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Speaker 2: I know that's right. And we are gonna have a

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Speaker 2: great show for you guys. Today. We have an author

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Speaker 2: And of course we have a really fun show plan

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Speaker 2: for y'all. And we started off with some love and

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Speaker 2: some positivity. Eight fifty is a number to call this up.

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Speaker 2: Let's shine a light, let's bread some love, because guess

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Speaker 2: what what we needed more than all right, eight hundred

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Speaker 4: Turn your lights on y'all, spreading love to those who

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Speaker 2: Shine the light on them, Shine the light on them.

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Speaker 4: It's time to shine a light.

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Speaker 2: On what's up his way up at Angela. Yee, I'm Angela. Yee.

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Speaker 2: Jasmine Brand is here.

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Speaker 3: What's up Angela?

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Speaker 2: And when I tell y'all we had an amazing weekend,

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Speaker 2: I can't stop talking about Dallas. But I want to

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Speaker 2: and beyond and Erica, Tony and Shade they work with

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Speaker 2: go above and beyond, and we respect it all. Right, now,

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Speaker 2: who do you guys want to shine a light on?

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Speaker 2: Eight hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty Joelene, what's good?

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Speaker 2: Who do you want to shine a light on? Anisia Anderson?

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Speaker 2: Tanisha Anderson tell us about her.

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Speaker 6: Wow, she my big sister, and she literally upholds that

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Speaker 2: Oh, sisterhood one of the most important things. And to

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Speaker 6: Like it is ma'am you already Knowliot.

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Speaker 8: Donald Trump wants to destroy not only the city but

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Speaker 2: He was with his friends and they were in Tacoma, Washington,

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Speaker 3: Yep, for sure, you know, but that and what do

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Speaker 2: So I did that for my security system, and I've

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Speaker 3: That was a and I. At first, I was like Angela,

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Speaker 2: What's up? Its way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee.

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Speaker 10: I work for this particular company that winds up closing

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Speaker 7: They dropped the bag.

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Speaker 10: The guy, he was a mean, nasty guy, that Cooper Boxer.

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Speaker 10: But the lame guy that dropped it, he wound up

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Speaker 10: Because the area that he dropped it in. I already

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Speaker 6: My secret is when I was twelve years old, I

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Speaker 7: She's angela like this news generation.

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Speaker 2: Let's get it.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, angelus feeling that yee tea, Come.

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Speaker 2: And get your tea. What's up his way up at

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Speaker 2: Angela yee? I'm Angela yee. And Jasmine brand is here, yes,

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Speaker 3: Well, Texas, which had a lot of land.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's amazing. It's a ranch. It's a two hours

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Speaker 2: You know people are talking about his purchase, they're talking

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a real house. That's you know that that

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Speaker 3: I just wouldn't want it. That's just too much.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know what, for this sake of me loving prince,

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, can you imagine that? Would that would be

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Speaker 2: What's up his way up at Angela? Yeah, I'm here, Jason,

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Speaker 3: I would you travel now? Negative? Not no way?

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Speaker 2: Nothing, all right, Well, you know what, best of luck

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Speaker 2: have a Wealth Wednesday guest. Today, doctor Rob Gore is

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Speaker 2: the power, like the funniest way up.

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Speaker 5: Just like the talk like they Angela Jean, like they

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Speaker 5: Angela Jean.

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Speaker 4: Man, she's spilling it all this is.

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Speaker 2: Yet, well, what's up his way up? At Angela Yee?

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Speaker 2: I'm Angela Yee And Jasmine brand is here.

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Speaker 3: What up though?

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Speaker 2: What up though? That's right to trade me outside. And

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Speaker 2: let's get into some of these stories that I actually

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Speaker 2: saw on the Jasmine brand. Make sure you follow them

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Speaker 2: on the Jasmine brand three sixty five on Instagram. Okay,

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Speaker 2: because I'm Hayes, got your page taken down. But remember

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Speaker 2: hay and ain't happy and happy, ain't hate.

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Speaker 3: In I know that's.

