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Speaker 1: What welcome, guys, we are here. It is another episode

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Speaker 1: of Horrible Decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy b I am Wheezy,

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Speaker 1: and we have a very special guest. I just want

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Speaker 1: to let y'all know real quick to UM, I ain't

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Speaker 1: never been with a white guy, but Rory came in

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Speaker 1: with wine and I felt like, damn you. That's how

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Speaker 1: rumors get started. Actually, I've never been with a white guy,

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Speaker 1: but Rory, where's the sentence going? No, Thettlee bottle because

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Speaker 1: they're not kind of check and already they're not kind

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Speaker 1: of check. I'll say I brought a very exclusive two

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Speaker 1: thousand eighteen, Dwayne read is this Peanott? What is this?

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Speaker 1: It is? Pan puts either that or some merlot know

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Speaker 1: which one to bring. But we see you brought the

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Speaker 1: James for yourself and I have Yeah, I'm rish. I okay.

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Speaker 1: He's like I tried to do the Black Side of

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Speaker 1: the Dark time, you know what I mean, Like I

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Speaker 1: gotta go back worker and make money with so I

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Speaker 1: would like to continue that. I know that's right. If

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Speaker 1: you guys don't know who Rory is, he is, um

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Speaker 1: the white voice on the Joe Button Podcast. There's another

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Speaker 1: white voice. Well, yeah, Parks, but does he count of

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Speaker 1: the voice? You're like the voice one of the white

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Speaker 1: people in the culture of black cal Okay, So let

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Speaker 1: me tell you the difference between you and Sam and Ahad,

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Speaker 1: because I didn't know you were a Kappa until we interviewed.

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Speaker 1: I interviewed, Yeah, so together. You know, Sam is younger

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Speaker 1: than me. I feel like you've been retired two steps

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Speaker 1: and Sam's am I right, yea for a while, my

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Speaker 1: shoulders are retired, like you can't ship me right now?

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Speaker 1: For it's like we can't get Rory don't know, I'll

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Speaker 1: do some community. Let's stop it all themone, every black one.

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Speaker 1: And I go to at a kapa and they're doing

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Speaker 1: a stroll okay, and they grow Oh no, I can't

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Speaker 1: speak for them, shimmy and at the brunch I love it.

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Speaker 1: So by the way, where I want to say, you

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Speaker 1: are very attractive in person, and I think, here you go.

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Speaker 1: You already knew, you know with some from Reez. Here's

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Speaker 1: the thing I love. I love our camera Guy Ericson,

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Speaker 1: But I look nuts on that podcast. Yeah you do.

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Speaker 1: I don't look like how I look. My dad called

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Speaker 1: me and was like, dope, I'm not bold, but I

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Speaker 1: look bold on that ship. My dad put a fucking

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Speaker 1: head on. Well, my dad called me for that shows like,

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Speaker 1: all right, you know you looked a little you looked.

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Speaker 1: You look way better in person. I've been called reverse catfish.

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Speaker 1: Shut up. Yeah, I just don't look good on camera. Well,

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Speaker 1: we hope you better get his angles, girl, because we're

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Speaker 1: gonna be I mean, well we look like you know

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Speaker 1: you're not. You know, I didn't wear a bra for

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Speaker 1: you or you can fight too, you know what? The problems?

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Speaker 1: He just lets you know, don't she is she Latina? No,

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Speaker 1: she's got still you know, I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 1: problem ship. I had enough. I all the Jamaican Nicks

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Speaker 1: in our Lando and usk me because that's from from

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Speaker 1: So once I saw you guys like Smiles and South

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Speaker 1: Star girls the Chinese one. But something what you think

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Speaker 1: is going on? That's them right? May you know? I

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Speaker 1: would pay Smiles the South Star to come to Dulu.

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Speaker 1: Really they're fun, but they would have to wear the

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Speaker 1: jeans with all of the NBA logos on. They would

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Speaker 1: have to Why don't you guys have a party like that?

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Speaker 1: What I want to wear some Timberland Hills oh my god,

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Speaker 1: we do like that would be dope because we all

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Speaker 1: kind of nineties babies. You're actually in our realm of Asia. No,

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Speaker 1: I thought you werelder than me. I think everyone's older.

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean it. You know what I'm gonna take

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Speaker 1: just because we're education. You guys are very mature and

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Speaker 1: talk about sex much different than younger women. I'm always

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Speaker 1: talking about come swapping, but I'll go, I mean, that's sure.

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Speaker 1: So what we like to do when we have guests

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Speaker 1: on and you had my friends on the ropes two

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Speaker 1: weeks ago, Cast and low but they didn't sit. My

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Speaker 1: guys held it down no, real quick, real quick. So

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Speaker 1: I saw low Um. So I went to the Pelusa

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Speaker 1: in Chicago and I saw low Key and he was like, yo, Cast,

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Speaker 1: I didn't even know what I was walking into and

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Speaker 1: your girl trying to get me. But he was like,

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Speaker 1: I just I had it cool. He was like, thank

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Speaker 1: We had an audio funk up and when we were leaving,

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Speaker 1: he's like, I just I didn't know where it was

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Speaker 1: at dinner before they went. It was me, Cam Low

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Speaker 1: and Cas was like, Y gon do this Horrible Decisions

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Speaker 1: Cam and something to do, so Low was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll do it. And I was like, all right, I

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Speaker 1: hope you ready. You'll see you fucking liar. I asked

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Speaker 1: you to come on. You're like, I'm in l a. No, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was at that time, not the same day I

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Speaker 1: recorded that wasn't shot said were dinner? Were you asked? You?

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Speaker 1: Asked me a week after? They was? I met guy?

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Speaker 1: When I got you together? Right now? He said, but

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Speaker 1: look she really don't be drinking, so her date's probably

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Speaker 1: gonna be messed up. And I apologize beforehand if she

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Speaker 1: comes out of character because you brought drinks. And when

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Speaker 1: I bring drinks, she's like, are you know I don't drink?

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Speaker 1: Was raised, beautiful white ass. She was like, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: I'm getting it. I mean, you know whatever, So let's

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Speaker 1: ask the questions. Okay, are you guys in the three sums?

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Speaker 1: Me and my girlfriend I mean, let's just go just

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Speaker 1: so real quick. We like we like to do. Ice

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Speaker 1: was broken at come swapping, but we did asked you

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Speaker 1: about the cup, so it was underwater at this point.

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Speaker 1: We're under underwater, by the way. That's water boarding, right.

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Speaker 1: Look here here she goes. So I want to know,

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Speaker 1: I guess answer the question because I didn't even know

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Speaker 1: who's gonna ask that. But are you and your significant

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Speaker 1: other into three sum stories? That's something that's been she's

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Speaker 1: she's not into girls at all. That's something that you want.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I've done it before, but not with her,

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Speaker 1: and that's not her thing. That's not her thing. Honestly

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Speaker 1: though I appreciate that because a lot of someone so bad.

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Speaker 1: But if your girl's not into it, then why do

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Speaker 1: you keep fishing? It would be a fucking nightmare. First

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Speaker 1: of all, two guys that have not had threesomes that

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Speaker 1: want to have them. I hope you know it's not

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Speaker 1: for you, Like if you go in there and think

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Speaker 1: this is going to be dope for you're it's for

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Speaker 1: those two women like you have to control to remember

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Speaker 1: what Wax was saying, each other pussy and make each

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Speaker 1: other come first. I just laid it. Yeah, No, that's

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Speaker 1: a big strategy moment. You try to go in there

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Speaker 1: and trying to navigate ship like now you fucked. You know.

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Speaker 1: Every time, the dude is always exhausted. See that's why

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Speaker 1: I worked a lot. The last guy that I had

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Speaker 1: a threesome with, he went forty five minutes with just me.

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Speaker 1: and I was like, thank God, there's another pussy in

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Speaker 1: here because he tore my the funk up. Three sums

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Speaker 1: get ready for threesomes, so like they just be really

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Speaker 1: So I was like so glad. At one point, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: am I schafing? You're sucking the shit out of me?

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Speaker 1: And it's really because you show you gotta show up.

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Speaker 1: There's a crowd. It's exhausting a three way relationships. I

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Speaker 1: mean I've dated two people together and like I could

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Speaker 1: tell how tired he was of like just being like,

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Speaker 1: oh god, now I got get for this. It's I

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Speaker 1: think men are nuts for doing that. It's a lot

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Speaker 1: like bitches by themselves? Is it was fun because like

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Speaker 1: when I'm tired personalities, let them start beefing, and you

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Speaker 1: got to be the middle man, you know, picking side.

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Speaker 1: He couldn't make it somewhere right. He was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I have a work thing, blah blah blah. In the

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Speaker 1: group chat. Her and I both it was like, She's like,

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Speaker 1: but you didn't say that earlier. I'm like, when you've

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Speaker 1: never told us you gotta work thing, you never like

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Speaker 1: going to work ship. Also, now you're too busy. I

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Speaker 1: was like, yo, he thought the blocks, like the group

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Speaker 1: chat was on you. That's too much. That's why too.

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Speaker 1: So I want to I never want my relationship to

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Speaker 1: have a group chat. But that's not well. Y'all can

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Speaker 1: send all the cool The memes be fine, right, the

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Speaker 1: memes be fine. The gypsis okay. So I want to

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Speaker 1: ask you this too before we go to our vanilla ship,

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Speaker 1: but would you rather go a year without head or

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Speaker 1: a year without sex? I'm tired of these days, man,

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Speaker 1: I'll just take of the head. Really does it well? Though?

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Speaker 1: That's another thing? Okay? Do you so head? Is you

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Speaker 1: enjoy head? Do you enjoy head more than pussy? Though? No,

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Speaker 1: of course not No, I'd be tired. You'd be tired.

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Speaker 1: It's a very busy time in my life. You would

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Speaker 1: ask me that three years ago. Well, no, we could

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Speaker 1: mean I could fuck your mouth, Conda kind of be

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Speaker 1: like sex. I love, I love my moth. I like

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Speaker 1: when I'm scared of you running this ship. I don't

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Speaker 1: like all that, but I don't be wanting to feel

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Speaker 1: like but I do like mouth and like I like

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Speaker 1: when they're like on top of my mouth, Like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I like balls, period, I'd be licking the balls and

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Speaker 1: then of course trying to go under them. But we're

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Speaker 1: not gonna talk about that because you know that's no.

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Speaker 1: This isn't the ass eating episode. Are you into that? Uh?

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Speaker 1: To an extent, there's a way, what's an extent? I'm

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Speaker 1: not too my ass in there. I was raised a

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Speaker 1: certain way. You look, but you would rather be like

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Speaker 1: if I'm if I'm in the regular, if I'm in

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Speaker 1: I'm not stop you but do you, but just a

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Speaker 1: little bit more so she could access the ass whole better.

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Speaker 1: My pelvic area is gonna stay where this question he's

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Speaker 1: ever been took on of colleges and she's like, bring

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Speaker 1: your butt all the way to the bottom. Once you

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Speaker 1: feel like, do you, then I've adjusted a bit. I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't say my leg was on anyone's shoulder. My grandfather

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Speaker 1: Roan is fucking grave. If my legs about your grandfather

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Speaker 1: while you're getting your asthlet it wasn't. That was staying

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Speaker 1: right now. But I'm cool with the ass eating. That's

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Speaker 1: fine as a woman. Never what's about the finger because

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Speaker 1: we know low Ki talking. I call him Thumbelina right now?

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Speaker 1: That was that was in our group chat like we

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Speaker 1: was like the next morning, low you nasty were telling

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Speaker 1: that story. Though it's never happened to me. I'm not

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Speaker 1: saying I would be against it, but it's never happened.

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Speaker 1: But she wouldn't kick a bitch in her face if

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Speaker 1: she did it, Like you would still accept the finger.

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Speaker 1: If I didn't like it, I mean, well no, no, no no,

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Speaker 1: it's hard at you would like it's more like a surprise.

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Speaker 1: They had the reaction that a lot of men are like,

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Speaker 1: sucked up me my bitch home on like we I

420
00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 1: don't know about you, but I don't let my drunk

421
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:29,520
Speaker 1: friends go home and nobody but yeah, but I the

422
00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:34,080
Speaker 1: blocking friend. I used to hate the blocking, give me

423
00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 1: mad blocking friends blocked out my own dick blessings from

424
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 1: being like, bitch, no, you got coming me like just

425
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:44,240
Speaker 1: because I don't trust in the fact that that man

426
00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:46,119
Speaker 1: will take care of my friend at that moment, and

427
00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:48,840
Speaker 1: especially like I just I don't know. I know it's

428
00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 1: the little feminist in me, but I've done it to women.

429
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 1: I've been at a pizza parlor in Orlando. I think

430
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 1: it's called Paninos, and I've seen a girl that was

431
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,840
Speaker 1: you know, Okay, so I don't say that because so

432
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 1: we're from Orlando, but this is a pizza spot that's

433
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 1: between all the clubs Central in downtown Orlando. And everyone

434
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:09,879
Speaker 1: goes here and you always see. So there was a

435
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:13,400
Speaker 1: girl wasted, and there was a dude, a big host

436
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,679
Speaker 1: in the scene in Orlando that was with her and

437
00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 1: he was so mad at me for two years. I

438
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:18,640
Speaker 1: walked right up to a girl. I was like, yo,

439
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 1: are you okay? And she's like, yeah, I'm fine. I'm like, okay,

440
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if you want to get like an

441
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 1: uber home or something, but like you don't look like

442
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:27,119
Speaker 1: you can hold yourself up too well, Like do you

443
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,439
Speaker 1: want me to take you home? And she was like, actually,

444
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:33,680
Speaker 1: yeah I do. And the girl huh, I don't find

445
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:38,240
Speaker 1: but if I want to funk and I see nothing

446
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 1: about you know, and she said he said he was

447
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 1: gonna take me home. I really don't have the money

448
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,920
Speaker 1: for uber, but you know, I figured like right, yeah,

449
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:49,880
Speaker 1: She's like I figured he might try taking his house,

450
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 1: and like I really appreciate. Okay. So let's not have

451
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 1: the conversation of the drunk girl stumbling out of the club.

452
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:59,199
Speaker 1: Let's take this to you are with somebody who you know,

453
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 1: one who maybe you've been talking to. You both go

454
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:06,160
Speaker 1: out for drinks and now you're both drunk and both

455
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 1: of you have discussed wanting to have sexual relations with

456
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:13,800
Speaker 1: each other prior to you getting to where you are.

457
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 1: So now you're both drunk, she consented, Prior do you

458
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 1: still have sex knowing that both of you guys are drunk?

459
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:21,679
Speaker 1: As a man, what what do you do in that

460
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 1: position where both of y'all are drunk? Well, I can

461
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 1: only speak for me, Okay, of course I have somewhat

462
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:31,439
Speaker 1: control of myself when I'm drinking. Of course I'm drunk,

463
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 1: but I know right from role when I'm drunk. You know,

464
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 1: sex though with a lot of like third or fourth dates,

465
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 1: like that's my number, I feel like, not on purpose,

466
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 1: but it's just usually happened. Grow up right, three dates girls,

467
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 1: Shut the funk up? Go ahead, you know what your story,

468
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:54,360
Speaker 1: you fly and now your first days, I don't want

469
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,160
Speaker 1: to do That's what I'm saying. I like to give

470
00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 1: my pussy to somebody that I feel like I will

471
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 1: sunk again and by first day? Am I sure that

472
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: I like you that much? Because everybody on the first

473
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: date is on their best behavior, So don't come for me.

474
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 1: I Well, whoever, I want, whenever I want, whenever the

475
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 1: chemistry feels right, whether be a first day of second day,

476
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: third day, But generally by the third date, I feel

477
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: like I will know if I'm gonna keep seeing this

478
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:17,880
Speaker 1: person or if I'm interested, and I just don't want

479
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 1: to waste my time. So by that date, normally we're

480
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 1: probably hanging out long and the bar is getting longer.

481
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like we're going, we're hopping around.

482
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:30,439
Speaker 1: I'm normally pretty drunk by that third date, but I

483
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 1: am also the drunk girl that asks for it. Right,

484
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 1: I'll be like, yo, can you come home with me?

485
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: Do you want to come home me? Blah blah blah,

486
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,639
Speaker 1: and not until they'll do them day now. Jeeves. He

487
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 1: was the first person in my life. No no no, no, no.

488
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 1: I think that's themes we did, we do and we

489
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: So he was in my house and said to me, like, listen,

490
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:54,920
Speaker 1: if you want, we could just keep kissing and touching

491
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 1: and playing around, and like we could wake up and

492
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 1: finish whatever you want to finish, and asked me to

493
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 1: take my after it was okay if he took his

494
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,719
Speaker 1: pants off when he got into my bed. And when

495
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 1: I tell you, like, I was so impressed because it

496
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,640
Speaker 1: not only made me feel comfortable, but it also let

497
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 1: me know that the the things I was experiencing may not

498
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:14,159
Speaker 1: have been right. Right. I know we're all here for

499
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: the cool consent. That's great, but no, I mean not

500
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: a lot of people are doing that though. But I

501
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: think it's important to he respected that you drunk. He

502
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 1: didn't he didn't want to put himself in that position,

503
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: but you being drunk asking for the dick too. So

504
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I've had I've had sex multiple

505
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: times where I have been blacked out, and depending on

506
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: who the person is, I have woke up and just

507
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 1: asked him did you come, where'd you come? Did we

508
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 1: use a condom? And was really nonchalant about it. I

509
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 1: want to avoid those type of covers, right, But then

510
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,959
Speaker 1: I've had I don't think that those conversations. I was

511
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,959
Speaker 1: with a person that I had been fucking four years.

512
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 1: We went to the club, and that's so in that

513
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,360
Speaker 1: sense it was okay. But then again, I have had

514
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 1: sex where I have blocked out and I woke up

515
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: feeling violated, like why did you fuck me? And we

516
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,399
Speaker 1: were drunk, but he was saying, you asked for you

517
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: wanted it you and and so that's kind of where

518
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 1: I guess this gets gray for a lot of people.

519
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 1: Would you would you say that maybe men should just

520
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:23,719
Speaker 1: walk away from having sex at all under the influence,

521
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 1: especially being in the time where we are now with

522
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,640
Speaker 1: the Me Too movement and what we see is happening.

523
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,439
Speaker 1: I think it starts with liquor. I think men should

524
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: moderate how they drink and know themselves. I think that's

525
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:38,920
Speaker 1: the first like about women being drunk. I'm thinking not necessarily.

526
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, men have to remember

527
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: we can't win in court women. Of course, males have

528
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 1: much more privileged than women do. But in the court

529
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 1: of law, whether it comes with baby mothers, child support, rape,

530
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:57,439
Speaker 1: we lose no matter what. And then a man, you

531
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 1: have to remember, if we're both drunk and you say

532
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 1: I raped you, it doesn't matter that I'm drunk. It

533
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,679
Speaker 1: only matters that she was drunk. You have to remember

534
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: that law. So you have to keep that in the

535
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 1: back of your mind. That's that whole ship. When I'm

536
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 1: saying you need friends, you need to know how to drink,

537
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 1: don't do that. Like you need to know right from wrong.

