1 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: Well, hello everybody. You made it here. How are you? 2 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 1: It is almost Thanksgiving? So what can I say? Today 3 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: is going to be kind of a heavy show. No 4 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 1: matter who you are, no matter where you come from 5 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: or what you think, it's hard to talk about the Mideast, 6 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: especially right now. Make no mistake, it's a complex and 7 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: difficult conversation and has been for generations. But because of 8 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 1: social media, I think things have only grown more difficult, 9 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 1: more isolating. People are angry, heartbroken and exhausted, and we 10 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: need to have real conversation. We need to understand each other. 11 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 1: We need to come together with peace in our hearts. Today. 12 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 1: My guest is Alison Joseph's, who I met through social 13 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:55,279 Speaker 1: media a couple of years ago. Her screen name is 14 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: jew in the City. Her platform is representation and education 15 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: as to who the Jewish people truly are. She has 16 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: done this long before the events of October seventh, and 17 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 1: I thought maybe this would be a good place to start. Here, 18 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:26,759 Speaker 1: we are having a conversation myself and Alison Joseph. Well, 19 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 1: Hi everybody, it is me Rosi O'Donnell talking to Alison Joseph's. Hello, Alison, 20 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 1: It's very nice to meet you, sort of here on 21 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 1: the zoom. 22 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 2: Likewise, great to meet you as well. 23 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, how long have you been online? And do you 24 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 1: remember when we first connected? Was it like what a 25 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: couple of years ago? Was it? 26 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 3: It was a couple of years ago you were posting 27 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 3: about Minn Orthodox life. And since my nonprofits you in 28 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 3: the City handles depictions of Jews and media, and our 29 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 3: founding mission was specifically to look at Orthodox depictions. 30 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 2: And I had some opinions about that show. 31 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: Yes, indeed, Now were you raised Orthodox yourself? 32 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 2: I was not. 33 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 3: And the interesting thing is that I was really raised 34 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 3: to hate Orthodox Jews, to judge Orthodox Jews. I was 35 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 3: raised to be a proud Jew, but that was kind 36 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 3: of more like culturally Jewish and you know, some holidays 37 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 3: and a sense of that the Jewish people should continue 38 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 3: because we've been through so much. 39 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 2: But I grew up in New Jersey. 40 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 3: We would go to Manhattan maybe once a month, out 41 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:38,239 Speaker 3: to dinner, out to a Broadway show, and I would 42 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 3: see the Orthodox just kind of looking so weird, so different, 43 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 3: so extreme, so backwards, and I. 44 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 2: Felt kind of ashamed of them, actually, And then did. 45 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:52,359 Speaker 1: You did you feel ashamed of them? Because you were 46 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,919 Speaker 1: taught that or did you feel it because they were 47 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: just so other. 48 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 3: So I think I was taught that my father took 49 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 3: care of Classidic Jews when he did his residency at 50 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 3: Mount Sinai, And I remember some of my earliest memories 51 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 3: in life was him coming home from the hospital and saying, 52 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,959 Speaker 3: they're dirty, they're smelly, they're ignorant, they can't speak English. 53 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 3: Imagine that perspective on any other minority group. I mean, 54 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 3: it would be pretty shocking and bigoted, But because we're Jewish, 55 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:23,919 Speaker 3: it was kind of like we can look down on 56 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 3: the wrong kind of Jews. We're the good kind of 57 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 3: Jews and those are the bad kind of Jews. And 58 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 3: I will tell you that media only reinforced everything my 59 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 3: father taught us because media, essentially both news media and 60 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 3: fictional media, picks up on the crooks, creeps, and extremists 61 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 3: of the community. 62 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: Right, would you say for every minority or would you 63 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: say just exclusively for Jewish people. 64 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 3: I think media has been damaging for every minority for 65 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 3: most of the time. What there has been in recent years, thankfully, 66 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 3: is a shift now for more nuanced, more understanding and 67 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 3: understanding that continued negative depictions leads to danger in terms 68 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 3: of how that minority fares in the world. And that's 69 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 3: you know, that's the work that my nonprofit is doing 70 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 3: now for the Jewish community. So I guess what I'll 71 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 3: say is that I think there's been a lot of 72 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 3: progress for other communities. We're certainly not there yet. I'm 73 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 3: sure if you speak to, you know, any person from 74 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 3: a different minority group, they will be able to flag 75 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 3: for you what they still don't like about their depictions 76 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 3: or the representation. And I also think that they'll be 77 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 3: able to point to real progress made. 78 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 1: Now, your dad was is a doctor, Yeah, and he 79 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:46,799 Speaker 1: would only use that kind of language about Orthodox Jews. 80 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: He wouldn't use it about other minorities around you. 81 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 3: Correct, because he was an open minded person who didn't prejudge. 82 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:59,919 Speaker 1: So did you ever say to him I find that offensive? 83 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 2: No, because I agreed with him. 84 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 3: I had no people in my life to counter that 85 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 3: narrative because I had never interacted with them. So my 86 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,919 Speaker 3: father sort of set the stage as to what I believed. 87 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 3: And then you know, newspaper headlines and you know TV shows, 88 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 3: books and movies reinforce those ideas, and there were no 89 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:25,040 Speaker 3: real person examples to counter those ideas. 90 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: Now there are some wonderful depictions of Orthodox life on 91 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: TV on now they are much more than there used 92 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: to be. There's not only My Orthodox Life, which was 93 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 1: kind of a reality show and sensationalized, and they were 94 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 1: looking for characters to to I almost said exploit, but 95 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 1: there you go to exploit. And but you know the 96 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: names that I'm thinking of of those Israeli shows with 97 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:58,679 Speaker 1: that I loved, Unorthodox was one of them, I believe right. 98 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 2: You're thinking of and Orthodox. 99 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 3: So look Stissel and there was really the Stistlemania that 100 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 3: took the world. And I think the reason that people 101 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 3: went so wild over Stissel was it was because the 102 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 3: first time we were seeing the humanity beneath the beards, 103 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 3: beneath the wigs within this community that seemed like a 104 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 3: world away. And I appreciate that Stissel did show the 105 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 3: humanity of ha Readi characters. It was excellent writing, excellent acting, 106 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 3: and you did get to know them and that was huge, 107 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 3: That was groundbreaking. My complaint with Stissel is it's the 108 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 3: most second most insular Orthodox community in Israel. And what 109 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 3: I find is that for Orthodox Jews like me, that 110 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 3: you could call me Centrist Orthodox or modern Orthodox don't 111 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 3: really ever get depicted, and people don't really know the 112 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 3: difference between us and the people living in the second 113 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 3: most insular community in Israel. And one of my good friends, 114 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 3: who's a reformed Jew, who saw me become observant in 115 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 3: high school, she asked me what I thought of it, 116 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 3: and I said, it's a great show. 117 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 2: I'm enjoying it. 118 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:08,840 Speaker 3: It's a little extreme, and she said, huh, funny coming 119 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 3: from you, I said, because you think I'm living just 120 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 3: a life. She said, yeah, pretty much. And so my 121 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 3: husband and I are Ivy League educated. We travel the world, 122 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 3: my kids are exposed to all different types of people, 123 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 3: and we're both very devout, and we've also taught our 124 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 3: children to understand that everybody contains a divine spark, and 125 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 3: not everybody comes to the same conclusion. People have different 126 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 3: life experiences, they come to different outcomes, and we're here to, 127 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 3: you know, to live and sort of see the humanity 128 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 3: and the positive qualities of the diverse tapestry of you know, 129 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 3: of mankind. 