Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for
Speaker 1: joining us today, Susan. I'm so excited to be back.
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Speaker 3: You're gonna blow up our computer after today.
Speaker 2: So to start with, let's talk about Jones episode last night.
Speaker 1: But first, first, we've got Nancy with us today. We
Speaker 1: just want Nancy's going to weigh in two. So here
Speaker 1: we go.
Speaker 2: Last night's episode in a word, sad, sad, Nancy, quiet Mark,
Speaker 2: Let's talk about more?
Speaker 3: Oh poor Mark. He thought I love that man.
Speaker 2: But like they were on that boat and they're driving along,
Speaker 2: and I think Joan was like grasping, like what can
Speaker 2: we talk about? Finally she goes beach and then she
Speaker 2: goes have you finished? When they drank their champagne and
Speaker 2: he gave like one goal, there's one word answer. The
Speaker 2: conversation didn't And I think he he.
Speaker 4: Thought based on what we saw, what I saw, he
Speaker 4: thought that they had a really good date.
Speaker 3: That's what I mean. Yeah, I think he was blindsided.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but here's here's the thing. The show is ninety
Speaker 1: minutes two hours. It could have been two days. The
Speaker 1: silence like it was too much, the airtime of what
Speaker 1: it took to say nothing.
Speaker 3: I felt so uncomfortable for him and so uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: For although when they got to the back of the
Speaker 2: boat where the cheese spread was and all, they did
Speaker 2: communicate a little, but once again they talked about how
Speaker 2: he had the bird, what was it that came? And well,
Speaker 2: I think by this episode, I want to see some
Speaker 2: more uplifting things.
Speaker 4: Yes, And it seemed to keep going back to his
Speaker 4: ex wife, his former.
Speaker 1: Well and Joan to Jones talking about her John and
Speaker 1: his We need more hope, we need more love.
Speaker 2: We have to look for And I just say this,
Speaker 2: that dress she had on, Oh my gosh, wait, Nancy.
Speaker 1: Are you surprised that Susan has turned the conversation to
Speaker 1: fashion shock her?
Speaker 3: And it was still on Mark on the boat, right,
Speaker 3: Mark Okay.
Speaker 2: So Mark was in love with a dress I want
Speaker 2: he had to be she looked good. Okay, let's let's
Speaker 2: go to the let's go to the event with well.
Speaker 2: First of all, can we just skip by Pascal and
Speaker 2: his tidy whities?
Speaker 3: I can't was hysterical out. No, he was proud. He
Speaker 3: was proud, and I give him a lot of credit.
Speaker 3: I'm doing that.
Speaker 1: I can't something I would do. I want to see
Speaker 1: you in tidy whitey Susan good. Okay, Let's talk about
Speaker 1: Keith for a second. They go on the date, and
Speaker 1: they go and they're both they're having a wine tasting
Speaker 1: and it's.
Speaker 3: Thirty two years and fun day until they talked. They
Speaker 3: talked to them.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but they talk about thirty two years of marriage.
Speaker 3: We're crying again, Like, what do we know from the
Speaker 3: ex wife? They haven't talked in ten years. What do
Speaker 3: we know about Keith?
Speaker 1: His wife was drugs, so we know he's a good guy.
Speaker 3: He stood up to the place, and then that's wise.
Speaker 3: We didn't learn anything else about hobbies or what he
Speaker 3: wants to do in the future.
Speaker 2: I don't think Joan could have been excited about what
Speaker 2: he was saying. When she said, give me one one
Speaker 2: day of retirement, what you would do? Remember, he had
Speaker 2: not really much to say.
Speaker 3: I mean, it was just she needed to hear something exciting.
Speaker 2: Let's wake up and have coffee, go outside, look at
Speaker 2: the sunshine.
Speaker 3: Maybe we'll blow leaves, or maybe we'll get to that
Speaker 3: in a minute.
Speaker 1: Okay, wait a second, what about what about uh the
Speaker 1: whole deal with Chalk at the bowling Alley.