538
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 1: If you're going out with a chick and she's drinking,

539
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:18,120
Speaker 1: you need to drink less to make that decision. Well,

540
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,159
Speaker 1: I think the main thing is, like I was the

541
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: king before the King of just beating off in front

542
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 1: of a chick if she was too drunk, I'll happily

543
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: beat it. You can watch. I don't given like I'm

544
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 1: gonna nut, but like, if you're too drunk, now, I'm

545
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 1: gonna beat off somewhere I go on my little round

546
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 1: and I'm cool. So so that would be I guess

547
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:39,640
Speaker 1: the girl that's drunk. No, you need to. We're we're

548
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 1: going to lose in the court of law no matter what,

549
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 1: we're going to lose. So when you go out, keep

550
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 1: that in mind. You can don't fucking drink too much

551
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:49,440
Speaker 1: if you if you think you might suck this is

552
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,159
Speaker 1: this is something you don't remember. Like like a lot

553
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: of dudes are so wait, like I don't know. And

554
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 1: that's the thing, Like can I really place blame on

555
00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:00,119
Speaker 1: two wasted people? I don't know if I can't. And

556
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 1: the only thing I do plays a heavy blame on

557
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 1: is men. Like in a situation where I took the

558
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 1: girl from the pizza place that fu drunk girls, especially

559
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 1: women that you haven't been with before, that you're putting

560
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: yourself at risk with whether they asked for it or not. Right.

561
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna speak in turn from not from the

562
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,400
Speaker 1: women's perspective, where I really want to call all yell

563
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 1: pieces of ship. But let's say for a guy to

564
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 1: protect themselves, someone who is genuinely not trying to harm

565
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 1: a woman or rape them, right, just the just the

566
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 1: idea or the instance or the possibility that a woman

567
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 1: could feel like she's violated. Why even bother like, there's

568
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: just no point a woman knowing that you took care

569
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 1: of them. Let's say girls at your house beat off,

570
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:44,719
Speaker 1: beat off before you leave out that or even if

571
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 1: you took a girl home and didn't suck her and

572
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 1: left to her space, she probably gonna give me a

573
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 1: pussy an order anyway, because she's gonna be like girl

574
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 1: I went home with him. He was so nice. He

575
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: ain't even try every time I give pussy because I

576
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 1: was like, he don't want it real quick. I also

577
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: want to say that while we're blaming um men a

578
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 1: lot of let me finish. Can I finish my topic? No, Well,

579
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying a lot of men are blamed. You just

580
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: said that men will lose in the corner of law.

581
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: And while I do want to put a little bit

582
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 1: of the responsibility on us as women because with what

583
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: you're saying and how you handle drunk situations, was this

584
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: a conversation that was had with you growing up with

585
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: your mom about when you started drinking and having sex

586
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: with women. Was there a conversation that was had? Okay,

587
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 1: so this is where I'm gonna say, if we're going

588
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 1: to have this conversation clearly as adults, I feel like

589
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 1: for a lot of the women out there who have

590
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: sons or who have young boys, these are conversations that

591
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 1: now need to be had, Like, son, I don't care

592
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: if you're fucking or not, if you're out drinking though,

593
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 1: this is what can happen, this is what needs to

594
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 1: be done, and this is what you shouldn't do. And

595
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 1: so as women raising these young boys and wanting to

596
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 1: make change in society, I feel like it's our responsibility

597
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 1: as women to have these conversations as mothers with our

598
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 1: son and telling them what's right and wrong. We already

599
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: know y'all gonna be out fucking. Women allow boys like

600
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 1: it's not it's not like your dick is so um.

601
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: I don't know kind of how how women we pride

602
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: ourselves and keeping our virginity. It's not the same for men.

603
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: So a lot of women are okay with their sons

604
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:19,959
Speaker 1: knowing that they out there fucking. But those conversations when

605
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 1: it comes to liquor and people being under the influence

606
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: aren't being had. They weren't had as us and we're

607
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 1: just nineties babies, so I know it definitely wasn't had

608
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: with people of Joe's era or you know, I can't

609
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 1: speak for that. My mother absolutely, how conversation you're not

610
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: a man though, I'm saying with women with women, but

611
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying for men that conversation, Yeah it was. It

612
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 1: was a nice thing to happen myself. No, No, but

613
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 1: that's something it's just with women having that conversation with

614
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: young boys, not women to go. Yeah. Absolutely, I was

615
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 1: trying to find any girl that would suck me like

616
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 1: I was. That's all I was trying to do. And

617
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 1: see at that age, what's the difference with like the

618
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 1: drinking and the consensual thing now is like when you're

619
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 1: a teenager, you're just wanting rolt and running rampant. But

620
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 1: the other thing is that I think it's really important

621
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 1: now is when I have heard conversations with men discussing

622
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: what they've learned about sex. It was more about protection

623
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: where condoms use this, that's the conversation you have. But

624
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: it's not necessarily about the whole consent thing. Because when

625
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 1: I was in high school, there were so many girls

626
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: that felt pressured to do things that they did not

627
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 1: want to do and um, and that was the majority

628
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: of my conversations. And then as I got older, I

629
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: got in the conversation of like making sure I put

630
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 1: myself in the right situations and being responsible for holding

631
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 1: my liquor. However, I still don't want to say that

632
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: that necessarily means that a woman should feel blame on herself.

633
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Speaker 1: I never said that she feels were saying, I know,

634
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Speaker 1: I'm just having a conversation on my own. No, no,

635
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Speaker 1: I'm saying that generally, when we talk about responsibility with women,

636
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Speaker 1: it also can be a thing where it's just like, well, girl,

637
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Speaker 1: you was sucked up and that's the thing. You shouldn't

638
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Speaker 1: expect someone to violate you, obviously, But the thing is like,

639
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Speaker 1: we have to be also aware of our own tolerance

640
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Speaker 1: as girls. I think especially your your your tribe to write.

641
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Speaker 1: I know there's a I don't want to say who

642
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Speaker 1: it is, but there's a girl I hang out with

643
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Speaker 1: it I just always feel like doesn't have my best interests.

644
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Speaker 1: She's fun to party with, but I'm just like, I

645
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Speaker 1: ain't gonna get it too sunked up around her, the

646
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Speaker 1: girl that we just that you just met them. I

647
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Speaker 1: know it's ten years when I'm went up, I'll be

648
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 1: looking at it like, bitch, I'm getting sucked up tonight,

649
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: So you can't get that funked up because I'm getting trash.

650
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: She'd be like, oh okay, and I feel like, what's

651
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Speaker 1: your people like that bitches can be like have my back,

652
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be the one, and you have to be

653
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Speaker 1: very honest, like with your friend, like hold me down.

654
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Speaker 1: And I think it's a thing that girls don't maybe

655
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Speaker 1: even check enough with their friends, make sure them bitches.

656
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Speaker 1: Now I view the cock blocking friend much different than

657
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Speaker 1: I did when I was younger, Like way different. It's

658
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Speaker 1: a totally different thing because I'll imagine that she knows

659
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Speaker 1: her and she knows that all right, she's probably not

660
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Speaker 1: in the right state of mind to make a good decision,

661
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Speaker 1: and it's coming from I'm not trying to be I'm

662
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Speaker 1: never the moral high ground guy. I never want to

663
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Speaker 1: come acrosses that or anything. It's a selfish reason. Yeah,

664
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Speaker 1: I know that could get me fucked up. I don't

665
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Speaker 1: get about her now. I agree. I agree all from

666
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Speaker 1: a selfish point. You got to you're the guy in

667
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Speaker 1: the situation. And I think too. I think it's smart

668
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Speaker 1: that you said that. You guys talk about it with

669
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Speaker 1: going to do say Pellusa and having each other's back.

670
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Speaker 1: But I think that. But I mean, it's all different

671
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Speaker 1: maybe in the early days now that it's a job.

672
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Speaker 1: Right now, it's when you even go out to party,

673
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Speaker 1: even say, if it's not do say or a lot

674
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Speaker 1: of guys who have groups of friends. You go out

675
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Speaker 1: with groups of friends often, and I think that it's

676
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Speaker 1: important that everyone kind of knows where everybody's mind say this,

677
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Speaker 1: and they also would do say Pellusa. One person represents

678
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Speaker 1: all of us. I'm not imagining something two more. This

679
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Speaker 1: is also selfish. I'm not being the moral high ground person.

680
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Speaker 1: I know if someone does something questionable and now do

681
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Speaker 1: say Pellusa did that? So no fucking way of mind

682
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Speaker 1: to think about with music. When people die right then,

683
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Speaker 1: like drunk a DC or something like that. Then it's

684
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Speaker 1: like people go to e d C and they fucking die.

685
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Speaker 1: Don't matter that there was a hundred thousand people at

686
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Speaker 1: e DC Vegas. One person died and now we're all terrified.

687
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Speaker 1: Like it totally represents your fucking brand, especially with liquor

688
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Speaker 1: everywhere and as drunk women is. It's a mixture for

689
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Speaker 1: something I want to be, but I want to be

690
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Speaker 1: a safe slot. That's that's a good way to look

691
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Speaker 1: at We're gonna, I guess, um, We're gonna go ahead

692
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Speaker 1: and get so every episode we have kinks of the week. UM.

693
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Speaker 1: And these are different kings that people may be into. UM,

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Speaker 1: some things that maybe we're not into, some things we've

695
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Speaker 1: never tried. Um. This one this week is actually very interesting. UM.

696
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Speaker 1: And I didn't pick it because you're white, I promise. UM.

697
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Speaker 1: So this one is called spectrophilia. UM. It is sexual

698
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Speaker 1: attraction relationships or sexual encounters with ghosts who come and

699
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Speaker 1: have hot sex with them. UM. A sucumust is a

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Speaker 1: ghost in lady form that, in folkfare visits herd act

701
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Speaker 1: of desire at night for some hot human ghost love making,

702
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: and incubus is the mail variety. Though the actual existence

703
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Speaker 1: of ghosts is up for debate, the sexual attraction that

704
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Speaker 1: spectrophiles report feeling as real as any other fetish. And

705
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Speaker 1: I brought this up and I said ghost because you white.

706
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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess you know your ghostly transum. Wait,

707
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Speaker 1: do you imagine just do I have consent with the ghost?

708
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Speaker 1: Do you remember scary? Imagine? Don't imagine trying to tell

709
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Speaker 1: someone a ghost raped you. Carmonal lecture that got a

710
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Speaker 1: ghost and scary movie. It was scary. It was one

711
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Speaker 1: of them. Somebody was you know, save on our intern

712
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Speaker 1: works right, We're no, I don't think it was. I

713
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Speaker 1: don't remember by the ghosts. Okay, there you go, there

714
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Speaker 1: you got. Wasn't it good too? Like she loved and

715
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Speaker 1: she became obsessed with the ghost Tony that you picked

716
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Speaker 1: this cank'. I've listening to Charlottagne's audio book Black Privilege,

717
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Speaker 1: and he talks about book. It's a great book, and

718
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Speaker 1: he talks about how the ghost was jumping on the

719
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Speaker 1: dancing his ship on his chest and I'm like, wait,

720
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Speaker 1: this sound crazy. It was a real ghost, yes, and

721
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Speaker 1: it's like a thing that goes on. Believe him too.

722
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Speaker 1: He says that the ghosts, I don't think he's lying

723
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Speaker 1: it on what do they call They're called wigs? Wait

724
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Speaker 1: did the ghost? So the ghost they basically sit on

725
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 1: your chest so where you can't wake up. It's like

726
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Speaker 1: sleep paralysis. And basically what happens is you're awake, but

727
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Speaker 1: these ghosts, these women are just jumping down on your chest,

728
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Speaker 1: keeping you asleep. I'm lying like I read the book. Yes, No,

729
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 1: I've had that happen to me mad Time's I was

730
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: a kid. It happened to me a lot. Yes, when

731
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Speaker 1: you can't get up, Yes, so like you're awake, your

732
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Speaker 1: but your body was Yes, you can't move like, but

733
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Speaker 1: you're subconsciously around you know what's going on since But

734
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Speaker 1: it's just like, is that really? I mean, I guess

735
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Speaker 1: would you would y'all like or sow the ghost? Look?

736
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Speaker 1: I mean, do ghost have more? So your fantasy? Is

737
00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 1: it the fantasy? Right? Because broadly dot Vice dot com

738
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Speaker 1: shot outs to vice, um they actually just wrote a story,

739
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:09,240
Speaker 1: UM that fed up with mortal men, women are having

740
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: sex with ghosts. Two women recently came out about their

741
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 1: sexual experiences, but they're not the first to claim they've

742
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: gotten intimate with paranormal Um. I'll put the link in

743
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 1: the description of this bile, but basically, um, yeah, two

744
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 1: women came out and said that they enjoyed having sex

745
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 1: with a ghost. I don't know if that's something that

746
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 1: I necessarily I don't know. I mean I would do it.

747
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: I mean, like, let's say I was at a actually

748
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Speaker 1: this right, yeah, Look, she's like, yeah, we had the conversation.

749
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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm an open relation. Like look, um, old Lester,

750
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:53,799
Speaker 1: who you do not like unless you're sounding like old um.

751
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 1: The hotel I stayed in with Dove actually in Seattle,

752
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 1: and her kept saying, like, isn't this creepy? Why are

753
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: there all these natives mary can people in the wall.

754
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: They're like these black and white photos. Come to find

755
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: out from the bartender downstairs, the hotel was haunted and

756
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 1: someone jumped off the floor above us to their death.

757
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 1: Bro All, I kept thinking to night. Every time I

758
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Speaker 1: looked over to sleep, she was sleep. I'm like, bitch,

759
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 1: if I get fucked, you're gonna hear me right, Like

760
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 1: you're gonna feel it, right, You're gonna feel the wind.

761
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 1: Because I kept thinking there'd be a ghost to come

762
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:21,720
Speaker 1: in here. I feel like I'm a cute girl, and

763
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm saying I'm a horny girl. I

764
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 1: probably saw me masturbing. They're like the ghost would just

765
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 1: have to have a big I just like big dick energy. Baby.

766
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 1: I want to know, are you getting big dick energy

767
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 1: from Rory? I don't. I don't know white guys, so

768
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 1: I can't tell, but you could maybe do white guy

769
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Speaker 1: big dick energy. I don't know about big dick energy,

770
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:46,400
Speaker 1: but good sex energy, only because you haven't seemed too

771
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: pressed about sex, and you're always seeming very chill. And

772
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 1: I noticed when men seem real chill, sex brought the wine.

773
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Speaker 1: That's what. Yeah, you are bringing one horrible decisions and

774
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Speaker 1: caps capas do be fucking. Plus, you got a guy

775
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Speaker 1: Andese girl, and I feel like any women of afroes

776
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 1: sent the white boys. So let me ask you that too,

777
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Speaker 1: As a white boy, do have you mostly steered towards

778
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Speaker 1: interracial dating and fucking black women and black pussy and

779
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Speaker 1: a note sweeter the berry the juice. I mean it's

780
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Speaker 1: around more typically the circle that's around okay, but with

781
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Speaker 1: white women, Spanish women, black women. But do you have

782
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Speaker 1: a type you think you've noticed. No, I don't think

783
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Speaker 1: I have a type at all. You don't have at

784
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Speaker 1: all shapes faces. I don't think I I like that,

785
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Speaker 1: but that actually gets us into our horrible decision. Oh

786
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Speaker 1: wait wait, before we do that, I just want to

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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, no, it'll be a super dope to um.

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Speaker 1: So for the horribleich division, you know, we kind of

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Speaker 1: just brought it, brought it to full circle. He went

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Speaker 1: ahead and kind of introduced it. I guess it's kind

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Speaker 1: of going to be more of a conversation. The reason

805
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Speaker 1: that I wanted to do this though, is because on

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Speaker 1: Mall's episode right who is Your co Host? Mall had

807
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Speaker 1: an episode with us called hose be Like, And so

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Speaker 1: we talked about all of the ho jobs quote unquote,

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Speaker 1: like if you're really a home what do you do?

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Speaker 1: They were like, what was it? Real estate agents, makeup artists,

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Speaker 1: all of that ship, And so I thought, okay, what

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Speaker 1: was his life is carbon enthusiasm of at and be like,

814
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Speaker 1: no no, but he doesn't figure out women. That's I'll

815
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Speaker 1: be listening to no no, no, no. I'm not saying

816
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Speaker 1: I'm like women. All is a good person. If you

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Speaker 1: need like a report, Mall alert, he's out there with

818
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Speaker 1: them like that, but he knows. But not only that

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Speaker 1: he was a good friend to guide you, but he's

820
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Speaker 1: friends with all the hoss niggas. And then he's also

821
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Speaker 1: just his friends with me, so his friends his hole niggas.

822
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 1: I actually really wanted it all on together, but I

823
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Speaker 1: feel like, you know, maybe we can get into the

824
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Speaker 1: more sensitive side because I feel like, yeah, Mama is

825
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,359
Speaker 1: a good a good friend for girls. So that makes

826
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 1: sense too. He actually knows a lot of one. He

827
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:39,720
Speaker 1: is very sensitive. I like him. You got a girlfriend.

828
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Speaker 1: I feel like you might be more in touch with

829
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: your feelings right now. Will all be around? I don't

830
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Speaker 1: think that's to do with a girl. Well, no, a

831
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Speaker 1: girl can help you find your feelings. Yeah, and so

832
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Speaker 1: maybe so I know. But and this is why we

833
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Speaker 1: need you because I think I'm scared of women that

834
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Speaker 1: don't have male friends, and I'm scared of men that

835
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 1: don't have female friends. That don't even start because that's

836
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Speaker 1: one of your things. There's things that women, only women

837
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 1: can teach you about yourself, Like if you're just friends

838
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 1: with men, there's certain parts of your personality and reactions

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Speaker 1: that won't come out like women teaching things. And that's

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Speaker 1: I'm scared of any girl that doesn't have male friends.

841
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: That's terrifying to me. And was like, Yo, watch out

842
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 1: for her brother quote unquote, Nope, keep the brother. There's

843
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 1: certain things you need to talk to him. But you're

844
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 1: not concerned that a girl with guy friends is fucking

845
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: those guys. We well know a lot of guys do.

846
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:31,759
Speaker 1: Like some guys, some guys have a problem with you

847
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:34,440
Speaker 1: having all these bros. There's certain things that you need

848
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 1: a platonic relationship. There's certain things I can't tell my

849
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 1: girl that another man could give. It. Think Home Girl's

850
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 1: gonna be like, now you write, bitch, they're wrong. I

851
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 1: tell my friends i'nna be honest with you. Generally, I

852
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 1: don't care what y'all say. My friends will check me

853
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:56,280
Speaker 1: when I'm wrong. But women do side with their girls,

854
00:42:56,280 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 1: whereas a male will bring you a different perspectives the ship.

