1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,599 Speaker 1: My step mom attacked our kid. What she did next 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: was unforgivable. I mean, I think already in the unforgivable territory, 3 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 1: Like like what more could she do? 4 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 2: Like? 5 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 3: How much more evil? 6 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: How much more insane and crazy can you get? 7 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 3: Producer Riley? 8 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 4: Like like if you if you punt a kid, that's 9 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 4: already unforgivable, But like what'd she do after that? 10 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 2: Like punted punt the kid again? Yike? 11 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 3: Sact, I'm tragically there there is only one way to 12 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 3: find out, Producer Riley. 13 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 2: Okay, what is that way? 14 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 3: This story? 15 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: My twenty eight male stepmother forty nine female is a 16 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:41,559 Speaker 1: wanna be party planner. She has taken upon herself to 17 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: plan and host every party and holiday my dad's family 18 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 1: has thrown since she married him. I never loved those 19 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: occasions growing up. She's controlling and gets upset if people 20 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: complain about anything, but I humored her for my dad's sake. 21 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: According to him, this helps her feel included. Yeah what 22 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 1: do you say? What do you think, Producer Riley? 23 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 2: You know who? This sounds like? Who Angela off the office? 24 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 3: Ooh interesting theory? 25 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, like the want to be a planner always complaining? 26 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 2: Come on, it's Angela. 27 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:14,679 Speaker 3: That whoa. 28 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: That is a great catch and a great theory. Everyone 29 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,399 Speaker 1: in the comments put Angela, if you think that that 30 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: Riley's right, because that is ah, that might be your 31 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: best theory. 32 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,479 Speaker 4: Take ever, Riley, We'll see this this, we'll see where 33 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 4: it's headed. 34 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 3: I think you're right. That's a good call. 35 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 1: I'm getting married to my fiance, Jane twenty six female, 36 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: in July. We got engaged in early twenty twenty one, 37 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 1: but Jane ended up getting pregnant a couple of months 38 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: after that. With your maybe no, I'm just kidding, Hey, 39 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: it could be it could be the. 40 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 3: Stars you read. 41 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 1: We don't know, and we decided to postpone the wedding 42 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: to focus on our son for a while. 43 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 3: So we've had a long engagement. 44 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: Okay, so sounds like uh, sounds like we're the We're 45 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: the clearly so far. Maybe that isn't the point of 46 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: this story. It seems my stepmother has tried to hijack 47 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: our wedding plans from day one, complaining, contacting our planner, 48 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: showing up unannounced, that Jane's dress appointments, et cetera, et cetera, 49 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: and we. 50 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 3: Have repeatedly asked her to stop. 51 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: Dad wants to humor her, but she's clearly resentful of 52 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: the fact that she's not hosting the wedding or being 53 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: labeled mother of the groom in invitations. What do you 54 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 1: everyone listening in? 55 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 3: Riley? 56 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 2: Uh? 57 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 3: What do you? 58 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 1: What do you? What do you? 59 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 3: What do we think about that? What do we think? 60 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:33,359 Speaker 3: That's maybe a little harsh? 61 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 4: I mean, if you think about it, she rose her 62 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 4: son like she had to see him up. She needs 63 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 4: to be more involved in this wedding, like it's her 64 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 4: day too. 65 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 3: Wait are you serious? 66 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 2: She's trying to plan it. She's trying to get them 67 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 2: like they're postponing it. 68 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 4: I mean because they had a kid, Like she wants 69 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 4: this thing to be about her. 70 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:54,919 Speaker 2: It's that's what it's mom. 71 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, right, right, right, Okay. 72 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: I thought you were saying that the step mom was 73 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: in the right, Like, yeah, given all to her, What 74 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 1: is Obie doing? 75 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 3: I was like, Riley, what do you think? 76 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: So we don't know yet. I don't think we have 77 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: the information yet. If Op was raised by the step mom, 78 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 1: I think that is a very big question mark. If 79 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: Op was raised by the mom, like you know from 80 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: maybe let's say, like you know, a baby to eight 81 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 1: nine ten, Like, you know, that's probably somewhere on the cutoff. 82 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: I would say that the step mom was at least 83 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 1: there for his childhood, you know, at a bare minimum, 84 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 1: even if she wasn't the best mom ever, So to 85 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 1: not put mother of the groom is maybe that's a 86 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: little maybe that's a little bit much, But I totally. 87 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 3: Get not wanting to give her the planning. 88 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like just imagine getting an invitation from your friends 89 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 4: and it's like, you know, oh, Ali Colton and then 90 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 4: mother of the groom like featuring, Like how do you 91 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 4: think get there? 92 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 3: That'd be so funny. 93 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: It's like, uh, my dad featuring my step mom featuring Sally? Like, bro, 94 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: what do you even say that? Do you just say 95 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: my what if it just says father of the groom 96 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:04,119 Speaker 1: and that's it? 97 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 4: That's kinda I would just be like, Okay, Fred, that's 98 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 4: good for you. 99 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: Like, I don't know what to do with that information. 