WEBVTT - Our Plastic Surgery Updates | Golden Hour

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>joining us today, Susan. I'm so excited to be back.

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<v Speaker 2>We have so much stuff to tell today, and if

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, if you have a question for us,

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna blow up our computer after today.

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<v Speaker 2>So to start with, let's talk about Jones episode last night.

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<v Speaker 1>But first, first, we've got Nancy with us today. We

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<v Speaker 1>just want Nancy's going to weigh in two. So here

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<v Speaker 1>we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Last night's episode in a word, sad, sad, Nancy, quiet Mark,

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk about more?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh poor Mark. He thought I love that man.

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<v Speaker 2>But like they were on that boat and they're driving along,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think Joan was like grasping, like what can

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<v Speaker 2>we talk about? Finally she goes beach and then she

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<v Speaker 2>goes have you finished? When they drank their champagne and

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<v Speaker 2>he gave like one goal, there's one word answer. The

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<v Speaker 2>conversation didn't And I think he he.

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<v Speaker 4>Thought based on what we saw, what I saw, he

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<v Speaker 4>thought that they had a really good date.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I mean. Yeah, I think he was blindsided.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but here's here's the thing. The show is ninety

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<v Speaker 1>minutes two hours. It could have been two days. The

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<v Speaker 1>silence like it was too much, the airtime of what

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<v Speaker 1>it took to say nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>I felt so uncomfortable for him and so uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>For although when they got to the back of the

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<v Speaker 2>boat where the cheese spread was and all, they did

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<v Speaker 2>communicate a little, but once again they talked about how

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<v Speaker 2>he had the bird, what was it that came? And well,

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<v Speaker 2>I think by this episode, I want to see some

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<v Speaker 2>more uplifting things.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, And it seemed to keep going back to his

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<v Speaker 4>ex wife, his former.

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<v Speaker 1>Well and Joan to Jones talking about her John and

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<v Speaker 1>his We need more hope, we need more love.

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<v Speaker 2>We have to look for And I just say this,

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<v Speaker 2>that dress she had on, Oh my gosh, wait, Nancy.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you surprised that Susan has turned the conversation to

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<v Speaker 1>fashion shock her?

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<v Speaker 3>And it was still on Mark on the boat, right,

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<v Speaker 3>Mark Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So Mark was in love with a dress I want

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<v Speaker 2>he had to be she looked good. Okay, let's let's

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<v Speaker 2>go to the let's go to the event with well.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, can we just skip by Pascal and

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<v Speaker 2>his tidy whities?

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<v Speaker 3>I can't was hysterical out. No, he was proud. He

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<v Speaker 3>was proud, and I give him a lot of credit.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't something I would do. I want to see

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<v Speaker 1>you in tidy whitey Susan good. Okay, Let's talk about

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<v Speaker 1>Keith for a second. They go on the date, and

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<v Speaker 1>they go and they're both they're having a wine tasting

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<v Speaker 1>and it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Thirty two years and fun day until they talked. They

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<v Speaker 3>talked to them.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, but they talk about thirty two years of marriage.

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<v Speaker 3>We're crying again, Like, what do we know from the

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<v Speaker 3>ex wife? They haven't talked in ten years. What do

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<v Speaker 3>we know about Keith?

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<v Speaker 1>His wife was drugs, so we know he's a good guy.

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<v Speaker 3>He stood up to the place, and then that's wise.

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<v Speaker 3>We didn't learn anything else about hobbies or what he

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<v Speaker 3>wants to do in the future.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think Joan could have been excited about what

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<v Speaker 2>he was saying. When she said, give me one one

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<v Speaker 2>day of retirement, what you would do? Remember, he had

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<v Speaker 2>not really much to say.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it was just she needed to hear something exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's wake up and have coffee, go outside, look at

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<v Speaker 2>the sunshine.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe we'll blow leaves, or maybe we'll get to that

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<v Speaker 3>in a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, wait a second, what about what about uh the

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<v Speaker 1>whole deal with Chalk at the bowling Alley.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, first of all, you know, he was again

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<v Speaker 2>obvious to men.

