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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: joining us today, Susan. I'm so excited to be back.

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Speaker 2: We have so much stuff to tell today, and if

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Speaker 2: you haven't heard any of our past ones, you definitely

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Speaker 2: want to hear this one. So go check those out

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Speaker 1: And you know what, if you have a question for us,

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Speaker 3: You're gonna blow up our computer after today.

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Speaker 2: So to start with, let's talk about Jones episode last night.

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Speaker 1: But first, first, we've got Nancy with us today. We

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Speaker 1: just want Nancy's going to weigh in two. So here

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Speaker 1: we go.

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Speaker 2: Last night's episode in a word, sad, sad, Nancy, quiet Mark,

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about more?

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Speaker 3: Oh poor Mark. He thought I love that man.

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Speaker 2: But like they were on that boat and they're driving along,

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Speaker 2: and I think Joan was like grasping, like what can

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Speaker 2: we talk about? Finally she goes beach and then she

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Speaker 2: goes have you finished? When they drank their champagne and

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Speaker 2: he gave like one goal, there's one word answer. The

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Speaker 2: conversation didn't And I think he he.

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Speaker 4: Thought based on what we saw, what I saw, he

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Speaker 4: thought that they had a really good date.

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Speaker 3: That's what I mean. Yeah, I think he was blindsided.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but here's here's the thing. The show is ninety

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Speaker 1: minutes two hours. It could have been two days. The

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Speaker 1: silence like it was too much, the airtime of what

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Speaker 1: it took to say nothing.

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Speaker 3: I felt so uncomfortable for him and so uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: For although when they got to the back of the

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Speaker 2: boat where the cheese spread was and all, they did

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Speaker 2: communicate a little, but once again they talked about how

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Speaker 2: he had the bird, what was it that came? And well,

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Speaker 2: I think by this episode, I want to see some

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Speaker 2: more uplifting things.

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Speaker 4: Yes, And it seemed to keep going back to his

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Speaker 4: ex wife, his former.

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Speaker 1: Well and Joan to Jones talking about her John and

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Speaker 1: his We need more hope, we need more love.

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Speaker 2: We have to look for And I just say this,

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Speaker 2: that dress she had on, Oh my gosh, wait, Nancy.

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Speaker 1: Are you surprised that Susan has turned the conversation to

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Speaker 1: fashion shock her?

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Speaker 3: And it was still on Mark on the boat, right,

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Speaker 2: So Mark was in love with a dress I want

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Speaker 2: he had to be she looked good. Okay, let's let's

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Speaker 2: go to the let's go to the event with well.

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Speaker 2: First of all, can we just skip by Pascal and

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Speaker 2: his tidy whities?

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Speaker 3: I can't was hysterical out. No, he was proud. He

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Speaker 3: was proud, and I give him a lot of credit.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing that.

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Speaker 1: I can't something I would do. I want to see

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Speaker 1: you in tidy whitey Susan good. Okay, Let's talk about

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Speaker 1: Keith for a second. They go on the date, and

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Speaker 3: Thirty two years and fun day until they talked. They

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Speaker 3: talked to them.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but they talk about thirty two years of marriage.

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Speaker 3: We're crying again, Like, what do we know from the

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Speaker 3: we know about Keith?

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Speaker 1: His wife was drugs, so we know he's a good guy.

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Speaker 3: He stood up to the place, and then that's wise.

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Speaker 3: We didn't learn anything else about hobbies or what he

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Speaker 2: I don't think Joan could have been excited about what

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Speaker 2: he was saying. When she said, give me one one

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Speaker 2: not really much to say.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it was just she needed to hear something exciting.

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Speaker 2: Let's wake up and have coffee, go outside, look at

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Speaker 3: Maybe we'll blow leaves, or maybe we'll get to that

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait a second, what about what about uh the

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Speaker 2: I mean, first of all, you know, he was again

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Speaker 1: We we all think it's pretty clear Chalk is getting

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Speaker 4: I will give Chalk credit though, because he's making an effort.

