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Speaker 1: Welcome back everyone, I'm here with Aaron again.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hello. Hopefully you guys didn't miss episode one, but I'm

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Speaker 1: back for more because we have so much more to

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Speaker 2: Part two is going to be juicy.

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Speaker 1: Very because it's like, we talked about how we met,

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Speaker 1: but you know, a lot has happened ever since then,

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Speaker 1: and I think we should dive into kind of the middle.

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Speaker 1: So we talk about how we watched season one together,

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Speaker 1: and right before season one aired, I found an apartment

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Speaker 1: just so amazing and like, what a new chapter to

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Speaker 1: have my own space again after so many years.

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Speaker 2: M hm. And honestly with Isabella, like, I don't think

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Speaker 2: she minded having two houses. I think she was actually excited.

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Speaker 2: From what I remember, She's like, oh, I have two

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Speaker 2: houses with two sets of toys.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. As a parent, you kind of get nervous of

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Speaker 1: like how a child is going to respond, and she

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Speaker 1: took it very positive, very positive. And people told me

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Speaker 1: that like the younger this happens as a child, the

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Speaker 1: better because they just bounce right back and they don't

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Speaker 1: know any better and then they learn what their new

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Speaker 1: normal is. And to her, she was so young, and

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Speaker 1: she was like, yeah, I have two beds and two

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Speaker 1: and I love that. You know, not much change for her.

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Speaker 1: We were in the same neighborhood. We would walk to school,

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Speaker 1: we would walk to her dad's house. So it was

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Speaker 2: How did you introduce us again? Because I remember coming

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Speaker 2: over to your apartment. It was the first time that

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Speaker 2: I was like being introduced to Isabella.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so for me as a mother, I wanted to

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Speaker 1: make sure that it was the right time that I

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Speaker 1: had known, like we were serious and I was in

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Speaker 1: love with you, and and okay, this is when you're

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Speaker 1: gonna meet my child. So you're gonna come in and

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Speaker 1: you're going to hang out for like an hour or

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Speaker 1: two and then you're gonna go home. And just we

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Speaker 1: would do that slowly. So I remember you coming to

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Speaker 1: my apartment and just like hanging out and we're like, okay,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna have a new friend. His name's Aaron. And

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Speaker 1: I think that was honestly the best way for me

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Speaker 1: and for my child. And she just instantly liked you,

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Speaker 1: and actually she wanted to hang out with you more

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we bonded really well. Our energy is so good together.

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Speaker 1: When I moved out of the house, Jessein and I

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Speaker 1: had a one conversation and we had a mutual understanding,

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Speaker 1: and because he had told me, you know, you're never

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Speaker 1: going to introduce a man to Isabella, and I was like, well,

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Speaker 1: that's not the case. You know. Let's be real here

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Speaker 1: and eventually I'll have a boyfriend, and when that time comes,

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Speaker 1: I will inform you and if you want, you can

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Speaker 1: meet him as well. And I want to do this

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Speaker 1: then that time comes. She's too young, you know, you

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Speaker 1: don't want to just confuse her. And to me, that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, trust me, I'm not trying to rush

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Speaker 2: in introducing Isabella to somebody I'm not really planning on

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, yeah, because it only hurts my child if anything. Like,

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Speaker 2: So we put all this level of care and intentionality

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Speaker 2: to Isabella.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so my mom actually came over to take care

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Speaker 1: of Isabella. And then I get home and my mom's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: Isabella kept talking about somebody. I'm like, what do you mean.

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Speaker 1: She's like she just kept telling me because I said, oh,

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Speaker 1: do a brain? And she's like, oh no, my daddy's

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Speaker 1: giving me rules and not listening to your own rules. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I just learned that. You know, when you're trying to

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Speaker 1: why I got so angry about it. I just thought,

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Speaker 1: we hadn't had that conversation, maybe I would let it pass.

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Speaker 1: But it was like his idea. So so we're in

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen it, let's watch it together. I get

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Speaker 1: I don't know what reality TV's like. I had mentioned

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Speaker 1: I never watch reality TV shows.

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Speaker 2: So we're drinking wine, sitting on the couch and they

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Speaker 2: start introducing all the characters, right. They start, here's Britney's home,

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Speaker 2: then they introduce Michelle and Jesse Yes, And the first

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Speaker 2: you want a glass of champagne and Michelle's like, it's

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Speaker 2: ten in the morning. And I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That was a very typical conversation in our daily household.