Speaker 2: I mean, first of all, you know, he was again
Speaker 2: obvious to men.
Speaker 1: We we all think it's pretty clear Chalk is getting
Speaker 1: a lot of television.
Speaker 4: I will give Chalk credit though, because he's making an effort.
Speaker 4: You can tell that he sees he wants Joan. He's
Speaker 4: going to go grab her at the bowling alley, sit
Speaker 4: beside her, and he's trying to take over.
Speaker 2: Who was one of the guys said you, Chalk, they're
Speaker 2: all of us on this group day. Can you get
Speaker 2: off of her for a minute? A week and that
Speaker 2: was gone. He didn't stop his arm right now, Wait
Speaker 2: a minute, Joan.
Speaker 1: We listen, we know Joe right, we're friends with Joan
Speaker 1: did not look comfortable.
Speaker 3: She kind of was. Her body language is like she
Speaker 3: wasn't so her she were up. She was, but she
Speaker 3: wasn't puzzling, and she was not she was kind of
Speaker 3: straight up careful of the boob. Sorry, it all goes
Speaker 3: back to her always. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think this this this episode, we're getting close.
Speaker 3: You know, hometowns are next week.
Speaker 1: I think it's pretty clear that a lot of these guys,
Speaker 1: as kind as they are and as many life experiences
Speaker 1: I've had.
Speaker 3: They're really struggling to open up.
Speaker 1: At least it appears that way on the episode when
Speaker 1: it comes down to having a date with John and
Speaker 1: are they ready?
Speaker 3: You wonder are they really ready to I don't think
Speaker 3: Mark's ready, do you.
Speaker 2: I think Mark broke his last night and the shock
Speaker 2: telling him that it wasn't going to be them, but
Speaker 2: I think he's actually ready now. He accepted that that
Speaker 2: it wasn't going to be Jim, but I think now
Speaker 2: he's more open And kudos to Mark, right, And.
Speaker 4: I think that's what the show has done a lot
Speaker 4: for Charles. He had resolution, but he's ready to go
Speaker 4: out and find love.
Speaker 2: So I think it's a good that's the good side
Speaker 2: of the show. Yeah, I think that's her dress of course. Well,
Speaker 2: and I just think Joan.
Speaker 1: The goal here is for John to find love, and
Speaker 1: I think she does and we have to keep that
Speaker 1: in mind. But these guys are just I think it's
Speaker 1: it's sad that that they are struggling so much to
Speaker 1: find conversation. And maybe it's not then in real life,
Speaker 1: but on the show, it's just missing that.
Speaker 2: Can I just say one thing, If this camera crew
Speaker 2: for a Bachelor for anybody followed us around for the
Speaker 2: last thirty six hours, I'm telling you we'd have the
Speaker 2: highest ratings.
Speaker 1: But this is Joan's season, susand it's Magnet Jack to
Speaker 1: Jones's Joan.
Speaker 3: I'm gone that Joe is dog. All right, Well, we
Speaker 3: love that, we love the episode. We can't wait next
Speaker 3: week for hometowns. But what do you think? What do
Speaker 3: you think? Who do you think she's gonna I said
Speaker 3: from the beginning, I did. We haven't seen the hometowns.
Speaker 3: Maybe there's more. I think I think there'll be more
Speaker 3: of There is.
Speaker 1: Going to be drama coming. I think there were not
Speaker 1: some kind of twist. I think dramas.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're gonna get twists and turns. I'd be shocked.
Speaker 3: I'd be shocked.
Speaker 2: Okay, if shocked did not get this hostel, even you.
Speaker 3: She's had the most connection with it. That's all we've
Speaker 3: seen twists.
Speaker 1: Maybe somebody leaves, it comes back, maybe somebody who knows.
Speaker 1: So Nancy's here with us today to help us review
Speaker 1: jump season, but she's here for.
Speaker 2: Another So this episode, Ladies and Gentlemen, is going to
Speaker 2: be a little different.
