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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: This is from Regimee on Steve HARBFM. Regine says, I

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Speaker 2: grew up in a big family where money was always tight,

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Speaker 2: so I learned early on to be careful and save

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Speaker 2: whatever I could. Now I'm in my late twenties, living

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Speaker 2: on my own, and after years of grinding and being frugal,

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Speaker 2: I've got a solid financial cushion. While with my family

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Speaker 2: over Thanksgiving, my sister asked about savings accounts, and I

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Speaker 2: stupidly showed her mind, And now she wants me to

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Speaker 2: help her out with Christmas gifts for her kids. I

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Speaker 2: love my family, but I worked really hard to get

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Speaker 2: where I am, and I don't want to become their

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Speaker 2: bank just because I made better choices. I know I

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Speaker 2: shouldn't have shown her my savings, but what's done is done.

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Speaker 2: How can I delicately set some boundaries without ruining my

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Speaker 2: relationship with her? Wow?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, you gotta do it. Lie, Well, you gotta

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Speaker 1: come up with a lie right now?

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Speaker 2: Like what I want to hear this? What should she say?

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Speaker 1: Oh that was a bank robbery and oh they ain't

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Speaker 1: take them with my money. That ain't gonna work. Man,

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Speaker 1: I don't know where they got my account number for you,

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Speaker 1: get up the note in the tailor's face and took

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Speaker 1: it out of my account, all of it.

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Speaker 2: I don't think, yeah, she's gonna buy that one? Well

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Speaker 2: you know, yeah, well oh that's your response.

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Speaker 1: Well see, I don't think she has children and her

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Speaker 1: sister does. Yeah, so she said, girl, don't worry about nothing.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have some stuff over the house. And since

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Speaker 1: you don't know how to shop for kids, under shop

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Speaker 1: and it's one of them, two cheap toys, real cheap. Oh,

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Speaker 1: some bubbles, get them some bubbles. I just told you

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Speaker 1: that they robbed the bank. What do you want me

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Speaker 1: to do? I just told you that.

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Speaker 2: Weren't you listening?

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Speaker 1: I don't get no money in January? See this how

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Speaker 1: you do it when you don't have kids? Buy one

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Speaker 1: of them the toy and buy the other one the batteries.

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Speaker 2: That's just too cheap.

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Speaker 1: See yeah, do that.

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Speaker 2: You can't do that. Don't steal her nieces? And the

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Speaker 2: what about if from something? If she if she makes

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Speaker 2: them something.

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Speaker 1: Nobody won't know. Little regular homemade set up.

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Speaker 2: She wasn't one to spend her money.

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Speaker 1: Shoulders don't fit, she can make them some holler all

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Speaker 1: off to the side. Now, I don't had that before. No,

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Speaker 1: my sister made me someone year. But my sister used

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Speaker 1: to help me with all my outfits when I went to.

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Speaker 2: The concert, so uh huh.

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Speaker 1: I stayed cool with my sister. Right, just okay, look,

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Speaker 1: this year, you're gonna have to say, hey, look, this

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Speaker 1: is what I can do. I'm gonna give you a

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Speaker 1: couple hundred dollars for Christmas for the kids. Gonna make it.

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Speaker 2: Work, Okay, something we can work with. Give me a

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Speaker 2: hundred dollars for your niece and sell me your savings account.

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Speaker 2: She is concerned that you know it will.

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Speaker 1: Well, grandma got problem. I'm goin to pay for the treatments. No, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you got to pay anything. Okay, I did. I didn't

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Speaker 1: lose all your money this year. Yeah, And Grandma don't

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Speaker 1: want nobody to know. So i'ma take care of treatment.

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Speaker 2: Oh lose her money. She and she made a bad

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Speaker 2: investment to me.

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Speaker 1: No, tell the sisters. Grandma got canceled, and I'm finna

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Speaker 1: pay for the treatments. Now, do you want these babies

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Speaker 1: that have these tars or do you want them to

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Speaker 1: have that? Grandmama, which one you want?

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Speaker 2: It's her it's mister grandmother. It's her sister's grandmother too.

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Speaker 2: You do realize that, Well, who you want?

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Speaker 1: You want the tours or you won't. Grandma hitters yet,

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Speaker 1: you won't Grandma hit his here sitting up in hill

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Speaker 1: playing these games with y'all.

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Speaker 2: That's terrible. Something wrong with him. Yeah, for sure.

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Speaker 1: They ain't telling y'all. Granddaddy got a stool disorder. I

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Speaker 1: got too much money, I got to paint.

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Speaker 2: All right, Look, thank god this order or.

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Speaker 1: Just say stuff? Can't nobody check on thought? All right?

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Speaker 2: Thank god, we're out of time. We'll have more of

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Speaker 2: this ignorance show coming up at twenty minutes after. Right

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Speaker 2: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show