WEBVTT - Michael Chandler

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<v Speaker 1>Caralam. She's the queen of talking. He was man, She's

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<v Speaker 1>only yes, actually got the scoop on on the on side.

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<v Speaker 1>No one can do with clid back Caral Lam, Carola.

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<v Speaker 1>No one can do with cuid Carala is timple, Caroline.

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<v Speaker 1>I am so excited about this episode. I have Michael

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<v Speaker 1>Chandler on today. He is a two time m M,

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<v Speaker 1>a world champion. Not only is he an incredible fighter,

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<v Speaker 1>I've watched him fight and it is insane. I've watched

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<v Speaker 1>him on pay per view, I've watched him on the internet.

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<v Speaker 1>This guy is crazy good. He is such a competitor,

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<v Speaker 1>he is so great, obviously a world champion, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>so positive. We talk all about how he stays motivated

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<v Speaker 1>the importance of self talk, positive self talk, and just

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<v Speaker 1>the power of believing in yourself. He is such an

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<v Speaker 1>inspirational person. I told him he needs to be an

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<v Speaker 1>inspirational speaker in his next life, because this guy is

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<v Speaker 1>the most positive, inspiring person you'll ever meet. Y'all get

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<v Speaker 1>excited Michael Chandler. Okay, I'm so stoked. Michael Chandler is

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<v Speaker 1>in the house, and oh my gosh, I feel a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit overwhelmed because you're a world champion. You are

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<v Speaker 1>a two time world champion of the lightweight division for

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<v Speaker 1>M m m A fighting and oh, we just tell me,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you get into this sport to begin with?

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<v Speaker 1>And it's so layered because people are confused, like someone

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<v Speaker 1>like me, is it boxing? Is a UFC? Is it

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<v Speaker 1>m m A? Is it? What's belatour? There's so many layers,

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<v Speaker 1>there's so many How did you get involved with this sport?

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<v Speaker 1>And now you are sitting at the top of your game.

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<v Speaker 1>So for me, it started out with just wrestling. I

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<v Speaker 1>wrestled in high school, wrestled in college. UM was in

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<v Speaker 1>love with the sport of wrestling. Well, I think for me,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't. I wasn't a big guy. Was I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna I wasn't going to excel at football because I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't big and tall and whatever. I wasn't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>excel at basketball. Um, wrestling was that perfect kind of

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<v Speaker 1>blue collar work hard and good things are going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>And it really is the toughest sport in the entire world.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything I think, Yeah, I mean, I think if if

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<v Speaker 1>you talk to anybody who's ever who has wrestled or

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<v Speaker 1>knows wrestlers that they will agree that it's it's that

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<v Speaker 1>grind and it's so hard and it's tough, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>and it's weight cutting, and when you're not weight cutting,

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<v Speaker 1>your training extremely hard. And then you couple them both

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<v Speaker 1>together and it's and it's constant ups and downs, an

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<v Speaker 1>emotional roller coaster. And it's maybe the man that I

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<v Speaker 1>am and the husband I am and the father I

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<v Speaker 1>will be, what did I teach? I mean, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's just the constant stick to itedness and the constant

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<v Speaker 1>just honestly getting beat down and then build build back

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<v Speaker 1>up and beat down and built back up. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>just that constant faith in that constant grounded nous of

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<v Speaker 1>knowing that if I show up every single day and

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<v Speaker 1>I laced my you know, I put my mouth piece in,

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<v Speaker 1>I lace my shoes up, and I go as hard

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<v Speaker 1>as I can I get outside of my carben zone,

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<v Speaker 1>good things are going to happen. And even when bad

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<v Speaker 1>things do happen, it's only a matter of time before

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<v Speaker 1>I'm back on top again or I win again. And

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<v Speaker 1>seeing that proven over and over again through this career

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<v Speaker 1>that you've chosen. Yeah, So so I think there's no

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<v Speaker 1>way that I would be sitting here as a multiple

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<v Speaker 1>time world champion without the sport of wrestling, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's it was great, and I wrestled at wrestling

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<v Speaker 1>in high school and then college wrestled at miszoo. Wrestling

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<v Speaker 1>is obviously different than m m A. Wrestling is not

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<v Speaker 1>quite as intensive m m A. Right, Well, to me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually a harder sport. I think. I think if

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<v Speaker 1>you if you watch the wrestling match and you watched

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<v Speaker 1>the m m A fight, you're gonna see, you know, punches, kicks, knees, elbows, cuts, bruising,

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<v Speaker 1>stitches in a m m A fight, knockout submissions. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But the sport of the sport of wrestling, the amount

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<v Speaker 1>of dedication that it takes to make it to that

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<v Speaker 1>top one per cent, is so much more than than

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<v Speaker 1>the sport of mixed martial arts. But when you talk

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<v Speaker 1>about intensity, when you talk about entertainment and blood and

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<v Speaker 1>guts and and crazy craziness and literally the volatility inside

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<v Speaker 1>of a competition, mixed martial arts is one of the

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<v Speaker 1>most exciting sports in the entire world. So you think

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<v Speaker 1>it's one of the more dangerous sports. Are you ever

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<v Speaker 1>worried about your health, Um, a little bit. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's I think it's ignorance is bliss type of situation

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<v Speaker 1>where yeah, you know, and I just think I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have been called to this sport. God would not have

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<v Speaker 1>called me to this sport. If you have great things

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<v Speaker 1>were going to happen or or harm was going to

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<v Speaker 1>be done. And I've had numerous sets of stitches. I've

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<v Speaker 1>had eyes swollen shut and lips turned inside out, and

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<v Speaker 1>injuries and losses and tears, and and I've been on

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<v Speaker 1>top of the world and I've been down in the dumps,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's been it's been such a crazy, crazy sport.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's you know, I just I truly believe that

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<v Speaker 1>I was I was put on this on this earth

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<v Speaker 1>to be a world champion and and reach people on

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<v Speaker 1>my platform. So I try not to think about it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. But your calling, Yeah, absolutely, because I am

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<v Speaker 1>very big on callings to I think we all have

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<v Speaker 1>a calling, and I think it's so important to take

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<v Speaker 1>the time to figure out what it is. But you

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<v Speaker 1>found yours fairly quickly right away in high school with wrestling,

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<v Speaker 1>with wrestling and that, so you just fell in love

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<v Speaker 1>with wrestling, and then you became the best at wrestling. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>well not as not as good as I wanted to be,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I think, you know, I think I fell

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<v Speaker 1>short in wrestling, and that's what really propelled me to

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<v Speaker 1>having a very successful mm A career. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>extremely extremely blessed. I was. I was the oldest of

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<v Speaker 1>three boys, you know, So I was I was the

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<v Speaker 1>I never had a big brother. But when I came

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<v Speaker 1>into college, I immediately started taking my lumps and getting

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<v Speaker 1>beat up by the upper classmans. And and um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's two guys right now who are world champions in

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<v Speaker 1>other organizations. So I fight for Bellator. There's the welterweight

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<v Speaker 1>champion of the UFC, Tyron Woodley, and there's the welter

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<v Speaker 1>weight champion of one FC, Ben Askerin who I wrestled

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<v Speaker 1>with both of them in college. Wow, So y'all kind

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<v Speaker 1>of rose And so you were telling me earlier Bellator.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like UFC Belotour, breakdown what those are for people

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<v Speaker 1>who might be confused on how it's all divided up. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So the sport is mixed martial arts. The sport is

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<v Speaker 1>m m A. We fight under the Unified Rules of

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<v Speaker 1>Mixed Martial Arts. And then yeah, so underneath the sport

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<v Speaker 1>of mixed martial arts there are different organizations and the organizations.