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Speaker 1: It was just like, you know, priorities and that's what

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Speaker 1: I think is so important. My priority wasn't to drink

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Speaker 1: first thing in the morning after coffee. It was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm a mother, that's job one. I am a real

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Speaker 1: estate agent and we did this TV show. It's like

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Speaker 1: in the pursuit of laziness. It was just like that

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Speaker 1: was that was what it was. And so watching back,

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Speaker 1: I was like, you know, that wasn't just a moment,

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Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, So I probably had this grin on my

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Speaker 2: face like, oh, this is checking out. This is how

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Speaker 2: she portrayed it, and she looks miserable. So Mike cool,

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Speaker 2: and so yeah, I see your guys dynamic because it

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Speaker 2: is not the best. And so for me like, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I can see where you guys weren't good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I was rolling my eyes because it was like

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Speaker 1: It was like groundhog Day with do you want Champagne?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I don't want Champagne. I have to

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Speaker 2: So then you guys are seeing a therapist or a

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Speaker 2: life coach.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so weak. So we see a life coach because

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Speaker 1: we had a mutual friend that I think they had

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Speaker 1: a similar situation, and so he was highly recommended. And

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Speaker 1: we had never done therapy an entire our entire relationship.

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Speaker 1: I had never done my own personal.

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Speaker 2: THEORPY in seven years, you guys.

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Speaker 1: Never. He was against it, he never believed in it,

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Speaker 1: and like, I didn't push it because I myself never

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Speaker 1: having check ins and having to talk to somebody is

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Speaker 1: very healthy and very good for you.

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Speaker 2: So did this come after you sort of expressed to

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Speaker 2: Jesse that you were very unhappy and that you were

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Speaker 1: We hadn't done therapy then, No, not the very first

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Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, a lot is happening. Let's start

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Speaker 1: therapy now. I'm gonna call him my life coach. And

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Speaker 1: he actually opened my eyes in a lot of ways.

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Speaker 1: I feel like people ask me, was it the show

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Speaker 1: after I would do group sessions with Jesse, and I

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Speaker 1: So you know, he would always ask me like why

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought it was quite funny when Jesse said,

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Speaker 1: Up and he yeah, nothing was genuine. And that was

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Speaker 1: And it was very obvious that everything was forced and

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Speaker 2: And I mean I saw it between my mom and

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Speaker 2: And you know, something similar was going on with Jesse,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think that happens so much in marriages.

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Speaker 1: It's like after a period of time or after so long,

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Speaker 1: don't believe that you should stop giving each other compliments

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Speaker 2: You like so beautiful today, by the way, Oh thank you.

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Speaker 2: So let's get into the rumors. So I'm sitting there

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Speaker 2: watching these episodes together, there's going to be all these

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Speaker 2: and I'm you know, then we talk about certain things.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I had no idea that like they'll take the

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Speaker 1: littlest things and like my friends will completely twist or

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it was sort of a mini evolution. Get

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Speaker 2: I get to become closer with everybody on the cast, right,

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Speaker 2: all your friends, I get to become closer with them,

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Speaker 2: get to learn more about them, and you know, learning

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Speaker 2: more about you. And then we would have certain conversations

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Speaker 2: about like Okay, well what happened here? So they're saying

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Speaker 2: this about this famous director, rumors that you had some

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Speaker 2: trying to figure out what were you doing with him?

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Speaker 2: You know, why were you with him?

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Speaker 1: By the way, they would have this Boy's Chat. I

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Speaker 2: Touch and where that leads to it's is great. So

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Speaker 1: And that's what I like about us. It's not you

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Speaker 1: Scott my Oh yeah, So one thing I learned from

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Speaker 1: my last relationship. I mentioned like we didn't do therapy,

438
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,359
Speaker 1: and so Aaron and I had been together for a

439
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 1: long time and then I think we got in like

440
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 1: such a huge fight and I threw it out there.

