WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Sweet Sixteen Dates 0:00:00.880 --> 0:00:02.200 Second date up dated. 0:00:03.640 --> 0:00:06.200 There's a new trend that's happening right now where people 0:00:06.240 --> 0:00:12.720 online are posting dating rapped videos. 0:00:10.680 --> 0:00:13.680 Like you're Spotify rapped, but like, wait, how many matches? 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:14.360 And so are you guys? 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:16.920 Yeah, like an end of the year recap of their 0:00:17.040 --> 0:00:19.960 dating life from the past three hundred and sixty five days. 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:21.320 I feel like that could go really wrong. 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:23.279 It's like who you swipe on, what you don't like, 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:24.000 who you know? 0:00:24.360 --> 0:00:25.880 Yeah, it's just it's like a type. 0:00:25.720 --> 0:00:28.560 Of person, yeah, or like the total amount of dates 0:00:28.560 --> 0:00:31.080 that you tried for the past year and you're patting 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:32.639 yourself on the back again. 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:34.320 Day Okay, it's not about the failure. 0:00:34.520 --> 0:00:37.160 And today's caller, Kelly, mentioned in her email that she's 0:00:37.240 --> 0:00:39.400 dated around a lot over the past year, so our 0:00:39.440 --> 0:00:42.159 producer asked if she could give us a dating. 0:00:41.960 --> 0:00:43.080 Rap for herself. 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:44.040 All right, so. 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:46.160 We're gonna hear that in a second. First, Kelly, welcome 0:00:46.159 --> 0:00:46.640 to the show. 0:00:47.479 --> 0:00:49.640 Hi, thank you, thanks for having. 0:00:49.400 --> 0:00:51.360 Me, Thanks for being on with us. 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:54.600 We want to hear about what's your dating rap briefly 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:55.120 for us. 0:00:55.040 --> 0:00:55.480 If you can. 0:00:55.840 --> 0:00:57.800 Every time you say rap, I wanted to like break down. 0:00:58.000 --> 0:00:59.600 Yeah, don't you don't need this hip. 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:03.680 Yeah, that's what I wanted. 0:01:04.040 --> 0:01:04.600 Just give me. 0:01:04.680 --> 0:01:06.160 I can give you a beat if it would make 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:07.240 the wraps way more through. 0:01:07.720 --> 0:01:10.240 There's a quick breakdown. What was your dating life like 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:10.959 last year? 0:01:11.520 --> 0:01:13.559 Yeah, that's funny. I wish I could wrap my rats. 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:21.640 But it was sixteen first dates total, okay, mostly mostly Americans. 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:26.199 I had two Australians, one Irish guy, one guy who 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:29.160 I don't know what his action was, but I think 0:01:29.160 --> 0:01:31.160 he may have been homeless also or. 0:01:31.160 --> 0:01:38.360 Just that your version homeless just pick accents from wow judgment. 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:41.080 So that's good. It sounds like you're keeping your options open. 0:01:41.280 --> 0:01:43.000 Was there anything more? What what did you think about 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:44.360 the sixteen guys that you were with? 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:46.520 That sounds like. 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:53.200 That, you know what I meant? Sixteen guys you met 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:56.800 separately during the year. How did they go? 0:01:57.320 --> 0:01:59.560 Yeah? You know, like the sixteen six made to a 0:01:59.560 --> 0:02:03.120 second day. Out of those six, only three made it 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:07.400 to a third date or more right, Yeah, Now, all 0:02:07.440 --> 0:02:11.200 the guys two flat out rejected me right after the date. 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:17.880 Eight were like mutual ghostings. Three I rejected and told 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:21.079 them it just wasn't going to work. And one block 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:24.360 to me like immediately after the date. But I was 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:26.160 he was a little suss I think he might have 0:02:26.200 --> 0:02:26.639 been married. 0:02:27.240 --> 0:02:32.000 Oh oh god, yeah, nothing you did wrong there other 0:02:32.040 --> 0:02:32.680 than go out with him. 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:36.520 I suppose alexis looking back at her sixteen first dates. 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:38.560 How would you grade her overall experience? 0:02:39.000 --> 0:02:41.560 It's not like a good but one sixteenth for being blocked, Like, 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:42.200 that's not bad? 0:02:42.280 --> 0:02:43.000 What sixteen? 0:02:45.919 --> 0:02:50.040 And it wasn't for something she did exactly, that's a good. 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:51.280 Aspect, I mean. 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:54.000 And out of the sixteen, I only had to pay 0:02:54.080 --> 0:02:57.640 half on like one of them. And I'm really old 0:02:57.680 --> 0:03:00.880 fashioned and I prefer the guy to pay. That's just 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:02.160 how my mom and dad taught me. 0:03:02.480 --> 0:03:03.399 Old fashion your cheap. 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:04.200 Let's be honest. 