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Speaker 1: kiss my head. Um no, I just kind of try

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Speaker 1: It's been good. Um, have you recovered from your boat trip?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I got some comments on my Instagram from

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Speaker 1: was like, well, technically I'm on a jet ski, but

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Speaker 1: which is really nice. Like when you're doing a livestream,

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Speaker 1: that I thought it would affect me if she did

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00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 1: right back didn't right back, if you know, like I

428
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,359
Speaker 1: really had to be like what is true for me

429
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 1: and also didn't want to just be like, oh I

430
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 1: wish you'd love and happiness and blah blah blah if

431
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,160
Speaker 1: I didn't mean it like I wanted to actually mean it.

432
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:17,399
Speaker 1: I feel like you also sent a clear message like

433
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:21,439
Speaker 1: end of conversation. Yeah, it wasn't like asking any kind

434
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,359
Speaker 1: of nipted in the bud, which is great because it

435
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:25,919
Speaker 1: was like she sent you some positivity. You sent her

436
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:29,920
Speaker 1: some positivity, and now it's move forward and be adults

437
00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:33,680
Speaker 1: and whatnot. So hopefully there's not some reality TV show

438
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,639
Speaker 1: I don't know about happening, but I guess we'll all see.

439
00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:42,160
Speaker 1: Guess we'll all see. I'll report back on that. Okay. Anyway,

440
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 1: what's yours, chick? What did I learn? So? I mean,

441
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,960
Speaker 1: I mean, as you were talking, I kind of was like, oh, ship,

442
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 1: I have to answer that. Um, this is a random one.

443
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 1: But I don't know if you watched it yet. Um.

444
00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:59,479
Speaker 1: There's a new documentary on Hulu called Kid ninety and Um.

445
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 1: It was directed and produced by Sille Moon Fry and

446
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,199
Speaker 1: For those of you don't know Whoman Fry is. She

447
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,640
Speaker 1: was a child star at five of a show called

448
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 1: Punkey Brewster and um, she just made a documentary of

449
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:16,399
Speaker 1: that is basically self shot. So after Punky Brewster, she

450
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:20,119
Speaker 1: bought a video camera and started recording everything. She always

451
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:23,359
Speaker 1: had it with her with her friends on set. When

452
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 1: she she ended up going to n y U Like,

453
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:29,919
Speaker 1: she filmed everything. She saved every voicemails she got, she

454
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 1: saved every journal Shiver and she locked it all in

455
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 1: a vault. That's amazing. She went back through and got

456
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:40,399
Speaker 1: to relive her childhood by watching it. And there's a

457
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 1: lot of her friends have committed suicide. I mean, she

458
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,880
Speaker 1: was like all child stars. It seems like every child

459
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,399
Speaker 1: star was. They were friends because there was there was

460
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 1: a community. And she interviewed and they're all in Like

461
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:54,679
Speaker 1: the ones who are still alive that she's close with

462
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 1: are in this too. She interviews them today and um,

463
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:02,400
Speaker 1: so like there's this amazing thing. She writes a letter.

464
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 1: She wrote a letter to herself that comes at the

465
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 1: end of the film. Um, and you know, I was

466
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,879
Speaker 1: like bawling watching it towards the end because it just

467
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:16,200
Speaker 1: makes you feel so like nostalgic for what was. And

468
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 1: you know, when you're a kid and you're growing up,

469
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: like you don't have anything to reflect back on, like

470
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:26,120
Speaker 1: you are just living and now like as an adult,

471
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: you um, all the bullshit that you've like putting your

472
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:34,400
Speaker 1: suitcase and dragged along with you, like is there with

473
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:38,439
Speaker 1: you today and we have to work through it. But

474
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:41,159
Speaker 1: like for her to be able to sort of like

475
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 1: look back and be like all of these things that

476
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 1: I thought were problems, Like you know, I was surrounded

477
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 1: by people who loved me that I loved like and

478
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:57,159
Speaker 1: to like survive that and like be an adult living