Speaker 3: Today.
Speaker 2: We are going to talk a lot about what happened
Speaker 2: with Kathy and I and Nancy being here to help us.
Speaker 3: It's more about plastic surgery today.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is about real this. You know, people say
Speaker 1: Kathy and Susan are real. You have no idea how
Speaker 1: real we are about to be. Nancy here sighing Nancy's recovery.
Speaker 4: It's new.
Speaker 3: And I just got up because I was up all night.
Speaker 2: She actually came in my room and woke me up
Speaker 2: at one thirty in the morning to take Okay, but
Speaker 2: let's stack up from it.
Speaker 1: Let's tell everybody what's been going on. I flew from
Speaker 1: Texas to Philly. Susan took me in for plastic surgery.
Speaker 1: I had a lower face lift and I had CO two,
Speaker 1: which is a very strong laser. I had i p
Speaker 1: L laser, which takes brown it is a beer, Susan.
Speaker 3: Okay, So I did not have beer.
Speaker 1: I had an I P L laser and then I
Speaker 1: had another laser for my chest. It's all to resurf
Speaker 1: a skin, get rid of brown spots. My face puffed up.
Speaker 1: I look like Humpty Dumpty or square Bob SpongeBob square pants.
Speaker 1: Susan had her surgery yesterday. What happened to usus?
Speaker 3: So?
Speaker 2: I had a lifestyle lift and I also had a
Speaker 2: breast reduction in lift.
Speaker 3: So I can't wait for my girls to be up hire.
Speaker 2: But I'm afraid they're going to be so small I'm
Speaker 2: not going to recognize them.
Speaker 1: So we are here. Nancy came drove down from Alexandria
Speaker 1: to help take care of us, and we have been
Speaker 1: She is a great nurse. Folks, I've been well. I
Speaker 1: was supposed to be taking care of the two of them.
Speaker 1: That's that's that's easy. Give him medicine, get him water. However,
Speaker 1: when you're at Susan's.
Speaker 3: House, you tell him. So when she got here, I
Speaker 3: was blowing leaves.
Speaker 2: She goes, oh, I like to do those things. Since then,
Speaker 2: Nancy has blown the leaves and I asked an emultim
Speaker 2: with a lawnmower. Okay, so Susan sweep the floor, wipe
Speaker 2: the can.
Speaker 3: What's wrong with this picture? I'm a all about my house.
Speaker 4: And then we swept the floor, and Susan goes, Nancy,
Speaker 4: can you come over here? Because she can't bend over.
Speaker 4: That is my job I'm supposed to be taking care of.
Speaker 3: There's one little fleck. There's one little fluck on the
Speaker 3: over there that you missed.
Speaker 1: I'd like to say that it's Susan's on drugs, but no,
Speaker 1: this is Susan.
Speaker 2: Timmy say one thing about that one perpose that I took.
Speaker 2: I was feeling no pain, girls, I was feeling when
Speaker 2: they went away, my ears were burning.
Speaker 1: Okay, so here's the laugh. I don't take a lot
Speaker 1: of pain culls. My ears have been hurting a lot.
Speaker 1: But Nancy and I in the corner were saying, oh God,
Speaker 1: it's going to be awful.
Speaker 3: It's going to be a baby. So it's going to
Speaker 3: be a warning them just don't make fun of me.
Speaker 3: I know I'm going to cry. I can't take pain.
Speaker 3: So yesterday we made sure that we had pain men.
Speaker 2: That one lay thing I did pray, I talked to
Speaker 2: the Lord, I really did, said please help me get
Speaker 2: through this.
Speaker 1: Yes, and I prayed to the Lord that I look
Speaker 1: like Humpty Dumpty and match up here I am so
Speaker 1: yesterday the doctor asked me for a picture, he says,
Speaker 1: because I said, my.
Speaker 3: Face is really blown up. They said, could you send
Speaker 3: us a picture? It was bad.
