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Speaker 1: Come come on your thing, I shall will. Good morning everybody.

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Speaker 1: You are listening to the voice, Come on dig me

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Speaker 1: now one and older. Steve Harvey got a radio show

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Speaker 1: partickling me this morning. Steve Harvey got a radio show

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Speaker 1: feel with nothing but joy and hope about it too.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's a great thing to be able to

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Speaker 1: wake up in the morning with peace in your heart

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Speaker 1: and joy. Peace and joy is is immeasurable. It has

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Speaker 1: what it is. It's invaluable. It is worth so much

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Speaker 1: more than any amount of money you can make. Peace

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Speaker 1: and joy. I have not always had that. I have

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Speaker 1: not always been a peaceful person or a person who

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Speaker 1: lived his life in a joy spirit. It took an

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Speaker 1: arrival at this moment. Some people arrive sooner than others.

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Speaker 1: I wish I had arrived at this point sooner, but

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Speaker 1: I think it was necessary for me to learn a

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Speaker 1: life is that instead of reflecting on your past incidences

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Speaker 1: at all the negative experiences you've had, all the things

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Speaker 1: all of it, hopefully along the way, what you have

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Speaker 1: They are experiences, and they've now created in you an

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Speaker 1: gift is not just singing, rapping entertainment. The richer gifts

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Speaker 1: know a lot of people people think that successful and

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Speaker 1: greatness is the same thing. Cornell West said it at

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Speaker 1: my daughter's graduation. He was a spokesperson. He said something

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Speaker 1: Praying for your boy, and prayer changes things. It really does.

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Speaker 1: come to my mid Papa was who rolling Stone, just

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Speaker 1: all right? Kay? Thank you? Things out? You're listening dry

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Speaker 1: What you got for us? Nest? This right here is church. Callen,

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Speaker 1: for sure. Man. Can I get you a number where

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Speaker 1: it's just about you know, lessing or something. What's going

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Speaker 1: What women it? Okay, you said Canada? So the church

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Speaker 1: and missus. I mean a calendar down? No, no no, no.

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Speaker 1: like you know what. Yeah, I'm gonna come down Lester seven.

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Speaker 1: Hey man, your brother Jason told me to prank phone

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Speaker 1: But here, come to Joe. I don't know how you are,

423
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 1: but your name Henry didn't say. Yeah, come on, Ash

424
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 1: was born before nineteen six, somewhere before nineteen seventy. So Henry,

425
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 1: now you are one hundred percent disabled Vestia. So now

426
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: she's getting all your disability check that check, and she traveling.

427
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 1: I'm assuming here you can't go nowhere. Hey, hey, hey care,

428
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 1: I'm just no, no, no, Steve, nothing you wrote in

429
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 1: am My old food A hundred percent disable. I'm assuming

430
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 1: your ass can't go nowhere, you and your fifties and sixties.

431
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:35,160
Speaker 1: She thirty nine, she's spending all your money. She going

432
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: with somebody a walk he ski, No, he won hundred

433
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 1: percent disable. What you want me to say, it's just

434
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 1: the way. Well, I'm just trying to tell you thank

435
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 1: you for your service. So you're listening, all right. So

436
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 1: here's the question, guys, should we really ever blame the

437
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,639
Speaker 1: other woman or the other man. Now, every time we

438
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 1: hear that someone was left they were cheated on with

439
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:10,440
Speaker 1: another man or woman, folks, always we always blame the person. Uh,

440
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,159
Speaker 1: we always blame that person first. Then they blame the

441
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 1: significant other, the spouse. We always blame the woman first.

442
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 1: I mean, and that's down down through history. So the

443
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 1: question is who really should get the blame. I think

444
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: there's enough blame to go around, quite frank, Yeah, but

445
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 1: you know this is crazy, but normally the woman is

446
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 1: always the blame. I mean, when you think about it,

447
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 1: down through history, people mostly blame the woman. Yeah, yeah,

448
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 1: so the So then the question is like, okay, so

449
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 1: if you're in a relationship and you leave that relationship

450
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: to get with someone else, whole's fault is it? Is

451
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 1: it the new person's fault, you know, the woman's fault,

452
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 1: or is it the man's fault for leaving and hurting

453
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 1: his significant other? You mean, but what I mean, but

454
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: he had to have had your saying, a relationship with

455
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 1: this other person before he left his significant other, right

456
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah, so he was cheating yeah yeah, person.

457
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: Well you know, look, whoever is in the supposed committed

458
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 1: relationship is to blame for breaking the commitment. That's you know, Look,

459
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 1: you're not You're not. Look, you can't blame the other person.

460
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 1: The other person ain't promised you nothing. The other other

461
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: person didn't take no vows, the other person didn't promise

462
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: you nothing. Your directed anger should be at the person

463
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: who broke the commitment to you, who broke your trust.

464
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 1: That's your problem. Now you can feel now if you

465
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 1: see her, you're gonna have problem with her. Because she

466
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 1: knew that you were in a relationship. Why didn't she

467
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 1: leave you alone? That that's the other argument, you know

468
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, that's the argument on the other side, Well,

469
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 1: she knew we were in a relationship, why was she

470
00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: in it? And she already knew he had a girl?

471
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 1: Why did he pursue it? Is the bigger question. But

472
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: because see, if it wasn't her, it would have been

473
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 1: somebody else, right, Because if he's in to pursue other

474
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 1: women business, it doesn't matter that it's her. If it's

475
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: not her, it's gonna be somebody else pursued, right, Yeah,

476
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 1: because he in the pursue game. But the women so

477
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: most of the time, gets blamed, get blamed for that

478
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 1: women do. She knew we were in a relationship that

479
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 1: women don't usually blame the men if the men cheat,

480
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 1: I mean after the fact. Yeah, but and and they

481
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: go so far as to take the man back that

482
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: is cheated on. Yeah, yeah, but the woman is outcast. Yeah,

483
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 1: they threw with her. Yeah, they're done. So you said,

484
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: blame the person that with the commitment. I agree with. Yeah,

485
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: I do too. That's how it should pursue. That's how

486
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 1: it should go. But it doesn't often go that way.

487
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 1: You're right though, Yeah, Well, I blame my best friend

488
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: for breaking up what relationship I had. He dated, he

489
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: ended up messing around with my girlfriend long long time ago.

490
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 1: But I blamed his ass I did. Junior, Well, don't

491
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 1: don't say that, Timmy. You go is everything gets so

492
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 1: personal on this show. I'm trying, but he knows who

493
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: it is to see. We comedian, that's how we we.

494
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: We The jokes come from this therapy, jokes that come

495
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 1: from that highway. Junior. Yeah, I come back and then

496
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: I catched them kissing on the couch, like, oh dog,

497
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: But they looked at me like you're gonna put that

498
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: in the kitchen. No, I'm not gonna put that in

499
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 1: the kitchen. Timing, you know, you know, he looking like

500
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 1: tim looking like, are you gonna put that down right there? No?

501
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 1: I just caught you kissing my girl. Yeah, you went

502
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 1: to the store and something. Yeah, and you left them

503
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 1: alone in the house. Yeah, and you come but this

504
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 1: is your boy. Yeah, you come back, you dog? You know,

505
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: iver say, oh man, you got to be kidding me.

506
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: But he looked at me and always up, man, what's up? Man?

507
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 1: You're gonna put that in the kitchen like you're living

508
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 1: like you're gonna put that in the kitchen like the

509
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 1: drace is going in the kitchen right now, cocacoa. If

510
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: you whip the ass back there, Like I said, we

511
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 1: wouldn't be even talking about. Everything gets violence. That's how

512
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 1: you get paid. If I walk in to my house

513
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 1: and my partner kissing my girl on the couch, yeah,

514
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: it's gonna be some hell up in him. It's gonna

515
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 1: be some real hell up in him, because dog, my

516
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 1: house dog, and you think less of me. You don't

517
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 1: even have enough respect for me. You already disrespect for

518
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 1: me with my girl, and so is she disrespecting me

519
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 1: with you. But you're gonna come in my house like

520
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 1: I ain't nothing. Oh gnaw dog, I promise you me

521
00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 1: and your asses at walk. But see, and that's normally

522
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 1: what happens, Steve, that's normally what happens. That's that's normally

523
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 1: what happens. What you just said. But earlier you said

524
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: it's the responsibility of the one who's in the commitment. Yeah,

525
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 1: but see now if here you see it and see

526
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 1: it's a double standard. No I get it, but I'm

527
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: saying it ain't no double standardship. This is what. Okay,

528
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: go ahead, finish your thought. Now I'm listening to me.

