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Speaker 3: Shine the light on them, shine a light on them.

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Speaker 1: It's time to shine a.

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Speaker 2: Light on them, all right, it's the way up at Angela, Yea,

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Speaker 2: Well, he posted on his social media cardiac surgery three

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Speaker 3: And here's what else he had to say, I'm married. Wow, okay, so.

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Speaker 3: It's way up.

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Speaker 3: All right? His way up, but Angela yee.

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Speaker 2: And today we are talking about whether or not you

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Speaker 3: This all came from this. Tell us a secret caller.

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Speaker 3: Listen to this.

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Speaker 4: I'm married.

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Speaker 2: He says she doesn't deserve it. Now, in my opinion,

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Speaker 12: I think you can love someone and not respect them,

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Speaker 3: But like there are people who have sex with emotion,

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Speaker 2: You would be thinking about my feelings. But I want

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Speaker 11: But I was just listening to your show girl, and

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Speaker 5: It is it.

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Speaker 11: Haunts you every day of your life.

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Speaker 2: So it was only a one time thing or you

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Speaker 11: One time thing, and it was the worst mistake I've

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Speaker 3: He did he find out?

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Speaker 11: Yes, he knows.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I was gonna say.

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Speaker 2: You say your name and everything, and how did you

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you for sharing me and thank you for

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Speaker 2: how are you good?

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 11: Oh girl, Brad?

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Speaker 8: I'm sitting here in the car trying to warm up.

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Speaker 8: The snow is crazy.

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Speaker 3: Oh good luck.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, please be safe out there. I hope you got

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Speaker 11: No, but I about you, guys.

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Speaker 5: Don't people one with roster?

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Speaker 2: Can you cheat on somebody and love them?

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Speaker 8: I think the person still in love with the.

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Speaker 7: But if she's an awesome.

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Speaker 12: Do open to do other things, and if he.

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Speaker 5: Loves his wife, he should be able to do things

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Speaker 5: It's not about the physical always. You gotta have other

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Speaker 8: If you don't have those other things that she's just awesome.

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Speaker 5: Then I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you're saying you feel like because in his

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's crazy.

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Speaker 8: So now you're goa role play with somebody else and

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Speaker 5: Yes, no, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I Have you ever been cheated on?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yes, of course, yes, he said the worse. All right,

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Speaker 3: all right, good luck. Hey Andrea, Hey Angel?

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Speaker 8: How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm goad? How you feeling?

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Speaker 4: I'm excellent.

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Speaker 3: So what do you think? Can you cheat on somebody

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Speaker 3: and still love them?

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Speaker 11: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely?

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I want to hear it. I need

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Speaker 7: Love for them has nothing to do with your respect

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Speaker 8: Well, no, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I respect you and I love you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Uh, you didn't feel bad about it when they

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Speaker 2: All right, well I got it. Only you only were

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Speaker 2: And when we come back, we have your yee tea,

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Speaker 3: According to a reporter, Michael B.

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Speaker 3: It's way up shore.

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Speaker 1: She's about to blow to lead abouf this pot.

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Speaker 12: Let's get it.

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Speaker 1: Angelus billing at yeez, come and get the tea.

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Speaker 2: All right? His way up with angela yee and it's

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Speaker 2: So here's what Jimani Williams had to say about how

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Speaker 5: Well, what I do think we have to do is

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Speaker 3: As they should have, because there's one hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: Warner Brothers the Center Studio actually brought this up to

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Speaker 3: They had two hours to make that happen.

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Speaker 2: I mean, since then it has been edited, but it

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Speaker 3: It just seems like a blatant lack of care afterward.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because two things can be true, right, John Davidson

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Speaker 2: A statement where he basically thanked BAFTA and everyone involved

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Speaker 2: in the awards for their support, and he also talked

448
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Speaker 2: about the round of applause that followed the announcement that

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Speaker 2: his ticks are involuntary and are not a reflection of

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Speaker 2: his personal beliefs. But there was nowhere in that statement

451
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Speaker 2: that he actually apologized for what happened in the effect

452
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Speaker 2: that this could have had.

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Speaker 3: You see, No, I wasn't upset to him before. Now

454
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Speaker 3: I'm kind of am. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think this was a great opportunity for him, for

456
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Speaker 2: people who don't understand it.