855
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 1: I always target her friend. I never really could game

856
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 1: to her. I always want her friend over the easiest way,

857
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 1: and that's what you should be doing because you want

858
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 1: the friends co sign. So the reason I said that

859
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 1: I felt like, you know it could be the quote

860
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 1: unquote more sensitive is because mall did hose be like,

861
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:18,400
Speaker 1: so you're the horrible decision this week is girlfriends be Like.

862
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: You have a girl, and I asked you about what

863
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,399
Speaker 1: qualities that you like in a woman and I and

864
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: we have a lot of episodes where we talked about

865
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: what we need from men, what we want from men.

866
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: But I do know that we have a lot of

867
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 1: women that listen to this show, and I feel like

868
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: it's vital for someone that's in a relationship. Um, and

869
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: it's going well to discuss what you found in her

870
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: or what you need to find in women to settle down. Uh.

871
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,440
Speaker 1: And the first thing you said was self awareness for

872
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:45,399
Speaker 1: in her, So can you talk about what you mean

873
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 1: by that. That's people in general you need. I think

874
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,240
Speaker 1: it's Louis c. K that has a quote, the quote

875
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 1: self love is great, but self awareness is more important.

876
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: It's I caption you like, I don't think you can

877
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 1: have any relate ship with somebody until you're self aware

878
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,479
Speaker 1: of how you react and how you do. We're all human,

879
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:06,759
Speaker 1: so we're gonna funk up and do a lot of things.

880
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 1: We're gonna say things we don't mean. We're going to

881
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,839
Speaker 1: react to things that we don't necessarily mean or want

882
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:14,959
Speaker 1: out there. But you need to be aware that it happened. Yeah.

883
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 1: I don't like people that say, like, deal with me.

884
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 1: I hate that, Like, what if you're a shitty person?

885
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:24,800
Speaker 1: Like I don't I think that whatever right now, I

886
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 1: don't think that's a good mind state to have. Like,

887
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 1: you know, you're just gonna have to handle me because

888
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 1: the person right, I'm not handling you right, Like he

889
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 1: couldn't handle me. I didn't want to. It's it's way different.

890
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: People need to be self aware and can you talk

891
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 1: about why that is so unattractive from a deeper because

892
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 1: I why I said you get my pussy right right

893
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 1: now is because I feel like when people say that

894
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 1: about themselves, they're not willing to self reflect and change

895
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 1: on what could be wrong. They just feel like whatever

896
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 1: comes with their package you have to put up with,

897
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:55,319
Speaker 1: and people think that you can't change. The stiest way

898
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 1: to it is enter into a relationship. Friend. It's also

899
00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:02,359
Speaker 1: some thing that people feel like if you say, oh,

900
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 1: I'm it's like they're being proud of who they are.

901
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 1: But that pride also comes off as arrogance because you

902
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: can't sit and think where can I change? Where can

903
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 1: I do better? And that's a big deal. Why a

904
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 1: lot of people who have partnerships that aren't work our

905
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: relationship excuse me? You know what I mean. You are

906
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 1: a partner in a relationship, but somehow I gotta pull

907
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 1: up with your bullshit. Yeah no, I'm cool on that.

908
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 1: Get the funk away from me. If you're the same person,

909
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: if you wake up the same person every day, get

910
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:27,880
Speaker 1: away from me. What's something that your girlfriend's done to

911
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:29,480
Speaker 1: let you know that she's self aware, whether it be

912
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: an argument or something early on, or we have I mean,

913
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say this one specific thing, but now we

914
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 1: still have the blow ups like everyone else. We just

915
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 1: scream at each other until you get your anger out.

916
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 1: But the next day it's always Men are very simple.

917
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna, I'm gonnain how men are simple.

918
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:50,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to shift the conversation a bit. I'm

919
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 1: still going to answer the question. Men can choose a

920
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:55,920
Speaker 1: girl just by when they wake up after they if

921
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,879
Speaker 1: they still want you to be there. Men are very

922
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:03,520
Speaker 1: simple in that way. So with her, after I have

923
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 1: the argument, I still want to be around you. That's

924
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 1: a big thing For men. We're very simple. If we

925
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 1: still want you there, that means a lot on brilliant idiots,

926
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 1: he said after I funk, if I stole on you around,

927
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:18,319
Speaker 1: I know, I like you know. That's that's really how

928
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: simple it is with men. There's a complex thing there,

929
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:24,320
Speaker 1: but the idea is very simple. So her self awareness

930
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 1: just comes from I know I'm not talking to a wall.

931
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 1: I know she's going to take some accountability I'll take

932
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 1: some accountability and we'll move on. The second thing you

933
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: said is, um, you want someone who's objective. Can you elaborate?

934
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 1: It goes back to self awareness, to be able to

935
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:42,399
Speaker 1: look at things without your feelings there, get your feelings out.

936
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 1: I'm a very emotional person too, so I'll yell when

937
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 1: even if I'm wrong. Yea, But afterwards I need to

938
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: be objective and realize, Hey, all right, I was just

939
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 1: yelling that I was wrong there. Now you also put

940
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 1: which I hated this outline ship you I'll really like

941
00:46:56,880 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 1: do preproduction being was sold to her like we're already here.

942
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:07,760
Speaker 1: I feel like you. But the things that you picked

943
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 1: are I mean, we did a list to them all too,

944
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 1: and I like this list because these are things that

945
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 1: I felt like is very crucial to a relationship. The

946
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:17,919
Speaker 1: next thing you said is, I mean I can read

947
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,880
Speaker 1: them off if that makes you all feel better. Presence

948
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 1: her own set of friends, a life outside of us,

949
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 1: and motherly quality. So let's go right back to presence.

950
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 1: What do you mean why she needs to have presence

951
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 1: distance relationship like no, no, no, no no no no,

952
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 1: I meant, uh, I guess energy was like I've always

953
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 1: been drawn to women that walk in a room. And

954
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 1: sometimes it's not like she's the prettiest girl in the

955
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 1: room or the most known girl in the room. There's

956
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 1: certain women when you walk in it's like, oh, she

957
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:52,280
Speaker 1: just walked in the room. I find that very sexy

958
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 1: about women. I see you was your presence of the

959
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,719
Speaker 1: word you used better than sounding shallow and saying she

960
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 1: gotta be fine. Well, no, I'm shollowing that sense to

961
00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 1: I don't understand what people trying to do that bullshit.

962
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 1: I think that I think people feel drunk about wanting

963
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 1: someone attractive sometimes like saying that they need that. What

964
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 1: people do say like oh well you want someone that

965
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:16,360
Speaker 1: looks like this and blah blah blah. But to be realistic,

966
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:22,799
Speaker 1: relationships at last are the ones that attractive. But trust me,

967
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 1: when you're talking about qualities and people talk about things

968
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 1: they want to make for some reason, when they talk

969
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 1: about attractiveness or things that are aesthetic, there's almost like

970
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 1: this conversation about like, that's not such a big deal.

971
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 1: But in my eyes, if you're still attracted to each

972
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 1: other from a long term perspective, you're gonna suck me

973
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 1: all the time. You're gonna want me around, You're gonna

974
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:42,759
Speaker 1: feel like your wife is fine. Think about people to

975
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 1: have been together for a long time, they sound to

976
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 1: me like they still fun. And if we still fucking,

977
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 1: it's because I want to fuck you. I like looking

978
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: at you like this is a big deal. Like when

979
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:55,080
Speaker 1: me and my girl, we're not together, Like I guess

980
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:58,720
Speaker 1: the first part of getting to know each other. Anytime

981
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 1: we see it each other out event, I'd immediately go

982
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 1: to her and we would not leave each other side

983
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: for the whole ship. Like that's presence to me. Anytime

984
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 1: she walked in, I was like, all right, let me

985
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:09,239
Speaker 1: go talk to her, and then we would never leave

986
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 1: each other's hip for the whole party. So I think

987
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 1: that brought us to that next level. So presence is

988
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 1: like really really big for me with women, and I

989
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: think that's I think that's subjective to I don't think.

990
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 1: I don't think every girl has presence to everybody, But

991
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 1: I think, what do you mean by she's got to

992
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 1: have her own set of friends? We need separation from

993
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, I don't know if it's because I'm

994
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: my only child, but I like to be alone, like

995
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 1: you need to go out and do ship like we

996
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 1: both need to have whole separate worlds. You need to

997
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 1: go do your thing and I need to do It's

998
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 1: crazy that you say that as a guy, because I've

999
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 1: been friends with so many um women that when they

1000
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 1: get into relationships, they now no longer have us as friends.

1001
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,959
Speaker 1: They literally have a boyfriend and now you don't see

1002
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 1: her anymore. If we don't want to bring her boyfriends

1003
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 1: and sister, go hang with whoever. Just we need separation

1004
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 1: for both of us. It's not for people that share friends.

1005
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,280
Speaker 1: This is the problem. You get a lot of drama

1006
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 1: between the two. Right. So you let's say that you

1007
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:11,800
Speaker 1: have a friend. Let's say you have a couple that

1008
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,360
Speaker 1: your friends with another couple and you tell the wife something,

1009
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 1: then the wife tell the husband something. Then suddenly it's like,

1010
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:20,800
Speaker 1: why am I talking to But this is not Couples

1011
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,880
Speaker 1: are friends with other couples, and that ship happens, and

1012
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:27,319
Speaker 1: my lie, Chris, that ship is fucking real. People will

1013
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:28,840
Speaker 1: share something with the wife and then it gets to

1014
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 1: the husband, and then the boys speak and it starts

1015
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:32,840
Speaker 1: a whole thing. You don't have your own set of

1016
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 1: friends separate from the relationship. It's fucking I think I

1017
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 1: think you have to keep in mind where people's loyalty falls. Like,

1018
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 1: for example, if my girl meets some of my like,

1019
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 1: of course my girl's friends with my friends, Yeah, but

1020
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:55,719
Speaker 1: she still knows that those are my friends. Yeah, their

1021
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: loyalty will always fall on my side no matter how

1022
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 1: close they it, and vice versa, like if I'm super

1023
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 1: cool with her friends, I'm not looking to your friends

1024
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 1: to fall on my side all the time, right, or

1025
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:12,839
Speaker 1: even for advice. If we break up tomorrow, my friends

1026
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:15,239
Speaker 1: are coming with me, Yeah, they're not going with that.

1027
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:18,279
Speaker 1: I mean, they'll be cool, but yeah, you need to

1028
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:19,879
Speaker 1: have that separation. And I think a lot of bitches

1029
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 1: will hit up homeboys and be like, O can you

1030
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah. That should have sucking trash.

1031
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 1: So I kind of wanted to steer this conversation. I

1032
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 1: wanted to ask you what makes a girl? And clearly

1033
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 1: this is all your opinion, but I think a lot

1034
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 1: of girls like to hear things like this, what in

1035
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:36,799
Speaker 1: your mind makes a girl unwifeable? Like you guys talk

1036
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:39,319
Speaker 1: about it a lot on on even your podcast with

1037
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 1: Maul will say, oh I can't I went on wife

1038
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:43,360
Speaker 1: a girl who does this? Or I wouldn't cup for a

1039
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:46,920
Speaker 1: a girl who does this? What really complex? It is?

1040
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 1: Specific answer? What things kind of would make a girl unwifeable? Like?

1041
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 1: So one of the questions we asked um and I

1042
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 1: can't remember behave here at the end of the day.

1043
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 1: This is the question I wanted to ask you all

1044
00:51:57,200 --> 00:52:00,400
Speaker 1: at your at your podcast. If a girl has past

1045
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 1: or has sucked off on quite a few niggas, is

1046
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:07,800
Speaker 1: that something that she should tell you in the beginning.

1047
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:09,799
Speaker 1: Is this something she should tell you at all? Is

1048
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:11,759
Speaker 1: it something that you would have to be a problem with,

1049
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 1: because this is again a conversation I've heard y'all kind

1050
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 1: of touched on. But I mean, what's what the girls passed?

1051
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 1: How much do you care for a girl's past? And

1052
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 1: hypothetical as if I'm talking to a new woman, I'm

1053
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 1: twenty years old. I know you fucked, like I know

1054
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:32,239
Speaker 1: you've been in these streets. Just tell me if it's

1055
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 1: something that's going to enter our world or something I

1056
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:38,440
Speaker 1: need a heads up on. Don't let me walk in

1057
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 1: a room and look stupid. Now, if she tells you

1058
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:44,719
Speaker 1: she's fucked two guys in the room, say there are

1059
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 1: people that you do know? No, No, I'm not saying

1060
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:48,880
Speaker 1: to the to the degree like if we walk in

1061
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:50,279
Speaker 1: a room, you gotta pull me aside and be like, yo,

1062
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 1: I sucked them. That's like a really weird conversation. That

1063
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 1: would be really weird. But if it's gonna present itself

1064
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 1: where I have to interact with somebody or there's some

1065
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 1: closeness that me and this gentleman are going to have

1066
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 1: to deal with each other, you mentioned it. What about

1067
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 1: from an industry perspective, Like let's say that you you're

1068
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 1: a podcaster, there's other podcasters. You meet a girl and

1069
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:13,879
Speaker 1: she do you feel like she has to tell you

1070
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: that she might have sued one of the ops or

1071
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:22,759
Speaker 1: you know, I don't have any ops podcast, but I

1072
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,760
Speaker 1: know people cross side not shout out to Kid Fury

1073
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:32,320
Speaker 1: for his show, Oh my God with the HBO deal.

1074
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,879
Speaker 1: Damn he list, And we were talking about it before

1075
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 1: the show, like we feel like, as other podcasters are

1076
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: entering different realms, that it's opening doors for the rest

1077
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 1: of us. And I'm not gonna lie. Even seeing you

1078
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,440
Speaker 1: guys go on tour. Y'all did a whole East Coast

1079
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 1: tour and West Coast tour, and I'm like, yo, that

1080
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 1: could be us one day, like, I don't know four cities.

1081
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 1: You did two in Vegas in the same night. How

1082
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: the fuck. It's interesting because a lot of venues are

1083
00:53:57,680 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 1: against it. They're like, what do you mean podcasts? They

1084
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 1: don't they don't know. And I don't want it for

1085
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 1: us to take the credit for the Highlane thing, because

1086
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 1: I know Highlan was already moving in a direction to

1087
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:11,320
Speaker 1: really put podcasts on, but they was in a space

1088
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: at one point like you're gonna fill this whole place

1089
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:15,800
Speaker 1: to talk, get the funk out of here. Wait seriously,

1090
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 1: so we I mean we did that high Line ship

1091
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:20,480
Speaker 1: first for everyone after words, but I mean they was

1092
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 1: going that way. I'm not trying to flex to say

1093
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:24,959
Speaker 1: that we did that, but yeah, it takes. It takes.

1094
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 1: It takes a lot. It takes one podcast to prove

1095
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:30,800
Speaker 1: to these people that podcasting is. Like so funny with

1096
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 1: Lanter and someone told me they were going to Sony

1097
00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 1: Hall for a show. I said, oh, what podcast? He

1098
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:36,799
Speaker 1: was like, no, it's a conserversa and it mean it

1099
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:38,759
Speaker 1: made me think like wow, like you can fill up

1100
00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:41,280
Speaker 1: this place, um, and it was really humbling, Like Mandy

1101
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:42,839
Speaker 1: and I both went to you Guys show in New York.

1102
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 1: It was great. It was and I remember sitting there

1103
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:47,840
Speaker 1: and feeling excited that people knew who we were in

1104
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 1: that space, and then I was thinking, like I was

1105
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 1: sitting next to Alex, I said, wait, we can feel

1106
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:55,760
Speaker 1: this up. We could do this. It's a great feeling

1107
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: to like be somewhere where Motherfucker's is getting on stage

1108
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: just saying and you're just getting on stage talk to talk.

1109
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:05,720
Speaker 1: I mean maybe they want to hear about cream pies,

1110
00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:07,839
Speaker 1: so I get that. But you know, we keep our

1111
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:10,279
Speaker 1: clothes on, yeah, we do. We don't do anything out

1112
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:11,759
Speaker 1: the normal. I mean we did have a dick sucking

1113
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:13,960
Speaker 1: contest that the first one with it wasn't with add

1114
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:15,880
Speaker 1: I mean it wasn't what ad dick those with bananas.

1115
00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 1: But I will say, like it's crazy being in this

1116
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 1: space to just shut you're laughing. I'm just happened. They

1117
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 1: were prompts and then they were like, hey, let's get

1118
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 1: someone from the audience and let's see who can put

1119
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 1: the most banana in their mouth. Um, you know, who

1120
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,919
Speaker 1: has the deepest throat um. But no, just seeing what

1121
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 1: you're doing and seeing what kid Fury just did and

1122
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:36,760
Speaker 1: just the book deals, seeing the stuff that's been happening

1123
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,840
Speaker 1: with Joe and you got your Malla like everybody in

1124
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 1: your face on T shirts. I see that ship like

1125
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:45,759
Speaker 1: holy But you know what, I also appreciate it's like

1126
00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 1: you built your brand first with your show and as

1127
00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 1: to where you're big enough to now you can do

1128
00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:54,839
Speaker 1: things on your own, because this is a thing like

1129
00:55:55,880 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 1: what can I am still horrible decisions weezy weezy. Really

1130
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:02,120
Speaker 1: not anyone separate from this yet, and I have to

1131
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:09,279
Speaker 1: be stands for horror, right, it does that stands for?

1132
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 1: But you know someone was asking me to do something,

1133
00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:13,640
Speaker 1: and it's like it's always going to be attached to

1134
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: horrible decisions. And the more that you grow, though, like yourself,

1135
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:19,319
Speaker 1: you will just be rory. And that's the thing with

1136
00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 1: when you get so big like Fury, you know, as

1137
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:23,960
Speaker 1: much as you like to do from the Red Furious

1138
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:27,439
Speaker 1: Fury now And like Lena Waith, I remember watching Master

1139
00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 1: of None and thinking like, I hope I see the

1140
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 1: Black Girl again. She's right, she's super hus um. So

1141
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:40,600
Speaker 1: to close that ship, I think it's great. I think

1142
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 1: everything that Charlemagne does I love that he's still in

1143
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:47,600
Speaker 1: the podcasting world. Because whatever he does, whatever Charlomagne does

1144
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 1: well is good for everybody. Yeah. I remember when Elliott

1145
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 1: and Beata interviewed Hove. Nori had tweeted, this is a

1146
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:58,840
Speaker 1: win for everybody, Like this is great that Hove realizes

1147
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 1: that this is the new way people want to consume

1148
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 1: their interviews, like what's his name? With the Will Smith interview,

1149
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: and it's all great. I know we joke about the

1150
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,160
Speaker 1: podcast beef and Ship, like I know, people don't joke

1151
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:14,799
Speaker 1: a lot about it. No, it's not real anything. I

1152
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 1: think at this point in this circle we have of

1153
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:20,040
Speaker 1: successful podcast. Anything someone does is good for everybody. And

1154
00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:21,840
Speaker 1: I want to see Alex. We're talking at our show

1155
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,160
Speaker 1: and I was like, are they Yelena? They smiling? What's

1156
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 1: going on? And then I remember walking over here and

1157
00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, yeah, neis me in France, you know.

