaurant, and my

1048
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 1: boyfriend did a hilarious thing. My ex boyfriend I sitting

1049
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 1: at there, maybe we had said at the same table

1050
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 1: where it happened. Am I going to keep that inside

1051
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 1: because you might feel threat that the man I was

1052
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:03,279
Speaker 1: with before did something hilarious? Or should I share that

1053
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 1: story with you? Is that a good example of an example?

1054
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:10,239
Speaker 1: It's it's a good example. I keep that inside even

1055
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 1: though who doesn't matter. Let's just say, well, I don't know.

1056
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:15,359
Speaker 1: I think it doesn't matter because I think that story

1057
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,840
Speaker 1: is about the waiter being funny, and that's why I

1058
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 1: just said I switched it. So let's just say a

1059
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,280
Speaker 1: scenario like that happened at a restaurant, but my boyfriend

1060
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 1: was the one who did something hilarious and like unpredictable

1061
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 1: and something out of that was really funny and weird

1062
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 1: and and of note, And if I was dining with

1063
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 1: anyone else at the same restaurant, I would tell the story.

1064
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 1: But because you are my boyfriend, I'm not going to

1065
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:38,760
Speaker 1: tell the story. That to me, is is lame that

1066
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:41,360
Speaker 1: I can't I can't bring I want to mind that story.

1067
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess, yeah, I guess there's just different

1068
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 1: kinds of stories. I think that story it doesn't feel forced,

1069
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: it feels organic. But he is funny in it. He's

1070
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 1: very funny in it. That's fine, that's fine, But it

1071
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: feels like we're at this restaurant. It makes sense for

1072
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 1: you to bring that up if we're at a funeral

1073
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:59,520
Speaker 1: and you're like, wow, Dave sucked me good. Uh two

1074
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 1: miles here? No, No No, not about sex. Let's we have

1075
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:04,480
Speaker 1: buggeries here and and maybe someone is into that. But

1076
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, those are things that I've hit

1077
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 1: in relationships before because I don't want that, because I

1078
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 1: know that um men I date really pride themselves on

1079
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: being funny because it's a thing that I'm attracted to.

1080
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 1: And so when I say another person is funny from

1081
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 1: my past, they tend to get threatened. Well, this is

1082
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 1: from experience of from when this is this is how

1083
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:28,319
Speaker 1: you would maybe tell the story where I would get

1084
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 1: upset if you go, my boyfriend was the funniest guy.

1085
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 1: He's the funniest guy I've ever met. And you've said

1086
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 1: this before about your other friends. I don't care, I

1087
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:38,799
Speaker 1: really don't, but I'm saying if I was dating you,

1088
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 1: and you were like my ex boyfriend was the funniest guy.

1089
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:45,399
Speaker 1: No one would say that. No, no one's gonna say

1090
00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: that because my friends should know that. Like, but you

1091
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 1: compare your friends, you always go, man, he's the fun

1092
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:53,439
Speaker 1: and you always make a point to tell me that,

1093
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 1: which is fine. No, I would say you were the

1094
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 1: funniest person I've ever met. Two a million times I've

1095
00:53:57,440 --> 00:53:58,880
Speaker 1: said that. No, No, No, I know, I know. I

1096
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:00,319
Speaker 1: don't want to. I don't want to how to make

1097
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 1: this I'm saying no, Like, I'm just saying specifically, if

1098
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 1: if I was on a date, you talked that way,

1099
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 1: and people could possibly talked away and more gentle and

1100
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:11,760
Speaker 1: delicate around a boyfriend than I am a friend. Yeah, okay,

1101
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:16,319
Speaker 1: And about using superlatives, and you could do whatever's a superlative.

1102
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 1: It's a super relative that comes over for dinner. It's

1103
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 1: not Katie's aunt. Okay. Well, they're going to take a

1104
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: quick break and then we'll get back with why do

1105
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:31,919
Speaker 1: I care? And we're back why do I care? Why

1106
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 1: do I care? Oh? Man, why do you care about

1107
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:36,839
Speaker 1: this one? You're ready? Nick? All right? When it comes

1108
00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:41,120
Speaker 1: to her intense sex scenes, Nicole Kidman reveals that her husband,

1109
00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:44,920
Speaker 1: Keith Urban, doesn't get involved. He doesn't read any script.

1110
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 1: He really doesn't know what's going on on set. So

1111
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 1: he's got his own career that he's really absorbed about.

1112
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:54,840
Speaker 1: Why do we Noah, you're so fucking good. I can't

1113
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 1: even believe it. Like it's like, how does this story

1114
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 1: relate so much to what we're already talking about. There's

1115
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 1: no way no one knew that this was going to

1116
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 1: be the crux of this show. Okay, so Keith Urban

1117
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 1: doesn't watch her sex scenes. No, he'll watch the finished product.