457
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Speaker 3: To say I apologize.

458
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Speaker 2: I know those are hurtful words, and while it's involuntary

459
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Speaker 2: for me, I do want to.

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Speaker 3: Say I'm more.

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Speaker 2: He did say he was mortified, but it was not

462
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Speaker 2: an apology, and so I think that's part. And BAFTA

463
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Speaker 2: did finally issue an apology about the incident. They said

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Speaker 2: it's a valuable learning moment for their organization, but it

465
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Speaker 2: might be too late for all of that. They've actually

466
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Speaker 2: had one of the judges stepped down and said they

467
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Speaker 2: no longer want to be a part of Baptist So

468
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Speaker 2: there are no doubt going to see some fallout from

469
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Speaker 2: that whole situation.

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Speaker 3: The damage is done and drowned by history. Mof come on, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean, this should never happen at any point, but that

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Speaker 2: is your yet and when we come back, we have

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Speaker 2: under the radar. These are the stories that are not

474
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Speaker 2: necessarily in the headlines. They're flying under the radar, but

475
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Speaker 2: you need to know about them anyway.

476
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Speaker 3: It's way up the.

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Speaker 1: Position the news that relates to you. These stories are

478
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Speaker 1: flying under the radar.

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Speaker 2: All right, it's way up at Angela yee, and it's

480
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Speaker 2: time for your under the radar stories.

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Speaker 3: Oh don't let this go under the radar.

482
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Speaker 2: Donald Trump is going to be doing his State of

483
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Speaker 2: the Union address tonight and he's going to be addressing

484
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Speaker 2: the economy, tariffs, foreign policy. I know there's going to

485
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Speaker 2: be a lot of quotables and things tomorrow as they

486
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Speaker 2: have this joint session of Congress tonight at nine pm Eastern.

487
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Speaker 2: He said it was going to be a long speech.

488
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Speaker 2: That's his description of what he's about to do. He'll

489
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Speaker 2: be and what the polls are saying right now is

490
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Speaker 2: that Donald Trump is going to be facing a public

491
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Speaker 2: that questions his priorities and expresses doubts about whether his

492
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Speaker 2: proposed policies are helping the nation. And there's been definitely

493
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Speaker 2: a lot of backlash when people that are typically supportive

494
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Speaker 2: epste and survivors are also going to attend Donald Trump's

495
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Speaker 2: dress tonight, and so there's a number of them that

496
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Speaker 2: are planning to also go to the State of the

497
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Speaker 2: Union address. So cannot wait to see what's going to

498
00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:16,879
Speaker 2: happen tonight, all right now. A New York City University

499
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Speaker 2: professor at Hunter College was forced to apologize she was

500
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Speaker 2: busted on a hot mic and basically there was an

501
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Speaker 2: eighth grade student voicing concern about the potential shut down

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Speaker 2: of her school.

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Speaker 3: This was during a.

504
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Speaker 2: Public Community Education Council meeting on February tenth. It was

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Speaker 2: a black eighth grade student and that's important because of

506
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Speaker 2: what Alison Friedman, that Hunter College professor, had to say.

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Speaker 3: You don't know they're in a bad school.

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Speaker 2: I mean, the king said it like, if you trained

509
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Speaker 2: a black person well enough, they'll know who use the back.

510
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Speaker 3: You don't have to tell them anymore. Can you imagine?

511
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Speaker 2: Now somebody covered their mouth that was on this zoom

512
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Speaker 2: and they had to let her know that her mic

513
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Speaker 2: was on. It was wild to me that nobody went

514
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Speaker 2: at They kind of like kept going afterward, and nobody

515
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Speaker 2: was like, what the helly, I.

516
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Speaker 3: Don't even know, Like I'm not surprised. Actually now.

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Speaker 2: She has since said that she was actually trying to

518
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Speaker 2: explain systematic racism to her own child by referencing an

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Speaker 2: example of an obviously racist trope. Duh, nobody believes that, Yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: you clearly a did not know your microphone was on, right,

521
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Speaker 2: because they had to let you know that.

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Speaker 3: It got so quiet afterward.

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Speaker 2: This is the first time we're hearing this explanation, and

524
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Speaker 2: we also just don't believe it, she told The New

525
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Speaker 2: York Times.