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:06.040 I mean I know both. 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:10.520 Yeah, just how it was. And I cried over two 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:14.440 guys last year and ended up with zero. 0:03:14.639 --> 0:03:16.280 And I do make a lot of women cry when 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:18.680 they listened to the show. Oh yeah, we do. So 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:19.079 tell me. 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:22.600 None of the sixteen guys worked out. But now apparently 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:24.240 you say there's a new guy and that's why you 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:25.359 reached out to us. 0:03:26.000 --> 0:03:29.000 Yeah, there's a new guy. I was hopeful. I don't 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:31.480 know yet. His name is Steve. It was like an 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:34.760 online match and it was just a casual date. It 0:03:34.840 --> 0:03:37.280 was really like less than hour, like a forty minute. 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:38.640 Oh so you went out with them already. 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:39.560 Yeah. 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:43.600 We just got Cuban sandwiches from this little sandwich shop 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:46.040 and just went to the park and you just ate 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:49.400 and talked and we were by this playground with kids 0:03:49.440 --> 0:03:50.440 running around and. 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:55.720 What that significant in some way? The playground that's my kid. 0:03:56.080 --> 0:03:58.560 No, it's a lot of information coming at us. 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:01.600 I mean, there's sandwiches there, there's a park, there's a playground, 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:03.880 there's children. Does that sound like a good date? 0:04:03.960 --> 0:04:09.480 First? Like, overall, alexis no kids around? Sandwich. Sandwich is okay, 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:10.520 sandwich is okay. 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:13.240 Honestly, the playground was empty. I'd play on it. But 0:04:13.240 --> 0:04:17.080 it's a kid. 0:04:18.120 --> 0:04:20.800 That would be a fun date, that would be No, 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:23.080 it was really just kind of a lunch date really 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:25.720 because like the sandwiches are really messy. And at one 0:04:25.720 --> 0:04:28.200 point he was like, you got something on your face 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:30.840 and I was like, oh where, and he was like, 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:34.120 you pointed to like my entire lower half and he 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:37.400 was like everywhere under your nose and. 0:04:38.880 --> 0:04:42.440 That he's paying attention, you know, he's looking at you. 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:45.400 You have like a I'm not even joking when I 0:04:45.480 --> 0:04:47.760 met my husband. I didn't realize I carried so much 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:49.800 food on my face until I met that man, and 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:52.000 I was like, he always has something to point out. 0:04:53.240 --> 0:04:56.360 No one else before him ever said anything. 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:59.200 How the women on this show can spin anything into 0:04:59.279 --> 0:05:00.000 a positive for. 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:04.440 Another You heard the odds, Jeff, I don't think that's bad. 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:05.839 I mean, how'd you guys end it? 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:06.760 After we ate? 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:08.440 We were just kind of like, oh, if we had 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:10.640 a frisbee, we'd throw it, but we just kind of 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:13.400 kind of like picked up a stick and was kind 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:14.800 of playing with it and then. 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:19.159 Go get it, Go get date. 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:22.080 I mean I got no, but it got a little awkward. 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:23.720 You know. I was really hoping he'd say, like, you 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:27.080 know what, let's grab a drink and proceed to like 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:30.520 a nighttime thing. And he's so cute. I'm sure he 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:33.680 gets a lot of attention from women on on the 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:34.400 app so. 0:05:34.520 --> 0:05:36.560 Well, he doesn't sound very good at a date. I mean, 0:05:36.560 --> 0:05:37.640 he didn't even bring a frisbee. 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:38.839 He didn't even get the sandwich place. 0:05:38.839 --> 0:05:42.239 He went to a park. Why is the man in trouble? 0:05:42.400 --> 0:05:44.520 We're paying for the saying which she's the one that 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:46.039 he date. 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:48.640 I'm just saying that I don't think he's getting hit 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:50.719 on as much as she thinks because he is not 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:52.320 as experienced as he should. 