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Speaker 1: Okay, guys, here are my dates for the High and

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Speaker 1: Mighty Tour. In June, I will be in Portland, Oregon, Seattle,

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Speaker 1: and then Hyannas, Massachusetts, and then two shows in Nantucket.

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Speaker 1: In August you can find me in Red Bank, New Jersey, Montclair,

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Speaker 1: New Jersey, and Calgary that's Canada. And September I will

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Speaker 1: be in Santa Barbara, San Diego, New York City, Philly,

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Speaker 1: and New Haven, Connecticut. October is Atlanta, Baltimore, Saginaw, Michigan, Pittsburgh, Toronto, Boise, Idaho,

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Speaker 1: and Spokane. And then in November I'll be in San Francisco.

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Speaker 1: I'm coming to Salt Lake City, Austin, Houston, Dallas Babies,

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Speaker 1: I'll be there. And then in December I am closing

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Speaker 1: out my tour in Denver and Vancouver. So get your

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Speaker 1: tickets at Chelseahandler dot com for the High and Mighty Tour.

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Speaker 1: Hi Catherine, Hi Chelsea. Hello. I excuse my stuffiness. I

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Speaker 1: sound like I have post nasal drip, which is what

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Speaker 2: Damn I have happens? Yes, are you getting us our

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Speaker 2: throat from it? That always does that time?

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Speaker 1: No covering from something else I've had ongoing issues all year.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what my problem is, but I uh

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Speaker 1: now it's post nasal drip. So I sat last night,

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Speaker 1: I got my eyebrows tattooed on.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh so that was like a.

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Speaker 1: Three hour excursion, and thank you. I yeah, I hopefully

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Speaker 1: this will save me lots of time.

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Speaker 3: And I feel like the best thing you can say

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Speaker 2: You got your eyebrows tattooed on. Yes, Like that's kind

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Speaker 1: I think they just filled in the hot spots, yeah,

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Speaker 1: But as I was lying there, she identified my post

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Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, she said, it's you're my first tattoo. I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the micro needling or micro no micro blading. My

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Speaker 3: I think so because I always see all these girls

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Speaker 1: Is it about the mayoral race in LA Thank god,

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Speaker 3: Right because you can't win right, Like you can't side

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Speaker 3: But I think she's like actually somebody who's in it

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Speaker 1: Like that can't be the biggest problem in this city.

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Speaker 1: The dogs on skid row. Yes, that's terrible. We all

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Speaker 1: And we have a very exciting guest today. You know

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Speaker 1: her from SNL and just like that and the Scary

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Speaker 1: her in Celebrity Autobiography in New York City from June

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Speaker 1: twenty ninth through July sixth. Please welcome Cherio Terry. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is great. We have Cherio Terry is in the

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Speaker 1: because we're on a podcast, and that's what you do.

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Speaker 6: Listen, your podcast is popular, and it's kind of like

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Speaker 6: you don't want to say anything that's going to.

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Speaker 1: To get blown up and used as a headline. That's

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Speaker 1: because I'm the only one that gets in trouble constantly

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Speaker 1: admire your bulls, thank you so much, like my laby Is,

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Speaker 1: Menora and Majora. Please include all of them. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: don't discriminate. Well, I appreciate you saying that, but I'm

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Speaker 1: a huge admirer of yours. I think you are one

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Speaker 1: Terry fixed? I mean, you on that show is just

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Speaker 6: You know, I'm not lazy, but yeah, I mean anybody

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Speaker 7: I don't need a companion.

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Speaker 7: It was easy?

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Speaker 7: You want to be attracted.

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Speaker 6: You want to love their personality and they, you know,

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Speaker 7: Cedar plank salmon?

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Speaker 7: In my York.

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Speaker 6: I know you.

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Speaker 1: I've heard.

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Speaker 6: Well, it's like you're auditioning every week to get a

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Speaker 7: Missu? Terry?

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Speaker 6: What would you like in your eggs? I'm like, what's

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Speaker 7: You're in a ten out of three? You're you know

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Speaker 6: have to say, like I it was so amazing to

440
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Speaker 6: be able to write whatever I imagined, anything I imagined,

441
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Speaker 6: And you know, I almost feel like I did that

442
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Speaker 6: all growing up. I was always watching and imitating people.

443
00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:29,679
Speaker 6: I didn't do impressions, but I would glean from I would.

444
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Speaker 6: I always felt like I was born without an identity,

445
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Speaker 6: so I would observe other people so much. And yeah,

446
00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:38,760
Speaker 6: I just grew up observing people.

447
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Speaker 1: What number how many siblings do you have?

448
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Speaker 7: Too? I was the middle.

449
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Speaker 8: Okay, oh yeah, yeah.

450
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Speaker 1: That's very interesting. I've never heard anyone describe being the

451
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Speaker 1: middle of two children before. Wow. Oh oh, I thought

452
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Speaker 1: you said too. I was the middle. There were two children.

453
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Speaker 1: I'm looking at her like what I was like waiting

454
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Speaker 1: for the ball to drop or the punchline. Okay, copy that.

455
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Speaker 1: So there's three total.

456
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Speaker 3: Oh god, oh hey, have you been thinking about writing

457
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Speaker 3: into Dear Chelsea.

458
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Speaker 2: Well, now is the moment.

459
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:19,760
Speaker 3: We're taking advice questions on anything that pops up. It's

460
00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:23,359
Speaker 3: wedding season. Are you having wedding drama? Write in about

461
00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:25,520
Speaker 3: that thing that you can't seem to agree with your

462
00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:28,800
Speaker 3: spouse about but you absolutely know you're right. Chelsea can

463
00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 3: tell you who's right and who's wrong. You can write

464
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,359
Speaker 3: in about a big life decision or just something small

465
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 3: dating drama.

466
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Speaker 2: Write into Dear.

467
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Speaker 3: Chelsea podcast at gmail dot com.

468
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Speaker 1: Are you a middle child? Do you fall into that? Like?

469
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Speaker 7: Yeah?

470
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Speaker 1: Really in what ways?

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Speaker 6: You know, it's kind of like, uh, we could have

472
00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:56,439
Speaker 6: done without you. Ye had the first and you know

473
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Speaker 6: my sister and then the boy, you know, my brother,

474
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Speaker 6: and you know my sister was like this golden haired blonde, adorable,

475
00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 6: and you know, I came out with a mustache, and

476
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 6: so it's like you better develop a sense of humor.

477
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Speaker 7: Real quick, real quick.

478
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,200
Speaker 6: But when I was a kid, I would watch Young

479
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 6: and Restless because I grew up around so much chaos,

480
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 6: and I just was always amazed at how civilized people

481
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 6: were on you know, so I would always imitate, and

482
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 6: no one knew I was doing what I was doing.

483
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 6: You know, I was doing my own kind of show,

484
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 6: but no one. I just used anybody that was around

485
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,120
Speaker 6: as Like my mother would come home and I would

486
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 6: have like clip on earrings and a scarf, and as

487
00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 6: she would walk in, and you know how in soap

488
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 6: operas that it's here's the person, this person.

489
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Speaker 7: They're both facing forward to the camera.

