1 00:00:01,240 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: This is how with Brooks and Gavin to grab and 2 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: I heard radio podcast how do you everybody? My name 3 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: is Brooks like and this is how men think podcasts 4 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:16,440 Speaker 1: where we are decoding the man code, as we like 5 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: to say. And I'm sitting here with my handsome, very well, 6 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: extremely well dressed hands Mr Gavin de Grost see you Brooks, 7 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: the very very handsome Brooks. How you doing today, buddy? 8 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: You look man today? I'm always happy. You're always happy, man. 9 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: I try to be happy. Even when I'm not happy, 10 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:37,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna smile, yeah, because you know what I mean. 11 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:39,919 Speaker 1: You have those beautiful teeth, right, Actually, let's not talk 12 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: about my crooked teeth. No, hey, they're beautiful. How's life 13 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 1: with your buddy? You've been busy? Things are great and man, 14 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: busy busy, gotta be busy. You're always busy. You're not 15 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 1: busy or in trouble. Yeah, you know what I mean. 16 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: If you're not busy your board, you're thinking about how 17 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: you feel. And if you're thinking about how you feel 18 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: too much, you're not busy enough. You do a podcast. 19 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: That's right, Let's do a podcast talk about how do 20 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: you feel? Instead of me? Yeah, we also got here 21 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 1: with us. We've got Dmitri and we've got Rick. Good sirs, Dmitri, 22 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: what's up with you? How you doing, buddy? I'm doing 23 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: pretty well. Feel good. Likewise I should say you look good, 24 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 1: look good? Yeah, you went from handsome too. We got 25 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 1: these guys. That's fine. I'm not fishing for compliments. You 26 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: wouldn't hurt Greg. How you doing, boss? Horrible? Horrible? I'm 27 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: doing excellent. Yeah, I'm excellent, awesome. Appreciate you guys coming 28 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: in today and also today we're very excited we have 29 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 1: a great episode for you guys. Very excited to introduce 30 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:40,279 Speaker 1: the special guests on the podcast. Christie Morrel was welcome 31 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 1: to So. Christie is a dietitian for USC. She has 32 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 1: a private practice, and she was also gentleman our dietitian 33 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: for the l A Kings when I played with the 34 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: King history right there. Yeah, so we have worked together. 35 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: She's amazing, exceptional her job and exceptional communicating. And also 36 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: I'll say this, Christie, she has the best snacks. She 37 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: always comes packing with the best. I really do. I 38 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 1: would agree with that completely. That is a love of 39 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: mine is to find really good, healthy but tasty snacks 40 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: can I just say I'm a little relieved because you 41 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 1: actually have the same name as my girlfriend from college 42 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: that didn't end well. And when I saw Christie morrell 43 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 1: is coming in, I was like, oh my god, are 44 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: you serious, and last like this is gonna be awkward, 45 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: but that's too bad. I really would like damn a 46 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: good show. Well, Amy, now you know, book another Christie Morrell. 47 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 1: But we appreciate you being here. I have so many 48 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: questions for you personally. UM, we work together. It wasn't 49 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: long enough. The King's released me. If you have any 50 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 1: pull there, you know, UM, let to know I'm still 51 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 1: in shape and I will come back. But I appreciate Uh. 52 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 1: I look forward to picking your brain because you work 53 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 1: with athletes and performers all the time. UM, have a 54 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: wealth of knowledge. But the first topic we want to 55 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: get to is Rick has had an issue with one 56 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: of his kids, which I believe you'll be a lot 57 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 1: of help with. So I'll say with this too, rip 58 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: pay Christy. Really want to get into the topic of 59 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: diet and health with you, for sure, but I wanted 60 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 1: to ask you just one quick question about when do 61 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: at what age is appropriate four kids to get cut 62 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: or make the team or when do athletics turn into 63 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: like a real competition. You know, my my daughter was 64 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 1: recently cut from She has been playing soccer club soccer 65 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 1: for the last three years and she was on the 66 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 1: the A team and recently they had tryouts and she 67 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 1: got cut and moved down to the got cut to 68 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: the B team, and um, you know, we were quite 69 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: honestly speaking, we were all devastated. And she was devastated, 70 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: not from the fact that she went from the aid 71 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: of the B team, but she was just emotionally. She's ten. 72 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: I think at the time she was just emotionally distraught. 73 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: It was more social, I believe than it was anything about, 74 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: you know, not being good at soccer or at a 75 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: certain level. Um. Frankly, I think she was at the 76 00:03:56,520 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: right level where she got placed. But UM, I do think, 77 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: you know what, what kind of just has been driving 78 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 1: me and my wife lately is you know, like we 79 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: were you know, I'm a competitor. I played sports in college, Um, 80 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: you know, and so it was just drove me nuts. 81 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 1: The first thing I want to do was like, we're 82 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: going out on the field and we're going to practice 83 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 1: for three hours, you know. And then I was like 84 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: sitting back and I'm like, that's not good. That's not 85 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 1: the right way to do it, you know. I mean, 86 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 1: she's only ten, And my my thing I wanted to 87 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: bring up in here was like, what is the most 88 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:30,359 Speaker 1: appropriate age to start kids where it is ultracompetitive, you know, 89 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 1: and what's the right thing? You know. You hear stories 90 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 1: about parents that are living vicariously through their children and 91 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 1: dads and moms getting in fights at school or at 92 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 1: the at the game and stuff, and so, um, that 93 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,239 Speaker 1: was just something I wanted to share upon with you guys. 94 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: With you also, that's a great question, and I think that, Um, 95 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: I think a lot of parents do that. So if 96 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:56,039 Speaker 1: you're a good parent, in my opinion, you have those conversations. 97 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:58,600 Speaker 1: Is it more important for her to get on the 98 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: field and keep practicing and try again next year, or 99 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 1: is it more important for you to see her to 100 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: be able to do that, you know what I mean. 101 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 1: So I think when when you have a huge disappointment 102 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:12,160 Speaker 1: like that, it's almost supporting her, loving her and just 103 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: be like, you know, obviously, for whatever reason, it is 104 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: what it is right now. You can't just stay in 105 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: that lull and be sad for the rest of you know, 106 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 1: the year, but what can you do to empower yourself 107 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 1: to maybe you want to try again or maybe not? 108 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: And that should be a conversation versus Okay, honey, what 109 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 1: we're gonna do is on Sunday, we're gonna get out 110 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 1: there for three hours. We're going to practice that one kick. 111 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: It's like, whoa dad? Like really, So I think it's 112 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 1: important for the kid to be competitive and to want 113 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: to be competitive, not the parents. So it's like, all right, 114 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: we're gonna get out there and we're gonna does she 115 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:46,799 Speaker 1: wanted to? I know she's disappointed, but does she feel 116 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 1: the fire to want to get back to that a team? 117 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 1: Like she's got to have that, not you. So and 118 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's that's what you're doing, but I 119 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: think it's important. You know, my my daughters played club 120 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:59,039 Speaker 1: soccer as well, and it's like and my wife played 121 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: soccer and co and stuff, so she's she's really we're 122 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 1: both competitive people, but it's like we want them to 123 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 1: have that fire. It's awesome that they do and if 124 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 1: they do, but I realize that if if we push 125 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 1: them to do that, and it's not a good mix. 126 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: So Christie, you have two kids. Correct, Yes, I have 127 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 1: two boys, two boys twelve and Dylan will be ten 128 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 1: in July. So you're you're rights just starting to get 129 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:24,720 Speaker 1: into thick of it um And you work with athletes, 130 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:27,720 Speaker 1: you work with USC, you work with kings, you work 131 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: with top level athletes. How do you approach it from 132 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 1: a standpoint of when is it time at like your 133 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 1: twelve year old, is it time to now start dialing 134 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 1: in his nutrition and trying to build him up to 135 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 1: be an athlete? Or do you just defer to him 136 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:43,679 Speaker 1: what he wants? When is it time as a parent 137 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: to start escalating the process if your kid wants to 138 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:51,479 Speaker 1: be an athlete. So this would be an awesome question 139 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: for my kids because I think, because of what I 140 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: do and what I know, I have been teaching them 141 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 1: and I think, Aime, you can um comment on this, 142 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: but they have always eaten really well, not to the 143 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: point where they don't eat sugar. I don't allow it. 144 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 1: So I think as parents, you should start teaching your kids, 145 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: educating your kids, communicating with your kids about nutrition from 146 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 1: as little as they can, you know, as soon as 147 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 1: they start eating honestly, because you can't be like, Okay, 148 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 1: we're just going to kind of let you do your thing, 149 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: eat whatever you want, and oh, now you want to 150 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 1: play sports, Okay, We're just gonna like undo all the 151 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: things and try to have you eat healthy and take 152 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: care of your body. It's like, you should be taking 153 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: care of your body, whether you want to play sports 154 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: or not. And then I would say for Devon certainly 155 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 1: right now, he's at that age. Interestingly enough, we have 156 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: a beach uh date coming up and he's like, Mom, 157 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: I really want to be able to take off my 158 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 1: shirt and feel good about my abs. And I'm like, okay, um, 159 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 1: so so um. He's like, are the things that I 160 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 1: could be doing differently? I love his communication with me 161 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 1: because we talk about nutrition all the time in our house. 162 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 1: He's like, what can I be doing differently? Or I 163 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: could feel better about my stomach? And I'm like, that's 164 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: a great question. You know. Sometimes it's genetic for kids, 165 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: Like some kids have that, Like my youngest son, Dylan 166 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: has a very flat stomach, and he probably and he 167 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: just does like he has one of those kids that 168 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 1: you would see and he's just always gonna have a 169 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: very flat stomach. Devon just doesn't. And so I talked 170 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: to him about Okay, well you could cut back here 171 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 1: and here if you want to on some sugar that 172 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 1: you're consuming, and we'll just kind of lay it out 173 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 1: for him. But I don't ever press like, oh, you 174 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 1: need to have x amount. I would never say to 175 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 1: a kid ever to start counting calories, to start measuring 176 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 1: their food to um, you know, way themselves, or to 177 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 1: do anything that could jeopardize the relationship with food and 178 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 1: their body. So if if he came to me and 179 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: it's like I because he's into wrestling right now, and 180 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:53,839 Speaker 1: of course that wrestling is a sport where it's a 181 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: little tricky with weight, but he's not at that level yet. Um. 182 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: But in terms of getting him to be competition ready, 183 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 1: or if if a kid asked, I would say, yeah, 184 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 1: let's look at your current eating like current eating habits, 185 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 1: what could you do differently? Could you eat more protein 186 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 1: and a little less snacky foods. Could we find replacements 187 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:16,959 Speaker 1: of things that you like that are healthier that might 188 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: help you cut back on a little bit of body fat. 189 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: Because it is a competitive world, but you have to 190 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 1: be able to be It's such a delicate topic and 191 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: I think parents involvement can get a little sticky. So 192 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:31,199 Speaker 1: sometimes you want to bring in a professional because then 193 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:34,439 Speaker 1: you don't have to have that conversation of then the 194 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:36,680 Speaker 1: kids starts to eat something like chicken nuggets and you're like, 195 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: wait a second, I thought you said you wanted to, 196 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 1: you know, get a little bit leaner. That is, I mean, 197 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: that becomes a little bit tricky because then you're now 198 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 1: the food police and then they feel like, oh, you're 199 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:50,960 Speaker 1: watching them, and I'll tell you right now, from all 200 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 1: the kids that I see in my private practice, that's 201 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 1: where things start to brew. And then once they've gone 202 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: down that path, it's it's a tough one to pull 203 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,080 Speaker 1: back on. So you do want to be careful. The 204 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 1: opposite is bad too. You don't want to reward them 205 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: with donuts exactly same thing, because then they're shooting for 206 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:06,719 Speaker 1: that and then they're eating the opposite way and you're 207 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 1: giving that to them. Absolutely. I once said, when I 208 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 1: was growing up playing hockey, one of the guys like 209 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: in my class and on my hockey team would get 210 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 1: a score bar every time he scored a goal. True, 211 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: sorry to get a score bar from his dad every 212 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: time he scored a goal. And we played this one town, 213 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 1: we beat them, forty five nothing. We beat him forty 214 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 1: five rip. He picked up eight goals and he got 215 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:34,079 Speaker 1: eight score bars. He has no legs, and he was 216 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 1: a very large child like he was to this day 217 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 1: still is a large absolutely, And I think and again 218 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:43,200 Speaker 1: I think parents, parents do that often. Oh you're you're 219 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:45,199 Speaker 1: sad from school, you had a fight with a friend. 