1158
00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 1: And it's like you really never know, but it's like

1159
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: there is still a lane for everyone. I listen to

1160
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 1: both people think Me and Andrew hate each other. We

1161
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 1: held each other like which ship. Maybe we should edit

1162
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: this because I want people to think we hate each other.

1163
00:57:47,800 --> 00:57:50,320
Speaker 1: It's funny though, because you do bringing. It's kind of

1164
00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 1: like when you do like the Tupac Worts, Biggie and

1165
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: the rap beef, like to know that there's real like

1166
00:57:55,640 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 1: podcast beef, like people and the comments I see, but

1167
00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 1: did you hear what such and such set all through SoundCloud,

1168
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:04,120
Speaker 1: all through YouTube, and I think it makes it fun though.

1169
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 1: I think it makes people want to go hear what

1170
00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 1: they're saying about you guys and vice versus. So I

1171
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 1: think it works for you know, I'm not gonna say

1172
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: who was. Somebody spoke to me today it was like,

1173
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:16,680
Speaker 1: you foul, I'm like for having Rory on the nigga Like,

1174
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 1: are you kidding me? Go ahead? Who said it? Now?

1175
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 1: You need to I want to fight fight. That's now

1176
00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 1: you're gonna think us whack. I don't want to fight.

1177
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to fight. Wax is not the first

1178
00:58:31,920 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: I mean. And that's the thing is I want people

1179
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 1: understand like this realm of podcasting, like if not to

1180
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 1: show love or be it, I mean even for y'all

1181
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:40,080
Speaker 1: to come, for you to come here from all to

1182
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 1: come on our show, for things like that to happen.

1183
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 1: It's like showing love and it's very small, it's niche.

1184
00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 1: I wouldn't I've turned down a lot of like going

1185
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 1: on podcast. Yeah, I haven't liked you, he had enough

1186
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 1: do saying and I was, so you're gonna come onto

1187
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:54,480
Speaker 1: my show. He's like, yeah, I'll come on. I was like,

1188
00:58:54,640 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 1: because I like you, and you know, remember when, um

1189
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:01,760
Speaker 1: so at the time when we really didn't have a

1190
00:59:01,840 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 1: lot of lessons um mall and I'm saying that, by

1191
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 1: the way, we were still having like fifteen thousand. That's

1192
00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 1: still decent for a podcasts that are like right right,

1193
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 1: So this is when Mall had first came on and

1194
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:19,440
Speaker 1: he mentioned us, Yeah, we didn't have fifteen, which fifteen

1195
00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:25,440
Speaker 1: after Brilliant Idiots, we were still like five thousand back then. Really, yes,

1196
00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:28,800
Speaker 1: no it's not it's not bad, but no, we were

1197
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:33,240
Speaker 1: not out saying yet that was we had. He boosted

1198
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 1: us like and I'll say even just him shotting us out,

1199
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:36,919
Speaker 1: but like, but you know, it's funny because that should

1200
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 1: feels like a long time ago. But on Joe but

1201
00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 1: and he went on there, I mean on y'all show,

1202
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 1: excuse me and said something about the show he was

1203
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 1: on and I saw an iTunes that we just from

1204
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:48,960
Speaker 1: being on your saying we weren't even on there. It

1205
00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:53,120
Speaker 1: was at the end of your episode jumped so much.

1206
00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 1: We we have that effect now on people to like

1207
00:59:58,120 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: there was a lot of people try to do this

1208
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: and they don't do it. Well, it's it's I'm having

1209
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 1: a seminar. It's not easy. It's not easy, So we're

1210
01:00:05,200 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 1: gonna go ahead. What we like to do on our

1211
01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 1: episodes as well as have is have homemail. Homemail um

1212
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:12,480
Speaker 1: is questions sent in from our listeners and we kind

1213
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 1: of just like to give them advice, whether we're right,

1214
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 1: whether we're wrong. Some of our listeners like to give

1215
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:18,919
Speaker 1: advice after the fact um. But I wanted to read

1216
01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 1: off some of these. And this is actually sent in

1217
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:26,320
Speaker 1: from a woman and the title is my boyfriend wants

1218
01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 1: a trans woman. So I picked this because she actually

1219
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:34,000
Speaker 1: went we should I know, but we ain't got through home.

1220
01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 1: But no, it's good because she talked about going through

1221
01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 1: his phone, so I want to talk about that's how

1222
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 1: she found out. She says, I'm a twenty two year

1223
01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 1: old female. I was recently engaged, but I broke off

1224
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 1: the engagement. I've known for some time now that he's

1225
01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 1: had an interest in trans women, but I accepted it

1226
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 1: and only wanted him to talk to me about it

1227
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 1: when he had those urges. I found out after I

1228
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:55,840
Speaker 1: came back from a trip recently that he had separate

1229
01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 1: I G accounts two d M trans prostitutes to funk

1230
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:01,920
Speaker 1: him in the ass. I've kept this secret for him,

1231
01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 1: remember to do this, and as my email is full

1232
01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:13,600
Speaker 1: of you listen to my record. Yeah it's you know,

1233
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 1: it's really, she said. I've kept this secret for him

1234
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:18,360
Speaker 1: a very long time, but it's mentally fucking with me.

1235
01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:21,439
Speaker 1: On top of cheating with other women. He claims he's

1236
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:24,080
Speaker 1: never actually gone through with the sex, but my feelings

1237
01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:27,000
Speaker 1: and better judgments say otherwise. He goes as far as

1238
01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:30,360
Speaker 1: asking if they will kiss him dearing. I recently told

1239
01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:32,840
Speaker 1: a homegirl of mine and she thinks he's gay. I'm

1240
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:35,200
Speaker 1: not sure what to do. I love the man. I

1241
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 1: used to do anal stuff to him, but one day

1242
01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:41,280
Speaker 1: it kind of stopped when I tried. I hate how

1243
01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 1: I screench out this ship. Um Oh, I used to

1244
01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:45,520
Speaker 1: do anal stuff to him one day, but it kind

1245
01:01:45,520 --> 01:01:47,480
Speaker 1: of stopped when I tried to bring it up. He

1246
01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 1: doesn't want to talk about it. He claims that he

1247
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:52,360
Speaker 1: is going to therapy now to fix his issues with

1248
01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 1: compulsive lying. But what should I do? I feel like

1249
01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 1: less of a woman. I considered myself very sexually open,

1250
01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 1: but I can't be that with him anymore. It's vanilla

1251
01:02:01,920 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 1: and I feel like he's getting his kink elsewhere. What

1252
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:08,080
Speaker 1: should I do? So? I brought this up because I

1253
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:11,120
Speaker 1: know you guys have talked about women going through men's phones.

1254
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 1: She said that she found this out by going through

1255
01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:14,840
Speaker 1: his phone and seeing that he had a private I

1256
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:18,040
Speaker 1: G where he was sending these letters. Um. Also, when

1257
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:21,960
Speaker 1: we spoke earlier on going from having your ass like

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01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:27,360
Speaker 1: two fingers to pegging, you did mention that not But

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01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:30,919
Speaker 1: I feel like, um for the for for saying that,

1260
01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 1: maybe she's kind of blaming herself now because she felt

1261
01:02:34,320 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 1: like her anal gateway to playing with his ass, lad

1262
01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: him to now seeking this pleasure from trans women. UM,

1263
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 1: I guess right, I know so many thoughts I've never had.

1264
01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 1: I've never had my ass looked and said, well, you know,

1265
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 1: it would be great a dick here, and so maybe

1266
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:53,960
Speaker 1: maybe she should get out of her head about that. UM. I,

1267
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 1: for one, I do kind of feel like she needs

1268
01:02:56,800 --> 01:02:58,440
Speaker 1: to have a conversation with him because she found this

1269
01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 1: on her own. This isn't a conversation he had with her. Um.

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01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 1: She found it by going through his things. Um. And

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01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 1: it does seem like she kind of is okay with

1272
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 1: the idea, but the fact that he's lying about it

1273
01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 1: is the problem. So here's the initial thing that I

1274
01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:17,160
Speaker 1: thought was like immediately, UM, let's start with this. Let's

1275
01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 1: take all of our feelings of the gay ship out

1276
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 1: of it. If you're a man had a private i

1277
01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:26,480
Speaker 1: G to connect with women, would you stay with him?

1278
01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 1: If the answer is yes, then there lies you needing

1279
01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:31,480
Speaker 1: to answer the other question. If it's no, which I

1280
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:33,640
Speaker 1: wouldn't stay with someone I was making a private Instagram

1281
01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:35,280
Speaker 1: just to cheat on me and keep lying back and

1282
01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:37,000
Speaker 1: forth and needs therapy for it. I would leave them

1283
01:03:40,440 --> 01:03:43,920
Speaker 1: if you feel as though you're a man, UM, you

1284
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:46,080
Speaker 1: know doing the i G is okay, and you're like,

1285
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:48,160
Speaker 1: not okay, but you know you're gonna look past this.

1286
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 1: Here's the other question. Do you have an issue with

1287
01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:55,000
Speaker 1: homophobia and your masculinity and that issue? And if you do,

1288
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 1: then you should leave them because the chances are as

1289
01:03:58,160 --> 01:04:00,360
Speaker 1: he's into anal play and you see him to be

1290
01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:02,720
Speaker 1: blaming yourself and it sounds like you think it's weird.

1291
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:04,560
Speaker 1: So I would just break up with him because I

1292
01:04:04,600 --> 01:04:07,240
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to be with anybody that thought my kinks

1293
01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 1: had anything to do with me being a man, or

1294
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:11,880
Speaker 1: me this or me that. Like it sounds like you

1295
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:13,840
Speaker 1: need to go. Second thing I want to read, though,

1296
01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:16,800
Speaker 1: is something from Dan Savage, who is my personal guru

1297
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:19,560
Speaker 1: podcast legend. A lot of white people, you know, maybe

1298
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 1: I'll don't, but he is lit, he's super smart, and

1299
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 1: he has his own ship called the love Cast. And

1300
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:27,200
Speaker 1: there was a question someone sent in about transit like

1301
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:31,919
Speaker 1: dating trans women, and this is what he said, being funny, yeah, yeah, yeah.

1302
01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 1: The gayest thing you could do is allow someone to

1303
01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:35,160
Speaker 1: put a dick in your man. But now you're gay.

1304
01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 1: You're being a huge drama queen about the whole thing.

1305
01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 1: Stop acting so crazy, As the kids say, repeat after me.

1306
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 1: One dick in the asked, does not a gay man make?

1307
01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:44,960
Speaker 1: Look at it this way, The difference between having a

1308
01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 1: woman's finger in your ass and a woman's dick in

1309
01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 1: your ass is the matter of a degree. The woman's

1310
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:51,880
Speaker 1: finger was fine to say nothing of the tongue. Why

1311
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 1: freak out about the female dick? Remember, if you're not

1312
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 1: sleeping with men. You're not attracted to men. You made

1313
01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:00,120
Speaker 1: an exception for this woman's dick because they're dip is

1314
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 1: exceptional because it's it's attached to a woman. So here's

1315
01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:06,200
Speaker 1: the thing with trans women. A lot of straight men

1316
01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 1: like trans women. A lot of trans women can't even

1317
01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 1: find gay men that are into them because gay men

1318
01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:14,080
Speaker 1: want men. So here's the thing. Oh, I didn't even

1319
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:17,120
Speaker 1: think about that. It's like, it's such an annoying thing

1320
01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 1: to hear with like people calling men gay, Like the

1321
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 1: dick attached to the woman makes your anal and you're

1322
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:26,760
Speaker 1: pegging thing real, But you're still attracted to women at

1323
01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 1: the end of the day. These trans women, right, they

1324
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:31,479
Speaker 1: have a dick there and you like the anal play,

1325
01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:34,479
Speaker 1: but you're recognizing them as women because otherwise you would

1326
01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:37,080
Speaker 1: have wanted a guy to do it. And so that's

1327
01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:40,600
Speaker 1: the thing. Is your dude really gay? If you found

1328
01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 1: no men in his phone, then probably he's not gay,

1329
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:46,080
Speaker 1: But he does want to get sucked in his ask

1330
01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:48,240
Speaker 1: And if you're not gonna do it, he's gonna find

1331
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 1: someone that can. So if you can't figure it out

1332
01:05:50,520 --> 01:05:52,600
Speaker 1: and you're feeling weird about it, but you gotta let

1333
01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:54,680
Speaker 1: him go. But the fact that he also when you

1334
01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:57,640
Speaker 1: want to talk about anal play, he veers away from

1335
01:05:57,640 --> 01:06:00,440
Speaker 1: the conversation. I will say, on the shape of it, well,

1336
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 1: and that's what I was gonna say. So on the

1337
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:04,600
Speaker 1: episode that I had with the Swinging couple, Um, the

1338
01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: man actually was interested in, you know, playing with trans

1339
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:10,040
Speaker 1: And so I have a really close friend of mine

1340
01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 1: who is experiencing his attraction to trans women and it's

1341
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 1: led him to be very depressed because now he does

1342
01:06:18,280 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 1: He's like, am I bisexual? Now? Does that mean I'm gay?

1343
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:24,640
Speaker 1: And does he like he's battling. No, but he's battling

1344
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:27,000
Speaker 1: internally because it's something that he feels like he can't

1345
01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 1: even bring up to his mom. He brought a white

1346
01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:30,680
Speaker 1: woman home and his mom went off. He's like, I

1347
01:06:30,720 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 1: couldn't imagine the look on my mother's face if I

1348
01:06:32,680 --> 01:06:34,560
Speaker 1: brought home. And the problem is a trans women are

1349
01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 1: generally fetishized, like nobody wants to take these women home.

1350
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 1: They're like, oh, this is just something I like. But

1351
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:42,560
Speaker 1: here's the other fucking issue with it feeling like you're gay.

1352
01:06:42,840 --> 01:06:46,560
Speaker 1: If you genuinely are attracted to men, you are probably

1353
01:06:46,560 --> 01:06:48,880
Speaker 1: not going for a trans girl. I have never had

1354
01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:50,520
Speaker 1: one of my gays tell me they sucked the trans

1355
01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:54,840
Speaker 1: girl one. Because trans women are generally not bottoms. Most

1356
01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:57,040
Speaker 1: people that are attracted to trans women want to be

1357
01:06:57,040 --> 01:06:59,360
Speaker 1: pegged by straight women for I mean, I'm sorry, uh

1358
01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:02,320
Speaker 1: sis women first, right, and then they're like, okay, well

1359
01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 1: now I really want this. And that's the thing that's

1360
01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:08,040
Speaker 1: crazy about this homophobia about trans women, and they're still

1361
01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:10,440
Speaker 1: we were acknowledging them as women, we're using the pronoun

1362
01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:13,160
Speaker 1: sheet all of this ship. But for some reason, once

1363
01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:15,200
Speaker 1: men sleep with them, it's worse than paid because it's

1364
01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,320
Speaker 1: weird to be The guys that I do know personally

1365
01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 1: who have slept with trans women, none of them have

1366
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 1: been topped by one though, So it's even to where

1367
01:07:21,600 --> 01:07:24,920
Speaker 1: I've questioned them like what is your amusement with it? Then,

1368
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 1: because they're not being topped by these trans women, they're

1369
01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:30,800
Speaker 1: fucking the trans women in the ask Most trans women

1370
01:07:30,920 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 1: um that are like escorts are not um bottoms. They're

1371
01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:36,280
Speaker 1: like saying no, I mean not even talking about they

1372
01:07:36,280 --> 01:07:37,960
Speaker 1: don't have anal sex. That's the thing. Yeah, these things

1373
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 1: ain't have one. I'm calling me, I'll come in something game. Yeah,

1374
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:43,840
Speaker 1: it's it's like people are really fucked in the head

1375
01:07:43,840 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 1: about this. I think it's a conversation you just need

1376
01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:47,160
Speaker 1: to have. But this one, I think we could talk about.

1377
01:07:47,160 --> 01:07:48,720
Speaker 1: You have a relationship. So we have another one and

1378
01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:51,400
Speaker 1: that's gonna be our last homemail is from the Cupold couple.

1379
01:07:51,480 --> 01:07:53,160
Speaker 1: They made a separate email for this ship, so I

1380
01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:56,280
Speaker 1: know they would like we we really on alone. Hello, ladies.

1381
01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 1: Just found the podcast and damn I love it. Very

1382
01:07:59,200 --> 01:08:02,000
Speaker 1: raw and truthful. We're a couple in Washington State who's

1383
01:08:02,000 --> 01:08:03,920
Speaker 1: been together since high school, fifteen years old, and now

1384
01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:06,320
Speaker 1: we're both thirty eight. We have had an open relationship

1385
01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:13,600
Speaker 1: for ten years. She enjoys that. She enjoys having her boyfriends,

1386
01:08:13,600 --> 01:08:16,559
Speaker 1: but it's now craving black Dick. We have been searching,

1387
01:08:16,600 --> 01:08:19,679
Speaker 1: and I've been trying to find a guy. We've been searching. Wait,

1388
01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:22,000
Speaker 1: they've both been searching for black dick. By the way,

1389
01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 1: I asked him later what their ethnicity was in their

1390
01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:27,559
Speaker 1: white You don't say I wanted to know if she's

1391
01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:35,639
Speaker 1: just curious how the guy is searching. We have been searching,

1392
01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:36,880
Speaker 1: and I have been trying to find a guy to

1393
01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:38,360
Speaker 1: be her first in this arena. And it's not the

1394
01:08:38,360 --> 01:08:40,640
Speaker 1: easiest thing. The show makes us feel less alone and

1395
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:43,080
Speaker 1: since none of our family and friends know we since

1396
01:08:43,120 --> 01:08:44,560
Speaker 1: none of our family and friends now, I hope you

1397
01:08:44,600 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 1: continue to have great success. PS. I would totally snowball

1398
01:08:47,439 --> 01:08:54,120
Speaker 1: Rihanna with Shakira with another man's come snowball. Snowball is

1399
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:57,320
Speaker 1: when it's not come swapping, it's your own semen, or

1400
01:08:57,320 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 1: it's like someone else's well, it's come swapping, basically snowballing

1401
01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:04,640
Speaker 1: passing it back in. But that's the colding thing, right

1402
01:09:04,640 --> 01:09:06,759
Speaker 1: because like in a lot of holding videos, you'll watch

1403
01:09:06,760 --> 01:09:08,559
Speaker 1: her be like, oh, the kids come off of me,

1404
01:09:08,760 --> 01:09:10,920
Speaker 1: or suck to come out of his dick like crazy shit.