490
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Speaker 6: And so I be in front of my mother and

491
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 6: I was like, oh, mother, you startled me.

492
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 7: I didn't hear you come in, And she go, who

493
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,120
Speaker 7: the fuck are you're talking to? I'm like cut.

494
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 6: Reset and like she was gorgeous but had like the

495
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 6: worst mouth, and she was rough.

496
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Speaker 7: All the women were rough.

497
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Speaker 1: In your family, Oh yeah, really like in an Italian way, in.

498
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Speaker 7: What kind of way?

499
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 6: And half Irish just rough, like no charm. It was doggy,

500
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 6: dog really competitive, no not competitive, just survival.

501
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 1: Survival, okay, you know.

502
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Speaker 6: And I was so sensitive and you know, you grew

503
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 6: up thinking there's something wrong with you, like why am I.

504
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:54,879
Speaker 7: Not tough like that? Uh huh, and hence not wanting

505
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Speaker 7: to do interviews.

506
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Speaker 1: To talk about these very subjects. Yeah, did I read

507
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Speaker 1: that you're a life coach?

508
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 7: No, gosh no.

509
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 6: I played a life coach for AMC. It was like

510
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 6: a digital thing that I did years ago, and I thought,

511
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 6: you know what, while I'm waiting, I'll I'll do a

512
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 6: online course. I thought, you know, maybe it'll help me

513
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 6: in the you know, back end of it, help myself,

514
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 6: you know, people become therapists to maybe help themselves, and said,

515
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:26,440
Speaker 6: so I.

516
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 7: Did, and it didn't help. I wanted to get the

517
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Speaker 7: verbbage down.

518
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Speaker 6: In all of the you know what, the nomenclature of

519
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Speaker 6: the life coach.

520
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Speaker 1: What do you think about life coaches in general? Like

521
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Speaker 1: people who are.

522
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Speaker 7: Personal cheerleaders to me?

523
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 6: You know, And it's like I said, this as a

524
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Speaker 6: why pay so much money and deal with the past

525
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 6: when it's a lot cheaper and it's about today and

526
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:59,160
Speaker 6: moving forward, right, which that sounds good, you know, but yeah,

527
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Speaker 6: I really I think they organize your brain. I thought

528
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 6: there was some legitimacy to it after I, you know,

529
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 6: took the classes. Okay, I can see where this is helpful.

530
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Speaker 1: Well for a certain personality. I would imagine that a

531
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Speaker 1: life coach is really helpful because it's like I remember

532
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Speaker 1: going into therapy and I was like, I don't really

533
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Speaker 1: want to deal with the past. I'm like, I just

534
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Speaker 1: would like to move forward with some better habits. And

535
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 1: he almost laughed at me. He's like, well, in order

536
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 1: to do that, we actually have to deal with the past.

537
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Speaker 1: And I'm like, but why, Like that's done? Like I

538
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: just would like to focus on forward movement. And what

539
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 1: he should have said is like, well, what you're looking

540
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Speaker 1: for as a life coach, not a therapist, you know,

541
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Speaker 1: or a psychiatrist.

542
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Speaker 6: But they're not going to pass you off to a

543
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Speaker 6: life coach. But I do see how it can help.

544
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:52,359
Speaker 7: Some people just need that personal cheerleader, you know. But

545
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:53,919
Speaker 7: I love doing it.

546
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Speaker 6: I don't think anybody saw it, but I thought it

547
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 6: was so funny, fun I loved doing it.

548
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Speaker 7: Yeah, it was as a life coach.

549
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Speaker 1: Mm li, I's a life coach and were you doing

550
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 1: a character? Yeah?

551
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, just very close to myself close to yourself. I

552
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:09,679
Speaker 6: did it, shot it in New York and it was

553
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 6: so much fun. But yeah, no one saw it.

554
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: So you're an LA girl, not a New York girl.

555
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:18,640
Speaker 6: No, I'm from just outside of Philly mm hmm. And

556
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,119
Speaker 6: when I moved here, I moved here to get in

557
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,360
Speaker 6: the music business. I worked at A and M Records.

558
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I wasn't trying to be an.

559
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Speaker 1: Actress really, So then what happened.

560
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Speaker 6: I was like, Wow, if I'm ever going to make

561
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Speaker 6: a fool of myself, this would be the time. I

562
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:35,919
Speaker 6: don't know anybody here, and because people alrey said, oh,

563
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:37,439
Speaker 6: you should do stand up, you should do stand up.

564
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 6: But I couldn't imagine being myself.

565
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Speaker 7: And on stage.

566
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Speaker 1: So then a.

567
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Speaker 6: Woman said to me, oh, you should do the groundlings

568
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 6: And I said, what's that. She said, it's an improv troop.

569
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 6: I said it's improv and I had no idea. And

570
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 6: I went down the groundings and I saw and like

571
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:01,920
Speaker 6: the clouds parted. I couldn't believe this place existed. I

572
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 6: I was like, this is like Saturday Night live on stage.

573
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 6: And so I started taking classes and I had a

574
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 6: great job at A and M. I loved I worked

575
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Speaker 6: in promotion, I worked in publishing.

576
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 1: And then and so you did that and then you

577
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Speaker 1: did groundlinks on the side.

578
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 6: Yeah, And I got into the main company after years,

579
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 6: and I had an agent, a manager, a commercial agents

580
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 6: said this isn't a fluke.

581
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 7: You need to quit your job. And I was so scared.

582
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Speaker 6: You know, it's like changing completely changing careers. How old

583
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,680
Speaker 6: were you at this time, maybe thirty, okay like that,

584
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 6: And so I did and I started just temping at

585
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 6: Disney Legal and it wasn't fun I was just you know,

586
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 6: temping and temping.

587
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Speaker 1: I just want to say, not to interrupt you, but

588
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Speaker 1: I just want to interpose that temping is one of

589
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 1: the sole most soulless, it is jobs you could do.

590
00:27:58,040 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 1: I did that.

591
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 6: Oh, I'm going to meet people, And what it is

592
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,439
Speaker 6: is nobody wants to get close to you because they

593
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 6: feel like they're cheating on the person that you're temping for.

594
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:08,679
Speaker 7: Right, you're gonna be gone.

595
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Speaker 1: I'm not investig in yes, exactly.

596
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 7: And it was so lonely.

597
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 6: What was funny was a year and a half later

598
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,479
Speaker 6: after I got SNL, I had a meeting with one

599
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 6: of the lawyers there, and it was so funny because

600
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 6: the lawyer that I met said to my manager, why

601
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 6: is she talking to all the assistants out there? And

602
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 6: it's because she was working with them a year and

603
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 6: a half ago. Oh yeah, And you know it was

604
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 6: it was really nice because so many people are doing

605
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 6: something to do something else, you know, and I think inspired,

606
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 6: I guess. But it was so nice to go back

607
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 6: there and see all those people that I was, you

608
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 6: know that where I was.

609
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 7: Who didn't talk to me. I guess, now I'm safe

610
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 7: to talk to. And then I got.

611
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Speaker 6: SNL and S ANDL is like my first job.

612
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Speaker 1: And what was that audition process like for SNL?

613
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 6: Oh you do four or five characters in seven minutes

614
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 6: something like that.