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Speaker 3: My complete comments make clear.

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Speaker 2: These aparent views are not my own, nor were they

528
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Speaker 2: directed at any student or group. I fully support these

529
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Speaker 2: courageous students and their efforts to stop school closures. However,

530
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Speaker 2: I recognize these comments caused harm and pain. While that

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Speaker 2: was not my intent, I do truly apologize. People are

532
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Speaker 2: calling for her to be fired. Toos City Council member

533
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Speaker 2: Toosa says that they must fire Aliton Friedman immediately, and

534
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Speaker 2: CuNi cannot apply one standard for political speech and another

535
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Speaker 2: for explicit anti black racism, and.

536
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Speaker 3: So darn black history off. It shouldn't happen anytime exactly.

537
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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, so, I don't even know how

538
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Speaker 2: you could trust that person to teach any students, But anyway,

539
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Speaker 2: that is your unother radar. We do have the Way

540
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Speaker 2: Up Mix at the top of the hour. Plus we

541
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Speaker 2: do have a special guest joining us. He is a

542
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Speaker 2: death doula, which is an occupation that I had never

543
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Speaker 2: heard about before. But he has a book out and

544
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Speaker 2: it's called and never can say goodbye. Darnelle La Mount

545
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Speaker 2: Walker is going to be joining us.

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Speaker 3: It's way up. She's like at like the angel Jean

547
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Speaker 3: like they Angelie Jean Man.

548
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Speaker 1: She's spilling it all. This is yet.

549
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Speaker 2: Way up, all right, It's way up. But Angela, yee,

550
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Speaker 2: are you ready for this? Navy, Yes, sir, He Too

551
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Speaker 2: is confirmed, and Christian Bale has confirmed he's gonna star

552
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Speaker 2: and Heat two alongside Leonardo DiCaprio.

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Speaker 3: Heat is a classic movie. Yeah, that shoot out in

554
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Speaker 3: the street.

555
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Speaker 2: Classic, And Leonardo DiCaprio says, He Too isn't just a sequel.

556
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Speaker 2: It honors the original while expanding the story in both

557
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Speaker 2: timelines past and future.

558
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Speaker 3: And they're gonna start filming this year.

559
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Speaker 12: I'm skeptical about how they're gonna pull it off, but

560
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Speaker 12: incredible actors, so I'm with it.

561
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Speaker 3: Listen to two of them in a movie together.

562
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Speaker 2: Just think about the original, what that was like, having

563
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Speaker 2: legends together.

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Speaker 3: So some people are very excited. That's going to start

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Speaker 3: filming in Chicago, by the way, Okay, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, and speaking of TV movies, all of that big

567
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Speaker 2: deal for Drewski. He's been added to the Voice as

568
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Speaker 2: their first ever commentator for season twenty nine. Now, this

569
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Speaker 2: is leaning into a sports style format for a Battle

570
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Speaker 2: of Champions, and this is, you know, the first time

571
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Speaker 2: they've done this, and he's gonna break down coaching decisions,

572
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Speaker 2: react to performances in the moment, and track some new

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Speaker 2: elements like the triple Turn competition.

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Speaker 3: And the super steal.

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Speaker 2: They're trying to bring in obviously a younger, more digital audience.

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Speaker 12: Juicy's run is legendary, Yeah, legendary one not.

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Speaker 3: Mad at him?

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Speaker 2: Nope, get it, JUICKI he just did the Soul Train. Yeah,

579
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Speaker 2: So what's your favorite juiceky sketch? Oh, it's got to

580
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Speaker 2: be the Megachurch. The Megachurch, the Megachurch. I mean, that

581
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:31,200
Speaker 2: was well done, all right. Little Dirk's trial has been

582
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Speaker 2: pushed back again. The new start date is August twenty fifth.