Speaker 1: We sent a picture. They said, get in there. They said,
Speaker 1: can you be here in thirty minutes? So snanswer. Nancy
Speaker 1: gets in the cards surgery.
Speaker 3: She didn't know what's happened. She could care less. She's
Speaker 3: you know, and percocet. So I was down there, excuse me,
Speaker 3: lord whatever. So Nancy drives me.
Speaker 1: And you know you're in trouble when you walk into
Speaker 1: a doctor's office and they all look at you and
Speaker 1: everyone doesn't say where they go, Come right now, hurry
Speaker 1: right back here, and they put ice packs on me.
Speaker 1: I can't even tell you. I looked in the mirror
Speaker 1: and was like, who am I?
Speaker 3: Now? Today it's a little better down to here. You're good.
Speaker 3: I think you're looking like Kathy up until that.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've always said I'd like to look different,
Speaker 1: but I didn't have this.
Speaker 2: Admired And today I'm going to take my first shower.
Speaker 2: I might be the unveiling for you guys.
Speaker 1: Right now.
Speaker 3: Don't do it now, why the uniling.
Speaker 1: Okay, Susan breaks every rule when it comes to surgery,
Speaker 1: every nervous.
Speaker 3: Okay, look at her like Santa Clau with a had
Speaker 3: a shave. Okay, there we go. Okay, Oh, it's going
Speaker 3: to be stuck. If it's stuck, don't pull. Oh I
Speaker 3: can't if it's stuck.
Speaker 1: So while they're while they're doing the unveiling, let me
Speaker 1: just say a lot of people have written in saying
Speaker 1: why did you do this? You're beautiful the way you are.
Speaker 1: Thank you telling you.
Speaker 3: People don't pull it. I can't pull.
Speaker 1: Thank you for all the nice comments that were beautiful.
Speaker 1: But we're doing this for ourselves. We're not doing it
Speaker 1: for anyone else, right, Yeah, we're doing it for ourselves.
Speaker 3: Well, and I think that made me feel good. I'm
Speaker 3: sixty seven years old. We should not.
Speaker 4: And I think the thing with the CO two laser,
Speaker 4: which you can go and get even without doing any
Speaker 4: plastic surgery.
Speaker 3: Oh here she is. Don't pull from the flying Nune.
Speaker 1: The flying nun.
Speaker 3: Look at that the jawline. Beautiful and a nice thing
Speaker 3: is with the laser.
Speaker 4: Though, even if you don't have plastic surgery, you too
Speaker 4: every that you can get a CO two laser and
Speaker 4: it refreshes your skin.
Speaker 3: Some people do it, don't. I learn fresh your skin
Speaker 3: ends up looking like a baby's butt. So these two,
Speaker 3: you'll see them next week and you can see if
Speaker 3: they their face looks like, oh, a toddler or something.
Speaker 1: So so let me just say people, it doesn't This
Speaker 1: did not hurt. Okay, and that's enough. This did not hurt.
Speaker 1: It doesn't hurt. It's just tight and my face feels
Speaker 1: like it's gravel. Like this is all taking all the
Speaker 1: dead skin off.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's going to take off. Might lose five pounds.
Speaker 1: It's going to take off all the skin, and suppose
Speaker 1: I would look normal again, just with smooth skin. I
Speaker 1: have a lot of brown spots, some damage. So apparently
Speaker 1: it's going to get rid of it all. So we've
Speaker 1: had a lot of support and a lot of support
Speaker 1: from Bachelor Nation. Kitlin Bristow reached out to me yesterday
Speaker 1: and said, wait, did.
Speaker 3: I miss something? What did you do?
Speaker 1: And so I told her and she said, oh my goodness,
Speaker 1: and she said, we're brave. She said that this is
Speaker 1: something she thinks she will do.
Speaker 2: Also, all our producers from our show, yeah, have all
Speaker 2: been warm and fuzzy.
Speaker 4: We hear from some of the producers said to me
Speaker 4: on the phone last night, and we're gonna send Susan
Speaker 4: and Kathy a gift.