441
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Speaker 1: I'm like, how would you feel about doing a therapy

442
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 1: session together? And I thought that was and you loved

443
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 1: the idea, and it was like the most amazing thing

444
00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 1: I had ever experienced. I was like, wait, why don't

445
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 1: more couples do this? Like when you're first dating or

446
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:48,239
Speaker 1: you're first in a relationship, like and you get in

447
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 1: such a big argument, sometimes you need that middle person

448
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 1: to like explain both sides. And that was just like

449
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 1: an eye opener, Like wow, like we don't talk about

450
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 1: this in society, but I I think we should do

451
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: therapy in the beginning, even before you get married, especially

452
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Speaker 1: before you get married.

453
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, I felt like we just like

454
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 2: knit that in the butt because we got Scott involved

455
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:17,639
Speaker 2: very quickly, and we got on a call, and I

456
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 2: loved it because he really agreed with everything that I

457
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 2: was saying. And you know, I was totally right, not

458
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 2: just kidding.

459
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Speaker 1: No.

460
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 2: And Scott has yeah, become become a partner in our

461
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 2: in our lives as well.

462
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Speaker 1: So yeah, so we we are a normal couple. We

463
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:38,719
Speaker 1: definitely fight here and there. We're good at not bickering,

464
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 1: you know, day to day, but like we get into

465
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,959
Speaker 1: arguments and whenever it is a big argument, we do

466
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 1: have a life coach, and I think it helps the

467
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Speaker 1: both of us grow and see the other point of view.

468
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Speaker 1: And I just feel like we're like, okay, let's move

469
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:55,640
Speaker 1: forward and you know, not resent each other.

470
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Speaker 2: And I try really hard like the other Like the

471
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Speaker 2: other day, I said, hey, remember how I wasn't paying

472
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 2: attention to your feelings. Well, I don't want to be

473
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 2: in that situation again.

474
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Speaker 1: Like I want Oh yeah, I kept saying, like, you're

475
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 1: not listening to me, Yeah.

476
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 2: You're not paying attention to my feelings. Yes, And then

477
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 2: the other day you were doing something and you weren't

478
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Speaker 2: paying attention to my feelings.

479
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 1: You threw it back at me, yeah, and.

480
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Speaker 2: I said, look, let's let's take our feelings as respectfully,

481
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 2: you know, so you have to listen to me, and

482
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Speaker 2: I want that to be that sort of like aha

483
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 2: moment where we can come away and they let's first

484
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Speaker 2: respect each other's feelings and kind of figure out the

485
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 2: details from there absolutely without trying to defend ourselves.

486
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Speaker 1: And that can be hard at times because it's like

487
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Speaker 1: in the moment when you're fighting, you want to be

488
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Speaker 1: stubborn and like you think your way is the only way,

489
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: and you know, if you can learn from me, I

490
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:11,120
Speaker 1: would highly suggest having somebody a life coach at their

491
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,439
Speaker 1: pissed or you know, somebody to talk to.

492
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 2: But it does take either you or me in that

493
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 2: moment when things are heated to be the calm one

494
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 2: and to be the one that's like, hey, let's step

495
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 2: back and pay attention to feelings and just look at

496
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 2: this from you know, a bird's eye view and say

497
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Speaker 2: what's actually going on? Like that one time when you

498
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 2: didn't get sauce on my in and out burger and.

499
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Speaker 1: You will, that was a fight we've ever ever been in.

500
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 1: I was like I was doing something nice. I'm like,

501
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 1: would you like in and out? And I grabbed you

502
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: in and out? And then as soon as.

503
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 2: They gave it to you were like, where's the sauce?

504
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 1: Where's the sauce. I'm like, I don't know. I asked

505
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: for a song, so.

506
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 2: If you didn't ask me for you said, I didn't

507
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 2: say sauce. I'm like, they all come with sauce.

508
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 1: We actually started fighting. We're like, are we fighting about

509
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:57,360
Speaker 1: an in and out burger right now?

510
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 2: And then I realized you did everything you could and

511
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 2: it was the lady at in and Out who really

512
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 2: messed up, but you were really oh yeah, I snapped

513
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 2: about defending yourself that it wasn't your fault, and I'm like, oh.

514
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 1: I snapped, of course I did. I'm like, I'm trying

515
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,159
Speaker 1: to be a good girlfriend. And then you're not appreciating that.

516
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: Oh hell no.

517
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 2: So finally I had to say, hold on a minute.

518
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 2: We are at a level ten and we're talking about

519
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 2: in and Out, so let's just chill. And then I

520
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 2: could see you you were still really heated, and I said, look,

521
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 2: you you did an amazing like, thank you so much

522
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 2: for getting this trying your best. The lady's the one

523
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 2: that messed up. It's not your fault.