583
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Speaker 2: You know, he wanted an earlier date, but what's happening

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Speaker 2: now is that his co defendants are trying to separate

585
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Speaker 2: their case from his. So while his trial date has

586
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Speaker 2: now been postponed multiple times, if they do get that separation,

587
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Speaker 2: then he can request an earlier date still. So he

588
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Speaker 2: wants to get this like he wants to get before

589
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Speaker 2: a judge and get it over with all right. Now,

590
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Speaker 2: Ti versus fifty cent. Yesterday we were talking talking about

591
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Speaker 2: the two of them, and they're back and forth and

592
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Speaker 2: King joining in the back and forth as well.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 2: Now Ti has put out a song. It's called War

595
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Speaker 2: and here's just a piece of it. Ouch I mean

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Speaker 2: it's a whole song. And the other thing you did

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Speaker 2: was put out a video where he's at the table,

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Speaker 2: he's got his mother with him, his wife, his family,

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Speaker 2: and what people are saying, fifty can't do that. So

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Speaker 2: that is oh man, I guess him flexing in that way?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 7: Now.

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Speaker 2: Marla Gibbs, you know the star from the Jefferson she paid.

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Speaker 2: She played Florence. She also was on two two seven

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Speaker 2: Regina King as her daughter.

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Speaker 12: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, she has a book called It's Never Too Late

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Speaker 2: and it actually comes out today if you want to

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Speaker 2: have a chance to read that. She talks about growing

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Speaker 2: up and having an emotionally abusive grandmother and then being

611
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Speaker 2: married for eighteen years to a man who was emotionally

612
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Speaker 2: and physically abusive. She also did not get success as

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Speaker 2: an actress until she was in her forties, and another

614
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Speaker 2: thing she talked about is the greatest challenge of her life.

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Speaker 2: In two thousand and six, she had a brain aneurysm

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Speaker 2: followed by a stroke that almost killed her, and she

617
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Speaker 2: said she couldn't go to the bathroom on her own.

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Speaker 2: She had to use diapers while in rehab. She wanted

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Speaker 2: to go on tour. She just couldn't believe that it

620
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Speaker 2: couldn't happen. She had a caretaker that was helping her,

621
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Speaker 2: but she wanted to walk, but she just couldn't without help.

622
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Speaker 2: She would end up on the floor when she would

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Speaker 2: try to do that, and she said, I was totally

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Speaker 2: dependent and could do nothing. Acceptance of where I was

625
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Speaker 2: in my recovery was essential to me healing. And I

626
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Speaker 2: think acceptance is a key to healing in life.

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Speaker 3: What a story, though, right, we didn't know any of this.

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Speaker 12: None of us.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, that is your yee tee.

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Speaker 2: And when we come back, we got asked yee eight

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Speaker 2: hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty. Call us up

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Speaker 2: any question, I got you eight hundred two ninety two

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Speaker 2: fifty one fifty. And we also have a death doula

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Speaker 2: joining us today. Darnelle Lamont Walker will be on its.

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Speaker 1: Way up right everybody since with its relationship with career advice,

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Speaker 1: Angela's dropping facts.

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Speaker 2: Tell you what's up his way, yep, but Angela ye,

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Speaker 2: and it's time for ask ye eight hundred and two

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Speaker 2: ninety two fifty one fifty. We will answer any question.

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Speaker 2: And today we have jan now on the line and

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Speaker 2: she's thinking about paying for that VIP package for that

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Speaker 2: bow Wow and B two K meet and greet.

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Speaker 8: Well, I met about all like three times, like their

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Speaker 8: high school of college or something like that was like

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Speaker 8: in a video and like such. So I mentioned before

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Speaker 8: he was saying, like like fam books when I has

647
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Speaker 8: this talk coming out in March, and it's like, I

648
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Speaker 8: want to go, Bro, I'm not getting a regular ticket.

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Speaker 8: I want the vip boe almost like four dollars. I'm like, well,

650
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Speaker 8: I really need to pay that. I met him so

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Speaker 8: many times.

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Speaker 3: I'm ask way, how much is it? Four hundred four

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Speaker 3: hundred dollars? Can you afford that?

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Speaker 8: I mean sure, but like is it like worth it?

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Speaker 8: Like if I I'm just getting a picture when I

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Speaker 8: have pictures like that's an updated picture.

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Speaker 2: I want to say, that's for you to decide, because

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Speaker 2: for some people, getting that picture is worth paying and

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Speaker 2: exture four hundred dollars and supporting somebody they're a super

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Speaker 2: fan of. I think taking into consideration what your financial

661
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Speaker 2: situation is, is this something that is gonna make you

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Speaker 2: not pay your phone bill in order to be able

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Speaker 2: to go and do this and not pay you know,

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Speaker 2: have a problem with your rent? Or is this something

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Speaker 2: that you're like, look, I'm a huge fan. I have

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Speaker 2: these other pictures. Now I have another picture that I

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Speaker 2: could put throughout the years of the times that we've

668
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Speaker 2: met that I can post.