220 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 1: Let's go get you some ice cream, you'll feel better. 221 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: It's almost like something that kids, you know, they it's 222 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 1: a reward system, and that's how they cope with their 223 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: feelings and then that last them. There can less than 224 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 1: their whole life. That's how they reward themselves or you know, well, 225 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 1: I was gonna I was gonna say it, Like I 226 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: feel like it's a fine line, Like you're saying, is 227 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 1: is the food situation or the nutrition versus Like at 228 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: what point does competitiveness take over where it's like parents 229 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 1: are pushing their kids, you know. And I feel like 230 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: this is maybe a little bit of a bigger picture, 231 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 1: but like it is important for you know, you can 232 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: use athletics to get into college now and you don't 233 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:24,439 Speaker 1: have to get in a natural way. In fact, I 234 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 1: wouldn't say it's easier, but it's definitely a different path, right, 235 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:30,319 Speaker 1: you know, it is a huge one. I took it myself. 236 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 1: And but like there are people that are trying to 237 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 1: use that private coaches, private quarterback, you know, and trying 238 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 1: to get their kid to be that much better. And 239 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 1: it's and I think it's it's almost like this way 240 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:47,559 Speaker 1: of you know, pushing them to a limit where they're 241 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: looking for other outlets to get away from that sport. 242 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 1: You know, most kids at certain point, you know, and 243 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 1: it's like they're either going to food or drugs or 244 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: whatever else, you know, and it's horrible. A question, A 245 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 1: question for you. I get asked by a parent that 246 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:03,199 Speaker 1: a kid's twelve years old or thirteen years ago, what 247 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 1: kind of protein does he need to be on? Does 248 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: he need to be taking? When should they really if 249 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 1: they want to be a competitive athlete, When can you 250 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: start them on proper nutrition and really educate them on it. 251 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 1: I think when they ask for it, When they ask 252 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,839 Speaker 1: for it, then they're ready to listen and do something 253 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 1: about it, do you know what I mean? So if 254 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:23,319 Speaker 1: the parent is saying you should do this, then the 255 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 1: kids like, I don't really want to and I really 256 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 1: like my pizza and whatever. It doesn't matter how much 257 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 1: you talk to them or educate them. They're ultimately going 258 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 1: to put the food in their body when they're at 259 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: that birthday party or when they're at their friend's house. 260 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: So when the when the kid says to you, I 261 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 1: really want to focus on this, I really want to 262 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:41,959 Speaker 1: gain speed, so I know that I can be better 263 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 1: if I really dial in my nutrition or however they 264 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: probably use those types of language, but and they're asking 265 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 1: for it, that's the time they'd be like, great, you 266 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 1: know what, Then we're gonna get a professional because mom 267 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 1: or daddy doesn't know exactly how you should be eating. 268 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 1: We're gonna get somebody who can talk to and really 269 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: understand how do we do this and there is a 270 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 1: correct way of doing it. And unfortunately kids are way 271 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 1: to expose now to YouTube videos and all this other 272 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 1: stuff and they're just going to get information online or 273 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 1: in other places and it's not age appropriate. These kids 274 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 1: are still growing, so they shouldn't be taking supplements. They 275 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 1: shouldn't be taking all these protein powders. They can do 276 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: it in a natural way and in a healthy way, 277 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,680 Speaker 1: so they don't feel like, you know, they have to 278 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 1: be again counting everything or measuring or just becoming obsessive. 279 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 1: And that, unfortunately, is something I'm so passionate about because 280 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: I think more and more kids are almost the obsessive 281 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:38,960 Speaker 1: nous with it, getting obsession or having obsession with it 282 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:42,559 Speaker 1: versus something that's healthy. So what would be an appropriate 283 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 1: age for somebody to start taking a supplement? That's a 284 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 1: great question. I would say, when they're then they when 285 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: they're done growing. That depends what kind of supplement you're 286 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 1: talking about. But let's see asked the most by like 287 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 1: hockey parents, parents back in Canada, people that know me 288 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: or my dad or my mom, they ask a about 289 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 1: protein and creatine because they might know somebody that's on 290 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 1: And these kids are thirteen and four. So definitely absolutely 291 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 1: not at that age. I mean, I would say, and 292 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 1: again I'm not it depends on the person, but when 293 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 1: they're done growing would be ideal, so or maybe kind 294 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 1: of like senior in high school, maybe to college somewhere 295 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 1: on there. I wouldn't. I wouldn't start them any sooner 296 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 1: because and it's it's actually not proven. I can I 297 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 1: can give athletes and I have many times great muscle 298 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 1: building or ways that they can lean out without having 299 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 1: to take any kind of artificial type of supplements. There's 300 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 1: ways to do it. So can you give us some 301 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 1: examples for that, for for even just for a parent, 302 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: if a parents looking to lean out, or if a 303 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 1: kid is eighteen nineteen or going to college looking to 304 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 1: lean out and be an athlete, what would be some 305 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: natural ways or foods that could help that kid. Sure. 306 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 1: The first thing I do is have each they can 307 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 1: do this right now if if they wanted to, but 308 00:14:57,240 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 1: have them write down everything that they're eating for or 309 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: a week and start to see little holes they're like, oh, yeah, 310 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 1: I snack on like when I'm in the car, or 311 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 1: I wait too long to eat, and then I get 312 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 1: home and I'm starving, so then I just eat a 313 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 1: bunch of snack food. So first and foremost, I'd just 314 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 1: love to see what they're currently doing. And that's just 315 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: anybody can do that, any kids. Sometimes I'll I'll um, 316 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 1: when I go into Devon's class, I taught a nutrition class. 317 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 1: They'll ask me that, like, what's the best way to 318 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: be better about my nutrition? I'm like, well, first, see 319 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 1: what you're doing, take take notice, be mindful of your habits. 320 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 1: Because a lot of kids are either skipping breakfast or 321 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 1: you know, they'll eat just whatever throughout the day and 322 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 1: then they come home at night, like you said, kind 323 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 1: of binge or just eat whatever. So first kind of 324 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 1: look at what they're currently doing, and then I can 325 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: easily go through and be like, Okay, well instead of 326 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 1: just eating a bunch of goldfish for a snack, you 327 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 1: can have yogurt and some foods. So yeah, and I 328 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 1: think it's more. I know we're focusing on you know, 329 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 1: athletes and stuff like that, but I think children in general. 330 00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 1: I think the nutrition, Like I was this rewarding with donuts, 331 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 1: and then there's there's you know, eating completely healthy here 332 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 1: and there, and you're getting to the supplement's point. But 333 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: it's like when I took my daughter to school when 334 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: she was in kindergarten. I was just we're sitting there, 335 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 1: she was coloring, and a friend of hers came up 336 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 1: to the table and I was like, oh, that's a 337 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 1: good morning, I said, you know, somehow the topic got 338 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 1: to us and how's your morning. You know, She's like, good, 339 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 1: I had three doughnuts. That's like kindergartener had three doughnuts 340 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 1: before she went to school. My kids will come home 341 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 1: and they can't wait to tell me what their friends 342 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: lunches look like. They are like crazy, I have a 343 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 1: question for you. So, my my son plays travel baseball. 344 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 1: So every other weekend, we're in a different city or 345 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 1: a different place, and there's anywhere between four to twelve 346 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 1: fields around this whole entire complex and and we're there 347 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 1: from eight am to three pm or all day long basically, 348 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 1: and there's one stand of snacks and foods in the 349 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 1: whole entire thing. And it's cheeseburgers, onion rings, French fries, burritos, dogs, nachos, 350 00:16:56,320 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: hot dogs, and it's you cannot get sell. And and 351 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:04,399 Speaker 1: I almost feel like if you're kind of not an outcast, 352 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:07,199 Speaker 1: but like if I brought my own cooler with like no, 353 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 1: come over here, and we're gonna sit over here, and 354 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:12,439 Speaker 1: you're gonna have these these you know, nuts to snack 355 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 1: on to get you more protein while you know, in 356 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 1: between games, Like that's odd and unfortunately that's I would like, 357 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:25,199 Speaker 1: you know what, I would have no shame in that. 358 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 1: I'd be like no, but I but I feel like 359 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: it's like, how do we as a whole get those 360 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: places to change? Or you know, because that's a question. 361 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:40,200 Speaker 1: I mean, the fundamentals there are are everything's market driven. 362 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 1: Everything comes down to economics. At the end of the day, 363 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 1: if there's not enough choice because the market created not 364 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:48,360 Speaker 1: enough cheap because the fact of the matter is all 365 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:52,199 Speaker 1: the choices actually exist, the economy determines what choices you 366 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 1: end up with ultimately at that one place. So fundamentally speaking, 367 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:59,120 Speaker 1: the general public wants to have a hot dog. That's 368 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 1: all there is to it. So you know, that's what 369 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: you're dealing with. If you want to go against that tide, 370 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: you have to sort of you need to bring your 371 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 1: own food. So is that something to change the culture? Essentially? 372 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:11,680 Speaker 1: If that's if the culture wants a hot dog, that's 373 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 1: going to be the culture. But but if you were, 374 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 1: if you I don't know if we can view our 375 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:19,680 Speaker 1: whole foods or Thrive Markets. Let's use Thrive markets because 376 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:25,119 Speaker 1: we love Thrive Markets. Why doesn't Thrive Markets sponsor a 377 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 1: huge sports baseball indoor thing and and have that be 378 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 1: their entire right, you know, instead of it's you know, 379 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 1: you gotta del taco, you got a burger, You've got 380 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,359 Speaker 1: all these other places down the street, or just the 381 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:43,239 Speaker 1: regular person making the cheeseburgers, But like, why wouldn't one 382 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 1: of those places be like, hey, you know what we're 383 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 1: We're going to have a healthy place where all these 384 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:48,600 Speaker 1: kids are gonna play. I think it should be on 385 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:52,120 Speaker 1: the advisory board to thrive. Remember I got my toilet 386 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 1: papers there. But there's a great irony there. I gotta 387 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 1: say with the to me, the obvious irony is this 388 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 1: the sports fan in the live sports fan visit going 389 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 1: to a sports event is going there to have a 390 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: beer and a hot dog. So you know, you're coming 391 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:14,159 Speaker 1: in with with parental's parental advisory version of what you 392 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 1: want your kids to have and what options do you 393 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 1: want to have at the game. But it's changing. You're 394 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 1: starting to see some healthier stuff show up in But 395 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 1: I'll say that you're going you don't have to. What 396 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 1: I'm saying now is you don't. You can if you want, 397 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: but there is an option if you don't want to. 398 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 1: That's starting to come in. But let's say there isn't 399 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:37,399 Speaker 1: an option. Christie, as a parent, what would you do? 400 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:40,879 Speaker 1: Would you meal prep and bring something like for parents 401 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 1: that want to do that that have kids but want 402 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 1: to eat healthy, Like, what would you do and also, 403 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 1: can you also maybe give us some examples of things, 404 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 1: specific things or companies that you would bring with you 405 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:54,680 Speaker 1: where they can get these products from. Sure. So I mean, 406 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,679 Speaker 1: first and foremost, I love the absolutely. I have like 407 00:19:57,720 --> 00:20:00,080 Speaker 1: two or three of these, you know, little coolers, and 408 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 1: I would pack sandwiches and yogurt and vegetables and fruit, 409 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 1: and look if they want to over the concession stands 410 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: and get a bag of chips, because that's what they 411 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 1: really wanted. I The other thing, too, is there's a 412 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 1: flip side of being overly. You know, oh my gosh, 413 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:15,640 Speaker 1: you can't have a gramma sugar, you can't have any 414 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 1: processed foods. And I see a lot of kids like 415 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 1: that too, who's parents have just put like they can't 416 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:24,440 Speaker 1: have anything like that, and then they become very obsessive. 