1118
00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:09,840
Speaker 1: He just doesn't. He doesn't want to hear about the

1119
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:11,759
Speaker 1: day and set. Yeah, he doesn't want to hear about

1120
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 1: the day on said. He doesn't want to, you know,

1121
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:16,160
Speaker 1: hear about you know, her real connection with the guy.

1122
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 1: Possibly not real, but you know what I mean, dude,

1123
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think I would want my boyfriend

1124
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 1: if my boyfriend was not someone who got turned on

1125
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: by seeing me with other men or whatever it is.

1126
00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:26,840
Speaker 1: I think i'd want him to skip the premiere and

1127
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:30,799
Speaker 1: I wouldn't feel bad in fact, like I have UM

1128
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:34,760
Speaker 1: someone like the like there are people in my life

1129
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: and they know about a UM. How do I say this?

1130
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 1: So there is a thing that I shot that while

1131
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 1: I shot it, like in it within the episode that aired, Um,

1132
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 1: I was involved with someone and the purse. There's someone

1133
00:55:57,200 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 1: that I'm currently kind of fooling around with in a casual,

1134
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:07,920
Speaker 1: fun way that knows about that and this person I um,

1135
00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 1: I told them you don't have to, like, I know

1136
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:12,839
Speaker 1: you want to support my career if you don't want

1137
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:18,920
Speaker 1: to watch the thing that because you know it, I

1138
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:21,319
Speaker 1: was going through a thing that makes you maybe feel

1139
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 1: a little insecure. It's okay, you don't have to watch that,

1140
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:26,360
Speaker 1: even though it has nothing to do with the relationship,

1141
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 1: just knowing, like if if I knew, But that goes

1142
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 1: against what you were saying. No, but I said because

1143
00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 1: I know, because I know his his limits, that's the thing.

1144
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 1: It's like, I know that that is really upsetting to him.

1145
00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 1: So you could be with a guy that has limits,

1146
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 1: but you think he shouldn't have womits. No, I don't

1147
00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:43,680
Speaker 1: think he shouldn't have limits. I'm just saying I can

1148
00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:46,280
Speaker 1: be with a guy that is honest with me about

1149
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 1: his limits and doesn't just get it, doesn't just harbor them,

1150
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 1: and and if we talk about them we can, we

1151
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 1: can make it feel more comfortable. So I gave I.

1152
00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:58,759
Speaker 1: I said, like, you don't have to watch this if

1153
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 1: it makes you, if it trigger as you in anyway,

1154
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 1: And he was like, I want to support you and

1155
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,759
Speaker 1: watch these things, but it does make me feel a

1156
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 1: certain way, and and now um, I feel fine about it.

1157
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:13,920
Speaker 1: Whereas before, if he wouldn't have watched something because he

1158
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 1: knew that I was involved with someone when I made it,

1159
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 1: or like kiss someone during it or something like that,

1160
00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 1: I would have just been like, why is he not

1161
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:23,160
Speaker 1: supporting me? Like I would have known, but I wouldn't

1162
00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:25,320
Speaker 1: have like known, I would have kind of maybe put

1163
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 1: it on the fact that he doesn't care about my career.

1164
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 1: You know, I could like blanket it. And now I

1165
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 1: know it's like, yeah, that's just hard for him, Like

1166
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 1: he's it's just a Keith Urban moment of like, I

1167
00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 1: don't want to but the fact that Keith Urban will

1168
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:37,960
Speaker 1: sit next to Nicole Kidman and watch like a steamy

1169
00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 1: sex scene at a premiere really makes me uncomfortable. Even

1170
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 1: though I would love to watch my person do a

1171
00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:47,360
Speaker 1: steamy sex scene with like a heartthrop on camera, part

1172
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:51,160
Speaker 1: of me thinks, you know, Nicole Kidman is one of

1173
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 1: the biggest. She's probably top one percent of actress is

1174
00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 1: making money today. If my wife, you know, made out

1175
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 1: with a guy with a sock on his cock to

1176
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 1: bring home twenty million dollars so I can get new

1177
00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 1: golf clubs or you know what I mean. Like, I

1178
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 1: think there's like an involvement of like, oh, they're an artist,

1179
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:13,520
Speaker 1: Let them be an artist as long as they're bringing

1180
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:16,920
Speaker 1: the money. I just have to say that when you

1181
00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:19,400
Speaker 1: are in a when you're doing this is Mr and

1182
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 1: Mrs Smith. If if I ever date an actor, which

1183
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 1: I don't doubt I will, and they go off to

1184
00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 1: shoot a movie with a girl who um is beautiful

1185
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 1: and charming and all the things, and they have to

1186
00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 1: be in a relationship on camera or not, I will.