100 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's kind of that's the Maybe maybe OPI's the 101 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 1: a whole air, but maybe the stepmom's the ahle for 102 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: trying to plan. 103 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 3: But we'll see, we'll see. 104 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, Besides our baby boy, we also have Luke for male, 105 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: Jane's paternal half brother. She got custody of him a 106 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: few months into our relationship after his parents passed away. 107 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: Oh that is awful. 108 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 1: I ended up moving in with them during the pandemic 109 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: and have been in Luke's life since he was a baby. 110 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 1: He doesn't call me dad and refers to us as 111 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 1: his sister and Ope, but we love him like a son. 112 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 3: Wow, that is a man. That's God. 113 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,919 Speaker 1: The poor kid like, but at least at a bare minimum, 114 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 1: it seems like Ope and Luke sorry, Op and Jane. Yeah, yeah, 115 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: Like they're basically raising him as their child, so he 116 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: at least like has that paternal yeah like structure and 117 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 1: in his life. Stepmother, though, hates Luke. She accuses Jane 118 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: of baby trapping her way into the family, and that 119 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 1: accusation only got worse after our son was born. That's 120 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:21,159 Speaker 1: not baby trapped, like literally, that's her brother and the 121 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 1: parents passed away. 122 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 2: There's like, what what else is she supposed to do? 123 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 2: Like put him in the orphanage? 124 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 1: Like like, oh, sorry, Luke, my my future mother in 125 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:34,360 Speaker 1: law doesn't like you so much, so we're just gonna 126 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 1: put you with Anie or or any. 127 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 3: Over there, like Jesus christ Man, my God. 128 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 1: My dad gets along with Jane and adores the kids, 129 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 1: but stepmother demands him to refuse baby sitting Luke, so 130 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 1: we don't have the kids with them often. 131 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 3: Okay. 132 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: Stepmom is like, if it wasn't already clear, she's a 133 00:05:57,720 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 1: she's a piece of work, she's a pie. 134 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. She's like, like what this This kid's like five? 135 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 2: Like what can a how old is she? What is 136 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 2: a thirty nine year old woman have against like a 137 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 2: four year old, you know, a. 138 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:14,479 Speaker 1: Four year old whose parents passed away? Like what what 139 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: a awful traumatic experience to go through? And as a grown. 140 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:20,160 Speaker 3: Ass woman. 141 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 4: To Wow, she's just trying to make the next Batman. 142 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 4: That's really what it is. She's like, if I'm leaning 143 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 4: after him, he'll become a. 144 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 2: Superhero for you. He'll be a billionaire. 145 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: You're gonna be a billionaire superhero. Just accept it. Be 146 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 1: an orphan exactly. 147 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 2: Wow. 148 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 3: You know what is this? Is this the plot twist? 149 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 1: Literally the step Everyone thinks the stepmother is evil when 150 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: in actual out like Bruce Wayne, who like everyone thinks 151 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 1: he's just like, you know, piece of crap billionaire when 152 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 1: he's out there saving the world. 153 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 3: The stepmom is secretly like I need I need to 154 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 3: do this. 155 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 4: To so we can have a like generational wealth, Like 156 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 4: I'm this for all of us. 157 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 2: Okay, let me. 158 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 1: Just generational wellth and of superhero to save the world. 159 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 2: I mean, it's what Gotham needs. 160 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 1: Wow, his step mom what Gotham needs. That sounds like 161 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 1: a different video that you wouldn't find on YouTube. Yeah, 162 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 1: Batman and step mom, let me see your cave. 163 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 2: I did not. I where is it? It is? 164 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 3: We're getting back all right, We're getting back to it instead. 165 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: Jane's brother and sister in law usually watched the kids 166 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: for us, as their children are close to ours in age. 167 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 1: We had a thing last Sunday and my brother in 168 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 1: law was out of town with his family. Jane's other 169 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: siblings live in different cities, as well as my mom 170 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 1: and sister. My dad agreed to babysit at our place 171 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: and we left. We came back to find both kids crying, 172 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 1: stepmother screaming, and dad weakly trying to calm everyone down. 173 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Apparently Luke had told stepmother that both 174 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 1: he and our son were going to be our ring 175 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 1: bearers at the wedding, and she went ballistic. She screamed 176 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 1: that she wasn't going to allow that because he wasn't family. 177 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 3: Ah, the audacity. Still think she's thinking Batman over there. 178 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: Riley's like this for a just cause let her cook. 179 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: She then made me need to include the trigger warning. 180 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: When he stopped crying, his lip is still split open. 181 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: She'd never gotten to this point before. Okay, this woman 182 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 1: is like Wow, I'm speechless. We immediately banned her from 183 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 1: our house and from our wedding. Dad is fuming and 184 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 1: has said that he's not going to go without her 185 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 1: to the wedding. 