130 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: Right, And how did you go from being a cultural 131 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: Jew to an Orthodox Jew? What inspired that transition in you? 132 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, So, first of all, I did not know that 133 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 3: such a thing was possible. I kind of thought that 134 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 3: the normal Jew like me were born normal and the 135 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 3: weird Jews were born that way. 136 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 1: Wow. 137 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 2: But what ended up happening was that. 138 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 3: And there's a term for what I did, which is 139 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 3: called to be a balshuva, a master of return. When 140 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 3: I was eight years old, a father in my public 141 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 3: school had a mental breakdown. I walked into my fourth 142 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 3: grade home room in nineteen eighty eight. My classmates were crying, 143 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 3: huddled around their desks. I immediately knew something was off. 144 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 3: Found out that the night before, Angela's father had killed 145 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 3: both children and himself, and so God, I was going 146 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 3: to a triple funeral that week and not even nine 147 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 3: years old, And sort of, as all this heaviness of 148 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 3: death was sitting on my child like mind, I realized 149 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 3: that what's going to happen when I die? I will 150 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 3: end my time in this world at some point. And 151 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 3: then I stopped the question before that, which was why 152 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 3: are we here in the first place, And being only 153 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 3: eight years old, I assume my parents must know the 154 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 3: answer to that. They brought three daughters into the world 155 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 3: so over a bagel breakfast, you know, probably the Sunday 156 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 3: after the funerals, I said, by the way, why are 157 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 3: we alive? And my parents just stared at me, and 158 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 3: it was this devastating realization that they literally had no plan, 159 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 3: they had no wisdom to share. And I started asking 160 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 3: other people in my world, and the response I basically 161 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 3: got was nobody knows. Don't think about it. And the 162 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 3: problem was that, like the cat was already out of 163 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 3: the bag, and I couldn't stop thinking about the thing 164 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:32,679 Speaker 3: that everybody told me not to think about. 165 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 1: So that's so interesting that happened to me when I 166 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 1: was that age as well with the Vietnam War, that 167 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: I would watch it on TV because I'm sixty one, 168 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: and we would see it as we were eating dinner, 169 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: these horrific images, and my father I started to cry. 170 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 1: I would cry when I watched the news, and he said, 171 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 1: you can't watch the news anymore. Go to your room. 172 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 1: You're not allowed to watch the news. That was the 173 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 1: answer right to to a little eight year old girl, 174 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 1: you know, who was was scared and whose mother was 175 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 1: dying and was you know, it was a traumatic event 176 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: at that time that made me question kind of everything 177 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: and kind of laid down my moral compass for me. 178 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:22,079 Speaker 1: Were your parents supportive of your desire to go towards 179 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 1: these these bigger ideas at such a young age. Where 180 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 1: when did you make the switch to knowing that an 181 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: orthodox life might be the one that inspired and filled 182 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:33,439 Speaker 1: your heart? 183 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 3: Yes? So it was about seven years of insomnia and 184 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:41,599 Speaker 3: often on panic attacks. As long as I was distracted, 185 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 3: I was the life of the party, the straight a student. 186 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 2: Everything was great. 187 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 3: When the distractions would stop, I would sort of go 188 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 3: into this point of panic. And I've learned more about 189 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 3: mental health sort of during COVID, and I realized now 190 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 3: that I was disassociating. When I was sort of go 191 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 3: to that point of will be somewhere or nowhere for eternity, 192 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 3: I would feel myself flying out of my body, which 193 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 3: only reconfirmed this idea that nothing here is really real, 194 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 3: and I would just be really terrorized, terrified in this 195 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 3: loop of thoughts. And although I felt the love and 196 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 3: protection of my parents, they weren't big enough to stand 197 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 3: up to eternity next to me and their protection and 198 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 3: their you know what they provided for us, and it 199 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:27,600 Speaker 3: wasn't enough because I was sort of coming face to 200 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 3: face with you know, time and space. So They were 201 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 3: supportive of my being, I think a precocious thinker. The 202 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 3: reason that it ended up getting to going back to 203 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 3: my heritage was they sent us to an after school 204 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:45,439 Speaker 3: Hebrew high after our bot mitzvahs. They didn't really care 205 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 3: for us to become more. 206 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 1: Did you go to a public school, a private school, 207 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 1: a Jewish school, what did you attend? 208 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 3: I attended a public school until eighth grade, and then 209 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 3: a private school for high school. And so while I 210 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 3: was in both public and private school to sort of 211 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 3: supplement our Jewish you know, knowledge and community, they sent 212 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 3: us to this Hebrew high after our bat mitzvah's and 213 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 3: it was there that, for the first time in my life, 214 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 3: I got to meet real, live, actual Orthodox Jews. So 215 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:20,439 Speaker 3: no more headlines, no more negative messages from my father, 216 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:24,319 Speaker 3: but my own personal interactions. And what I discovered was 217 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:28,559 Speaker 3: that these people were living these really meaningful and positive 218 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 3: lives and they were not the weirdos that I had 219 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 3: been led to believe they are. Let me clarify, there 220 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 3: are still some weirdos. I'm not gonna master the entire community. 221 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 3: There's for sure weirdos, but there's weirdos everywhere I spent 222 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 3: my first Shabis, my first Sabbath with one of my teachers. 223 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 3: In my mind he was coming from a Stistle community, 224 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 3: even though he lived in one of the biggest modern 225 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 3: Orthodox communities in the Tri State area. I couldn't quite 226 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 3: parse the difference. But what I'll tell you is that 227 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:59,080 Speaker 3: my soul was yearning for what they had, what I 228 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 3: saw in their home. When I studied Torah in depth 229 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 3: in his class, there was something that I had really 230 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:09,439 Speaker 3: been longing for, and my soul felt complete and sort of. 231 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 3: The follow up point to this exposure to this new 232 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 3: way of life was in a tropical rainforest in Hawaii 233 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 3: when I was sixteen. During that year of sort of 234 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:22,000 Speaker 3: exploration and opening up my mind, I saw a tree 235 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 3: that I was convinced had been painted on by just 236 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,319 Speaker 3: some artists in the forest. And when I looked to 237 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 3: the top and saw the color went all the way 238 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 3: up this huge shoot. It's called rainbow eucalyptus, something inside 239 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 3: of me transformed. I like to call it a moment 240 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 3: of clarity, or for a split second, I delved one 241 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 3: layer deeper into perception and I discovered unity running throughout 242 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 3: all of existence. And in that moment when I felt 243 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 3: this unity surround me. I suddenly realized this is what 244 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 3: they must mean when they say God. And I was 245 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 3: an agnostic and atheist, certainly not a believer before that, 246 00:13:57,400 --> 00:14:01,199 Speaker 3: but sort of happening upon this moment in the Hawaii 247 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 3: and sort of being filled with something so big and majestic, 248 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:10,080 Speaker 3: something shifted inside me forever. And once I sort of 249 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 3: named that feeling, I thought, let me look into my 250 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 3: heritage to see if I can delve deeper into that 251 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 3: experience of God to get that feeling back again. 252 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 1: That's intense. You were sixteen years old. 253 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 3: Well, if I was thinking about the end of my 254 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 3: life at eight, I had to get to enlightenment by sixteen. 255 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: You know. Now, what was your family's response were they 256 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 1: when you you know, you come and you say, I 257 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 1: know God, I feel a spiritual center and I'd like 258 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 1: to follow this? Your family was accepting and. 259 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 2: Nope, no. 260 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 3: So what I'll tell you is that my mother had 261 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 3: the strongest sense about Judaism. She had a religious grandmother 262 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 3: and grandfather that basically only spoke Yiddish, and although they 263 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 3: couldn't communicate, you know, in English, she we had fond 264 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 3: memories of their relationship to Judaism and so she was 265 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 3: more supportive. I was a bit of a nerdy teenager, 266 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 3: so if I was acting up and my mother wanted 267 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 3: to ground me, she would say, no shabas for you 268 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:16,800 Speaker 3: this week, little girl. Like that was literally I got 269 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 3: to cancel. My punishment was getting shaba is canceled. My 270 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:23,119 Speaker 3: father thought that I was becoming one of these extremists, 271 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 3: that he was taken care of that. Again, he completely 272 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 3: judged I think very unfairly, and so at all of 273 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 3: sixteen years old, I said, if you think then I'm 274 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 3: ruining my life and the life of your unborn grandchildren, 275 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 3: then please save me from this cult. But here's the deal. 276 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 3: You don't get an opinion until you learn something, because 277 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 3: ignorant people shouldn't weigh in on debates. So learn something, 278 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 3: meet who I meet, come for shabis, where I go 279 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 3: away for shabas, And once you've educated yourself, let's engage 280 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 3: in a debate. He didn't want to do it, didn't 281 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 3: want to do it, and eventually realized that he does 282 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 3: have to learn to properly debate me. So he began 283 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 3: to study to spite me, and after about a year 284 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 3: of studying and experiencing shobas for himself. He was almost 285 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 3: fifty years old. He said, you were right and I 286 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 3: was wrong, and now it's time to play catch up. 287 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 3: And he and my mother and both of my sisters 288 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 3: all became Orthodox. 289 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 1: Wow, that's pretty fascinating. What a strong manifesto you are. 290 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 1: You were able to sort of change the essence of 291 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 1: your whole family at a young age. 292 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 3: And my parents have fourteen Orthodox grandchildren. And again, we're 293 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 3: all living in this space now of very devout, very committed, 294 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 3: you know, to this spiritual way of life, and also 295 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 3: holding space for the larger world and you know our 296 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 3: role in making it better and sort of understanding the 297 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 3: complexities and nuances of humanity. 298 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 1: Had you at sixteen or even at eight, experienced anti 299 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 1: Semitism yourself. 300 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 2: For sure. 301 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 3: So my parents raised us in a town with almost 302 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:04,719 Speaker 3: no Jews, and maybe in first grade, our neighbor across 303 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 3: the street, Larry said to us, I'm speaking your language, 304 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:14,640 Speaker 3: called me a Jewish jerk. In fourth grade, a girl 305 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:17,880 Speaker 3: named Charlene told me that Jewish people howl the moon 306 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 3: and prayed to the devil. 307 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 2: So I sort of had this sense of. 308 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 3: Being the lone Jew in sort of a larger gentile 309 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 3: world and kind of knowing what it felt like to 310 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 3: not belong. And it's truth is that after you know, 311 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 3: kind of the George Floyd was killed and there was 312 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 3: a lot more understanding happening about the experiences of many 313 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:45,119 Speaker 3: people of color in this country. I read many narratives 314 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 3: of black women talking about kind of being that lone 315 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 3: person in a larger society that was not like them. Obviously, 316 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 3: you know, I didn't have the outward look that identified me, 317 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 3: but I was sort of known as the Jew. I 318 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 3: was the only Jewish girl in my grade for most 319 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:04,240 Speaker 3: of my time in public school, and so I. 320 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 1: In jity, you were the only one. 321 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:09,639 Speaker 3: There were towns that my parents could have moved to 322 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 3: that were more Jewish, they just did not move there. 323 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:15,439 Speaker 3: I went to Catholic Mass before I went to an 324 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 3: orthodoxoal just to give you an idea of sort of 325 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 3: how little few Jews there were around me. My town 326 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 3: was predominantly Catholic Italian and a real pride around that, 327 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 3: you know, sort of ethnicity, and I appreciated their pride. 328 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:36,119 Speaker 3: I just didn't have that sense of that sort of 329 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:39,399 Speaker 3: community for myself. I really kind of always felt like 330 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 3: the lone Jew. 331 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 1: We'll be back with Alice and Joseph's right after this. 332 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:10,159 Speaker 1: So let me ask you, Allison, tell me what the 333 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 1: world has been like for you here in the United 334 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 1: States since October seventh. Tell me your fear level, tell 335 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:23,400 Speaker 1: me your tell me what's been going on for you specifically. 336 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 3: So, when we were little, probably five years old, my 337 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 3: mother sat my sisters and me down, and she gave 338 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 3: us a warning. She said, things are good today, but 339 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 3: things were good in Germany, and things were good in Spain. 340 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 3: And every country eventually tires of its Jews, and one 341 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:44,439 Speaker 3: day the US may tire of us as well. We 342 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 3: may need to run. And so this is oh wait, 343 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 3: how old were you? Probably five years old? 344 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 2: Wow. 345 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 3: And I think this is sort of the experience that 346 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 3: so many Jews grow up with a certain knowledge that 347 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 3: we I may never expressed to non Jewish people, and 348 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 3: so from the outside there may be this sense of 349 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 3: things look pretty good. In fact, I only came to 350 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 3: sort of understand this part of my identity when a 351 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:16,359 Speaker 3: non Jewish black man asked me a few years ago. 352 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 3: There was some ongoing violence, you know, towards the Hasidic 353 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:24,440 Speaker 3: community from the black community. We did this program called 354 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 3: Me to Jew in the city, make a friend where 355 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 3: we put up a tent in Harlem and gave out 356 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:31,440 Speaker 3: coffee and rugelach to try to Let's have conversations, let's interact, 357 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 3: Let's stop being on different sides of the street, but 358 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 3: let's get to know each other. This guy came by 359 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 3: and he said, no offense, but you seem like you're 360 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 3: doing okay, Like what persecution do Jews feel? And this 361 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:44,239 Speaker 3: got me back to this point of I've had this 362 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,240 Speaker 3: knowledge my whole life that we may have to run 363 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,960 Speaker 3: one day. I summed it up as Jewish baggage is 364 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 3: never being able to fully unpack. So I started asking 365 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 3: people online did you get such a talk? And not surprisingly, 366 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 3: many Jewish people in my network reported as similar talk. 367 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 2: Some talks included. 368 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:08,719 Speaker 3: Have your passport always ready if the person was visibly Jewish, 369 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 3: it was you wear a baseball cap in this setting, 370 00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:13,439 Speaker 3: or look for the exits you know if you're in 371 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 3: this type of Jewish building. But then I realized that 372 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:19,680 Speaker 3: the talk is actually a talk that every single Jewish 373 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 3: person gets. Nearly in the Passover Satar in the Hagadah, 374 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 3: we say every year, in every generation, our enemies. 375 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:28,679 Speaker 2: Rise up to destroy us. 376 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 3: So although my mother told us this talk when we 377 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 3: were young, and that seems like a young age to 378 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 3: say something so heavy, we had actually been learning this 379 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:39,119 Speaker 3: message since the first time that we went to a 380 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 3: passover Satar, and so I think that to answer the 381 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,919 Speaker 3: question about what has the world been like since October seventh? 382 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 3: So I grew up having nightmares about the Holocaust. We 383 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:53,240 Speaker 3: learned about the Holocaust, you know, in social studies, probably 384 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 3: starting in fifth sixth grade. 385 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:54,920 Speaker 1: Yep. 386 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,359 Speaker 2: And when you're. 387 00:21:57,240 --> 00:22:01,359 Speaker 3: A Jewish kid, I think most Jewish kids go home 388 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 3: and have nightmares afterwards about the Nazis rounding you up. 389 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:06,880 Speaker 1: And I think the non Jewish kids too. I think 390 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:10,680 Speaker 1: it is a terrifying concept to introduce to a child 391 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:14,440 Speaker 1: and you know who's going to be the oppressor and 392 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 1: who's going to be oppressed. And I don't know that 393 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 1: that exclusively was for Jewish people. I think that every 394 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 1: child that is forced to sort of face the atrocities 395 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 1: of humans against each other was terrorized by the truth 396 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:32,520 Speaker 1: of the Holocaust. 397 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 3: It could be, you know, I've sort of I know 398 00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 3: what my experience is and what my you know, Jewish 399 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 3: friends have reported back. I'll tell you something else, and 400 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 3: I'm curious if you've thought of this too, And I 401 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:45,360 Speaker 3: did actually do an informal pull on our social media channels. 402 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 3: There seems to be a large percentage of Jewish people 403 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 3: that sort of test their strength against whatever they're experiencing. 404 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 3: So what I mean is, let's say you're out somewhere 405 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 3: and you're really thirsty. You put yourself into the situation 406 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,639 Speaker 3: of how would I have managed on a cattle car 407 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:07,480 Speaker 3: being shipped off to Auschwitz? Wow? You We came home 408 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:09,639 Speaker 3: a couple of years ago during winter breaking. It had 409 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:11,880 Speaker 3: snowed and I didn't have boots, and we cut out 410 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 3: of the plane, you know, got our car our uber 411 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,919 Speaker 3: and I had to walk through the front lawn that 412 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 3: was full of snow with just low shoes, And I 413 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 3: thought to myself, how would I have fared during the 414 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 3: Death March? 415 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 1: And Gerda Stein? You know the story of Gerda Stein father, 416 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:31,879 Speaker 1: her father told her put on your boots and it 417 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:35,639 Speaker 1: was the summer and she said, Daddy, He said, you 418 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 1: don't disobey your father. And it was those boots that 419 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,320 Speaker 1: allowed her to survive the Holocaust that she listened to him. 420 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 1: That he didn't survive, but she survived, and she ended 421 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 1: up marrying the American soldier who freed her concentration camp. 422 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 1: And he went over to her and said, she opened 423 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 1: that it was they were in a bicycle factory where 424 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 1: they had walked walked and walked and walked, and they 425 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 1: were in the bicycle factory and he opened the door 426 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:07,920 Speaker 1: and she was there, and she warned him. She said, 427 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 1: I just need you to know we're all Jews. And 428 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 1: he said, and so am I. And then they were 429 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,399 Speaker 1: married and they have very many children, and they live 430 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:21,399 Speaker 1: in Arizona, and all those stories, you know, haunted me 431 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:25,640 Speaker 1: as well throughout my life. Now, I'm not claiming any 432 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: comparison to the heritage and the trauma tattoo on the 433 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:37,159 Speaker 1: cellular DNA I feel of Jewish people in our recent 434 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:44,359 Speaker 1: lifetime since the Holocaust. I'm just trying to really understand 435 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:50,720 Speaker 1: how it all went so wrong since October seventh, Like 436 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:54,120 Speaker 1: after nine to eleven, the United States had so much 437 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:59,119 Speaker 1: goodwill from around the world because of the terrorist attack 438 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:05,280 Speaker 1: that occurred, and then that didn't seem to happen after 439 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 1: October seventh, now correct, I don't know if that's because 440 00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:15,680 Speaker 1: it seemed as though the response was very quick and 441 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 1: very brutal. That it almost shook people from focusing on 442 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 1: the seventh. Do you think that that's what occurred or 443 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,239 Speaker 1: what do you think is the reason for that. 444 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 3: I think that there's a lot of anti Semites that 445 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 3: are out there, and I think that and this goes 446 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 3: back to kind of the media depiction of Jews sort 447 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:43,879 Speaker 3: of reinforcing this. Jews are seen as privileged and powerful 448 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 3: and wealthy and white and kind of being in control 449 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:51,680 Speaker 3: of everything, and so people kind of don't have room 450 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 3: in their mind to see us as the oppressed and 451 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:58,000 Speaker 3: the victims. I think in the Holocaust, that's kind of 452 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 3: like the one exception, and there's kind of the sense 453 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:04,359 Speaker 3: that that bad thing happened, and now, look, Jews are everywhere, 454 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:08,160 Speaker 3: and I think that. Look, I do work in diversity, 455 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 3: equity and inclusion. We founded the first and only Jewish 456 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 3: Hollywood Bureau a couple of years ago. What we discovered 457 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,199 Speaker 3: was that every other minority group had been advocating for 458 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 3: decades in Hollywood for fair and whole and nuanced depictions, 459 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 3: and no one ever did it for the Jews. Why 460 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,439 Speaker 3: Because Jews run Hollywood, because Jews have all the power, 461 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,119 Speaker 3: because Jews don't need any help, and so you know, 462 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 3: what I think really is kind of the challenge is 463 00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 3: that in the minds of so many people, Jews are 464 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 3: at the top, So how could we be struggling? How 465 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 3: could we be at the bottom. Jews have not been 466 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 3: included in so many of these initiatives around listening to 467 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:48,400 Speaker 3: the stories of the marginalized, hearing what they're experiencing, understanding 468 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 3: the baggage that they're carrying, how it fits into the 469 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 3: larger tapestry of how other groups tell their stories. And 470 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:59,639 Speaker 3: I think because of that, people that normally are as 471 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 3: too to you know, being sensitive about. 472 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:06,119 Speaker 1: The social justice issues and exactly right. 473 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 3: And by the way, David Bidil talks about this and 474 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,920 Speaker 3: Jews don't count. It is a masterpiece that he wrote 475 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:16,240 Speaker 3: explaining how this social justice movement left out the Jews 476 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,719 Speaker 3: and why we do belong in that conversation. 477 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's a fascinating dilemma to try to wrap 478 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:30,639 Speaker 1: your head around it, really is. I know, personally, for 479 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 1: me that my response to the Israeli response of Gaza 480 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:41,719 Speaker 1: and all the death that's happened since then, you know, 481 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,360 Speaker 1: has has gutted me and millions of other people, never 482 00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:50,439 Speaker 1: mind the people there. And I find that the accusation 483 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 1: of anti Semitism is so painful to people who are 484 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:00,960 Speaker 1: not but want the want the bombing to stop. 485 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:05,239 Speaker 3: So I think the thing about unconscious bias, and I 486 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,640 Speaker 3: think that this is something that the black community really 487 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,679 Speaker 3: brought out in the last few years, is that we 488 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 3: can be good people that have good intentions, and we 489 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 3: can have so many unconscious biases sort of like written 490 00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:20,680 Speaker 3: into our I don't know, not say DNA, but sort 491 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,200 Speaker 3: of like experience or how we see the world, that 492 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 3: we may not realize what we believe. Let me ask 493 00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:29,680 Speaker 3: you a question, like, what was your feeling, you know 494 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 3: when the US responded to nine to eleven and you know, 495 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 3: went to Afghanistan to get rid of al Qaeda. 496 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I went on TV with no war spray painted 497 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 1: on the back of my jacket, and I spoke to 498 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 1: Phil Donniu about our need for clearer minds and that 499 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 1: we could not go and invade a country that did 500 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 1: not attack us on nine to eleven. And I got 501 00:28:56,800 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 1: in a lot of trouble personally and professionally. But I'm 502 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 1: a pacifist. I'm against war, you know, I'm against the 503 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 1: I'm against what's going on in Gaza. I can't watch it, 504 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,320 Speaker 1: and that doesn't mean I'm anti Semitic to me, and 505 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 1: I don't like the accusation. I feel it's unfair. I 506 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 1: feel I feel the pain of my friends, large percentage 507 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 1: of Boom or Jewish. I feel their pain. I see 508 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 1: their pain. I've had friendships end in the last month 509 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 1: over this, you know, over if you don't, if you 510 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 1: don't write this instead of cease fire, then you are Hamas. 511 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, now, come on, are you seriously going 512 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 1: to say that to someone who says, well, maybe the 513 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 1: response is not legal, the response to the tragedy. No 514 00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 1: one denies the atrocities. Nobody denies some. 515 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,280 Speaker 3: People are actually let me actually just correct you there, 516 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 3: because there are actually people and just in terms of 517 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 3: you know, explaining what we're going through. So what I 518 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 3: would say is that the Holocaust nightmares of my childhood 519 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,720 Speaker 3: started playing out in real time updates on social media 520 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,520 Speaker 3: and hearing about the beheadings and the burnings and the 521 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,719 Speaker 3: rapings of women where literally they said their limbs were 522 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 3: ripped off. It is like a level of terror, and 523 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 3: it feels like we are a small people and it 524 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,080 Speaker 3: feels like this is a distant cousin. That's how the 525 00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,560 Speaker 3: Jewish people feel about each other because we are a nation. 526 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 1: Well, you know, I would expect terror from Isis and 527 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 1: hisbola and hamas, but I don't expect that behavior from Israel. 528 00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:45,120 Speaker 3: Okay, So just to clarify, do you think that targeting 529 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 3: civilians going into a civilian population and they literally had 530 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 3: lists of homes with people written in them who was 531 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:53,960 Speaker 3: going to be home on October seventh so they would 532 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 3: know who to be able to attack. They had a 533 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 3: list of women that they were planning to rape. I mean, 534 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 3: they have detailed records that they kept. Do you not 535 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 3: see any difference between the specific targeting of civilians versus 536 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 3: the trying to minimize civilian casualties by targeting ramas like, 537 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 3: do you not see any differentiation. 538 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 1: In Well, I don't think that there's a lot of 539 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 1: thought given to the civilians. 540 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:19,040 Speaker 2: Okay. 541 00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 3: So what I would like to sort of push back 542 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 3: on that is that Israel is doing an extraordinary amount 543 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:30,760 Speaker 3: to try to prevent civilians from being killed. Look, the 544 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 3: reality is that I appreciate your consistency that you spoke 545 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:38,280 Speaker 3: out against the US, you know, going to Afghanistan, because 546 00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:42,080 Speaker 3: I do think that not everyone that's complaining about Israel's 547 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 3: response had the same perspective with the US and in Afghanistan. 548 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:50,240 Speaker 3: So I do appreciate that, you know, you're a pacifist 549 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 3: through and through what the IDEF does do as Ramas 550 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:58,280 Speaker 3: embeds under schools, under hospitals, and the US has confirmed 551 00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 3: that they've embedded under hospitals. The IDs made twenty thousand 552 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:05,280 Speaker 3: phone calls to Palestinians to warn them to get out. 553 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:09,400 Speaker 3: They've hacked it, nowhere for them to go, so so okay. 554 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,960 Speaker 3: So in terms of where they can go, the IDEF 555 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 3: actually made a humanitarian corridor to help Palestinians leave the area. 556 00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 3: Hamas was there with snipers, actually shooting both Palestinians and 557 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 3: the IDF. The Hamas is also there with snipers as 558 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,640 Speaker 3: Palestinians were trying to leave the area. Israel is doing 559 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 3: humanitarian pauses every day. They've provided incubators to the hospital 560 00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 3: where Hamas has there. 561 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 1: They cut off food and water, Allison, they're starving people. 562 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 2: Okay, ten let me let me let me ask you 563 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 2: a question. 564 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 3: Did the US provide food and water in Germany when 565 00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 3: we fought the Nazis? 566 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,040 Speaker 2: There were four million German civilians. 567 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 1: That was a war where there were two there were 568 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 1: nations against each other. This is an ideology, a terrorist group, 569 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 1: a horrific outgrowth of the worst of humanity. It's not 570 00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:07,560 Speaker 1: a country. 571 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:08,760 Speaker 2: I mean you know what. 572 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:15,040 Speaker 3: Israel unilaterally left Gaza in two thousand and five. They 573 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,440 Speaker 3: left them with greenhouses. This was a beautiful built up 574 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 3: area that Jewish people had been living in. They literally 575 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:25,680 Speaker 3: ethnically cleansed Gaza of Jews, and the idea of pulled 576 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 3: Jewish people out of Gaza in order to say you 577 00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:33,080 Speaker 3: have this land, we will help you to develop it further. 578 00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:34,800 Speaker 2: We want to partner with you. 579 00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:37,720 Speaker 3: And by the way, this was after five other instances 580 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:42,120 Speaker 3: of you know, Palestinians being offered a two state solution 581 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 3: that they rejected those every single time. In two thousand 582 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:49,440 Speaker 3: and five, Israel unilaritly left Gaza, and they could have 583 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,360 Speaker 3: done anything they wanted to, and there were plenty of 584 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 3: governments around the world that were ready to give funding 585 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 3: help build it up. Instead, very sadly, a majority of 586 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:04,720 Speaker 3: Palestinians voted Ramas as their government. And once Ramas has power, 587 00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:06,680 Speaker 3: as we both know, Ramas is not going to be 588 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 3: giving up power Look, my heart breaks for any innocent 589 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:14,200 Speaker 3: Palestinian that is living there under this horrific, terrifying regime 590 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,160 Speaker 3: and they don't have any way to get out or 591 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 3: get food. 592 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 1: We'll be back with Alice and Joseph's right after this. 593 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:45,319 Speaker 3: Since I'm not a pacifist, I need to just ask 594 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,560 Speaker 3: you a question, which is, how do you stop bad people? 595 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 3: How do you stop Nazis and al Qaeda and ISIS 596 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 3: and Haramas? If you're going to take a pacifist approach, 597 00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 3: like literally, what are you supposed to do? Well, I 598 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,200 Speaker 3: don't think you can kill all of the Palestinians in 599 00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:03,880 Speaker 3: order to end Hamas. Wait, so I didn't say that 600 00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,120 Speaker 3: we're doing that. And just keep in mind that Israel 601 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 3: is risking their soldiers' lives by making this into a 602 00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,160 Speaker 3: ground war, which, as we both know, is a much 603 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 3: more dangerous thing to do. If Israel wanted to just 604 00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:16,879 Speaker 3: carpet bomb all of Gaza, this thing could be over 605 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,360 Speaker 3: in a few minutes. They have the firepower to do 606 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:23,600 Speaker 3: so they are carefully going from building to buildings. 607 00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:26,600 Speaker 1: Well, I look, I dispute that, Allison. I think that 608 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:32,319 Speaker 1: anyone watching what's going on can't claim that Israel has 609 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 1: the moral high ground of trying to save lives in Gaza. 610 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:42,040 Speaker 3: What did you have to say online when Hamas shot 611 00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:46,719 Speaker 3: three rockets at the Israeli hospital in Ashkaloge Did you 612 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:47,719 Speaker 3: have any comments on that? 613 00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:53,279 Speaker 1: Well, there are all kinds of distortions coming from the 614 00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:56,960 Speaker 1: media about what's happening there, including I think some of 615 00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,680 Speaker 1: the ways that you've just presented your opinion of what's 616 00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:05,560 Speaker 1: happened there, that there's an altruistic Jewish identity that would 617 00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 1: take care of such things as innocent civilians. I believe 618 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 1: that's who Jewish people are. That's what I believe the 619 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:17,920 Speaker 1: Tora represents. That's what I believe Jewish people are about. 620 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:22,160 Speaker 1: It's not that they are about what's happening now in Gaza, 621 00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 1: that that what's happening now. I got in trouble because 622 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:29,960 Speaker 1: I said genocide and friends said, how could you say that? 623 00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:32,960 Speaker 1: Or how could you say cease fire? I will always 624 00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,279 Speaker 1: say cease fire. I will always try to save the 625 00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,799 Speaker 1: lives of innocent people. There's no collateral damage in a war, 626 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:43,400 Speaker 1: there's just humans. So I'm not who's to blame, though 627 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,920 Speaker 1: it's Hamas not to blame. There was a ceasefire on 628 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:49,160 Speaker 1: October sixth, Yes, and I do have some questions about 629 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,799 Speaker 1: yahu In. What took six to eight hours to get 630 00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:56,239 Speaker 1: there to help people in the most the most protected 631 00:36:56,560 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 1: area in the Midwest, the most cameras and security footage 632 00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:05,160 Speaker 1: per per mile per kilometer. How did that happen? And 633 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,920 Speaker 1: you know, nine to eleven, the United States needed a 634 00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,840 Speaker 1: reason to get into war in the mid East, and 635 00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,720 Speaker 1: it seems as though bet Yahoo got what he wanted 636 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:15,879 Speaker 1: on that day. 637 00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:20,239 Speaker 3: I mean, I think that's no matter your opinion on 638 00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:26,240 Speaker 3: this man, this was really like the most horrific Jewish 639 00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:29,400 Speaker 3: attack in the life of anything. 640 00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,480 Speaker 1: How did it happened? And how did it happen? So 641 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,560 Speaker 1: there were eight breaches? How were there eight breaches. 642 00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,680 Speaker 3: In the LD? So it seems like Iran was involved. 643 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,280 Speaker 3: It seems like Russia was involved. There was a major 644 00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:42,720 Speaker 3: hacking that happened that just destabilized everything, took all eyes 645 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:47,040 Speaker 3: off of everything. They also simultaneously had rockets firing to 646 00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 3: get people to look. 647 00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:48,920 Speaker 2: In the wrong direction. 648 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,480 Speaker 3: So while they were looking where the rockets were firing, 649 00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,440 Speaker 3: they were able to open and infiltrate the the fence. 650 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:58,839 Speaker 3: And let me just clarify, Egypt has a very significant 651 00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 3: wall with Goz. Egypt has blockaded Gaza and they don't 652 00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 3: allow any free passage into Gaza. Their wall is high, 653 00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,120 Speaker 3: it's thick, it's deep into the ground because they know 654 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 3: the Palestinians build tunnels. The wall between Israel and Gaza 655 00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:16,359 Speaker 3: is just a fence, and it. 656 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:20,399 Speaker 1: Was on just a fence. We've seen it. 657 00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:22,640 Speaker 3: Did not see did you not see the bulldozers that 658 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,880 Speaker 3: just in that part? 659 00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:28,160 Speaker 1: I agree they were fences, yes, and that's the that's 660 00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:31,080 Speaker 1: the majority of the wall. I actually was shocked to 661 00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:34,440 Speaker 1: find out that Israel did not have a wall as 662 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:38,440 Speaker 1: significant as Egypt does. But they do not like this 663 00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,919 Speaker 1: is what I would put onto you. I appreciate that 664 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:44,360 Speaker 1: you want to decrease, you know, the loss of human life, 665 00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,880 Speaker 1: and in the end, I want to decrease the anti 666 00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:51,799 Speaker 1: Semitism that's happening, and I want Israel to realize that 667 00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:57,120 Speaker 1: they're creating more terrorists every hour this goes on. 668 00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:00,359 Speaker 3: So you know what I think, when we fought back 669 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:04,960 Speaker 3: at Isis and when we fought back at al Qaeda, unfortunately. 670 00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:06,040 Speaker 2: These are. 671 00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:12,520 Speaker 3: These are extremist Islamic terror groups. These are not Muslims. 672 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 3: This is a certain radical ideology, and unfortunately, I think 673 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,560 Speaker 3: the only way to defeat them is to destroy them 674 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:24,080 Speaker 3: for any innocent I'm talking about the terrorists, not the people. 675 00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:25,560 Speaker 2: If you I mean. 676 00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:29,240 Speaker 3: The head of Hamas said right after October seventh, they'll 677 00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:32,000 Speaker 3: do another one, and another one and another one. Their 678 00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:34,960 Speaker 3: goal is to annihilate every single Jew in Israel. And 679 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,920 Speaker 3: they've also called for global jihad and an enafada all 680 00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:39,920 Speaker 3: over the world, which. 681 00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:43,160 Speaker 1: There's no argument that they are the worst of the 682 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:48,319 Speaker 1: worst in terms of terrorist groups. And something about their 683 00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:53,840 Speaker 1: life and their history of being, as Jimmy Carter said, 684 00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:59,840 Speaker 1: an apartheid state, being in an apartheid situation when he 685 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,840 Speaker 1: write that book, and he got in so much trouble. 686 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:05,680 Speaker 3: Jim tell me what's in apartheid state about Israel? How 687 00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:08,040 Speaker 3: would you describe that? What do you mean by that? Well? 688 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,479 Speaker 1: I was shocked when I went there to find out 689 00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 1: that there was not free passage, that there were separate 690 00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:17,080 Speaker 1: roads that Palestinians had to walk on, in roads that 691 00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:18,480 Speaker 1: Israeli's got to walk on. 692 00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:22,480 Speaker 3: I've been to Israel, I've lived in Israel. I have 693 00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,880 Speaker 3: no idea what you're talking about. There are no separate 694 00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:28,319 Speaker 3: roads for Palestinians. In fact, there are one hundred and 695 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:31,880 Speaker 3: thirty thousand Palestinians that have work permits that go to 696 00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:33,120 Speaker 3: Israel every day. 697 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,759 Speaker 1: So I don't think that how Israel has treated the 698 00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:40,120 Speaker 1: Palestinians is an apartheid type government. 699 00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 3: So let's just separate things into two different categories. There's 700 00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 3: Israeli Arabs, two million Israeli Arabs that live in Israel proper. 701 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:54,319 Speaker 3: They're full citizens, they are in the Supreme Court, they 702 00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:59,600 Speaker 3: are CEOs of major banks, their television you know, hosts, 703 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,440 Speaker 3: I mean, doctors, lawyers, you name it. They go to 704 00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:07,680 Speaker 3: the universities. Let's contrast that to the fact that there 705 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:11,800 Speaker 3: are basically no Jews in any other Middle Eastern Muslim countries. 706 00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,400 Speaker 3: In fact, eight hundred and fifty thousand Jews were ethnically 707 00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:18,439 Speaker 3: cleansed from pretty much every other Middle East and North 708 00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:19,759 Speaker 3: African country. 709 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:20,680 Speaker 2: In the forties and fifties. 710 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,960 Speaker 3: So just to say those countries don't have Jews living 711 00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:27,320 Speaker 3: there and they don't you know, have full of reti. 712 00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:30,239 Speaker 1: Doesn't mean they don't live there. It means that there's 713 00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:36,080 Speaker 1: an oppressive government that penalizes one race over the other 714 00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:37,520 Speaker 1: and fields so. 715 00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:40,120 Speaker 3: Jews for the few Jews that are left in these places, 716 00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:44,440 Speaker 3: they cannot live safely and comfortably. It is certainly a 717 00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:46,879 Speaker 3: scary and terrifying way to be one of the lone 718 00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:49,120 Speaker 3: Jews left in Iraq or Iran. That sort of a thing. 719 00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,080 Speaker 3: So I think in terms of the Israeli Arabs, they 720 00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:56,680 Speaker 3: have full citizenship, they have there have you know, made 721 00:41:56,719 --> 00:42:00,400 Speaker 3: success in many of their careers. Then there's the separate 722 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:05,800 Speaker 3: issue of Palestinians. Israel has offered or sort of the 723 00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:09,080 Speaker 3: world the un different entities have offered Palestinians their own 724 00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:13,640 Speaker 3: state on five occasions. In two thousand, Bill Clinton sat 725 00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 3: down with Arafat and you know, he was basically offered 726 00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:23,920 Speaker 3: ninety four percent of the West Bank Gaza, East Jerusalem. 727 00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:28,200 Speaker 3: Bill Clinton said that Arafat said no fourteen times in 728 00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:31,160 Speaker 3: two weeks and never once asked for a counter offer. 729 00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 3: Five years eight years later, Ahood almart sat down with 730 00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:39,680 Speaker 3: Mohammad Abas to offer even more land, and he still 731 00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 3: said no. Instead of giving a counter offer, they came 732 00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,800 Speaker 3: back with violence, and in the middle of that, Israel 733 00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:50,279 Speaker 3: unilaterally left Gaza and again gave them a piece of 734 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,239 Speaker 3: land that they could have turned into Palestine and could 735 00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:55,560 Speaker 3: have built up and could have taken care of their citizens. 736 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,800 Speaker 3: That was the dream your average Israeli and your average 737 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,719 Speaker 3: Jew once the two states. The problem is that when 738 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,520 Speaker 3: over and over again you offer two state solution and 739 00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,480 Speaker 3: what they say again and they're saying this at March, 740 00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:09,120 Speaker 3: is they want a one state solution, and a one 741 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:12,680 Speaker 3: state solution means the death of Jews, the end of Jews. 742 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,800 Speaker 3: And when you see these protesters, and I've seen a 743 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:18,200 Speaker 3: bunch of videos online where they say where should the 744 00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:18,680 Speaker 3: Jews go? 745 00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:20,080 Speaker 2: They say Jews should go to Hell. 746 00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:23,160 Speaker 3: So, you know, I think if there are people that 747 00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:26,240 Speaker 3: you can work with and both sides are saying they want. 748 00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:28,560 Speaker 1: You, you can't demonize people. 749 00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:29,640 Speaker 2: No, I'm not saying a people. 750 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:33,960 Speaker 3: I'm mentioning the leaders that the leadership has rejected. 751 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:38,080 Speaker 1: Well, Justice Thod NETANYAHUO doesn't represent the vast majority of 752 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:42,239 Speaker 1: Jewish people in Israel. I don't think that Hamas represents 753 00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:43,879 Speaker 1: the Palestinian people. 754 00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:47,719 Speaker 3: Or the Palestinian authority. Look between Hamas and the Palestinian authority. 755 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:50,600 Speaker 3: Just a few months ago, the people of Gaza were 756 00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:53,520 Speaker 3: polled and eighty eight percent said they would vote for 757 00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:55,480 Speaker 3: Hamas or the Palestinian authority. 758 00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,720 Speaker 1: Both you know, are It's kind of what I'm hearing, Allison. 759 00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,879 Speaker 1: And this is why it's so pressing to me, is 760 00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:06,759 Speaker 1: what I'm hearing from Jewish friends who I love, who 761 00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,600 Speaker 1: I have been friends with for many, many, many years, 762 00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,440 Speaker 1: is there's nothing we can do. We have to do this. 763 00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:17,399 Speaker 1: There's justification for genocide. And I know that's a word 764 00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:21,759 Speaker 1: that that infuriates people, but it's so hard to witness it, 765 00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:25,800 Speaker 1: to watch it, and to think what those horrible people 766 00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:29,640 Speaker 1: did on the seventh is you know, we're going to 767 00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,280 Speaker 1: outevil them by. 768 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:35,000 Speaker 3: What so was I'm defeating the Nazis genocide of Germany. 769 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:39,839 Speaker 1: No, defeating the Nazis was not because we didn't go 770 00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,920 Speaker 1: and try to kill innocent people. When we were we 771 00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:43,960 Speaker 1: killed the Nazis. 772 00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:47,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, but four million civilians died in Germany during World 773 00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,239 Speaker 3: War two, es far during World War Yes, but this 774 00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:53,240 Speaker 3: but this is a war though, this is not between 775 00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:53,920 Speaker 3: two countries. 776 00:44:53,920 --> 00:45:00,839 Speaker 1: It's between one very very militarized country, a group of 777 00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:01,840 Speaker 1: oppressed people. 778 00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 3: So here's the thing that I'm gonna say, with kindness 779 00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:09,960 Speaker 3: and with respect, I think when you describe the power 780 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,960 Speaker 3: of Israel, those powerful Jews, I think, unknowingly you are 781 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:17,560 Speaker 3: stepping into an anti Semitic trope, which I don't blame 782 00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:19,279 Speaker 3: you for because I really do believe you have a 783 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,719 Speaker 3: kind heart and you love your Jewish friends. But I 784 00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,759 Speaker 3: do think that when you view the Palestinians as the 785 00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:28,560 Speaker 3: oppressed people and the big, bad, powerful Jew on the 786 00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:32,399 Speaker 3: other side, I really do think that that is an 787 00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,360 Speaker 3: ancient anti Semitic trope of the powerful Jews. 788 00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:39,040 Speaker 1: We'll be back with Alice and Josephs right after this. 789 00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:04,799 Speaker 3: During Passover, when we talk about the ten plagues, we 790 00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:08,440 Speaker 3: take ten drops of wine out of our cup because 791 00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,600 Speaker 3: even though the Egyptians enslaved us for two hundred and 792 00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:16,839 Speaker 3: ten years, Jewish values implore us to feel even the 793 00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:20,560 Speaker 3: pain of our enemies. And so again, I can't speak 794 00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:22,480 Speaker 3: for every single Israeli, but what I will tell you 795 00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:25,920 Speaker 3: is that when an Israeli Jewish person commits a crime, 796 00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:29,000 Speaker 3: they go to jail. There is it's a democracy, and 797 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:33,719 Speaker 3: there are consequences. There is no democracy right now under 798 00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:37,160 Speaker 3: Hamas's rule. And I think, you know, I think the 799 00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:39,680 Speaker 3: reason your Jewish friends are reacting so strongly is because 800 00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,879 Speaker 3: there is no moral equivalence between a terror organization who 801 00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:48,240 Speaker 3: stated mission is to annihilate all Jews and an army 802 00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:51,520 Speaker 3: of a sovereign democratic nation who is simply trying to 803 00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:55,239 Speaker 3: protect its citizens from getting hacked up, like literally like 804 00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,160 Speaker 3: children with their arms cut off. 805 00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:01,320 Speaker 1: Can't say that, Alison, we see we see baby's arms 806 00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:04,239 Speaker 1: being pulled from the rubble every day. So how can 807 00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:05,160 Speaker 1: you help what we not? 808 00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:06,359 Speaker 2: This is what I would love. 809 00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:07,640 Speaker 1: Which evil is worse? 810 00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:12,640 Speaker 3: I think the evil that targets innocence is for sure worse. 811 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:14,560 Speaker 3: What I would love to see as a solution is 812 00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:18,960 Speaker 3: have Egypt open its border, have a temporary you know, 813 00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:22,359 Speaker 3: time and place for Palestinians to make a safe exit out. 814 00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,880 Speaker 3: Let Israel do its job to finish off Kramas, because 815 00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,840 Speaker 3: it will protect not only Jews, but anyone in the 816 00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:32,880 Speaker 3: world who is peace loving and has liberal values. You know, 817 00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:36,400 Speaker 3: we are we are living in basically the worst case scenario. 818 00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:38,880 Speaker 3: Like we're not at the gas chambers yet, rosy, but 819 00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:43,439 Speaker 3: like people. The day after October seventh, my husband went 820 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:46,680 Speaker 3: to the train station, Penn Station, and there was a 821 00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:50,160 Speaker 3: rally celebrating Israel had not done any response yet, and 822 00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:54,319 Speaker 3: there was simply a celebration of Ramas supporters that were 823 00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:55,560 Speaker 3: out there in this country. 824 00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:58,479 Speaker 1: Shame on them, it's shame on their soul. 825 00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:01,320 Speaker 3: This is and this is happening all over the world. 826 00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:05,120 Speaker 3: And look, we all want peace. We pray for peace 827 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,839 Speaker 3: three times a day as Jewish people, and we see 828 00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:10,640 Speaker 3: that as a piece, a worldwide piece. But we will 829 00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:13,000 Speaker 3: not sit back and be killed and we will not 830 00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:14,280 Speaker 3: be defenseless Jews. 831 00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:16,880 Speaker 2: And that's my message. 832 00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:20,399 Speaker 1: Well, you know what, Alison, I've admired you and how 833 00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:23,120 Speaker 1: you speak up for your people and what you believe, 834 00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:27,200 Speaker 1: and I have loved engaging with you. And you know, 835 00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,920 Speaker 1: I am deeply troubled, as many millions of people are 836 00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:38,799 Speaker 1: across the world by what's happening. And it's really so 837 00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:43,719 Speaker 1: unbearably depressing to me that it's hard to function. And 838 00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:47,520 Speaker 1: instead of saying things that I believe on the internet, 839 00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,799 Speaker 1: because you know, the serenity, prayer, the wisdom to know 840 00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:53,160 Speaker 1: the difference the things you can change and the things 841 00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:56,120 Speaker 1: you can change, there's nothing that a hashtag is going 842 00:48:56,200 --> 00:49:01,399 Speaker 1: to change in this, you know, a biblical problem. That's 843 00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,640 Speaker 1: that's it's it's it's it's not going to change. So 844 00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:09,240 Speaker 1: I've been resorting to doing videos about my squirrels because 845 00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:13,200 Speaker 1: I can't I can't bear it, Alison. The truth is 846 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,040 Speaker 1: I can't bear it. Just like your soul was crushed 847 00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:19,080 Speaker 1: at eight years old and your spirit opened up, I think, 848 00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:22,799 Speaker 1: you know, my soul was crushed as well, by by 849 00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:26,680 Speaker 1: war and by having to visualize it. And and then 850 00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,760 Speaker 1: the the people all over the world who do have power, 851 00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:33,120 Speaker 1: the television industry, they decided we're not going to show 852 00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:36,879 Speaker 1: war anymore because it upsets the masses too much, you. 853 00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:38,960 Speaker 2: Know, like your father, like your fat. 854 00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:44,320 Speaker 1: And now you know, we get it in our handheld devices, 855 00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:48,319 Speaker 1: and it's it's it's too much, it's too harrowing. And 856 00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:51,000 Speaker 1: you know, I grew up a Catholic kid where nobody 857 00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:55,560 Speaker 1: said I love you, and nobody, uh was very mushbooky 858 00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,320 Speaker 1: or you know. And I went over to Lourie Shackner's 859 00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:01,319 Speaker 1: house and her mother kissed me on both cheeks and 860 00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:04,600 Speaker 1: my mom had just died and hugged me and they 861 00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:07,920 Speaker 1: had a shag rug and leather couches. And I have 862 00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:12,360 Speaker 1: held Jewish people in very high regard in my life, 863 00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:15,080 Speaker 1: almost as a goal of something to want to be. 864 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:18,319 Speaker 1: I've loved my kids, I think like a Jewish mother 865 00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:21,680 Speaker 1: loves her children. And I learned it from watching the 866 00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:26,280 Speaker 1: families on Long Island, and you know, to be called 867 00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:29,920 Speaker 1: anti semitic, my son had a brisk performed by Amoil. 868 00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:33,759 Speaker 1: I am not anti Semitic, and to be accused of 869 00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:38,399 Speaker 1: it by people that you love is unbearably painful. It's 870 00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:42,719 Speaker 1: such a horrific thing to accuse someone of, especially when 871 00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:44,640 Speaker 1: that's not the truth for them. 872 00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 3: I very much respect your position, and I really do 873 00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:51,799 Speaker 3: believe you're coming from a good place, So I will 874 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:54,080 Speaker 3: give you my stamp of approval from that place. 875 00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,640 Speaker 1: Well, thank you, I'll take it. I'll take it. 876 00:50:56,719 --> 00:51:00,279 Speaker 3: But what I would, I guess, just have you and 877 00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:03,879 Speaker 3: any of your listeners just sort of consider examine is 878 00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:09,240 Speaker 3: that we don't have We don't want to die again. Basically, 879 00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:12,399 Speaker 3: we don't want another October seventh. If the world would 880 00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 3: partner with Israel and take in refugees so we could 881 00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:18,120 Speaker 3: just get rid of the people that are vowing to 882 00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:22,040 Speaker 3: come in and massacre us over and over again, Israel 883 00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:25,360 Speaker 3: would take it in a heartbeat. This is they're literally 884 00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:27,360 Speaker 3: trying to do whatever they can. And I know you 885 00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:28,279 Speaker 3: say that you doubt that. 886 00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:31,879 Speaker 1: I No, I don't doubt that. It just it sure 887 00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:34,360 Speaker 1: doesn't look like it from this point of view. You 888 00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:37,680 Speaker 1: know what, war is a horrible thing. I think nobody 889 00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:40,480 Speaker 1: is going to downplay how horrific war is. This is 890 00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:42,280 Speaker 1: not a world that Israel wanted. 891 00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:46,000 Speaker 3: The people that Hamas attacked in that rave, in that festival, 892 00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:49,080 Speaker 3: those were the peace lovers. They thought a woman that 893 00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:52,279 Speaker 3: spent her life building bridges and seeing the best in 894 00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:55,959 Speaker 3: humanity and like it didn't matter. And like I would say, 895 00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:58,560 Speaker 3: that's you know, maybe some of the worst of this 896 00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,279 Speaker 3: that the people that wanted to sort of have that 897 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:05,120 Speaker 3: vision of how we all live together and understand each other. 898 00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:09,080 Speaker 3: Ramas is just like in a whole different universe right now, 899 00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:12,360 Speaker 3: and while they walk the earth, we are all in danger. 900 00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:14,960 Speaker 2: And I think, really like what the goal is. 901 00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:18,440 Speaker 3: And when I speak about the Israeli army, like I 902 00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:22,000 Speaker 3: don't you've met Jewish men before, We're not necessarily like 903 00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:25,680 Speaker 3: the rambo macho type. Like these are mostly like family 904 00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:28,560 Speaker 3: guys that are going home and just want to I 905 00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:31,399 Speaker 3: don't know, not be fighting. They're doing this so that 906 00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:35,040 Speaker 3: their wives and children don't end up like hacked up 907 00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:39,719 Speaker 3: and you know, gang raped. It's really like, I know, 908 00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:42,160 Speaker 3: you don't like the outcome, and neither do I, but 909 00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:45,960 Speaker 3: to not do anything could mean the annihilation of the 910 00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:49,000 Speaker 3: Jewish people. So if any countries want to get involved, 911 00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:51,960 Speaker 3: to take in refugees, open the corridor in Egypt, let 912 00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:55,280 Speaker 3: Palestinians get a safe you know, exit away, so Israel 913 00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:59,000 Speaker 3: can eradicate Ramas. That is the goal. I have a 914 00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:02,960 Speaker 3: ton of Israeli fans. They are terrified, and they're also 915 00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 3: resolute that we're not going to have another Holocaust. We 916 00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:10,080 Speaker 3: will defend ourselves, and we won't be ashamed of defending ourselves. 917 00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:14,799 Speaker 1: Okay, and don't be ashamed when some people don't understand, 918 00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:19,920 Speaker 1: because it's hard to understand sometimes. You know, nobody wants that. 919 00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:24,560 Speaker 1: Nobody wants another Holocaust. Nobody wants another you know, nobody 920 00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:28,280 Speaker 1: wants anti ramp at, anti Semitism that's occurring in college 921 00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:31,600 Speaker 1: campuses all over the world. And you know, I mean, 922 00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:35,320 Speaker 1: it's uh, it feels like the end of the world 923 00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:40,680 Speaker 1: to me. And that's that's the most depressing part of it. 924 00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:44,600 Speaker 3: So I will say, as a person of faith in 925 00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:49,200 Speaker 3: the Jewish tradition, we have this concept of yamosamashiach of 926 00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,719 Speaker 3: you know, of a Messianic era where there will be 927 00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:55,920 Speaker 3: world peace and nations will you know, lad down their 928 00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:59,759 Speaker 3: sores and turn their swords into plowshares. And it is 929 00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:03,120 Speaker 3: some times hard to picture how that could happen. And 930 00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:05,440 Speaker 3: get what I'll tell you is that I have felt 931 00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:09,400 Speaker 3: more unity and sort of brotherhood with fellow Jews in 932 00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:11,440 Speaker 3: a way that I've never felt in my life before. 933 00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:14,440 Speaker 3: That is one of the signs that Jewish tradition says 934 00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:18,040 Speaker 3: will happen before these days of peace, worldwide peace. 935 00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:21,640 Speaker 2: So I'm continuing to pray and to hold I'm. 936 00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,400 Speaker 1: For worldwide piece too else and that's my whole goal. 937 00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:28,920 Speaker 1: And and the end of the end of this, because 938 00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:34,360 Speaker 1: it's it's so unbearably painful, I'll give it an amin. 939 00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:36,520 Speaker 1: I'll give it one as well, shall own to you 940 00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:39,840 Speaker 1: and to all of Israel and to all of its people. 941 00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:44,279 Speaker 1: I don't want anyone killed, I don't want anyone terrorized. 942 00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:47,200 Speaker 1: And I thank you for being here. This is, you know, 943 00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:49,200 Speaker 1: a conversation that I think is going to happen a 944 00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:53,279 Speaker 1: lot of Thanksgiving homes and and let's hope that that 945 00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:56,799 Speaker 1: we can have conversations like this one where no one 946 00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:00,520 Speaker 1: accuses someone or yells at someone or you know, bases 947 00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:04,120 Speaker 1: them and then Hopefully that's the path that will go 948 00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:08,440 Speaker 1: down together, walking together to find peace in this world. Finally, 949 00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:10,240 Speaker 1: you know, thank. 950 00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,080 Speaker 2: You, thanks so much. Thanks for the platform to do it. 951 00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:26,759 Speaker 1: You're more than welcome. We're not going to take any 952 00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:30,439 Speaker 1: questions today. I just wanted to offer this conversation which 953 00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:35,440 Speaker 1: maybe will bring some solace. This Thursday is Thanksgiving. Be 954 00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:38,760 Speaker 1: with your tribe, your blood, your family, your chosen family, 955 00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:42,560 Speaker 1: your friends and loved ones. Find some peace with each 956 00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:45,239 Speaker 1: other if you can, and I'll see you back on 957 00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:48,440 Speaker 1: December fifth with one of the most fabulous humans around 958 00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:51,600 Speaker 1: Murray Hill. Till then, people onward,