529
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: Now we're in this here. But now if you might

530
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: do yeah, and I know you see now we got

531
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: to go into man code. Man code is you don't

532
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: do your boys. Girl. It's too many women out here

533
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 1: that's available. So now you over here in mind, then

534
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: you in my house. Yeah, that's what happened to care

535
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 1: same thing. Why wasn't that my house house? Yeah? Well,

536
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 1: oh I was a comedian, you know, I just I

537
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: hand over. I was hug just for Shelton. But it

538
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: was your friend though. The don't you understand we had

539
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:09,439
Speaker 1: to stay a plate with fush. That's this is treat. Yeah,

540
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: were you you girl? I love four places. When I

541
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 1: was homeless, man, I probably told about six girls and

542
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:21,919
Speaker 1: they believed you because I had to let me stay

543
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 1: that I love you, So they come home. While I'll

544
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 1: be cooking everything, you'll be doing everything. Hell yeah, and

545
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 1: just just just not that Junior. We can still his age.

546
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:37,320
Speaker 1: He's still around you. Side a right, all right in Houston,

547
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 1: we gotta go. You're listening time for would you rather?

548
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 1: Would you rather eat rotten eggs or drink sour milk? Yeah?

549
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: You can all let up. Man, gonna go with that

550
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 1: sour milk. That's that's close to butter milk. Yeah, okay,

551
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 1: my sister would take that. That Roden's head. You got

552
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: problem though, Come on, Junior, what you got? Yeah, I'm

553
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: gonna go with the sour milk. I can't. I've had

554
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 1: bad milk before. I poured it on seal before and

555
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 1: knew it was solid. But that's all that's all you

556
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 1: had ye had, And I'd be damn if I was

557
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: gonna let my crazy heads daddy see me rank that

558
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:30,399
Speaker 1: in the train. Whoa oh, you're throwing away food now?

559
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:39,839
Speaker 1: Whoa oh, you're buying groceries? You got money. Okay, did

560
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: we hear from the nephew? Wait? No, no you didn't,

561
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 1: and move on. No, pick one gets that trash with

562
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: that seal. I'll tell you what. I guess something. I

563
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:56,839
Speaker 1: gotta follow them because I don't want the egg. I

564
00:35:56,840 --> 00:36:00,399
Speaker 1: gotta go with the milk. Anyway it is, I'm gonna

565
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,359
Speaker 1: throw up on you dad, all right? Would you rather

566
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 1: date someone with their ex's name tattooed on their chest

567
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 1: or date someone who's ex lives next door? Would you

568
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 1: rather date someone that has their ex's name tattooed on

569
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: their chest? Or would you rather date someone who's ex

570
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: lives next door? I'm going with the chest. I'm gonna

571
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 1: see you from behind more than I am going from

572
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: the front. Anyway. Wow, wow, Wow, are you sleepy because

573
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 1: you just off? Wow? Flying off? You asked me ste

574
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 1: think about your answers. Yeah, I'm just I'm not pulling

575
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:45,760
Speaker 1: up every day and he right there. That turn into

576
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:50,240
Speaker 1: a fight. Come on, tell my Lawrence next door? Lawrence, Ye, Floyd,

577
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: Floyd stay right next door. No, you can have that tattoo.

578
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 1: I just I just I just missed you. I probably

579
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 1: misread it anyway, you know, I get names anyway. All right,

580
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 1: one more? One more? Would you rather get stuck in

581
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: an elevator with your ex or with your partner and

582
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 1: their ex? H No, I don't go with the partner.

583
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 1: I'd rather get stuck in there with my partner and

584
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 1: her X. I can hook his as. We can do

585
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 1: that at least what you say, Junior say, I'm going on.

586
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 1: I'd rather do that. Okay, okay, all right, nephew, the

587
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 1: elevator or with your partner in their X. Come on,

588
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:49,319
Speaker 1: don't be difficult elevator with your ex? You scared? All right,

589
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning

590
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 1: Show right after you're listening to show. All right, guys,

591
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 1: it is time for comedy roulette. Jay, please do the

592
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: honors and explain. Go ahead and look on its feet.

593
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 1: You'll be all right, priceless. I know right. You gotta

594
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 1: do it, though, go ahead, anything, do you take four subjects?

595
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: Because we're all comedians, we can do this. You put

596
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 1: those four subjects, one at a time on a wheel

597
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:27,840
Speaker 1: that goes around and around. When that wheel spins round

598
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 1: and around and around, where that wheel stops. Because we're

599
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:36,919
Speaker 1: all comedians, will do the damn thing. All right here

600
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 1: we go with the topics. Things you hide in the

601
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 1: fridge from other people? All right, Lies you tell yourself

602
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 1: when you're running out of gas, what you say to

603
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:53,879
Speaker 1: yourself when you get dumped, and what you say when

604
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: you oversleep. Spind the wheel, cat spun it, spun the wheel.

605
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 1: I like what you're saying yourself in your open week,

606
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 1: but it's what you say to yourself when you get dumped.

607
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 1: I want to this one. Let's go, guys, let me

608
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: start it off. Come on, hey, I was gonna go

609
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:24,240
Speaker 1: into service anyway, so this relationship wasn't gonna work at anyway.

610
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:27,439
Speaker 1: I don't really like I didn't really want her, no way.

611
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 1: It was her best friend. I really want it to

612
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 1: be honest with you. Work it out for yourself. Yes,

613
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,400
Speaker 1: what you say to yourself when you get jumped, Steve,

614
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: you don't want crazy? I ain't crazy? What say you?

615
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 1: Trust me? Your breath was gonna break us up. You know.

616
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,879
Speaker 1: I didn't really care for you making me wear all

617
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 1: that leather in the bedroom anyway, So I'm glad we

618
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: ain't doing this. No mother, listen, I'm chap nine. Come on, Steve,

619
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 1: what you say to yourself when you get dumbed. I

620
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 1: was just about to text her anyway, right after breakfast.

621
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: You say to yourself when you bring up, I don't

622
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 1: know how to tell you this, but I never did

623
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 1: like your dog. How about you know? Truth be told,

624
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:40,839
Speaker 1: Truth be told. My baby mama won't me back anyway.

625
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: Ain't worry about this right here? What you say to

626
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:50,399
Speaker 1: yourself when you get dumbed? I bet you I can

627
00:40:50,520 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 1: find somebody else. Love. You say to yourself you're done,

628
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 1: And just in case you get ready to call me,

629
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:10,439
Speaker 1: I have blocked all your know he's hurt, he's hurt,

630
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: he's hurt. You know what, you know what? What? You

631
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: know what, Tommy, she'll be back because don't nobody to

632
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,759
Speaker 1: do that little thing that I do. Don't nobody else

633
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:27,280
Speaker 1: do that. She'll be back. The third person, Tommy, right there,

634
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 1: he's hurt. Yeah. What you say to yourself when you

635
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 1: get jumpsie, You ain't the first person to leave me.

636
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 1: You think you're doing something? Thank you doing something that

637
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:52,240
Speaker 1: ain't nothing. I don't like you doing something. You say something.

638
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 1: I don't know how to tell you, but the white

639
00:41:55,480 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: girl was checking me out anyway. You know what? What

640
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 1: you know what, Timmy, I'm gonna we're gonna get our

641
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:10,359
Speaker 1: life together. We're gonna go in the church. We're gonna

642
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: let the Lord as we let the Lord ask about it.

643
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 1: That's a good one. Yeah, she got him one more, Steve,

644
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:40,319
Speaker 1: close it out. Okay, huh hey, hey, my lips. That

645
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:45,840
Speaker 1: be I'm next the next custom I don't know what

646
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 1: right after the great job. Guys, you're listening to show

647
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, right about

648
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 1: four minutes after today's Strawberry letter. My subject for today

649
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: is my wife, an undercover gold digger. Right now, the

650
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's Frank phone call. What you

651
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 1: got for his nap? Y'a already? What's that? Last? Ice

652
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 1: Man Productions, Let's go cat Dog. Hello, Hello, I'm trying

653
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:37,280
Speaker 1: to reach Jay career. That is Yes, how are you doing? You? Good? Good? Good? Listen.

654
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 1: My name is Ice Man with Ice Man Productions. Uh,

655
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 1: I got my own record label. I've stumbled up on

656
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:46,120
Speaker 1: a CD here. I'm assuming this is your demo. You

657
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 1: have a demo that's out right now? Yes, all right,

658
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 1: with a couple of songs on it. Right. Okay, hey, listen,

659
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 1: I am actually putting together a female group. One of

660
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: my employees gave me your stuff and I've been listening

661
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 1: to it. I liked it soon. I like the vibe

662
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 1: and wanted to see if if there's something of interest

663
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: to you, if you'd like maybe being a in a

664
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 1: female group, what kind of female group for females in

665
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,399
Speaker 1: one group? How do you feel about that? I think

666
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: that could be workable. Okay, okay, um, hold on, I

667
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:20,720
Speaker 1: want to say, Okay, who is that? That's Diddy Diddy.