186 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:55,959 Speaker 3: Oh god. 187 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: He also convinced half of his side of the family 188 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 1: by severely downplaying what stepmother did to boycott the wedding 189 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 1: as well. Oh my god. This includes my stepbrother, who 190 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: fully agrees with his mother no matter how many times 191 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 1: I try to tell him the truth. Me and Jane 192 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: are refusing to budge, but many of my cousins who 193 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 1: aren't coming anymore, are asking us to reconsider. Pretty much 194 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 1: all of Jane's family agrees with us, but one of 195 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: her aunts has suggested that maybe stepmother is acting out 196 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 1: because she doesn't feel welcomed by my family. 197 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 3: That is. 198 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,679 Speaker 1: Maybe, but like that is nowhere near Yeah you get 199 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 1: what are you thinking over there? 200 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 3: Eyes? 201 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 4: It's like it's like she's putting all that way and 202 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 4: like all that way of Oh, I don't feel like 203 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 4: I'm in the family on the kid, Like, that's what 204 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 4: it feels like. 205 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 2: She's like pushing it on ass. 206 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,320 Speaker 1: If I can't be in the family, you can't be 207 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 1: in the family. So that's where her like perverse twisted 208 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: stuff is coming from. 209 00:09:59,080 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 3: Dude. 210 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:02,440 Speaker 1: Like, and my counter argument to the step mom for 211 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 1: that is, like, it seems like from all the context 212 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:10,680 Speaker 1: we have thus far, you're very controlling your violent at times, 213 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 1: Like maybe if you were just like a decent human 214 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: being then everyone would allow you in I'm honestly, I 215 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 1: hope in the updates we get more context into OPI's 216 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 1: childhood with the step mom or if she was involved 217 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 1: in his child Like where where's their relationship prior to 218 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: all of this happening, dropping into the planning for the wedding. 219 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,599 Speaker 4: And like and if there's any other build up or 220 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 4: anything coming up, Like is this just like out of 221 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 4: the character for her or is this like who she is? 222 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, my money is on this is who she is. 223 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 1: But like, like, for instance, there had to be in 224 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 1: a reason why OPI didn't include her as his mother 225 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: of the groom on the invitations. Right Like, that was 226 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 1: before any of this even went down. So what happened 227 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,680 Speaker 1: for OP to want to do that? I'm very curious 228 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 1: to know. I've honestly had it with my family enabling 229 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:10,719 Speaker 1: her behavior. I love my dad and really want him 230 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 1: at my wedding, but I am more than willing to 231 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: go no contact. 232 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 3: If it means protecting my family. Edit. 233 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 1: I think I accidentally deleted the paragraph where I mentioned this, 234 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 1: but we did press charges. 235 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 3: Wow, Okay, this is getting very serious. 236 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 1: We took Luke to the pediatrician the next day and 237 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: gathered every piece of evidence we had. Not only do 238 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:33,599 Speaker 1: we have pictures of Luke's face, but by some miraculous 239 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: strike of luck, we also. 240 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 3: Had nanny cam footage. 241 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 1: Some commenters were right to assume that my stepmom hadn't 242 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 1: been invited to our house, but my dad hasn't really 243 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:46,359 Speaker 1: gone anywhere without her in years, so we took precautions. 244 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 1: We didn't expect her to actually do anything this awful, 245 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: but we've never trusted her with the kids. The physical 246 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: attack happened off camera, but there is some footage of 247 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 1: her screaming and Luke crying before and after the event. 248 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 1: She now has a child abuse charge on her rap sheet. 249 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 1: We wouldn't let her get away with this. Oh my gosh, wow, wow, 250 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:12,959 Speaker 1: I mean good Yeah, that's great. Yeah, my goodness. Edit 251 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 1: number two. There's a lot of additional info that I 252 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: want to add. I'll try to respond to at least 253 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:19,559 Speaker 1: some of the comments. I did not expect to get 254 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:21,719 Speaker 1: the amount and I've have so far. But all I'll 255 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: add for now is that Luke is okay. The visit 256 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 1: to the pediatrician happened the day after he already had 257 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 1: a counselor. Jane was pretty traumatized when her dad and 258 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:32,960 Speaker 1: stepmom passed away and was worried that it might rub 259 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:36,199 Speaker 1: off on him and will continue treatment. We've been hugging 260 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:38,320 Speaker 1: and pampering him a little more than usual. 261 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 3: Two. He's still upset, but is already doing much better. 262 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 1: Dan, Oh, God, like poor kid, the poor like Oh, 263 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: just a terrible situation. Okay, So Riley, we have big 264 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:53,319 Speaker 1: part two coming up. What are your predictions on what's 265 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 1: going to happen on this wedding day? So to recap 266 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 1: half of the family, because of the dad. Basically, like 267 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 1: you know, perversing the truth about the step mom is 268 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 1: boycotting the wedding. 269 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I the. 270 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: Step mom isn't going. Dad's refusing to go because the 271 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 1: step mom isn't going. 272 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:15,199 Speaker 4: That's it sounds like that side of the family is 273 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 4: just a bunch of party poopers and you wouldn't want 274 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 4: them there anyways. 