1405
01:09:11,120 --> 01:09:13,479
Speaker 1: What was the question in that UM? I think his

1406
01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:17,960
Speaker 1: question is I was just trying to get something, just

1407
01:09:17,960 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 1: trying to get some black Oh. I guess like kind

1408
01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:22,280
Speaker 1: of like maybe the how to UM because they're saying

1409
01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:24,639
Speaker 1: they're searching and it's not easy go to Jamaica, UM

1410
01:09:24,680 --> 01:09:27,360
Speaker 1: so I want to. I mean, I'm just saying, so

1411
01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:30,439
Speaker 1: I want to Hedonism, which is a um so. It's

1412
01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:34,800
Speaker 1: a nude adult only resort um in Jamaica. And when

1413
01:09:34,840 --> 01:09:37,320
Speaker 1: I went, there was a lot of white couples there

1414
01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:39,920
Speaker 1: that literally said to me that they were there for

1415
01:09:40,120 --> 01:09:43,360
Speaker 1: black dick, And of course Jamaican's are black with big dicks,

1416
01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:49,160
Speaker 1: so um, I would think you forgot which one said that.

1417
01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:51,000
Speaker 1: You doubt what. I'm surprised. I ain't got no kids.

1418
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:53,080
Speaker 1: You know, ship my daddy' Jamaican. I'm sure my mom

1419
01:09:53,160 --> 01:09:54,920
Speaker 1: was dealt with him for a reason, but because he

1420
01:09:54,960 --> 01:09:58,479
Speaker 1: ain't ship. But I would say, I would think that's

1421
01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:00,679
Speaker 1: just something that's in your Jamaican bloodl of Jamaican. Remember

1422
01:10:00,720 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 1: I said, dancing niggasine ship caplas in Jamaicans and the

1423
01:10:04,520 --> 01:10:07,280
Speaker 1: I'm just saying they just don't they're only ship. I

1424
01:10:07,280 --> 01:10:09,479
Speaker 1: would say, though, if you're looking for something to do,

1425
01:10:09,520 --> 01:10:11,240
Speaker 1: I don't know what city you live in, So my

1426
01:10:11,320 --> 01:10:15,120
Speaker 1: suggestion would be to um, go to hedonism. It is again,

1427
01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:17,920
Speaker 1: it's a resort in Jamaica, and that's what you have

1428
01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:21,519
Speaker 1: there is black cocks to fuck your white wife. I

1429
01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:24,439
Speaker 1: had something like that happened to me. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,

1430
01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:27,200
Speaker 1: you had something like we talked about it and we

1431
01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:29,519
Speaker 1: did on it in Chicago, and I was like, you

1432
01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:31,280
Speaker 1: did what I said, you need to bring it up.

1433
01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:33,200
Speaker 1: We gotta bring you on the podcast. You gotta say, So,

1434
01:10:33,240 --> 01:10:38,240
Speaker 1: you've been to w w C White White Cock is

1435
01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 1: the w WC. Is that on Pornhub? Does w w

1436
01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:45,880
Speaker 1: C Papa? Never? If you look up cut holding? Like, so,

1437
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:48,200
Speaker 1: actually I wanted to watch cut holding porn, but I

1438
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:50,599
Speaker 1: got kept getting annoyed at all the fetishizing of black men.

1439
01:10:50,640 --> 01:10:52,120
Speaker 1: So I'm like, so, I'm like, let me try to

1440
01:10:52,160 --> 01:10:54,519
Speaker 1: find the white man. And you were asked to cut cold,

1441
01:10:54,720 --> 01:10:59,639
Speaker 1: so I wasn't asked. Nobody asked me. Okay, wait, nobody asked,

1442
01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:03,200
Speaker 1: So what happened with your cut holding story? I was like,

1443
01:11:04,080 --> 01:11:05,840
Speaker 1: I told this on my podcast, but it was a

1444
01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 1: long like back when we was in the lower numbers,

1445
01:11:08,400 --> 01:11:14,719
Speaker 1: so I don't know. Um, sucking asshole. Oh, you're definitely

1446
01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:19,639
Speaker 1: dubbing this ship when y'all required. Because I'm setting a reminder.

1447
01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:23,599
Speaker 1: Nick put me on what happened. I was like twenty

1448
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:28,200
Speaker 1: or twenty one maybe, and I was working for a

1449
01:11:28,280 --> 01:11:31,920
Speaker 1: label at the time, and these artists from Ohio. I'm

1450
01:11:31,960 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 1: not going to say who it was. It was not

1451
01:11:35,720 --> 01:11:40,320
Speaker 1: Busy Bone, was Busy Bone and his wife. It was

1452
01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:44,559
Speaker 1: from Ohio. They came and uh, they asked me. They

1453
01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 1: was like, yo, can you take the whole crew out

1454
01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 1: because you're young and you know what's going on in

1455
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:50,040
Speaker 1: New York, Like take them out, let them see the city.

1456
01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:52,120
Speaker 1: It was a big group of them, so I took

1457
01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:54,719
Speaker 1: them down to a spot one bleaker. We was chilling whatever,

1458
01:11:55,479 --> 01:11:57,679
Speaker 1: and some girl that really didn't say much at all

1459
01:11:58,040 --> 01:12:00,439
Speaker 1: the whole time came up to me when she was

1460
01:12:00,479 --> 01:12:01,800
Speaker 1: leaving and she was like, I just want to give

1461
01:12:01,800 --> 01:12:04,040
Speaker 1: you my number. I was like, all right, cool. I

1462
01:12:04,120 --> 01:12:06,760
Speaker 1: didn't think anything of it. Continued tonight, she text me like, yo,

1463
01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:10,760
Speaker 1: it's my hotel. I said, all right, I'm okay, I'm

1464
01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:14,920
Speaker 1: coming over with the ships. So I take a cab.

1465
01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:17,240
Speaker 1: This was prior to Uber. Take a cab up there,

1466
01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:20,040
Speaker 1: like you know, I'm in the lobby. She said, give

1467
01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:27,800
Speaker 1: me a second now that I'm red flag. I told

1468
01:12:27,840 --> 01:12:31,200
Speaker 1: you I was on the way. So then I get

1469
01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:32,720
Speaker 1: to the elevator when she says, come up. I see

1470
01:12:32,720 --> 01:12:34,600
Speaker 1: it's the key card thing. I'm like, all right, you

1471
01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:36,400
Speaker 1: gotta come down and get me. She comes down and

1472
01:12:36,439 --> 01:12:38,800
Speaker 1: like a rope. I'm like all right. She read a

1473
01:12:38,800 --> 01:12:42,680
Speaker 1: little crazy that you in the lobby, like you let

1474
01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:45,640
Speaker 1: it be known. So we get into the room. She

1475
01:12:45,760 --> 01:12:47,519
Speaker 1: take a shut off right away. I'm like, oh, we're

1476
01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:50,479
Speaker 1: get into it. This is great. This is like a portal.

1477
01:12:52,200 --> 01:12:56,880
Speaker 1: This was awesome. So she starts sucking my dick. I

1478
01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:58,360
Speaker 1: was like, this is this is straight out of like

1479
01:12:58,360 --> 01:13:00,320
Speaker 1: I didn't even have to work for this. I said

1480
01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:04,000
Speaker 1: one word to the ship, this is awesome. Wow. Then

1481
01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:07,439
Speaker 1: I slightly see the bathroom door start to open. You

1482
01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:12,000
Speaker 1: thought another girl from where I'm from, right that you

1483
01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:13,680
Speaker 1: you can't set up about to get I'm about to

1484
01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:18,479
Speaker 1: get robbed. She was a pond in my dumb old

1485
01:13:18,560 --> 01:13:23,320
Speaker 1: ask fell for that ship because I'm horny. It might

1486
01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:28,920
Speaker 1: be worth three. You don't know you broke out. I

1487
01:13:28,920 --> 01:13:30,360
Speaker 1: don't know your weight, and it's been like all the

1488
01:13:30,400 --> 01:13:33,599
Speaker 1: families are worse. Let's let's end that now we all

1489
01:13:33,600 --> 01:13:38,479
Speaker 1: don't know a judge in fact. Okay, So the door opens.

1490
01:13:38,520 --> 01:13:41,120
Speaker 1: I said, I'm getting robbed. It's over. Now. Let me start.

1491
01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:48,120
Speaker 1: Where's where's my wallet? Take my iPhone? Three? So I

1492
01:13:48,200 --> 01:13:53,160
Speaker 1: see just arms come out with an iPad and I'm like, wait,

1493
01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:56,280
Speaker 1: what the fuck? So I pushed her head off of me,

1494
01:13:57,880 --> 01:14:00,400
Speaker 1: which kind of hurt when you twenty and horny because

1495
01:14:00,560 --> 01:14:05,439
Speaker 1: she was all right, and this big gass dude comes

1496
01:14:05,439 --> 01:14:08,040
Speaker 1: out the bathroom with an iPad and I said, there

1497
01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:10,479
Speaker 1: was another white couple. No, they were black. Both of

1498
01:14:10,520 --> 01:14:15,400
Speaker 1: them were black. Oh both were black. Did you love

1499
01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:17,360
Speaker 1: that detail out? No? We needed it, We needed that.

1500
01:14:17,360 --> 01:14:20,599
Speaker 1: We just all. I guess we should have said your friends, well,

1501
01:14:20,640 --> 01:14:24,600
Speaker 1: they weren't my friends people that okay. So so he

1502
01:14:24,640 --> 01:14:27,599
Speaker 1: comes out, this big dude comes out with an iPad filming,

1503
01:14:28,360 --> 01:14:30,280
Speaker 1: and I'm like, yo, what the fuck is going on?

1504
01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:32,439
Speaker 1: And he's like, no, no, no no, bro, you could suck her.

1505
01:14:33,080 --> 01:14:38,960
Speaker 1: I said what. So I go up to him and

1506
01:14:39,080 --> 01:14:42,200
Speaker 1: I said, give me that fucking iPad. He say, no,

1507
01:14:42,200 --> 01:14:44,320
Speaker 1: no, no no, it's cool, bro, Like it's fine, that's my wife.

1508
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:48,679
Speaker 1: I said, what if he didn't come out with an iPad?

1509
01:14:49,439 --> 01:14:52,880
Speaker 1: What was it the recording that bothered you know, the

1510
01:14:52,960 --> 01:14:55,479
Speaker 1: man coming out of a bathroom bothered me? Hold on,

1511
01:14:55,520 --> 01:14:57,719
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, hold on? What wait? I guess

1512
01:14:57,720 --> 01:15:00,280
Speaker 1: more so it's like continuing, is it what she meant? Like?

1513
01:15:00,360 --> 01:15:02,680
Speaker 1: If he didn't come out with the iPad with that,

1514
01:15:02,800 --> 01:15:08,880
Speaker 1: Bobby like to keep going? You just wasn't. I feel

1515
01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:13,920
Speaker 1: like what happened was he was like, no, no, no,

1516
01:15:13,920 --> 01:15:15,760
Speaker 1: that's my wife like this is what we do. You

1517
01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:18,240
Speaker 1: could like I want you to fuck her and I

1518
01:15:18,280 --> 01:15:19,800
Speaker 1: was like no, He's like, no, it's not like I'm

1519
01:15:19,800 --> 01:15:21,920
Speaker 1: gonna get involved. I just want to watch your fuck.

1520
01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:24,600
Speaker 1: I was like, give me that fucking iPad, took the

1521
01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:27,800
Speaker 1: iPad open, that ship, deleted that video, threw that ship

1522
01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:29,479
Speaker 1: on the bed, and ran the funk out of that

1523
01:15:29,479 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 1: hotel room. No, nope, nope, nope, nope nope. So it's

1524
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:37,519
Speaker 1: safe to say you're not into cuckolding or at this

1525
01:15:37,600 --> 01:15:41,000
Speaker 1: day and age, that's not that's a that's a surprise.

1526
01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:43,400
Speaker 1: That's a man coming out of the bathroom like you

1527
01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:47,280
Speaker 1: getting your dicks, honestly, like and I still had like

1528
01:15:47,400 --> 01:15:50,400
Speaker 1: that nervousness of getting robbed. Now you were still you

1529
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:53,839
Speaker 1: were super violated. Not only where you did someone surprise

1530
01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:58,360
Speaker 1: you as someone else, but was inside my I didn't

1531
01:15:58,400 --> 01:16:01,760
Speaker 1: have a dick at that point? Did they go up?

1532
01:16:01,840 --> 01:16:06,600
Speaker 1: The balls inside? He was terrified? What is it? You

1533
01:16:06,600 --> 01:16:08,800
Speaker 1: know what happens when your balls like go up and

1534
01:16:08,800 --> 01:16:10,600
Speaker 1: then like they have to fall back down? Is that

1535
01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:13,280
Speaker 1: how your dick win? Answer? I think, you know, you

1536
01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:15,280
Speaker 1: know how people say their balls get up there and

1537
01:16:15,280 --> 01:16:18,280
Speaker 1: then they have to like drop back. I don't know, children,

1538
01:16:18,439 --> 01:16:20,240
Speaker 1: have you ever heard this? I've never heard of it.

1539
01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:22,160
Speaker 1: I heard that your balls can like get up too

1540
01:16:22,280 --> 01:16:24,360
Speaker 1: high and then like it takes a minute for them

1541
01:16:24,400 --> 01:16:27,560
Speaker 1: to like settle down like your testicles, like we have

1542
01:16:27,600 --> 01:16:29,000
Speaker 1: two men in the room. Has never happened, and I've

1543
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:31,120
Speaker 1: never heard of this happening. I was reading about it

1544
01:16:31,680 --> 01:16:35,120
Speaker 1: in what book? Well, I was I was trying to

1545
01:16:35,160 --> 01:16:37,280
Speaker 1: find that kink. And the kink I was trying to

1546
01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:39,439
Speaker 1: find was about like the kicking, which we've already done.

1547
01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:42,600
Speaker 1: But the sensation apparently from your balls going up is

1548
01:16:42,600 --> 01:16:45,160
Speaker 1: the thing that people like, a sensation that you get

1549
01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:47,040
Speaker 1: when your balls go back up when they started, like

1550
01:16:47,120 --> 01:16:49,200
Speaker 1: think they know it's like the most painful when you

1551
01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:51,720
Speaker 1: get when they get kicked in up there. I know,

1552
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:54,639
Speaker 1: but apparently some people, some people like it, people asking

1553
01:16:54,800 --> 01:16:56,360
Speaker 1: I was trying to figure out what that's how I

1554
01:16:56,360 --> 01:16:58,759
Speaker 1: found it. Look, I'm not a girl like the Nancy

1555
01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:03,040
Speaker 1: room for like section was I didn't. I do not

1556
01:17:03,120 --> 01:17:05,280
Speaker 1: have sex. But you know her, I mean, I don't

1557
01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:07,800
Speaker 1: know where she is now, but imagine she's probably not

1558
01:17:08,080 --> 01:17:10,479
Speaker 1: to ask guys to burn like that was that was

1559
01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:12,760
Speaker 1: her thing when she sucked. She liked cigarettes being burnt

1560
01:17:12,760 --> 01:17:14,240
Speaker 1: on her well, and she had scared. I could see

1561
01:17:14,240 --> 01:17:16,160
Speaker 1: the stars in her arm. That's like with Lisa's flips

1562
01:17:16,200 --> 01:17:19,920
Speaker 1: and people she ashes them in people's um mouth. She's

1563
01:17:19,920 --> 01:17:21,800
Speaker 1: a dumb. Yeah, she's a dumb that does that. But

1564
01:17:22,040 --> 01:17:23,760
Speaker 1: I feel like if a woman is wanting to be

1565
01:17:23,800 --> 01:17:27,240
Speaker 1: asked wall getting no, not ash, No, the whole cigarette burnt.

1566
01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:29,880
Speaker 1: That's not ash, that's a cigarette being burney. She had

1567
01:17:29,920 --> 01:17:32,920
Speaker 1: scars on her forum. I mean, I can understand candle wax,

1568
01:17:33,000 --> 01:17:35,840
Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know about no goddamn cigarettes. I

1569
01:17:35,880 --> 01:17:38,479
Speaker 1: recently did a candle wax thing. I liked it, but

1570
01:17:38,560 --> 01:17:41,400
Speaker 1: it was a special sex candle apparently to where it

1571
01:17:41,520 --> 01:17:44,320
Speaker 1: wasn't like od burning. Well, yeah, it wasn't like you

1572
01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:46,679
Speaker 1: can't just use any candle. Oh yeah, because that should

1573
01:17:46,680 --> 01:17:49,000
Speaker 1: be like you said, it can't be Yankee, can't be

1574
01:17:49,560 --> 01:17:53,720
Speaker 1: it can't be glade. Please please let them never accidentally.

1575
01:17:54,479 --> 01:17:55,920
Speaker 1: I mean no, no, no, no, I mean it could

1576
01:17:55,960 --> 01:17:57,880
Speaker 1: still some people still want it to be that hot.