0:05:52.160 --> 0:05:54.360 Be, which was a ride. 0:05:54.520 --> 0:05:57.240 I'm sure it's the man's fault somehow, but let's prove it. 0:05:57.279 --> 0:05:58.159 When we come back. 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:00.720 We're gonna call Steve for you try and get you 0:06:00.720 --> 0:06:02.880 your second date update right after that. If your name 0:06:02.960 --> 0:06:08.080 is Steve, you better pick hold on second date update. 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:11.840 I feel like in the first part we definitely miss 0:06:11.920 --> 0:06:14.800 something we miss and by we I mean Brook. 0:06:14.880 --> 0:06:16.280 Okay, I know. 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:17.240 That we were going there. 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:20.599 Brooke was out that even though the guy is the 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:24.200 one not calling Kelly back, yes, and Kelly said herself, 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:26.440 he's very good looking and must get a lot of 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:28.919 attention on the dating apps, and Kelly's the one that 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:31.160 had sandwich pieces all over her face. Brook hurt all 0:06:31.160 --> 0:06:34.200 of that and says, Nope, the guy is a bad 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:35.160 date planner. 0:06:35.600 --> 0:06:37.520 I bet no women want to go out with you. 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:37.919 No. 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:39.960 No, I didn't say no women. I just said I 0:06:39.960 --> 0:06:41.960 don't think that he's as wanted as she thinks. I'm 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:44.440 trying to hype her up. Okay, she has something to 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:47.400 offer on this table and he is going to maybe 0:06:47.560 --> 0:06:50.400 maybe he was too intaminated by how awesome she is. 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:52.320 You know, the sandwich all over her face. 0:06:54.040 --> 0:06:57.760 Listen, I've gotten food on my face. It shouldn't stop anything, Okay, but. 0:06:57.800 --> 0:07:00.480 No, actually stop normally. 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:03.320 Yeah, eat politely once one of your dates. 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:03.719 Try that. 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:07.479 But look, the whole thing is Kelly really liked the 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:09.400 guy that she met up with, Steve. They did a 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:12.200 casual date in the park with Cuban sandwiches. They tossed 0:07:12.200 --> 0:07:14.320 a stick back and forth. It was a great time. 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:17.240 The stick was a little straight, yeah, I mean. 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:19.240 They weren't sure what else to do. It was short though. 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:19.600 Yeah. 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:21.960 And so now afterwards she's hoping to get one more 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:23.840 shot with him because he's been kind of ghosty. 0:07:24.080 --> 0:07:24.280 Yeah. 0:07:24.320 --> 0:07:26.200 Yeah, have you heard from him at all, Kelly? 0:07:27.120 --> 0:07:27.840 I haven't. 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:31.679 And now I'm nervous because I was really slobby. Maybe 0:07:31.680 --> 0:07:37.600 I grossed him out. I don't know. 0:07:37.720 --> 0:07:40.640 The passion that you had going into that sandwich is 0:07:40.680 --> 0:07:44.800 what it isntanding. 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:49.040 If you could do that to a sandwich, just imagine what. 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:49.520 Else you could. 0:07:49.720 --> 0:07:52.200 That is, right, Jeffrey, we are here to hype. 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:53.960 Sandwich. 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:58.840 Yeah it's disgusting, all right, that's not what he says. 0:07:58.880 --> 0:08:01.360 But here we go with Dilla's number. We'll see what 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:02.440 he has to say. Let's do it. 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:13.360 Uh, Hey, we're looking for Steve. 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:18.440 Speaking and Hey Steve, I said, we because you're on 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:20.680 the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:22.480 He ste how you doing man? 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:26.880 Uh, you're from the radio. 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:30.400 And podcasts podcast. 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:31.720 To Yeah, we got a good podcast. 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:33.079 We are multifaceted here. 0:08:33.120 --> 0:08:35.199 Yeah, we're in the future with our entertainment. 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:38.280 We're focused on you right now because one of our 0:08:38.320 --> 0:08:40.360 listeners went on a date with you the other day 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:43.600 and really had a good time. He wants to see 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:46.040 you again, but that hasn't quite happened yet, and she's 0:08:46.080 --> 0:08:48.199 not sure why. Her name's Kelly. 