417 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:27,360 Speaker 1: So I think there's room to have both. I think 418 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 1: if you can pack some stuff and then be like, 419 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:32,199 Speaker 1: you know what, honey, if you want to go, you know, 420 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:33,919 Speaker 1: this is gonna be dinner. But if you wanted to 421 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 1: have the hot dog for lunch, if that's what you 422 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 1: really wanted, you have to be able to communicate, but like, look, 423 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,680 Speaker 1: we're going here, We're gonna be there all day long. 424 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:42,919 Speaker 1: I don't want you to just live on concession stand foods. 425 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:45,120 Speaker 1: Maybe we can pack something together, like can we get 426 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:48,120 Speaker 1: this and that, and let's empower them to be able 427 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 1: to make some choices versus well, I'm just going to 428 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:52,920 Speaker 1: pack everything that I think you should have and then 429 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 1: the kids like, I don't even like that, you know 430 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:58,439 Speaker 1: what I mean. So I'm always encouraging parents to be 431 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 1: so involved, even packing lunches for for school. The kids 432 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:04,359 Speaker 1: should be involved in that. And it's so interesting because 433 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 1: not to get totally off topic, but um, one of 434 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:10,440 Speaker 1: the things that I would say is, you know, I'll 435 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 1: tell the kids during lunch is when you're when you 436 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: don't eat your entire lunch and you throw out part 437 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 1: of the sandwich or all this stuff, and your parents 438 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 1: open it up, they think you ate everything, right, They 439 00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 1: think that you liked what they packed, so they're gonna 440 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 1: pack it again. And that was such a lightbulb moment. 441 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: Parents are like, oh my gosh, Christie, how do I 442 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,560 Speaker 1: ever thank you? Because my kid came home and said 443 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,199 Speaker 1: they never even ate that sandwich. I never liked it. 444 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:37,880 Speaker 1: They were throwing it away all the time, and they 445 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 1: were like, lunch it all. It's just the communication. There's 446 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 1: such a lack of that with kids, and I can't 447 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 1: tell you enough that is such the beginning point of 448 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:52,200 Speaker 1: all of this when it comes to nutrition and their 449 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,720 Speaker 1: health and well being. It's sitting down and having a 450 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,879 Speaker 1: conversation of like, hey, honey, let's make lunch together for 451 00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 1: tomorrow versus I'm gonna pack something that you're gonna throw 452 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: throw out our trade with your friends, like what are 453 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 1: we doing here? So it comes to that. But there 454 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 1: are great companies. Trifecta is a really great company that's 455 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 1: designed for athletes, and they have four or five different 456 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:14,920 Speaker 1: meal plans. So if you're like, gosh, we're gonna be 457 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 1: going on the road a lot and I just need quick, 458 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 1: healthy meals that I can pack. They have a great 459 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 1: website and they have different options and you can do 460 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 1: it that way where they're just nice and package and 461 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 1: you just you know, can take them with you. Yeah, 462 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 1: ask you a question healthy adolescents them early adolescents into 463 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:37,360 Speaker 1: like your late teens. How much of your muscular development 464 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 1: has to do with your nutrition? I would first say 465 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:46,440 Speaker 1: that everything is about genetics first and foremost. Having good 466 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 1: genetics is a is a plus that's number one. So 467 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 1: bulky musculars could be sixteen years old like naturally novel 468 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 1: sort of Sorry, keep going, keep going, that's a good question. 469 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 1: Keep going, because he was so he seemed naturally very muscular, 470 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 1: like he looked like a rod Dan you know. I 471 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,399 Speaker 1: mean he has a large, large muscular development at a 472 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 1: very early age, you know what I mean, which is 473 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:26,400 Speaker 1: really unusual. And I was wondering, how do you put 474 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 1: on that kind of muscle tissue? Was that almost strictly genetic, 475 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,679 Speaker 1: regardless if he would have been training or not, just 476 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 1: that was his natural physique? Or do you think I 477 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 1: had a lot to do with diet? I definitely think 478 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 1: diet and the way he lifted and trained, for sure, 479 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:41,880 Speaker 1: was a big part of that. Genetics is a big 480 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 1: part of it, but nutrition has a huge role in that. 481 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 1: And I'll tell you how I know that for certain. 482 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,159 Speaker 1: Is that you put an athlete on a dexa. You 483 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 1: know the right, So a dexa. Yes, it's a body composition. 484 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:57,280 Speaker 1: You basically lay down and it tells you how much 485 00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 1: fat to muscle you have on your body. Ok. So 486 00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 1: this is like a mobile van and they scan your 487 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 1: body exactly. Yes, that's exactly right. So after you get scanned, 488 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 1: you get this print out and tells you how much 489 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 1: fat to muscle you have on every part of your body, 490 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: your legs, your arms, everywhere. Right, then you design a 491 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,040 Speaker 1: meal plan. I did that and the doctor pulled out 492 00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 1: the plug and blew on it plug because he thought 493 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 1: it was broken because there was no muscle here. So basically, 494 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 1: then you can give an athlete a specific meal plan 495 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: and they go back on the deck set and you 496 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,200 Speaker 1: can show them, look, you gain five pounds of muscle 497 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:42,480 Speaker 1: and decrease two body fat just by following this meal plan. 498 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: Now the buying is there right now they're like, okay, 499 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 1: this this girl might know something. That's a big component 500 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 1: because for athletes, I mean, they can see their body, 501 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 1: their physique in the mirror. But when they know that 502 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:55,960 Speaker 1: something is really working, when they can see like, wow, 503 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:58,719 Speaker 1: I've increased five pounds of muscle. Because when you get 504 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,480 Speaker 1: on a scale, you don't know if you're gaining fat 505 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:09,440 Speaker 1: or muscle. Right, so ADEXA muscle your muscle, So that 506 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 1: I would say, so Hunter, there's no there's no doubt 507 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 1: in my mind. Nutrition is a huge component to leaning 508 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: out and having a good muscular physique for sure. We 509 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 1: gotta take a break. We'll get back to Christie. We 510 00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,399 Speaker 1: got a thousand more questions. We can take a break first. 511 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,159 Speaker 1: This is how men think. My name is Brooks like 512 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 1: and I got Gavin, we got Rick, and we got 513 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,840 Speaker 1: a Petree with us, and we're very blessed to have 514 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 1: Christie Morale with us as well. We're talking diets, we're 515 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:41,120 Speaker 1: talking nutrition, we're talking performance. And for people that don't 516 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 1: know Christie, what would be the number one reason that 517 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:48,119 Speaker 1: a parent would come to you for their kids? What 518 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: is their kid maybe dealing with? What are they going through? 519 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 1: Why would why do you get contacted the most from 520 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 1: a parent? So I specialize in eating disorders and disordered 521 00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 1: eating um for kids in particular, and I'm fortunately think 522 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 1: it's on the rise because of social media and pressure 523 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: and school and there's a lot of competitiveness with within 524 00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,400 Speaker 1: sports too, so people think, oh, I need to look 525 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:13,320 Speaker 1: a certain way or be a certain way, and so 526 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:17,720 Speaker 1: there's more and more pressure on kids. And so I 527 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:21,040 Speaker 1: think the parents find me through their therapist or pediatrician 528 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 1: or however, and they'll call me up and they'll tell 529 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 1: me about their daughter or their son, and I see 530 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,880 Speaker 1: a lot of boys in my practice too, UM, which 531 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 1: is so sad to see these young kids really struggling 532 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 1: with their weight or they're not eating um because of 533 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:39,480 Speaker 1: stress or anxiety, and their parents just don't know what 534 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 1: to do or how to help them. What about for 535 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: an adult, what are Because I have a thousand questions 536 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,200 Speaker 1: for you, I feel like I'm just hogging her from 537 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:50,680 Speaker 1: you guys representing all of us, and the spot on 538 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 1: over like three page. I am. I love writing notes, 539 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:58,959 Speaker 1: especially on diet nutrition doodling. My question for you is, 540 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 1: for let's say, men, um, what are some of the 541 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,520 Speaker 1: very basic mistakes that we're making that we can make 542 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 1: a change on that make a big impact right away. 543 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 1: I see older people, um that have just careers jobs 544 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:17,480 Speaker 1: that they want to either lean out or they've been 545 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,639 Speaker 1: trying to follow certain diets. I mean, this is the 546 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 1: problem is that there's more misinformation on nutrition than there 547 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:27,640 Speaker 1: is credible science based nutrition issue information out there. So 548 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:31,040 Speaker 1: some people will try to go Google or find you know, 549 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,239 Speaker 1: whether it's in a minute fasting or keto. I mean, 550 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 1: there's a million different diets out there, and people get 551 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 1: confused what is the best way that they should be eating? 552 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:40,679 Speaker 1: So people come to me and ask, you know, what 553 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,120 Speaker 1: is the best way that I can take care of myself. 554 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,879 Speaker 1: I've noticed that I've put on some weight or um, 555 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 1: you know, my doctor said I have high cluster, all 556 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,159 Speaker 1: these kinds of things. The biggest mistake I think that 557 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,280 Speaker 1: people make is they try to go find a diet 558 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 1: on their own. They go research something, and then they 559 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 1: try to you know, put something together just themselves, and 560 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,400 Speaker 1: they fail pretty miserably. And I'll tell you why, because 561 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,159 Speaker 1: they think the idea is to restrict or starve themselves. 562 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,480 Speaker 1: So they'll start with a celery juice in the morning, 563 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,600 Speaker 1: and then they won't eat until let's say they have 564 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,120 Speaker 1: meetings after meeting and now they don't eat until three 565 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,639 Speaker 1: and somebody brought in bagels and they're, you know, shoving 566 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 1: four bagels in their mouth because they're starving. Right, I'm 567 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 1: gonna be super healthy. I'm gonna start with the celery 568 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,000 Speaker 1: juice that everybody talks about, and then I'm not going 569 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,679 Speaker 1: to plan my day. So it's things like that I 570 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: think that really get people all messed up. So are 571 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 1: you noticing any differences in the way that males, uh 572 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: young males are are having uh body image issues versus say, 573 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: years ago, are you noticing an upswing in that trends? 574 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 1: What do you think that's do do you think it's 575 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 1: due to lifestyle? You think of social media one million? 576 00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 1: Absolutely you think it has all right, So when you 577 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 1: say social media, you think that's a cultural element, meaning 578 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 1: do you think that's because of what they're seeing in 579 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 1: social media and other people looking ripped, looking fit, looking handsome, 580 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 1: or do you think it has anything to do with 581 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 1: sort of like the political the way things have shifted politically, 582 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 1: and boys feel almost guilty being boys anymore, the way 583 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:24,160 Speaker 1: that people talk about boys. That's interesting because boys are 584 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:27,239 Speaker 1: sort of emasculated growing up now they're told don't be 585 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:31,560 Speaker 1: so aggressive, don't wrestle be you know, go over there 586 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 1: like Jane, that type of thing, you know what I mean, 587 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:39,479 Speaker 1: versus being able to get out their physical uh, your 588 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 1: nature being a male. I was a very physical male, 589 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:46,920 Speaker 1: so you know not but as a child, I was 590 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:50,840 Speaker 1: what you would call very unusually physical, right, So everything 591 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 1: was based around physical activity. It was my entire youth, 592 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:57,160 Speaker 1: right So, and that being sort of beaten out of 593 00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:00,400 Speaker 1: you as a young man is very peculiar to me, truly. 