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<v Speaker 1>We we all think it's pretty clear Chalk is getting

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of television.

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<v Speaker 4>I will give Chalk credit though, because he's making an effort.

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<v Speaker 4>You can tell that he sees he wants Joan. He's

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<v Speaker 4>going to go grab her at the bowling alley, sit

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<v Speaker 4>beside her, and he's trying to take over.

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<v Speaker 2>Who was one of the guys said you, Chalk, they're

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<v Speaker 2>all of us on this group day. Can you get

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<v Speaker 2>off of her for a minute? A week and that

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<v Speaker 2>was gone. He didn't stop his arm right now, Wait

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<v Speaker 2>a minute, Joan.

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<v Speaker 1>We listen, we know Joe right, we're friends with Joan

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<v Speaker 1>did not look comfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>She kind of was. Her body language is like she

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't so her she were up. She was, but she

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't puzzling, and she was not she was kind of

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<v Speaker 3>straight up careful of the boob. Sorry, it all goes

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<v Speaker 3>back to her always. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think this this this episode, we're getting close.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, hometowns are next week.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's pretty clear that a lot of these guys,

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<v Speaker 1>as kind as they are and as many life experiences

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<v Speaker 1>I've had.

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<v Speaker 3>They're really struggling to open up.

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<v Speaker 1>At least it appears that way on the episode when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes down to having a date with John and

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<v Speaker 1>are they ready?

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<v Speaker 3>You wonder are they really ready to I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>Mark's ready, do you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Mark broke his last night and the shock

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<v Speaker 2>telling him that it wasn't going to be them, but

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<v Speaker 2>I think he's actually ready now. He accepted that that

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<v Speaker 2>it wasn't going to be Jim, but I think now

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<v Speaker 2>he's more open And kudos to Mark, right, And.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's what the show has done a lot

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<v Speaker 4>for Charles. He had resolution, but he's ready to go

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<v Speaker 4>out and find love.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think it's a good that's the good side

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<v Speaker 2>of the show. Yeah, I think that's her dress of course. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just think Joan.

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<v Speaker 1>The goal here is for John to find love, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think she does and we have to keep that

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<v Speaker 1>in mind. But these guys are just I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's sad that that they are struggling so much to

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<v Speaker 1>find conversation. And maybe it's not then in real life,

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<v Speaker 1>but on the show, it's just missing that.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I just say one thing, If this camera crew

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<v Speaker 2>for a Bachelor for anybody followed us around for the

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<v Speaker 2>last thirty six hours, I'm telling you we'd have the

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<v Speaker 2>highest ratings.

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<v Speaker 1>But this is Joan's season, susand it's Magnet Jack to

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<v Speaker 1>Jones's Joan.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gone that Joe is dog. All right, Well, we

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<v Speaker 3>love that, we love the episode. We can't wait next

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<v Speaker 3>week for hometowns. But what do you think? What do

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<v Speaker 3>you think? Who do you think she's gonna I said

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<v Speaker 3>from the beginning, I did. We haven't seen the hometowns.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe there's more. I think I think there'll be more

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<v Speaker 3>of There is.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to be drama coming. I think there were not

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<v Speaker 1>some kind of twist. I think dramas.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're gonna get twists and turns. I'd be shocked.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd be shocked.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, if shocked did not get this hostel, even you.

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<v Speaker 3>She's had the most connection with it. That's all we've

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<v Speaker 3>seen twists.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe somebody leaves, it comes back, maybe somebody who knows.

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<v Speaker 1>So Nancy's here with us today to help us review

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<v Speaker 1>jump season, but she's here for.

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<v Speaker 2>Another So this episode, Ladies and Gentlemen, is going to

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<v Speaker 2>be a little different.