1577
01:17:57,920 --> 01:18:00,880
Speaker 1: But the sex candle that I use apparently was like

1578
01:18:01,240 --> 01:18:04,960
Speaker 1: it dripped slower, so it wasn't as like you know,

1579
01:18:04,960 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 1: it's supposed to feel like a sting, but I really

1580
01:18:06,920 --> 01:18:08,680
Speaker 1: enjoyed it was on my back. I guess that that's

1581
01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:10,120
Speaker 1: that's a good tip. I guess to get to our

1582
01:18:10,120 --> 01:18:13,160
Speaker 1: listeners if anyone is interested in maybe candle wax plate

1583
01:18:13,200 --> 01:18:16,200
Speaker 1: to know that there is actual sex candles to look at,

1584
01:18:16,240 --> 01:18:18,599
Speaker 1: and maybe don't go the cheap router or the expensive

1585
01:18:18,640 --> 01:18:20,680
Speaker 1: rod and get Yankee candle. Yeah, use our code w

1586
01:18:20,840 --> 01:18:24,880
Speaker 1: D fifty. Yeah, there you got him and oh Yankee

1587
01:18:24,960 --> 01:18:29,519
Speaker 1: candle on it. I'm beaning mica a cross fell like

1588
01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:32,719
Speaker 1: a lemon grass mat. Oh, in your little pre production,

1589
01:18:32,760 --> 01:18:35,080
Speaker 1: we were supposed to make women accountable. Now, wasn't that

1590
01:18:35,120 --> 01:18:38,000
Speaker 1: part of your list? We were going to make women

1591
01:18:38,000 --> 01:18:40,439
Speaker 1: accountable for things? Oh, we didn't do it anymore. So

1592
01:18:40,520 --> 01:18:42,160
Speaker 1: I just we just got rid of that, you know,

1593
01:18:43,360 --> 01:18:45,680
Speaker 1: you know you you came and brought up the whole Oh,

1594
01:18:45,760 --> 01:18:47,880
Speaker 1: y'all are really a production. So we said we're just

1595
01:18:47,880 --> 01:18:49,679
Speaker 1: gonna wing it now, we're just gonna talk. I wanted

1596
01:18:49,760 --> 01:18:53,000
Speaker 1: to talk about that, about making a women accountable among

1597
01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:59,080
Speaker 1: women being bummy, so that we had our conversation was, yes,

1598
01:18:59,360 --> 01:19:04,000
Speaker 1: was about that. So like, Okay, there's something that I've

1599
01:19:04,000 --> 01:19:07,720
Speaker 1: been wanting to talk about because I feel like I'm

1600
01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:09,559
Speaker 1: gonna sound like a little bit of hypocrites. I'm gonna

1601
01:19:09,560 --> 01:19:12,679
Speaker 1: try to make sure backstep we talked about like dating

1602
01:19:12,720 --> 01:19:16,439
Speaker 1: men that are fluent and you know, getting things quote

1603
01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:19,720
Speaker 1: unquote from men. But I have to say I am

1604
01:19:19,840 --> 01:19:23,280
Speaker 1: kind of tired of like chicks don't have ship that

1605
01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:26,360
Speaker 1: be requesting all of these things. Now. I do want

1606
01:19:26,360 --> 01:19:28,160
Speaker 1: to speak from I want to speak from me and

1607
01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:31,080
Speaker 1: Mandy though, and say that, like, you know, we're girls

1608
01:19:31,120 --> 01:19:34,280
Speaker 1: that are working towards why. I mean, now you're graduated,

1609
01:19:34,320 --> 01:19:37,320
Speaker 1: but you know, I take care of me, myself, my family,

1610
01:19:37,320 --> 01:19:39,560
Speaker 1: We got a business, I'm working in tech. Like this

1611
01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:41,880
Speaker 1: is a lot of sucking ship. And I kind of

1612
01:19:41,920 --> 01:19:44,599
Speaker 1: hate that a girl that don't really have much going

1613
01:19:44,640 --> 01:19:49,120
Speaker 1: on feels like like a man can feel like we're

1614
01:19:49,160 --> 01:19:51,480
Speaker 1: on the same playing field. I feel like my standards

1615
01:19:51,520 --> 01:19:54,919
Speaker 1: are set because this is what I've set for myself.

1616
01:19:55,000 --> 01:19:57,200
Speaker 1: So how could you not have the same Opposed to

1617
01:19:57,200 --> 01:19:59,120
Speaker 1: when someone says something to me like, oh, y'all, bitches

1618
01:19:59,160 --> 01:20:01,280
Speaker 1: just want any negative blah blah blah blah blah, how

1619
01:20:01,280 --> 01:20:03,840
Speaker 1: could I not when I've done this for me? How

1620
01:20:03,840 --> 01:20:06,080
Speaker 1: could I not ask to do these things for me

1621
01:20:06,200 --> 01:20:09,280
Speaker 1: more mad at men. We need better standards. Sure, stop

1622
01:20:09,640 --> 01:20:13,439
Speaker 1: stop fucking bummy women. Yes that I hear you. I

1623
01:20:13,439 --> 01:20:17,680
Speaker 1: think bummy nous is sexually transmitted. Stop fucking. But it's

1624
01:20:17,720 --> 01:20:20,599
Speaker 1: not fucking fair though, because this is the thing. When

1625
01:20:20,640 --> 01:20:23,479
Speaker 1: I was in a relationship and had nothing for myself

1626
01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:26,439
Speaker 1: and then Nigga got crazy and was cheating, I had

1627
01:20:26,479 --> 01:20:29,640
Speaker 1: nothing for me. You know. He literally was like, you

1628
01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:31,320
Speaker 1: can take what you came with. I was one for

1629
01:20:31,320 --> 01:20:33,960
Speaker 1: two years. Take what I came with, which was clothed. Okay.

1630
01:20:34,120 --> 01:20:37,280
Speaker 1: I was in a maserati, living nice, eating nice, and

1631
01:20:37,320 --> 01:20:39,760
Speaker 1: then like boom, I had nothing. So then when I

1632
01:20:39,800 --> 01:20:41,920
Speaker 1: was dating men after that, right, I kept thinking in

1633
01:20:42,000 --> 01:20:43,680
Speaker 1: my head I needed to have this, this and that

1634
01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:45,840
Speaker 1: and treat me this way. But I didn't really have

1635
01:20:45,880 --> 01:20:47,760
Speaker 1: my ship together, and I was asking for so many

1636
01:20:47,800 --> 01:20:51,120
Speaker 1: things for men that frankly, I could not easily get

1637
01:20:51,160 --> 01:20:54,880
Speaker 1: by myself. And so here's the thing. The the assumption

1638
01:20:54,960 --> 01:20:57,280
Speaker 1: that every girl and and a lot of people got

1639
01:20:57,320 --> 01:21:00,040
Speaker 1: on Raquel, who's an escort, sorry, a sex there a

1640
01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:02,800
Speaker 1: piste and she escorts, she's a sex worker, and she

1641
01:21:02,920 --> 01:21:04,519
Speaker 1: was saying how she needed certain things from a man

1642
01:21:04,600 --> 01:21:07,200
Speaker 1: and niggas was coming for her. However, if I can

1643
01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:09,559
Speaker 1: get these things by myself, why can't I ask for

1644
01:21:09,600 --> 01:21:11,840
Speaker 1: you to do the same for me if I got

1645
01:21:11,840 --> 01:21:14,320
Speaker 1: them on my own. No, that's fine, I agree. I

1646
01:21:14,360 --> 01:21:17,080
Speaker 1: think men need to think that same way. It's it's

1647
01:21:17,120 --> 01:21:19,040
Speaker 1: dudes fault that be blaming these bitches. You're the one

1648
01:21:19,040 --> 01:21:22,600
Speaker 1: who I'm super super big on energy, Like energy is

1649
01:21:22,640 --> 01:21:24,439
Speaker 1: a big thing to me, and I think sex creates

1650
01:21:24,560 --> 01:21:28,040
Speaker 1: a large amount of it. Don't do that with bummy

1651
01:21:28,080 --> 01:21:32,760
Speaker 1: ass energy. It's gonna come off on you. You're you're

1652
01:21:32,880 --> 01:21:37,200
Speaker 1: entering bummy nous. It's gonna come back. Absolutely. I don't

1653
01:21:37,240 --> 01:21:40,880
Speaker 1: care if her pussy is crazy. Here's my thing because

1654
01:21:40,920 --> 01:21:43,080
Speaker 1: some people are some people, some people make it it.

1655
01:21:43,240 --> 01:21:44,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to make this like an age that

1656
01:21:45,120 --> 01:21:47,519
Speaker 1: we're not. We're talking about partnerships and ship like that.

1657
01:21:47,600 --> 01:21:49,280
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about a girl that's got to do that,

1658
01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:50,880
Speaker 1: like you know, taking out on dates and shouldn't be

1659
01:21:50,880 --> 01:21:53,800
Speaker 1: treating it right. If I'm talking about in a relationship expectations.

1660
01:21:53,920 --> 01:21:55,600
Speaker 1: Some people make it at twenty, some people make it

1661
01:21:55,640 --> 01:21:56,960
Speaker 1: a thirties, some people make it at forty. I'm not

1662
01:21:57,000 --> 01:21:59,040
Speaker 1: even trying to put it in that type of stens

1663
01:21:59,080 --> 01:22:02,080
Speaker 1: on who's ambitious who's not. But in your late twenties,

1664
01:22:02,120 --> 01:22:04,200
Speaker 1: you know who's a bummer who's not. Yeah, you can

1665
01:22:04,200 --> 01:22:06,880
Speaker 1: tell when a chick is bummy or not. Stop, Like,

1666
01:22:06,960 --> 01:22:09,360
Speaker 1: come on, if you really are in this mindset of

1667
01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:13,120
Speaker 1: making yourself better, sticking your dick into a bummy chick,

1668
01:22:13,160 --> 01:22:14,880
Speaker 1: I don't care how good the pussy feels is going

1669
01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:19,479
Speaker 1: to detriment you or even stop woman dealing with a

1670
01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:22,000
Speaker 1: broke nigger. And I feel like that's like, Um, it's

1671
01:22:22,000 --> 01:22:24,759
Speaker 1: funny because I listened back to our episode with Um

1672
01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:27,880
Speaker 1: Demeris and how I was talking about Felling Bay. I

1673
01:22:27,920 --> 01:22:30,000
Speaker 1: actually stopped dealing with Fellen Bay. I had to cut

1674
01:22:30,040 --> 01:22:32,799
Speaker 1: him off. He decided to bring i'll say a business

1675
01:22:32,800 --> 01:22:34,800
Speaker 1: notion to me because as he was telling me his

1676
01:22:34,840 --> 01:22:37,840
Speaker 1: business idea and his business plan, he when I started

1677
01:22:37,840 --> 01:22:40,360
Speaker 1: asking him the real questions about how he would account

1678
01:22:40,400 --> 01:22:42,240
Speaker 1: for the money he was bringing in, he was like, Oh,

1679
01:22:42,280 --> 01:22:44,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna do it. You got some nerves, you got it.

1680
01:22:44,439 --> 01:22:46,200
Speaker 1: And when I tell you my whole pussy dried up,

1681
01:22:46,479 --> 01:22:49,040
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, here you go. I'm thinking you're

1682
01:22:49,040 --> 01:22:51,160
Speaker 1: trying to make yourself better and yet you really not

1683
01:22:51,200 --> 01:22:53,560
Speaker 1: go mean, was he expecting to share the business with you? No?

1684
01:22:53,880 --> 01:22:56,160
Speaker 1: But he just thought I was saying and I was

1685
01:22:56,200 --> 01:22:58,240
Speaker 1: like no. And then he has the nervous that here

1686
01:22:58,280 --> 01:23:01,000
Speaker 1: and think that because then that he would be making money,

1687
01:23:01,000 --> 01:23:02,200
Speaker 1: that then I would want him, because you know, I

1688
01:23:02,240 --> 01:23:03,800
Speaker 1: haven't told him he broke. Now, that's why I'm not

1689
01:23:03,800 --> 01:23:06,080
Speaker 1: gonna cut him. So he assumed that when he got

1690
01:23:06,120 --> 01:23:08,200
Speaker 1: money then I would want him as more. And it's

1691
01:23:08,200 --> 01:23:10,559
Speaker 1: just my whole pussy dried up because it's like we're

1692
01:23:10,760 --> 01:23:13,400
Speaker 1: damn at the same age. So broke to me, We've

1693
01:23:13,400 --> 01:23:17,160
Speaker 1: had this conversation. So broke to me, honestly is like

1694
01:23:17,200 --> 01:23:21,479
Speaker 1: the regular nigga jobs under I mean to me, I

1695
01:23:21,520 --> 01:23:23,320
Speaker 1: don't want a guy making thirty five thousand. I don't

1696
01:23:23,320 --> 01:23:26,639
Speaker 1: want a guy making fifty thousand, especially if his children

1697
01:23:26,680 --> 01:23:30,120
Speaker 1: like maybe fifty tho by yourself and you're like keeping

1698
01:23:30,200 --> 01:23:33,439
Speaker 1: up with yourself cool. Maybe in Florida, not in New York,

1699
01:23:33,479 --> 01:23:36,720
Speaker 1: and New York probably less than seventy or probably kind

1700
01:23:36,720 --> 01:23:39,519
Speaker 1: of all right, So are you, as women comfortable calling

1701
01:23:39,520 --> 01:23:43,360
Speaker 1: a man broke that makes more money than you? I

1702
01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:46,280
Speaker 1: heard y'all talk about that. I'm not saying I'm not

1703
01:23:46,280 --> 01:23:48,479
Speaker 1: saying I don't thought that. I don't think y'all make

1704
01:23:49,720 --> 01:23:52,679
Speaker 1: Let's revisit that one. You don't make thirty dollars a year.

1705
01:23:53,880 --> 01:23:58,679
Speaker 1: Who are the funk? Are you somebody broke? I don't

1706
01:23:58,720 --> 01:24:00,840
Speaker 1: have you said, I don't remember I vis you or

1707
01:24:00,840 --> 01:24:03,920
Speaker 1: whoever brought it up. You said, women be calling niggas

1708
01:24:03,920 --> 01:24:08,160
Speaker 1: broke that make more money than No, no no, no, no, Rory,

1709
01:24:08,240 --> 01:24:11,160
Speaker 1: I actually agree with you. Rory said that a woman

1710
01:24:11,200 --> 01:24:13,280
Speaker 1: will always think a guy is broke as long as

1711
01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:16,120
Speaker 1: she knows a guy with more money than That's what

1712
01:24:16,200 --> 01:24:18,240
Speaker 1: you said, and I will always be broke if you

1713
01:24:18,280 --> 01:24:20,080
Speaker 1: can text somebody that has more money, that has more

1714
01:24:20,120 --> 01:24:21,320
Speaker 1: money than me. And I loved when he said that

1715
01:24:21,320 --> 01:24:23,080
Speaker 1: because I was like, but I don't think it's I

1716
01:24:23,120 --> 01:24:26,400
Speaker 1: don't think it's right. But that's what they don't. Never

1717
01:24:26,560 --> 01:24:28,799
Speaker 1: that will never change. I'll always be broken. There'll always

1718
01:24:28,840 --> 01:24:31,479
Speaker 1: be somebody a girl my friends, and they'll be talking

1719
01:24:31,520 --> 01:24:33,320
Speaker 1: to maybe someone who comes off the bench who only

1720
01:24:33,320 --> 01:24:35,240
Speaker 1: makes a million a year, and then they'll know another

1721
01:24:35,240 --> 01:24:37,679
Speaker 1: guy who's making like twenty million a year, so it's

1722
01:24:37,680 --> 01:24:40,080
Speaker 1: like you're only talking to that nigga with a million

1723
01:24:40,120 --> 01:24:44,280
Speaker 1: dollars a year. People love shaving like girls. I liked

1724
01:24:44,360 --> 01:24:47,920
Speaker 1: that broke conversation because the money I make now, So

1725
01:24:48,040 --> 01:24:51,400
Speaker 1: before we started, before I started making what I'm making, right,

1726
01:24:51,439 --> 01:24:52,840
Speaker 1: when we first started this pod, I was like, I

1727
01:24:52,880 --> 01:24:55,240
Speaker 1: have to be with a dude that makes six figures

1728
01:24:55,720 --> 01:25:00,519
Speaker 1: because I make six figures. Now have a new job

1729
01:25:00,520 --> 01:25:02,720
Speaker 1: and I'm making more money, and I'm like, I'm not.

1730
01:25:02,760 --> 01:25:04,479
Speaker 1: I might not meet somebody that makes some I make,

1731
01:25:04,520 --> 01:25:06,240
Speaker 1: and I have to change my mind. And that's the truth.

1732
01:25:06,600 --> 01:25:08,600
Speaker 1: And I had to grow up because I feel like

1733
01:25:08,640 --> 01:25:10,400
Speaker 1: I was real like, oh, you gotta have this, this

1734
01:25:10,439 --> 01:25:14,479
Speaker 1: and this, and frankly I might not. It's just it's

1735
01:25:14,479 --> 01:25:16,360
Speaker 1: not the average meeting income and it might be very

1736
01:25:16,360 --> 01:25:17,920
Speaker 1: hard unless I'm doing a bank or something like that

1737
01:25:17,960 --> 01:25:20,400
Speaker 1: I don't know right, or entertainers or whatever. If I

1738
01:25:20,439 --> 01:25:23,160
Speaker 1: meet a regular dude, how can you make what I make? Right?

1739
01:25:23,240 --> 01:25:26,880
Speaker 1: So here's the thing. You gotta humble yourself sometimes women

1740
01:25:26,920 --> 01:25:29,200
Speaker 1: do to say, because for me, this is the thing.

1741
01:25:29,400 --> 01:25:31,439
Speaker 1: I want a man that can enjoy the things that

1742
01:25:31,479 --> 01:25:33,879
Speaker 1: I enjoy with me. I like to go eat steaks,

1743
01:25:34,120 --> 01:25:36,320
Speaker 1: I like to go on vacation. I ain't talking about

1744
01:25:36,360 --> 01:25:38,880
Speaker 1: the Miami I like to go to Tokyo tailing all

1745
01:25:38,960 --> 01:25:41,920
Speaker 1: that ship Croatia. Yeah, week, I need to go. You

1746
01:25:42,080 --> 01:25:43,800
Speaker 1: don't have to pay for me, but you need to

1747
01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:46,200
Speaker 1: be able to come with me without me paying for you.

1748
01:25:46,520 --> 01:25:48,280
Speaker 1: I don't need you to pay for my vacation. And

1749
01:25:48,320 --> 01:25:50,760
Speaker 1: I am and I am being honest with that. And

1750
01:25:50,800 --> 01:25:53,519
Speaker 1: I frankly, when I was going to Tokyo, I was

1751
01:25:53,840 --> 01:25:55,280
Speaker 1: I was talking to loverabley at the time that there

1752
01:25:55,280 --> 01:25:57,479
Speaker 1: was a dude. I was like, you want to know,

1753
01:25:58,800 --> 01:26:00,240
Speaker 1: But I asked me if you wanted to him, and

1754
01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:02,640
Speaker 1: he was like, I can't do all that, And I

1755
01:26:02,720 --> 01:26:06,000
Speaker 1: was just like, okay, well, how how can I do this?

1756
01:26:06,160 --> 01:26:07,559
Speaker 1: If I want to get up and go somewhere. If

1757
01:26:07,560 --> 01:26:09,800
Speaker 1: somebody can't match me on that, then that to me,

1758
01:26:09,880 --> 01:26:12,360
Speaker 1: I can't handle. And I'm not gonna go as far well,

1759
01:26:12,960 --> 01:26:15,400
Speaker 1: I'm not big on I am big on potential to

1760
01:26:15,439 --> 01:26:18,120
Speaker 1: an extent I can't stand. I don't know where y'all

1761
01:26:18,360 --> 01:26:20,439
Speaker 1: at your ages with potential? Well, and and that's what

1762
01:26:20,720 --> 01:26:23,200
Speaker 1: So that's my thing like, because we're entering into an

1763
01:26:23,240 --> 01:26:26,200
Speaker 1: age where potential is yeah, and how many years I

1764
01:26:26,360 --> 01:26:29,400
Speaker 1: gonna take you? I'm about to be years old. Like

1765
01:26:29,520 --> 01:26:33,240
Speaker 1: I can't sit here and help a guy grow or

1766
01:26:33,320 --> 01:26:35,280
Speaker 1: raise a man. Or you're telling me of an idea

1767
01:26:35,360 --> 01:26:38,160
Speaker 1: that's not anywhere put even into fruition, or even when

1768
01:26:38,200 --> 01:26:40,440
Speaker 1: you talk about broke, I think broke is a mentality

1769
01:26:40,520 --> 01:26:43,040
Speaker 1: or mindset. If I meet a guy and say he's

1770
01:26:43,040 --> 01:26:50,880
Speaker 1: working no, no, no. But if you're working at say no, Well,

1771
01:26:50,920 --> 01:26:53,280
Speaker 1: if you're working at say a FedEx or something like that,

1772
01:26:53,320 --> 01:26:55,840
Speaker 1: and I meet you and you're working at FedEx? To me,

1773
01:26:56,240 --> 01:26:59,479
Speaker 1: I want, can we stop? I know, can we stop slandering?

