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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hie ye, how you feel I should not be doing

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Speaker 2: this podcast right now? I just you know, one thing

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Speaker 2: I really like about us is that we keep talking,

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Speaker 2: should have a baby, and we turn the microphones on.

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Speaker 2: No one in the right mind would do what we do,

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Speaker 2: and yet here we are. We should just stop talking.

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Speaker 2: Have we not learned these lessons? Also, it really hurts

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Speaker 2: to laugh, and so no, it's fine. I remember that feeling. Oh,

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Speaker 2: let's not be funny. I remember the first time Alan

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Speaker 2: tried to make me laugh in the hospital, like post section,

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Speaker 2: and it was you know how you because you had

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Speaker 2: se sections like you did not but yeah, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I was like, you have to push the pillow, please

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Speaker 2: don't make me laugh. But it was the he said,

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Speaker 2: oh now it helps. Well, okay, where should we start?

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Speaker 2: Can we let everybody know that just four short days

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Speaker 2: ago Monday? What isdsday? Wednesday? Yeah? Four you had a

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Speaker 2: C section? Yeah, and had your third baby. And four

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Speaker 2: days later, here we are pressing record, Like I said,

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Speaker 2: Like I said, big mistake. Where are we starting? Sorry?

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Speaker 2: Where would you like to start? Roman had a birthday? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so we moved up the sea section. It was supposed

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Speaker 2: to be thirty eight weeks. And then what I didn't

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Speaker 2: have remember a couple podcasts ago, we were talking and

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Speaker 2: I said I didn't really want to share because I

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Speaker 2: had to. What that was was I had to go

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Speaker 2: back to the hospital that week because my kidney infection

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Speaker 2: came back. And so when I was there, you know,

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Speaker 2: when I was talking to the high risk Nikki or

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Speaker 2: the high risk Obie doctor, he was kind of like,

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Speaker 2: we should move up your sea section, and in my mind,

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Speaker 2: I'm like great, but also like e scary, you know.

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Speaker 2: So they gave me a steroid shop for babes and

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Speaker 2: then I was in the hospital for three days. But

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Speaker 2: the funniest piece of that was, well this it was

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Speaker 2: Halloween and I go to my doctor's and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: the kidney paints back. I just got off the antibiotic.

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Speaker 2: It's like, what is going on? And she's like go

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Speaker 2: back to the hospital. I'm like okay, So I go

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Speaker 2: and they're like, yeah, you need to stay. But the

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Speaker 2: drip you need to stay on is like a every

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Speaker 2: six hour and it's a four hour drip. And I'm

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Speaker 2: like that means I'm here. And she's like, oh, you're

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Speaker 2: gonna be here for the next three days, and I'm

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Speaker 2: like no, no, no, no, it's Halloween. Like, I don't think

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Speaker 2: you understand. I'm not staying This is one of my

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Speaker 2: I honestly, I've been friends for a long time. This

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Speaker 2: is one of my favorite stories about you actually about

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Speaker 2: this uh huh, like not happening. No, I look at it.

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, then I'm leaving, like right now.

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Speaker 2: And she's like, you have pilot ninapritis whatever. She's like,

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Speaker 2: you have to day and get this drip like this

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Speaker 2: is the because the other stuff that I had in

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Speaker 2: West Palm, I guess you know. She's like this is

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Speaker 2: a stronger medication, like you have to do this ivy drip.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, I don't think you're listening. I am

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Speaker 2: not staying here. There are pumpkin buckets of Super Mario

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Speaker 2: Brothers amound. My children are expecting me to get them

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Speaker 2: from school and get them ready and we're going trick

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Speaker 2: or treating. And so she's like, okay, I hear you.

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Speaker 2: Like she was very nice, but I was also like

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Speaker 2: very I was like, then I will leave right now,

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Speaker 2: and then I'll pretend I don't have this pain, and

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Speaker 2: I'm going to come back in a couple hours. So

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Speaker 2: what we can do is I can either drip, get

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Speaker 2: the first round a drip, and then go trick or

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Speaker 2: treat and come right back. Or I'm going to pretend

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Speaker 2: I'm not here right now and you do not see me,

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Speaker 2: and I'm going to walk out of this hospital because

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Speaker 2: I die. Who knew I could have waited another day

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Speaker 2: at pain, but I got tried to get ahead of

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Speaker 2: it this time, so like I tried to get ahead

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Speaker 2: of it, you know. So I was like, I'm going

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Speaker 2: to go to the doctors and tell her I'm having

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Speaker 2: pain again, even though I just got off my antibiotics.

