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Speaker 1: up and here Jay, what we're doing. What we're talking
Speaker 1: about on this fine day? What's up, niggas? What's up?
Speaker 1: So look, here's the here's the here's the topic, and
Speaker 1: here's the question that we're going to elaborate on today.
Speaker 1: Is it possible for you to find love after success?
Speaker 1: Meaning is it possible for you to find somebody that
Speaker 1: genuinely loves you and genuinely cares about you after the
Speaker 1: fact of all the years that you put in for
Speaker 1: your grind and you know, all of after you've been
Speaker 1: doing all the stuff that you've done to get to
Speaker 1: where you are. If they were not with you before
Speaker 1: you had any of the ship that you have now,
Speaker 1: it's possible, but it's gonna be hard to happen. But
Speaker 1: you just said exactly well about Yeah it's possible. Thing,
Speaker 1: it's possible. But because then you got, you got gonna
Speaker 1: be hard to trust it. Yeah, you got. You gotta
Speaker 1: filter out all the people who are really gonna be genuine,
Speaker 1: because you're gonna be having a lot of people that's
Speaker 1: coming to you that's gonna be putting on the front
Speaker 1: acting like the person that they think you want that
Speaker 1: they think you won't. But like Ship, all the people
Speaker 1: ain't genuine. Some of them have ulterior mode or not. Yeah,
Speaker 1: most of them. But does that mean you just don't try. No,
Speaker 1: you're gonna try. You gotta be prepared to fail a
Speaker 1: lot when it comes to that Ship a lot, like
Speaker 1: you can't get the sturge. You gotta keep going. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's kind of like it's kind of like you're playing basketball, right,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be easy to make the layous layous is
Speaker 1: before you got the frame. But Ship, you're gonna know
Speaker 1: you failed though you You're gonna know you're gonna you
Speaker 1: got the money. So they're gonna do everything they gotta
Speaker 1: do to make you feel like for the convince you.
Speaker 1: You're gonna see through that. But some people fake it
Speaker 1: for years. People good, let me do it, and you
Speaker 1: can fake it for a million years, but you can't
Speaker 1: take it. And also sometimes you know, like every relationship
Speaker 1: I've been in, it's been something that happened that kind
Speaker 1: of gave me paulse things like something's up something yeah,
Speaker 1: like you know, even like when it's not just like
Speaker 1: you know, intimate relationship, even when it's friendship, you tell
Speaker 1: when you can tell when the friendship is about to
Speaker 1: go bad, like down different now should feel different? You
Speaker 1: feel me? So like she can. She can play the role,
Speaker 1: but you're gonna know eventually. Now whether you act on
Speaker 1: it or not, it's up to you. But you're good.
Speaker 1: You know, you know you didn't. You know when you're
Speaker 1: tripping and you know when it's your actual intuition saying
Speaker 1: like damn, something not right with her. So whether but
Speaker 1: name a nigga that move off of that. Though if
Speaker 1: the girl did nothing called in, then she do everything.
Speaker 1: She do everything she supposed that you won't. But she
Speaker 1: did death for your money. Eventually, if she's only there
Speaker 1: for the money, she's gonna do something that shows she's
Speaker 1: only there for the money. How a job, that's her job?
Speaker 1: What am gonna do her job? So she's only that,
Speaker 1: But no, no, not listen, I'm gonna answer this if
Speaker 1: she's only there for the money ship, if she's only
Speaker 1: if she's only there for the money, right, I bet you.
Speaker 1: I want to do that on camera. She we have
Speaker 1: flying chips and y'all never believe. So goddamn she's only
Speaker 1: there for the money and she's a quar don't called actor.
Speaker 1: You can only act for so long, like I said, like,
Speaker 1: it's only gonna You're only gonna be able to hold
Speaker 1: that act for so long. It might be for it
Speaker 1: might be a long as time for life, It might
Speaker 1: be a long person that this is my lifeline and
Speaker 1: this is how I get fit and get these person.
Speaker 1: If that's what you're doing, is not what you're really
Speaker 1: trying to doors, not how you really fail. You're gonna
Speaker 1: slip up eventually. But when the person slip up, I'm
Speaker 1: already loved you, So slip up that good thing. We're
Speaker 1: just gonna through some relationship ship and it ain't about
Speaker 1: the money, right I found after that, don't think that
Speaker 1: there's plenty it's going on right now, and people may
Speaker 1: know they're being used for the money. They just accepting
Speaker 1: their role. Like if this person is here and I've
Speaker 1: been consistent with him, at least I know they're consistent
Speaker 1: with whatever they're trying to do, they may be using me.