479
00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: in your own like sort of being UM to be

480
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,439
Speaker 1: able to sort of just reflect and like be like

481
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: we're all You're gonna be okay. And I think that like,

482
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: you know, we all have our insecurities. We have are

483
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:12,439
Speaker 1: things that we don't like about ourselves. You know, we

484
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:15,919
Speaker 1: think we've got these like burdens that happened to us

485
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: long ago, but like we survived them. And I think

486
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 1: that's something that's really important to um just reflect on,

487
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,120
Speaker 1: like every day is a new day that you get

488
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:29,679
Speaker 1: to be alive and be here and um and just

489
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 1: to appreciate the people that are around you because you

490
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: don't you never know, like, um, I mean ship, I

491
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 1: didn't know this, but like Andrew Dorf. She she and

492
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 1: Andrew Dorf for like friends in college. Yeah, so there's

493
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 1: like random things that like, I mean, she and Stephen Dorf.

494
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:47,679
Speaker 1: So there may have been an existing relationship because Stephen

495
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 1: Dorf and her were friends in l A. So and

496
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: Andrew may have they may have known each other. It's

497
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,679
Speaker 1: not perfectly clear like where people, but it's like celebrity

498
00:25:56,720 --> 00:26:00,119
Speaker 1: after celebrity after celebrity, Like it was crazy, and I

499
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:05,120
Speaker 1: mean she had a she lived like man Like I'm

500
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 1: a little jealous of her life because there was something

501
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: about her that was so incredibly curious and the biggest

502
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 1: thing she ever did was Punky Brewster, so she had

503
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: to deal with like the calm down and um of

504
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 1: all of that, you know, and it's then you're she

505
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: was a fucking teenager and they were smoking weed and

506
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 1: drinking beer and doing other drugs and um and dealing

507
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: with like real life adult ship that like we didn't

508
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: have to but I don't know. It's like it's I

509
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 1: highly highly recommend it and it's not really necessarily something

510
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 1: that I learned. But I think it's like we have

511
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 1: to just like sort of accept our lives are our

512
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 1: lives and take every lesson that we can get from

513
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 1: them and just appreciate every day that we have. I

514
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 1: love the idea though, or the reminder that you just

515
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 1: said about that you went through that, but you survived it,

516
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 1: because sometimes I like, I'll beat myself up sometimes to

517
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: you have like why am I not further than I was?

518
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: And then I like look at what was going on

519
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 1: in my life when maybe there was like a hold

520
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,919
Speaker 1: up and I'm like, well, no, wonder that was like

521
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 1: a super traumatizing event and I worked through it and

522
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: I became a better person and it got me to

523
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: this next level. And it's just like I think looking

524
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: back and giving yourself that grace and just appreciation and

525
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 1: then and knowing too that whatever it is you're going through,

526
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 1: like this too shall pass and you will survive. Well,

527
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,680
Speaker 1: I mean, and it works both ways too, because like

528
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:30,360
Speaker 1: the most fun thing that you've ever it's not you're

529
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: going to reach a point where it's not you're not

530
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 1: having fun anymore. Right, So it's like if we lived

531
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: our lives thinking that like we would die of depression

532
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 1: immediately because there's no way to sustain what adultsing can

533
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 1: be kind of dark if you don't think about the

534
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:45,919
Speaker 1: fun stuff too. So anyway, that's a good one. That's

535
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 1: a good one. Okay, What advice would you like to

536
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:53,120
Speaker 1: ask a happy and successful eighty five year old? Oh? God, wait,

537
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: will you repeat the question? What advice would you like

538
00:27:56,200 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 1: to ask a happy and successful eighty five year old? Um? Wow?

539
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 1: I think I would like to ask, um, how how? Like?

540
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: What do they do to stay young? I like that,

541
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 1: you know, how how how do you stay young? Yeah?