615
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 1: And were any of the characters the characters you ended

616
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 1: up doing on the show?

617
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 6: The Lady on the Porch, the Italian Lady on the porch.

618
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 7: I keep it now. But the groundings was everything.

619
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Speaker 6: It taught me everything, and it was the perfect you know,

620
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 6: training ground for SNL. And I had to write because

621
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 6: I was working at A and M, so I couldn't

622
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 6: meet other people to write as much as you know

623
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 6: the others that were acting. So I wrote by myself

624
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 6: a lot, and it was little did I know? You know,

625
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 6: it was something because you think that you're going to

626
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 6: be written for on SNL and it's like, oh no,

627
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 6: that's a nice, big surprise. But Lauren Michael said, we

628
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 6: want you to continue writing. I was so flattered and

629
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 6: it was like, oho, and you don't get.

630
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: Paid, didn't I read sometime that he never actually officially

631
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 1: hired you. Is that a true story?

632
00:29:58,400 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 8: No?

633
00:29:58,680 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 1: He did, he did?

634
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 7: You know?

635
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 2: They were realize you had gotten the job and that

636
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 2: oh yeah, he.

637
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 6: Said, we want you to come to New York. And

638
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 6: I'm like to shop for the day, like finish the sentence,

639
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 6: you know. But I feel divinely I was guided there

640
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 6: because I would have never dreamt that big.

641
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: Mmmm that's nice, you know.

642
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, And it's like, how do we get her out here?

643
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 6: How do we let's see, let's have John break up

644
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 6: with her, break her heart. I feel like there's nothing

645
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 6: left for me there. Oh wow. And I always wanted

646
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 6: to live in California always, And it was truly I

647
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 6: felt like divinely, like how do we get her out here?

648
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 4: You know?

649
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 1: And to get out here after SNL, you mean.

650
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 6: No, no, to get me to la to get into

651
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:51,239
Speaker 6: the groundlinks.

652
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, So, but then you moved to New York

653
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 1: when I got SNL you yeah, yeah, it would have

654
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: been amazing if you had filmed SNL from LA and

655
00:30:58,040 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 1: just never went to New York.

656
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,480
Speaker 6: I used to come back every time I had a

657
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 6: two week hiatus because you love it here.

658
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 7: I do, yeah, I really do.

659
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 1: What are your favorite things about Los Angeles?

660
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 6: Just the skyline, It's just I mean the landscape.

661
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 4: You know.

662
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 6: I was always amazed when I moved here, and I

663
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 6: couldn't believe driving home from waitressing from Carlos and Charlie's.

664
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 6: Do you remember Carlos and Charlie's on Sunset?

665
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 1: No, it was a club.

666
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 6: It was like a nightclub, huh. And I was waitressing

667
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 6: there while I was looking for a job. And I

668
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 6: remember coming home from there into the valley. I could

669
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 6: not believe how beautiful the lights were coming into the valley.

670
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 6: Like it's still so beautiful to me.

671
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 1: Driving on Maulholland, like at dusk or at night is

672
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: always really always reminds me. Like, you know, I used

673
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: to have a studio universal and I would live in

674
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 1: like bel Air, and I would just take Maholland every day,

675
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 1: even though it took like, you know, an extra twenty

676
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: five minutes because that drive. I always would just cement

677
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: it how much I love the beauty of this place

678
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 1: because I think LA like LA. I go through phases

679
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 1: where I really appreciate LA, and then there are times

680
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: where I'm like, oh, this place is just lame. There's

681
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 1: no vibe here.

682
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 6: You know. The only thing that bugs me is it's

683
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 6: it's it is this business. It's everywhere. You know, that's

684
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 6: when I just meet an accountant, but often when you

685
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 6: get to.

686
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 1: Meet it are you meeting.

687
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 7: A lot of accountants? Just my own?

688
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 6: But you know, it's I missed the diversity of occupation.

689
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 6: I mean there are you know it is, but it's

690
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 6: so central to this business, so centralized, and it's and

691
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 6: you can't kind of get away from it unless you

692
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 6: get away from it.

693
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah, what is your relationship with like your celebrity? Like,

694
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 1: how do you look at that? Because it's weird.

695
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 6: I never ever really felt like a celebrity and I

696
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 6: didn't ever into it, and I'm never bothered by people.

697
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 6: And I don't you know, get asked for my autograph

698
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 6: much or you know.

699
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 7: I live really like you know, I'm at home depot.

700
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 6: I'm at Loew's walking the dogs, and I don't live

701
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 6: a life like a celebrity.

702
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 1: Okay, you know, what are your female relationships like at

703
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 1: this stage in your life?

704
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 7: Great? I have really good friends.

705
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 1: And how long have you had them?

706
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, Well my best friend was the publicist

707
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 6: at NBC.

708
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 7: Oh okay, but I was there. She loves you. She's like,

709
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 7: are you excited about Chelsea?

710
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,400
Speaker 1: And You're like, no, I hate being interviewed.

711
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 7: Yeah.

712
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 6: If Wemer tells me to Wimer person tells me to

713
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 6: be myself and have fun, I can be myself and

714
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 6: have fun. And oh my gosh, my buddy Cameron and Nadine.

715
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,040
Speaker 1: And do you hang out with your girlfriends as a

716
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: big group? Do you hang out with.

717
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 7: Play cards?

718
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: What kind of cards?

719
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 7: Rummy Cube or I buy and let me see.

720
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: I thought Robny Cube was the with the piece.

721
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 7: There are the tiles?

722
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:18,359
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's that. Now I got my neighbors. I have

723
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 6: great neighbors, great women. We'll come over each other's house

724
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,320
Speaker 6: and I'll do a charcouterie board happy hour or they'll

725
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 6: do it not as good as me, but it's not

726
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 6: a competition.

727
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 1: Do you make a mean sharkter.

728
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,480
Speaker 7: I do, yes, I do.

729
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 1: What do you put on your sharcotery bar? Do you

730
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 1: use your salmon plank for your charcuterie board to smoke

731
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: your meat dinner? Okay?

732
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 8: You know?

733
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:50,399
Speaker 6: But yeah, boy, I'll tell you the women friends. I'll

734
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 6: tell you something that recently happened. My friend had invited

735
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:59,720
Speaker 6: me to this dinner he was hosting for the Milken

736
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 6: Milkin Institute. What is the Milken Institute to again, women's

737
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:04,280
Speaker 6: health issues?

738
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 7: Right? So I said yeah, and Jill Biden was a chair.

739
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,439
Speaker 6: And first I'm driving down the street and there's all

740
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 6: these cops that are stopping everybody.

741
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,240
Speaker 7: And I was like, oh my gosh.

742
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,799
Speaker 6: And I said to the cops, you know where can

743
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 6: I park? And he said anywhere you want? So this

744
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 6: is where I parked it, Chelsea.

745
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 2: Let's just sorry with a bunch of Beeby dudes.

746
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:31,240
Speaker 1: I said, hey, fellas.

747
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 7: The guy asked me, he goes, can I take a

748
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 7: picture with you?

749
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 6: And I said, oh, sure, if I could take a

750
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:41,560
Speaker 6: picture with you guys. And he's like, you want to

751
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 6: get on the bike and I go, yeah, I want

752
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 6: to play with the lights.