668
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 1: I'll call him back, tell him I'm working on this

669
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 1: group I talked him about. Okay, sorry about that. Hello. Okay, yeah,

670
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 1: you listening to him? Yes? Are you okay? Good deal?

671
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:31,880
Speaker 1: So listen if you don't mind, could you? Uh? And

672
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 1: I know I'm catching you off gods like this here,

673
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: you know, ice man, Really, I really don't normally get

674
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 1: on the phone and call people, but I'm heavy about

675
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:41,959
Speaker 1: this group and getting it out. I got puffed Ady

676
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:44,399
Speaker 1: on my butt about it. And uh, you know, he's

677
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 1: one of the producers on this thing, and I'm trying

678
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 1: to really bring this thing to a head. So why

679
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 1: don't you too me in favor if you can, If

680
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,399
Speaker 1: you don't mind, I take right, yes, could you? Could

681
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 1: you possibly maybe, uh, seeing something for me real quick,

682
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:56,759
Speaker 1: so I can just you know, I just want to

683
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 1: hear it straight from the straight from you your mouth

684
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 1: to my ear. If you don't mind just anything, Okay,

685
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 1: there's a hero. If you're look inside your heart, you

686
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: don't have to be a free Oh what do you

687
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 1: there isn't nay if you're reading through your soul and

688
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 1: the songs that you know. Okay, Okay, hang on, hay on,

689
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: hay on, hay don't want to say who is that? Think?

690
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 1: Don't think I got his solo? Tell them I'm gonna

691
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 1: listen to it. Tell them I'm working on a female

692
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 1: group right now. Tell them I good, God got it. Hello,

693
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:42,280
Speaker 1: I apologize for all interruptions. That was good. That was good.

694
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 1: Can you give me maybe give me a little something

695
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 1: else real quick? Okay, Uh, I'm trying to real quick.

696
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 1: How old are you Donald? I'm twenty nine, twenty nine okay, okay,

697
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: good deal? And uh what what if you don't mind?

698
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:56,360
Speaker 1: What size are y'all? I don't have a a picture

699
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 1: on the on the demo about size three? Oh yeah,

700
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: oh yeah, oh yeah, that'll work, that'll work. Okay, give me,

701
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 1: give me, give me, give me, if you can maybe

702
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 1: maybe do something else for me? Okay, you got you

703
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: got anything? Like maybe you can marry j Blige. It

704
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 1: up for me a little bit. You know, I always

705
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:14,399
Speaker 1: see what about kiss callis? I'm good with tell let's

706
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: do that. Let me get it now. You can wait

707
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: to a whole life time and change what the feeling

708
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 1: from what has been. You may have got hard booken

709
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: a few times in the past. Never left a strong

710
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:31,320
Speaker 1: as Acus too. Don't feel it's good as acus too

711
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:35,319
Speaker 1: before and everything I used to say than I used

712
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:42,439
Speaker 1: to do went right out. Oh that's what you tell

713
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:47,400
Speaker 1: everyone abound you, and you know they've heard it all before.

714
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:52,400
Speaker 1: Why nor can you say? Yeah, yeah, I sman like that.

715
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:56,359
Speaker 1: Iceman like that. Ice man likes that. All right, that's

716
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Okay, listen, um, how do you

717
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 1: feel about flying up to h to New York maybe

718
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks so I can put all you

719
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,759
Speaker 1: guys together. You like that? Yes? All right? All right,

720
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:13,840
Speaker 1: you're excited about it? Yes, I you Okay, okay, listen, Uh,

721
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 1: let me let you know this. The name of the

722
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 1: group is the Lingeris, and I think you guys are

723
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 1: gonna work out well. Once we get you locked down,

724
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 1: that'll be four. So we have four girls that make

725
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:26,760
Speaker 1: up the Lingerais. You know, okay, they're real pretty girls

726
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 1: you got I mean, you know, they're great. I need

727
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 1: you to send me some pictures as well. Can you

728
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:34,720
Speaker 1: do that? I gotta head shot? Yeah? I got Okay,

729
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:36,799
Speaker 1: Well listen, I'm gonna need a head shot. But like

730
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 1: I say, the name of the group is the Lingerais.

731
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: So is that a way you can send me something

732
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:45,359
Speaker 1: of you in some lingerie? What is that a way

733
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 1: if you can send me you know? Wait? Wait, wait, wait,

734
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:51,479
Speaker 1: you want me to picture of me linger exactly? Because

735
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 1: see this is what you guys actually perform. You're actually

736
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 1: gonna be going out on stage and you lingerai. Oh no,

737
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 1: wait what you're talking about? I'm trying to get you

738
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 1: to send me a pitch in your lingeris you to

739
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 1: be a part of your school you've gotten to watch for.

740
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 1: Ain't no damn lingerie? You know what how to he?

741
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 1: Are you gonna call me telling me to say is

742
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:12,919
Speaker 1: in my largerae and get on stage? That's what we're doing, baby,

743
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:16,359
Speaker 1: That's what the Laingerais do. Now damn? Now, what kind

744
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:19,879
Speaker 1: of you you're a crazy who you Where you get

745
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 1: my number and name? From? Where you get my CD?

746
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: Frond I told you one of my people that work

747
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 1: for me gave me your demo check on like, I like,

748
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,399
Speaker 1: I like what you was doing, and hey, I'm giving

749
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 1: you a shot. You Let me tell you something. You

750
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 1: will never be a star. Yes, you will never be

751
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:34,600
Speaker 1: a star. You're gonna have all these obstacles in your way.

752
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 1: You excuse me? You who you think you're talking to? You?

753
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: Percipe out? You need to send me a picture in

754
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 1: your lagerai is what your neighbor said. You don't be

755
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,279
Speaker 1: tilling me with this. You'll send me a picture in

756
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 1: your lingerais I'm sending you? I want to picture you

757
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 1: in your draw one get I got a problem with that.

758
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 1: You don't you long to be a star. You don't

759
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: know what to take to be a star. Yes, I

760
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:58,880
Speaker 1: do know you don't you gonta do? If you do

761
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 1: that way, I'm going to be a start. How are

762
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 1: you gonna do it? If you ain't part of Because

763
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: I'm not a protographic star, idiot. I got one more

764
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 1: thing I need to say to you. Don't what is

765
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 1: you listening? What do you want this? Is Nephew tiught

766
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:16,319
Speaker 1: me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got

767
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 1: branked by your boyfriend. Oh my god, I'm so mad.

768
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:31,360
Speaker 1: Oh I can't wait till you get home. Oh Michael,

769
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:38,879
Speaker 1: I have never been pumped in my life. I try

770
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:41,919
Speaker 1: to watch my language, but you know you made me mad.

771
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 1: I bet you he won't see me and no Lingerai

772
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:50,839
Speaker 1: for about four or five months. I got one more

773
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 1: thing to ask you, baby, tell me this. What is

774
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:56,799
Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the land? The

775
00:49:56,960 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show Street Port, Louisiana, East Texas. Everybody

776
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:10,240
Speaker 1: around the way Date night comedy show with Nephew Timmy

777
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: and friends. You don't want to miss it MLKA Weekend, Sunday,

778
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: January fifteenth at the Streeport Municipal Auditorium. It's going down,

779
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 1: Nephew Timmy, your friends. It's date night. If you got

780
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:23,799
Speaker 1: a date, come on out. If you don't have a date,

781
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:26,719
Speaker 1: come out. You might find one. Baby, But it's comedy

782
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 1: in its rarest fall. It's me, Nephew Tommy. You've been

783
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 1: hearing about me. They've been talking about me. Come see

784
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 1: what the fuss is all about. Nephew Timmy and Friends,

785
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 1: Baby Date Night, Streeport, Louisiana, Sunday, January fifteenth. Tickets on

786
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 1: sale right now, available at all ticket Master outlets, or

787
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: you can go down there to the box office and

788
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:49,239
Speaker 1: get your tickets. Tell them Tommy sent you. You're looking

789
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,759
Speaker 1: for ignorance, I got it. You're looking for stupid, I

790
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 1: got it. You're looking for straight crazy. The Nephew has

791
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 1: got it. Been a long time street port Tens. I

792
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 1: come through there and I'm coming Nephew times in France.

