WEBVTT - Ep74: Drunk Sex, Ghosts, and Bums feat Rory 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:06.160 What welcome, guys, we are here. It is another episode 0:00:06.280 --> 0:00:09.680 of Horrible Decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy b I am Wheezy, 0:00:10.119 --> 0:00:12.680 and we have a very special guest. I just want 0:00:12.720 --> 0:00:15.160 to let y'all know real quick to UM, I ain't 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:18.160 never been with a white guy, but Rory came in 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:22.280 with wine and I felt like, damn you. That's how 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:24.720 rumors get started. Actually, I've never been with a white guy, 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:30.080 but Rory, where's the sentence going? No, Thettlee bottle because 0:00:30.080 --> 0:00:32.000 they're not kind of check and already they're not kind 0:00:32.000 --> 0:00:34.960 of check. I'll say I brought a very exclusive two 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:39.000 thousand eighteen, Dwayne read is this Peanott? What is this? 0:00:40.760 --> 0:00:45.720 It is? Pan puts either that or some merlot know 0:00:45.760 --> 0:00:47.479 which one to bring. But we see you brought the 0:00:47.520 --> 0:00:55.480 James for yourself and I have Yeah, I'm rish. I okay. 0:00:55.520 --> 0:00:56.720 He's like I tried to do the Black Side of 0:00:56.720 --> 0:00:58.280 the Dark time, you know what I mean, Like I 0:00:58.320 --> 0:01:01.000 gotta go back worker and make money with so I 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:03.840 would like to continue that. I know that's right. If 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:07.119 you guys don't know who Rory is, he is, um 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:10.480 the white voice on the Joe Button Podcast. There's another 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:12.760 white voice. Well, yeah, Parks, but does he count of 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:17.479 the voice? You're like the voice one of the white 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:19.920 people in the culture of black cal Okay, So let 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:22.240 me tell you the difference between you and Sam and Ahad, 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:24.119 because I didn't know you were a Kappa until we interviewed. 0:01:24.120 --> 0:01:29.480 I interviewed, Yeah, so together. You know, Sam is younger 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:31.640 than me. I feel like you've been retired two steps 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:35.640 and Sam's am I right, yea for a while, my 0:01:35.680 --> 0:01:38.320 shoulders are retired, like you can't ship me right now? 0:01:38.319 --> 0:01:42.640 For it's like we can't get Rory don't know, I'll 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:45.440 do some community. Let's stop it all themone, every black one. 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:46.959 And I go to at a kapa and they're doing 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:50.360 a stroll okay, and they grow Oh no, I can't 0:01:50.360 --> 0:01:58.120 speak for them, shimmy and at the brunch I love it. 0:01:58.200 --> 0:01:59.840 So by the way, where I want to say, you 0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:02.680 are very attractive in person, and I think, here you go. 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:08.880 You already knew, you know with some from Reez. Here's 0:02:08.919 --> 0:02:11.640 the thing I love. I love our camera Guy Ericson, 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:14.480 But I look nuts on that podcast. Yeah you do. 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:17.360 I don't look like how I look. My dad called 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:19.880 me and was like, dope, I'm not bold, but I 0:02:19.880 --> 0:02:23.120 look bold on that ship. My dad put a fucking 0:02:23.160 --> 0:02:27.040 head on. Well, my dad called me for that shows like, 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:30.399 all right, you know you looked a little you looked. 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:33.720 You look way better in person. I've been called reverse catfish. 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:38.400 Shut up. Yeah, I just don't look good on camera. Well, 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:40.600 we hope you better get his angles, girl, because we're 0:02:40.639 --> 0:02:41.800 gonna be I mean, well we look like you know 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:43.840 you're not. You know, I didn't wear a bra for 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:49.400 you or you can fight too, you know what? The problems? 0:02:49.680 --> 0:02:52.160 He just lets you know, don't she is she Latina? No, 0:02:52.240 --> 0:02:56.919 she's got still you know, I don't know. I don't 0:02:56.960 --> 0:02:59.320 problem ship. I had enough. I all the Jamaican Nicks 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:03.960 in our Lando and usk me because that's from from 0:03:04.560 --> 0:03:06.560 So once I saw you guys like Smiles and South 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:12.840 Star girls the Chinese one. But something what you think 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:15.239 is going on? That's them right? May you know? I 0:03:15.280 --> 0:03:17.280 would pay Smiles the South Star to come to Dulu. 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:20.160 Really they're fun, but they would have to wear the 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:22.640 jeans with all of the NBA logos on. They would 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:25.520 have to Why don't you guys have a party like that? 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:28.680 What I want to wear some Timberland Hills oh my god, 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:30.840 we do like that would be dope because we all 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:39.240 kind of nineties babies. You're actually in our realm of Asia. No, 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:42.080 I thought you werelder than me. I think everyone's older. 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:45.240 I didn't mean it. You know what I'm gonna take 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:48.880 just because we're education. You guys are very mature and 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:52.520 talk about sex much different than younger women. I'm always 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:56.360 talking about come swapping, but I'll go, I mean, that's sure. 0:03:56.600 --> 0:03:58.160 So what we like to do when we have guests 0:03:58.200 --> 0:04:00.720 on and you had my friends on the ropes two 0:04:00.720 --> 0:04:03.840 weeks ago, Cast and low but they didn't sit. My 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:08.240 guys held it down no, real quick, real quick. So 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:10.920 I saw low Um. So I went to the Pelusa 0:04:10.920 --> 0:04:15.000 in Chicago and I saw low Key and he was like, yo, Cast, 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:16.839 I didn't even know what I was walking into and 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:18.520 your girl trying to get me. But he was like, 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:21.120 I just I had it cool. He was like, thank 0:04:21.160 --> 0:04:23.520 god I wasn't drinking or something like that. He said 0:04:23.520 --> 0:04:25.240 something it wasn't on the like shot off and I 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:27.039 felt so bad because it was such a great episode. 0:04:27.040 --> 0:04:29.320 We had an audio funk up and when we were leaving, 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:31.480 it was like sitting in the elevator so quiet, and 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:32.680 he's like, I just I didn't know where it was 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:35.160 gonna go. I did not know, So we were all 0:04:35.200 --> 0:04:37.560 at dinner before they went. It was me, Cam Low 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:41.320 and Cas was like, Y gon do this Horrible Decisions 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:43.200 podcast and someone called with me. I had something to do, 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:45.440 Cam and something to do, so Low was like, yeah, 0:04:45.480 --> 0:04:48.200 I'll do it. And I was like, all right, I 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:52.280 hope you ready. You'll see you fucking liar. I asked 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:55.040 you to come on. You're like, I'm in l a. No, yeah, 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:58.760 I was at that time, not the same day I 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:04.320 recorded that wasn't shot said were dinner? Were you asked? You? 0:05:04.400 --> 0:05:09.040 Asked me a week after? They was? I met guy? 0:05:09.240 --> 0:05:11.280 When I got you together? Right now? He said, but 0:05:11.520 --> 0:05:13.559 look she really don't be drinking, so her date's probably 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:16.839 gonna be messed up. And I apologize beforehand if she 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:18.880 comes out of character because you brought drinks. And when 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:20.560 I bring drinks, she's like, are you know I don't drink? 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:25.040 Was raised, beautiful white ass. She was like, I'm gonna 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:27.560 I'm getting it. I mean, you know whatever, So let's 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:31.560 ask the questions. Okay, are you guys in the three sums? 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:33.640 Me and my girlfriend I mean, let's just go just 0:05:34.080 --> 0:05:38.480 so real quick. We like we like to do. Ice 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:41.320 was broken at come swapping, but we did asked you 0:05:41.360 --> 0:05:43.239 about the cup, so it was underwater at this point. 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:48.320 We're under underwater, by the way. That's water boarding, right. 0:05:48.360 --> 0:05:49.919 Look here here she goes. So I want to know, 0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:51.400 I guess answer the question because I didn't even know 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:54.120 who's gonna ask that. But are you and your significant 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:56.080 other into three sum stories? That's something that's been she's 0:05:56.760 --> 0:05:59.080 she's not into girls at all. That's something that you want. 0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:02.039 I mean, I've done it before, but not with her, 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:04.599 and that's not her thing. That's not her thing. Honestly 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:07.640 though I appreciate that because a lot of someone so bad. 0:06:07.680 --> 0:06:09.880 But if your girl's not into it, then why do 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:13.480 you keep fishing? It would be a fucking nightmare. First 0:06:13.520 --> 0:06:15.320 of all, two guys that have not had threesomes that 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:17.280 want to have them. I hope you know it's not 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:19.800 for you, Like if you go in there and think 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:23.080 this is going to be dope for you're it's for 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:25.880 those two women like you have to control to remember 0:06:25.920 --> 0:06:28.200 what Wax was saying, each other pussy and make each 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:30.400 other come first. I just laid it. Yeah, No, that's 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:32.400 a big strategy moment. You try to go in there 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:35.640 and trying to navigate ship like now you fucked. You know. 0:06:35.680 --> 0:06:40.320 Every time, the dude is always exhausted. See that's why 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:41.839 I worked a lot. The last guy that I had 0:06:41.839 --> 0:06:44.200 a threesome with, he went forty five minutes with just me. 0:06:44.360 --> 0:06:45.919 So he went forty five minutes with both of us, 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:47.440 and I was like, thank God, there's another pussy in 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:49.520 here because he tore my the funk up. Three sums 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:51.560 are fun break so and I feel like the Cauls 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:53.400 get ready for threesomes, so like they just be really 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:54.800 on there, like you know what I mean. Like he 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:56.640 was watching when he was drinking, he was ready to fun. 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:59.120 So I was like so glad. At one point, I'm like, 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:01.039 am I schafing? You're sucking the shit out of me? 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:02.960 And it's really because you show you gotta show up. 0:07:03.120 --> 0:07:08.120 There's a crowd. It's exhausting a three way relationships. I 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:10.640 mean I've dated two people together and like I could 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:12.880 tell how tired he was of like just being like, 0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:16.520 oh god, now I got get for this. It's I 0:07:16.560 --> 0:07:18.200 think men are nuts for doing that. It's a lot 0:07:18.800 --> 0:07:21.840 like bitches by themselves? Is it was fun because like 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:26.800 when I'm tired personalities, let them start beefing, and you 0:07:26.840 --> 0:07:29.840 got to be the middle man, you know, picking side. 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:32.840 He couldn't make it somewhere right. He was like, oh, 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:35.320 I have a work thing, blah blah blah. In the 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:38.440 group chat. Her and I both it was like, She's like, 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:40.120 but you didn't say that earlier. I'm like, when you've 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:41.560 never told us you gotta work thing, you never like 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.320 going to work ship. Also, now you're too busy. I 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:46.160 was like, yo, he thought the blocks, like the group 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:48.840 chat was on you. That's too much. That's why too. 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:50.640 So I want to I never want my relationship to 0:07:50.640 --> 0:07:54.480 have a group chat. But that's not well. Y'all can 0:07:54.480 --> 0:07:56.240 send all the cool The memes be fine, right, the 0:07:56.280 --> 0:08:00.360 memes be fine. The gypsis okay. So I want to 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:02.360 ask you this too before we go to our vanilla ship, 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:04.960 but would you rather go a year without head or 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:11.160 a year without sex? I'm tired of these days, man, 0:08:11.480 --> 0:08:16.320 I'll just take of the head. Really does it well? Though? 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:19.160 That's another thing? Okay? Do you so head? Is you 0:08:19.240 --> 0:08:21.520 enjoy head? Do you enjoy head more than pussy? Though? No, 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:25.360 of course not No, I'd be tired. You'd be tired. 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:27.200 It's a very busy time in my life. You would 0:08:27.240 --> 0:08:28.880 ask me that three years ago. Well, no, we could 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:31.640 find would head as long as I could get some 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:33.920 because when I'm gay for like a few months, when 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:35.920 I Dave bitches all I get his hands anyway, I 0:08:36.000 --> 0:08:38.079 mean I could fuck your mouth, Conda kind of be 0:08:38.160 --> 0:08:41.000 like sex. I love, I love my moth. I like 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:43.160 when I'm scared of you running this ship. I don't 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:46.000 like all that, but I don't be wanting to feel 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:50.760 like but I do like mouth and like I like 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:54.360 when they're like on top of my mouth, Like, oh, 0:08:54.440 --> 0:08:56.160 I like balls, period, I'd be licking the balls and 0:08:56.200 --> 0:08:57.679 then of course trying to go under them. But we're 0:08:57.679 --> 0:09:00.360 not gonna talk about that because you know that's no. 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:05.840 This isn't the ass eating episode. Are you into that? Uh? 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:10.120 To an extent, there's a way, what's an extent? I'm 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:12.600 not too my ass in there. I was raised a 0:09:12.640 --> 0:09:16.680 certain way. You look, but you would rather be like 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:18.760 if I'm if I'm in the regular, if I'm in 0:09:18.760 --> 0:09:21.200 the regular head position and you happen to go down there, 0:09:21.200 --> 0:09:24.760 I'm not stop you but do you, but just a 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:26.720 little bit more so she could access the ass whole better. 0:09:27.440 --> 0:09:29.880 My pelvic area is gonna stay where this question he's 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:31.440 ever been took on of colleges and she's like, bring 0:09:31.440 --> 0:09:33.400 your butt all the way to the bottom. Once you 0:09:33.480 --> 0:09:37.160 feel like, do you, then I've adjusted a bit. I 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:44.160 wouldn't say my leg was on anyone's shoulder. My grandfather 0:09:44.240 --> 0:09:48.360 Roan is fucking grave. If my legs about your grandfather 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:50.959 while you're getting your asthlet it wasn't. That was staying 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:56.839 right now. But I'm cool with the ass eating. That's 0:09:56.840 --> 0:10:01.800 fine as a woman. Never what's about the finger because 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:04.240 we know low Ki talking. I call him Thumbelina right now? 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:07.480 That was that was in our group chat like we 0:10:07.480 --> 0:10:11.720 was like the next morning, low you nasty were telling 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:13.840 that story. Though it's never happened to me. I'm not 0:10:13.880 --> 0:10:16.000 saying I would be against it, but it's never happened. 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:17.600 But she wouldn't kick a bitch in her face if 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:19.240 she did it, Like you would still accept the finger. 0:10:19.240 --> 0:10:22.200 If I didn't like it, I mean, well no, no, no no, 0:10:22.320 --> 0:10:24.480 it's hard at you would like it's more like a surprise. 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:26.200 They had the reaction that a lot of men are like, 0:10:26.600 --> 0:10:29.760 I'm cool, I've had I've had a doctor do it. 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:32.320 Wasn't that cool? It wasn't that cool? And the globe 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:34.679 was on it. That shows security and rasculinity, though, because 0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:37.520 a lot of men feel very threatened by hands or 0:10:37.559 --> 0:10:40.120 anything around their back to them and it's like, girl 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:44.160 is down there, Then why am I gay? How could 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:49.079 you be gay? Girls? A lot of people feel like 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:50.400 I guess you would feel the same way if we 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:53.600 talked about pegging, Then what's pegging? When you funk a 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:59.640 guy with a strap on? That, okay, you just gay. 0:10:59.760 --> 0:11:01.400 If it's a girl doing it, you just said it's 0:11:01.400 --> 0:11:03.320 a girl doing it. You're saying a girl a girl 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:05.040 sucking a guy with a trap on. Oh no, I 0:11:05.080 --> 0:11:08.960 wouldn't call it gay, Okay, but it's just not I 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:13.480 would never do it. Okay, I might, Yeah, but you might. 