WEBVTT - Ask HTM - Student Loans in Administrative Forbearance, Intentionally Entering into Collections, and Financial Infidelity #1102

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to How the Money. I'm Joel, I'm Matt. Today

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<v Speaker 1>we're answering your listener questions.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, buddy, let's get after it. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>hear directly from listeners. We've got a listener who's asking

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<v Speaker 2>what he should be doing about his student loans that

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<v Speaker 2>are in for bearans. Another listener is actually looking forward

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<v Speaker 2>to collections. Could this be a strategy, Joel, We'll talk

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<v Speaker 2>about what he's thinking about. And another listener actually encountered

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<v Speaker 2>some financial infidelity, and so I'm gonna uncomfortably wait into

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<v Speaker 2>playing financial counselor maybe, and we'll see what kind of

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<v Speaker 2>terrible advice that we give in that section of the

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<v Speaker 2>How the Money podcast. You didn't even sleep at a

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<v Speaker 2>holiday and I didn't even do it. Man, I'm still

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<v Speaker 2>gonna try. Well, hey, you've got this thing about Shutterfly here,

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<v Speaker 2>we got like a new sponsorship or something. No no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>new affiliate code. So I was not even that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was curious because I have a lot of photos

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<v Speaker 1>that I don't really have backed up, and I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I could just like buy a cheap hard drive and

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<v Speaker 1>download everything from my phone and send it over to

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<v Speaker 1>a hard drive, but it would be nice to have

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<v Speaker 1>them stored in the cloud somewhere. Oh yeah, and I could.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm you know, you know this about me, I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of cheap. Sometimes at times I can be cheap, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm wondering, I don't pay for the Apple Cloud.

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<v Speaker 2>What's it called? Apple Cloud? iCloud, I Cloud? Okay cloud?

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<v Speaker 2>I should have done that. Are you pasted? You? We talked,

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<v Speaker 2>We talked about this last week. It's that's what the

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<v Speaker 2>ice stands were. I looked it up while I was

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<v Speaker 2>editing that podcast that episode. It was Internet because I think,

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<v Speaker 2>I really because before then the computers weren't always directly

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<v Speaker 2>like tied or tethered to the Internet or something. So

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<v Speaker 2>evidently it was like, oh yeah, this stands for this

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<v Speaker 2>that is now interfacing with the Internet's with the World

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<v Speaker 2>Wide webs.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it works well because nobody thinks of it like

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<v Speaker 1>that anymore, and they just think, isn't it No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the Mac for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Actually, I was thinking when you said that, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it probably is more of like because it's it was

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<v Speaker 2>sort of like that era where you had all that

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<v Speaker 2>cool ads with the silhouettes dancing with you know that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I was with you. I wasn't gonna question it, but

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<v Speaker 2>I did look it.

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<v Speaker 1>Up so I could pay for the cloud via Apple

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<v Speaker 1>and a dollar a dollar a month.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, right, you get no five, you get five

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<v Speaker 2>gigabytes for free, right, So did you really? I think?

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<v Speaker 3>So?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, it keeps giving me this warning over and over,

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<v Speaker 1>like your stuff's not backed up.

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<v Speaker 2>Or probably because you've filled it. Yeah, that's probably it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you filled it up.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, well, I don't want to pay you

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<v Speaker 1>money every month. It feels like blackmail, and so leave

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<v Speaker 1>me alone. And maybe I should just get over that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was curious because actually this was the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>reason to have a Google Pixel phone back in the day.

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<v Speaker 2>The automatic Google photo storage.

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<v Speaker 1>Google basically said hey, you get unlimited photo storage. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, this is one of those things to

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<v Speaker 1>keep me with Pixel when they got rid of it,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was like, well, you've lost your edge.

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<v Speaker 2>So the question is do you still have those photos

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<v Speaker 2>or did you lose them to the cloud?

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<v Speaker 1>All the photos that yet, that's a really good question.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I know, like I feel that's

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<v Speaker 1>they're probably lingering somewhere, but they might be like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a hardware.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right, give me the give me the Shutterfly

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<v Speaker 2>tie in. Okay, where this is going?

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<v Speaker 1>So Shutterfly, I was like, looking this up, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>who offers free photo storage? And nobody really does anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>It used to be flicker. Flicker used to was oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>back or is it? What is it twenty ten? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, buddy, But Shutterfly apparently says you can get

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<v Speaker 1>free unlimited photo storage if you buy a product once

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<v Speaker 1>every eighteen months. Okay, And I was like, that seems

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<v Speaker 1>like a reasonable trade off, because no, I'm not paying

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<v Speaker 1>somebody money every single month.

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<v Speaker 2>How much did you say? Like how much storage? It's unlimited? Really?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's unlimited. Oh fascinating. Wait is it unlimited

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<v Speaker 2>for the photos that you upload in order to create

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<v Speaker 2>the product that they're selling you?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I think like literally, you can just be like I

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<v Speaker 2>think all your photos. I think so, yeah, maybe I

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<v Speaker 2>need to go look at the fine print. Sorry for

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<v Speaker 2>the sound effect, the pretty sure that maybe I yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>unconsciously did the sound effect because that's what I think

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<v Speaker 2>about it. I think it's fine. First of all, I

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<v Speaker 2>love that you searched. Is there a I'm sure you

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<v Speaker 2>chatted it or whatever, like, is there a free option

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<v Speaker 2>out there? Because I appreciate that that you're out there

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<v Speaker 2>looking for You're looking for the deal, trying to find

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<v Speaker 2>the work around. But the reason I asked about your

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<v Speaker 2>Google Photos is because it can be so hard to

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<v Speaker 2>keep up with all these different accounts for sure, and

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<v Speaker 2>which photos you have stored all over the place. And

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<v Speaker 2>this is coming from someone who has had a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of experience when it comes to storing photos. I used

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<v Speaker 2>to be a photographer, had tons, like tons and tons

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<v Speaker 2>of terabytes of images and files. And before that, I

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<v Speaker 2>was a designer, and so my illustrator files, on my

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<v Speaker 2>photoshop files like these were all files that I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to own and possess and to keep on my person

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<v Speaker 2>And I personally resisted the cloud, but I ultimately I

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<v Speaker 2>don't keep up with all the different spots where I've

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<v Speaker 2>got on files, all my pictures stashed. We as a family,

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<v Speaker 2>pay for the upgraded, upgraded ic cloud.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you can get a family account as well,

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<v Speaker 1>so we can kind of store it together.

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<v Speaker 2>Pay one thing, yeah yeah, yeah, okay, So that's that's

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<v Speaker 2>the benefit. Is I pay one price for the two terabytes.

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<v Speaker 2>It's ten bucks a month. And guess what all my

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<v Speaker 2>photos are on there? Kate's iPhones backed up, My iPhone's

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<v Speaker 2>backed up, my computer's backed up, the laptops backed up

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<v Speaker 2>to that. That shared family plan. It makes it a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit easier to get in there and control screen

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<v Speaker 2>time settings. Her old ast oughters. Her iPhone is backed

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<v Speaker 2>up onto there as well. It's I love how integrated

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<v Speaker 2>it is. Maybe do the ability to be able to

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<v Speaker 2>look back at pictures from like twenty five years ago,

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<v Speaker 2>like the featured photos. I love that. Yeah, I love

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<v Speaker 2>that We've talked about memory dividends and having those images

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<v Speaker 2>as pictures like at your fingertips. I think it's worth

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<v Speaker 2>it personally, and this is this is something I've done

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<v Speaker 2>in the I guess maybe last year, a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>years ago is when I finally said, all right, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna move all my entire photo library, you know, onto

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<v Speaker 2>the cloud and under the web, as opposed to it

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<v Speaker 2>living on a single single device that was backed up.

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<v Speaker 2>But personally, I think it's I think it's massively worth okay,

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<v Speaker 2>because I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm living in like the early two thousands and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like the files are in the computer, like two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand and five, I think I need to I need

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<v Speaker 1>to have some sort of cloud backup, and maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>just need to stop being a loser and just pony

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<v Speaker 1>up to ten bucks. Well, if listeners have a suggestion

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<v Speaker 1>something outside of the box, I would love to hear it,

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<v Speaker 1>because for us, we have found that it's worth it

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<v Speaker 1>and it works. And oh man, here's just I hate

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<v Speaker 1>all the notifications all the time. It's like you're still

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<v Speaker 1>stone backed up your stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, man, they're trying to get you.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I feel like I'm being like pushed into

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<v Speaker 1>this relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Against my will. It feels like you're getting bullied. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>have you optimized for photo storage? It's where they it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>have you have you looked into your photos your setting?

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<v Speaker 2>I think I've done that recently at least. Basically, it

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<v Speaker 2>stores on your device the like a low res version,

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<v Speaker 2>and the high reds is living on the web on

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<v Speaker 2>the clouds, so that way, if you recall the photo,

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<v Speaker 2>it'll instantly download it basically and allow you to see

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<v Speaker 2>the full reds. If you're like zooming in.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, for something that still requires paying for the surface stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>well that just requires or it requires less space on

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<v Speaker 1>your actual phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so yeah, I don't know. I wanted to say

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<v Speaker 2>one other benefit. Man, I don't want this to sound

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<v Speaker 2>like an ad for iCloud, but Kate and I do

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<v Speaker 2>a shared photo library as well, which means that any

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<v Speaker 2>photo she takes in any photo I take, were able

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<v Speaker 2>to see each other's photos, which is awesome. And I

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<v Speaker 2>recently discovered this when you're putting together speaking of buying

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<v Speaker 2>products from different photo companies, I was creating a photo

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<v Speaker 2>album for last year again, memory dividends. Like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I remember looking at photo albums as a kid, and

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<v Speaker 2>the ability to look back at trips and stuff that

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<v Speaker 2>we had going on, and seeing both of our photos

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<v Speaker 2>together in one single stream to kind of pick the oh, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>actually I want to go with that one instead, it's

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<v Speaker 2>taken from a better angle, that kind of thing. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. To me, that was yet another reason why

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<v Speaker 2>I was so thankful to be able to have overlapping

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<v Speaker 2>photo storage like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like so averse to bringing in another subscription

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<v Speaker 1>into my life.

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<v Speaker 2>I resisted it for a long time too, dude, But

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you, the water's fine. It's okay. If yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're willing to pay it up, it's really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you're a listener out there and you're like, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a better way forward, please tell me now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, let's mention the beer we're having on this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called Cloak and Dagger. It's a Vienna lagger by

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<v Speaker 1>Incendiary Brewing. We'll give our thoughts on this one later

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<v Speaker 1>on the episode, y boy, And if you have a

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<v Speaker 1>to moneypot at gmail dot com. All right, Matt, let's

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<v Speaker 1>take questions. This question is specifically about it's it's a

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<v Speaker 1>frugal or cheap conundrum in regards to healthcare costs.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Jela, Matt, this is Daniel from Salt Lake City.

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<v Speaker 3>I love the podcast, so thanks for all you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Do I have a question about whether something I'm considering

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<v Speaker 3>is frugal or is just cheap. So We've had a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of medical expenses recently, and I've been trying to

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<v Speaker 3>get to discounts wherever possible. I applied for financial assistance,

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<v Speaker 3>even though I didn't expect to qualify, and ultimately they

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<v Speaker 3>deny me. So when I called the billing department, they

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<v Speaker 3>told me the best discount they could do was just

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<v Speaker 3>ten percent. Now, I've done this before with other hospitals,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've gotten a thirty percent discount before, but they

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't go any lower. So I asked if there was

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<v Speaker 3>anything else they could do, and the billing specialists they

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<v Speaker 3>mentioned something unconventional. They said, wait until the bill goes

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<v Speaker 3>to their internal collections. You see. He explained that they

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<v Speaker 3>don't report to the credit bureau and that once the

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<v Speaker 3>account is in the collections, they often will discount at thirty, fifty,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe even seventy percent. So my question is would waiting

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<v Speaker 3>for it to go to internal collections to get a

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<v Speaker 3>steeper discount be considered frugal or is that crossing into cheap?

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks guys for all your help.

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<v Speaker 2>Ooh a billing frugal or cheap? Joel and I wondered

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<v Speaker 2>before we kick things off here, I want to say

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<v Speaker 2>that ten percent discount, you know, that's just like the

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<v Speaker 2>standard boiler plate. If anybody asks, you're allowed to give

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<v Speaker 2>them ten percent without having to check with the manager

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<v Speaker 2>that kind of thing. So that means it's like literally

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<v Speaker 2>the lowest possible discount.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, offer, and you know if you play if you

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<v Speaker 1>play ball a little bit harder, you can do better.