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Speaker 2: So. Lavelle Crawford was on Club Shasha okay, and he

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Speaker 2: said a few different things. He talked about little Duball

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Speaker 2: threatening him. I don't know how that would go if

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Speaker 2: they had to fight, but here's what he has to say.

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Speaker 1: The ball threatened to beat me up anyway eight pounds.

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Speaker 1: I said, what side you're gonna beat up.

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Speaker 8: You?

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Speaker 2: You ain't? You got this lived on me? If I

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Speaker 2: put it on you let the club. Another thing that

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Speaker 2: he discussed was Ricky Smiley bailing him out of jail. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and how listen, if anybody ever bailed me out of jail,

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Speaker 2: you are my friend for life.

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Speaker 3: I know that's right.

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Speaker 1: I'm sitting them saying, oh crid, and I was scared

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Speaker 1: to death with my phone. My cell phone rang and

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Speaker 1: it was Ricky Smiley and they seen Rieky s Miney,

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Speaker 1: you know, Riky Smiley, so that you know he had

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Speaker 1: got a name down there, Ricy Smiley keep calling you

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Speaker 1: and I was saying, oh man, and he said, man,

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Speaker 1: we ain't really see what happened. The police just probably

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Speaker 1: then because they thought, y'all just disrupt the peete. We

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Speaker 1: can let you out of here if you're gonna come down,

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Speaker 1: says you know Riggy Smiley, I said, and he said

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Speaker 1: he could vouch for me that I'm a.

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Speaker 2: Good personal all right, And you know, in the beginning

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Speaker 2: of that, he also said, e Freky Smiley. But he

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Speaker 2: was kidding, and so people took those comments seriously. But

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Speaker 2: he went on social media and said if you would

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Speaker 2: listen to the whole damn thing, well we do that.

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Speaker 3: You know, people don't.

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Speaker 2: People don't do that. It was a joke. And also

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Speaker 2: from the Jasmine brand, let's talk about our guy Lorenz tape.

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Speaker 2: He is getting ready to play Barry Gordy and Michael

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Speaker 2: Jackson biopic. And here's what he posted.

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Speaker 6: That's what you what to do.

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Speaker 8: Get into my song, get into my mode, over my material, cap.

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Speaker 2: Shure, y'all. Stuff that's gonna be a good movie.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I could definitely see him in their role.

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Speaker 5: So he's good at playing portraying significant you know figures

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Speaker 5: in Hollywood.

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Speaker 7: Song.

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Speaker 2: I can see him in their training the artists and

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Speaker 2: you know, making sure they work with each other and

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Speaker 2: do their media training. And yeah, all right, well shout

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Speaker 2: out to you, Lawrence, say that's dope and that is

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Speaker 2: your yee t. And when we come back, we have

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Speaker 2: asked yee. Eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty

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Speaker 2: is a number. Call us up any question that you have.

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Speaker 2: We are here to help you out. Me and Jasmine

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Speaker 2: Brand is way up.

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Speaker 4: This relationship with Korea advice, Angela's dropping facts.

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Speaker 2: You should you should know. This is ask gee, what's up?

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Speaker 2: Its way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee and

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Speaker 2: Jasmine Brand is here with me and it's time for

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Speaker 2: ask ye. Eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty

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Speaker 2: is a number. We have Mariah on the line. What's up? Mariah?

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Speaker 11: Hey girl?

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Speaker 2: How you doing good? How are you girl? Power? What's good?

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Speaker 11: I know That's where I'm like, let me call my

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Speaker 11: homegirl cause she gets the best advice.

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Speaker 2: And I need it. Okay, we're listening. I was having

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Speaker 2: a three year affair.

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Speaker 11: Everything was good, coup esthetic, and then I got pregnant.

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Speaker 2: Baby comes wife finds.

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Speaker 11: Out because I had to tell her because you're not

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Speaker 11: gonna not take care of my kids.

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Speaker 2: Wow, you tell he didn't tell his wife? You did?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I had to because after I got pregnant, he

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Speaker 11: started acting kind of iffy. So I have the baby

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Speaker 11: or whatever, and everything's good for like the first three months,

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Speaker 11: and then he wanted me to sit on the side

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Speaker 11: when I was the side, Like, how is that possible?

