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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Allegra is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Harold.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're going to call him

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Speaker 2: and see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her

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Speaker 2: and maybe get her another date. But first, Allegra, how

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Speaker 2: long has it been since you heard from him?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Man, it has been about twelve days already.

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Speaker 2: How many times have you tried to reach out to

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Speaker 2: him in the twelve days?

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Speaker 3: A few? Like, I'm not going crazy, but I've spent

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Speaker 3: a few texts on a few different days and I

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Speaker 3: haven't heard a response since our first date ended.

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Speaker 4: Actually, okay, well let's go back to that. Want to

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Speaker 4: tell us about your date and how it ended.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I was quick, a typical date.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: We decided to meet up for drinks, and we were

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Speaker 3: having such a good time that we actually ended up

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Speaker 3: getting dinner, had some good Italian food, then we had

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Speaker 3: a large drink.

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Speaker 5: So it was a good date.

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Speaker 3: Like it was devere hours, Okay, that.

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Speaker 2: Would make me feel like it was a good date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, okay, definitely like me, Like he was really

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Speaker 3: into it.

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Speaker 2: So how do you know that?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, first of all, you don't stay several

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Speaker 3: hours if you're not feeling someone, you know, and his

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Speaker 3: body language was into me. The conversation was flowing, like,

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Speaker 3: you know, he sent me a really nice text when

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Speaker 3: he got home at the end of the day. He

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Speaker 3: just hasn't been response to since then, and that's why

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Speaker 3: I'm like, sumthing's up, Like it's just not adding up.

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Speaker 2: So he texted you when he got home. What did

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Speaker 2: he say?

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Speaker 3: He said that he had a great time and to

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Speaker 3: have a good night, like very typical. You know.

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Speaker 4: Was there any talk about a second date while you

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Speaker 4: were on that date, like oh, that'd be fun for

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Speaker 4: us to try next time, or any kind of subtle

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Speaker 4: hints like that.

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Speaker 3: We said comments like that multiple times, like oh my gosh,

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Speaker 3: you haven't seen that movie. I'll totally go with you again,

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Speaker 3: Like oh my gosh, that happened, let's do that together.

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Speaker 3: So we didn't specify like a second date, but we

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Speaker 3: definitely had the vibe of seeing each other again.

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Speaker 2: And there's nothing that you can think of on the

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Speaker 2: date that happened that could have been awkward.

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Speaker 3: I mean, nothing was awkward. We are very different. He

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Speaker 3: you know, he's kind of like a buttoned up dude

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Speaker 3: that's taken life pretty seriously, and I'm kind of the opposite. Like,

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Speaker 3: don't get me wrong, I have my stuff together, but

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Speaker 3: you know, I'm care free. I like to have fun.

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Speaker 3: But like, I don't know, I don't really think that

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Speaker 3: was an issue. I feel like he was really into me,

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Speaker 3: and I made it clear that I am very into him, like.

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Speaker 2: Very what do you mean? Made it clear.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm bhysically attracted to him, but I let him know,

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Speaker 3: like he's my ideal type of guy. Like it's really

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Speaker 3: hard to find a guy that you're attracted to physically

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Speaker 3: that also has their stuff together. Like he is making

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Speaker 3: a life for himself. He shared that he kind of

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Speaker 3: grew up in a bad situation and now he's made

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Speaker 3: a life for himself and that's why checks all my boxes.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm looking for.

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Speaker 2: Okay, do you think maybe it was like too much

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Speaker 6: Uh?

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't know. I mean that's why I

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Speaker 3: need your help. Like to me, we balance each other perfectly,

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Speaker 3: but you know, maybe he's feeling a different way and

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Speaker 3: after he thought about things. He decided I'm not a

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Speaker 3: I need your help.

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Speaker 4: Did you tell him that he checks all your boxes?

