1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: My husband invited a stripper to have a threesome with 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: me on my wedding night. Should I leave them? 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 2: You know, sometimes we hear about people that have terrible relationships. 4 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 2: Is not one to have people who are inspirations. Yeah, 5 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 2: this is inspiration for us. 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: I mean truly, what a king. Yeah, and it's like, 7 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: you know, start your wedding like you like you want 8 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 1: your relationship to be right, you know, so like your 9 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: marriage be. Your wedding night should be emblematic of the marriage. 10 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: And so if you want to have threesomes every night. 11 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:33,599 Speaker 3: Early, I was wondering where you were going. 12 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 2: By the way, welcome for the third time in a 13 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:41,520 Speaker 2: row for us, but first time for you all. Macy 14 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 2: Savannah smiles, Hello is on the show. 15 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 3: I am, yes, yeah, thank you for inviting me to 16 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 3: your studio. 17 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 2: Oh of course, Oh yeah, studio can And we went 18 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 2: to our real studio, which we you know. 19 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 1: We've been keeping from you guys. Yeah, exactly, We're sorry. 20 00:00:56,920 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 2: Let's drop like a million dollars on a studio and 21 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 2: then never use it. That's a good idea that we 22 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 2: want to just reveal it for a very guest and 23 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 2: maze qualified. 24 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:10,119 Speaker 3: Do you have to say for my streaming room. Though, 25 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 3: how you guys have your lights set up in the 26 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 3: back was kind of like where I kind of drew inspiration. 27 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: Wow, I am actually. 28 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:21,199 Speaker 3: Like I had in the house though it was lazy 29 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 3: with it, but I liked the different color. 30 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: You know. 31 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 2: We did we once because we like have like sound 32 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 2: blankets like black out the light and happiness. Yeah, yeah, 33 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 2: like these right, So I was like, what if we 34 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 2: like didn't record in a cave for once, So we 35 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 2: pulled the blinds back and all of our videos like 36 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 2: hanged all. 37 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: People really like the darkness. They like us to darkness. 38 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: All right, Wait, Macice, quick question? Is a threeesome on 39 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: the wedding night? 40 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 3: A deal breaker depends on the type of relationship I 41 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 3: think you have for me personally. That's just not that's 42 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 3: on the table. That was something I was like, you 43 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 3: guys have discussed. 44 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 45 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 3: It was like, you know, with all these things, like 46 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 3: I'm not polyamorous at all, but I'm not gonna like 47 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 3: crap on people who are polyamorous. It's just not my thing. 48 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 3: I'm very monogamous. Graham's very monogamous. But if this is 49 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 3: like what they're into, they've discussed it. I think it's fine. 50 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 1: What if it wasn't discussed and he's like, babe, I 51 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 1: have a present for you. 52 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm pulling in a really special favor for you, 53 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 2: so you better be Yeah. 54 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 3: I'd be a little pissed off. I'm being nice, but 55 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,799 Speaker 3: I would obviously not be mad at the person that's 56 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 3: being pulled in for the three some because like they 57 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:42,399 Speaker 3: probably have no clue what's going. 58 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 1: I mean, that's very I think that's pretty fair of you. 59 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: I think, like, you know, just given the scenario, I'm 60 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: just imagining that it's bursting out of like a wedding cake. 61 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, here we are. 62 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 3: I'm ready somebody like in the Brothers story and like 63 00:02:57,720 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 3: they knew you wouldn't want a three someome and they just. 64 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: Whoa no cake for threes. I'm in love with my 65 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 1: own brother. 66 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 3: Just like a double backsap, Like you know, like let's 67 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 3: say it's your best friend that knows you really wouldn't 68 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 3: want that, and they were like showing up with your 69 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 3: husband be like threesome. I feel like that's a double. 70 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: Is a double backstab? Yeah yeah, all right, well let's 71 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: see what actually happened. Maybe we get it. I love that, 72 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:29,359 Speaker 1: all right, let me preface by saying, nothing like this 73 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: has ever happened before, which is what left me so 74 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 1: utterly fabaghasted. 75 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 3: Oh you mean she hasn't been offered on her wedding 76 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 3: night before them threesome? 