Speaker 1: I'm using them at this point too. If it's like
Speaker 1: saying somebody, let's say it's you got a twenty year
Speaker 1: old woman, and then that's like, damn, they're fifty six
Speaker 1: years old. He organically not going to get into somebody
Speaker 1: that looks that good at his age. Ship, I'm be
Speaker 1: using you for your steady you got good. You got
Speaker 1: the good ship that I like, I got the money
Speaker 1: that you want. Ship. We were locked in. It's a
Speaker 1: business translation saying that. We're saying that. The chick like no,
Speaker 1: and I'm already up. I'm already straight up. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: called her regular ship thing and I called a square
Speaker 1: broad it just go to nursing school. But she already
Speaker 1: owned to what I got going on. We locked in.
Speaker 1: I think I got something, but she really don't funk
Speaker 1: with me for real. But then it goes back to energy,
Speaker 1: like you can't hide energy. You can't. Some people can't
Speaker 1: read it. Maybe, but I don't have partners before, Like no,
Speaker 1: she what you mean, say, come on, man, everybody don't
Speaker 1: read that energy like that. It's a lot of maybe
Speaker 1: I'm really good to read energy. Well, it's a lot
Speaker 1: of naive people on this planet. Yeah, I'm so good
Speaker 1: to read energy. Sometimes I cut it out prematurely, like
Speaker 1: even if I even feel like you're trying to play,
Speaker 1: And that's not scurity that I'm just saying, that's insecured.
Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, hold on, it's a name for that ship.
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you what it is. It's called
Speaker 1: hold on. What do you find that? I'm just saying, like,
Speaker 1: people don't always read energy properly, and people can make it.
Speaker 1: It's called hyper vigilance, a hyper vision, and it's a
Speaker 1: symptom of abandonment trauma. And that means that you when
Speaker 1: when you notice every small change in a person's tone,
Speaker 1: like delays and responding, lack of interest, and you basically
Speaker 1: literally break your own heart. That's called hyper vigilance. Become
Speaker 1: me screen, hit me your therapist, because I'm guilty of
Speaker 1: that ship. I do that ship too, Like when I
Speaker 1: when I noticed people like not responding to me the same,
Speaker 1: or they're like acting a different way with me or
Speaker 1: whatever than my overthinking kicks in a high gear and
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, so what's going on? Is it about
Speaker 1: to be over? Like? Are they not my friends anymore?
Speaker 1: Do they not like me? Like? But this is only
Speaker 1: with people that, like the few select people that I
Speaker 1: really truly love and care about, Like I don't give
Speaker 1: a funk about nobody else, but the people that I
Speaker 1: love and I care about, they can take me there
Speaker 1: and in. It just sucks up my whole ship, like
Speaker 1: because I'm noticing these changes and I'm trying to figure out,
Speaker 1: like what did I do to make you change the
Speaker 1: way that you're acting towards me? You see what I'm saying? Yeah,
Speaker 1: not for real, Like even if like a kids to
Speaker 1: the point, like even if it's not not even relationships,
Speaker 1: if it's a friend, if it's a French other motherfucker
Speaker 1: could be going through anything just the way he's going
Speaker 1: whether he's what they're going through. But that's why you
Speaker 1: got to communicate whatever whoever he's gonna because if we're
Speaker 1: weak bout communicating that, if we if we're friends, we
Speaker 1: got to communicate. How how you don't have to communicate,
Speaker 1: You don't have to communicate with your friends, like I
Speaker 1: got friends that I don't even talk to. Like I'm saying, no,
Speaker 1: I'm saying if if there's an issue, like you have
Speaker 1: issue with something that I did, and I'm like, damn
Speaker 1: not nothing you did. I could be having an issue
Speaker 1: with bank right now, but be taking my frustrations out
Speaker 1: on you, he said. But I'm You're thinking I'm making
Speaker 1: funny with you, but I'm really just still really just
Speaker 1: backing fun and funny. Yeah, I ain't having fun with nobody.
Speaker 1: I'm just on some funny ship right now. You ain't
Speaker 1: got ship to do with you, Like people take that
Speaker 1: ship too personal. But then that goes back to the
Speaker 1: abandonment trauma. Yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like that's what
Speaker 1: people have to know that, Yeah, because people have to
Speaker 1: know certain ship. See, I'm just a nigga that will
Speaker 1: sit back smoked me a blood and that sick myself. Like,
Speaker 1: hell man, you feel like this because then he fol
Speaker 1: probably thinking about that. How you know you can't read people.
Speaker 1: People may that that's that's that's every human I've been
Speaker 1: doing that ship too, but we can read right now,
Speaker 1: You're never not knowing, ain't no telling what the folks
Speaker 1: got going on when they came around you right, A wrong,
Speaker 1: I don't getting spouse, friendship, family or whatever. You don't
Speaker 1: know because people don't tell you all they fucking bidden
Speaker 1: right now, you're right, You're right, definitely right. So that's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So that that goes back to say
Speaker 1: you're saying you can always see a sign. You can't
Speaker 1: always see a side cause you can't have somebody genuinely
Speaker 1: love you with those same characteristics as a person that's
Speaker 1: showing you some signs. You get what I'm saying, So
Speaker 1: how can you tell like, how can you how can
Speaker 1: you trust love when you are already u because it's
Speaker 1: like it's possible, but ain't of it? That might not be.
