Speaker 1: What welcome, guys, we are here. It is another episode
Speaker 1: of Horrible Decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy b I am Wheezy,
Speaker 1: and we have a very special guest. I just want
Speaker 1: to let y'all know real quick to UM, I ain't
Speaker 1: never been with a white guy, but Rory came in
Speaker 1: with wine and I felt like, damn you. That's how
Speaker 1: rumors get started. Actually, I've never been with a white guy,
Speaker 1: but Rory, where's the sentence going? No, Thettlee bottle because
Speaker 1: they're not kind of check and already they're not kind
Speaker 1: of check. I'll say I brought a very exclusive two
Speaker 1: thousand eighteen, Dwayne read is this Peanott? What is this?
Speaker 1: It is? Pan puts either that or some merlot know
Speaker 1: which one to bring. But we see you brought the
Speaker 1: James for yourself and I have Yeah, I'm rish. I okay.
Speaker 1: He's like I tried to do the Black Side of
Speaker 1: the Dark time, you know what I mean, Like I
Speaker 1: gotta go back worker and make money with so I
Speaker 1: would like to continue that. I know that's right. If
Speaker 1: you guys don't know who Rory is, he is, um
Speaker 1: the white voice on the Joe Button Podcast. There's another
Speaker 1: white voice. Well, yeah, Parks, but does he count of
Speaker 1: the voice? You're like the voice one of the white
Speaker 1: people in the culture of black cal Okay, So let
Speaker 1: me tell you the difference between you and Sam and Ahad,
Speaker 1: because I didn't know you were a Kappa until we interviewed.
Speaker 1: I interviewed, Yeah, so together. You know, Sam is younger
Speaker 1: than me. I feel like you've been retired two steps
Speaker 1: and Sam's am I right, yea for a while, my
Speaker 1: shoulders are retired, like you can't ship me right now?
Speaker 1: For it's like we can't get Rory don't know, I'll
Speaker 1: do some community. Let's stop it all themone, every black one.
Speaker 1: And I go to at a kapa and they're doing
Speaker 1: a stroll okay, and they grow Oh no, I can't
Speaker 1: speak for them, shimmy and at the brunch I love it.
Speaker 1: So by the way, where I want to say, you
Speaker 1: are very attractive in person, and I think, here you go.
Speaker 1: You already knew, you know with some from Reez. Here's
Speaker 1: the thing I love. I love our camera Guy Ericson,
Speaker 1: But I look nuts on that podcast. Yeah you do.
Speaker 1: I don't look like how I look. My dad called
Speaker 1: me and was like, dope, I'm not bold, but I
Speaker 1: look bold on that ship. My dad put a fucking
Speaker 1: head on. Well, my dad called me for that shows like,
Speaker 1: all right, you know you looked a little you looked.
Speaker 1: You look way better in person. I've been called reverse catfish.
Speaker 1: Shut up. Yeah, I just don't look good on camera. Well,
Speaker 1: we hope you better get his angles, girl, because we're
Speaker 1: gonna be I mean, well we look like you know
Speaker 1: you're not. You know, I didn't wear a bra for
Speaker 1: you or you can fight too, you know what? The problems?
Speaker 1: He just lets you know, don't she is she Latina? No,
Speaker 1: she's got still you know, I don't know. I don't
Speaker 1: problem ship. I had enough. I all the Jamaican Nicks
Speaker 1: in our Lando and usk me because that's from from
Speaker 1: So once I saw you guys like Smiles and South
Speaker 1: Star girls the Chinese one. But something what you think
Speaker 1: is going on? That's them right? May you know? I
Speaker 1: would pay Smiles the South Star to come to Dulu.
Speaker 1: Really they're fun, but they would have to wear the
Speaker 1: jeans with all of the NBA logos on. They would
Speaker 1: have to Why don't you guys have a party like that?
Speaker 1: What I want to wear some Timberland Hills oh my god,
Speaker 1: we do like that would be dope because we all
Speaker 1: kind of nineties babies. You're actually in our realm of Asia. No,
Speaker 1: I thought you werelder than me. I think everyone's older.
Speaker 1: I didn't mean it. You know what I'm gonna take
Speaker 1: just because we're education. You guys are very mature and
Speaker 1: talk about sex much different than younger women. I'm always
Speaker 1: talking about come swapping, but I'll go, I mean, that's sure.
Speaker 1: So what we like to do when we have guests
Speaker 1: on and you had my friends on the ropes two
Speaker 1: weeks ago, Cast and low but they didn't sit. My
Speaker 1: guys held it down no, real quick, real quick. So
Speaker 1: I saw low Um. So I went to the Pelusa
Speaker 1: in Chicago and I saw low Key and he was like, yo, Cast,
Speaker 1: I didn't even know what I was walking into and
Speaker 1: your girl trying to get me. But he was like,
Speaker 1: I just I had it cool. He was like, thank
Speaker 1: god I wasn't drinking or something like that. He said
Speaker 1: something it wasn't on the like shot off and I
Speaker 1: felt so bad because it was such a great episode.
Speaker 1: We had an audio funk up and when we were leaving,
Speaker 1: it was like sitting in the elevator so quiet, and
Speaker 1: he's like, I just I didn't know where it was
Speaker 1: gonna go. I did not know, So we were all
Speaker 1: at dinner before they went. It was me, Cam Low
Speaker 1: and Cas was like, Y gon do this Horrible Decisions
Speaker 1: podcast and someone called with me. I had something to do,
Speaker 1: Cam and something to do, so Low was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll do it. And I was like, all right, I
Speaker 1: hope you ready. You'll see you fucking liar. I asked
Speaker 1: you to come on. You're like, I'm in l a. No, yeah,
Speaker 1: I was at that time, not the same day I
Speaker 1: recorded that wasn't shot said were dinner? Were you asked? You?
Speaker 1: Asked me a week after? They was? I met guy?
Speaker 1: When I got you together? Right now? He said, but
Speaker 1: look she really don't be drinking, so her date's probably
Speaker 1: gonna be messed up. And I apologize beforehand if she
Speaker 1: comes out of character because you brought drinks. And when
Speaker 1: I bring drinks, she's like, are you know I don't drink?
Speaker 1: Was raised, beautiful white ass. She was like, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: I'm getting it. I mean, you know whatever, So let's
Speaker 1: ask the questions. Okay, are you guys in the three sums?
Speaker 1: Me and my girlfriend I mean, let's just go just
Speaker 1: so real quick. We like we like to do. Ice
Speaker 1: was broken at come swapping, but we did asked you
Speaker 1: about the cup, so it was underwater at this point.
Speaker 1: We're under underwater, by the way. That's water boarding, right.
Speaker 1: Look here here she goes. So I want to know,
Speaker 1: I guess answer the question because I didn't even know
Speaker 1: who's gonna ask that. But are you and your significant
Speaker 1: other into three sum stories? That's something that's been she's
Speaker 1: she's not into girls at all. That's something that you want.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've done it before, but not with her,
Speaker 1: and that's not her thing. That's not her thing. Honestly
Speaker 1: though I appreciate that because a lot of someone so bad.
Speaker 1: But if your girl's not into it, then why do
Speaker 1: you keep fishing? It would be a fucking nightmare. First
Speaker 1: of all, two guys that have not had threesomes that
Speaker 1: want to have them. I hope you know it's not
Speaker 1: for you, Like if you go in there and think
Speaker 1: this is going to be dope for you're it's for
Speaker 1: those two women like you have to control to remember
Speaker 1: what Wax was saying, each other pussy and make each
Speaker 1: other come first. I just laid it. Yeah, No, that's
Speaker 1: a big strategy moment. You try to go in there
Speaker 1: and trying to navigate ship like now you fucked. You know.
Speaker 1: Every time, the dude is always exhausted. See that's why
Speaker 1: I worked a lot. The last guy that I had
Speaker 1: a threesome with, he went forty five minutes with just me.
Speaker 1: So he went forty five minutes with both of us,
Speaker 1: and I was like, thank God, there's another pussy in
Speaker 1: here because he tore my the funk up. Three sums
Speaker 1: are fun break so and I feel like the Cauls
Speaker 1: get ready for threesomes, so like they just be really
Speaker 1: on there, like you know what I mean. Like he
Speaker 1: was watching when he was drinking, he was ready to fun.
Speaker 1: So I was like so glad. At one point, I'm like,
Speaker 1: am I schafing? You're sucking the shit out of me?
Speaker 1: And it's really because you show you gotta show up.
Speaker 1: There's a crowd. It's exhausting a three way relationships. I
Speaker 1: mean I've dated two people together and like I could
Speaker 1: tell how tired he was of like just being like,
Speaker 1: oh god, now I got get for this. It's I
Speaker 1: think men are nuts for doing that. It's a lot
Speaker 1: like bitches by themselves? Is it was fun because like
Speaker 1: when I'm tired personalities, let them start beefing, and you
Speaker 1: got to be the middle man, you know, picking side.
Speaker 1: He couldn't make it somewhere right. He was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I have a work thing, blah blah blah. In the
Speaker 1: group chat. Her and I both it was like, She's like,
Speaker 1: but you didn't say that earlier. I'm like, when you've
Speaker 1: never told us you gotta work thing, you never like
Speaker 1: going to work ship. Also, now you're too busy. I
Speaker 1: was like, yo, he thought the blocks, like the group
Speaker 1: chat was on you. That's too much. That's why too.
Speaker 1: So I want to I never want my relationship to
Speaker 1: have a group chat. But that's not well. Y'all can
Speaker 1: send all the cool The memes be fine, right, the
Speaker 1: memes be fine. The gypsis okay. So I want to
Speaker 1: ask you this too before we go to our vanilla ship,
Speaker 1: but would you rather go a year without head or
Speaker 1: a year without sex? I'm tired of these days, man,
Speaker 1: I'll just take of the head. Really does it well? Though?
Speaker 1: That's another thing? Okay? Do you so head? Is you
Speaker 1: enjoy head? Do you enjoy head more than pussy? Though? No,
Speaker 1: of course not No, I'd be tired. You'd be tired.
Speaker 1: It's a very busy time in my life. You would
Speaker 1: ask me that three years ago. Well, no, we could
Speaker 1: find would head as long as I could get some
Speaker 1: because when I'm gay for like a few months, when
Speaker 1: I Dave bitches all I get his hands anyway, I
Speaker 1: mean I could fuck your mouth, Conda kind of be
Speaker 1: like sex. I love, I love my moth. I like
Speaker 1: when I'm scared of you running this ship. I don't
Speaker 1: like all that, but I don't be wanting to feel
Speaker 1: like but I do like mouth and like I like
Speaker 1: when they're like on top of my mouth, Like, oh,
Speaker 1: I like balls, period, I'd be licking the balls and
Speaker 1: then of course trying to go under them. But we're
Speaker 1: not gonna talk about that because you know that's no.
Speaker 1: This isn't the ass eating episode. Are you into that? Uh?
Speaker 1: To an extent, there's a way, what's an extent? I'm
Speaker 1: not too my ass in there. I was raised a
Speaker 1: certain way. You look, but you would rather be like
Speaker 1: if I'm if I'm in the regular, if I'm in
Speaker 1: the regular head position and you happen to go down there,
Speaker 1: I'm not stop you but do you, but just a
Speaker 1: little bit more so she could access the ass whole better.
Speaker 1: My pelvic area is gonna stay where this question he's
Speaker 1: ever been took on of colleges and she's like, bring
Speaker 1: your butt all the way to the bottom. Once you
Speaker 1: feel like, do you, then I've adjusted a bit. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't say my leg was on anyone's shoulder. My grandfather
Speaker 1: Roan is fucking grave. If my legs about your grandfather
Speaker 1: while you're getting your asthlet it wasn't. That was staying
Speaker 1: right now. But I'm cool with the ass eating. That's
Speaker 1: fine as a woman. Never what's about the finger because
Speaker 1: we know low Ki talking. I call him Thumbelina right now?
Speaker 1: That was that was in our group chat like we
Speaker 1: was like the next morning, low you nasty were telling
Speaker 1: that story. Though it's never happened to me. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying I would be against it, but it's never happened.
Speaker 1: But she wouldn't kick a bitch in her face if
Speaker 1: she did it, Like you would still accept the finger.
Speaker 1: If I didn't like it, I mean, well no, no, no no,
Speaker 1: it's hard at you would like it's more like a surprise.
Speaker 1: They had the reaction that a lot of men are like,
Speaker 1: I'm cool, I've had I've had a doctor do it.
Speaker 1: Wasn't that cool? It wasn't that cool? And the globe
Speaker 1: was on it. That shows security and rasculinity, though, because
Speaker 1: a lot of men feel very threatened by hands or
Speaker 1: anything around their back to them and it's like, girl
Speaker 1: is down there, Then why am I gay? How could
Speaker 1: you be gay? Girls? A lot of people feel like
Speaker 1: I guess you would feel the same way if we
Speaker 1: talked about pegging, Then what's pegging? When you funk a
Speaker 1: guy with a strap on? That, okay, you just gay.
Speaker 1: If it's a girl doing it, you just said it's
Speaker 1: a girl doing it. You're saying a girl a girl
Speaker 1: sucking a guy with a trap on. Oh no, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't call it gay, Okay, but it's just not I
Speaker 1: would never do it. Okay, I might, Yeah, but you might.
Speaker 1: That's like a line you could continue going to gay.
Speaker 1: I think that draws right there. You know what's crazy? No,
Speaker 1: we got something bringing that up. So for the Vanilla Ship,
Speaker 1: what we wanted to have the conversation with Well, Vanilla
Speaker 1: Ship is our segment where we like pretty much bring
Speaker 1: up an article or something that I thought it was
Speaker 1: about my skin color dedicated to me. Actually, it's not
Speaker 1: about the white guy fun this week. That's basically, what
Speaker 1: are you like a serial white guy fucker. More recently,
Speaker 1: when I moved to New York, like, I more black
Speaker 1: men in my life, Sam after the podcast, No, but
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what, Andrew. No, We're gonna go to
Speaker 1: everybody thinks I sucked Andrew. I tried to throw the
Speaker 1: pussy at Andrew and no, no, no no, it wasn't that
Speaker 1: that happened, but it kind of just like died. And
Speaker 1: then when he invited me to Burning Man, I was like,
Speaker 1: I guess we really are just friends in now, because
Speaker 1: you ain't invited me out or not. Could it Burnie?
Speaker 1: I could definitely it, Burnton. I feel like, man, people,
Speaker 1: fuck it Burnie. I think that's probably what you think.
Speaker 1: That's a I think that's all you do. Like listen,
Speaker 1: we got it's just me and Alex in the rvy.
Speaker 1: We got a bed on the other side for you
Speaker 1: do drugs and Burnie Man. I know they've been talking
Speaker 1: about Burning Man, but I just feel like you wouldn't
Speaker 1: bring someone to Burning Man to them when there's an
Speaker 1: orgy t burning that's ironic. To be fair, men cannot
Speaker 1: go on the tent without a woman. So he wanted
Speaker 1: to bring out me Alex and you know, he was
Speaker 1: a wit right over your head, wheezy. I was like,
Speaker 1: we're just friends, kus, you know. No, So like on
Speaker 1: since I moved to New York, I've been like exploring
Speaker 1: pretty much every I've been starting with Eastern Europe and
Speaker 1: moving on to the West, so like you know, Croatia, Latvia, um, Russia,
Speaker 1: and then I just can absolutely all right, now that's
Speaker 1: why not now because I'm gonna relationship. But before that's
Speaker 1: why I couldn't really be a superhore because I don't
Speaker 1: like condoms. Well, I'll tell you what. That's why I
Speaker 1: couldn't just do that has really been sucking me up
Speaker 1: because I've had a primary partner and he's really good.