77 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: You haven't been living common? Yeah, that's very common. That 78 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: is called a good time geez, normalized, normalized having three 79 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: cents on your No, no, no, don't commit down to that. Yeah, 80 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: you know what normalized having three sims on your wedding. 81 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 2: John Fry would like to normalize, you know what. Let's 82 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 2: go ten some you know and some Why are we missing? 83 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 3: Let's cut over to your girlfriend, right, Yeah, who definitely 84 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 3: has a camera? 85 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: It's your answer Noway, but I had a lot of 86 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: trust in the relationship, but this has called some things 87 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 1: into question. Okay, my husband will call him Steve, and 88 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: I plan to get married in Vegas of course. Oh 89 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: that's where we are. 90 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 3: His name is Steve too. 91 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 1: I mean I know she's giving Yeah. Is that like 92 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: a Vegas name? 93 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 3: No, it just sounds like somebody that would do this, Steve. 94 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 1: Like a fucking anyone named Steve. You hate you like, 95 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: stop watching. I won't get out, get out unless you 96 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: know you're down to have a three something, you know, 97 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: come over. 98 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 3: Maybe you needed, like at the beginning of this, to 99 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 3: have like high Steve at the beginning of the YouTube videos, 100 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 3: just like there's gonna be one person named Steve that's 101 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 3: gonna be like, oh, oh. 102 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: My god, Steve, we're talking to you. You you and 103 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 1: actually Kevin from TSA. I remember when we were talking 104 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 1: earlier and miss you. 105 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 2: There was a guy who recognized Sam and said, oh wow, 106 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 2: I've been watching the show for year. 107 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: Da da da. 108 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 2: And then there was a guy who I went in 109 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 2: behind him and he said, oh you you look better 110 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 2: with the beard. 111 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 3: So Hm and Jake from State Farm, this is for you. 112 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 1: There we go. We love Jake. But we're doing all 113 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: the shout outs today. Everybody gets a shout out, everyone 114 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: gets a car, all right. So we planned to get 115 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: married in Vegas with an entourage last year, but due 116 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: to COVID, we got a courthouse marriage last year and 117 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 1: did our wedding in Vegas this year for a one 118 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: year anniversary. I think it's like a solid idea. That's nice. 119 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: I like that, that's a good idea. 120 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 3: I get married first for tax purposes and have your 121 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 3: actual wedding perfect. 122 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: We like to have fun. What kind of fun though, 123 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 1: we're talking about what you're talking about. So our Vegas 124 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: plans did include hitting a strip club? 125 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 3: Okay, there's a lot of flight. Yeah, there's a lot 126 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 3: of people out here you'd be surprised to go with. Yeah, Funds, couples, Yeah, I've. 127 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 1: Heard together like like like I don't know anyone, but 128 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: like I've heard like people sometimes like like strip clubs. 129 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 3: The business are you doing it? 130 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 1: Just selling coke? Big business? I mean booming business, the 131 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 1: multi billion dollar industry. 132 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's all the it's all the cryptocurrencies, like the 133 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 3: old coins. 134 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. 135 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:31,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just launched my new booty coin. I got 136 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 2: this new coin called cheat. 137 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 1: Clap elon sperms, which is a legit coin. Wow. 138 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's one. That's one WoT. I thought com 139 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 2: rocket was like the O G. 140 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 3: One butt coin. Oh I accdentally said coin one time. 141 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 3: I said a bitcoin, and so I looked it up 142 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 3: and I was like, oh no, that's the real thing. 143 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 2: I mean of s c O opportunities is massive. You 144 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 2: think of all the people accidentally typing you millions millions. 145 00:06:58,440 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 1: Hey, that's money right there. 146 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 3: You were a love one beneffect by affected by misstepping 147 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 3: UH compensations. 148 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: The day before a wedding, We're all supposed to go 149 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 1: to a club together, but I drank too much and 150 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: was confined to bed. So my husband and some friends 151 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 1: hit the strip club and stayed at the hotel. Cool, 152 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 1: a big deal. He didn't come home until seven am. 153 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god, why so early? 