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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if

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Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on type

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Speaker 2: he got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Thanking nephew subjects. He puts it down, but he's broke.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, my man and I were friends for years,

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Speaker 1: and he's always been down on his luck. I called

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Speaker 1: him bad loved berry because he couldn't ever catch a break.

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Speaker 1: Over the years, we grew fond of each other and

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Speaker 1: we slowly became more than friends. One day he admitted

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Speaker 1: that he's always loved me, and that's why he has

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Speaker 1: taken such good care of me for twenty five years.

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Speaker 1: I could not remember one time he took care of me,

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Speaker 1: But then I had flashbacks of the small but sweet

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Speaker 1: things he's done for me, things coming over in the

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Speaker 1: middle of the night when my dishwasher was leaking and

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Speaker 1: painting my bedroom and helping me rake leaves one Sunday afternoon.

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Speaker 1: I then remembered how I had to pick him up

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Speaker 1: and take him back to his brother's house after he helped me.

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Speaker 1: Despite all of that, I fell for him after we

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Speaker 1: made love for the first time. He went from bad

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Speaker 1: luck Berry to boss Daddy because he put it down.

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Speaker 1: That's his nickname now. And my friends laugh at me

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Speaker 1: because my man is not the boss of anything. He

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Speaker 1: has a dead end job and he shares a car

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Speaker 1: with his brother. I drive everywhere we go, and I

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Speaker 1: slide my credit card to him when we go out

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Speaker 1: to eat so that he can pretend to pay for

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Speaker 1: our meals. Look, I get it. Everyone is struggling or

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Speaker 1: has struggled in the past, but the people around me

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Speaker 1: are ambitious and hard working people. I'm afraid that my

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Speaker 1: and I'm fifty. So should I stick with him and

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Speaker 1: being friends and I let him come over often for

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Speaker 1: great sex. That is the question. Well, of course it

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Speaker 1: depends on what you want. You haven't figured that out yet,

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Speaker 1: it seems. Do you want a man that can provide

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Speaker 1: for you, take care of you, and love you, or

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Speaker 1: do you want a man that can offer you great

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Speaker 1: sex but pretty much nothing else. There's nothing wrong with

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Speaker 1: encouraging him to get a better job, but you would

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Speaker 1: think at fifty two that he should be able to

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Speaker 1: encourage and motivate himself to be better by now he

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Speaker 1: should have something to show for it. He doesn't even

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Speaker 1: have a car of his own. Okay, all these years

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Speaker 1: twenty five did you say all these years? He's been

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Speaker 1: around that long. What has he been doing? Does he

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Speaker 1: want to be better? Does he want to do better?

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Speaker 1: Or is he just okay with where he is? And

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Speaker 1: if that's the case, he's not stepping up, then if

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Speaker 1: you get with him in a real relationship, it won't

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Speaker 1: work because you will you will be footing all the

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Speaker 1: bills and you will start to resent him. You're already

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Speaker 1: complaining that you have to drive everywhere and slide him

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Speaker 1: your credit card to pay for dinner when you go out.

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Speaker 1: You're already doing that.

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Speaker 3: Steve, this letter is about something that's wrong with two people,

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Speaker 3: him and her because he's fifty two and she fifty.

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Speaker 3: This letter don't even sound right of a fifty two

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Speaker 3: year old man, and it don't sound right over a

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Speaker 3: fifty year old woman. Uh, we were friends for years.

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Speaker 3: He's always been down on his luck. Wait a minute, Waite,

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Speaker 3: always always been down on his luck. No, no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: He's always made poor decisions.

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Speaker 3: This is what this is the same about.

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Speaker 2: No luck.

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Speaker 3: See, every time somebody gets successful and envious, people go,

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Speaker 3: he's so lucky. No, but you know what the definition

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Speaker 3: into opportunity. That's how people describe other people's success. Now

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Speaker 3: you say he'd been bad that I call him bad,

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Speaker 3: look barry, because he couldn't ever catch a break. Over

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Speaker 3: the years, we grew fond of each other, and we

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Speaker 2: Here we go again with that old we friends.

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Speaker 3: I untold y'all and told you, oh, don't nobody listen

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Speaker 3: to uncle Steve. Here it is again. One day he

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Speaker 3: admitted that he's always loved me. Shut up, shut up,

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Speaker 3: you are lying. He did, girl, I'm so surprised. And

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Speaker 3: then he tell me that's why it's always taken he

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Speaker 3: to pay close attention to that. I couldn't remember one

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Speaker 3: flashbacks of the small but sweet things he's done for me,

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Speaker 3: when my dishwalker dishwasher was leaking and painted my bedroom

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Speaker 3: and help me rake the leaves.

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Speaker 2: One Sunday afternoon.

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Speaker 3: But then I remember I had to pick him up

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Speaker 3: So you had to go get him so he'd come

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Speaker 3: fix the dishwashing. Then you had to go get him

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Speaker 3: to rake the leaves. Then you had to go get

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Speaker 3: him to paint your bedroom, but you had to take

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Speaker 3: him back every time. Despite all that, I failed for him.