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:50.160 Oh Man. 0:08:52.520 --> 0:08:57.160 Okay, Okay, oh Man. Yes, yeah, it's still. 0:08:58.600 --> 0:09:01.360 The fact that you're not reaching out for another date 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:04.280 is kind of hinting that you're not interested. But we're 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:05.719 not sure if that's true or not. We want to 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:06.960 know what you think about Kelly. 0:09:08.160 --> 0:09:12.559 Uh, she's very nice, like, Kelly's cool, But you know, 0:09:12.640 --> 0:09:14.480 I just don't think it's going to work out. 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:17.160 Okay, Is there is there a reason? I mean, did 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:19.559 you went into it thinking that it could work out? 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:19.880 Right? 0:09:20.920 --> 0:09:24.840 Yeah? I mean definitely, but you know, like we got 0:09:24.840 --> 0:09:26.520 some food and then we went to the park and 0:09:28.200 --> 0:09:30.839 it just it started to get a little weird. But like, 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:32.640 you know, I don't want to blow up a spot, 0:09:32.760 --> 0:09:33.839 like I don't even know you guys. 0:09:33.840 --> 0:09:35.840 So see, we didn't hear anything like weird. 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:37.560 She said she had like some food or something on 0:09:37.559 --> 0:09:39.000 her face, but nothing stood out. 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:39.400 To be weird. 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:41.480 I mean that's weird to him, you know, like maybe 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:43.880 it's weird to him to have a female have food 0:09:43.920 --> 0:09:44.560 all over their face. 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:47.079 No, no, actually I thought that was kind of cute. 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:50.200 See I talked you guys, turn off. 0:09:53.280 --> 0:09:55.240 What was the issue? You said it was weird? 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:59.480 Yeah, yeah, I'm like, so, you know, we were sitting 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:02.679 on the bench, were chilling and there's like a playground, 0:10:03.040 --> 0:10:05.320 you know that's in those parks that we're in, and oh. 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:07.120 Yeah, she randomly mentioned that to us too. 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:10.719 Yeah yeah, and she so there's like a bunch of 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:12.960 kids playing, and all of a sudden, she points and 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:15.679 she's like, oh my god, look imagine if Will we 0:10:16.360 --> 0:10:19.280 had that many kids and those were all our kids 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:22.400 running around and there were like either like eight ten 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:23.840 kids playing on the playground. 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:27.120 Oh yeah, so she was describing a nightmare, right, Like 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:30.080 that's how she meant, like, imagine how chaotic. 0:10:29.640 --> 0:10:30.400 Our life would be. 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:32.080 She sounded thrilled. 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:32.960 Oh thrilled. 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:35.120 Okay, so that's a red flag to you. 0:10:36.120 --> 0:10:36.920 That's a lot. 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:39.520 Yeah. Yeah, I mean like I've known you for like 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:43.360 twenty minutes and now now we're having eight kids together. 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:44.800 Yeah Okay. 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:48.199 In her defense, I will say, it sounds like maybe 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:50.199 she was just trying to fill the void, like maybe 0:10:50.200 --> 0:10:52.440 there was like an odd because she said, like it 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:54.800 kind of died at the end your guys' date. 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:57.000 Maybe she was just trying to, like I say, dumb things. 0:10:57.080 --> 0:10:59.360 Could you understand that point of view? 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:02.440 Maybe, Steve, I mean I guess I could. But she 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:05.080 started getting like really into it. Oh, she was like 0:11:05.160 --> 0:11:05.760 naming them. 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:06.440 Oh. 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:09.200 There was like another one we were saying where she 0:11:09.320 --> 0:11:11.160 wasn't feeling one of the kids and she was like, 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:13.480 he's not playing nice. You would put him up for. 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:17.360 An option, Okay, she's obviously kidding, Well that should be 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:19.600 a positive for you because you don't want that many. 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:20.440 He would only have seven. 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:22.400 There you go. 0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:24.880 Yeah, she'd say she was a good. 0:11:24.679 --> 0:11:28.480 Mother, just a mother, Okay, but that it sounds like 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:31.280 it was all that conversation kind of scared you was 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:32.760 too much for you joking or no? 