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Speaker 3: I didn't say that specifically, but I mean I did

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Speaker 3: let him know, like, man, this is impressive, Like I'm

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Speaker 3: really digging what he's doing in life. He often kissed

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Speaker 3: me goodbye, and it wasn't something that I was encouraging, Like,

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Speaker 3: I mean, I wanted to kiss him, but I wasn't

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Speaker 2: That on him.

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Speaker 3: I mean, he pulled me in and did not let

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Speaker 3: me go when we were hugging, and the kiss was excellent.

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Speaker 3: So again the chemistry flow me there.

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Speaker 4: Was it an open mouth kiss or a closed mouth kiss?

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Speaker 4: That's important to know, like ten minute open mouth kiss.

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Speaker 2: Oh make girl.

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Speaker 4: I would have already showed up at his house after

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Speaker 4: all of this twelve day I'll let your tongue in

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 1: Then, First date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first date follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Allegra is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and it's been twelve days since she heard from Harold,

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Speaker 2: the guy she went on a date with, And now

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Speaker 2: we're about to call him and see if he'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Allegra, why don't you catch

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Speaker 2: everybody up on your situation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So, like you said, this guy, Harold and I

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Speaker 3: hit it off. We had a great first date. It

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Speaker 3: ended with an amazing kiss, and I really think there's

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Speaker 3: potential for this to be something. However, Harold isn't responding

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Speaker 2: All right, well you ready for us to call him

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Speaker 2: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you? Yes,

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Speaker 2: all right, here we go. Hold, hey, Harold, how are you?

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Speaker 2: My name's Jewbell. I'm calling from a radio show. It's

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Speaker 2: called the Jewbell Show.

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Speaker 6: How are you?

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Speaker 4: Hi, Harold? The whole show's here too. My name's Nina, Hi,

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Speaker 4: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 6: How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty good? So did you hear where we're calling from?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is so formal. Yeah? Are you at work?

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Speaker 6: Yes? I am, but I have a moment I may

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Speaker 6: help you.

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Speaker 2: We're calling from So it's a radio show called the

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Speaker 2: Jebel Show. And we do a segment on our show

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Speaker 2: that if somebody gets ghosted from a date that they

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Speaker 2: went on, that person can email them to get them

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Speaker 2: on the phone and ask why they're getting ghosted. And

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Speaker 2: so we got an email about you from someone who

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Speaker 2: listens to the show.

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Speaker 6: And who is this?

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Speaker 2: Her name is alegra.

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Speaker 6: Oh yes, okay, yes, I understand. All right?

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Speaker 2: Do you would you mind telling us why you're not

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Speaker 2: calling her back? She said, it's been twelve days since

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Speaker 2: you guys hung out, and she really.

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Speaker 6: Off to a moment.

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Speaker 5: To be truthful with you. She was a wonderful girl.

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Speaker 5: I had a great time with her. Headed off, I

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Speaker 5: was attracted to her. I hope you attracted to me.

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Speaker 6: But in the.

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Speaker 5: Interim and in all said and done, honestly, she's too hot.

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Speaker 5: She was absolutely too gorgeous of a woman. And I've

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Speaker 5: learned coming up, I please hear me out. I've learned

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Speaker 5: as a man, coming up the way I have, from

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Speaker 5: poverty to being in an environment that the good looking

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Speaker 5: girls are too high maintenance. It' it's it's almost like

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Speaker 5: a dream that's that's too good. You cannot you can't,

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Speaker 5: there's no way to sustain that type of relationship with

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Speaker 6: You need what they call back in my days.

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Speaker 5: And I'll go marry the one you don't marry the

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Speaker 5: ones that you like. You, marry the ones that like you.

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Speaker 5: It's safer, it's safer, ultimately safer.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know about that, sir. This sounds a

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Speaker 4: little bit old fashion, not even that. It's just not right.