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<v Speaker 3>Today.

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<v Speaker 2>We are going to talk a lot about what happened

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<v Speaker 2>with Kathy and I and Nancy being here to help us.

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<v Speaker 3>It's more about plastic surgery today.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this is about real this. You know, people say

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<v Speaker 1>Kathy and Susan are real. You have no idea how

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<v Speaker 1>real we are about to be. Nancy here sighing Nancy's recovery.

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<v Speaker 4>It's new.

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<v Speaker 3>And I just got up because I was up all night.

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<v Speaker 2>She actually came in my room and woke me up

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<v Speaker 2>at one thirty in the morning to take Okay, but

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<v Speaker 2>let's stack up from it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's tell everybody what's been going on. I flew from

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<v Speaker 1>Texas to Philly. Susan took me in for plastic surgery.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a lower face lift and I had CO two,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a very strong laser. I had i p

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<v Speaker 1>L laser, which takes brown it is a beer, Susan.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So I did not have beer.

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<v Speaker 1>I had an I P L laser and then I

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<v Speaker 1>had another laser for my chest. It's all to resurf

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<v Speaker 1>a skin, get rid of brown spots. My face puffed up.

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<v Speaker 1>I look like Humpty Dumpty or square Bob SpongeBob square pants.

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<v Speaker 1>Susan had her surgery yesterday. What happened to usus?

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<v Speaker 3>So?

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<v Speaker 2>I had a lifestyle lift and I also had a

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<v Speaker 2>breast reduction in lift.

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<v Speaker 3>So I can't wait for my girls to be up hire.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm afraid they're going to be so small I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going to recognize them.

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<v Speaker 1>So we are here. Nancy came drove down from Alexandria

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<v Speaker 1>to help take care of us, and we have been

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<v Speaker 1>She is a great nurse. Folks, I've been well. I

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<v Speaker 1>was supposed to be taking care of the two of them.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's that's easy. Give him medicine, get him water. However,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're at Susan's.

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<v Speaker 3>House, you tell him. So when she got here, I

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<v Speaker 3>was blowing leaves.

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<v Speaker 2>She goes, oh, I like to do those things. Since then,

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<v Speaker 2>Nancy has blown the leaves and I asked an emultim

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<v Speaker 2>with a lawnmower. Okay, so Susan sweep the floor, wipe

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<v Speaker 2>the can.

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<v Speaker 3>What's wrong with this picture? I'm a all about my house.

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<v Speaker 4>And then we swept the floor, and Susan goes, Nancy,

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<v Speaker 4>can you come over here? Because she can't bend over.

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<v Speaker 4>That is my job I'm supposed to be taking care of.

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<v Speaker 3>There's one little fleck. There's one little fluck on the

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<v Speaker 3>over there that you missed.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to say that it's Susan's on drugs, but no,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Susan.

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<v Speaker 2>Timmy say one thing about that one perpose that I took.

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<v Speaker 2>I was feeling no pain, girls, I was feeling when

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<v Speaker 2>they went away, my ears were burning.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so here's the laugh. I don't take a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of pain culls. My ears have been hurting a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>But Nancy and I in the corner were saying, oh God,

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to be awful.

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<v Speaker 3>It's going to be a baby. So it's going to

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<v Speaker 3>be a warning them just don't make fun of me.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I'm going to cry. I can't take pain.

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<v Speaker 3>So yesterday we made sure that we had pain men.

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<v Speaker 2>That one lay thing I did pray, I talked to

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<v Speaker 2>the Lord, I really did, said please help me get

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<v Speaker 2>through this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and I prayed to the Lord that I look

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<v Speaker 1>like Humpty Dumpty and match up here I am so

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday the doctor asked me for a picture, he says,

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<v Speaker 1>because I said, my.

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<v Speaker 3>Face is really blown up. They said, could you send

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<v Speaker 3>us a picture? It was bad.