793
00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 1: We bigger, we're stronger, we're crazy, and we dressed to impress.

794
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 1: Oh we butter. It's date Night, Sunday, January fifteen. Don't

795
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:13,319
Speaker 1: miss it by them draw sher. Thank you, Nephew, thank you.

796
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 1: I'm very much appreciated. I think listen. Coming up next,

797
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:21,800
Speaker 1: it's my Strawberry Letters. Subject is my wife an undercover

798
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 1: gold Digger. We'll get into it right after this. You're listening.

799
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:31,799
Speaker 1: Show time now for today's Strawberry Letter. Guys, and if

800
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more.

801
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com

802
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:43,880
Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your

803
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:46,919
Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read

804
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:51,279
Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. Buggle up, hold on tight,

805
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here it is strawberry letter.

806
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 1: All right, thank you, nephew. Subject is my wife an

807
00:51:56,960 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 1: undercover gold digger. Just Stephen Shirley. My wife and I

808
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:03,919
Speaker 1: have been married for over fifteen years, and we've come

809
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 1: close to getting a divorce a few times in the

810
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 1: past few years over our finances. My wife has had

811
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 1: issues with managing money, so I don't trust her when

812
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:16,319
Speaker 1: it comes to keeping up with our money. We have

813
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 1: always had separate accounts. I have a personal savings account

814
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 1: and I've been able to save a great deal of

815
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 1: money for our retirement. My wife does not have access

816
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:29,279
Speaker 1: to this account. We have one shared account that I

817
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:32,880
Speaker 1: put money into each month for household expenses. I am

818
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:35,800
Speaker 1: able to track it, but I've never had a problem

819
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 1: with her using the money for personal needs. We both work,

820
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 1: but I am the main breadwinner and I pay all

821
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:45,360
Speaker 1: of the bills in the house. That's the house note,

822
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:48,880
Speaker 1: both car notes, and all of the utilities. She pays

823
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 1: her cell phone and American Express bills. In the past

824
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:56,399
Speaker 1: two years, she has constantly nagged me to see bank

825
00:52:56,440 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 1: statements and a breakdown of our finances. It makes me easy,

826
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: and she gets upset when I tell her is not

827
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:05,400
Speaker 1: necessary for me to share that with her. She told

828
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 1: me I'm too secretive, and she loves to threaten me

829
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 1: with divorce. I'm not being secretive. It's a trust thing.

830
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:16,280
Speaker 1: And why does she need to know all of a sudden,

831
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 1: I am planning to retire with her and I want

832
00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:22,439
Speaker 1: to keep her in the same lifestyle she's used to.

833
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: But I don't know if we're going to make it.

834
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 1: She has been sleeping in the guest room and she

835
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 1: refuses to have sex with me. I'm a father, great provider,

836
00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:36,760
Speaker 1: and god fearing man, but this situation has me angry

837
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: as heck. My wife won't sleep with me unless I

838
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:43,320
Speaker 1: show her my bank statements. It seems like after fifteen

839
00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: years of marriage, my wife has turned into a gold digger.

840
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,880
Speaker 1: Please help me figure this out. Am I doing something wrong?

841
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:52,359
Speaker 1: What's up with her? Well, you know what, I don't

842
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:56,840
Speaker 1: think you're doing anything wrong necessarily because you got to

843
00:53:56,880 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 1: save money. You want to have money for your retirement.

844
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 1: Your money your Your wife is reckless with her money

845
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:06,879
Speaker 1: and with the money, so she is not a good

846
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 1: person to entrust your life savings and your retirement funds with.

847
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:14,839
Speaker 1: And if she doesn't understand that, that's on her, uh

848
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:18,400
Speaker 1: not you. I think that it's good that you guys

849
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 1: have separate accounts. I think it's good that you guys

850
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 1: share an account where and I think it's great that

851
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:26,880
Speaker 1: you put money in it and pay all of the bills.

852
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 1: All those are pluses. What your wife is up to

853
00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:38,879
Speaker 1: is anybody's guests. You know, if she wants to see

854
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 1: bank statements because I don't know, does she think or

855
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 1: suspect that you're you're hiding money from her or something?

856
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:50,719
Speaker 1: But I think you know, in this instance, it might be.

857
00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:52,919
Speaker 1: I think it's okay for you to sit her down

858
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 1: and tell her this is what's going on. You guys

859
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: have been married for fifteen years. That should garner some

860
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:02,799
Speaker 1: kind of trust in a relationship. I mean money is

861
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 1: still like if not that still the number one is

862
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:09,320
Speaker 1: definitely in the top two of why relationships and marriages

863
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:13,560
Speaker 1: break up because of finances, because you know, people are

864
00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 1: reckless when it comes to money. She has her own job.

865
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 1: What does she need to see it for? If you know,

866
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:23,640
Speaker 1: if you're saving and everything, but if you guys are

867
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 1: in a good marriage. I think there does need to

868
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 1: be some trust. Why don't you want to show it

869
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 1: to her? That that is my question. I don't think

870
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:34,400
Speaker 1: it's necessarily because you're being secretive or trying to hide something.

871
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 1: You just don't want her nagging you to get that money.

872
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:40,360
Speaker 1: You've got to know that. You know, a lot of

873
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 1: times wives do go over spend, you know. That's why

874
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 1: if you open up the trunk right now, you'll probably

875
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 1: find some shoe boxes of brand new shoes that she

876
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 1: hasn't snuck in the house yet. You know. It's kind

877
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 1: of you know, it's kind of just what we do,

878
00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 1: some of us, some of us, I mean, we do,

879
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:01,319
Speaker 1: you know. But as is her not sleeping with you,

880
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:03,719
Speaker 1: that's a bit far because you won't show her the

881
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:06,799
Speaker 1: bank statements and all of that unless she has something

882
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:09,640
Speaker 1: else planned. I think it's really really immature of her

883
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: to threaten you with divorce because of this situation. That's

884
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:16,359
Speaker 1: not cool. I don't think that's something you should play with.

885
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 1: But I think there is a communication situation going on

886
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 1: here too. You may not want to do it, but

887
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:24,760
Speaker 1: just show her, you know, maybe that'll calm her down

888
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:27,879
Speaker 1: and settle her down and tell her the reasons you're

889
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 1: doing this. You know you want to continue her lifestyle.

890
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,239
Speaker 1: You're really doing it out of love and stuff. But

891
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 1: she's selfish more than being a gold digger. Steve, is

892
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 1: my wife an UNDERCOVID gold digger. Well, y'all been married

893
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 1: fifteen years, y'all and came close to divorce in a

894
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 1: couple of times. Then you say that your wife got

895
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 1: issues with managing money, so I don't trust her when

896
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:57,479
Speaker 1: it comes to keeping up without money. There's a little

897
00:56:57,480 --> 00:57:00,799
Speaker 1: confusion here. We've always had supparate so that over the

898
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 1: fifteen years you've had that. I have a personal savings account,

899
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:07,720
Speaker 1: and you've said you've been able to save a great

900
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 1: deal of money for our retirement and your wife ain't

901
00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:14,800
Speaker 1: got access to it. Y'all got to share the account

902
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 1: that I put money into for households that I'm able

903
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: to track, but I've never had And then you said,

904
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 1: but I've never had a problem with her using the

905
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 1: money for her personal needs. Well, if you've never had

906
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 1: a problem with her using the money for your personal needs,

907
00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:32,360
Speaker 1: what was the several divorces about them? See, there's a

908
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 1: little confusion going on here. Brother, you all have come

909
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 1: closer getting a divorce over finances. You don't have a

910
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 1: problem with her using the money for personal needs? Did

911
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:47,280
Speaker 1: you say? Ten seconds? They we both work. I'm the

912
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 1: main brandwinner, and I pay all the bills in the

913
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 1: house house called, all its utilities, and all she paying

914
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:55,800
Speaker 1: herself on the manage. Well, when you make a lot

915
00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:58,440
Speaker 1: of money, though, if you're paying all that and still

916
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:01,640
Speaker 1: saved a lot of money for y'all's retirement, and you

917
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 1: don't have a problem with her spending for her personal needs,

918
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out what the damn problem is.

919
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:11,959
Speaker 1: I love him all right, and hold that thought, Steve.

920
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:14,360
Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

921
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after be our subject is my wife

922
00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 1: an undercovered gold digger? We'll be back to find out

923
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show, all right, Steve,

924
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letters. Subject is my

925
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 1: wife an undercover gold digger? This is kind of a

926
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:35,840
Speaker 1: confusing letter, y'all. Couse, you've been closer getting divorce a

927
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 1: couple of times because you don't trust it with the

928
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:40,480
Speaker 1: money y'all in hand separate accounts, but you got just

929
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 1: one account where you say a great deal of money

930
00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 1: for y'all's retirement. Your wife don't have access to it.