753
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 7: I'm like yeah.

754
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,760
Speaker 6: I did, But anyway, I go in there and chilled.

755
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,359
Speaker 6: Biden immediately came up and she goes, now, Sherry, are

756
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 6: you from Philly or Jersey? And I said, I'm from

757
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 6: outside of Philly, but I'm in Jersey a lot. And

758
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 6: She's like, I'm from Jersey. I said, I know you're

759
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 6: from Hamilton, the blueberry capital of the world.

760
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,399
Speaker 7: And yeah, and she said yeah.

761
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 6: And I said, Jill, when I found out that you

762
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 6: were from Jersey was everything for me not to call

763
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 6: you and ask you to pick up a bag of

764
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 6: ice on the way.

765
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 7: And she started.

766
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 6: Laughing and we just started talking. And then I'm sitting

767
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:25,360
Speaker 6: with all of these women, all of these accomplished, powerful women,

768
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 6: and they were talking about in all these different occupations

769
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:32,720
Speaker 6: and Biden women and healthcare, and there were investors there,

770
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 6: and I'm just listening and listening to everybody speak. And

771
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 6: it was the weirdest thing because I would just diagnosed

772
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 6: with dcis with breast cancer. I'm staying there quiet, and

773
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 6: I'm like, this is so serendipitous, you know that He's like,

774
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 6: I want should come and just and be my guest.

775
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 6: And I'm listening to all these women and then at

776
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 6: the end, Jill came up to me and we were

777
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 6: saying goodbye, and I told her that I was just

778
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 6: diagnosed and she said when is your surgery and I

779
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 6: said the twenty six and she said, all right, you're

780
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 6: gonna get tired of me. And she says, I'm going

781
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:22,720
Speaker 6: through this with you. This woman like before my surgery,

782
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,920
Speaker 6: after my surgery, she just she goes, I am with

783
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 6: you on this. I was blown away. And then she

784
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 6: was coming out to La and she's like, let's have coffee.

785
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 6: And I said, all right, I'll come to your hotel.

786
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 6: She goes, I don't want to. I don't want you

787
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 6: to come here. There's so much security. And I go, yeah,

788
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 6: for you.

789
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 7: You know, like she was bothered by the security there.

790
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 6: And so we met at this coffee shop and we

791
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:53,799
Speaker 6: just talked for two hours, and she was just that

792
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:57,280
Speaker 6: is a woman with a huge heart, and through everything,

793
00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:03,319
Speaker 6: she's like checking on me and just a beautiful human being.

794
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 7: So I never felt so supported.

795
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 6: That's really nice, you know, by my friends, my girlfriends,

796
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 6: and and so you know, she goes, you're gonna get

797
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:18,920
Speaker 6: sick of me texting you, and I'm like, seriously, Jill,

798
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:19,879
Speaker 6: knock it off.

799
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:22,879
Speaker 7: I'm okay, no, But what was.

800
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 6: Funny was we were sitting there and we're talking about

801
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:28,840
Speaker 6: everything with coffee, and she goes, cher, are you really

802
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 6: You're really brave?

803
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,840
Speaker 7: And I go, I'm Jill. I caught it early.

804
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 6: So that's my message to everybody too, is you know,

805
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 6: get your mammogram.

806
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 7: I caught it really early.

807
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: Oh thank goodness.

808
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:45,319
Speaker 6: Yeah, and I just had such with two days ago.

809
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 2: What from from this?

810
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: And this has been your experience with Jill? Just now? Oh,

811
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 1: this is my present.

812
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 7: I was thinking this was like a year ago or no,

813
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:58,839
Speaker 7: this is like couple days ago.

814
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:02,919
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god. How are you feeling great?

815
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: Oh look at you? What a blessing. Yeah, you're sitting

816
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 1: here healthy and happy. Oh wow.

817
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:15,720
Speaker 7: Yeah. The next day I was like, wow, I'm okay.

818
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 6: I just had a lump ectomy. And the other advice

819
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 6: I want to give is get a second opinion. The

820
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 6: first doctor I went to suggested something way more aggressive,

821
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 6: and I'm like, what wait, I caught it early, and

822
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 6: that is what you're proposing.

823
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 7: You know, to do.

824
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 6: I was like, that doesn't make sense. And I called

825
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 6: a friend of mine who's gone to college as Sherry Ross,

826
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 6: and she said, don't do anything until you talk to

827
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 6: my friends. So I went to another hospital and had

828
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 6: all my records transferred and she said to me, this

829
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:53,720
Speaker 6: doctor Grumley.

830
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 7: She said, Cherry, that's way too aggressive.

831
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:02,359
Speaker 6: And if I didn't get a second opinion, you know,

832
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 6: if you need to, you need to write. But she

833
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 6: said that, you know you don't need to. And so

834
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 6: I just had a lumpectomy and everything looks normals.

835
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 4: Good.

836
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 7: Fine for sharing that.

837
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: I mean, this is helpful to so many women listening.

838
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, truly get your mammogram off, of course,

839
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 6: but also get a second opinion, you.

840
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 2: Know what I mean.

841
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 6: Like everything I wouldn't have, I really wouldn't have unless

842
00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:39,439
Speaker 6: Cherry suggested that I do that. And yeah, I mean

843
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 6: I'm fine. And you know, like who would have thought,

844
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 6: like i'd have Jill Biden constantly calling me and texting me,

845
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 6: are you okay?

846
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 1: What they say?

847
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 7: You know, It's what was funny.

848
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:55,919
Speaker 6: When we were having coffee, she goes to me, Cherry,

849
00:40:56,120 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 6: you know you can be vulnerable and it's okay to break.

850
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 6: And I go, Jill, I'm fine, Really, I'm good, and

851
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 6: she's like, you know, you don't have to be so

852
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 6: brave all the time. And I go, Jill Seriously, I

853
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 6: feel like I'm not scared. I'm really okay, I'm not

854
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:18,280
Speaker 6: in any pain because Joe wasn't in any pain either, Shary,

855
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 6: all right, I'm scared.

856
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 1: Now, yeah okay, yeah, yeah? Are you happy?

857
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 6: But she was just hands on and that's beautiful.

858
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: Yes, it's really beautiful when women who you don't know well,

859
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously the women in your life want to

860
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 1: show up and protect you and be there for you

861
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 1: during especially during times like the one you're describing, But

862
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 1: when a stranger shows up in your life and is

863
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 1: also that support ballast for you, it is really profound.

864
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 6: It is so profound because here it's all about women's

865
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 6: health issues and what we need to do, what's not

866
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 6: being done, and sitting around and listening to all these

867
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:02,279
Speaker 6: accomplished women talking about this and me just kind of,

868
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 6: you know, taking it all in, but sitting there just

869
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 6: being diagnosed and thinking, okay, there's a reason for this.

870
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:16,880
Speaker 6: And but luckily I got through it like a champ.

871
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 6: And I did have to have a second surgery because

872
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:20,919
Speaker 6: I didn't get it all.

873
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 1: But so it was yesterday or two days ago, your

874
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,720
Speaker 1: second surgery, Okay, and when was the first surgery?