1187
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:39,240
Speaker 1: I will know that there's a chance they'll fall in love,

1188
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:41,760
Speaker 1: because you when I was on Dancing with the Stores,

1189
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 1: just rubbing on glove all day made me have a

1190
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 1: crush on him, like you know, even though I knew,

1191
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: like I like was there was an attraction because of

1192
00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:53,880
Speaker 1: the intimacy that is fake and for cameras, but it

1193
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 1: just you can't help it. I'm just saying that I

1194
00:58:56,840 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: would be knowing all that, I'd be more inclined if

1195
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:04,720
Speaker 1: my wife was making a ton of money off potentially

1196
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 1: leaving me, then if she wasn't making money, Does that

1197
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 1: make sense totally? Like you're gonna get Yeah, but Keith

1198
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,959
Speaker 1: Urban is also Yeah, she's very rich. It doesn't really matter.

1199
00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 1: But but also he's so secure in himself because he's

1200
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 1: a huge mega star too, Like there's no there's no

1201
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:23,520
Speaker 1: shift in like porn. Would you ever? Could you ever?

1202
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 1: I don't think I could. And I'm not judging that

1203
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:30,200
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't. I just don't think I. I don't

1204
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 1: think I'm strong enough. Ye had to separate it and comparrementalize, uh,

1205
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:42,200
Speaker 1: quitting everything except the podcast and stand up um and

1206
00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 1: like saying you know, fuck it, TV, I don't even

1207
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:46,680
Speaker 1: I don't even want to be accepted in your club

1208
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:51,040
Speaker 1: anymore because and I just do porn like I could.

1209
00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 1: Why Because if you do porn, the world turns its

1210
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:58,240
Speaker 1: back on you. And I'm sorry to any porn actresses

1211
00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 1: or actress. So you want to make it, no you

1212
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 1: you just have to accept that no one's going to

1213
01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 1: let you be on ABC if you do porn. No

1214
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:07,439
Speaker 1: one's gonna let you host the Tonight Show if you've

1215
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 1: done porn. At this moment in our lives, people, even

1216
01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 1: though porn is the number one consumed thing and everyone's

1217
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 1: watching it, we blacklist people who have done it, and

1218
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 1: we and we won't date the women who have done it.

1219
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I really feel for porn actresses that have

1220
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:23,440
Speaker 1: maybe did something when they were young and now a

1221
01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 1: video exists that they makes them undateable. It's just I

1222
01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 1: could become a billionaire. Well, I just think that, like

1223
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:36,640
Speaker 1: I I would like to make porn. I just want

1224
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:38,280
Speaker 1: to put that out. Like you guys know that I've

1225
01:00:38,320 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 1: said that before. I really do think I have a

1226
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:45,200
Speaker 1: talent for like making you think you actually see yourself

1227
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:47,440
Speaker 1: getting I wouldn't see it, dude. I wouldn't watch it,

1228
01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 1: just like I don't watch my SEF. I mean, I

1229
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 1: don't think I would watch it. I would trust the

1230
01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:56,960
Speaker 1: people that are because because to provide entertainment and to

1231
01:00:57,000 --> 01:01:01,320
Speaker 1: provide a because I enjoy having crazy z like sex

1232
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 1: so much that I think it would be good. Because

1233
01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:06,640
Speaker 1: I watch a lot of porn and I can tell

1234
01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:08,520
Speaker 1: the women are sometimes just doing a job and don't

1235
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 1: enjoy it as much. As I do, because a dick

1236
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:12,320
Speaker 1: will slip out and they won't go put it back in,

1237
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 1: put it back in. And I'm like, if you are

1238
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:15,959
Speaker 1: enjoying that, you'd be like put it back in, because

1239
01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:18,760
Speaker 1: that's what I say. And I just know my enthusiasm

1240
01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:22,400
Speaker 1: and my love for it, you know. And I believe

1241
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:24,000
Speaker 1: that I if I chose to do porn, I would

1242
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:25,240
Speaker 1: get to do it only what I want to. It

1243
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't be like, oh, I gotta go into work today,

1244
01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 1: which is how a lot of porn actresses and actors

1245
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:31,080
Speaker 1: have to do. It. Is like they gotta shoot. If

1246
01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 1: they're not horny, they just gotta fake it, you know,

1247
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,520
Speaker 1: and and and act. But I think that I could

1248
01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 1: make porn um that where I'm actually having a good

1249
01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 1: time and it would look cool. It would be watching

1250
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:46,360
Speaker 1: someone who is really wants to be there, is having

1251
01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:48,640
Speaker 1: the best time with it, is very free with their body,

1252
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 1: is enjoying sex in a way that um doesn't seems shameful,

1253
01:01:53,520 --> 01:01:57,120
Speaker 1: or is enjoying being shamed in the in the um,

1254
01:01:57,160 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 1: you know, bubble of this porn and can still be

1255
01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 1: a person that has like a full life outside of it.