931
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,520
Speaker 1: Y'all got to share account. Y'all put money into and

932
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 1: you ain't never had a problem with her using the

933
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 1: money for her personal needs. If you've never had a

934
00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:56,440
Speaker 1: problem with that, why have you all been getting a divorce?

935
00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 1: I'm confused. We both work. You the main breadwinner. You

936
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:02,680
Speaker 1: pay all the bills in the house. She paying her

937
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:06,400
Speaker 1: cell phone in Americans press. Now, in the past two years,

938
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:09,600
Speaker 1: here we go, she has constantly nagged me to see

939
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 1: bank statements and a breakdown of our finances. Okay, most

940
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 1: women want to know what's going on in their life.

941
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 1: Since you have this separate account, she's asked you to

942
00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 1: see it now, then you are uneasy with it, and

943
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 1: she get upset because this is what you've been told

944
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 1: a grown woman. Now, it's not necessary for me to

945
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 1: share that with you. Wow, wayman, hold a partner. I

946
00:59:38,480 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 1: gotta tell you some real, honest man. You talking to

947
00:59:42,040 --> 00:59:45,880
Speaker 1: a grown woman who's married to you, and you have

948
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 1: a separate account that she has found out about, and

949
00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:53,240
Speaker 1: you've saved a great deal of money for retirement, for

950
00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:55,960
Speaker 1: you all, and she asked to see the bank statement

951
00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 1: of the finances of y'all's life, of which you all

952
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:02,920
Speaker 1: contribute y'all's money into this account, but you pay the bills,

953
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 1: and then you tell her it ain't necessary for you

954
01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:10,800
Speaker 1: to share that with her. Dog reverse this for a second.

955
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 1: This is what this is how Margie wins all arguments

956
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:16,880
Speaker 1: with us. She says, reverse this. D Suppose I said

957
01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:20,200
Speaker 1: that to you, and then that's how she win all

958
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: our arguments. Yeah, that's whenever. But she only do that

959
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 1: when I'm dead wrong. She don't do that when she wrong.

960
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:32,160
Speaker 1: When I reverse it, she reverse it back. She really

961
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:38,439
Speaker 1: tricky though. She told me that I'm too secretive and

962
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:42,479
Speaker 1: she loves to threaten me with divorce. Well, dog, see,

963
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:46,600
Speaker 1: you say that there's all this money over here, but

964
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 1: the money ain't in her house. She trying to figure

965
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:53,000
Speaker 1: out what is it going somewhere else? And you telling

966
01:00:53,040 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 1: her it's in an account. She says, show me the account,

967
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:59,240
Speaker 1: and you tell her she don't need to know, and

968
01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 1: then she say you're being secret Then you say, I'm

969
01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:03,960
Speaker 1: not being secretive. Okay, Doc, what you want to call

970
01:01:05,040 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 1: he said, it's a trust thing. But dog you're keeping

971
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 1: a secret from your wife, so she is right about that.

972
01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:16,840
Speaker 1: You are being so secretive. But I know what you're saying,

973
01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 1: because you don't trust it with the money. And why

974
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:21,800
Speaker 1: does she need to know all of a sudden Wait

975
01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 1: a minute, hold up, dog, what woman don't have a

976
01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:29,760
Speaker 1: right to know what's going on in her life? You

977
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:31,959
Speaker 1: think if she finds out the money, that's she gonna

978
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 1: spend it. But you already got it protected because she

979
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 1: don't have access to it. So now the fact that

980
01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:39,600
Speaker 1: you won't show it to her ever, has created a

981
01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 1: huge problem. I'm planning to retire with her. She don't

982
01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:47,240
Speaker 1: know that. See now we got an insecurity issue going

983
01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 1: on because you got all his money stacked off to

984
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:51,760
Speaker 1: the side. She don't know about if she don't know

985
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:54,080
Speaker 1: if you're gonna take it off with another woman. She

986
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 1: don't know if you're gonna keep it for yourself. She

987
01:01:56,120 --> 01:01:58,880
Speaker 1: don't know what it is. I'm planning to retire with her,

988
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:01,200
Speaker 1: and I want to keep her in the same lifestyle

989
01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:04,360
Speaker 1: she's used to. Damn bro, I mean, I hear what

990
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:06,720
Speaker 1: you're saying. You got a good heart. I think you're

991
01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:10,160
Speaker 1: phrasing it wrong to the woman, though but I don't

992
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:12,880
Speaker 1: know if we're gonna make it. Hold dog, So you're

993
01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 1: gonna risch your marriage of a person you want to

994
01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:18,520
Speaker 1: retire with because she think you got a secret. You

995
01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:21,440
Speaker 1: don't trust her spending. You ain't gonna show her that account.

996
01:02:21,600 --> 01:02:24,400
Speaker 1: And now she she threatened you with divorce. And now

997
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:26,880
Speaker 1: she had moved into the guest room. And we ain't

998
01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:30,360
Speaker 1: having sex. We're not having sex. You can read all

999
01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:39,480
Speaker 1: these papers. Hold on, hold on, We're not having sex.

1000
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:41,320
Speaker 1: Tell you know what I mean. You know what what I mean,

1001
01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 1: received you from the sea. This is statements. I'm a father,

1002
01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:50,080
Speaker 1: great profather, and a god fearing man. Stop stop bringing

1003
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:53,800
Speaker 1: the Lord in this. This ain't got nothing through the Lord. Doc.

1004
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:56,880
Speaker 1: Why did the Lord tell you to keep the secret?

1005
01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 1: So let's not dragged the Lord in this. But this

1006
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 1: situation makes me angry as heck. My wife won't sleep

1007
01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 1: with me unless how I show her my bank statements.

1008
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 1: It seems like I got fifteen years of manage when

1009
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:11,479
Speaker 1: my wife has turned into a gold digger. Dog. See,

1010
01:03:11,520 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 1: you're attaching terms to this woman. I understand the problem

1011
01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 1: you have. It you're saying you can't trust her with money,

1012
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 1: but you gotta fixed where she can't move the money,

1013
01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:22,720
Speaker 1: But now you don't want to show his that because

1014
01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 1: what's she gonna do? You think she's gonna spend more?

1015
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:28,960
Speaker 1: And you think she had turned into a gold digger dog.

1016
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:31,960
Speaker 1: Just's been the same woman for fifteen years. That's why

1017
01:03:32,080 --> 01:03:36,200
Speaker 1: y'all didn't had a several divorces, but her threatening you

1018
01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:39,919
Speaker 1: with divorces because you won't show her the paperwork, which

1019
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:43,160
Speaker 1: makes her think as a woman, something else is happening.

1020
01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:47,040
Speaker 1: Please help me figure this out. Am I doing something wrong? Yes?

1021
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 1: What's up with her? The question is who's up with y'all?

1022
01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:56,000
Speaker 1: You don't trust her and she don't trust you. What

1023
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:59,760
Speaker 1: y'all manage? We are and this ain't gonna work, partner,

1024
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:02,120
Speaker 1: and this really ain't got a damn thing to do

1025
01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:05,720
Speaker 1: with money. Fifteen years. You don't trust her, You can't

1026
01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 1: count on her, and she thinks she don't trust you,

1027
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:12,360
Speaker 1: and she can't count on you. Unless y'all get real transparent,

1028
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:16,800
Speaker 1: real quick, y'all ain't gonna make it, homie. Yeah all right, Steve,

1029
01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 1: thank you post your comments on all this paperwork this

1030
01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 1: evening at Steve Harley, you over here this evening in

1031
01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:30,160
Speaker 1: this bed. Also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast. We

1032
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 1: can read coming up to forty six after the hours

1033
01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:38,400
Speaker 1: s I'm gonna be looking for a deposit. You're listening

1034
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:41,240
Speaker 1: to show? All right, So Junior is here today with

1035
01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:44,160
Speaker 1: this is a comedy segment. You call Junior when dead?

1036
01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:47,280
Speaker 1: What's that about? When did you know? We've been seeing

1037
01:04:47,320 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 1: a lot of things that have been happening, but you

1038
01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 1: just don't know when it started? Like, for example, when

1039
01:04:53,560 --> 01:04:59,280
Speaker 1: did kids get lucky? You go in front of you,

1040
01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:03,600
Speaker 1: all my drawls was in the same luggage with my grandmother,

1041
01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:08,840
Speaker 1: all my draws up against the Brazil. When the kids

1042
01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:14,920
Speaker 1: getting luck? I don't know when it started. When did

1043
01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:20,000
Speaker 1: people start wearing house shoes everywhere? I had church, somebody

1044
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:22,240
Speaker 1: stepped out their house shoes to get to the altar.