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<v Speaker 1>The first one was the UFC. They came in, came

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<v Speaker 1>around and basically started the sport in nine, I believe,

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<v Speaker 1>and then Belletre came around in two thousand and eight. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>there was Strike Forest, there's one FC, there's World Series

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<v Speaker 1>of Fighting. We're all the different organizations, and then under

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<v Speaker 1>those organizations are contracted fighters. So I'm I'm a ten

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<v Speaker 1>ninety nine employee to Bellaturers. So yeah, so I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>contracted in Bellotour and there's the guys in the UFC

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<v Speaker 1>and there's the guys in Belletour and NFC. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>cross promote, you know. And whenever my contract is up,

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<v Speaker 1>I either choose to resign a deal with Bellotour and

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<v Speaker 1>continue my services with them, or I sup around, I

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<v Speaker 1>become a free agent. Just like football, just like baseball,

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<v Speaker 1>just like basketball. Okay, there's a lot. It's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>such a powerful platform that you're on because you are

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<v Speaker 1>literally using your body as your instrument to have your platform,

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<v Speaker 1>to have your calling. And so the training, mental physical,

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<v Speaker 1>How do you mentally? Because I feel like so much

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<v Speaker 1>of it has to be mental. So when you're transferring

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<v Speaker 1>from wrestling and getting into m m A, are you

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<v Speaker 1>deciding in your mind then I'm going to be the best.

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<v Speaker 1>How what goes on in the process of you evolving

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<v Speaker 1>into this world ship champion? Well? I think that The

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<v Speaker 1>funny thing about the evolution of my careers is I

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<v Speaker 1>think there's been ups, and there's been downs, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>been There's been times where I have believed to myself,

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<v Speaker 1>and then there's been times where either I got complacent

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<v Speaker 1>with my self belief or I wasn't seeking that self

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<v Speaker 1>belief in that motivation and that and that positive self

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<v Speaker 1>talk that I should have been. And I find myself

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<v Speaker 1>positive self talk crucial. Oh my gosh, it's it's it

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<v Speaker 1>literally is everything I think. I mean in my career,

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<v Speaker 1>I came into the sport Sky High thinking, Okay, Michael,

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<v Speaker 1>you've you were an All American. I was an All

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<v Speaker 1>American and wrestling, which is which is a very small

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<v Speaker 1>percentage of people who can become All Americans at the

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<v Speaker 1>Division one wrestler as at the Division one wrestling UM

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<v Speaker 1>ranks in college. And so when I came into the sport,

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<v Speaker 1>I told myself, Okay, Michael, you've worked harder than all

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<v Speaker 1>these guys. You might not be as skilled, you might

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<v Speaker 1>not be as good on paper, you might not be

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<v Speaker 1>ranked a high, but you can go out there and

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<v Speaker 1>beat him. And literally a year and a half after

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<v Speaker 1>I stepped into the cage, I became world champion and

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<v Speaker 1>ranked the top five in the world. So within twenty

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<v Speaker 1>two months or something, I was world champion right out

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<v Speaker 1>of college. So I found success really quickly. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>think it's because you wanted it? Maybe more because obviously

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<v Speaker 1>you're at this point you all have talent. What separates

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<v Speaker 1>the world champions from the people who are all talented.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's toughness. I think it's I think it's consistency,

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<v Speaker 1>consistent belief and confident in expectancy of really truly believing

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<v Speaker 1>what you deserve, you know. And I think I think

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<v Speaker 1>in college, I would tell the reporters, or I would

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<v Speaker 1>tell my coach, or I would tell teammates, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be a national champion. I want to be a

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<v Speaker 1>national champion. And if you watch the way I trained,

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<v Speaker 1>I would train harder than everybody every single day. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but mentally, I didn't truly believe that I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a national champion. I didn't truly believe that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well I wasn't as much back then. I would tell

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<v Speaker 1>other people, but when it when it was just me

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<v Speaker 1>alone in my thoughts, it was the fear of being

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<v Speaker 1>successful or um I would you know. I can remember

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<v Speaker 1>numerous times where I was winning a match and all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden I would find a way to lose,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, so we would find way to lose. I

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<v Speaker 1>would sabotage, not on purpose, but I think it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's that cognitive dissonance and and it's this is that

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<v Speaker 1>what I've come So let me let me become a

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<v Speaker 1>psychologist really quickly. Uh no, but cognitive dissonance is basically

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<v Speaker 1>what I think, what is happening not truly lining up

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<v Speaker 1>with your beliefs. So so I was about to be

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<v Speaker 1>say a guy named Cepias Later who was ranked top

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<v Speaker 1>three in the country at the time, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>just a freshman sophomore. I wasn't supposed to beat him,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was up by like five or six points.

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<v Speaker 1>So what was happening in real life? I didn't line

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<v Speaker 1>up with my self belief. My self belief was you'll

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<v Speaker 1>never be able to beat later, You're not as good

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<v Speaker 1>as him. You didn't feel like you were ready yet

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<v Speaker 1>or something. Yeah, or you just fear of fear of

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<v Speaker 1>being fear of being great because you're not sure what

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<v Speaker 1>is on the other side of greatness, what what that

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<v Speaker 1>entails were, you know? So it's what is happening not

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<v Speaker 1>lining up with what you truly believe, you know. So

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't truly believe it that I could beat him,

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<v Speaker 1>so I would find a way, and I ended up

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<v Speaker 1>finding a way to lose. I got taken down and

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<v Speaker 1>then I got you let me go, and I got

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<v Speaker 1>taken down again, and it's a point system and I lost.

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<v Speaker 1>And after the match, it was kind of like, what

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<v Speaker 1>the heck just happened? How did you lose that match?