542
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 1: Mine would be what gives you the most peace? Or

543
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: how did you find your peace? That's a good one too,

544
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: because I have so much anxiety. Yeah, I mean I

545
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 1: would imagine and I'm not eight five, but age piece

546
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: probably comes with age, right, but there's probably an anxiety,

547
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 1: Like it depends on how much you want to live forever.

548
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: But I feel like peace age would bring peace. The

549
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 1: thing that I've consistently here from people who are older

550
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: and more experienced and have peace is it's about fully

551
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: accepting yourself as who for who you are, and knowing

552
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 1: that you're worthy of love for just waking up, like

553
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 1: you don't have to work for it. You don't have

554
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: to do anything. Just you as a being is worthy

555
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: of being loved and giving yourself that love every day.

556
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 1: So it's all about the self love. Still working on that.

557
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: What you got, Well, this one's a little negative. Maybe

558
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: what three things do you dislike in a most in

559
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 1: a person? Lying? Um, manipulation um oh oh oh uh,

560
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: like selfishness or like constantly only thinking about things from

561
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 1: your angle and not open, like lack of empathy, like

562
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: not being able to go. Oh I could see it

563
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: from that perspective. Maybe, like just the inability to see

564
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: outside of yourself. Yeah, you you, that's kind of you

565
00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: touched onto the mind like lying as one. Indecisiveness is

566
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 1: something that's really attractive because to me, it kind of

567
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 1: like if you just can't ever make up your mind.

568
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: It says that you don't know who you are, and

569
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 1: that's find that really unattractive. Um and um be selfishness

570
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 1: like yes, I think that, Like there's so many forms

571
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 1: of it, you know, like it looks yeah, there are

572
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 1: so many forms of it. Um. Okay, if you had

573
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: one year to live, what would you do differently? I would?

574
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 1: I would if I had one year left to live.

575
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 1: I think that I would say everything to people exactly

576
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 1: the way that I want to say. I wouldn't hold

577
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 1: anything back and mostly in kindness, you know. I I

578
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 1: I love a rom com and I feel like in

579
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,719
Speaker 1: my mom, I love that statement. It's in my mind

580
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: like I want my life to be like a rom

581
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 1: com where it's like you have those difficult conversations and

582
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 1: you say those really lovely things and like you complete me. Yeah,

583
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 1: like just I mean, I can't think of an example,

584
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 1: but like there's often there's plenty of things that I

585
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: would probably love to say to my mom, and then

586
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 1: I get around and I'm like, oh god, that's gonna

587
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 1: come off so cheesy, and I just don't. Oh yeah,

588
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: I say those things. Those things mean so much to people.

589
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 1: I've never said anything to someone that they're like, that

590
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 1: was really cheesy. If it's authentic, I think people just

591
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: read authenticity, right. Yeah. So I think that like maybe

592
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: the better way to phrase it is I would find

593
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 1: the bravery to say those things without worrying if about

594
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: it saying sounding cheesy or whatever. Yeah, I would not

595
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 1: do anything I didn't want to do. I would work less,

596
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 1: and I would travel to just be like to just

597
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 1: go find I don't know if I'm looking for myself

598
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 1: or like peace or happiness, but just see all that

599
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 1: I could see and not get so tied down and like,

600
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 1: oh I gotta do this today to get you know,

601
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: like none of that would matter. It just doesn't matter.

602
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 1: It does not matter. I probably sell my house and

603
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: just like go live. I like that. Okay, when you retire,

604
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: how do you want to spend your time? Oh? I

605
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: just did too in a row. Um, I definitely want

606
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: to be by the water like I want to be.

607
00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 1: I wanted to feel care I want to have a

608
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 1: care free life. Um. And I don't like I don't

609
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: need to have a really nice house, Like I just

610
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: need someone with running water and electricity and that's all

611
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 1: I really care about. I want to be surrounded by, um,

612
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 1: people I love. And that might not be my family

613
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 1: that's here now, it might not be the friends that

614
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 1: I have now, but like I could see myself like

615
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:02,479
Speaker 1: living at the harbor and somewhere in the Bahamas and

616
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 1: like being a local, yeah, and just being around like

617
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: the people at the bar that I love or whatever,

618
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 1: you know, Like, yeah, I just feel like it needs

619
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 1: to have sand and water. I love that idea too.