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Speaker 2: And so I'm like, I I'm going to pretend I

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Speaker 2: waited till tomorrow to talk to the doctor. So I

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Speaker 2: was like, what you can do? You can figure out

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Speaker 2: if that's going to happen, or if I'm going to

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Speaker 2: magically disappear from this hospital and you'll see me tonight.

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Speaker 2: And I can't handle you because I FaceTime you. I'm

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Speaker 2: like are you okay? And You're like, I'm in here,

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Speaker 2: but I'm leaving to go trick or treating. I go,

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Speaker 2: are you parolling? Yourself from the ivy drip and you're like,

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Speaker 2: no one, I have a six hour window window or whatever.

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Speaker 2: It was. Yeah, it was like a four It was

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Speaker 2: like a four hour drip and then like a six

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Speaker 2: had to travel to and from the hospital, so it

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Speaker 2: was closing down. Yeah. Yeah, we were losing window hours. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: peak trick or treating hours. Yeah. Yeah, so it was. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was a four hour drip because they started it

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Speaker 2: at So since she comes back and she goes, okay,

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Speaker 2: doctor said, do the four hour drip. You can leave

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Speaker 2: for trick or treating, but then you have to come

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Speaker 2: back by like ten o'clock to get the next round

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Speaker 2: to like do on the time schedule. And I'm like, awesome,

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Speaker 2: put it in drip, drip drop, and this is what

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Speaker 2: drip means in your forties. I was like, drip it, girl,

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Speaker 2: let's go and so and is the cute that all

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Speaker 2: the nurses were like, oh, that's so sweet, like you're leaving.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I don't think you understand, like, because

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Speaker 2: the kids are the best ages right now, the best

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Speaker 2: you know, I'm like, I'm not missing this. They're so excited,

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Speaker 2: and then Nashville gave you thirty degree weather. I was disgusting.

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Speaker 2: I walked back to the hospital with pneumonia on this

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Speaker 2: episode of The Oregon Trail, I know. So I literally

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Speaker 2: we the drip finished at five and I'm like, Alan

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Speaker 2: like book it. So we are just flying wheeling out

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Speaker 2: and I was like, all right, you know, get the

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Speaker 2: kids dressed, tell them I'm coming, like we got this.

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Speaker 2: The sad piece of this was we were supposed to

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Speaker 2: all go as Super Mario brothers and had a Luigi

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Speaker 2: costume for Alan, and when it came he was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm not putting that on. Do they this is I'll

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Speaker 2: probably look like any two half Halloween night? Thank you?

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Speaker 2: Oh thanks? Really good? Like an idiot on my behalf.

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Speaker 2: I was like, do they do that? Legitimate question? I

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Speaker 2: asked the same question. Yeah, And they're laughing in the chat. Well,

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Speaker 2: because well, I know, by right, I mean they don't

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Speaker 2: do a postpartum. It's called something different, I think, right,

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Speaker 2: do they call a swimsuit that's still swimming costume. So

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Speaker 2: there's a swimming costume. So I wasn't sure if we

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Speaker 2: entire time Alan's like, Babe, it's fine, that the kids

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Speaker 2: just like, I don't know what you're talking about. I

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Speaker 2: wonder if you would have actually put it on. He

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Speaker 2: Mike metus over Rep PAMs and so that's where we

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Speaker 2: started trick or treating and everyone's you know, dressed up,

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Speaker 2: and I'm kind of covering my arm stuff because I'm

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Speaker 2: got to want Julie to be like, you know, it's like,

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Speaker 2: oh it God, stuck in traffic or whatever and so,

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Speaker 2: and plus my Daisy costume wouldn't fit anyway, so that

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Speaker 2: then I made Alan put the Luigia hat on for

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Speaker 2: like a hot minute, and then he was that hot

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Speaker 2: minute later or during trick or treating. Do you have

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Speaker 2: a thing for Italian guys? Do anything we need to

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Speaker 2: talk about? No? She's a drip trip. That's not true.

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Speaker 2: But then yeah, we trick or treated for two hours.

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Speaker 2: I got pneumonia because it was freezing. I was like,

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Speaker 2: when that's why we moved it up another week. Uh.

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Speaker 2: And then let's see here, Monday morning we walked in.

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Speaker 2: We had to be there at five thirty. You also

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Speaker 2: had to go Sunday for yourself. Oh yeah, Sunday, Yes,

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Speaker 2: you're right, you're a resident there I am. I am like,

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Speaker 2: your downtown national home. Well, so they made me go

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Speaker 2: because there was a potential fear of needing a blood transfusion.