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<v Speaker 1>That you had that match? So it's so how do

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<v Speaker 1>you process it? How do you realize that you were

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<v Speaker 1>self sabotaging a little bit? I think I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>realize it till I didn't really realize that till after

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<v Speaker 1>college and I started fighting, and then I kind of changed.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's I think, really taking ownership of self belief,

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<v Speaker 1>taking ownership of self talk, taking ownership of of realizing that,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean a couple of generations ago, our parents are grandparents,

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't have YouTube, they didn't have podcasts, they didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have do you realize, I mean yourself, for our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>at home, how easy it is to pick up your

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<v Speaker 1>phone and listen to so much positive stuff. So like

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<v Speaker 1>zig Ziggler was from like the nineteen eighties and nineteen seventies,

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<v Speaker 1>and and all of his stuff is still has turned

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<v Speaker 1>in the podcast and into all of these things. And

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<v Speaker 1>you can listen to your favorite sermon you say, your

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<v Speaker 1>favorite pastor, your favorite motivational speaker, YouTube videos. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's so easy to stay built up in the

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<v Speaker 1>year and our generation, you know. So I think it

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<v Speaker 1>was taking ownership of realizing that, Okay, I work harder

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<v Speaker 1>than anybody else at the gym, but what's going to

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<v Speaker 1>happen the other twenty hours of the day? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you going to do? What are you gonna exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you gonna read? What are you gonna say?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you gonna believe? What are you going to watch?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you going to what are you gonna what

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<v Speaker 1>are you going to decide to kind of to really

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<v Speaker 1>dwell on. So you have made it your because you Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like so you are someone who actually has to

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<v Speaker 1>walk the walk and talk to talk because if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have your mental game in check, you can have

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<v Speaker 1>your physical body at the top of your game, but

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<v Speaker 1>if your mental game is not there, that is just

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<v Speaker 1>as important, so much more important. And a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people don't have to work on their mental game as

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<v Speaker 1>much as someone like you does because we can skate

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<v Speaker 1>through life and we don't have to really like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>our careers don't depend on the state of our mental being.

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<v Speaker 1>But you have to be tuned up all the time

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<v Speaker 1>in your mind, absolutely, and because it's it's all and

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<v Speaker 1>and really I always say this, I'm not actually going

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<v Speaker 1>out there and getting locked into a cage fighting against

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<v Speaker 1>another man. I'm really fighting against myself, you know. Am

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<v Speaker 1>I going to let myself go out there and perform

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<v Speaker 1>the way that I know I can let yourself? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what I always say. And I asked myself

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<v Speaker 1>this all the time, Michael. Somebody, at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day, somebody has to be the best. Why shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>it be you know, why shouldn't it you have to

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<v Speaker 1>tell yourself that you do deserve that always. And because

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<v Speaker 1>everything I do in the gym live my life right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I put into my body, how often

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<v Speaker 1>I sleep, Like every single thing adds up to becoming

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<v Speaker 1>the best fighter of all time. But on the mental

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<v Speaker 1>aspect of it, that's that's the only way that that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't happen, you know, But that's so important. And visualization

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<v Speaker 1>and and really realizing that that visualizing things the brain.

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<v Speaker 1>I've done a lot of reading or a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of research realizing that the brain doesn't really

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<v Speaker 1>truly know the difference between you know, me picking up

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<v Speaker 1>a pen or me closing my eyes and watching myself

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<v Speaker 1>pick up that pen and pick up that pen, and

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<v Speaker 1>that your brain doesn't quite know the difference between something

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<v Speaker 1>actually happening and something visual like you actually visualizing something happened.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not going to say I can you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I can sit here and and you know, say, visualize

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<v Speaker 1>something and it's going to happen like this kind of

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<v Speaker 1>people planned that that can happen if you really focus,

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<v Speaker 1>and it really isn't. And now as I get older

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<v Speaker 1>in my career, I've closed my eyes and I've visualized

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<v Speaker 1>stepping into the cage and the smell of the cage

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<v Speaker 1>and they here, and the sounds of the crowd and

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<v Speaker 1>the lights, and then seeing my opponent in front of

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<v Speaker 1>me and all these things, and then all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>I step into the cage and I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>at home. I feel like I've been there. And I

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<v Speaker 1>used to not do that. I used to step into

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<v Speaker 1>the cage and just bite dow the mouthpiece and go

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<v Speaker 1>run and just and it was a crazy fight. And

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<v Speaker 1>now things have slowed down so much more because I've visualized.

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<v Speaker 1>So you go through the fight ahead time, what is

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<v Speaker 1>your morm So say, okay, you just had. Let's get

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<v Speaker 1>to your big fight that you just had, because this

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<v Speaker 1>was huge. You've already won two time world champion lightweight

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<v Speaker 1>of the World for the Bellator division. And so now

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<v Speaker 1>this summer you're you're gearing up again, You're going back

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<v Speaker 1>for three and you're playing at Madison. You're not playing,

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<v Speaker 1>You're fighting at Madison Square Garden. That was That was

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<v Speaker 1>my last fight. That was yeah, that was my last

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<v Speaker 1>one at Madison Square Garden. Yes, So tell me about that,

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<v Speaker 1>and tell me about your process getting ready for it

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<v Speaker 1>and then getting in the fight, and then how dealing

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<v Speaker 1>when dealing with things when they don't go as you

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<v Speaker 1>have visualized. Yeah, so it was the biggest fight of

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<v Speaker 1>my I mean, it's the biggest platform. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>when Madison Square Garden pay per view, I mean people

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<v Speaker 1>are betting probably millions of dollars on this fight. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So so when you when you get pressure or do

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<v Speaker 1>you not worry about that? No, I try not to.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, in the in the unfortunate thing about fighting

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<v Speaker 1>at Madison Square Garden is you don't really truly get

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<v Speaker 1>to experience it or enjoy it because you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to think about Madison Square Garden. You don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>think about warming up in the same locker room as

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<v Speaker 1>Mike Tyson or walk in the same holes as as

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<v Speaker 1>as George Foreman or Muhammad Ali. You don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>think about those things because with that comes out of pressure.

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<v Speaker 1>Added pressure comes higher heart rate, Yeah, higher heart rate,

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<v Speaker 1>and and and a less less mental stability, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So so you just kind of focus on the task

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<v Speaker 1>at hand. But it's it was, it was awesome, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was crazy, and it was the biggest platform of

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<v Speaker 1>my career and and uh and it is just it's

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<v Speaker 1>just such a crazy It's another testament to how crazy

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<v Speaker 1>this sport is. That I was better than than my

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<v Speaker 1>opponent on paper, was better than my opponent, and and

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<v Speaker 1>stats was better than my opponent and everything. And then

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, thirty seconds into the fight, I

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<v Speaker 1>rolled my ankle, jammed up and pinched a nerve in

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<v Speaker 1>my ankle. My whole ankle went limp like basically for

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<v Speaker 1>then it looks it looks so bad. It was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was basically just I had no control over it, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So my brain was telling myself to take a step

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<v Speaker 1>forward and it wasn't working, and what are you thinking? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I think it was just uh, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just stay calm, you know. And I kept telling myself,

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<v Speaker 1>you're fine, you're gonna get the distance. You're gonna knock