620
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: I my parents are actually going to do this because

621
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: they're retiring this or my dad already retired, but my

622
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 1: mom is retiring this year and so and she's kind

623
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: of like, I just I don't know what the next

624
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 1: thing is, but I gotta do something like and I

625
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: do think that's important is to have like a purpose

626
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 1: every day. So I would find something simple that gave

627
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: me joy that's not necessarily like to go make money,

628
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: but that filled my heart and my soul. And for me,

629
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 1: that always involves connecting with people. So whatever that would be,

630
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: like if it was volunteering somewhere or like helping the

631
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: bingo night at the home that I live in, or whatever,

632
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: it is, like something that connects me with people. It's

633
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: positive that brings me joy that we have fun doing,

634
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 1: and by water would be awesome too. I just tried

635
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: to picture you living in my home. You know, I'd

636
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 1: be like getting onto the cheaters and they'd be like, listen, lady, um,

637
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 1: what's your favorite line from a movie? I don't have one.

638
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 1: I like, it's so funny. I'm so bad at lines

639
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 1: for movie. I just said one though, you completely actually

640
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 1: hate that line though. Um, but I my boyfriend will

641
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: constantly do movie quotes like he's so good at remembering

642
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,040
Speaker 1: them for some reason, and I can't. He'll he'll be

643
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 1: like remember that, and I'm like what. And it could

644
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 1: be from one of my favorite movies, and I just

645
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 1: can't remember lines Like I don't know, maybe this is

646
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: part of my memory issue, but I literally could not,

647
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:45,919
Speaker 1: for the life of me remember that. There was a

648
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: scene in Sex in the City. This is a show,

649
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 1: not the movie, but she's she um is talking to

650
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 1: the Russian that she was dating and they're about to

651
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 1: break up, and she was just like, I'm just done

652
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 1: because he was so you know, self involved, and and

653
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: she was basically feeling neglected essentially, and it wasn't like

654
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 1: he was a bad person to her, but they got

655
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 1: in this argument and she's just like, I just this

656
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 1: isn't for me, Like I want love, real, inconvenient, something else.

657
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 1: So you can't remember the line, But though I loved

658
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: the word inconvenient, because love and people can so often

659
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: like a human emotion to me, like, if you're trying

660
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,759
Speaker 1: to live life on a schedule, there's no time for

661
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,840
Speaker 1: humanity or human emotion or feelings and all that stuff,

662
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 1: and I feel like what I want in my life

663
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,399
Speaker 1: and how I try to live my life is that

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00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 1: humans are the most important part of my life in

665
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 1: connection and the people and le relationships. And so even

666
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,759
Speaker 1: if I'm exhausted because I've had a super long work

667
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,799
Speaker 1: day or whatever it is, I'm gonna try to pour

668
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 1: all of that back into whatever it is they need.

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00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: Even if I'm in a good mood and I come

670
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:55,839
Speaker 1: home and everyone's in a ship mood, like, I'm gonna

671
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 1: try to help out and the way I can, you know,

672
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: and that's not convenient, But if you love people, I

673
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 1: think that's how you live. And so I just love

674
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,479
Speaker 1: that one and maybe one day I'll remember the full things.

675
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Speaker 1: What was that who played that? He was a Russian dancers? Yeah? Bishno,

676
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:19,799
Speaker 1: right mine? Um. I struggle with movie quotes too. Um.

677
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 1: I mean, there are a couple of movies that I

678
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 1: could like nearly recite from part to finish, but they're

679
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 1: like The Nutty Professor and Friday that's hious. But I

680
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 1: love this line from Steel Magnolia's Of course. It was

681
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 1: Darryll Hannah's character. I think her name was Arnell. I

682
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:40,919
Speaker 1: could be wrong. Um, but she says, Um, she's trying

683
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: to get a job at the hair salon. She says,

684
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 1: Mr trivious, hair salon. She says, I may or may

685
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 1: not be married to someone who may or may not

686
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,720
Speaker 1: be a dangerous criminal. But I swear to you, miss Trivia,

687
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 1: that my personal tragedy will have nothing to do with

688
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: my ability to do good. Hey up, I killed me.