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Speaker 2: So get there five thirty and then and then the

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Speaker 2: their big old worms, but they roll. And so the

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Speaker 2: last time I was in the hospital, they sticked to

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Speaker 2: me five times trying to get an ivy and that

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Speaker 2: it hurts when you get an ivy, Like it's just like,

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Speaker 2: with that either. No, there's some magic ones, right, and

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Speaker 2: then there'd be some with like Okay, well I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: lo and behold roll. But just the anxiety of the

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Speaker 2: was like, I'm going to pass out. I'm going to

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Speaker 2: pass out, and then I just started seeing stars. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: I didn't fully pass out, but it was like I'm

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Speaker 2: going Yeah. That was the start. And then they had

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Speaker 2: someone come in from in anesthesia in a station in

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Speaker 2: a sitiation. I was going to say anesthesia, Yeah, he's

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Speaker 2: an R and B girl. Yeah, she's still out there,

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Speaker 2: so where are you at? Were we at? I'll so

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Speaker 2: then they ended up sticking me and he's great, and

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Speaker 2: He's like, this is what we usually give you, and

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Speaker 2: I'm and I'm like, I'm going to need something stronger.

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Speaker 2: I was like, let me tell you something. I was like,

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Speaker 2: I freak out when I don't feel my legs. And

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Speaker 2: I talked to Amy about that. We tried to work through.

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Speaker 2: I tried to get hypnotized, I tried to I did

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Speaker 2: E M D R. Because for me, what came up

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Speaker 2: about not feeling my legs was being tied down when

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Speaker 2: I was in an abusive relationship. So the feeling that

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Speaker 2: I can't move or get out like that out of

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Speaker 2: you know, we're all too much, but.

426
00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:40,640
Speaker 1: Bless all, I just need to give him, like, oh,

427
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 1: so many props obviously with how he handles you and

428
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:48,680
Speaker 1: and everything, but also what I'm saying, like anyone that's

429
00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 1: going through that situation, he has literally just been so great.

430
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:55,480
Speaker 1: But to also have to deal with us like wait,

431
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,159
Speaker 1: you have to come tell us right away that you

432
00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:58,879
Speaker 1: just had a baby, and like you need us to

433
00:21:58,960 --> 00:21:59,679
Speaker 1: come up there.

434
00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,160
Speaker 2: To see but he just like he knows how important

435
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,440
Speaker 2: y'all get. Yeah, and I love that about it. Okay,

436
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,880
Speaker 2: it's worth telling everyone that. The night before on Roman Eve,

437
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 2: as I call it, Alan got added to the Queendom

438
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:18,720
Speaker 2: group job and I was like, buckle up, buddy, And

439
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,640
Speaker 2: it was cute because Jana's like, I'm adding Allen here

440
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 2: just for tomorrow. And I kept thinking, like this is

441
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 2: the quietest our group dat's ever been. Well, and then

442
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 2: the next day, one text and Alan has left the group.

443
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 2: It's pretty quick. Yeah, thanks for being a reporter. Oh god.

444
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 2: I was really super proud of you too, though, Like

445
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:45,639
Speaker 2: I was very observant of just you two and the

446
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,639
Speaker 2: way he operates with you and the way you operate

447
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 2: with him. It's just like I've said this a lot,

448
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 2: but just the teamwork you guys were just such a

449
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 2: rock star team. It felt like, I mean he's that

450
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 2: saw him Like he's incredible. Truly, He's so supportive and

451
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:07,879
Speaker 2: just be like, you know, joking, but he handles me

452
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 2: very well and just is like very soft with me

453
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 2: and very centering for me and very calming for me.

454
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's very nice. He has a confidence that

455
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 2: is like Calman to me. Yeah, for sure. And yeah,

456
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 2: he was great. I mean the hospital, it was the

457
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 2: you know we spent. I will say this about any

458
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 2: C section mamas that are listening or that are about

459
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 2: to have a sea section. I went home at the

460
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 2: second day for Jace. I see now why they keep

461
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,959
Speaker 2: you also the third day, like because they'll do two

462
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 2: or three days. Yeah, it's like kind of up to you. Yeah,

463
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 2: but I see why they keep three. And I wish

464
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 2: I would have stayed three.

465
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 1: Oh I stayed three actually, now that I think about it,

466
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 1: I know I did with Emmy. Yep, I came home

467
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 1: on Christmas Eve. I may have stayed three every every time. Yeah,

468
00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 1: but I'm also the person that's fine staying.