875
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 7: Maybe a month ago.

876
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:36,319
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, and no no pain. No, I don't even

877
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 6: took anything for pain.

878
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 1: Well, you can give that stuff to me, that's the

879
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,359
Speaker 1: word on the street. Yeah, do you have that?

880
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 6: Yeah?

881
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 1: I would actually appreciate if you had brought that over today.

882
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 1: And that goes for all of our callers and all

883
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 1: of our listeners.

884
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 2: I'll give you the po box.

885
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 1: Well, are you ready to take a couple of questions?

886
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 1: We have live callers calling it. Yes, were a very

887
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 1: special guest. I'm so glad that you shared that, and

888
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that you're healthy, and I'm so glad

889
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: to hear this Joe Biden's story. It's all just beautiful.

890
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 1: It's beautiful woman.

891
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 7: Shit, I know, I gotta tell you, I've never felt

892
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:17,800
Speaker 7: so grateful.

893
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 1: Unless you're just making it all up because you were

894
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: nervous to do an interview. You know, that's that could

895
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 1: be a too cancel.

896
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 7: I mean, you tell me.

897
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 1: Look, even Doug is interested. Now. Look you've got his attention.

898
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 1: Love Dad. That's empathy and compassion.

899
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 3: So our first question is just a really quick question.

900
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,320
Speaker 3: Rit says, you're Chelsea. My best friend lives in another

901
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 3: state and we each have one kid. I'm due with

902
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 3: my second in about a month. When I excitedly told

903
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 3: her what I want to name the baby, she got

904
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 3: all quiet. When I prodded, she told me that was

905
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 3: her favorite baby boy name that she told me about

906
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 3: years ago. Honestly, I'd completely forgotten that she had quote

907
00:43:57,239 --> 00:43:59,840
Speaker 3: picked that name. I feel bad, but my husband and

908
00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:01,919
Speaker 3: I both love it. Should I use the name?

909
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 1: Mean? Come on, the friend doesn't have the baby yet.

910
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 2: No, no, well, they're both pregnant right now.

911
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 1: Oh I don't know.

912
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 3: I mean no, she says, I'm due with my second. Sorry,

913
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:18,239
Speaker 3: I don't think they're both pregnant. I think she's doing it.

914
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, if her friend isn't pregnant, I would say. If

915
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 1: the friend had been pregnant, then that is kind of like,

916
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: but why not they just name them both the same

917
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 1: fucking name?

918
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 7: Who cares?

919
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, she lives in another state.

920
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:30,360
Speaker 1: Yeah it's not like that.

921
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 7: That's ridiculous.

922
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I go. Yeah, you can't. You don't own names.

923
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 1: That's not right, right, right?

924
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 2: Her friend needs to have like James Junior. No, just kidding,

925
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 2: but okay, James.

926
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:45,839
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, James, do you see how

927
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:50,480
Speaker 1: he's coming closer to you he senses. Yes, he senses.

928
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 1: He's sensitive like that. It's very interesting. Anytime I'm upset.

929
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 1: All my other dogs would leave the room when I

930
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 1: would cry. This dog, Whenever I'm upset, he comes right

931
00:44:58,719 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 1: into the room and comes right up to me.

932
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:01,800
Speaker 7: I have my Daisi.

933
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:06,839
Speaker 6: Whenever I'm mad, which I'm hardly ever, he like if

934
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 6: I'm angry at him, he doesn't really pay attention. But

935
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 6: if I'm angry.

936
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,600
Speaker 7: If what do you mean? What happened?

937
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 6: And he'll look at me and go right outside and

938
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 6: then stare at me from the outside window like wait

939
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:22,439
Speaker 6: until and then I just look down.

940
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:24,879
Speaker 7: And go, I'm okay, honey, I'm all right.

941
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:26,320
Speaker 1: Like it's so weird.

942
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 7: How you know. I can tell him, no, don't do that,

943
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 7: and he's like that, fuck you.

944
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know.

945
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:33,879
Speaker 6: But if he if he senses that I'm angry, he

946
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 6: knows when it's real and he goes outside and just

947
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 6: stares at me.

948
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: Oh, they're on a different than the frequent see they're on.

949
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,360
Speaker 1: I would love to be able to visually see where

950
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 1: you know, where they land and where how they relate

951
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 1: to us. It's kind of like I stoke in my

952
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 1: stand up people who are always like, don't you wish

953
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 1: you knew what your dogs were thinking? I'm like, no,

954
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to fucking find out what my dog

955
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:57,479
Speaker 1: is thinking. That's why I have a dog, not a kid.

956
00:45:57,560 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 1: I'm not looking for a feedback loop.

957
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 7: I don't want to think, and I don't want you

958
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 7: to think.

959
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: But I am interested to see what they know and

960
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 1: what they don't know.

961
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 6: My when my dad passed away, I went and got

962
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:12,240
Speaker 6: his dog, and uh, whenever I would talk really sweet

963
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 6: to her, she would get on her back and just

964
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 6: you know, open her legs and arms. And so when

965
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 6: I would take her to the park and people are

966
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:22,280
Speaker 6: their dogs are doing tricks, I would go, sweet, mama,

967
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:24,760
Speaker 6: where's your coinpers?

968
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:28,240
Speaker 7: Where's coinpers? She get on her back and open her legs.

969
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 1: I love when they get in that position.

970
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 7: You know, they look like those old fashioned copers, right,

971
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 7: And people were like, how did you train her.

972
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 8: To do that?

973
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 2: Command?

974
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,319
Speaker 3: Well, our first caller today is Julie Brad.

975
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 2: We have Julie on theline.

976
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 3: Okay, So Julie says, dear Chelsea, how does one choose

977
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,919
Speaker 3: a burial plot. I'm in my thirties and certainly hope

978
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 3: I won't need one for many years. But I also

979
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:57,479
Speaker 3: realize everyone has to do this at some point before

980
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,800
Speaker 3: they die, and I thought you might have some advice.

981
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 3: Are burial plots like condos? Do you get one that

982
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 3: works for now and just buy and sell them as

983
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:07,840
Speaker 3: you move cities or your circumstances change. I've moved several

984
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 3: times as an adult and will likely move again, so

985
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,799
Speaker 3: I don't feel particularly strongly about being buried in my

986
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:16,200
Speaker 3: current city, my hometown, or anywhere else. I'm single, though

987
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 3: certainly open to a long term partner in this lifetime,

988
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 3: but don't plan to have kids. Should single people get

989
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 3: a plot for one or a two bedroom just in case?

990
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 3: Cremation seems simpler for a girl on the go, but

991
00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 3: is not for me. My parents are divorced, and my

992
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,840
Speaker 3: mom got their two plots in the settlement. She frequently

993
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:34,120
Speaker 3: reminds me that she willed the extra plot to me.

994
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 3: If I don't get my own plot, I'll be stuck

995
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 3: arguing with this woman until the end of time, so

996
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:40,640
Speaker 3: there's a little pressure to figure this out.

997
00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:41,800
Speaker 2: On the earlier side.