1045
01:05:22,440 --> 01:05:24,640
Speaker 1: And now when you leave your shoes out here in

1046
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:30,919
Speaker 1: church like that? When when did it happen? Like when

1047
01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:35,320
Speaker 1: did vegans get so outspoken? What do you mean you

1048
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:37,760
Speaker 1: ain't never know who the hell wasn't vegan? That he

1049
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:41,440
Speaker 1: upsetting by everything you can't eat? That it had a mother?

1050
01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:48,120
Speaker 1: I don't can't vegans? Is I mean? When did all

1051
01:05:48,160 --> 01:05:52,360
Speaker 1: this stuff starts? They speaking up? When did we just

1052
01:05:52,480 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 1: never mind just wearing ripped jeans. Maybe used to get

1053
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:58,200
Speaker 1: your ass one for your jeans being damned by the jeans? Told?

1054
01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:03,680
Speaker 1: Why am I looking at the range draws? Just? When

1055
01:06:03,680 --> 01:06:06,720
Speaker 1: did that start? We just don't know when it happened.

1056
01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:11,520
Speaker 1: When people used to borrow money? Now, ain't cash h happen? Yeah,

1057
01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 1: but dinner? He didn't the ass Remember I can our

1058
01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:17,760
Speaker 1: borrow was important? Yes, they don't do that. No more,

1059
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:19,960
Speaker 1: they don't do none of that. When did big guys

1060
01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 1: just start showing their stomach with no results? You know

1061
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 1: they don't. They don't care, no remorse. They just the

1062
01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 1: stomach just out matter of fact? When did women just

1063
01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:31,840
Speaker 1: start wearing their stomach so hot? When did all of

1064
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:35,760
Speaker 1: this happened? When? When did white kids get comfortable with

1065
01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:38,160
Speaker 1: saying the N words the black kids? When did that start?

1066
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:42,160
Speaker 1: When did we start knocking our kids? When did that stop?

1067
01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:46,440
Speaker 1: Because my nephew is sitting up here making fls at school.

1068
01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:48,480
Speaker 1: We ain't been school a week. When did this start?

1069
01:06:49,720 --> 01:06:52,400
Speaker 1: Just when did it happen? We just don't know. We

1070
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 1: have to figure out when did that happened? That's when

1071
01:06:56,240 --> 01:07:01,160
Speaker 1: we start thinking about it. Stuff stuff changed? M hm, No, No,

1072
01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:06,640
Speaker 1: when did it happen? Wow, I'll tell you another profile. Okay,

1073
01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 1: here's one that that everybody knows. This is something we

1074
01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 1: don't even know when they started. But remember when when

1075
01:07:11,840 --> 01:07:13,720
Speaker 1: did when a jogging suit? Member? When when it meant

1076
01:07:13,800 --> 01:07:17,800
Speaker 1: you was going jogging? Oh? Yeah, not people wearing jockon

1077
01:07:17,840 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 1: sus a jogging? No, damn what you're talking about me?

1078
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:26,640
Speaker 1: That used to mean something you got on the jogging suit.

1079
01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:31,920
Speaker 1: I can assume your ask was going jock na, na, na,

1080
01:07:32,040 --> 01:07:34,720
Speaker 1: you're asking drive throughs. You You ain't doing nothing. We're

1081
01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:40,040
Speaker 1: walking in it, sleeping right now. I'm just at work now,

1082
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:47,240
Speaker 1: I'm in one right now. You're listening. All right, guys,

1083
01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:49,760
Speaker 1: here's a question for you. Is it possible to be

1084
01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:54,960
Speaker 1: too tired to go to sleep? Uh? It's perfectly possible

1085
01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:58,320
Speaker 1: to feel tired and at the same time have trouble

1086
01:07:58,400 --> 01:08:01,600
Speaker 1: dozing off. Certain life stress, us and health problems can

1087
01:08:01,760 --> 01:08:04,760
Speaker 1: leave us feeling exhausted, but at the same time make

1088
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:08,360
Speaker 1: it difficult to relax and go to sleep. Also, missing

1089
01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:11,800
Speaker 1: out on sleep can just erupt our natural rhythms, which

1090
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:14,960
Speaker 1: can make us feel wide awake when we'd usually be sleeping.

1091
01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:18,280
Speaker 1: So here's the question. Have you ever been too tired

1092
01:08:18,360 --> 01:08:21,479
Speaker 1: to sleep. I've heard people say that before. I'm I

1093
01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:24,240
Speaker 1: was so tired I couldn't even sleep. What do you

1094
01:08:24,280 --> 01:08:28,040
Speaker 1: think cause that? Well, I know for a fact you

1095
01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:33,080
Speaker 1: can be tired and not be sleepy. And then sometimes man,

1096
01:08:33,400 --> 01:08:37,040
Speaker 1: you can. You I've done myself like that many times.

1097
01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:40,679
Speaker 1: I just pushed myself to the edge and then it's

1098
01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:43,920
Speaker 1: so much adrenaline that it takes a while for the

1099
01:08:43,960 --> 01:08:47,639
Speaker 1: adrenaline to go because you've just been exerting yourself. Yeah, yeah,

1100
01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:50,040
Speaker 1: you know, and then that adrenaline is flowing and you

1101
01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:54,759
Speaker 1: up in your hype because man, it's sometimes, like Tommy

1102
01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 1: Junior tell you, after the show is kind of hard.

1103
01:08:57,120 --> 01:09:00,439
Speaker 1: It's kind of hard to set excited. Yeah you're tired. Yeah,

1104
01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:05,120
Speaker 1: just yeah, done a show, is right? So you just

1105
01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:10,080
Speaker 1: sitting in the morning, yeah, just looking around? So what

1106
01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:12,360
Speaker 1: do you do in that case when you know you

1107
01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:14,880
Speaker 1: have to get some rest? Passed the bags all missed

1108
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:17,559
Speaker 1: this flight? Is what I do? And you sleep on

1109
01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:19,280
Speaker 1: the plane. Yeah, I try to get to sleep on

1110
01:09:19,320 --> 01:09:22,800
Speaker 1: the plane. I love sleeping on the plane. Yeah. Yeah,

1111
01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:27,759
Speaker 1: But Steve, when you're not too tired and you're getting

1112
01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 1: and you look forward to that sleep, And how do

1113
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:35,320
Speaker 1: you boy? Good sleep? You know you about tom I'm

1114
01:09:35,560 --> 01:09:39,479
Speaker 1: I'm talking about when I know I'm sleeping like you know,

1115
01:09:39,560 --> 01:09:43,719
Speaker 1: like I'll be talking to somebody and be looking dead

1116
01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:48,519
Speaker 1: at their ass. But don't but don't be listening, right,

1117
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:51,200
Speaker 1: but be rocking back and forth just a little bit,

1118
01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 1: you know, but not side to side, back and forth

1119
01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:58,559
Speaker 1: like closer to him, fall away, close to him, fall away,

1120
01:09:59,200 --> 01:10:01,720
Speaker 1: and just be walking like that so it don't look

1121
01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:03,800
Speaker 1: because you don't want to rock side to side because

1122
01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:06,400
Speaker 1: that throw people off. But when you rock towards them,

1123
01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:10,800
Speaker 1: that just lures them in. And be just talking and

1124
01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:13,400
Speaker 1: I don't be hearing nothing. They say, I've shut my

1125
01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:19,160
Speaker 1: eyes completely. While somebody was talking at lady one time

1126
01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:21,080
Speaker 1: at this meeting, she was talking and I was just

1127
01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:23,760
Speaker 1: looking at how rocking I fell asleep. She said, are

1128
01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:30,519
Speaker 1: you okay? I'm fine? You right? What's wrong with you? See?

1129
01:10:30,560 --> 01:10:33,240
Speaker 1: I really think you hold the record of getting on

1130
01:10:33,280 --> 01:10:40,680
Speaker 1: the plane and falling asleep the fastest. Yeah, don't give it,

1131
01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:43,599
Speaker 1: put that belt on. Yeah, but I go to sleep

1132
01:10:43,640 --> 01:10:45,519
Speaker 1: on the plane and the heartbeat, I don't guess you

1133
01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:50,320
Speaker 1: will on the plane. Oh no, no, no, no, no no,

1134
01:10:50,320 --> 01:10:56,519
Speaker 1: no no, no, said the entertainer's boy KB kp KB.