469
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:04,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I regret that decision. That's one decision. I realize that. Yeah,

470
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 2: and normally so typically it's three days. Okay, it's the

471
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 2: mother's discretion to leave. I can't remember. I probably never

472
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:14,679
Speaker 2: say I want to leave so shot because the doctor's

473
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,440
Speaker 2: like you want to leave? You sure? Like because you

474
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 2: know you like the majority is three.

475
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: Well, especially when you have a c section, it's just

476
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 1: so helpful to have those nurses because it's a surgery

477
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 1: well and it's like getting I mean just getting up

478
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,399
Speaker 1: and going pee. To have a nurse is just so

479
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 1: helpful because it's not easy.

480
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 2: No, no, and I had you came over, so the

481
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:43,440
Speaker 2: I think, you know, I don't have my kids for Thanksgiving.

482
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 2: So my first thought was I got to get home

483
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 2: to the kids. I got to get home because they're

484
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 2: going to leave to go for a way for a

485
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 2: week and I need to see them and all out

486
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 2: what I also told and I you know, I feel

487
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:01,879
Speaker 2: bad and sleeping on the pull out and though he

488
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 2: did not complain one time, would have stayed a week

489
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 2: if we had true, I was like, I want to

490
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 2: also get him home because this is probably really uncomfortable

491
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 2: for him, Like we're not sleeping, you know, they come

492
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 2: in eleven, one, three, five, six, Get some rest, get

493
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 2: some rest, get some resting. Not yeah, one of the

494
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,120
Speaker 2: that came in at like three in the morning talking

495
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 2: about safe sleep, and I'm like, at three in the morning,

496
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:26,400
Speaker 2: we're going to do this. I'm in so much pain.

497
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:28,160
Speaker 2: Am I getting any sleep? So we're not talking about

498
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 2: safe sleep? But I know they're just doing their job. Yeah,

499
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 2: But I also do wish there was some coordination. I

500
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,119
Speaker 2: would love to know the medical professional view of this,

501
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,160
Speaker 2: because I wish there was almost like a coordinating schedule

502
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 2: post baby birth, like everyone come into all days at once, yeah,

503
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 2: and then yeah, yeah, I understand they're coming, and I

504
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 2: appreciate the every couple hours, Oh, peek me the pill

505
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,680
Speaker 2: check or like the medicine, please give me that. Yeah,

506
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 2: that's great. Come on and scan my thing, do that,

507
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,160
Speaker 2: take my vitals, do what you gotta do. But if

508
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 2: the other people that are coming in, if they could

509
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 2: would just see it, he grab social Security, and they

510
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 2: could grab pediatrician, and they could grab like everybody at

511
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 2: the same time and just come on in.

512
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 4: Yeah.

513
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I think another thing too, is like I

514
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 2: want to get home to the bed. But when I

515
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 2: came home and here was the second regret. Even though

516
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:18,479
Speaker 2: I wanted to see the kids, I shouldn't have had

517
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 2: the kids come home that second day. But again I'm like,

518
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 2: and Alan's like, are you sure, And I'm like yeah,

519
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 2: because they're going to leave for Virginia and I need

520
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:30,920
Speaker 2: to see them. And you know, I should have given

521
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 2: myself a chance to rest and get a full night's

522
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 2: sleep and whatever. And so Catherine comes over and she's

523
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 2: holding the baby. I'm like, I just need to I

524
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,439
Speaker 2: need to just take a nap. When I wake up

525
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 2: from them nap, I have like massive anxiety because it's

526
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 2: like the kids are about to come home. Oh my god,

527
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,560
Speaker 2: and now this is like it's like this whole new thing,

528
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 2: and I'm still in pain, and so I just I

529
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 2: had like a total panic attack. And then and then

530
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 2: Jolie woke up that morning puking or that that night,

531
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 2: that night, that night, and uh so that was the

532
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 2: first night. And then last night I was up all

533
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 2: night with Jase because he is a group stop. Yeah

534
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 2: Murphy's law. Oh my gosh. Yeah. So the lesson is

535
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 2: don't break up. Well, I mean I know an other

536
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 2: parents too. They don't get the luxury. But like if

537
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 2: I can be like, hey, Mike, I need, like I know,

538
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 2: need you to play because well my thing was now,

539
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 2: Alan's going to be up with a puking kid and

540
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:33,239
Speaker 2: our baby, right, So I texted him, I said, can

541
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 2: I can't move, so like, can you please come get

542
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 2: And I felt and then I felt terrible about taking Joel,

543
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 2: you know, because then she's like, why am I probably leaving?