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<v Speaker 1>We sent a picture. They said, get in there. They said,

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<v Speaker 1>can you be here in thirty minutes? So snanswer. Nancy

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<v Speaker 1>gets in the cards surgery.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't know what's happened. She could care less. She's

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<v Speaker 3>you know, and percocet. So I was down there, excuse me,

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<v Speaker 3>lord whatever. So Nancy drives me.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know you're in trouble when you walk into

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<v Speaker 1>a doctor's office and they all look at you and

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<v Speaker 1>everyone doesn't say where they go, Come right now, hurry

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<v Speaker 1>right back here, and they put ice packs on me.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even tell you. I looked in the mirror

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<v Speaker 1>and was like, who am I?

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<v Speaker 3>Now? Today it's a little better down to here. You're good.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you're looking like Kathy up until that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've always said I'd like to look different,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't have this.

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<v Speaker 2>Admired And today I'm going to take my first shower.

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<v Speaker 2>I might be the unveiling for you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't do it now, why the uniling.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Susan breaks every rule when it comes to surgery,

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<v Speaker 1>every nervous.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, look at her like Santa Clau with a had

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<v Speaker 3>a shave. Okay, there we go. Okay, Oh, it's going

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<v Speaker 3>to be stuck. If it's stuck, don't pull. Oh I

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<v Speaker 3>can't if it's stuck.

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<v Speaker 1>So while they're while they're doing the unveiling, let me

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<v Speaker 1>just say a lot of people have written in saying

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<v Speaker 1>why did you do this? You're beautiful the way you are.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you telling you.

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<v Speaker 3>People don't pull it. I can't pull.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for all the nice comments that were beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're doing this for ourselves. We're not doing it

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<v Speaker 1>for anyone else, right, Yeah, we're doing it for ourselves.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, and I think that made me feel good. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>sixty seven years old. We should not.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think the thing with the CO two laser,

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<v Speaker 4>which you can go and get even without doing any

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<v Speaker 4>plastic surgery.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh here she is. Don't pull from the flying Nune.

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<v Speaker 1>The flying nun.

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<v Speaker 3>Look at that the jawline. Beautiful and a nice thing

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<v Speaker 3>is with the laser.

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<v Speaker 4>Though, even if you don't have plastic surgery, you too

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<v Speaker 4>every that you can get a CO two laser and

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<v Speaker 4>it refreshes your skin.

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<v Speaker 3>Some people do it, don't. I learn fresh your skin

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<v Speaker 3>ends up looking like a baby's butt. So these two,

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<v Speaker 3>you'll see them next week and you can see if

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<v Speaker 3>they their face looks like, oh, a toddler or something.

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<v Speaker 1>So so let me just say people, it doesn't This

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<v Speaker 1>did not hurt. Okay, and that's enough. This did not hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't hurt. It's just tight and my face feels

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<v Speaker 1>like it's gravel. Like this is all taking all the

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<v Speaker 1>dead skin off.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's going to take off. Might lose five pounds.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to take off all the skin, and suppose

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<v Speaker 1>I would look normal again, just with smooth skin. I

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot of brown spots, some damage. So apparently

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to get rid of it all. So we've

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of support and a lot of support

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<v Speaker 1>from Bachelor Nation. Kitlin Bristow reached out to me yesterday

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<v Speaker 1>and said, wait, did.

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<v Speaker 3>I miss something? What did you do?

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<v Speaker 1>And so I told her and she said, oh my goodness,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, we're brave. She said that this is

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<v Speaker 1>something she thinks she will do.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, all our producers from our show, yeah, have all

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<v Speaker 2>been warm and fuzzy.

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<v Speaker 4>We hear from some of the producers said to me

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<v Speaker 4>on the phone last night, and we're gonna send Susan

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<v Speaker 4>and Kathy a gift.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, we're gonna have to pay her. No,

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<v Speaker 3>but I think I need a gift.