Speaker 1: Somebody once told me, this guy once told me, you
Speaker 1: test a woman's love when she has everything, and you
Speaker 1: test a man's love when he don't have anything. No
Speaker 1: that no for it. Like if a woman have everything,
Speaker 1: you'll be able to know if she really really loves you,
Speaker 1: because if she needs you or whatever. But if a
Speaker 1: man don't have anything, he'd be able to show you
Speaker 1: like hell, because I ain't. If nick ain't got nothing,
Speaker 1: he's gonna most definitely love you to death if you
Speaker 1: can do everything for nice what you're trying to say
Speaker 1: this this is going for people period, not just you
Speaker 1: can't divide it. It's both of them. But see a
Speaker 1: person like me, sometimes I'd be like so over the
Speaker 1: ship trying to figure it out. I just don't funk
Speaker 1: with nobody ship. But guess what, at the end of
Speaker 1: the day when you do that, that's what you do.
Speaker 1: You make people around you feel like damn what I
Speaker 1: do to Jake? No, I mean not not not like
Speaker 1: funk with nobody like fun, but I'm talking about like
Speaker 1: on some like love and relationship type. Should I just
Speaker 1: kind of be like just chill on that ship because
Speaker 1: it's like sometimes to be too much trying to figure
Speaker 1: it out, Like why are that here, y'all? I think
Speaker 1: we got emotions. I think we're thinking to get him
Speaker 1: emotions to help process it. That happens to man. I
Speaker 1: think like without the judgment of every to make us
Speaker 1: humans more than anything, Yeah, I mean you you need
Speaker 1: only the only thing to make you human outside the
Speaker 1: fact you don't have scales and fucking like some crazy
Speaker 1: ship needs. These are miracles what we're doing, Like how
Speaker 1: to fun? Do niggas know how to read the nigga
Speaker 1: as and by the movements and this ship crazy what
Speaker 1: we got if you if you tap in deeper, you
Speaker 1: can do a lot, Like we're capable of a lot
Speaker 1: more than what we do, like the people that really
Speaker 1: study human Like you think you're saying what I come
Speaker 1: this now versus what I used to be able to
Speaker 1: do maybe ten fifteen years ago, when I didn't know.
Speaker 1: You know, if you eat better, you work out, you're like, oh, ship,
Speaker 1: I didn't even know I was capable of moving like
Speaker 1: this thinking like you know what I'm saying. If you
Speaker 1: started reading your mind that type of ship, real ship,
Speaker 1: capable of a lot more. And just like you in
Speaker 1: the therapy, I'll be in the meditation. When you getting
Speaker 1: the meditation, bro, you go to another space. You're almost floating.
Speaker 1: Just be quiet, yeah, and tell your brain to be quiet.
Speaker 1: But that's hard. It's hardy. I can't stop thanking. Like, forget,
Speaker 1: I'm in the car. Somebody sent me down. I could
Speaker 1: be driving something. I could just be driving, bro, and
Speaker 1: be so caught up in my thoughts. I forget what
Speaker 1: let him go on the first time I sat down
Speaker 1: to meditate. Yeah, I'll be doing that. I couldn't do
Speaker 1: this in the first couple of times. It's a god.
Speaker 1: It's it's like a miracle that I didn't crash or like,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, run off the road and
Speaker 1: I'm still doing it. But my mind I click out,
Speaker 1: Like I'll be thinking about some ship and I'll click
Speaker 1: out and then click back in and I'm still like coasting.
Speaker 1: Like thank god, nobody hit the break, sir, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, No ship like that, Like I've done
Speaker 1: that before, plenty of time off. Yeah, meditation, Just try
Speaker 1: when you first tried meditating. I know when I first started,
Speaker 1: I tried to No, not even true. When I first started,
Speaker 1: I tried to only think of blood. I'm gonna try
Speaker 1: to only see pitch black. No, don't do it being
Speaker 1: a happy place when you try, but just try to
Speaker 1: and you you stop your mind, like you literally stop
Speaker 1: your mind from thinking. It's just everything. First, did it clear?