544
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 2: You know, So I had that whole situation I just

545
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 2: felt awful about. But I'm like, I should have stayed

546
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 2: in the hospital. Like I just was like, rushed it,

547
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 2: you know, I rushed this time too, and I don't

548
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 2: I was so thankful once I was home and they

549
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 2: were all nested in their little beds. Yeah, but I I,

550
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 2: I don't know.

551
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people rush that time.

552
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 1: I loved the hospital time. I know, I'm kind of

553
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,919
Speaker 1: in the minority there. I mean, besides getting woken up,

554
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,400
Speaker 1: I just kind of really cherished that time. And maybe

555
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 1: it was more and more as I had multiple because

556
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 1: I knew it was going to get crazy when I

557
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: got home. I knew it was going to be a madhouse.

558
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 1: And really, as it's like your third this is the

559
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,479
Speaker 1: only time you're truly really going to have, I mean,

560
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,360
Speaker 1: you'll have some of that time because of the divorced situation.

561
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: But which is you, your husband and the baby.

562
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 2: I'm opposite because I feel like my heart is in

563
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 2: two different places and I don't like that. I get

564
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 2: really anxious. I need to be with all of them.

565
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 2: That's probably part of that is I don't do this

566
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 2: at home with them. Sure, you know, like I think

567
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 2: if Preston was nested with them at home, maybe I

568
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 2: could have done that differently.

569
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 1: So that's fair because now yeah, because also come now

570
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: that you say that. With Ramsey, I think Nick stayed

571
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: one night and then I asked him to go home

572
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 1: the other nights with the kids, like we actually don't

573
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,479
Speaker 1: need you. I'm good, Like, seriously, I would feel better

574
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: if you were at home with the kids.

575
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 2: The one night that I had the baby in the hospital,

576
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 2: though we had a sleepover. Centennial was incredible. We piled in,

577
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 2: they gave us extra blankets and it was the kids

578
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 2: thought that was like that's a core memory. Oh that's neat.

579
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 2: So I got to nest with everybody. But then the

580
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 2: second night, Preston was going to be out of town,

581
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 2: and so I was like, I need to go home.

582
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 2: I want us all together. I just don't do well. Yeah,

583
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 2: I'm such anxious, like a especially postpartum, I get very anxious.

584
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 2: It's very primal, like put everybody in their little den,

585
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, well, I'm proud of you for what

586
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 2: it's worth. I thought you handled it beautifully. Thanks, truthfully,

587
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 2: thank you. I would tell you if there was anything

588
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 2: I thought we could laugh about, and once you're healed,

589
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 2: maybe I'll find something. We'll find something. Really, no, you

590
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 2: just did so well. Thank you. I mean, it's you guys.

591
00:29:57,240 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 2: What we go through is a lot. I'm so many levels,

592
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 2: and I've said this to both of you. I know,

593
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 2: I think there's a mutual respect from both sides of

594
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:12,720
Speaker 2: like vaginal and sea section berths. But like I could

595
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 2: not do a sea section for the you're my heroes.

596
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:22,640
Speaker 1: I look do it the natural way, and I'm like,

597
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 1: there's no way I could do that, which you could.

598
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 1: But that's the thing, it's just what you don't know,

599
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: I know.

600
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 2: But I just admire that, and I also admire that

601
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 2: you can even like I wouldn't be sleeping for a week.

602
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 2: It's like an advent calendar for me. It's like the

603
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 2: countdown Christmas is coming. Do I know that is true?

604
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 2: I definitely did not sleep. Oh yeah, I didn't either.

605
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 2: I do get a little enbos that your nails and

606
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 2: loshes could be on point. But the night before sea

607
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 2: section is like the worst. Allan was just like I

608
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 2: was just like scrolling on Instagram.

609
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Speaker 1: I remember, I'm like, it's eleven fifty nine. If I'm

610
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 1: going to eat, I better eat.

611
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 2: Now in my face. I did that every single time.

612
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Speaker 1: I remember, because they you can't eat after midnight yep,

613
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Speaker 1: so I would like, way, I'm like, I'm gonna be awake.

614
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 2: So like eleven fifty eight, I wasn't sleeping Sunday night.