275 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 2: Like if you already have. 276 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 4: One side of the family coming to the wedding, great, 277 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 4: but you do, like, as that guy, you would want 278 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 4: that kind of support from your dad and your stepmom, 279 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 4: like anyone that was the part of your life. And 280 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 4: not having your favorite cousins there too, that would that 281 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:32,199 Speaker 4: would really suck. 282 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:33,199 Speaker 2: But like. 283 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 4: Why are you boycotting whenever the stepmother now has like 284 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 4: child abuse on her wrap sheet, Like that's yeah, that's 285 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:42,840 Speaker 4: concerning to me. 286 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: That's and like, uh, we don't know exactly what it was, 287 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 1: but op reference like oh, the dad like told a 288 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 1: very like different version of the truth basically, so I'm 289 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 1: wondering what it was that the dad said to the 290 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 1: cousins because also to play a little bit of Devil's 291 00:13:57,320 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 1: advocate to your point earlier, it's like, oh, well, you 292 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 1: know if if the family is that ridiculous to boycott 293 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 1: for the step mom, get him out of your life. 294 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:07,679 Speaker 3: But what if they actually don't know the truth, you 295 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 3: know what I mean? 296 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:10,600 Speaker 1: And and like you're saying, maybe it's like cousins and 297 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:12,680 Speaker 1: like all these people that like op loves and grew 298 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: up with that, like aren't going to the wedding because 299 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: of the dad's lies. Yeah, yeah, it's a tricky It's 300 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 1: like a little bit of a tricky tricky thing there, 301 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 1: Like do you do you wait it out and like 302 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 1: try to give the truth to your family or are 303 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 1: you like f it throw up your hands, Like I'm 304 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: just gonna have like all right, it's it sucks that 305 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: you can't be here, but like my dad, my dad's lying. 306 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 1: You know, what can you do. I'm just gonna try 307 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 1: and continue and have my wedding and have it in 308 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 1: peace instead of like go through all this bs. 309 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, it doesn't say how much longer they have till 310 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 4: the wedding, but like if it's like less than six 311 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 4: months and all this broke down, like people, I mean, 312 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 4: how how far along do you need a wedding in 313 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 4: like reservation done by or like I don't know, like 314 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 4: I would okay. 315 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 1: A few months at least, I would assume on your 316 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 1: average wedding, I would guess you know, it'd be really 317 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: funny is if op gave the step mom like a 318 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: negative review on Yelp for like wedding and party planning. Literally, 319 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 1: it just pastes this story in Yelp on her boom. 320 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, never planning another party again, that's for sure. 321 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 4: One star dude that ruined her business man one star 322 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 4: to a new business. It sounds like she is a 323 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 4: wanna be so yeah, her career it's over before it started. 324 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 4: But Riley, I got a big, big Part two for you. 325 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:39,240 Speaker 3: Are you ready? 326 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 2: Oh? Please give it to me. 327 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 3: Part two. 328 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: I will start off by probably disappointing a lot of people. 329 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 1: We've come to terms the fact that it's unlikely step 330 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 1: Mom will get anything more than a slap on the wrist. 331 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 1: That sucks that she definitely deserves more than that. Me 332 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 1: and Jane are discussing our next move with her lawyer, 333 00:15:57,640 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 1: but we're still not sure. 334 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 3: How we're going to move forward. 335 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 1: It's too early to tell anyways, so we're trying not 336 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 1: to get ahead of ourselves anymore than we already have. However, 337 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 1: I'm relieved to announce that we're going to start the 338 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 1: process for a restraining order against stepmom. 339 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 2: Okay, good, all right something. 340 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're using the same evidence we gathered the week 341 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 1: following the incident, including the nanny cam footage in pictures 342 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 1: of Luke, and we'll focus on that for the time being. 343 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 1: I still haven't spoken to my father. 344 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 3: Wow. 345 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 1: My sister is still in low contact with my dad 346 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 1: but is seriously considering cutting ties with him because my 347 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 1: sister is the only one on my side that talks 348 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 1: to him. My father keeps trying to ask her about 349 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 1: me and whether I've calms down yet. 350 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 3: God, how can the dad not see yeah, all of this. 351 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 4: I think he's asking the wrong person who's calmed down. 352 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 3: Exactly according to her. 353 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 1: He's annoyed that half of his family refuses to talk 354 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 1: to him, but still doesn't seem to accept why because 355 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 1: your wife is in ea evil b bro. It's it's 356 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 1: really so simple. One plus one equals to your wife 357 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 1: plus she is a monster equals she. 358 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 3: Is a monster. That is the math equation for you, sir. 359 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 2: Do the math. 360 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 3: Just do the freaking math. This math is mathing. 361 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 1: I told my sister that she doesn't need to keep 362 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: playing messenger pigeon between me and our father. I never 363 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 1: asked her to do it, and it's clearly taking a 364 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 1: toll on her, but she insists that she'll stop. 365 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 3: When it quote unquote feels right. 