524
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Speaker 1: And if we hadn't done that, and it's as silly

525
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: as it sounds, if we hadn't done that life coach,

526
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: that lesson from the last time, then that fight would

527
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: have probably continued on. It was just because we had

528
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 1: learned from the path.

529
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I did start laughing that we were arguing

530
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 2: about in and out in the middle of the argument.

531
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Speaker 1: Okay, so let's talk about I had asked Instagram like,

532
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 1: what do you want to know about Aaron and I?

533
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 1: And I got a lot of the same questions how

534
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 1: did you meet? Which we explained in part one. I

535
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: think this one's a funny one. What are your pet

536
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: peeves about each other? What do you not like about me?

537
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 2: I think I have an idea of what you don't

538
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 2: like about me.

539
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: Oh, I can tell you what I don't like about you?

540
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 2: Is it the dreams?

541
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: Oh? My god? So when I wake up, I would like,

542
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 1: in a perfect world, some silence before I have a

543
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 1: cup of coffee.

544
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 2: You wake up slow.

545
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 1: I wake up slow. It's like I get out of

546
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: bed slow, make my coffee, don't talk to anybody.

547
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 2: And you I'm like a nine when I wake up.

548
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,479
Speaker 1: You're a ten. When you wake up and you're full

549
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: of energy, you like literally jump out of bed. And

550
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 1: then you start telling me your dreams and you just

551
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 1: start like yapping, and I'm like barely opening my eye.

552
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 1: So that is my pet, Peeve. I love you and

553
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 1: I appreciate all your energy, but I'm like, take it

554
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: down a notch for a couple minutes.

555
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 2: Sometimes these dreams are so complex and so interesting. At

556
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 2: two dreams in one night, I know you told me

557
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 2: in dream and in dream number two, I got a

558
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 2: text from me in dream number one.

559
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to hear that first thing.

560
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 2: When I wake up, I'm like, what does that mean? Baby?

561
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, it doesn't mean anything. It's a dream. There

562
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: is the reason it's a dream. I can have like

563
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 1: the craziest dreams of all time, and I wake up

564
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: and I'll never say a word about it. I feel

565
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 1: like a lot of people are like that, No, you.

566
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 2: Know, yeah, Michelle, you think that you said it the

567
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 2: other night, like only guys talk about dreams.

568
00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 1: I thought it's a guy thing.

569
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 2: I don't think it's a guy thing. I think it's

570
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 2: a person on a person thing. I'm going to ask

571
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 2: my girl talk about dreams, and some people don't.

572
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 1: I don't know because I've never heard my girlfriends be like,

573
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 1: let me tell you about my dream last night.

574
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 2: Oh man, I've had I've had some dreams that. Yeah,

575
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 2: I have to talk about dreams.

576
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 1: Okay, we answered this. What is your love language? What

577
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 1: are your zodiac signs?

578
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 2: So my pet peeve about you?

579
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sorry, sorry I jumped the gun because I forgot.

580
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 1: I thought you don't have any.

581
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 2: Right just kidding. That's pretty true, except you know you

582
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 2: love getting real cozy before you sleep, but you sleep

583
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 2: in full pjs, like full sleeve like.

584
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:55,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I want to be compy. Yes, you want

585
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 1: me to wear lingerie for bed?

586
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 2: What do you mean? I want you to wear nothing

587
00:31:59,640 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 2: to bed?

588
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 1: Okay, that's not happening. I'm a cold person, so I

589
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 1: like to be cozy and I love long sleeves and

590
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 1: my socks and my pants. Who cares? Can be sexy

591
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 1: at other times, so I don't have to be like

592
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 1: cute during while I'm sleepy. It's like the one time

593
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: I don't.

594
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 2: Have to is like, doesn't have to be sexy all

595
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 2: the time, But you are sexy by not trying to

596
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 2: be sexy all the time.

597
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 1: Okay, I'll take that. So you want me to look

598
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 1: cute for bed? How about if I look cute and

599
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 1: then when I'm ready to sleep, then I put on

600
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 1: my pants.

601
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 2: No, just go in with less. Okay, all right, So

602
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 2: let's talk about zodiac because we're very opposite.