615
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 2: I could. I was like, I've had any minutes and

616
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 2: then I'm like two more hours until they're up and

617
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:21,040
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646
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Speaker 2: The only kind of perk on this surgery was they

647
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 2: gave me a pre surgery drink to drink two hours

648
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 2: before the surgery, Like, what is it? What is that

649
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 2: it's got like fifty grams of carbs. It's got like

650
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 2: all this like it's it was strawberry flavored. It was

651
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 2: an insurer and had all these vitamins interesting and stuff.

652
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 2: And I text doctor Norman and being like, hey, you

653
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 2: told me not to do like, I just want to

654
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 2: make sure they gave me this of my blood draw

655
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 2: and She's like, absolutely, drink it. So and it was

656
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 2: glorious because you know how you hungry and thirsty you

657
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 2: are leading into the hospital.

658
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm still amazed at the hole you

659
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 1: can just eat now after a C section, Like I'm

660
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 1: still stuck on this.

661
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 2: Okay, well, so this is this is a great thing

662
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 2: because this leads me into the thing that I was

663
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 2: like laughing so hard that I was like my stitches.

664
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 2: I was like, you have to not make me laugh

665
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 2: at the next week, because when you had set them

666
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 2: into the nurse, you're like, don't you have to pass

667
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 2: gas first? Yeah? I did with all three of mine.

668
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 2: Same yeah, yeah, I vaguely now remember that too. When

669
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 2: do I get to eat, I'm like, come on, let's

670
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 2: fart already. So he associated with that all be about farting.

671
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 2: So I started having really bad, like shoulder paints. Oh yes,

672
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 2: do you remember that? It's right, air bubbles appear. I

673
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 2: didn't know I'm having a heart attack. So I was like,

674
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 2: talk button. I was like, I need the nurse place.

675
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:05,719
Speaker 2: She goes like, IM like I think my heart jack.

676
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 2: I was like my shoulder pain. It's like She's like, oh,

677
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 2: it's gas, and I'm like, gas in my shoulders. It hard.

678
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 2: I have never heard of this.

679
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: Why it didn't happen within It's so painful, so painful,

680
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: so painful, and so but you can't fart. Well, it's

681
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: like up here it's literally trapped air. Like it's like

682
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:25,880
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's really a pair, but you

683
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 1: know what I mean, it's like trapped air.

684
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 2: It's yeah. And I've never farted in front of Alan.

685
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 2: I've never, I mean one never. I've never pooped in obviously,

686
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 2: like we've never. I would not dare far in front

687
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:39,759
Speaker 2: of him like ever, and so but I'm like all

688
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 2: I want to do is fart, like I literally like,

689
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 2: I don't care if it's in front of him, I

690
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 2: don't care if it's loud, like I just the goodness

691
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 2: is it's not the funniest thing happened though, but he

692
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 2: does not know this happened, and he listens, he doesn't

693
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 2: really listen. So that's fine. He won't listen. Never listened

694
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 2: to me. Do you remember what happened on the last month?

695
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:08,280
Speaker 2: So yeah, right when we asked, and they were all silent,

696
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:14,320
Speaker 2: exactly like no one owned that literal great. It was

697
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 2: like NICKI lesson right, and he's like, can you just download?

698
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 2: So at least we get like the credit of a download.

699
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 2: But so I'm just like, Bam, I'm sorry to say this,

700
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 2: but you've already I mean, now, at this point, you know,

701
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 2: he's seen I'm walking around in a diaper and a

702
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 2: you know, it's not even a diaper. It's like one

703
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 2: of those peapads that they shove in one of those

704
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 2: big things. It's like and so at this point, I'm like,

705
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:39,840
Speaker 2: I need to just mention the farting things. I'm a

706
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,400
Speaker 2: lot of pain from the fart the non farting, And

707
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 2: so I just was like, hey, you know, if I

708
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 2: have to fart, like, I'm not holding it in, you

709
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:52,239
Speaker 2: know that I would normally do. And so he made

710
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 2: some joke and it's not going to be funny now,

711
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 2: but he made some joke because I was like, they

712
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 2: kept saying land your side, and I'm like, well, it

713
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:00,080
Speaker 2: hurts to land on my left side right now, but

714
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try. So I had they'd given me an

715
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 2: oxy or whatever and I'd laid on my left side,

716
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 2: and uh, He's like, room and be careful, she's about

717
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:16,320
Speaker 2: to blow you away. Because I was like I just started.

718
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 2: I was like, no, make me laugh. But what happened

719
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 2: was and this is the part that he doesn't know. Oh,

720
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 2: I hope it doesn't listen to this one. This lady

721
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 2: came in to do a she's.

722
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:30,319
Speaker 4: Like a.