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<v Speaker 1>him out on one foot, and you're just gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>it with one I was, and and I ended up

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<v Speaker 1>the only real punch that landed and landed in the

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<v Speaker 1>entire fight was me on one leg, and I knocked

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<v Speaker 1>him down, and then I over zealously went and chased

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<v Speaker 1>him and my ankle rolled like three other times, and

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<v Speaker 1>then the ref fleg stopped the fight, you know. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was. And then the doctors came in and they

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<v Speaker 1>were feeling around on my ankle and one doctor was

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<v Speaker 1>looking at the other doctor said, I think his ankles broken.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's to be a fractor and this that

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<v Speaker 1>the other thing that I'm just bleeding with the doctors,

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<v Speaker 1>Please don't stop the fight. I promise it's just an

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<v Speaker 1>ankle cramp. It's it's something. Just let me go back

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<v Speaker 1>out there. I promise you'mnna win this fight. And I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of looked over my opponent and gave him the

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<v Speaker 1>old you better hope that these guys stop the fight

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<v Speaker 1>right now, you know, just kind of playing those those

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<v Speaker 1>mind games and that mental game, and you know it's

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<v Speaker 1>and it's but with that comes this huge letdown. You

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<v Speaker 1>know this, you you I spent nine weeks away from

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<v Speaker 1>my wife. I trained down in Florida. We saw each

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<v Speaker 1>other four days and nine weeks, which you you know

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<v Speaker 1>how that is. We're having a traveling musicians as a husband.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's it's so it's not like with traveling musicians,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, at least like it's not it's not the

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<v Speaker 1>wake up, go to bed, all you eat, sleep and

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<v Speaker 1>breathe is this because when you're preparing for like that,

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<v Speaker 1>you're probably so focused. Yeah, and it's and yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>consumes you. And my wife is a saint for for

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<v Speaker 1>for dealing with it. Yeah. But but the dieting and

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<v Speaker 1>the sleep schedule, and then you have to weigh a

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<v Speaker 1>certain thing you have to eat. I have to lose

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<v Speaker 1>about thirty pounds right now. I gotta get done. So

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<v Speaker 1>how do you lose weight like that? Diet, exercise and

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<v Speaker 1>then the last ten pounds or so it's just water weight.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's so, do you have a training How long

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<v Speaker 1>is training period? Training camp is eight weeks usually eight

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<v Speaker 1>nine weeks and it's uh so it's about two months

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<v Speaker 1>and U I usually do a twelve week block training camp,

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<v Speaker 1>but the first four weeks, the first four weeks is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of pre camp. And I don't I'm not crazy

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<v Speaker 1>with my diet and I'm not crazy with my sleep schedule,

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<v Speaker 1>not crazy with all that kind of stuff. But um,

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<v Speaker 1>that eight weeks out is go time. So is there

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<v Speaker 1>a fight season? There's not a fight season, so we

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<v Speaker 1>we fight twelve months a year. Um, it just depends

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<v Speaker 1>on each promotion. They they do their schedule for each

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<v Speaker 1>six months probably, and they say, well, hey, like right now,

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<v Speaker 1>I I'm expecting to fight in December, but it's not

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<v Speaker 1>set in stone yet. I'm trying to get the guy

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<v Speaker 1>who has my belt to fight me in December. But

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<v Speaker 1>so you have to get the guy who holding the beat.

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<v Speaker 1>So basically, what if they're too scared to fight you

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<v Speaker 1>because they don't want to give their belt. Do they

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<v Speaker 1>have the ability to say no? They don't have the

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<v Speaker 1>ability to say no person. I mean they do, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's in their best it's in their best interest

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<v Speaker 1>to fight. I mean, he we fought in June, so

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<v Speaker 1>this is the Medison Square Garden fight. So you're saying rematch.

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<v Speaker 1>If he doesn't give you a rematch, yeah, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean he has to. If he doesn't, he's going to

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<v Speaker 1>get Basically, the promotion is just going to either number

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<v Speaker 1>one stripping with a belt or number two just say okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well we don't like you anymore. Therefore we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead and go in a different direction, and you

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<v Speaker 1>can just go ahead and sit there and we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to do whatever you want to do. We have to

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<v Speaker 1>give you a rematch because we're all at the world

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<v Speaker 1>is wanting a match because it wasn't you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get your fair shot. No, yeah, so it was.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's interesting, it's and it's he'll he'll give me that,

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<v Speaker 1>He'll give me the rematch. I'm hoping it's in December.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was just it was such an unfortunate, weird

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<v Speaker 1>set of circumstances. But it's but once again, it's another

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<v Speaker 1>it's another opportunity to let the world see how you

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<v Speaker 1>react to something you know, And it's even though it

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<v Speaker 1>was a bad thing that happened, when I get the

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<v Speaker 1>belt back, and whenever people see the comeback, and then

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<v Speaker 1>whenever they see how the setback set me up for

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<v Speaker 1>the comeback and the way that I the way that

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<v Speaker 1>I reacted to that loss, and that that the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>stage in my life and the biggest opportunity of my

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<v Speaker 1>life that was pretty much taken away from me because

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<v Speaker 1>of a quick, little injury that was completely out of

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<v Speaker 1>my control. The people see that, and they remember how

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<v Speaker 1>you made them feel, and they remember the things that

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<v Speaker 1>you said, and they remember how you carry themselves. And

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<v Speaker 1>and then if it just takes one or two young

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<v Speaker 1>kids who say I want to be like that someday

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<v Speaker 1>or you know, that's that's what we get to do

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<v Speaker 1>as fighters, or as athletes, or as as anybody who's

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<v Speaker 1>in the public eye. So it's it's good and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>excited to get the get the belt back. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>love being a comeback kid? I do, But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>unfortunately to be being a comeback kid means you had

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<v Speaker 1>to come back from something. But but it's it's yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it is, and I I mean I've had I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I was. I burst onto the scene, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>and I won. I won the world title within two years,

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<v Speaker 1>a year and a half two years, defended the belt

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<v Speaker 1>numerous times, and I lost three fights in a row.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was twelve and oh to start my career.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I lost three fights in a row. I went

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<v Speaker 1>six days head oh yeah, yeah, so six eight eight

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<v Speaker 1>days without winning a fight, you know, And that's where

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<v Speaker 1>I really grew the most and realized that the stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that I was telling about the visualization and all that

0:21:37.119 --> 0:21:39.760
<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff, how important it is, because you know,

0:21:39.840 --> 0:21:42.960
<v Speaker 1>it's you find yourself making jokes about it, and me

0:21:43.000 --> 0:21:44.880
<v Speaker 1>and my wife would be hanging out and be like, well,

0:21:44.960 --> 0:21:46.600
<v Speaker 1>sometimes you win, sometimes you lose three in a row,

0:21:46.640 --> 0:21:48.200
<v Speaker 1>and you make like these you make, like these dumb