1135
01:10:57,080 --> 01:11:00,760
Speaker 1: KB snorts. We just on the plane with time king

1136
01:11:00,840 --> 01:11:05,439
Speaker 1: to him. KB was snoring so loud. The white dude

1137
01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:12,000
Speaker 1: next to him said, hey, are you serious? Are you

1138
01:11:12,600 --> 01:11:17,880
Speaker 1: really serious? So k KB said, hey, man, my bad,

1139
01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:21,839
Speaker 1: but I do snore. So KABY went back in again.

1140
01:11:22,040 --> 01:11:25,920
Speaker 1: Now we crossed the aisle, KB snowing so loud. We're

1141
01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:28,080
Speaker 1: on the other side of the aisle me and said,

1142
01:11:28,200 --> 01:11:37,479
Speaker 1: just holly. The white dude said, oh my god, for

1143
01:11:37,840 --> 01:11:43,920
Speaker 1: crying out loud, mister, can you please sit up KB?

1144
01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:47,559
Speaker 1: Tell me KB sayd hey man, I just told you

1145
01:11:47,600 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 1: I snore, So listen to this right here. If you

1146
01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:55,040
Speaker 1: wake me up one moment, you ain't gonna believe what

1147
01:11:55,160 --> 01:12:01,000
Speaker 1: else I do really loud too, causin my ass whip

1148
01:12:01,040 --> 01:12:03,639
Speaker 1: the skills is just as loud as my soul source

1149
01:12:05,920 --> 01:12:10,080
Speaker 1: back over there, and ten minutes later, k B, we're

1150
01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:14,960
Speaker 1: ripping you went in again. That dude got up out

1151
01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 1: of first class and went back in coach and set down. Wow.

1152
01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:25,320
Speaker 1: All right, coming up more of today's trending stories on

1153
01:12:25,360 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after the hour.

1154
01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:35,200
Speaker 1: We'll be right back you're listening to show. So scientists

1155
01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:38,120
Speaker 1: say it takes about twenty one days or twenty one

1156
01:12:38,200 --> 01:12:41,200
Speaker 1: days exactly to build a habit. So if you're planning

1157
01:12:41,280 --> 01:12:45,599
Speaker 1: to to make a New Year's resolution for next year

1158
01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:48,439
Speaker 1: and stick to it, you should start your resolution now,

1159
01:12:48,479 --> 01:12:51,240
Speaker 1: that's what the scientists are saying. Then by the beginning

1160
01:12:51,240 --> 01:12:53,680
Speaker 1: of the new year, you will already be in the

1161
01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:57,600
Speaker 1: new habit. You know, have that new habit, It'll be underway,

1162
01:12:57,720 --> 01:13:00,400
Speaker 1: and you'll be more likely to keep it. That's why

1163
01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:02,160
Speaker 1: I guess that's why a lot of people drop off

1164
01:13:02,200 --> 01:13:04,679
Speaker 1: after they make those resolutions. They don't keep them because

1165
01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:06,840
Speaker 1: they're not in the habit of doing it. So start now,

1166
01:13:06,880 --> 01:13:09,640
Speaker 1: according to scientists. So, Steve, have you thought about your

1167
01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:12,559
Speaker 1: New Year's resolutions? Are you making any for next year?

1168
01:13:14,560 --> 01:13:17,519
Speaker 1: I stopped doing over years ago because you didn't. You

1169
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:20,639
Speaker 1: didn't stick to him. Is that why you stopped? No,

1170
01:13:20,720 --> 01:13:22,800
Speaker 1: I just decided whenever I'm gonna do something, I'm gonna

1171
01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:24,519
Speaker 1: do it now. I went to New York Knew Year

1172
01:13:24,560 --> 01:13:26,760
Speaker 1: to do nothing. Okay, I gotta get healthy. I gotta

1173
01:13:26,760 --> 01:13:29,880
Speaker 1: get healthy now. I ain't got no. Yeah, so you

1174
01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:33,360
Speaker 1: kind of ain't keeping with what the scientists are saying, Man, well,

1175
01:13:33,400 --> 01:13:38,360
Speaker 1: I don't know he scientists. I know he's not a

1176
01:13:38,520 --> 01:13:50,040
Speaker 1: scientist telling it real scientists though, sci E n T

1177
01:13:50,400 --> 01:13:55,200
Speaker 1: I s T. Yeah, Steve very good. Don't don't ask me,

1178
01:13:55,280 --> 01:13:59,720
Speaker 1: just spell nothing that's got to do with science. You

1179
01:13:59,840 --> 01:14:03,080
Speaker 1: just got the subject. I'm good. Yeah, I don't worry

1180
01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 1: about symbols and stuff they got or the periodic table.

1181
01:14:08,840 --> 01:14:13,479
Speaker 1: Ask me to coming up, we'll play around. If would

1182
01:14:13,479 --> 01:14:16,000
Speaker 1: you rather? In thirty three minutes after the hour, that's

1183
01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:22,080
Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show time for would you rather?

1184
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:28,519
Speaker 1: Would you rather eat rotten eggs or drink sour milk? Yeah?

1185
01:14:28,560 --> 01:14:31,519
Speaker 1: You can all that up. Man, I'm gonna go with

1186
01:14:31,600 --> 01:14:37,040
Speaker 1: that sour milk. That's that's close to butter milk. Yeah, okay, yeah,

1187
01:14:37,800 --> 01:14:40,120
Speaker 1: my sister would take that. That rotten egg you got

1188
01:14:40,160 --> 01:14:46,000
Speaker 1: problem thought? Ye come on, junior, what you got Yeah,

1189
01:14:46,040 --> 01:14:49,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with the sour milk. I can't. I've

1190
01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:52,439
Speaker 1: had bad milk before. I poured it on sealed before

1191
01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:55,240
Speaker 1: and knew it was sour. But that's all that's all

1192
01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:58,160
Speaker 1: you had had it, And I'd be damn if I

1193
01:14:58,200 --> 01:15:01,280
Speaker 1: was gonna my crazy daddy see me rank that in

1194
01:15:01,360 --> 01:15:10,599
Speaker 1: the train. Who oh you're throwing away food now? Who

1195
01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:18,200
Speaker 1: oh you're buying groceries? You got money? Okay, all right,

1196
01:15:19,120 --> 01:15:22,280
Speaker 1: moving on? Do we hear from the nephew? No? No,

1197
01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:31,440
Speaker 1: you did, and move on? No pick one. I tell you,

1198
01:15:33,320 --> 01:15:36,000
Speaker 1: I guess something. I gotta follow them because I don't

1199
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:39,080
Speaker 1: want the egg. I gotta go with the milk. Anyway

1200
01:15:39,080 --> 01:15:42,600
Speaker 1: it is, I'm going to throw up on you, all right.

1201
01:15:42,640 --> 01:15:45,920
Speaker 1: Would you rather date someone with their ex's name tattooed

1202
01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:50,519
Speaker 1: on their chest or date someone who's ex lives next door?

1203
01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:56,680
Speaker 1: Would you rather date someone that has their ex's name

1204
01:15:56,760 --> 01:15:59,599
Speaker 1: tattooed on their chest? Or would you rather date someone

1205
01:15:59,760 --> 01:16:03,800
Speaker 1: who who X lives next door? I'm going with the chest.

1206
01:16:04,200 --> 01:16:06,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see you from behind more than I am

1207
01:16:06,120 --> 01:16:10,000
Speaker 1: going from the front. Anyway. Wow, wow, Wow, are you

1208
01:16:10,000 --> 01:16:15,320
Speaker 1: sleepy because you just off wowing off? You asked me,

1209
01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:20,439
Speaker 1: think about your answers. Yeah, I'm just going I'm not

1210
01:16:20,560 --> 01:16:26,120
Speaker 1: pulling up every day and he right there into a fight.

1211
01:16:26,640 --> 01:16:32,800
Speaker 1: Tell my Lawrence, Net Lawrence, Yeah, Floyd, Floyd, stay right

1212
01:16:32,880 --> 01:16:37,599
Speaker 1: next door. No, you can have that tattoo. I just

1213
01:16:37,680 --> 01:16:40,519
Speaker 1: I just I just missed you. I probably missread it anyway,

1214
01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:44,360
Speaker 1: you know, I getting a wrong anyway? All right? One more?