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<v Speaker 2>You have the gift of However, the Yancy's going to

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<v Speaker 2>do this and Kathy and I are both coming.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right at Nancy's house. That's right, we are. Don't worry, really, honestly, true,

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<v Speaker 3>true friends. We have a question. Do I think we

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<v Speaker 3>started a trend? I have a lot of leaves? Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>Does this mean February I'll be so shovel and snow?

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<v Speaker 3>Do I have to cook? Kathy? I got that you

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<v Speaker 3>gotta clean. I got a clean all right?

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<v Speaker 2>But no, really, we're so happy to be able to

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<v Speaker 2>share this with all of our Bachination bands, everybody. And

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<v Speaker 2>we did this for us, not for anything else, but

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<v Speaker 2>to make ourselves feel.

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<v Speaker 1>And I would say, don't you think it's it's sort

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<v Speaker 1>of like fifty to fifty. A lot of people have said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you yea for being public about it and sharing it.

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<v Speaker 1>The funny thing for me is people said, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe it. She's having another facelift here it is.

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<v Speaker 3>This is the first one. I don't remember. They said,

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<v Speaker 3>no chicken fancies.

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<v Speaker 2>Are because of the hair change. It's not all those comments.

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<v Speaker 3>But most people have been very, very kind and very.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind, and we even even had people that already called

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<v Speaker 2>the doctor's office.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, it's amazing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Well, I think we all feel good and as

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<v Speaker 4>we all get older, you feel good about doing something

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<v Speaker 4>for yourself and taking good care of your skin.

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<v Speaker 2>And somehow this doesn't feel like wear million sunscreen, big hats.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll take care of this face, that's for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>Is our life going to change?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, there's still no man in our DM confident we're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna look good, guys, guys and feel good.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean now I have all I at least have

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<v Speaker 1>an excuse me, Michael, who wants to date this.

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<v Speaker 3>It's going to get better though, But thank you all

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<v Speaker 3>for listening and allowing us to share all this wonderful.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're you know, every day we're sharing stuff on

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<v Speaker 1>our Instagram and if you have questions, you can write

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<v Speaker 1>into Bachelor Nation dot com because we, like we said,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing off limits.

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<v Speaker 3>Will share whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>At where you put your reviews and your questions. You

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<v Speaker 2>can even question about the surgeries right and about Nancy.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna put my phone number anybody needs me to

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<v Speaker 4>come take care of them.

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<v Speaker 3>I also do yard work. Nurse when nurse Nancy is

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<v Speaker 3>the best.

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<v Speaker 4>And I pushed I pushed paint foundication because it does

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<v Speaker 4>even in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to stay on top of your paint. I

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<v Speaker 3>love you, Yeah, thank you too. This has been We

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<v Speaker 3>We love we love Nancy, we love each other. We

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<v Speaker 3>love being a part of Bachelor. We really do. You

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<v Speaker 3>guys are the best.

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<v Speaker 2>So in case any of you are wondering, We're not

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<v Speaker 2>done yet. I'm not done yet. On Monday, I'm to

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<v Speaker 2>go get SpongeBob face. I'm going to do the co

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<v Speaker 2>two as well on Monday and kind of go through

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<v Speaker 2>what I've.

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<v Speaker 3>Watched Kathy's face down. It's a little scary.

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<v Speaker 1>But any wait, Jesse, y'all know the doctor already said

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that my face blew up like a balloon

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<v Speaker 1>skin is that I have thin skin as opposed to

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<v Speaker 1>being thin skin, which I'm not. I have thin skin,

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<v Speaker 1>and so that blows up and gets very red.

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<v Speaker 3>They said, Susan's won't be that way. We'll see. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to take pictures. But it doesn't hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>I wander from to know that if you've ever thought

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<v Speaker 1>about having laser, it doesn't hurt. It just looks scary.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready for Halloween, but it doesn't hurt.