154 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 3: Oh okay, so this is a weird thing. My friend 155 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 3: told me. Apparently the breakfast in strip clubs out in 156 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 3: Vegas is supposed to be really good, and they start 157 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 3: serving it early. 158 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 1: Babe, I'm not going to the strip club for the girls, 159 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 1: and the breakfast is amazing. The pan waffles, I love 160 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 1: you as much as I love the stripper waffles. 161 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 3: I was like, they have kitchens, they have food. It's 162 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 3: like most bars and nightclubs don't. Yeah, why don't bars 163 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 3: and night clubs have kitchens? 164 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 1: We should be hanging out at strip clubs way more 165 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: than we are. That's what I'm learning from this conversation. 166 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 2: We are forget, forget making a studio. We're just gonna 167 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 2: make the okop strip club and just record there. Okay, 168 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 2: that's clearly yeah. 169 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 1: A studio is really like, it's just kind of like 170 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 1: a money suck. This is a business opportunity. Not only 171 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: are we making content, but the strippers are making his money. 172 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: And we can strip too. Strip clubs have walls, Yeah, studios, 173 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: long haired Daddy, stripped teas better than magics. It's coming soon, 174 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: coming soon, and you'll be coming soon. If you watch it. 175 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 3: You have. 176 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: Your girl friend. See see we always have the door closed. 177 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 2: Now she knows what our This is what goes on 178 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 2: behind closed doors. 179 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: Sam and John one podcast. Sam objectifies John on the 180 00:08:53,040 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: John loves it, but don't tell him. It will be 181 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:10,959 Speaker 1: a little zeeker cool, cool, not ideal to get married 182 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: on no sleep. But if it doesn't bother him, doesn't 183 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: bother me, doesn't bother me. He gets home and starts 184 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 1: talking about two strippers he met. But I am I 185 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 1: am okay, I can't even speak. I'm just still thinking 186 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: about John top Bot God. 187 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 3: Two strippers and their name was Charity and John. 188 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: I do have a yeah Vanilla thunder. Oh that's great, Yeah, 189 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: that's great. And uh. When I was living in Australia, 190 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: one of my friends was part of Thunder down Under 191 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 1: and he was my my roommate. And I is considered 192 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 1: auditioning because he had an in with the thunder down 193 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 1: Under that's like Australian. It's like like yeah, it's like 194 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: it's like a yeah, like a stripping grip. 195 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 3: We actually have one down here, but wouldn't recommend going 196 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 3: to it. My friend really wanted to go with her husband, 197 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 3: and her husband and Graham were friends, so we all 198 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 3: ended up going one. Because so many guys I ask 199 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 3: they kind of left us alone, which is kind of nice, 200 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 3: but they were so off and so out of sync 201 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:15,439 Speaker 3: with each other. 202 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: I was like, you know, if you're going to be 203 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: a male stripper, have rid out make a dance lesson, 204 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: come on some freaking rhythm. Seriously, respect your craft. He 205 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: gets home and starts talking about two strippers. You met 206 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:33,960 Speaker 1: one who wants to come to our one who wants 207 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: to come to our wedding. 208 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 3: You paying them because like I feel like outside, like 209 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 3: I feel like strippers, You're like, oh, yeah, you know, 210 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:41,839 Speaker 3: they kind of talk surface level, but I don't think 211 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:44,439 Speaker 3: they generally have like an interest in you outside. 212 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, making money, one would think. I guess maybe, you know, 213 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:49,959 Speaker 1: maybe he met the stripper with the heart of goal. 214 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 1: They always talk about, Yeah she really does love me. 215 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 1: Yeah you can tell by the way, like when I 216 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 1: put like money in her pants, like she like, she 217 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:02,320 Speaker 1: means it. She means everything she says to me. Wants 218 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:05,439 Speaker 1: to meet my mom, which is why she's going to 219 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:12,960 Speaker 1: the wedding. My mom. So sorry, I'm so sorry. This podcast, 220 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 1: you get to it talks about two strippers, one who 221 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:23,719 Speaker 1: hasn't come to our wedding. We'll call her Stella. See 222 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: see see she knows much more. 223 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 3: PG on my channel. 