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Speaker 11: So he went back to the white and han't heard

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Speaker 11: from him since.

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Speaker 2: I go put him on child support.

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Speaker 11: So now he's mad that he's on child support, but

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Speaker 11: he hasn't paid it.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, if he doesn't pay his child support, that's

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Speaker 2: gonna be his own legal issues that he's gonna have

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Speaker 2: to deal with. That's on him. And just so you know,

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Speaker 2: we can't condone like you know, you know what it was.

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Speaker 2: You were the side piece. You got pregnant, told his wife.

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Speaker 2: He was mad, but then his wife kicked him out.

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Speaker 2: He ended up coming with you and then he did

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Speaker 2: the same thing to you that he did to her.

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Speaker 2: He got a lot of issues. Yes, you have a

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Speaker 2: beautiful child now. But you have a father who was

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Speaker 2: never really going to be the man that he needed

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Speaker 2: to be for any woman or you know, let alone

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Speaker 2: a child. So I just feel like all you can

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Speaker 2: do is make him pay what he needs to pay

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Speaker 2: if he wants to see his child. You know, hopefully

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Speaker 2: he'll come around to be a better co parent. As

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Speaker 2: far as dating, is it somebody you still want to be.

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Speaker 11: With, No, not at all.

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Speaker 10: You know.

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Speaker 11: Honestly, with me not having my first daughter's dad around,

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Speaker 11: I really was just trying to make it so that

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Speaker 11: my other daughter can have a dad, I guess, but

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Speaker 11: I never really wanted him.

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Speaker 6: The thing about it is, you know I already moved on.

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Speaker 11: I'm pregnant already with a whole other situation.

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Speaker 3: Well, fertile girl, okay, you got yours.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So who is this guy now?

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Speaker 11: Same situations?

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Speaker 10: What not?

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Speaker 3: Come on, Mariah, they don't come married.

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Speaker 11: You just find it out later.

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Speaker 5: You see little things, Yeah, you see little red flags

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Speaker 5: that you probably ignore.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, every time.

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Speaker 2: Don't ignore those red flags? All right? Well, Mariah, all

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Speaker 2: I can tell you is, you know, be the best

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Speaker 2: mom that you can be from this point moving forward.

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Speaker 2: But I do want you to take some accountability and

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Speaker 2: make some better, smarter decisions for yourself. Sure, accountability is key, Okay,

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Speaker 2: we could try. All right, Well, our best of luck

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Speaker 2: to you, and please have a safe pregnancy and don't

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Speaker 2: stress yourself out over things you can't control. I'm not

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Speaker 2: that's right, okay, girl, that was ask ye eight hundred

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Speaker 2: two nine fifty fifty. You can always leave a message

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Speaker 2: and we will answer your question that way and when

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Speaker 2: we come back. The author of Treating Violence emergency room

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Speaker 2: doctor to Rob Gore is joining us. He's from Brooklyn,

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Speaker 2: by the way. Okay, Yeah, we went to the same

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Speaker 2: elementary school. Oh wow, randomly Okay, But he's going to

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Speaker 2: be joining us to talk about what he has seen

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Speaker 2: and witnessed and why he decided he needed to start

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Speaker 2: his own organization after seeing what goes on in the

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Speaker 2: emergency room. All right, He's got some amazing stories and solutions.

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Speaker 2: It's way out.

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Speaker 5: I kind of dream of wealthy, and I don't mind

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Speaker 5: sharing my wealth.

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Speaker 4: Dogs getting you straight financially, mentally, and physically. This is

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Speaker 4: wealth Wednesday on Way Up with Angela Yee?

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Speaker 2: What's up? Is Way up with Angela?

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Speaker 6: Yee?

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Speaker 2: I'm Angela yee on a Wealth Wednesday, and my Wealth

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Speaker 2: Wednesday partner, Stacy Tisday is here. Happy Wealth Wednesdays.

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Speaker 9: Well, you're so excited, sit down and enjoy the conversation

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Speaker 9: that's about to come to you with doctor Rob Gore.

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Speaker 7: Right, thanks for having me today.