0:11:14.120 --> 0:11:16.959 That's like a line you could continue going to gay. 0:11:17.040 --> 0:11:22.199 I think that draws right there. You know what's crazy? No, 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:24.840 we got something bringing that up. So for the Vanilla Ship, 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:27.200 what we wanted to have the conversation with Well, Vanilla 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:29.480 Ship is our segment where we like pretty much bring 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:31.319 up an article or something that I thought it was 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:38.959 about my skin color dedicated to me. Actually, it's not 0:11:39.000 --> 0:11:40.920 about the white guy fun this week. That's basically, what 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:44.640 are you like a serial white guy fucker. More recently, 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:46.320 when I moved to New York, like, I more black 0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:49.000 men in my life, Sam after the podcast, No, but 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:51.800 I'll tell you what, Andrew. No, We're gonna go to 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:53.839 everybody thinks I sucked Andrew. I tried to throw the 0:11:53.840 --> 0:11:56.600 pussy at Andrew and no, no, no no, it wasn't that 0:11:56.600 --> 0:11:59.839 that happened, but it kind of just like died. And 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:01.439 then when he invited me to Burning Man, I was like, 0:12:01.520 --> 0:12:03.320 I guess we really are just friends in now, because 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.839 you ain't invited me out or not. Could it Burnie? 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:07.800 I could definitely it, Burnton. I feel like, man, people, 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:10.440 fuck it Burnie. I think that's probably what you think. 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:13.480 That's a I think that's all you do. Like listen, 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:15.480 we got it's just me and Alex in the rvy. 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:17.480 We got a bed on the other side for you 0:12:17.640 --> 0:12:19.920 do drugs and Burnie Man. I know they've been talking 0:12:19.920 --> 0:12:22.079 about Burning Man, but I just feel like you wouldn't 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:24.080 bring someone to Burning Man to them when there's an 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:29.520 orgy t burning that's ironic. To be fair, men cannot 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:32.120 go on the tent without a woman. So he wanted 0:12:32.120 --> 0:12:37.160 to bring out me Alex and you know, he was 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:41.360 a wit right over your head, wheezy. I was like, 0:12:41.360 --> 0:12:45.160 we're just friends, kus, you know. No, So like on 0:12:45.200 --> 0:12:47.160 since I moved to New York, I've been like exploring 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:49.560 pretty much every I've been starting with Eastern Europe and 0:12:49.600 --> 0:12:55.160 moving on to the West, so like you know, Croatia, Latvia, um, Russia, 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:59.480 and then I just can absolutely all right, now that's 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:02.400 why not now because I'm gonna relationship. But before that's 0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:05.080 why I couldn't really be a superhore because I don't 0:13:05.080 --> 0:13:07.599 like condoms. Well, I'll tell you what. That's why I 0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:09.719 couldn't just do that has really been sucking me up 0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:12.120 because I've had a primary partner and he's really good. 0:13:12.280 --> 0:13:14.120 Dick is big, and you know, we're both safe and 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:16.520 we don't use condoms. I have slept with my first 0:13:16.520 --> 0:13:19.960 person outside of him. Um just on Wednesday, condom I 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:21.280 stuck right on my post and I was like, you 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:23.160 know what, I talked about that at no point, like 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:25.640 I don't want to use it wasn't as good. I 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:27.480 like to steal a dick in a skin and like 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:30.120 I want to lick it off and all of that, 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:34.360 you know, and it's just like, but I like sucking 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:35.559 dick right in the I want to. I'll be like, 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:37.120 let me taste it, you know what I'm saying, And 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:38.720 I don't want to like lick the condom and get 0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:40.840 I love it. He pulls it off and then comes 0:13:40.840 --> 0:13:44.520 into my mouth. And that's threesomes. Like, oh, yeah, I'm 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:46.640 not using three sums up with a condom, is card, 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:50.960 but we're getting hold on. You always use condoms, so 0:13:51.440 --> 0:13:54.240 but I don't. I haven't. I don't have much threesomes though, 0:13:54.360 --> 0:13:57.640 like with women, and like I just had the one 0:13:57.920 --> 0:14:00.319 not too long ago, but he sucked her all. That 0:14:00.400 --> 0:14:04.000 was his baby mama, right, So like um and other 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:06.000 threesomes that I've had, there has been a condom. But 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:09.120 to me, I've also had one where he switched condoms 0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:10.760 before going to us, so it was a lot more 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:12.960 work for him. That's the thing. You got that same 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:15.760 condom my Michael Flora and my pH balance. I'm very 0:14:15.760 --> 0:14:17.440 proud of the smell of my pussy, That's what I'm saying. 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:21.920 So you're even if you have a condom on while 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:25.560 you're having a threesome. If you're using that same condom 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:30.560 between both girls, y'all may as well all the condoms. 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:33.960 But I mean when I was sleeping with collect Diary Dating, 0:14:34.160 --> 0:14:37.320 we shared our results give the swell pack this one. 0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:39.000 We shared our results and we were able to have 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:41.600 a threesome without condoms. And I really liked that. That 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:45.560 was a very adult threesome, Like you know what ault 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:47.960 because only one of them had birth controls, so you 0:14:47.960 --> 0:14:52.000 know we know how that ended. But anyway, got pregnant 0:14:52.040 --> 0:14:54.920 a threesome. Oh my god, my bad. I cannot movie. 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:57.840 You just find we've never said that this show. No, 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:01.600 I do not want I didn't even know, but I'm 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:05.520 just saying it wasn't that responsible. Does that automatically make 0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:09.200 you the aunt godmother? If he was there when she 0:15:09.240 --> 0:15:12.560 found out she was pregnant on Mother's Day? This was 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:16.040 two years ago, and I was like, so, I hope 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:20.320 you went to the christening anyway. She felt so guilty. 0:15:20.360 --> 0:15:22.960 She's like, oh my god, happened not Easter, that was 0:15:23.000 --> 0:15:27.760 the day, but that even though she felt guilt. Actually 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:29.400 we was on the phone with me like I feel 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:32.120 like this is all my fault. I felt responsible, but 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:35.200 he was telling him to like he was him. I 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:38.720 wanted to eat the crystal to you eat cream pie. 0:15:39.720 --> 0:15:43.760 You're filthy as ship. That's probably one thing I standard. 0:15:43.920 --> 0:15:46.880 How do you think we're now? I'm filthy here? You 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:49.560 bet you passed on it. You have a whole banana 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:52.400 in your mouth. That the was too far for you though, 0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:54.960 I literally told you, but I was swapping seamen. On 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:58.960 second episode, Hi goes on the higher of the pyramid. 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:01.840 Besides olden showers, Bro, going to showers is like in 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:05.680 the middle eating. Sorry, bro, if I'm liking pussy and 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:08.320 I fucking swallow and I just licked the come off 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:12.600 of her pussy's fire, to me, that is like you. 0:16:12.720 --> 0:16:14.240 I would like, yeah, I would like to watch that. 0:16:14.240 --> 0:16:16.440 That's cool, you would watch it. That's what that was 0:16:16.480 --> 0:16:18.520 like my big fantasy. And then it look would happen 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:23.920 almost a baby. So if you suck them like you 0:16:23.960 --> 0:16:27.800 kind of gave her an abortion. I can't believe I'm 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:29.480 telling us, but it's not even an abortion because the 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:32.560 whole baby stage. Okay, hold on, she was on the depot. 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:34.360 I didn't know this until later. She was on the 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:37.440 depot and just like, I know what that means. It's 0:16:37.440 --> 0:16:40.760 a shot. It's it's so it's a form of birth control. 0:16:40.840 --> 0:16:43.880 I think you get in with the patches and ship. No, 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:47.840 it's a shot, but you get a shot and you 0:16:47.880 --> 0:16:50.160 have to do everything a month she still got pregnant. Um. 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:52.360 But anyway, I mean, it was embarrassing for her, and 0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:54.920 I felt guilty. I'm like, look, it could have been me, right, 0:16:55.440 --> 0:16:59.480 That's not what you say, bro, That's not what you 0:16:59.520 --> 0:17:04.959 were the crazy, you were the creamer. Um. But we're 0:17:05.000 --> 0:17:06.919 gonna go ahead. So I want to talk about for 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:09.040 our vanilla ship this week. We kind of want to 0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:12.000 talk about it because it's been a current discussion within 0:17:12.119 --> 0:17:16.160 not only Black Twitter, but Instagram Twitter amongst our friends. 0:17:16.200 --> 0:17:18.600 These are conversations I've been having in the group chat Um. 0:17:18.640 --> 0:17:21.400 If you guys don't know. Rory is also a part 0:17:21.520 --> 0:17:25.200 of the Wonderful fun Ask motherfucking party. Do Say Palouza 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:28.880 um and so do Say Paluza is a party where 0:17:29.480 --> 0:17:31.920 mad black people get together and just drink Do Say 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:34.160 and it's wonderful. Um. It used to be called Hanny 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:36.840 Paluza back in the day. I went to the very 0:17:36.920 --> 0:17:39.520 first one, by the second one, I don't know how 0:17:39.560 --> 0:17:44.120 I got home. Um was the first one at Camp's house. Yes, 0:17:44.200 --> 0:17:46.440 I was at the very first one. That was so 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:48.440 long ago. This was back when all you had to 0:17:48.480 --> 0:17:52.000 do was bring a bottle and it was so much fun. 0:17:52.119 --> 0:17:54.760 And then as it kept going, like I've been so drunk, 0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:58.480 my friend got fingered at the first Handy Paluza on handy. Yeah. 0:17:58.480 --> 0:18:02.160 See it's pretty say elish it. You know, Um, I've 0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:07.679 ended up get fingers. Well after the second one, I'm like, dance, 0:18:07.720 --> 0:18:13.200 you're just like bumping. Well, there's a whole basement of that. 0:18:14.320 --> 0:18:18.919 Oh my god, mad people fucking it. I wanted to 0:18:18.920 --> 0:18:24.720 bring up the conversation about drunk sex and consent um. 0:18:24.720 --> 0:18:26.560 This is something we've brought up at our live show, 0:18:27.200 --> 0:18:30.000 but with the current conversation that's going on um and 0:18:30.160 --> 0:18:33.600 us talking about maybe liking or disliking Henny Dick and 0:18:33.640 --> 0:18:37.080 fucking and as women us getting drunk and enjoying drunk 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:40.000 sex to an extent or then we black out and 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:42.119 maybe don't enjoy it when we wake up the next morning. 0:18:42.280 --> 0:18:43.960 So I kind of wanted to talk about it because 0:18:44.359 --> 0:18:46.919 with what you do when your party party, how you 0:18:46.960 --> 0:18:49.879 just said fingering is very common, like when you're drunk 0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:52.600 and you're at a SA palooza or you know, things 0:18:52.600 --> 0:18:55.879 are going to happen with liquor and individuals. So I 0:18:55.920 --> 0:18:58.399 wanted to kind of again have the open conversation about 0:18:58.440 --> 0:19:01.760 what our thoughts are on and having drunk sex consent, 0:19:01.840 --> 0:19:04.800 how we feel, and when a man maybe should not 0:19:05.240 --> 0:19:08.879 have sex when both parties are one party is drunk. 0:19:09.119 --> 0:19:11.560 What are your thoughts on that, and have you experienced 0:19:11.560 --> 0:19:15.080 anything with your parties and or hearing situations that have happened. 0:19:15.680 --> 0:19:18.040 I mean, I can't There's five thousand people at them ships, 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:22.199 so I can't really speak to it. But there's just 0:19:22.240 --> 0:19:24.080 so many people. I don't know what's going on. But yeah, 0:19:24.119 --> 0:19:26.520 it's actually just how I sounded too. There's like so 0:19:26.560 --> 0:19:32.840 many people there, I can't keep track. But no, I 0:19:32.920 --> 0:19:35.280 definitely like you can see in the front row, like 0:19:35.320 --> 0:19:38.000 people get into you know, the lusty dance, like oh, 0:19:38.040 --> 0:19:39.840 they're about to fuck, but you know when people are 0:19:39.840 --> 0:19:46.320 about to fuck, and it's such a blurry and gray area. 0:19:46.840 --> 0:19:49.920 I would just think if if you think she's super, 0:19:50.000 --> 0:19:52.400 if you meet her drunk, I don't think you should suck. 0:19:52.640 --> 0:19:55.280 So it's really that you say, why do you say that? 0:19:55.280 --> 0:19:58.320 Why do you say that? Because you don't know her 0:19:58.400 --> 0:20:04.600 and her reactions to know what if you're drunk? Right right? 0:20:04.640 --> 0:20:09.080 This is why I want to have this conversation. By 0:20:09.080 --> 0:20:13.359 the way, I really an adult. As an adult, you 0:20:13.359 --> 0:20:17.280 should hold your liquor to a certain degree. We're speaking 0:20:17.280 --> 0:20:20.280 as adults, right, but we're talking about we're talking about 0:20:21.440 --> 0:20:24.320 but I think you should be able to manage your 0:20:24.359 --> 0:20:26.879 liquor as an adult. But you should know your intake 0:20:27.000 --> 0:20:29.000 and know when you're getting to a certain extent. Have 0:20:29.160 --> 0:20:31.439 you had times though, where you've been drinking, because I 0:20:31.480 --> 0:20:33.600 know how I have and both of you. Has there 0:20:33.680 --> 0:20:35.680 been times where you've been drinking and you're like, oh, 0:20:35.760 --> 0:20:38.479 I'm good, and then it just hits you Because I 0:20:38.520 --> 0:20:40.760 get what you're saying with controlling your liquor. But I've 0:20:40.800 --> 0:20:43.600 been blacked out before. I've had blackout sex, and so 0:20:43.800 --> 0:20:46.320 I've been I've I've been the victim of where I 0:20:46.359 --> 0:20:48.159 thought I was good and then I woke up the 0:20:48.200 --> 0:20:51.320 next morning realizing that certain parts of the night I 0:20:51.359 --> 0:20:55.480 couldn't remember. So how is an adult do you gauge 0:20:56.040 --> 0:20:58.160 enough drinking when it comes to having This is why 0:20:58.160 --> 0:21:00.920 I also think friends are important. Okay, I think friends 0:21:00.920 --> 0:21:06.560 are very important. Rarely is everybody blacked out. Rarely Again, 0:21:06.560 --> 0:21:09.040 I'm speaking for me and my friends now. There's certain 0:21:09.040 --> 0:21:13.280 times that I've seen one of my friends engaging with 0:21:13.280 --> 0:21:15.960 a girl at Paloza and they're very drunk. I'm like, 0:21:16.400 --> 0:21:18.880 same for women, though, I think about when your girls 0:21:18.880 --> 0:21:23.320 sucked up me my bitch home on like we I 0:21:23.359 --> 0:21:25.040 don't know about you, but I don't let my drunk 0:21:25.040 --> 0:21:29.520 friends go home and nobody but yeah, but I the 0:21:29.560 --> 0:21:34.080 blocking friend. I used to hate the blocking, give me 0:21:34.160 --> 0:21:37.600 mad blocking friends blocked out my own dick blessings from 0:21:37.600 --> 0:21:40.040 being like, bitch, no, you got coming me like just 0:21:40.119 --> 0:21:44.240 because I don't trust in the fact that that man 0:21:44.280 --> 0:21:46.119 will take care of my friend at that moment, and 0:21:46.240 --> 0:21:48.840 especially like I just I don't know. I know it's 0:21:48.840 --> 0:21:51.040 the little feminist in me, but I've done it to women. 0:21:51.080 --> 0:21:52.840 I've been at a pizza parlor in Orlando. I think 0:21:52.840 --> 0:21:55.320 it's called Paninos, and I've seen a girl that was 0:21:59.000 --> 0:22:01.840 you know, Okay, so I don't say that because so 0:22:01.880 --> 0:22:03.920 we're from Orlando, but this is a pizza spot that's 0:22:03.960 --> 0:22:07.560 between all the clubs Central in downtown Orlando. And everyone 0:22:07.600 --> 0:22:09.879 goes here and you always see. So there was a 0:22:09.880 --> 0:22:13.400 girl wasted, and there was a dude, a big host 0:22:13.520 --> 0:22:15.679 in the scene in Orlando that was with her and 0:22:15.720 --> 0:22:17.240 he was so mad at me for two years. I 0:22:17.240 --> 0:22:18.640 walked right up to a girl. I was like, yo, 0:22:19.160 --> 0:22:22.119 are you okay? And she's like, yeah, I'm fine. I'm like, okay, 0:22:22.440 --> 0:22:23.520 I don't know if you want to get like an 0:22:23.600 --> 0:22:25.520 uber home or something, but like you don't look like 0:22:25.560 --> 0:22:27.119 you can hold yourself up too well, Like do you 0:22:27.119 --> 0:22:29.439 want me to take you home? And she was like, actually, 0:22:29.520 --> 0:22:33.680 yeah I do. And the girl huh, I don't find 0:22:34.240 --> 0:22:38.240 but if I want to funk and I see nothing 0:22:38.280 --> 0:22:41.960 about you know, and she said he said he was 0:22:42.000 --> 0:22:44.120 gonna take me home. I really don't have the money 0:22:44.160 --> 0:22:47.920 for uber, but you know, I figured like right, yeah, 0:22:48.119 --> 0:22:49.880 She's like I figured he might try taking his house, 0:22:49.920 --> 0:22:51.760 and like I really appreciate. Okay. So let's not have 0:22:51.840 --> 0:22:54.520 the conversation of the drunk girl stumbling out of the club. 0:22:55.000 --> 0:22:59.199 Let's take this to you are with somebody who you know, 0:23:00.080 --> 0:23:02.280 one who maybe you've been talking to. You both go 0:23:02.320 --> 0:23:06.160 out for drinks and now you're both drunk and both 0:23:06.160 --> 0:23:11.080 of you have discussed wanting to have sexual relations with 0:23:11.080 --> 0:23:13.800 each other prior to you getting to where you are. 0:23:14.119 --> 0:23:17.359 So now you're both drunk, she consented, Prior do you 0:23:17.359 --> 0:23:19.639 still have sex knowing that both of you guys are drunk? 