1256
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 1: And it would bring for me, I just because it's

1257
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 1: because I want to bring entertainment to people. Well, here's

1258
01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:10,160
Speaker 1: the thing. I I just because I couldn't date a

1259
01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 1: porn star, doesn't I I would one million percent supported

1260
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 1: uh porn star becoming the next Jimmy Kimmel or like

1261
01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:20,920
Speaker 1: the next Tonight Show. I would love to see the

1262
01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:23,400
Speaker 1: money T and T who is one of the advertisers,

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Speaker 1: wouldn't I know? No, no, I'm just saying that for

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Speaker 1: me because I don't want it to be misconstrued that

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Speaker 1: like I might not support no no, no, no one

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01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:32,720
Speaker 1: thinks that I don't think. But can I ask a

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Speaker 1: questions for you? Then why not meet somewhere in the

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01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:38,800
Speaker 1: middle of like I get it, because it's not as

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01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:41,200
Speaker 1: much of this only fans is also going to keep

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Speaker 1: you off of the Tonight show. No, no, no, I

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01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 1: was thinking more like Red Shoe Diaries or something where

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Speaker 1: you're having sex but it's not explicit because no one's

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01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:53,840
Speaker 1: jerking off to that. Yeah, And I'm not not that

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01:02:53,840 --> 01:02:55,439
Speaker 1: I want people to jerk off to me. I just want.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I would because I think that porn porn

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01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:00,200
Speaker 1: to me is important. I know there's people that are

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01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 1: addicted to it and it can be a problem, and

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01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:04,680
Speaker 1: and it's a lot of bad things can come of porn,

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01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:07,640
Speaker 1: and a lot of people in porn are being sex trafficked.

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01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:10,240
Speaker 1: It's like a whole thing and and and revenge porn

1281
01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:13,240
Speaker 1: is awful. But I want to make porn because I

1282
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 1: feel like when I'm on when I did stand up

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01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:18,480
Speaker 1: for the first time, I go, wow, I'm I'm good

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01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:20,560
Speaker 1: at this. Like I'm not great yet, but like this

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01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:22,600
Speaker 1: is something I'm really good at and people seem to

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01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:24,800
Speaker 1: like watching it. You know, it made me feel good

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01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: that I finally found something I'm good at and I

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01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 1: have finally reached a point with the sex I'm having

1289
01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:34,080
Speaker 1: that I want people to see how free you can

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01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:35,800
Speaker 1: be the way that, like my stand up is now,

1291
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 1: like I can talk about being suicidal and make funny

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01:03:38,120 --> 01:03:40,200
Speaker 1: jokes about it that make people feel less alone. I

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01:03:40,200 --> 01:03:44,160
Speaker 1: think I could have sex on camera that people don't

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01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:46,480
Speaker 1: even know about, that they could be enjoying and make

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01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:48,320
Speaker 1: it seem like something. Oh maybe I can try that

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01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:50,160
Speaker 1: and bring that into my life. And that's why I

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01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:52,400
Speaker 1: would want to make it. Okay, let's get to the

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01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:56,800
Speaker 1: Reddit dump. I um this one. Oh that one was

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01:03:56,840 --> 01:03:58,920
Speaker 1: too sad. I saved it last night. This one's kind

1300
01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:02,080
Speaker 1: of cool. There's a upreddit called slave Labor and it's

1301
01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:04,000
Speaker 1: people that are just trying to make an extra bucket,

1302
01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:06,320
Speaker 1: so they offer their services and you can like venmo

1303
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 1: them for things. And there's there's sometimes scams on the news,

1304
01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:10,960
Speaker 1: but this one was cool and I just want to

1305
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:13,160
Speaker 1: get this guy some money if people are interested in this.

1306
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:16,680
Speaker 1: So this guy goes, I will offer. It's in in brackets.

1307
01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:19,200
Speaker 1: It says offer that means like they're offering something. I

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01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:21,840
Speaker 1: will tour my local Nigerian market with some of you

1309
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:24,600
Speaker 1: on Zoom for seven dollars. If you want to see

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01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:27,400
Speaker 1: what happens in markets here in Nigeria, the shouting, dragging,

1311
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:31,480
Speaker 1: dragging to be sold to prices compared to the dollar, etcetera.

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01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 1: You can join me on Zoom while I tour and

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01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 1: do all your requests for five dollars. He changed it

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01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 1: to five dollars eleven am Eastern Wednesday, the August August eleven,

1315
01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:44,120
Speaker 1: in the hot hours of the market. That's my four PM.

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01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 1: Here you can watch live and get all your questions answered.