366 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 1: By the way, there's absolutely no doubt whether stepmom attacked Luke. 367 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 1: Not only did Luke say it the moment we got home, 368 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 1: but that was also confirmed by my father in a 369 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:41,959 Speaker 1: failed attempt to defend his behavior. I totally forgot this. 370 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 1: The dad was there and watched how the step the 371 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 1: whole interaction from telling the kid he won't be in 372 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:52,160 Speaker 1: the wedding to he's not family, to like attacking him. 373 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: Like literally, he was there to see the whole thing. 374 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:57,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, he was like low key trying to calm it down, 375 00:17:57,119 --> 00:17:58,280 Speaker 2: but he wasn't doing a good job. 376 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 1: No, And he's like, like it would be one thing 377 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:03,439 Speaker 1: if the stepmom was like trying to lie and coerce 378 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 1: him and they didn't have the evidence, you know, Like 379 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 1: still still it's like I think, like he would he 380 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:13,879 Speaker 1: should believe like Luken and op and whatnot. 381 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:18,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, but that's if he's doing all this work, like 382 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:20,159 Speaker 4: he's got to be getting some in return, Like I 383 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 4: wouldn't I would be putting up a fight like this 384 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:22,920 Speaker 4: if it wasn't that. 385 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 1: Great, Riley, give yourself the sign. Give yourself the sign 386 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:26,400 Speaker 1: right now. 387 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:30,360 Speaker 3: There it is. He never tried to hide it from us. 388 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 1: That and the fact that he gave Luke an icebag 389 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 1: is literally the only positive. 390 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 3: Thing that I can say about his actions. 391 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:39,879 Speaker 1: And stepmother was too busy screaming about how much of 392 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:42,359 Speaker 1: a whining brat Luke was being to deny it. To 393 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 1: those who guess that stepmom is younger than my dad, 394 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 1: you get an invisible cookie. She's also five years younger 395 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 1: than his previous girlfriend. 396 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:52,679 Speaker 3: Okay, here we go. 397 00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:56,199 Speaker 1: This is this is the context on their past relationship. 398 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 1: They got together when I was around fifteen. Also, step 399 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 1: brother is only a month older than me. She turns 400 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 1: fifty this year, had him at twenty one, and married 401 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 1: his father. 402 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 3: A year later. 403 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:12,199 Speaker 1: Both our kids are doing mostly okay. Luke's back to 404 00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:14,959 Speaker 1: running around the house in his Superman costume whenever he 405 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 1: doesn't have anything better to do. 406 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:17,119 Speaker 3: Love that. 407 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,879 Speaker 1: He did have a few nightmares this past week and 408 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,400 Speaker 1: asked to sleep in our bed twice. We don't mention 409 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 1: my father around him, and he's still seeing his counselor. 410 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 1: Our fourteen old month son has learned two new words, 411 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 1: hi and bye, and Luke is trying to teach him 412 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 1: to say his name. That that is so adorable. We needed, 413 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: We need a little bit of adorable. In this story, 414 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:43,080 Speaker 1: Jane's sister, who moved away for college, is coming over 415 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 1: for a couple of days to celebrate her twenty first 416 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 1: birthday later this month. Luke is excited to see her, 417 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:51,639 Speaker 1: and Jane's excited to get drunk with her sister. I 418 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:55,400 Speaker 1: can't say I blame her, honestly, Yo, Jane deserves it. Jane, 419 00:19:55,480 --> 00:20:00,080 Speaker 1: Jane deserves a little celebration. Els Yeah, we're hoping our 420 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:03,160 Speaker 1: presidence will cheer us all up. I'm not doing so good, 421 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:06,119 Speaker 1: and neither is Jane. She's usually the kind of person 422 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:09,040 Speaker 1: who tries to keep her negative emotions to herself, but 423 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 1: she cried herself to sleep almost every night the week 424 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 1: that it happened. It breaks my heart to see her 425 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 1: like this, and I can't help but feel like this 426 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: is my fault. 427 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:20,199 Speaker 3: There's a part of me. 428 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 1: Trying to tell me I had no way of knowing 429 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 1: the stepmother would do anything like that, But that doesn't 430 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 1: really change anything. I allowed my stepfather near my kids unsupervised, 431 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:33,560 Speaker 1: even though I knew she'd probably tag along. This is 432 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: the guiltiest I've ever felt, and I don't think I'll 433 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 1: ever forgive myself. Ah, that is awf one, Like I 434 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know that that's I think Op 435 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 1: is just like it's such an emotional thing to be 436 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:50,119 Speaker 1: going through, you know, I'm sure that's these feelings of 437 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 1: guilt are stemming from it. 438 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 2: It's like what could have done differently to not let 439 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:54,440 Speaker 2: this happened? 440 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, which is like that's not on him ultimately, I think, like, 441 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: you know, someone needed to watch the kids. The stepdad 442 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:03,919 Speaker 1: had from from everything we know in the story, the 443 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:07,160 Speaker 1: stepdad had done it before. Op said that the step 444 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 1: mom was not allowed to watch the kids, and she 445 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 1: hadn't had a history of doing something like that, like 446 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: that specific violence, like she hadn't had in the past. 447 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 2: So but she didn't have to get Luke for a bit. 448 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:25,680 Speaker 3: Yeah that's that's that's true. Yeah, but yeah, poor poor Ope. 449 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 1: I don't know that Op needs to be, you know, 450 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:29,880 Speaker 1: putting all that all that pressure on his head. 451 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 3: Now. 452 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 1: Jane has been improving lately and is trying to convince 453 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:36,360 Speaker 1: me to see a therapist A good idea. I think 454 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 1: I've never really done that before, apart from a psychiatrist 455 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 1: when I was younger, but now feels like a good 456 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 1: time to give it a try. 457 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 3: I mean, yes, yes, I agree. Please. 