0:21:48.200 --> 0:21:50.280
<v Speaker 1>little jokes and you laugh about them because you're a

0:21:50.280 --> 0:21:52.760
<v Speaker 1>positive person and you're you can make a light light

0:21:52.760 --> 0:21:55.439
<v Speaker 1>of a bad situation. But we don't realize is that

0:21:55.560 --> 0:21:59.120
<v Speaker 1>you really are teaching yourself bad habits and bad self talk,

0:21:59.160 --> 0:22:01.920
<v Speaker 1>and your can tenueing to lower your standards or lower

0:22:01.920 --> 0:22:04.560
<v Speaker 1>your lower your view of yourself by even entertaining those

0:22:04.640 --> 0:22:06.760
<v Speaker 1>kind of jokes. So what have you change? So how

0:22:06.760 --> 0:22:08.720
<v Speaker 1>do you change that self talk? What are the first

0:22:08.760 --> 0:22:11.840
<v Speaker 1>steps you do? Well? I think number one, realizing that

0:22:12.000 --> 0:22:14.440
<v Speaker 1>every single person that you look up to, every single

0:22:14.440 --> 0:22:16.359
<v Speaker 1>person that I look up to, every single person that

0:22:16.600 --> 0:22:19.760
<v Speaker 1>anybody has looked up to, has been a failure at

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<v Speaker 1>one point or another. But realizing that failure is an event,

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<v Speaker 1>not a person, is so huge. And realizing that, I

0:22:27.200 --> 0:22:31.320
<v Speaker 1>mean that you could google celebrities are successful people that

0:22:31.440 --> 0:22:34.720
<v Speaker 1>failed and there's a hundred thousand examples, right, And it's

0:22:34.760 --> 0:22:37.280
<v Speaker 1>but for some reason, whenever you fail, you think, oh

0:22:37.359 --> 0:22:41.480
<v Speaker 1>my gosh, I'm the biggest failure ever exactly talking about

0:22:41.480 --> 0:22:45.159
<v Speaker 1>it exactly when when really, if you realize that failure

0:22:46.280 --> 0:22:52.360
<v Speaker 1>is a prerequisite to success, and you know that would right,

0:22:52.760 --> 0:22:55.320
<v Speaker 1>but it really it really is, because I think, and

0:22:55.560 --> 0:22:57.399
<v Speaker 1>that's exactly what I did, was Michael, you've got to

0:22:57.440 --> 0:22:59.840
<v Speaker 1>be perfect, Michael, your world champion. Michael. People are looking

0:22:59.840 --> 0:23:01.280
<v Speaker 1>at you, in your top three in the world, and

0:23:01.320 --> 0:23:03.640
<v Speaker 1>you're expected to perform like this, this, this, and this.

0:23:03.880 --> 0:23:06.960
<v Speaker 1>And it wasn't just my fights. It became my workouts.

0:23:07.080 --> 0:23:08.880
<v Speaker 1>And if I got taken down or I got submitted,

0:23:08.960 --> 0:23:11.000
<v Speaker 1>or I I lost a sparring cession, or I lost

0:23:11.000 --> 0:23:13.000
<v Speaker 1>this or I lost that, or I I couldn't lift

0:23:13.040 --> 0:23:16.200
<v Speaker 1>this weight like I thought I could, and it's a

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<v Speaker 1>low and now it's another loss, and it's another loss,

0:23:18.320 --> 0:23:20.320
<v Speaker 1>and it's another loss, when really it's not a loss.

0:23:20.359 --> 0:23:23.320
<v Speaker 1>These are these things are just that. These things are

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<v Speaker 1>just the chain of events that that happened in a

0:23:25.800 --> 0:23:27.800
<v Speaker 1>in a fight camp, or in a career and so

0:23:27.840 --> 0:23:29.960
<v Speaker 1>many every like I said, every single person that we've

0:23:29.960 --> 0:23:33.479
<v Speaker 1>looked up to you, we look at him, we think, man,

0:23:33.520 --> 0:23:36.040
<v Speaker 1>I wish I could be like that. I wish I

0:23:36.080 --> 0:23:37.439
<v Speaker 1>could be like that. But what you don't realize is

0:23:37.480 --> 0:23:41.760
<v Speaker 1>that layer of failures and and shortcomings and setbacks that

0:23:41.800 --> 0:23:46.280
<v Speaker 1>they've had. And I think realizing and it comes with maturity,

0:23:46.320 --> 0:23:48.600
<v Speaker 1>and it comes with it comes with being around the block.

0:23:48.640 --> 0:23:51.119
<v Speaker 1>And you know, but if I if I was sitting

0:23:51.119 --> 0:23:53.520
<v Speaker 1>here and talking to an eighteen year old guy who's

0:23:53.560 --> 0:23:55.920
<v Speaker 1>so excited to fight and become the best fighter in

0:23:55.960 --> 0:23:58.000
<v Speaker 1>the world, he's gonna think I'm a little bit crazy,

0:23:58.160 --> 0:24:02.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, talking about failing and and becoming successful. Um,

0:24:02.240 --> 0:24:04.119
<v Speaker 1>because we think we just have to be successful all

0:24:04.160 --> 0:24:06.560
<v Speaker 1>the time. But you're going to fail. But it's an

0:24:06.600 --> 0:24:09.000
<v Speaker 1>event and it's not a person, and it's that's really

0:24:09.000 --> 0:24:11.400
<v Speaker 1>what it is. And it's I am living proof of that,

0:24:11.560 --> 0:24:13.400
<v Speaker 1>and so I am. I have been the comeback kid

0:24:13.480 --> 0:24:16.320
<v Speaker 1>numerous times. But you know, I think it's just like

0:24:16.359 --> 0:24:18.600
<v Speaker 1>I said, take an extreme ownership, realizing that my brain,

0:24:18.640 --> 0:24:21.639
<v Speaker 1>in my mind, and myself, my self esteem and myself image.

0:24:22.760 --> 0:24:24.199
<v Speaker 1>You could you could sit there and give me all

0:24:24.200 --> 0:24:26.240
<v Speaker 1>the compliments in the world, but if I don't receive them,

0:24:26.320 --> 0:24:28.240
<v Speaker 1>and if I don't truly believe them, if I don't

0:24:28.240 --> 0:24:30.720
<v Speaker 1>truly give them to myself and and and continue to

0:24:30.760 --> 0:24:33.760
<v Speaker 1>grow on my own, in my own head, in my

0:24:33.800 --> 0:24:37.440
<v Speaker 1>own body, of my own spirit, that growth doesn't actually happen,

0:24:37.600 --> 0:24:40.119
<v Speaker 1>you know. So it's really taking ownership of your own

0:24:40.880 --> 0:24:45.080
<v Speaker 1>your own mental um, your own mental warfare, honestly, you know.