0:23:19.840 --> 0:23:21.679 As a man, what what do you do in that 0:23:21.720 --> 0:23:25.200 position where both of y'all are drunk? Well, I can 0:23:25.240 --> 0:23:28.000 only speak for me, Okay, of course I have somewhat 0:23:28.040 --> 0:23:31.439 control of myself when I'm drinking. Of course I'm drunk, 0:23:31.480 --> 0:23:34.320 but I know right from role when I'm drunk. You know, 0:23:35.520 --> 0:23:37.840 sex though with a lot of like third or fourth dates, 0:23:37.840 --> 0:23:40.000 like that's my number, I feel like, not on purpose, 0:23:40.040 --> 0:23:47.720 but it's just usually happened. Grow up right, three dates girls, 0:23:47.720 --> 0:23:51.520 Shut the funk up? Go ahead, you know what your story, 0:23:52.320 --> 0:23:54.360 you fly and now your first days, I don't want 0:23:54.359 --> 0:23:57.160 to do That's what I'm saying. I like to give 0:23:57.200 --> 0:23:59.240 my pussy to somebody that I feel like I will 0:23:59.280 --> 0:24:01.520 sunk again and by first day? Am I sure that 0:24:01.560 --> 0:24:03.240 I like you that much? Because everybody on the first 0:24:03.320 --> 0:24:05.960 date is on their best behavior, So don't come for me. 0:24:06.440 --> 0:24:08.960 I Well, whoever, I want, whenever I want, whenever the 0:24:09.040 --> 0:24:11.080 chemistry feels right, whether be a first day of second day, 0:24:11.080 --> 0:24:14.080 third day, But generally by the third date, I feel 0:24:14.119 --> 0:24:16.040 like I will know if I'm gonna keep seeing this 0:24:16.080 --> 0:24:17.880 person or if I'm interested, and I just don't want 0:24:17.880 --> 0:24:22.000 to waste my time. So by that date, normally we're 0:24:22.000 --> 0:24:24.480 probably hanging out long and the bar is getting longer. 0:24:24.960 --> 0:24:26.600 You know what I'm saying, Like we're going, we're hopping around. 0:24:26.680 --> 0:24:30.439 I'm normally pretty drunk by that third date, but I 0:24:30.480 --> 0:24:33.480 am also the drunk girl that asks for it. Right, 0:24:33.840 --> 0:24:36.000 I'll be like, yo, can you come home with me? 0:24:36.200 --> 0:24:37.760 Do you want to come home me? Blah blah blah, 0:24:37.840 --> 0:24:40.639 and not until they'll do them day now. Jeeves. He 0:24:40.760 --> 0:24:43.720 was the first person in my life. No no no, no, no. 0:24:43.920 --> 0:24:47.359 I think that's themes we did, we do and we 0:24:48.480 --> 0:24:51.480 So he was in my house and said to me, like, listen, 0:24:52.200 --> 0:24:54.920 if you want, we could just keep kissing and touching 0:24:54.960 --> 0:24:56.760 and playing around, and like we could wake up and 0:24:56.800 --> 0:24:59.280 finish whatever you want to finish, and asked me to 0:24:59.400 --> 0:25:01.679 take my after it was okay if he took his 0:25:01.760 --> 0:25:03.719 pants off when he got into my bed. And when 0:25:03.800 --> 0:25:08.240 I tell you, like, I was so impressed because it 0:25:08.359 --> 0:25:10.640 not only made me feel comfortable, but it also let 0:25:10.680 --> 0:25:12.760 me know that the the things I was experiencing may not 0:25:12.800 --> 0:25:14.159 have been right. Right. I know we're all here for 0:25:14.320 --> 0:25:20.760 the cool consent. That's great, but no, I mean not 0:25:20.800 --> 0:25:22.600 a lot of people are doing that though. But I 0:25:22.640 --> 0:25:25.560 think it's important to he respected that you drunk. He 0:25:25.560 --> 0:25:27.680 didn't he didn't want to put himself in that position, 0:25:28.520 --> 0:25:30.840 but you being drunk asking for the dick too. So 0:25:30.920 --> 0:25:34.320 I'm not gonna lie. I've had I've had sex multiple 0:25:34.359 --> 0:25:37.800 times where I have been blacked out, and depending on 0:25:37.840 --> 0:25:40.840 who the person is, I have woke up and just 0:25:40.920 --> 0:25:43.359 asked him did you come, where'd you come? Did we 0:25:43.440 --> 0:25:45.760 use a condom? And was really nonchalant about it. I 0:25:45.800 --> 0:25:47.760 want to avoid those type of covers, right, But then 0:25:47.800 --> 0:25:50.959 I've had I don't think that those conversations. I was 0:25:51.000 --> 0:25:53.959 with a person that I had been fucking four years. 0:25:54.680 --> 0:25:57.040 We went to the club, and that's so in that 0:25:57.119 --> 0:25:59.360 sense it was okay. But then again, I have had 0:25:59.400 --> 0:26:02.600 sex where I have blocked out and I woke up 0:26:02.640 --> 0:26:05.800 feeling violated, like why did you fuck me? And we 0:26:05.800 --> 0:26:08.399 were drunk, but he was saying, you asked for you 0:26:08.440 --> 0:26:11.280 wanted it you and and so that's kind of where 0:26:11.320 --> 0:26:14.359 I guess this gets gray for a lot of people. 0:26:14.880 --> 0:26:19.280 Would you would you say that maybe men should just 0:26:20.280 --> 0:26:23.719 walk away from having sex at all under the influence, 0:26:24.000 --> 0:26:25.560 especially being in the time where we are now with 0:26:25.600 --> 0:26:27.640 the Me Too movement and what we see is happening. 0:26:28.000 --> 0:26:30.439 I think it starts with liquor. I think men should 0:26:30.480 --> 0:26:34.240 moderate how they drink and know themselves. I think that's 0:26:34.240 --> 0:26:38.920 the first like about women being drunk. I'm thinking not necessarily. 0:26:39.600 --> 0:26:41.240 At the end of the day, men have to remember 0:26:42.280 --> 0:26:47.320 we can't win in court women. Of course, males have 0:26:47.520 --> 0:26:49.720 much more privileged than women do. But in the court 0:26:49.720 --> 0:26:53.200 of law, whether it comes with baby mothers, child support, rape, 0:26:53.359 --> 0:26:57.439 we lose no matter what. And then a man, you 0:26:57.440 --> 0:27:00.320 have to remember, if we're both drunk and you say 0:27:00.320 --> 0:27:02.560 I raped you, it doesn't matter that I'm drunk. It 0:27:02.600 --> 0:27:04.679 only matters that she was drunk. You have to remember 0:27:04.760 --> 0:27:06.840 that law. So you have to keep that in the 0:27:06.880 --> 0:27:08.440 back of your mind. That's that whole ship. When I'm 0:27:08.440 --> 0:27:10.080 saying you need friends, you need to know how to drink, 0:27:10.359 --> 0:27:12.359 don't do that. Like you need to know right from wrong. 0:27:12.560 --> 0:27:14.359 If you're going out with a chick and she's drinking, 0:27:14.400 --> 0:27:18.120 you need to drink less to make that decision. Well, 0:27:18.160 --> 0:27:20.159 I think the main thing is, like I was the 0:27:20.600 --> 0:27:23.520 king before the King of just beating off in front 0:27:23.560 --> 0:27:25.359 of a chick if she was too drunk, I'll happily 0:27:25.359 --> 0:27:27.200 beat it. You can watch. I don't given like I'm 0:27:27.240 --> 0:27:30.560 gonna nut, but like, if you're too drunk, now, I'm 0:27:30.560 --> 0:27:32.640 gonna beat off somewhere I go on my little round 0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:35.520 and I'm cool. So so that would be I guess 0:27:35.520 --> 0:27:39.640 the girl that's drunk. No, you need to. We're we're 0:27:39.680 --> 0:27:41.800 going to lose in the court of law no matter what, 0:27:41.840 --> 0:27:45.440 we're going to lose. So when you go out, keep 0:27:45.480 --> 0:27:47.680 that in mind. You can don't fucking drink too much 0:27:47.760 --> 0:27:49.440 if you if you think you might suck this is 0:27:49.480 --> 0:27:52.159 this is something you don't remember. Like like a lot 0:27:52.160 --> 0:27:54.080 of dudes are so wait, like I don't know. And 0:27:54.359 --> 0:27:57.040 that's the thing, Like can I really place blame on 0:27:57.160 --> 0:28:00.119 two wasted people? I don't know if I can't. And 0:28:00.160 --> 0:28:02.359 the only thing I do plays a heavy blame on 0:28:02.800 --> 0:28:04.240 is men. Like in a situation where I took the 0:28:04.280 --> 0:28:07.840 girl from the pizza place that fu drunk girls, especially 0:28:08.280 --> 0:28:10.680 women that you haven't been with before, that you're putting 0:28:10.720 --> 0:28:13.680 yourself at risk with whether they asked for it or not. Right. 0:28:13.840 --> 0:28:16.359 And I'm gonna speak in turn from not from the 0:28:16.359 --> 0:28:18.400 women's perspective, where I really want to call all yell 0:28:18.440 --> 0:28:20.600 pieces of ship. But let's say for a guy to 0:28:20.640 --> 0:28:23.040 protect themselves, someone who is genuinely not trying to harm 0:28:23.080 --> 0:28:26.760 a woman or rape them, right, just the just the 0:28:27.040 --> 0:28:30.399 idea or the instance or the possibility that a woman 0:28:30.520 --> 0:28:35.120 could feel like she's violated. Why even bother like, there's 0:28:35.160 --> 0:28:38.520 just no point a woman knowing that you took care 0:28:38.560 --> 0:28:42.480 of them. Let's say girls at your house beat off, 0:28:42.680 --> 0:28:44.719 beat off before you leave out that or even if 0:28:44.720 --> 0:28:46.560 you took a girl home and didn't suck her and 0:28:46.640 --> 0:28:48.360 left to her space, she probably gonna give me a 0:28:48.360 --> 0:28:50.880 pussy an order anyway, because she's gonna be like girl 0:28:51.480 --> 0:28:54.120 I went home with him. He was so nice. He 0:28:54.120 --> 0:28:56.200 ain't even try every time I give pussy because I 0:28:56.200 --> 0:28:58.320 was like, he don't want it real quick. I also 0:28:58.360 --> 0:29:03.320 want to say that while we're blaming um men a 0:29:03.360 --> 0:29:08.280 lot of let me finish. Can I finish my topic? No, Well, 0:29:08.280 --> 0:29:09.880 I'm saying a lot of men are blamed. You just 0:29:09.920 --> 0:29:11.560 said that men will lose in the corner of law. 0:29:11.920 --> 0:29:13.800 And while I do want to put a little bit 0:29:13.800 --> 0:29:16.800 of the responsibility on us as women because with what 0:29:16.840 --> 0:29:19.480 you're saying and how you handle drunk situations, was this 0:29:19.560 --> 0:29:22.160 a conversation that was had with you growing up with 0:29:22.200 --> 0:29:25.520 your mom about when you started drinking and having sex 0:29:25.520 --> 0:29:28.560 with women. Was there a conversation that was had? Okay, 0:29:28.600 --> 0:29:31.080 so this is where I'm gonna say, if we're going 0:29:31.120 --> 0:29:33.920 to have this conversation clearly as adults, I feel like 0:29:33.960 --> 0:29:35.840 for a lot of the women out there who have 0:29:36.080 --> 0:29:39.960 sons or who have young boys, these are conversations that 0:29:40.000 --> 0:29:43.040 now need to be had, Like, son, I don't care 0:29:43.080 --> 0:29:45.320 if you're fucking or not, if you're out drinking though, 0:29:45.680 --> 0:29:47.400 this is what can happen, this is what needs to 0:29:47.400 --> 0:29:49.160 be done, and this is what you shouldn't do. And 0:29:49.200 --> 0:29:52.120 so as women raising these young boys and wanting to 0:29:52.160 --> 0:29:56.720 make change in society, I feel like it's our responsibility 0:29:56.800 --> 0:29:59.720 as women to have these conversations as mothers with our 0:29:59.760 --> 0:30:02.240 son and telling them what's right and wrong. We already 0:30:02.280 --> 0:30:05.880 know y'all gonna be out fucking. Women allow boys like 0:30:05.960 --> 0:30:09.960 it's not it's not like your dick is so um. 0:30:10.000 --> 0:30:12.200 I don't know kind of how how women we pride 0:30:12.200 --> 0:30:14.800 ourselves and keeping our virginity. It's not the same for men. 0:30:15.120 --> 0:30:17.840 So a lot of women are okay with their sons 0:30:17.920 --> 0:30:19.959 knowing that they out there fucking. But those conversations when 0:30:19.960 --> 0:30:22.600 it comes to liquor and people being under the influence 0:30:22.680 --> 0:30:24.480 aren't being had. They weren't had as us and we're 0:30:24.520 --> 0:30:26.960 just nineties babies, so I know it definitely wasn't had 0:30:27.000 --> 0:30:29.800 with people of Joe's era or you know, I can't 0:30:29.800 --> 0:30:32.000 speak for that. My mother absolutely, how conversation you're not 0:30:32.040 --> 0:30:35.280 a man though, I'm saying with women with women, but 0:30:35.320 --> 0:30:41.080 I'm saying for men that conversation, Yeah it was. It 0:30:41.080 --> 0:30:44.400 was a nice thing to happen myself. No, No, but 0:30:44.480 --> 0:30:46.720 that's something it's just with women having that conversation with 0:30:46.920 --> 0:30:52.680 young boys, not women to go. Yeah. Absolutely, I was 0:30:53.760 --> 0:30:56.200 trying to find any girl that would suck me like 0:30:56.240 --> 0:30:57.960 I was. That's all I was trying to do. And 0:30:58.040 --> 0:31:01.400 see at that age, what's the difference with like the 0:31:01.440 --> 0:31:03.680 drinking and the consensual thing now is like when you're 0:31:03.680 --> 0:31:06.120 a teenager, you're just wanting rolt and running rampant. But 0:31:06.120 --> 0:31:08.680 the other thing is that I think it's really important 0:31:08.720 --> 0:31:13.680 now is when I have heard conversations with men discussing 0:31:13.720 --> 0:31:15.880 what they've learned about sex. It was more about protection 0:31:16.360 --> 0:31:19.280 where condoms use this, that's the conversation you have. But 0:31:19.360 --> 0:31:22.080 it's not necessarily about the whole consent thing. Because when 0:31:22.120 --> 0:31:23.800 I was in high school, there were so many girls 0:31:23.880 --> 0:31:25.760 that felt pressured to do things that they did not 0:31:25.840 --> 0:31:28.720 want to do and um, and that was the majority 0:31:28.720 --> 0:31:30.400 of my conversations. And then as I got older, I 0:31:30.480 --> 0:31:32.600 got in the conversation of like making sure I put 0:31:32.600 --> 0:31:35.760 myself in the right situations and being responsible for holding 0:31:35.760 --> 0:31:39.960 my liquor. However, I still don't want to say that 0:31:39.960 --> 0:31:44.040 that necessarily means that a woman should feel blame on herself. 0:31:44.120 --> 0:31:46.719 I never said that she feels were saying, I know, 0:31:46.840 --> 0:31:50.240 I'm just having a conversation on my own. No, no, 0:31:50.480 --> 0:31:53.800 I'm saying that generally, when we talk about responsibility with women, 0:31:54.200 --> 0:31:56.560 it also can be a thing where it's just like, well, girl, 0:31:56.600 --> 0:31:58.600 you was sucked up and that's the thing. You shouldn't 0:31:58.600 --> 0:32:01.840 expect someone to violate you, obviously, But the thing is like, 0:32:02.760 --> 0:32:05.440 we have to be also aware of our own tolerance 0:32:05.440 --> 0:32:08.840 as girls. I think especially your your your tribe to write. 0:32:08.920 --> 0:32:10.920 I know there's a I don't want to say who 0:32:10.960 --> 0:32:12.440 it is, but there's a girl I hang out with 0:32:12.480 --> 0:32:14.640 it I just always feel like doesn't have my best interests. 0:32:15.000 --> 0:32:16.440 She's fun to party with, but I'm just like, I 0:32:16.440 --> 0:32:18.240 ain't gonna get it too sunked up around her, the 0:32:18.280 --> 0:32:20.000 girl that we just that you just met them. I 0:32:20.080 --> 0:32:21.920 know it's ten years when I'm went up, I'll be 0:32:21.920 --> 0:32:23.960 looking at it like, bitch, I'm getting sucked up tonight, 0:32:24.240 --> 0:32:26.680 So you can't get that funked up because I'm getting trash. 0:32:26.720 --> 0:32:28.680 She'd be like, oh okay, and I feel like, what's 0:32:28.720 --> 0:32:31.600 your people like that bitches can be like have my back, 0:32:32.000 --> 0:32:33.920 I'm gonna be the one, and you have to be 0:32:34.000 --> 0:32:36.800 very honest, like with your friend, like hold me down. 0:32:37.000 --> 0:32:39.840 And I think it's a thing that girls don't maybe 0:32:40.160 --> 0:32:42.840 even check enough with their friends, make sure them bitches. 0:32:42.920 --> 0:32:45.880 Now I view the cock blocking friend much different than 0:32:45.920 --> 0:32:48.480 I did when I was younger, Like way different. It's 0:32:48.480 --> 0:32:51.080 a totally different thing because I'll imagine that she knows 0:32:51.120 --> 0:32:54.440 her and she knows that all right, she's probably not 0:32:54.520 --> 0:32:56.280 in the right state of mind to make a good decision, 0:32:58.040 --> 0:33:00.280 and it's coming from I'm not trying to be I'm 0:33:00.400 --> 0:33:02.200 never the moral high ground guy. I never want to 0:33:02.240 --> 0:33:06.280 come acrosses that or anything. It's a selfish reason. Yeah, 0:33:06.320 --> 0:33:07.960 I know that could get me fucked up. I don't 0:33:08.000 --> 0:33:10.880 get about her now. I agree. I agree all from 0:33:10.920 --> 0:33:13.160 a selfish point. You got to you're the guy in 0:33:13.200 --> 0:33:15.880 the situation. And I think too. I think it's smart 0:33:15.960 --> 0:33:18.000 that you said that. You guys talk about it with 0:33:18.120 --> 0:33:21.000 going to do say Pellusa and having each other's back. 0:33:21.040 --> 0:33:23.000 But I think that. But I mean, it's all different 0:33:23.480 --> 0:33:25.680 maybe in the early days now that it's a job. 0:33:26.000 --> 0:33:28.880 Right now, it's when you even go out to party, 0:33:28.960 --> 0:33:30.560 even say, if it's not do say or a lot 0:33:30.640 --> 0:33:33.160 of guys who have groups of friends. You go out 0:33:33.160 --> 0:33:34.840 with groups of friends often, and I think that it's 0:33:34.880 --> 0:33:38.680 important that everyone kind of knows where everybody's mind say this, 0:33:39.040 --> 0:33:43.560 and they also would do say Pellusa. One person represents 0:33:43.600 --> 0:33:48.440 all of us. I'm not imagining something two more. This 0:33:48.520 --> 0:33:51.200 is also selfish. I'm not being the moral high ground person. 0:33:52.000 --> 0:33:56.360 I know if someone does something questionable and now do 0:33:56.400 --> 0:33:59.280 say Pellusa did that? So no fucking way of mind 0:33:59.360 --> 0:34:03.160 to think about with music. When people die right then, 0:34:03.320 --> 0:34:06.080 like drunk a DC or something like that. Then it's 0:34:06.080 --> 0:34:07.800 like people go to e d C and they fucking die. 0:34:07.920 --> 0:34:09.560 Don't matter that there was a hundred thousand people at 0:34:09.560 --> 0:34:12.560 e DC Vegas. One person died and now we're all terrified. 0:34:12.600 --> 0:34:16.520 Like it totally represents your fucking brand, especially with liquor 0:34:16.640 --> 0:34:20.040 everywhere and as drunk women is. It's a mixture for 0:34:20.040 --> 0:34:21.680 something I want to be, but I want to be 0:34:21.680 --> 0:34:23.640 a safe slot. That's that's a good way to look 0:34:23.680 --> 0:34:28.080 at We're gonna, I guess, um, We're gonna go ahead 0:34:28.080 --> 0:34:31.400 and get so every episode we have kinks of the week. UM. 0:34:31.440 --> 0:34:34.880 And these are different kings that people may be into. UM, 0:34:35.000 --> 0:34:37.120 some things that maybe we're not into, some things we've 0:34:37.160 --> 0:34:41.040 never tried. Um. This one this week is actually very interesting. UM. 0:34:41.080 --> 0:34:43.760 And I didn't pick it because you're white, I promise. UM. 0:34:43.800 --> 0:34:48.960 So this one is called spectrophilia. UM. It is sexual 0:34:49.040 --> 0:34:53.160 attraction relationships or sexual encounters with ghosts who come and 0:34:53.200 --> 0:34:56.319 have hot sex with them. UM. A sucumust is a 0:34:56.360 --> 0:35:00.200 ghost in lady form that, in folkfare visits herd act 0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:03.520 of desire at night for some hot human ghost love making, 0:35:03.800 --> 0:35:07.680 and incubus is the mail variety. Though the actual existence 0:35:07.680 --> 0:35:10.680 of ghosts is up for debate, the sexual attraction that 0:35:10.760 --> 0:35:15.239 spectrophiles report feeling as real as any other fetish. And 0:35:15.280 --> 0:35:17.560 I brought this up and I said ghost because you white. 0:35:17.600 --> 0:35:21.560 I mean, I guess you know your ghostly transum. Wait, 0:35:21.600 --> 0:35:27.160 do you imagine just do I have consent with the ghost? 0:35:27.680 --> 0:35:30.319 Do you remember scary? Imagine? Don't imagine trying to tell 0:35:30.400 --> 0:35:33.920 someone a ghost raped you. Carmonal lecture that got a 0:35:33.960 --> 0:35:38.560 ghost and scary movie. It was scary. It was one 0:35:38.600 --> 0:35:42.240 of them. Somebody was you know, save on our intern 0:35:42.280 --> 0:35:46.680 works right, We're no, I don't think it was. I 0:35:46.719 --> 0:35:51.520 don't remember by the ghosts. Okay, there you go, there 0:35:51.560 --> 0:35:56.680 you got. Wasn't it good too? Like she loved and 0:35:57.080 --> 0:35:59.080 she became obsessed with the ghost Tony that you picked 0:35:59.080 --> 0:36:02.480 this cank'. I've listening to Charlottagne's audio book Black Privilege, 0:36:02.480 --> 0:36:04.759 and he talks about book. It's a great book, and 0:36:04.760 --> 0:36:07.040 he talks about how the ghost was jumping on the 0:36:07.239 --> 0:36:09.160 dancing his ship on his chest and I'm like, wait, 0:36:10.080 --> 0:36:12.319 this sound crazy. It was a real ghost, yes, and 0:36:12.360 --> 0:36:16.160 it's like a thing that goes on. Believe him too. 0:36:16.200 --> 0:36:17.879 He says that the ghosts, I don't think he's lying 0:36:17.920 --> 0:36:20.760 it on what do they call They're called wigs? Wait 0:36:20.800 --> 0:36:23.759 did the ghost? So the ghost they basically sit on 0:36:23.800 --> 0:36:25.880 your chest so where you can't wake up. It's like 0:36:26.120 --> 0:36:29.880 sleep paralysis. And basically what happens is you're awake, but 0:36:30.040 --> 0:36:32.120 these ghosts, these women are just jumping down on your chest, 0:36:32.200 --> 0:36:34.600 keeping you asleep. I'm lying like I read the book. Yes, No, 0:36:34.800 --> 0:36:36.759 I've had that happen to me mad Time's I was 0:36:36.800 --> 0:36:38.480 a kid. It happened to me a lot. Yes, when 0:36:38.480 --> 0:36:41.480 you can't get up, Yes, so like you're awake, your 0:36:41.560 --> 0:36:43.640 but your body was Yes, you can't move like, but 0:36:43.760 --> 0:36:47.840 you're subconsciously around you know what's going on since But 0:36:47.880 --> 0:36:49.560 it's just like, is that really? I mean, I guess 0:36:50.280 --> 0:36:53.960 would you would y'all like or sow the ghost? Look? 0:36:54.880 --> 0:36:57.560 I mean, do ghost have more? So your fantasy? Is 0:36:57.560 --> 0:37:01.640 it the fantasy? Right? Because broadly dot Vice dot com 0:37:01.640 --> 0:37:04.920 shot outs to vice, um they actually just wrote a story, 0:37:05.520 --> 0:37:09.240 UM that fed up with mortal men, women are having 0:37:09.280 --> 0:37:11.960 sex with ghosts. Two women recently came out about their 0:37:11.960 --> 0:37:15.279 sexual experiences, but they're not the first to claim they've 0:37:15.280 --> 0:37:18.560 gotten intimate with paranormal Um. I'll put the link in 0:37:18.680 --> 0:37:22.759 the description of this bile, but basically, um, yeah, two 0:37:22.800 --> 0:37:25.520 women came out and said that they enjoyed having sex 0:37:25.520 --> 0:37:27.640 with a ghost. I don't know if that's something that 0:37:27.840 --> 0:37:30.680 I necessarily I don't know. I mean I would do it. 0:37:31.000 --> 0:37:33.040 I mean, like, let's say I was at a actually 0:37:33.040 --> 0:37:39.440 this right, yeah, Look, she's like, yeah, we had the conversation. 