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<v Speaker 2>And Kathy is looking at the girls being up high

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<v Speaker 2>and small, and she's thinking maybe her should be up

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<v Speaker 2>high or I don't know if that's another surge on my.

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<v Speaker 1>Phone, These cones of what is it? What's the stuff

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<v Speaker 1>they put in silicon? You guys, I am from another country.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean these silicon things that they put into you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't it's a plant, it's an implant. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>very left out right.

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<v Speaker 2>In the little old school area. Well I read the

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<v Speaker 2>implant is too. I wanted to lift in a reduction

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<v Speaker 2>because I always thought that you could see my breast

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<v Speaker 2>enter the room before I did.

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<v Speaker 3>I did not want that.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm sixty seven, so they were low, so I

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<v Speaker 2>wanted it lifted up.

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<v Speaker 3>But to stay rounded up top, they do have to

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<v Speaker 3>put something in.

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<v Speaker 1>All I know is I had a breast reduction done

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<v Speaker 1>twenty years ago, and those three children that nursed ruined

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<v Speaker 1>my boobs.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what they do. That's what they do. But I

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<v Speaker 2>do know one thing. It's not surgery. But I promise

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<v Speaker 2>that loud on this podcast that I not only am

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<v Speaker 2>going to take care of my skin, but I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to work out again. I'm going to take care of

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<v Speaker 2>my bay and not going to get into shape. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe not the best shape, but for sixty seven, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to build some muscle.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, It's about doing your best suits and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so proud of you working out at that stack.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all about taking care of ourselves and feeling good

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<v Speaker 1>about ourselves.

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<v Speaker 3>This isn't We didn't do this for another man or

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<v Speaker 3>a man. What isn't a man? Yeah there will be,

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<v Speaker 3>there will be, I know it.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's about making ourselves feel good. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a personal decision. Some people want to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>some people don't, But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trink like earrings on they are my surgery.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm it's going to be in I think January or February,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm going to be doing the CO two laser

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<v Speaker 4>and perhaps a little tweak.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean just a little bit. And you know what,

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<v Speaker 3>nanswer's people that tell you what it did? That little bit?

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<v Speaker 3>Where's mine?

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<v Speaker 2>I already have your swollen, but you could see your

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<v Speaker 2>incision line turned to the side. Look that looks amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, there's such minds. I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 3>It's it's I don't know what it's. Here's the thing, though,

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<v Speaker 3>people say that when you start plastic surgery, it's hard

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<v Speaker 3>to stop. We don't have Let's star no, but I

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<v Speaker 3>agree with that. I think you can get in a

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<v Speaker 3>in a mode of well I did that.

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<v Speaker 4>Now look at my lips, and I think you're right.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you have to just do it a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to look different. I'll never give up

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<v Speaker 3>botos though.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, I want to get cheek I plants and I'm kidding,

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<v Speaker 1>I have cheeks. Everyone thinks I had my nose done

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<v Speaker 1>and a cheeking plant.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm not doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 3>But this is us. We are real. We love that

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<v Speaker 3>you're tuning in and we can't wait to share more.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think?

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<v Speaker 1>I think we should do it again? And we got

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<v Speaker 1>to be there for Nancy and guys. When you think

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<v Speaker 1>about writing now and say, Nancy, don't do it.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what we're going to do. You know you're

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<v Speaker 3>going to write and say, Nancy, you're beautiful just the

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<v Speaker 3>way you are. You know what the answer is, thank.

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<v Speaker 2>You, and but we're going to do it. We will

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<v Speaker 2>make that's right. Yeah, I want to take care of skin. So, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>we do have a little bit of extra time. How

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<v Speaker 2>about if we do one listener question and let Nazi

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<v Speaker 2>in on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I like that idea. Not only does Nancy mowyard,

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<v Speaker 1>she has very good advice.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So what we do is read this question and

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<v Speaker 2>we each give a piece of advice, and it's exactly

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<v Speaker 2>how you feel from your heart.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what you think about this?