Speaker 1: Dick is big, and you know, we're both safe and
Speaker 1: we don't use condoms. I have slept with my first
Speaker 1: person outside of him. Um just on Wednesday, condom I
Speaker 1: stuck right on my post and I was like, you
Speaker 1: know what, I talked about that at no point, like
Speaker 1: I don't want to use it wasn't as good. I
Speaker 1: like to steal a dick in a skin and like
Speaker 1: I want to lick it off and all of that,
Speaker 1: you know, and it's just like, but I like sucking
Speaker 1: dick right in the I want to. I'll be like,
Speaker 1: let me taste it, you know what I'm saying, And
Speaker 1: I don't want to like lick the condom and get
Speaker 1: I love it. He pulls it off and then comes
Speaker 1: into my mouth. And that's threesomes. Like, oh, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: not using three sums up with a condom, is card,
Speaker 1: but we're getting hold on. You always use condoms, so
Speaker 1: but I don't. I haven't. I don't have much threesomes though,
Speaker 1: like with women, and like I just had the one
Speaker 1: not too long ago, but he sucked her all. That
Speaker 1: was his baby mama, right, So like um and other
Speaker 1: threesomes that I've had, there has been a condom. But
Speaker 1: to me, I've also had one where he switched condoms
Speaker 1: before going to us, so it was a lot more
Speaker 1: work for him. That's the thing. You got that same
Speaker 1: condom my Michael Flora and my pH balance. I'm very
Speaker 1: proud of the smell of my pussy, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So you're even if you have a condom on while
Speaker 1: you're having a threesome. If you're using that same condom
Speaker 1: between both girls, y'all may as well all the condoms.
Speaker 1: But I mean when I was sleeping with collect Diary Dating,
Speaker 1: we shared our results give the swell pack this one.
Speaker 1: We shared our results and we were able to have
Speaker 1: a threesome without condoms. And I really liked that. That
Speaker 1: was a very adult threesome, Like you know what ault
Speaker 1: because only one of them had birth controls, so you
Speaker 1: know we know how that ended. But anyway, got pregnant
Speaker 1: a threesome. Oh my god, my bad. I cannot movie.
Speaker 1: You just find we've never said that this show. No,
Speaker 1: I do not want I didn't even know, but I'm
Speaker 1: just saying it wasn't that responsible. Does that automatically make
Speaker 1: you the aunt godmother? If he was there when she
Speaker 1: found out she was pregnant on Mother's Day? This was
Speaker 1: two years ago, and I was like, so, I hope
Speaker 1: you went to the christening anyway. She felt so guilty.
Speaker 1: She's like, oh my god, happened not Easter, that was
Speaker 1: the day, but that even though she felt guilt. Actually
Speaker 1: we was on the phone with me like I feel
Speaker 1: like this is all my fault. I felt responsible, but
Speaker 1: he was telling him to like he was him. I
Speaker 1: wanted to eat the crystal to you eat cream pie.
Speaker 1: You're filthy as ship. That's probably one thing I standard.
Speaker 1: How do you think we're now? I'm filthy here? You
Speaker 1: bet you passed on it. You have a whole banana
Speaker 1: in your mouth. That the was too far for you though,
Speaker 1: I literally told you, but I was swapping seamen. On
Speaker 1: second episode, Hi goes on the higher of the pyramid.
Speaker 1: Besides olden showers, Bro, going to showers is like in
Speaker 1: the middle eating. Sorry, bro, if I'm liking pussy and
Speaker 1: I fucking swallow and I just licked the come off
Speaker 1: of her pussy's fire, to me, that is like you.
Speaker 1: I would like, yeah, I would like to watch that.
Speaker 1: That's cool, you would watch it. That's what that was
Speaker 1: like my big fantasy. And then it look would happen
Speaker 1: almost a baby. So if you suck them like you
Speaker 1: kind of gave her an abortion. I can't believe I'm
Speaker 1: telling us, but it's not even an abortion because the
Speaker 1: whole baby stage. Okay, hold on, she was on the depot.
Speaker 1: I didn't know this until later. She was on the
Speaker 1: depot and just like, I know what that means. It's
Speaker 1: a shot. It's it's so it's a form of birth control.
Speaker 1: I think you get in with the patches and ship. No,
Speaker 1: it's a shot, but you get a shot and you
Speaker 1: have to do everything a month she still got pregnant. Um.
Speaker 1: But anyway, I mean, it was embarrassing for her, and
Speaker 1: I felt guilty. I'm like, look, it could have been me, right,
Speaker 1: That's not what you say, bro, That's not what you
Speaker 1: were the crazy, you were the creamer. Um. But we're
Speaker 1: gonna go ahead. So I want to talk about for
Speaker 1: our vanilla ship this week. We kind of want to
Speaker 1: talk about it because it's been a current discussion within
Speaker 1: not only Black Twitter, but Instagram Twitter amongst our friends.
Speaker 1: These are conversations I've been having in the group chat Um.
Speaker 1: If you guys don't know. Rory is also a part
Speaker 1: of the Wonderful fun Ask motherfucking party. Do Say Palouza
Speaker 1: um and so do Say Paluza is a party where
Speaker 1: mad black people get together and just drink Do Say
Speaker 1: and it's wonderful. Um. It used to be called Hanny
Speaker 1: Paluza back in the day. I went to the very
Speaker 1: first one, by the second one, I don't know how
Speaker 1: I got home. Um was the first one at Camp's house. Yes,
Speaker 1: I was at the very first one. That was so
Speaker 1: long ago. This was back when all you had to
Speaker 1: do was bring a bottle and it was so much fun.
Speaker 1: And then as it kept going, like I've been so drunk,
Speaker 1: my friend got fingered at the first Handy Paluza on handy. Yeah.
Speaker 1: See it's pretty say elish it. You know, Um, I've
Speaker 1: ended up get fingers. Well after the second one, I'm like, dance,
Speaker 1: you're just like bumping. Well, there's a whole basement of that.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, mad people fucking it. I wanted to
Speaker 1: bring up the conversation about drunk sex and consent um.
Speaker 1: This is something we've brought up at our live show,
Speaker 1: but with the current conversation that's going on um and
Speaker 1: us talking about maybe liking or disliking Henny Dick and
Speaker 1: fucking and as women us getting drunk and enjoying drunk
Speaker 1: sex to an extent or then we black out and
Speaker 1: maybe don't enjoy it when we wake up the next morning.
Speaker 1: So I kind of wanted to talk about it because
Speaker 1: with what you do when your party party, how you
Speaker 1: just said fingering is very common, like when you're drunk
Speaker 1: and you're at a SA palooza or you know, things
Speaker 1: are going to happen with liquor and individuals. So I
Speaker 1: wanted to kind of again have the open conversation about
Speaker 1: what our thoughts are on and having drunk sex consent,
Speaker 1: how we feel, and when a man maybe should not
Speaker 1: have sex when both parties are one party is drunk.
Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on that, and have you experienced
Speaker 1: anything with your parties and or hearing situations that have happened.
Speaker 1: I mean, I can't There's five thousand people at them ships,
Speaker 1: so I can't really speak to it. But there's just
Speaker 1: so many people. I don't know what's going on. But yeah,
Speaker 1: it's actually just how I sounded too. There's like so
Speaker 1: many people there, I can't keep track. But no, I
Speaker 1: definitely like you can see in the front row, like
Speaker 1: people get into you know, the lusty dance, like oh,
Speaker 1: they're about to fuck, but you know when people are
Speaker 1: about to fuck, and it's such a blurry and gray area.
Speaker 1: I would just think if if you think she's super,
Speaker 1: if you meet her drunk, I don't think you should suck.
Speaker 1: So it's really that you say, why do you say that?
Speaker 1: Why do you say that? Because you don't know her
Speaker 1: and her reactions to know what if you're drunk? Right right?
Speaker 1: This is why I want to have this conversation. By
Speaker 1: the way, I really an adult. As an adult, you
Speaker 1: should hold your liquor to a certain degree. We're speaking
Speaker 1: as adults, right, but we're talking about we're talking about
Speaker 1: but I think you should be able to manage your
Speaker 1: liquor as an adult. But you should know your intake
Speaker 1: and know when you're getting to a certain extent. Have
Speaker 1: you had times though, where you've been drinking, because I
Speaker 1: know how I have and both of you. Has there
Speaker 1: been times where you've been drinking and you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm good, and then it just hits you Because I
Speaker 1: get what you're saying with controlling your liquor. But I've
Speaker 1: been blacked out before. I've had blackout sex, and so
Speaker 1: I've been I've I've been the victim of where I
Speaker 1: thought I was good and then I woke up the
Speaker 1: next morning realizing that certain parts of the night I
Speaker 1: couldn't remember. So how is an adult do you gauge
Speaker 1: enough drinking when it comes to having This is why
Speaker 1: I also think friends are important. Okay, I think friends
Speaker 1: are very important. Rarely is everybody blacked out. Rarely Again,
Speaker 1: I'm speaking for me and my friends now. There's certain
Speaker 1: times that I've seen one of my friends engaging with
Speaker 1: a girl at Paloza and they're very drunk. I'm like,
Speaker 1: same for women, though, I think about when your girls
Speaker 1: sucked up me my bitch home on like we I
Speaker 1: don't know about you, but I don't let my drunk
Speaker 1: friends go home and nobody but yeah, but I the
Speaker 1: blocking friend. I used to hate the blocking, give me
Speaker 1: mad blocking friends blocked out my own dick blessings from
Speaker 1: being like, bitch, no, you got coming me like just
Speaker 1: because I don't trust in the fact that that man
Speaker 1: will take care of my friend at that moment, and
Speaker 1: especially like I just I don't know. I know it's
Speaker 1: the little feminist in me, but I've done it to women.
Speaker 1: I've been at a pizza parlor in Orlando. I think
Speaker 1: it's called Paninos, and I've seen a girl that was
Speaker 1: you know, Okay, so I don't say that because so
Speaker 1: we're from Orlando, but this is a pizza spot that's
Speaker 1: between all the clubs Central in downtown Orlando. And everyone
Speaker 1: goes here and you always see. So there was a
Speaker 1: girl wasted, and there was a dude, a big host
Speaker 1: in the scene in Orlando that was with her and
Speaker 1: he was so mad at me for two years. I
Speaker 1: walked right up to a girl. I was like, yo,
Speaker 1: are you okay? And she's like, yeah, I'm fine. I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know if you want to get like an
Speaker 1: uber home or something, but like you don't look like
Speaker 1: you can hold yourself up too well, Like do you
Speaker 1: want me to take you home? And she was like, actually,
Speaker 1: yeah I do. And the girl huh, I don't find
Speaker 1: but if I want to funk and I see nothing
Speaker 1: about you know, and she said he said he was
Speaker 1: gonna take me home. I really don't have the money
Speaker 1: for uber, but you know, I figured like right, yeah,
Speaker 1: She's like I figured he might try taking his house,
Speaker 1: and like I really appreciate. Okay. So let's not have
Speaker 1: the conversation of the drunk girl stumbling out of the club.
Speaker 1: Let's take this to you are with somebody who you know,
Speaker 1: one who maybe you've been talking to. You both go
Speaker 1: out for drinks and now you're both drunk and both
Speaker 1: of you have discussed wanting to have sexual relations with
Speaker 1: each other prior to you getting to where you are.
Speaker 1: So now you're both drunk, she consented, Prior do you
Speaker 1: still have sex knowing that both of you guys are drunk?
Speaker 1: As a man, what what do you do in that
Speaker 1: position where both of y'all are drunk? Well, I can
Speaker 1: only speak for me, Okay, of course I have somewhat
Speaker 1: control of myself when I'm drinking. Of course I'm drunk,
Speaker 1: but I know right from role when I'm drunk. You know,
Speaker 1: sex though with a lot of like third or fourth dates,
Speaker 1: like that's my number, I feel like, not on purpose,
Speaker 1: but it's just usually happened. Grow up right, three dates girls,
Speaker 1: Shut the funk up? Go ahead, you know what your story,
Speaker 1: you fly and now your first days, I don't want
Speaker 1: to do That's what I'm saying. I like to give
Speaker 1: my pussy to somebody that I feel like I will
Speaker 1: sunk again and by first day? Am I sure that
Speaker 1: I like you that much? Because everybody on the first
Speaker 1: date is on their best behavior, So don't come for me.
Speaker 1: I Well, whoever, I want, whenever I want, whenever the
Speaker 1: chemistry feels right, whether be a first day of second day,
Speaker 1: third day, But generally by the third date, I feel
Speaker 1: like I will know if I'm gonna keep seeing this
Speaker 1: person or if I'm interested, and I just don't want
Speaker 1: to waste my time. So by that date, normally we're
Speaker 1: probably hanging out long and the bar is getting longer.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like we're going, we're hopping around.
Speaker 1: I'm normally pretty drunk by that third date, but I
Speaker 1: am also the drunk girl that asks for it. Right,
Speaker 1: I'll be like, yo, can you come home with me?
Speaker 1: Do you want to come home me? Blah blah blah,
Speaker 1: and not until they'll do them day now. Jeeves. He
Speaker 1: was the first person in my life. No no no, no, no.
Speaker 1: I think that's themes we did, we do and we
Speaker 1: So he was in my house and said to me, like, listen,
Speaker 1: if you want, we could just keep kissing and touching
Speaker 1: and playing around, and like we could wake up and
Speaker 1: finish whatever you want to finish, and asked me to
Speaker 1: take my after it was okay if he took his
Speaker 1: pants off when he got into my bed. And when
Speaker 1: I tell you, like, I was so impressed because it
Speaker 1: not only made me feel comfortable, but it also let
Speaker 1: me know that the the things I was experiencing may not
Speaker 1: have been right. Right. I know we're all here for
Speaker 1: the cool consent. That's great, but no, I mean not
Speaker 1: a lot of people are doing that though. But I
Speaker 1: think it's important to he respected that you drunk. He
Speaker 1: didn't he didn't want to put himself in that position,
Speaker 1: but you being drunk asking for the dick too. So
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I've had I've had sex multiple
Speaker 1: times where I have been blacked out, and depending on
Speaker 1: who the person is, I have woke up and just
Speaker 1: asked him did you come, where'd you come? Did we
Speaker 1: use a condom? And was really nonchalant about it. I
Speaker 1: want to avoid those type of covers, right, But then
Speaker 1: I've had I don't think that those conversations. I was
Speaker 1: with a person that I had been fucking four years.
Speaker 1: We went to the club, and that's so in that
Speaker 1: sense it was okay. But then again, I have had
Speaker 1: sex where I have blocked out and I woke up
Speaker 1: feeling violated, like why did you fuck me? And we
Speaker 1: were drunk, but he was saying, you asked for you
Speaker 1: wanted it you and and so that's kind of where
Speaker 1: I guess this gets gray for a lot of people.