998
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 3: I hope you'll live forever and do this podcast another

999
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 3: one hundred years, but if you're comfortable sharing I'd love

1000
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,520
Speaker 3: to hear if you've made this decision for yourself and

1001
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:50,399
Speaker 3: how you did it. I don't have a death wish,

1002
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 3: I swear, thanks, Julie.

1003
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 1: Okay, you got to put your headphones on for this, Sherry,

1004
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:55,439
Speaker 1: because that's Julie right there.

1005
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:56,239
Speaker 7: Julie.

1006
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: Hi, Julie.

1007
00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 7: I love how you're like on the gallo, on the go.

1008
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 7: I don't have time for a funeral.

1009
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 1: You're so funny, Julie. I can't believe you're worried about

1010
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 1: this is the first time anyone has called in about

1011
00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 1: buying their own burial plot, and I honestly, first of all,

1012
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 1: you already have one next to your mother. I really

1013
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:15,719
Speaker 1: don't believe you guys will be fighting in the afterlife.

1014
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:19,439
Speaker 1: I I love that you are consumed with this. I've

1015
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:23,880
Speaker 1: never heard anyone talk about this ever at your age.

1016
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,279
Speaker 1: What do you think? Why do you think you are

1017
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 1: so consumed with this?

1018
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 2: Planner?

1019
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 4: I am a planner, I mean part of it. I

1020
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 4: certainly put off making, like you know, real decisions in

1021
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:39,719
Speaker 4: my life by focusing on these not immediate decisions. I

1022
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 4: definitely think about it when I do talk to my

1023
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:46,320
Speaker 4: mom and she reminds me that I've got this plot

1024
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,759
Speaker 4: waiting for me in Cleveland. I've been thinking about it.

1025
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 4: Where I went to go visit my dad, the total

1026
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 4: solar eclipse was over my dad's place and I went

1027
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:58,320
Speaker 4: to visit and I was like, where are we watching

1028
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 4: this eclipse? And he was like, oh, my cemetery plot.

1029
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,279
Speaker 4: I own it. No one else is going to be

1030
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 4: disturbed by a seeing there. It's like, oh, people can hate.

1031
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:08,880
Speaker 7: It that you use your plot before you die.

1032
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a lot of them, a lot talking in

1033
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:15,320
Speaker 1: your family, so I feel like it's hereditary. I honestly

1034
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 1: don't have that. I haven't planned for my I I

1035
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 1: want to be cremated, so I know you said you don't,

1036
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 1: But if this is really way, I just don't know

1037
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 1: how you can discern at this stage in your life.

1038
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 1: What if you meet someone, what if you end up

1039
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 1: having a big family, whether you have what if you

1040
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 1: marry somebody who as children and you want to be

1041
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,279
Speaker 1: buried with their family, I mean, being buried next to

1042
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: your mom. To me, sounds like a fine idea. Yeah, well,

1043
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 1: but also it's already a built in plot, and you're

1044
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 1: obsessed with plots, and you already have a plot in Cleveland,

1045
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 1: I would.

1046
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 4: Not say this is a consuming problem for me. I

1047
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:58,360
Speaker 4: just I honestly never knew any like nobody my age

1048
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 4: is by the cemetery plot. I don't know if this

1049
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:02,439
Speaker 4: is a thing people have.

1050
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 7: You're a gal on the go. You need ashes that

1051
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 7: are on the go.

1052
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know. I think you should reconsider cremation. I

1053
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 1: do too. It's better for the environment, and also then

1054
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 1: you don't have to this is way. Why are you

1055
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 1: against cremation.

1056
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 4: I'm not against cremation generally. It's not traditionally Jewish to

1057
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:23,760
Speaker 4: do cremation.

1058
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 7: Right right, Yeah, you can pick out your urn now.

1059
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 4: Even if you cremate, you have to decide where your

1060
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 4: remains go, So that's true.

1061
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:33,399
Speaker 1: You can't think you just go on the plot next

1062
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:33,879
Speaker 1: to your mother.

1063
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 3: She's really trying to get you next to mom.

1064
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 1: I'm Jewish too, but I don't really hold any regard

1065
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:41,800
Speaker 1: for like, you know what we're supposed to do based

1066
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:45,359
Speaker 1: on our religion. I honestly don't know what to tell you,

1067
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 1: except for the fact that I don't think you should

1068
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:49,799
Speaker 1: be thinking about this at this stage. You're not. You

1069
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:52,279
Speaker 1: don't know where life's gonna take you. You said you're

1070
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:53,840
Speaker 1: only in your thirties, right.

1071
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why I was just wondering if people just

1072
00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 4: pulled off on them.

1073
00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 1: Do people do this? Have you thought about your Is

1074
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 1: this a thing I'm gonna know?

1075
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 7: But I do love Forest Lawn?

1076
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 4: I do.

1077
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 6: I take my drive past here. I'm like, if I

1078
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,359
Speaker 6: don't cremate, this is where I.

1079
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:12,720
Speaker 1: Want to be. Forest Lawn is a really in the valley.

1080
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:15,720
Speaker 1: And I was gonna say, in America, in the valley

1081
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 1: in Los Angeles. So if you are looking for a

1082
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 1: nice cemetery, you should check that one out. Law, But

1083
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:23,800
Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of cemetery referrals.

1084
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, you should google, like America's most Beautiful Cemetery.

1085
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:29,680
Speaker 1: Yes, that's a great idea.

1086
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I mean I could spend I could be

1087
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:34,919
Speaker 4: consumed with, you know, becoming more famous, so I could

1088
00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 4: get into one of the nicer cemeteries. No, it's really not.

1089
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 4: It's not something that I think you imagine.

1090
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 6: I can't get into that cemetery. Everybody wants to get in.

1091
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 2: It's too hot.

1092
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:44,960
Speaker 7: Who do you know? You got to know somebody.

1093
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 1: It starts in preschool and ends in death.

1094
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 6: Oh my god, just got into wagon Wheel Cemetery.

1095
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 1: I do really appreciate the question because you're really live

1096
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:58,400
Speaker 1: and things up and freshen things up in terms of.

1097
00:51:58,920 --> 00:51:59,879
Speaker 7: Things up about death.

1098
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 1: Uh huh, that's right. Not a lot of people could

1099
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Speaker 1: do that. But it's also a great conversation starter for

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00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 1: when you're out and about and see what other people

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Speaker 1: are saying.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe I'll just start asking people bringing it up idea. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I don't know if people just kind of have this.

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00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 4: The people that I know that have plots are have

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00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:20,239
Speaker 4: some sort of like family plot that they're very tied to, which.

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00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:22,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, we didn't get a plot in our family. I

1107
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 1: remember my brother died, so then they my parents had

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00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: to get him obviously unexpectedly, like a plot, and then

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00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 1: they bought their two plots so that they would be

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00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 1: buried next to him. And then the rest of us

1111
00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:36,359
Speaker 1: were like, I guess we'll just do our own thing.

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Speaker 1: I have no fucking idea what to tell you. I don't,

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00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:43,720
Speaker 1: but I really liked the question.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, your own The one thing I will say, as

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00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 3: like the daughter of an elder law attorney, because I

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00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:54,680
Speaker 3: have this sort of useless information right aling around. Later

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00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 3: in life, you can pre buy a plot and it

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00:52:57,000 --> 00:52:59,280
Speaker 3: doesn't necessarily have to be attached to a certain location,

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00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 3: but you can like spend the money on a plot

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Speaker 3: to like guard some of your assets. It's like one

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Speaker 3: of the things that elder attorneys do to help safeguard

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Speaker 3: your estates.