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 3>Kathy, would you like to read?

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<v Speaker 1>Sure?

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<v Speaker 3>Let's go. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Kathy and Susan, my wife loves your podcast and

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<v Speaker 1>recently got me into it. I feel like you guys

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<v Speaker 1>would be the perfect people to help me right now.

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<v Speaker 1>My wife and I have been married for almost two years,

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<v Speaker 1>and I love her so much. I recently screwed up

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<v Speaker 1>big time on her birthday for some reason, when it

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<v Speaker 1>made dinner reservations to celebrate. I completely mixed up the

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<v Speaker 1>date of her birthday, so when we got to this

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant she's been wanting to try for ages on her

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<v Speaker 1>actual birthday, we didn't have a reservation and the place

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<v Speaker 1>was completely booked. The guy didn't really help when you say,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm sorry, your reservation was for next week, not today.

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<v Speaker 1>She was disappointed and her feelings were hurt. Understandably, but

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<v Speaker 1>she was so understanding about it and even forgave me

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<v Speaker 1>right away. Honestly, that made me feel even worse because

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<v Speaker 1>I know she was really looking forward to it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I let her down to make matters worse.

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<v Speaker 3>Things have already been a little.

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<v Speaker 1>Tense lately when it comes to stuff like this. Between

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<v Speaker 1>my best friend's bachelor party and my crazy work schedule,

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<v Speaker 1>I've missed quite a few things she wanted me to

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<v Speaker 1>go to. She knows that these are either scheduling mistakes

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<v Speaker 1>or things I just cannot miss and are out of

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<v Speaker 1>my control.

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<v Speaker 3>But I can tell she's been bummed out, even though

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<v Speaker 3>she's tried to be understanding about it all. Now our

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<v Speaker 3>anniversary is coming up. I'm thinking thick diamonds.

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<v Speaker 1>Now our anniversary is coming up, and I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to mess this up. I want to do something

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<v Speaker 1>special and thoughtful to show her how much I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>her and make up for missing some of these important moments.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't know where to start or what would

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<v Speaker 1>feel meaningful enough. Any ideas for how I can make

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<v Speaker 1>our anniversary unforgettable in a good way this time and

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<v Speaker 1>show her how much she means to be. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want her to feel like I'm taking her for granted.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really bad at this, so I need all the

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<v Speaker 1>ideas I can get. Thank you so much and love

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<v Speaker 1>you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>He sounds like a sweet What do you think?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>The first thing I think is I would do something

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<v Speaker 4>as a surprise. I would find out what's her most

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<v Speaker 4>Other than that restaurant. You could go back there, But

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<v Speaker 4>what about a little weekend away but a total surprise,

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<v Speaker 4>and then send her a note or send her something

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<v Speaker 4>beforehand and say, you know, pack for the week, pack

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<v Speaker 4>for a few days, not telling you, you know, pack

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<v Speaker 4>for the beach, or pack for cold weather and not

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<v Speaker 4>tell her, but then say I am so you know,

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<v Speaker 4>be vulnerable and say I just can't believe that I

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<v Speaker 4>did that and forgot. But I think the main thing

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<v Speaker 4>is show action. I think when somebody can tell you

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<v Speaker 4>how great you are and how much they love you,

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<v Speaker 4>but when they show you and they show you how

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<v Speaker 4>much they love you.

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<v Speaker 1>I love the idea of doing a surprise Nancy. I

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<v Speaker 1>think the surprise make her feel because she'll know that

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<v Speaker 1>it's not something you're saying, it's something you're doing. You

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<v Speaker 1>took the time to plan something, and if you take

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<v Speaker 1>her like on a weekend or treat do like couples massages,

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<v Speaker 1>have things planned that shows her how much you think and.