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Speaker 4: You can tell that he sees he wants Joan. He's

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Speaker 2: Who was one of the guys said you, Chalk, they're

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Speaker 2: all of us on this group day. Can you get

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Speaker 2: a minute, Joan.

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Speaker 1: We listen, we know Joe right, we're friends with Joan

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Speaker 3: She kind of was. Her body language is like she

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Speaker 3: wasn't so her she were up. She was, but she

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Speaker 1: I think this this this episode, we're getting close.

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Speaker 3: You know, hometowns are next week.

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Speaker 1: I think it's pretty clear that a lot of these guys,

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Speaker 1: as kind as they are and as many life experiences

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Speaker 1: I've had.

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Speaker 3: They're really struggling to open up.

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Speaker 1: At least it appears that way on the episode when

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Speaker 1: it comes down to having a date with John and

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Speaker 1: are they ready?

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Speaker 3: You wonder are they really ready to I don't think

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Speaker 3: Mark's ready, do you.

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Speaker 2: I think Mark broke his last night and the shock

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Speaker 2: telling him that it wasn't going to be them, but

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Speaker 2: I think he's actually ready now. He accepted that that

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Speaker 2: it wasn't going to be Jim, but I think now

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Speaker 2: he's more open And kudos to Mark, right, And.

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Speaker 4: I think that's what the show has done a lot

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Speaker 4: for Charles. He had resolution, but he's ready to go

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Speaker 2: So I think it's a good that's the good side

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Speaker 1: The goal here is for John to find love, and

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Speaker 1: I think she does and we have to keep that

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Speaker 1: in mind. But these guys are just I think it's

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Speaker 1: it's sad that that they are struggling so much to

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Speaker 1: but on the show, it's just missing that.

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Speaker 2: Can I just say one thing, If this camera crew

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Speaker 2: for a Bachelor for anybody followed us around for the

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Speaker 2: last thirty six hours, I'm telling you we'd have the

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Speaker 1: But this is Joan's season, susand it's Magnet Jack to

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Speaker 3: I'm gone that Joe is dog. All right, Well, we

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Speaker 3: love that, we love the episode. We can't wait next

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Speaker 3: week for hometowns. But what do you think? What do

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Speaker 3: you think? Who do you think she's gonna I said

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Speaker 3: from the beginning, I did. We haven't seen the hometowns.

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Speaker 3: Maybe there's more. I think I think there'll be more

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Speaker 1: Going to be drama coming. I think there were not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're gonna get twists and turns. I'd be shocked.

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Speaker 2: Okay, if shocked did not get this hostel, even you.

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Speaker 3: She's had the most connection with it. That's all we've

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Speaker 1: Maybe somebody leaves, it comes back, maybe somebody who knows.

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Speaker 1: So Nancy's here with us today to help us review

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Speaker 1: jump season, but she's here for.

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Speaker 2: Another So this episode, Ladies and Gentlemen, is going to

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Speaker 2: be a little different.

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Speaker 3: Today.

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Speaker 2: We are going to talk a lot about what happened

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Speaker 2: with Kathy and I and Nancy being here to help us.

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Speaker 3: It's more about plastic surgery today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is about real this. You know, people say

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Speaker 1: Kathy and Susan are real. You have no idea how

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Speaker 1: real we are about to be. Nancy here sighing Nancy's recovery.

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Speaker 4: It's new.

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Speaker 3: And I just got up because I was up all night.

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Speaker 2: She actually came in my room and woke me up

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Speaker 2: let's stack up from it.

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Speaker 1: Let's tell everybody what's been going on. I flew from

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Speaker 1: Texas to Philly. Susan took me in for plastic surgery.

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Speaker 1: L laser, which takes brown it is a beer, Susan.

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Speaker 1: Susan had her surgery yesterday. What happened to usus?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 2: I had a lifestyle lift and I also had a

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Speaker 3: So I can't wait for my girls to be up hire.

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Speaker 2: But I'm afraid they're going to be so small I'm

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Speaker 1: So we are here. Nancy came drove down from Alexandria

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Speaker 1: She is a great nurse. Folks, I've been well. I

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Speaker 2: She goes, oh, I like to do those things. Since then,

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Speaker 3: What's wrong with this picture? I'm a all about my house.