Speaker 3: I was like, we're gonna have to pay her. No,
Speaker 3: but I think I need a gift.
Speaker 2: You have the gift of However, the Yancy's going to
Speaker 2: do this and Kathy and I are both coming.
Speaker 3: That's right at Nancy's house. That's right, we are. Don't worry, really, honestly, true,
Speaker 3: true friends. We have a question. Do I think we
Speaker 3: started a trend? I have a lot of leaves? Wait?
Speaker 2: Does this mean February I'll be so shovel and snow?
Speaker 3: Do I have to cook? Kathy? I got that you
Speaker 3: gotta clean. I got a clean all right?
Speaker 2: But no, really, we're so happy to be able to
Speaker 2: share this with all of our Bachination bands, everybody. And
Speaker 2: we did this for us, not for anything else, but
Speaker 2: to make ourselves feel.
Speaker 1: And I would say, don't you think it's it's sort
Speaker 1: of like fifty to fifty. A lot of people have said, yeah,
Speaker 1: you yea for being public about it and sharing it.
Speaker 1: The funny thing for me is people said, I can't
Speaker 1: believe it. She's having another facelift here it is.
Speaker 3: This is the first one. I don't remember. They said,
Speaker 3: no chicken fancies.
Speaker 2: Are because of the hair change. It's not all those comments.
Speaker 3: But most people have been very, very kind and very.
Speaker 2: Kind, and we even even had people that already called
Speaker 2: the doctor's office.
Speaker 3: Right, it's amazing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, I think we all feel good and as
Speaker 4: we all get older, you feel good about doing something
Speaker 4: for yourself and taking good care of your skin.
Speaker 2: And somehow this doesn't feel like wear million sunscreen, big hats.
Speaker 2: I'll take care of this face, that's for sure.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 3: Is our life going to change?
Speaker 2: Yes, there's still no man in our DM confident we're
Speaker 2: gonna look good, guys, guys and feel good.
Speaker 1: I mean now I have all I at least have
Speaker 1: an excuse me, Michael, who wants to date this.
Speaker 3: It's going to get better though, But thank you all
Speaker 3: for listening and allowing us to share all this wonderful.
Speaker 1: And we're you know, every day we're sharing stuff on
Speaker 1: our Instagram and if you have questions, you can write
Speaker 1: into Bachelor Nation dot com because we, like we said,
Speaker 1: there's nothing off limits.
Speaker 3: Will share whatever.
Speaker 2: At where you put your reviews and your questions. You
Speaker 2: can even question about the surgeries right and about Nancy.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna put my phone number anybody needs me to
Speaker 4: come take care of them.
Speaker 3: I also do yard work. Nurse when nurse Nancy is
Speaker 3: the best.
Speaker 4: And I pushed I pushed paint foundication because it does
Speaker 4: even in the morning.
Speaker 3: You have to stay on top of your paint. I
Speaker 3: love you, Yeah, thank you too. This has been We
Speaker 3: We love we love Nancy, we love each other. We
Speaker 3: love being a part of Bachelor. We really do. You
Speaker 3: guys are the best.
Speaker 2: So in case any of you are wondering, We're not
Speaker 2: done yet. I'm not done yet. On Monday, I'm to
Speaker 2: go get SpongeBob face. I'm going to do the co
Speaker 2: two as well on Monday and kind of go through
Speaker 2: what I've.
Speaker 3: Watched Kathy's face down. It's a little scary.
Speaker 1: But any wait, Jesse, y'all know the doctor already said
Speaker 1: the reason that my face blew up like a balloon
Speaker 1: skin is that I have thin skin as opposed to
Speaker 1: being thin skin, which I'm not. I have thin skin,
Speaker 1: and so that blows up and gets very red.
Speaker 3: They said, Susan's won't be that way. We'll see. I'm
Speaker 3: going to take pictures. But it doesn't hurt.
Speaker 1: I wander from to know that if you've ever thought
Speaker 1: about having laser, it doesn't hurt. It just looks scary.