689
00:36:56,760 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 1: It's like sums up the whole movie, you know, completely

690
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:05,319
Speaker 1: whole vibe of the movie do good. I'm gonna say

691
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 1: that every time I get to set. Who's married to

692
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 1: Darryl Hannah? Right now? What's his name? He was aiden On? Um,

693
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 1: Mr Big Aiden one sex in the city, John. I

694
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: know everyone listening is like yelling at their radio right now.

695
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I feel like it's somebody different. It's

696
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 1: married to Darryl Hammon. Maybe I'm getting confused. I don't know.

697
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:34,839
Speaker 1: Good thing we digress. Um, okay, so I've got one

698
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 1: last one. Okay, while I also got so much more

699
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 1: serious than I anticipated. Um, this is funny. Um, we'll

700
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 1: come back to Daryl Hannah. Um. Oh, she's married to

701
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:54,280
Speaker 1: Neil Young. Sorry I knew it was something like shocking. Um,

702
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: what's your favorite memory of someone in the room. I'm

703
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: my favorite one. My favorite memory of Chip is we

704
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: were down at thirty A at a friend's beach house

705
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 1: and you have been drinking Cores Light all day, like

706
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: it was one of those days. I think you had

707
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: gotten there late or something, and so you were like

708
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 1: ready to party and you've just been sipping on Core's

709
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 1: light all day. And then you got in the water

710
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 1: and you were doing these figure skating moves. Do you

711
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 1: remember this? And when you were I think I think

712
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 1: the daughter of our friend had challenged you to be

713
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:29,879
Speaker 1: a mermaid in the water, and so you got really

714
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 1: inspired and you were like twisting around and twirling. Every

715
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 1: time a wave would hit you, you would do a

716
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 1: twirl and I've never seen your hair tossed that much,

717
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: or you'd just like be so you you'd never laughed.

718
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,760
Speaker 1: You were completely in character of a mermaid figure skater.

719
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 1: And I was like peeing in the ocean every five seconds.

720
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:53,399
Speaker 1: Because there names, I can't even remember it, so I'm

721
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 1: as out a million lights. It was that kind of day. Um,

722
00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 1: Now I gotta think of one for you. Well, there

723
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: is the one where you like did the air guitar

724
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:07,919
Speaker 1: and like dropped to your death on New Year's um

725
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 1: that was pretty funny. That was this year. But I

726
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 1: also have this video that I stummed across the other day.

727
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 1: I remember like how we got on the topic. But

728
00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 1: when you fake arsenic somebody on the drink and I

729
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 1: was like, and then she walks to the drink, she

730
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 1: poisons him and she walks out, and like I kind

731
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:26,320
Speaker 1: of love that video. Yeah, like you like there was

732
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,839
Speaker 1: a drink on the table. I was commenting, like, and

733
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 1: then you acted it out. And I watched it the

734
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 1: other night and I was like, you like fake roofs.

735
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 1: But I think we were talking about like poisoning somebody

736
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 1: in far Please please send me this suck and post it. Yeah,

737
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 1: we were at Mh's house. Oh my god. All of

738
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: our of our favorite movies involve a lot of alcohol.

739
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:52,920
Speaker 1: Always do, always do. Oh my god. Okay, well that

740
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 1: was fun. Next time, maybe we should prove him and

741
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,560
Speaker 1: like trying to be funnier. Well you know, yeah that

742
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 1: is I mean we did say some edgy things. How

743
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 1: do I do with my like reveal of my text thing?

744
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,760
Speaker 1: I get nervous every time I talk about it publicly.