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Speaker 3: What despite all of that, I fail for him? And

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Speaker 3: after we made love for the first time, he went

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Speaker 3: from bad dad look buried to boss daddy because he

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Speaker 3: put it down, well, I ought to be able to

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Speaker 3: do something. He got time. He got time. He ain't

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Speaker 3: making no money, he ain't worry. He got to be

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Speaker 3: He got time to focus. He ain't got to stop

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Speaker 3: he ain't any big I gotta get up out of here.

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Speaker 3: I gotta go to work. He ain't got to do that.

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Speaker 3: That's his nickname. Now my friends laughing at me because

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Speaker 3: my man is not the boss of anything. So you

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Speaker 3: have told your friends about it, and you called me

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Speaker 3: boss daddy. He got a dead end job, and he

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Speaker 3: shares a car with his brother. What he fifty two

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Speaker 3: and he shared a car with his brother.

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Speaker 1: All right, hang on, Steve, all right, we'll have part

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Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. Subject he puts it down, but he's

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Speaker 1: broke right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: Hey, look, you you can't let the urge to sing

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Speaker 3: your favorite songs while you're driving distract you from that

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Speaker 3: trunck drifting toward your lane or that lane splitting biker

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Speaker 3: creeping up beside you. Fortunately, every Honday offers advanced safety

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Speaker 1: All Right, see, let's recap today's strawberry letter. He puts

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Speaker 3: Here's a lady that has been friends with this guy

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Speaker 3: for years, and I've told you all about the friendship.

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Speaker 3: He admitted that he loved her, always has and told

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Speaker 3: her that's why I've been taking care of you for

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Speaker 3: twenty five years. You couldn't think of what he's ever

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Speaker 3: started looking back on all the small things. He came

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Speaker 3: all this stuff. Then he had to take it back

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Speaker 3: to his brother's house. And while you have take it

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Speaker 3: back to his brother's house because him and his brother

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Speaker 3: share a car. How you share a car with somebody,

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Speaker 3: y'all ever had that before? That's a hard thing to

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Speaker 3: share a man a car. Anyway, Then they finally made

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Speaker 2: Well that's good. He got to be he'all to be

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Speaker 3: Hell, come on, But he and the friends laugh the

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Speaker 2: Now Here we go, I drive everywhere we go.

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Speaker 3: I slide my credit card to him when we go

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Speaker 3: our meal. Then she said this, look, I get it.

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Speaker 3: Everyone is struggling or has struggled in the past. Well yeah, lady,

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Speaker 3: that's true. Everybody has struggle, and everybody has a struggle.

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Speaker 3: But you can't make this struggle your struggle. He fifty two.

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Speaker 2: He shared a car with his brother, which means he

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Speaker 3: You got to pull your credit card out, which means

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Speaker 3: he don't have one. You got to drive everywhere because

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Speaker 3: And I'm not really sure that they sharing a car

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Speaker 2: You got to.

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Speaker 3: Drive everywhere, so when he's sharing the car, he don't

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Speaker 3: You're not listening. It's his brother's car and it's his

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Speaker 3: The people around me are ambitious and hard working people.

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Speaker 3: I'm afraid that my man is too comfortable with his circumstance.

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Speaker 3: He's fifty two and I'm fifty. Should I stick with

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Speaker 3: Should I do this or that? I mean, you're not

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Speaker 3: giving me a great option to look at him, Junior,

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Speaker 3: Your mustache looks really thick on the zoom call today.

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Speaker 3: Just thought I throw that out there anyway, Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: we all might as well stop because this that ain't

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Speaker 3: because your option is to leave him because he's too comfortable.

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Speaker 2: He's comfortable, he's business, he's fifty two.

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Speaker 3: He lived with his brother and he say he share

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Speaker 3: better job, why he don't want a better job, and

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Speaker 3: maybe help him buy a car. No, you're gonna have

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Speaker 3: Where you see money for a car?

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Speaker 2: Or should we go back to being friends? Now?

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Speaker 3: How do you do that? And I let him come

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Speaker 3: over often for great sex. So all you're gonna do

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Speaker 3: then is enable him because he gonna sign a He

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Speaker 3: So listen, I can get with this woman, come over

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Speaker 3: better job.

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Speaker 2: Jack fought.

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Speaker 3: So your idea of going back to just being friends

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Speaker 3: mean now you only have to drive him everywhere, but

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Speaker 3: you're gonna have to go pick him up.

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Speaker 2: For this great sex and then drive him home. So

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 3: Understand the upside for you in this at all. As

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Speaker 2: Can you build a man up yes? Who has a plan? Yes?

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Speaker 3: But if your man ain't got no plan and your

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Speaker 3: man ain't got no future, what are you finna help

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Speaker 3: him do?

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Speaker 1: And does he want this? It doesn't even seem like

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Speaker 1: he wants this man.

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Speaker 3: This dude is comfortable. Man, he is comfortable. But that's

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Speaker 3: what I tell people all the time. Everything you really

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Speaker 3: want in life, life is on the other side of comfortable.

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Speaker 3: You've got to go through discomfort to get to it,

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Speaker 3: prime example of a fifty two year old man who'd

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Speaker 3: decided I'm living with my brother. I'm gonna tell this

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Speaker 3: girl I share a car. It's his brother's car. He

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Speaker 3: don't share nothing, because not one line in this letter

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Speaker 3: has he ever picked him up ever? Right, I just

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Speaker 3: don't see it later, So yeah, and you can let

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Speaker 3: him come over and do what he want to do

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Speaker 3: to you.

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