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Speaker 4: And then we swept the floor, and Susan goes, Nancy,

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Speaker 4: That is my job I'm supposed to be taking care of.

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Speaker 3: There's one little fleck. There's one little fluck on the

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Speaker 1: I'd like to say that it's Susan's on drugs, but no,

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Speaker 1: this is Susan.

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Speaker 2: Timmy say one thing about that one perpose that I took.

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Speaker 2: I was feeling no pain, girls, I was feeling when

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Speaker 2: they went away, my ears were burning.

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Speaker 1: of pain culls. My ears have been hurting a lot.

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Speaker 1: But Nancy and I in the corner were saying, oh God,

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Speaker 1: it's going to be awful.

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Speaker 3: It's going to be a baby. So it's going to

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Speaker 3: I know I'm going to cry. I can't take pain.

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Speaker 3: So yesterday we made sure that we had pain men.

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Speaker 2: That one lay thing I did pray, I talked to

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Speaker 1: Yes, and I prayed to the Lord that I look

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Speaker 2: Admired And today I'm going to take my first shower.

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Speaker 3: Some people do it, don't. I learn fresh your skin

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Speaker 1: So so let me just say people, it doesn't This

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Speaker 3: That's right at Nancy's house. That's right, we are. Don't worry, really, honestly, true,

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Speaker 2: Does this mean February I'll be so shovel and snow?

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Speaker 3: Do I have to cook? Kathy? I got that you

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Speaker 2: But no, really, we're so happy to be able to

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Speaker 1: And I would say, don't you think it's it's sort

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Speaker 3: This is the first one. I don't remember. They said,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, I think we all feel good and as

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Speaker 2: And somehow this doesn't feel like wear million sunscreen, big hats.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 3: Is our life going to change?

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Speaker 2: Yes, there's still no man in our DM confident we're

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Speaker 1: I mean now I have all I at least have

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Speaker 3: It's going to get better though, But thank you all

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Speaker 1: And we're you know, every day we're sharing stuff on

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Speaker 2: At where you put your reviews and your questions. You

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna put my phone number anybody needs me to

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Speaker 4: come take care of them.

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Speaker 3: I also do yard work. Nurse when nurse Nancy is

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Speaker 4: And I pushed I pushed paint foundication because it does

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Speaker 3: You have to stay on top of your paint. I

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Speaker 3: We love we love Nancy, we love each other. We

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Speaker 2: So in case any of you are wondering, We're not

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Speaker 3: Watched Kathy's face down. It's a little scary.

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Speaker 1: But any wait, Jesse, y'all know the doctor already said

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Speaker 3: They said, Susan's won't be that way. We'll see. I'm

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Speaker 1: I wander from to know that if you've ever thought

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Speaker 2: And Kathy is looking at the girls being up high

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Speaker 1: Phone, These cones of what is it? What's the stuff

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Speaker 1: I mean these silicon things that they put into you.

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Speaker 2: In the little old school area. Well I read the

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Speaker 3: I did not want that.

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Speaker 2: And I'm sixty seven, so they were low, so I

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Speaker 1: All I know is I had a breast reduction done

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Speaker 2: That's what they do. That's what they do. But I

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Speaker 1: You know what, It's about doing your best suits and

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Speaker 3: I'm trink like earrings on they are my surgery.

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Speaker 4: I'm it's going to be in I think January or February,

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Speaker 3: I mean just a little bit. And you know what,

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Speaker 3: Where's mine?

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Speaker 2: I already have your swollen, but you could see your

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Speaker 2: I mean, there's such minds. I'm so excited.

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Speaker 3: It's it's I don't know what it's. Here's the thing, though,

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Speaker 4: Now look at my lips, and I think you're right.

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Speaker 3: I think you have to just do it a little bit.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to look different. I'll never give up

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Speaker 1: Listen, I want to get cheek I plants and I'm kidding,

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not doing it.

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Speaker 1: I'm not.

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Speaker 3: But this is us. We are real. We love that

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Speaker 3: What do you think?