Speaker 1: Would you would you say that maybe men should just
Speaker 1: walk away from having sex at all under the influence,
Speaker 1: especially being in the time where we are now with
Speaker 1: the Me Too movement and what we see is happening.
Speaker 1: I think it starts with liquor. I think men should
Speaker 1: moderate how they drink and know themselves. I think that's
Speaker 1: the first like about women being drunk. I'm thinking not necessarily.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, men have to remember
Speaker 1: we can't win in court women. Of course, males have
Speaker 1: much more privileged than women do. But in the court
Speaker 1: of law, whether it comes with baby mothers, child support, rape,
Speaker 1: we lose no matter what. And then a man, you
Speaker 1: have to remember, if we're both drunk and you say
Speaker 1: I raped you, it doesn't matter that I'm drunk. It
Speaker 1: only matters that she was drunk. You have to remember
Speaker 1: that law. So you have to keep that in the
Speaker 1: back of your mind. That's that whole ship. When I'm
Speaker 1: saying you need friends, you need to know how to drink,
Speaker 1: don't do that. Like you need to know right from wrong.
Speaker 1: If you're going out with a chick and she's drinking,
Speaker 1: you need to drink less to make that decision. Well,
Speaker 1: I think the main thing is, like I was the
Speaker 1: king before the King of just beating off in front
Speaker 1: of a chick if she was too drunk, I'll happily
Speaker 1: beat it. You can watch. I don't given like I'm
Speaker 1: gonna nut, but like, if you're too drunk, now, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna beat off somewhere I go on my little round
Speaker 1: and I'm cool. So so that would be I guess
Speaker 1: the girl that's drunk. No, you need to. We're we're
Speaker 1: going to lose in the court of law no matter what,
Speaker 1: we're going to lose. So when you go out, keep
Speaker 1: that in mind. You can don't fucking drink too much
Speaker 1: if you if you think you might suck this is
Speaker 1: this is something you don't remember. Like like a lot
Speaker 1: of dudes are so wait, like I don't know. And
Speaker 1: that's the thing, Like can I really place blame on
Speaker 1: two wasted people? I don't know if I can't. And
Speaker 1: the only thing I do plays a heavy blame on
Speaker 1: is men. Like in a situation where I took the
Speaker 1: girl from the pizza place that fu drunk girls, especially
Speaker 1: women that you haven't been with before, that you're putting
Speaker 1: yourself at risk with whether they asked for it or not. Right.
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna speak in turn from not from the
Speaker 1: women's perspective, where I really want to call all yell
Speaker 1: pieces of ship. But let's say for a guy to
Speaker 1: protect themselves, someone who is genuinely not trying to harm
Speaker 1: a woman or rape them, right, just the just the
Speaker 1: idea or the instance or the possibility that a woman
Speaker 1: could feel like she's violated. Why even bother like, there's
Speaker 1: just no point a woman knowing that you took care
Speaker 1: of them. Let's say girls at your house beat off,
Speaker 1: beat off before you leave out that or even if
Speaker 1: you took a girl home and didn't suck her and
Speaker 1: left to her space, she probably gonna give me a
Speaker 1: pussy an order anyway, because she's gonna be like girl
Speaker 1: I went home with him. He was so nice. He
Speaker 1: ain't even try every time I give pussy because I
Speaker 1: was like, he don't want it real quick. I also
Speaker 1: want to say that while we're blaming um men a
Speaker 1: lot of let me finish. Can I finish my topic? No, Well,
Speaker 1: I'm saying a lot of men are blamed. You just
Speaker 1: said that men will lose in the corner of law.
Speaker 1: And while I do want to put a little bit
Speaker 1: of the responsibility on us as women because with what
Speaker 1: you're saying and how you handle drunk situations, was this
Speaker 1: a conversation that was had with you growing up with
Speaker 1: your mom about when you started drinking and having sex
Speaker 1: with women. Was there a conversation that was had? Okay,
Speaker 1: so this is where I'm gonna say, if we're going
Speaker 1: to have this conversation clearly as adults, I feel like
Speaker 1: for a lot of the women out there who have
Speaker 1: sons or who have young boys, these are conversations that
Speaker 1: now need to be had, Like, son, I don't care
Speaker 1: if you're fucking or not, if you're out drinking though,
Speaker 1: this is what can happen, this is what needs to
Speaker 1: be done, and this is what you shouldn't do. And
Speaker 1: so as women raising these young boys and wanting to
Speaker 1: make change in society, I feel like it's our responsibility
Speaker 1: as women to have these conversations as mothers with our
Speaker 1: son and telling them what's right and wrong. We already
Speaker 1: know y'all gonna be out fucking. Women allow boys like
Speaker 1: it's not it's not like your dick is so um.
Speaker 1: I don't know kind of how how women we pride
Speaker 1: ourselves and keeping our virginity. It's not the same for men.
Speaker 1: So a lot of women are okay with their sons
Speaker 1: knowing that they out there fucking. But those conversations when
Speaker 1: it comes to liquor and people being under the influence
Speaker 1: aren't being had. They weren't had as us and we're
Speaker 1: just nineties babies, so I know it definitely wasn't had
Speaker 1: with people of Joe's era or you know, I can't
Speaker 1: speak for that. My mother absolutely, how conversation you're not
Speaker 1: a man though, I'm saying with women with women, but
Speaker 1: I'm saying for men that conversation, Yeah it was. It
Speaker 1: was a nice thing to happen myself. No, No, but
Speaker 1: that's something it's just with women having that conversation with
Speaker 1: young boys, not women to go. Yeah. Absolutely, I was
Speaker 1: trying to find any girl that would suck me like
Speaker 1: I was. That's all I was trying to do. And
Speaker 1: see at that age, what's the difference with like the
Speaker 1: drinking and the consensual thing now is like when you're
Speaker 1: a teenager, you're just wanting rolt and running rampant. But
Speaker 1: the other thing is that I think it's really important
Speaker 1: now is when I have heard conversations with men discussing
Speaker 1: what they've learned about sex. It was more about protection
Speaker 1: where condoms use this, that's the conversation you have. But
Speaker 1: it's not necessarily about the whole consent thing. Because when
Speaker 1: I was in high school, there were so many girls
Speaker 1: that felt pressured to do things that they did not
Speaker 1: want to do and um, and that was the majority
Speaker 1: of my conversations. And then as I got older, I
Speaker 1: got in the conversation of like making sure I put
Speaker 1: myself in the right situations and being responsible for holding
Speaker 1: my liquor. However, I still don't want to say that
Speaker 1: that necessarily means that a woman should feel blame on herself.
Speaker 1: I never said that she feels were saying, I know,
Speaker 1: I'm just having a conversation on my own. No, no,
Speaker 1: I'm saying that generally, when we talk about responsibility with women,
Speaker 1: it also can be a thing where it's just like, well, girl,
Speaker 1: you was sucked up and that's the thing. You shouldn't
Speaker 1: expect someone to violate you, obviously, But the thing is like,
Speaker 1: we have to be also aware of our own tolerance
Speaker 1: as girls. I think especially your your your tribe to write.
Speaker 1: I know there's a I don't want to say who
Speaker 1: it is, but there's a girl I hang out with
Speaker 1: it I just always feel like doesn't have my best interests.
Speaker 1: She's fun to party with, but I'm just like, I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna get it too sunked up around her, the
Speaker 1: girl that we just that you just met them. I
Speaker 1: know it's ten years when I'm went up, I'll be
Speaker 1: looking at it like, bitch, I'm getting sucked up tonight,
Speaker 1: So you can't get that funked up because I'm getting trash.
Speaker 1: She'd be like, oh okay, and I feel like, what's
Speaker 1: your people like that bitches can be like have my back,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be the one, and you have to be
Speaker 1: very honest, like with your friend, like hold me down.
Speaker 1: And I think it's a thing that girls don't maybe
Speaker 1: even check enough with their friends, make sure them bitches.
Speaker 1: Now I view the cock blocking friend much different than
Speaker 1: I did when I was younger, Like way different. It's
Speaker 1: a totally different thing because I'll imagine that she knows
Speaker 1: her and she knows that all right, she's probably not
Speaker 1: in the right state of mind to make a good decision,
Speaker 1: and it's coming from I'm not trying to be I'm
Speaker 1: never the moral high ground guy. I never want to
Speaker 1: come acrosses that or anything. It's a selfish reason. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know that could get me fucked up. I don't
Speaker 1: get about her now. I agree. I agree all from
Speaker 1: a selfish point. You got to you're the guy in
Speaker 1: the situation. And I think too. I think it's smart
Speaker 1: that you said that. You guys talk about it with
Speaker 1: going to do say Pellusa and having each other's back.
Speaker 1: But I think that. But I mean, it's all different
Speaker 1: maybe in the early days now that it's a job.
Speaker 1: Right now, it's when you even go out to party,
Speaker 1: even say, if it's not do say or a lot
Speaker 1: of guys who have groups of friends. You go out
Speaker 1: with groups of friends often, and I think that it's
Speaker 1: important that everyone kind of knows where everybody's mind say this,
Speaker 1: and they also would do say Pellusa. One person represents
Speaker 1: all of us. I'm not imagining something two more. This
Speaker 1: is also selfish. I'm not being the moral high ground person.
Speaker 1: I know if someone does something questionable and now do
Speaker 1: say Pellusa did that? So no fucking way of mind
Speaker 1: to think about with music. When people die right then,
Speaker 1: like drunk a DC or something like that. Then it's
Speaker 1: like people go to e d C and they fucking die.
Speaker 1: Don't matter that there was a hundred thousand people at
Speaker 1: e DC Vegas. One person died and now we're all terrified.
Speaker 1: Like it totally represents your fucking brand, especially with liquor
Speaker 1: everywhere and as drunk women is. It's a mixture for
Speaker 1: something I want to be, but I want to be
Speaker 1: a safe slot. That's that's a good way to look
Speaker 1: at We're gonna, I guess, um, We're gonna go ahead
Speaker 1: and get so every episode we have kinks of the week. UM.
Speaker 1: And these are different kings that people may be into. UM,
Speaker 1: some things that maybe we're not into, some things we've
Speaker 1: never tried. Um. This one this week is actually very interesting. UM.
Speaker 1: And I didn't pick it because you're white, I promise. UM.
Speaker 1: So this one is called spectrophilia. UM. It is sexual
Speaker 1: attraction relationships or sexual encounters with ghosts who come and
Speaker 1: have hot sex with them. UM. A sucumust is a
Speaker 1: ghost in lady form that, in folkfare visits herd act
Speaker 1: of desire at night for some hot human ghost love making,
Speaker 1: and incubus is the mail variety. Though the actual existence
Speaker 1: of ghosts is up for debate, the sexual attraction that
Speaker 1: spectrophiles report feeling as real as any other fetish. And
Speaker 1: I brought this up and I said ghost because you white.
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess you know your ghostly transum. Wait,
Speaker 1: do you imagine just do I have consent with the ghost?
Speaker 1: Do you remember scary? Imagine? Don't imagine trying to tell
Speaker 1: someone a ghost raped you. Carmonal lecture that got a
Speaker 1: ghost and scary movie. It was scary. It was one
Speaker 1: of them. Somebody was you know, save on our intern
Speaker 1: works right, We're no, I don't think it was. I
Speaker 1: don't remember by the ghosts. Okay, there you go, there
Speaker 1: you got. Wasn't it good too? Like she loved and
Speaker 1: she became obsessed with the ghost Tony that you picked
Speaker 1: this cank'. I've listening to Charlottagne's audio book Black Privilege,
Speaker 1: and he talks about book. It's a great book, and
Speaker 1: he talks about how the ghost was jumping on the
Speaker 1: dancing his ship on his chest and I'm like, wait,
Speaker 1: this sound crazy. It was a real ghost, yes, and
Speaker 1: it's like a thing that goes on. Believe him too.
Speaker 1: He says that the ghosts, I don't think he's lying
Speaker 1: it on what do they call They're called wigs? Wait
Speaker 1: did the ghost? So the ghost they basically sit on
Speaker 1: your chest so where you can't wake up. It's like
Speaker 1: sleep paralysis. And basically what happens is you're awake, but
Speaker 1: these ghosts, these women are just jumping down on your chest,
Speaker 1: keeping you asleep. I'm lying like I read the book. Yes, No,
Speaker 1: I've had that happen to me mad Time's I was
Speaker 1: a kid. It happened to me a lot. Yes, when
Speaker 1: you can't get up, Yes, so like you're awake, your
Speaker 1: but your body was Yes, you can't move like, but
Speaker 1: you're subconsciously around you know what's going on since But
Speaker 1: it's just like, is that really? I mean, I guess
Speaker 1: would you would y'all like or sow the ghost? Look?
Speaker 1: I mean, do ghost have more? So your fantasy? Is
Speaker 1: it the fantasy? Right? Because broadly dot Vice dot com
Speaker 1: shot outs to vice, um they actually just wrote a story,
Speaker 1: UM that fed up with mortal men, women are having
Speaker 1: sex with ghosts. Two women recently came out about their
Speaker 1: sexual experiences, but they're not the first to claim they've
Speaker 1: gotten intimate with paranormal Um. I'll put the link in
Speaker 1: the description of this bile, but basically, um, yeah, two
Speaker 1: women came out and said that they enjoyed having sex
Speaker 1: with a ghost. I don't know if that's something that
Speaker 1: I necessarily I don't know. I mean I would do it.
Speaker 1: I mean, like, let's say I was at a actually
Speaker 1: this right, yeah, Look, she's like, yeah, we had the conversation.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm an open relation. Like look, um, old Lester,
Speaker 1: who you do not like unless you're sounding like old um.
Speaker 1: The hotel I stayed in with Dove actually in Seattle,
Speaker 1: and her kept saying, like, isn't this creepy? Why are
Speaker 1: there all these natives mary can people in the wall.
Speaker 1: They're like these black and white photos. Come to find
Speaker 1: out from the bartender downstairs, the hotel was haunted and
Speaker 1: someone jumped off the floor above us to their death.
Speaker 1: Bro All, I kept thinking to night. Every time I
Speaker 1: looked over to sleep, she was sleep. I'm like, bitch,
Speaker 1: if I get fucked, you're gonna hear me right, Like
Speaker 1: you're gonna feel it, right, You're gonna feel the wind.
Speaker 1: Because I kept thinking there'd be a ghost to come
Speaker 1: in here. I feel like I'm a cute girl, and
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm saying I'm a horny girl. I
Speaker 1: probably saw me masturbing. They're like the ghost would just
Speaker 1: have to have a big I just like big dick energy. Baby.
Speaker 1: I want to know, are you getting big dick energy
Speaker 1: from Rory? I don't. I don't know white guys, so
Speaker 1: I can't tell, but you could maybe do white guy
Speaker 1: big dick energy. I don't know about big dick energy,
Speaker 1: but good sex energy, only because you haven't seemed too
Speaker 1: pressed about sex, and you're always seeming very chill. And
Speaker 1: I noticed when men seem real chill, sex brought the wine.