Speaker 1: All I thought about was sex, money and all the No, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: first true, I'm meditated. Yeah, we need to have a
Speaker 1: Strom party. But I don't say it was money and
Speaker 1: sex and all that. I told the person that was
Speaker 1: teaching me, Like all I'm thinking about is all the
Speaker 1: ship that we think about. But when you keep doing it,
Speaker 1: just like an exercise, eventually like I can turn my
Speaker 1: brain off and do what and it'll be blank. You
Speaker 1: haven't seen that lebron calm ship. I'm telling this really
Speaker 1: really can not do that. Meditate. I've done up the
Speaker 1: two hours where you high thinking about ship, sober, sober, faster,
Speaker 1: and that ship is possible. You really can thinking about
Speaker 1: hours they do eight hours. See, I'll be at the
Speaker 1: tuble acting like I ain't thinking about ship category that's yeah,
Speaker 1: didn't even zone that. Like it's so deep your senses
Speaker 1: to turn off everything that's passion. You can't smell, you
Speaker 1: just you just you zone out. It's like you sleep,
Speaker 1: but you up. You're aware. It raised your awareness and ship,
Speaker 1: but you put your brain off. And what did it do?
Speaker 1: When you come back? You centered? You bounce, you're thinking.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you think clear everything like I had them
Speaker 1: days like today. Jay don't know she's been better. She's
Speaker 1: on fire. She's when she's on fire. You did something
Speaker 1: to create that. I'm telling you something you did eight
Speaker 1: slept put you in that zone. Sneaking put that zone
Speaker 1: when niggers going their zone. Something to check out. The fencibles,
Speaker 1: no fencimose drugs. Why she can't just you know, got
Speaker 1: pop good. She's on the shore. Can't be like a
Speaker 1: regular woman. The yoyoga is part of that. But my
Speaker 1: body do all that yoga and meditation thing. It's you
Speaker 1: know what you gotta you know what you gotta try
Speaker 1: real ship. And I did this and like if I
Speaker 1: was like a person that was like really like into
Speaker 1: the sweat. I do it every day and the heat
Speaker 1: and ship like that hot yoga. I heard of it.
Speaker 1: I never tried it. You should try guided meditation. No,
Speaker 1: I'm serious. Like you can look up on YouTube like
Speaker 1: guided meditation. It'll help you meditate. How the here you
Speaker 1: go blank? So you get your phone and you you meditate.
Speaker 1: You don't even know it. I'm smoking that weed is meditating,
Speaker 1: that's what it is. Huh. Smoking weed is meditation. Oh
Speaker 1: I'm good. It's not the full real meditation. That's where
Speaker 1: from like Indian peace pipes and ship. It's just silence.
Speaker 1: I tell everybody you ain't got to meditate, but you
Speaker 1: need to have some silence sometimes so so you when
Speaker 1: you meditate, you know you can't think. And then you
Speaker 1: were thinking of you out. I'm telling you it's like
Speaker 1: being sleep. I'm telling you it's real. It sounds like
Speaker 1: some crazy ship, but this is doctor. You can ask
Speaker 1: people you can meditate and tune out. Then when you
Speaker 1: come back, try meditated on your way. For me, for example,
Speaker 1: I can't. I just doned out. I was thinking. I
Speaker 1: was like, for me, you meditate, Joe, Joe, do you meditate? No?
Speaker 1: God damn Okay, So look for me, I can't sleep
Speaker 1: unless I meditate. Like I have to put on meditation
Speaker 1: music on my way for me to go to sleep.
Speaker 1: Turn it off, turn off all my TVs, and everything
Speaker 1: be pitch black, and I have to meditate my way sleep.
Speaker 1: And then when I wake up, I feel like super bombed.
Speaker 1: I feel super refreshed. All the meditation music was going
Speaker 1: on the whole night. So you don't lay in the
Speaker 1: bad and look at TV. Not when I'm going to sleep. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: on my way to sleep, when I know it's winding down,
Speaker 1: turn everything off. You meditate with hook in the room
Speaker 1: TV in your bedroom. No, you can't, because he like
Speaker 1: you rest your body, your temple, your mind, your spirit,
Speaker 1: everything like you rested. Yeah, you think the last thing
Speaker 1: you see on that TV is sub consciously crazy because
Speaker 1: it was on your TV. Like if you're dreaming, Like,
Speaker 1: if you're dreaming and you're dreaming about some crazy as ship,
Speaker 1: nine times out of ten it's because TV. So you
Speaker 1: got to turn all that ship off. I was watching
Speaker 1: scary ship one time. You dreaming crazy nightmare, worst night.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, by the time I get in the house,
Speaker 1: the news beyond that's your problem. Like that's what I'd
Speaker 1: be looking at when I go to sleep. No, you
Speaker 1: turn that ship off because you while you wake up, Yeah,
Speaker 1: ready to kill kill Damn. You could turn and I'm
Speaker 1: done with it. You could, you could. You can turn
Speaker 1: your brain off. A big part of fashion is turning
Speaker 1: your car off. Like I want to try that ship.
