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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Double Show.

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Speaker 3: Lee is on the phone today for to Catch a

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Speaker 3: Cheater and she's been dating her boyfriend Tom for two

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Speaker 3: years now, but all of a sudden, she thinks something's

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Speaker 3: going on.

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Speaker 2: So we'll see if we can help her out.

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Speaker 4: Lee.

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Speaker 3: Sorry that you're going through this, but what's up. Why

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Speaker 3: do you think Tom might be cheating on you?

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Speaker 1: First of all, he's just like a great guy, So

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Speaker 1: I just want to put that out there. I never

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Speaker 1: in a million years, but I think that I he'd

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Speaker 1: be cheating. But I'm trying to stay calm and just

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Speaker 1: there's been too many flags lately. A little background real quick.

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Speaker 1: We met in college, so like he's been following me

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Speaker 1: around ever since. He's a sweet, sweet guy and literally

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Speaker 1: one of the like one of those top notch guys

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Speaker 1: who will drop anything just to be there for me.

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Speaker 1: You know. He makes me feel special like all the things,

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Speaker 1: and honestly, like it just all feels like a big

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Speaker 1: switch in my brain. And yeah, so basically, I I've

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Speaker 1: been trying to keep myself in check, like really considering

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Speaker 1: all the other ways that men have cheating me over

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Speaker 1: the years, and he's not like that and try not

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Speaker 1: to read into this because I don't know about you,

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Speaker 1: but like I've had a series of cheating, toxic men,

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Speaker 1: and like Tom never giving me a pause to think that.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, we don't we don't live together. We've been

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Speaker 1: together for two years, but like at this point we

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Speaker 1: might as well. Like I'm always over at.

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Speaker 5: His place, and in the last few weeks, I've noticed

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Speaker 5: a shift that Tom hasn't been coming home as much

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Speaker 5: as he used to or to my place as much

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Speaker 5: as he used to, Like he's just out more.

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Speaker 1: And he's told me that he has like a lot

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Speaker 1: of work that he needs to get done and that

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Speaker 1: he'll call later, but like sometimes he doesn't even call

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Speaker 1: me at night, which is it's a big switch, I

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Speaker 1: would say, like the norm has always been he used

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Speaker 1: to call you, honestly, like sometimes color text every hour,

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Speaker 1: and now it's like hard to get a hold of him.

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Speaker 1: So that was like the first bump. Yeah, And then

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Speaker 1: there's also this this thing where he's just like saying

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Speaker 1: he needs me time. And when I call him out

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Speaker 1: on like not being around so much, and.

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Speaker 3: How does he say the me time thing? Like is

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Speaker 3: it like get off my back? I need me time

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Speaker 1: He's nice about it. It just seems to be happening

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Speaker 1: a lot, happening a lot lately. Like I I believe ye,

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Speaker 1: Like I'm not some kind of monster, and I don't

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Speaker 1: expect him to like be there on the drop of

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Speaker 1: a hat or you know, every second of every day.

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Speaker 1: But it's just something that's new and it's happening more consistently.

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Speaker 1: So then one day, like early last week, we went

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Speaker 1: out for like a nice little lunch at a cafe,

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Speaker 1: and when I noticed him get out to get the car,

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Speaker 1: get out of the car to get gas, I saw

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Speaker 1: a hair tie on the floorboard. That means, my stomach drop.

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Speaker 1: He works from home, he doesn't have female friends, doesn't

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Speaker 1: have he doesn't like take coworkers, you know, he's not

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Speaker 1: over with coworkers places. Like I brought it up. I

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Speaker 1: cool and be chill, and he like kind of stammered,

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Speaker 1: and he was like, it's my it's my sister's. And

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Speaker 1: so it feels so eagy like sharing this out loud

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Speaker 1: because I think I've been in denial about it, but

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Speaker 1: like that has stuck with me. So I when I

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Speaker 1: can't make this stuff up. I went to throw that

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Speaker 1: hair tie out, and I noticed a receipt for like

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Speaker 1: a really nice restaurant that we have the two of

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Speaker 1: us have never been to. And that receipt like was

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Speaker 1: over one hundred dollars. Looks like for a dinner for two.