Speaker 1: That's what. Yeah, you are bringing one horrible decisions and
Speaker 1: caps capas do be fucking. Plus, you got a guy
Speaker 1: Andese girl, and I feel like any women of afroes
Speaker 1: sent the white boys. So let me ask you that too,
Speaker 1: As a white boy, do have you mostly steered towards
Speaker 1: interracial dating and fucking black women and black pussy and
Speaker 1: a note sweeter the berry the juice. I mean it's
Speaker 1: around more typically the circle that's around okay, but with
Speaker 1: white women, Spanish women, black women. But do you have
Speaker 1: a type you think you've noticed. No, I don't think
Speaker 1: I have a type at all. You don't have at
Speaker 1: all shapes faces. I don't think I I like that,
Speaker 1: but that actually gets us into our horrible decision. Oh
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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, no, it'll be a super dope to um.
Speaker 1: So for the horribleich division, you know, we kind of
Speaker 1: just brought it, brought it to full circle. He went
Speaker 1: ahead and kind of introduced it. I guess it's kind
Speaker 1: of going to be more of a conversation. The reason
Speaker 1: that I wanted to do this though, is because on
Speaker 1: Mall's episode right who is Your co Host? Mall had
Speaker 1: an episode with us called hose be Like, And so
Speaker 1: we talked about all of the ho jobs quote unquote,
Speaker 1: like if you're really a home what do you do?
Speaker 1: They were like, what was it? Real estate agents, makeup artists,
Speaker 1: all of that ship, And so I thought, okay, what
Speaker 1: was like the Larry David of thinking about host? He
Speaker 1: was his life is carbon enthusiasm of at and be like,
Speaker 1: no no, but he doesn't figure out women. That's I'll
Speaker 1: be listening to no no, no, no. I'm not saying
Speaker 1: I'm like women. All is a good person. If you
Speaker 1: need like a report, Mall alert, he's out there with
Speaker 1: them like that, but he knows. But not only that
Speaker 1: he was a good friend to guide you, but he's
Speaker 1: friends with all the hoss niggas. And then he's also
Speaker 1: just his friends with me, so his friends his hole niggas.
Speaker 1: I actually really wanted it all on together, but I
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, maybe we can get into the
Speaker 1: more sensitive side because I feel like, yeah, Mama is
Speaker 1: a good a good friend for girls. So that makes
Speaker 1: sense too. He actually knows a lot of one. He
Speaker 1: is very sensitive. I like him. You got a girlfriend.
Speaker 1: I feel like you might be more in touch with
Speaker 1: your feelings right now. Will all be around? I don't
Speaker 1: think that's to do with a girl. Well, no, a
Speaker 1: girl can help you find your feelings. Yeah, and so
Speaker 1: maybe so I know. But and this is why we
Speaker 1: need you because I think I'm scared of women that
Speaker 1: don't have male friends, and I'm scared of men that
Speaker 1: don't have female friends. That don't even start because that's
Speaker 1: one of your things. There's things that women, only women
Speaker 1: can teach you about yourself, Like if you're just friends
Speaker 1: with men, there's certain parts of your personality and reactions
Speaker 1: that won't come out like women teaching things. And that's
Speaker 1: I'm scared of any girl that doesn't have male friends.
Speaker 1: That's terrifying to me. And was like, Yo, watch out
Speaker 1: for her brother quote unquote, Nope, keep the brother. There's
Speaker 1: certain things you need to talk to him. But you're
Speaker 1: not concerned that a girl with guy friends is fucking
Speaker 1: those guys. We well know a lot of guys do.
Speaker 1: Like some guys, some guys have a problem with you
Speaker 1: having all these bros. There's certain things that you need
Speaker 1: a platonic relationship. There's certain things I can't tell my
Speaker 1: girl that another man could give. It. Think Home Girl's
Speaker 1: gonna be like, now you write, bitch, they're wrong. I
Speaker 1: tell my friends i'nna be honest with you. Generally, I
Speaker 1: don't care what y'all say. My friends will check me
Speaker 1: when I'm wrong. But women do side with their girls,
Speaker 1: whereas a male will bring you a different perspectives the ship.
Speaker 1: I always target her friend. I never really could game
Speaker 1: to her. I always want her friend over the easiest way,
Speaker 1: and that's what you should be doing because you want
Speaker 1: the friends co sign. So the reason I said that
Speaker 1: I felt like, you know it could be the quote
Speaker 1: unquote more sensitive is because mall did hose be like,
Speaker 1: so you're the horrible decision this week is girlfriends be Like.
Speaker 1: You have a girl, and I asked you about what
Speaker 1: qualities that you like in a woman and I and
Speaker 1: we have a lot of episodes where we talked about
Speaker 1: what we need from men, what we want from men.
Speaker 1: But I do know that we have a lot of
Speaker 1: women that listen to this show, and I feel like
Speaker 1: it's vital for someone that's in a relationship. Um, and
Speaker 1: it's going well to discuss what you found in her
Speaker 1: or what you need to find in women to settle down. Uh.
Speaker 1: And the first thing you said was self awareness for
Speaker 1: in her, So can you talk about what you mean
Speaker 1: by that. That's people in general you need. I think
Speaker 1: it's Louis c. K that has a quote, the quote
Speaker 1: self love is great, but self awareness is more important.
Speaker 1: It's I caption you like, I don't think you can
Speaker 1: have any relate ship with somebody until you're self aware
Speaker 1: of how you react and how you do. We're all human,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna funk up and do a lot of things.
Speaker 1: We're gonna say things we don't mean. We're going to
Speaker 1: react to things that we don't necessarily mean or want
Speaker 1: out there. But you need to be aware that it happened. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't like people that say, like, deal with me.
Speaker 1: I hate that, Like, what if you're a shitty person?
Speaker 1: Like I don't I think that whatever right now, I
Speaker 1: don't think that's a good mind state to have. Like,
Speaker 1: you know, you're just gonna have to handle me because
Speaker 1: the person right, I'm not handling you right, Like he
Speaker 1: couldn't handle me. I didn't want to. It's it's way different.
Speaker 1: People need to be self aware and can you talk
Speaker 1: about why that is so unattractive from a deeper because
Speaker 1: I why I said you get my pussy right right
Speaker 1: now is because I feel like when people say that
Speaker 1: about themselves, they're not willing to self reflect and change
Speaker 1: on what could be wrong. They just feel like whatever
Speaker 1: comes with their package you have to put up with,
Speaker 1: and people think that you can't change. The stiest way
Speaker 1: to it is enter into a relationship. Friend. It's also
Speaker 1: some thing that people feel like if you say, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm it's like they're being proud of who they are.
Speaker 1: But that pride also comes off as arrogance because you
Speaker 1: can't sit and think where can I change? Where can
Speaker 1: I do better? And that's a big deal. Why a
Speaker 1: lot of people who have partnerships that aren't work our
Speaker 1: relationship excuse me? You know what I mean. You are
Speaker 1: a partner in a relationship, but somehow I gotta pull
Speaker 1: up with your bullshit. Yeah no, I'm cool on that.
Speaker 1: Get the funk away from me. If you're the same person,
Speaker 1: if you wake up the same person every day, get
Speaker 1: away from me. What's something that your girlfriend's done to
Speaker 1: let you know that she's self aware, whether it be
Speaker 1: an argument or something early on, or we have I mean,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say this one specific thing, but now we
Speaker 1: still have the blow ups like everyone else. We just
Speaker 1: scream at each other until you get your anger out.
Speaker 1: But the next day it's always Men are very simple.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna, I'm gonnain how men are simple.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to shift the conversation a bit. I'm
Speaker 1: still going to answer the question. Men can choose a
Speaker 1: girl just by when they wake up after they if
Speaker 1: they still want you to be there. Men are very
Speaker 1: simple in that way. So with her, after I have
Speaker 1: the argument, I still want to be around you. That's
Speaker 1: a big thing For men. We're very simple. If we
Speaker 1: still want you there, that means a lot on brilliant idiots,
Speaker 1: he said after I funk, if I stole on you around,
Speaker 1: I know, I like you know. That's that's really how
Speaker 1: simple it is with men. There's a complex thing there,
Speaker 1: but the idea is very simple. So her self awareness
Speaker 1: just comes from I know I'm not talking to a wall.
Speaker 1: I know she's going to take some accountability I'll take
Speaker 1: some accountability and we'll move on. The second thing you
Speaker 1: said is, um, you want someone who's objective. Can you elaborate?
Speaker 1: It goes back to self awareness, to be able to
Speaker 1: look at things without your feelings there, get your feelings out.
Speaker 1: I'm a very emotional person too, so I'll yell when
Speaker 1: even if I'm wrong. Yea, But afterwards I need to
Speaker 1: be objective and realize, Hey, all right, I was just
Speaker 1: yelling that I was wrong there. Now you also put
Speaker 1: which I hated this outline ship you I'll really like
Speaker 1: do preproduction being was sold to her like we're already here.
Speaker 1: I feel like you. But the things that you picked
Speaker 1: are I mean, we did a list to them all too,
Speaker 1: and I like this list because these are things that
Speaker 1: I felt like is very crucial to a relationship. The
Speaker 1: next thing you said is, I mean I can read
Speaker 1: them off if that makes you all feel better. Presence
Speaker 1: her own set of friends, a life outside of us,
Speaker 1: and motherly quality. So let's go right back to presence.
Speaker 1: What do you mean why she needs to have presence
Speaker 1: distance relationship like no, no, no, no no no no,
Speaker 1: I meant, uh, I guess energy was like I've always
Speaker 1: been drawn to women that walk in a room. And
Speaker 1: sometimes it's not like she's the prettiest girl in the
Speaker 1: room or the most known girl in the room. There's
Speaker 1: certain women when you walk in it's like, oh, she
Speaker 1: just walked in the room. I find that very sexy
Speaker 1: about women. I see you was your presence of the
Speaker 1: word you used better than sounding shallow and saying she
Speaker 1: gotta be fine. Well, no, I'm shollowing that sense to
Speaker 1: I don't understand what people trying to do that bullshit.
Speaker 1: I think that I think people feel drunk about wanting
Speaker 1: someone attractive sometimes like saying that they need that. What
Speaker 1: people do say like oh well you want someone that
Speaker 1: looks like this and blah blah blah. But to be realistic,
Speaker 1: relationships at last are the ones that attractive. But trust me,
Speaker 1: when you're talking about qualities and people talk about things
Speaker 1: they want to make for some reason, when they talk
Speaker 1: about attractiveness or things that are aesthetic, there's almost like
Speaker 1: this conversation about like, that's not such a big deal.
Speaker 1: But in my eyes, if you're still attracted to each
Speaker 1: other from a long term perspective, you're gonna suck me
Speaker 1: all the time. You're gonna want me around, You're gonna
Speaker 1: feel like your wife is fine. Think about people to
Speaker 1: have been together for a long time, they sound to
Speaker 1: me like they still fun. And if we still fucking,
Speaker 1: it's because I want to fuck you. I like looking
Speaker 1: at you like this is a big deal. Like when
Speaker 1: me and my girl, we're not together, Like I guess
Speaker 1: the first part of getting to know each other. Anytime
Speaker 1: we see it each other out event, I'd immediately go
Speaker 1: to her and we would not leave each other side
Speaker 1: for the whole ship. Like that's presence to me. Anytime
Speaker 1: she walked in, I was like, all right, let me
Speaker 1: go talk to her, and then we would never leave
Speaker 1: each other's hip for the whole party. So I think
Speaker 1: that brought us to that next level. So presence is
Speaker 1: like really really big for me with women, and I
Speaker 1: think that's I think that's subjective to I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think every girl has presence to everybody, But
Speaker 1: I think, what do you mean by she's got to
Speaker 1: have her own set of friends? We need separation from
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, I don't know if it's because I'm
Speaker 1: my only child, but I like to be alone, like
Speaker 1: you need to go out and do ship like we
Speaker 1: both need to have whole separate worlds. You need to
Speaker 1: go do your thing and I need to do It's
Speaker 1: crazy that you say that as a guy, because I've
Speaker 1: been friends with so many um women that when they
Speaker 1: get into relationships, they now no longer have us as friends.
Speaker 1: They literally have a boyfriend and now you don't see
Speaker 1: her anymore. If we don't want to bring her boyfriends
Speaker 1: and sister, go hang with whoever. Just we need separation
Speaker 1: for both of us. It's not for people that share friends.
Speaker 1: This is the problem. You get a lot of drama
Speaker 1: between the two. Right. So you let's say that you
Speaker 1: have a friend. Let's say you have a couple that
Speaker 1: your friends with another couple and you tell the wife something,
Speaker 1: then the wife tell the husband something. Then suddenly it's like,
Speaker 1: why am I talking to But this is not Couples
Speaker 1: are friends with other couples, and that ship happens, and
Speaker 1: my lie, Chris, that ship is fucking real. People will
Speaker 1: share something with the wife and then it gets to
Speaker 1: the husband, and then the boys speak and it starts
Speaker 1: a whole thing. You don't have your own set of
Speaker 1: friends separate from the relationship. It's fucking I think I
Speaker 1: think you have to keep in mind where people's loyalty falls. Like,
Speaker 1: for example, if my girl meets some of my like,
Speaker 1: of course my girl's friends with my friends, Yeah, but
Speaker 1: she still knows that those are my friends. Yeah, their
Speaker 1: loyalty will always fall on my side no matter how
Speaker 1: close they it, and vice versa, like if I'm super
Speaker 1: cool with her friends, I'm not looking to your friends
Speaker 1: to fall on my side all the time, right, or
Speaker 1: even for advice. If we break up tomorrow, my friends
Speaker 1: are coming with me, Yeah, they're not going with that.
Speaker 1: I mean, they'll be cool, but yeah, you need to
Speaker 1: have that separation. And I think a lot of bitches
Speaker 1: will hit up homeboys and be like, O can you
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah. That should have sucking trash.
Speaker 1: So I kind of wanted to steer this conversation. I
Speaker 1: wanted to ask you what makes a girl? And clearly
Speaker 1: this is all your opinion, but I think a lot
Speaker 1: of girls like to hear things like this, what in
Speaker 1: your mind makes a girl unwifeable? Like you guys talk
Speaker 1: about it a lot on on even your podcast with
Speaker 1: Maul will say, oh I can't I went on wife
Speaker 1: a girl who does this? Or I wouldn't cup for a
Speaker 1: a girl who does this? What really complex? It is?
Speaker 1: Specific answer? What things kind of would make a girl unwifeable? Like?
Speaker 1: So one of the questions we asked um and I
Speaker 1: can't remember behave here at the end of the day.
Speaker 1: This is the question I wanted to ask you all
Speaker 1: at your at your podcast. If a girl has past
Speaker 1: or has sucked off on quite a few niggas, is
Speaker 1: that something that she should tell you in the beginning.
Speaker 1: Is this something she should tell you at all? Is
Speaker 1: it something that you would have to be a problem with,
Speaker 1: because this is again a conversation I've heard y'all kind
Speaker 1: of touched on. But I mean, what's what the girls passed?