594 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 1: Do you think that has to do with it. I've 595 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 1: never really thought about that, to be honest, until just 596 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 1: now that you just brought that up. Um, it may 597 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,480 Speaker 1: absolutely have something to do with it. I would think 598 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 1: some of the young boys that I see in my practice, Um, 599 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 1: it's at least from what I'm seeing, it comes from 600 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 1: a lot of pressure, whether it's at school being made 601 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:26,520 Speaker 1: fun of or other kids. You know, again, if they're 602 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 1: they're more athletic than I am, and so I feel 603 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 1: like I don't get asked to do things because I 604 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:34,880 Speaker 1: don't have this athletic you know, build, or I don't 605 00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:38,480 Speaker 1: look a certain way, um, or they're just really obsessive 606 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 1: on the other side of you know, wanting everything to 607 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 1: be perfect. You know, I've had a young boy who 608 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:45,560 Speaker 1: was like everything has to be perfect that I eat, 609 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 1: and I'm like, where's this perfection coming from? Why does everything? 610 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 1: I mean, he was reading at such a young age. 611 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 1: He's reading all the you know, the nutrition facts and 612 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 1: the like. Where did you get this from? It's a 613 00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 1: learned behavior, unfortunately. That's why I think it's so important 614 00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:01,600 Speaker 1: for parents to be educated. They think that they're trying 615 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 1: to teach their child right by Hey, honey, you know what, 616 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,960 Speaker 1: let's let's see how many backgrounds that has. Oh, that's fine, 617 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:10,480 Speaker 1: we shouldn't have to. And I see that so often, 618 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 1: and parents, really, when I press it on them, they 619 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 1: really believe that they're doing their childish service because they 620 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: were maybe once overweight, so they really want to protect 621 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 1: their child. So they're doing it in a way where like, 622 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:22,760 Speaker 1: you know what, I was an overweight kid and it 623 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 1: was so horrible and I just want him to know. 624 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,240 Speaker 1: And I was like, Okay, I get that. But now 625 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,720 Speaker 1: he's obsessive with reading everything. And once you learn a 626 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:34,720 Speaker 1: behavior like that, to undo that is very difficult. So 627 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,280 Speaker 1: I see more of that. But I understand what you're saying, 628 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 1: And that's an interesting um idea of that could be 629 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 1: you know out there for sure? What is I agree 630 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 1: with what you just said. I learned. I learned so 631 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 1: much more from my parents by watching what they do 632 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 1: than by what they said, of course to me. So 633 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:59,640 Speaker 1: if I watched my parents doing like not eating anything, 634 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:01,160 Speaker 1: it's up or I'm probably not going to do it 635 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 1: as well. Like I just I learned absorb so much 636 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 1: information visually. What are some of the big you said 637 00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 1: that one? What are some of the biggest mistakes that 638 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 1: parents make that affects their kids. Oh my gosh, there's 639 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 1: so many. One. I would say, just their own language 640 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:20,680 Speaker 1: around their own bodies, their language about them there themselves 641 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:25,480 Speaker 1: that the kid picks up on really easily. Um Or 642 00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 1: having a scale very plain as day in the bathroom 643 00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 1: where they see their parents getting on and off. And 644 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:34,080 Speaker 1: I've had a lot of kids start weighing themselves and 645 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 1: you know, mimicking that behavior. Um So, I would say 646 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 1: the parents one of the biggest things. What is their 647 00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:43,800 Speaker 1: relationship like with food and how do they talk about themselves? 648 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,040 Speaker 1: Um Or if the if the parents says, oh, no, 649 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:49,640 Speaker 1: I can't eat any carbs. Carbs just make me fat, 650 00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 1: and then you're there their daughter or the son is 651 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:56,800 Speaker 1: supposed to just eat pasta, Like how doesn't that? So? 652 00:32:56,840 --> 00:33:00,720 Speaker 1: What is what is worse? Health obsession or health abandonment? 653 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 1: You mean letting the child eat whatever or allowing them 654 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:09,240 Speaker 1: to have a psychosis of being so so consumed with 655 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:15,840 Speaker 1: their image their health they're being versus paying no mind 656 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 1: whatsoever to what they're eating if they're laying around the house, 657 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 1: if you know what I'm saying, So, which is worth either? 658 00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 1: I mean the neither one is a winning situation. So 659 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 1: it's like, I think, I think that middle ground is 660 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:34,640 Speaker 1: the only correct answer. I would agree with that there 661 00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:37,120 Speaker 1: has to be a middle ground to that. You have 662 00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 1: four kids to meet, you like, how do you handle 663 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:41,760 Speaker 1: how do you handle it with you have three daughters? 664 00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 1: How do you handle nutrition and diet in your house? Um, 665 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 1: we're by no means are with the family that's like 666 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 1: no sugar in that's I mean, I think to step 667 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:53,240 Speaker 1: away from the from one. Look, if you look in Europe, 668 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 1: there's no drinking age, right, you don't see kids going 669 00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:57,720 Speaker 1: crazy here. When kids get to a drinking age or 670 00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,080 Speaker 1: they get to alcohol, they go crazy with it. I 671 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 1: think it's the same thing with sugar. I think if 672 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 1: you grow up and you're like your parents are like 673 00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,280 Speaker 1: no sugar, no this, no this, at some point you're 674 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 1: it is what you said earlier, Christie about you don't 675 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 1: eat all day and then you eat four bagels. It's like, 676 00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:12,680 Speaker 1: there's so what we do is we you know, we 677 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:14,799 Speaker 1: give them sugar and we and we let them have 678 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 1: treats and stuff like that. But we also talked to 679 00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:21,840 Speaker 1: them about about eating healthy, not overdoing stuff. And something 680 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:23,719 Speaker 1: that stuck with me was one time, I think it 681 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,719 Speaker 1: was my son was in pre school and we went 682 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,440 Speaker 1: in for like a little um you know, you know, 683 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 1: talk to the teachers, see how everything is going. It's up, 684 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,360 Speaker 1: and they said one of the things he mentioned was 685 00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,840 Speaker 1: that he mentioned, uh, you know, important things. Is that 686 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:37,520 Speaker 1: this is not something I ever told him, but this 687 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,480 Speaker 1: is something that he had seen. They're like, oh that 688 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,719 Speaker 1: um he said that, you know, daddy likes to work 689 00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:44,439 Speaker 1: out and Daddy likes to eat you know, healthy inness. 690 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:46,359 Speaker 1: So it was nothing I ever told him, but it's 691 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,440 Speaker 1: close to what you were saying the scale about this 692 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,400 Speaker 1: thing they see when you do so. So if I 693 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 1: was home eating potato chips all the time and just like, 694 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 1: don't you know, eat healthy, then he'd be like, oh, 695 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:57,480 Speaker 1: and it's what you said, Brookes. They learned from seeing you. 696 00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:59,879 Speaker 1: It's that old commercial. Do you remember when when rick 697 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,560 Speaker 1: I were young, there was a commercial that was like 698 00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:07,160 Speaker 1: the kid with pot and he's like, he's like, where 699 00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:08,480 Speaker 1: did you learn this? He goes, I learned it from 700 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:10,799 Speaker 1: you Dad. It's like that was not commercial and it's 701 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 1: like that was that was about marijuana stuff like that. 702 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 1: But that's the same thing with food. I have a question, Christie, 703 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,320 Speaker 1: how much of a role does does portion control play 704 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 1: into all of this? So, like I love pizza, cheese, 705 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 1: I mean I pretty much eat it all. I mean 706 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,640 Speaker 1: we do try to eat healthy at home, but you 707 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:29,759 Speaker 1: know how much of that plays a role into all 708 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 1: of that is such trying to maintain a steady diet, 709 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 1: you know, not a steady diet, but like if you 710 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,840 Speaker 1: as long as you're eating the right amount of it 711 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 1: and not overloading on at all. Absolutely so when I 712 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,600 Speaker 1: go into family's home, So sometimes a family will hire 713 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:45,360 Speaker 1: me to come in, and this is the best approach 714 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 1: because let's say you have one son who is an 715 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,560 Speaker 1: athlete and can kind of get away quote unquote with 716 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:52,920 Speaker 1: anything right. They can eat an entire pizza and not 717 00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:56,280 Speaker 1: even gain announce. And then you have a daughter who, unfortunately, 718 00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 1: for whatever reason, is a little bit maybe on the 719 00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 1: chubbier side, and you can't get away with as much 720 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:03,279 Speaker 1: as the brother eats. This is a huge issue I 721 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,719 Speaker 1: find in families of like, you can have this, but 722 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,239 Speaker 1: you can't have this, and you can never ever ever 723 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:10,839 Speaker 1: do that, So it's better to come in. So they'll 724 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 1: have me come in and just explain nutrition as a whole, 725 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 1: And that's my favorite way of doing it versus just 726 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,919 Speaker 1: singling it out on one kid, like, oh no, she's 727 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,160 Speaker 1: gotta only eat like this much, but honey, you can 728 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,399 Speaker 1: eat whatever you want. So I come in and talk 729 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:25,719 Speaker 1: about nutrition as a whole with the both parents of 730 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,600 Speaker 1: like they're eating habits. What do you have in the house, Um, 731 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:30,680 Speaker 1: let's go through your pantry. What are some you know, 732 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 1: better choices that you guys can have in the house 733 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:36,080 Speaker 1: for snacks, And then we'll talk about the difference, because 734 00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,320 Speaker 1: it's a real thing. I mean, you do have let's say, 735 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:40,839 Speaker 1: a growing kid who's a fourteen year old boy who's 736 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,400 Speaker 1: super superactive and like four different sports, and the girls 737 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,760 Speaker 1: just in dance and she doesn't maybe as not as active, 738 00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:47,960 Speaker 1: and she is having a little bit of problems with 739 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,680 Speaker 1: her weight. So I'll address that, but it's coming from 740 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:54,359 Speaker 1: me versus the mom sitting there and saying something like that. 741 00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,399 Speaker 1: So it's better in that type of setting. And then 742 00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 1: I talk about not to eat until they're fool. Do 743 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:02,520 Speaker 1: you remember as a kid, I mean, I grew up 744 00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:04,799 Speaker 1: in the Midwest and North Dakota, and this is like 745 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:14,239 Speaker 1: I thought it was until you're hungry, But Basically, what 746 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 1: that means is how many times have you told your 747 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:18,880 Speaker 1: kid you're not getting off, you know, you're not getting 748 00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:22,560 Speaker 1: up from this table. And I've I've never done that. 749 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,360 Speaker 1: I've always said eat until you know when you're satisfied, 750 00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,279 Speaker 1: don't you know. But then the problem was one of 751 00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:28,960 Speaker 1: my kids came home from school one time and they 752 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,839 Speaker 1: were like, the teacher keeps saying clean container arranger, which 753 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 1: means if they didn't finish what was in their thing. 754 00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:37,040 Speaker 1: So I'm like, no, no, no, you eat when when 755 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:38,799 Speaker 1: you don't want, when you're done and you feel like 756 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:40,920 Speaker 1: you've had enough, I don't care if you come home 757 00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 1: with a dirty container. I don't care. I'll talk to 758 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,680 Speaker 1: the teacher. That is such, I mean applied to you. 759 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:51,839 Speaker 1: That is the year. Seriously, that's the best thing I've heard. 760 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:54,919 Speaker 1: That's awesome. But going back to what you had said 761 00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,080 Speaker 1: about portion control, because I think this is a really 762 00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:00,319 Speaker 1: hot topic for a lot of parents. Um I have 763 00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:05,320 Speaker 1: made I've made these rules called Christie's Rules, and every everybody, 764 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:07,120 Speaker 1: the mom and the dad. I'll even tell the kids, like, 765 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:08,800 Speaker 1: you know what, if you see dad going in the 766 00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:10,920 Speaker 1: kitchen and standing up and eating in the kitchen, you 767 00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,040 Speaker 1: tell them, like, hey, dad, you're breaking rule number three 768 00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:15,960 Speaker 1: that everybody feels like they're involved in it, Like it's 769 00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:18,439 Speaker 1: a wellness for the family, not for just a particular kid, 770 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,600 Speaker 1: which is like no standing and eating, no eating out 771 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:25,719 Speaker 1: of boxes, bags, containers, are joy and eating what's going 772 00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,359 Speaker 1: on around here? So you want to teach kids just 773 00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:31,400 Speaker 1: like not finishing their plate, listening to their body, and 774 00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:35,120 Speaker 1: start to be mindful. Kids are so into their phones 775 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,879 Speaker 1: and laptops and iPads that they're so disconnected all the time. 776 00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,959 Speaker 1: So the most important thing is to first establish where 777 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:44,439 Speaker 1: do you eat food in your house? Like most kids 778 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,719 Speaker 1: will eat their dinner on the couch, So you want 779 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:50,719 Speaker 1: to establish eating dinner at the table. So when they 780 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,719 Speaker 1: get home from school, three o'clock whatever, they're starving, they 781 00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,400 Speaker 1: go into the kitchen and they just start opening up 782 00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 1: the refrigerator and they start eating like leftover turkey. Let's 783 00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:03,640 Speaker 1: say it's completely mindless, right, they have no idea how 784 00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:09,040 Speaker 1: much they're eating when to stop ter No, But again 785 00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:12,719 Speaker 1: it's that it's the behavior. It's totally the behavior. So 786 00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:16,120 Speaker 1: when they're physically hungry, I'm like, great, put together a snack, 787 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:19,200 Speaker 1: go sit down at the table. Eat your snack, not 788 00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,560 Speaker 1: while you're playing iPad and phone and everything else. Try 789 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,600 Speaker 1: to eat your snack and then go do something else. 790 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:29,440 Speaker 1: And so these rules are designed to bring mindfulness into play. So, 791 00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:33,000 Speaker 1: just like you were saying portion sizes, it's listening to 792 00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,680 Speaker 1: their body. If they're just scarfing down their food while 793 00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:38,399 Speaker 1: they're working on a report for school, they have no 794 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,680 Speaker 1: idea when to stop. They're gonna stop when the food 795 00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:42,960 Speaker 1: is gone. Then like a half hour later, they're like, 796 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:44,799 Speaker 1: why am I so tired? Why is my tummy hurt? 797 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:47,560 Speaker 1: What's going on? It's because you're not connected. So if 798 00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:51,120 Speaker 1: you're to eat slowly, your body naturally will tell you 799 00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:52,839 Speaker 1: when you've had enough food. So you can eat things 800 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:56,040 Speaker 1: like pizza or things that are highing calories, but your 801 00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,560 Speaker 1: body will tell you when to stop. It doesn't always 802 00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 1: have to be salmon and broccoli and brown rice, right, 803 00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:02,880 Speaker 1: because that's no kids going to live on that forever. 