224 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,199 Speaker 1: Spikes all of a this is what everyone comes for. 225 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 1: She told me she didn't want to be weird and 226 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 1: she had a boyfriend, but our wedding sounded cool, and 227 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: she wanted to come again cool. We had the room 228 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: as it wasn't a formal wedding, and what's a and 229 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 1: what's a Vegas wedding without a stripper from the night before? 230 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 1: Which is fair? It's fair, I guess, being very reasonable. 231 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:58,440 Speaker 3: This literally sounds like the plot of Like a Hangover. 232 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: Was exactly like. Then he tells me about the other 233 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: stripper who he thinks wanted to have a threesome with 234 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 1: us because she said his wife sounded hot and he 235 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 1: invited her to the wedding. 236 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:13,680 Speaker 3: Also, wow, there was a stripper at a strip club 237 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 3: that was flirting with him. Oh my god, I can't 238 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 3: imagine your wife. 239 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 1: Sounds so hot? What do you even say to that? Also, 240 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: what is he playing like voicemails like I, yeah, look 241 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 1: at He's like they're like doing like a like a 242 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: dance and he was like, look at my wife, and 243 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 1: she's like we did not have a valley. 244 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:38,320 Speaker 3: She's probably was like, literally, look at my wife hot, 245 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:39,079 Speaker 3: and that was it. 246 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, literally, do you want to come to my wedding? Yeah? 247 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:43,319 Speaker 3: Sure? 248 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 1: Sure? 249 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 3: Is that their buddy system? They're doing the buddy system, Like, 250 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 3: so she's gonna go because the other role was going. 251 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 1: To go, Oh, that's an interesting point. 252 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 3: I'm super into true crime and like that's like it's 253 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 3: really unfortunate. But a lot of the time, right, sex 254 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 3: workers are really easy targets, right that they're trying to 255 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 3: do the buddies. 256 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: Point. She literally was like hot, right, I didn't really 257 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: say much to that, is what do you even say 258 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 1: to that? He's mentioned wanting to have a threesome before 259 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 1: and it has never been off the table, but we 260 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:18,599 Speaker 1: really have only discussed it briefly and vaguely, like you 261 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 1: might want to do that someday. He also got both 262 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 1: of their numbers to send them the wedding info. But 263 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 1: that is where things go downhill. Like nothing before that. 264 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:31,199 Speaker 2: He was out till a strip club to seven am 265 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 2: the night before his wedding. 266 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 3: He wanted breakfast. 267 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:38,319 Speaker 2: He wanted waffle. I mean, are we going to gaslight 268 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 2: him for loving waffles? 269 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 1: You got to get those cakes. 270 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:44,079 Speaker 3: Somehows person in waffles. 271 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 1: M For a majority of the time leading up to 272 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 1: the wedding. We didn't spend our time separate before the 273 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 1: wedding since we were already married. He's talking about how 274 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 1: he really thinks they're going to show up. He can't 275 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:57,679 Speaker 1: believe strippers are coming to our wedding. Like he talked 276 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:01,199 Speaker 1: about almost nothing else, not the greatest vibe for a 277 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: bride on her wedding day who was expecting to be 278 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 1: her husband's main focus. 279 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 3: He failed the vibe check. 280 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:11,559 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Yo, more excited about the strippers coming 281 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 1: to the wedding than is freaking white buddy, ain't it? 282 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 3: He failed the vibe check, like failed it. Wow. 283 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 1: But it didn't bother me that much at the time 284 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 1: because I assumed he was excited and maybe a little 285 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 1: high on vegas. Okay, stripper booty. Hold on, queen, you 286 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 1: don't deserve this. Yeah, you know, you don't deserve random 287 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: strippers showing up to their wedding. 288 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 3: I mean even just random people in general. I'd be 289 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 3: kind of pissed off about. 290 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 1: Right, there's an a list. Sally Jelly Cheeks just walks 291 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 1: through the door. 292 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 3: Now you're paying for their dinner. 293 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: We did not even I mean, hello, goodbye, out of 294 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: my face. 295 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 3: Apparently clos also have steak. 296 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: You know a lot about chip. 297 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 3: Thus I read it. I read that one. 298 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 1: I did some deep research. 299 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 3: No, no, no, the breakfast one I know for my friend 300 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 3: who lives out here. But she's a writer. 