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Speaker 1: And that doesn't seem like me time to me, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: when I saw you guys like a clip of catche

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Speaker 1: cheater on TikTok, I like my gut was, like I

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Speaker 1: should just be emailing you guys for help if.

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Speaker 3: You're just joining us for Today's to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 3: Lee is on the phone and she thinks that her

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Speaker 3: boyfriend of two years named Tom might be cheating. So

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Speaker 3: we're about to call him and pretend to be from

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Speaker 3: the grocery store that he's a rewards card member at

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Speaker 3: and say that every month, we choose one lucky Rewards

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Speaker 3: card member who gets free flowers delivered from a floral

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Speaker 3: department and we'll see if he sends those to Lee

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Speaker 3: or to somebody else. But first, Lee, why don't you

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Speaker 3: catch us up on your situation?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and Tom is a sweetheart. We've been together for

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Speaker 1: two years. We don't live together, but we spend a

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Speaker 1: lot of time with each other, and I recently noticed

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Speaker 1: a couple of things like him wanting more me time,

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Speaker 1: not not reaching out as much at night time. And

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Speaker 1: I found a girl's hairtie in a car that is

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Speaker 1: definitely not mine, and a receipt for a really expensive

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Speaker 1: restaurant that we have not been to together.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that hair tie and receipt definitely say yeah, all right,

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Speaker 3: are you ready for.

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Speaker 2: Us to call him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, this is Corbin calling from I was looking

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Speaker 3: for our rewards card member named Tom.

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Speaker 4: Uh yeah, yeah, that's me.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Tom, Please don't hang up. This's not a marketing

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Speaker 3: phone call. I'm actually calling to say congratulations. You're this

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Speaker 3: month's lucky Winter. Thank you so much for shopping with us.

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Speaker 3: We're clapping it up for you over here.

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Speaker 4: What do I win?

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Speaker 3: Well, every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member

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Speaker 3: who gets free flowers delivered from our new and improved

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Speaker 3: World apartments. So you've just won thirty six long stem

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Speaker 3: red roses, a box of candy or chocolates, and a

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Speaker 3: the fifty United States absolutely free.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Yeah that's crazy, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's awesome.

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Speaker 3: So if you know who you want to send them

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Speaker 3: to right now, I'm prepared to do that out over

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Speaker 4: We can get it out now.

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Speaker 2: Great.

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Speaker 3: The first thing I would need to be the first

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Speaker 3: and the last name of the person you'd like to

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Speaker 3: send the flowers too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it's Lee Lee.

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Speaker 1: Yes, L E, L E I G.

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Speaker 2: H okay, and anything you want to put on a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, say I know that. I know I've been distant lately,

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Speaker 4: and these flowers are to say and I'm sorry. Okay,

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Speaker 4: we should talk later. So I have some things I

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Speaker 4: need to confess. I do love you. Please know that.

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Speaker 2: I've got that on there. And great. At this point,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to let you know that this is

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Speaker 2: not the grocery store at all.

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Speaker 1: Tom, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: This is actually the Jubill Show.

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Speaker 3: It's a radio show and we do a segment called

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Speaker 3: to Catch a Cheater where if you think your significant

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Speaker 3: other is cheating, you see who they send flowers to,

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Speaker 3: and your girlfriend Lee is actually on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Are you hitting me right now? Are you kidding me

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Speaker 1: right now?

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Speaker 4: What are you?

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Speaker 1: What is it? What is this message?

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Speaker 4: What is it?

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Speaker 1: What are you trying to?

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Speaker 4: Wait? Nothing? Nothing, it's nothing bad, it's nothing bad. It's great.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to look? He said, what do you

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Speaker 1: need to confass? What do you need to confess?

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Speaker 4: It's not it's it is not it's not anything bad.

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Speaker 4: It's I promise you, it's it's I'm I'm I am

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Speaker 4: not cheating on you.

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Speaker 1: Well, I found a hair tie. You remember when I

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Speaker 1: found a hairtye in the car and you're like, it's

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Speaker 1: your sisters And it wasn't your sisters. I could tell.