458 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:51,199 Speaker 1: I was surprised by a few messages this week from 459 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 1: people telling me to forgive my father and stepmother, as 460 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 1: well as reinvite them to the wedding. Interesting, that's not happening. 461 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:03,639 Speaker 1: In fact, I'm not willing to ever forgive the stepmother. 462 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,919 Speaker 1: My dad has now degraded to a huge maybe, but 463 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:11,919 Speaker 1: I will never understand or forget what she did. Also, 464 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,440 Speaker 1: though the wedding is the last thing on our minds 465 00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:18,199 Speaker 1: right now, we're not postponing it. We considered rescheduling, but 466 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 1: the date we'd settled on is pretty much the only 467 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,479 Speaker 1: one that works for our guests. We have passwords with 468 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 1: all the vendors and gave them all clear instructions not 469 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 1: to talk to anyone but us. Jane's family is bigger 470 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:33,160 Speaker 1: and closer to each other, which is why they're more 471 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 1: involved in the wedding than mine. But I do have 472 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 1: family participating. My sister is one of the bridesmaids. Two 473 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 1: of my cousins are groomsmen, and my mom is walking 474 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:45,480 Speaker 1: down the aisle with the wedding party. God, Like, I 475 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:49,640 Speaker 1: don't know, just such a insane I think it's probably 476 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:51,959 Speaker 1: a smart move to continue the wedding, but it just 477 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: sucks so much of what the stepmother's done, and like 478 00:22:57,119 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 1: how that's like ruined the wedding and like ah, also 479 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: like if the stepmother wanted to be more involved, she 480 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:05,400 Speaker 1: really thought that all that she did was the way 481 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,920 Speaker 1: to get in. Really, you think that is the most 482 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 1: effective way to win over your step son to get 483 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 1: in the web, right, Explain it to me, dude. 484 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 4: This is so hard, like let me. I don't even know, dude, 485 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 4: this is so I know. She's so messed up in 486 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 4: the head. Dude, it doesn't make any sense. 487 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:26,640 Speaker 1: You can't. You can't explain it because she's a lunatic. 488 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,440 Speaker 4: My thing is, though I'm glad his mom's like involved, 489 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,200 Speaker 4: Like since like his mom's kind of in the picture, 490 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 4: it looks like why does the stepmother want her aunt 491 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 4: like to be included? 492 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:39,920 Speaker 1: I don't understand that far right, that that is so true? 493 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,399 Speaker 1: Because maybe his mom is listening. He should have mentioned 494 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 1: that by the way the story maybe his mom, maybe 495 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: his mom is listened as his mom of the groom 496 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:50,440 Speaker 1: on the invitation. 497 00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 3: That only makes exact perfect sense. Oh my god, this 498 00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 3: this stepmom. 499 00:23:57,040 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 1: The stepmom going through with all of this, Jane has 500 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 1: made me understand even more. 501 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:05,639 Speaker 3: Just how much I love this woman. 502 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 1: I couldn't ask for a better partner to start a 503 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 1: family with, and I have no idea what I would 504 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 1: do without her. This didn't tear us apart, and I 505 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:17,479 Speaker 1: couldn't be more thankful. I probably won't make any more 506 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 1: updates until after the wedding, which listeners we got. We 507 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 1: got some updates unless something big happens in the meantime. 508 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,680 Speaker 1: As always, best wishes to all of you. Okay, Riley, 509 00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:30,520 Speaker 1: we've reached out of part two here. We still have 510 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 1: the wedding ahead of us. The family is completely split. 511 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 1: The mother literally the stepmother literally has a restraining order, 512 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 1: so her attending the wedding is literally against the law. 513 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,639 Speaker 3: Now, Oh how are we feeling? 514 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 4: I mean, I think I think they could turn this 515 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,360 Speaker 4: around if stepmother comes up and she's like, you know what, 516 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,199 Speaker 4: I was in the wrong. I shouldn't have you know, 517 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,480 Speaker 4: harmed Luke like this, and the dad's like, you know, 518 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,439 Speaker 4: I was being goofy. I should have listened to you 519 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:03,639 Speaker 4: guys instead of listened to her like I was in 520 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 4: the wrong. And then everybody comes together hold hands, and 521 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,719 Speaker 4: it's just this great wedding. 522 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 2: I think that could happen. There's a possibility. 523 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 3: I think it's small. 524 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 1: I like your ever optimistic, rosie rosy tinted view of 525 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:19,880 Speaker 1: the world, Riley, but I think I might be here 526 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:24,159 Speaker 1: to completely shatter all of your rose colored visions of 527 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 1: the world and happiness. 528 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:27,480 Speaker 3: And I hate it. I hate to say it, but 529 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 3: I think we're still a shot. 530 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:34,440 Speaker 1: I think, like the like, like op said, like it's 531 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:38,880 Speaker 1: a huge maybe on the dead the dad has to like, honestly, 532 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,920 Speaker 1: I mean like this, I don't I don't think this 533 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 1: is for him, a good woman to be married to 534 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 1: someone who would do that to his You know, in 535 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,879 Speaker 1: my opinion that obviously the stepmom was saying not family, 536 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 1: but basically Luke is Opie's son for all intensive purposes, right, 537 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 1: Like he is raising him as a baby, as a 538 00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 1: child up into adulthood. Like if I was in Opie's 539 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 1: father's position, I'd be like, oh, that's my grandson. 