Speaker 1: How much do you care for a girl's past? And
Speaker 1: hypothetical as if I'm talking to a new woman, I'm
Speaker 1: twenty years old. I know you fucked, like I know
Speaker 1: you've been in these streets. Just tell me if it's
Speaker 1: something that's going to enter our world or something I
Speaker 1: need a heads up on. Don't let me walk in
Speaker 1: a room and look stupid. Now, if she tells you
Speaker 1: she's fucked two guys in the room, say there are
Speaker 1: people that you do know? No, No, I'm not saying
Speaker 1: to the to the degree like if we walk in
Speaker 1: a room, you gotta pull me aside and be like, yo,
Speaker 1: I sucked them. That's like a really weird conversation. That
Speaker 1: would be really weird. But if it's gonna present itself
Speaker 1: where I have to interact with somebody or there's some
Speaker 1: closeness that me and this gentleman are going to have
Speaker 1: to deal with each other, you mentioned it. What about
Speaker 1: from an industry perspective, Like let's say that you you're
Speaker 1: a podcaster, there's other podcasters. You meet a girl and
Speaker 1: she do you feel like she has to tell you
Speaker 1: that she might have sued one of the ops or
Speaker 1: you know, I don't have any ops podcast, but I
Speaker 1: know people cross side not shout out to Kid Fury
Speaker 1: for his show, Oh my God with the HBO deal.
Speaker 1: Damn he list, And we were talking about it before
Speaker 1: the show, like we feel like, as other podcasters are
Speaker 1: entering different realms, that it's opening doors for the rest
Speaker 1: of us. And I'm not gonna lie. Even seeing you
Speaker 1: guys go on tour. Y'all did a whole East Coast
Speaker 1: tour and West Coast tour, and I'm like, yo, that
Speaker 1: could be us one day, like, I don't know four cities.
Speaker 1: You did two in Vegas in the same night. How
Speaker 1: the fuck. It's interesting because a lot of venues are
Speaker 1: against it. They're like, what do you mean podcasts? They
Speaker 1: don't they don't know. And I don't want it for
Speaker 1: us to take the credit for the Highlane thing, because
Speaker 1: I know Highlan was already moving in a direction to
Speaker 1: really put podcasts on, but they was in a space
Speaker 1: at one point like you're gonna fill this whole place
Speaker 1: to talk, get the funk out of here. Wait seriously,
Speaker 1: so we I mean we did that high Line ship
Speaker 1: first for everyone after words, but I mean they was
Speaker 1: going that way. I'm not trying to flex to say
Speaker 1: that we did that, but yeah, it takes. It takes.
Speaker 1: It takes a lot. It takes one podcast to prove
Speaker 1: to these people that podcasting is. Like so funny with
Speaker 1: Lanter and someone told me they were going to Sony
Speaker 1: Hall for a show. I said, oh, what podcast? He
Speaker 1: was like, no, it's a conserversa and it mean it
Speaker 1: made me think like wow, like you can fill up
Speaker 1: this place, um, and it was really humbling, Like Mandy
Speaker 1: and I both went to you Guys show in New York.
Speaker 1: It was great. It was and I remember sitting there
Speaker 1: and feeling excited that people knew who we were in
Speaker 1: that space, and then I was thinking, like I was
Speaker 1: sitting next to Alex, I said, wait, we can feel
Speaker 1: this up. We could do this. It's a great feeling
Speaker 1: to like be somewhere where Motherfucker's is getting on stage
Speaker 1: just saying and you're just getting on stage talk to talk.
Speaker 1: I mean maybe they want to hear about cream pies,
Speaker 1: so I get that. But you know, we keep our
Speaker 1: clothes on, yeah, we do. We don't do anything out
Speaker 1: the normal. I mean we did have a dick sucking
Speaker 1: contest that the first one with it wasn't with add
Speaker 1: I mean it wasn't what ad dick those with bananas.
Speaker 1: But I will say, like it's crazy being in this
Speaker 1: space to just shut you're laughing. I'm just happened. They
Speaker 1: were prompts and then they were like, hey, let's get
Speaker 1: someone from the audience and let's see who can put
Speaker 1: the most banana in their mouth. Um, you know, who
Speaker 1: has the deepest throat um. But no, just seeing what
Speaker 1: you're doing and seeing what kid Fury just did and
Speaker 1: just the book deals, seeing the stuff that's been happening
Speaker 1: with Joe and you got your Malla like everybody in
Speaker 1: your face on T shirts. I see that ship like
Speaker 1: holy But you know what, I also appreciate it's like
Speaker 1: you built your brand first with your show and as
Speaker 1: to where you're big enough to now you can do
Speaker 1: things on your own, because this is a thing like
Speaker 1: what can I am still horrible decisions weezy weezy. Really
Speaker 1: not anyone separate from this yet, and I have to
Speaker 1: be stands for horror, right, it does that stands for?
Speaker 1: But you know someone was asking me to do something,
Speaker 1: and it's like it's always going to be attached to
Speaker 1: horrible decisions. And the more that you grow, though, like yourself,
Speaker 1: you will just be rory. And that's the thing with
Speaker 1: when you get so big like Fury, you know, as
Speaker 1: much as you like to do from the Red Furious
Speaker 1: Fury now And like Lena Waith, I remember watching Master
Speaker 1: of None and thinking like, I hope I see the
Speaker 1: Black Girl again. She's right, she's super hus um. So
Speaker 1: to close that ship, I think it's great. I think
Speaker 1: everything that Charlemagne does I love that he's still in
Speaker 1: the podcasting world. Because whatever he does, whatever Charlomagne does
Speaker 1: well is good for everybody. Yeah. I remember when Elliott
Speaker 1: and Beata interviewed Hove. Nori had tweeted, this is a
Speaker 1: win for everybody, Like this is great that Hove realizes
Speaker 1: that this is the new way people want to consume
Speaker 1: their interviews, like what's his name? With the Will Smith interview,
Speaker 1: and it's all great. I know we joke about the
Speaker 1: podcast beef and Ship, like I know, people don't joke
Speaker 1: a lot about it. No, it's not real anything. I
Speaker 1: think at this point in this circle we have of
Speaker 1: successful podcast. Anything someone does is good for everybody. And
Speaker 1: I want to see Alex. We're talking at our show
Speaker 1: and I was like, are they Yelena? They smiling? What's
Speaker 1: going on? And then I remember walking over here and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, yeah, neis me in France, you know.
Speaker 1: And it's like you really never know, but it's like
Speaker 1: there is still a lane for everyone. I listen to
Speaker 1: both people think Me and Andrew hate each other. We
Speaker 1: held each other like which ship. Maybe we should edit
Speaker 1: this because I want people to think we hate each other.
Speaker 1: It's funny though, because you do bringing. It's kind of
Speaker 1: like when you do like the Tupac Worts, Biggie and
Speaker 1: the rap beef, like to know that there's real like
Speaker 1: podcast beef, like people and the comments I see, but
Speaker 1: did you hear what such and such set all through SoundCloud,
Speaker 1: all through YouTube, and I think it makes it fun though.
Speaker 1: I think it makes people want to go hear what
Speaker 1: they're saying about you guys and vice versus. So I
Speaker 1: think it works for you know, I'm not gonna say
Speaker 1: who was. Somebody spoke to me today it was like,
Speaker 1: you foul, I'm like for having Rory on the nigga Like,
Speaker 1: are you kidding me? Go ahead? Who said it? Now?
Speaker 1: You need to I want to fight fight. That's now
Speaker 1: you're gonna think us whack. I don't want to fight.
Speaker 1: I don't want to fight. Wax is not the first
Speaker 1: I mean. And that's the thing is I want people
Speaker 1: understand like this realm of podcasting, like if not to
Speaker 1: show love or be it, I mean even for y'all
Speaker 1: to come, for you to come here from all to
Speaker 1: come on our show, for things like that to happen.
Speaker 1: It's like showing love and it's very small, it's niche.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't I've turned down a lot of like going
Speaker 1: on podcast. Yeah, I haven't liked you, he had enough
Speaker 1: do saying and I was, so you're gonna come onto
Speaker 1: my show. He's like, yeah, I'll come on. I was like,
Speaker 1: because I like you, and you know, remember when, um
Speaker 1: so at the time when we really didn't have a
Speaker 1: lot of lessons um mall and I'm saying that, by
Speaker 1: the way, we were still having like fifteen thousand. That's
Speaker 1: still decent for a podcasts that are like right right,
Speaker 1: So this is when Mall had first came on and
Speaker 1: he mentioned us, Yeah, we didn't have fifteen, which fifteen
Speaker 1: after Brilliant Idiots, we were still like five thousand back then. Really, yes,
Speaker 1: no it's not it's not bad, but no, we were
Speaker 1: not out saying yet that was we had. He boosted
Speaker 1: us like and I'll say even just him shotting us out,
Speaker 1: but like, but you know, it's funny because that should
Speaker 1: feels like a long time ago. But on Joe but
Speaker 1: and he went on there, I mean on y'all show,
Speaker 1: excuse me and said something about the show he was
Speaker 1: on and I saw an iTunes that we just from
Speaker 1: being on your saying we weren't even on there. It
Speaker 1: was at the end of your episode jumped so much.
Speaker 1: We we have that effect now on people to like
Speaker 1: there was a lot of people try to do this
Speaker 1: and they don't do it. Well, it's it's I'm having
Speaker 1: a seminar. It's not easy. It's not easy, So we're
Speaker 1: gonna go ahead. What we like to do on our
Speaker 1: episodes as well as have is have homemail. Homemail um
Speaker 1: is questions sent in from our listeners and we kind
Speaker 1: of just like to give them advice, whether we're right,
Speaker 1: whether we're wrong. Some of our listeners like to give
Speaker 1: advice after the fact um. But I wanted to read
Speaker 1: off some of these. And this is actually sent in
Speaker 1: from a woman and the title is my boyfriend wants
Speaker 1: a trans woman. So I picked this because she actually
Speaker 1: went we should I know, but we ain't got through home.
Speaker 1: But no, it's good because she talked about going through
Speaker 1: his phone, so I want to talk about that's how
Speaker 1: she found out. She says, I'm a twenty two year
Speaker 1: old female. I was recently engaged, but I broke off
Speaker 1: the engagement. I've known for some time now that he's
Speaker 1: had an interest in trans women, but I accepted it
Speaker 1: and only wanted him to talk to me about it
Speaker 1: when he had those urges. I found out after I
Speaker 1: came back from a trip recently that he had separate
Speaker 1: I G accounts two d M trans prostitutes to funk
Speaker 1: him in the ass. I've kept this secret for him,
Speaker 1: remember to do this, and as my email is full
Speaker 1: of you listen to my record. Yeah it's you know,
Speaker 1: it's really, she said. I've kept this secret for him
Speaker 1: a very long time, but it's mentally fucking with me.
Speaker 1: On top of cheating with other women. He claims he's
Speaker 1: never actually gone through with the sex, but my feelings
Speaker 1: and better judgments say otherwise. He goes as far as
Speaker 1: asking if they will kiss him dearing. I recently told
Speaker 1: a homegirl of mine and she thinks he's gay. I'm
Speaker 1: not sure what to do. I love the man. I
Speaker 1: used to do anal stuff to him, but one day
Speaker 1: it kind of stopped when I tried. I hate how
Speaker 1: I screench out this ship. Um Oh, I used to
Speaker 1: do anal stuff to him one day, but it kind
Speaker 1: of stopped when I tried to bring it up. He
Speaker 1: doesn't want to talk about it. He claims that he
Speaker 1: is going to therapy now to fix his issues with
Speaker 1: compulsive lying. But what should I do? I feel like
Speaker 1: less of a woman. I considered myself very sexually open,
Speaker 1: but I can't be that with him anymore. It's vanilla
Speaker 1: and I feel like he's getting his kink elsewhere. What
Speaker 1: should I do? So? I brought this up because I
Speaker 1: know you guys have talked about women going through men's phones.
Speaker 1: She said that she found this out by going through
Speaker 1: his phone and seeing that he had a private I
Speaker 1: G where he was sending these letters. Um. Also, when
Speaker 1: we spoke earlier on going from having your ass like
Speaker 1: two fingers to pegging, you did mention that not But
Speaker 1: I feel like, um for the for for saying that,
Speaker 1: maybe she's kind of blaming herself now because she felt
Speaker 1: like her anal gateway to playing with his ass, lad
Speaker 1: him to now seeking this pleasure from trans women. UM,
Speaker 1: I guess right, I know so many thoughts I've never had.
Speaker 1: I've never had my ass looked and said, well, you know,
Speaker 1: it would be great a dick here, and so maybe
Speaker 1: maybe she should get out of her head about that. UM. I,
Speaker 1: for one, I do kind of feel like she needs
Speaker 1: to have a conversation with him because she found this
Speaker 1: on her own. This isn't a conversation he had with her. Um.
Speaker 1: She found it by going through his things. Um. And
Speaker 1: it does seem like she kind of is okay with
Speaker 1: the idea, but the fact that he's lying about it
Speaker 1: is the problem. So here's the initial thing that I
Speaker 1: thought was like immediately, UM, let's start with this. Let's
Speaker 1: take all of our feelings of the gay ship out
Speaker 1: of it. If you're a man had a private i
Speaker 1: G to connect with women, would you stay with him?
Speaker 1: If the answer is yes, then there lies you needing
Speaker 1: to answer the other question. If it's no, which I
Speaker 1: wouldn't stay with someone I was making a private Instagram
Speaker 1: just to cheat on me and keep lying back and
Speaker 1: forth and needs therapy for it. I would leave them
Speaker 1: if you feel as though you're a man, UM, you
Speaker 1: know doing the i G is okay, and you're like,
Speaker 1: not okay, but you know you're gonna look past this.
Speaker 1: Here's the other question. Do you have an issue with
Speaker 1: homophobia and your masculinity and that issue? And if you do,
Speaker 1: then you should leave them because the chances are as
Speaker 1: he's into anal play and you see him to be
Speaker 1: blaming yourself and it sounds like you think it's weird.
Speaker 1: So I would just break up with him because I
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to be with anybody that thought my kinks
Speaker 1: had anything to do with me being a man, or
Speaker 1: me this or me that. Like it sounds like you
Speaker 1: need to go. Second thing I want to read, though,
Speaker 1: is something from Dan Savage, who is my personal guru
Speaker 1: podcast legend. A lot of white people, you know, maybe
Speaker 1: I'll don't, but he is lit, he's super smart, and
Speaker 1: he has his own ship called the love Cast. And
Speaker 1: there was a question someone sent in about transit like
Speaker 1: dating trans women, and this is what he said, being funny, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: The gayest thing you could do is allow someone to
Speaker 1: put a dick in your man. But now you're gay.
Speaker 1: You're being a huge drama queen about the whole thing.
Speaker 1: Stop acting so crazy, As the kids say, repeat after me.
Speaker 1: One dick in the asked, does not a gay man make?