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Speaker 8: Oh okay, that's true, and I never did it at

670
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 8: a concert, yes, a concert kind of environment.

671
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Speaker 2: But I just want to say, don't have too high

672
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 2: expectations because I know you've met him several times.

673
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Speaker 3: That doesn't mean he's going to remember.

674
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Speaker 2: And what I would do if I were with you

675
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Speaker 2: is bring the picture, the old picture, to have it ready,

676
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 2: to show how long you've been, you know how many

677
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 2: times you've met. Just have it ready in your phone,

678
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 2: be like, look, we met before. I would love to

679
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Speaker 2: recreate this picture. I think if you went to the

680
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 2: concert and didn't get this, you would regret it.

681
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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah yeah. I would be like what.

682
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think you already know what you want

683
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 2: to do. You're gonna get that VIP package?

684
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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, true?

685
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 3: Who's going with you?

686
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 8: I will go alone because I unless they want to

687
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 8: pay for hunch, I'm the fans. I don't know if

688
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 8: anyone else like that.

689
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 2: Well, you're the only one getting the VIP package. But

690
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 2: is anybody going with you to the concert. No, okay,

691
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 2: well listen, enjoy yourself, have fun now, don't stretch your

692
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 2: money too far if you can't do it. But if

693
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 2: you can, you know, there's nothing wrong with being a

694
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 2: fan getting that picture and having something forever. And if

695
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 2: it's not going to prevent you from other things that

696
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 2: you have to handle, then I think you should go

697
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 2: for it.

698
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 3: And he did repost you.

699
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Speaker 2: I will also try to leave a little comment like, hey,

700
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna get the you know, I'm trying to get

701
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Speaker 2: the VIP package.

702
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 3: You know, maybe he'll upgrade you. Who knows.

703
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 2: You just never know how somebody might feel. But good luck,

704
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 2: thank you, all right, all right, take care. That was

705
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Speaker 2: ask ye eight hundred and two ninety two fifty one fifty.

706
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 2: I told you we can answer any question. And I

707
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,479
Speaker 2: think if you know you're going to regret something and

708
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 2: you have the means to make it happen, you only

709
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 2: live once, you might as well do it. And speaking

710
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 2: of only every once, Darnel La mont Walker is going

711
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 2: to be joining us when we come back, and he

712
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 2: is the author of Never Can Say Goodbye. He is

713
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Speaker 2: a death doula and he helps people navigate their last moments,

714
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 2: but also helps people deal with the grief of the

715
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 2: loss of a loved one.

716
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Speaker 3: It's way up and.

717
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Speaker 7: Odad the most famous women in radiodio.

718
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Speaker 5: We're talking about Angela Ye.

719
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 3: You're way up with Angela Yee. Please believe that what's

720
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 3: up his way up at Angela Yee.

721
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 2: This is exciting today because this is an occupation I've

722
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 2: never heard of. Okay, but I think after reading this book,

723
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 2: we can see why something like this is so important.

724
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 2: Darnel Lamont Walker is here and you are a death doula.

725
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Speaker 6: Yeah right, No, first I just say, you know, I'm

726
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 6: the person who helps people die, so that pretty much

727
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 6: shocks the system. But then I say, you know what,

728
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:51,239
Speaker 6: I'm there to support the person and the family at

729
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 6: the end of life and throughout the transition, throughout the grief.

730
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Speaker 2: And you have a book out now called Never Can

731
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 2: Say Goodbye, The Life of a Death Doulah and the

732
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 2: Art of a Peaceful And you were a death douler

733
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 2: before you even knew what it was called.

734
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Speaker 6: Before I think so many of us were. You know,

735
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 6: I learned from my grandmother who'd been doing this work

736
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 6: for decades, but back then it was just this is

737
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 6: what we do for family, This is what we do

738
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:15,719
Speaker 6: for friends. We take care of each other. We come

739
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 6: from a long lineage of people who have taken care

740
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 6: of each other, and that essentially that's what I do now.