0:37:40.200 --> 0:37:42.800 I mean, I'm an open relation. Like look, um, old Lester, 0:37:42.880 --> 0:37:53.799 who you do not like unless you're sounding like old um. 0:37:54.520 --> 0:37:56.719 The hotel I stayed in with Dove actually in Seattle, 0:37:57.480 --> 0:37:59.120 and her kept saying, like, isn't this creepy? Why are 0:37:59.160 --> 0:38:00.759 there all these natives mary can people in the wall. 0:38:00.800 --> 0:38:03.000 They're like these black and white photos. Come to find 0:38:03.000 --> 0:38:05.880 out from the bartender downstairs, the hotel was haunted and 0:38:05.920 --> 0:38:09.000 someone jumped off the floor above us to their death. 0:38:09.520 --> 0:38:12.680 Bro All, I kept thinking to night. Every time I 0:38:12.680 --> 0:38:14.319 looked over to sleep, she was sleep. I'm like, bitch, 0:38:14.360 --> 0:38:16.239 if I get fucked, you're gonna hear me right, Like 0:38:16.239 --> 0:38:17.799 you're gonna feel it, right, You're gonna feel the wind. 0:38:17.840 --> 0:38:20.000 Because I kept thinking there'd be a ghost to come 0:38:20.040 --> 0:38:21.720 in here. I feel like I'm a cute girl, and 0:38:21.880 --> 0:38:23.480 you know what, I'm saying I'm a horny girl. I 0:38:23.520 --> 0:38:27.200 probably saw me masturbing. They're like the ghost would just 0:38:27.200 --> 0:38:32.120 have to have a big I just like big dick energy. Baby. 0:38:33.680 --> 0:38:35.440 I want to know, are you getting big dick energy 0:38:35.520 --> 0:38:37.239 from Rory? I don't. I don't know white guys, so 0:38:37.280 --> 0:38:39.600 I can't tell, but you could maybe do white guy 0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:42.800 big dick energy. I don't know about big dick energy, 0:38:43.000 --> 0:38:46.400 but good sex energy, only because you haven't seemed too 0:38:46.560 --> 0:38:49.160 pressed about sex, and you're always seeming very chill. And 0:38:49.200 --> 0:38:55.120 I noticed when men seem real chill, sex brought the wine. 0:38:55.200 --> 0:39:00.080 That's what. Yeah, you are bringing one horrible decisions and 0:39:00.360 --> 0:39:04.080 caps capas do be fucking. Plus, you got a guy 0:39:04.080 --> 0:39:06.000 Andese girl, and I feel like any women of afroes 0:39:06.040 --> 0:39:08.400 sent the white boys. So let me ask you that too, 0:39:08.480 --> 0:39:11.280 As a white boy, do have you mostly steered towards 0:39:11.280 --> 0:39:13.719 interracial dating and fucking black women and black pussy and 0:39:13.920 --> 0:39:17.160 a note sweeter the berry the juice. I mean it's 0:39:17.160 --> 0:39:23.120 around more typically the circle that's around okay, but with 0:39:23.440 --> 0:39:27.680 white women, Spanish women, black women. But do you have 0:39:27.680 --> 0:39:29.520 a type you think you've noticed. No, I don't think 0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:31.319 I have a type at all. You don't have at 0:39:31.320 --> 0:39:35.160 all shapes faces. I don't think I I like that, 0:39:35.239 --> 0:39:37.719 but that actually gets us into our horrible decision. Oh 0:39:37.760 --> 0:39:39.200 wait wait, before we do that, I just want to 0:39:39.600 --> 0:39:42.799 drop an ad we got to if you guys are 0:39:42.960 --> 0:39:47.160 podcasters or want to grow your podcast, want to start 0:39:47.160 --> 0:39:49.840 a podcast. There is going to be a seminar um 0:39:49.880 --> 0:39:53.120 from God Gotham Podcast Studio. It's their first annual one 0:39:53.160 --> 0:39:55.799 on a Saturday, September fifteen, from two to five. I'm 0:39:55.800 --> 0:39:58.360 gonna be talking about Horrible Decisions journey, how we started 0:39:58.400 --> 0:40:00.880 from a small studio to funding our live show to 0:40:01.400 --> 0:40:04.399 getting a loud speaker and a loud speaker, and um, 0:40:04.440 --> 0:40:06.640 I'm gonna talk about the pitfalls we've experienced about growing 0:40:06.640 --> 0:40:07.920 our show. I'll be doing a Q and A and 0:40:07.920 --> 0:40:10.040 if you have any questions, make sure to purchase your ticket. 0:40:10.080 --> 0:40:11.839 Follow me on. I g to see when tickets drop 0:40:12.120 --> 0:40:15.919 at Wheezy w TF and let's get back um So, 0:40:16.200 --> 0:40:18.759 I mean yeah, no, it'll be a super dope to um. 0:40:18.840 --> 0:40:21.680 So for the horribleich division, you know, we kind of 0:40:21.719 --> 0:40:24.600 just brought it, brought it to full circle. He went 0:40:24.640 --> 0:40:26.640 ahead and kind of introduced it. I guess it's kind 0:40:26.640 --> 0:40:28.840 of going to be more of a conversation. The reason 0:40:28.880 --> 0:40:30.880 that I wanted to do this though, is because on 0:40:31.080 --> 0:40:34.239 Mall's episode right who is Your co Host? Mall had 0:40:34.280 --> 0:40:36.880 an episode with us called hose be Like, And so 0:40:37.040 --> 0:40:40.200 we talked about all of the ho jobs quote unquote, 0:40:40.200 --> 0:40:42.120 like if you're really a home what do you do? 0:40:42.520 --> 0:40:46.719 They were like, what was it? Real estate agents, makeup artists, 0:40:46.760 --> 0:40:48.560 all of that ship, And so I thought, okay, what 0:40:48.760 --> 0:40:51.920 was like the Larry David of thinking about host? He 0:40:52.000 --> 0:40:56.400 was his life is carbon enthusiasm of at and be like, 0:40:56.440 --> 0:40:59.239 no no, but he doesn't figure out women. That's I'll 0:40:59.280 --> 0:41:01.239 be listening to no no, no, no. I'm not saying 0:41:01.840 --> 0:41:06.040 I'm like women. All is a good person. If you 0:41:06.080 --> 0:41:14.560 need like a report, Mall alert, he's out there with 0:41:14.640 --> 0:41:16.719 them like that, but he knows. But not only that 0:41:16.920 --> 0:41:18.680 he was a good friend to guide you, but he's 0:41:18.719 --> 0:41:21.640 friends with all the hoss niggas. And then he's also 0:41:21.719 --> 0:41:26.480 just his friends with me, so his friends his hole niggas. 0:41:26.520 --> 0:41:28.319 I actually really wanted it all on together, but I 0:41:28.360 --> 0:41:30.520 feel like, you know, maybe we can get into the 0:41:30.560 --> 0:41:33.640 more sensitive side because I feel like, yeah, Mama is 0:41:33.640 --> 0:41:35.359 a good a good friend for girls. So that makes 0:41:35.400 --> 0:41:37.239 sense too. He actually knows a lot of one. He 0:41:37.320 --> 0:41:39.720 is very sensitive. I like him. You got a girlfriend. 0:41:40.560 --> 0:41:41.759 I feel like you might be more in touch with 0:41:41.760 --> 0:41:44.600 your feelings right now. Will all be around? I don't 0:41:44.600 --> 0:41:46.239 think that's to do with a girl. Well, no, a 0:41:46.280 --> 0:41:48.560 girl can help you find your feelings. Yeah, and so 0:41:48.640 --> 0:41:50.200 maybe so I know. But and this is why we 0:41:50.239 --> 0:41:53.200 need you because I think I'm scared of women that 0:41:53.239 --> 0:41:55.680 don't have male friends, and I'm scared of men that 0:41:55.760 --> 0:41:59.279 don't have female friends. That don't even start because that's 0:41:59.280 --> 0:42:02.720 one of your things. There's things that women, only women 0:42:02.760 --> 0:42:05.360 can teach you about yourself, Like if you're just friends 0:42:05.400 --> 0:42:09.640 with men, there's certain parts of your personality and reactions 0:42:09.760 --> 0:42:13.560 that won't come out like women teaching things. And that's 0:42:13.600 --> 0:42:15.720 I'm scared of any girl that doesn't have male friends. 0:42:15.760 --> 0:42:18.000 That's terrifying to me. And was like, Yo, watch out 0:42:18.040 --> 0:42:21.719 for her brother quote unquote, Nope, keep the brother. There's 0:42:21.719 --> 0:42:23.440 certain things you need to talk to him. But you're 0:42:23.480 --> 0:42:26.520 not concerned that a girl with guy friends is fucking 0:42:26.560 --> 0:42:29.680 those guys. We well know a lot of guys do. 0:42:29.800 --> 0:42:31.759 Like some guys, some guys have a problem with you 0:42:31.800 --> 0:42:34.440 having all these bros. There's certain things that you need 0:42:34.480 --> 0:42:37.040 a platonic relationship. There's certain things I can't tell my 0:42:37.160 --> 0:42:41.560 girl that another man could give. It. Think Home Girl's 0:42:41.560 --> 0:42:47.360 gonna be like, now you write, bitch, they're wrong. I 0:42:47.440 --> 0:42:51.000 tell my friends i'nna be honest with you. Generally, I 0:42:51.000 --> 0:42:53.040 don't care what y'all say. My friends will check me 0:42:53.040 --> 0:42:56.280 when I'm wrong. But women do side with their girls, 0:42:56.280 --> 0:43:00.319 whereas a male will bring you a different perspectives the ship. 0:43:00.920 --> 0:43:03.680 I always target her friend. I never really could game 0:43:03.760 --> 0:43:08.120 to her. I always want her friend over the easiest way, 0:43:08.200 --> 0:43:09.719 and that's what you should be doing because you want 0:43:09.719 --> 0:43:11.719 the friends co sign. So the reason I said that 0:43:11.760 --> 0:43:13.040 I felt like, you know it could be the quote 0:43:13.080 --> 0:43:15.440 unquote more sensitive is because mall did hose be like, 0:43:15.640 --> 0:43:18.400 so you're the horrible decision this week is girlfriends be Like. 0:43:18.760 --> 0:43:21.080 You have a girl, and I asked you about what 0:43:21.160 --> 0:43:23.399 qualities that you like in a woman and I and 0:43:23.440 --> 0:43:25.120 we have a lot of episodes where we talked about 0:43:25.160 --> 0:43:26.640 what we need from men, what we want from men. 0:43:27.000 --> 0:43:29.080 But I do know that we have a lot of 0:43:29.080 --> 0:43:30.640 women that listen to this show, and I feel like 0:43:30.680 --> 0:43:34.239 it's vital for someone that's in a relationship. Um, and 0:43:34.320 --> 0:43:37.600 it's going well to discuss what you found in her 0:43:37.840 --> 0:43:41.000 or what you need to find in women to settle down. Uh. 0:43:41.000 --> 0:43:43.440 And the first thing you said was self awareness for 0:43:43.719 --> 0:43:45.399 in her, So can you talk about what you mean 0:43:45.440 --> 0:43:49.279 by that. That's people in general you need. I think 0:43:49.320 --> 0:43:52.240 it's Louis c. K that has a quote, the quote 0:43:52.360 --> 0:43:54.800 self love is great, but self awareness is more important. 0:43:55.239 --> 0:43:58.680 It's I caption you like, I don't think you can 0:43:58.800 --> 0:44:02.120 have any relate ship with somebody until you're self aware 0:44:02.120 --> 0:44:04.479 of how you react and how you do. We're all human, 0:44:04.520 --> 0:44:06.759 so we're gonna funk up and do a lot of things. 0:44:06.800 --> 0:44:08.759 We're gonna say things we don't mean. We're going to 0:44:08.840 --> 0:44:11.839 react to things that we don't necessarily mean or want 0:44:11.880 --> 0:44:14.959 out there. But you need to be aware that it happened. Yeah. 0:44:15.960 --> 0:44:18.719 I don't like people that say, like, deal with me. 0:44:19.400 --> 0:44:21.160 I hate that, Like, what if you're a shitty person? 0:44:21.880 --> 0:44:24.800 Like I don't I think that whatever right now, I 0:44:24.840 --> 0:44:27.080 don't think that's a good mind state to have. Like, 0:44:27.520 --> 0:44:29.080 you know, you're just gonna have to handle me because 0:44:29.120 --> 0:44:33.360 the person right, I'm not handling you right, Like he 0:44:33.400 --> 0:44:37.680 couldn't handle me. I didn't want to. It's it's way different. 0:44:37.680 --> 0:44:39.080 People need to be self aware and can you talk 0:44:39.120 --> 0:44:42.279 about why that is so unattractive from a deeper because 0:44:42.280 --> 0:44:44.200 I why I said you get my pussy right right 0:44:44.200 --> 0:44:45.680 now is because I feel like when people say that 0:44:45.719 --> 0:44:48.480 about themselves, they're not willing to self reflect and change 0:44:48.520 --> 0:44:50.600 on what could be wrong. They just feel like whatever 0:44:50.680 --> 0:44:52.680 comes with their package you have to put up with, 0:44:52.920 --> 0:44:55.319 and people think that you can't change. The stiest way 0:44:55.360 --> 0:44:59.799 to it is enter into a relationship. Friend. It's also 0:44:59.840 --> 0:45:02.359 some thing that people feel like if you say, oh, 0:45:02.440 --> 0:45:04.560 I'm it's like they're being proud of who they are. 0:45:05.000 --> 0:45:08.080 But that pride also comes off as arrogance because you 0:45:08.160 --> 0:45:10.640 can't sit and think where can I change? Where can 0:45:10.680 --> 0:45:13.160 I do better? And that's a big deal. Why a 0:45:13.200 --> 0:45:15.120 lot of people who have partnerships that aren't work our 0:45:15.160 --> 0:45:17.040 relationship excuse me? You know what I mean. You are 0:45:17.080 --> 0:45:19.000 a partner in a relationship, but somehow I gotta pull 0:45:19.040 --> 0:45:21.600 up with your bullshit. Yeah no, I'm cool on that. 0:45:22.320 --> 0:45:24.440 Get the funk away from me. If you're the same person, 0:45:24.560 --> 0:45:26.080 if you wake up the same person every day, get 0:45:26.280 --> 0:45:27.880 away from me. What's something that your girlfriend's done to 0:45:27.920 --> 0:45:29.480 let you know that she's self aware, whether it be 0:45:29.520 --> 0:45:32.920 an argument or something early on, or we have I mean, 0:45:32.920 --> 0:45:36.480 I wouldn't say this one specific thing, but now we 0:45:36.520 --> 0:45:38.800 still have the blow ups like everyone else. We just 0:45:38.800 --> 0:45:40.400 scream at each other until you get your anger out. 0:45:41.040 --> 0:45:43.920 But the next day it's always Men are very simple. 0:45:44.960 --> 0:45:47.200 I'm gonna I'm gonna, I'm gonnain how men are simple. 0:45:47.360 --> 0:45:50.359 I'm gonna try to shift the conversation a bit. I'm 0:45:50.360 --> 0:45:53.719 still going to answer the question. Men can choose a 0:45:53.760 --> 0:45:55.920 girl just by when they wake up after they if 0:45:55.920 --> 0:45:58.879 they still want you to be there. Men are very 0:45:58.920 --> 0:46:03.520 simple in that way. So with her, after I have 0:46:03.600 --> 0:46:07.120 the argument, I still want to be around you. That's 0:46:07.120 --> 0:46:10.000 a big thing For men. We're very simple. If we 0:46:10.040 --> 0:46:14.440 still want you there, that means a lot on brilliant idiots, 0:46:14.440 --> 0:46:16.160 he said after I funk, if I stole on you around, 0:46:16.160 --> 0:46:18.319 I know, I like you know. That's that's really how 0:46:18.320 --> 0:46:20.520 simple it is with men. There's a complex thing there, 0:46:20.719 --> 0:46:24.320 but the idea is very simple. So her self awareness 0:46:24.320 --> 0:46:26.920 just comes from I know I'm not talking to a wall. 0:46:27.960 --> 0:46:30.080 I know she's going to take some accountability I'll take 0:46:30.080 --> 0:46:32.400 some accountability and we'll move on. The second thing you 0:46:32.440 --> 0:46:35.160 said is, um, you want someone who's objective. Can you elaborate? 0:46:36.040 --> 0:46:38.239 It goes back to self awareness, to be able to 0:46:38.280 --> 0:46:42.399 look at things without your feelings there, get your feelings out. 0:46:42.400 --> 0:46:45.600 I'm a very emotional person too, so I'll yell when 0:46:46.120 --> 0:46:49.120 even if I'm wrong. Yea, But afterwards I need to 0:46:49.120 --> 0:46:51.440 be objective and realize, Hey, all right, I was just 0:46:51.560 --> 0:46:54.480 yelling that I was wrong there. Now you also put 0:46:54.600 --> 0:46:56.759 which I hated this outline ship you I'll really like 0:46:56.880 --> 0:47:03.040 do preproduction being was sold to her like we're already here. 0:47:03.120 --> 0:47:07.760 I feel like you. But the things that you picked 0:47:07.760 --> 0:47:09.480 are I mean, we did a list to them all too, 0:47:09.600 --> 0:47:12.719 and I like this list because these are things that 0:47:12.760 --> 0:47:16.040 I felt like is very crucial to a relationship. The 0:47:16.080 --> 0:47:17.919 next thing you said is, I mean I can read 0:47:17.960 --> 0:47:20.880 them off if that makes you all feel better. Presence 0:47:22.200 --> 0:47:25.600 her own set of friends, a life outside of us, 0:47:25.719 --> 0:47:28.680 and motherly quality. So let's go right back to presence. 0:47:28.880 --> 0:47:30.360 What do you mean why she needs to have presence 0:47:31.960 --> 0:47:34.279 distance relationship like no, no, no, no no no no, 0:47:34.320 --> 0:47:38.680 I meant, uh, I guess energy was like I've always 0:47:38.680 --> 0:47:40.719 been drawn to women that walk in a room. And 0:47:40.800 --> 0:47:44.200 sometimes it's not like she's the prettiest girl in the 0:47:44.280 --> 0:47:47.480 room or the most known girl in the room. There's 0:47:47.480 --> 0:47:49.560 certain women when you walk in it's like, oh, she 0:47:49.760 --> 0:47:52.280 just walked in the room. I find that very sexy 0:47:52.320 --> 0:47:56.160 about women. I see you was your presence of the 0:47:56.200 --> 0:47:58.719 word you used better than sounding shallow and saying she 0:47:58.800 --> 0:48:02.000 gotta be fine. Well, no, I'm shollowing that sense to 0:48:03.640 --> 0:48:06.120 I don't understand what people trying to do that bullshit. 0:48:06.320 --> 0:48:08.600 I think that I think people feel drunk about wanting 0:48:08.600 --> 0:48:11.239 someone attractive sometimes like saying that they need that. What 0:48:11.800 --> 0:48:13.759 people do say like oh well you want someone that 0:48:13.800 --> 0:48:16.360 looks like this and blah blah blah. But to be realistic, 0:48:16.680 --> 0:48:22.799 relationships at last are the ones that attractive. But trust me, 0:48:23.000 --> 0:48:25.200 when you're talking about qualities and people talk about things 0:48:25.200 --> 0:48:26.759 they want to make for some reason, when they talk 0:48:26.800 --> 0:48:30.120 about attractiveness or things that are aesthetic, there's almost like 0:48:31.239 --> 0:48:33.480 this conversation about like, that's not such a big deal. 0:48:33.520 --> 0:48:35.920 But in my eyes, if you're still attracted to each 0:48:35.960 --> 0:48:38.520 other from a long term perspective, you're gonna suck me 0:48:38.560 --> 0:48:41.040 all the time. You're gonna want me around, You're gonna 0:48:41.120 --> 0:48:42.759 feel like your wife is fine. Think about people to 0:48:42.880 --> 0:48:44.880 have been together for a long time, they sound to 0:48:44.920 --> 0:48:47.120 me like they still fun. And if we still fucking, 0:48:47.160 --> 0:48:49.320 it's because I want to fuck you. I like looking 0:48:49.360 --> 0:48:52.759 at you like this is a big deal. Like when 0:48:52.800 --> 0:48:55.080 me and my girl, we're not together, Like I guess 0:48:55.120 --> 0:48:58.720 the first part of getting to know each other. Anytime 0:48:58.719 --> 0:49:01.200 we see it each other out event, I'd immediately go 0:49:01.280 --> 0:49:02.759 to her and we would not leave each other side 0:49:02.800 --> 0:49:05.480 for the whole ship. Like that's presence to me. Anytime 0:49:05.560 --> 0:49:07.040 she walked in, I was like, all right, let me 0:49:07.040 --> 0:49:09.239 go talk to her, and then we would never leave 0:49:09.280 --> 0:49:11.680 each other's hip for the whole party. So I think 0:49:11.760 --> 0:49:15.160 that brought us to that next level. So presence is 0:49:15.200 --> 0:49:18.640 like really really big for me with women, and I 0:49:18.680 --> 0:49:20.719 think that's I think that's subjective to I don't think. 0:49:21.280 --> 0:49:24.120 I don't think every girl has presence to everybody, But 0:49:24.160 --> 0:49:28.239 I think, what do you mean by she's got to 0:49:28.280 --> 0:49:32.200 have her own set of friends? We need separation from 0:49:32.239 --> 0:49:33.719 each other. Yeah, I don't know if it's because I'm 0:49:33.719 --> 0:49:35.600 my only child, but I like to be alone, like 0:49:35.640 --> 0:49:38.480 you need to go out and do ship like we 0:49:38.600 --> 0:49:41.120 both need to have whole separate worlds. You need to 0:49:41.160 --> 0:49:42.799 go do your thing and I need to do It's 0:49:42.840 --> 0:49:45.120 crazy that you say that as a guy, because I've 0:49:45.120 --> 0:49:48.080 been friends with so many um women that when they 0:49:48.120 --> 0:49:51.960 get into relationships, they now no longer have us as friends. 0:49:52.200 --> 0:49:54.959 They literally have a boyfriend and now you don't see 0:49:54.960 --> 0:49:58.120 her anymore. If we don't want to bring her boyfriends 0:49:58.160 --> 0:50:01.600 and sister, go hang with whoever. Just we need separation 0:50:01.719 --> 0:50:04.920 for both of us. It's not for people that share friends. 