0:24:45.240 --> 0:24:48.720
<v Speaker 1>So so tell me what is your motivation? Why do

0:24:48.760 --> 0:24:52.199
<v Speaker 1>you do it? Why do you press on? You know?

0:24:52.480 --> 0:24:55.840
<v Speaker 1>I think motivation continues to change, you know. Um I

0:24:56.200 --> 0:25:00.080
<v Speaker 1>think now it's it's realizing that that I am not

0:25:00.200 --> 0:25:01.920
<v Speaker 1>just a fighter, but I'm a husband and I'm gonna

0:25:01.920 --> 0:25:03.800
<v Speaker 1>be a future father. And we don't have children yet,

0:25:03.800 --> 0:25:06.119
<v Speaker 1>but I know I already see their faces. I already

0:25:06.440 --> 0:25:10.320
<v Speaker 1>already yeah, I'm excited and and it's them, but it's

0:25:10.359 --> 0:25:13.200
<v Speaker 1>also me being a great father or trying to become

0:25:13.200 --> 0:25:15.160
<v Speaker 1>a great father, or doing the things that I want

0:25:15.200 --> 0:25:18.399
<v Speaker 1>to do that that adds up to being a great

0:25:18.400 --> 0:25:20.440
<v Speaker 1>father and a great leader and a and a great

0:25:20.480 --> 0:25:24.320
<v Speaker 1>servant to them and my wife. But um, so that

0:25:24.480 --> 0:25:27.480
<v Speaker 1>is part of it now. Um but I think I

0:25:27.520 --> 0:25:30.760
<v Speaker 1>think in the very beginning and it has stayed the same.

0:25:30.800 --> 0:25:33.320
<v Speaker 1>What has stayed the same as realizing that I've been

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<v Speaker 1>given such a great opportunity to be sitting here on

0:25:36.760 --> 0:25:38.960
<v Speaker 1>two capable legs and have two capable arms, to literally

0:25:39.000 --> 0:25:41.480
<v Speaker 1>be able to go out and do something that points

0:25:41.560 --> 0:25:44.400
<v Speaker 1>zero zero zero zero one percent of the world gets

0:25:44.440 --> 0:25:47.680
<v Speaker 1>to do, you know, and to be able to even

0:25:47.720 --> 0:25:49.560
<v Speaker 1>on the days that it's horrible. Even on the days

0:25:49.600 --> 0:25:51.360
<v Speaker 1>that it's painful, even on the days that I want

0:25:51.359 --> 0:25:53.280
<v Speaker 1>to cry, even on the days that i'm ice in

0:25:53.359 --> 0:25:55.080
<v Speaker 1>this or I'm take an eye a profile for that,

0:25:55.280 --> 0:25:58.679
<v Speaker 1>or you know, and you get beat down, even on

0:25:58.720 --> 0:26:02.320
<v Speaker 1>those bad days, there's so many people that would love

0:26:02.359 --> 0:26:04.439
<v Speaker 1>to be in my position, and I have such a

0:26:04.440 --> 0:26:07.160
<v Speaker 1>great opportunity that I've been given in such a platform

0:26:07.200 --> 0:26:10.639
<v Speaker 1>that I have to be able to inspire so many people.

0:26:10.920 --> 0:26:12.840
<v Speaker 1>And so I think it's it's that, and it's not.

0:26:13.400 --> 0:26:16.919
<v Speaker 1>And it's not that I feel that there's an obligation

0:26:17.040 --> 0:26:19.480
<v Speaker 1>or I have to do this because of other people.

0:26:19.480 --> 0:26:21.800
<v Speaker 1>There's still that inner drive and that inner knowing that

0:26:21.800 --> 0:26:23.359
<v Speaker 1>got put me in the sport for a reason. But

0:26:23.480 --> 0:26:26.679
<v Speaker 1>it is realizing that so many people have done so

0:26:26.800 --> 0:26:30.280
<v Speaker 1>much more with what they have. So I've been given

0:26:30.320 --> 0:26:32.840
<v Speaker 1>these gifts, and I'll be darned if I'm gonna squandron,

0:26:32.960 --> 0:26:35.359
<v Speaker 1>you know. So I have been given so many amazing gifts,

0:26:35.359 --> 0:26:37.920
<v Speaker 1>and hopefully I can continue to fight for a really

0:26:37.960 --> 0:26:40.160
<v Speaker 1>long time, but probably just another a couple of years,

0:26:40.160 --> 0:26:41.800
<v Speaker 1>and then we'll sail off into the sunset and figure

0:26:41.800 --> 0:26:44.800
<v Speaker 1>out what the next adventure is. I love, though that

0:26:44.880 --> 0:26:51.720
<v Speaker 1>you take such take your talent so seriously, because I

0:26:51.760 --> 0:26:56.000
<v Speaker 1>feel that if we all could dig into our soul

0:26:56.080 --> 0:27:01.600
<v Speaker 1>and really latch onto our talent and treat it like

0:27:01.720 --> 0:27:04.600
<v Speaker 1>the gift that it is, like how you have done

0:27:04.600 --> 0:27:06.520
<v Speaker 1>with the ears, I feel like the world would be

0:27:06.560 --> 0:27:09.679
<v Speaker 1>such a happier place because people would be fulfilling the

0:27:09.680 --> 0:27:12.600
<v Speaker 1>reason why they're on this earth. And that's and I

0:27:12.880 --> 0:27:14.400
<v Speaker 1>don't know where I read it. I'm not gonna say

0:27:14.440 --> 0:27:17.000
<v Speaker 1>it's my quote, but I think, um, but I read

0:27:17.080 --> 0:27:21.399
<v Speaker 1>something that that um kind of disregarding or not fully

0:27:21.440 --> 0:27:25.600
<v Speaker 1>living out that um that purpose in your life is

0:27:25.960 --> 0:27:29.639
<v Speaker 1>a slow as a slow suicide. You get you you

0:27:29.720 --> 0:27:33.439
<v Speaker 1>get so far along and you realize, why didn't I

0:27:33.480 --> 0:27:37.199
<v Speaker 1>take this chance or why didn't I, you know, stop

0:27:37.320 --> 0:27:40.119
<v Speaker 1>this or stop that, or decide to do this or

0:27:40.160 --> 0:27:43.480
<v Speaker 1>decide to do that. You know, and and honestly, for me,

0:27:43.640 --> 0:27:45.640
<v Speaker 1>it's it's easy. And and that's when you know, that's

0:27:45.640 --> 0:27:47.679
<v Speaker 1>when you know it's you're doing what you're called to

0:27:47.680 --> 0:27:49.200
<v Speaker 1>do when it's easy. I was gonna say, how do

0:27:49.240 --> 0:27:51.000
<v Speaker 1>you know when you're on the right path. I think

0:27:51.040 --> 0:27:54.120
<v Speaker 1>it's I don't wake up every morning and like gosh,

0:27:54.160 --> 0:27:55.760
<v Speaker 1>I gotta go to work out again, or gosh, I