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:33.240 Yeah? 0:11:33.320 --> 0:11:35.840 I mean you know, like yeah, but if she was joking, 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:37.120 maybe you could work it out. 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:37.880 Yeah. 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:39.880 And there's a perfect person to find out whether or 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:41.800 not it was a joke. That's Kelly, who's on the 0:11:41.840 --> 0:11:43.720 other line right now waiting to talk to you. 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:50.520 Wait. Yeah, Kelly and her seven children say hi, Oh. 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:52.439 Did she give another one up for adoption? Or we 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:52.960 out of six? 0:11:53.040 --> 0:11:53.160 Now? 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:53.520 Yeah? 0:11:53.600 --> 0:11:57.600 Ever since she heard that Kelly there, Yeah, Steve, it's Kelly. 0:11:57.840 --> 0:12:03.320 I am I like fuming, I'm so offended. Yes, because 0:12:03.640 --> 0:12:06.160 and you know what this is why and how I 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:09.760 realized why I had sixteen unsuccessful dates last year. It's 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:12.560 because they were all like you, Steve, like emotionally and 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:13.920 intellectually scented. 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:16.120 Why are you upset? Why are you so mad? 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:16.960 Yeah? 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:22.080 Because, my god, Brooke, you were totally right, Steve, you 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:23.880 stock at planning a date. 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:28.600 I'm just trying to hide you up, not tear it down. 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:30.000 What happened. 0:12:30.640 --> 0:12:32.720 Listen, if you even had like an ounce of a 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:35.240 sense of humor, like you would get that I was 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:38.760 obviously joking, and I was for you to actually think 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:41.640 that I was serious, like, oh my god, like you 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:42.160 must be a. 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:44.320 Narcissist, But you would think I would reach you. 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:46.880 For forty minutes and suddenly want to have your babies? 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:48.719 All right, well, all right, I think we're I. 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:50.280 Think we're going down a path we don't need to 0:12:50.320 --> 0:12:51.760 go down any farther we were. 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:55.120 You weren't happy with Steve's response. There, Steve, are you there? 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:59.000 Zerah? Yeah, yeah, you're barely, but I'm still here. 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:01.920 Would you like to respond to any of the allegations 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:03.760 just against you. 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:05.839 I thought you guys were all gonna have a big 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:09.800 laugh about how it was a miscommunication. Steve. 0:13:10.440 --> 0:13:15.200 Bottom line, you planned a boring date and now I'm 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:16.160 paying the price for it. 0:13:19.280 --> 0:13:21.800 That's nut, Steve. You see your data, and I'm not 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:22.480 going to go for. 0:13:22.520 --> 0:13:25.079 Just the looks like I thought you were super. 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:28.600 Cute too much? 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:34.240 What kind of radio show is this? You just trash, dude? 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:36.960 It depends on how many drinks Brooks. 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:40.480 I was just trying to make her feel better about 0:13:40.480 --> 0:13:43.280 you not calling her, And now I don't know. 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:45.880 I think that this was already happening and I didn't 0:13:45.920 --> 0:13:46.520 realize it. 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:48.880 You know, you don't have to tear somebody else down 0:13:49.080 --> 0:13:51.000 just to try to make somebody else feel fatter. 0:13:51.559 --> 0:13:54.840 That's a good life. I agree with you, all right. 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:57.240 I wasn't trying to tear you down. I don't know. 0:13:58.120 --> 0:13:58.959 I didn't know. 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:02.319 I don't think you said anything wrong, Steve. 0:14:02.040 --> 0:14:04.040 Those are thoughts that should have happened before you said 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:04.760 the terrible thing. 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:06.000 Me either. 0:14:06.000 --> 0:14:06.800 I'm just being on it. 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:09.760 Okay. Oh, everybody be honest with everybody. 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:12.600 This is a good chance to have Steve admit that 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:14.880 maybe he didn't plan the best first date. 