0:50:04.960 --> 0:50:07.280 This is the problem. You get a lot of drama 0:50:07.320 --> 0:50:09.840 between the two. Right. So you let's say that you 0:50:09.920 --> 0:50:11.800 have a friend. Let's say you have a couple that 0:50:11.880 --> 0:50:14.360 your friends with another couple and you tell the wife something, 0:50:14.800 --> 0:50:17.360 then the wife tell the husband something. Then suddenly it's like, 0:50:17.400 --> 0:50:20.800 why am I talking to But this is not Couples 0:50:21.000 --> 0:50:23.880 are friends with other couples, and that ship happens, and 0:50:24.000 --> 0:50:27.319 my lie, Chris, that ship is fucking real. People will 0:50:27.360 --> 0:50:28.840 share something with the wife and then it gets to 0:50:28.840 --> 0:50:30.640 the husband, and then the boys speak and it starts 0:50:30.640 --> 0:50:32.840 a whole thing. You don't have your own set of 0:50:32.920 --> 0:50:37.360 friends separate from the relationship. It's fucking I think I 0:50:37.360 --> 0:50:42.600 think you have to keep in mind where people's loyalty falls. Like, 0:50:42.680 --> 0:50:47.840 for example, if my girl meets some of my like, 0:50:47.920 --> 0:50:51.360 of course my girl's friends with my friends, Yeah, but 0:50:52.960 --> 0:50:55.719 she still knows that those are my friends. Yeah, their 0:50:55.760 --> 0:50:59.560 loyalty will always fall on my side no matter how 0:50:59.560 --> 0:51:02.480 close they it, and vice versa, like if I'm super 0:51:02.480 --> 0:51:06.000 cool with her friends, I'm not looking to your friends 0:51:06.000 --> 0:51:08.239 to fall on my side all the time, right, or 0:51:08.239 --> 0:51:12.839 even for advice. If we break up tomorrow, my friends 0:51:12.880 --> 0:51:15.239 are coming with me, Yeah, they're not going with that. 0:51:15.239 --> 0:51:18.279 I mean, they'll be cool, but yeah, you need to 0:51:18.280 --> 0:51:19.879 have that separation. And I think a lot of bitches 0:51:19.880 --> 0:51:22.080 will hit up homeboys and be like, O can you 0:51:22.080 --> 0:51:24.120 blah blah blah blah blah. That should have sucking trash. 0:51:24.200 --> 0:51:26.319 So I kind of wanted to steer this conversation. I 0:51:26.320 --> 0:51:29.560 wanted to ask you what makes a girl? And clearly 0:51:29.560 --> 0:51:31.239 this is all your opinion, but I think a lot 0:51:31.239 --> 0:51:33.200 of girls like to hear things like this, what in 0:51:33.239 --> 0:51:36.799 your mind makes a girl unwifeable? Like you guys talk 0:51:36.840 --> 0:51:39.319 about it a lot on on even your podcast with 0:51:39.600 --> 0:51:41.719 Maul will say, oh I can't I went on wife 0:51:41.760 --> 0:51:43.360 a girl who does this? Or I wouldn't cup for a 0:51:43.320 --> 0:51:46.920 a girl who does this? What really complex? It is? 0:51:47.920 --> 0:51:51.560 Specific answer? What things kind of would make a girl unwifeable? Like? 0:51:51.760 --> 0:51:53.600 So one of the questions we asked um and I 0:51:53.600 --> 0:51:55.680 can't remember behave here at the end of the day. 0:51:55.800 --> 0:51:57.160 This is the question I wanted to ask you all 0:51:57.200 --> 0:52:00.400 at your at your podcast. If a girl has past 0:52:01.400 --> 0:52:04.279 or has sucked off on quite a few niggas, is 0:52:04.320 --> 0:52:07.800 that something that she should tell you in the beginning. 0:52:07.880 --> 0:52:09.799 Is this something she should tell you at all? Is 0:52:09.800 --> 0:52:11.759 it something that you would have to be a problem with, 0:52:12.360 --> 0:52:14.480 because this is again a conversation I've heard y'all kind 0:52:14.480 --> 0:52:17.120 of touched on. But I mean, what's what the girls passed? 0:52:17.560 --> 0:52:20.040 How much do you care for a girl's past? And 0:52:20.560 --> 0:52:23.160 hypothetical as if I'm talking to a new woman, I'm 0:52:23.200 --> 0:52:28.920 twenty years old. I know you fucked, like I know 0:52:29.040 --> 0:52:32.239 you've been in these streets. Just tell me if it's 0:52:32.280 --> 0:52:34.920 something that's going to enter our world or something I 0:52:35.000 --> 0:52:38.440 need a heads up on. Don't let me walk in 0:52:38.480 --> 0:52:42.160 a room and look stupid. Now, if she tells you 0:52:42.239 --> 0:52:44.719 she's fucked two guys in the room, say there are 0:52:44.719 --> 0:52:47.160 people that you do know? No, No, I'm not saying 0:52:47.160 --> 0:52:48.880 to the to the degree like if we walk in 0:52:48.880 --> 0:52:50.279 a room, you gotta pull me aside and be like, yo, 0:52:50.320 --> 0:52:52.880 I sucked them. That's like a really weird conversation. That 0:52:52.920 --> 0:52:57.160 would be really weird. But if it's gonna present itself 0:52:58.160 --> 0:53:01.560 where I have to interact with somebody or there's some 0:53:01.600 --> 0:53:04.360 closeness that me and this gentleman are going to have 0:53:04.360 --> 0:53:07.239 to deal with each other, you mentioned it. What about 0:53:07.280 --> 0:53:09.600 from an industry perspective, Like let's say that you you're 0:53:09.600 --> 0:53:11.920 a podcaster, there's other podcasters. You meet a girl and 0:53:11.960 --> 0:53:13.879 she do you feel like she has to tell you 0:53:13.960 --> 0:53:16.719 that she might have sued one of the ops or 0:53:17.160 --> 0:53:22.759 you know, I don't have any ops podcast, but I 0:53:22.960 --> 0:53:25.760 know people cross side not shout out to Kid Fury 0:53:25.800 --> 0:53:32.320 for his show, Oh my God with the HBO deal. 0:53:32.600 --> 0:53:35.879 Damn he list, And we were talking about it before 0:53:35.920 --> 0:53:38.960 the show, like we feel like, as other podcasters are 0:53:39.080 --> 0:53:42.120 entering different realms, that it's opening doors for the rest 0:53:42.120 --> 0:53:44.239 of us. And I'm not gonna lie. Even seeing you 0:53:44.280 --> 0:53:46.440 guys go on tour. Y'all did a whole East Coast 0:53:46.440 --> 0:53:49.040 tour and West Coast tour, and I'm like, yo, that 0:53:49.080 --> 0:53:51.560 could be us one day, like, I don't know four cities. 0:53:52.600 --> 0:53:54.520 You did two in Vegas in the same night. How 0:53:54.560 --> 0:53:57.640 the fuck. It's interesting because a lot of venues are 0:53:57.680 --> 0:53:59.719 against it. They're like, what do you mean podcasts? They 0:53:59.760 --> 0:54:03.759 don't they don't know. And I don't want it for 0:54:03.840 --> 0:54:06.040 us to take the credit for the Highlane thing, because 0:54:06.080 --> 0:54:08.040 I know Highlan was already moving in a direction to 0:54:08.160 --> 0:54:11.320 really put podcasts on, but they was in a space 0:54:11.360 --> 0:54:13.640 at one point like you're gonna fill this whole place 0:54:13.680 --> 0:54:15.800 to talk, get the funk out of here. Wait seriously, 0:54:15.920 --> 0:54:17.920 so we I mean we did that high Line ship 0:54:17.960 --> 0:54:20.480 first for everyone after words, but I mean they was 0:54:20.520 --> 0:54:22.440 going that way. I'm not trying to flex to say 0:54:22.440 --> 0:54:24.959 that we did that, but yeah, it takes. It takes. 0:54:25.560 --> 0:54:28.600 It takes a lot. It takes one podcast to prove 0:54:28.640 --> 0:54:30.800 to these people that podcasting is. Like so funny with 0:54:30.920 --> 0:54:32.640 Lanter and someone told me they were going to Sony 0:54:32.640 --> 0:54:34.680 Hall for a show. I said, oh, what podcast? He 0:54:34.760 --> 0:54:36.799 was like, no, it's a conserversa and it mean it 0:54:36.840 --> 0:54:38.759 made me think like wow, like you can fill up 0:54:38.800 --> 0:54:41.280 this place, um, and it was really humbling, Like Mandy 0:54:41.280 --> 0:54:42.839 and I both went to you Guys show in New York. 0:54:42.880 --> 0:54:44.960 It was great. It was and I remember sitting there 0:54:45.000 --> 0:54:47.840 and feeling excited that people knew who we were in 0:54:47.880 --> 0:54:49.880 that space, and then I was thinking, like I was 0:54:49.880 --> 0:54:52.080 sitting next to Alex, I said, wait, we can feel 0:54:52.120 --> 0:54:55.760 this up. We could do this. It's a great feeling 0:54:55.800 --> 0:54:59.000 to like be somewhere where Motherfucker's is getting on stage 0:54:59.040 --> 0:55:03.200 just saying and you're just getting on stage talk to talk. 0:55:04.080 --> 0:55:05.720 I mean maybe they want to hear about cream pies, 0:55:05.800 --> 0:55:07.839 so I get that. But you know, we keep our 0:55:07.840 --> 0:55:10.279 clothes on, yeah, we do. We don't do anything out 0:55:10.280 --> 0:55:11.759 the normal. I mean we did have a dick sucking 0:55:11.800 --> 0:55:13.960 contest that the first one with it wasn't with add 0:55:14.080 --> 0:55:15.880 I mean it wasn't what ad dick those with bananas. 0:55:16.080 --> 0:55:18.080 But I will say, like it's crazy being in this 0:55:18.160 --> 0:55:22.120 space to just shut you're laughing. I'm just happened. They 0:55:22.120 --> 0:55:23.680 were prompts and then they were like, hey, let's get 0:55:23.719 --> 0:55:25.480 someone from the audience and let's see who can put 0:55:25.520 --> 0:55:28.120 the most banana in their mouth. Um, you know, who 0:55:28.120 --> 0:55:30.919 has the deepest throat um. But no, just seeing what 0:55:31.000 --> 0:55:33.680 you're doing and seeing what kid Fury just did and 0:55:34.120 --> 0:55:36.760 just the book deals, seeing the stuff that's been happening 0:55:36.760 --> 0:55:39.840 with Joe and you got your Malla like everybody in 0:55:39.880 --> 0:55:42.719 your face on T shirts. I see that ship like 0:55:43.160 --> 0:55:45.759 holy But you know what, I also appreciate it's like 0:55:47.120 --> 0:55:50.719 you built your brand first with your show and as 0:55:51.120 --> 0:55:53.080 to where you're big enough to now you can do 0:55:53.160 --> 0:55:54.839 things on your own, because this is a thing like 0:55:55.880 --> 0:56:00.319 what can I am still horrible decisions weezy weezy. Really 0:56:00.360 --> 0:56:02.120 not anyone separate from this yet, and I have to 0:56:02.120 --> 0:56:09.279 be stands for horror, right, it does that stands for? 0:56:09.520 --> 0:56:12.040 But you know someone was asking me to do something, 0:56:12.040 --> 0:56:13.640 and it's like it's always going to be attached to 0:56:13.640 --> 0:56:17.200 horrible decisions. And the more that you grow, though, like yourself, 0:56:17.239 --> 0:56:19.319 you will just be rory. And that's the thing with 0:56:19.680 --> 0:56:22.000 when you get so big like Fury, you know, as 0:56:22.040 --> 0:56:23.960 much as you like to do from the Red Furious 0:56:24.000 --> 0:56:27.439 Fury now And like Lena Waith, I remember watching Master 0:56:27.520 --> 0:56:29.000 of None and thinking like, I hope I see the 0:56:29.040 --> 0:56:37.600 Black Girl again. She's right, she's super hus um. So 0:56:38.280 --> 0:56:40.600 to close that ship, I think it's great. I think 0:56:40.680 --> 0:56:44.000 everything that Charlemagne does I love that he's still in 0:56:44.040 --> 0:56:47.600 the podcasting world. Because whatever he does, whatever Charlomagne does 0:56:47.600 --> 0:56:51.520 well is good for everybody. Yeah. I remember when Elliott 0:56:51.520 --> 0:56:54.640 and Beata interviewed Hove. Nori had tweeted, this is a 0:56:54.640 --> 0:56:58.840 win for everybody, Like this is great that Hove realizes 0:56:58.960 --> 0:57:01.560 that this is the new way people want to consume 0:57:01.880 --> 0:57:04.600 their interviews, like what's his name? With the Will Smith interview, 0:57:05.480 --> 0:57:08.799 and it's all great. I know we joke about the 0:57:08.800 --> 0:57:11.160 podcast beef and Ship, like I know, people don't joke 0:57:11.200 --> 0:57:14.799 a lot about it. No, it's not real anything. I 0:57:14.840 --> 0:57:16.880 think at this point in this circle we have of 0:57:16.960 --> 0:57:20.040 successful podcast. Anything someone does is good for everybody. And 0:57:20.120 --> 0:57:21.840 I want to see Alex. We're talking at our show 0:57:21.960 --> 0:57:24.160 and I was like, are they Yelena? They smiling? What's 0:57:24.160 --> 0:57:26.000 going on? And then I remember walking over here and 0:57:26.040 --> 0:57:28.240 I'm like, oh, yeah, neis me in France, you know. 0:57:28.360 --> 0:57:31.320 And it's like you really never know, but it's like 0:57:31.360 --> 0:57:33.040 there is still a lane for everyone. I listen to 0:57:33.080 --> 0:57:37.560 both people think Me and Andrew hate each other. We 0:57:37.640 --> 0:57:43.080 held each other like which ship. Maybe we should edit 0:57:43.080 --> 0:57:44.760 this because I want people to think we hate each other. 0:57:47.800 --> 0:57:50.320 It's funny though, because you do bringing. It's kind of 0:57:50.360 --> 0:57:52.520 like when you do like the Tupac Worts, Biggie and 0:57:52.560 --> 0:57:55.040 the rap beef, like to know that there's real like 0:57:55.640 --> 0:57:58.800 podcast beef, like people and the comments I see, but 0:57:59.360 --> 0:58:01.800 did you hear what such and such set all through SoundCloud, 0:58:01.800 --> 0:58:04.120 all through YouTube, and I think it makes it fun though. 0:58:04.240 --> 0:58:06.160 I think it makes people want to go hear what 0:58:06.200 --> 0:58:08.240 they're saying about you guys and vice versus. So I 0:58:08.240 --> 0:58:11.560 think it works for you know, I'm not gonna say 0:58:11.560 --> 0:58:13.240 who was. Somebody spoke to me today it was like, 0:58:13.880 --> 0:58:16.680 you foul, I'm like for having Rory on the nigga Like, 0:58:17.200 --> 0:58:19.120 are you kidding me? Go ahead? Who said it? Now? 0:58:19.160 --> 0:58:25.880 You need to I want to fight fight. That's now 0:58:25.920 --> 0:58:29.400 you're gonna think us whack. I don't want to fight. 0:58:29.440 --> 0:58:31.320 I don't want to fight. Wax is not the first 0:58:31.920 --> 0:58:33.760 I mean. And that's the thing is I want people 0:58:33.840 --> 0:58:36.760 understand like this realm of podcasting, like if not to 0:58:36.800 --> 0:58:38.560 show love or be it, I mean even for y'all 0:58:38.600 --> 0:58:40.080 to come, for you to come here from all to 0:58:40.080 --> 0:58:42.200 come on our show, for things like that to happen. 0:58:42.240 --> 0:58:45.040 It's like showing love and it's very small, it's niche. 0:58:45.160 --> 0:58:47.600 I wouldn't I've turned down a lot of like going 0:58:47.680 --> 0:58:50.520 on podcast. Yeah, I haven't liked you, he had enough 0:58:50.560 --> 0:58:52.880 do saying and I was, so you're gonna come onto 0:58:52.880 --> 0:58:54.480 my show. He's like, yeah, I'll come on. I was like, 0:58:54.640 --> 0:59:00.000 because I like you, and you know, remember when, um 0:59:00.040 --> 0:59:01.760 so at the time when we really didn't have a 0:59:01.840 --> 0:59:05.880 lot of lessons um mall and I'm saying that, by 0:59:05.920 --> 0:59:08.280 the way, we were still having like fifteen thousand. That's 0:59:08.320 --> 0:59:11.400 still decent for a podcasts that are like right right, 0:59:11.440 --> 0:59:13.320 So this is when Mall had first came on and 0:59:13.360 --> 0:59:19.440 he mentioned us, Yeah, we didn't have fifteen, which fifteen 0:59:19.520 --> 0:59:25.440 after Brilliant Idiots, we were still like five thousand back then. Really, yes, 0:59:25.600 --> 0:59:28.800 no it's not it's not bad, but no, we were 0:59:28.840 --> 0:59:33.240 not out saying yet that was we had. He boosted 0:59:33.320 --> 0:59:35.200 us like and I'll say even just him shotting us out, 0:59:35.240 --> 0:59:36.919 but like, but you know, it's funny because that should 0:59:36.920 --> 0:59:38.960 feels like a long time ago. But on Joe but 0:59:39.160 --> 0:59:41.360 and he went on there, I mean on y'all show, 0:59:41.360 --> 0:59:43.240 excuse me and said something about the show he was 0:59:43.280 --> 0:59:46.320 on and I saw an iTunes that we just from 0:59:46.360 --> 0:59:48.960 being on your saying we weren't even on there. It 0:59:49.040 --> 0:59:53.120 was at the end of your episode jumped so much. 0:59:53.320 --> 0:59:57.200 We we have that effect now on people to like 0:59:58.120 --> 0:59:59.640 there was a lot of people try to do this 1:00:00.440 --> 1:00:02.880 and they don't do it. Well, it's it's I'm having 1:00:02.920 --> 1:00:05.200 a seminar. It's not easy. It's not easy, So we're 1:00:05.200 --> 1:00:06.680 gonna go ahead. What we like to do on our 1:00:06.720 --> 1:00:09.880 episodes as well as have is have homemail. Homemail um 1:00:10.000 --> 1:00:12.480 is questions sent in from our listeners and we kind 1:00:12.480 --> 1:00:14.400 of just like to give them advice, whether we're right, 1:00:14.400 --> 1:00:16.480 whether we're wrong. Some of our listeners like to give 1:00:16.520 --> 1:00:18.919 advice after the fact um. But I wanted to read 1:00:18.920 --> 1:00:21.280 off some of these. And this is actually sent in 1:00:21.400 --> 1:00:26.320 from a woman and the title is my boyfriend wants 1:00:26.360 --> 1:00:29.960 a trans woman. So I picked this because she actually 1:00:30.000 --> 1:00:34.000 went we should I know, but we ain't got through home. 1:00:34.200 --> 1:00:35.880 But no, it's good because she talked about going through 1:00:35.880 --> 1:00:37.160 his phone, so I want to talk about that's how 1:00:37.160 --> 1:00:39.800 she found out. She says, I'm a twenty two year 1:00:39.840 --> 1:00:42.600 old female. I was recently engaged, but I broke off 1:00:42.640 --> 1:00:45.320 the engagement. I've known for some time now that he's 1:00:45.360 --> 1:00:48.280 had an interest in trans women, but I accepted it 1:00:48.320 --> 1:00:50.120 and only wanted him to talk to me about it 1:00:50.160 --> 1:00:53.160 when he had those urges. I found out after I 1:00:53.200 --> 1:00:55.840 came back from a trip recently that he had separate 1:00:55.880 --> 1:00:59.000 I G accounts two d M trans prostitutes to funk 1:00:59.080 --> 1:01:01.920 him in the ass. I've kept this secret for him, 1:01:07.040 --> 1:01:09.280 remember to do this, and as my email is full 1:01:09.280 --> 1:01:13.600 of you listen to my record. Yeah it's you know, 1:01:13.680 --> 1:01:16.000 it's really, she said. I've kept this secret for him 1:01:16.040 --> 1:01:18.360 a very long time, but it's mentally fucking with me. 1:01:18.640 --> 1:01:21.439 On top of cheating with other women. He claims he's 1:01:21.440 --> 1:01:24.080 never actually gone through with the sex, but my feelings 1:01:24.080 --> 1:01:27.000 and better judgments say otherwise. He goes as far as 1:01:27.080 --> 1:01:30.360 asking if they will kiss him dearing. I recently told 1:01:30.360 --> 1:01:32.840 a homegirl of mine and she thinks he's gay. I'm 1:01:32.840 --> 1:01:35.200 not sure what to do. I love the man. I 1:01:35.320 --> 1:01:37.480 used to do anal stuff to him, but one day 1:01:37.520 --> 1:01:41.280 it kind of stopped when I tried. I hate how 1:01:41.320 --> 1:01:43.560 I screench out this ship. Um Oh, I used to 1:01:43.560 --> 1:01:45.520 do anal stuff to him one day, but it kind 1:01:45.520 --> 1:01:47.480 of stopped when I tried to bring it up. He 1:01:47.520 --> 1:01:49.600 doesn't want to talk about it. He claims that he 1:01:49.720 --> 1:01:52.360 is going to therapy now to fix his issues with 1:01:52.440 --> 1:01:55.680 compulsive lying. But what should I do? I feel like 1:01:55.760 --> 1:01:58.680 less of a woman. I considered myself very sexually open, 1:01:59.000 --> 1:02:01.760 but I can't be that with him anymore. It's vanilla 1:02:01.920 --> 1:02:05.280 and I feel like he's getting his kink elsewhere. What 1:02:05.360 --> 1:02:08.080 should I do? So? I brought this up because I 1:02:08.120 --> 1:02:11.120 know you guys have talked about women going through men's phones. 1:02:11.240 --> 1:02:13.160 She said that she found this out by going through 1:02:13.160 --> 1:02:14.840 his phone and seeing that he had a private I 1:02:14.960 --> 1:02:18.040 G where he was sending these letters. Um. Also, when 1:02:18.080 --> 1:02:21.960 we spoke earlier on going from having your ass like 1:02:22.080 --> 1:02:27.360 two fingers to pegging, you did mention that not But 1:02:27.520 --> 1:02:30.919 I feel like, um for the for for saying that, 1:02:31.240 --> 1:02:34.320 maybe she's kind of blaming herself now because she felt 1:02:34.320 --> 1:02:36.800 like her anal gateway to playing with his ass, lad 1:02:36.880 --> 1:02:41.360 him to now seeking this pleasure from trans women. UM, 1:02:41.560 --> 1:02:45.040 I guess right, I know so many thoughts I've never had. 1:02:45.160 --> 1:02:47.120 I've never had my ass looked and said, well, you know, 1:02:47.200 --> 1:02:51.400 it would be great a dick here, and so maybe 1:02:51.600 --> 1:02:53.960 maybe she should get out of her head about that. UM. I, 1:02:54.720 --> 1:02:56.760 for one, I do kind of feel like she needs 1:02:56.800 --> 1:02:58.440 to have a conversation with him because she found this 1:02:58.480 --> 1:03:01.840 on her own. This isn't a conversation he had with her. Um. 1:03:01.920 --> 1:03:04.400 She found it by going through his things. Um. And 1:03:04.480 --> 1:03:07.120 it does seem like she kind of is okay with 1:03:07.200 --> 1:03:09.160 the idea, but the fact that he's lying about it 1:03:09.240 --> 1:03:12.720 is the problem. So here's the initial thing that I 1:03:12.840 --> 1:03:17.160 thought was like immediately, UM, let's start with this. Let's 1:03:17.160 --> 1:03:20.840 take all of our feelings of the gay ship out 1:03:20.840 --> 1:03:22.840 of it. If you're a man had a private i 1:03:22.960 --> 1:03:26.480 G to connect with women, would you stay with him? 1:03:26.520 --> 1:03:29.760 If the answer is yes, then there lies you needing 1:03:29.760 --> 1:03:31.480 to answer the other question. If it's no, which I 1:03:31.480 --> 1:03:33.640 wouldn't stay with someone I was making a private Instagram 1:03:33.640 --> 1:03:35.280 just to cheat on me and keep lying back and 1:03:35.280 --> 1:03:37.000 forth and needs therapy for it. I would leave them 1:03:40.440 --> 1:03:43.920 if you feel as though you're a man, UM, you 1:03:43.920 --> 1:03:46.080 know doing the i G is okay, and you're like, 1:03:46.200 --> 1:03:48.160 not okay, but you know you're gonna look past this. 1:03:48.440 --> 1:03:51.360 Here's the other question. Do you have an issue with 1:03:51.680 --> 1:03:55.000 homophobia and your masculinity and that issue? And if you do, 1:03:55.440 --> 1:03:58.120 then you should leave them because the chances are as 1:03:58.160 --> 1:04:00.360 he's into anal play and you see him to be 1:04:00.400 --> 1:04:02.720 blaming yourself and it sounds like you think it's weird. 