540 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:04,400 Speaker 3: M m you know what I mean. 541 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so yeah. 542 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 4: My other point is that this happened before they got married, 543 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,439 Speaker 4: because Loki, this could be like a marriage breaker, like 544 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 4: all this stuff happening, like the fact that like they 545 00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 4: go through this whole huge thing right before the marriage, 546 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 4: like yeah, yeah. 547 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 2: This is line up for a successful marriage. 548 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 1: Low ki Yeah, So like the silver lining in this 549 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 1: awful situation. Op and Jane have like a beautiful relationship 550 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 1: and it seems like they're gonna stay in it for 551 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 1: the long haul. 552 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,280 Speaker 3: So glad, glad at least Jane and OPI have each other. 553 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:40,400 Speaker 3: That's percent. 554 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:41,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 555 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:45,960 Speaker 3: But Riley, we have part three. Uh oh, let's get 556 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 3: into it. 557 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 2: Will it get worse? 558 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 3: Don't ask questions you already know the answer to. Okay, buddy, 559 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:53,199 Speaker 3: don't do that. 560 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 1: I didn't plan on updating again before the wedding, but 561 00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:00,240 Speaker 1: something pretty huge happened, as it does. The good news 562 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 1: is that we did get the restraining order. The bad 563 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:05,960 Speaker 1: news is that me and Jane both had to see 564 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 1: stepmother and my father at the court hearing. Oh my god, 565 00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 1: this was our first time seeing them since we kicked 566 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 1: them out of our house over a month ago, and 567 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: neither of us were looking forward to it. We left 568 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 1: the kids with Jane's brother and sister in law, so 569 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,280 Speaker 1: at least Luke didn't have to see them. The hearing 570 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 1: itself went a lot quicker than I expected. I'll give 571 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,520 Speaker 1: credit where it's due. My father was at the very 572 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 1: least smart enough to understand there was really no way 573 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,480 Speaker 1: that they were winning this. There was a lot of 574 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:38,640 Speaker 1: evidence against them. So maybe he's siding with the evil stepmom, 575 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:39,959 Speaker 1: but he's not a complete idiot. 576 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:40,520 Speaker 3: I don't know. 577 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 2: He was being goofy. He was being goofy. 578 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 1: Maybe that's a big that's a big goof my god. 579 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 1: Not only did we have the nannycam footage and Luke's 580 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 1: pictures and medical record, but my sister had also gathered 581 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 1: every text and email that stepmother had sent and the 582 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 1: family about what happened, the receipts, the receipts, and stepmother 583 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:09,040 Speaker 1: hates speaking on the phone, so there were a lot 584 00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 1: of those Oh boy, they didn't even bother to get 585 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 1: an attorney for the hearing. Why not just like give up? 586 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,680 Speaker 1: I don't know what that process is legally, but you're like, yeah, 587 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 1: I just give up. Bending over at that point, like yeah, 588 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 1: come on, I have to admit the moment we left 589 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 1: the courthouse was the safest I'd felt since this whole 590 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 1: ordeal started. Jane was close to tearing up with joy 591 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,480 Speaker 1: when we got to the car. We picked up the 592 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,800 Speaker 1: kids and went to McDonald's with brother in law and 593 00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 1: his family to celebrate, which low key, dude, do you 594 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 1: remember those like McDonald's runs as a kid where it 595 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: was like the celebratory McDonald's run you might as well 596 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 1: like have given each kid like ten thousand dollars as 597 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 1: an adult, Like that is the equivalent of I don't 598 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: know what it is about those. 599 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,440 Speaker 4: Like like I'd get them all the time right after 600 00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 4: like a doctor's visit or something like that, like yeah, yeah, 601 00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 4: not looking forward to this, and then it's just like 602 00:28:59,080 --> 00:28:59,800 Speaker 4: a victory lap. 603 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 3: Dude. 604 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:04,800 Speaker 1: We did it so legendary, glad glad op, and the 605 00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 1: kids had like this little you know, little of repre 606 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 1: even little like moment of joy for themselves. Hours later, 607 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: my father called me. The restraining order doesn't extend to him, 608 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,480 Speaker 1: so he can still do that. Jane and the kids 609 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:20,240 Speaker 1: were in bed, so I answered it. I didn't expect 610 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 1: him to change his mind and apologize all of a 611 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 1: sudden but decided to give him one last chance. Big Riley, 612 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 1: Big Protein with the big predictions, big P for the 613 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 1: big P. No sign for me. Yeah, Riley's nickname is 614 00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 1: big Protein. By the way, comment comment bring, I want 615 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:47,200 Speaker 1: to see three hundred comments that say big Protein, We'll 616 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 1: just skyrock steyrocket. 617 00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,720 Speaker 3: Wow. Okay, I'm let's let's see what happens. I'm very curious. 