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<v Speaker 2>Totally. Yeah, And I think Daniel knows that. But I

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<v Speaker 2>love that you are asking the question, Daniel, because medical

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<v Speaker 2>debt is such a pain in the butt, as the

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<v Speaker 2>vast majority of Americans have found out at one point

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<v Speaker 2>or the other. But I'm glad you've gone down the

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<v Speaker 2>financial assistance pathway and you know you ask for that discount.

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<v Speaker 2>Those are the two most likely ways to have medical debt,

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<v Speaker 2>either forgiven or to have that bill reduced in the

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<v Speaker 2>first place. But because it sounds like you make a

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<v Speaker 2>pretty good income, the hospital is being a little stingy

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<v Speaker 2>with you, which I get. But it is true that

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<v Speaker 2>you can let this process just linger for a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit longer in hopes of getting a fatter discount without

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<v Speaker 2>financially harming yourself. And that's actually the key point. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's worth driving home here.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you say let it linger longer, that's because

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<v Speaker 1>there's essentially a twelve a twelve month timeframe that you

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<v Speaker 1>have to work in here.

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<v Speaker 2>Three hundred and sixty five dagy race pier.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right where that this bill will not be reported

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<v Speaker 1>to collections if it remains unpaid. Right at that point

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<v Speaker 1>after that three hundred and sixty five days, that's when

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<v Speaker 1>the unpaid debt can impact your credit, hurt your credit score,

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<v Speaker 1>live on your credit report. So we want you to

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<v Speaker 1>be aware of that deadline. But that means you've got

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot of time, a lot of room to

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<v Speaker 1>wiggle in an attempt to negotiate this debt down. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we don't want your desire to get a

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<v Speaker 1>deal and to pay less have a long term impact

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<v Speaker 1>on your credit score, because that can cascade, it can

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<v Speaker 1>impact other areas of your life significantly in a negative way.

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<v Speaker 2>And so just know this.

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<v Speaker 1>You're probably going to get some letters in the mail

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<v Speaker 1>with big red letters on them saying like final notice

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<v Speaker 1>or something like that. But don't freak out. Bi'll overdo right.

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<v Speaker 1>You get all sorts of stuff. And that's what I

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<v Speaker 1>think causes a lot of people to pay before they're ready,

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<v Speaker 1>because it strikes fear into your heart, understandably. So when

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<v Speaker 1>you see those letters written on a mailer, that's that

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<v Speaker 1>you get in you know in snail mail. But this,

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<v Speaker 1>this twelve month window essentially gives you a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>time and a lot of leverage to wait for a

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<v Speaker 1>better deal. Yeah, most people don't realize that that's their right.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't know that that's how things work, and so

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<v Speaker 1>because of that, they pay prematurely and they don't get

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<v Speaker 1>maybe the discount or the breaking price that they deserve.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's it's like a game of chicken, right, because

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<v Speaker 2>they're they're wanting you to flinch first, but the closer

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<v Speaker 2>you get to the end of that, they're thinking, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my gosh, this guy may may not actually be able

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<v Speaker 2>to pay, so we're willing to take Lessah. And you

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<v Speaker 2>know this is going to sound a bit sketchy where

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<v Speaker 2>you're waiting to get a better deal. But you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to say that the entire healthcare system is

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<v Speaker 2>a bit sketchy, and consumers have to figure out how

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<v Speaker 2>it is they're going to navigate the system that isn't

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<v Speaker 2>well constructed. It seems a bit unfair to a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of folks. And in this case, we're gonna side with

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<v Speaker 2>the patients. We're gonna side with you, Daniel, not for

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<v Speaker 2>the hospitals out there and in large part this is

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<v Speaker 2>another reason why it's not sketchy. Is this grace period

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<v Speaker 2>exists because oftentimes because most people have insurance, and so

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<v Speaker 2>if you get a claim that's denied, well, it gives

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<v Speaker 2>you time to fight that claim because the hospital wants

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<v Speaker 2>you do have time, like they're doing this for you

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<v Speaker 2>so that you can get your insurance company to pay them.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like, help me, help you. So that's one of

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<v Speaker 2>the reasons. But also there can be medical billing errors,

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<v Speaker 2>and so that gives you time to spend some time

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<v Speaker 2>looking over the bill, making sure that things are coded correctly.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the word, right, Yeah, and to make sure wait

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<v Speaker 1>a second, you charge me how much for that aspirin?

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<v Speaker 1>Or wait you charged me for this thing that that

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<v Speaker 1>seems that I didn't actually get that service at ridict yeh, yeah, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can put fact on that. So it's not just the

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<v Speaker 2>insurance company making errors, but it oftentimes can be the

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<v Speaker 2>actual hospital making errors from time to time. And I

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<v Speaker 2>want to go back to what you said too. I

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<v Speaker 2>think how the money listeners in particular are at a

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<v Speaker 2>distinct disadvantage here because I think if you are listening

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<v Speaker 2>to the show, you are somebody who's a bit more organized.

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<v Speaker 2>You certainly have got financial goals, like in your sights, right,

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<v Speaker 2>and so you see this thing show up and all

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<v Speaker 2>of a sudden it looks like a financial threat, and

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<v Speaker 2>you just want to pounce on it. You want to

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<v Speaker 2>kept like immediately eliminate it. But what that means is

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<v Speaker 2>you're actually paying more than you need to. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you eradicate it too quickly, it means you've

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<v Speaker 1>like you didn't use your leverage and you didn't use

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<v Speaker 1>the possibility, like the tactics that are available to you

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<v Speaker 1>to try and reduce that bill instead of just like

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<v Speaker 1>paying the full price and getting it over with. I

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<v Speaker 1>get that impulse, yeah, but ultimately that is going to

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<v Speaker 1>cost you more than you need to pay.

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<v Speaker 2>Totally. I just think it's ironic that somebody who's maybe

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<v Speaker 2>more disorganized out there yellow and yeah, is gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>the one who's paying, like actually will be able to

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<v Speaker 2>pay less because oh I hadn't seen that bill or

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't even open that envelope. There's like three of

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<v Speaker 2>them on the desk. I hadn't you know. Oh that

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<v Speaker 2>was six months ago, and all of a sudden they've

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<v Speaker 2>cut the bill by like thirty percent and talking about internally,

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<v Speaker 2>oh maybe forty percent.

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<v Speaker 1>Right data, it's like best of both worlds for right

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<v Speaker 1>because he is organized and he's ready, he's prepared, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's looking for a discount. So it's not he's not

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<v Speaker 1>just yellowing it. He's he's going to this eyes wide

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<v Speaker 1>open and an attempt to save money. I also thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was really interesting the person on the phone, and

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<v Speaker 1>you will occasionally find this right where they toss out

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<v Speaker 1>a piece of advice and it's kind of like you're

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<v Speaker 1>played blackjack matter at casino and never oh, it's really fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I know how to play.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been a long time. Yeah, but we'll find some

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<v Speaker 1>people are some of the dealers are a little more

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<v Speaker 1>tight lipped than others. And when you're playing with people

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<v Speaker 1>who don't know how to play blackjack, you are thankful

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<v Speaker 1>when the dealer is a little more open about strategy

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<v Speaker 1>because they're often they teach you a little bit, they

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<v Speaker 1>help the person make a better move and that helps

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<v Speaker 1>everyone at the table. And and so this is one

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<v Speaker 1>of those things where the person in customer service is

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<v Speaker 1>not being tight lipped, there being a little hey in

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<v Speaker 1>actually in our system, this is how it works and

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<v Speaker 1>if you wait a little bit longer, they're basically telegraphing

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<v Speaker 1>this to you.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like advocating on your behalf right.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying, well, I can't help you right now, but if

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<v Speaker 1>you take this strategy, you can probably save in the

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<v Speaker 1>long run. And so I think I would do what

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<v Speaker 1>Daniel is suggesting. I would wait for it to go

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<v Speaker 1>into collections in an attempt to work out a one

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<v Speaker 1>time cash payment for a lower percentage.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the balance.

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<v Speaker 1>And Matt, you talked about ten percent being a crummy discount.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think maybe a good discount to shoot

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<v Speaker 1>for would be.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I mean, I think it varies. So here's the thing,

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<v Speaker 2>full disclosure. I've not done this personally, but I kind

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<v Speaker 2>of am excited for the next medical again, just to

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<v Speaker 2>be like, don't think I'm going to pay it for

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit and see what happens. Like I think

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<v Speaker 2>thirty percent seems like a slam dunk. Like I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 2>that that is most definitely going to be offered to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Whether or not you get a forty percent or fifty

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<v Speaker 2>percent or even higher, I think I don't know, but

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<v Speaker 2>I do think the closer you get to the end

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<v Speaker 2>of that runway they you know, collections, they start feeling

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit nervous because beyond that, they're selling it

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<v Speaker 2>for pennies on the dollar to an external collections agency, right,

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<v Speaker 2>and at that point they're going to receive even less

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<v Speaker 2>from a potential.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think I'll kind of treat this as a

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<v Speaker 1>game a little bit, And Daniel's already kind of taking

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<v Speaker 1>that gamification approach, But I think you're right. I think

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<v Speaker 1>shooting for that fifty plus percent discount and then settling

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<v Speaker 1>for a thirty percent discount, right, if if that's all

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<v Speaker 1>that's offered to you after a significant time period of

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<v Speaker 1>trying to work this out, it's going to be a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of a part time job. It's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a little bit like playing a whack a mole.

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<v Speaker 1>But ultimately, I think if you are intent on saving

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<v Speaker 1>money on this bill and you kind of let things

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<v Speaker 1>run their course while being active in the process, you

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<v Speaker 1>can probably save a lot of money off this medical bill.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know, maybe at some point we should

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<v Speaker 1>probably publish like a how to guide like how to

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<v Speaker 1>and you know what, Actually it's on my radar map

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<v Speaker 1>to do a full episode on this soon.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's make that happen. Also sounds good. Actually, we're

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<v Speaker 2>going to talk more about healthcare stuff hsas, but not

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<v Speaker 2>from a medical standpoint, from an investing standpoint. We'll get

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<v Speaker 2>to that and more right after this. All right, we'll back.

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<v Speaker 1>We got more of your money questions to get to.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get to a question now about student loans and

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<v Speaker 1>how to proceed in a time where things are a

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<v Speaker 1>little murky.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Matt and Joel, this is Adam in Chicago. So

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<v Speaker 4>my question is about student loans. Currently, I qualify for

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<v Speaker 4>public service loan forgiveness, but my loans are still in forbearance.

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<v Speaker 4>Therefore payments are not considered qualifying. And that's fine for now,

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<v Speaker 4>because I'm using that extra money on money Gear three

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<v Speaker 4>to pay off high interest credit card debt through a

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<v Speaker 4>zero percent interest balance transfer I did on a new card.

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<v Speaker 2>I have the save.

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<v Speaker 4>Plan right now. So what do you recommend I do

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<v Speaker 4>when I finish paying off this credit card debt? Should

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<v Speaker 4>I switch out of the plan to another like IDR

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<v Speaker 4>payment or I don't know. I have no idea since

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<v Speaker 4>the current administration and Congress, you know, are still debating things,

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<v Speaker 4>so I'm kind of skipping. I know, money gears four

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<v Speaker 4>and five thinking about you know, low interest debt, but

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted to make sure I don't screw up any

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<v Speaker 4>loan forgiveness stuff in the future. Thanks for your advice.

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<v Speaker 2>Cheers cheers indeed, Adam, And first off, I hope that

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<v Speaker 2>Joel's recent conversation. So Joel talked with Stanley Tait, the

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<v Speaker 2>student loan lawyer. He's awesome, Stanley Tait esquire. He's also like.

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<v Speaker 1>Laid back, which I so appreciate because we're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>such an intent subject. There's so much like emotion around

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<v Speaker 1>student loans, and there's so much frustration, and Stanley's just

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<v Speaker 1>like chill.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, a literal, nice calming voice. Just also how and

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<v Speaker 2>how he approaches student loans and what all is going

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<v Speaker 2>on right now as well. But in addition to that, Adam,

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<v Speaker 2>I love that you are using this forbearance period to

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<v Speaker 2>make progress all on your other money goals, right like

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<v Speaker 2>you are not increasing your spending, you're not counting your

0:19:57.640 --> 0:20:00.320
<v Speaker 2>chickens before they hatch. To a certain extent. Here this

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<v Speaker 2>multi year pause, man, it was such a good time

0:20:02.760 --> 0:20:05.119
<v Speaker 2>for folks to do what it is that you are doing.