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<v Speaker 3>Little things during the weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, first of all, I got to send my hat

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<v Speaker 2>to him for him to come and ask this kind

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<v Speaker 2>of a question and say everything that he did.

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<v Speaker 3>I think he's a good guy. Do you think has

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<v Speaker 3>a single brother? He's definitely a keepable. Do you have

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<v Speaker 3>three single brothers? I couldn't agree with you both more.

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<v Speaker 2>And then have a special gift. But having everything lined up,

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<v Speaker 2>whether it's wine tasting, massages, whatever, it will be hot

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<v Speaker 2>to naked.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't Okay, wait minute, ladies, ladies, ladies, come on,

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<v Speaker 1>what all that's finding good? If it were you, you'd

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<v Speaker 1>love the weekend. But wouldn't you want just a little bobble?

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<v Speaker 3>I think a bobble if you can do it. Never

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<v Speaker 3>never turned jewelry down. Jewelry diamonds.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember in the beginning when I said have that special

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<v Speaker 2>gift there, that's what I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Regarding to and by bibble, we do you know some diamons.

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<v Speaker 1>Diamonds are a girl's best friend, but emeralds aren't bad either.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's an anniversary to depending on which one it is,

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<v Speaker 2>you forget it.

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<v Speaker 1>If they always your second anniversary, it's paper, Get over it.

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<v Speaker 3>Put the diamond into paper and.

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<v Speaker 1>Call it a day.

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<v Speaker 4>I also think giving her the gift first, because then

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<v Speaker 4>she'll think that's her own gifts.

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<v Speaker 2>Or then or perhaps give the weekend and she thinks

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<v Speaker 2>that's what that was it.

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<v Speaker 3>In the very last moment.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, no, you want to wear the bubble

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<v Speaker 5>the ball, She's like, happy anniversary, you know, back and

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<v Speaker 5>forth and then she would never expect to go on

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<v Speaker 5>a trip, a little trip, you know what.

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<v Speaker 2>I I just hope she remembers to get him something

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<v Speaker 2>after all the fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I just say though this, I love this.

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<v Speaker 1>Being the romantic that we all are, she is so

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<v Speaker 1>lucky to have a guy like this who is really

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<v Speaker 1>so congratulations.

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<v Speaker 3>To you doing good you're doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just the fact that you're writing to us and thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about what you can do to make it special.

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<v Speaker 3>We love this gives us hope for our futures. We

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<v Speaker 3>want to find a guy something like you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's great.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what we said. Where's his brothers, his fathers, his uncle.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much for writing it, and let us

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<v Speaker 3>know how it goes.

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<v Speaker 1>Let us know what you decided.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't wait to hear. If you need some advice,

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<v Speaker 3>you could call us. We could plan this. And that's

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<v Speaker 3>another thing.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't feel comfortable like you're going to get

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<v Speaker 2>it right and do it, do you have a secretary

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<v Speaker 2>or a best friend or her best friend to help

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<v Speaker 2>you plan this.

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<v Speaker 3>There's nothing wrong with that, or.

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<v Speaker 1>A tribal agent. It's not that hard out. There's a wonderful, wonderful,

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<v Speaker 1>amazing thing called Google.

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<v Speaker 3>Look at right. Good luck to you, Ben Okay, Well

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<v Speaker 3>that is going to do it free today.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, we're going to go soak our faces

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<v Speaker 1>in vinegar.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm taking my first shower. Susan's gonna take a shower.

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<v Speaker 1>Nancy's it's time for you know, get out mow the yard.

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<v Speaker 4>I know that's coming oh, and I have trash duty

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<v Speaker 4>and you'll see that later.

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<v Speaker 1>But we loved having this chat with you all and again,

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<v Speaker 3>We look forward to hearing for you and thank you

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<v Speaker 3>for having me today. We love having you.

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<v Speaker 1>And until next time and when we maybe pray for

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<v Speaker 1>more healing and we'll see you next time.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you,