618 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 4: I love that like it took him going to court 619 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 4: with no attorney to realize the mess up he has done. 620 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, all, you know what if he really I think 621 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 1: you are right. It has to be a very very 622 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 1: hard and sharp course correction. But I do think there 623 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 1: is there is still hope here. Yeah. He tried to 624 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 1: start some awkward small talk, but I told him to 625 00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 1: get to the point. He asked me if the order 626 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 1: was truly necessary. Daddy, Daddy, No, Daddy, chill. I stated 627 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:27,120 Speaker 1: very clearly that stepmother was never coming near Jane or 628 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,880 Speaker 1: my children again, and that I was glad I had 629 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: a restraining order to formalize that every excuse he had 630 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,680 Speaker 1: for stepmother was pretty easy to shut down. 631 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,080 Speaker 3: But she only hit him once. Wow. 632 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:43,520 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, hold on, dad, Dad, Oh god, yep, that's 633 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,320 Speaker 1: enough for me. The kids need their grandma. She's not 634 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 1: their grandma, mom is. She's my wife. You need to 635 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 1: respect her, she attacked Luke. She disrespected my family in 636 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 1: my own house. I don't owe her anything, least of 637 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:59,719 Speaker 1: all my respect. Then he went on a rant about family, 638 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 1: how much of a god sends stepmother was, and everything 639 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 1: she'd done for me and my sister since she came 640 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 1: into our lives. I replied by listing every time I 641 00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: could remember about her lying, overstepping a boundary, or acting 642 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:18,320 Speaker 1: unhinged around me, my family, or my sister. I brought 643 00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:22,120 Speaker 1: up both my adult life and youth. Examples included her 644 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:26,760 Speaker 1: attempts to hijack most of our milestones, recently our wedding plans, 645 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 1: our son's birth, Jane's baby shower, and my sister's gratulation. 646 00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 3: Ah, jeez, she's evil. 647 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 1: She is an evil stepmother, Like this is a Disney 648 00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 1: plot line. 649 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 3: It's not, but you get what I'm saying, Yea. 650 00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,479 Speaker 1: And her the obsession with an idea of the perfect family, 651 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 1: and her disgusting attitude towards Luke. I also made sure 652 00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 1: to mention her habits of going through mine and my 653 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 1: sister's stuff when we were younger. It's trivial compared to 654 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 1: everything else. But this behavior went on until my sister 655 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,200 Speaker 1: moved out of their house only three months ago. We're 656 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 1: pretty sure she found out Jane's wedding dress appointments by 657 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:11,080 Speaker 1: reading my sister's planner private planner while she wasn't home. 658 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 3: For example, she. 659 00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 1: Sucks like it's so clear, it's so evident. Some of 660 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 1: the memories I mentioned are long and hard to explain, 661 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 1: but they did cement the fact that stepmother means nothing 662 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 1: to me. He tried to go on the whole she 663 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 1: doesn't feel included excuse again, but I shut him up. 664 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: I said he'd had the opportunity to protect his grandchildren 665 00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 1: but had chosen his monster of a wife instead, and 666 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:40,360 Speaker 1: that's enough for me to want nothing to do with him. 667 00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:43,960 Speaker 1: I hung up without saying goodbye. 668 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 2: Okay, maybe he doesn't realize the goof up. 669 00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 3: He's made, No, not at all. Yeah, I mean. 670 00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:53,320 Speaker 1: I think he's like I think I feel like what's 671 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 1: happening here? And you know, I'm very curious for anyone 672 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 1: in the comments, maybe that's been through a similar situation. 673 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,560 Speaker 1: Very curious on your thoughts. But I feel like what's 674 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:03,840 Speaker 1: happening here is that the dad you know still wants 675 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 1: the sun in his life, but is not willing at 676 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 1: all to compromise, and not even compromise but really just 677 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,480 Speaker 1: see the reason when it comes to his when it 678 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 1: comes to his wife, Like again, it's like, yeah, how 679 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:20,440 Speaker 1: could you ever defend any of that? And the stepdad 680 00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 1: basically allowed all of those things to have all of 681 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 1: the things op mentioning, hijacking his his daughter's graduation, hijacking 682 00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 1: his future daughter in law's baby shower, like like mountains 683 00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 1: and mountains of evidence, like. 684 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, and you don't like lead with on the phone call. 685 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 2: Oh she only hit him once, Like you don't. 686 00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:44,080 Speaker 1: You don't leave that just it's just shows you how 687 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 1: like he's like yeah, like yeah, he wants the sun 688 00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:50,960 Speaker 1: in his life, but like his his his view is 689 00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:54,480 Speaker 1: still completely off wrong and in favor of the stepmom. 690 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 3: It's it just is what it is. 691 00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 1: My sister told me that he called her afterwards and 692 00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 1: she told him she was going to go no contact 693 00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:07,800 Speaker 1: with him as well, losing both of his kids, says faithfully. One, God, damn, 694 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: that's a that's a boco deel. You don't want Okay, 695 00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:14,160 Speaker 1: I think we're both starting to accept our father won't change. 696 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,319 Speaker 1: It sucks, but he's made his priorities clear and his 697 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:19,799 Speaker 1: children and grandkids aren't among them. 698 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,359 Speaker 3: Correct For now, that's it. 699 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,920 Speaker 1: Now that they're fresh in my mind, I'm thinking about 700 00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 1: sharing some of the stories I reminded my father of, 701 00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,720 Speaker 1: but that's going to take a while until then, As always, 702 00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:33,560 Speaker 1: best wishes to all of you. 703 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 2: God. 704 00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 3: Okay, let's do this. Part four