1317
01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 1: So this guy is so if you want to go

1318
01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 1: is His name is billionaire Bobby One user name user

1319
01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:58,160
Speaker 1: it's you uh slash billionaire Bobby one and he's gonna

1320
01:04:58,200 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 1: do a live tour of a market. It's a bunch

1321
01:04:59,920 --> 01:05:01,760
Speaker 1: of one zoom watching. I think that's so cool. Now

1322
01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 1: do you pick this story because he's also a Nigerian

1323
01:05:05,400 --> 01:05:07,400
Speaker 1: and you have to give him? No? No, no, it's

1324
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:11,440
Speaker 1: I didn't know because someone wrote you know these are commoners.

1325
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:13,160
Speaker 1: They go this actually sounds awesome. I don't think I'll

1326
01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:14,480
Speaker 1: make it the best of luck with it. I don't

1327
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 1: know if it's feasible, but I bet you could make

1328
01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:19,040
Speaker 1: a great Twitch channel doing stuff like that. Everyone seems supportive.

1329
01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:21,000
Speaker 1: This guy isn't asking for five hundred dollars. He has

1330
01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:22,520
Speaker 1: been for five dollars. If you get scammed out of

1331
01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:26,400
Speaker 1: five dollars, okay, who cares like he accepts? Uh says

1332
01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:30,479
Speaker 1: he accepts PayPal and Bitcoin. I just don't really trust

1333
01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 1: the guy whose nick whose name is billionaire. It's like

1334
01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:36,920
Speaker 1: Billionaire Boys Club. It's like you So, I don't know.

1335
01:05:37,080 --> 01:05:40,080
Speaker 1: I I think that, Uh, I think it's cool. I

1336
01:05:40,120 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 1: like the slave labor thing um even though about the

1337
01:05:42,760 --> 01:05:44,840
Speaker 1: whole foods for three dollars. Yeah, I mean you could

1338
01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:48,160
Speaker 1: do that. People will join you. Here's one from pop heads.

1339
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 1: This is people who enjoy pop music. Pop heads. Yeah,

1340
01:05:51,440 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 1: these are these are these are people who like VI

1341
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:57,000
Speaker 1: and dum Now pop heads. This is from the user

1342
01:05:57,080 --> 01:06:00,440
Speaker 1: other side for the title is so funny. What does

1343
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:03,640
Speaker 1: dj khal It even do? And it says I noticed

1344
01:06:03,640 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 1: he doesn't produce right or perform any of his songs

1345
01:06:06,520 --> 01:06:08,760
Speaker 1: as of his recent albums, Yet he puts his name

1346
01:06:08,800 --> 01:06:11,959
Speaker 1: on the material and himself on his album's covers, which

1347
01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:14,840
Speaker 1: seemed weird to me considering he does what is what's

1348
01:06:14,880 --> 01:06:17,920
Speaker 1: explained as arranged in quotes the material on the album,

1349
01:06:17,960 --> 01:06:20,360
Speaker 1: meaning he contacts the singers and rappers and producers to

1350
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:22,280
Speaker 1: go on the album, which I didn't even know was

1351
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:27,760
Speaker 1: a common thing. I'm not trying to dude, No, this

1352
01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: is what he does. Someone commented he gets everyone together

1353
01:06:30,800 --> 01:06:33,840
Speaker 1: like the Avengers and becomes the hype man. Um so

1354
01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:35,880
Speaker 1: one said this is the best. This is from drunk

1355
01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 1: hurricane this person this is why I read it so funny.

1356
01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:41,880
Speaker 1: I've heard him described as the musical equivalent of a landlord.

1357
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 1: That is what DJ kale It is and so this

1358
01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:49,360
Speaker 1: is um I saved what he actually does. Someone someone

1359
01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:54,120
Speaker 1: wrote in Um, they said what he essentially what he does?

1360
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:59,360
Speaker 1: Is he he? Yeah? He just uh wait, Okay, I

1361
01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 1: think there's a conception on what DJ Kalott is doing

1362
01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 1: and a disconnect to when he came up. In all respects,

1363
01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:07,680
Speaker 1: DJ kalt is a mixtape DJ mixtape. DJs would grather

1364
01:07:07,840 --> 01:07:10,960
Speaker 1: mostly unreleased tracks and freestyles from various artists and producers,

1365
01:07:11,040 --> 01:07:13,480
Speaker 1: host the tape and put it out. That's what he does.

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01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:18,920
Speaker 1: You know who is jew? Or yes, he's like a

1367
01:07:18,920 --> 01:07:23,320
Speaker 1: aggregate Jewish Jew sounds a little strong. Yeah. Um. And

1368
01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:25,760
Speaker 1: then I wanted to share this one with you, Andrew.

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01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:28,480
Speaker 1: This is from the subreddit Next Fucking Level and it's

1370
01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:31,120
Speaker 1: just about things that are just like whoa, what the fuck?

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01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:39,080
Speaker 1: This guy is named Latona Ebra player. Dude. Okay, I'm

1372
01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:42,680
Speaker 1: gonna play this like TikTok video that they have of him.

