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Speaker 1: Maria is telling me, guys that she's very proud of
Speaker 1: me for the weight that I've lost and that she
Speaker 1: is a curvy woman and wants to know not exactly
Speaker 1: how I lost weight. But what I did when I
Speaker 1: was heavier to feel better, because she says that she
Speaker 1: feels depressed a lot, and she just wants to feel
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Speaker 1: yea timism okay, guys. So I told her a lot
Speaker 1: of things. I told know a lot of things, but basically,
Speaker 1: Hanna na Shell, I was just telling her that giving
Speaker 1: yourself positive affirmations and it might sound silly to some people,
Speaker 1: but it really does help, and it helps at least
Speaker 1: to say something positive out loud than something negative, because
Speaker 1: saying something negative is going to bring more darkness to you.
Speaker 1: So I'd rather be look like, Okay, you know, she's
Speaker 1: just this positive, little hippie person, you know, So say
Speaker 1: something beautiful to yourself, and not only that, but choose
Speaker 1: to say I want to love myself enough to feed
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Speaker 1: toxins and feed my body so that it functions better
Speaker 1: in every way, so that I feel better, so that
Speaker 1: I have more clarity. I'm focusing more on the inner work,
Speaker 1: on your heart and knowing who you are and working
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Speaker 1: Because yes, there's always going to be more beautiful women
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Speaker 1: we focus on that, we're not focusing on ourselves. And
Speaker 1: the work is inner. It's inner work in order to
Speaker 1: radiate differently on the outside. I told her so many things.
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Speaker 1: but that's what I told her, you know. So Maria
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Speaker 1: we have one last question from an anonymous listener.
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Speaker 1: Gon hmm, we went listeners is de primero. So this
Speaker 1: s anonymous listener is asking about the relationship I was
Speaker 1: in when my mom was here, like the last year
Speaker 1: of her life, and then after she passed, and if
Speaker 1: I felt obligated in some way to stay in that relationship,
Speaker 1: and if I could give her some advice on what
Speaker 1: I think regarding parents not approving of a significant other.
Speaker 1: So that's a pretty heavy question. I talked about this
Speaker 1: in my book Forgiveness. I thought it was very important
Speaker 1: to to express this because I did get a lot
Speaker 1: of backlash because my mother and you know this ex
Speaker 1: boyfriend actually ex fiance, we were engaged. They had a
Speaker 1: very public argument. It got very nasty, and he said
Speaker 1: some very not nice things in my defense because he
Speaker 1: was trying to defend me. He was very upset with
Speaker 1: how my mom was handling certain things at that time,
Speaker 1: and at that time I felt very alone. I felt
Speaker 1: like everyone had turned their back on me, and what
Speaker 1: was being said was not only not true, but ridiculous
Speaker 1: in my eyes. And I just couldn't believe that my
Speaker 1: mom would even for a second think that I would
Speaker 1: do something like that. So I was upset. I went
Speaker 1: through so many different emotions, and so he was my
Speaker 1: partner at that time, and he heard me cry, and
Speaker 1: he saw me cry, and he saw how depressed I was,
Speaker 1: so he was upset. He said some very not nice
Speaker 1: things to my mom publicly. He was drunk. That's not
Speaker 1: an excuse, and I don't excuse what he said, but
Speaker 1: in that moment, I felt like, Wow, at least someone's
Speaker 1: defending me, someone's on my side, and someone's standing up
Speaker 1: to her in a way. So anyway, that's a whole
Speaker 1: that's a whole other story. But I will say that
Speaker 1: even despite that, and I did feel after, I think
Speaker 1: because I had stayed with him and then my mom
Speaker 1: passed away. And I don't know if I ever said
Speaker 1: this in my book. I don't remember, but him and
Speaker 1: I were actually fighting when my mom passed away, and
Speaker 1: we started talking again because my mom passed away and
Speaker 1: he was there for me, not physically because he wasn't
Speaker 1: really allowed around my family and I had to be
Speaker 1: there for my siblings. But he was there for me,
Speaker 1: and I did feel in some way like, Wow, he
Speaker 1: was there for me when no one else was. I'm
Speaker 1: going to try to make this relationship work. And people
Speaker 1: didn't like that, and people I got a lot of backlash,
Speaker 1: and I get it. I totally understand that. But I
Speaker 1: can say confidently now that no matter what, even if
Speaker 1: I don't agree with certain things my mom did and
Speaker 1: how she handled things, I think she was right when
Speaker 1: she said, I don't want this type of man for you.
Speaker 1: You know, he has five children. I don't want you
Speaker 1: to have baby mama drama. And I did have baby
Speaker 1: mama drama. Now his ex and I are super good friends.
Speaker 1: She's my homie. We go to dinner and stuff. I
Speaker 1: love his kids. His kids are still like I talk
Speaker 1: to them, I see them once in a while. They're great.
Speaker 1: But at that time it was very sticky, and so
Speaker 1: now I could say, yeah, my mom, she was right.
Speaker 1: And parents have this special gift of feeling things. They're
Speaker 1: your parents, they had you, you know, and if they
Speaker 1: tell you, hey, I don't know about this person's doesn't
Speaker 1: feel right. I would definitely listen. I'd be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a red flag for me. I'm just going to
Speaker 1: keep it there now. If you were to ask me,
Speaker 1: i'd probably say, Mom, you know what, there's something here. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm probably going to try to detangle myself from the
Speaker 1: situation as best as I can. Although we are humans
Speaker 1: and we need to go through our process and learn,
Speaker 1: I've always been very nest ya. I've always had to
Speaker 1: learn the hard way. I've been hard headed. I don't
Speaker 1: want to be anymore, but I was for a long time,
Speaker 1: and you grow out of that with time. So to
Speaker 1: my anonymous listener, I definitely would say that if your
Speaker 1: parent does it, like your significant other, there's a reason.
Speaker 1: There has to be something there. I can't obviously pinpoint
Speaker 1: it because I don't know the situation, but it is
Speaker 1: something that I would consider and take it either as
Speaker 1: a red flag or a yellow flag something as a
Speaker 1: warning to say, Okay, let me just have a little
Speaker 1: bit of a guard up. Because parents, most of the time,
Speaker 1: I want to say at least ninety five percent of
Speaker 1: the time, are usually right, especially our mothers. They have
Speaker 1: this special bond with us, So I would definitely listen
Speaker 1: to that in some way. That doesn't mean you have
Speaker 1: to make a decision right now, but just have that
Speaker 1: in the back of your mind and save it, you know,
Speaker 1: because I definitely every time my mom said something about
Speaker 1: a friend, most of the time she was right. So
Speaker 1: that's just my experience. But thank you so much for
Speaker 1: your question. Thank you all for your question. I love
Speaker 1: you guys, and trust me, this has been so heavy
Speaker 1: on me. The raids and how this is being handled,
Speaker 1: how this administration is handling things. I don't agree with it.
Speaker 1: I think it's very inhumane. I think it's incompassionate. I
Speaker 1: think it's not bringing anything good to the world. It's
Speaker 1: actually bringing a lot of tension. But this is where
Speaker 1: our power comes in and our prayers and coming together
Speaker 1: because unity is power and there's a lot of strength
Speaker 1: in that. So just remember that and be kind in
Speaker 1: the world. Please just radiate your light and be kind
Speaker 1: and don't be the one to add more fuel to
Speaker 1: the fire. And if you don't have anything nice to say,
Speaker 1: don't say anything at all. That's just my personal opinion,
Speaker 1: But thank you guys. This is a safe place for
Speaker 1: you guys to always ask me whatever you want to
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