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<v Speaker 2>But sadly, most folks didn't heed that advice, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>the advice that we were spouting. Oh, we were telling

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<v Speaker 2>people just to hey, make hay well the sunshine and

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<v Speaker 2>take advantage of.

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<v Speaker 1>Like don Quixote or something tilting at windmills. Because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how many people are listening, but I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>I know some how to money. Folks were listening, and

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<v Speaker 1>we've heard from those people. Maybe Adam maybe he was listening,

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<v Speaker 1>probably yes, heard. We've heard from those people who were

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<v Speaker 1>able to do massive things, make huge strides by not

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<v Speaker 1>having a student loan payment in their life for a

0:20:34.160 --> 0:20:38.600
<v Speaker 1>while and by doing really intelligent stuff with that money

0:20:38.960 --> 0:20:42.719
<v Speaker 1>in that meantime. But yeah, as payments have re started,

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<v Speaker 1>we have documented this too on the show Matt. It

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<v Speaker 1>has put so many people in an even worse financial

0:20:47.200 --> 0:20:50.320
<v Speaker 1>predicament because they got used to incorporating that student loan

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<v Speaker 1>payment back into their budget. Prices are rising. I get it,

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, great, now I've got a little more money

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<v Speaker 1>on hand to make ends meet. But then when payments restart,

0:20:59.080 --> 0:21:01.840
<v Speaker 1>people are like, holy crap, I don't know what to do.

0:21:02.400 --> 0:21:05.600
<v Speaker 1>And it has put a lot of folks in a bind.

0:21:05.640 --> 0:21:07.920
<v Speaker 1>Obviously a lot of people behind on payments right now.

0:21:08.359 --> 0:21:12.040
<v Speaker 1>And so Adam, specifically to your question, we would say,

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<v Speaker 1>keep trying to pay off that zero percent interest credit

0:21:14.560 --> 0:21:17.720
<v Speaker 1>card debt. The goal would be to eradicate it before

0:21:17.800 --> 0:21:20.600
<v Speaker 1>your payment restarts, which is like maybe this spring or summer,

0:21:20.640 --> 0:21:22.880
<v Speaker 1>like I don't know exactly when, and that's still kind

0:21:22.920 --> 0:21:27.639
<v Speaker 1>of in limbo. But the big risk in not paying

0:21:27.720 --> 0:21:31.520
<v Speaker 1>towards your loans while you're in this administrative forbearance is

0:21:31.880 --> 0:21:36.200
<v Speaker 1>racking up more debt because interest is accruing. But that

0:21:36.560 --> 0:21:38.520
<v Speaker 1>actually isn't that big of a deal for you, right

0:21:38.560 --> 0:21:42.920
<v Speaker 1>because you're working towards full debt forgiveness down the line.

0:21:43.000 --> 0:21:45.960
<v Speaker 1>So even if the balance is getting bigger, hopefully it's

0:21:45.960 --> 0:21:49.880
<v Speaker 1>that bigger balance essentially that's going to be forgiven down

0:21:49.920 --> 0:21:54.040
<v Speaker 1>the road. And so this is just not as daunting

0:21:54.560 --> 0:21:58.119
<v Speaker 1>to have a growing balance as someone who isn't working

0:21:58.240 --> 0:21:59.200
<v Speaker 1>toward PSL left.

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<v Speaker 2>So that is true.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And by the way, I know some people worry

0:22:02.359 --> 0:22:05.000
<v Speaker 1>about the how long PSLF if it is going to

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<v Speaker 1>stick around, and you know, talking with Stanley and just

0:22:08.320 --> 0:22:10.960
<v Speaker 1>everything else I've seen, there is there's no danger of

0:22:11.000 --> 0:22:14.000
<v Speaker 1>PSLF going away, so that that's not something plans that.

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<v Speaker 2>Are already in existence. Yes, it's yeah. I mean they're

0:22:16.640 --> 0:22:18.600
<v Speaker 2>not going to say that they're grandfathered in, but you're

0:22:18.640 --> 0:22:20.280
<v Speaker 2>not going to get kicked out of something that you

0:22:20.320 --> 0:22:24.040
<v Speaker 2>are already in. Uh, there's actually yes. With the Safe Plan, Well,

0:22:24.240 --> 0:22:27.520
<v Speaker 2>but that was like short was never actually implemented. I

0:22:27.520 --> 0:22:29.919
<v Speaker 2>mean people got onto the plan, that is true, and

0:22:29.960 --> 0:22:31.480
<v Speaker 2>then and then it was completely gunned and it was

0:22:31.520 --> 0:22:37.520
<v Speaker 2>run pulled, it was gutted. So but PSLF is like inshoots. Yeah. Yeah,

0:22:37.600 --> 0:22:41.359
<v Speaker 2>student loan not just lore but actual policy. Yeah, but

0:22:41.600 --> 0:22:44.080
<v Speaker 2>there's actually a chance that some of these months where

0:22:44.080 --> 0:22:47.160
<v Speaker 2>you're not paying are going to count towards your PSLF timeline,

0:22:47.200 --> 0:22:50.719
<v Speaker 2>which by the way, is Public Service loan forgiveness. It

0:22:50.800 --> 0:22:54.200
<v Speaker 2>is not likely, but it might be possible because who

0:22:54.200 --> 0:22:57.239
<v Speaker 2>knows the student loan space. It's a moving darker right now,

0:22:57.280 --> 0:22:58.840
<v Speaker 2>so it's tough to know. But man, if I were

0:22:58.880 --> 0:23:02.040
<v Speaker 2>in your shoes, I would put in the Safe Plan

0:23:02.119 --> 0:23:05.879
<v Speaker 2>for the time being as you basically get automatically enrolled

0:23:05.920 --> 0:23:10.440
<v Speaker 2>into the new RAP that which is Repayment Assistance Plan,

0:23:11.359 --> 0:23:12.560
<v Speaker 2>and we'll see what that looks like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like you're you're hanging on You're waiting for

0:23:15.040 --> 0:23:18.520
<v Speaker 1>them to actually like finish pulling the rug. But for

0:23:18.640 --> 0:23:20.880
<v Speaker 1>that time, you're you can be on the same rug.

0:23:21.000 --> 0:23:23.119
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just stay put. There's no point in moving to

0:23:23.160 --> 0:23:28.000
<v Speaker 2>a different repayment plan earlier than is necessary, especially with

0:23:28.040 --> 0:23:30.000
<v Speaker 2>a potential for some of these months that you spent

0:23:30.040 --> 0:23:34.480
<v Speaker 2>in four bearans to count towards your PSLF timeline, you're

0:23:34.480 --> 0:23:36.000
<v Speaker 2>gonna hit it one of these days. So there's just

0:23:36.040 --> 0:23:39.800
<v Speaker 2>no need to like rush to kick start payments again,

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<v Speaker 2>especially given your situation. Oh and by the way, you

0:23:43.280 --> 0:23:46.080
<v Speaker 2>mentioned too as far as like him hopefully eliminating that

0:23:46.200 --> 0:23:49.119
<v Speaker 2>high interest rate that credit card debt prior to student

0:23:49.160 --> 0:23:53.280
<v Speaker 2>loans resuming, but also before that zero percent period of

0:23:53.280 --> 0:23:57.159
<v Speaker 2>time before that expires as well, because that is gonna

0:23:57.200 --> 0:24:00.720
<v Speaker 2>be a sky high rate compared to you know, whatever

0:24:00.920 --> 0:24:03.080
<v Speaker 2>the rate is on his student loans. It's a great point.

0:24:03.119 --> 0:24:05.120
<v Speaker 2>So it's a double waymie for you to get rid

0:24:05.119 --> 0:24:07.680
<v Speaker 2>of that credit card debt and hopefully never enter into

0:24:07.680 --> 0:24:08.360
<v Speaker 2>it again. Yeah.

0:24:08.480 --> 0:24:10.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a good point, because if you start paying

0:24:10.240 --> 0:24:13.160
<v Speaker 1>on the student loan and it and you lose your

0:24:13.400 --> 0:24:16.200
<v Speaker 1>vigor of paying on that credit card debt and then

0:24:16.400 --> 0:24:19.440
<v Speaker 1>you're starting to pay interest on that puppy again, trying

0:24:19.440 --> 0:24:21.520
<v Speaker 1>to do both. You have that singular focus right now,

0:24:21.920 --> 0:24:25.160
<v Speaker 1>and you have a great timeline to pay it down

0:24:25.240 --> 0:24:28.160
<v Speaker 1>without paying interest. So I think that's why is Matt

0:24:28.440 --> 0:24:31.440
<v Speaker 1>and ultimately Adam, we don't want you to trigger a

0:24:31.520 --> 0:24:34.359
<v Speaker 1>higher payment or you know, hit your head against the

0:24:34.359 --> 0:24:37.320
<v Speaker 1>wall trying to talk to student loan servicers who are backlogged.

0:24:37.600 --> 0:24:40.000
<v Speaker 1>When you're in a solid spot, the key is just

0:24:40.000 --> 0:24:41.840
<v Speaker 1>to keep doing what you're doing, pay down the debt,

0:24:41.840 --> 0:24:43.600
<v Speaker 1>build a saving s buffer so that you're ready for

0:24:43.640 --> 0:24:46.560
<v Speaker 1>payments to resume, and then it's not going to be

0:24:46.600 --> 0:24:49.520
<v Speaker 1>nearly as much of a financial shock in let's say

0:24:49.600 --> 0:24:54.240
<v Speaker 1>June or July when those payments come back and you're migrated,

0:24:54.560 --> 0:24:58.119
<v Speaker 1>because you're mentally prepared, right especially especially if you've saved

0:24:58.200 --> 0:25:00.399
<v Speaker 1>up a few months worth of payments and you have

0:25:00.480 --> 0:25:03.880
<v Speaker 1>fewer debt obligations. That is the double whammy, Like I've

0:25:03.880 --> 0:25:06.560
<v Speaker 1>got no credit card debt anymore, so that money's safe

0:25:06.600 --> 0:25:08.720
<v Speaker 1>and can go towards other things, and at the same

0:25:08.760 --> 0:25:10.240
<v Speaker 1>time you built up a little bit of cushion.

0:25:10.359 --> 0:25:12.560
<v Speaker 2>That's the best of both worlds, that's right. Yeah, we

0:25:12.640 --> 0:25:16.960
<v Speaker 2>would be remiss to not mention the PSLF buyback program.

0:25:17.160 --> 0:25:19.960
<v Speaker 2>So the way this works, if you are close to forgiveness,

0:25:20.520 --> 0:25:23.679
<v Speaker 2>this is a way for you to retroactively turn months

0:25:23.720 --> 0:25:27.320
<v Speaker 2>that didn't count as qualifying PSLF payments. So in your case,

0:25:27.320 --> 0:25:30.399
<v Speaker 2>it's the months that you spent in fourbearans into qualifying

0:25:30.400 --> 0:25:34.439
<v Speaker 2>months by paying what you would have paid under an

0:25:34.440 --> 0:25:38.720
<v Speaker 2>income driven an IDR plan during those months. But you

0:25:38.760 --> 0:25:41.120
<v Speaker 2>can only take advantage of that if you have enough

0:25:41.160 --> 0:25:43.399
<v Speaker 2>cash on hand to get you exactly to that one

0:25:43.480 --> 0:25:45.520
<v Speaker 2>hundred and twenty month mark. And so it's like a

0:25:45.640 --> 0:25:48.360
<v Speaker 2>very I don't know, it's a very precise maneuver. Yeah,

0:25:48.840 --> 0:25:52.199
<v Speaker 2>and if you are really close to being out of that,

0:25:52.240 --> 0:25:53.880
<v Speaker 2>I think that's something. It's sort of like some folks

0:25:53.880 --> 0:25:56.560
<v Speaker 2>who are just like, man, I'm thinking about folks who

0:25:56.600 --> 0:25:58.080
<v Speaker 2>have like a mortgage and they're just like, I'm just

0:25:58.119 --> 0:26:01.880
<v Speaker 2>gonna I want to be done with it. So that's

0:26:01.960 --> 0:26:04.560
<v Speaker 2>up to you and whether that makes sense from giving

0:26:04.600 --> 0:26:05.760
<v Speaker 2>your financial situation.

0:26:05.840 --> 0:26:08.320
<v Speaker 1>And it seems like with Adams particulars, there are just

0:26:08.440 --> 0:26:10.680
<v Speaker 1>other things that are higher private.