1373
01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 1: This guy is so insane. Um, this is what this guy? Wait?

1374
01:07:48,440 --> 01:07:54,600
Speaker 1: Where where's the thing about him? Um? James say, this

1375
01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:57,920
Speaker 1: is what happened? Okay, So sorry, there's a video. This

1376
01:07:58,000 --> 01:08:00,400
Speaker 1: is a clip of him Kimmel and it's fifty eight seconds.

1377
01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:03,320
Speaker 1: We're gonna go out on this. This guy is insane. Andrew,

1378
01:08:03,680 --> 01:08:06,240
Speaker 1: listen to this video. There's a guy narrating it, telling

1379
01:08:06,320 --> 01:08:08,560
Speaker 1: us about this guy who is what does he do?

1380
01:08:08,640 --> 01:08:11,280
Speaker 1: He's a soccer player. Time. Listen to what he said.

1381
01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:15,720
Speaker 1: Listen to this. My confidence is what people have noticed.

1382
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:19,160
Speaker 1: It's very high. His lots On has to be the

1383
01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:21,320
Speaker 1: cockiest athlete of our time. No, I'd heard about most

1384
01:08:21,320 --> 01:08:23,759
Speaker 1: of the stunts, but one with Lebron was hard to believe.

1385
01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:26,280
Speaker 1: Quick refresher. He had this to say after being asked

1386
01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:28,800
Speaker 1: for the best breaker in the Premier League. Is k

1387
01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:32,519
Speaker 1: was from whether he didn't say, yourself, you don't compare

1388
01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 1: themselves with humans. At some he said lions don't compare

1389
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:38,760
Speaker 1: themselves with humans. Okay, so he's he's a lion, and

1390
01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:42,280
Speaker 1: then it says at some point in you're okay. In

1391
01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:44,519
Speaker 1: your life, you've been asked with superpower you want. I

1392
01:08:44,600 --> 01:08:47,640
Speaker 1: guarantee you've never heard an answer like this. What superpowers

1393
01:08:47,680 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 1: would you like to possess? Already have? Before signing with PSG,

1394
01:08:51,760 --> 01:08:54,080
Speaker 1: people friends were worried about his mindset. But you called

1395
01:08:54,080 --> 01:08:57,160
Speaker 1: me arrogant, and French people are famous for being arrogant.

1396
01:08:57,280 --> 01:08:59,640
Speaker 1: So I'm exactly like you, so you should love me.

1397
01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:01,800
Speaker 1: When arrived in l a he took out a full

1398
01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:04,720
Speaker 1: page ad to say two words when n Okay, he

1399
01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:06,360
Speaker 1: took out a full page ad in l A when

1400
01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:09,000
Speaker 1: he arrived, and it says, dear Los Angeles, You're welcome.

1401
01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 1: So then when when when Lebron arrived? This is I'll

1402
01:09:15,280 --> 01:09:17,719
Speaker 1: just read this because it's hard to hear. When Lebron

1403
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:19,880
Speaker 1: arrived in l A, s lat On tweeted l A

1404
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:22,599
Speaker 1: has a God and a king. But his next gesture

1405
01:09:22,760 --> 01:09:26,960
Speaker 1: went unreported. Lebron reached out to his Laton by sending

1406
01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:31,040
Speaker 1: him a jersey. Okay, most athletes would frame this or

1407
01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 1: posted on social media, not s Latan. He proceeded to

1408
01:09:33,880 --> 01:09:37,960
Speaker 1: sign the jersey and mail it back to Lebron. He

1409
01:09:38,240 --> 01:09:40,960
Speaker 1: signed the jersey and mailed it back to Lebron. That

1410
01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:44,160
Speaker 1: is insane. What is this the guy's deal? Do you

1411
01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:48,599
Speaker 1: know about him? Noah? I mean sounds awesome. I mean

1412
01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:52,599
Speaker 1: that's crazy to sign a jersey from n It sounds

1413
01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:55,759
Speaker 1: like a hell as they say in wrestling. Oh yes,

1414
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:57,719
Speaker 1: like and you know what, last night I was talking

1415
01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:01,519
Speaker 1: to someone about Garrett. Garrett's a he will he goes

1416
01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:04,040
Speaker 1: on knowing that he's going to be a villain, to

1417
01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:07,519
Speaker 1: become like to get attention and then he can do

1418
01:10:07,600 --> 01:10:11,320
Speaker 1: anything that these heels, they get, these trolls. It's a

1419
01:10:11,360 --> 01:10:15,280
Speaker 1: thing now and you get better everything where you're like,

1420
01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:17,799
Speaker 1: oh this person and everyone's gonna hate them. They become

1421
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:21,519
Speaker 1: more famous and more liked and more beloved. It's like

1422
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:26,559
Speaker 1: Takashi six nine. It's like these kind of people. Yeah.