723
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,359
Speaker 2: Pet to kind of show me how to log roll

724
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 2: and get in and out of bed and stuff like

725
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 2: that when I go home, and uh, when I was

726
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:43,320
Speaker 2: doing like the little log roll things, there was a

727
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:48,279
Speaker 2: little yay nobody heard it. But I went like that

728
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 2: to see if maybe like Alan clocked it, and he didn't.

729
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 2: I was like, thank god. And then after that it

730
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,280
Speaker 2: was sailing.

731
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like one chew great and I'm still I

732
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:01,919
Speaker 1: still need to know how you can eat. I'm gonna

733
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 1: look it up later. I don't know it's changed, clearly.

734
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 2: It had a lot since I mean, we had a

735
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,879
Speaker 2: five year gas in delivery. I mean I had seven,

736
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 2: So I guess I can't. I guess should we ask

737
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 2: Alan to bring Roman up?

738
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 5: Yes?

739
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 2: Let me say so. How how is Roman doing? He's

740
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 2: been home?

741
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 4: Please?

742
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 2: He has been amazing.

743
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:24,359
Speaker 4: Uh.

744
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:31,799
Speaker 2: He's sleeping about three hours good at night, sleeping about

745
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:36,240
Speaker 2: three hours? Uh? Is he pooping? Poop? Poop? And pan?

746
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 2: Good man? Right now? Literally all he does is just sleeping, eat. Yeah,

747
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 2: that's a best time. I'm trying to like, I want

748
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 2: him to like no, like you like, stay awake a

749
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 2: little bit, but he's not here. I want to awake

750
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 2: at all. I was in the hospital and I was like,

751
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 2: this isn't appropriate if I want to do skin to

752
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:57,879
Speaker 2: skin with your child. It was interesting, is they didn't

753
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 2: really push skin to skin? Huh? And I don't know

754
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,800
Speaker 2: if it's because I wasn't because I'm not breastfeeding or not,

755
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 2: but I did a lot of skin to skin with

756
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 2: Jason the hospital, but they did not. I mean I

757
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 2: voluntarily did it. They didn't. The only time I did

758
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 2: skin to skin that they asked was for after his

759
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 2: bath was it? Which I thought was interesting. I thought

760
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 2: they don't remember if they pushed or it and push. Yeah,

761
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 2: I mean we were skinned skinning, but I'm trying to

762
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 2: remember if it was me or if they think it

763
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 2: was me.

764
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: Well, I say that I feel like my last one

765
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: because I think with Ramsey I was actually able to

766
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 1: do skin to skin after the sea section. The other

767
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: ones I hadn't. Usually they're wrapped up and they're just

768
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 1: like right there. I think I was able to put

769
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:36,879
Speaker 1: her actually skinned to skin on that one.

770
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 2: And see, I don't know because I did my first

771
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 2: two at Saint Thomas and then I did this third

772
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 2: at Centennial, So I don't know if it's the hospital

773
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 2: difference or the five year gap that things are different.

774
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 2: But I felt very loved and supported it Centennial. I

775
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 2: felt very like, oh yeah, same scene, way better than

776
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,399
Speaker 2: no one was my personal opinion. Boss seen me. Yeah,

777
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 2: you know, the lactation nurse didn't come in once, and

778
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 2: I really missed an opportunity because oh it was a

779
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:08,240
Speaker 2: Siren Night Lives gift for me. This chick yeah, didn't

780
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 2: didn't come in once never matter. Huh Yeah, and my

781
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 2: milk just came in to which is why I were

782
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 2: in cappat right now. But it just it was like

783
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 2: five days or however, it was this morning. It came in,

784
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 2: so let's see. Yeah, that's normal. Mine's always day after

785
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 2: and it's miserable, so mine just never comes in. Guys,

786
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 2: it's fine. But I'm like, I have no shame about

787
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 2: it this time, I just did zero. Like before with Jase,

788
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 2: I felt so much shame and I tried so hard

789
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 2: to try and this with you know, with this go around,

790
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, I'm actually completely fine. I think that's

791
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 2: a really important point too, because I feel like I've

792
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 2: heard from a lot of moms. First of all, oral

793
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 2: ties pay play a huge piece in the breastfeeding part

794
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 2: of the postpartum journey, and I don't know that any

795
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:03,399
Speaker 2: of my three were super properly checked for that straight

796
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 2: out of the gate. The gate being my vagina, I guess.