Speaker 1: Look at it this way, The difference between having a
Speaker 1: woman's finger in your ass and a woman's dick in
Speaker 1: your ass is the matter of a degree. The woman's
Speaker 1: finger was fine to say nothing of the tongue. Why
Speaker 1: freak out about the female dick? Remember, if you're not
Speaker 1: sleeping with men. You're not attracted to men. You made
Speaker 1: an exception for this woman's dick because they're dip is
Speaker 1: exceptional because it's it's attached to a woman. So here's
Speaker 1: the thing with trans women. A lot of straight men
Speaker 1: like trans women. A lot of trans women can't even
Speaker 1: find gay men that are into them because gay men
Speaker 1: want men. So here's the thing. Oh, I didn't even
Speaker 1: think about that. It's like, it's such an annoying thing
Speaker 1: to hear with like people calling men gay, Like the
Speaker 1: dick attached to the woman makes your anal and you're
Speaker 1: pegging thing real, But you're still attracted to women at
Speaker 1: the end of the day. These trans women, right, they
Speaker 1: have a dick there and you like the anal play,
Speaker 1: but you're recognizing them as women because otherwise you would
Speaker 1: have wanted a guy to do it. And so that's
Speaker 1: the thing. Is your dude really gay? If you found
Speaker 1: no men in his phone, then probably he's not gay,
Speaker 1: But he does want to get sucked in his ask
Speaker 1: And if you're not gonna do it, he's gonna find
Speaker 1: someone that can. So if you can't figure it out
Speaker 1: and you're feeling weird about it, but you gotta let
Speaker 1: him go. But the fact that he also when you
Speaker 1: want to talk about anal play, he veers away from
Speaker 1: the conversation. I will say, on the shape of it, well,
Speaker 1: and that's what I was gonna say. So on the
Speaker 1: episode that I had with the Swinging couple, Um, the
Speaker 1: man actually was interested in, you know, playing with trans
Speaker 1: And so I have a really close friend of mine
Speaker 1: who is experiencing his attraction to trans women and it's
Speaker 1: led him to be very depressed because now he does
Speaker 1: He's like, am I bisexual? Now? Does that mean I'm gay?
Speaker 1: And does he like he's battling. No, but he's battling
Speaker 1: internally because it's something that he feels like he can't
Speaker 1: even bring up to his mom. He brought a white
Speaker 1: woman home and his mom went off. He's like, I
Speaker 1: couldn't imagine the look on my mother's face if I
Speaker 1: brought home. And the problem is a trans women are
Speaker 1: generally fetishized, like nobody wants to take these women home.
Speaker 1: They're like, oh, this is just something I like. But
Speaker 1: here's the other fucking issue with it feeling like you're gay.
Speaker 1: If you genuinely are attracted to men, you are probably
Speaker 1: not going for a trans girl. I have never had
Speaker 1: one of my gays tell me they sucked the trans
Speaker 1: girl one. Because trans women are generally not bottoms. Most
Speaker 1: people that are attracted to trans women want to be
Speaker 1: pegged by straight women for I mean, I'm sorry, uh
Speaker 1: sis women first, right, and then they're like, okay, well
Speaker 1: now I really want this. And that's the thing that's
Speaker 1: crazy about this homophobia about trans women, and they're still
Speaker 1: we were acknowledging them as women, we're using the pronoun
Speaker 1: sheet all of this ship. But for some reason, once
Speaker 1: men sleep with them, it's worse than paid because it's
Speaker 1: weird to be The guys that I do know personally
Speaker 1: who have slept with trans women, none of them have
Speaker 1: been topped by one though, So it's even to where
Speaker 1: I've questioned them like what is your amusement with it? Then,
Speaker 1: because they're not being topped by these trans women, they're
Speaker 1: fucking the trans women in the ask Most trans women
Speaker 1: um that are like escorts are not um bottoms. They're
Speaker 1: like saying no, I mean not even talking about they
Speaker 1: don't have anal sex. That's the thing. Yeah, these things
Speaker 1: ain't have one. I'm calling me, I'll come in something game. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's it's like people are really fucked in the head
Speaker 1: about this. I think it's a conversation you just need
Speaker 1: to have. But this one, I think we could talk about.
Speaker 1: You have a relationship. So we have another one and
Speaker 1: that's gonna be our last homemail is from the Cupold couple.
Speaker 1: They made a separate email for this ship, so I
Speaker 1: know they would like we we really on alone. Hello, ladies.
Speaker 1: Just found the podcast and damn I love it. Very
Speaker 1: raw and truthful. We're a couple in Washington State who's
Speaker 1: been together since high school, fifteen years old, and now
Speaker 1: we're both thirty eight. We have had an open relationship
Speaker 1: for ten years. She enjoys that. She enjoys having her boyfriends,
Speaker 1: but it's now craving black Dick. We have been searching,
Speaker 1: and I've been trying to find a guy. We've been searching. Wait,
Speaker 1: they've both been searching for black dick. By the way,
Speaker 1: I asked him later what their ethnicity was in their
Speaker 1: white You don't say I wanted to know if she's
Speaker 1: just curious how the guy is searching. We have been searching,
Speaker 1: and I have been trying to find a guy to
Speaker 1: be her first in this arena. And it's not the
Speaker 1: easiest thing. The show makes us feel less alone and
Speaker 1: since none of our family and friends know we since
Speaker 1: none of our family and friends now, I hope you
Speaker 1: continue to have great success. PS. I would totally snowball
Speaker 1: Rihanna with Shakira with another man's come snowball. Snowball is
Speaker 1: when it's not come swapping, it's your own semen, or
Speaker 1: it's like someone else's well, it's come swapping, basically snowballing
Speaker 1: passing it back in. But that's the colding thing, right
Speaker 1: because like in a lot of holding videos, you'll watch
Speaker 1: her be like, oh, the kids come off of me,
Speaker 1: or suck to come out of his dick like crazy shit.
Speaker 1: What was the question in that UM? I think his
Speaker 1: question is I was just trying to get something, just
Speaker 1: trying to get some black Oh. I guess like kind
Speaker 1: of like maybe the how to UM because they're saying
Speaker 1: they're searching and it's not easy go to Jamaica, UM
Speaker 1: so I want to. I mean, I'm just saying, so
Speaker 1: I want to Hedonism, which is a um so. It's
Speaker 1: a nude adult only resort um in Jamaica. And when
Speaker 1: I went, there was a lot of white couples there
Speaker 1: that literally said to me that they were there for
Speaker 1: black dick, And of course Jamaican's are black with big dicks,
Speaker 1: so um, I would think you forgot which one said that.
Speaker 1: You doubt what. I'm surprised. I ain't got no kids.
Speaker 1: You know, ship my daddy' Jamaican. I'm sure my mom
Speaker 1: was dealt with him for a reason, but because he
Speaker 1: ain't ship. But I would say, I would think that's
Speaker 1: just something that's in your Jamaican bloodl of Jamaican. Remember
Speaker 1: I said, dancing niggasine ship caplas in Jamaicans and the
Speaker 1: I'm just saying they just don't they're only ship. I
Speaker 1: would say, though, if you're looking for something to do,
Speaker 1: I don't know what city you live in, So my
Speaker 1: suggestion would be to um, go to hedonism. It is again,
Speaker 1: it's a resort in Jamaica, and that's what you have
Speaker 1: there is black cocks to fuck your white wife. I
Speaker 1: had something like that happened to me. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: you had something like we talked about it and we
Speaker 1: did on it in Chicago, and I was like, you
Speaker 1: did what I said, you need to bring it up.
Speaker 1: We gotta bring you on the podcast. You gotta say, So,
Speaker 1: you've been to w w C White White Cock is
Speaker 1: the w WC. Is that on Pornhub? Does w w
Speaker 1: C Papa? Never? If you look up cut holding? Like, so,
Speaker 1: actually I wanted to watch cut holding porn, but I
Speaker 1: got kept getting annoyed at all the fetishizing of black men.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, so, I'm like, let me try to
Speaker 1: find the white man. And you were asked to cut cold,
Speaker 1: so I wasn't asked. Nobody asked me. Okay, wait, nobody asked,
Speaker 1: So what happened with your cut holding story? I was like,
Speaker 1: I told this on my podcast, but it was a
Speaker 1: long like back when we was in the lower numbers,
Speaker 1: so I don't know. Um, sucking asshole. Oh, you're definitely
Speaker 1: dubbing this ship when y'all required. Because I'm setting a reminder.
Speaker 1: Nick put me on what happened. I was like twenty
Speaker 1: or twenty one maybe, and I was working for a
Speaker 1: label at the time, and these artists from Ohio. I'm
Speaker 1: not going to say who it was. It was not
Speaker 1: Busy Bone, was Busy Bone and his wife. It was
Speaker 1: from Ohio. They came and uh, they asked me. They
Speaker 1: was like, yo, can you take the whole crew out
Speaker 1: because you're young and you know what's going on in
Speaker 1: New York, Like take them out, let them see the city.
Speaker 1: It was a big group of them, so I took
Speaker 1: them down to a spot one bleaker. We was chilling whatever,
Speaker 1: and some girl that really didn't say much at all
Speaker 1: the whole time came up to me when she was
Speaker 1: leaving and she was like, I just want to give
Speaker 1: you my number. I was like, all right, cool. I
Speaker 1: didn't think anything of it. Continued tonight, she text me like, yo,
Speaker 1: it's my hotel. I said, all right, I'm okay, I'm
Speaker 1: coming over with the ships. So I take a cab.
Speaker 1: This was prior to Uber. Take a cab up there,
Speaker 1: like you know, I'm in the lobby. She said, give
Speaker 1: me a second now that I'm red flag. I told
Speaker 1: you I was on the way. So then I get
Speaker 1: to the elevator when she says, come up. I see
Speaker 1: it's the key card thing. I'm like, all right, you
Speaker 1: gotta come down and get me. She comes down and
Speaker 1: like a rope. I'm like all right. She read a
Speaker 1: little crazy that you in the lobby, like you let
Speaker 1: it be known. So we get into the room. She
Speaker 1: take a shut off right away. I'm like, oh, we're
Speaker 1: get into it. This is great. This is like a portal.
Speaker 1: This was awesome. So she starts sucking my dick. I
Speaker 1: was like, this is this is straight out of like
Speaker 1: I didn't even have to work for this. I said
Speaker 1: one word to the ship, this is awesome. Wow. Then
Speaker 1: I slightly see the bathroom door start to open. You
Speaker 1: thought another girl from where I'm from, right that you
Speaker 1: you can't set up about to get I'm about to
Speaker 1: get robbed. She was a pond in my dumb old
Speaker 1: ask fell for that ship because I'm horny. It might
Speaker 1: be worth three. You don't know you broke out. I
Speaker 1: don't know your weight, and it's been like all the
Speaker 1: families are worse. Let's let's end that now we all
Speaker 1: don't know a judge in fact. Okay, So the door opens.
Speaker 1: I said, I'm getting robbed. It's over. Now. Let me start.
Speaker 1: Where's where's my wallet? Take my iPhone? Three? So I
Speaker 1: see just arms come out with an iPad and I'm like, wait,
Speaker 1: what the fuck? So I pushed her head off of me,
Speaker 1: which kind of hurt when you twenty and horny because
Speaker 1: she was all right, and this big gass dude comes
Speaker 1: out the bathroom with an iPad and I said, there
Speaker 1: was another white couple. No, they were black. Both of
Speaker 1: them were black. Oh both were black. Did you love
Speaker 1: that detail out? No? We needed it, We needed that.
Speaker 1: We just all. I guess we should have said your friends, well,
Speaker 1: they weren't my friends people that okay. So so he
Speaker 1: comes out, this big dude comes out with an iPad filming,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, yo, what the fuck is going on?
Speaker 1: And he's like, no, no, no no, bro, you could suck her.
Speaker 1: I said what. So I go up to him and
Speaker 1: I said, give me that fucking iPad. He say, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, it's cool, bro, Like it's fine, that's my wife.
Speaker 1: I said, what if he didn't come out with an iPad?
Speaker 1: What was it the recording that bothered you know, the
Speaker 1: man coming out of a bathroom bothered me? Hold on,
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, hold on? What wait? I guess
Speaker 1: more so it's like continuing, is it what she meant? Like?
Speaker 1: If he didn't come out with the iPad with that,
Speaker 1: Bobby like to keep going? You just wasn't. I feel
Speaker 1: like what happened was he was like, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: that's my wife like this is what we do. You
Speaker 1: could like I want you to fuck her and I
Speaker 1: was like no, He's like, no, it's not like I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get involved. I just want to watch your fuck.
Speaker 1: I was like, give me that fucking iPad, took the
Speaker 1: iPad open, that ship, deleted that video, threw that ship
Speaker 1: on the bed, and ran the funk out of that
Speaker 1: hotel room. No, nope, nope, nope, nope nope. So it's
Speaker 1: safe to say you're not into cuckolding or at this
Speaker 1: day and age, that's not that's a that's a surprise.
Speaker 1: That's a man coming out of the bathroom like you
Speaker 1: getting your dicks, honestly, like and I still had like
Speaker 1: that nervousness of getting robbed. Now you were still you
Speaker 1: were super violated. Not only where you did someone surprise
Speaker 1: you as someone else, but was inside my I didn't
Speaker 1: have a dick at that point? Did they go up?
Speaker 1: The balls inside? He was terrified? What is it? You
Speaker 1: know what happens when your balls like go up and
Speaker 1: then like they have to fall back down? Is that
Speaker 1: how your dick win? Answer? I think, you know, you
Speaker 1: know how people say their balls get up there and
Speaker 1: then they have to like drop back. I don't know, children,
Speaker 1: have you ever heard this? I've never heard of it.
Speaker 1: I heard that your balls can like get up too
Speaker 1: high and then like it takes a minute for them
Speaker 1: to like settle down like your testicles, like we have
Speaker 1: two men in the room. Has never happened, and I've
Speaker 1: never heard of this happening. I was reading about it
Speaker 1: in what book? Well, I was I was trying to
Speaker 1: find that kink. And the kink I was trying to
Speaker 1: find was about like the kicking, which we've already done.
Speaker 1: But the sensation apparently from your balls going up is
Speaker 1: the thing that people like, a sensation that you get
Speaker 1: when your balls go back up when they started, like
Speaker 1: think they know it's like the most painful when you
Speaker 1: get when they get kicked in up there. I know,
Speaker 1: but apparently some people, some people like it, people asking
Speaker 1: I was trying to figure out what that's how I
Speaker 1: found it. Look, I'm not a girl like the Nancy
Speaker 1: room for like section was I didn't. I do not
Speaker 1: have sex. But you know her, I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: know where she is now, but imagine she's probably not
Speaker 1: to ask guys to burn like that was that was
Speaker 1: her thing when she sucked. She liked cigarettes being burnt
Speaker 1: on her well, and she had scared. I could see
Speaker 1: the stars in her arm. That's like with Lisa's flips
Speaker 1: and people she ashes them in people's um mouth. She's
Speaker 1: a dumb. Yeah, she's a dumb that does that. But
Speaker 1: I feel like if a woman is wanting to be
Speaker 1: asked wall getting no, not ash, No, the whole cigarette burnt.
Speaker 1: That's not ash, that's a cigarette being burney. She had
Speaker 1: scars on her forum. I mean, I can understand candle wax,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know about no goddamn cigarettes. I
Speaker 1: recently did a candle wax thing. I liked it, but
Speaker 1: it was a special sex candle apparently to where it
Speaker 1: wasn't like od burning. Well, yeah, it wasn't like you
Speaker 1: can't just use any candle. Oh yeah, because that should
Speaker 1: be like you said, it can't be Yankee, can't be
Speaker 1: it can't be glade. Please please let them never accidentally.
Speaker 1: I mean no, no, no, no, I mean it could
Speaker 1: still some people still want it to be that hot.