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Speaker 5: And honestly, I'm looking for someone who is to be

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Speaker 5: truthful to me, blunt. It's not as high matrians. She Okay,

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Speaker 5: you know what. I ast you to give you more information,

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Speaker 5: and this is what most men won't tell you. It

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Speaker 5: is an insight into someone's insecurity. I will admit this,

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Speaker 5: to the point saying, you know what, I can't sustain.

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Speaker 6: That I like her. She's great. She's absolutely great. If

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Speaker 6: this even makes sense, she checked all the boxes on

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Speaker 5: It was wonderful. But the glaring reality is that she

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Speaker 4: So this isn't really about the high maintenance so much.

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Speaker 4: Is that maybe it's a way to protect yourself from

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Speaker 5: That is a great possibility. Interest that has been a

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Speaker 5: great possibility that concerns me. I'm not gonna lie to you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, thanks for being honest. I appreciate it certainly.

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Speaker 6: Thank you for your time.

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Speaker 2: If you get hang on one second, Alegra is actually

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Speaker 2: on the phone. She's been listening and wants to talk

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Speaker 6: You hell on, like, how are you have you been?

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Speaker 3: I've been sad because I've sent you a few messages

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Speaker 5: If if if you heard everything you it's no, there's

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Speaker 5: Upon my point, what I've seen my other friends go through,

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Speaker 5: I don't want what hurt me the most is for

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Speaker 5: you betray your treatment, cheat on me because I don't

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Speaker 6: I don't.

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Speaker 5: I built up a wall and I tried to operate

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Speaker 6: I'm going to get emotions. I'm sorry. I know you

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Speaker 5: That's pretty much how I have to right and that's

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Speaker 5: that's why I I I I do. I would not

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Speaker 5: I liked so much it was so beautiful hurt me

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Speaker 3: Yeah, here's the hero. Like, I'm hoping that the beauty

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Speaker 3: see on my inside because I'm not that girl. I'm

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Speaker 3: not the type of person who thinks looks are so

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Speaker 3: important that I'm going to go run to the next

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Speaker 3: good looking guy that gives me attention. Which, by the way,

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Speaker 3: you are so hot, like you have to understand, like woman,

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Speaker 3: it's not just your look, gets the whole package and

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Speaker 6: Thank thank you, thank you. I appreciate that. I do.

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Speaker 2: You know, Harold, Uh, you shouldn't stay closed off to

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Speaker 2: stuff just because you want to know. Well you think,

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Speaker 2: and I'll go with be better.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't make it safer. I mean, I think it's

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Speaker 6: No, no, I agree, I agree, it's just it's just

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Speaker 6: blue hard. You know it's blueheard.

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Speaker 5: Have you seen a lot of You've been hurt before,

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Speaker 5: and you've seen a lot of betrayal from your friends,

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Speaker 5: and that what's happened to them.

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Speaker 6: It kind of kind of shuts you down a little bit.

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Speaker 5: And and as you're right, I shouldn't do that way.

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Speaker 5: I shouldn't because she's great, she's your great, Alegra, you're great.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well then, Harold, would you like to go out

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Speaker 2: with Allegra again on another date? We'll pay for it, Yes.

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Speaker 6: I will say this, Allegra, I don't need their money,

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Speaker 6: but on the day with you, so.

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Speaker 2: We don't have to pay for it, but you'll go

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Speaker 2: on another date.

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Speaker 6: I definitely thought, I'm a man, you know, I have

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Speaker 6: to keep that image jump.

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Speaker 3: To go on.

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Speaker 6: It was really nice to hear from you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that if we go on another date,

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Speaker 3: your insecurity are going to go away, Like I'm I'm

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Speaker 3: here for this.

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Speaker 6: Good. I think I need some money to be here

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Speaker 6: for that.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes you do, Harold, Yeah, yeah, don't take something

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Speaker 2: away from yourself because of things that have happened outside

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Speaker 2: of you, you know.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right, you're right.

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Speaker 2: But really you don't need to pay for the meal.

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Speaker 6: I'll put it in writing. I'll put it in writing

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Speaker 6: as well.

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