WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Cat's Got Your Couch

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<v Speaker 1>Second day. It's a well documented fact on this show

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<v Speaker 1>that Brooke does not respect people who ride the bus. Kid.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say that she thinks they're beneath her.

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<v Speaker 1>She just definitely doesn't think that they're on her level.

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<v Speaker 1>That's probably the best way to put it. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like Jeffrey is always putting his own feelings on me. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying I'm a little bit worried for this

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<v Speaker 1>call because we have a woman on the phone who

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<v Speaker 1>apparently rides the bus to work all the time. And

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's probably too much for me to ask

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<v Speaker 1>you to be non judgmental doing this, but can you

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<v Speaker 1>at least try and keep it civil and not spit

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<v Speaker 1>on the floor when I say her name, although you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, there is probably usually spit and bodily fluids

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<v Speaker 1>on the floor of the bus, So maybe make her

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<v Speaker 1>feel like she's at home. Very true. Let's welcome Tricia

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<v Speaker 1>to the show. Tricia, how you doing? I'm doing well?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you guys doing? Terrible intro? Tricia, You riding

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<v Speaker 1>the bus is just fine? Yes? Did you hear how

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<v Speaker 1>she said? That? Was such just shame? It's fine, nicer.

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<v Speaker 1>I have boyfriends that only rode the bus. She broke

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<v Speaker 1>up with all of them. Immedia tell you that. But Tricia,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna we're gonna try our best to be on

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<v Speaker 1>your side. Here, tell us about why you emailed for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update. Who'd you go out with? All? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>So his name is Dave, Okay, I met him on

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<v Speaker 1>the bus. So what happened was sometimes I'll see the

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<v Speaker 1>same kind of characters on the bus every day, but

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<v Speaker 1>this guy hadn't met before. He sat next to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't think much of it, but then the bus had

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<v Speaker 1>like some kind of problem the engine. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what it was, but Brook cut the wires. But so

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<v Speaker 1>the bus stalls. We were hanging out there, so of course,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we start talking to each other. Next to me,

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<v Speaker 1>it seemed like a really nice guy. He's like, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm already late for work. Let's just go meet up

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<v Speaker 1>for coffee. I like that instead of I'm already late

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<v Speaker 1>for work. We should call, you know, somebody to come

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<v Speaker 1>get us. Let's just screw it, right, And I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he seems lovely, and so anyway, we go to the coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a quick thing, but we get we get

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<v Speaker 1>our cups of coffee. We exchange numbers, okay, so it

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<v Speaker 1>was like more than just a friendship saying yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I felt like, why would he give me his number?

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<v Speaker 1>Otherwise you're asked me to coffee. Did you do that

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<v Speaker 1>like romantic thing where you guys sit out of each

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<v Speaker 1>other's coffee cups? We did not, Or you do that

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<v Speaker 1>thing where you interlock your arms and take a sip

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<v Speaker 1>hoping not just feel scalding hot coffee down. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>expect Brook to understand what romance looks like, but I

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<v Speaker 1>sure did you guys not pull that move? We did

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<v Speaker 1>not pull that move. Yeah. I think the next question

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<v Speaker 1>is did he call you? Did you guys go out again?

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<v Speaker 1>They exchange numbers Jeffrey, Oh, okay, sure, go ahead, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's that. Hares were ridiculed to the meat. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>how's your week been. We're talking, and he's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've just been really busy. I'm planning this escape sale.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of stuff to get rid of.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got friends helping me. And I was actually like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I actually in the market for a

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<v Speaker 1>couch right now. My cats destroyed my old one and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, do you buy any chance have a couch?

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, I do as a matter of fact, and

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<v Speaker 1>he goes, just come pick it up. It's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to charge you for it. If you like it, you

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<v Speaker 1>can just have it. Get a free couch out a

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<v Speaker 1>deal sweet, right, And at this point I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what the couch looks like or anything, but we went

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<v Speaker 1>to a bar together. He showed me pictures on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, this is perfect. Sounds like a hot date

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<v Speaker 1>showing each other couch pictures. It's kind of like a

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<v Speaker 1>two for one deal, right, just getting a hot date

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<v Speaker 1>and a free couch. Did it pass your eye test?

