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Speaker 1: Um, all right, nephew, thank you. Subject he doesn't know

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Speaker 1: me in public? Okay. H. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a

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Speaker 1: forty eight year old mom of two girls, and I

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Speaker 1: have a boyfriend that's forty five years old and recently divorced.

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Speaker 1: He's a delivery driver and a trainer at my gym.

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Speaker 1: He helped me lose weight and we ended up having sex.

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Speaker 1: After achieve weight my goal weight. He started casually dating.

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Speaker 1: We started casually dating. After that, we'd hook up and

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Speaker 1: have a great time. When my kids were at their

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Speaker 1: dad's house. My girls eventually met him, and my fourteen

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Speaker 1: year old said that my man and I aren't a

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Speaker 1: good match. She said, he acts like he's not really

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Speaker 1: into me. I don't take advice from a child. But

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Speaker 1: lately I'm starting to think she's right. When I'm at

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Speaker 1: the gym, he will speak to me, and that's it.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't help me with the weights or my form anymore.

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Speaker 1: He said if his other clients find out we're dating,

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Speaker 1: it might ruin his business. I have seen women flirt

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Speaker 1: with him at the gym, so he's right about that.

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Speaker 1: And November he changed his training schedule so he's not

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Speaker 1: at the gym when I'm there. The only time I

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Speaker 1: jobs to take me out. I've been understanding, but now

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Speaker 1: I have questions because he's still acting like he does

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Speaker 1: not know me in the public. In public, Friday night,

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Speaker 1: I picked up wings for my girls and he was

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Speaker 1: at the bar. We were surprised to see each other.

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Speaker 1: He introduced me to his boys as someone he he

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Speaker 1: played the part. He didn't go to my coworker's wedding

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Speaker 1: with me recently, and he won't let me meet his son.

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Speaker 1: He says, we have a bright future together. But how

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Speaker 1: it's been almost a year and all we do is

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Speaker 1: Netflix and chill at home? Should I continue to be

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Speaker 1: patient with this man? Okay, here's a question for you.

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Speaker 1: Why are you asking Steve and I for an answer

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Speaker 1: to a question you already know he's hiding you. Yes,

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Speaker 1: he is because he doesn't want anyone to know about you, Okay,

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Speaker 1: and the so called relationship that you guys have. That way,

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Speaker 1: he can do whatever he wants to do. You're both single, right,

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Speaker 1: so what's the problem. Why can't he be seen with

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Speaker 1: you in public? I get that he might want to

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Speaker 1: keep a professional at work, but everywhere else. No, he

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Speaker 1: even changed his training schedule so he wouldn't have to

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Speaker 1: see you at the gym. He doesn't help you with

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Speaker 1: your weight, so your form anymore? You say, And you've

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Speaker 1: been dealing with this guy for almost a year. And

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Speaker 1: almost a year, you guys have been secret. It's just wrong,

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Speaker 1: and while you don't like it, you haven't clocked him

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Speaker 1: on it at all. I mean it's time now, I think,

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Speaker 1: because you're starting to feel some kind of way about it.

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Speaker 1: You got to tell him how you feel and that

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Speaker 1: you know what he's up to, and then break up

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Speaker 1: with him. That's my suggestion to you. A man should

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Speaker 1: be proud of the woman he's with, period, and that's

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Speaker 1: not what this is. He's only acknowledging you behind closed doors.

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Speaker 1: Your fourteen year old daughter saw it. It's time for

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Speaker 1: He doesn't get to treat you that way, not a

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Speaker 3: Steve, Well, you're forty eight, you got two girls and

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Speaker 2: That's not a problem. Hesly divorced.

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Speaker 3: He's a delivery driver, but he's a trainer at the Gina.

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Speaker 3: He helped me lose weight and we end up having

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Speaker 3: sex after I achieved my goal weight, so you win

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Speaker 3: and got fined.

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Speaker 2: He saw it.

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Speaker 3: Ah, okay, now let me help you do this right here.

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Speaker 3: You ain't the first client he just slept with. Let's

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Speaker 3: just put that out there. I have no proof of

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Speaker 3: that in the letter, but I think I do. We'd

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Speaker 3: hook up and have a great time. When my kids

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Speaker 2: She said, he acts like he ain't really into me.

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Speaker 3: I don't take advice from a child, Okay, but.

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Speaker 2: I'm starting now. I think she right.

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Speaker 3: Okay, when I'm at the gym, he will speak to

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Speaker 3: me and that's itity he doesn't help me with the

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Speaker 3: ruin his business. Okay, that's kind of a true statement.

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Speaker 3: Nice little out he got for you. But the rest

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Speaker 3: flirt with him at the gym, and so now in

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Speaker 3: November he changed his training schedule so he not at

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Speaker 3: the gym when I'm there. Not Wait a minute, lady,

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Speaker 3: that's a lot of that's a lot of niggling going on,

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Speaker 3: because do you come to the gym at set times

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Speaker 3: and now he'd have made sure he not dow on

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Speaker 3: those particular times and days.

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Speaker 2: Could it be? Could it be?

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying, because there's another woman at the gym

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Speaker 3: that he kicking it with that's there when.

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Speaker 2: You are there also, I'm just saying, could it be?

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Speaker 3: And then you say the only time you do get

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Speaker 3: to see him was when y'all chilling at the.