1:04:02.760 --> 1:04:04.560 So I would just break up with him because I 1:04:04.600 --> 1:04:07.240 wouldn't want to be with anybody that thought my kinks 1:04:07.440 --> 1:04:10.000 had anything to do with me being a man, or 1:04:10.160 --> 1:04:11.880 me this or me that. Like it sounds like you 1:04:11.880 --> 1:04:13.840 need to go. Second thing I want to read, though, 1:04:13.880 --> 1:04:16.800 is something from Dan Savage, who is my personal guru 1:04:17.080 --> 1:04:19.560 podcast legend. A lot of white people, you know, maybe 1:04:19.640 --> 1:04:22.280 I'll don't, but he is lit, he's super smart, and 1:04:22.320 --> 1:04:24.240 he has his own ship called the love Cast. And 1:04:24.440 --> 1:04:27.200 there was a question someone sent in about transit like 1:04:27.280 --> 1:04:31.919 dating trans women, and this is what he said, being funny, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1:04:31.920 --> 1:04:33.400 The gayest thing you could do is allow someone to 1:04:33.440 --> 1:04:35.160 put a dick in your man. But now you're gay. 1:04:35.240 --> 1:04:36.960 You're being a huge drama queen about the whole thing. 1:04:36.960 --> 1:04:40.080 Stop acting so crazy, As the kids say, repeat after me. 1:04:40.440 --> 1:04:42.880 One dick in the asked, does not a gay man make? 1:04:43.200 --> 1:04:44.960 Look at it this way, The difference between having a 1:04:45.000 --> 1:04:46.600 woman's finger in your ass and a woman's dick in 1:04:46.640 --> 1:04:49.400 your ass is the matter of a degree. The woman's 1:04:49.400 --> 1:04:51.880 finger was fine to say nothing of the tongue. Why 1:04:51.960 --> 1:04:54.600 freak out about the female dick? Remember, if you're not 1:04:54.720 --> 1:04:57.560 sleeping with men. You're not attracted to men. You made 1:04:57.600 --> 1:05:00.120 an exception for this woman's dick because they're dip is 1:05:00.160 --> 1:05:03.560 exceptional because it's it's attached to a woman. So here's 1:05:03.600 --> 1:05:06.200 the thing with trans women. A lot of straight men 1:05:06.280 --> 1:05:08.600 like trans women. A lot of trans women can't even 1:05:08.640 --> 1:05:11.000 find gay men that are into them because gay men 1:05:11.320 --> 1:05:14.080 want men. So here's the thing. Oh, I didn't even 1:05:14.120 --> 1:05:17.120 think about that. It's like, it's such an annoying thing 1:05:17.200 --> 1:05:20.200 to hear with like people calling men gay, Like the 1:05:20.280 --> 1:05:23.360 dick attached to the woman makes your anal and you're 1:05:23.400 --> 1:05:26.760 pegging thing real, But you're still attracted to women at 1:05:26.760 --> 1:05:29.400 the end of the day. These trans women, right, they 1:05:29.400 --> 1:05:31.479 have a dick there and you like the anal play, 1:05:31.520 --> 1:05:34.479 but you're recognizing them as women because otherwise you would 1:05:34.480 --> 1:05:37.080 have wanted a guy to do it. And so that's 1:05:37.120 --> 1:05:40.600 the thing. Is your dude really gay? If you found 1:05:40.640 --> 1:05:44.200 no men in his phone, then probably he's not gay, 1:05:44.240 --> 1:05:46.080 But he does want to get sucked in his ask 1:05:46.240 --> 1:05:48.240 And if you're not gonna do it, he's gonna find 1:05:48.280 --> 1:05:50.440 someone that can. So if you can't figure it out 1:05:50.520 --> 1:05:52.600 and you're feeling weird about it, but you gotta let 1:05:52.680 --> 1:05:54.680 him go. But the fact that he also when you 1:05:54.720 --> 1:05:57.640 want to talk about anal play, he veers away from 1:05:57.640 --> 1:06:00.440 the conversation. I will say, on the shape of it, well, 1:06:00.480 --> 1:06:01.720 and that's what I was gonna say. So on the 1:06:01.760 --> 1:06:04.600 episode that I had with the Swinging couple, Um, the 1:06:04.640 --> 1:06:08.240 man actually was interested in, you know, playing with trans 1:06:08.280 --> 1:06:10.040 And so I have a really close friend of mine 1:06:10.360 --> 1:06:14.440 who is experiencing his attraction to trans women and it's 1:06:14.800 --> 1:06:18.200 led him to be very depressed because now he does 1:06:18.280 --> 1:06:20.640 He's like, am I bisexual? Now? Does that mean I'm gay? 1:06:20.640 --> 1:06:24.640 And does he like he's battling. No, but he's battling 1:06:24.720 --> 1:06:27.000 internally because it's something that he feels like he can't 1:06:27.040 --> 1:06:28.840 even bring up to his mom. He brought a white 1:06:28.840 --> 1:06:30.680 woman home and his mom went off. He's like, I 1:06:30.720 --> 1:06:32.680 couldn't imagine the look on my mother's face if I 1:06:32.680 --> 1:06:34.560 brought home. And the problem is a trans women are 1:06:34.600 --> 1:06:37.080 generally fetishized, like nobody wants to take these women home. 1:06:37.360 --> 1:06:39.280 They're like, oh, this is just something I like. But 1:06:39.360 --> 1:06:42.560 here's the other fucking issue with it feeling like you're gay. 1:06:42.840 --> 1:06:46.560 If you genuinely are attracted to men, you are probably 1:06:46.560 --> 1:06:48.880 not going for a trans girl. I have never had 1:06:48.920 --> 1:06:50.520 one of my gays tell me they sucked the trans 1:06:50.520 --> 1:06:54.840 girl one. Because trans women are generally not bottoms. Most 1:06:54.880 --> 1:06:57.040 people that are attracted to trans women want to be 1:06:57.040 --> 1:06:59.360 pegged by straight women for I mean, I'm sorry, uh 1:06:59.480 --> 1:07:02.320 sis women first, right, and then they're like, okay, well 1:07:02.360 --> 1:07:04.240 now I really want this. And that's the thing that's 1:07:04.320 --> 1:07:08.040 crazy about this homophobia about trans women, and they're still 1:07:07.800 --> 1:07:10.440 we were acknowledging them as women, we're using the pronoun 1:07:10.480 --> 1:07:13.160 sheet all of this ship. But for some reason, once 1:07:13.200 --> 1:07:15.200 men sleep with them, it's worse than paid because it's 1:07:15.200 --> 1:07:17.320 weird to be The guys that I do know personally 1:07:17.360 --> 1:07:19.400 who have slept with trans women, none of them have 1:07:19.480 --> 1:07:21.600 been topped by one though, So it's even to where 1:07:21.600 --> 1:07:24.920 I've questioned them like what is your amusement with it? Then, 1:07:24.960 --> 1:07:28.560 because they're not being topped by these trans women, they're 1:07:28.560 --> 1:07:30.800 fucking the trans women in the ask Most trans women 1:07:30.920 --> 1:07:34.400 um that are like escorts are not um bottoms. They're 1:07:34.400 --> 1:07:36.280 like saying no, I mean not even talking about they 1:07:36.280 --> 1:07:37.960 don't have anal sex. That's the thing. Yeah, these things 1:07:38.000 --> 1:07:42.200 ain't have one. I'm calling me, I'll come in something game. Yeah, 1:07:42.200 --> 1:07:43.840 it's it's like people are really fucked in the head 1:07:43.840 --> 1:07:45.560 about this. I think it's a conversation you just need 1:07:45.560 --> 1:07:47.160 to have. But this one, I think we could talk about. 1:07:47.160 --> 1:07:48.720 You have a relationship. So we have another one and 1:07:48.760 --> 1:07:51.400 that's gonna be our last homemail is from the Cupold couple. 1:07:51.480 --> 1:07:53.160 They made a separate email for this ship, so I 1:07:53.240 --> 1:07:56.280 know they would like we we really on alone. Hello, ladies. 1:07:56.320 --> 1:07:59.080 Just found the podcast and damn I love it. Very 1:07:59.200 --> 1:08:02.000 raw and truthful. We're a couple in Washington State who's 1:08:02.000 --> 1:08:03.920 been together since high school, fifteen years old, and now 1:08:03.920 --> 1:08:06.320 we're both thirty eight. We have had an open relationship 1:08:06.360 --> 1:08:13.600 for ten years. She enjoys that. She enjoys having her boyfriends, 1:08:13.600 --> 1:08:16.559 but it's now craving black Dick. We have been searching, 1:08:16.600 --> 1:08:19.679 and I've been trying to find a guy. We've been searching. Wait, 1:08:20.000 --> 1:08:22.000 they've both been searching for black dick. By the way, 1:08:22.000 --> 1:08:23.840 I asked him later what their ethnicity was in their 1:08:23.880 --> 1:08:27.559 white You don't say I wanted to know if she's 1:08:27.880 --> 1:08:35.639 just curious how the guy is searching. We have been searching, 1:08:35.640 --> 1:08:36.880 and I have been trying to find a guy to 1:08:36.880 --> 1:08:38.360 be her first in this arena. And it's not the 1:08:38.360 --> 1:08:40.640 easiest thing. The show makes us feel less alone and 1:08:40.640 --> 1:08:43.080 since none of our family and friends know we since 1:08:43.120 --> 1:08:44.560 none of our family and friends now, I hope you 1:08:44.600 --> 1:08:47.360 continue to have great success. PS. I would totally snowball 1:08:47.439 --> 1:08:54.120 Rihanna with Shakira with another man's come snowball. Snowball is 1:08:54.160 --> 1:08:57.320 when it's not come swapping, it's your own semen, or 1:08:57.320 --> 1:09:01.519 it's like someone else's well, it's come swapping, basically snowballing 1:09:01.520 --> 1:09:04.640 passing it back in. But that's the colding thing, right 1:09:04.640 --> 1:09:06.759 because like in a lot of holding videos, you'll watch 1:09:06.760 --> 1:09:08.559 her be like, oh, the kids come off of me, 1:09:08.760 --> 1:09:10.920 or suck to come out of his dick like crazy shit. 1:09:11.120 --> 1:09:13.479 What was the question in that UM? I think his 1:09:13.680 --> 1:09:17.960 question is I was just trying to get something, just 1:09:17.960 --> 1:09:20.240 trying to get some black Oh. I guess like kind 1:09:20.240 --> 1:09:22.280 of like maybe the how to UM because they're saying 1:09:22.280 --> 1:09:24.639 they're searching and it's not easy go to Jamaica, UM 1:09:24.680 --> 1:09:27.360 so I want to. I mean, I'm just saying, so 1:09:27.400 --> 1:09:30.439 I want to Hedonism, which is a um so. It's 1:09:30.439 --> 1:09:34.800 a nude adult only resort um in Jamaica. And when 1:09:34.840 --> 1:09:37.320 I went, there was a lot of white couples there 1:09:37.600 --> 1:09:39.920 that literally said to me that they were there for 1:09:40.120 --> 1:09:43.360 black dick, And of course Jamaican's are black with big dicks, 1:09:43.520 --> 1:09:49.160 so um, I would think you forgot which one said that. 1:09:49.240 --> 1:09:51.000 You doubt what. I'm surprised. I ain't got no kids. 1:09:51.040 --> 1:09:53.080 You know, ship my daddy' Jamaican. I'm sure my mom 1:09:53.160 --> 1:09:54.920 was dealt with him for a reason, but because he 1:09:54.960 --> 1:09:58.479 ain't ship. But I would say, I would think that's 1:09:58.520 --> 1:10:00.679 just something that's in your Jamaican bloodl of Jamaican. Remember 1:10:00.720 --> 1:10:03.920 I said, dancing niggasine ship caplas in Jamaicans and the 1:10:04.520 --> 1:10:07.280 I'm just saying they just don't they're only ship. I 1:10:07.280 --> 1:10:09.479 would say, though, if you're looking for something to do, 1:10:09.520 --> 1:10:11.240 I don't know what city you live in, So my 1:10:11.320 --> 1:10:15.120 suggestion would be to um, go to hedonism. It is again, 1:10:15.160 --> 1:10:17.920 it's a resort in Jamaica, and that's what you have 1:10:18.000 --> 1:10:21.519 there is black cocks to fuck your white wife. I 1:10:21.560 --> 1:10:24.439 had something like that happened to me. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, 1:10:24.680 --> 1:10:27.200 you had something like we talked about it and we 1:10:27.240 --> 1:10:29.519 did on it in Chicago, and I was like, you 1:10:29.560 --> 1:10:31.280 did what I said, you need to bring it up. 1:10:31.560 --> 1:10:33.200 We gotta bring you on the podcast. You gotta say, So, 1:10:33.240 --> 1:10:38.240 you've been to w w C White White Cock is 1:10:38.240 --> 1:10:42.000 the w WC. Is that on Pornhub? Does w w 1:10:42.080 --> 1:10:45.880 C Papa? Never? If you look up cut holding? Like, so, 1:10:46.160 --> 1:10:48.200 actually I wanted to watch cut holding porn, but I 1:10:48.240 --> 1:10:50.599 got kept getting annoyed at all the fetishizing of black men. 1:10:50.640 --> 1:10:52.120 So I'm like, so, I'm like, let me try to 1:10:52.160 --> 1:10:54.519 find the white man. And you were asked to cut cold, 1:10:54.720 --> 1:10:59.639 so I wasn't asked. Nobody asked me. Okay, wait, nobody asked, 1:11:00.160 --> 1:11:03.200 So what happened with your cut holding story? I was like, 1:11:04.080 --> 1:11:05.840 I told this on my podcast, but it was a 1:11:05.840 --> 1:11:08.160 long like back when we was in the lower numbers, 1:11:08.400 --> 1:11:14.719 so I don't know. Um, sucking asshole. Oh, you're definitely 1:11:14.760 --> 1:11:19.639 dubbing this ship when y'all required. Because I'm setting a reminder. 1:11:19.720 --> 1:11:23.599 Nick put me on what happened. I was like twenty 1:11:23.720 --> 1:11:28.200 or twenty one maybe, and I was working for a 1:11:28.280 --> 1:11:31.920 label at the time, and these artists from Ohio. I'm 1:11:31.960 --> 1:11:35.160 not going to say who it was. It was not 1:11:35.720 --> 1:11:40.320 Busy Bone, was Busy Bone and his wife. It was 1:11:40.600 --> 1:11:44.559 from Ohio. They came and uh, they asked me. They 1:11:44.600 --> 1:11:46.240 was like, yo, can you take the whole crew out 1:11:46.240 --> 1:11:47.920 because you're young and you know what's going on in 1:11:48.000 --> 1:11:50.040 New York, Like take them out, let them see the city. 1:11:50.840 --> 1:11:52.120 It was a big group of them, so I took 1:11:52.120 --> 1:11:54.719 them down to a spot one bleaker. We was chilling whatever, 1:11:55.479 --> 1:11:57.679 and some girl that really didn't say much at all 1:11:58.040 --> 1:12:00.439 the whole time came up to me when she was 1:12:00.479 --> 1:12:01.800 leaving and she was like, I just want to give 1:12:01.800 --> 1:12:04.040 you my number. I was like, all right, cool. I 1:12:04.120 --> 1:12:06.760 didn't think anything of it. Continued tonight, she text me like, yo, 1:12:06.840 --> 1:12:10.760 it's my hotel. I said, all right, I'm okay, I'm 1:12:10.800 --> 1:12:14.920 coming over with the ships. So I take a cab. 1:12:15.000 --> 1:12:17.240 This was prior to Uber. Take a cab up there, 1:12:17.680 --> 1:12:20.040 like you know, I'm in the lobby. She said, give 1:12:20.080 --> 1:12:27.800 me a second now that I'm red flag. I told 1:12:27.840 --> 1:12:31.200 you I was on the way. So then I get 1:12:31.240 --> 1:12:32.720 to the elevator when she says, come up. I see 1:12:32.720 --> 1:12:34.600 it's the key card thing. I'm like, all right, you 1:12:34.640 --> 1:12:36.400 gotta come down and get me. She comes down and 1:12:36.439 --> 1:12:38.800 like a rope. I'm like all right. She read a 1:12:38.800 --> 1:12:42.680 little crazy that you in the lobby, like you let 1:12:42.720 --> 1:12:45.640 it be known. So we get into the room. She 1:12:45.760 --> 1:12:47.519 take a shut off right away. I'm like, oh, we're 1:12:47.520 --> 1:12:50.479 get into it. This is great. This is like a portal. 1:12:52.200 --> 1:12:56.880 This was awesome. So she starts sucking my dick. I 1:12:56.920 --> 1:12:58.360 was like, this is this is straight out of like 1:12:58.360 --> 1:13:00.320 I didn't even have to work for this. I said 1:13:00.320 --> 1:13:04.000 one word to the ship, this is awesome. Wow. Then 1:13:04.040 --> 1:13:07.439 I slightly see the bathroom door start to open. You 1:13:07.439 --> 1:13:12.000 thought another girl from where I'm from, right that you 1:13:12.000 --> 1:13:13.680 you can't set up about to get I'm about to 1:13:13.720 --> 1:13:18.479 get robbed. She was a pond in my dumb old 1:13:18.560 --> 1:13:23.320 ask fell for that ship because I'm horny. It might 1:13:23.360 --> 1:13:28.920 be worth three. You don't know you broke out. I 1:13:28.920 --> 1:13:30.360 don't know your weight, and it's been like all the 1:13:30.400 --> 1:13:33.599 families are worse. Let's let's end that now we all 1:13:33.600 --> 1:13:38.479 don't know a judge in fact. Okay, So the door opens. 1:13:38.520 --> 1:13:41.120 I said, I'm getting robbed. It's over. Now. Let me start. 1:13:41.120 --> 1:13:48.120 Where's where's my wallet? Take my iPhone? Three? So I 1:13:48.200 --> 1:13:53.160 see just arms come out with an iPad and I'm like, wait, 1:13:53.240 --> 1:13:56.280 what the fuck? So I pushed her head off of me, 1:13:57.880 --> 1:14:00.400 which kind of hurt when you twenty and horny because 1:14:00.560 --> 1:14:05.439 she was all right, and this big gass dude comes 1:14:05.439 --> 1:14:08.040 out the bathroom with an iPad and I said, there 1:14:08.120 --> 1:14:10.479 was another white couple. No, they were black. Both of 1:14:10.520 --> 1:14:15.400 them were black. Oh both were black. Did you love 1:14:15.439 --> 1:14:17.360 that detail out? No? We needed it, We needed that. 1:14:17.360 --> 1:14:20.599 We just all. I guess we should have said your friends, well, 1:14:20.640 --> 1:14:24.600 they weren't my friends people that okay. So so he 1:14:24.640 --> 1:14:27.599 comes out, this big dude comes out with an iPad filming, 1:14:28.360 --> 1:14:30.280 and I'm like, yo, what the fuck is going on? 1:14:30.800 --> 1:14:32.439 And he's like, no, no, no no, bro, you could suck her. 1:14:33.080 --> 1:14:38.960 I said what. So I go up to him and 1:14:39.080 --> 1:14:42.200 I said, give me that fucking iPad. He say, no, 1:14:42.200 --> 1:14:44.320 no, no no, it's cool, bro, Like it's fine, that's my wife. 1:14:45.240 --> 1:14:48.679 I said, what if he didn't come out with an iPad? 1:14:49.439 --> 1:14:52.880 What was it the recording that bothered you know, the 1:14:52.960 --> 1:14:55.479 man coming out of a bathroom bothered me? Hold on, 1:14:55.520 --> 1:14:57.719 hold on, hold on, hold on? What wait? I guess 1:14:57.720 --> 1:15:00.280 more so it's like continuing, is it what she meant? Like? 1:15:00.360 --> 1:15:02.680 If he didn't come out with the iPad with that, 1:15:02.800 --> 1:15:08.880 Bobby like to keep going? You just wasn't. I feel 1:15:08.880 --> 1:15:13.920 like what happened was he was like, no, no, no, 1:15:13.920 --> 1:15:15.760 that's my wife like this is what we do. You 1:15:15.760 --> 1:15:18.240 could like I want you to fuck her and I 1:15:18.280 --> 1:15:19.800 was like no, He's like, no, it's not like I'm 1:15:19.800 --> 1:15:21.920 gonna get involved. I just want to watch your fuck. 1:15:22.280 --> 1:15:24.600 I was like, give me that fucking iPad, took the 1:15:24.640 --> 1:15:27.800 iPad open, that ship, deleted that video, threw that ship 1:15:27.880 --> 1:15:29.479 on the bed, and ran the funk out of that 1:15:29.479 --> 1:15:35.320 hotel room. No, nope, nope, nope, nope nope. So it's 1:15:35.360 --> 1:15:37.519 safe to say you're not into cuckolding or at this 1:15:37.600 --> 1:15:41.000 day and age, that's not that's a that's a surprise. 1:15:41.240 --> 1:15:43.400 That's a man coming out of the bathroom like you 1:15:43.439 --> 1:15:47.280 getting your dicks, honestly, like and I still had like 1:15:47.400 --> 1:15:50.400 that nervousness of getting robbed. Now you were still you 1:15:50.400 --> 1:15:53.839 were super violated. Not only where you did someone surprise 1:15:53.920 --> 1:15:58.360 you as someone else, but was inside my I didn't 1:15:58.400 --> 1:16:01.760 have a dick at that point? Did they go up? 1:16:01.840 --> 1:16:06.600 The balls inside? He was terrified? What is it? You 1:16:06.600 --> 1:16:08.800 know what happens when your balls like go up and 1:16:08.800 --> 1:16:10.600 then like they have to fall back down? Is that 1:16:10.600 --> 1:16:13.280 how your dick win? Answer? I think, you know, you 1:16:13.320 --> 1:16:15.280 know how people say their balls get up there and 1:16:15.280 --> 1:16:18.280 then they have to like drop back. I don't know, children, 1:16:18.439 --> 1:16:20.240 have you ever heard this? I've never heard of it. 1:16:20.360 --> 1:16:22.160 I heard that your balls can like get up too 1:16:22.280 --> 1:16:24.360 high and then like it takes a minute for them 1:16:24.400 --> 1:16:27.560 to like settle down like your testicles, like we have 1:16:27.600 --> 1:16:29.000 two men in the room. Has never happened, and I've 1:16:29.000 --> 1:16:31.120 never heard of this happening. I was reading about it 1:16:31.680 --> 1:16:35.120 in what book? Well, I was I was trying to 1:16:35.160 --> 1:16:37.280 find that kink. And the kink I was trying to 1:16:37.280 --> 1:16:39.439 find was about like the kicking, which we've already done. 1:16:39.640 --> 1:16:42.600 But the sensation apparently from your balls going up is 1:16:42.600 --> 1:16:45.160 the thing that people like, a sensation that you get 1:16:45.160 --> 1:16:47.040 when your balls go back up when they started, like 1:16:47.120 --> 1:16:49.200 think they know it's like the most painful when you 1:16:49.240 --> 1:16:51.720 get when they get kicked in up there. I know, 1:16:51.840 --> 1:16:54.639 but apparently some people, some people like it, people asking 1:16:54.800 --> 1:16:56.360 I was trying to figure out what that's how I 1:16:56.360 --> 1:16:58.759 found it. Look, I'm not a girl like the Nancy 1:16:58.920 --> 1:17:03.040 room for like section was I didn't. I do not 1:17:03.120 --> 1:17:05.280 have sex. But you know her, I mean, I don't 1:17:05.280 --> 1:17:07.800 know where she is now, but imagine she's probably not 1:17:08.080 --> 1:17:10.479 to ask guys to burn like that was that was 1:17:10.520 --> 1:17:12.760 her thing when she sucked. She liked cigarettes being burnt 1:17:12.760 --> 1:17:14.240 on her well, and she had scared. I could see 1:17:14.240 --> 1:17:16.160 the stars in her arm. That's like with Lisa's flips 1:17:16.200 --> 1:17:19.920 and people she ashes them in people's um mouth. She's 1:17:19.920 --> 1:17:21.800 a dumb. Yeah, she's a dumb that does that. But 1:17:22.040 --> 1:17:23.760 I feel like if a woman is wanting to be 1:17:23.800 --> 1:17:27.240 asked wall getting no, not ash, No, the whole cigarette burnt. 1:17:27.240 --> 1:17:29.880 That's not ash, that's a cigarette being burney. She had 1:17:29.920 --> 1:17:32.920 scars on her forum. I mean, I can understand candle wax, 1:17:33.000 --> 1:17:35.840 but yeah, I don't know about no goddamn cigarettes. I 1:17:35.880 --> 1:17:38.479 recently did a candle wax thing. I liked it, but 1:17:38.560 --> 1:17:41.400 it was a special sex candle apparently to where it 1:17:41.520 --> 1:17:44.320 wasn't like od burning. Well, yeah, it wasn't like you 1:17:44.360 --> 1:17:46.679 can't just use any candle. Oh yeah, because that should 1:17:46.680 --> 1:17:49.000 be like you said, it can't be Yankee, can't be 1:17:49.560 --> 1:17:53.720 it can't be glade. Please please let them never accidentally. 