1774
01:26:59,520 --> 01:27:02,040
Speaker 1: I think big started this? Can we stop slandering? Ups?

1775
01:27:02,040 --> 01:27:09,680
Speaker 1: And I mean it's problem? No, you know much Garbageman maker, No,

1776
01:27:09,760 --> 01:27:11,360
Speaker 1: they make like six figures in New York. They do.

1777
01:27:11,520 --> 01:27:13,960
Speaker 1: But to me, like, if you're in a situation where

1778
01:27:13,960 --> 01:27:17,760
Speaker 1: you're okay or content with making measily money, where you're

1779
01:27:17,840 --> 01:27:19,920
Speaker 1: living check to check, or you're not able to travel

1780
01:27:20,000 --> 01:27:21,639
Speaker 1: or do the things you want to do. To me,

1781
01:27:21,920 --> 01:27:24,360
Speaker 1: if you're a guy who isn't looking for a promotion,

1782
01:27:24,360 --> 01:27:26,040
Speaker 1: who isn't looking for a better job, who's not in

1783
01:27:26,080 --> 01:27:29,040
Speaker 1: school to better your education to be able to apply

1784
01:27:29,120 --> 01:27:31,600
Speaker 1: it better positions, and you're just okay with making what

1785
01:27:31,640 --> 01:27:33,400
Speaker 1: you're making and hoping you get a raise every year.

1786
01:27:33,520 --> 01:27:35,719
Speaker 1: To me, that's a broke mentality. Well, me, you're okay

1787
01:27:35,720 --> 01:27:41,800
Speaker 1: with making I don't know, because a lot of people

1788
01:27:41,840 --> 01:27:44,960
Speaker 1: don't have no I mean, if you got mad, like

1789
01:27:45,040 --> 01:27:47,519
Speaker 1: people are going to college and still can't pay that,

1790
01:27:47,520 --> 01:27:50,160
Speaker 1: that that ship off for a while, right, I mean, like, really,

1791
01:27:50,200 --> 01:27:52,519
Speaker 1: what money do you have? We could save motherfucker's ain't broke.

1792
01:27:52,520 --> 01:27:55,160
Speaker 1: But like Sally maybe says you is. I mean, if

1793
01:27:55,160 --> 01:27:57,439
Speaker 1: you don't own nobody money, you can easily end on

1794
01:27:57,439 --> 01:28:00,920
Speaker 1: that phone call and the and that's the thing. Like,

1795
01:28:00,960 --> 01:28:03,680
Speaker 1: so I can't I don't know. I can't say that

1796
01:28:03,800 --> 01:28:05,920
Speaker 1: someone that's comfortable with making their money and then waiting

1797
01:28:05,920 --> 01:28:07,880
Speaker 1: for a raison has a broke mentality, because this is

1798
01:28:07,880 --> 01:28:10,600
Speaker 1: the thing. If you're living comfortably, you and I like

1799
01:28:10,640 --> 01:28:14,080
Speaker 1: to travel, Mandy, we gotta do ship. He's talking about

1800
01:28:14,120 --> 01:28:16,120
Speaker 1: what we look for in partners. But that's not a

1801
01:28:16,120 --> 01:28:19,559
Speaker 1: broke mentality. Is to someone someone who wants to to

1802
01:28:19,680 --> 01:28:21,439
Speaker 1: see more in the world. And I feel like it

1803
01:28:22,240 --> 01:28:26,679
Speaker 1: broadens a person's a person's knowledge, their experiences. They're able

1804
01:28:26,720 --> 01:28:28,679
Speaker 1: to look at things differently. And so for me, being

1805
01:28:28,720 --> 01:28:31,000
Speaker 1: a woman who is well traveled and has traveled the world.

1806
01:28:31,240 --> 01:28:32,960
Speaker 1: I want a guy who wants to do that. A

1807
01:28:33,000 --> 01:28:34,920
Speaker 1: guy can't want to do that if he thinks that

1808
01:28:35,360 --> 01:28:37,040
Speaker 1: it costs a whole lot of money. Like I don't

1809
01:28:37,040 --> 01:28:39,120
Speaker 1: want a guy who thinks going to Miami is a

1810
01:28:39,160 --> 01:28:43,360
Speaker 1: fucking me neither. That's like going applebe taking a bitch

1811
01:28:43,360 --> 01:28:45,800
Speaker 1: to Miami for a birthday, like going Apple? What is that?

1812
01:28:45,880 --> 01:28:47,320
Speaker 1: By the way, this year, I went to Miami for

1813
01:28:47,360 --> 01:28:49,120
Speaker 1: my birthday and I told my friends. I was like,

1814
01:28:49,160 --> 01:28:50,320
Speaker 1: we have to say at the Montre and we have

1815
01:28:50,360 --> 01:28:52,280
Speaker 1: to eat somewhere really nice because I just realized what

1816
01:28:52,280 --> 01:28:54,160
Speaker 1: I did. I really wanted to be here because the

1817
01:28:54,240 --> 01:28:56,400
Speaker 1: snow in New York. But like, bro I feel like

1818
01:28:56,479 --> 01:28:58,960
Speaker 1: above how But this is the thing. I just don't

1819
01:28:59,000 --> 01:29:01,160
Speaker 1: want to say that someone as a broke mentality because

1820
01:29:01,200 --> 01:29:04,839
Speaker 1: they're comfortable with they're making because honestly, my lifestyle requires

1821
01:29:04,840 --> 01:29:06,680
Speaker 1: way more money. I take care of myself and to

1822
01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:09,479
Speaker 1: other adults, I have to make more money, but some

1823
01:29:09,520 --> 01:29:14,439
Speaker 1: people can't with women that Coleman broke, that are broke. Yeah,

1824
01:29:14,560 --> 01:29:17,360
Speaker 1: I know, and I don't told you though. That was

1825
01:29:17,400 --> 01:29:19,360
Speaker 1: me for a very long time as a bartender, and

1826
01:29:19,640 --> 01:29:22,360
Speaker 1: that came from me. Just like you said, I had

1827
01:29:22,400 --> 01:29:24,120
Speaker 1: guys in my phone who had a whole lot of money,

1828
01:29:24,120 --> 01:29:26,040
Speaker 1: And so we got to the point where in my

1829
01:29:26,080 --> 01:29:31,080
Speaker 1: mind broke making some money, no, but not some of it.

1830
01:29:31,320 --> 01:29:33,679
Speaker 1: Some of it, but there's not all bartenders and making

1831
01:29:33,720 --> 01:29:36,040
Speaker 1: money like not all. But I had ends announced, but

1832
01:29:36,080 --> 01:29:40,120
Speaker 1: I still wasn't making probably more than any given year

1833
01:29:40,160 --> 01:29:44,200
Speaker 1: depending Okay, I don't know, say that's bartending. So that's

1834
01:29:44,200 --> 01:29:46,479
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Well, I wasn't bartending every day. I

1835
01:29:46,479 --> 01:29:48,320
Speaker 1: had summer gigs like, but that's what I'm saying. And

1836
01:29:48,360 --> 01:29:50,120
Speaker 1: there were times that because I had guys on my

1837
01:29:50,160 --> 01:29:53,120
Speaker 1: phone who had a lot of money, I would look

1838
01:29:53,160 --> 01:29:55,479
Speaker 1: at guys like you broke, and I know that maybe

1839
01:29:56,560 --> 01:29:58,280
Speaker 1: they even made more money than me, and I still

1840
01:29:58,280 --> 01:30:00,680
Speaker 1: looked at them as broke because of the access of

1841
01:30:00,720 --> 01:30:02,040
Speaker 1: guys that I had and the things that I was

1842
01:30:02,120 --> 01:30:05,040
Speaker 1: used to and being accommodated as far as getting flown out,

1843
01:30:05,080 --> 01:30:07,960
Speaker 1: being put in the nice hotels, eating at the nicest restaurants.

1844
01:30:08,120 --> 01:30:11,320
Speaker 1: So even just me having that experience with guys with money,

1845
01:30:11,360 --> 01:30:13,400
Speaker 1: I would look at niggas with my broke ass and

1846
01:30:13,439 --> 01:30:15,680
Speaker 1: call them broke. So I was that girl, but I

1847
01:30:15,720 --> 01:30:17,560
Speaker 1: mean we were younger too, and I think that I

1848
01:30:17,600 --> 01:30:19,559
Speaker 1: don't know if really women. I mean, I'm sure they are,

1849
01:30:19,640 --> 01:30:22,439
Speaker 1: but I feel like the older we get, the more

1850
01:30:22,479 --> 01:30:24,679
Speaker 1: we get into our later twenties and still is broken

1851
01:30:24,760 --> 01:30:27,000
Speaker 1: and they probably make more to me, so that hasn't changed.

1852
01:30:27,040 --> 01:30:28,320
Speaker 1: If you live with a guy, would you pay for

1853
01:30:28,320 --> 01:30:33,919
Speaker 1: a bill? I'll pay for the lace had this conversation

1854
01:30:33,960 --> 01:30:37,320
Speaker 1: already utilities, but I was just talking with my friend

1855
01:30:37,320 --> 01:30:43,000
Speaker 1: about that her deal with her boyfriend just bought a house, um,

1856
01:30:43,360 --> 01:30:46,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, so is your name on it?

1857
01:30:46,080 --> 01:30:48,320
Speaker 1: And she's like, no, but we split the rent. And

1858
01:30:48,360 --> 01:30:50,720
Speaker 1: I was like, you're paying for half of what hold on,

1859
01:30:50,760 --> 01:30:52,720
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on. He works with the government, but

1860
01:30:52,760 --> 01:30:56,840
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. She makes money regardless. Why are you

1861
01:30:56,880 --> 01:30:59,240
Speaker 1: paying half of a mortgage on a house that your

1862
01:30:59,320 --> 01:31:01,439
Speaker 1: name is nowhere? Are in so at any given time,

1863
01:31:01,439 --> 01:31:03,759
Speaker 1: even if you're paying him that money And he says,

1864
01:31:04,120 --> 01:31:08,720
Speaker 1: get out, that's what I said, it's it's rent whatever. No,

1865
01:31:08,840 --> 01:31:13,200
Speaker 1: it's not rentage mortgage. Now she would pay rent. I

1866
01:31:13,200 --> 01:31:14,920
Speaker 1: would gonna say she would pay rent if she lives

1867
01:31:14,920 --> 01:31:20,280
Speaker 1: somewhere else. I feel like I would be real. I

1868
01:31:20,479 --> 01:31:22,960
Speaker 1: think that if your parent rents splitting It depends, right,

1869
01:31:23,040 --> 01:31:26,519
Speaker 1: If I was dating someone that was making let's say

1870
01:31:26,560 --> 01:31:29,640
Speaker 1: sixty five, they can't pay for all the rent in

1871
01:31:29,680 --> 01:31:31,960
Speaker 1: New York. They can't. And if that's the person I'll

1872
01:31:32,000 --> 01:31:33,920
Speaker 1: be with, I can't expect them too. I am just

1873
01:31:34,040 --> 01:31:37,840
Speaker 1: speaking from me expecting that I'll meet someone that's making

1874
01:31:37,880 --> 01:31:39,280
Speaker 1: what I make. I know they can handle a rent,

1875
01:31:39,320 --> 01:31:43,320
Speaker 1: but like, bro, my rent by myself once to utilities

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01:31:43,360 --> 01:31:45,120
Speaker 1: and my gas and my heat, my rents three grant,

1877
01:31:45,600 --> 01:31:49,519
Speaker 1: I mean it is like, how can I not expect

1878
01:31:49,960 --> 01:31:52,320
Speaker 1: someone making that money? Actually, I'll be real with you.

1879
01:31:52,360 --> 01:31:54,240
Speaker 1: I've been like fantastizing about it. I'm like, okay, I

1880
01:31:54,560 --> 01:31:56,720
Speaker 1: gotta keep it sack. If I keep your so and so,

1881
01:31:57,400 --> 01:31:59,120
Speaker 1: I ain't leaving my apartment because it's a ship, so

1882
01:31:59,200 --> 01:32:01,400
Speaker 1: they're gonna move in here and it can't pay three

1883
01:32:01,479 --> 01:32:04,040
Speaker 1: ran Like, I mean, what it's It's true? I mean,

1884
01:32:04,120 --> 01:32:11,160
Speaker 1: my thing, what would that have perception of it? Because

1885
01:32:12,360 --> 01:32:14,600
Speaker 1: I've been on my own for so long that I

1886
01:32:14,680 --> 01:32:18,800
Speaker 1: already have in my DNA that I'm paying all my bills,

1887
01:32:19,400 --> 01:32:21,960
Speaker 1: Like I don't have the split the bill mentality because

1888
01:32:22,000 --> 01:32:25,920
Speaker 1: I've literally lived by myself for so fucking long. So yeah,

1889
01:32:25,960 --> 01:32:28,320
Speaker 1: if my girl moved in, I would never It wouldn't

1890
01:32:28,360 --> 01:32:31,120
Speaker 1: be that conversation. I would just think, no, no, this

1891
01:32:31,320 --> 01:32:33,639
Speaker 1: is the place I live. I pay these bills. If

1892
01:32:33,640 --> 01:32:36,720
Speaker 1: you look at her differently, if she didn't offer to help, no, no,

1893
01:32:37,560 --> 01:32:39,720
Speaker 1: I could see how. I guess some people would. But

1894
01:32:40,160 --> 01:32:44,200
Speaker 1: my mentality, it's just I paid for myself. So I

1895
01:32:44,280 --> 01:32:47,040
Speaker 1: feel resentment though, So I want to tell you all

1896
01:32:47,080 --> 01:32:50,320
Speaker 1: something I know about a millionaire that I know who

1897
01:32:51,000 --> 01:32:53,960
Speaker 1: lives on Parking Something. Been with this girl for seven

1898
01:32:54,040 --> 01:32:57,040
Speaker 1: years and for some reason he's starting to get a

1899
01:32:57,080 --> 01:32:59,720
Speaker 1: little resentment towards her. There is about seven thousand he

1900
01:32:59,880 --> 01:33:03,120
Speaker 1: is asking her for seven dollars a month and she flipped.

1901
01:33:04,560 --> 01:33:07,880
Speaker 1: He said, is it a test? So he doesn't he

1902
01:33:07,960 --> 01:33:10,040
Speaker 1: doesn't need. So he told me that he feels like

1903
01:33:10,120 --> 01:33:11,840
Speaker 1: and this is what I mean by resentment has Obviously

1904
01:33:11,880 --> 01:33:13,720
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to do with money, but he says

1905
01:33:13,760 --> 01:33:15,880
Speaker 1: that he's felt like throughout the course of their relationship,

1906
01:33:16,280 --> 01:33:19,000
Speaker 1: she never makes an effort and to contribute into what

1907
01:33:19,160 --> 01:33:21,280
Speaker 1: they have together. And he says that he's tired of

1908
01:33:21,400 --> 01:33:23,840
Speaker 1: feeling like he is the only one that sacrifices. Right,

1909
01:33:23,880 --> 01:33:25,519
Speaker 1: he works so much. He's not an athlete, he's not

1910
01:33:25,560 --> 01:33:30,360
Speaker 1: an entertainer. He is worked. I'm just saying, like, I'm

1911
01:33:30,360 --> 01:33:32,040
Speaker 1: just saying, he doesn't have a lot of free time.

1912
01:33:32,080 --> 01:33:34,280
Speaker 1: He's working in the sixty seventy hours a week. So

1913
01:33:34,560 --> 01:33:36,960
Speaker 1: I told him I thought what he did was petty.

1914
01:33:37,200 --> 01:33:39,680
Speaker 1: And then he said, unless there was a test or

1915
01:33:39,720 --> 01:33:41,760
Speaker 1: something I do, I thought it was very petty. And

1916
01:33:41,800 --> 01:33:44,640
Speaker 1: then he said, well, what else am I supposed to

1917
01:33:44,720 --> 01:33:47,360
Speaker 1: do to feel like my girl gives a ship about

1918
01:33:47,400 --> 01:33:49,360
Speaker 1: what we have together? What could I have done clean

1919
01:33:49,400 --> 01:33:51,120
Speaker 1: and cook for him? Like? Does she not do the

1920
01:33:51,240 --> 01:33:54,200
Speaker 1: things as a woman would probably do who's not responsible

1921
01:33:54,240 --> 01:33:55,920
Speaker 1: to pay? But she works just she works about fourty

1922
01:33:55,920 --> 01:33:59,400
Speaker 1: hours a week, so there's probably an unappreciation. So I said,

1923
01:33:59,680 --> 01:34:01,679
Speaker 1: I think this is why, and this is why I've

1924
01:34:01,680 --> 01:34:04,280
Speaker 1: always felt like I was a decent partner, even when

1925
01:34:04,800 --> 01:34:06,920
Speaker 1: millionaires and a lot of my I think you've told

1926
01:34:06,960 --> 01:34:08,640
Speaker 1: me like I'll be bugging for paying for dinners. But

1927
01:34:09,920 --> 01:34:14,439
Speaker 1: I really like showing my gratitude towards men with money

1928
01:34:14,640 --> 01:34:17,800
Speaker 1: with meals and drinks and things like that, because I

1929
01:34:18,000 --> 01:34:20,479
Speaker 1: feel like it shows you that not him only am

1930
01:34:20,479 --> 01:34:22,160
Speaker 1: I just like just along for the ride or whatever.

1931
01:34:22,240 --> 01:34:24,320
Speaker 1: But like here I am and I can do this too.