1423
01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:29,599
Speaker 1: Final thought. I just was talking to Whitney Cummings last night.

1424
01:10:29,800 --> 01:10:32,960
Speaker 1: We were texting. She was on Jimmy Kimmel and she

1425
01:10:33,000 --> 01:10:37,160
Speaker 1: was hilarious and uh Spade was hosting. He was great,

1426
01:10:37,520 --> 01:10:39,719
Speaker 1: kind of annoyed that I wasn't a guess, but that's fine,

1427
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:42,800
Speaker 1: um or a guest host. But it's the way I

1428
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:44,840
Speaker 1: might do porn. So Maybec probably doesn't want me anymore.

1429
01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:48,800
Speaker 1: I'll convince myself it's that um. But Whitney was saying that, um,

1430
01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:52,600
Speaker 1: where did she write this? She said maybe she was

1431
01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:55,679
Speaker 1: doing a voice memo. She said that like bullies are out,

1432
01:10:56,439 --> 01:11:00,160
Speaker 1: like it's not cool to be a bully anymore. She

1433
01:11:00,240 --> 01:11:04,600
Speaker 1: said that if you look at who doesn't do podcasts

1434
01:11:04,640 --> 01:11:07,280
Speaker 1: like the Big podcast, If you look and you look

1435
01:11:07,280 --> 01:11:10,120
Speaker 1: at the Big Comedy podcast, who's not a guest on

1436
01:11:10,160 --> 01:11:14,200
Speaker 1: those podcasts? Those are probably the bullies of comedy because

1437
01:11:14,280 --> 01:11:17,400
Speaker 1: the big podcast now are people that weren't famous five

1438
01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:19,960
Speaker 1: ten years ago. They weren't on the same level that

1439
01:11:20,000 --> 01:11:22,760
Speaker 1: they are. I'm talking about Joe Rogan's talking about Sigura's,

1440
01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:27,880
Speaker 1: Bert Kreischer, Andrew Schultz, these uh, these these podcasts that

1441
01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:30,840
Speaker 1: are the number ones. If you're not seeing famous comedians

1442
01:11:30,880 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 1: on there, there's probably a reason for that, and it's

1443
01:11:34,240 --> 01:11:38,599
Speaker 1: because they were bullies in the past. And these hosts

1444
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:43,400
Speaker 1: have what is called integrity and they don't. Uh. Even

1445
01:11:43,400 --> 01:11:46,080
Speaker 1: though those famous comedians want to be on their podcast now,

1446
01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:48,960
Speaker 1: they remember from the past when they were bullied and

1447
01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 1: they're not going to put them on because a lot

1448
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:53,120
Speaker 1: of times people are bullied in the past by someone.

1449
01:11:53,160 --> 01:11:55,519
Speaker 1: And I'll include myself in this. I've been bullied in

1450
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 1: the past. There are people out there right now in

1451
01:11:58,080 --> 01:12:01,920
Speaker 1: comedy who now want to be my friend who treated

1452
01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:05,800
Speaker 1: me like ship before. And guess what, I will be

1453
01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:10,360
Speaker 1: your friend. I totally will because I still I'm still secure.

1454
01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:12,760
Speaker 1: I'm working on being more consistent with people who were

1455
01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:15,000
Speaker 1: mean to me and not wanting them to still like me.

1456
01:12:15,280 --> 01:12:17,280
Speaker 1: I still have a desire for those people to like

1457
01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:19,320
Speaker 1: me because I'm not, you know, I don't have enough

1458
01:12:19,320 --> 01:12:22,920
Speaker 1: self esteem yet. I'm getting there. But the people the

1459
01:12:22,960 --> 01:12:28,719
Speaker 1: stories I've heard about these hosts of podcasts not having

1460
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:31,720
Speaker 1: people on that are that would be a big name

1461
01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:34,479
Speaker 1: to have on your podcast, but because they know that

1462
01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 1: in the past this person has not been nice to

1463
01:12:36,880 --> 01:12:39,160
Speaker 1: them when they that person was famous and they weren't,

1464
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:41,600
Speaker 1: they're not having him on the podcast. So when he

1465
01:12:41,680 --> 01:12:43,599
Speaker 1: was like, I always say my podcast, pay attention to

1466
01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:46,720
Speaker 1: who is not on podcasts, because it's not it's not

1467
01:12:46,760 --> 01:12:49,160
Speaker 1: their choice. It's the host choice. And you can see

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01:12:49,160 --> 01:12:50,920
Speaker 1: who who has been the you can kind of infer

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Speaker 1: who's been the bullies of comedy. But then I I mean,

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Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna say because some people don't want

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Speaker 1: to be one. I think if you're getting bullied and