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Speaker 1: I think we should do it again? And we got

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Speaker 3: You know what we're going to do. You know you're

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Speaker 2: about if we do one listener question and let Nazi

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Speaker 2: in on it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I like that idea. Not only does Nancy mowyard,

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Speaker 1: she has very good advice.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So what we do is read this question and

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Speaker 2: we each give a piece of advice, and it's exactly

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Speaker 2: how you feel from your heart.

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Speaker 3: You know what you think about this?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 3: Kathy, would you like to read?

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Speaker 1: Sure?

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Speaker 3: Let's go. Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Kathy and Susan, my wife loves your podcast and

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Speaker 1: recently got me into it. I feel like you guys

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Speaker 1: would be the perfect people to help me right now.

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Speaker 1: My wife and I have been married for almost two years,

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Speaker 1: and I love her so much. I recently screwed up

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Speaker 1: big time on her birthday for some reason, when it

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Speaker 1: made dinner reservations to celebrate. I completely mixed up the

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Speaker 1: date of her birthday, so when we got to this

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Speaker 1: restaurant she's been wanting to try for ages on her

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Speaker 1: actual birthday, we didn't have a reservation and the place

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Speaker 1: was completely booked. The guy didn't really help when you say,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sorry, your reservation was for next week, not today.

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Speaker 1: She was disappointed and her feelings were hurt. Understandably, but

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Speaker 1: she was so understanding about it and even forgave me

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Speaker 1: right away. Honestly, that made me feel even worse because

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Speaker 1: I know she was really looking forward to it, and

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Speaker 1: I let her down to make matters worse.

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Speaker 3: Things have already been a little.

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Speaker 1: Tense lately when it comes to stuff like this. Between

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Speaker 1: my best friend's bachelor party and my crazy work schedule,

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Speaker 1: I've missed quite a few things she wanted me to

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Speaker 1: go to. She knows that these are either scheduling mistakes

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Speaker 1: or things I just cannot miss and are out of

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Speaker 1: my control.

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Speaker 3: But I can tell she's been bummed out, even though

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Speaker 3: she's tried to be understanding about it all. Now our

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Speaker 3: anniversary is coming up. I'm thinking thick diamonds.

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Speaker 1: Now our anniversary is coming up, and I really don't

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Speaker 1: want to mess this up. I want to do something

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Speaker 1: special and thoughtful to show her how much I appreciate

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Speaker 1: her and make up for missing some of these important moments.

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Speaker 1: I just don't know where to start or what would

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Speaker 1: feel meaningful enough. Any ideas for how I can make

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Speaker 1: our anniversary unforgettable in a good way this time and

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Speaker 1: show her how much she means to be. I don't

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Speaker 1: want her to feel like I'm taking her for granted.

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Speaker 1: I'm really bad at this, so I need all the

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Speaker 1: ideas I can get. Thank you so much and love

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Speaker 1: you guys.

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Speaker 3: He sounds like a sweet What do you think?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 4: The first thing I think is I would do something

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Speaker 4: as a surprise. I would find out what's her most

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Speaker 4: Other than that restaurant. You could go back there, But

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Speaker 4: what about a little weekend away but a total surprise,

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Speaker 4: and then send her a note or send her something

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Speaker 4: beforehand and say, you know, pack for the week, pack

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Speaker 4: for a few days, not telling you, you know, pack

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Speaker 4: for the beach, or pack for cold weather and not

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Speaker 4: tell her, but then say I am so you know,

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Speaker 4: be vulnerable and say I just can't believe that I

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Speaker 4: did that and forgot. But I think the main thing

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Speaker 4: is show action. I think when somebody can tell you

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Speaker 4: how great you are and how much they love you,

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Speaker 4: but when they show you and they show you how

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Speaker 4: much they love you.

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Speaker 1: I love the idea of doing a surprise Nancy. I

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Speaker 1: think the surprise make her feel because she'll know that

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Speaker 1: it's not something you're saying, it's something you're doing. You

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Speaker 1: took the time to plan something, and if you take

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Speaker 1: her like on a weekend or treat do like couples massages,

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Speaker 1: have things planned that shows her how much you think and.