1932
01:34:24,560 --> 01:34:27,200
Speaker 1: Don't forget it, you know, because I understand when you're

1933
01:34:27,240 --> 01:34:31,040
Speaker 1: with someone that's very financially stable, they're just expecting bitches

1934
01:34:31,120 --> 01:34:33,320
Speaker 1: to take it. And I always had men telling me,

1935
01:34:33,360 --> 01:34:34,920
Speaker 1: especially when I walk in their homes with a gift,

1936
01:34:34,960 --> 01:34:36,960
Speaker 1: whether the cigars or just like he brought the wine,

1937
01:34:37,040 --> 01:34:39,200
Speaker 1: like nobody ever brings me anything. No one's ever brought

1938
01:34:39,200 --> 01:34:40,800
Speaker 1: me something to my house. Sometimes they're being sage to

1939
01:34:40,880 --> 01:34:42,760
Speaker 1: do his house. I was sucking his one day and

1940
01:34:42,760 --> 01:34:45,080
Speaker 1: I brought him skittles and he liked that I brought

1941
01:34:45,160 --> 01:34:50,960
Speaker 1: him skittles. You have to because my girl, I would

1942
01:34:50,960 --> 01:34:53,680
Speaker 1: always pick up any check if it came to that

1943
01:34:55,360 --> 01:34:58,560
Speaker 1: without me even knowing paid for it, came to me

1944
01:34:58,760 --> 01:35:01,479
Speaker 1: with gifts that I didn't have, like there's a way

1945
01:35:01,560 --> 01:35:03,560
Speaker 1: to do it if you're paying. Not to say I

1946
01:35:03,640 --> 01:35:06,040
Speaker 1: am because we don't live together, but she picks up

1947
01:35:06,040 --> 01:35:07,600
Speaker 1: a lot of things that I don't ask her to do,

1948
01:35:07,720 --> 01:35:09,439
Speaker 1: which I have the same relationship with my friends too,

1949
01:35:09,920 --> 01:35:11,880
Speaker 1: Like if we're all eating, someone to just grab the chick.

1950
01:35:12,000 --> 01:35:14,120
Speaker 1: It's not it's not that big of a do. Like

1951
01:35:14,320 --> 01:35:19,200
Speaker 1: my girls the same way to do that. I got it,

1952
01:35:19,240 --> 01:35:21,200
Speaker 1: but I got it. Don't worry about it, my girl.

1953
01:35:24,400 --> 01:35:28,560
Speaker 1: My girl's definitely but basic. She knows no matter what,

1954
01:35:29,240 --> 01:35:32,360
Speaker 1: I'll cover it. But she's not pressed. She'll go pay

1955
01:35:32,360 --> 01:35:34,040
Speaker 1: that ship right away. Have you do you mind that's

1956
01:35:34,080 --> 01:35:36,880
Speaker 1: something attractive with your girl or that's have you ever

1957
01:35:37,040 --> 01:35:39,040
Speaker 1: noticed that like women picking up? Do you like that?

1958
01:35:39,240 --> 01:35:41,560
Speaker 1: Talk like I want to talk? Are you? Are you

1959
01:35:41,640 --> 01:35:44,719
Speaker 1: a regular dude? Well? I was raised by nothing but women.

1960
01:35:44,800 --> 01:35:46,519
Speaker 1: So if we're like on a first date or even

1961
01:35:47,040 --> 01:35:49,760
Speaker 1: up to date, up to date ten, I'm always going

1962
01:35:49,800 --> 01:35:53,120
Speaker 1: to pick that up. But in a relationship and so

1963
01:35:53,200 --> 01:35:55,479
Speaker 1: many years, and yeah, I think it's dope that my

1964
01:35:55,600 --> 01:35:57,479
Speaker 1: girl is financially stable enough to just be like, you know,

1965
01:35:57,600 --> 01:36:00,200
Speaker 1: I got that. Have you ever noticed, never offered? Has

1966
01:36:00,200 --> 01:36:03,880
Speaker 1: it ever bothered you? Uh? Yeah I have. But that

1967
01:36:03,960 --> 01:36:06,840
Speaker 1: went back to my bum chick theory. I need to

1968
01:36:06,840 --> 01:36:09,040
Speaker 1: stop sticking my dick now. Let's I want to ask

1969
01:36:09,080 --> 01:36:11,320
Speaker 1: this one thing that we asked for Andrew and Wax

1970
01:36:11,400 --> 01:36:14,160
Speaker 1: about the ubers. And Andrew was like, nah, you gotta

1971
01:36:14,200 --> 01:36:15,920
Speaker 1: get your own ship. I mean, if I'm sending you home,

1972
01:36:16,040 --> 01:36:18,479
Speaker 1: but who's gonna ask me for uber? To me how

1973
01:36:18,520 --> 01:36:22,280
Speaker 1: do you feel about sending ubers for dates to the

1974
01:36:22,560 --> 01:36:26,200
Speaker 1: wherever the location we're going something like that, or like

1975
01:36:26,320 --> 01:36:27,840
Speaker 1: come into your place, like are you I mean, if

1976
01:36:27,840 --> 01:36:29,800
Speaker 1: it's not really brought up. But then again, I would

1977
01:36:29,800 --> 01:36:31,320
Speaker 1: look at her weird if she was like, oh, you

1978
01:36:31,360 --> 01:36:34,120
Speaker 1: can get me there. It's New York though, so it's different,

1979
01:36:34,200 --> 01:36:36,880
Speaker 1: different if you're different. Yeah, I can't really call it.

1980
01:36:36,960 --> 01:36:39,000
Speaker 1: Like if I was in Atlanta and she didn't have

1981
01:36:39,040 --> 01:36:41,680
Speaker 1: a car, I might bring up like yo, like you

1982
01:36:41,720 --> 01:36:44,080
Speaker 1: need a uber or something to get there? No, not yeah,

1983
01:36:44,360 --> 01:36:47,519
Speaker 1: don't have a car Atlanta, Atlanta, I might like say, yo,

1984
01:36:47,920 --> 01:36:49,639
Speaker 1: you need a uber or something. But in New York

1985
01:36:49,920 --> 01:36:53,679
Speaker 1: we take the train like it's yeah, I don't know. Yeah,

1986
01:36:54,000 --> 01:36:56,360
Speaker 1: that's hard to answer in New York. I feel like

1987
01:36:58,320 --> 01:37:00,960
Speaker 1: sometimes for me, like I've always had men offer after

1988
01:37:01,080 --> 01:37:05,800
Speaker 1: which I appreciate um, Like I usually uber uber home

1989
01:37:06,040 --> 01:37:07,880
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah, after I'm at home, and that's a

1990
01:37:07,920 --> 01:37:10,240
Speaker 1: safety issue. I don't want you getting on the train

1991
01:37:10,360 --> 01:37:12,360
Speaker 1: and I don't want the last person, especially like I

1992
01:37:12,400 --> 01:37:14,920
Speaker 1: don't know where you live, like yeah, it could be

1993
01:37:14,960 --> 01:37:17,000
Speaker 1: a while. Ye I agree with that. I agree. I

1994
01:37:17,040 --> 01:37:18,960
Speaker 1: mean I think it's just weird, like Dating in New

1995
01:37:19,040 --> 01:37:20,720
Speaker 1: York is much different than dating in a lot of

1996
01:37:20,760 --> 01:37:23,519
Speaker 1: other cities, like because in other cities, it's the gesture

1997
01:37:23,640 --> 01:37:26,080
Speaker 1: of does he pick me up? Do I meet him there? Yeah?

1998
01:37:26,560 --> 01:37:28,400
Speaker 1: It's like you don't really have people picking you up

1999
01:37:28,439 --> 01:37:30,960
Speaker 1: for dates in real life because so many people don't

2000
01:37:31,000 --> 01:37:33,920
Speaker 1: have cars. It's just even if they being from New York,

2001
01:37:34,000 --> 01:37:36,800
Speaker 1: picking somebody up for a date is the weirdest thing, like, wait,

2002
01:37:36,840 --> 01:37:42,280
Speaker 1: I'm picking you up? The date once in New York

2003
01:37:42,320 --> 01:37:44,840
Speaker 1: and I thought either he got a lot of money

2004
01:37:45,080 --> 01:37:47,040
Speaker 1: or none because he lived in Jersey. He lived in Jersey.

2005
01:37:47,560 --> 01:37:52,519
Speaker 1: I was about to say Jersey. But the Niggers in

2006
01:37:52,600 --> 01:37:55,800
Speaker 1: Jersey got cars. They just lives mad far and like so.

2007
01:37:56,160 --> 01:37:57,960
Speaker 1: And I was joking about it the first time. I like,

2008
01:37:58,360 --> 01:37:59,920
Speaker 1: I do they head of car? And I was like, wow,

2009
01:38:00,080 --> 01:38:04,280
Speaker 1: you admit her what a car? He's rich. I had

2010
01:38:04,280 --> 01:38:05,360
Speaker 1: a car and I got rid of that ship. I

2011
01:38:05,439 --> 01:38:09,320
Speaker 1: was like, this is collecting Porkin in New Jersey, it

2012
01:38:09,400 --> 01:38:13,680
Speaker 1: was still collecting. But I live in Jersey City and

2013
01:38:13,760 --> 01:38:16,080
Speaker 1: I live above the bath Ring, so it's like, why

2014
01:38:16,479 --> 01:38:18,960
Speaker 1: to come over. I know where you live in I

2015
01:38:19,040 --> 01:38:21,760
Speaker 1: have in your girl car for us. Right, She's gonna

2016
01:38:21,800 --> 01:38:24,920
Speaker 1: find us. She's gonna find us. But um, I'm thank

2017
01:38:24,960 --> 01:38:27,160
Speaker 1: you so much, I guess Roy for coming on to

2018
01:38:27,320 --> 01:38:31,160
Speaker 1: our show. You guys have not um listened yet, please

2019
01:38:31,200 --> 01:38:33,120
Speaker 1: tune in. A lot of you probably came from the Joe,

2020
01:38:33,160 --> 01:38:34,720
Speaker 1: but I think everyone listens to the job but the

2021
01:38:34,760 --> 01:38:37,320
Speaker 1: podcast now. But if you don't, it's a really good show.

2022
01:38:37,720 --> 01:38:40,760
Speaker 1: It could use y'all could use some more listening. I

2023
01:38:40,800 --> 01:38:42,799
Speaker 1: mean to be honest. We have a lot of female listeners.

2024
01:38:42,840 --> 01:38:45,439
Speaker 1: And I will tell y'all, I actually just started listening

2025
01:38:45,680 --> 01:38:49,519
Speaker 1: to your podcast this year. I picked certain faithfully. I

2026
01:38:49,600 --> 01:38:51,479
Speaker 1: picked certain episodes that I want. I know you listen

2027
01:38:51,520 --> 01:38:54,240
Speaker 1: all the time. I listened like this podcast sometimes I

2028
01:38:54,280 --> 01:38:56,120
Speaker 1: have to cut it off. No, I'm not gonna lie.

2029
01:38:56,160 --> 01:38:58,200
Speaker 1: I listened to the ones that I like. I didn't

2030
01:38:58,200 --> 01:39:01,080
Speaker 1: work for a month and a half, and I felt

2031
01:39:01,240 --> 01:39:03,040
Speaker 1: I fell off on Brilliant Idiots and the Reading. A

2032
01:39:03,120 --> 01:39:05,920
Speaker 1: lot of the other podcasts I listened to, No but

2033
01:39:06,200 --> 01:39:10,400
Speaker 1: I know, but coming you fell No, No, No, and

2034
01:39:11,080 --> 01:39:12,640
Speaker 1: well notw that I'm back working, I listen. But I

2035
01:39:12,680 --> 01:39:15,639
Speaker 1: will say faithfully, I listened to y'all every week, even

2036
01:39:15,680 --> 01:39:16,880
Speaker 1: if I was on the plane, if I was on

2037
01:39:16,920 --> 01:39:18,920
Speaker 1: the train. Somehow I managed to still listen to you

2038
01:39:19,000 --> 01:39:21,960
Speaker 1: guys weekly, so I really enjoy your podcast. I actually

2039
01:39:22,040 --> 01:39:23,920
Speaker 1: used to just only like pick some and then for

2040
01:39:24,040 --> 01:39:25,560
Speaker 1: some reason, I don't know which one it was that

2041
01:39:25,640 --> 01:39:28,439
Speaker 1: got me and I was like, you know what, I'm

2042
01:39:28,479 --> 01:39:30,040
Speaker 1: gonna listen to every single one and and now I

2043
01:39:30,120 --> 01:39:31,800
Speaker 1: love it. It's a part of my repertoire to sit

2044
01:39:31,800 --> 01:39:34,320
Speaker 1: through y'all niggas be so long it takes me a day. Dude,

2045
01:39:34,360 --> 01:39:36,519
Speaker 1: then three hour episodes be killing me. I need we

2046
01:39:36,600 --> 01:39:40,080
Speaker 1: used to do and yeah, but I just want y'all

2047
01:39:40,120 --> 01:39:41,840
Speaker 1: to know, as much as y'all may kill us, we

2048
01:39:41,880 --> 01:39:45,439
Speaker 1: ain't ever doing. To be fair, it's good. It's good content.

2049
01:39:45,760 --> 01:39:54,439
Speaker 1: This has been recording. I didn't say talk about it,

2050
01:39:54,520 --> 01:39:58,360
Speaker 1: and it was a drake. I was like, y'all did

2051
01:39:58,520 --> 01:40:01,040
Speaker 1: such a good job that I sex that and the

2052
01:40:01,120 --> 01:40:04,519
Speaker 1: way y'all like bitches love now stop, I'm like, wait,

2053
01:40:04,640 --> 01:40:08,760
Speaker 1: we really great episode. See Roy, this is now I'm

2054
01:40:08,800 --> 01:40:11,200
Speaker 1: convinced you make the episodes long. But the Joe but

2055
01:40:11,400 --> 01:40:18,760
Speaker 1: the podcast he had a drinking for Yeah, but we're

2056
01:40:18,760 --> 01:40:21,519
Speaker 1: about to do I'm not about to go to the spa.

2057
01:40:21,880 --> 01:40:24,040
Speaker 1: And I actually have another podcast that I'm going to

2058
01:40:24,040 --> 01:40:26,680
Speaker 1: be on, right, I know, I am going to the

2059
01:40:26,760 --> 01:40:29,080
Speaker 1: spot um Spot cast a little premiere fifty seven in

2060
01:40:29,120 --> 01:40:32,439
Speaker 1: the city. I went there, so, yeah, yo, let me

2061
01:40:32,479 --> 01:40:34,559
Speaker 1: tell you something about podcast. I got to me she's

2062
01:40:34,680 --> 01:40:36,719
Speaker 1: keep it going, premiere fifty seven. It's something I found

2063
01:40:37,720 --> 01:40:40,320
Speaker 1: super nice. So I posted them there. Right. One of

2064
01:40:40,400 --> 01:40:42,800
Speaker 1: our listeners is like, yo, fan of the show. My

2065
01:40:42,920 --> 01:40:45,160
Speaker 1: ex man is in there with his new bitch. Can

2066
01:40:45,200 --> 01:40:47,360
Speaker 1: you take a picture. I was like yeah, I was

2067
01:40:47,439 --> 01:40:48,960
Speaker 1: like all the black people there and I was like

2068
01:40:51,360 --> 01:40:55,120
Speaker 1: so much right right, I guess where else can our

2069
01:40:55,200 --> 01:40:58,760
Speaker 1: listeners find you? Boy? I'm on Twitter? Okay, we'll give

2070
01:40:58,840 --> 01:41:01,479
Speaker 1: them your Twitter better know who I am already. This

2071
01:41:01,680 --> 01:41:06,280
Speaker 1: is Rory. We're do say pelluses in Detroit August eleventh. Yeah,

2072
01:41:06,600 --> 01:41:08,640
Speaker 1: we're in Philly from made An America Weekend, which is

2073
01:41:08,680 --> 01:41:13,240
Speaker 1: the last weekend of August, and then more dates are coming. Okay, York,

2074
01:41:13,280 --> 01:41:15,840
Speaker 1: I have not been to be could you trash? You

2075
01:41:15,960 --> 01:41:18,559
Speaker 1: know I've been about not you know what I'm saying.

2076
01:41:18,560 --> 01:41:21,600
Speaker 1: I didn't know. It was super good time, So I

2077
01:41:21,640 --> 01:41:23,519
Speaker 1: appreciate you not going to talk about the hashtag I

2078
01:41:23,640 --> 01:41:26,080
Speaker 1: created for you know, funk your hashtag. What is it?

2079
01:41:26,479 --> 01:41:28,519
Speaker 1: We were in l A there all star we here

2080
01:41:28,920 --> 01:41:31,600
Speaker 1: and what was it? Let him hit? Let's let Chris kill? No,

2081
01:41:31,840 --> 01:41:35,360
Speaker 1: let Chris Chris. Chris one of my best friends. He's

2082
01:41:35,400 --> 01:41:39,040
Speaker 1: the host of No. We're just friends and so we're

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Speaker 1: just super cool, super cool friends. I was on my

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Speaker 1: live and I started a campaign of Chris kill because

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Speaker 1: they was getting real cuddly in the side bro I

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Speaker 1: was drunk. We was just chilling. But I could be

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Speaker 1: friends without giving them pussy friend. We weren't cuddling, we

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Speaker 1: were sitting drinking. I was not cutting Chris hashtag. Next

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Speaker 1: one might be let cavs because I went to h

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Speaker 1: the anthony with Alex and Cas. Alex was like, I

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Speaker 1: see you bitch. I was like, you know, he got

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Speaker 1: somebody ain't doing, played way too much. And then of

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Speaker 1: course his whole live because you know he's popping, so

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Speaker 1: you have like three hundred motherfuckers in there, they're all

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Speaker 1: just like doing the hashtag. I'm like, see you play

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Speaker 1: some motherfucking much Like why not? He just plays too much,

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Speaker 1: way too much, And I don't have time for that ship,

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Speaker 1: you know what. I feel like, as much as I

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Speaker 1: want to in the industry. Right now, I feel like

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Speaker 1: because we've grown on our own without industry, this word

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Speaker 1: podcast industry celebrities though we're not celebt podcast industry. You know,

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Speaker 1: as much as like I'm meeting where people in this ship,

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, I guess I can't. Fuck you know

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Speaker 1: you can't, definitely can. I mean again, I want to

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Speaker 1: with full core punts, wheezy WTF horrible underscore tons. They

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Speaker 1: were like the last episode we had she talked about

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Speaker 1: a girl being they're not cutting that playing. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: turned it, but my point is we had a girl

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Speaker 1: on the talked about a girl being sun by wine bottle,

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Speaker 1: and all I could do is hold this ship and

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Speaker 1: think like how far maybe it was this they get

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Speaker 1: to calories per serving, because bro, this is thick. I'm done. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I wouldn't fit that in my asshole or pussy.

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Speaker 1: But anyways, we're both like anyways, I just want to

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Speaker 1: say not to damp for the mood. I can't come

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Speaker 1: in this place and I get said rest in peace,

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Speaker 1: Combat Jack and everything that he's built. I love Reggie.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get emotional again, but every time I come

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Speaker 1: in the engine room, I get really sad. Really you

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Speaker 1: are looking at I love. I loved combat that was

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Speaker 1: my mayor. So rest in peace, Combat Jack, thank you

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Speaker 1: for everything that you did. Can't be in the engine

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Speaker 1: room without bringing you up or being on allowed Speaker

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Speaker 1: Network podcast. Thank you. Shout out to network to be

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Speaker 1: one for he let come on his vision, left this

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Speaker 1: whole ship. None of us were doing this if it

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Speaker 1: wasn't for fucking Combat Jack. So shout out Reggie and

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Speaker 1: his whole family shout out. And again, well this has

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Speaker 1: been another episode of horrible decisions. Bye bye,