804 00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,120 Speaker 1: But teach them how much to have so that when 805 00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:09,000 Speaker 1: they're done eating, they feel good and energized, not that 806 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:12,520 Speaker 1: they feel way down and tired. My sister, I faced 807 00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,680 Speaker 1: you guys, we talked about this. I love FaceTime, right, 808 00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,279 Speaker 1: we talked about this I FaceTime my sister one time. 809 00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,200 Speaker 1: I was like, Joe, do you look amazing? Like you 810 00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:22,239 Speaker 1: look exceptional? What have you been doing? She goes, I've 811 00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 1: just been living the way I normally live active, the 812 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,400 Speaker 1: same way. I just changed my portion control. And she 813 00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:31,480 Speaker 1: lost twenty two pounds on portion control. So she didn't. 814 00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:33,279 Speaker 1: They didn't. It's not like she cut out carbs or 815 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:37,920 Speaker 1: potatoes or like what anything. She just reined in consistently 816 00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:43,000 Speaker 1: her portion control and lost twenty two pounds and looked amazing. 817 00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:47,759 Speaker 1: Portion controls. That's that's my favorite. If there was a 818 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:49,960 Speaker 1: diet out there, because I don't really believe in diets 819 00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:53,720 Speaker 1: at all, there was one. It's all about portion control. 820 00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,839 Speaker 1: It's listening to your body, having a plan. You don't 821 00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:58,719 Speaker 1: leave the house, you know, just like you would as 822 00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:00,640 Speaker 1: a as a parent, you would never go to the 823 00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:02,960 Speaker 1: park and not bring snacks or water for them ever, 824 00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:05,120 Speaker 1: But for yourself, you go out for the entire day 825 00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:06,719 Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, yeah, I'm just gonna like wing it. 826 00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:09,880 Speaker 1: I'll just whatever pick up something. Well, guess what's convenient 827 00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,719 Speaker 1: fast food? Right? So when you eat, let's say if 828 00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:16,959 Speaker 1: I made a big platter of delicious chocolate brownies. Okay, 829 00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:18,719 Speaker 1: and I brought them in here and they were warm 830 00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:22,000 Speaker 1: from the ovens, the best brownies you've ever had. Okay, 831 00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,560 Speaker 1: and you took one, which should really be enough. Let's 832 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:27,960 Speaker 1: say they are pretty decent sized brownies. Okay, one should 833 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,239 Speaker 1: be good, but the remnants of brownie is still in 834 00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,640 Speaker 1: your mouth. So all that tells your mouth to do 835 00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:37,000 Speaker 1: is continue to have that incredible experience and taste. But 836 00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:40,560 Speaker 1: if you had one brownie and I gave you two 837 00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:45,680 Speaker 1: cinnamon eltoids after or a listening. I have some clients 838 00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:49,600 Speaker 1: who use listerine strips. Is the Listerine cool mint spray. 839 00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:52,120 Speaker 1: I carry this everywhere. Okay, that's amazing if they want 840 00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:59,839 Speaker 1: a sponsor. But that's a great thing to carry around 841 00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:04,560 Speaker 1: because nothing will taste very good after that, would you agree? Nothing. 842 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:09,160 Speaker 1: I brush my teeth every time after I eat immediately 843 00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:13,680 Speaker 1: because it stops me from eating again. Yeah, exactly. If 844 00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:18,239 Speaker 1: you're at home, yes, something that interrupts that taste, then 845 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,279 Speaker 1: you can do it. So it's such a good trick. 846 00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:21,799 Speaker 1: Like if you're going to a restaurant where they just 847 00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,399 Speaker 1: have big portions. I mean, first I always tell people 848 00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,399 Speaker 1: never go to ever out to eat hungry. Right, most 849 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,920 Speaker 1: people save their appetite. That's such a that's such a 850 00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:31,839 Speaker 1: I don't know a thing that people do too. They 851 00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,200 Speaker 1: won't eat hardly all day because they're going to go 852 00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:36,920 Speaker 1: out for the steak dinner. Like, that's the worst idea 853 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:43,840 Speaker 1: ever that, Right, the bread basket comes and you devour 854 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:48,480 Speaker 1: the entire bread basket and it's a disaster. So that's 855 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:52,680 Speaker 1: the whole plan, is to eat slowly when you're not starving, 856 00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:55,120 Speaker 1: and then when you know you've had enough and you 857 00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:57,200 Speaker 1: feel good, but you still want to eat more because 858 00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:00,719 Speaker 1: it tastes good. Then there's that choice they have to make. 859 00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:04,200 Speaker 1: And that's where the listerine, whether it's spray or strip 860 00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,080 Speaker 1: or a couple of altoids or a piece of gum 861 00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:10,360 Speaker 1: or something will help. I see, I disagree with this. Okay, 862 00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:13,080 Speaker 1: let me tell you why you go out to dinner. Right, 863 00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:16,319 Speaker 1: Do you have a nice steak and you eat all 864 00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 1: kinds of things that you should not have if you 865 00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:23,000 Speaker 1: want to go to the beach with your shirt off, 866 00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:25,680 Speaker 1: and you try to do this as often as you 867 00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:30,120 Speaker 1: can because it's delicious. Um, I feel like when you 868 00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:33,560 Speaker 1: have a great meal and it tastes so good, Let's 869 00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:35,160 Speaker 1: say you go out to a great place. You spend 870 00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:37,440 Speaker 1: a hundred bucks on your on your meal or a 871 00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:41,880 Speaker 1: hundred fifty bucks two of your bugs, the nice drinks, 872 00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:48,279 Speaker 1: some delicious dessert, eat all the animals, and then you 873 00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:51,239 Speaker 1: know when you're done, after you spend all that dough 874 00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:55,040 Speaker 1: on yourself, you know, because you deserve it or you don't, 875 00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:57,759 Speaker 1: but you had the night off. Last thing I want 876 00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 1: to do is put a five cents a gum in 877 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:05,279 Speaker 1: my mouth and forget about the experience. I mean, I 878 00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:09,200 Speaker 1: want to savor that a restaurant. You're not probably ordering 879 00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:12,399 Speaker 1: another steak like your steak has done you right? And 880 00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:15,600 Speaker 1: you know, but don't you get what people go on 881 00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:16,879 Speaker 1: that note? I know we have to take a break, 882 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:19,120 Speaker 1: but can I just point out has anybody noticed whenever 883 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:22,759 Speaker 1: Gavin talks about steak, he gets really like romantic. He goes, 884 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:28,600 Speaker 1: you know, you have a nice steak. The best part 885 00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:31,240 Speaker 1: is the best part is he spent a hundred hundred 886 00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:40,560 Speaker 1: fifty bucks on yourself. Right, But there's no there's no date, 887 00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:45,880 Speaker 1: the most himself with the steak. Take a table for one, dude, 888 00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:50,799 Speaker 1: here's the spot you got that's right, that's right, you 889 00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:56,120 Speaker 1: have really earned it, beautiful, you practice self right in 890 00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,319 Speaker 1: front of the mirror at the bar of the restaurant. 891 00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,640 Speaker 1: I'm kidding so, but like last night, I went to 892 00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:03,879 Speaker 1: like one of my favorite places. I'm sitting at the bar. 893 00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:05,960 Speaker 1: I see the guys who worked there, a people who 894 00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,440 Speaker 1: always eat there. It's always the same scene. You know, 895 00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:11,000 Speaker 1: it's like a real cascid characters to this place. You know, 896 00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:14,520 Speaker 1: every time I come to down in the same place, right, Like, 897 00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,520 Speaker 1: I want to sit down there on a great meal. 898 00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:19,319 Speaker 1: I want to hysterical conversations with these people because they're 899 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,360 Speaker 1: all funny and we're all just kind of doing the 900 00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:26,200 Speaker 1: every doing the same thing, which is everything you know, 901 00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:29,080 Speaker 1: and that's uh, that's how we do it, you know 902 00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,840 Speaker 1: what I mean. But I do understand we're talking about nutrition. 903 00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,480 Speaker 1: A second, I want to say I've been in there 904 00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:40,440 Speaker 1: for a little while. I do apologize, but it's totally normal. 905 00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:43,520 Speaker 1: I would never say that every single time you have 906 00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:46,359 Speaker 1: to eat exactly until you're satisfied. There are times where 907 00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:48,920 Speaker 1: you're like, look, this is a delicious meal. We're traveling 908 00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:50,920 Speaker 1: or we're going to this restaurant, and this is the 909 00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:52,879 Speaker 1: time where I'm just gonna be you know, I'm gonna 910 00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,240 Speaker 1: eat a little bit more. It's gonna be fine. Whatever, 911 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,319 Speaker 1: it's okay, because otherwise you're teaching them that it's never 912 00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:01,080 Speaker 1: okay to overeat and Thanksgiving you should be able to 913 00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,879 Speaker 1: stop exactly where you should and feel satisfied all the time. 914 00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:06,200 Speaker 1: Like I'm always like, you know what, it is delicious, 915 00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 1: have another piece, but you're just not gonna have four 916 00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,879 Speaker 1: or five or six other pieces and then feel really 917 00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:11,680 Speaker 1: miserable and set. You get a little bit of room 918 00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:13,960 Speaker 1: left in your sophagus, You're like, I think I might 919 00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:17,040 Speaker 1: be a little yeah, I mean that experience you just 920 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,359 Speaker 1: share it sounds like it's a lovely evening. I don't 921 00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 1: want to destroy it by putting, you know, an eltoid 922 00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:23,520 Speaker 1: in your mouth. At the end, you might want to 923 00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:30,439 Speaker 1: just finish it off. You will be healthier, your mind 924 00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,560 Speaker 1: will be healthier if you can't live a little enjoy that, 925 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,759 Speaker 1: enjoy that Martinier whatever that is, and then the next 926 00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:38,839 Speaker 1: day you're going to get back on whatever schedule, feel 927 00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:42,880 Speaker 1: good about yourself. Well agreed, agreed, balance, well said, balance, 928 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,000 Speaker 1: that's the main that's the main case. I'm going to 929 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:46,920 Speaker 1: pick your brain after this break, because I got a 930 00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:52,400 Speaker 1: thousand more questions. So we asked you about what most 931 00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:55,839 Speaker 1: men come for to you four. But now for our 932 00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:58,719 Speaker 1: women listening, what's the number one issue that women come 933 00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:01,200 Speaker 1: to or approach you about her seek your consultation for. 934 00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:05,800 Speaker 1: So most women definitely are wrapped up in their body 935 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,480 Speaker 1: for sure, with body image, feeling like they need to 936 00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:12,280 Speaker 1: look more tone They their stomach needs to be, you know, flatter, 937 00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:16,560 Speaker 1: they need to have more toned arms. I think women, again, 938 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:20,839 Speaker 1: whether it's because of social media or just um their 939 00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:24,359 Speaker 1: own insecurities as you get older, I think they are 940 00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,080 Speaker 1: sort of chasing that younger body and wanting to know 941 00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:28,879 Speaker 1: what can I do? How can I eat? How can 942 00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:32,000 Speaker 1: I exercise in a way that keeps myself still looking 943 00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:35,600 Speaker 1: young and desirable. So I would say I would see 944 00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:41,359 Speaker 1: most women for that for sure. Yeah, I would say, 945 00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:43,719 Speaker 1: I'm not afraid to say it. It's like there's this 946 00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:45,880 Speaker 1: little thing on my stomach that did not used to 947 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:48,439 Speaker 1: be there, and I'm like, what the F is that? 948 00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:52,319 Speaker 1: And I will get rid of it. It motivates me 949 00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:55,799 Speaker 1: to get rid of it. But I hate it. I 950 00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,880 Speaker 1: hate it. Like I look in the mirror sometimes and 951 00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:01,480 Speaker 1: I go, okay, fine, fine, I'm just ask it. I'm 952 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,239 Speaker 1: gonna I won't cry, but I want to cry. I 953 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:09,239 Speaker 1: can't cry. I don't want to watch you crap? Do 954 00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:14,040 Speaker 1: you guys? I think it looks as yucky as I 955 00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:17,000 Speaker 1: think it looks like. And I know you're not talking 956 00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:20,279 Speaker 1: about me because I'm not. No, tell you why. The 957 00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:23,200 Speaker 1: answer is no. Because everyone is their own worst critics, 958 00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:26,319 Speaker 1: absolutely period. You know what I mean? The same way 959 00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:27,920 Speaker 1: I go back. If I listen to a record, I 960 00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,719 Speaker 1: cut and I'm just like, oh man, I got to 961 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,040 Speaker 1: fix this thing. You know. If I'm working on something 962 00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:36,000 Speaker 1: in the studio, I mean, I will obsess, you know 963 00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:37,719 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'll just talk about it from from 964 00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,480 Speaker 1: an artistic standpoint, you know, I'll get I'll get notes, 965 00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,400 Speaker 1: I'll have exchanges with the producers that they're like, I 966 00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:45,319 Speaker 1: don't hear anything wrong, But what do you mean you 967 00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,239 Speaker 1: don't hear that? Are you kidding me? It's irritating me, 968 00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:49,840 Speaker 1: like crazy, you gotta be you must be deaf you 969 00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:51,520 Speaker 1: don't hear that, you know what I mean? I think 970 00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:53,960 Speaker 1: we all kind of have that about ourselves in general. 