0:26:10.880 --> 0:26:13.359
<v Speaker 2>He's got other goals. I think he's absolutely just going

0:26:13.440 --> 0:26:15.280
<v Speaker 2>to let this scene. He's going to write it out

0:26:15.600 --> 0:26:16.760
<v Speaker 2>and just have a ton forgiven.

0:26:16.800 --> 0:26:19.080
<v Speaker 1>But for a handful of folks out there that could

0:26:19.119 --> 0:26:22.159
<v Speaker 1>make sense, I guess it's worth at least considering the

0:26:22.160 --> 0:26:24.720
<v Speaker 1>PSLF buy back program. If you're like, oh man, I'm

0:26:24.720 --> 0:26:28.440
<v Speaker 1>within shouting distance, I'm so close, and i could get

0:26:28.520 --> 0:26:31.480
<v Speaker 1>rid of it sooner rather than later, and I've got

0:26:31.520 --> 0:26:33.160
<v Speaker 1>the cash on hand than boom, I don't know, it's

0:26:33.160 --> 0:26:34.880
<v Speaker 1>at least worth kind of running the numbers and thinking

0:26:34.880 --> 0:26:36.040
<v Speaker 1>through it. That's right, Joel.

0:26:36.080 --> 0:26:38.800
<v Speaker 2>Let's hear from a listener who is using a retirement

0:26:38.880 --> 0:26:42.680
<v Speaker 2>accounts that is even sweeter than the roth IRA. Let's

0:26:42.680 --> 0:26:44.960
<v Speaker 2>here from Abbie, Hi, Matt, and Joel.

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<v Speaker 5>This is Abby from Iowa. I have a quick question

0:26:48.040 --> 0:26:51.800
<v Speaker 5>regarding HSA money distributions. My husband and I are in

0:26:51.840 --> 0:26:56.360
<v Speaker 5>our late thirties with two children and working to currently

0:26:56.400 --> 0:26:59.359
<v Speaker 5>grow our HSA funds and saving our receipts to make

0:26:59.400 --> 0:27:02.080
<v Speaker 5>the most of this count in our retirement years. My

0:27:02.200 --> 0:27:06.399
<v Speaker 5>question has to do with receipts regarding our children's medical expenses.

0:27:06.720 --> 0:27:08.800
<v Speaker 5>At the moment, when they're dependents, we can use their

0:27:08.840 --> 0:27:11.600
<v Speaker 5>expenses to be reimbursed, but will this still be the

0:27:11.640 --> 0:27:14.760
<v Speaker 5>case once they're over twenty six and off our insurance plans.

0:27:15.160 --> 0:27:17.880
<v Speaker 5>For example, my eight year old is about to get braces.

0:27:18.160 --> 0:27:21.040
<v Speaker 5>Will we be able to use this receipt twenty years

0:27:21.040 --> 0:27:23.679
<v Speaker 5>down the road when she's no longer a dependent or

0:27:23.720 --> 0:27:26.119
<v Speaker 5>will it only be my husband and I's expenses that

0:27:26.160 --> 0:27:29.320
<v Speaker 5>we can get reimbursed for. Thanks for any information you

0:27:29.320 --> 0:27:30.560
<v Speaker 5>can give us, and go.

0:27:30.600 --> 0:27:34.200
<v Speaker 2>Hawks, Matt. Do you also root for the Hawks? That

0:27:34.720 --> 0:27:36.760
<v Speaker 2>is that a sports team? I think so. I think

0:27:36.760 --> 0:27:40.320
<v Speaker 2>it's a sports ball reference the Atlanta Hawks. She's in Iowa.

0:27:40.600 --> 0:27:43.159
<v Speaker 2>Why is she reading for the Hawks? Is that the Hawkeyes?

0:27:43.520 --> 0:27:43.960
<v Speaker 2>Is that?

0:27:44.359 --> 0:27:46.320
<v Speaker 1>Maybe this the Iowah Hawk eyes and maybe they call

0:27:46.400 --> 0:27:47.119
<v Speaker 1>them Hawks for short.

0:27:47.440 --> 0:27:48.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'm sure that that makes more sense.

0:27:48.920 --> 0:27:51.000
<v Speaker 1>I know the mascots for most of these teams because the.

0:27:51.000 --> 0:27:52.560
<v Speaker 2>Picture of the logo, it's got the circle with the

0:27:52.960 --> 0:27:56.240
<v Speaker 2>Hawks outline. Classic I used to care about. From a

0:27:56.280 --> 0:27:58.479
<v Speaker 2>graphic design standpoint, I love it. But from an actual

0:27:58.520 --> 0:28:00.840
<v Speaker 2>sports ball standpoint, not quite my thing.

0:28:01.080 --> 0:28:03.320
<v Speaker 1>Man, I feel so out of the loop on sports

0:28:03.320 --> 0:28:03.800
<v Speaker 1>these days.

0:28:03.800 --> 0:28:07.080
<v Speaker 2>But I gosh, I used to like the sport of running.

0:28:07.720 --> 0:28:08.600
<v Speaker 2>That's what you're obsessed with.

0:28:08.800 --> 0:28:11.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's like a solo pursuiting most part, though, h

0:28:11.800 --> 0:28:14.560
<v Speaker 1>It used to be like gathering with friends to watch.

0:28:14.760 --> 0:28:17.479
<v Speaker 2>You run with more friends than anybody I've ever heard of.

0:28:17.800 --> 0:28:20.720
<v Speaker 2>That's true. I have a lot of running buddies, which

0:28:20.920 --> 0:28:23.000
<v Speaker 2>I think when a start. Yeah, no, we'll talk about this.

0:28:23.240 --> 0:28:27.440
<v Speaker 1>Okay, enough of the sports talk, but let's let's let's

0:28:27.440 --> 0:28:30.800
<v Speaker 1>talk about hsas. Matt I recently spoke with had a

0:28:30.840 --> 0:28:34.280
<v Speaker 1>money listener who is retired, and he's so thrilled that

0:28:34.320 --> 0:28:37.480
<v Speaker 1>he built up such a big HSA balance and he's

0:28:37.600 --> 0:28:41.880
<v Speaker 1>he's like over over he was glowing about the flexibility

0:28:41.880 --> 0:28:44.400
<v Speaker 1>that the account affords him, like the ability to tap

0:28:44.440 --> 0:28:47.520
<v Speaker 1>it without paying a dime of tax based on healthcare

0:28:47.560 --> 0:28:50.320
<v Speaker 1>costs and he accrued decades before. He was just like

0:28:50.880 --> 0:28:53.800
<v Speaker 1>over the moon with how incredible the HSA is. And

0:28:53.800 --> 0:28:56.920
<v Speaker 1>and this sounds like the boat Abby's gonna find herself

0:28:56.920 --> 0:28:59.080
<v Speaker 1>in if she continues down this path. We got to

0:28:59.080 --> 0:29:01.160
<v Speaker 1>address our question, We got get some of the nitty gritties.

0:29:01.520 --> 0:29:04.200
<v Speaker 1>But that's what makes the HSA. You're glad to hear

0:29:04.200 --> 0:29:05.720
<v Speaker 1>that she's doing it. Yeah, And it's just fun to

0:29:05.720 --> 0:29:08.880
<v Speaker 1>hear from somebody who's thirty years down the road and

0:29:09.040 --> 0:29:10.720
<v Speaker 1>is like, oh, yeah, it's all, it's all.

0:29:10.760 --> 0:29:12.720
<v Speaker 2>It's cracked up to be uh huh, yeah, totally. Okay,

0:29:12.760 --> 0:29:15.640
<v Speaker 2>let's talk about like the general mechanics of the health

0:29:15.880 --> 0:29:19.800
<v Speaker 2>savings account, because contrary to its name, the savings part,

0:29:19.880 --> 0:29:23.600
<v Speaker 2>it's actually more of an investing account. But we believe

0:29:23.640 --> 0:29:25.800
<v Speaker 2>that they are by far the stealthiest way to save

0:29:25.880 --> 0:29:30.200
<v Speaker 2>for retirement because of the tax advantages that you accrue.

0:29:30.720 --> 0:29:34.120
<v Speaker 2>They're not just tax advantage. You can literally like avoid

0:29:34.400 --> 0:29:38.240
<v Speaker 2>taxes completely for the money that you put into an HSA.

0:29:38.800 --> 0:29:40.600
<v Speaker 2>And then of course, in addition to that, not only

0:29:40.680 --> 0:29:42.760
<v Speaker 2>are you just stashing those dollars away, but you are

0:29:42.760 --> 0:29:45.240
<v Speaker 2>investing those dollars. This is how this is a retirement account.

0:29:46.040 --> 0:29:52.200
<v Speaker 2>You are not interrupting the compounding unnecessarily a la Charlie Munger, Right,

0:29:52.240 --> 0:29:55.120
<v Speaker 2>there's HSA dollars get to they get to live to

0:29:55.360 --> 0:29:58.480
<v Speaker 2>grow another day. And what you're doing is you're paying

0:29:58.480 --> 0:30:01.920
<v Speaker 2>for your medical expenses out of pocket in order to

0:30:02.120 --> 0:30:03.719
<v Speaker 2>keep those HSA dollars untouched.

0:30:03.760 --> 0:30:05.960
<v Speaker 1>And it's a really cool account if you used it

0:30:06.200 --> 0:30:09.720
<v Speaker 1>like a health savings account like as prescribed, right, it's

0:30:10.000 --> 0:30:13.040
<v Speaker 1>cool just in the sense that you can avoid a

0:30:13.040 --> 0:30:17.240
<v Speaker 1>bunch of taxation, but it's super duper extra cool if

0:30:17.440 --> 0:30:20.960
<v Speaker 1>you invest and you're like growing a stockpile of money

0:30:21.400 --> 0:30:25.080
<v Speaker 1>that never gets taxed, right, that completely avoids the taxman.

0:30:25.520 --> 0:30:30.600
<v Speaker 1>That's what makes it like on steroids, superpower, supercharged. So

0:30:30.680 --> 0:30:34.000
<v Speaker 1>let's talk about the specifics and the specifics of Abbey's question.

0:30:34.200 --> 0:30:37.400
<v Speaker 1>Will your HSA still benefit you in the same way

0:30:37.800 --> 0:30:39.680
<v Speaker 1>once your kids grow up? That's kind of the heart

0:30:39.720 --> 0:30:43.120
<v Speaker 1>of your question, And the answer is yes. The key,

0:30:43.320 --> 0:30:46.360
<v Speaker 1>the clutch thing to know is essentially this that you're

0:30:46.640 --> 0:30:50.840
<v Speaker 1>the HSA eligibility is determined at the time the medical

0:30:50.920 --> 0:30:55.400
<v Speaker 1>expense is incurred, not when you reimburse yourself. So doesn't

0:30:55.800 --> 0:30:59.200
<v Speaker 1>really matter like what's going on with your family life,

0:30:59.280 --> 0:31:01.440
<v Speaker 1>how old you are, how far down the road. Let's

0:31:01.480 --> 0:31:05.560
<v Speaker 1>say your kid is on your health insurance policy right now, right,

0:31:05.800 --> 0:31:08.960
<v Speaker 1>and the expense occurs in twenty twenty six, you can

0:31:09.000 --> 0:31:13.080
<v Speaker 1>still tap your HSA thirty years later in twenty fifty six,

0:31:13.480 --> 0:31:16.640
<v Speaker 1>after it's grown a ton, right, And even if your

0:31:16.720 --> 0:31:19.720
<v Speaker 1>child then who is going to be a full grown adult,

0:31:20.040 --> 0:31:21.160
<v Speaker 1>is not on your policy.

0:31:21.200 --> 0:31:21.760
<v Speaker 2>So we're talking.

0:31:22.040 --> 0:31:24.400
<v Speaker 1>I think she said her daughter was her child was

0:31:24.400 --> 0:31:27.120
<v Speaker 1>eight years old, and so she to get braces, daughter

0:31:27.120 --> 0:31:29.280
<v Speaker 1>would be thirty eight years old brace is long gone,

0:31:29.360 --> 0:31:30.840
<v Speaker 1>super straight teeth hopefully.

0:31:31.440 --> 0:31:32.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, where your retainer?

0:31:33.600 --> 0:31:35.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know there's gonna be allowing to go back

0:31:35.280 --> 0:31:38.600
<v Speaker 1>and do braces as an adult again, to rectify from

0:31:38.600 --> 0:31:40.360
<v Speaker 1>not where I would wear my retainer every night.