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<v Speaker 1>You mean the guy or the couch, because both did?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh more than just sit on that couch when

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<v Speaker 1>you go pick it up? So did you go get it? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>You think? So I go to his house. I said, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take it. I just need some way to get

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<v Speaker 1>at home, right, AKA, you need to take this to

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<v Speaker 1>my house please? Ye okay, hoping he's going to offer.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's weird because he's got this little back patio

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<v Speaker 1>thing with a sliding lass door and it's been open

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<v Speaker 1>and at this point his cat comes running in cat

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<v Speaker 1>jumps up onto the couch and like nestles into it,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like, I'm sorry, Mike hat Is. He's not

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<v Speaker 1>Breth misattached to this couch, but it's almost like he's

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<v Speaker 1>claiming it right now. And he's like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if it's a sign, but suddenly I just have this

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<v Speaker 1>feeling like I need to keep this couch, like this

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<v Speaker 1>cat is in love with he gave DIBs to his

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<v Speaker 1>cat over you cat just nozzle the couch. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a cat person, so I get it to a

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<v Speaker 1>degree that I also am like, that's so weird. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think it's maybe because you asked that you needed

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<v Speaker 1>help bringing it back? Like all of a sudden, the

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<v Speaker 1>cat is on it and then you're asking that and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, oh crash, never mind. I won't even help

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<v Speaker 1>a good friend moved their couch somebody. I'm just meeting

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<v Speaker 1>for a date in my living room now, So does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean you didn't get it? No, he didn't give

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<v Speaker 1>it to me. And I'm like, maybe when we hang

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<v Speaker 1>out again, he'll like provide some clarity. Who guys, I

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<v Speaker 1>never heard from him again, And you think it's all

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<v Speaker 1>because of the couch. I don't know why. Maybe the

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<v Speaker 1>cat nuzzled up against your ankle and was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>cat has DIBs on you now. But let's see and

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<v Speaker 1>find out. We're gonna play a song. We'll come back

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll call Dave. We'll ask him why he's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back, and maybe see if that couch is

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<v Speaker 1>still available so I could have it, because yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>need some help in my place. Anyway, we'll do it

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<v Speaker 1>in your second date update, but I still get DIBs

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<v Speaker 1>on the couch over you. We're gonna let Dave settle this.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call him. Maybe we'll do it right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a very interesting story we just heard from Tricia

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<v Speaker 1>about her date with a guy named Dave, but also

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<v Speaker 1>very matter of fact, like she didn't have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of emotion. You mean, I feel like I'm just being

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<v Speaker 1>honest here. I feel like, Tricia, you don't seem very

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<v Speaker 1>reconnected to the guy. It sounds like what you really

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<v Speaker 1>want out of this is a second shot at that

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<v Speaker 1>couch that was selling before you got cat blocks. I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta say I wouldn't I wouldn't judge you for it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good deal. I'll just ask if I offered

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<v Speaker 1>you the couch right now instead of a date. What

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<v Speaker 1>would you say, Trisha? Um, I think I would take

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<v Speaker 1>the couch at this point. Yeah, yeah, really you wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It probably would have been that way the other point too.

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<v Speaker 1>I Mean the whole thing is like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>Dave that well. I'm not invested emotionally, and if it's

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful couch, I can get for a bargain and

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<v Speaker 1>it's perfect more emotionally invested in the couch. Those are

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<v Speaker 1>smart choices you're making in your life. I actually back

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<v Speaker 1>that one. Those are harder to find the men that

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<v Speaker 1>fits your place perfectly, and I love the look of it. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be the first time we've ever done

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<v Speaker 1>a second date for a piece of furniture, but let's

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<v Speaker 1>give it a shot. We're gonna call Dave. Good couch

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<v Speaker 1>is hard to find. I'm gonna call his number. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Dave? Uh? This is a Dave who's calling?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Dave. My name is Jeff from the show Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning. We're on the radio, Like

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<v Speaker 1>right now we're on the radio. Why am I on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio? What's going on here? Good question? Dave Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Before we can really get into it, I do need

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<v Speaker 1>to ask. We heard that you have a couch that

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<v Speaker 1>was up for sale, A really nice couch. We're wondering

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<v Speaker 1>is that still available? Uh? What I mean? I still

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<v Speaker 1>got the couch. But who? How do you know that?