301 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 1: My friend Swim, someone who isn't me. 302 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 3: Oh god, I couldn't write for shit. I wish I could, 303 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 3: but yeah, she's a freelance writer. She's like, I want 304 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 3: to do a piece going to the Las Vegas break 305 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 3: your clothes for breakfast and like rate all of them. 306 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 2: And I was like, I could see that take, I 307 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 2: would read that, back that up what. 308 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 1: And they said, let me accompany you. I don't know 309 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 1: how I know this a big a big hit on 310 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 1: trip Advisor. 311 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 2: I'm sure, yeah, like top top ten strip club breakfast. 312 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 3: She writes for a blog out here in Vegas. So 313 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 3: I was like, that makes sense. But I was like, what, Like, 314 00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 3: I guess dinner made sense to me because I've heard 315 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 3: of you know, like you could be there at midnight 316 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 3: and want like they have the buffets like that was 317 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 3: so I'm like, that makes sense. I just figured they 318 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 3: catered it, like I didn't think they were made. 319 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think, like the title of that 320 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 1: article should be heard of bed and breakfast, but how 321 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 1: about breakfast and booty? No one, no one? All right, 322 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 1: I am down, I'm gonna keep reading. Wedding time rolls 323 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: around and Stella actually shows. She's gorgeous and sweet and 324 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 1: she's wearing all white nok and we decide we might 325 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 1: visit her at the club later that night, since I 326 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 1: missed out the night before and was a little bumped 327 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: part ways and head hour. We part ways and had 328 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 1: to take our wedding portraits, and my husband is still 329 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 1: talking about Stella and how beautiful she is, but now 330 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 1: it's about what club she will be at and when 331 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: later in the evening we're gonna meet up. At one point, 332 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 1: he even referred to her as his veguus girlfriend to 333 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 1: our friends which made me uneasy, but I laughed it 334 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 1: off as a joke and figured he was high on 335 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 1: big What is this excuse high on Vegas? 336 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 3: I live here, I don't know what. 337 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:08,160 Speaker 2: Probably high on vegas sniffing desert sand, Like I don't 338 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 2: know what. 339 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 3: I don't know. 340 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: He has so much to glitter up his nose from, 341 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:15,439 Speaker 1: like motor boating stripper booty, that he's not thinking straight o. 342 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 3: I'm like, high off Vegas is not even me, Like 343 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 3: people do stupid stuff on the strip when they're drunk. 344 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 3: I'm sure it's that footage lost. 345 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but like what, Yeah, I don't know. She's 346 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 1: being very very recent, accommodating massively. 347 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 3: Like just I would have already been like, hey, you 348 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 3: come here, we're gonna go. We're gonna go effing talk 349 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 3: and oh yeah. 350 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 1: We head to dinner and husband is sucked into his phone, 351 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 1: barely speaking to me and still managing to rush me 352 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:47,479 Speaker 1: to meet up with our friends and go see Stella. 353 00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: We meet up with our friends, bar hop a bit, 354 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 1: then head to Stella's club with the expectation that will 355 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 1: stay for an hour because it's late and everyone's pretty beat. 356 00:17:56,119 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: We get there and after about ten minutes, Stella comes 357 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 1: over to hang out. Steve wants to get a couple's 358 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 1: lap dance, and tell him I don't want to, but 359 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 1: to go without me. I would prefer to sit back 360 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 1: and tip the girls dancing on the pole. And I 361 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:12,240 Speaker 1: am also very sober, couldn't drink because partying too hard 362 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 1: the day before, and at this point feeling a little 363 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 1: bit awkward as my husband seems very into Stella. 364 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 3: It just keeps like you like when you think you 365 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:22,440 Speaker 3: can't get worse, It's just somehow. 366 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 1: Does Yeah, the train wreck keeps going. 367 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:27,920 Speaker 3: It's like the train wrecked and then somehow a car 368 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 3: drove into it, and then a plane also just gets 369 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:32,119 Speaker 3: all together. 