741
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Speaker 2: You know, in the book, there's one part where you

742
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 2: talk about your grandmother, who was really important in your life, absolutely,

743
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 2: and you say that she told you when Hamburger's with

744
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 2: gravy and country fried potatoes lost their flavor, and when

745
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 2: she could no longer play cards with the folks she

746
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 2: sit around her living room table with almost daily.

747
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 3: She'd be ready to go before the old folks home

748
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Speaker 3: gets me.

749
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Speaker 6: She said, Yeah, those conversations were so important to me,

750
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 6: because I think we all need to have that threshold

751
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 6: where it's like, when I can no longer do this,

752
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 6: this is when I want to leave. And you know,

753
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 6: my wish for everyone is that we leave. We were

754
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 6: able to leave when we're ready to leave. But unfortunately

755
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Speaker 6: that's not true.

756
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 3: Right.

757
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 6: But because I knew that about my grandmother when she

758
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 6: was in hospice and things weren't looking good, she had

759
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 6: stopped eating, she wasn't responsive, I knew she was ready

760
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 6: to go. And sometimes people need that permission to go.

761
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 6: I said, today it looks like a really good day

762
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 6: to die. There's no one left to come see you.

763
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 6: You've done an amazing job. If you want to die today,

764
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 6: you should do it. And I know you don't want

765
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Speaker 6: to do it. While I'm here, I'm a play a song.

766
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 6: I played Cold Place, Fix You, and then I left.

767
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 6: In fifteen minutes, I drove to my dad's house, walked in,

768
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 6: the phone rang, and I knew who it was. It

769
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 6: was the hospice saying she died.

770
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Speaker 3: Is that also being an intuitive having seen.

771
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 6: It so many times before, I think one people know

772
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 6: when they're gonna go, or at least the body knows.

773
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 6: The body knows how to die. And so before she

774
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 6: stops talking, she talked about how her mother would come,

775
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 6: and her mother died many years ago, And a lot

776
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Speaker 6: of times I see that with a lot of clients,

777
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 6: where a spirit may come into the room and they're

778
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 6: talking to them, and so all of these things adding up,

779
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 6: it's like, oh, she's waiting for something, and today would

780
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 6: be the time to let go. So it's kind of

781
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 6: intuitive and just kind of I want you to stop

782
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 6: suffering too, So it's selfless in a way. Grandmothers are

783
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:09,759
Speaker 6: global treasures. We all love our grandmothers. And I didn't

784
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 6: want her to go, but I knew she needed to.

785
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 2: Right now, I'm talking to Darnelle La mont Walker. He

786
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 2: is a death dula, an Emmy nominated writer, and a

787
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Speaker 2: cultural anthropologist. Another thing you talk about is how black

788
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:25,880
Speaker 2: men when it comes to a death doula, usually somebody

789
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:29,479
Speaker 2: will refer yeah, you, because it's not something they seek

790
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 2: out necessarily.

791
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Speaker 3: It's sad to see.

792
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's always a family member, always someone who calls

793
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 6: me for them because what I found and we heard

794
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 6: is so we've heard it so many times. I got

795
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 6: to be the rock of the family. I have to

796
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 6: be the strong one trying to run from those emotions,

797
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 6: all the things that black men avoid in life. And

798
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 6: so when I get called in, the first thing I

799
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 6: have to do is try to create a space where

800
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 6: they can feel safe enough to be able to express

801
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 6: these things. And it doesn't take long. Sometimes it just

802
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 6: takes a hug or the touch that they haven't received

803
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:04,320
Speaker 6: because they've pretended to be the strong person for so long,

804
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 6: and in that they don't get to grieve themselves, you know,

805
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 6: So they die and they never got the chance to cry,

806
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 6: never got the chance to be held, never got the

807
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 6: chance to be touched the way they needed to be touched.

808
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 6: And so a lot of my work is trying to

809
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 6: fix that.

810
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 2: Darnell Lama Walker is here with me today and he

811
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 2: has got some stories.

812
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 3: He's a death doula.

813
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 2: He helps families find peace at the end of life

814
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 2: and also you can learn how to support somebody who

815
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,919
Speaker 2: is going through their last moments. When we come back,

816
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 2: we have more its way up.

817
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 7: We about to do this one of Lemos, the famous

818
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:41,280
Speaker 7: women in radio Vidio min we're talking about Angela Yee.