971 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:57,840 Speaker 1: We are our own worst critics in every capacity. But 972 00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:01,440 Speaker 1: I think the self self criticism is healthy for you, 973 00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:05,920 Speaker 1: you know if you don't. This is another hot topic 974 00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:09,680 Speaker 1: for sure, is negative self talk. I think in our kids, 975 00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:13,080 Speaker 1: in everybody, even men and women that I see, they are, 976 00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:16,080 Speaker 1: like you said, their worst critic. But again there's a 977 00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:21,760 Speaker 1: level of motivation or the fact that it completely makes 978 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:23,839 Speaker 1: the ruins their day. Like I have some kids who 979 00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:27,840 Speaker 1: won't go to a pool party because they feel so 980 00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,440 Speaker 1: horrible and ugly in their swimsuit that they will not 981 00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:32,560 Speaker 1: go and it takes them away from their life. So 982 00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:36,560 Speaker 1: why do they feel horrible and ugly? They because there's 983 00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:38,480 Speaker 1: no it's never like we never had a time when 984 00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:41,040 Speaker 1: everybody was in great shape. They feel horrible and ugly. 985 00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:43,680 Speaker 1: Not because they feel that way, because it's it's what 986 00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:46,360 Speaker 1: they've learned, what they see and what they're told by, 987 00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:49,279 Speaker 1: whether it be social media whatever. Everyone you know, and 988 00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:53,560 Speaker 1: you have, unfortunately have these these people that are their influencers, 989 00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 1: and you have these people that are celebrities, and and 990 00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:59,040 Speaker 1: they get they cheat stuff. They cheat stuff with plastic surgery, 991 00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:01,880 Speaker 1: they cheat stuff with where they can concert themselves and 992 00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:03,359 Speaker 1: then they go up and anyone's like, oh my god, 993 00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:04,839 Speaker 1: this is perfect. That's why a lot of a lot 994 00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,120 Speaker 1: of times celebrities will do that, no make up there 995 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:08,840 Speaker 1: or whatever, and I think that's a nice thing to do. 996 00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,840 Speaker 1: But these kids don't feel fat because they feel fat 997 00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:16,040 Speaker 1: because there's always been pudgy kids. They feel that way 998 00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:18,719 Speaker 1: because as a society, this is where we've turned things, 999 00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:21,680 Speaker 1: is that oh, if you're not perfect, then you're I 1000 00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:24,440 Speaker 1: couldn't agree more and that it's it's so sad. It 1001 00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:27,040 Speaker 1: really does break my heart. I mean, coming living in 1002 00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:29,279 Speaker 1: a small, you know, state of North Dakota, we used 1003 00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,320 Speaker 1: to go to pool parties and just put on swimsuits. 1004 00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:34,280 Speaker 1: I don't I don't remember thinking about, oh my gosh, 1005 00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:36,600 Speaker 1: at like twelve or thirteen, how am I going to 1006 00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:38,560 Speaker 1: look in the swimsuit and whatever. I mean, there wasn't 1007 00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:40,080 Speaker 1: even that thought. It was like, I can't wait to 1008 00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:42,040 Speaker 1: go have fun and hang out with my friends. Now 1009 00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:44,160 Speaker 1: there's this level of well, I don't know, should I 1010 00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:46,360 Speaker 1: wear a bikini or one piece, or like it is 1011 00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:48,440 Speaker 1: my stomach flat today? Or do I wear a cover up? 1012 00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:52,000 Speaker 1: It's it's a serious issue, and so I think that 1013 00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:55,400 Speaker 1: the negative self talk is just it. It really is destructive, 1014 00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:58,440 Speaker 1: and I don't think they understand how destructive it can 1015 00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:00,879 Speaker 1: be so just like what you're saying, Amy, it's fine 1016 00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:02,080 Speaker 1: to like look in the mirror and be like, oh, 1017 00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:04,319 Speaker 1: that that part of my body that I really don't like. 1018 00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:06,400 Speaker 1: I'm going to do things that I can work on 1019 00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,480 Speaker 1: it instead of I hate myself today. I'm not gonna, 1020 00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:12,640 Speaker 1: you know, go do something because I don't feel secure enough, 1021 00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:16,160 Speaker 1: and you know, going out and doing things because of 1022 00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,880 Speaker 1: my stomach, those kinds of things. So I think that's 1023 00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:22,920 Speaker 1: where it becomes can be very destructive when you start 1024 00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:26,879 Speaker 1: limiting things that you would rather do um or not 1025 00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,080 Speaker 1: do because of the way you look, and that makes 1026 00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:33,080 Speaker 1: me sad. It's also a really like interesting if you 1027 00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:36,040 Speaker 1: look at that. If somebody is self conscious about an 1028 00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:42,520 Speaker 1: area of their body, it's a selfish thing because they're 1029 00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:47,399 Speaker 1: assuming that everybody else is looking at them, is paying 1030 00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:50,000 Speaker 1: attention to that one thing. It's a selfish behavior and 1031 00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:52,640 Speaker 1: in reality, probably nobody in the room even has a 1032 00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:55,400 Speaker 1: clue about it. So, I mean, you can't see the 1033 00:51:55,440 --> 00:52:00,040 Speaker 1: three roles on my neck, right, cannot I find it? 1034 00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:04,359 Speaker 1: I got it. But but but to your like, if 1035 00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:07,120 Speaker 1: you would have never said that when we met or 1036 00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:09,279 Speaker 1: in the first couple of podcasts, I never would have 1037 00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,560 Speaker 1: noticed it, you know. So I think we we bring 1038 00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:15,040 Speaker 1: a lot of this on ourselves by thinking that our 1039 00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:17,040 Speaker 1: problem is the biggest problem in the world, and it's 1040 00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,439 Speaker 1: a selfish act. I couldn't agree with you more because 1041 00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:22,560 Speaker 1: I didn't notice that about you at all. I noticed 1042 00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:24,160 Speaker 1: all the other problems when I would look at you, 1043 00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:29,960 Speaker 1: Amy don't do well, No, I I do have to. 1044 00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:35,839 Speaker 1: I will say, like Mr Perfect, because you ever made 1045 00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:39,280 Speaker 1: a mistake, dumb and dumber, I will say, getting older, 1046 00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:42,920 Speaker 1: being forty five, like it. My body has changed, you know. 1047 00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:45,480 Speaker 1: And and it's easy to say, oh, I don't have 1048 00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:47,600 Speaker 1: enough time in the day because of work or because 1049 00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:50,520 Speaker 1: of my kids or whatever. I quite honestly to your like, 1050 00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:53,680 Speaker 1: that is selfishness, you know, And like I could dedicate 1051 00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:56,200 Speaker 1: a certain number of times or hours during the day 1052 00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:58,520 Speaker 1: to work out. It's just and I feel like I'm 1053 00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:02,319 Speaker 1: I'm reaching back to I feel ashamed or bad about 1054 00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:04,600 Speaker 1: myself or how I look because I feel like I'm 1055 00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:06,920 Speaker 1: trying to get back to when I was eighteen or 1056 00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:09,200 Speaker 1: twenty one and I was working out eight hours a 1057 00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:11,799 Speaker 1: day for water polo or whatever, and I felt at 1058 00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:14,200 Speaker 1: that point so good and I could eat fifty burritos 1059 00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:18,120 Speaker 1: in a row and not getting a pound. You went 1060 00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:21,959 Speaker 1: in the pool after eating, told you told me a liquor. 1061 00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:31,360 Speaker 1: I used to sorry. No, I talked about athletes, pharma, 1062 00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:35,560 Speaker 1: nutrition and athletes story. This will is going nowhere, but 1063 00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:38,520 Speaker 1: it was had to do with heartburn, if I recall 1064 00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:40,560 Speaker 1: correctly bringing this up when we first talked in the 1065 00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:44,439 Speaker 1: studio and I was saying people were commenting about harbor, 1066 00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:45,839 Speaker 1: and I said, well, I used to get harbord all 1067 00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:48,279 Speaker 1: the time when I was working out in college, and 1068 00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:50,400 Speaker 1: I doubted how to do anything with the beer or 1069 00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:52,880 Speaker 1: the marijuana or all the burritos that I was ingesting 1070 00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:57,440 Speaker 1: at the time. But I do recall that I would 1071 00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:03,600 Speaker 1: eat a huge amount of licorice and starbursts and candy 1072 00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:05,960 Speaker 1: right before I would walk in on the pool deck, 1073 00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:08,440 Speaker 1: and then I would go work out for three hours, 1074 00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:11,279 Speaker 1: and about halfway through practice, I would just get this 1075 00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:15,640 Speaker 1: raging hertburn and no idea where it came from. I 1076 00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:17,840 Speaker 1: could not figure it out. You up in the pool 1077 00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:20,440 Speaker 1: right and then I was swimming and I'd have to 1078 00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:23,280 Speaker 1: stop because it was so bad. My water was literally 1079 00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:28,080 Speaker 1: like my glands were just spewing out like whatever saliva 1080 00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:30,000 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, I just started barfing 1081 00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:33,480 Speaker 1: in the side side of the pool. It's just already 1082 00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:37,719 Speaker 1: and then you're just vomiting twizzlers into the thing the 1083 00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:40,520 Speaker 1: side of the pool and turn and say, oh God, 1084 00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:45,360 Speaker 1: I don't know what's wrong with me. Something we hadn't 1085 00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:49,520 Speaker 1: know what I ate. Let's ask the certified dietitians. We 1086 00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:54,839 Speaker 1: would have performance athletes what she thinks. By the way 1087 00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:01,319 Speaker 1: he was following your program, it is so funny. That's 1088 00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:06,279 Speaker 1: like the worst thing you can do into your body. Yeah, 1089 00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:09,279 Speaker 1: I see, it worked really well for you for about 1090 00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:11,839 Speaker 1: the first hour and a half. First and half you're 1091 00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:15,960 Speaker 1: fed on sugar. Can picture a rick up on our 1092 00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:20,640 Speaker 1: Instagram so people can see how But no, I feel 1093 00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:22,600 Speaker 1: like they're at a certain point. I'm trying to get 1094 00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:25,440 Speaker 1: back to think just mentally, I mean physically, I'm not 1095 00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:27,839 Speaker 1: trying to, but I'm trying to get back to where 1096 00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:29,640 Speaker 1: I was when I was twenty three or twenty four 1097 00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:31,600 Speaker 1: or even two years ago. I was training really hard 1098 00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:34,560 Speaker 1: for a water pole tournament and I was going like 1099 00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:37,680 Speaker 1: double days for you know, which compared to Brooks was 1100 00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:41,560 Speaker 1: only two hours a day to his eight. But um, 1101 00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:45,400 Speaker 1: it was it was it felt so good and I 1102 00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,279 Speaker 1: felt so in shape, and I was swimming and doing 1103 00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:51,279 Speaker 1: weights and and now I've just I feel like, I'm 1104 00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:54,839 Speaker 1: just what was the main factor that steered you from 1105 00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:58,440 Speaker 1: your old program? Uh? Well, the tournament ended and then 1106 00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:06,120 Speaker 1: it was party the other subjects. So I think that's 1107 00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:08,480 Speaker 1: a big issue for the older people that I've seen 1108 00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:10,480 Speaker 1: my practice. I mean, I'm forty two. I agree with you, 1109 00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:13,239 Speaker 1: and your body changes over time, and I think with 1110 00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:15,960 Speaker 1: older clients I try to remind them, look, you're you 1111 00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:18,920 Speaker 1: can't go back to being eighteen and twenty two years 1112 00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:21,840 Speaker 1: old again, like that part of your life. I'm sorry, 1113 00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:26,080 Speaker 1: but right, it's just call it like it is. But 1114 00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:29,400 Speaker 1: you can have a new body and still be in 1115 00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:32,319 Speaker 1: shape and feel great and you know, do the kinds 1116 00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:34,520 Speaker 1: of things that make you feel good and confident. But 1117 00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:36,759 Speaker 1: if you're trying to chase that eighteen year old like 1118 00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,840 Speaker 1: come on, like and the problem again, Like living in 1119 00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:42,840 Speaker 1: l A, there's so many people who have nips and 1120 00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:47,279 Speaker 1: tucks and surgeries and everything else looking absolutely incredible, thinking 1121 00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:50,320 Speaker 1: that they're just doing it by diet and exercise. Some 1122 00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:55,560 Speaker 1: maybe are, but majority have gotten some serious like surgeries 1123 00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:58,480 Speaker 1: done so it's hard to live up to. And I 1124 00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:00,719 Speaker 1: feel like, you know, not that I would ever go 1125 00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:02,600 Speaker 1: down that road, but I feel like, you know, it's 1126 00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:05,680 Speaker 1: like until I put in a serious effort, you know, 1127 00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:08,840 Speaker 1: to maybe maybe it is eight hours a day or 1128 00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:10,680 Speaker 1: six hours or whatever it is. No, it doesn't need 1129 00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:12,560 Speaker 1: to be that much, man. But I think I think 1130 00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:14,840 Speaker 1: it's like how you get to a point where you 1131 00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:17,840 Speaker 1: feel good about yourself. Absolutely. So I have a question 1132 00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:20,320 Speaker 1: for Rick and Brooks. Rick, if you're supposed to swim 1133 00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:25,800 Speaker 1: across Lake Tahoe, don't you have to start training for that? Oh? Yeah, 1134 00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:31,840 Speaker 1: I'm starting. Wait, it's a Tahoe swim relay with six 1135 00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:37,400 Speaker 1: other people and you swim Twizzlers. I think it was 1136 00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:41,640 Speaker 1: red Vines. Red Vines came in with a better deal, buddy, 1137 00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:43,320 Speaker 1: what is this? Tell me about this? Yeah? No, So 1138 00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:47,440 Speaker 1: it's a trans Tahoe relay and basically you swim across 1139 00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:51,520 Speaker 1: the Lake Tahoe and there's six people in your boat. 1140 00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:54,440 Speaker 1: It's could be co ed, male, female, whatever, And so 1141 00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:56,680 Speaker 1: it's a relay race. So you have a starter and 1142 00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:58,600 Speaker 1: you swim for half an hour and then you tag 1143 00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:00,400 Speaker 1: that person or jump in the water. Then X person 1144 00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,400 Speaker 1: goes for half hour and then you shorten it every 1145 00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:06,320 Speaker 1: fifteen minutes. The water is freezing. Oh damn. I think 1146 00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:08,800 Speaker 1: it's snowed up there last year, but a couple of 1147 00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:14,280 Speaker 1: days ago. Um. But you basically relay all the way 1148 00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:17,240 Speaker 1: until you finish, and uh, it's a great race. I 1149 00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:25,760 Speaker 1: mean it's you. It's July yet training, so there's no 1150 00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:28,640 Speaker 1: wet suit of no wetsuit allowed. You gonna rock the 1151 00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:30,640 Speaker 1: speed up only of course are going to be able 1152 00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:33,600 Speaker 1: to um. So yeah, it's I've done it three other times. 