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Speaker 2: But the reason why this is a Wealth Wednesday is

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Speaker 2: because when it comes to treating violence, you work in

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Speaker 2: the emergency room. A lot of what happens with our

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Speaker 2: youth can be traced back to trauma they've had as

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Speaker 2: a child. Things do get passed down. A lot of

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Speaker 2: it have to do with the influences and how we

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Speaker 2: grew up and opportunities, and so this is just something

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Speaker 2: that I want to make sure we talk about because

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Speaker 2: it's such an important topic.

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Speaker 8: So I've been an emergency physician this is year twenty

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Speaker 8: two since I finished medical school. And being somebody who

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Speaker 8: grew up in the community with people of color and

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Speaker 8: practicing medicine, emergency medicine with populations who are also of color,

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Speaker 8: things start to resonate a little bit differently, and we

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Speaker 8: start seeing people coming into the hospital with repeat injuries

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Speaker 8: and repeat conditions. You have to start asking yourself why,

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Speaker 8: And so I began looking at violence and trauma through

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Speaker 8: a lens of public health under meaning that if you

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Speaker 8: understand the risk factors, were understand the conditions in which

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Speaker 8: people come from, if we can help tweak those and

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Speaker 8: modify or at least provide levels of support for those conditions,

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Speaker 8: that we can change the scope about violence and particularly

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Speaker 8: recurrent violence. There are a series of studies that talk

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Speaker 8: about adverse childhood experiences, and when they talk about stress,

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Speaker 8: hormones and these things impact your immune systems.

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Speaker 7: So if you're.

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Speaker 8: Constantly stressed and fight or flight, you don't fight off infection.

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Speaker 10: Well.

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Speaker 8: But people who experience a lot of average childhood experiences,

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Speaker 8: they have earlier deaths, they are more prone to develop

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Speaker 8: autoimmune problems, they're more prone to develop heart disease purely

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Speaker 8: because of this repeated trauma that they experience without having

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Speaker 8: any period to really process it. And so we've got

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Speaker 8: to start looking at this stuff through a very protective lens,

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Speaker 8: through a very preventative lens, because prevention is a lot

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Speaker 8: cheaper than paying for emergencies.

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Speaker 2: Right now, I'm talking to doctor Rob Gore. He is

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Speaker 2: the founder of the Kings Against Violence initiative, but he's

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Speaker 2: also a physician and an author.

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Speaker 9: Doctor Gore was chosen as a Presidential Leadership Scholar and

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Speaker 9: created KAVI.

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Speaker 2: Brag about KAVI.

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Speaker 8: Kave itself is a hospital school, and community based violence

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Speaker 8: intervention and prevention program that I found it as a

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Speaker 8: way to provide this effort and provide these services, but

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Speaker 8: really as a way to help young people understand and

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Speaker 8: process trauma that they've experienced and create resources so that

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Speaker 8: violent and trauma that people have experienced doesn't become recurrent.

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Speaker 2: And that's Kings Against Violent and Violence Initiatives just stands for.

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Speaker 7: So you can check us out at Copybrooklyn dot org.

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Speaker 2: Is it what do you call it? Like an intervention?

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Speaker 8: It's an intervention. Actually, even with covin me, I actually

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Speaker 8: probably clarify a couple of things.

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Speaker 7: So we were a hospital school and community based.

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Speaker 8: The school and community based work to do more preventative work,

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Speaker 8: and some of the community work also works with people

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Speaker 8: who are very high risks who've been impacted by violence.

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Speaker 8: And then we do the intervention work for people who've

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Speaker 8: been shot and stab and due to violence who passed

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Speaker 8: through King's County Hospital Center, which is where I work

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Speaker 8: as an emergency physician.

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Speaker 2: Doctor Rob Gore is here. He is the author of

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Speaker 2: Treating Violence. He works in the emergency room and he

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Speaker 2: also has a nonprofit, Kings Against Violence Initiative. Hear more

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Speaker 2: about this when we come back. It's way up, not on.

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Speaker 4: Mind sharing, my Wealth Dog getting you straight financially, mentally

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Speaker 4: and physically. This is Wealth Wednesday on Way Up with

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Speaker 4: Angela Yee.