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Speaker 3: Little things during the weekend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, first of all, I got to send my hat

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Speaker 2: to him for him to come and ask this kind

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Speaker 2: of a question and say everything that he did.

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Speaker 3: I think he's a good guy. Do you think has

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Speaker 3: a single brother? He's definitely a keepable. Do you have

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Speaker 3: three single brothers? I couldn't agree with you both more.

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Speaker 2: And then have a special gift. But having everything lined up,

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Speaker 2: whether it's wine tasting, massages, whatever, it will be hot

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Speaker 2: to naked.

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Speaker 1: I don't Okay, wait minute, ladies, ladies, ladies, come on,

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Speaker 1: what all that's finding good? If it were you, you'd

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Speaker 1: love the weekend. But wouldn't you want just a little bobble?

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Speaker 3: I think a bobble if you can do it. Never

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Speaker 3: never turned jewelry down. Jewelry diamonds.

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Speaker 2: Remember in the beginning when I said have that special

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Speaker 2: gift there, that's what I was.

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Speaker 3: Regarding to and by bibble, we do you know some diamons.

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Speaker 1: Diamonds are a girl's best friend, but emeralds aren't bad either.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's an anniversary to depending on which one it is,

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Speaker 2: you forget it.

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Speaker 1: If they always your second anniversary, it's paper, Get over it.

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Speaker 3: Put the diamond into paper and.

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Speaker 1: Call it a day.

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Speaker 4: I also think giving her the gift first, because then

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Speaker 4: she'll think that's her own gifts.

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Speaker 2: Or then or perhaps give the weekend and she thinks

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Speaker 2: that's what that was it.

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Speaker 3: In the very last moment.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, you want to wear the bubble

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Speaker 5: the ball, She's like, happy anniversary, you know, back and

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Speaker 5: forth and then she would never expect to go on

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Speaker 5: a trip, a little trip, you know what.

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Speaker 2: I I just hope she remembers to get him something

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Speaker 2: after all the fun.

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Speaker 3: Can I just say though this, I love this.

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Speaker 1: Being the romantic that we all are, she is so

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Speaker 1: lucky to have a guy like this who is really

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Speaker 1: so congratulations.

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Speaker 3: To you doing good you're doing it.

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Speaker 1: Just the fact that you're writing to us and thinking

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Speaker 1: about what you can do to make it special.

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Speaker 3: We love this gives us hope for our futures. We

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Speaker 3: want to find a guy something like you.

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Speaker 1: That's great.

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Speaker 3: That's what we said. Where's his brothers, his fathers, his uncle.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much for writing it, and let us

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Speaker 3: know how it goes.

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Speaker 1: Let us know what you decided.

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Speaker 3: You can't wait to hear. If you need some advice,

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Speaker 3: you could call us. We could plan this. And that's

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Speaker 3: another thing.

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Speaker 2: If you don't feel comfortable like you're going to get

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Speaker 2: it right and do it, do you have a secretary

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Speaker 2: or a best friend or her best friend to help

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Speaker 2: you plan this.

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Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with that, or.

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Speaker 1: A tribal agent. It's not that hard out. There's a wonderful, wonderful,

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Speaker 1: amazing thing called Google.

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Speaker 3: Look at right. Good luck to you, Ben Okay, Well

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Speaker 3: that is going to do it free today.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, we're going to go soak our faces

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Speaker 1: in vinegar.

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Speaker 3: I'm taking my first shower. Susan's gonna take a shower.

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Speaker 1: Nancy's it's time for you know, get out mow the yard.

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Speaker 4: I know that's coming oh, and I have trash duty

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Speaker 4: and you'll see that later.

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Speaker 1: But we loved having this chat with you all and again,

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Speaker 1: if you have questions or comments, please feel free to

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Speaker 1: follow us on a Bachelor Happy Hour Golden Hour and

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Speaker 1: write your questions into bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour.

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Speaker 3: We look forward to hearing for you and thank you

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Speaker 3: for having me today. We love having you.

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Speaker 1: And until next time and when we maybe pray for

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Speaker 1: more healing and we'll see you next time.

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Speaker 3: Thank you,