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Speaker 1: My next guests have been on the show before their

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Speaker 1: game changes, their life changers, trying to do our partner.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate it and I'm staying. Two of them male

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Speaker 1: and female. Um, they're from the Big Brothers and Big

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Speaker 1: Sisters of Metro Atlanta. We have Kwamae Johnson, great to

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Speaker 1: We appreciate it. Okay, and Juliet, you don't cheat. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that job is McDonald's. Good morning when you're following on

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Speaker 1: social media. Velegator. Right, oh my goodness. You know, you

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Speaker 1: know you're you know you're partnered up with local leaders.

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Speaker 1: I'm one of those local leaders. Celebrities are following that

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Speaker 1: kind of leader, that celebrity influential man in Atlanta to

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Speaker 1: give youth, especially young boys, every opportunity to succeed. Big

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Speaker 1: Brothers Big Sisters currently have over three hundred boars on

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Speaker 1: the waiting lists named. Six percent of the boars are

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Speaker 1: African American. Please welcome again to the show. Now let's

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Speaker 1: talk about this. Uh, you know the waiting lists. What

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Speaker 1: exactly is that? Yeah, so it's it's actually parents, in

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Speaker 1: particular mothers who have come into our office and you know,

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Speaker 1: who are raising boys and want of male influence in

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Speaker 1: Me and Juliette are going out to find men um

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Speaker 1: to sign up to be big brothers. And that's a

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Speaker 1: So we're we're in midtown our office, but we cover

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Speaker 1: all twelve counties, so we support families, uh, far south

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Speaker 1: to have that positive mentor in their life. They're not

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Speaker 1: I hear this, it's such a you know, I look

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Speaker 1: But we have fifty staff. We're in Medtown. Come check

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Speaker 1: Mentor Yes, the panel is going to be January at

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Speaker 1: doing at the gatherings part of January, Big Brothers, Big Sisters, Uh,

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Speaker 1: Metro Atlanta. Got to make sure I say that, Kalma, Julia,

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Speaker 1: thank you for coming on the show again and I

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Speaker 1: got work to do. Yes, yes, no, and we we

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for this. McDonald, thank you