370 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 1: Steve gets down on one knee. I proposed this. 371 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 3: To Stella, Wizard of at his house, drops on top 372 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:38,879 Speaker 3: of all of it. 373 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:41,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god, what babe? Can I get that 374 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 1: ring bag real quick? I just need it for something. Yeah, yeah, 375 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 1: a minute, noez. After several minutes of being talked into 376 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:53,399 Speaker 1: it by Stella and Steve, I uncomfortably agree and we 377 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 1: head back to get that lap dance. Dance starts and 378 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:59,199 Speaker 1: I'm that person that doesn't know what to do with 379 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 1: my hands and when I guess you're getting a lap dance, 380 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 1: I wouldn't know what to do. Is it no touching? Like 381 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 1: your guns doing great jobs? You're right, yeah, I'm just 382 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 1: like so, I'm just waiting for an end. Stella tries 383 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:20,919 Speaker 1: her best to make me feel at ease, joking and 384 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,879 Speaker 1: complimenting me, but it just makes me feel more awkward. 385 00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 1: Well that and Steve asking me more than once why 386 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: I'm being awkward Steve. After several minutes, I leave before 387 00:19:31,760 --> 00:19:34,000 Speaker 1: the dance is over, but tell them to finish, and 388 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: they do. Several minutes later, they come back to the group. 389 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 1: Stella purchase on my chair and tells me that Steve 390 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:46,159 Speaker 1: told her we wanted to have a threesome. Wait. Steve 391 00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 1: told Stella is like, Yo, my wife wants to have 392 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:50,199 Speaker 1: a threesome with you. 393 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 3: I feel like the conversation. He was like, yes, she 394 00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 3: might be introduced threesome. She was like okay. And then 395 00:19:56,920 --> 00:20:00,280 Speaker 3: so he's like that's a sign, that's a yes. That's 396 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 3: like the type of that's the type of yes I 397 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 3: would take as a kid, you know when I have 398 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:07,680 Speaker 3: handy lader. She's like okay, and then like later would 399 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:10,400 Speaker 3: come and she'd find me in my Halloween candy. She'd 400 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 3: be like, I'm like, but you said okay. 401 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:17,240 Speaker 2: He said okay kay equals yes, thank god, thank god 402 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 2: you said maybe. 403 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:21,440 Speaker 1: That's obviously yeah, you didn't say no, So what else 404 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:26,879 Speaker 1: would you say? So Stella comes back and then she 405 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 1: apologetically told me, Hey, sorry, honey, but I just don't 406 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 1: do three soomes with the customers. I'm mortified for several reasons. 407 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:39,880 Speaker 1: One because he crossed a professional line and it was disrespectful, 408 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:45,640 Speaker 1: especially because he knows she has a boyfriend. Two other people, Yeah, 409 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 1: I know, I love how that's one. One is like, 410 00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 1: think of the strip or her friend? What about you? 411 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, what about like the eight disrespectful things 412 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 3: he's done in like these. 413 00:20:56,880 --> 00:21:00,879 Speaker 1: Literally yo, before this, Yeah, you need to set some 414 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:04,119 Speaker 1: boundaries for yourself girl. Two he made it sound like 415 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 1: I was in on it. And three, arguably most important, 416 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:11,160 Speaker 1: the man asked someone to have a threesome without discussing 417 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 1: it with me on our wedding night, just just on 418 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:20,640 Speaker 1: the wedding night. It's just it's just wow. Wow. At 419 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:22,679 Speaker 1: this point, we've been here for about an hour and 420 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 1: our friend group decided to leave all of us except 421 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 1: my husband. He opted to stay at the strip club 422 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 1: alone with the girl who just shot him down for 423 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 1: a threesome while all his friends and his wife went 424 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:36,440 Speaker 1: back to the hotel. 425 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 3: Is it too late for a divorce? 426 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 1: I freaking hope, So get that shit A null. 427 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,119 Speaker 3: Say that because I know there's so much more to 428 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 3: a marriage than that. But I'm like, that is so 429 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 3: massively disrespectful on a big day. I think that's kind 430 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:50,920 Speaker 3: of on that line. 431 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:51,680 Speaker 1: It's what you said. 432 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 2: He literally has done like ten Yeah, he's like in 433 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:59,160 Speaker 2: a row and is clearly not at all carry no 434 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 2: remorse what his wife is feeling or like anything like that. 435 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 1: No, to be fair, he did ask me if it 436 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: was okay, and I said it was because at this 437 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 1: point I don't have it in me to explain to 438 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:14,440 Speaker 1: this man all the ways he has disrespected me. He 439 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 1: gets home an hour or two later, is at the 440 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 1: strip club for an hour two and asked me if 441 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,360 Speaker 1: I'm mad, and I unleash it on him. 442 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 3: The worst part is he knew that she was mad. 443 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:28,880 Speaker 1: I stayed two hours at the strip club. 444 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 3: It's not like, oh my god, it's not even like 445 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 3: this guy is just like so oblivious. You could hit 446 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 3: him with the brick and he wouldn't notice. It's that 447 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:38,679 Speaker 3: he recognized that she was mad and was. 448 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:43,119 Speaker 2: Like, are you mad? Like another hour or two, just 449 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 2: like lit her cool off? My god, hang with my 450 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:46,879 Speaker 2: new stripper. 