819
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Speaker 1: You're way up with Angela Yee.

820
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 3: Please believe that.

821
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 2: What's up its way up with Angela Yee. And Darnel

822
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 2: Lama Walker is joining us today. He's the author of

823
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 2: Never Can Say Goodbye. He is a death doula and

824
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 2: he discusses offering emotional support and guidance to people who

825
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 2: are nearing the end of their life. You have some

826
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 2: extraordinary stories in this book of situations that have happened.

827
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 2: And one of the stories that you talk about is

828
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 2: Leon And you talk about going to Birdie Man.

829
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 6: Yes, that is where I met Leon who Man. He's

830
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 6: a kid in his twenties. He's a lot of fun.

831
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 6: And then I had to go to a whitting Houston party,

832
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 6: me and some friends, so we were.

833
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 3: Like, oh, yeah, I talked to you later.

834
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 6: But right before I left, I just snapped a photo

835
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 6: and the light was hitting and we walked and came

836
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,360
Speaker 6: back and everyone at the camp was pretty down about something.

837
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 6: I'm thinking, you know what happened, and they're like, oh, well,

838
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 6: someone died here. Oh you know the guy. You were

839
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 6: talking to him right before you left, the young guy.

840
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 6: I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, no no. And

841
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 6: instantly I thought, man, when will his parents get this news?

842
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:46,360
Speaker 6: We're stuck out here, And back to the parent in me,

843
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 6: it's what would I want to know about my kids

844
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 6: last moments? And hadn't thought about the photo. I got

845
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,760
Speaker 6: to bed that night and I'm going through my phone

846
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 6: and I'm thinking, oh, I think I have the last

847
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 6: picture of this guy. And immediately when I got back

848
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 6: to civilization, it was I have to find his people.

849
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 6: They created a gofund me is how. I found a

850
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 6: cousin of his that led me to his mom, and

851
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 6: I reached out to her and it was just this

852
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 6: for hours, going back and forth just to you know,

853
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 6: thank you so much. And it's sometimes it's what we

854
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:24,800
Speaker 6: need to hear. It's the closure we need sometimes because

855
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 6: we don't know someone's last moments, and if someone was

856
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,399
Speaker 6: there for those, it can be shared. And I think

857
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 6: it should be And I think.

858
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,879
Speaker 2: It's also nice to know, like because I think when

859
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 2: somebody dies in there alone and nobody knows what those last,

860
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 2: you know, moments were like, and I know they share

861
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 2: with you.

862
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:46,720
Speaker 3: My brother, I need a minute, Oh take you time, please.

863
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 3: And so my brother was by himself.

864
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 2: He had an aneurysm, and it was so sudden, and

865
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, what happened?

866
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 3: Like, was he suffering for a long time? Was he

867
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 3: laying there?

868
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:01,760
Speaker 2: So it's nice that a lot of people were sending

869
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 2: me messages about, you know, just how amazing he was,

870
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,400
Speaker 2: even people I never met, like the women where he

871
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 2: parked his car was like, oh, it's the first of

872
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 2: the month. He would always bring me cake and he

873
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 2: didn't come, and I had no idea what happened. And

874
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 2: then people in the neighborhood, you know, his landlord, like

875
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 2: everybody was just showing up and talking about how great

876
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 2: he was.

877
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 3: One of his neighbors was telling me.

878
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 2: About She sent me an email about how which he

879
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 2: moved in the building and she was really nervous to

880
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 2: move to New York, and how helpful my brother was

881
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 2: in that process. And she had like a date with

882
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 2: somebody she met on an app and he went with

883
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,879
Speaker 2: her and sat at the bar while she had the date,

884
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 2: just to make sure she was okay, you know, and

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Speaker 2: then when it was over, he made sure she got back,

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Speaker 2: you know, just really nice things that he never told

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Speaker 2: me about. But I got to hear those stories from

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Speaker 2: other people, and it didn't really help me a lot.

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Speaker 3: I love that so much.

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Speaker 6: Can you say your brother's.

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Speaker 3: Name, Brian?

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Speaker 6: Brian right on.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate thanks for sharing that.