1215
01:16:44,720 --> 01:16:47,320
Speaker 1: One more? Would you rather get stuck in an elevator

1216
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:54,680
Speaker 1: with your ex or with your partner and their X? No,

1217
01:16:54,840 --> 01:16:57,680
Speaker 1: I don't go with the partner. Get I'd rather get

1218
01:16:57,680 --> 01:17:00,320
Speaker 1: stuck in there with my partner and her. I will

1219
01:17:00,320 --> 01:17:04,519
Speaker 1: hook We can do that at least we get some

1220
01:17:04,920 --> 01:17:08,599
Speaker 1: of what you say, Junior say, I'm went on. I'd

1221
01:17:08,680 --> 01:17:15,000
Speaker 1: rather do that, okay, okay, all right, nephew in the

1222
01:17:15,040 --> 01:17:18,200
Speaker 1: elevator or with your partner in their EX. Come on,

1223
01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:31,639
Speaker 1: don't be difficult elevator? What's your ex? You're scared? Really?

1224
01:17:34,000 --> 01:17:37,000
Speaker 1: Coming up? Forty nine minutes after the last break of

1225
01:17:37,080 --> 01:17:40,120
Speaker 1: the day and some closing remarks from the one and

1226
01:17:40,200 --> 01:17:43,160
Speaker 1: a least Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to

1227
01:17:43,479 --> 01:17:47,160
Speaker 1: Steve Morning Show. All right, here we are, last break

1228
01:17:47,200 --> 01:17:50,519
Speaker 1: of the day. It's been a good day as usual. Yeah,

1229
01:17:50,560 --> 01:17:54,120
Speaker 1: it's been fun. Yeah, you're all right, Steve? Did you

1230
01:17:55,160 --> 01:17:58,760
Speaker 1: because we started the show off talking about attention? Well,

1231
01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:01,240
Speaker 1: you know, it's in one of those days for me.

1232
01:18:01,280 --> 01:18:04,559
Speaker 1: I will admit that so far, but it's gonna get better.

1233
01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:09,040
Speaker 1: I always keep my head up, you know, which could

1234
01:18:09,080 --> 01:18:11,360
Speaker 1: lead into these closing remark because I might as well

1235
01:18:11,400 --> 01:18:16,519
Speaker 1: talk about something that I was dealing with. Every morning,

1236
01:18:16,560 --> 01:18:20,120
Speaker 1: I have a little meditation that I do with daily

1237
01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:24,240
Speaker 1: inspiration that I read my Bible and a journal that

1238
01:18:24,360 --> 01:18:28,640
Speaker 1: I take notes in, and I started it doing this

1239
01:18:28,800 --> 01:18:31,760
Speaker 1: taking these notes to first and I have notes for

1240
01:18:31,840 --> 01:18:34,920
Speaker 1: practically every single day. I've only missed like three days

1241
01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:39,240
Speaker 1: from taking notes, just three. And so it's something I've

1242
01:18:39,320 --> 01:18:42,599
Speaker 1: learned to do, and it starts my day off a really,

1243
01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:47,800
Speaker 1: really well because it gives me a weaponry till God

1244
01:18:47,840 --> 01:18:52,040
Speaker 1: against the evil principalities of the world. You know, there's

1245
01:18:52,080 --> 01:18:57,600
Speaker 1: so much stimulation out here with social media and technology

1246
01:18:57,680 --> 01:19:03,360
Speaker 1: and cyberspace and own calls and messages and texts that

1247
01:19:03,560 --> 01:19:05,439
Speaker 1: you know, even if you're having a great day of

1248
01:19:05,560 --> 01:19:08,920
Speaker 1: so much stuff out there that can throw you off

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Speaker 1: if you're not, if you haven't stabilized yourself spiritually. And Sunday,

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Speaker 1: when I woke up, I was I was just about

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Speaker 1: to open up my journal and my daily inspiration, but

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Speaker 1: I had left the TV on the night four in

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Speaker 1: the living room, and so I went into the living

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Speaker 1: room and I was about to sit out with my

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Speaker 1: books and I said, man, let me, let me cut

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Speaker 1: this TV off. And I went over there and I

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Speaker 1: hit it. It didn't go off for some reason, and

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Speaker 1: I said, man, what's the deal? And I tried to

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Speaker 1: hit it and didn't go off, and I just hit

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Speaker 1: the channel and I hit the channel one time. I

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Speaker 1: hit the channel one time and up pops Joel Oldstein.

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Speaker 1: And so I was instead of me opening up my

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Speaker 1: journal in my daily inspiration, I sat down and cut

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Speaker 1: cut the volume up. I went, Okay, this must be

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Speaker 1: for me. Maybe he wants me to get this, And

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Speaker 1: oh my god, oh my goodness, was he correct. Now

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Speaker 1: I can't tell you exactly what he said, so I'm

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Speaker 1: a paraphrase it a bit. He was talking about people

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Speaker 1: who were have given up on their dreams. Now that

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Speaker 1: didn't apply to me, but he said, this is for

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Speaker 1: people who've given up on your dreams. This is for

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Speaker 1: people who've been waiting on something for God for a

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Speaker 1: while and it hasn't gotten there yet, and you're starting

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Speaker 1: to feel like maybe it ain't for you all you're

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Speaker 1: thinking about giving up on it. I wasn't quite in

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Speaker 1: that part of it, but I've been a little discouraged

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Speaker 1: about the fact that something I had been wanting for

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Speaker 1: a while, hadn't happened. A lot of people fall into

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Speaker 1: that bracket. But a lot of people have falling into

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Speaker 1: the they waited so long, they just decided it wasn't

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Speaker 1: for them, and they stopped, or they gave up on

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Speaker 1: their dreams and their visions. And he was talking about

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Speaker 1: He said, what you don't realize is that when you

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Speaker 1: ask God for something, that God is working on it

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Speaker 1: behind the scenes. He's doing some stuff in orchestrating some stuff,

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Speaker 1: and putting some stuff into play for you that you

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Speaker 1: may very well not even be aware of. But if

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Speaker 1: you give up hope, if you stop looking for it,

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Speaker 1: if you lose the faith, you then stop the process.

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Speaker 1: Because God don't give you what you want all the time.

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Speaker 1: He gives you what you believe all the time. See,

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Speaker 1: you don't always get what you want because what you

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01:21:52,680 --> 01:21:55,200
Speaker 1: want may not be best for you or something like that.

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Speaker 1: But if you believe God to give you something and

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Speaker 1: He has it for you, he's going to give it

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Speaker 1: to you. But some people just give up hoping for

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Speaker 1: it looking for it. He said, if you've gotten at

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Speaker 1: the point in your life where you've given up on

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Speaker 1: your dreams, or you think it ain't coming and you're

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Speaker 1: starting to fade. He said, I want you to do something.

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Speaker 1: He said, I want you to look again. And that

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Speaker 1: caught my attention. He said, I want you to look again.

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Speaker 1: He said. If you look again and you don't see

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Speaker 1: the blessing coming, or you don't see the blessing right there,

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Speaker 1: he said, I want you to look again, he said

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Speaker 1: in it. If you still don't see it, he said,

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Speaker 1: listen to me real close. I want you to look again.

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Speaker 1: And that was the thing that I needed to hear yesterday,

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Speaker 1: because sometimes, y'all, when you ask God for something that

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Speaker 1: it don't come in the time frame that you want

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Speaker 1: it to come in, you got to stay patient, You

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Speaker 1: got to stay watchful, and you got to do like

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Speaker 1: Joel Olstein said, you got to look again. And if

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Speaker 1: you look over there and you still don't see it,

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Speaker 1: stay patient, but look again. And man on, man on, man,

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Speaker 1: I can't tell you how I needed that yesterday. I

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Speaker 1: can't tell you how I need it today. I can't

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Speaker 1: tell you how often I need that because so many times, man,

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Speaker 1: so many things go counter to the way you wanted

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Speaker 1: to go or what you thought it was gonna be.

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Speaker 1: That you end up and you start feeling just a

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Speaker 1: little bit discouraged. Sometimes you just flat out I can't

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Speaker 1: take it no more and I quit. But I very

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Speaker 1: rarely get that way, but I do get I'm human,

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Speaker 1: you know, so I get moments when I'm man, this

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Speaker 1: is exhausting because what I'm attempting to do is exhausting.

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Speaker 1: What you're attempting to do or become, or the point

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Speaker 1: you're trying to get to, it's exhausting. But if you

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Speaker 1: exhausted and you don't feel like it's happening fast enough,

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Speaker 1: do like Joel Oldstein said, y'all, look again, just look again.

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Speaker 1: He's probably doing something on your behalf that you're not

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Speaker 1: aware of. Those are my closing remarks that really helped me.

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Speaker 1: So you know what I'm doing right now, I'm looking

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Speaker 1: at I'm looking again, y'all. Have a great weekend. I'm no,

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