0:27:55.760 --> 0:27:58.280
<v Speaker 1>gotta go to this thing again, or gosh, I gotta

0:27:58.320 --> 0:28:00.600
<v Speaker 1>go you know, eat right again. Here is my eggs

0:28:00.600 --> 0:28:02.720
<v Speaker 1>and avocado and spinach. And I just did it for

0:28:02.720 --> 0:28:05.199
<v Speaker 1>the last you know, six months. Blah blah blah. You

0:28:05.200 --> 0:28:07.560
<v Speaker 1>know it's and it's you know, it's You're not mad

0:28:07.560 --> 0:28:09.879
<v Speaker 1>about it, No, no, no, not at all, because I

0:28:09.880 --> 0:28:11.879
<v Speaker 1>realized that it's the means to the end. It's it's

0:28:11.880 --> 0:28:13.480
<v Speaker 1>a means to an end, which, in the end is

0:28:13.520 --> 0:28:16.120
<v Speaker 1>the end. Goal is winning a fight. And each time

0:28:16.160 --> 0:28:17.960
<v Speaker 1>you win a fight, it's a bigger platform. And each

0:28:18.000 --> 0:28:19.919
<v Speaker 1>each bigger platform is more and more people, and more

0:28:19.920 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 1>and more eyeballs and more and more, um people that

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:24.520
<v Speaker 1>can hear your name or or hear the words that

0:28:24.560 --> 0:28:27.960
<v Speaker 1>you speak. You know, so um it's it is. It's easy,

0:28:28.000 --> 0:28:30.200
<v Speaker 1>you know. That's when you know you're doing what you're

0:28:30.200 --> 0:28:33.560
<v Speaker 1>called to do. Is when it becomes the routine is

0:28:33.600 --> 0:28:36.600
<v Speaker 1>easy for you, and it's not you. There's no there's

0:28:36.640 --> 0:28:38.600
<v Speaker 1>nothing holding your back, and you just continue to move

0:28:38.640 --> 0:28:41.760
<v Speaker 1>forward in something and the goals get bigger and the

0:28:41.760 --> 0:28:46.160
<v Speaker 1>goals get scarier, but you're not afraid because you know

0:28:46.200 --> 0:28:49.760
<v Speaker 1>you're doing what you're supposed to be doing, so okay,

0:28:49.760 --> 0:28:51.560
<v Speaker 1>and ask you a few like little kind of rapid

0:28:51.560 --> 0:28:54.840
<v Speaker 1>fire questions. They're kind of going to go a little

0:28:54.880 --> 0:28:58.840
<v Speaker 1>deeper because I know you have blessed, which I think

0:28:58.920 --> 0:29:00.600
<v Speaker 1>is awesome that you tapped that on your chest. So

0:29:00.640 --> 0:29:02.680
<v Speaker 1>when you're in the ring, the first thing people are seeing,

0:29:03.000 --> 0:29:05.040
<v Speaker 1>obviously you're gonna go straight to your tattoo is blessed.

0:29:05.080 --> 0:29:06.640
<v Speaker 1>And why is that so important for you to have

0:29:06.720 --> 0:29:09.160
<v Speaker 1>that as your statement piece? I think what I think

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:11.400
<v Speaker 1>it goes back to realizing how truly blessed I am,

0:29:11.520 --> 0:29:14.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, And and it's not it's not a proclamation

0:29:14.760 --> 0:29:16.400
<v Speaker 1>that hey, look at me, look how blessed I am.

0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:18.440
<v Speaker 1>It's it's me when I look in the mirror and

0:29:18.480 --> 0:29:22.840
<v Speaker 1>I realized that I am so blessed. And I did

0:29:22.920 --> 0:29:25.480
<v Speaker 1>have parents that poured into me and and I had

0:29:25.480 --> 0:29:28.280
<v Speaker 1>a phenomenal childhood, and they did everything they possibly could

0:29:28.280 --> 0:29:30.280
<v Speaker 1>to put me to where I am. And then I

0:29:30.320 --> 0:29:32.920
<v Speaker 1>worked extremely hard, and I had extremely great people in

0:29:32.960 --> 0:29:36.200
<v Speaker 1>my path, and God has put so many perfect people

0:29:36.280 --> 0:29:38.640
<v Speaker 1>in my path for the perfect season that I was

0:29:38.680 --> 0:29:40.800
<v Speaker 1>in to get me to that next level, to get

0:29:40.840 --> 0:29:43.640
<v Speaker 1>me to that that next breakthrough, and then meeting my wife,

0:29:43.680 --> 0:29:46.080
<v Speaker 1>and then and then now we have the next fifties

0:29:46.120 --> 0:29:49.520
<v Speaker 1>sixty seventy years to continue to move forward and meet

0:29:49.600 --> 0:29:53.000
<v Speaker 1>more people. And it's just been I've been so truly

0:29:53.040 --> 0:29:56.160
<v Speaker 1>blessed that it's a concert reminder from me that to

0:29:56.200 --> 0:29:58.640
<v Speaker 1>give anything less than my best every single day really

0:29:58.680 --> 0:30:02.640
<v Speaker 1>is to sacrifice those blessings. And I do it sometimes

0:30:02.760 --> 0:30:05.000
<v Speaker 1>and then but it's a kick in the butt to realize, hey,

0:30:05.000 --> 0:30:07.240
<v Speaker 1>why are you being lazi or hey, why why are

0:30:07.280 --> 0:30:09.760
<v Speaker 1>you not doing what you said you were going to

0:30:09.520 --> 0:30:12.240
<v Speaker 1>do to do? Why are you not giving hunter? Because

0:30:12.240 --> 0:30:13.680
<v Speaker 1>there's gonna be days that are like that, you know,

0:30:14.240 --> 0:30:16.160
<v Speaker 1>but do you realize you know, you just kind of

0:30:16.200 --> 0:30:18.000
<v Speaker 1>acknowledge the time that was that was lost, or you

0:30:18.040 --> 0:30:20.800
<v Speaker 1>acknowledge the day that you were lazy, or you acknowledge

0:30:20.840 --> 0:30:22.840
<v Speaker 1>the bad decision that you made, and you realize that

0:30:22.880 --> 0:30:25.760
<v Speaker 1>the sun really will come up tomorrow morning and yesterday

0:30:25.800 --> 0:30:28.280
<v Speaker 1>really did in last night, and then continue to move forward.

0:30:28.400 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 1>So that's kind of my that's kind of where the

0:30:30.640 --> 0:30:33.800
<v Speaker 1>blessed tattoo came from, I believe. Okay, so I'm gonna

0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:38.880
<v Speaker 1>ask you if you're rapid questions, fire questions. What is faith?