1:17:54.479 --> 1:17:55.920 I mean no, no, no, no, I mean it could 1:17:55.960 --> 1:17:57.880 still some people still want it to be that hot. 1:17:57.920 --> 1:18:00.880 But the sex candle that I use apparently was like 1:18:01.240 --> 1:18:04.960 it dripped slower, so it wasn't as like you know, 1:18:04.960 --> 1:18:06.840 it's supposed to feel like a sting, but I really 1:18:06.920 --> 1:18:08.680 enjoyed it was on my back. I guess that that's 1:18:08.760 --> 1:18:10.120 that's a good tip. I guess to get to our 1:18:10.120 --> 1:18:13.160 listeners if anyone is interested in maybe candle wax plate 1:18:13.200 --> 1:18:16.200 to know that there is actual sex candles to look at, 1:18:16.240 --> 1:18:18.599 and maybe don't go the cheap router or the expensive 1:18:18.640 --> 1:18:20.680 rod and get Yankee candle. Yeah, use our code w 1:18:20.840 --> 1:18:24.880 D fifty. Yeah, there you got him and oh Yankee 1:18:24.960 --> 1:18:29.519 candle on it. I'm beaning mica a cross fell like 1:18:29.520 --> 1:18:32.719 a lemon grass mat. Oh, in your little pre production, 1:18:32.760 --> 1:18:35.080 we were supposed to make women accountable. Now, wasn't that 1:18:35.120 --> 1:18:38.000 part of your list? We were going to make women 1:18:38.000 --> 1:18:40.439 accountable for things? Oh, we didn't do it anymore. So 1:18:40.520 --> 1:18:42.160 I just we just got rid of that, you know, 1:18:43.360 --> 1:18:45.680 you know you you came and brought up the whole Oh, 1:18:45.760 --> 1:18:47.880 y'all are really a production. So we said we're just 1:18:47.880 --> 1:18:49.679 gonna wing it now, we're just gonna talk. I wanted 1:18:49.760 --> 1:18:53.000 to talk about that, about making a women accountable among 1:18:53.320 --> 1:18:59.080 women being bummy, so that we had our conversation was, yes, 1:18:59.360 --> 1:19:04.000 was about that. So like, Okay, there's something that I've 1:19:04.000 --> 1:19:07.720 been wanting to talk about because I feel like I'm 1:19:07.720 --> 1:19:09.559 gonna sound like a little bit of hypocrites. I'm gonna 1:19:09.560 --> 1:19:12.679 try to make sure backstep we talked about like dating 1:19:12.720 --> 1:19:16.439 men that are fluent and you know, getting things quote 1:19:16.479 --> 1:19:19.720 unquote from men. But I have to say I am 1:19:19.840 --> 1:19:23.280 kind of tired of like chicks don't have ship that 1:19:23.400 --> 1:19:26.360 be requesting all of these things. Now. I do want 1:19:26.360 --> 1:19:28.160 to speak from I want to speak from me and 1:19:28.160 --> 1:19:31.080 Mandy though, and say that, like, you know, we're girls 1:19:31.120 --> 1:19:34.280 that are working towards why. I mean, now you're graduated, 1:19:34.320 --> 1:19:37.320 but you know, I take care of me, myself, my family, 1:19:37.320 --> 1:19:39.560 We got a business, I'm working in tech. Like this 1:19:39.640 --> 1:19:41.880 is a lot of sucking ship. And I kind of 1:19:41.920 --> 1:19:44.599 hate that a girl that don't really have much going 1:19:44.640 --> 1:19:49.120 on feels like like a man can feel like we're 1:19:49.160 --> 1:19:51.480 on the same playing field. I feel like my standards 1:19:51.520 --> 1:19:54.919 are set because this is what I've set for myself. 1:19:55.000 --> 1:19:57.200 So how could you not have the same Opposed to 1:19:57.200 --> 1:19:59.120 when someone says something to me like, oh, y'all, bitches 1:19:59.160 --> 1:20:01.280 just want any negative blah blah blah blah blah, how 1:20:01.280 --> 1:20:03.840 could I not when I've done this for me? How 1:20:03.840 --> 1:20:06.080 could I not ask to do these things for me 1:20:06.200 --> 1:20:09.280 more mad at men. We need better standards. Sure, stop 1:20:09.640 --> 1:20:13.439 stop fucking bummy women. Yes that I hear you. I 1:20:13.439 --> 1:20:17.680 think bummy nous is sexually transmitted. Stop fucking. But it's 1:20:17.720 --> 1:20:20.599 not fucking fair though, because this is the thing. When 1:20:20.640 --> 1:20:23.479 I was in a relationship and had nothing for myself 1:20:23.720 --> 1:20:26.439 and then Nigga got crazy and was cheating, I had 1:20:26.479 --> 1:20:29.640 nothing for me. You know. He literally was like, you 1:20:29.640 --> 1:20:31.320 can take what you came with. I was one for 1:20:31.320 --> 1:20:33.960 two years. Take what I came with, which was clothed. Okay. 1:20:34.120 --> 1:20:37.280 I was in a maserati, living nice, eating nice, and 1:20:37.320 --> 1:20:39.760 then like boom, I had nothing. So then when I 1:20:39.800 --> 1:20:41.920 was dating men after that, right, I kept thinking in 1:20:42.000 --> 1:20:43.680 my head I needed to have this, this and that 1:20:43.760 --> 1:20:45.840 and treat me this way. But I didn't really have 1:20:45.880 --> 1:20:47.760 my ship together, and I was asking for so many 1:20:47.800 --> 1:20:51.120 things for men that frankly, I could not easily get 1:20:51.160 --> 1:20:54.880 by myself. And so here's the thing. The the assumption 1:20:54.960 --> 1:20:57.280 that every girl and and a lot of people got 1:20:57.320 --> 1:21:00.040 on Raquel, who's an escort, sorry, a sex there a 1:21:00.120 --> 1:21:02.800 piste and she escorts, she's a sex worker, and she 1:21:02.920 --> 1:21:04.519 was saying how she needed certain things from a man 1:21:04.600 --> 1:21:07.200 and niggas was coming for her. However, if I can 1:21:07.240 --> 1:21:09.559 get these things by myself, why can't I ask for 1:21:09.600 --> 1:21:11.840 you to do the same for me if I got 1:21:11.840 --> 1:21:14.320 them on my own. No, that's fine, I agree. I 1:21:14.360 --> 1:21:17.080 think men need to think that same way. It's it's 1:21:17.120 --> 1:21:19.040 dudes fault that be blaming these bitches. You're the one 1:21:19.040 --> 1:21:22.600 who I'm super super big on energy, Like energy is 1:21:22.640 --> 1:21:24.439 a big thing to me, and I think sex creates 1:21:24.560 --> 1:21:28.040 a large amount of it. Don't do that with bummy 1:21:28.080 --> 1:21:32.760 ass energy. It's gonna come off on you. You're you're 1:21:32.880 --> 1:21:37.200 entering bummy nous. It's gonna come back. Absolutely. I don't 1:21:37.240 --> 1:21:40.880 care if her pussy is crazy. Here's my thing because 1:21:40.920 --> 1:21:43.080 some people are some people, some people make it it. 1:21:43.240 --> 1:21:44.960 I don't want to make this like an age that 1:21:45.120 --> 1:21:47.519 we're not. We're talking about partnerships and ship like that. 1:21:47.600 --> 1:21:49.280 I'm not talking about a girl that's got to do that, 1:21:49.400 --> 1:21:50.880 like you know, taking out on dates and shouldn't be 1:21:50.880 --> 1:21:53.800 treating it right. If I'm talking about in a relationship expectations. 1:21:53.920 --> 1:21:55.600 Some people make it at twenty, some people make it 1:21:55.640 --> 1:21:56.960 a thirties, some people make it at forty. I'm not 1:21:57.000 --> 1:21:59.040 even trying to put it in that type of stens 1:21:59.080 --> 1:22:02.080 on who's ambitious who's not. But in your late twenties, 1:22:02.120 --> 1:22:04.200 you know who's a bummer who's not. Yeah, you can 1:22:04.200 --> 1:22:06.880 tell when a chick is bummy or not. Stop, Like, 1:22:06.960 --> 1:22:09.360 come on, if you really are in this mindset of 1:22:09.400 --> 1:22:13.120 making yourself better, sticking your dick into a bummy chick, 1:22:13.160 --> 1:22:14.880 I don't care how good the pussy feels is going 1:22:14.920 --> 1:22:19.479 to detriment you or even stop woman dealing with a 1:22:19.600 --> 1:22:22.000 broke nigger. And I feel like that's like, Um, it's 1:22:22.000 --> 1:22:24.759 funny because I listened back to our episode with Um 1:22:24.840 --> 1:22:27.880 Demeris and how I was talking about Felling Bay. I 1:22:27.920 --> 1:22:30.000 actually stopped dealing with Fellen Bay. I had to cut 1:22:30.040 --> 1:22:32.799 him off. He decided to bring i'll say a business 1:22:32.800 --> 1:22:34.800 notion to me because as he was telling me his 1:22:34.840 --> 1:22:37.840 business idea and his business plan, he when I started 1:22:37.840 --> 1:22:40.360 asking him the real questions about how he would account 1:22:40.400 --> 1:22:42.240 for the money he was bringing in, he was like, Oh, 1:22:42.280 --> 1:22:44.200 you're gonna do it. You got some nerves, you got it. 1:22:44.439 --> 1:22:46.200 And when I tell you my whole pussy dried up, 1:22:46.479 --> 1:22:49.040 I was like, Okay, here you go. I'm thinking you're 1:22:49.040 --> 1:22:51.160 trying to make yourself better and yet you really not 1:22:51.200 --> 1:22:53.560 go mean, was he expecting to share the business with you? No? 1:22:53.880 --> 1:22:56.160 But he just thought I was saying and I was 1:22:56.200 --> 1:22:58.240 like no. And then he has the nervous that here 1:22:58.280 --> 1:23:01.000 and think that because then that he would be making money, 1:23:01.000 --> 1:23:02.200 that then I would want him, because you know, I 1:23:02.240 --> 1:23:03.800 haven't told him he broke. Now, that's why I'm not 1:23:03.800 --> 1:23:06.080 gonna cut him. So he assumed that when he got 1:23:06.120 --> 1:23:08.200 money then I would want him as more. And it's 1:23:08.200 --> 1:23:10.559 just my whole pussy dried up because it's like we're 1:23:10.760 --> 1:23:13.400 damn at the same age. So broke to me, We've 1:23:13.400 --> 1:23:17.160 had this conversation. So broke to me, honestly is like 1:23:17.200 --> 1:23:21.479 the regular nigga jobs under I mean to me, I 1:23:21.520 --> 1:23:23.320 don't want a guy making thirty five thousand. I don't 1:23:23.320 --> 1:23:26.639 want a guy making fifty thousand, especially if his children 1:23:26.680 --> 1:23:30.120 like maybe fifty tho by yourself and you're like keeping 1:23:30.200 --> 1:23:33.439 up with yourself cool. Maybe in Florida, not in New York, 1:23:33.479 --> 1:23:36.720 and New York probably less than seventy or probably kind 1:23:36.720 --> 1:23:39.519 of all right, So are you, as women comfortable calling 1:23:39.520 --> 1:23:43.360 a man broke that makes more money than you? I 1:23:43.400 --> 1:23:46.280 heard y'all talk about that. I'm not saying I'm not 1:23:46.280 --> 1:23:48.479 saying I don't thought that. I don't think y'all make 1:23:49.720 --> 1:23:52.679 Let's revisit that one. You don't make thirty dollars a year. 1:23:53.880 --> 1:23:58.679 Who are the funk? Are you somebody broke? I don't 1:23:58.720 --> 1:24:00.840 have you said, I don't remember I vis you or 1:24:00.840 --> 1:24:03.920 whoever brought it up. You said, women be calling niggas 1:24:03.920 --> 1:24:08.160 broke that make more money than No, no no, no, no, Rory, 1:24:08.240 --> 1:24:11.160 I actually agree with you. Rory said that a woman 1:24:11.200 --> 1:24:13.280 will always think a guy is broke as long as 1:24:13.280 --> 1:24:16.120 she knows a guy with more money than That's what 1:24:16.200 --> 1:24:18.240 you said, and I will always be broke if you 1:24:18.280 --> 1:24:20.080 can text somebody that has more money, that has more 1:24:20.120 --> 1:24:21.320 money than me. And I loved when he said that 1:24:21.320 --> 1:24:23.080 because I was like, but I don't think it's I 1:24:23.120 --> 1:24:26.400 don't think it's right. But that's what they don't. Never 1:24:26.560 --> 1:24:28.799 that will never change. I'll always be broken. There'll always 1:24:28.840 --> 1:24:31.479 be somebody a girl my friends, and they'll be talking 1:24:31.520 --> 1:24:33.320 to maybe someone who comes off the bench who only 1:24:33.320 --> 1:24:35.240 makes a million a year, and then they'll know another 1:24:35.240 --> 1:24:37.679 guy who's making like twenty million a year, so it's 1:24:37.680 --> 1:24:40.080 like you're only talking to that nigga with a million 1:24:40.120 --> 1:24:44.280 dollars a year. People love shaving like girls. I liked 1:24:44.360 --> 1:24:47.920 that broke conversation because the money I make now, So 1:24:48.040 --> 1:24:51.400 before we started, before I started making what I'm making, right, 1:24:51.439 --> 1:24:52.840 when we first started this pod, I was like, I 1:24:52.880 --> 1:24:55.240 have to be with a dude that makes six figures 1:24:55.720 --> 1:25:00.519 because I make six figures. Now have a new job 1:25:00.520 --> 1:25:02.720 and I'm making more money, and I'm like, I'm not. 1:25:02.760 --> 1:25:04.479 I might not meet somebody that makes some I make, 1:25:04.520 --> 1:25:06.240 and I have to change my mind. And that's the truth. 1:25:06.600 --> 1:25:08.600 And I had to grow up because I feel like 1:25:08.640 --> 1:25:10.400 I was real like, oh, you gotta have this, this 1:25:10.439 --> 1:25:14.479 and this, and frankly I might not. It's just it's 1:25:14.479 --> 1:25:16.360 not the average meeting income and it might be very 1:25:16.360 --> 1:25:17.920 hard unless I'm doing a bank or something like that 1:25:17.960 --> 1:25:20.400 I don't know right, or entertainers or whatever. If I 1:25:20.439 --> 1:25:23.160 meet a regular dude, how can you make what I make? Right? 1:25:23.240 --> 1:25:26.880 So here's the thing. You gotta humble yourself sometimes women 1:25:26.920 --> 1:25:29.200 do to say, because for me, this is the thing. 1:25:29.400 --> 1:25:31.439 I want a man that can enjoy the things that 1:25:31.479 --> 1:25:33.879 I enjoy with me. I like to go eat steaks, 1:25:34.120 --> 1:25:36.320 I like to go on vacation. I ain't talking about 1:25:36.360 --> 1:25:38.880 the Miami I like to go to Tokyo tailing all 1:25:38.960 --> 1:25:41.920 that ship Croatia. Yeah, week, I need to go. You 1:25:42.080 --> 1:25:43.800 don't have to pay for me, but you need to 1:25:43.800 --> 1:25:46.200 be able to come with me without me paying for you. 1:25:46.520 --> 1:25:48.280 I don't need you to pay for my vacation. And 1:25:48.320 --> 1:25:50.760 I am and I am being honest with that. And 1:25:50.800 --> 1:25:53.519 I frankly, when I was going to Tokyo, I was 1:25:53.840 --> 1:25:55.280 I was talking to loverabley at the time that there 1:25:55.280 --> 1:25:57.479 was a dude. I was like, you want to know, 1:25:58.800 --> 1:26:00.240 But I asked me if you wanted to him, and 1:26:00.280 --> 1:26:02.640 he was like, I can't do all that, And I 1:26:02.720 --> 1:26:06.000 was just like, okay, well, how how can I do this? 1:26:06.160 --> 1:26:07.559 If I want to get up and go somewhere. If 1:26:07.560 --> 1:26:09.800 somebody can't match me on that, then that to me, 1:26:09.880 --> 1:26:12.360 I can't handle. And I'm not gonna go as far well, 1:26:12.960 --> 1:26:15.400 I'm not big on I am big on potential to 1:26:15.439 --> 1:26:18.120 an extent I can't stand. I don't know where y'all 1:26:18.360 --> 1:26:20.439 at your ages with potential? Well, and and that's what 1:26:20.720 --> 1:26:23.200 So that's my thing like, because we're entering into an 1:26:23.240 --> 1:26:26.200 age where potential is yeah, and how many years I 1:26:26.360 --> 1:26:29.400 gonna take you? I'm about to be years old. Like 1:26:29.520 --> 1:26:33.240 I can't sit here and help a guy grow or 1:26:33.320 --> 1:26:35.280 raise a man. Or you're telling me of an idea 1:26:35.360 --> 1:26:38.160 that's not anywhere put even into fruition, or even when 1:26:38.200 --> 1:26:40.440 you talk about broke, I think broke is a mentality 1:26:40.520 --> 1:26:43.040 or mindset. If I meet a guy and say he's 1:26:43.040 --> 1:26:50.880 working no, no, no. But if you're working at say no, Well, 1:26:50.920 --> 1:26:53.280 if you're working at say a FedEx or something like that, 1:26:53.320 --> 1:26:55.840 and I meet you and you're working at FedEx? To me, 1:26:56.240 --> 1:26:59.479 I want, can we stop? I know, can we stop slandering? 1:26:59.520 --> 1:27:02.040 I think big started this? Can we stop slandering? Ups? 1:27:02.040 --> 1:27:09.680 And I mean it's problem? No, you know much Garbageman maker, No, 1:27:09.760 --> 1:27:11.360 they make like six figures in New York. They do. 1:27:11.520 --> 1:27:13.960 But to me, like, if you're in a situation where 1:27:13.960 --> 1:27:17.760 you're okay or content with making measily money, where you're 1:27:17.840 --> 1:27:19.920 living check to check, or you're not able to travel 1:27:20.000 --> 1:27:21.639 or do the things you want to do. To me, 1:27:21.920 --> 1:27:24.360 if you're a guy who isn't looking for a promotion, 1:27:24.360 --> 1:27:26.040 who isn't looking for a better job, who's not in 1:27:26.080 --> 1:27:29.040 school to better your education to be able to apply 1:27:29.120 --> 1:27:31.600 it better positions, and you're just okay with making what 1:27:31.640 --> 1:27:33.400 you're making and hoping you get a raise every year. 1:27:33.520 --> 1:27:35.719 To me, that's a broke mentality. Well, me, you're okay 1:27:35.720 --> 1:27:41.800 with making I don't know, because a lot of people 1:27:41.840 --> 1:27:44.960 don't have no I mean, if you got mad, like 1:27:45.040 --> 1:27:47.519 people are going to college and still can't pay that, 1:27:47.520 --> 1:27:50.160 that that ship off for a while, right, I mean, like, really, 1:27:50.200 --> 1:27:52.519 what money do you have? We could save motherfucker's ain't broke. 1:27:52.520 --> 1:27:55.160 But like Sally maybe says you is. I mean, if 1:27:55.160 --> 1:27:57.439 you don't own nobody money, you can easily end on 1:27:57.439 --> 1:28:00.920 that phone call and the and that's the thing. Like, 1:28:00.960 --> 1:28:03.680 so I can't I don't know. I can't say that 1:28:03.800 --> 1:28:05.920 someone that's comfortable with making their money and then waiting 1:28:05.920 --> 1:28:07.880 for a raison has a broke mentality, because this is 1:28:07.880 --> 1:28:10.600 the thing. If you're living comfortably, you and I like 1:28:10.640 --> 1:28:14.080 to travel, Mandy, we gotta do ship. He's talking about 1:28:14.120 --> 1:28:16.120 what we look for in partners. But that's not a 1:28:16.120 --> 1:28:19.559 broke mentality. Is to someone someone who wants to to 1:28:19.680 --> 1:28:21.439 see more in the world. And I feel like it 1:28:22.240 --> 1:28:26.679 broadens a person's a person's knowledge, their experiences. They're able 1:28:26.720 --> 1:28:28.679 to look at things differently. And so for me, being 1:28:28.720 --> 1:28:31.000 a woman who is well traveled and has traveled the world. 1:28:31.240 --> 1:28:32.960 I want a guy who wants to do that. A 1:28:33.000 --> 1:28:34.920 guy can't want to do that if he thinks that 1:28:35.360 --> 1:28:37.040 it costs a whole lot of money. Like I don't 1:28:37.040 --> 1:28:39.120 want a guy who thinks going to Miami is a 1:28:39.160 --> 1:28:43.360 fucking me neither. That's like going applebe taking a bitch 1:28:43.360 --> 1:28:45.800 to Miami for a birthday, like going Apple? What is that? 1:28:45.880 --> 1:28:47.320 By the way, this year, I went to Miami for 1:28:47.360 --> 1:28:49.120 my birthday and I told my friends. I was like, 1:28:49.160 --> 1:28:50.320 we have to say at the Montre and we have 1:28:50.360 --> 1:28:52.280 to eat somewhere really nice because I just realized what 1:28:52.280 --> 1:28:54.160 I did. I really wanted to be here because the 1:28:54.240 --> 1:28:56.400 snow in New York. But like, bro I feel like 1:28:56.479 --> 1:28:58.960 above how But this is the thing. I just don't 1:28:59.000 --> 1:29:01.160 want to say that someone as a broke mentality because 1:29:01.200 --> 1:29:04.839 they're comfortable with they're making because honestly, my lifestyle requires 1:29:04.840 --> 1:29:06.680 way more money. I take care of myself and to 1:29:06.800 --> 1:29:09.479 other adults, I have to make more money, but some 1:29:09.520 --> 1:29:14.439 people can't with women that Coleman broke, that are broke. Yeah, 1:29:14.560 --> 1:29:17.360 I know, and I don't told you though. That was 1:29:17.400 --> 1:29:19.360 me for a very long time as a bartender, and 1:29:19.640 --> 1:29:22.360 that came from me. Just like you said, I had 1:29:22.400 --> 1:29:24.120 guys in my phone who had a whole lot of money, 1:29:24.120 --> 1:29:26.040 And so we got to the point where in my 1:29:26.080 --> 1:29:31.080 mind broke making some money, no, but not some of it. 1:29:31.320 --> 1:29:33.679 Some of it, but there's not all bartenders and making 1:29:33.720 --> 1:29:36.040 money like not all. But I had ends announced, but 1:29:36.080 --> 1:29:40.120 I still wasn't making probably more than any given year 1:29:40.160 --> 1:29:44.200 depending Okay, I don't know, say that's bartending. So that's 1:29:44.200 --> 1:29:46.479 what I'm saying. Well, I wasn't bartending every day. I 1:29:46.479 --> 1:29:48.320 had summer gigs like, but that's what I'm saying. And 1:29:48.360 --> 1:29:50.120 there were times that because I had guys on my 1:29:50.160 --> 1:29:53.120 phone who had a lot of money, I would look 1:29:53.160 --> 1:29:55.479 at guys like you broke, and I know that maybe 1:29:56.560 --> 1:29:58.280 they even made more money than me, and I still 1:29:58.280 --> 1:30:00.680 looked at them as broke because of the access of 1:30:00.720 --> 1:30:02.040 guys that I had and the things that I was 1:30:02.120 --> 1:30:05.040 used to and being accommodated as far as getting flown out, 1:30:05.080 --> 1:30:07.960 being put in the nice hotels, eating at the nicest restaurants. 1:30:08.120 --> 1:30:11.320 So even just me having that experience with guys with money, 1:30:11.360 --> 1:30:13.400 I would look at niggas with my broke ass and 1:30:13.439 --> 1:30:15.680 call them broke. So I was that girl, but I 1:30:15.720 --> 1:30:17.560 mean we were younger too, and I think that I 1:30:17.600 --> 1:30:19.559 don't know if really women. I mean, I'm sure they are, 1:30:19.640 --> 1:30:22.439 but I feel like the older we get, the more 1:30:22.479 --> 1:30:24.679 we get into our later twenties and still is broken 1:30:24.760 --> 1:30:27.000 and they probably make more to me, so that hasn't changed. 