Speaker 1: Let your body rest from having to digest all the
Speaker 1: time and ship. Like if you want to break, you
Speaker 1: want a vacation. Vacation from digesting ship all the time.
Speaker 1: That's what people fast. Let me ask you this, have
Speaker 1: you ever done like a water fast? Not water alone?
Speaker 1: Like water? I'm trying, but that's it hard, Like I
Speaker 1: want food. I made about two days. I a't gonna
Speaker 1: lie to you. I did water and linar but isn't
Speaker 1: that unhealthy for you to only drink water. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to be at a caloric deficit. I'm trying to drop weight.
Speaker 1: So what about water and fruit? Have you ever done that?
Speaker 1: They're like, no, I've done vegan. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like no meat. But I don't do well when I
Speaker 1: don't eat. That's just me. Yeah, I don't do good
Speaker 1: when I don't need either. But they say that after
Speaker 1: like the second or third day he used to it
Speaker 1: for sure, your body resets and it's not a problem
Speaker 1: no more. Definitely get used to this ship. I want to.
Speaker 1: I want to. I'll be hungry that ship in your
Speaker 1: mind though, Man for this ship, I was gonna say,
Speaker 1: I ain't set up for that one. Now do it
Speaker 1: want to eat? Even go straight to rama Dunn do it?
Speaker 1: But I don't. After sundown and ship, whatever you want
Speaker 1: to eat. Then at that point, right when I was
Speaker 1: on the road, some struggle with it. But you can
Speaker 1: do whatever the FLA. You can do whatever you put
Speaker 1: your mind to. That's all I'm saying. You just say
Speaker 1: you don't want to do it, like some shing I
Speaker 1: don't want to do I don't want to do yoga.
Speaker 1: I'm not doing this ship. What if you do a
Speaker 1: big facts fast together as a team, regular schedule. What
Speaker 1: the hell was we talking about? You said how much
Speaker 1: you can't eat? Yeah? I did that ship on them,
Speaker 1: that ship really Like the first day, I was irritated
Speaker 1: because like I was used to, but I didn't want to,
Speaker 1: like I didn't want to eat in front of them,
Speaker 1: and they couldn't eat. So we all just did it together.
Speaker 1: And after like the first or second day, like how
Speaker 1: you feel, how you feel after after the third, from
Speaker 1: the third to the seventh day or the eighth dayor
Speaker 1: however many days I felt great exactly, I felt great.
Speaker 1: You can eat whatever you want, you just can't eat
Speaker 1: until after that came in. Here, you pray, and then
Speaker 1: you break your fast after after the sun go down. Yeah,
Speaker 1: with a piece of bread or like some crackers or
Speaker 1: something that you can eat food and you can eat
Speaker 1: whatever you eat, just not with Muslims. Don't eat pork
Speaker 1: and ship. Yeah that's that. I'm back to your regular schedule.
Speaker 1: A big facts program. Can you find love after you're successful?
Speaker 1: Called that says you can, but it's hard. I'm about
Speaker 1: to say, but you can. But it's hard. It's gonna
Speaker 1: be hard as hell. Jojo, what do you think can
Speaker 1: you find love after you famous? Yes, we're good. God.
Speaker 1: It might not be genuine, but they love you know damn,
Speaker 1: I know that that's hard. It might not be genuine,
Speaker 1: but they're love. But you gotta be genuine. People would
Speaker 1: love you for what you do for them. So if
Speaker 1: you're successful, are you doing for them? They're gonna love you,
Speaker 1: not love that's conveniced. But that's still they still and
Speaker 1: ship is confused? Is she right? Really? But you could? Okay,
Speaker 1: what if that person is on the same level you
Speaker 1: didn't at that point? You can what you say? You
Speaker 1: got that money? I love you? What if she don't
Speaker 1: give up love? It's a it's different types of love. No,
Speaker 1: it's different types of love. So that's like that we're
Speaker 1: going the wrong You can if somebody running I thought
Speaker 1: it most of the tradition, No, no, no condition to
Speaker 1: totally different words. Bro, What you mean I can conditionally
Speaker 1: love you or I can just love you? Okay, but
Speaker 1: that regular, that regular nigga love comes away conditions. Bro. Listen, Like,
Speaker 1: if she's on the same love with you, I think
Speaker 1: the people are on the same level. I think you
Speaker 1: can find your love. How like if I got bread.
Speaker 1: If I got bread and you got bread and then
Speaker 1: we just so happened to me and we like each
Speaker 1: other and it works, then I don't think now you're
Speaker 1: getting on some equally young ship. Yeah, you don't think
Speaker 1: that a person is up can find the love with
Speaker 1: a person that they know. No, that's that. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: can at that point. I don't think it would be genuine. No,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be. It's possible to find general love, but
Speaker 1: the relationship it's gonna it's possible that the relationship is
Speaker 1: going to be strained at some point because one of
Speaker 1: them is up here and the other one is down there.