745
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 1: But I'm just trying to be honest year and you're

746
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: just kind of normalize it by talking about it. So

747
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:13,919
Speaker 1: that's true. I do need to hold it all in

748
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: and we can both continue love and light, happiness and

749
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 1: peace truly, am Okay, we'll see that change. That's like

750
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 1: the whole kind of like the way you were like

751
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:29,359
Speaker 1: love and life. I was making for you myself for that,

752
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: but I really did love and good. Okay, let's move on.

753
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 1: I want to do a couple of listener emails. Um.

754
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 1: This one I just want to read because it was

755
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:42,440
Speaker 1: really sweet. Uh. This one's from Sophie May Austin and

756
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: she says, Hey, Kelly and Chip love listening to you guys.

757
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 1: I'm from England, from a town called Leamington, SPA. You

758
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 1: guys literally like make me laugh so much. Here's my

759
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 1: story and thirty. I was in a relationship for seven

760
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 1: years from the age of twenty one. I got married

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00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 1: at twenty nine and we separated five months later. The

762
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 1: seven year inch if she means five years later, I

763
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, the seven year itch is real and

764
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 1: I should have listened and people said, you're not who

765
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:10,439
Speaker 1: you are until you're thirty, because I changed a lot

766
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 1: and grew up as a person in that time, just

767
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:14,720
Speaker 1: not with my husband. We had the big white wedding

768
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: and I got a gut anxious feeling all through planning,

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00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 1: which I thought were just wedding jitters. It's made me

770
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 1: realize too how much of a people pleaser I was,

771
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 1: and that I was doing what I thought I should

772
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 1: be doing at the time. Now I know it was

773
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 1: my body telling me it wasn't the right decision. I

774
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:31,760
Speaker 1: wish I hadn't gone through with at all. The catalyst

775
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: for the split in the end was the period was

776
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 1: a period of me feeling really low and autumn just

777
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 1: after the wedding, I just lost interest in working out.

778
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:43,399
Speaker 1: I came off social media. I now think looking back,

779
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 1: I just had a period of brief depression and didn't

780
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 1: realize it from it for that as I'm quite private

781
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:53,240
Speaker 1: with feeling low, as I'm such an outgoing person Normally,

782
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,280
Speaker 1: I went to my husband as I was so upset

783
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: and just wanted reassurance. He was just not there for

784
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:00,080
Speaker 1: me and disregarded me for being low, saying to it

785
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: on with it. He doesn't believe in depression or anything

786
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 1: of the sort. However, when it was me who was

787
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 1: feeling this way. I decided I had enough and I

788
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 1: needed someone who would be there for me through anything

789
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: the way that I would be for them. What if

790
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 1: I had children and really need an emotional support in

791
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 1: the future. It had been a year of crazy with

792
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 1: the pandemic, but adding a divorce and leaving my home

793
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:21,840
Speaker 1: and now sympathetic looks you get from people when you

794
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 1: say things, when you say things didn't work out, not ideal.

795
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: But I'm starting to look at it that fifty percent

796
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: of marriages and in divorce and I'm still thirty and

797
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 1: young enough to find someone who matches who I really

798
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 1: needed my life. Bring on the future. It's also taught

799
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 1: me that what may feel like your horrific time in

800
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 1: your life quickly turns into old news and then someone

801
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 1: else's divorce life events people are talking about and don't care.

802
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 1: Thank God, I don't have children involved in all of this,

803
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: and when hopefully I do, it will be with the

804
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 1: right man. Your podcast have gotten me through. Thanks guys,

805
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 1: I love that, and also I fully want to just

806
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 1: say we support you. So if you finding your happiness

807
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 1: and you are so young, oh my god, I mean

808
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 1: I can't imagine being married. I mean, I'm not right now,

809
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 1: I'm forty five, but like if I would have been

810
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 1: a ship show, so um, and it sounds like he

811
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:20,720
Speaker 1: didn't deserve her so um. But she's right, it's um,

812
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: you know, tomorrow's tomorrow. And I think the people that