797
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 2: And that's why they have a hard time latching. Yeah,

798
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 2: it makes it really tricky for them to latch, and

799
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 2: it makes it super painful for you, and then they

800
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 2: fatigue easy so they're not getting full, so then they

801
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 2: don't want to sleep. It's a spiral. But because I

802
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,800
Speaker 2: could not breastfeed love and I don't oh my sweet

803
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 2: ni naive self. I thought for sure breastfeeding would just

804
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 2: be like. I mean that's I had no birth plan.

805
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,800
Speaker 2: I didn't care about anything. I just needed to breastfeed

806
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,800
Speaker 2: and I could not. I had lactaitian consultants. There's a

807
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,800
Speaker 2: woman in Nashville called the Milk Ninja. She's like this

808
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 2: like famous person that can get milk out of like

809
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 2: a stone. And she came over and and I think

810
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 2: it really sent me. Not am not being over dramatic,

811
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,320
Speaker 2: but I think that was such a huge piece of

812
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 2: the postpartum depression because I felt like I was failing.

813
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 2: I felt like formula was giving her McDonald's. I just

814
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 2: a lot of people, Yeah, and so many women go

815
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 2: through this and like fed is best for your lifestyle,

816
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 2: for your sanity, for your bodies. Fed is best. And

817
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 2: I'm passionate about that because it's not fair and there

818
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 2: are a lot of things you can do differently. I

819
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,439
Speaker 2: tried so hard to do different things this time because

820
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 2: I had learned so much. And still, you guys, my

821
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 2: body is not a crazy producer. You know what else?

822
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: I found though, that's very interesting and I feel like

823
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: you're doing it a little bit and I'm not calling

824
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 1: you out in a bad way. I feel like people

825
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 1: feel like they have to give their excuses to why

826
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:34,479
Speaker 1: they're not breastfeeding. Well, I tried really really really hard,

827
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 1: or it was a this, or it was a that,

828
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 1: or it was a this, and that's not bad. I

829
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: mean you did try really hard. But some people also

830
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 1: are like, guess what I want to do?

831
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:42,800
Speaker 2: Formula?

832
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 1: Well that's my thing, and it's like okay, instead of

833
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:46,920
Speaker 1: I feel like people feel like they have to.

834
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 2: Like I would a breastfed, I would have had zero

835
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 2: sleep because like it was divine. So I moved to formula,

836
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 2: and it saved my life because if I had been

837
00:41:56,080 --> 00:42:00,280
Speaker 2: up pumping trying to feed on my own, no family,

838
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 2: no husband, I can't imagine how dark that might have gotten.

839
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 1: Absolutely it's a huge contributing factor to postpartum depression.

840
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:11,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I am. I brought formula to the hospital

841
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 2: this time. I was unapologetic about it. I did try.

842
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 2: I always try more so for my little like, yeah,

843
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 2: pr brain, I'm like, I'm gonna set a personal record

844
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 2: and see any ounces I can get. But we just

845
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 2: did it for like a couple months, and I just

846
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,360
Speaker 2: am never enough for them in that department, And so

847
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 2: we formula. We move on. Yeah, for sure, And I'm

848
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 2: proud of us well, and yeah, and he's he's a

849
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,840
Speaker 2: great little baby. He's so sweet. And if you're a

850
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 2: boob out mom at two years old, I am envious

851
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 2: of you and I love you and I support you too.

852
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 2: But I've just never been. I can't do it. There,

853
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:46,359
Speaker 2: I have it. He's so sweet, I can't like, he's

854
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 2: so handsome, it's a bit serious. He's sleeping good, he's

855
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 2: eating good. Yep, and yeah, and you have a third

856
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:01,240
Speaker 2: and here we go. So love your girls, Thanks for everything,

857
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 2: of course, love love you. We'll be back next week,

858
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 2: maybe with some more tears, almost likely TVD postpartum episode.

859
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 2: We should just call these like Monday postpartum. It's good though.

860
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Speaker 2: I think it's a fair and honest journey to be

861
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:21,879
Speaker 2: on with people because you know, there's so much there's

862
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 2: just so much going on in our bodies postpartum. And

863
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 2: I now that I've had three, I'm like, oh, I

864
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 2: just wish that I wish I had someone speaking this

865
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 2: honestly into me. Yeah, the first time, I.

866
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 1: Remember crying the first time and not knowing what was

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Speaker 1: wrong with me. So people know it's normal. You will

868
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 1: just cry for no reason after you have a baby.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, all right, guys, I love you and I'm

870
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:47,799
Speaker 2: proud of you. I love you, love you, Bye bye

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Speaker 2: bye