Speaker 1: So y'all preach it equally with that, it's just sucked
Speaker 1: up that because it could be a great person that
Speaker 1: just don't have but just because the mother equally. Still
Speaker 1: don't mean y'all, wait, you can't find real love if
Speaker 1: the person don't love each other like that. You just
Speaker 1: might feel like, God, damn ship a bit you ain't broke.
Speaker 1: I'm screaming what I'm saying. You might just feel like
Speaker 1: sh just I'm learn to love this straight. This is
Speaker 1: I think. But it's sad. You can always grow to
Speaker 1: little somebody. Yeah, but what if they don't even know
Speaker 1: who you are? Like at that point, like if I
Speaker 1: don't know who Bank is and I meet him, I
Speaker 1: could be broke, but I don't know who he Who
Speaker 1: you are and what you got's not necessarily get one
Speaker 1: thing about you don't know me. After you see how
Speaker 1: I moved the the gym, you can tell that man
Speaker 1: was lying. He said he did. He didn't know who
Speaker 1: she was. He's lying, ship, But just because he didn't
Speaker 1: watch it, don't mean it's lie. You could. We're talking
Speaker 1: about energy. His energy was a famous skater in front
Speaker 1: of me right now, I wouldn't know we would. But
Speaker 1: if we were talking about her, like we talked about famous,
Speaker 1: famous or rich either or you the rich nigga in
Speaker 1: front of a broke nigga. He know he rich? You
Speaker 1: put from right down, got on what you're gonna tell.
Speaker 1: You can tell from their actions the truth. Like if
Speaker 1: a nigger, you can't really hide it because the way
Speaker 1: your taste buzz. Don't even eat money, nig anybody that's broken,
Speaker 1: you can tell a person that's on a better status
Speaker 1: than you. Yeah, because you know when you're at. You
Speaker 1: can see this in these folks conversation. She could just
Speaker 1: be in the conversation. She could be in the way
Speaker 1: they fucking hold their hand, or how you sit across
Speaker 1: his legs, or how she you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: how she brushes her hand back. He's bitch got so
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You can tell. So you're
Speaker 1: saying that you can tell. You can always tell when
Speaker 1: somebody when somebody has it. Yeah, So that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You can tell. You can tell when the motherfucker wants it.
Speaker 1: You can tell when mother is there for your ship.
Speaker 1: Snake cans are gonna show their face at that sometime.
Speaker 1: He needed really good at it. We're gonna bring it
Speaker 1: like a ball that j g a too short of
Speaker 1: hand and revisit that you tricked trick you forever. Stop
Speaker 1: I trick you? What were we just found out today?
Speaker 1: I guess what. There's somebody who can trick you. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: especially sweet, and you're gonna get tricked out again. I
Speaker 1: die for this, bi y'all about this. I don't even
Speaker 1: talk about my you know how I quit. I don't
Speaker 1: even look at my girl. Nigger how it's all in
Speaker 1: the corner. Who DEMI man, you know, learn it from them,
Speaker 1: have been in generation generational Now that's something you gotta learn.
Speaker 1: Real ship like you damn damn like and you got
Speaker 1: coaches aunties and when you get ready to break, I
Speaker 1: don't think I could do it no more. This nick
Speaker 1: just don't do it? Girl, girl, What are you gonna do? Then?
Speaker 1: What are you gonna like? Alternative I'm gonna do. Coach
Speaker 1: you right back to put it like that Kardashian type. Huh.
Speaker 1: Put it out there. It's like that Kardashian type ship,
Speaker 1: like what generational? Oh you're talking? Ah yeah, Now they
Speaker 1: have their own bad but they were they moved there
Speaker 1: having bags don't work. The mama started to move and
Speaker 1: then she put it on down to her kids. Well, hey,
Speaker 1: maybe maybe they loved the people they were with. She
Speaker 1: still going with a black dude, absolutely, and he played
Speaker 1: his part. I know, I feel like to each his own.
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, a niggle ready
Speaker 1: to play over for when you reach bitches you've been like,
Speaker 1: I love you today. I got that one dude that
Speaker 1: she's like, come on man. So so like Nika's always
Speaker 1: trying to act like they can't. So you think if
Speaker 1: you was donna try, you couldn't for real, honestly putting
Speaker 1: your head that I'm not guilt. Just think about that,
Speaker 1: like if you like when the police pull you over,
Speaker 1: you know that she smelled like you just smote the
Speaker 1: blame like smell like how you think you're not convincing?
Speaker 1: Then I just dropped my son off at the nursery, sir, well,
Speaker 1: I just left out the club and they were smoking
Speaker 1: in the club that were probably whatever whatever lot you
Speaker 1: tell You're going to be convincing right right for your life,
Speaker 1: right all right? So you think that can't convince for her?