603
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: I'm a Libra and I'm a Scorpio, and I feel

604
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: like I'm a true Scorpio because anytime I've ever googled

605
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 1: it and read about it, I'm like, oh, that's me,

606
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: that's me. That's me, like very intense from what I know,

607
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 1: very tense, like very hard to read, very deep. Hate

608
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: small talk, like if I'm talking to you, I don't

609
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: want to like you know, we're never going to talk again. No,

610
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 1: I want to have like deep, meaningful conversation. I hate

611
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 1: the whole like elevator chat.

612
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 2: So one thing I think is very obvious, very obvious

613
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 2: difference between us is the way we make decisions. And

614
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 2: so I'm a hardcore Libra and I will weigh both

615
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 2: options back and forth, and I'll put myself in the

616
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 2: shoes of option one and then go completely to the

617
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:40,400
Speaker 2: opposite direction and say, okay, what if I did option two?

618
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And then once you decide, then you kind

619
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 1: of like lean back and I'm like it's so.

620
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: Then I'll decide and then I'll play with that. I'll

621
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 2: be that for a while, and then I'll go back

622
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 2: and say, well, what if this. I'm very diplomatic in

623
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 2: that sense. I'm going back and forth. I'm weighing. It's

624
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 2: a Libra scale, and I'm going back and forth both

625
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 2: sides of the brain, and I'm going.

626
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 1: Back and sting. Oh my god, I can't even imagine.

627
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 1: I'm like black and white.

628
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 2: You ask me a feeling and you just make a

629
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 2: black and white decision.

630
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, a feeling, a gut feeling like one way or

631
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 1: the other, and that's it. You move on in life.

632
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:17,359
Speaker 2: But I will say that sometimes I rely on you

633
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 2: for a decision making, and sometimes you rely on me

634
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 2: after I've gone through emotions and going back and forth,

635
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 2: and you'll just say, hey, just let me know when

636
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 2: you decide.

637
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're definitely Libra. But I think we do. We're

638
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 1: a good match for one another. And I just saw

639
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,919
Speaker 1: one more question. It was actually from Janet. She said,

640
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: the most romantic thing you've done for each other, And

641
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 1: I can instantly remember our first Valentines together. So one

642
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 1: of my favorite shows of all time is Downton Abbey.

643
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 1: I love it so.

644
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,399
Speaker 2: Much and you know, gotten me to love it too.

645
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 1: I do you watch it and you liked it, and

646
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: I love everything about it, the way they dress, the era,

647
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 1: the old cars, and so that's part one. And then

648
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:13,439
Speaker 1: I love to dance, which is something that I feel

649
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 1: like we don't get to do nowadays, Like there's not

650
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 1: a lot of places that you can go to like

651
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,799
Speaker 1: listen to great music and dance, Like I'm not trying

652
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:22,759
Speaker 1: to go to a club. I want to go to, like,

653
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,320
Speaker 1: I don't know, a concert with music like old school.

654
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,800
Speaker 1: And so for first Valentines, he was like, what time

655
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,319
Speaker 1: is it? And then I just heard this like old

656
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 1: school car drive by.

657
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 2: Well before that, I told you just dress, oh yeah,

658
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 2: nineteen twenties and you'll see the rest later. Yeah.

659
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 1: He didn't say anything else. So I actually ended up

660
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 1: wearing like a really clapper dress, clapper dress with like the.

661
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 2: Long pearls and the headband.

662
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: I did the whole thing, not knowing where I was

663
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: going or what I was doing. I'm like, all right,

664
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 1: you want me to be nineteen. What year is it?

665
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 2: Nineteen twenty, nineteen twenties.

666
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:00,720
Speaker 1: Here I am out of the room.

667
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 2: Wearing a top hat I got a cane. I got

668
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 2: like a penguin jacket with the long tails, sweet suit,

669
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 2: mm hmm. And then I've got this pocket watch and

670
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 2: then I look at the pocket watch, what.

671
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,760
Speaker 1: Time is it? And I just hear this like random

672
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 1: beep outside and I go out and I'm like, it

673
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 1: almost feels like midnight in Paris when it's midnight and

674
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: the car comes by, and.

675
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 2: I'm like exactly what I was trying to replicate.

676
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: Yes, and that's my favorite movie. Thank you, Oh my god,

677
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 1: that was so.