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<v Speaker 1>Wh who told you this? We heard about this amazing

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<v Speaker 1>couch from one of our listeners named Tricia. Tricia remember

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<v Speaker 1>remember hung out with her a little bit, went to

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<v Speaker 1>a bar and showed her the couch. Yeah, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember Tricia. What you sounds that I'm mad? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you mad at Tricia? No? No, I'm not mad. I

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<v Speaker 1>just I'm done with Trisha and I didn't I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really want to bring it back up. Did Who are

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<v Speaker 1>you calling me about this? You're done with her? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>She told us that you were the one who asked

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<v Speaker 1>her out after you met on the bus. I did. Yeah, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>she was cool. I like Trisha, she's she's like a

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<v Speaker 1>good person. Didn't feel right. It didn't feel right, was it?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean? She also said that you offered her your

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<v Speaker 1>couch for free. I did. I did at one point, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but then things changed and so she didn't end up

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<v Speaker 1>taking the couch changed. Yeah, why everything seems so good

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<v Speaker 1>up to that moment. Yeah. Uh, you guys are being

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<v Speaker 1>a little nosy here. I don't even know you. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what this is about. So are we done here?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so, I apologize for that, but that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of what we do on this segment. We're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>help Tricia figure out what went wrong because she's clueless. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we just want to help her tell her, Hey, what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it something that you think she should understand already,

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<v Speaker 1>Like why why you don't want to talk to her again?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is it because she rides the bus and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't like that? Because that's it's a popular opinion on

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<v Speaker 1>this show that bus people are not worthy of love.

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<v Speaker 1>But that I ride the bus to work. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's totally fine. I don't really understand what you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll check that one off of the list. It's not that.

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<v Speaker 1>So what is it? What's the reason that you have

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<v Speaker 1>this total shift in attitude towards Tricia? I mean, we

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<v Speaker 1>heard somebody about your cat, but I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>anybody really believes that your cat rubbing up against the

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<v Speaker 1>couch is going to stop you from giving it away.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's because she asked for help in moving

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<v Speaker 1>the couch. Is that why? Theories? No, it's not that

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<v Speaker 1>all right, listen, if it'll end this quicker, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna I'm gonna let you know. But it's some people

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<v Speaker 1>might think it's weird, but this is the truth. Okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So the a state where I've been living for the

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<v Speaker 1>last couple of months. Actually, my Grandma's the state. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>she passed away just a few months ago, So I've

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<v Speaker 1>been taking things there. Oh yeah, that's hard, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you appreciate that. Anyway. The cat was my

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<v Speaker 1>grandma's and I'm taking care of the cat as well. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. As soon as Tricia comes to get

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<v Speaker 1>the couch, this cat, who has never ever, i mean

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<v Speaker 1>not once jumped on this couch, went right up to it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like the cat saw Tricia and tried to intervene.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, I mean, I know, I know deep inside

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<v Speaker 1>that that is my grandma. That is a sign that

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<v Speaker 1>she is speaking through this cat, and it was a

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<v Speaker 1>sign to not give this couch away and to not

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<v Speaker 1>see this woman anymore. I don't know what reason why

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<v Speaker 1>when you know, you know, and something just told me,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my grandma telling me to watch out. Was

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<v Speaker 1>your grandma always pretty judgy about the people you would do? Yeah, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>she just wanted to make sure I was happy, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think I trusted her opinions. Okay, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>keep trusting it in the afterlife. Weird question back to you,

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<v Speaker 1>is your grandma the cat or is your grandma she's

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<v Speaker 1>speaking through the catrol? You know that that actually makes

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<v Speaker 1>sense to me? Is that weird? Yeah? I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know the logistics of the supernatural here. All I

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<v Speaker 1>know is the feeling I got. Yeah, okay, it just

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<v Speaker 1>nobody gets the couch, not just Tricia. I think it

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<v Speaker 1>was just that Tricia. I mean, I believe in signs. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just reading the signs that Tricia has been

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line listening this entire time and wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. Yeah. I feel like I've been

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<v Speaker 1>set up here. What's going on? Don't be bored? Don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you can be if you need to be,