0:31:40.360 --> 0:31:42.280
<v Speaker 2>Match just for that reason. Do you really? Yeah? Oh,

0:31:42.360 --> 0:31:44.680
<v Speaker 2>good for you every night. I don't. We don't do

0:31:44.720 --> 0:31:47.600
<v Speaker 2>any sleepovers, although no, I knew that, Like, well, we've

0:31:47.600 --> 0:31:50.280
<v Speaker 2>traveled together and yeah, it's just been a minute. I

0:31:50.360 --> 0:31:52.480
<v Speaker 2>keep it around. I'm not taking too many mental notes

0:31:52.520 --> 0:31:55.520
<v Speaker 2>of your your retainer container, my hygie, what do you

0:31:55.520 --> 0:31:58.920
<v Speaker 2>call it? Do you call it a retainer container? Retainer box?

0:31:59.080 --> 0:32:01.280
<v Speaker 2>I guess yeah, never thought about it, like me and neither.

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<v Speaker 1>But really, this it's all about what was going on

0:32:06.920 --> 0:32:09.160
<v Speaker 1>when the expense was initially incurred.

0:32:09.280 --> 0:32:09.640
<v Speaker 2>Initially.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it doesn't matter that your child is no longer

0:32:14.520 --> 0:32:17.080
<v Speaker 1>on your insurance policy, or that it's many decades later. Yeah,

0:32:17.080 --> 0:32:19.400
<v Speaker 1>it's not expected that she or any or either of

0:32:19.440 --> 0:32:21.640
<v Speaker 1>your kids will be on your insurance. Like like literally,

0:32:21.680 --> 0:32:24.080
<v Speaker 1>you could envision the future where you aren't even on

0:32:24.160 --> 0:32:27.640
<v Speaker 1>a high deductible healthcare plan, where you even have access

0:32:27.680 --> 0:32:30.360
<v Speaker 1>to an HSA, right, and so would then the expenses

0:32:30.360 --> 0:32:32.200
<v Speaker 1>that you incurred back when you did.

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<v Speaker 2>Would those qualify absolutely one percent? Yes, for sure.

0:32:36.280 --> 0:32:36.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You could be in a different employer, a completely different

0:32:38.480 --> 0:32:42.280
<v Speaker 1>insurance company, and or beginning your own policy on the

0:32:42.720 --> 0:32:45.680
<v Speaker 1>open market or something like that, and you'd still it

0:32:45.680 --> 0:32:47.680
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't do anything about your past expenses.

0:32:47.720 --> 0:32:49.080
<v Speaker 2>This week will be you could be on the single

0:32:49.120 --> 0:32:50.840
<v Speaker 2>pair of government plan that we're all set to beyond.

0:32:50.840 --> 0:32:54.120
<v Speaker 2>At the rate that we're going, we're whatever. Yeah, like yeah,

0:32:54.240 --> 0:32:56.760
<v Speaker 2>regardless of what the future holds, it doesn't matter because

0:32:56.760 --> 0:32:58.840
<v Speaker 2>it's we're talking about what happened here in the past.

0:33:00.160 --> 0:33:02.960
<v Speaker 2>Never be revoked. It's not going to be deemed ineligible.

0:33:02.960 --> 0:33:04.840
<v Speaker 2>But of course you're going to want to keep the

0:33:04.880 --> 0:33:09.040
<v Speaker 2>receipts in order to prove eligibility. This is, of course,

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<v Speaker 2>because if you were to get audited by the IRS

0:33:12.000 --> 0:33:14.600
<v Speaker 2>down the road, you're gonna want to have a trail

0:33:14.640 --> 0:33:16.920
<v Speaker 2>of receipts. You're gonna want to have tax returns to

0:33:17.000 --> 0:33:19.200
<v Speaker 2>show first of all that your daughter was you're dependent

0:33:20.080 --> 0:33:22.920
<v Speaker 2>when the braces were put on, but also just to

0:33:22.960 --> 0:33:26.480
<v Speaker 2>show improve the exact amounts of the expenses that you incurred.

0:33:26.680 --> 0:33:29.400
<v Speaker 2>And I'm not talking about say like you don't have

0:33:29.440 --> 0:33:31.239
<v Speaker 2>to keep up with the literal receipts. But even just

0:33:31.280 --> 0:33:33.840
<v Speaker 2>like digital receipts or even snaping a photo of it,

0:33:34.080 --> 0:33:36.960
<v Speaker 2>I cannot imagine the future where you're gonna where you

0:33:36.960 --> 0:33:40.520
<v Speaker 2>would need to be able to literally show physical receipts

0:33:41.040 --> 0:33:44.120
<v Speaker 2>as opposed to just having be organized about it, like

0:33:44.240 --> 0:33:47.920
<v Speaker 2>have your Google Drive HSA receipt folder. And normally I

0:33:47.920 --> 0:33:50.600
<v Speaker 2>would also say to keep a little spreadsheet or you've

0:33:50.640 --> 0:33:52.760
<v Speaker 2>got the date, you know, in order to stay organized.

0:33:52.800 --> 0:33:55.280
<v Speaker 2>You've got the date, You've got a little description of

0:33:55.360 --> 0:33:58.240
<v Speaker 2>the medical procedure or the product or the medicine or whatever,

0:33:58.600 --> 0:33:59.960
<v Speaker 2>as well as the price. That way you have a

0:34:00.080 --> 0:34:02.800
<v Speaker 2>running total and so you know, oh, this is how

0:34:02.880 --> 0:34:07.719
<v Speaker 2>much I can completely tax free take out of my HSA. Yeah.

0:34:07.800 --> 0:34:10.759
<v Speaker 2>I feel differently about that nogel, you know why, Because

0:34:10.840 --> 0:34:13.960
<v Speaker 2>of AI. This seems like such a perfect job to

0:34:14.000 --> 0:34:15.680
<v Speaker 2>be able to upload a bunch of receipts and say, hey,

0:34:15.840 --> 0:34:18.239
<v Speaker 2>keep trying this for me, yes, or just like you

0:34:18.239 --> 0:34:20.279
<v Speaker 2>can do it once a year and just be like, hey,

0:34:20.800 --> 0:34:23.440
<v Speaker 2>give me a total amount, give me data columns of

0:34:23.880 --> 0:34:29.200
<v Speaker 2>you know, date description where it was incurred, a total amount.

0:34:29.280 --> 0:34:31.960
<v Speaker 2>Give me some also export that create that as a

0:34:31.960 --> 0:34:33.560
<v Speaker 2>Google sheet unless the AI.

0:34:33.400 --> 0:34:35.919
<v Speaker 1>Starts to blackmail you with your own health records, which

0:34:36.000 --> 0:34:37.160
<v Speaker 1>is you never now man.

0:34:37.040 --> 0:34:39.239
<v Speaker 2>This just saying this is a good use case for

0:34:39.760 --> 0:34:41.400
<v Speaker 2>a large language model to be able to take care

0:34:41.440 --> 0:34:41.759
<v Speaker 2>of that for you.

0:34:41.800 --> 0:34:43.680
<v Speaker 1>True, But I think what you're getting at too is

0:34:43.680 --> 0:34:45.800
<v Speaker 1>really important. Not only are you keeping those receipts to

0:34:45.920 --> 0:34:48.880
<v Speaker 1>prove to the IRS in the case it's necessary, but

0:34:48.960 --> 0:34:52.000
<v Speaker 1>you're also documenting all that stuff. So basically it's a

0:34:52.000 --> 0:34:56.080
<v Speaker 1>good good idea to keep track of the eligible healthcare

0:34:56.120 --> 0:34:59.680
<v Speaker 1>procedures you've gone through so that you have a decent

0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:03.200
<v Speaker 1>unders of how much money you have access to tax

0:35:03.239 --> 0:35:06.640
<v Speaker 1>free without you know, violating the essence of the HSA.

0:35:06.840 --> 0:35:09.120
<v Speaker 2>That's right. It also makes sense too from like, if

0:35:09.320 --> 0:35:11.399
<v Speaker 2>I could picture a scenario where like five ten years

0:35:11.440 --> 0:35:14.399
<v Speaker 2>in the future, if you are trying to decide, oh,

0:35:14.480 --> 0:35:16.359
<v Speaker 2>do I put more money into my HSA that I'm

0:35:16.360 --> 0:35:18.920
<v Speaker 2>still eligible for that I still have or should I

0:35:18.920 --> 0:35:22.040
<v Speaker 2>contribute more over here, and if you're looking at some

0:35:22.080 --> 0:35:25.400
<v Speaker 2>of your medical expenses and you're and you're incredibly healthy,

0:35:25.440 --> 0:35:28.719
<v Speaker 2>and actually the teeth never needed braces to begin with,

0:35:29.800 --> 0:35:32.279
<v Speaker 2>And if I could see a scenario where let's say

0:35:32.320 --> 0:35:36.080
<v Speaker 2>you've got forty thousand dollars thirty forty thousand dollars in there,

0:35:36.080 --> 0:35:39.920
<v Speaker 2>and you've only occurred like seven thousand and medical expenses.

0:35:39.920 --> 0:35:42.759
<v Speaker 2>I could see a scenario maybe where I would even

0:35:42.840 --> 0:35:44.399
<v Speaker 2>kind of back off a little bit if I had

0:35:44.400 --> 0:35:46.359
<v Speaker 2>some other financial goals. Right, it's just to be able

0:35:46.400 --> 0:35:48.400
<v Speaker 2>to provide that data set for you so that you

0:35:48.400 --> 0:35:50.960
<v Speaker 2>can make the most informed decision off in the future

0:35:51.320 --> 0:35:53.480
<v Speaker 2>without getting a little too far over your skis.

0:35:53.560 --> 0:35:55.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but if you don't have enough medical expenses, right,

0:35:55.560 --> 0:35:58.680
<v Speaker 1>that HSA down the road can turn into a glorified IRA.

0:35:59.239 --> 0:36:01.759
<v Speaker 1>And so yeah, look into no how.

0:36:01.680 --> 0:36:04.680
<v Speaker 2>That tax advantaged. But you just have to pay one

0:36:04.680 --> 0:36:06.200
<v Speaker 2>set of taxes, that's right, instead of four.

0:36:06.280 --> 0:36:08.760
<v Speaker 1>I think in some ways this helps make the friction

0:36:08.960 --> 0:36:11.880
<v Speaker 1>and the cost of braces feel a little less onerousy,

0:36:12.000 --> 0:36:15.040
<v Speaker 1>even though it's still it's so expensive. And I realized

0:36:15.080 --> 0:36:16.960
<v Speaker 1>I've got two kids kind of on that and in

0:36:17.080 --> 0:36:19.200
<v Speaker 1>the orthodontria plan right now, what about the third you

0:36:19.200 --> 0:36:21.320
<v Speaker 1>think he's going to begin in, No, he's totally gonna do.

0:36:21.880 --> 0:36:24.160
<v Speaker 1>He's just like he's only got like maybe three or

0:36:24.160 --> 0:36:26.959
<v Speaker 1>four big kid teeth right now. But the two front

0:36:26.960 --> 0:36:29.960
<v Speaker 1>ones they are. I can already tell he's gonna need

0:36:30.000 --> 0:36:30.480
<v Speaker 1>it at some point.

0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:32.960
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, it's expensive. Oh man, it makes me think

0:36:32.960 --> 0:36:34.440
<v Speaker 2>of it. So our school every year we do an

0:36:34.440 --> 0:36:38.160
<v Speaker 2>auction and items get donated. It's like a fundraiser or whatever.

0:36:38.520 --> 0:36:43.040
<v Speaker 2>And I saw that local Orthodoge Orthodonist office donated like

0:36:43.080 --> 0:36:47.040
<v Speaker 2>a five thousand dollars package, which that's like one kid

0:36:47.080 --> 0:36:49.600
<v Speaker 2>to get in through braces. Oh is it? Oh yeah?

0:36:49.719 --> 0:36:51.719
<v Speaker 2>Is that like one year? No, I mean that's like

0:36:51.840 --> 0:36:54.000
<v Speaker 2>or that's like a whole that's like a few years

0:36:54.000 --> 0:36:56.440
<v Speaker 2>worth of fixing some teeth. We basically prepaid. Yeah.

0:36:56.520 --> 0:36:58.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there was like a deal to say, yeah, all right,

0:36:58.880 --> 0:37:00.920
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna pay for the treed in the next few

0:37:01.000 --> 0:37:02.920
<v Speaker 1>years for this kid in one fell swoop.