1153 00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:35,760 Speaker 1: It's it's excellent. You get a nice sunny day, you're 1154 00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,320 Speaker 1: out on a boat with you know, six or eight 1155 00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:39,520 Speaker 1: of your good friends, and you're you're getting some great 1156 00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:42,640 Speaker 1: exercise in and high altitude. There's no I mean the 1157 00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:44,600 Speaker 1: water is fresh, so it's it's a little bit harder 1158 00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:47,880 Speaker 1: to swim in. You do that sober? Yeah? I do. Yeah. 1159 00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:51,440 Speaker 1: Do you want us afterwards draining talk? Yeah? Do you 1160 00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:53,600 Speaker 1: want us out there for support like shouting from the 1161 00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:57,720 Speaker 1: sideline from the Yeah, but we're coming. I want to 1162 00:58:57,760 --> 00:58:59,760 Speaker 1: follow that up. So he's talked about this is what 1163 00:58:59,840 --> 00:59:01,720 Speaker 1: I want to get to, which is what Rick is 1164 00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:05,480 Speaker 1: talking about. It is about performance nutrition, because there's nutrition, 1165 00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:08,680 Speaker 1: there's everyday nutrition. Let's be healthy nutrition. But then a 1166 00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:12,240 Speaker 1: lot of our listeners of this show are achievers, are 1167 00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:15,280 Speaker 1: performers that want high level, the best of the best. 1168 00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:17,520 Speaker 1: They want to elevate, succeed, and they want to do 1169 00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:21,400 Speaker 1: amazing things with their life. And I want and for me, 1170 00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:23,800 Speaker 1: nutrition has been a big part of my life and 1171 00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:26,400 Speaker 1: it's helped me succeed and elevate. I want to get 1172 00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:29,720 Speaker 1: into performance nutrition for myself. Also because my wife, who 1173 00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:32,440 Speaker 1: eats very healthy, last night she threw up after we 1174 00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:35,440 Speaker 1: went out for a meal. What did she go from 1175 00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:38,960 Speaker 1: super clean to something not clean at all? It was well, 1176 00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,440 Speaker 1: it was just it was no. It wasn't an extreme no. 1177 00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:44,640 Speaker 1: But but she more than me. She rides a roller 1178 00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:46,640 Speaker 1: coaster daily. I don't know if any of your guys's 1179 00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:48,800 Speaker 1: wives are like that, but she rides almost a roller 1180 00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:51,520 Speaker 1: coaster daily where something affects her to the point where 1181 00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:53,919 Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't watch you go through this roller 1182 00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:56,720 Speaker 1: coaster and have these It's not mood swings, it's it's 1183 00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:59,960 Speaker 1: feeling swings on how her body feels based on nutrition. 1184 01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:03,760 Speaker 1: So where can we find get some blood work down 1185 01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:05,800 Speaker 1: or something find what we should and should not say. 1186 01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:08,360 Speaker 1: I normally tell clients to ask their because they'll go 1187 01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:12,600 Speaker 1: through their insurance. UM. That's usually, but I know there 1188 01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:16,000 Speaker 1: are different places around l A that do that. I 1189 01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:18,080 Speaker 1: just can't. I don't know off the top of my head. 1190 01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:19,960 Speaker 1: But normally I'll tell client to go talk to their 1191 01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:23,200 Speaker 1: doctor and get a blood test done. A food allergy 1192 01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:26,920 Speaker 1: a full panel of every food out there, so it 1193 01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:31,280 Speaker 1: has everything from spices and um, because some people are 1194 01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:34,640 Speaker 1: highly don't even realize that garlic is actually one of 1195 01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:38,520 Speaker 1: the top ones that most people can't digest, and they've 1196 01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:43,479 Speaker 1: been garlics and everything, so exactly, so if they're getting sick. 1197 01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:46,640 Speaker 1: But here's the other problem with this test, to be honest, 1198 01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:49,280 Speaker 1: is I wouldn't go fishing for something that isn't there 1199 01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:52,640 Speaker 1: because some of these tests will come back. And I 1200 01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:54,320 Speaker 1: mean there's a lot of things that you might have 1201 01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:58,120 Speaker 1: slight allergies to. So some of the clients that come 1202 01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:00,959 Speaker 1: to me, yes, exactly. So it depends on the middle 1203 01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:03,040 Speaker 1: of the ground of like how obsessive they become. Because 1204 01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:05,000 Speaker 1: I was like, well, yeah, you have you know, a 1205 01:01:05,040 --> 01:01:07,280 Speaker 1: little bit of sensitivity to this, but you really do 1206 01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:10,280 Speaker 1: love cheese let's say and you have a little sensitivity, 1207 01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:12,600 Speaker 1: maybe don't eat it as often, but don't take it 1208 01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:14,040 Speaker 1: out because they're like, oh my god, now I can 1209 01:01:14,120 --> 01:01:15,720 Speaker 1: never reach cheese and that's one of my favorite food. 1210 01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:18,480 Speaker 1: But of course, if they are lactos and taller and 1211 01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:20,840 Speaker 1: if they have like an actual allergy to it, I 1212 01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:23,320 Speaker 1: would absolutely tell them to take it out. So I 1213 01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:25,280 Speaker 1: would talk to the doctor about getting a blood test 1214 01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:27,960 Speaker 1: done and get a full panel of blood work to 1215 01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:31,200 Speaker 1: see what exactly, and they'll give you an entire chart 1216 01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:33,600 Speaker 1: which the client will bring to me and be like, Okay, 1217 01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:36,360 Speaker 1: now design a meal plan based on all these different 1218 01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:38,920 Speaker 1: sensitivities that I have, and we'll kind of rate them 1219 01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:41,240 Speaker 1: one to ten of like what are you most sensitive to? 1220 01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:42,960 Speaker 1: Then we have to take that out? What can we 1221 01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:46,840 Speaker 1: replace with? And there's so many amazing replacements now, especially 1222 01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:49,280 Speaker 1: living in l A, we're so lucky that there's a 1223 01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:52,240 Speaker 1: lot of different foods. So that's first and foremost. It's like, 1224 01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:54,040 Speaker 1: if you really want to dial that in because you're 1225 01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:57,440 Speaker 1: having some issues, but if you don't have any issues 1226 01:01:57,480 --> 01:01:59,240 Speaker 1: at all, and you feel really good, but you just 1227 01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:02,080 Speaker 1: want to get you know, at a higher level with 1228 01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:05,479 Speaker 1: your nutrition. Then that's a different conversation. Then I would say, okay, 1229 01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:08,720 Speaker 1: let's currently look at what you're doing first and foremost 1230 01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:11,640 Speaker 1: take seven days exactly what you're eating in the times, 1231 01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:14,480 Speaker 1: Look at your sleep, look at your hydration. Sleep, by 1232 01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:17,040 Speaker 1: the way, is like the number one for me because 1233 01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:19,760 Speaker 1: that you've got to get your body on a rhythm, right, 1234 01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:22,520 Speaker 1: the Sarcadia rhythm is a real thing. You can't be 1235 01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:25,600 Speaker 1: going one one day, you're in bed by ten. The 1236 01:02:25,640 --> 01:02:27,880 Speaker 1: next day you're going to two, and then seven, and 1237 01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:30,240 Speaker 1: then you're napping for two hours because you're all over 1238 01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:32,000 Speaker 1: the place. You first have to get your body in 1239 01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:34,360 Speaker 1: some sort of a rhythm. So try to eat around 1240 01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:37,959 Speaker 1: the same times every day, try to exercise ideally around 1241 01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:40,920 Speaker 1: the same time, sleep around the same time if you can. 1242 01:02:41,040 --> 01:02:42,920 Speaker 1: And sometimes that's the impossible, and you just have to 1243 01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:44,960 Speaker 1: do the best you can. But try to get your 1244 01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:48,800 Speaker 1: body functioning that way. That's number one. And then most 1245 01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:51,400 Speaker 1: people don't drink enough water throughout the day. Now, for 1246 01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:54,040 Speaker 1: your community they're talking to, they're probably big on health 1247 01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:57,520 Speaker 1: and nutritions. They probably are and very cognizant about bringing 1248 01:02:57,520 --> 01:02:59,520 Speaker 1: a water bottle with them, But a lot of people 1249 01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:02,000 Speaker 1: ask them they'll see me at three o'clock and I'm like, a, 1250 01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:04,080 Speaker 1: how much water And they're like, I don't know, they 1251 01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:06,439 Speaker 1: have no idea. They maybe had a sip of water 1252 01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:09,800 Speaker 1: at lunch today. So those kinds of things are important. 1253 01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:13,760 Speaker 1: But talking about super foods, um, I'm a big fan 1254 01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:20,720 Speaker 1: of collagen. I think collagen powder is really definitely effective. Yeah, yeah, 1255 01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:25,840 Speaker 1: college and peptide. So there's like protein powder that. Yeah, 1256 01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:28,480 Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of Well you knew this probably 1257 01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:32,000 Speaker 1: at at the Kings, but bone broth I think is 1258 01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:34,920 Speaker 1: really effective. So there are things that are out there. 1259 01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:37,440 Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of Beat juice, huge fan of 1260 01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:43,320 Speaker 1: Beat juice, Cherry juice, Jerry juice. Right, I had one 1261 01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:45,520 Speaker 1: quick question. How much does caffeine play a role in 1262 01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:50,720 Speaker 1: all of this? Oh, that's good coffee. Yeah, I mean 1263 01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:53,120 Speaker 1: in terms of like mental clarity or just in terms 1264 01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:55,920 Speaker 1: of getting not not like the elite athletes side of it, 1265 01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:57,880 Speaker 1: just on a daily thing and how that works in 1266 01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:00,720 Speaker 1: your diet and doesn't like all really have a couple 1267 01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:03,960 Speaker 1: of cups of coffee in the morning, about three small 1268 01:04:04,080 --> 01:04:06,480 Speaker 1: cups and regular size small cups, and then I'll have 1269 01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:10,600 Speaker 1: a yogurt, like for me I have a beau. You're like, 1270 01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:12,920 Speaker 1: because you're saying, I have a have a couple of 1271 01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:16,000 Speaker 1: cups of coffee, probably three? Uh not? You know, regular cups, 1272 01:04:16,120 --> 01:04:18,720 Speaker 1: the small ones, the small regular one. You're contradicting yourself 1273 01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:30,280 Speaker 1: with everything. Are the smaller regular really having sore? Is 1274 01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:32,240 Speaker 1: it fine for you to have that much? Should you 1275 01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:35,120 Speaker 1: have more to have that much? So here's here's what 1276 01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:37,840 Speaker 1: I would say. If you need, if you need caffeine 1277 01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:40,400 Speaker 1: to get through your day. But if you if you 1278 01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:42,360 Speaker 1: have three cups of coffee, let's say, in the morning 1279 01:04:42,400 --> 01:04:44,560 Speaker 1: to start your day, and you feel fine, you're not jittery, 1280 01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:47,440 Speaker 1: you don't. And if you're drinking enough water, you're not. 1281 01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:49,360 Speaker 1: You know, you're hydrating yourself that kind of thing, and 1282 01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:52,360 Speaker 1: you're fine. There's nothing wrong with starting your day. If 1283 01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:55,080 Speaker 1: you need to have caffeine all day long to get 1284 01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:58,080 Speaker 1: through your day, then we've got another problem. So I 1285 01:04:58,120 --> 01:05:01,600 Speaker 1: would say I usually say two to three EMAX cups 1286 01:05:01,640 --> 01:05:04,320 Speaker 1: of coffee, um or if you have a cup of 1287 01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:05,800 Speaker 1: coffee in the morning and you want to latte in 1288 01:05:05,840 --> 01:05:09,040 Speaker 1: the afternoon, it's fine. But if you're needing cup after 1289 01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:11,120 Speaker 1: cup after cup through to get through your work day, 1290 01:05:11,160 --> 01:05:14,320 Speaker 1: we've got bigger issues and what is the most What's 1291 01:05:14,360 --> 01:05:17,200 Speaker 1: what's a good amount of water for the common dad 1292 01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:22,440 Speaker 1: body guy? I usually say around four leaders. So if 1293 01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:25,920 Speaker 1: you get like a leader bottle, any of those bottles, 1294 01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,560 Speaker 1: and then drinks specifically from that bottle, like fill it 1295 01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:30,720 Speaker 1: up so you can track it versus oh, I had 1296 01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:32,160 Speaker 1: a cup here and cup there, but I never really 1297 01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:35,000 Speaker 1: finished the whole cup, so it's only SIPs out of it, 1298 01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:39,640 Speaker 1: and then you have no idea challenge. My wife is 1299 01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:42,280 Speaker 1: doing this right now. She has a purple water bottle 1300 01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:45,120 Speaker 1: that's a gallon and it has little markings on. At 1301 01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:50,640 Speaker 1: seven am, nine am, keep going, it's lunchtime for six. 1302 01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:54,800 Speaker 1: Enjoy dinner pushed through till you know, bedtime, and you 1303 01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:59,480 Speaker 1: try and drink a gallon water I drink. I drink 1304 01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:02,280 Speaker 1: about six to eight of those thirty two ounds now 1305 01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:08,360 Speaker 1: geane bottles, you know every day, probably every thirty minutes. Yeah, 1306 01:06:08,440 --> 01:06:15,000 Speaker 1: there's about thirty three three minutes I have I have 1307 01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:18,400 Speaker 1: a quick um Yeavin, you might want to listen to 1308 01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:21,880 Speaker 1: this because it's about steak. Um all. I love steak. 1309 01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:23,680 Speaker 1: I love to eat it. But when I eat steak, 1310 01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:25,920 Speaker 1: I used to kind of not feel great after it. 1311 01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:28,760 Speaker 1: But when I started eating grass fed beef, I feel 1312 01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:32,000 Speaker 1: a ton better. Yeah, it's easier for your body to 1313 01:06:32,080 --> 01:06:36,080 Speaker 1: digest and break down, like as simple as that. Honestly, 1314 01:06:36,520 --> 01:06:38,520 Speaker 1: So that's so there is not something I'm imagine that 1315 01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:41,360 Speaker 1: that is. It is much better, absolutely because I will 1316 01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:43,000 Speaker 1: There were times when I would get wake up, like 1317 01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,440 Speaker 1: with like a meat hangover. But when it's if it's 1318 01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:47,200 Speaker 1: a grass fed steak or something, I wake up and 1319 01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:49,160 Speaker 1: I feel good. I think has to do with the 1320 01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:53,480 Speaker 1: one over another word for diarrhea. No, it means you 1321 01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:56,360 Speaker 1: feel like slow, like I'm like the salt and I 1322 01:06:56,440 --> 01:06:58,960 Speaker 1: feel slow, and I just feel like yeah, like my no, 1323 01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,480 Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, that's from the beat challenge. I thought. 