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Speaker 1: I'm not an idiot. What is that? What was that?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 1: Guess what? Guess what? Guess what?

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Speaker 4: Tom?

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Speaker 1: I found a receipt. I found your recepipt for your

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Speaker 1: like fancy restaurants, like one hundred and fifty bucks somewhere.

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Speaker 1: It was in the trash. So you're not even you're

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Speaker 1: being messy. You're messy right now? What is going on?

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Speaker 1: Do just tell me? Please listen to me.

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Speaker 4: I'm I I love you. I love you so much.

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Speaker 1: I would never cheat on you. But you did, you did.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know.

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Speaker 6: No, I it's okay, Okay, look, I I've been wanting

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Speaker 6: to move in with you for so long, and I

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Speaker 6: think that that is the next step that we should take.

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Speaker 6: And I it sounds it sounds so stupid, but I've

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Speaker 6: I don't make a whole lot of money.

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Speaker 1: And you know that, and that like I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't feel good about that.

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Speaker 1: I know you don't care, but I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't feel good.

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Speaker 4: And I know that my knee time has seen suss

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Speaker 4: and it has been I've been doing a lot of

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Speaker 4: it and I and I am, I'm so sorry. And

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Speaker 4: yeah that the hair tide the receipt. Of course, you

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Speaker 4: think that I'm cheating, but it's this. I'm literally I'm

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Speaker 4: just ubering like I'm trying. I'm trying to make extra cash,

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Speaker 4: like I'm just I'm trying to grind so we can

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Speaker 4: afford an actual nice place. Like I'm ubering, I'm uber

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Speaker 4: eating the hair ties. Probably. I had to pick these

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Speaker 4: drunk girls up the other night, and they were there

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Speaker 4: were too many people that they said the one of

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Speaker 4: stating with my radio the whole time. Oh my god,

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Speaker 4: I love you.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. I mean you said, I'm like, that's

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Speaker 1: that's dumb for not telling me this in the first place,

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Speaker 1: that part, I know you need this, I don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't you know, I don't care how much money you make.

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Speaker 1: I'd rather have quality time with you and you first

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Speaker 1: of all, you've being honest about this stuff, and like

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Speaker 1: the quality time is stiff, killing you running around trying

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Speaker 1: to make ends meet, like killing yourself with work, Like

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Speaker 1: I'm not into that. You just Oh my god, dude,

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Speaker 1: are you serious? That's what? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Sorry, why did you feel like you had to lie?

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Speaker 4: Tom? Seriously, I thought that everything it would be easier

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Speaker 4: when like we finally talk about it and talk about

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Speaker 4: moving in. I thought it would just be easier if

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Speaker 4: I had everything ready to go already, that it didn't

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Speaker 4: like wait on it, it didn't have to be like

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Speaker 4: a long thing.

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Speaker 2: Well at least you know he's not cheating.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I'm I mean, I'm relieved about that. But honestly, Tom,

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Speaker 1: I like you never like, don't confess anything like that,

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Speaker 1: like the way you wrote that note on the flowers,

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Speaker 1: Like come on, seriously, Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Was that received from one of the people in the car.

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Speaker 3: Not to put calls in your story, Tom, I just

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Speaker 3: just want to make sure we're clear.

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Speaker 4: Probably, I like, they fly off all the time, and

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Speaker 4: I've been trying to I mean like I have been

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Speaker 4: trying to cover it up. I've been trying to clean

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Speaker 4: up my car and make sure that nobody's there. But

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Speaker 4: that's probably. It's always one of an order, though, I

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Speaker 4: had to pick up the other day.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, yeay, he's not cheating.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And also, Tom, it sounds like you can stop doing

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Speaker 3: uber eats and and ubering people places now.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you are too much. I am. I

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Speaker 1: honestly am relieved. I love you so much, Like, please

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Speaker 1: just be real with me. I'm like, yeah, I can't

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Speaker 1: wait to live with you too.

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Speaker 2: They're gonna live together.

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Speaker 4: I love you so much.

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