0:37:03.320 --> 0:37:05.319
<v Speaker 2>And it's just you're just saying, I'll put that on your

0:37:05.360 --> 0:37:07.080
<v Speaker 2>radar because if you can get in there, nobody. You

0:37:07.080 --> 0:37:09.359
<v Speaker 2>know what if you bid like three four hundred bucks

0:37:09.400 --> 0:37:12.319
<v Speaker 2>on it, snag a five thousand dollars package, that's like

0:37:12.360 --> 0:37:14.360
<v Speaker 2>a heavy sweet that's a reduced that's the kind of

0:37:14.360 --> 0:37:16.360
<v Speaker 2>gift card that you're all about, right where you're getting

0:37:17.360 --> 0:37:20.319
<v Speaker 2>four thousand dollars worth of food for four hundred dollars.

0:37:20.400 --> 0:37:23.319
<v Speaker 1>That's my chan, that's my chant. All right, we got

0:37:23.360 --> 0:37:25.160
<v Speaker 1>more of your money questions to get to, including we're

0:37:25.200 --> 0:37:27.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna talk about financial infidelity, to delve into that and

0:37:27.560 --> 0:37:28.360
<v Speaker 1>more right after this.

0:37:36.120 --> 0:37:38.160
<v Speaker 2>All right, buddy, we are back from the break. It

0:37:38.239 --> 0:37:40.399
<v Speaker 2>is now time for the Facebook question of the week,

0:37:40.440 --> 0:37:44.000
<v Speaker 2>which is from Tara. She writes, Hello, I like that.

0:37:44.200 --> 0:37:46.839
<v Speaker 2>I like that She started with Hello, my husband and

0:37:46.880 --> 0:37:49.799
<v Speaker 2>I are expecting our first baby in June. I'd love

0:37:49.880 --> 0:37:52.440
<v Speaker 2>to hear your financial tips for a growing family. We

0:37:52.480 --> 0:37:55.200
<v Speaker 2>are in money gear seven and have started a savings

0:37:55.239 --> 0:37:59.160
<v Speaker 2>bucket for hospital bills. Holy caw. I love that. On

0:37:59.239 --> 0:38:01.919
<v Speaker 2>top of it already, yeah, I mean, aside from money

0:38:01.960 --> 0:38:05.279
<v Speaker 2>gear seven, I guess let's talk about we're in a role.

0:38:05.400 --> 0:38:08.240
<v Speaker 2>We're talking a lot about medical stuff, hospital bills and whatnot.

0:38:08.280 --> 0:38:11.000
<v Speaker 2>But I love that you are already saving ahead for this, Tara.

0:38:12.160 --> 0:38:15.960
<v Speaker 2>How big of a savings bucket or a sinking phone

0:38:15.960 --> 0:38:18.400
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna need is going to depend on your insurance,

0:38:18.440 --> 0:38:20.279
<v Speaker 2>of course, but if you can figure out the likely

0:38:20.600 --> 0:38:23.520
<v Speaker 2>bill amounts ahead of time via a good faith estimate,

0:38:23.560 --> 0:38:26.160
<v Speaker 2>you can start to aim to have that amount on hand.

0:38:26.680 --> 0:38:28.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm guessing for a lot of folks it's probably around

0:38:28.640 --> 0:38:29.440
<v Speaker 2>three grand.

0:38:29.320 --> 0:38:32.120
<v Speaker 1>Through solid assure. Yeah, so much depends on your insurance company.

0:38:32.160 --> 0:38:36.000
<v Speaker 2>But be ready to fight individual items on that bill

0:38:36.160 --> 0:38:38.920
<v Speaker 2>if they're excessive, sort of like we've already discussed, and

0:38:39.120 --> 0:38:42.480
<v Speaker 2>depending on your income, you might qualify for partial or

0:38:42.719 --> 0:38:46.160
<v Speaker 2>full forgiveness of that final bill. I kind of think

0:38:46.200 --> 0:38:48.359
<v Speaker 2>maybe that's not the case. So considering the fact that

0:38:48.400 --> 0:38:50.879
<v Speaker 2>she is in money Gear number seven, which is such

0:38:50.920 --> 0:38:53.520
<v Speaker 2>an advanced kind of place to be, I feel like

0:38:53.560 --> 0:38:57.359
<v Speaker 2>when you're having your normally it's like first kid. Also, uh,

0:38:57.640 --> 0:38:59.680
<v Speaker 2>we need new tires on the car, or you know,

0:38:59.840 --> 0:39:02.680
<v Speaker 2>the big sister has got orthodogical, you know, like all

0:39:02.719 --> 0:39:05.440
<v Speaker 2>the things are hitting you when you're having a baby.

0:39:05.480 --> 0:39:07.520
<v Speaker 2>But I love that they are in a position to

0:39:07.520 --> 0:39:10.239
<v Speaker 2>where these aren't some of the stresses that they're experiencing.

0:39:10.280 --> 0:39:12.279
<v Speaker 1>The one reason that makes me think there's at least

0:39:12.280 --> 0:39:15.239
<v Speaker 1>a chance that they qualify it for financial assistance is

0:39:15.280 --> 0:39:17.560
<v Speaker 1>because it's based on income. It's not based on networth.

0:39:17.880 --> 0:39:20.400
<v Speaker 1>So who knows. I guess she could say somebody.

0:39:20.120 --> 0:39:24.080
<v Speaker 2>Started being diligence, Yeah at age sixteen, built out that

0:39:24.080 --> 0:39:27.200
<v Speaker 2>massive net Yeah, massive net worth, and isn't making its

0:39:27.239 --> 0:39:28.399
<v Speaker 2>unknown there's a chance yep.

0:39:28.719 --> 0:39:30.759
<v Speaker 1>So I think another thing to put on your radar

0:39:30.920 --> 0:39:33.719
<v Speaker 1>is five twenty nine plan. It's it's not something we're

0:39:33.719 --> 0:39:37.360
<v Speaker 1>typically recommending to new parents, but or at least beyond

0:39:37.600 --> 0:39:39.880
<v Speaker 1>just a starter amount to get the clock ticking on

0:39:39.920 --> 0:39:42.880
<v Speaker 1>those accounts. But you've already taken care of your own savings,

0:39:42.960 --> 0:39:46.120
<v Speaker 1>right You're investing incredibly well. Not sure what state you

0:39:46.160 --> 0:39:48.040
<v Speaker 1>live in, but there's a good chance you can reduce

0:39:48.080 --> 0:39:51.360
<v Speaker 1>your state tax bill while also investing for your baby's future.

0:39:51.440 --> 0:39:54.839
<v Speaker 1>So that could be like a win win thing right there.

0:39:54.880 --> 0:39:58.160
<v Speaker 1>And so whether that five twenty nine money is intended

0:39:58.160 --> 0:40:01.880
<v Speaker 1>for private school, whether it's college, whether it's for you know,

0:40:02.239 --> 0:40:05.759
<v Speaker 1>a roth Ira starter for your baby down the road

0:40:05.800 --> 0:40:08.000
<v Speaker 1>as well, which is one of the cool things right

0:40:08.120 --> 0:40:10.279
<v Speaker 1>about five twenty nine plans these days. So you can

0:40:10.360 --> 0:40:12.160
<v Speaker 1>turn money that you stick into that that's not needed

0:40:12.160 --> 0:40:15.759
<v Speaker 1>for college into roth Ira dollars later on. Getting some

0:40:15.840 --> 0:40:18.600
<v Speaker 1>money flowing in that direction I think right now is

0:40:18.920 --> 0:40:20.560
<v Speaker 1>something we strongly consider totally.

0:40:20.719 --> 0:40:23.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then beyond like specific accounts, man, I would

0:40:23.560 --> 0:40:26.719
<v Speaker 2>give yourself permission to spend as much time with that

0:40:26.840 --> 0:40:30.360
<v Speaker 2>baby as you want, like when you are in a

0:40:30.400 --> 0:40:33.719
<v Speaker 2>personal finance group chat or a Facebook group and ask

0:40:33.760 --> 0:40:35.319
<v Speaker 2>another folks, there's going to be a whole lot of

0:40:35.360 --> 0:40:38.200
<v Speaker 2>chatter about, yeah, this account and obviously that's where your

0:40:38.239 --> 0:40:40.759
<v Speaker 2>mind's at, and obviously it's paid off well. Like, look

0:40:40.800 --> 0:40:42.520
<v Speaker 2>at the fact that you're in money gear seven and

0:40:42.560 --> 0:40:46.040
<v Speaker 2>you're having your first kid. But the ability and I

0:40:46.040 --> 0:40:47.759
<v Speaker 2>don't know, you probably heard people say this toil, but

0:40:47.800 --> 0:40:53.000
<v Speaker 2>it's your presence, not presents like toys and stuff and

0:40:53.120 --> 0:40:57.719
<v Speaker 2>all the material wealth, the ability for you to provide

0:40:58.160 --> 0:41:01.839
<v Speaker 2>just so many memories being there for your kid and

0:41:01.960 --> 0:41:04.560
<v Speaker 2>just like fun stuff that you do together as a like,

0:41:04.600 --> 0:41:07.000
<v Speaker 2>it's amazing experiences that you can be a part of.

0:41:07.040 --> 0:41:10.040
<v Speaker 2>But then also just some of the routine day to

0:41:10.120 --> 0:41:14.560
<v Speaker 2>day living where you are incredibly present and interacting in

0:41:14.560 --> 0:41:18.719
<v Speaker 2>a just life giving, very rich way. Man, I think

0:41:18.719 --> 0:41:21.319
<v Speaker 2>that's amazing, right, because as your kid gets older, they can,

0:41:21.600 --> 0:41:23.680
<v Speaker 2>like money is fungible, they can get their own money.

0:41:23.880 --> 0:41:25.720
<v Speaker 2>At some point they will be making their own money.

0:41:26.120 --> 0:41:27.960
<v Speaker 2>But as far as memory is really not for like

0:41:28.080 --> 0:41:31.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, a while, that's a while, but like it's

0:41:31.120 --> 0:41:34.279
<v Speaker 2>something that they can always create more of. Whereas the

0:41:34.360 --> 0:41:36.640
<v Speaker 2>time that they're going to be able to spend with

0:41:36.680 --> 0:41:39.560
<v Speaker 2>you the memories that involve you in a significant way.

0:41:40.040 --> 0:41:42.359
<v Speaker 2>That is a very limited resource. It's something I think

0:41:42.360 --> 0:41:44.640
<v Speaker 2>about more as I get older, too, where I'm just like, yeah, yeah,

0:41:44.680 --> 0:41:47.440
<v Speaker 2>it's I care less about my kid's financial future as

0:41:47.440 --> 0:41:51.160
<v Speaker 2>opposed to how I'm raising them and the lessons I'm

0:41:51.160 --> 0:41:54.480
<v Speaker 2>imparting upon them and kind of the memories that you know,

0:41:54.719 --> 0:41:57.920
<v Speaker 2>we're trying to basically instill in them. Yeah, those lessons.

0:41:57.960 --> 0:41:59.960
<v Speaker 1>What you're saying essentially is like you're in money yourself

0:42:00.080 --> 0:42:02.759
<v Speaker 1>and act like it, like take advantage of some of

0:42:02.760 --> 0:42:06.840
<v Speaker 1>the freedom and independence that you have earned over a

0:42:06.880 --> 0:42:08.800
<v Speaker 1>long period of doing the right stuff. And I think

0:42:09.080 --> 0:42:10.920
<v Speaker 1>I think that's spot on. I think it's really easy

0:42:11.000 --> 0:42:13.480
<v Speaker 1>to think I gotta do more. I can keep doing more, Okay,

0:42:13.480 --> 0:42:15.160
<v Speaker 1>I got to keep I gotta work more. So I can,

0:42:15.440 --> 0:42:17.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, max out the five twenty nine fund, because

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:19.879
<v Speaker 1>that's the next thing Matt and Joel said, and yeah,

0:42:19.920 --> 0:42:21.840
<v Speaker 1>we mentioned that, right, but we also want to balance

0:42:21.880 --> 0:42:24.080
<v Speaker 1>it out here and say, you're in money gear seven,

0:42:24.120 --> 0:42:27.640
<v Speaker 1>you have a lot of optionality, don't don't waste that.

0:42:27.800 --> 0:42:30.759
<v Speaker 1>I guess when these are precious times, totally agree, all right.