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Speaker 2: House of mine. In other words, booty call one more time,

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Speaker 2: Booty Call.

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Speaker 3: Bill Bellimy did a whole special on IT, movie on it, everything,

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Speaker 3: booty Call. And he's usually too tired from working two

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Speaker 3: know me in public. Now, Lady, when I come back,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you what Shirley has already told you,

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Speaker 3: which is the obvious, and now you just don't have

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Speaker 1: All right, Hang on, Steve, We will have part two

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Speaker 1: of your response coming up at twenty three minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject he doesn't know me

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Speaker 1: in public? Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: for by AAARP. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap

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Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. The subject is, he doesn't know me

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Speaker 3: This woman who's forty eight dating this forty five year

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Speaker 3: old man who's a delivery guy, but he's a trainer

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Speaker 3: at the gym. He met her, he trained her, she

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Speaker 3: lost weight, they start having sex. It then got to

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Speaker 3: the point now where the tyler letter is, you don't

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Speaker 3: know me in public. He done told her if people

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Speaker 3: let the gym find out they dating, it could ruin

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Speaker 3: his business.

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Speaker 2: True statement, But you say not.

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Speaker 3: Only time y'all see each others, when y'all cheer at

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Speaker 3: each other's house.

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Speaker 2: That's because you're booty call. Now.

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Speaker 3: You was having him over your house when your daughters

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Speaker 3: told me, y'all don't seem like a good match because

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Speaker 3: he ain't really that into you, and he's not. He's

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Speaker 3: not really into you. He's only really into you for sex.

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Speaker 3: That's it.

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Speaker 2: You are the sex hook up, nothing more.

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Speaker 3: And it says it in the letter quite obviously because

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Speaker 3: you typed it, because you say he don't act like

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Speaker 3: he know you're in public Friday night, you picked up

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Speaker 3: some wings for your girls.

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Speaker 2: He was at the bar. Y'all were surprised to see

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Speaker 3: He introduced me to his boys as someone he trains

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Speaker 3: was trying to remain professional, so I smiled and played

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Speaker 3: the part. He ain't got to act professional in front

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Speaker 3: in front of your dudes. That listen, man, when I'm

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Speaker 3: with my dudes, them cats, I grew up with them,

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Speaker 3: cats I went to college with. That's the other Steve Hardy,

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Speaker 3: that's wonder. Look, y'all don't get to see him. He

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Speaker 3: don't come on the radio. He don't make no public appearances.

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Speaker 3: He is at the ranch with his dudes, talking like

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Speaker 3: you've never heard me talk, because them my dudes. Now,

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Speaker 3: smiled and played the part. He didn't go to my

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Speaker 3: meet his son. You can't meet his son. You know

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Speaker 3: how many people his son. No, he won't let me

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Speaker 3: meet his son. That's cause you not the one now.

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Speaker 3: He done told you that you all have a bright

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Speaker 3: as y'are chilling at one of them houses and watching Netflix.

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Speaker 3: It's been almost a year and all we do is

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Speaker 2: Should I continue to be patient with them? Let me

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Speaker 2: explain the problem. Ain't you ain't met his son?

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Speaker 3: The problem is you ain't met his mama. That got

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Speaker 3: your real problem. Ladies, let me explain something to you.

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Speaker 3: You've been with a man for a year or two

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Speaker 3: and he and he got a mama, and he ain't

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Speaker 3: took you to meet You ain't the one because we

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Speaker 3: gonna take you to meet our mama because we want

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Speaker 3: mama to see mama. This who I'm thinking about, Mama,

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Speaker 3: just the one. You ain't met the mama, the daddy,

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Speaker 3: the son. And when you met at Friez, you was

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Speaker 3: a client at the gym. Girl, girl, you so far

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Speaker 3: down the line right now, somebody that met the son,

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Speaker 3: somebody that met the mama. I bet the girl that

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Speaker 3: had the boy met the mama. You're not it. You're

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Speaker 3: not the one have been keeping the weight off? Now

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Speaker 3: I know you was at the gym. Have you kept

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Speaker 3: the weight off our heads. He crept back up on you.

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Speaker 2: Because that would be a problem to nah. Huh, Now

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Speaker 2: she depressed. She eating.

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Speaker 3: They ain't doing nothing but at the house, Netflix and chill.

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Speaker 3: That's a lot of burgers and pizza.

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Speaker 1: So she still goes to the gym every day.

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Speaker 2: She just down at the restaurant buying chicken wings. The

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Speaker 3: You don't buy no chicken wings or smell them wings

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Speaker 2: Eat a couple of girl buys.

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Speaker 3: Hell yeah, all them wings ain't making it to the house.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a problem. But now listen to me.

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Speaker 3: I know he told you we're gonna He says, we

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Speaker 3: have a bright future together. That's why she's asking the questions,

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Speaker 3: should I continue to be patient with this?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: I don't think you're getting anything from.

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Speaker 3: The relationship, right, That's what I think, So why would

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Speaker 3: you stay in it? But maybe you're thinking I'm not

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Speaker 3: doing nothing else?

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Speaker 1: So she's gonna settle.

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Speaker 3: That's what happens to a lot of people, because some

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Speaker 3: people would rather have something than nothing.

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Speaker 2: But the something you're hanging on to is nothing. Wow,

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Speaker 2: all right, I'm gonna tell you one other thing hard

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Speaker 2: to turn nothing into something hard?

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