Speaker 1: Principle applies, Okay, I get it, Koda, he ready to
Speaker 1: get tricked. You think you think if she knows, she
Speaker 1: ain't got no other way, she cannot convince you that
Speaker 1: she loved you. Look, she has a yam cam. Ye
Speaker 1: call that Kevin, My what are my cabin about? Can
Speaker 1: be treated? Anybody can't be tricked like anybody? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: that that was different spelling. Girls, Tell y'all what happened,
Speaker 1: don't shot our code was talking to this girl and
Speaker 1: the whole store. So they went out on a date
Speaker 1: and he was meaning up at the spot and told
Speaker 1: the girl to meet him at the spot. Well, she
Speaker 1: hit him up, like dann, you're not gonna come pick
Speaker 1: me up. And he's like, oh, shift, I didn't know.
Speaker 1: I didn't know even pick me up. Cool, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: pick you up. He went picked shortly up. On the
Speaker 1: way back to the spot, She's like, oh, can you
Speaker 1: can you stop somewhere real quick? I gotta pick something up.
Speaker 1: He's like, sure, what we need to go. She's like,
Speaker 1: I gotta go to zails. I gotta go to zails.
Speaker 1: I gotta pick up my earrings. And I'm like he
Speaker 1: telling me the story. I'm like, okay, so so I happened.
Speaker 1: He was like, I took her to sales, you know,
Speaker 1: let her get her stuff, and then we want to
Speaker 1: get something. She went picked them up and they went
Speaker 1: out to eat. So he tells me the story and
Speaker 1: I'm like, code, that sounds like she try to try
Speaker 1: to get you to pay for them, erring. She wanted
Speaker 1: to try you to see if he was from errands.
Speaker 1: He's like, nah, it ain't it. That ain't it. I'm
Speaker 1: like okay, cool. So I'm all righty, just just keep
Speaker 1: your head on the swivel. Boom. Weeks go by, they
Speaker 1: go out again. Now he's feeling shorty. He's like, I
Speaker 1: really like her. I'm doing things that I don't never
Speaker 1: really do. Woo woo. So he likes, Shorty, I'm on
Speaker 1: that with you. I like you. I want to take
Speaker 1: it there with you. And she says, all right, well
Speaker 1: I'll come with a lot. He's like, okay, I'm staying that.
Speaker 1: You know what you need, like, yeah, I got your
Speaker 1: take care of you, like, oh my mortgages, responsible, shrue
Speaker 1: true shu shu shu shoes. She came with her move
Speaker 1: out back though, but do you imagine see because I'm
Speaker 1: gonna I'm telling you why you injected it because she
Speaker 1: was too upfront and she would have gotten them found
Speaker 1: the way to get your lither it in Like, I
Speaker 1: don't know what I'm gonna do. I've been out here
Speaker 1: in my bills. Here you go something on it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she didn't get something on it would the back, yeah,
Speaker 1: but she did it to Yeah, and we want She said,
Speaker 1: you're getting out, you're getting out to you together, get
Speaker 1: him out of here. And you just watched her. I
Speaker 1: was ship big homi times on the car I paid
Speaker 1: for the food. Yeah, you sh a month and half,
Speaker 1: don't don't. I don't get That's why he didn't get.
Speaker 1: She's trying to say he's some pussy. Really she was
Speaker 1: really trying to sell in my house. If she was
Speaker 1: trying to get him, well, why she said her house?
Speaker 1: If you ain't hit and all that? So why you
Speaker 1: just like ship? Hey? You know what I'm saying once
Speaker 1: you're seeing it, because you won't hear the right I did.
Speaker 1: That should have been like she but I have a
Speaker 1: question something, But let get this ship feeling because you
Speaker 1: don't even get the little MoMA. I won't get the
Speaker 1: pussy you trying to got them? What is your question?
Speaker 1: I was gonna trying to change question. Why do you offer? Then?
Speaker 1: I wasn't thinking, bro I felt so tried. I was
Speaker 1: like you she loved I was you were tricked. I
Speaker 1: wasn't hurt. I felt tried case clod, I felt trying
Speaker 1: to death for that. You're there for a relationship. I
Speaker 1: have a question relationships with girls before they have there
Speaker 1: And there's plenty people in relationships making relationships with girls.
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, So you was about to take
Speaker 1: it to the next level, say that. Oh so that
Speaker 1: was your way of trying on the hill. Yeah, yeah, Dawn,
Speaker 1: but you you try, you can be mad. Yeah, you're
Speaker 1: trying each other. Yeah, you can't be mad. She didn't.
Speaker 1: It's not even trade, that is Huh how would sex
Speaker 1: and even trade? It's not even trade? What you mean?