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Speaker 2: What's up? His way up at Angela Yee. I'm Angela

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Speaker 2: Yee am my Wealth Wednesday partners. Stacy Tisdale is here

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Speaker 2: and we are talking to doctor Rob Gore. He is

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Speaker 2: the founder of KAVE Kings Against Violence Initiative and the

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Speaker 2: author of Treating Violence, and he's an emergency room physician.

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Speaker 8: In the book, I speak about one of my close friends,

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Speaker 8: Willis Willis Young who call Young, who was one of

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Speaker 8: our intervention team members.

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Speaker 7: He grew up in Bedsty.

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Speaker 8: He lived on the block that I moved to and

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Speaker 8: he's one of the first people I met, even though.

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Speaker 7: He wasn't living there anymore. He was always on the

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Speaker 7: block hanging out until we developed his.

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Speaker 8: Friendship almost mentor mentee, and we had just launched programming

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Speaker 8: for Covey about two years later in twenty thirteen.

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Speaker 7: He was one of our first hire reads and so

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Speaker 7: his job, he.

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Speaker 8: Was a violence intervention specialist in hospital responder, and his

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Speaker 8: job was to make sure that he intervened with people

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Speaker 8: when they were injured. He provided a lot of support system,

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Speaker 8: talking to them about just doing basic check ins like YO,

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Speaker 8: are you okay? And so that was that thing that

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Speaker 8: what I'm providing is a real benefit to people that

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Speaker 8: in our circle, because I know I can speak the

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Speaker 8: language very different than the docs.

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Speaker 7: But a few years later, my morning wake up.

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Speaker 8: Call was that he was stat multiple times and taken

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Speaker 8: to the emergency department, the same place where he did

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Speaker 8: the intervention work, and he wound up dying two weeks

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Speaker 8: later in the ICU, the same place.

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Speaker 7: And he would also comfort people. And I never shut off.

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Speaker 8: And it wasn't until the day of his funeral, which

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Speaker 8: was like maybe a month or two months later, that

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Speaker 8: everything just kind of came crashing down. And I was working,

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Speaker 8: I was coming in for a shift. I was running late,

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Speaker 8: The nurse who picked up the phone with somebody that

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Speaker 8: I grew up with, and she said.

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Speaker 7: You're not gonna believe who's here.

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Speaker 8: It was the pay of the person who came in

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Speaker 8: and shot multiple times, but he was the brother of

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Speaker 8: another person who I pronounced dead. And the kid who

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Speaker 8: I pronounced dead was a sixteen year old kid who

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Speaker 8: was killed by the police. And I see this guy

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Speaker 8: who shot multiple times.

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Speaker 7: Who's stable.

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Speaker 8: And then his mother came in, who recognized me immediately.

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Speaker 8: She said, I know who you are. You cut your locks.

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Speaker 8: She looks at me, and she said, did my son

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Speaker 8: say anything to.

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Speaker 7: You before he died?

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Speaker 8: And like, my body just froze because this is a

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Speaker 8: kid who was like, you know, who came in alive

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Speaker 8: and he was like mumbling, don't let me die and

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Speaker 8: stuff like that. And then she says, why does this

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Speaker 8: keep happening to my family? And then here her other

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Speaker 8: son is lying on a stretcher who's been shot multiple times.

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Speaker 8: And I couldn't answer. My body just snapped, hyperventilating. I

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Speaker 8: just had to run out of the room. And so

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Speaker 8: I was having panic attacks, and this was happening repeatedly,

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Speaker 8: and so I started going back to therapy.

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Speaker 7: And she told me that, you know, you've been taking

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Speaker 7: care of people for so long.

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Speaker 8: You've been taught to be empathetic, but not really taught

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Speaker 8: to be compassionate. You can have trauma, you can have injurer,

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Speaker 8: but you've got to recover, So you got to have

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Speaker 8: these periods of reflection and processing it. And so you know,

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Speaker 8: I do a lot of physical activity and those are

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Speaker 8: ways to kind of help regulate and process a lot

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Speaker 8: of the trauma and stress that I deal with on.