813
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 1: are in your life who love you, like, they don't

814
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:30,040
Speaker 1: care if you're married, divorced, whatever. What they care about

815
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:33,399
Speaker 1: is that you're happy. And um, you know I have

816
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 1: I have a friend that just finalized a divorce and

817
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 1: it was really really hard for her. But like you know,

818
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:43,879
Speaker 1: being in the like passenger seat and watching it happen,

819
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:47,280
Speaker 1: I'm just like, he doesn't deserve you. Like, go find

820
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 1: somebody that is going to love you. He'll give you

821
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 1: all the things that your ex gave you and the

822
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 1: things that he didn't. Yeah, and to be able to

823
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,919
Speaker 1: be your authentic self even when that's not like happy enough,

824
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 1: be like nobody can be that way all the time,

825
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 1: or you're not being real. So anyway, I hope sending

826
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 1: you love and light, but I really am love and light. Go.

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00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: If I didn't enunciate the teeth, then it's different, uh No,

828
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 1: but I really really am. I'm sending it to all

829
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 1: the people I say it too, so anyway, Okay, this

830
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:23,319
Speaker 1: is from Lindsay, who says, Hi, Kelly and Chip, first

831
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,439
Speaker 1: of all, love the pod. You're a pleasure to listen

832
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: to while I get ready for work on Friday mornings.

833
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 1: You guys seem to give such good advice. So I'm

834
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 1: writing because I don't have a therapist. Lindsey, I don't know.

835
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:37,640
Speaker 1: Take it with a grand sol a, Lindsay. Um, I

836
00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:40,239
Speaker 1: just turned thirty nine a few days ago and I'm

837
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: still single, no kids, and just got out of a

838
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 1: relationship where the breaking point was he didn't want any

839
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:48,320
Speaker 1: more kids. He's divorced and has two young boys, seven

840
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 1: and five. He also is five years older than me.

841
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 1: For the past two or three years, I have been

842
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 1: in this anxious, fearful state that keeps me up at night.

843
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: The sadness of not having my own kids is incessantly

844
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 1: on my mind. It's the first thing I think of

845
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 1: in the morning and the last thing I think about

846
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 1: before I go to bed. I got really down on

847
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,760
Speaker 1: myself for not prioritizing something that is so important throughout

848
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: my life. In addition to being hard on myself, people

849
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:14,240
Speaker 1: also say dumb shit about my age relative to having children,

850
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 1: you know, family, friends, the taxi driver, the guy at

851
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: the rental counter. I deal with this to bullshit, like

852
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: mind your own business. It blows my mind that that

853
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 1: the things that people feel the need to say about

854
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 1: something so personal to someone. Anyway, my question is, how

855
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: can I do a better job of acting casual when

856
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:34,400
Speaker 1: people stay stupid things related to my biological clock. Hate

857
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 1: this phrase, By the way, it's so hard not to

858
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 1: launch across the table when someone says something stupid. Um,

859
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:44,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's like, you don't want to

860
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 1: be the one who looks stupid. What do you mean, Oh,

861
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 1: you're saying I want to react? Um, I mean it's

862
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: I literally, a woman could have a baby crowning and

863
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 1: I would never acknowledge that she's pregnant. You know. It's

864
00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:01,799
Speaker 1: like there's just like certain things it like you have

865
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 1: to like unless she told me I'm having a baby,

866
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 1: you know, like, um, some people are just stupid, you know,

867
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 1: Like that's what I chalked things up to. It's like,

868
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:15,799
Speaker 1: but I also, I mean, for example, I sent my

869
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: sister at text yesterday which I thought was very kind

870
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 1: and at a very kind and generous offer, and she

871
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 1: wrote back like nope, not gonna happen, blah blah blah,

872
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 1: and like to where I called my mom and I

873
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 1: was like, this was rude, Like no, like thank you

874
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:33,839
Speaker 1: for the generous offer, but I don't think that's gonna work,

875
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 1: you know, And I just like did not respond. And

876
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 1: then five hours later I got a text that was

877
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: like and I don't think my mom intervened. She was

878
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 1: like sorry if that came off harsh, and like, so

879
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:46,720
Speaker 1: I like let her sit with her thoughts for a second.