Speaker 1: But the sex candle that I use apparently was like
Speaker 1: it dripped slower, so it wasn't as like you know,
Speaker 1: it's supposed to feel like a sting, but I really
Speaker 1: enjoyed it was on my back. I guess that that's
Speaker 1: that's a good tip. I guess to get to our
Speaker 1: listeners if anyone is interested in maybe candle wax plate
Speaker 1: to know that there is actual sex candles to look at,
Speaker 1: and maybe don't go the cheap router or the expensive
Speaker 1: rod and get Yankee candle. Yeah, use our code w
Speaker 1: D fifty. Yeah, there you got him and oh Yankee
Speaker 1: candle on it. I'm beaning mica a cross fell like
Speaker 1: a lemon grass mat. Oh, in your little pre production,
Speaker 1: we were supposed to make women accountable. Now, wasn't that
Speaker 1: part of your list? We were going to make women
Speaker 1: accountable for things? Oh, we didn't do it anymore. So
Speaker 1: I just we just got rid of that, you know,
Speaker 1: you know you you came and brought up the whole Oh,
Speaker 1: y'all are really a production. So we said we're just
Speaker 1: gonna wing it now, we're just gonna talk. I wanted
Speaker 1: to talk about that, about making a women accountable among
Speaker 1: women being bummy, so that we had our conversation was, yes,
Speaker 1: was about that. So like, Okay, there's something that I've
Speaker 1: been wanting to talk about because I feel like I'm
Speaker 1: gonna sound like a little bit of hypocrites. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: try to make sure backstep we talked about like dating
Speaker 1: men that are fluent and you know, getting things quote
Speaker 1: unquote from men. But I have to say I am
Speaker 1: kind of tired of like chicks don't have ship that
Speaker 1: be requesting all of these things. Now. I do want
Speaker 1: to speak from I want to speak from me and
Speaker 1: Mandy though, and say that, like, you know, we're girls
Speaker 1: that are working towards why. I mean, now you're graduated,
Speaker 1: but you know, I take care of me, myself, my family,
Speaker 1: We got a business, I'm working in tech. Like this
Speaker 1: is a lot of sucking ship. And I kind of
Speaker 1: hate that a girl that don't really have much going
Speaker 1: on feels like like a man can feel like we're
Speaker 1: on the same playing field. I feel like my standards
Speaker 1: are set because this is what I've set for myself.
Speaker 1: So how could you not have the same Opposed to
Speaker 1: when someone says something to me like, oh, y'all, bitches
Speaker 1: just want any negative blah blah blah blah blah, how
Speaker 1: could I not when I've done this for me? How
Speaker 1: could I not ask to do these things for me
Speaker 1: more mad at men. We need better standards. Sure, stop
Speaker 1: stop fucking bummy women. Yes that I hear you. I
Speaker 1: think bummy nous is sexually transmitted. Stop fucking. But it's
Speaker 1: not fucking fair though, because this is the thing. When
Speaker 1: I was in a relationship and had nothing for myself
Speaker 1: and then Nigga got crazy and was cheating, I had
Speaker 1: nothing for me. You know. He literally was like, you
Speaker 1: can take what you came with. I was one for
Speaker 1: two years. Take what I came with, which was clothed. Okay.
Speaker 1: I was in a maserati, living nice, eating nice, and
Speaker 1: then like boom, I had nothing. So then when I
Speaker 1: was dating men after that, right, I kept thinking in
Speaker 1: my head I needed to have this, this and that
Speaker 1: and treat me this way. But I didn't really have
Speaker 1: my ship together, and I was asking for so many
Speaker 1: things for men that frankly, I could not easily get
Speaker 1: by myself. And so here's the thing. The the assumption
Speaker 1: that every girl and and a lot of people got
Speaker 1: on Raquel, who's an escort, sorry, a sex there a
Speaker 1: piste and she escorts, she's a sex worker, and she
Speaker 1: was saying how she needed certain things from a man
Speaker 1: and niggas was coming for her. However, if I can
Speaker 1: get these things by myself, why can't I ask for
Speaker 1: you to do the same for me if I got
Speaker 1: them on my own. No, that's fine, I agree. I
Speaker 1: think men need to think that same way. It's it's
Speaker 1: dudes fault that be blaming these bitches. You're the one
Speaker 1: who I'm super super big on energy, Like energy is
Speaker 1: a big thing to me, and I think sex creates
Speaker 1: a large amount of it. Don't do that with bummy
Speaker 1: ass energy. It's gonna come off on you. You're you're
Speaker 1: entering bummy nous. It's gonna come back. Absolutely. I don't
Speaker 1: care if her pussy is crazy. Here's my thing because
Speaker 1: some people are some people, some people make it it.
Speaker 1: I don't want to make this like an age that
Speaker 1: we're not. We're talking about partnerships and ship like that.
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about a girl that's got to do that,
Speaker 1: like you know, taking out on dates and shouldn't be
Speaker 1: treating it right. If I'm talking about in a relationship expectations.
Speaker 1: Some people make it at twenty, some people make it
Speaker 1: a thirties, some people make it at forty. I'm not
Speaker 1: even trying to put it in that type of stens
Speaker 1: on who's ambitious who's not. But in your late twenties,
Speaker 1: you know who's a bummer who's not. Yeah, you can
Speaker 1: tell when a chick is bummy or not. Stop, Like,
Speaker 1: come on, if you really are in this mindset of
Speaker 1: making yourself better, sticking your dick into a bummy chick,
Speaker 1: I don't care how good the pussy feels is going
Speaker 1: to detriment you or even stop woman dealing with a
Speaker 1: broke nigger. And I feel like that's like, Um, it's
Speaker 1: funny because I listened back to our episode with Um
Speaker 1: Demeris and how I was talking about Felling Bay. I
Speaker 1: actually stopped dealing with Fellen Bay. I had to cut
Speaker 1: him off. He decided to bring i'll say a business
Speaker 1: notion to me because as he was telling me his
Speaker 1: business idea and his business plan, he when I started
Speaker 1: asking him the real questions about how he would account
Speaker 1: for the money he was bringing in, he was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: you're gonna do it. You got some nerves, you got it.
Speaker 1: And when I tell you my whole pussy dried up,
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, here you go. I'm thinking you're
Speaker 1: trying to make yourself better and yet you really not
Speaker 1: go mean, was he expecting to share the business with you? No?
Speaker 1: But he just thought I was saying and I was
Speaker 1: like no. And then he has the nervous that here
Speaker 1: and think that because then that he would be making money,
Speaker 1: that then I would want him, because you know, I
Speaker 1: haven't told him he broke. Now, that's why I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna cut him. So he assumed that when he got
Speaker 1: money then I would want him as more. And it's
Speaker 1: just my whole pussy dried up because it's like we're
Speaker 1: damn at the same age. So broke to me, We've
Speaker 1: had this conversation. So broke to me, honestly is like
Speaker 1: the regular nigga jobs under I mean to me, I
Speaker 1: don't want a guy making thirty five thousand. I don't
Speaker 1: want a guy making fifty thousand, especially if his children
Speaker 1: like maybe fifty tho by yourself and you're like keeping
Speaker 1: up with yourself cool. Maybe in Florida, not in New York,
Speaker 1: and New York probably less than seventy or probably kind
Speaker 1: of all right, So are you, as women comfortable calling
Speaker 1: a man broke that makes more money than you? I
Speaker 1: heard y'all talk about that. I'm not saying I'm not
Speaker 1: saying I don't thought that. I don't think y'all make
Speaker 1: Let's revisit that one. You don't make thirty dollars a year.
Speaker 1: Who are the funk? Are you somebody broke? I don't
Speaker 1: have you said, I don't remember I vis you or
Speaker 1: whoever brought it up. You said, women be calling niggas
Speaker 1: broke that make more money than No, no no, no, no, Rory,
Speaker 1: I actually agree with you. Rory said that a woman
Speaker 1: will always think a guy is broke as long as
Speaker 1: she knows a guy with more money than That's what
Speaker 1: you said, and I will always be broke if you
Speaker 1: can text somebody that has more money, that has more
Speaker 1: money than me. And I loved when he said that
Speaker 1: because I was like, but I don't think it's I
Speaker 1: don't think it's right. But that's what they don't. Never
Speaker 1: that will never change. I'll always be broken. There'll always
Speaker 1: be somebody a girl my friends, and they'll be talking
Speaker 1: to maybe someone who comes off the bench who only
Speaker 1: makes a million a year, and then they'll know another
Speaker 1: guy who's making like twenty million a year, so it's
Speaker 1: like you're only talking to that nigga with a million
Speaker 1: dollars a year. People love shaving like girls. I liked
Speaker 1: that broke conversation because the money I make now, So
Speaker 1: before we started, before I started making what I'm making, right,
Speaker 1: when we first started this pod, I was like, I
Speaker 1: have to be with a dude that makes six figures
Speaker 1: because I make six figures. Now have a new job
Speaker 1: and I'm making more money, and I'm like, I'm not.
Speaker 1: I might not meet somebody that makes some I make,
Speaker 1: and I have to change my mind. And that's the truth.
Speaker 1: And I had to grow up because I feel like
Speaker 1: I was real like, oh, you gotta have this, this
Speaker 1: and this, and frankly I might not. It's just it's
Speaker 1: not the average meeting income and it might be very
Speaker 1: hard unless I'm doing a bank or something like that
Speaker 1: I don't know right, or entertainers or whatever. If I
Speaker 1: meet a regular dude, how can you make what I make? Right?
Speaker 1: So here's the thing. You gotta humble yourself sometimes women
Speaker 1: do to say, because for me, this is the thing.
Speaker 1: I want a man that can enjoy the things that
Speaker 1: I enjoy with me. I like to go eat steaks,
Speaker 1: I like to go on vacation. I ain't talking about
Speaker 1: the Miami I like to go to Tokyo tailing all
Speaker 1: that ship Croatia. Yeah, week, I need to go. You
Speaker 1: don't have to pay for me, but you need to
Speaker 1: be able to come with me without me paying for you.
Speaker 1: I don't need you to pay for my vacation. And
Speaker 1: I am and I am being honest with that. And
Speaker 1: I frankly, when I was going to Tokyo, I was
Speaker 1: I was talking to loverabley at the time that there
Speaker 1: was a dude. I was like, you want to know,
Speaker 1: But I asked me if you wanted to him, and
Speaker 1: he was like, I can't do all that, And I
Speaker 1: was just like, okay, well, how how can I do this?
Speaker 1: If I want to get up and go somewhere. If
Speaker 1: somebody can't match me on that, then that to me,
Speaker 1: I can't handle. And I'm not gonna go as far well,
Speaker 1: I'm not big on I am big on potential to
Speaker 1: an extent I can't stand. I don't know where y'all
Speaker 1: at your ages with potential? Well, and and that's what
Speaker 1: So that's my thing like, because we're entering into an
Speaker 1: age where potential is yeah, and how many years I
Speaker 1: gonna take you? I'm about to be years old. Like
Speaker 1: I can't sit here and help a guy grow or
Speaker 1: raise a man. Or you're telling me of an idea
Speaker 1: that's not anywhere put even into fruition, or even when
Speaker 1: you talk about broke, I think broke is a mentality
Speaker 1: or mindset. If I meet a guy and say he's
Speaker 1: working no, no, no. But if you're working at say no, Well,
Speaker 1: if you're working at say a FedEx or something like that,
Speaker 1: and I meet you and you're working at FedEx? To me,
Speaker 1: I want, can we stop? I know, can we stop slandering?
Speaker 1: I think big started this? Can we stop slandering? Ups?
Speaker 1: And I mean it's problem? No, you know much Garbageman maker, No,
Speaker 1: they make like six figures in New York. They do.
Speaker 1: But to me, like, if you're in a situation where
Speaker 1: you're okay or content with making measily money, where you're
Speaker 1: living check to check, or you're not able to travel
Speaker 1: or do the things you want to do. To me,
Speaker 1: if you're a guy who isn't looking for a promotion,
Speaker 1: who isn't looking for a better job, who's not in
Speaker 1: school to better your education to be able to apply
Speaker 1: it better positions, and you're just okay with making what
Speaker 1: you're making and hoping you get a raise every year.
Speaker 1: To me, that's a broke mentality. Well, me, you're okay
Speaker 1: with making I don't know, because a lot of people
Speaker 1: don't have no I mean, if you got mad, like
Speaker 1: people are going to college and still can't pay that,
Speaker 1: that that ship off for a while, right, I mean, like, really,
Speaker 1: what money do you have? We could save motherfucker's ain't broke.
Speaker 1: But like Sally maybe says you is. I mean, if
Speaker 1: you don't own nobody money, you can easily end on
Speaker 1: that phone call and the and that's the thing. Like,
Speaker 1: so I can't I don't know. I can't say that
Speaker 1: someone that's comfortable with making their money and then waiting
Speaker 1: for a raison has a broke mentality, because this is
Speaker 1: the thing. If you're living comfortably, you and I like
Speaker 1: to travel, Mandy, we gotta do ship. He's talking about
Speaker 1: what we look for in partners. But that's not a
Speaker 1: broke mentality. Is to someone someone who wants to to
Speaker 1: see more in the world. And I feel like it
Speaker 1: broadens a person's a person's knowledge, their experiences. They're able
Speaker 1: to look at things differently. And so for me, being
Speaker 1: a woman who is well traveled and has traveled the world.
Speaker 1: I want a guy who wants to do that. A
Speaker 1: guy can't want to do that if he thinks that
Speaker 1: it costs a whole lot of money. Like I don't
Speaker 1: want a guy who thinks going to Miami is a
Speaker 1: fucking me neither. That's like going applebe taking a bitch
Speaker 1: to Miami for a birthday, like going Apple? What is that?
Speaker 1: By the way, this year, I went to Miami for
Speaker 1: my birthday and I told my friends. I was like,
Speaker 1: we have to say at the Montre and we have
Speaker 1: to eat somewhere really nice because I just realized what
Speaker 1: I did. I really wanted to be here because the
Speaker 1: snow in New York. But like, bro I feel like
Speaker 1: above how But this is the thing. I just don't
Speaker 1: want to say that someone as a broke mentality because
Speaker 1: they're comfortable with they're making because honestly, my lifestyle requires
Speaker 1: way more money. I take care of myself and to
Speaker 1: other adults, I have to make more money, but some
Speaker 1: people can't with women that Coleman broke, that are broke. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, and I don't told you though. That was
Speaker 1: me for a very long time as a bartender, and
Speaker 1: that came from me. Just like you said, I had
Speaker 1: guys in my phone who had a whole lot of money,
Speaker 1: And so we got to the point where in my
Speaker 1: mind broke making some money, no, but not some of it.
Speaker 1: Some of it, but there's not all bartenders and making
Speaker 1: money like not all. But I had ends announced, but
Speaker 1: I still wasn't making probably more than any given year
Speaker 1: depending Okay, I don't know, say that's bartending. So that's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Well, I wasn't bartending every day. I
Speaker 1: had summer gigs like, but that's what I'm saying. And
Speaker 1: there were times that because I had guys on my
Speaker 1: phone who had a lot of money, I would look
Speaker 1: at guys like you broke, and I know that maybe
Speaker 1: they even made more money than me, and I still
Speaker 1: looked at them as broke because of the access of
Speaker 1: guys that I had and the things that I was
Speaker 1: used to and being accommodated as far as getting flown out,
Speaker 1: being put in the nice hotels, eating at the nicest restaurants.
Speaker 1: So even just me having that experience with guys with money,
Speaker 1: I would look at niggas with my broke ass and
Speaker 1: call them broke. So I was that girl, but I
Speaker 1: mean we were younger too, and I think that I
Speaker 1: don't know if really women. I mean, I'm sure they are,
Speaker 1: but I feel like the older we get, the more
Speaker 1: we get into our later twenties and still is broken
Speaker 1: and they probably make more to me, so that hasn't changed.