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:18.400 Yeah he did, Okay, Okay. 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:23.160 And maybe Kelly didn't make the best conversation trying to 0:14:23.280 --> 0:14:26.119 invent an entire family of eight twenty minutes. 0:14:25.840 --> 0:14:26.560 Into the conversation. 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:27.680 Oh that Kelly owned that. 0:14:28.240 --> 0:14:31.120 Well, I'm sorry that I was so bored. I had 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:32.920 to use my freaking imagination. 0:14:34.800 --> 0:14:37.880 Okay, that was an apology. 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:40.119 I could have imagined the kids in like a sweatshop 0:14:40.200 --> 0:14:45.120 or something. Don't It's like I wouldn't have been a 0:14:45.280 --> 0:14:47.240 red flag Brooks trying. 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:48.080 To get her business planned. 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:54.120 So, Steve, if you're hearing what I'm here, and then 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:56.440 you probably see the same thing as me, which is 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:58.560 potential for true love. 0:14:58.960 --> 0:15:00.240 And that's why we would. 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:03.000 Be delighted to send you out on another date that 0:15:03.040 --> 0:15:05.360 we would pay for. Yeah, I don't know, on the 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:08.320 same day, messy sandwiches and all put it on our tap. 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:11.720 Okay, adoption fees, Brook is going to cover that? 0:15:11.880 --> 0:15:12.080 Yeah? 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:14.080 Sure, what do you say? 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:16.640 No, no, no, I'm not going out with her yet. 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:18.840 I don't know what she's talking about. You went on 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:21.960 sixteen failed dates like what? Like this? This woman is 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:28.240 blew out the only though it's about to be two. 0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:35.520 Well, I'm sorry, dear humor some day. 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:39.040 Yeah, no, it's okay, Brooke. You know you're absolutely right. 0:15:39.160 --> 0:15:42.960 This guy knows nothing about planning and we should absolutely 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:43.240 own this. 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:51.760 God, if you're going to hope for all women, congratulations Brook, 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:54.560 Jeffrey in the morning. That call was a great example 0:15:54.640 --> 0:15:57.960 of the power that Brooks words have with our listens. 0:15:58.600 --> 0:16:00.360 I don't know what what went so wrong. 0:16:00.520 --> 0:16:03.120 I really don't. I don't know how I went. 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:05.640 From trying to hype somebody up, like I. 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:08.320 Don't know, you weren't hyping anybody up, though you were 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:11.960 pushing the guy down to because played out at the 0:16:12.040 --> 0:16:14.800 end of the first part, Brooke could have said, Okay, 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:17.080 you guys did like a sweet little day in a 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:18.360 park out in nature. 0:16:18.880 --> 0:16:21.800 He got you a meal. You guys spent time talking 0:16:21.840 --> 0:16:23.120 and getting to know each other. 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:25.440 She was feeling self conscious because she's like, this is 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:27.520 a really hot guy and he's probably got tons of girls, 0:16:27.560 --> 0:16:29.120 And I'm like, mad, the guy doesn't even bring a 0:16:29.200 --> 0:16:30.080 frisbee to a date. 0:16:30.160 --> 0:16:30.920 He doesn't know anything. 0:16:30.960 --> 0:16:33.080 Yeah, you call the guy boring because he didn't book 0:16:33.080 --> 0:16:37.359 a midnight laser light show with free drugs or whatever types. 0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:39.960 Of dates that you're in. And look what happened. 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:44.720 Immediately hopped onto Brooks opinion blew up into a tirade 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:47.840 against every man who's ever let her down. Ever, it's 0:16:47.880 --> 0:16:50.400 a good reminder that we, and when I say we, 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:53.920 I mean you again, Brooke, we need to stay open minded. 0:16:54.040 --> 0:16:57.080 If it's not your ideal cup of tea first date 0:16:57.160 --> 0:16:59.720 idea doesn't mean other people can enjoy it. 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:02.520 Was trying to make her feel better, Jeff, how many 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:03.760 times we have to tell you. 0:17:03.640 --> 0:17:07.359 That it's not worth it let other people feel sad. 0:17:07.480 --> 0:17:08.880 Sometimes I've got to a. 0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:11.560 Fast food burger place with a Bogo coupon on a 0:17:11.600 --> 0:17:12.280 first date and. 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:13.840 Still gone out with the guy again. 0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:19.200 I don't care. 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:21.240 Everybody er says low as Brooks are and your dating 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:26.200