1:30:27.040 --> 1:30:28.320 If you live with a guy, would you pay for 1:30:28.320 --> 1:30:33.919 a bill? I'll pay for the lace had this conversation 1:30:33.960 --> 1:30:37.320 already utilities, but I was just talking with my friend 1:30:37.320 --> 1:30:43.000 about that her deal with her boyfriend just bought a house, um, 1:30:43.360 --> 1:30:46.000 and I was like, so is your name on it? 1:30:46.080 --> 1:30:48.320 And she's like, no, but we split the rent. And 1:30:48.360 --> 1:30:50.720 I was like, you're paying for half of what hold on, 1:30:50.760 --> 1:30:52.720 hold on, hold on. He works with the government, but 1:30:52.760 --> 1:30:56.840 it doesn't matter. She makes money regardless. Why are you 1:30:56.880 --> 1:30:59.240 paying half of a mortgage on a house that your 1:30:59.320 --> 1:31:01.439 name is nowhere? Are in so at any given time, 1:31:01.439 --> 1:31:03.759 even if you're paying him that money And he says, 1:31:04.120 --> 1:31:08.720 get out, that's what I said, it's it's rent whatever. No, 1:31:08.840 --> 1:31:13.200 it's not rentage mortgage. Now she would pay rent. I 1:31:13.200 --> 1:31:14.920 would gonna say she would pay rent if she lives 1:31:14.920 --> 1:31:20.280 somewhere else. I feel like I would be real. I 1:31:20.479 --> 1:31:22.960 think that if your parent rents splitting It depends, right, 1:31:23.040 --> 1:31:26.519 If I was dating someone that was making let's say 1:31:26.560 --> 1:31:29.640 sixty five, they can't pay for all the rent in 1:31:29.680 --> 1:31:31.960 New York. They can't. And if that's the person I'll 1:31:32.000 --> 1:31:33.920 be with, I can't expect them too. I am just 1:31:34.040 --> 1:31:37.840 speaking from me expecting that I'll meet someone that's making 1:31:37.880 --> 1:31:39.280 what I make. I know they can handle a rent, 1:31:39.320 --> 1:31:43.320 but like, bro, my rent by myself once to utilities 1:31:43.360 --> 1:31:45.120 and my gas and my heat, my rents three grant, 1:31:45.600 --> 1:31:49.519 I mean it is like, how can I not expect 1:31:49.960 --> 1:31:52.320 someone making that money? Actually, I'll be real with you. 1:31:52.360 --> 1:31:54.240 I've been like fantastizing about it. I'm like, okay, I 1:31:54.560 --> 1:31:56.720 gotta keep it sack. If I keep your so and so, 1:31:57.400 --> 1:31:59.120 I ain't leaving my apartment because it's a ship, so 1:31:59.200 --> 1:32:01.400 they're gonna move in here and it can't pay three 1:32:01.479 --> 1:32:04.040 ran Like, I mean, what it's It's true? I mean, 1:32:04.120 --> 1:32:11.160 my thing, what would that have perception of it? Because 1:32:12.360 --> 1:32:14.600 I've been on my own for so long that I 1:32:14.680 --> 1:32:18.800 already have in my DNA that I'm paying all my bills, 1:32:19.400 --> 1:32:21.960 Like I don't have the split the bill mentality because 1:32:22.000 --> 1:32:25.920 I've literally lived by myself for so fucking long. So yeah, 1:32:25.960 --> 1:32:28.320 if my girl moved in, I would never It wouldn't 1:32:28.360 --> 1:32:31.120 be that conversation. I would just think, no, no, this 1:32:31.320 --> 1:32:33.639 is the place I live. I pay these bills. If 1:32:33.640 --> 1:32:36.720 you look at her differently, if she didn't offer to help, no, no, 1:32:37.560 --> 1:32:39.720 I could see how. I guess some people would. But 1:32:40.160 --> 1:32:44.200 my mentality, it's just I paid for myself. So I 1:32:44.280 --> 1:32:47.040 feel resentment though, So I want to tell you all 1:32:47.080 --> 1:32:50.320 something I know about a millionaire that I know who 1:32:51.000 --> 1:32:53.960 lives on Parking Something. Been with this girl for seven 1:32:54.040 --> 1:32:57.040 years and for some reason he's starting to get a 1:32:57.080 --> 1:32:59.720 little resentment towards her. There is about seven thousand he 1:32:59.880 --> 1:33:03.120 is asking her for seven dollars a month and she flipped. 1:33:04.560 --> 1:33:07.880 He said, is it a test? So he doesn't he 1:33:07.960 --> 1:33:10.040 doesn't need. So he told me that he feels like 1:33:10.120 --> 1:33:11.840 and this is what I mean by resentment has Obviously 1:33:11.880 --> 1:33:13.720 it doesn't have to do with money, but he says 1:33:13.760 --> 1:33:15.880 that he's felt like throughout the course of their relationship, 1:33:16.280 --> 1:33:19.000 she never makes an effort and to contribute into what 1:33:19.160 --> 1:33:21.280 they have together. And he says that he's tired of 1:33:21.400 --> 1:33:23.840 feeling like he is the only one that sacrifices. Right, 1:33:23.880 --> 1:33:25.519 he works so much. He's not an athlete, he's not 1:33:25.560 --> 1:33:30.360 an entertainer. He is worked. I'm just saying, like, I'm 1:33:30.360 --> 1:33:32.040 just saying, he doesn't have a lot of free time. 1:33:32.080 --> 1:33:34.280 He's working in the sixty seventy hours a week. So 1:33:34.560 --> 1:33:36.960 I told him I thought what he did was petty. 1:33:37.200 --> 1:33:39.680 And then he said, unless there was a test or 1:33:39.720 --> 1:33:41.760 something I do, I thought it was very petty. And 1:33:41.800 --> 1:33:44.640 then he said, well, what else am I supposed to 1:33:44.720 --> 1:33:47.360 do to feel like my girl gives a ship about 1:33:47.400 --> 1:33:49.360 what we have together? What could I have done clean 1:33:49.400 --> 1:33:51.120 and cook for him? Like? Does she not do the 1:33:51.240 --> 1:33:54.200 things as a woman would probably do who's not responsible 1:33:54.240 --> 1:33:55.920 to pay? But she works just she works about fourty 1:33:55.920 --> 1:33:59.400 hours a week, so there's probably an unappreciation. So I said, 1:33:59.680 --> 1:34:01.679 I think this is why, and this is why I've 1:34:01.680 --> 1:34:04.280 always felt like I was a decent partner, even when 1:34:04.800 --> 1:34:06.920 millionaires and a lot of my I think you've told 1:34:06.960 --> 1:34:08.640 me like I'll be bugging for paying for dinners. But 1:34:09.920 --> 1:34:14.439 I really like showing my gratitude towards men with money 1:34:14.640 --> 1:34:17.800 with meals and drinks and things like that, because I 1:34:18.000 --> 1:34:20.479 feel like it shows you that not him only am 1:34:20.479 --> 1:34:22.160 I just like just along for the ride or whatever. 1:34:22.240 --> 1:34:24.320 But like here I am and I can do this too. 1:34:24.560 --> 1:34:27.200 Don't forget it, you know, because I understand when you're 1:34:27.240 --> 1:34:31.040 with someone that's very financially stable, they're just expecting bitches 1:34:31.120 --> 1:34:33.320 to take it. And I always had men telling me, 1:34:33.360 --> 1:34:34.920 especially when I walk in their homes with a gift, 1:34:34.960 --> 1:34:36.960 whether the cigars or just like he brought the wine, 1:34:37.040 --> 1:34:39.200 like nobody ever brings me anything. No one's ever brought 1:34:39.200 --> 1:34:40.800 me something to my house. Sometimes they're being sage to 1:34:40.880 --> 1:34:42.760 do his house. I was sucking his one day and 1:34:42.760 --> 1:34:45.080 I brought him skittles and he liked that I brought 1:34:45.160 --> 1:34:50.960 him skittles. You have to because my girl, I would 1:34:50.960 --> 1:34:53.680 always pick up any check if it came to that 1:34:55.360 --> 1:34:58.560 without me even knowing paid for it, came to me 1:34:58.760 --> 1:35:01.479 with gifts that I didn't have, like there's a way 1:35:01.560 --> 1:35:03.560 to do it if you're paying. Not to say I 1:35:03.640 --> 1:35:06.040 am because we don't live together, but she picks up 1:35:06.040 --> 1:35:07.600 a lot of things that I don't ask her to do, 1:35:07.720 --> 1:35:09.439 which I have the same relationship with my friends too, 1:35:09.920 --> 1:35:11.880 Like if we're all eating, someone to just grab the chick. 1:35:12.000 --> 1:35:14.120 It's not it's not that big of a do. Like 1:35:14.320 --> 1:35:19.200 my girls the same way to do that. I got it, 1:35:19.240 --> 1:35:21.200 but I got it. Don't worry about it, my girl. 1:35:24.400 --> 1:35:28.560 My girl's definitely but basic. She knows no matter what, 1:35:29.240 --> 1:35:32.360 I'll cover it. But she's not pressed. She'll go pay 1:35:32.360 --> 1:35:34.040 that ship right away. Have you do you mind that's 1:35:34.080 --> 1:35:36.880 something attractive with your girl or that's have you ever 1:35:37.040 --> 1:35:39.040 noticed that like women picking up? Do you like that? 1:35:39.240 --> 1:35:41.560 Talk like I want to talk? Are you? Are you 1:35:41.640 --> 1:35:44.719 a regular dude? Well? I was raised by nothing but women. 1:35:44.800 --> 1:35:46.519 So if we're like on a first date or even 1:35:47.040 --> 1:35:49.760 up to date, up to date ten, I'm always going 1:35:49.800 --> 1:35:53.120 to pick that up. But in a relationship and so 1:35:53.200 --> 1:35:55.479 many years, and yeah, I think it's dope that my 1:35:55.600 --> 1:35:57.479 girl is financially stable enough to just be like, you know, 1:35:57.600 --> 1:36:00.200 I got that. Have you ever noticed, never offered? Has 1:36:00.200 --> 1:36:03.880 it ever bothered you? Uh? Yeah I have. But that 1:36:03.960 --> 1:36:06.840 went back to my bum chick theory. I need to 1:36:06.840 --> 1:36:09.040 stop sticking my dick now. Let's I want to ask 1:36:09.080 --> 1:36:11.320 this one thing that we asked for Andrew and Wax 1:36:11.400 --> 1:36:14.160 about the ubers. And Andrew was like, nah, you gotta 1:36:14.200 --> 1:36:15.920 get your own ship. I mean, if I'm sending you home, 1:36:16.040 --> 1:36:18.479 but who's gonna ask me for uber? To me how 1:36:18.520 --> 1:36:22.280 do you feel about sending ubers for dates to the 1:36:22.560 --> 1:36:26.200 wherever the location we're going something like that, or like 1:36:26.320 --> 1:36:27.840 come into your place, like are you I mean, if 1:36:27.840 --> 1:36:29.800 it's not really brought up. But then again, I would 1:36:29.800 --> 1:36:31.320 look at her weird if she was like, oh, you 1:36:31.360 --> 1:36:34.120 can get me there. It's New York though, so it's different, 1:36:34.200 --> 1:36:36.880 different if you're different. Yeah, I can't really call it. 1:36:36.960 --> 1:36:39.000 Like if I was in Atlanta and she didn't have 1:36:39.040 --> 1:36:41.680 a car, I might bring up like yo, like you 1:36:41.720 --> 1:36:44.080 need a uber or something to get there? No, not yeah, 1:36:44.360 --> 1:36:47.519 don't have a car Atlanta, Atlanta, I might like say, yo, 1:36:47.920 --> 1:36:49.639 you need a uber or something. But in New York 1:36:49.920 --> 1:36:53.679 we take the train like it's yeah, I don't know. Yeah, 1:36:54.000 --> 1:36:56.360 that's hard to answer in New York. I feel like 1:36:58.320 --> 1:37:00.960 sometimes for me, like I've always had men offer after 1:37:01.080 --> 1:37:05.800 which I appreciate um, Like I usually uber uber home 1:37:06.040 --> 1:37:07.880 yeah yeah, yeah, after I'm at home, and that's a 1:37:07.920 --> 1:37:10.240 safety issue. I don't want you getting on the train 1:37:10.360 --> 1:37:12.360 and I don't want the last person, especially like I 1:37:12.400 --> 1:37:14.920 don't know where you live, like yeah, it could be 1:37:14.960 --> 1:37:17.000 a while. Ye I agree with that. I agree. I 1:37:17.040 --> 1:37:18.960 mean I think it's just weird, like Dating in New 1:37:19.040 --> 1:37:20.720 York is much different than dating in a lot of 1:37:20.760 --> 1:37:23.519 other cities, like because in other cities, it's the gesture 1:37:23.640 --> 1:37:26.080 of does he pick me up? Do I meet him there? Yeah? 1:37:26.560 --> 1:37:28.400 It's like you don't really have people picking you up 1:37:28.439 --> 1:37:30.960 for dates in real life because so many people don't 1:37:31.000 --> 1:37:33.920 have cars. It's just even if they being from New York, 1:37:34.000 --> 1:37:36.800 picking somebody up for a date is the weirdest thing, like, wait, 1:37:36.840 --> 1:37:42.280 I'm picking you up? The date once in New York 1:37:42.320 --> 1:37:44.840 and I thought either he got a lot of money 1:37:45.080 --> 1:37:47.040 or none because he lived in Jersey. He lived in Jersey. 1:37:47.560 --> 1:37:52.519 I was about to say Jersey. But the Niggers in 1:37:52.600 --> 1:37:55.800 Jersey got cars. They just lives mad far and like so. 1:37:56.160 --> 1:37:57.960 And I was joking about it the first time. I like, 1:37:58.360 --> 1:37:59.920 I do they head of car? And I was like, wow, 1:38:00.080 --> 1:38:04.280 you admit her what a car? He's rich. I had 1:38:04.280 --> 1:38:05.360 a car and I got rid of that ship. I 1:38:05.439 --> 1:38:09.320 was like, this is collecting Porkin in New Jersey, it 1:38:09.400 --> 1:38:13.680 was still collecting. But I live in Jersey City and 1:38:13.760 --> 1:38:16.080 I live above the bath Ring, so it's like, why 1:38:16.479 --> 1:38:18.960 to come over. I know where you live in I 1:38:19.040 --> 1:38:21.760 have in your girl car for us. Right, She's gonna 1:38:21.800 --> 1:38:24.920 find us. She's gonna find us. But um, I'm thank 1:38:24.960 --> 1:38:27.160 you so much, I guess Roy for coming on to 1:38:27.320 --> 1:38:31.160 our show. You guys have not um listened yet, please 1:38:31.200 --> 1:38:33.120 tune in. A lot of you probably came from the Joe, 1:38:33.160 --> 1:38:34.720 but I think everyone listens to the job but the 1:38:34.760 --> 1:38:37.320 podcast now. But if you don't, it's a really good show. 1:38:37.720 --> 1:38:40.760 It could use y'all could use some more listening. I 1:38:40.800 --> 1:38:42.799 mean to be honest. We have a lot of female listeners. 1:38:42.840 --> 1:38:45.439 And I will tell y'all, I actually just started listening 1:38:45.680 --> 1:38:49.519 to your podcast this year. I picked certain faithfully. I 1:38:49.600 --> 1:38:51.479 picked certain episodes that I want. I know you listen 1:38:51.520 --> 1:38:54.240 all the time. I listened like this podcast sometimes I 1:38:54.280 --> 1:38:56.120 have to cut it off. No, I'm not gonna lie. 1:38:56.160 --> 1:38:58.200 I listened to the ones that I like. I didn't 1:38:58.200 --> 1:39:01.080 work for a month and a half, and I felt 1:39:01.240 --> 1:39:03.040 I fell off on Brilliant Idiots and the Reading. A 1:39:03.120 --> 1:39:05.920 lot of the other podcasts I listened to, No but 1:39:06.200 --> 1:39:10.400 I know, but coming you fell No, No, No, and 1:39:11.080 --> 1:39:12.640 well notw that I'm back working, I listen. But I 1:39:12.680 --> 1:39:15.639 will say faithfully, I listened to y'all every week, even 1:39:15.680 --> 1:39:16.880 if I was on the plane, if I was on 1:39:16.920 --> 1:39:18.920 the train. Somehow I managed to still listen to you 1:39:19.000 --> 1:39:21.960 guys weekly, so I really enjoy your podcast. I actually 1:39:22.040 --> 1:39:23.920 used to just only like pick some and then for 1:39:24.040 --> 1:39:25.560 some reason, I don't know which one it was that 1:39:25.640 --> 1:39:28.439 got me and I was like, you know what, I'm 1:39:28.479 --> 1:39:30.040 gonna listen to every single one and and now I 1:39:30.120 --> 1:39:31.800 love it. It's a part of my repertoire to sit 1:39:31.800 --> 1:39:34.320 through y'all niggas be so long it takes me a day. Dude, 1:39:34.360 --> 1:39:36.519 then three hour episodes be killing me. I need we 1:39:36.600 --> 1:39:40.080 used to do and yeah, but I just want y'all 1:39:40.120 --> 1:39:41.840 to know, as much as y'all may kill us, we 1:39:41.880 --> 1:39:45.439 ain't ever doing. To be fair, it's good. It's good content. 1:39:45.760 --> 1:39:54.439 This has been recording. I didn't say talk about it, 1:39:54.520 --> 1:39:58.360 and it was a drake. I was like, y'all did 1:39:58.520 --> 1:40:01.040 such a good job that I sex that and the 1:40:01.120 --> 1:40:04.519 way y'all like bitches love now stop, I'm like, wait, 1:40:04.640 --> 1:40:08.760 we really great episode. See Roy, this is now I'm 1:40:08.800 --> 1:40:11.200 convinced you make the episodes long. But the Joe but 1:40:11.400 --> 1:40:18.760 the podcast he had a drinking for Yeah, but we're 1:40:18.760 --> 1:40:21.519 about to do I'm not about to go to the spa. 1:40:21.880 --> 1:40:24.040 And I actually have another podcast that I'm going to 1:40:24.040 --> 1:40:26.680 be on, right, I know, I am going to the 1:40:26.760 --> 1:40:29.080 spot um Spot cast a little premiere fifty seven in 1:40:29.120 --> 1:40:32.439 the city. I went there, so, yeah, yo, let me 1:40:32.479 --> 1:40:34.559 tell you something about podcast. I got to me she's 1:40:34.680 --> 1:40:36.719 keep it going, premiere fifty seven. It's something I found 1:40:37.720 --> 1:40:40.320 super nice. So I posted them there. Right. One of 1:40:40.400 --> 1:40:42.800 our listeners is like, yo, fan of the show. My 1:40:42.920 --> 1:40:45.160 ex man is in there with his new bitch. Can 1:40:45.200 --> 1:40:47.360 you take a picture. I was like yeah, I was 1:40:47.439 --> 1:40:48.960 like all the black people there and I was like 1:40:51.360 --> 1:40:55.120 so much right right, I guess where else can our 1:40:55.200 --> 1:40:58.760 listeners find you? Boy? I'm on Twitter? Okay, we'll give 1:40:58.840 --> 1:41:01.479 them your Twitter better know who I am already. This 1:41:01.680 --> 1:41:06.280 is Rory. We're do say pelluses in Detroit August eleventh. Yeah, 1:41:06.600 --> 1:41:08.640 we're in Philly from made An America Weekend, which is 1:41:08.680 --> 1:41:13.240 the last weekend of August, and then more dates are coming. Okay, York, 1:41:13.280 --> 1:41:15.840 I have not been to be could you trash? You 1:41:15.960 --> 1:41:18.559 know I've been about not you know what I'm saying. 1:41:18.560 --> 1:41:21.600 I didn't know. It was super good time, So I 1:41:21.640 --> 1:41:23.519 appreciate you not going to talk about the hashtag I 1:41:23.640 --> 1:41:26.080 created for you know, funk your hashtag. What is it? 1:41:26.479 --> 1:41:28.519 We were in l A there all star we here 1:41:28.920 --> 1:41:31.600 and what was it? Let him hit? Let's let Chris kill? No, 1:41:31.840 --> 1:41:35.360 let Chris Chris. Chris one of my best friends. He's 1:41:35.400 --> 1:41:39.040 the host of No. We're just friends and so we're 1:41:39.120 --> 1:41:42.360 just super cool, super cool friends. I was on my 1:41:42.960 --> 1:41:46.120 live and I started a campaign of Chris kill because 1:41:46.120 --> 1:41:48.600 they was getting real cuddly in the side bro I 1:41:48.760 --> 1:41:50.720 was drunk. We was just chilling. But I could be 1:41:50.920 --> 1:41:56.240 friends without giving them pussy friend. We weren't cuddling, we 1:41:56.320 --> 1:42:00.160 were sitting drinking. I was not cutting Chris hashtag. Next 1:42:00.200 --> 1:42:02.519 one might be let cavs because I went to h 1:42:02.680 --> 1:42:05.160 the anthony with Alex and Cas. Alex was like, I 1:42:05.280 --> 1:42:08.360 see you bitch. I was like, you know, he got 1:42:08.439 --> 1:42:10.680 somebody ain't doing, played way too much. And then of 1:42:10.760 --> 1:42:12.800 course his whole live because you know he's popping, so 1:42:12.920 --> 1:42:14.880 you have like three hundred motherfuckers in there, they're all 1:42:14.960 --> 1:42:17.400 just like doing the hashtag. I'm like, see you play 1:42:17.479 --> 1:42:20.080 some motherfucking much Like why not? He just plays too much, 1:42:20.240 --> 1:42:21.720 way too much, And I don't have time for that ship, 1:42:21.880 --> 1:42:23.240 you know what. I feel like, as much as I 1:42:23.320 --> 1:42:25.560 want to in the industry. Right now, I feel like 1:42:25.760 --> 1:42:29.639 because we've grown on our own without industry, this word 1:42:29.640 --> 1:42:34.960 podcast industry celebrities though we're not celebt podcast industry. You know, 1:42:35.080 --> 1:42:37.680 as much as like I'm meeting where people in this ship, 1:42:37.720 --> 1:42:40.360 I'd be like, I guess I can't. Fuck you know 1:42:40.520 --> 1:42:46.720 you can't, definitely can. I mean again, I want to 1:42:46.720 --> 1:42:49.559 give a super shout out to our patrons um who 1:42:49.680 --> 1:42:52.160 support our episodes and our shows. And just so you know, 1:42:52.320 --> 1:42:54.519 if you have tuned into all of our episodes this 1:42:54.680 --> 1:42:56.960 is now, probably were almost approaching eight, but I want 1:42:57.000 --> 1:42:59.960 to let you know that we dropped too bonus episodes 1:43:00.000 --> 1:43:02.280 a month to our patrons. 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Okay, I 1:43:26.120 --> 1:43:28.639 turned it, but my point is we had a girl 1:43:28.680 --> 1:43:30.799 on the talked about a girl being sun by wine bottle, 1:43:31.080 --> 1:43:33.080 and all I could do is hold this ship and 1:43:33.200 --> 1:43:38.000 think like how far maybe it was this they get 1:43:38.040 --> 1:43:42.280 to calories per serving, because bro, this is thick. I'm done. Yeah, 1:43:42.320 --> 1:43:44.840 I wouldn't. I wouldn't fit that in my asshole or pussy. 1:43:45.200 --> 1:43:48.120 But anyways, we're both like anyways, I just want to 1:43:48.160 --> 1:43:49.960 say not to damp for the mood. I can't come 1:43:50.000 --> 1:43:52.000 in this place and I get said rest in peace, 1:43:52.040 --> 1:43:55.479 Combat Jack and everything that he's built. I love Reggie. 1:43:55.640 --> 1:43:57.559 I'm gonna get emotional again, but every time I come 1:43:57.560 --> 1:44:00.360 in the engine room, I get really sad. Really you 1:44:00.400 --> 1:44:03.840 are looking at I love. I loved combat that was 1:44:03.920 --> 1:44:07.120 my mayor. So rest in peace, Combat Jack, thank you 1:44:07.200 --> 1:44:08.960 for everything that you did. Can't be in the engine 1:44:09.040 --> 1:44:11.320 room without bringing you up or being on allowed Speaker 1:44:11.360 --> 1:44:15.080 Network podcast. Thank you. Shout out to network to be 1:44:15.200 --> 1:44:18.160 one for he let come on his vision, left this 1:44:18.240 --> 1:44:20.800 whole ship. None of us were doing this if it 1:44:20.840 --> 1:44:24.080 wasn't for fucking Combat Jack. So shout out Reggie and 1:44:24.120 --> 1:44:27.200 his whole family shout out. And again, well this has 1:44:27.240 --> 1:44:30.840 been another episode of horrible decisions. Bye bye,