Speaker 1: I'm sucking you? You you that's probably gonna fuck her?
Speaker 1: Who found out? Niggas that probably want to suck her
Speaker 1: that they're gonna pay that little honey? You know who
Speaker 1: how many negative rodeo that mortgage was paying you was
Speaker 1: gonna it was? I was a little something as light
Speaker 1: bills and ship Yeah, you know, hey, but I did
Speaker 1: get tricked. Damn what she on to help me house show? Nay,
Speaker 1: I've been the same some expulsion to still charge you
Speaker 1: like that? Na? What we're not doing that? So not
Speaker 1: going for that? What you think everybody give me trick? Oh? No,
Speaker 1: everybody could bestuff. It might be slight get better. What
Speaker 1: I'm saying is, can you find love after you like
Speaker 1: successful like a nigga? Like you can? But I think
Speaker 1: I think I think you can't to like at the
Speaker 1: top of the wife like I believe that later really
Speaker 1: loved I believe that got her own money. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, that makes it of course, of
Speaker 1: course re elevated. She helped like probably elevated man. Whatever.
Speaker 1: You know how Neigna think it different. You got somebody
Speaker 1: that love you, love you like if you love me?
Speaker 1: The negative the niggadi pulls up in the drive through
Speaker 1: at McDonald's the chick, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: can she be the chick for that millionaire Niggers to
Speaker 1: drive through? She's a beautiful woman, right, but she's working
Speaker 1: in McDonald's in the drive through. All I need to
Speaker 1: a wipe up down you can't. But also a lot
Speaker 1: you need to meet our person see where her mind
Speaker 1: is a lot of a lot of good. But what
Speaker 1: I'm just saying is that can that had that makes
Speaker 1: sense to wipe down the match. Some people will say,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't not what I'm saying that you might not
Speaker 1: have to wipe up She might be I might like
Speaker 1: what I see and they're not meet you start hanging
Speaker 1: with you. But that's the whole part again, trick. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't know because you pull up a whole meal
Speaker 1: and that ship. You don't know if she like you
Speaker 1: from the beginning, you like. But but the thing about
Speaker 1: that is, though, like you gotta be everybody woman like that,
Speaker 1: because a lot of times that day, in that situation,
Speaker 1: they already or it could be something coming to Erica.
Speaker 1: It's got to be saying, yeah, don't about what you got.
Speaker 1: She don't care. She don't even want you. She wants you,
Speaker 1: but she don't care about none of that. Now, women
Speaker 1: don't care about money. We're not saying that. I'm saying
Speaker 1: they're not going, yeah, they're not gonna assume that every
Speaker 1: time they see some money is bay money, yeah or not?
Speaker 1: Because you got your own ship. One thing is not
Speaker 1: about somebody money. Like just because you got money on me,
Speaker 1: you're gonna motherfucker's every bit in the world care about money.
Speaker 1: But I'm to pay bills. Oh no, no, not every
Speaker 1: because you got money. But she she see the nigger,
Speaker 1: she liked that they got money. She gonna fuck. That's different.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying not money that she yeah, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: but was something. But but you know, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying that time about the form. They ain't trying
Speaker 1: to be with him. They're trying to be with this
Speaker 1: n with his money, but they could like a nigga
Speaker 1: with no money and try to coach him to get
Speaker 1: See the broken niggle with the money could be a dickhead, though,
Speaker 1: and a broken nigger could just down on his luck.
Speaker 1: Don't put the time in for that plusson when you're
Speaker 1: already going to kill all that like he's gonna do
Speaker 1: what it takes. The nigga code, that man code that
Speaker 1: say he got them can't be treatd he been treated?
Speaker 1: I was was attempted. There was an attempting the Mexican
Speaker 1: restaurant one day trip to calls and I'm like, I
Speaker 1: can hear that hold on this screen scream what's up?
Speaker 1: He won't be I want I wasn't there and shooting trick.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I just you know what, if I
Speaker 1: like something, I'm gonna kicking with you. If if I
Speaker 1: really like somebody, because I'm not I'm not know what
Speaker 1: you're doing as nigga, I'm not gonna see them text
Speaker 1: you what you're doing thirty times? Check him out. If
Speaker 1: I like you, hey, You'm gonna take you out and
Speaker 1: see if I really like you. That you ever had
Speaker 1: a girl on your show? That man on my show
Speaker 1: I think so. Yeah, yeah, ain't none of them all? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I have no because I'll be trying to keep it
Speaker 1: professional because because I'm not trying to get me too
Speaker 1: out here. I'm not trying to get me too out
Speaker 1: here for him for the yam cam. Moving forward, it's
Speaker 1: very it's getting really that nigga told me he was
Speaker 1: mamah but yeah, yeah before Yeah, it's been real. It's
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