451 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:50,919 Speaker 3: Girlfriend, heyde, that's not a hate Like, yeah, go outside, 452 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 3: I'll meet you out there in five. And he's just 453 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 3: apologizing or something like that, like how much is this 454 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:57,120 Speaker 3: man spending there? 455 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 1: I don't know, enough for the strip to want to 456 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 1: be here? 457 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 3: Really apparently had some number of the idea, Yeah, enough. 458 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:12,120 Speaker 1: For the stripper to want to come to his way? True? Yeah, true? 459 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:17,920 Speaker 1: So like I feel like a lot, so I unleash 460 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,239 Speaker 1: it on him, but I don't get far before he 461 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:23,399 Speaker 1: cuts me off by continually saying I'm sorry, I'm an 462 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 1: asshole until I stop even trying to talk about it. 463 00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:28,800 Speaker 1: We go to bed, and in the morning he tells 464 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: me he apologized to Stella and deleted her contact info. Bro, 465 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 1: how about you apologize to your wife though, like, yeah. 466 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, at least he did one thing right there, 467 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:43,120 Speaker 3: which would be apologizing to her from a hearing comfortable 468 00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 3: taking her out of his phone because he clearly is 469 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:48,000 Speaker 3: attracted to her. So yeah, yeah, like at least that's 470 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 3: one thing he kind of did right that, Like this 471 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 3: is after doing like twenty things wrong. 472 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:58,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, I mean like man is struck out, you know, 473 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 1: like Tires's chances we leave for our five day honeymoon 474 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 1: and don't discuss it again except for once when he 475 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,399 Speaker 1: informs me that Stella appreciated the apology, that said it 476 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 1: wasn't necessary, and that she wants us to come see 477 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:15,959 Speaker 1: her next time we're in Vegas. Great. I spend her 478 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 1: honeymoon either stoned. Not a healthy crutch, I know, but 479 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:20,680 Speaker 1: it was the only thing that made it bearable, which 480 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 1: allowed me to occasionally forget about the incident. Also, if 481 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,200 Speaker 1: you're having to get stoned to get through your honeymoon, 482 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,400 Speaker 1: that's not a good start to the marriage if you. 483 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,760 Speaker 3: Have to, like if you have to do anything like 484 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 3: this isn't just saying hard drugs, but I feel like 485 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,879 Speaker 3: you have to drink to get through being around your 486 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 3: significant other, maybe like don't be with them, Like I 487 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 3: feel like that's kind of common sense, but you know 488 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 3: it's one. 489 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, but this this next part is heartbreaking though the 490 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:50,639 Speaker 1: you know, getting stone allowed me to occasionally forget the 491 00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 1: incident or silently fuming, but I was wondering if I 492 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,119 Speaker 1: was overreacting. I was afraid to go off, if this 493 00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 1: wasn't actually a big deal as maybe I thought it was, 494 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 1: because obviously he didn't think it was. He asked me 495 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 1: multiple times if I was okay, every time I gave 496 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: a half hearted mine. We return home and I told 497 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:12,880 Speaker 1: my best friend the story because I need to talk 498 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 1: to someone about it, and I needed her to tell 499 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 1: me all of my concerns. In my head, I was 500 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,720 Speaker 1: just overreacting. You know, it's fine. She confirmed that my 501 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,080 Speaker 1: concerns were valid and I was not overreacting. Girl, You're 502 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 1: not overreacting. That night, underreact so much as dude so much. God, 503 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 1: that night, I confronted my husband and actually got to speak. 504 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 1: When I finished, he apologized. He said he thought a 505 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 1: threesome was what I wanted because I was so excited 506 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,879 Speaker 1: when he brought it up earlier that day, exactly what 507 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 1: you were saying. 508 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:44,480 Speaker 3: I'm curious how drunk he was, because if she was 509 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:45,440 Speaker 3: like okay, he. 510 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 1: Could have just completely misinterpreted that. 511 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,400 Speaker 3: Misinterpreted everything because it sounds like drunk iy behavior. 