0:42:30.800 --> 0:42:33.400
<v Speaker 1>Next question, This one comes from anonymous who says, has

0:42:33.440 --> 0:42:36.719
<v Speaker 1>anyone dealt with financial infidelity over the holidays? My wife

0:42:36.760 --> 0:42:39.320
<v Speaker 1>racked up six thousand dollars in credit card debt. It

0:42:39.440 --> 0:42:42.200
<v Speaker 1>was unknown to me until I started pressing more on

0:42:42.239 --> 0:42:44.440
<v Speaker 1>how she was paying for all the packages coming.

0:42:44.280 --> 0:42:44.800
<v Speaker 2>To the house.

0:42:45.280 --> 0:42:47.480
<v Speaker 1>It upsets me more because this is the second or

0:42:47.520 --> 0:42:51.680
<v Speaker 1>third time it's happened since getting married. We're agreeing on

0:42:51.719 --> 0:42:54.839
<v Speaker 1>no more every day credit card usage and only using

0:42:54.880 --> 0:42:57.920
<v Speaker 1>it when both in agreement. To add, she is going

0:42:57.920 --> 0:43:02.239
<v Speaker 1>through therapy and doing EMD are specifically right now, so

0:43:02.560 --> 0:43:04.879
<v Speaker 1>at times she's not in the best headspace. That's kind

0:43:04.880 --> 0:43:07.279
<v Speaker 1>of a type of therapy mat where like you're it's

0:43:07.520 --> 0:43:10.480
<v Speaker 1>attempting to bring up earlier childhood memories that might be

0:43:10.640 --> 0:43:15.320
<v Speaker 1>impressed about that eye movement something. Yeah, yeah, well, I

0:43:15.640 --> 0:43:17.920
<v Speaker 1>swear actually we've the eyeball therapy. We've had a guest

0:43:17.960 --> 0:43:19.520
<v Speaker 1>on who's gone through that as well.

0:43:19.600 --> 0:43:20.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh really was it?

0:43:20.520 --> 0:43:23.399
<v Speaker 1>Ed Combs, who's a therapist who money therapist too, talked

0:43:23.400 --> 0:43:26.560
<v Speaker 1>about that with us. But the end of this question says,

0:43:26.560 --> 0:43:28.760
<v Speaker 1>it's just frustrating to me because we literally just built

0:43:28.760 --> 0:43:30.799
<v Speaker 1>our emergency fund and now we are six thousand dollars

0:43:30.840 --> 0:43:32.920
<v Speaker 1>in credit card debt. The card is only in her name,

0:43:32.960 --> 0:43:34.560
<v Speaker 1>by the way, I don't know what to do. I'm

0:43:34.600 --> 0:43:35.879
<v Speaker 1>tired of paying off debt.

0:43:36.160 --> 0:43:39.600
<v Speaker 2>Man, this is this is awful, Like it totally sucks,

0:43:39.640 --> 0:43:41.760
<v Speaker 2>and I feel like I hear the frustration in this

0:43:41.760 --> 0:43:44.759
<v Speaker 2>this individual's voice hundred percent. Yeah, it's a really tough

0:43:45.160 --> 0:43:47.800
<v Speaker 2>position to be in. And I'm also just a little

0:43:48.160 --> 0:43:54.200
<v Speaker 2>I feel a little unsure to provide advice when man,

0:43:54.440 --> 0:43:56.279
<v Speaker 2>like you're hearing one side of the argument, you know,

0:43:56.320 --> 0:43:58.040
<v Speaker 2>because I'm sure there's a lot of other folks who

0:43:58.120 --> 0:44:00.400
<v Speaker 2>might immediately be like, well, what about this? And have

0:44:00.440 --> 0:44:03.319
<v Speaker 2>you done this? And does she does she have a voice?

0:44:03.360 --> 0:44:05.080
<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm talking about the frustration in his voice,

0:44:05.120 --> 0:44:06.839
<v Speaker 2>like does does she have an ability to say where

0:44:06.880 --> 0:44:08.400
<v Speaker 2>the money is being spent at all? And maybe she

0:44:08.440 --> 0:44:10.640
<v Speaker 2>feels the need to to kind of want to hide

0:44:10.640 --> 0:44:13.839
<v Speaker 2>some of the spending. So I'm not at all discounting

0:44:14.320 --> 0:44:18.319
<v Speaker 2>this poster's feelings and the point of frustration, right like, yeah,

0:44:18.320 --> 0:44:21.360
<v Speaker 2>you just established that emergency fund and then to immediately

0:44:21.360 --> 0:44:24.560
<v Speaker 2>get sort of not reset sound, you know, not reset

0:44:24.560 --> 0:44:27.799
<v Speaker 2>back to zero. But even in the red is a

0:44:27.840 --> 0:44:30.200
<v Speaker 2>difficult spot to be and it is it is. I was.

0:44:30.239 --> 0:44:32.920
<v Speaker 1>I was actually truly impressed with the empathy the advice

0:44:32.960 --> 0:44:34.719
<v Speaker 1>that a lot of how to money listeners offered in

0:44:35.040 --> 0:44:37.919
<v Speaker 1>the Facebook group in answer to this question. I want

0:44:37.920 --> 0:44:41.000
<v Speaker 1>to say, like, addiction is real, too, write we should

0:44:41.080 --> 0:44:43.800
<v Speaker 1>highlight that. And I think we're living in a society

0:44:43.920 --> 0:44:46.520
<v Speaker 1>with a lot more addiction than we ever have lived

0:44:46.520 --> 0:44:49.440
<v Speaker 1>in before. And I don't think that's hyperbobole and I

0:44:49.480 --> 0:44:53.120
<v Speaker 1>don't think that's just me discounting the past. I think

0:44:53.120 --> 0:44:56.799
<v Speaker 1>it's just true and spending money triggers dopamine releases that

0:44:56.880 --> 0:44:59.319
<v Speaker 1>are akin to a lot of other addictions that exist

0:44:59.360 --> 0:45:02.520
<v Speaker 1>in our society, like gambling, pornography, stuff like that. So

0:45:02.760 --> 0:45:06.480
<v Speaker 1>we're just seeing more and more people be succumbing to

0:45:06.520 --> 0:45:09.560
<v Speaker 1>addiction because it's easier than ever. I was talking to

0:45:09.640 --> 0:45:11.520
<v Speaker 1>a friend recently, Matt, and he was like, you know,

0:45:11.560 --> 0:45:13.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't think nearly as many people were addicted to

0:45:13.560 --> 0:45:15.640
<v Speaker 1>pornography back in the day, because guess what, it wasn't

0:45:15.640 --> 0:45:18.520
<v Speaker 1>at your fingertips and free and like, yeah, you know,

0:45:19.160 --> 0:45:21.560
<v Speaker 1>everywhere in front of you. And I was like, you're

0:45:21.560 --> 0:45:24.120
<v Speaker 1>probably right, Like it just was harder to be addicted

0:45:24.160 --> 0:45:25.520
<v Speaker 1>to something like that. Same with gambling.

0:45:25.560 --> 0:45:28.880
<v Speaker 2>You walked into the gas station, you're probably like, like,

0:45:29.360 --> 0:45:31.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't want anyone to see me, like as my

0:45:31.239 --> 0:45:33.480
<v Speaker 2>car kind of tucked her on the back. Where like

0:45:33.600 --> 0:45:36.040
<v Speaker 2>say anything with gambling, right, like going to an actual casino,

0:45:36.680 --> 0:45:39.640
<v Speaker 2>there's something about Yeah, like you said, physically going somewhere

0:45:39.680 --> 0:45:42.040
<v Speaker 2>as opposed to something being in your pocket and at

0:45:42.080 --> 0:45:44.400
<v Speaker 2>your fingertips. Yes, one of the ways. Yeah, that technology

0:45:44.880 --> 0:45:47.400
<v Speaker 2>has not served us as well. But I want to

0:45:47.400 --> 0:45:50.799
<v Speaker 2>discount I guess the addiction reality that she might be

0:45:50.880 --> 0:45:53.600
<v Speaker 2>going through and how she there's like a compulsive behavior

0:45:53.640 --> 0:45:55.920
<v Speaker 2>in all likelihood that she's dealing with. Yeah, So I'm

0:45:55.920 --> 0:45:58.320
<v Speaker 2>gonna I'm going to preface everything I'm about to say

0:45:58.719 --> 0:46:00.680
<v Speaker 2>with the assumption that the wife is on board, right,

0:46:00.680 --> 0:46:02.399
<v Speaker 2>because I was kind of coming at it from like, man,

0:46:02.560 --> 0:46:05.640
<v Speaker 2>we're talking about this couple and the wife isn't present

0:46:05.680 --> 0:46:07.960
<v Speaker 2>to be able to provide more information. But I'm going

0:46:08.040 --> 0:46:10.600
<v Speaker 2>to assume that she's like, yes, I don't want to

0:46:10.640 --> 0:46:12.920
<v Speaker 2>do this anymore. I'm like, this is awful, this is

0:46:12.960 --> 0:46:15.920
<v Speaker 2>harming us financially. Let's work together to make this happen.

0:46:15.960 --> 0:46:17.600
<v Speaker 1>Well, it sounds like they are agreeing on some things

0:46:17.640 --> 0:46:19.480
<v Speaker 1>to her going to therapy, not using the credit card

0:46:19.520 --> 0:46:20.360
<v Speaker 1>in the way it's been used to.

0:46:20.440 --> 0:46:22.440
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, it sounds like you're right. I guess I

0:46:22.480 --> 0:46:24.759
<v Speaker 2>thought that maybe the therapy was for something else as well.

0:46:24.920 --> 0:46:27.319
<v Speaker 2>He didn't say it was specifically for the spending or

0:46:27.360 --> 0:46:29.120
<v Speaker 2>the financial but yeah, let's assume that that is the

0:46:29.160 --> 0:46:31.680
<v Speaker 2>case and she's proactively taking steps and that means she's

0:46:31.680 --> 0:46:34.160
<v Speaker 2>totally on board, which me like in my mind, then

0:46:34.200 --> 0:46:36.680
<v Speaker 2>it comes more down to like the mechanics, like how

0:46:36.719 --> 0:46:39.840
<v Speaker 2>do we prevent you, how do we remove this temptation?

0:46:39.960 --> 0:46:43.480
<v Speaker 2>How do we remove this addiction from you? And he

0:46:43.560 --> 0:46:46.680
<v Speaker 2>talked about how it's these packages that are just continue

0:46:46.719 --> 0:46:48.680
<v Speaker 2>to show up on the doorstep like day after day

0:46:48.760 --> 0:46:51.480
<v Speaker 2>after day, and he's just like, wait a minute, how

0:46:51.520 --> 0:46:53.839
<v Speaker 2>are you paying for all of this? And I think

0:46:53.840 --> 0:46:58.080
<v Speaker 2>what that means is removing billing information, so like Amazon,

0:46:58.239 --> 0:47:00.560
<v Speaker 2>like it's all saved and so they for me to

0:47:00.560 --> 0:47:03.279
<v Speaker 2>search something and hit click to buy. Oh they like

0:47:03.320 --> 0:47:07.000
<v Speaker 2>you said, like the technology, they've lubricated the process and

0:47:07.040 --> 0:47:09.680
<v Speaker 2>there is no friction at all in doing that. But

0:47:09.680 --> 0:47:12.560
<v Speaker 2>what that also means, I think is removing the saved

0:47:12.560 --> 0:47:16.279
<v Speaker 2>credit card information on your browser, because the ability to

0:47:16.440 --> 0:47:18.760
<v Speaker 2>just do the thumb print and all of a sudden,

0:47:18.800 --> 0:47:21.960
<v Speaker 2>it's like or on your phone double click to pay.