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Speaker 7: A day to day basis. But it's intentional.

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Speaker 8: And so the delineation of wellness really being a lifestyle

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Speaker 8: and something that's a part of who you are and

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Speaker 8: integrated into every aspect of what you do has to

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Speaker 8: be paramount so that we can continue doing that stuff.

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Speaker 8: That therapist said, I got to keep doing the work.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's like what they always say, put

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Speaker 2: your oxygen mask on first, Yeah, and then you can

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Speaker 2: say everybody else, and that's what you have to do.

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Speaker 9: So everybody's going to go to Amazon and they're gonna

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Speaker 9: get your book Treating Violent and Emergency Room Doctors take

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Speaker 9: on a Deadly American American Epidemic.

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Speaker 2: You can get that on Amazon.

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Speaker 9: Thank you for being my glass.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 9: And also everybody, we have so many free resources on

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Speaker 9: Wealth Wednesdays to help you get that economic piece in place.

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Speaker 9: Go to Teamwealth Wednesdays dot com. Take that pledge you

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Speaker 9: get weekly newsletters. Follow Wealth Wednesdays on Instagram. There's so

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Speaker 9: much free information.

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Speaker 2: Entrepreneurs. We have our Entrepreneurs group.

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Speaker 9: But between the book Wealth Wednesdays, I thank you for

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Speaker 9: giving us such a powerful segment during health.

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Speaker 2: Something we haven't done before. We appreciate that exact rab

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Speaker 2: gre and I know how great it has to be

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Speaker 2: if something happens to have you as the er physician

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Speaker 2: at least, because you know, it's not too often that

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Speaker 2: you'll see somebody that you can fail connected to and

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Speaker 2: that does help a lot.

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Speaker 7: Thank you, Thank you for having me.

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Speaker 2: You can watch that for interview on my YouTube channel

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Speaker 2: Way Up with Ye And when we come back, you

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Speaker 2: guys have the last word.

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Speaker 4: Take up the phone Tapian, it gets your voice heard.

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Speaker 2: What the word is? He is the last word?

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Speaker 4: On Way Up with Angela Yee?

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Speaker 2: What's up this Way Up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee.

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Speaker 2: And Jasmine Brand is here. I'm here and how could

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Speaker 2: people follow you? Jasmine Brand?

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Speaker 5: You go follow our new page, the Jasmine Brand three

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Speaker 5: sixty five.

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Speaker 2: That's her new Instagram page. So if you go there

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Speaker 2: and you're like Danny only got ten thousand followers she

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Speaker 2: had like a million before.

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Speaker 5: Right, that sucks, I know, but you know what, Everything

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Speaker 5: happens for a reason. And uh, yeah, I love your

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Speaker 5: positive outlook, pride, it would be ye, I mean, listener,

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Speaker 5: but listen honestly. Make sure y'all follow her because he

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Speaker 5: has a lot of great stories there. Uh and they

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Speaker 5: actually do research and so we love that for us,

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Speaker 5: all right, and thank you to doctor Rob Gore for

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Speaker 5: joining us too for wealth Wednesday. He has his nonprofit

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Speaker 5: Kings Against Violence Initiative, but he is also an emergency

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Speaker 5: room physician, the author of Treating Violence, and he is

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Speaker 5: a clinical assistant professor at King's County Hospital. So love

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Speaker 5: the fact that he came through and really dropped some knowledge.

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Speaker 5: You can watch that phoot and off you on my

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Speaker 5: YouTube channel Way up with Ye And of course you

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Speaker 5: guys have the last word.

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Speaker 10: Hey, Angelo, I got a secret.

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Speaker 6: I drive for a living and I drive out of

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Speaker 6: high That's my secret. I don't like to shine the

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Speaker 6: light on my daughter. She's in the tenth grade. Her

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Speaker 6: name is Haley. She goes to cast Tech here in Detroit.

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Speaker 6: She's a four point zero student and she this summer

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Speaker 6: she was invited to Stamford Law School for a law program,

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Speaker 6: also to Washington, d C. To work with the Senate

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Speaker 6: and the House to representive that's my

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Speaker 4: Girl's going way out out with Angela Yee