Speaker 1: I'm ready for Halloween, but it doesn't hurt.
Speaker 2: And Kathy is looking at the girls being up high
Speaker 2: and small, and she's thinking maybe her should be up
Speaker 2: high or I don't know if that's another surge on my.
Speaker 1: Phone, These cones of what is it? What's the stuff
Speaker 1: they put in silicon? You guys, I am from another country.
Speaker 1: I mean these silicon things that they put into you.
Speaker 1: I don't it's a plant, it's an implant. I feel
Speaker 1: very left out right.
Speaker 2: In the little old school area. Well I read the
Speaker 2: implant is too. I wanted to lift in a reduction
Speaker 2: because I always thought that you could see my breast
Speaker 2: enter the room before I did.
Speaker 3: I did not want that.
Speaker 2: And I'm sixty seven, so they were low, so I
Speaker 2: wanted it lifted up.
Speaker 3: But to stay rounded up top, they do have to
Speaker 3: put something in.
Speaker 1: All I know is I had a breast reduction done
Speaker 1: twenty years ago, and those three children that nursed ruined
Speaker 1: my boobs.
Speaker 2: That's what they do. That's what they do. But I
Speaker 2: do know one thing. It's not surgery. But I promise
Speaker 2: that loud on this podcast that I not only am
Speaker 2: going to take care of my skin, but I'm going
Speaker 2: to work out again. I'm going to take care of
Speaker 2: my bay and not going to get into shape. I mean,
Speaker 2: maybe not the best shape, but for sixty seven, I'm
Speaker 2: going to build some muscle.
Speaker 1: You know what, It's about doing your best suits and
Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you working out at that stack.
Speaker 1: It's all about taking care of ourselves and feeling good
Speaker 1: about ourselves.
Speaker 3: This isn't We didn't do this for another man or
Speaker 3: a man. What isn't a man? Yeah there will be,
Speaker 3: there will be, I know it.
Speaker 1: But it's about making ourselves feel good. And you know,
Speaker 1: it's a personal decision. Some people want to do it,
Speaker 1: some people don't, But I don't know.
Speaker 3: I'm trink like earrings on they are my surgery.
Speaker 4: I'm it's going to be in I think January or February,
Speaker 4: and I'm going to be doing the CO two laser
Speaker 4: and perhaps a little tweak.
Speaker 3: I mean just a little bit. And you know what,
Speaker 3: nanswer's people that tell you what it did? That little bit?
Speaker 3: Where's mine?
Speaker 2: I already have your swollen, but you could see your
Speaker 2: incision line turned to the side. Look that looks amazing.
Speaker 2: I mean, there's such minds. I'm so excited.
Speaker 3: It's it's I don't know what it's. Here's the thing, though,
Speaker 3: people say that when you start plastic surgery, it's hard
Speaker 3: to stop. We don't have Let's star no, but I
Speaker 3: agree with that. I think you can get in a
Speaker 3: in a mode of well I did that.
Speaker 4: Now look at my lips, and I think you're right.
Speaker 3: I think you have to just do it a little bit.
Speaker 3: I don't want to look different. I'll never give up
Speaker 3: botos though.
Speaker 1: Listen, I want to get cheek I plants and I'm kidding,
Speaker 1: I have cheeks. Everyone thinks I had my nose done
Speaker 1: and a cheeking plant.
Speaker 3: No, I'm not doing it.
Speaker 1: I'm not.
Speaker 3: But this is us. We are real. We love that
Speaker 3: you're tuning in and we can't wait to share more.
Speaker 3: What do you think?
Speaker 1: I think we should do it again? And we got
Speaker 1: to be there for Nancy and guys. When you think
Speaker 1: about writing now and say, Nancy, don't do it.
Speaker 3: You know what we're going to do. You know you're
Speaker 3: going to write and say, Nancy, you're beautiful just the
Speaker 3: way you are. You know what the answer is, thank.