0:47:22.239 --> 0:47:24.839
<v Speaker 2>That means removing the credit card information from Safari or

0:47:24.920 --> 0:47:27.600
<v Speaker 2>whatever browser you use on the computer. It means removing

0:47:27.600 --> 0:47:30.800
<v Speaker 2>credit cards from the phone that way. You're not able

0:47:30.840 --> 0:47:32.600
<v Speaker 2>to do it that way. And then the step be

0:47:32.800 --> 0:47:34.279
<v Speaker 2>like there are still ways around it, right, like what

0:47:34.320 --> 0:47:39.000
<v Speaker 2>if she opensf she opens like another credit card, and

0:47:39.280 --> 0:47:41.840
<v Speaker 2>if she's willing, I think it also means locking down

0:47:42.120 --> 0:47:47.239
<v Speaker 2>her credit. It means going into Equifax trans Union experience

0:47:47.320 --> 0:47:50.520
<v Speaker 2>because if her not locked, I'm sorry, because that's the

0:47:50.520 --> 0:47:52.080
<v Speaker 2>pay for service. You don't want to lock it. You

0:47:52.080 --> 0:47:54.720
<v Speaker 2>want to freeze it. Make sure that junk's frozen, because

0:47:54.760 --> 0:47:58.160
<v Speaker 2>if your credit is frozen, she cannot open, which is

0:47:58.200 --> 0:48:01.080
<v Speaker 2>further law. It's totally free doesn't take very long at

0:48:01.120 --> 0:48:04.560
<v Speaker 2>ought to do that, and that prevents her access to

0:48:04.680 --> 0:48:08.440
<v Speaker 2>new credit as well. And again I prefaced all this

0:48:08.520 --> 0:48:10.319
<v Speaker 2>with making sure that she's on board, because I think

0:48:11.160 --> 0:48:13.719
<v Speaker 2>I could see a twisted scenario where it's just like no,

0:48:13.920 --> 0:48:18.319
<v Speaker 2>man like that is so controlling, that is so like

0:48:18.400 --> 0:48:21.560
<v Speaker 2>demeaning for you to do that to me, you know,

0:48:21.600 --> 0:48:23.640
<v Speaker 2>like I could hear her saying, yeah, he doesn't let

0:48:23.680 --> 0:48:26.560
<v Speaker 2>me do anything, like I can't buy anything, like I

0:48:26.600 --> 0:48:29.680
<v Speaker 2>have to do everything through him. That's not a good situation.

0:48:29.800 --> 0:48:31.920
<v Speaker 2>That's if that's the situation you're in, y'all need to

0:48:31.920 --> 0:48:33.920
<v Speaker 2>go to counseling for sure, not just financial counseling, but

0:48:34.000 --> 0:48:37.440
<v Speaker 2>like there are deeper there's deeper issues at hand. But

0:48:37.520 --> 0:48:40.640
<v Speaker 2>if it's more about, oh, what steps do we need

0:48:40.680 --> 0:48:42.359
<v Speaker 2>to take to make this harder or to make it

0:48:42.400 --> 0:48:45.200
<v Speaker 2>make possibly like impossible for me to spend I think

0:48:45.200 --> 0:48:48.000
<v Speaker 2>that that's a way to you know, those are some

0:48:48.040 --> 0:48:50.399
<v Speaker 2>proactive steps to take, Like it makes me like, let's

0:48:50.760 --> 0:48:54.319
<v Speaker 2>real quick, let's reverse the roles. Imagine this anonymous poster.

0:48:54.440 --> 0:48:57.240
<v Speaker 2>What if he always got drunk and then drove somewhere.

0:48:57.600 --> 0:49:00.719
<v Speaker 2>Like let's say that he's gotten multiple wise and has

0:49:00.719 --> 0:49:04.760
<v Speaker 2>crashed the car two or three times since you've been married, Dude,

0:49:04.760 --> 0:49:06.880
<v Speaker 2>what would you do? You would ask your wife to

0:49:06.920 --> 0:49:08.520
<v Speaker 2>take the keys from you. It's just like, you know what,

0:49:08.560 --> 0:49:12.160
<v Speaker 2>I can't drive anymore, Like I obviously cannot control myself

0:49:12.200 --> 0:49:14.160
<v Speaker 2>whatever it is my impulse, But I don't always ride

0:49:14.160 --> 0:49:16.239
<v Speaker 2>with a friend, always take uber yeah, take an uber

0:49:16.320 --> 0:49:18.160
<v Speaker 2>ride your butt like there are so many other options.

0:49:18.200 --> 0:49:22.200
<v Speaker 2>It's not it's riding your bike either. It's probably not

0:49:22.280 --> 0:49:25.239
<v Speaker 2>gonna do yeah, probably not that. Yeah, it's not in fantalizing.

0:49:25.360 --> 0:49:27.560
<v Speaker 2>It's just empowering you to make sure that you're taking

0:49:27.560 --> 0:49:28.200
<v Speaker 2>the proper steps.

0:49:28.320 --> 0:49:30.759
<v Speaker 1>That's all last thing I think, and it it kind

0:49:30.800 --> 0:49:32.879
<v Speaker 1>of dovetails with what you're What you're saying right now,

0:49:32.960 --> 0:49:36.560
<v Speaker 1>I think is to avoid shame in these conversations. It

0:49:36.760 --> 0:49:39.680
<v Speaker 1>can be so hard because her reckless spending has hurt

0:49:39.719 --> 0:49:42.520
<v Speaker 1>you emotionally, it's harmed your finances. It sets you back

0:49:42.880 --> 0:49:44.799
<v Speaker 1>after you've achieved some of the goals that you want

0:49:44.840 --> 0:49:46.800
<v Speaker 1>and it feels like you got to go after them

0:49:47.040 --> 0:49:49.839
<v Speaker 1>from square one again. But the more you make her

0:49:49.880 --> 0:49:52.719
<v Speaker 1>feel ashamed of her past mistakes and and you know

0:49:53.120 --> 0:49:55.319
<v Speaker 1>things that that I think it's just going to help.

0:49:55.560 --> 0:49:58.560
<v Speaker 1>The pattern is going to repeat, right, because shame is

0:49:58.760 --> 0:50:02.719
<v Speaker 1>cyclical in that way. And so yeah, even though it's

0:50:02.840 --> 0:50:04.480
<v Speaker 1>tough to feel like you're working together and on the

0:50:04.520 --> 0:50:07.040
<v Speaker 1>same team because it feels like she's working against you,

0:50:07.040 --> 0:50:09.640
<v Speaker 1>you guys are on the same team. So going to

0:50:09.680 --> 0:50:12.840
<v Speaker 1>counseling together can be a helpful endeavor. I think for

0:50:12.960 --> 0:50:14.759
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people in a relationship like this, it

0:50:14.760 --> 0:50:17.319
<v Speaker 1>can feel like it's a that's her problem, she's got

0:50:17.360 --> 0:50:19.160
<v Speaker 1>to get over, she's got to make a change for

0:50:19.239 --> 0:50:22.160
<v Speaker 1>us to be okay. But working through it together with

0:50:22.280 --> 0:50:24.520
<v Speaker 1>the help of a third party could save your marriage,

0:50:24.600 --> 0:50:27.880
<v Speaker 1>and it could save your finances. So financial therapists exists,

0:50:27.880 --> 0:50:29.920
<v Speaker 1>We've had them on the show before. They might be

0:50:30.080 --> 0:50:32.319
<v Speaker 1>kind of this perfect intersection of the help you need

0:50:32.400 --> 0:50:34.360
<v Speaker 1>right now. But I guess I just want to encourage you.

0:50:34.640 --> 0:50:36.680
<v Speaker 1>It's going to take some humility, some love, and some

0:50:36.760 --> 0:50:40.719
<v Speaker 1>compassion to avoid keeping scorn and shame on your wife

0:50:40.760 --> 0:50:43.160
<v Speaker 1>for this. But I would say that's a really important

0:50:43.200 --> 0:50:44.000
<v Speaker 1>part of the solution.

0:50:44.400 --> 0:50:48.520
<v Speaker 2>All right, we avoided Do we avoid any potential landlines?

0:50:48.640 --> 0:50:52.319
<v Speaker 2>Hopefully they don't screw it up. Hopefully knows. Something that's

0:50:52.360 --> 0:50:54.520
<v Speaker 2>easier to talk about is the beer that you and

0:50:54.640 --> 0:50:57.680
<v Speaker 2>I enjoyed during this episode, which was a Cloak and Dagger.

0:50:57.880 --> 0:51:01.120
<v Speaker 2>This is a Vana Lagger by Incendiary Brewing Company, donated

0:51:01.120 --> 0:51:03.520
<v Speaker 2>to the show by Brandon. What did you think of

0:51:03.560 --> 0:51:04.480
<v Speaker 2>this beer, buddy, dude?

0:51:04.480 --> 0:51:07.120
<v Speaker 1>This is a rare style that we almost never have

0:51:07.280 --> 0:51:09.800
<v Speaker 1>the n I feel like maybe our friends at Halfway

0:51:09.800 --> 0:51:11.959
<v Speaker 1>Crooks brew a good one of these, Oh yeah, I've

0:51:11.960 --> 0:51:13.000
<v Speaker 1>had in quite some time.

0:51:13.080 --> 0:51:16.160
<v Speaker 2>But it's more of that traditional European style. It's old school.

0:51:16.239 --> 0:51:20.800
<v Speaker 2>This isn't some new whizbang beer style that's got cereal

0:51:20.800 --> 0:51:23.200
<v Speaker 2>in it. No, this is a beer style. It's been

0:51:23.200 --> 0:51:24.840
<v Speaker 2>around for hundreds and hundreds of beers. It's got the

0:51:24.840 --> 0:51:28.480
<v Speaker 2>original cereal in it, like oats, yeah, malt exactly.

0:51:29.280 --> 0:51:31.840
<v Speaker 1>No fruit loops in here, no, no, no, and no artificial

0:51:31.880 --> 0:51:34.080
<v Speaker 1>dies in this and this beer this was to me.

0:51:34.280 --> 0:51:37.880
<v Speaker 1>It was like nice, rich caramel vibes. It was super

0:51:37.920 --> 0:51:40.799
<v Speaker 1>well balanced, and it just made me be like, man,

0:51:40.800 --> 0:51:43.759
<v Speaker 1>why I do gravitate towards a certain a couple of

0:51:44.000 --> 0:51:46.120
<v Speaker 1>certain styles of beers that I typically think of as

0:51:46.160 --> 0:51:49.719
<v Speaker 1>my favorites. But there's something just nice and approachable and

0:51:49.719 --> 0:51:51.200
<v Speaker 1>delightful about this beer.

0:51:51.120 --> 0:51:54.360
<v Speaker 2>So refreshing, and not because it's like cold and wet

0:51:54.400 --> 0:51:56.600
<v Speaker 2>and I'm thirsty, but just because it's not something that

0:51:56.640 --> 0:51:59.400
<v Speaker 2>we've had a ton of, and it's such a like

0:51:59.760 --> 0:52:02.279
<v Speaker 2>it's even in the name right, a Vienna lager. It's

0:52:02.320 --> 0:52:04.560
<v Speaker 2>not like it's not like a Las Vegas lagger that

0:52:04.719 --> 0:52:06.640
<v Speaker 2>like some brewer just like came up with. This is

0:52:06.680 --> 0:52:10.760
<v Speaker 2>something that's been around for like thousands of years, right, thousands?

0:52:10.840 --> 0:52:13.239
<v Speaker 2>It's maybe probably right. I don't know much about me.

0:52:13.280 --> 0:52:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Well, I guess beer history that'd be in Austria and

0:52:15.640 --> 0:52:17.840
<v Speaker 1>beer really kind of well, beer didn't start in Germany,

0:52:17.840 --> 0:52:19.960
<v Speaker 1>but German. When was it that the Germans were at

0:52:19.960 --> 0:52:20.920
<v Speaker 1>the heyday of their brewing?

0:52:21.040 --> 0:52:24.600
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. We didn't know our fifteen hundreds. All

0:52:24.640 --> 0:52:26.640
<v Speaker 2>I know is that there is it's probably been around

0:52:26.640 --> 0:52:29.840
<v Speaker 2>it fifteen four hundred years. There is a beer recipe

0:52:30.320 --> 0:52:34.040
<v Speaker 2>that is found that was found in Egypt on hieroglyphs,

0:52:34.080 --> 0:52:36.080
<v Speaker 2>like on some sort of hero glyphs or hieroglyphs. I

0:52:36.120 --> 0:52:39.719
<v Speaker 2>don't know how you said, hieroglyphs, hieroglyphics, hieroglyphics.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that was it a dogfish head that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>brought We had that beer like five years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember talking about it then. Was it good? I think?

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<v Speaker 4>So?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that was so.

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<v Speaker 1>Long ago, I can't I can't remember, and we've had

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<v Speaker 1>so many beers since then. It's true, all right, Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this was a fun one. Glad we got to have

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<v Speaker 1>this beer. Thank you to Brandon for donating it.

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<v Speaker 2>Our way.

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<v Speaker 1>We really appreciate it. And by the if you have

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<v Speaker 1>a money question, please do send it our way. We'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to take yours next week on the show Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>Until next time, best friends out and.

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<v Speaker 2>Best Friends out, there's still constructions to doing. This time, something

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<v Speaker 2>to be done.