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Speaker 2: So, but that's down the road very far.

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00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:12,799
Speaker 1: But that seems like it's perfectly dovetails with what she's

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Speaker 1: trying to accomplish.

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Speaker 2: Maybe an elder attorney.

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00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:18,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I can start talking an elder law attorney.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, they're gonna I don't know what that

1129
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:25,359
Speaker 4: person would say to this question. I know, I don't know.

1130
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 4: I just you know, things come up in life and

1131
00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 4: it turns out people have been thinking about them for years.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I do want more questions like this, So if

1133
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:38,360
Speaker 3: you have questions like this, please write into.

1134
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 1: Please write answer. We could give you non answers. I'm

1135
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 1: very excited about that.

1136
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 4: As I was, you know, leading up to this conversation,

1137
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 4: it was like, I feel like people right into this

1138
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 4: podcast and they're like, my husband isn't flossing. What do

1139
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 4: I do? And then once they get on the phone

1140
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:54,919
Speaker 4: with you, they're like, I actually have an update since

1141
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:59,760
Speaker 4: I talked to Catherine. I've murdered my husband. How any advice,

1142
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:03,719
Speaker 4: like stay into comedy careers in prison. I'm like, what

1143
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:05,799
Speaker 4: updates do I have, Like that I've died since I

1144
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:06,759
Speaker 4: wrote in I don't know.

1145
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 1: It's not going I think it, Yes, it is. You

1146
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: need to keep a surprise of what you do find

1147
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 1: out because I think you're going to start a whole

1148
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 1: new trend for this podcast.

1149
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:22,000
Speaker 6: I find death very very interesting, do you, Yeah, because

1150
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:25,799
Speaker 6: I did this thing where I for like two years,

1151
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 6: I just went to bed and I would always just

1152
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 6: listen to near death experience stories.

1153
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 7: They're so beautiful.

1154
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:34,839
Speaker 6: It's like being told a story and I would fall

1155
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:40,400
Speaker 6: asleep to the most beautiful story that everybody from every background,

1156
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 6: you know, they experienced. Especially with medical advancements, so many

1157
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 6: people are being revived and the stories are so beautiful.

1158
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:52,319
Speaker 1: Where do you find those on YouTube? Yeah?

1159
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:54,840
Speaker 3: And I just read a book of near death experiences.

1160
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 3: I'll put the link in.

1161
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:59,680
Speaker 7: The Brian Weiss, Betty J Betty JA.

1162
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Speaker 6: I've read so many books on near death experience stories

1163
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:07,000
Speaker 6: and they change the lives of the people that have

1164
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Speaker 6: had the experience.

1165
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Speaker 1: Is that many masters many lives Brian Wise, Okay, these

1166
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:13,879
Speaker 1: a couple of books. Yeah, so start reading books about death.

1167
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Speaker 4: Okay, a cemetery.

1168
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:22,879
Speaker 1: I think I think you need to start some sort

1169
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 1: of online club or a Facebook group to find out

1170
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 1: how many other people are like you thinking about this, like.

1171
00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 4: A chosen family cemetery.

1172
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:34,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, people with the same interests exactly.

1173
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Speaker 7: You come from a dysfunctional family, you get to choose.

1174
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Speaker 1: Oh, well, thank you for calling.

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Speaker 4: In, Thank you so much.

1176
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Speaker 1: Bye. Sorry for all the dog interruptions. Somehow ray J

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00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:49,280
Speaker 1: got loose.

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Speaker 7: That to me is not an interruption.

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Speaker 3: Well, I do have one more caller, and she's sort

1180
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:03,160
Speaker 3: of like on the brink of starting a new life.

1181
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Speaker 2: Do we want to.

1182
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 1: Sure, let's do that, and then we'll wrap things up.

1183
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:08,319
Speaker 1: And we have to promote scary movie, which is where

1184
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:10,760
Speaker 1: you're here in the first place, because you're in scary

1185
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:11,759
Speaker 1: movie and it's coming out.

1186
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:13,759
Speaker 7: Actually, I'm here because of you.

1187
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 1: You're you're here because you love to be interviewed.

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00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 6: No, I just love you. But yeah, scary movies. Is

1189
00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 6: it should be cool? It's so funny to cook twenty

1190
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 6: five years later.

1191
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 1: I know, I know, isn't that crazy? It is so

1192
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:32,320
Speaker 1: crazy all of these things that are happening from twenty

1193
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:36,479
Speaker 1: like these remakes and continuations you're like when you were little,

1194
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:38,759
Speaker 1: you thought twenty five years was the end of the world. Yes,

1195
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:41,080
Speaker 1: And the fact that we're all still kind of looking

1196
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 1: remotely the same and at the same premises work and

1197
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 1: the same plot it is pretty fascinating. Yeah, and it's

1198
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 1: such a great franchise. People fucking love scary movies.

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Speaker 6: I can't believe it. I can't believe how much, how

1200
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 6: excited so many people are for this. Yeah, they really are,

1201
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:56,479
Speaker 6: you know. Yeah it was fun.

1202
00:56:56,640 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, Gretchen says dear Chelsea. I've been a fan

1203
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 3: for a long time. I really appreciate how clearly you

1204
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 3: live your life on your own terms. I'm forty one,

1205
00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 3: a therapist in the Midwest and a widow. My husband

1206
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 3: died by suicide several years ago. Since then, I've done

1207
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 3: everything I was supposed to do, grieved, rebuilt, stayed functional,

1208
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 3: and kept my life together. On paper, it works. I'm stable, responsible, fine.

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00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 3: I just don't feel like I belong in it. Internally,

1210
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:25,560
Speaker 3: I feel more and more out of place, stir crazy

1211
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 3: where I am craving a different environment, different work, and

1212
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 3: a different kind of community. I'm planning to move to

1213
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 3: New York City soon and build something more aligned. I'm

1214
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 3: open to partnership even marriage again, but I'm not attached

1215
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:39,040
Speaker 3: to a timeline, and I don't have kids. I'm starting

1216
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,040
Speaker 3: to accept that my life doesn't look anything like I

1217
00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 3: once thought it would, or like the lives of most

1218
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 3: people around me. From the outside, it looks like I'd

1219
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:48,880
Speaker 3: be walking away from a perfectly good life. I can't

1220
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 3: always tell if what I'm feeling is real clarity or restlessness,

1221
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 3: grief and burnout. So I guess what I'm asking is,

1222
00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 3: how do you trust yourself when your life looks fine

1223
00:57:57,520 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 3: feels off? How do you know your fall your intuition

1224
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 3: and not just blowing up something stable because it no

1225
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:05,600
Speaker 3: longer fits. And how do you fully step into a

1226
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 3: life that's more honest for you when it doesn't look

1227
00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 3: like what you expected or what anyone around you is choosing.

1228
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 3: I'm right at the edge of changing my life, and

1229
00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 3: I don't want to ignore that or talk myself out

1230
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 3: of it.