Speaker 2: You, and but we're going to do it. We will
Speaker 2: make that's right. Yeah, I want to take care of skin. So, guys,
Speaker 2: we do have a little bit of extra time. How
Speaker 2: about if we do one listener question and let Nazi
Speaker 2: in on it.
Speaker 1: Okay, I like that idea. Not only does Nancy mowyard,
Speaker 1: she has very good advice.
Speaker 2: Okay, So what we do is read this question and
Speaker 2: we each give a piece of advice, and it's exactly
Speaker 2: how you feel from your heart.
Speaker 3: You know what you think about this?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 3: Kathy, would you like to read?
Speaker 1: Sure?
Speaker 3: Let's go. Here we go.
Speaker 1: Hey, Kathy and Susan, my wife loves your podcast and
Speaker 1: recently got me into it. I feel like you guys
Speaker 1: would be the perfect people to help me right now.
Speaker 1: My wife and I have been married for almost two years,
Speaker 1: and I love her so much. I recently screwed up
Speaker 1: big time on her birthday for some reason, when it
Speaker 1: made dinner reservations to celebrate. I completely mixed up the
Speaker 1: date of her birthday, so when we got to this
Speaker 1: restaurant she's been wanting to try for ages on her
Speaker 1: actual birthday, we didn't have a reservation and the place
Speaker 1: was completely booked. The guy didn't really help when you say,
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry, your reservation was for next week, not today.
Speaker 1: She was disappointed and her feelings were hurt. Understandably, but
Speaker 1: she was so understanding about it and even forgave me
Speaker 1: right away. Honestly, that made me feel even worse because
Speaker 1: I know she was really looking forward to it, and
Speaker 1: I let her down to make matters worse.
Speaker 3: Things have already been a little.
Speaker 1: Tense lately when it comes to stuff like this. Between
Speaker 1: my best friend's bachelor party and my crazy work schedule,
Speaker 1: I've missed quite a few things she wanted me to
Speaker 1: go to. She knows that these are either scheduling mistakes
Speaker 1: or things I just cannot miss and are out of
Speaker 1: my control.
Speaker 3: But I can tell she's been bummed out, even though
Speaker 3: she's tried to be understanding about it all. Now our
Speaker 3: anniversary is coming up. I'm thinking thick diamonds.
Speaker 1: Now our anniversary is coming up, and I really don't
Speaker 1: want to mess this up. I want to do something
Speaker 1: special and thoughtful to show her how much I appreciate
Speaker 1: her and make up for missing some of these important moments.
Speaker 1: I just don't know where to start or what would
Speaker 1: feel meaningful enough. Any ideas for how I can make
Speaker 1: our anniversary unforgettable in a good way this time and
Speaker 1: show her how much she means to be. I don't
Speaker 1: want her to feel like I'm taking her for granted.
Speaker 1: I'm really bad at this, so I need all the
Speaker 1: ideas I can get. Thank you so much and love
Speaker 1: you guys.
Speaker 3: He sounds like a sweet What do you think?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 4: The first thing I think is I would do something
Speaker 4: as a surprise. I would find out what's her most
Speaker 4: Other than that restaurant. You could go back there, But
Speaker 4: what about a little weekend away but a total surprise,
Speaker 4: and then send her a note or send her something
Speaker 4: beforehand and say, you know, pack for the week, pack
Speaker 4: for a few days, not telling you, you know, pack
Speaker 4: for the beach, or pack for cold weather and not
Speaker 4: tell her, but then say I am so you know,
Speaker 4: be vulnerable and say I just can't believe that I
Speaker 4: did that and forgot. But I think the main thing
Speaker 4: is show action. I think when somebody can tell you
Speaker 4: how great you are and how much they love you,
Speaker 4: but when they show you and they show you how
Speaker 4: much they love you.