1324 01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:04,080 Speaker 1: I thought they said that if you ate grass fed beef, 1325 01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:08,360 Speaker 1: you could basically ignore all of the negative breasts that 1326 01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:13,480 Speaker 1: beef gets grass except for the killing of animals. It's 1327 01:07:13,560 --> 01:07:19,320 Speaker 1: grass fed, it depends. I mean, it's definitely higher quality, 1328 01:07:19,360 --> 01:07:21,720 Speaker 1: there's no question. And I would much rather you eat 1329 01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:25,760 Speaker 1: high quality meats across the board, like grass fed and 1330 01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:29,880 Speaker 1: organic and bison. Bison is amazing. Bison is actually lower 1331 01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:34,520 Speaker 1: and sad, yes, but I wouldn't say that you can 1332 01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:38,400 Speaker 1: eat as much as you want and then Mr Nutrition 1333 01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:43,720 Speaker 1: Gavin could be Christie's assistant you know too, I mean 1334 01:07:43,880 --> 01:07:45,880 Speaker 1: you we could do that. Do I hear a little 1335 01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:49,640 Speaker 1: grass fed beef song on the next album? Yeah, okay 1336 01:07:50,400 --> 01:07:53,680 Speaker 1: we have Danielle has a question from a listener. Can 1337 01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:56,560 Speaker 1: you please read it? The question is from a listener 1338 01:07:56,680 --> 01:08:01,760 Speaker 1: who shall remain nameless. Um, what is a sexy Instagram 1339 01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:07,600 Speaker 1: post from a woman? What isn't? Oh? Oh? I thought, wow, Okay, 1340 01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:11,240 Speaker 1: that is going a different direction. But let's go at this, gav. 1341 01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:16,720 Speaker 1: What's the sexy post on Instagram? And what isn't? What's 1342 01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:19,400 Speaker 1: going to get a double tap from Mr Gavin DeGraw 1343 01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:26,559 Speaker 1: and what is not? Wow? Man like the way women look? 1344 01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:35,840 Speaker 1: Everything's everything gets alike. They all deserve to be like 1345 01:08:37,320 --> 01:08:39,080 Speaker 1: what is that like? But is that like? Is that 1346 01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:46,800 Speaker 1: like a participation? Interesting? Thanks for being a woman? Double tap? Yeah? 1347 01:08:46,880 --> 01:08:50,560 Speaker 1: Is that a participan? Like congratulations on ninth place? I 1348 01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:54,519 Speaker 1: like partticipation. I like participates the pend I guess you're right. 1349 01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:56,759 Speaker 1: I guess it does depend on the post. What is sexy? 1350 01:08:56,960 --> 01:09:01,439 Speaker 1: Not too much? Too much is too much? But it's 1351 01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:04,320 Speaker 1: hard to find a touch of class isn't it. You 1352 01:09:04,400 --> 01:09:06,360 Speaker 1: guys got married to somebody who probably thought it was 1353 01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:09,320 Speaker 1: a little classier than the rest. So a lot of 1354 01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:11,719 Speaker 1: it probably requires them growing out of the Instagram phase 1355 01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:17,720 Speaker 1: so they could establish class and uh, you know, some 1356 01:09:18,000 --> 01:09:19,839 Speaker 1: can come back to it and start a new account. 1357 01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:22,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if this is on topic. Real sorry 1358 01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:26,400 Speaker 1: to meet you, to catch you. If they're trying too hard, 1359 01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:31,360 Speaker 1: that is not attractive. Trying too hard when they look 1360 01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:35,400 Speaker 1: like they have showered like clean. Now it's starting to 1361 01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:38,920 Speaker 1: come out. Now you're starting to get more specific. Good 1362 01:09:39,640 --> 01:09:45,800 Speaker 1: soap up, but dry it up. This is not look 1363 01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:51,240 Speaker 1: like they take showers. That's important to me. I'll say this. 1364 01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:54,720 Speaker 1: I like, I don't like over the top like. I 1365 01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:57,640 Speaker 1: would much rather prefer well one. I don't like the 1366 01:09:57,720 --> 01:09:59,160 Speaker 1: duck lips and all that kind of stuff, but I 1367 01:09:59,200 --> 01:10:02,360 Speaker 1: would much rather the worst. When they go like like college, 1368 01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:05,360 Speaker 1: like the like the injections. I don't like the I 1369 01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:08,680 Speaker 1: don't like the sexy poses I am more of I 1370 01:10:08,720 --> 01:10:16,400 Speaker 1: would right at your grandfather. It's fine, but it's like like, 1371 01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:18,479 Speaker 1: I don't know, I would rather see someone in a 1372 01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:20,960 Speaker 1: in a pretty outfit as a sexyfit as opposed to 1373 01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:24,720 Speaker 1: seeing someone in like their bikini posing for the world 1374 01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:27,120 Speaker 1: to see. Like, to me, I couldn't agree with you more. 1375 01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:29,080 Speaker 1: I mean, there is a friend of mine that I 1376 01:10:29,200 --> 01:10:32,240 Speaker 1: was following in all I am following and she had 1377 01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:34,680 Speaker 1: just posted a photo of herself with some friends and 1378 01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:37,000 Speaker 1: she was in full bikini. And I mean, don't get 1379 01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:40,040 Speaker 1: me wrong, she looked great, but it was like it 1380 01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:43,400 Speaker 1: was past the age of like she was trying too hard. 1381 01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:46,200 Speaker 1: Like that was her whole point of the post was 1382 01:10:46,320 --> 01:10:48,600 Speaker 1: to like, hey, I look awesome in this bikini, and 1383 01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:51,720 Speaker 1: you're fishing for compliments and for attention, and that's a 1384 01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:54,000 Speaker 1: turn off, by the way, right, And it's like she's married, 1385 01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:56,880 Speaker 1: she got kids, She's all It's like, I don't know. 1386 01:10:57,000 --> 01:10:59,320 Speaker 1: I mean, like, have I done that myself? Yeah? I 1387 01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:01,719 Speaker 1: think so, you know, I'm like leaning down and showing 1388 01:11:01,840 --> 01:11:07,479 Speaker 1: my you know, try separate whatever it's called. Yeah, how 1389 01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:11,040 Speaker 1: good I look. But I think going to that question, 1390 01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:13,160 Speaker 1: it's like, I think, if you're trying too hard, it 1391 01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:17,519 Speaker 1: comes across as bad. Let's ask let's ask the lady here, right, 1392 01:11:17,680 --> 01:11:20,559 Speaker 1: what's acceptable, what's not? What? What do you feel as 1393 01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:23,920 Speaker 1: a sexy post? What is over the top? What's too much? 1394 01:11:24,120 --> 01:11:27,679 Speaker 1: I hate it when dudes take a picture in front 1395 01:11:27,720 --> 01:11:31,799 Speaker 1: of a mirror, or when they are like recording themselves 1396 01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:40,680 Speaker 1: work out like that. Oh no, what's going on? Vinn 1397 01:11:40,960 --> 01:11:45,679 Speaker 1: Gavin just got Brooks is check? Yavin just got Brooks 1398 01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:53,479 Speaker 1: is check? Oh my god? Like what Bush? I think 1399 01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:55,800 Speaker 1: he's coming back? Everybody, Brooks is in the men's roum 1400 01:11:55,880 --> 01:11:57,680 Speaker 1: right now. Brooks is in the man's room right now 1401 01:11:57,800 --> 01:11:59,479 Speaker 1: doing push up and trying. I wanted to take a 1402 01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:03,600 Speaker 1: potty for you, drink too much water and he had 1403 01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:05,240 Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom real quick. But he is 1404 01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:16,960 Speaker 1: coming back. Doesn't like musicians or who is this chick? 1405 01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:21,800 Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I would love to see what Brooks 1406 01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:24,880 Speaker 1: is doing because he's reputable in that field. So that 1407 01:12:25,040 --> 01:12:27,040 Speaker 1: makes sense to me for you to post a work 1408 01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:29,960 Speaker 1: video influencer and an athlete sort of that's a difference. 1409 01:12:30,160 --> 01:12:32,360 Speaker 1: Or just like you're you know a guy that you 1410 01:12:32,439 --> 01:12:34,160 Speaker 1: follow on Instagram that you went to college with that 1411 01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:37,680 Speaker 1: has no relation to the workout field or health and 1412 01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:40,880 Speaker 1: fitness world posting a video of him working out because 1413 01:12:40,960 --> 01:12:42,960 Speaker 1: he wants he wants to show off his biceps, Like 1414 01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:46,240 Speaker 1: that is not attractive to me. Or when a guy 1415 01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:48,640 Speaker 1: post a picture of him in the mirror showing off 1416 01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:50,920 Speaker 1: his apps. I'm like, I don't want to see that. 1417 01:12:51,760 --> 01:12:56,639 Speaker 1: You know what, do you want that? Yeah? Yeah, sure 1418 01:12:56,800 --> 01:12:59,000 Speaker 1: you're married. You might not want to see it. But 1419 01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:02,720 Speaker 1: do girls go on Instagram? Do women go on Instagram 1420 01:13:02,800 --> 01:13:05,720 Speaker 1: so they could check out a dude. That's when I 1421 01:13:05,800 --> 01:13:09,120 Speaker 1: go back to my John Stamos shirtless and I just 1422 01:13:09,240 --> 01:13:15,439 Speaker 1: google it. How do you feel about that? It's awesome, Peter. 1423 01:13:16,600 --> 01:13:21,040 Speaker 1: So this is like he's Peter Gallagher is like very old. Yeah, 1424 01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:23,240 Speaker 1: I don't want offend him if he's listening. Yeah, he 1425 01:13:23,320 --> 01:13:24,760 Speaker 1: was on the O C and he's on Grayce and 1426 01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:27,919 Speaker 1: Frankie and I have spent a lot of time googling 1427 01:13:27,960 --> 01:13:31,000 Speaker 1: Peter Gallagher shirtless, but it takes me too far back 1428 01:13:31,240 --> 01:13:33,519 Speaker 1: to the eighties and I want the current Peter Gallagher 1429 01:13:33,600 --> 01:13:37,320 Speaker 1: shirt right looks Yes, he's like sixty and he is 1430 01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:39,960 Speaker 1: so hot, and I'm like, I don't know why, but 1431 01:13:40,040 --> 01:13:43,600 Speaker 1: I'm into it. Oh, I'm sure he's got it, Like, 1432 01:13:43,680 --> 01:13:46,479 Speaker 1: I'm sure he's married. That's why I also had my 1433 01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:52,400 Speaker 1: weird Michael Keaton phase that many people remember very good. 1434 01:13:52,439 --> 01:13:54,880 Speaker 1: So I think we figured out who anonymous email did 1435 01:13:55,040 --> 01:13:59,040 Speaker 1: a lot of Michael Keaton shirtless for a long time there. 1436 01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:01,680 Speaker 1: But I think you're right, Amy in the sense that 1437 01:14:01,800 --> 01:14:04,920 Speaker 1: there there are a few women that I do follow 1438 01:14:05,800 --> 01:14:10,880 Speaker 1: and for certain looks on Instagram. Yeah, yeah, not down 1439 01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:15,679 Speaker 1: the street my car. Yeah, I don't typically stand outside 1440 01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:19,160 Speaker 1: their house only on Thursdays. But you don't stand there 1441 01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:22,120 Speaker 1: because they'll see you. You don't go behind and then 1442 01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:26,680 Speaker 1: I go over the fence. Totally done this before, but 1443 01:14:27,720 --> 01:14:30,519 Speaker 1: there they happen to be models. But I do want 1444 01:14:30,560 --> 01:14:32,800 Speaker 1: to see certain things, you know, in an Instagram it's 1445 01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:36,360 Speaker 1: not as fun as you know, watching my you know 1446 01:14:36,520 --> 01:14:38,200 Speaker 1: friends hit the ball over the fence, you know, or 1447 01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:40,519 Speaker 1: play baseball or whatever. There are certain things that you 1448 01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:42,760 Speaker 1: want to seek out to kind of get a little 1449 01:14:42,880 --> 01:14:46,040 Speaker 1: jive off of, you know, buzz. But um, I do 1450 01:14:46,240 --> 01:14:48,880 Speaker 1: have something else at another point of like, is it 1451 01:14:49,280 --> 01:14:52,080 Speaker 1: this maybe going down a different path and we'll eat 1452 01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:55,000 Speaker 1: and we'll take it all out. But is there a 1453 01:14:55,120 --> 01:14:59,879 Speaker 1: difference between somebody working out on Instagram for a business 1454 01:15:00,120 --> 01:15:04,880 Speaker 1: or a purpose and somebody who is standing there would 1455 01:15:09,040 --> 01:15:12,559 Speaker 1: because he's a tablemaker or a woodcraft er and he's 1456 01:15:12,600 --> 01:15:16,639 Speaker 1: trying to sell his tables or cutting boards or whatever. 1457 01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:19,880 Speaker 1: Would work like maybe he's shirtless. Maybe you know, I 1458 01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:22,240 Speaker 1: don't know. Well, here's here's my approach on it. So 1459 01:15:23,240 --> 01:15:25,600 Speaker 1: for the for the dudes things, I think there's a 1460 01:15:25,680 --> 01:15:28,120 Speaker 1: massive this maybe a good podcast or something one day. 1461 01:15:28,280 --> 01:15:34,360 Speaker 1: I think there's a massive difference between those guys next 1462 01:15:34,400 --> 01:15:41,080 Speaker 1: time recording. Um, I think there's a massive difference between 1463 01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:45,120 Speaker 1: an influencer and somebody that is an athlete or credible 1464 01:15:45,240 --> 01:15:48,080 Speaker 1: in like, when I work out, it's actually training, it's 1465 01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:52,839 Speaker 1: it's professional level training, trying to compete with and against 1466 01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:55,120 Speaker 1: the best in the world. And what I'm trying to 1467 01:15:55,200 --> 01:15:57,680 Speaker 1: do with these posts to create a community of this 1468 01:15:58,280 --> 01:16:01,120 Speaker 1: and inspire other people to become the best versions of themselves. 1469 01:16:01,360 --> 01:16:03,080 Speaker 1: They don't have to keep compete at my level. But 1470 01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:06,400 Speaker 1: it is an area that I know I have proven, 1471 01:16:06,479 --> 01:16:08,920 Speaker 1: I have a resume incredibility there and I'm doing it 1472 01:16:09,000 --> 01:16:11,560 Speaker 1: from an authentic place and I'm growing a community like that. 1473 01:16:12,040 --> 01:16:16,080 Speaker 1: I'm not posting and have never posted a shirtless in 1474 01:16:16,240 --> 01:16:20,200 Speaker 1: front of a mirror with the towel really low so 1475 01:16:20,320 --> 01:16:25,680 Speaker 1: you can almost see your biss like, I've never done that, 1476 01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:29,040 Speaker 1: But I do love sharing fitness. So when you see 1477 01:16:29,120 --> 01:16:32,760 Speaker 1: like some of the influencers working out doing such and such, 1478 01:16:32,800 --> 01:16:34,960 Speaker 1: and you go back and look at their old high 1479 01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:37,160 Speaker 1: school scores and you're like, yeah, but you still suck 1480 01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:43,120 Speaker 1: at sports because it's not it's not all about being good. 1481 01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:46,960 Speaker 1: You're fit, but you're terrible athlete, doesn't matter that. It's 1482 01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:50,600 Speaker 1: just it's just different. It's whatever. Your fitness schools are 1483 01:16:50,720 --> 01:16:53,800 Speaker 1: good for you, So if I do good for them, yeah, 1484 01:16:53,840 --> 01:16:55,720 Speaker 1: I agree. And talking to you last time, it was like, 1485 01:16:55,920 --> 01:16:57,519 Speaker 1: you know, I was trying to get motivated, and you 1486 01:16:57,600 --> 01:16:59,880 Speaker 1: came up with some ideas and every time I see 1487 01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:03,639 Speaker 1: your Instagram post on whether you're doing squats or rows 1488 01:17:03,760 --> 01:17:06,040 Speaker 1: or whatever. Like literally, I think it was three days ago, 1489 01:17:06,120 --> 01:17:08,679 Speaker 1: I went to the gym, which had been a long time, 1490 01:17:08,720 --> 01:17:11,720 Speaker 1: and I literally saw one of those bikes that you 1491 01:17:11,960 --> 01:17:14,280 Speaker 1: move the handles this way. You know. Yeah I didn't 1492 01:17:15,520 --> 01:17:18,439 Speaker 1: today and wheel thinking and I was looking around the gym, 1493 01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:20,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, I hate running on the treadmill. I 1494 01:17:20,439 --> 01:17:23,560 Speaker 1: hate this. I'm like Brooks rides that thing. And so 1495 01:17:23,720 --> 01:17:26,160 Speaker 1: I hopped on a good machine. It's a good machine, 1496 01:17:26,200 --> 01:17:28,200 Speaker 1: and I was like, dang, you know, like I'm gonna 1497 01:17:28,240 --> 01:17:31,000 Speaker 1: do that, you know, And because of your post and 1498 01:17:31,080 --> 01:17:35,040 Speaker 1: maybe everybody would like to follow us on Instagram? Oh 1499 01:17:36,160 --> 01:17:41,160 Speaker 1: what is our instagram? How men think? Podcast? And our 1500 01:17:41,240 --> 01:17:44,840 Speaker 1: email men at I Heart radio dot com. So we 1501 01:17:45,040 --> 01:17:47,280 Speaker 1: we want to what else you got, Amy, I'm just 1502 01:17:47,360 --> 01:17:49,760 Speaker 1: thinking we'll put all the kind of photos you like. 1503 01:17:53,600 --> 01:17:57,840 Speaker 1: Let's let us know who you want shirtless selfie of 1504 01:17:58,240 --> 01:18:01,960 Speaker 1: on our on our man that I men and if 1505 01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:04,720 Speaker 1: you want our bits, you just let us know. Yeah, 1506 01:18:04,840 --> 01:18:10,200 Speaker 1: go visit spread Eagle dot com at my art radio. Okay, 1507 01:18:10,960 --> 01:18:15,040 Speaker 1: hold on, Christie, back to you. Where can people find you? 1508 01:18:15,280 --> 01:18:18,240 Speaker 1: Because you are such an asset. Thank you so much 1509 01:18:18,280 --> 01:18:21,200 Speaker 1: for taking the time today. You've impacted my life when 1510 01:18:21,240 --> 01:18:23,880 Speaker 1: we were when I was with the Kings, and I 1511 01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:26,040 Speaker 1: want to continue to work with you and with my 1512 01:18:26,120 --> 01:18:29,280 Speaker 1: wife on our nutrition and performance nutrition. Where can people 1513 01:18:29,320 --> 01:18:33,160 Speaker 1: find you for their children's nutrition, their nutrition? Anything? Where 1514 01:18:33,320 --> 01:18:41,679 Speaker 1: on our instagram? Look at my bits? We're losing Christie. 1515 01:18:41,680 --> 01:18:44,080 Speaker 1: Where can where can our listeners find you? It's camp 1516 01:18:44,160 --> 01:18:47,800 Speaker 1: Sports Nutrition dot com or they can just email me 1517 01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:56,720 Speaker 1: at Christie it's not okay, w R D Morrale at 1518 01:18:56,800 --> 01:19:00,839 Speaker 1: gmail dot com. So m O R R E L correct. 1519 01:19:01,200 --> 01:19:05,360 Speaker 1: So Christie r D as in registered dietitian Morrel m 1520 01:19:05,400 --> 01:19:10,080 Speaker 1: O R R E L L at gmail dot com. Christie, Christie, 1521 01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:12,960 Speaker 1: it's the K K R I S T Y. Because 1522 01:19:12,960 --> 01:19:15,640 Speaker 1: there's lots of ways on Instagram. Can people contact you 1523 01:19:15,720 --> 01:19:18,960 Speaker 1: on Instagram or Facebook? You said Facebook, Yes, yeah, Christie 1524 01:19:19,160 --> 01:19:25,719 Speaker 1: M Christie M work out just fine? Or for anybody 1525 01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:28,280 Speaker 1: else listening. If you want access to Christie, email us 1526 01:19:28,360 --> 01:19:30,120 Speaker 1: man at I heeart radio dot com. We'll get you 1527 01:19:30,200 --> 01:19:32,360 Speaker 1: connected with her. We'll maybe put some of these in 1528 01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:35,960 Speaker 1: show notes, some of the ways you can connect with Christie. UM. 1529 01:19:36,200 --> 01:19:39,000 Speaker 1: Round of applause for you, Thank you, Thank you so much. 1530 01:19:39,160 --> 01:19:42,160 Speaker 1: If I did bring you guys to treat I said 1531 01:19:42,200 --> 01:19:53,479 Speaker 1: that the best snacks. The last thing for yeah, steak it. 1532 01:19:56,080 --> 01:20:00,479 Speaker 1: What do we got our liquorice? Rick wants some damn liquorice. Learning. 1533 01:20:02,080 --> 01:20:04,640 Speaker 1: Hey guys, it's Brooks and one last thing before you 1534 01:20:04,760 --> 01:20:08,480 Speaker 1: take off. We want to know your thoughts, feedback, insights, 1535 01:20:08,600 --> 01:20:11,479 Speaker 1: and questions for us on this show. Send us an 1536 01:20:11,560 --> 01:20:14,280 Speaker 1: email at men at I heart radio dot com and 1537 01:20:14,320 --> 01:20:17,639 Speaker 1: follow along with us on Instagram at how Men Think 1538 01:20:17,800 --> 01:20:20,519 Speaker 1: podcast and we'll see you back right here next week 1539 01:20:20,560 --> 01:20:21,439 Speaker 1: for the next episode.