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Speaker 6: I talked so much about how everyone has to show

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Speaker 6: up for the funeral and that it doesn't have to

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Speaker 6: be the actual funeral, but we need those stories, and

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Speaker 6: so it's good to know that he brought that lady

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Speaker 6: a cake to sit on a date with this woman.

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Speaker 6: It's like, oh, he was that too, and so we

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Speaker 6: need that and it's so it's so important. Thanks for

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Speaker 6: sharing that about it.

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Speaker 3: Well donell. Thank you so much for coming through today.

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Speaker 2: I never can say goodbye the life of a death

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Speaker 2: dealer and the art of a peaceful end. Get your

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Speaker 2: box of tissues next to you.

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Speaker 3: Where you're reading this. But I was on the train.

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Speaker 3: I was like, whoo.

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Speaker 2: But I also feel like there's very useful information here.

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Speaker 2: It's something that we all need to be I don't

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Speaker 2: know how if I would say prepared for prepare well,

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Speaker 2: Darnell La mont Walker, how can people reach you?

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Speaker 6: I'm everywhere, Darnell lamart Walker. Hello Darnell Instagram. I am reachable.

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Speaker 6: I love talking to people about this conversation about death

914
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Speaker 6: and very open to these conversations.

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Speaker 3: All right, well, I appreciate you. Thank you so much

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Speaker 3: for coming through.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you so much to Darnelle La mont

918
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Speaker 2: Walker for joining us. Make sure you watch that boat

919
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Speaker 2: interview on my YouTube channel Way Up with Ye. I

920
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Speaker 2: think one thing that we can all say is inevitable

921
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Speaker 2: is that we are all going to experience grief and

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Speaker 2: the loss of somebody close to us at some point.

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Speaker 2: All right, So check out that for interview, pick up

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Speaker 2: his book Never Can Say Goodbye, And when we come back,

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Speaker 2: this is your show.

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Speaker 3: So you have the last word, pack up.

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Speaker 1: The phone to get your voice heard. What the word

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Speaker 1: bit is?

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Speaker 2: The last word on Way Up with Angela Ye, what's

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Speaker 2: up his Way Up with Angela yee? And thank y'all

931
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Speaker 2: for joining us today. Navy back on the back on

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Speaker 2: the mic again tomorrow.

933
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll be here all week listen.

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Speaker 2: Thank you Eric for running the boards in the room

935
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Speaker 2: too with us. I hope you're having a good time.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of ask yee things happening in the

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Speaker 2: room in between songs, So you.

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Speaker 3: Guys go through a lot. Yeah, do you guys feel

939
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Speaker 3: like you have people to talk to?

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Speaker 2: Like they always say, men don't have anybody that like

941
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Speaker 2: express themselves to.

942
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Speaker 3: Oh that's one hundred scent right, but we got you, Okay.

943
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Speaker 3: Sometimes it's tough love in this room.

944
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Speaker 2: But anyway, thank you to Danelle Lama Waking for joining

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Speaker 2: us today. This is the first time I've even heard

946
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Speaker 2: of a death of Doula. His book Never Can Say

947
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Speaker 2: Goodbye is out right now and you can watch that

948
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Speaker 2: foot and if you on my YouTube channel, Way Up

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Speaker 2: with You, definitely you may shed some tears when you

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Speaker 2: watch it, so get ready for that. And this is

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Speaker 2: your show, so you have the last word Seal, I

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Speaker 2: mean Illinois.

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Speaker 7: I only think it's a real such thing as for

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Speaker 7: somebody and you still will cheat on him. It's going

955
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Speaker 7: to happen because I was in that position. But when

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Speaker 7: you real with yourself and you actually ask yourself with

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Speaker 7: the whole reason, and you've been what you're doing, that

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Speaker 7: you know gonn go and hurt your partner's feeling is

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Speaker 7: the real love.

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Speaker 4: Haron Louisiana. I believe that I've been involved with a

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Speaker 4: man for twenty nine years and I know he loved

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Speaker 4: his wife. We've never just stuff leaving her or anything.

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Speaker 4: It's like it's like he's my boyfriend like a girlfriend,

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Speaker 4: but sex is involved. And what I think it is

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Speaker 4: with him being with only one woman, this woman had

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Speaker 4: more experience than his wife and he liked that. That's

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Speaker 4: why married men women need to try something different, going

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Speaker 1: Way out turnout with Angela Yee