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<v Speaker 1>But like, thank you, I just don't tell men how

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<v Speaker 1>to feel. She's not trying to like upset you. She

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know she didn't know that that was what was

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<v Speaker 1>going on, right, Tricia, Uh No, I didn't. Um, that

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<v Speaker 1>is so weird, Like you really think that your grandma

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<v Speaker 1>sent you, was signed through your cat that we shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>go out anymore. And this makes me feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>might have some mental problems. To be honest, that is

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<v Speaker 1>so rude. He said, Hey, this is gonna sound weird.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it doesn't feel right. Everybody experiences grief and

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<v Speaker 1>everything else in different ways, and this is the way

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<v Speaker 1>he feels like his grandma's talking to him now. I

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<v Speaker 1>do think maybe the argument could be that what if

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<v Speaker 1>the cat was saying, yes, I'm excited about this instead

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<v Speaker 1>of like maybe you were interpreting the cat wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with her with the counsel. I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>could be Honestly, does that sound like a possibility, Dave,

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<v Speaker 1>After this conversation, I'm more convinced than ever that the

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<v Speaker 1>way I interpreted it was correct. My grandma just helped

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<v Speaker 1>me dodge a bullet, So thank you. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>trust you, know what, Dave, like forget even you because

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, obviously we're not a romantic match, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so fine with that. Obviously, what I mean, but

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<v Speaker 1>like the fact that can I just like have that?

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<v Speaker 1>Could we just do the couch exchange because I'll give

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<v Speaker 1>you two hundred dollars for it. I'll have someone comes

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<v Speaker 1>to get out the couch. I still want the couch.

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<v Speaker 1>Something can be salvaged from this conversation. He's going to

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<v Speaker 1>give you his grandmother's couch like it's just had three

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<v Speaker 1>hundred dollars. I would sooner bring that couch to the

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<v Speaker 1>dumps than give it to you. Oh, don't put your

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<v Speaker 1>grandma's couch in the dump, bro, It's seriously a little dramatic. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's Tricia. Yeah, you're getting the know You're getting a

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<v Speaker 1>know from Dave, from Dave's cat and from Dave's grandma.

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you Dave's cat, because now I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I dodged a bullet on top of it, you know, well, Dave. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so no, you don't have to go out or see

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<v Speaker 1>Tricia again. But I know your cat's not here on

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<v Speaker 1>the line with us. But do you think you can

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<v Speaker 1>ask it if your grandma thinks I'm a good person,

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<v Speaker 1>because I would really like to have that couch. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds really nice. No, sorry, but I'm getting that couch.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm offering more money than you are not getting, like

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<v Speaker 1>you've been cut out of the equations. Somebody should get

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<v Speaker 1>that couch. I think it should be me, Dave. They

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<v Speaker 1>give it to the cat, well, go ahead and try

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<v Speaker 1>ikea dot com and let them leave me alone. Second

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<v Speaker 1>couch update Jeffrey in the morning. I was just another

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<v Speaker 1>one of those second date updates that all of a

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<v Speaker 1>sudden it goes off the rails and there's no way

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<v Speaker 1>to fix it. Oh my gosh, it's just spiral. She

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<v Speaker 1>just I'm sorry she was mean. Yeah, I mean, gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't believe that your grandma, can you know,

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<v Speaker 1>show you signs? Fine, whatever, but you don't need to

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<v Speaker 1>be so mean. Somebody overly aggressive. And it's really not

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<v Speaker 1>fair of her to discredit the cat signs because she

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<v Speaker 1>was the one that told us she followed the signs

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<v Speaker 1>when her bus broke down, that she was supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with them. Oh that's a good point. Maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know that I was fully listening

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<v Speaker 1>when she said that. Just selective sign reading and selective

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<v Speaker 1>listening apparently in this room. I think she just matched

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't get the couch that's honestly what she's really

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<v Speaker 1>upset about. I guarantee she googled it and like on

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<v Speaker 1>wafer or something, it's like a thousand dollars cound. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to run into her inside of home goods.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be But remember, if you ever want to

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<v Speaker 1>get a second date update, you can email the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call the person who wasn't calling you back. Broke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning