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Speaker 3: Thank you, nephew. Subjects.

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Speaker 1: So what I burned a few things? Oh, Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight years old and I've been married for

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Speaker 1: three years. I've caught my husband cheating on me recently,

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Speaker 1: and I burned a few of his personal belongings and

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Speaker 1: he can't get over it. He was cheating kick on

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Speaker 1: the car whatever at a popular hookup spot where the

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Speaker 1: younger kids go to have sex. He and I used

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Speaker 1: to go there when we were younger, and we enjoyed

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Speaker 1: sneaking around and having sex. I never imagined he would

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Speaker 1: cheat on me and then cheat in a spot that

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Speaker 1: he could get caught. The most embarrassing part is that.

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Speaker 1: My younger cousin saw him and called me. He and

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Speaker 1: the woman were on the back seat and their clothes

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Speaker 1: were on the front seat.

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Speaker 3: I stood and watched.

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Speaker 1: For a minute, watched him for a minute, and then

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Speaker 1: I opened the door and took all of their clothes.

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Speaker 1: I threw my coke on him, and some of them

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Speaker 1: got in her eyes, so she didn't see me.

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Speaker 2: I went home and I.

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Speaker 1: Burned their clothes they were wearing, and all of his

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Speaker 1: underwear and socks. I don't know why I burned his

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Speaker 1: underwear and socks, but I had seen.

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Speaker 3: The be quiet.

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Speaker 1: But I had seen my mother burn my stepdad stuff,

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Speaker 1: and it was in a movie when I was younger,

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Speaker 1: so I snapped. I did it in a field by

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Speaker 1: our apartment so I wouldn't go to jail because I

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Speaker 1: remembered my mom got fined for doing it years ago.

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Speaker 1: My husband drove up wearing only a T shirt, and

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Speaker 1: he put out the fire.

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Speaker 3: It's the visual.

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Speaker 1: I jumped on him, and all I remember after that

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Speaker 1: is my neighbor pulling me off of him. This mess

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Speaker 1: could have been avoided if he had not cheated on me.

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Speaker 1: I was willing to try to get our marriage back

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Speaker 1: on track, but he says I'm crazy and he's afraid

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Speaker 1: of me. He knows I only reacted out of rage

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Speaker 1: and I wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: Ever act like that normally.

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Speaker 1: Why can't he see that he's the reason his clothes

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Speaker 1: got burned? Why is he trying to make this my fault?

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Speaker 1: It's not It is not your fault at all. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is all on him, And don't you dare let

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Speaker 1: him try to flip this on you. He got caught cheating,

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Speaker 1: he got caught in his car neckd He should be

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Speaker 1: thanking you that you didn't burn him and her right

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Speaker 1: after that. I need you to get focused. I need

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Speaker 1: you to stop blaming yourself immediately for him cheating on

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Speaker 1: you even apologize. He's not even done.

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Speaker 3: He called you crazy. Wasn't he the one cheating in.

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Speaker 1: A hookup spot where young people go now and where

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Speaker 1: you guys used to go.

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Speaker 3: Now Taking a chance like.

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Speaker 1: That, that's crazy. Okay, he's trying to make this your

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Speaker 1: fault because that's all he has, that's all he's got

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Speaker 1: to work with. He wasn't just caught with his pants down,

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Speaker 1: they were off, They were in the front seat.

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Speaker 3: He had to drive home in just a T shirt.

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Speaker 1: So if he starts making you feel wrong for what

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Speaker 1: you did, the burning and all, then that's what you'll

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Speaker 1: focus on, not the wrong he did, not the pain

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Speaker 1: he caused you, not the hurt, not the mistrust that

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Speaker 3: That's what cheeters do when they get caught. They try

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Speaker 3: to flip it.

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Speaker 1: Tell him, yes, you are crazy for even considering taking

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Speaker 1: him back after that, and tell him if he keeps on,

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Speaker 1: you'll show him what crazy is for real, for real,

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Speaker 1: and he better be glad you didn't burn the whole

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Speaker 3: All right, but I know you live in the house.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, Yeah, come on, Steve's out of here fast.

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Speaker 4: Shirley's response is one spot on them. Everything Shirley said

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Speaker 4: to you is true. This is just a simple case

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Speaker 4: of the best defense is a good offense.

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Speaker 2: That's all this is.

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Speaker 4: This is him taking this and making you the villain

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Speaker 4: for the act that you did.

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Speaker 2: It's so many things in this letter that's crazy. Now.

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Speaker 4: First of all, you're twenty eight years old, so I'm

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Speaker 4: assuming that you all around to saying age. You've been

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Speaker 4: personal items and he can't get over it. He can't

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Speaker 4: get over that. Well, you can't get over yours either.

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Speaker 4: See what you can't do is let him out get

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Speaker 4: not get over it. You know you're saying he can't

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Speaker 4: get over it. You can't let him out, not get

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Speaker 4: over it. You got to get further not get over

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Speaker 4: it than him, if you know what I'm trying to

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Speaker 4: tell you. You can't let him beat you at this game.

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Speaker 4: Women are the best at this. There's nobody greater at

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Speaker 4: not getting over something than women.

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Speaker 2: They are the best at it. They know how to make.

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Speaker 4: You gravel, crawl back, pay over and over and over,

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Speaker 4: bring it up years later on the same date at

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Speaker 4: the same time.

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Speaker 2: You need to get in that mold right there.

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Speaker 4: He was cheating in his car at the popular hookup

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Speaker 4: spot where younger kids go to handset. Y'all used to

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Speaker 4: go there when y'all was younger. What and you like

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Speaker 4: doing it? But you didn't never imagine that he would

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Speaker 4: cheat on you and cheat on the spot that he

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Speaker 4: could get caught Old Habits, that's where he been going.

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Speaker 4: He's been going down there to that spot.

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Speaker 5: Nah.

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Speaker 4: The embarrassing part you say for you is your younger

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Speaker 4: cousin saw him and called me. That's what just was

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Speaker 4: a girl. Hopefully he and the woman were on the backseat.

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Speaker 4: They closed on the front seat.

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Speaker 2: Blood. Have message. Don't be a way from your clothes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, one more time.

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Speaker 4: Come on whatever, go away from your clothes. Take your

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Speaker 4: clothes with you. That old that's what you're supposed to

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Speaker 4: put them. That's stupid. You put them clothes up in

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Speaker 4: the back window. You got to he put them clothes

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Speaker 4: on the floor. You got to have them closed by you.

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Speaker 4: No ever separate from your clothes. Lord.

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Speaker 2: Stupid. Yes, you're so stupid.

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Speaker 3: Hold on, Steve, hold and keep it right there.

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Speaker 5: All right.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject of today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter is so what I burned a few things.

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Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter and get your response.

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 4: This is a letter that's ridiculous that should never get written.

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Speaker 4: Shirley gave the proper response to all of it. I

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Speaker 4: strongly suggest you follow all of Sharley's advice. But what

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Speaker 4: I was just telling you it doesn't make any sense.

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Speaker 4: This is a typical example of the best office. The

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Speaker 4: best defense is a good office. So get off defense

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Speaker 4: and get on office. And that's what he's doing to you.

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Speaker 4: He's making it about what you did with his stupid

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Speaker 4: went down there to place y'all used to cheat at

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Speaker 4: when y'all was younger. He twenty eight. He could still

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Speaker 4: do that. You never imagine he cheat on you had

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Speaker 4: the spot he could get caught. But then your younger

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Speaker 2: Why are you separate from your clothes? Listen to this.

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Speaker 2: If you are not in.

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Speaker 4: Your house or in your hotel room, you have to

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Speaker 4: have him close close by. If you are visiting someone

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Speaker 4: else's house, you must be able to reach and text

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Speaker 4: your clothes at all oh number to breach.

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Speaker 2: They never have your clothes out of reach.

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Speaker 4: You don't know who she know when he come in

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Speaker 4: What rule number two? When you in the car doing stuff,

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Speaker 4: commit a full two minutes to your business without looking. Man,

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Speaker 4: I'd have been in the car before you got to look.

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Speaker 4: It's hard place to go, but you got to look.

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Speaker 4: I stood and watched for a minute. Then I opened

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Speaker 4: if your clothes was in reach, it's no way you're

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Speaker 4: gonna let your wife take your clothes. I threw my

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Speaker 4: coke on him, and some of it got in her eyes,

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Speaker 2: What Who did she think it was? Girl? It was coke.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't acid. Yeah, she saw you.

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Speaker 4: I went home and burned their clothes they were wearing,

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Speaker 4: and all of his underwearing socks. I don't know why

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Speaker 4: burned his underwearing socks. But I seen my mother burn

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Speaker 4: my stepdad's cause. And it was in a movie when

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Speaker 4: I was younger. That's that's thin line. Yeah, and it's

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Speaker 4: I ain't see it anyway. I tried to do a

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Speaker 4: movie reference, but I didn't see it anyway. The movie

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Speaker 4: right there and they burned. I thought Marl Lawns had

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Speaker 5: He was pretty rough now living with you, Yeah, but

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Speaker 5: the movie she talking about his waiting anyway.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, anyway, that is a movie and it got

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Speaker 4: very popular. A lot of me and lost their clothes

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Speaker 4: because of this movie.

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Speaker 2: I want to see that too. In the car, so

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Speaker 2: and they cause uh so.

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Speaker 4: I didn't go to my husband, drove up wearing only

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Speaker 2: This boy right here and got his half niggati.

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Speaker 4: He's stomping on the fire, barefoot shirt on. This boy

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Speaker 4: must have been proud of herself. Barefoot putting this fire

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Speaker 4: out with just this T shirt on. And you you

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Speaker 4: started the fire that on the street, in an empty lot.

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Speaker 4: Whole lot caught on fire. I'm not going out that.

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Speaker 4: I you, it's too late to save your clothes. My

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Speaker 4: I remember is that the neighbor pulling me off or

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Speaker 4: his half naked he got a T shirt on.

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Speaker 2: I don't know you. It's hard to fight with no

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Speaker 2: drawers on.

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Speaker 4: I'm just it's very it's very, very difficult, don't.

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Speaker 3: Is it hard to drive with no underwear on?

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Speaker 4: What you don't want to do is stop pull up

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Speaker 4: next to a truck. They can look down, stick it down.

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Speaker 4: They see you. So if you pull up next to

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Speaker 4: a truck, you gotta stay behind the door. I've done

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Speaker 4: all this right here, like a long story, but I've

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Speaker 4: done all this right here. Nothing seat is hot and quicker.

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Speaker 4: So now you got out getting jumped on him? He

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Speaker 4: half nicka, got a T shirt on, his stomping barefoot.

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Speaker 4: He from Africa or some player or either Hes Caribbean

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Speaker 4: where he do fire walking. I don't know who can

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Speaker 4: jump out they car and stump a fire out, And

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Speaker 4: why would he care? It's down the street anyway, all

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Speaker 4: you remembers your neighbor pull off. This mess could have

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Speaker 4: been avoided had he not cheated on me. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 4: that's true. I was willing to try to get our

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Speaker 4: marriage back on track. But he says I'm crazy and

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Speaker 4: he's afraid of me, as he should be. As he

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Speaker 4: should be, there's an element of fear that should reside

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Speaker 4: in his life from here on after. Yes, you crazy,

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Speaker 4: and he should be afraid of you. He knows that

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Speaker 4: you ever reacted out of anger and rage. That would

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Speaker 4: I would never act like that normally. Wait a minute,

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Speaker 4: normally when do you normally find your husband in the

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Speaker 4: back seat nicked with somebody else with their clothes on

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Speaker 4: the front seat.

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Speaker 2: There's nothing normal about this. Why are you?

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Speaker 4: How did you allow him to do this to you?

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Speaker 4: Why can't he see that he's the reason his clothes

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Speaker 4: got burned? No, no, no, I don't give it. But

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Speaker 4: if you can't get over, as a matter of fact,

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Speaker 4: so you don't get over, I'm finna burn two of

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Speaker 4: your suits.

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Speaker 2: Fuck letting me catch you cheap.

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Speaker 4: You just cart stop letting him do you this way.

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Speaker 4: It's his fault. I burned your clothes because you cheated

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Speaker 4: on me. That's why I did it. Get over right,

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Speaker 4: all right to me? Because I don't want you'll.

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