Speaker 1: I love the idea of doing a surprise Nancy. I
Speaker 1: think the surprise make her feel because she'll know that
Speaker 1: it's not something you're saying, it's something you're doing. You
Speaker 1: took the time to plan something, and if you take
Speaker 1: her like on a weekend or treat do like couples massages,
Speaker 1: have things planned that shows her how much you think and.
Speaker 3: Little things during the weekend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, first of all, I got to send my hat
Speaker 2: to him for him to come and ask this kind
Speaker 2: of a question and say everything that he did.
Speaker 3: I think he's a good guy. Do you think has
Speaker 3: a single brother? He's definitely a keepable. Do you have
Speaker 3: three single brothers? I couldn't agree with you both more.
Speaker 2: And then have a special gift. But having everything lined up,
Speaker 2: whether it's wine tasting, massages, whatever, it will be hot
Speaker 2: to naked.
Speaker 1: I don't Okay, wait minute, ladies, ladies, ladies, come on,
Speaker 1: what all that's finding good? If it were you, you'd
Speaker 1: love the weekend. But wouldn't you want just a little bobble?
Speaker 3: I think a bobble if you can do it. Never
Speaker 3: never turned jewelry down. Jewelry diamonds.
Speaker 2: Remember in the beginning when I said have that special
Speaker 2: gift there, that's what I was.
Speaker 3: Regarding to and by bibble, we do you know some diamons.
Speaker 1: Diamonds are a girl's best friend, but emeralds aren't bad either.
Speaker 2: Well, it's an anniversary to depending on which one it is,
Speaker 2: you forget it.
Speaker 1: If they always your second anniversary, it's paper, Get over it.
Speaker 3: Put the diamond into paper and.
Speaker 1: Call it a day.
Speaker 4: I also think giving her the gift first, because then
Speaker 4: she'll think that's her own gifts.
Speaker 2: Or then or perhaps give the weekend and she thinks
Speaker 2: that's what that was it.
Speaker 3: In the very last moment.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, you want to wear the bubble
Speaker 5: the ball, She's like, happy anniversary, you know, back and
Speaker 5: forth and then she would never expect to go on
Speaker 5: a trip, a little trip, you know what.
Speaker 2: I I just hope she remembers to get him something
Speaker 2: after all the fun.
Speaker 3: Can I just say though this, I love this.
Speaker 1: Being the romantic that we all are, she is so
Speaker 1: lucky to have a guy like this who is really
Speaker 1: so congratulations.
Speaker 3: To you doing good you're doing it.
Speaker 1: Just the fact that you're writing to us and thinking
Speaker 1: about what you can do to make it special.
Speaker 3: We love this gives us hope for our futures. We
Speaker 3: want to find a guy something like you.
Speaker 1: That's great.
Speaker 3: That's what we said. Where's his brothers, his fathers, his uncle.
Speaker 3: Thank you so much for writing it, and let us
Speaker 3: know how it goes.
Speaker 1: Let us know what you decided.
Speaker 3: You can't wait to hear. If you need some advice,
Speaker 3: you could call us. We could plan this. And that's
Speaker 3: another thing.
Speaker 2: If you don't feel comfortable like you're going to get
Speaker 2: it right and do it, do you have a secretary
Speaker 2: or a best friend or her best friend to help
Speaker 2: you plan this.
Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with that, or.
Speaker 1: A tribal agent. It's not that hard out. There's a wonderful, wonderful,
Speaker 1: amazing thing called Google.
Speaker 3: Look at right. Good luck to you, Ben Okay, Well
Speaker 3: that is going to do it free today.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, we're going to go soak our faces
Speaker 1: in vinegar.
Speaker 3: I'm taking my first shower. Susan's gonna take a shower.
Speaker 1: Nancy's it's time for you know, get out mow the yard.
Speaker 4: I know that's coming oh, and I have trash duty
Speaker 4: and you'll see that later.
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Speaker 3: We look forward to hearing for you and thank you
Speaker 3: for having me today. We love having you.
Speaker 1: And until next time and when we maybe pray for
Speaker 1: more healing and we'll see you next time.
Speaker 3: Thank you,