512 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's probably so excited that he's not analyzing the. 513 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 3: Situation every guy. But this does sound like you have 514 00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,360 Speaker 3: to be drunk, because I don't understand how you could 515 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 3: be so dumb. 516 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's insane, but maybe he just like he also 517 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 1: could just like not care enough about his wife's feelings 518 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 1: or what she wants, because that sounds like her her 519 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 1: wondering if she's overreacting. This situation makes me think it's 520 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:20,440 Speaker 1: like a pattern, like like she's like constantly wondering whether 521 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 1: her reaction is valid when this is like so obviously 522 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:27,480 Speaker 1: over the line, she's probably been like he's talked. 523 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:30,199 Speaker 2: Her down from like yeah things, and and also like 524 00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 2: this happened over multiple occurrences of like him going the 525 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 2: first time, and like so it's. 526 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,120 Speaker 1: Like was he was he blackout drunk the whole? Yeah? 527 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,679 Speaker 1: I mean I feel like there's some manipulation going on 528 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 1: here where he's like like, over the however long they've 529 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:45,959 Speaker 1: been dating, she's been made to feel crazy. Yeah uh, 530 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 1: And maybe he's just like you know, Steve, he said 531 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,119 Speaker 1: he knew he fucked up, but didn't bring it up 532 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 1: sooner because he thought I wanted to wait until after 533 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,640 Speaker 1: vacation to discuss it, right, Like why would I want 534 00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 1: this to hang over our vacation like a rain cloud 535 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 1: instead of working through it. 536 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 3: I don't know anyone that would want to sit through 537 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 3: vacation and just go through it. And yeah, no, that's worse. 538 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: You don't want much worse. 539 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,679 Speaker 3: You never leave someone to stew Yeah. 540 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 1: So the question, oh, he's asking Reddit to you, guys 541 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 1: us the official marriage counselors. We are the marriage counselors 542 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:25,879 Speaker 1: that the internet needs. What should I do? I thought 543 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 1: this man was my future. We have dogs together and 544 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,480 Speaker 1: we're discussing kids. I don't want to give up on 545 00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 1: it so easily, but I don't know if I can 546 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 1: get past this. It's not just what he did in Vegas, 547 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 1: it's how he behaved afterwards. 548 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,359 Speaker 3: He also is just totally putting her own thoughts and 549 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 3: feelings on her with saying I thought you didn't want 550 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:46,560 Speaker 3: to discuss it, Like where did you get that? 551 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? 552 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 3: I just I have never there's never been one Sstagram 553 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,280 Speaker 3: and like fine, I'm fine, and he's been like you're 554 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,320 Speaker 3: obviously not fine if you want to talk, and I'm 555 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 3: like absolutely, yeah. 556 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 1: I feel like they just camunication style of this relationship 557 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,960 Speaker 1: is just not good. Yeah. Yeah, I mean probably on 558 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,160 Speaker 1: both parts, Like she's been she's been trained either by 559 00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:09,879 Speaker 1: him or maybe she doesn't want to speak up for 560 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 1: himself or just doesn't trust her own voice yet. And 561 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,000 Speaker 1: like I feel like she needs to be vocal about 562 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 1: what is going on and she he needs to actually 563 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,680 Speaker 1: listen to her, and like there's like this, like there's 564 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 1: this lack of communication that I think is allowing him 565 00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 1: to get away with like kind of like haunt of 566 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,879 Speaker 1: crap like and he's been like glasshole. But also she 567 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 1: shouldn't stand for this too, right, Like she like like 568 00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 1: this is not okay behavior. 569 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 3: This sounds like one that they need marriage counseling for sure. 570 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 1: Either you're welcome and or not. 571 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 3: That way you kind of have everything resolved. Yeah, I 572 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 3: say marriage counseling even if you're like you're probably gonna 573 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 3: get divorced, just that way you're kind of sorted through. 574 00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, Or I think like I think another great option 575 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:57,440 Speaker 1: would be to DM us and come on the show 576 00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 1: and we will be your marriage. 577 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 2: Counselor we are licensed by ourselves. Yes we are, and 578 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,040 Speaker 2: I mean marriage we do that. Yeah, we know that, 579 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 2: we know about commitment. Yes, hey we've been doing this podcast. 580 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 1: For a year. We're committed to content that we are. 581 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 3: I've been on this podcast only as of like two 582 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:19,280 Speaker 3: hours ago, and she hasn't left. 583 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 1: No, that is a commitment to the relationship. We have 584 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:29,360 Speaker 1: be'st threesome in the room. We guarantee that your relationship 585 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 1: will last more than two hours. Can't beat that. 586 00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:34,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true.