Speaker 1: If you live with a guy, would you pay for
Speaker 1: a bill? I'll pay for the lace had this conversation
Speaker 1: already utilities, but I was just talking with my friend
Speaker 1: about that her deal with her boyfriend just bought a house, um,
Speaker 1: and I was like, so is your name on it?
Speaker 1: And she's like, no, but we split the rent. And
Speaker 1: I was like, you're paying for half of what hold on,
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on. He works with the government, but
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. She makes money regardless. Why are you
Speaker 1: paying half of a mortgage on a house that your
Speaker 1: name is nowhere? Are in so at any given time,
Speaker 1: even if you're paying him that money And he says,
Speaker 1: get out, that's what I said, it's it's rent whatever. No,
Speaker 1: it's not rentage mortgage. Now she would pay rent. I
Speaker 1: would gonna say she would pay rent if she lives
Speaker 1: somewhere else. I feel like I would be real. I
Speaker 1: think that if your parent rents splitting It depends, right,
Speaker 1: If I was dating someone that was making let's say
Speaker 1: sixty five, they can't pay for all the rent in
Speaker 1: New York. They can't. And if that's the person I'll
Speaker 1: be with, I can't expect them too. I am just
Speaker 1: speaking from me expecting that I'll meet someone that's making
Speaker 1: what I make. I know they can handle a rent,
Speaker 1: but like, bro, my rent by myself once to utilities
Speaker 1: and my gas and my heat, my rents three grant,
Speaker 1: I mean it is like, how can I not expect
Speaker 1: someone making that money? Actually, I'll be real with you.
Speaker 1: I've been like fantastizing about it. I'm like, okay, I
Speaker 1: gotta keep it sack. If I keep your so and so,
Speaker 1: I ain't leaving my apartment because it's a ship, so
Speaker 1: they're gonna move in here and it can't pay three
Speaker 1: ran Like, I mean, what it's It's true? I mean,
Speaker 1: my thing, what would that have perception of it? Because
Speaker 1: I've been on my own for so long that I
Speaker 1: already have in my DNA that I'm paying all my bills,
Speaker 1: Like I don't have the split the bill mentality because
Speaker 1: I've literally lived by myself for so fucking long. So yeah,
Speaker 1: if my girl moved in, I would never It wouldn't
Speaker 1: be that conversation. I would just think, no, no, this
Speaker 1: is the place I live. I pay these bills. If
Speaker 1: you look at her differently, if she didn't offer to help, no, no,
Speaker 1: I could see how. I guess some people would. But
Speaker 1: my mentality, it's just I paid for myself. So I
Speaker 1: feel resentment though, So I want to tell you all
Speaker 1: something I know about a millionaire that I know who
Speaker 1: lives on Parking Something. Been with this girl for seven
Speaker 1: years and for some reason he's starting to get a
Speaker 1: little resentment towards her. There is about seven thousand he
Speaker 1: is asking her for seven dollars a month and she flipped.
Speaker 1: He said, is it a test? So he doesn't he
Speaker 1: doesn't need. So he told me that he feels like
Speaker 1: and this is what I mean by resentment has Obviously
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to do with money, but he says
Speaker 1: that he's felt like throughout the course of their relationship,
Speaker 1: she never makes an effort and to contribute into what
Speaker 1: they have together. And he says that he's tired of
Speaker 1: feeling like he is the only one that sacrifices. Right,
Speaker 1: he works so much. He's not an athlete, he's not
Speaker 1: an entertainer. He is worked. I'm just saying, like, I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, he doesn't have a lot of free time.
Speaker 1: He's working in the sixty seventy hours a week. So
Speaker 1: I told him I thought what he did was petty.
Speaker 1: And then he said, unless there was a test or
Speaker 1: something I do, I thought it was very petty. And
Speaker 1: then he said, well, what else am I supposed to
Speaker 1: do to feel like my girl gives a ship about
Speaker 1: what we have together? What could I have done clean
Speaker 1: and cook for him? Like? Does she not do the
Speaker 1: things as a woman would probably do who's not responsible
Speaker 1: to pay? But she works just she works about fourty
Speaker 1: hours a week, so there's probably an unappreciation. So I said,
Speaker 1: I think this is why, and this is why I've
Speaker 1: always felt like I was a decent partner, even when
Speaker 1: millionaires and a lot of my I think you've told
Speaker 1: me like I'll be bugging for paying for dinners. But
Speaker 1: I really like showing my gratitude towards men with money
Speaker 1: with meals and drinks and things like that, because I
Speaker 1: feel like it shows you that not him only am
Speaker 1: I just like just along for the ride or whatever.
Speaker 1: But like here I am and I can do this too.
Speaker 1: Don't forget it, you know, because I understand when you're
Speaker 1: with someone that's very financially stable, they're just expecting bitches
Speaker 1: to take it. And I always had men telling me,
Speaker 1: especially when I walk in their homes with a gift,
Speaker 1: whether the cigars or just like he brought the wine,
Speaker 1: like nobody ever brings me anything. No one's ever brought
Speaker 1: me something to my house. Sometimes they're being sage to
Speaker 1: do his house. I was sucking his one day and
Speaker 1: I brought him skittles and he liked that I brought
Speaker 1: him skittles. You have to because my girl, I would
Speaker 1: always pick up any check if it came to that
Speaker 1: without me even knowing paid for it, came to me
Speaker 1: with gifts that I didn't have, like there's a way
Speaker 1: to do it if you're paying. Not to say I
Speaker 1: am because we don't live together, but she picks up
Speaker 1: a lot of things that I don't ask her to do,
Speaker 1: which I have the same relationship with my friends too,
Speaker 1: Like if we're all eating, someone to just grab the chick.
Speaker 1: It's not it's not that big of a do. Like
Speaker 1: my girls the same way to do that. I got it,
Speaker 1: but I got it. Don't worry about it, my girl.
Speaker 1: My girl's definitely but basic. She knows no matter what,
Speaker 1: I'll cover it. But she's not pressed. She'll go pay
Speaker 1: that ship right away. Have you do you mind that's
Speaker 1: something attractive with your girl or that's have you ever
Speaker 1: noticed that like women picking up? Do you like that?
Speaker 1: Talk like I want to talk? Are you? Are you
Speaker 1: a regular dude? Well? I was raised by nothing but women.
Speaker 1: So if we're like on a first date or even
Speaker 1: up to date, up to date ten, I'm always going
Speaker 1: to pick that up. But in a relationship and so
Speaker 1: many years, and yeah, I think it's dope that my
Speaker 1: girl is financially stable enough to just be like, you know,
Speaker 1: I got that. Have you ever noticed, never offered? Has
Speaker 1: it ever bothered you? Uh? Yeah I have. But that
Speaker 1: went back to my bum chick theory. I need to
Speaker 1: stop sticking my dick now. Let's I want to ask
Speaker 1: this one thing that we asked for Andrew and Wax
Speaker 1: about the ubers. And Andrew was like, nah, you gotta
Speaker 1: get your own ship. I mean, if I'm sending you home,
Speaker 1: but who's gonna ask me for uber? To me how
Speaker 1: do you feel about sending ubers for dates to the
Speaker 1: wherever the location we're going something like that, or like
Speaker 1: come into your place, like are you I mean, if
Speaker 1: it's not really brought up. But then again, I would
Speaker 1: look at her weird if she was like, oh, you
Speaker 1: can get me there. It's New York though, so it's different,
Speaker 1: different if you're different. Yeah, I can't really call it.
Speaker 1: Like if I was in Atlanta and she didn't have
Speaker 1: a car, I might bring up like yo, like you
Speaker 1: need a uber or something to get there? No, not yeah,
Speaker 1: don't have a car Atlanta, Atlanta, I might like say, yo,
Speaker 1: you need a uber or something. But in New York
Speaker 1: we take the train like it's yeah, I don't know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's hard to answer in New York. I feel like
Speaker 1: sometimes for me, like I've always had men offer after
Speaker 1: which I appreciate um, Like I usually uber uber home
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah, after I'm at home, and that's a
Speaker 1: safety issue. I don't want you getting on the train
Speaker 1: and I don't want the last person, especially like I
Speaker 1: don't know where you live, like yeah, it could be
Speaker 1: a while. Ye I agree with that. I agree. I
Speaker 1: mean I think it's just weird, like Dating in New
Speaker 1: York is much different than dating in a lot of
Speaker 1: other cities, like because in other cities, it's the gesture
Speaker 1: of does he pick me up? Do I meet him there? Yeah?
Speaker 1: It's like you don't really have people picking you up
Speaker 1: for dates in real life because so many people don't
Speaker 1: have cars. It's just even if they being from New York,
Speaker 1: picking somebody up for a date is the weirdest thing, like, wait,
Speaker 1: I'm picking you up? The date once in New York
Speaker 1: and I thought either he got a lot of money
Speaker 1: or none because he lived in Jersey. He lived in Jersey.
Speaker 1: I was about to say Jersey. But the Niggers in
Speaker 1: Jersey got cars. They just lives mad far and like so.
Speaker 1: And I was joking about it the first time. I like,
Speaker 1: I do they head of car? And I was like, wow,
Speaker 1: you admit her what a car? He's rich. I had
Speaker 1: a car and I got rid of that ship. I
Speaker 1: was like, this is collecting Porkin in New Jersey, it
Speaker 1: was still collecting. But I live in Jersey City and
Speaker 1: I live above the bath Ring, so it's like, why
Speaker 1: to come over. I know where you live in I
Speaker 1: have in your girl car for us. Right, She's gonna
Speaker 1: find us. She's gonna find us. But um, I'm thank
Speaker 1: you so much, I guess Roy for coming on to
Speaker 1: our show. You guys have not um listened yet, please
Speaker 1: tune in. A lot of you probably came from the Joe,
Speaker 1: but I think everyone listens to the job but the
Speaker 1: podcast now. But if you don't, it's a really good show.
Speaker 1: It could use y'all could use some more listening. I
Speaker 1: mean to be honest. We have a lot of female listeners.
Speaker 1: And I will tell y'all, I actually just started listening
Speaker 1: to your podcast this year. I picked certain faithfully. I
Speaker 1: picked certain episodes that I want. I know you listen
Speaker 1: all the time. I listened like this podcast sometimes I
Speaker 1: have to cut it off. No, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I listened to the ones that I like. I didn't
Speaker 1: work for a month and a half, and I felt
Speaker 1: I fell off on Brilliant Idiots and the Reading. A
Speaker 1: lot of the other podcasts I listened to, No but
Speaker 1: I know, but coming you fell No, No, No, and
Speaker 1: well notw that I'm back working, I listen. But I
Speaker 1: will say faithfully, I listened to y'all every week, even
Speaker 1: if I was on the plane, if I was on
Speaker 1: the train. Somehow I managed to still listen to you
Speaker 1: guys weekly, so I really enjoy your podcast. I actually
Speaker 1: used to just only like pick some and then for
Speaker 1: some reason, I don't know which one it was that
Speaker 1: got me and I was like, you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna listen to every single one and and now I
Speaker 1: love it. It's a part of my repertoire to sit
Speaker 1: through y'all niggas be so long it takes me a day. Dude,
Speaker 1: then three hour episodes be killing me. I need we
Speaker 1: used to do and yeah, but I just want y'all
Speaker 1: to know, as much as y'all may kill us, we
Speaker 1: ain't ever doing. To be fair, it's good. It's good content.
Speaker 1: This has been recording. I didn't say talk about it,
Speaker 1: and it was a drake. I was like, y'all did
Speaker 1: such a good job that I sex that and the
Speaker 1: way y'all like bitches love now stop, I'm like, wait,
Speaker 1: we really great episode. See Roy, this is now I'm
Speaker 1: convinced you make the episodes long. But the Joe but
Speaker 1: the podcast he had a drinking for Yeah, but we're
Speaker 1: about to do I'm not about to go to the spa.
Speaker 1: And I actually have another podcast that I'm going to
Speaker 1: be on, right, I know, I am going to the
Speaker 1: spot um Spot cast a little premiere fifty seven in
Speaker 1: the city. I went there, so, yeah, yo, let me
Speaker 1: tell you something about podcast. I got to me she's
Speaker 1: keep it going, premiere fifty seven. It's something I found
Speaker 1: super nice. So I posted them there. Right. One of
Speaker 1: our listeners is like, yo, fan of the show. My
Speaker 1: ex man is in there with his new bitch. Can
Speaker 1: you take a picture. I was like yeah, I was
Speaker 1: like all the black people there and I was like
Speaker 1: so much right right, I guess where else can our
Speaker 1: listeners find you? Boy? I'm on Twitter? Okay, we'll give
Speaker 1: them your Twitter better know who I am already. This
Speaker 1: is Rory. We're do say pelluses in Detroit August eleventh. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're in Philly from made An America Weekend, which is
Speaker 1: the last weekend of August, and then more dates are coming. Okay, York,
Speaker 1: I have not been to be could you trash? You
Speaker 1: know I've been about not you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I didn't know. It was super good time, So I
Speaker 1: appreciate you not going to talk about the hashtag I
Speaker 1: created for you know, funk your hashtag. What is it?
Speaker 1: We were in l A there all star we here
Speaker 1: and what was it? Let him hit? Let's let Chris kill? No,
Speaker 1: let Chris Chris. Chris one of my best friends. He's
Speaker 1: the host of No. We're just friends and so we're
Speaker 1: just super cool, super cool friends. I was on my
Speaker 1: live and I started a campaign of Chris kill because
Speaker 1: they was getting real cuddly in the side bro I
Speaker 1: was drunk. We was just chilling. But I could be
Speaker 1: friends without giving them pussy friend. We weren't cuddling, we
Speaker 1: were sitting drinking. I was not cutting Chris hashtag. Next
Speaker 1: one might be let cavs because I went to h
Speaker 1: the anthony with Alex and Cas. Alex was like, I
Speaker 1: see you bitch. I was like, you know, he got
Speaker 1: somebody ain't doing, played way too much. And then of
Speaker 1: course his whole live because you know he's popping, so
Speaker 1: you have like three hundred motherfuckers in there, they're all
Speaker 1: just like doing the hashtag. I'm like, see you play
Speaker 1: some motherfucking much Like why not? He just plays too much,
Speaker 1: way too much, And I don't have time for that ship,
Speaker 1: you know what. I feel like, as much as I
Speaker 1: want to in the industry. Right now, I feel like
Speaker 1: because we've grown on our own without industry, this word
Speaker 1: podcast industry celebrities though we're not celebt podcast industry. You know,
Speaker 1: as much as like I'm meeting where people in this ship,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I guess I can't. Fuck you know
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Speaker 1: a girl being they're not cutting that playing. Okay, I
Speaker 1: turned it, but my point is we had a girl
Speaker 1: on the talked about a girl being sun by wine bottle,
Speaker 1: and all I could do is hold this ship and
Speaker 1: think like how far maybe it was this they get
Speaker 1: to calories per serving, because bro, this is thick. I'm done. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I wouldn't fit that in my asshole or pussy.
Speaker 1: But anyways, we're both like anyways, I just want to
Speaker 1: say not to damp for the mood. I can't come
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Speaker 1: Combat Jack and everything that he's built. I love Reggie.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get emotional again, but every time I come
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