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Speaker 1: Warmly, Gretchen, Hi, Gretchen Grety, what a beautiful letter. This

1232
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:26,760
Speaker 1: is Sherry Terry, our special guest Day. Yeah. First of all,

1233
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry that you lost your husband. I can't

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00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 1: imagine what you must have gone through and your letter

1235
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:37,960
Speaker 1: almost has kind of the answers that you're looking for. Truly,

1236
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 1: like you are stepping into the unknown, that is that

1237
00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 1: is not comfortable. There are moments of discomfort along the

1238
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 1: way in all of our lives. And the only thing

1239
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:52,400
Speaker 1: that you can tell yourself all the time is that

1240
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 1: none of these phases are permanent. All of your feelings

1241
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 1: of discomfort are temporary. And moving into a new space,

1242
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 1: start a new life, which is the exact advice I

1243
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:03,960
Speaker 1: would be giving you. I would say, get up and

1244
00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 1: move to a new city. And you're already doing that,

1245
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 1: moving into this new version of you. And what you

1246
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 1: said is you're about to live a life. This is

1247
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 1: life is not how you expected it to be. Welcome

1248
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:19,840
Speaker 1: to the world, right, none of us have gotten exactly

1249
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 1: what we wanted or when we wanted to get it,

1250
00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:24,600
Speaker 1: or have held on to the people that we love

1251
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 1: the most. It just doesn't work that way. But what

1252
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 1: is beautiful is when you accept the situation that you're

1253
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 1: in and you figure out how to make that beautiful

1254
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:38,920
Speaker 1: and how to build back again, because there is so

1255
00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 1: much beauty in that. And I have no qualms or

1256
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:49,400
Speaker 1: uneasiness about how bright your future is just your letter alone.

1257
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 1: You already got it. You're there.

1258
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:54,560
Speaker 7: Your life, life breaks you down to open you up.

1259
00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 1: What do they do? Snap? This is it? This is

1260
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:03,240
Speaker 1: what the kids do. And actually, so I guess. I mean,

1261
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Speaker 1: I'm telling you everything.

1262
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:08,040
Speaker 6: You have the answers, but you're judging yourself, and you

1263
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 6: know it's a you adhere to these social norms that

1264
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:11,440
Speaker 6: just don't.

1265
01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:12,640
Speaker 7: Fit you, you know.

1266
01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:17,160
Speaker 6: So it's kind of like you already know what to do,

1267
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 6: but you think you're supposed to be sure. Everything is

1268
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:23,000
Speaker 6: supposed to be. There's no guarantees, but you know the

1269
01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 6: old thing of follow your heart and where you think

1270
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 6: you might want to go. I'm telling you, if bad

1271
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:33,000
Speaker 6: things didn't happen to me, I would have probably gone

1272
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 6: in a direction that wouldn't have served me well for

1273
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:36,439
Speaker 6: the long run.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, talk about unexpected life. I mean, everything we've just

1275
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:41,440
Speaker 1: talked about you weren't expecting in your life. But also

1276
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 1: the unknown is comfortable, and trust the unknown when things

1277
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:51,960
Speaker 1: are uneasy and you're not sure, trust it. Just trust

1278
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:54,720
Speaker 1: that you're where you're supposed to be. And I know

1279
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 1: that doesn't feel sometimes that feels like something like trite

1280
01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:02,280
Speaker 1: to say, but it is the biggest lesson that I

1281
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:06,440
Speaker 1: have learned is the moments of discomfort. There is always

1282
01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:09,520
Speaker 1: a light at the end of your tunnel, always, and

1283
01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:12,040
Speaker 1: there says there's going to be another tunnel too, you know,

1284
01:01:12,120 --> 01:01:13,400
Speaker 1: and then there's going to be a light at the

1285
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 1: end of that. So just make sure when you're in

1286
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 1: these moments, you're really in them. When you're in the grief,

1287
01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 1: be in it. When you're in the light, be in

1288
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 1: the light and trust yourself because you're on the right track.

1289
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:26,960
Speaker 7: The universe is moving you.

1290
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 1: You're emitting light. I can see it coming off of

1291
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:30,560
Speaker 1: your life, body, your soul.

1292
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:32,040
Speaker 7: I'm telling you, I.

1293
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:38,680
Speaker 1: Love it so so you're doing everything and we're cheering

1294
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:39,560
Speaker 1: you on, sir.

1295
01:01:41,840 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 4: I love your mission.

1296
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:48,720
Speaker 1: You got it, you got it. Go live out loud.

1297
01:01:49,240 --> 01:01:50,439
Speaker 1: Thank you much.

1298
01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:51,920
Speaker 4: I really appreciate it.

1299
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:53,240
Speaker 1: Sending you so much love.

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Speaker 2: Thank you us posted. Send us a postcard when you

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01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 2: get to New York. Okay, absolutely, yes, I will do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Bye bye, Gretchen. Awesome. I know what a wonderful

1303
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:11,800
Speaker 1: ending to today's episode. I love that.

1304
01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 3: And she's not like a timeline too, like she's like

1305
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:16,760
Speaker 3: on the move. It's probably happening in a few months.

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Speaker 2: She's doing it.

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01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:21,520
Speaker 1: That's a great letter for anyone who's sitting or listening

1308
01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 1: to this thinking like, how do I pick up the

1309
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:27,920
Speaker 1: pieces of an unexpected you know, something happening in your

1310
01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:31,720
Speaker 1: life that's unexpected, which is what life is. Cherry, I

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Speaker 1: love you. You are just a bundle of joy. Scary Movie

1312
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Speaker 1: six is in theaters now. You can go experience that

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Speaker 1: bundle of joy.

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Speaker 7: And uh, I'm doing celebrity autobiography.

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Speaker 1: Oh great, way. Oh I'm gonna come see you. Yeah

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Speaker 1: for sure. When is it? When does that start?

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Speaker 6: Okay, it's already started, but they're changing cast members and

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Speaker 6: I am doing it from I'll be there until the sixth,

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Speaker 6: so like I think the twenty ninth of Everybod, the

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Speaker 6: end of June, sasy Pants, the end of June.

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Speaker 7: Okay, I'm going to beat June twenty nine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the sixth of July. Yeah, I will come to

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Speaker 1: see you, all right. I have that window because I'm

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Speaker 1: going on a trip and I'm going to come through

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Speaker 1: the East Coast. I'm coming to see you and.

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Speaker 7: I'm going to Mayorka.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Robin said, yeah, yeah you Robin. Y'all get out

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Speaker 1: of my house, Robin, Right, I love it. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for being here.

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Speaker 7: My pledge.

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Speaker 3: If you want advice from Chelsea, right into Dear Chelsea

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Speaker 3: podcast at gmail dot com. Dear Chelsea is a production

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Speaker 3: of iHeartMedia. Follow Chelsea on all socials at Chelsea Handler,

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Speaker 3: and find Catherine on TikTok at flash Cadabra. Dear Chelsea

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Speaker 3: is edited and engineered by Brandon Dickert executive producer Catherine Law.

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Speaker 3: Find full video episodes and minisodes now on Netflix, and

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