880
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 1: And I think that sometimes it's like best just to

881
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: like let things because if you don't react, I mean, granted,

882
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: the person at the rental car counter is not going

883
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: to think about you, but if it's something actually cares

884
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:02,360
Speaker 1: about you and loves you, like they might think, like

885
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:05,959
Speaker 1: that's interesting. They didn't respond to that. Or my mom

886
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 1: always answer it, Hey, d that's my dad's friend's name, Rhonda.

887
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: My mom calls her your here comes your girlfriend. She

888
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: likes to come up after she does disc golf and

889
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,840
Speaker 1: drink some beers. Wow, this is quite the tangent anyway,

890
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:28,320
Speaker 1: um disc So you're just saying just stay quiet, yeah,

891
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:32,760
Speaker 1: because like, what's that fight gonna do? Right? Well, I, Um,

892
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:35,239
Speaker 1: actually I think my mom actually taught me this. But

893
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:38,359
Speaker 1: when someone like kind of impedes on your life and gives,

894
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:40,799
Speaker 1: you know, advice or information or says something like a

895
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 1: statement that you didn't ask for it all, she always says.

896
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:47,799
Speaker 1: She just turns and goes, thanks for sharing. You know,

897
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 1: maybe it was I don't remember who was a mentor

898
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 1: or my mom somebody. Yeah, they just look at them

899
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:54,799
Speaker 1: like so if there's if the taxi driver is like

900
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 1: you know, you really should start thinking about that, you

901
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,040
Speaker 1: can just look at him and go, thanks for sharing,

902
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 1: and then they all stupid, but like you're also not

903
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:05,320
Speaker 1: being a bit You're just like thanks for sharing like that. Yeah,

904
00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: so there you go. And clearly these people are like

905
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,919
Speaker 1: not very self aware anyway, so they might actually think

906
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:14,279
Speaker 1: that you're just saying well, and it's so this is

907
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:16,280
Speaker 1: what's so stupid. It's like, do you think we didn't

908
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 1: think about that? Like hello, everyone knows and it's like

909
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: you adding the pressure does not help my story, so

910
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:28,880
Speaker 1: like thanks and all, but like, yeah, thanks for sharing,

911
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 1: cool story, bro, got it anyway? With that? With that, um,

912
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, the more even thinking about

913
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: this like sign off thing that we do I really

914
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:43,440
Speaker 1: feel like you need to have like your lowest voice

915
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 1: and discuss sound like you burped that I was trying

916
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 1: to get us. See that was better. Yeah, we'll be

917
00:48:55,120 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 1: back next week with more the more to the edge,

918
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 1: more of next thing, with more of the edge. Okay,

919
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: so would my part be? I mean, I feel like

920
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 1: we need to like I love that we're just working

921
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 1: this out publicly. I feel like you got to be

922
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:18,839
Speaker 1: your help though. When you're not in the velvet, you're

923
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: the edge or something like that. We need to play.

924
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 1: Everyone was a little bit of velvet and and some

925
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:30,400
Speaker 1: of us happy. Edge sounds like you have like a

926
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:36,320
Speaker 1: tampon shoved up your asshole. You're like consturbated. That sounds

927
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 1: like my mom. Everyone has a little velvet and some

928
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 1: people are constivated. Some people have problem. Oh my gosh,

929
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 1: you know what I think I am going to do?

930
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:50,439
Speaker 1: Come have a drink? Yes, okay, anyway, we you know, guys,

931
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 1: we'll be back next week with more of the edge.

932
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:58,280
Speaker 1: We'll be back next week with more of the edge.

933
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 1: That's terrible living on the bed. Leave it on the bed.

934
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 1: You send us some ideas, Jesus help us out. Okay,

935
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Speaker 1: we gotta go bye bye M.