678
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 2: Nineteen twenty nine for Model A or something like that.

679
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 2: I hired this car picks us up to take us

680
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 2: to a supper club called Cicada Club downtown, La.

681
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. So we had to drive in this car that

682
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: hasn't been driven in so many years, and we have

683
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 1: to drive downtown, which is like thirty minutes away, and

684
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:55,239
Speaker 1: he takes me to this amazing place where we have

685
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 1: like fine dining, and then it's followed by music, swing

686
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 1: and swing dancing. So swing music, and Aaron used to

687
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 1: be a swing dancer when he was a little boy,

688
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 1: which I love. So we were I've never swung. How

689
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 1: do you say that swung? I've never swing danced in

690
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 1: my life before, I guess, and we had the best

691
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,440
Speaker 1: time ever, Like didn't matter who was watching us. I

692
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 1: didn't know how to dance like that, but like we

693
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 1: were just Yes, I got rid of them, thank you.

694
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 1: I had a great partner. So that was honestly so amazing.

695
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:34,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, so much effort was put into it, and

696
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: it was like all the little things that I would

697
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 1: want that never happens. So that was my most romantic

698
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: thing that you've ever done for me.

699
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 2: So Christmas, the first Christmas that we spent together, we

700
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 2: went to Santa Barbara before we started spinning Christmas, I

701
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 2: think with my family. No, you went down to your

702
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 2: families and then you came back up and spent Christmas

703
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 2: with me my family. But before that, you and I

704
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:07,439
Speaker 2: went to a little steak cane Santa Barbara. Yeah, and

705
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 2: I got a nice hotel on the water, and we

706
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 2: brought gifts and you brought me a anniversary pack.

707
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 1: Oh you had mentioned how like the story about how

708
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 1: you had this wine with.

709
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 2: The best wine I've ever had in my life.

710
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:31,319
Speaker 1: With your stepdad. Was a Frank family in a specific.

711
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 2: Year, so two thousand and five Frank family cab.

712
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was just like you remember that moment and

713
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:38,759
Speaker 1: that experience. So I wanted to make sure that I

714
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 1: got that for you, which was not easy to find,

715
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: but I was pretty proud of myself for finding it.

716
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I credit that wine as the wine that

717
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 2: made me fall in love with wine. And you had

718
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 2: called frank Family Vineyards and asked if they had any

719
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:59,760
Speaker 2: two thousand and fives left in their reserve vault or whatnot,

720
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:02,760
Speaker 2: and then you ended up getting me this really cool

721
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 2: decorative box Frank Family with the logo on it and

722
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,360
Speaker 2: there was three bottles of two thousand and five Frank

723
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 2: Family in.

724
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:14,760
Speaker 1: There, and it was three things. And then the frame.

725
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 2: There was a frame with a picture the last picture

726
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 2: I ever took with my dad.

727
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 1: And no, that's good. I cry all the time when

728
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 1: I ever whenever somebody mentions my mom.

729
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that was so nice and so meaningful, and

730
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 2: we have that hung up at the house and yeah,

731
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:40,879
Speaker 2: so that was one of the sweetest things you've ever

732
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:41,400
Speaker 2: done for me.

733
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 1: What was the A little caviar to top it off?

734
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, of caviar.

735
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 1: So yeah, we've had some very special moments. So I

736
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 1: think you know, after hearing our story and everything, we've

737
00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 1: gone through so far in such a short amount of time,

738
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 1: like can show people like you can find love again

739
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 1: after divorce and there's always somebody out there for you

740
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 1: that will treat you right and love you for who

741
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: you are and appreciate that. And I hope that people can.

742
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,320
Speaker 2: See that and that you can fall in love with

743
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:21,799
Speaker 2: one with one of your best friends, just like all

744
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:23,720
Speaker 2: those rom coms that you love to watch.

745
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 1: I love chick flicks, all right, So thank you for

746
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:29,840
Speaker 1: being here. I think you'll come in and out quite

747
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 1: a bit, and I look forward to the near future.

748
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 1: And season two is coming out soon April fifteenth, and oh,

749
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:40,719
Speaker 1: I feel like there will be a lot to.

750
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:44,919
Speaker 2: Say, a lot to talk about in our Pursuit of Sassiness.

751
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 1: And you'll get why I called it Pursuit of sassiness

752
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 1: once the show airs, I promise