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Speaker 1: you're not getting industry support, it's gonna push you to

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01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:05,720
Speaker 1: make a podcast and and push you to succeed in

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01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:09,400
Speaker 1: that era where or that arena where these other people

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01:13:09,400 --> 01:13:12,360
Speaker 1: that are assholes aren't gonna do it. So that's positive

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Speaker 1: for being bullied. And then and then no, But then

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01:13:16,320 --> 01:13:18,679
Speaker 1: the other thing is is people would argue that these

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Speaker 1: new podcast host the rogans of the world whatever are

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01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:24,919
Speaker 1: the new bullies in the sense of they control everything

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Speaker 1: and so UM, I don't think that. I honestly don't

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Speaker 1: think that Tom Sacre, Bert Chryser, Joe Rogan. I don't

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Speaker 1: know Andrew as much, but I don't think he would

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01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:41,439
Speaker 1: fall into those those four I and I'll include Christina

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Speaker 1: Paciski in this as well. I they are all really

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01:13:44,720 --> 01:13:47,120
Speaker 1: nice people and like want the best for people. You

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01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:50,600
Speaker 1: can say what you want about Joe Rogan, but he

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01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:55,360
Speaker 1: he genuinely like I I love him. I think that

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01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:57,640
Speaker 1: he is a nice person, and I think that he

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01:13:57,720 --> 01:14:00,360
Speaker 1: is admitted to when he has been like angry and

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01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:02,559
Speaker 1: mean in the past and not like a good person.

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01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:05,840
Speaker 1: But now I just I get this sense from him

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01:14:06,040 --> 01:14:09,599
Speaker 1: that he when I'm around him the a couple of times,

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01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:12,400
Speaker 1: I'll always defend him because he just seems to really

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01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:16,519
Speaker 1: be rooting for everyone and to be happy, and I

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01:14:16,560 --> 01:14:18,120
Speaker 1: just I don't know, I get this warmth from him.

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01:14:18,160 --> 01:14:20,720
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm delusional, and but these people, to me, I

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01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:23,479
Speaker 1: don't think that Joe Rogan is a bully. Um. Maybe

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01:14:23,840 --> 01:14:26,080
Speaker 1: you could show me evidence of him being it, but

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know, but it's it's hard to

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Speaker 1: be in a position of power and not kind of

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01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:36,960
Speaker 1: exert this if you're still insecure. Yeah, I just think that, Um,

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01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:39,439
Speaker 1: it's hard to be a bully without power. So that's

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01:14:39,520 --> 01:14:41,960
Speaker 1: kind of my point of Like, that's why they could

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01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:46,280
Speaker 1: be misconstrued as bullies because they hold they hold the

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01:14:46,439 --> 01:14:49,320
Speaker 1: keys now too. Yeah, And it's nice at that point

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01:14:49,360 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 1: to to go, Okay, the people that treat me like

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01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:52,720
Speaker 1: ship on the way up, I'm not gonna be nice too.

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01:14:52,760 --> 01:14:55,120
Speaker 1: But I'm not even there yet. Also, you can get

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01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 1: called a bully just because you don't let someone on

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01:14:59,240 --> 01:15:01,519
Speaker 1: their show and they're just bitter, you know what I mean,

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01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:05,080
Speaker 1: Like like because they're powerful. It's like Johnny cart Like

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Speaker 1: I was never out on John Johnny Carson was a

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Speaker 1: piece of it. It's like he was. He read read

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01:15:11,360 --> 01:15:14,400
Speaker 1: his biography that was written by his lawyer, his only friend.

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01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:17,000
Speaker 1: He was a fucking bully because his mom was a bully.

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01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:18,840
Speaker 1: His mom was the worst mom I've ever heard. We

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Speaker 1: have one minute left. I just want to share a

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Speaker 1: message I got from someone about the show yesterday about

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Speaker 1: the stuff we were talking about, the cheating and like,

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Speaker 1: and this will be the final thing that I say.

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Speaker 1: This person wrote to me cheating. Thank you for the talk.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for talking about this on the pod. Last year,

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Speaker 1: I cheated on my partner of blank ears, and we've

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Speaker 1: been rebuilding our relationship ever since I was a virgin.

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Speaker 1: I was a virgin before this person and had fomo

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Speaker 1: heard your advice about telling your partner about the crush

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Speaker 1: before things got out of hand. I know someone out

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Speaker 1: there needed to hear this today. Thank you for writing

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01:15:57,200 --> 01:15:59,439
Speaker 1: me that it made me feel good. I hope that

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Speaker 1: someone got some hang out of it, and I hope

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Speaker 1: that you listener forgive yourself for what you did in

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Speaker 1: the past, and that if this happens again, that you

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Speaker 1: have an open dialogue with the person that you're dating.

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Speaker 1: guys so much for listening. Don't be cut and h