0:30:39.360 --> 0:30:40.840
<v Speaker 1>If you just you don't have to give a long answer,

0:30:40.920 --> 0:30:42.600
<v Speaker 1>you one word. You can give whatever you feel called

0:30:42.640 --> 0:30:44.880
<v Speaker 1>to you. But what is faith? What does faith? Faith

0:30:45.120 --> 0:30:50.240
<v Speaker 1>is is I think blindly moving forward with something that

0:30:50.320 --> 0:30:54.280
<v Speaker 1>you truly, truly believe, and the conviction that you know

0:30:55.360 --> 0:31:01.280
<v Speaker 1>you know the truth? You know you know? Um, yeah,

0:31:01.280 --> 0:31:03.720
<v Speaker 1>I guess, just the truth. You know like you you know,

0:31:04.320 --> 0:31:07.440
<v Speaker 1>you know what it is, even though you're not sure

0:31:07.560 --> 0:31:11.440
<v Speaker 1>of everything, but you know what it is. That makes sense, Yes, totally.

0:31:12.840 --> 0:31:14.960
<v Speaker 1>What is the point of this life? The point of

0:31:15.000 --> 0:31:19.960
<v Speaker 1>this life I think is um. For me, it's it's

0:31:20.880 --> 0:31:23.880
<v Speaker 1>helping and inspiring as many people as possible, whether it

0:31:23.920 --> 0:31:26.360
<v Speaker 1>be through direct contact or whether it be someone you've

0:31:26.360 --> 0:31:29.200
<v Speaker 1>never even met. Um and truly fully living up to

0:31:29.240 --> 0:31:31.520
<v Speaker 1>your potential. Because if you do truly live up to

0:31:31.520 --> 0:31:36.560
<v Speaker 1>that potential, more and more people are going to be impacted.

0:31:38.200 --> 0:31:41.240
<v Speaker 1>What is the one thing that causes people to get

0:31:41.240 --> 0:31:44.240
<v Speaker 1>in their own way? I think it's the lack of

0:31:44.280 --> 0:31:47.360
<v Speaker 1>self belief. You know, and it's and it's and it

0:31:47.480 --> 0:31:50.640
<v Speaker 1>is so hard. Sorry. I might go a little bit

0:31:50.680 --> 0:31:52.760
<v Speaker 1>longer than than rapid. I might might be a little

0:31:52.800 --> 0:31:54.840
<v Speaker 1>less rapid. But I think I think it's I think

0:31:54.880 --> 0:31:58.200
<v Speaker 1>it's that self, that lack of self belief, and a

0:31:58.240 --> 0:32:02.880
<v Speaker 1>lot of times it's because us we are afraid of

0:32:04.440 --> 0:32:07.760
<v Speaker 1>being cocky, or afraid of being overconfident, or afraid of

0:32:07.800 --> 0:32:10.440
<v Speaker 1>being looked at like better than people. And I think

0:32:10.520 --> 0:32:13.960
<v Speaker 1>I did that and might don't want to act above no.

0:32:14.120 --> 0:32:18.720
<v Speaker 1>And it's and it's so hard because because in order

0:32:18.800 --> 0:32:22.280
<v Speaker 1>to be successful, if you in order to be up here,

0:32:22.320 --> 0:32:24.640
<v Speaker 1>that means there has to be people below you, right,

0:32:24.760 --> 0:32:27.960
<v Speaker 1>you know. So it's there's this weird there's this weird

0:32:28.000 --> 0:32:30.600
<v Speaker 1>being becoming the best at something, whether it's sports or

0:32:30.920 --> 0:32:32.880
<v Speaker 1>this or that or the other thing, there has to

0:32:32.920 --> 0:32:34.680
<v Speaker 1>be people that are still working to try to get

0:32:34.720 --> 0:32:37.360
<v Speaker 1>towards you, and they maybe think that you are better

0:32:37.400 --> 0:32:40.680
<v Speaker 1>than them, but you can't. It's so hard. It's hard

0:32:40.680 --> 0:32:42.320
<v Speaker 1>to me for me to describe. But it's it's that

0:32:42.480 --> 0:32:45.560
<v Speaker 1>it's a cognitive dissonance. It's another cognitive dissonance because I

0:32:45.600 --> 0:32:48.880
<v Speaker 1>saw it. Yeah, and it's and it's and it's trying

0:32:48.920 --> 0:32:52.880
<v Speaker 1>to do your best but doing it in a way

0:32:53.000 --> 0:32:54.720
<v Speaker 1>that people know that you just got there with hard

0:32:54.720 --> 0:32:56.959
<v Speaker 1>work and humility, you know. So it's hard to be

0:32:57.080 --> 0:33:01.360
<v Speaker 1>humble and show humility while also being best, But it

0:33:01.440 --> 0:33:03.560
<v Speaker 1>can be done, you know, and there's so many examples

0:33:03.600 --> 0:33:05.400
<v Speaker 1>of it out there. Is that one of your missions

0:33:05.480 --> 0:33:09.240
<v Speaker 1>is to show that, to expose your humility and hard

0:33:09.240 --> 0:33:12.160
<v Speaker 1>work while being the best. Yeah, because I think, you know,

0:33:12.200 --> 0:33:14.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean, we we see it all over the world.

0:33:15.000 --> 0:33:16.680
<v Speaker 1>We see it in the movies. It's like, you know,

0:33:16.920 --> 0:33:20.160
<v Speaker 1>the nice guy finishes last, right or um, you know,

0:33:20.320 --> 0:33:22.840
<v Speaker 1>or the the bad guy doesn't care about anything and

0:33:22.880 --> 0:33:24.240
<v Speaker 1>he rubbs so many people the wrong way and he

0:33:24.280 --> 0:33:26.040
<v Speaker 1>does so many the wrong things, but he becomes the

0:33:26.080 --> 0:33:29.160
<v Speaker 1>best because the good people were afraid to achieve that

0:33:29.240 --> 0:33:31.600
<v Speaker 1>because they were good people and they were just plowed

0:33:31.640 --> 0:33:34.240
<v Speaker 1>through exactly. You know. So it's it's so hard, and

0:33:34.280 --> 0:33:37.880
<v Speaker 1>that's but I think this generation, I think our generation

0:33:38.000 --> 0:33:42.200
<v Speaker 1>was called to show that you can be a great

0:33:42.240 --> 0:33:46.000
<v Speaker 1>person and show humility but also be wildly successful and

0:33:46.040 --> 0:33:48.520
<v Speaker 1>wildly whatever whatever it is for you to mean successful

0:33:48.520 --> 0:33:51.440
<v Speaker 1>doesn't necessarily mean money or doesn't necessarily mean fame, but

0:33:51.600 --> 0:33:53.640
<v Speaker 1>it could mean money, and it could be fame, you could.

0:33:53.760 --> 0:33:58.840
<v Speaker 1>You know, there's absolutely nothing wrong with being wildly successful

0:33:58.880 --> 0:34:02.440
<v Speaker 1>and making a ton of and and having a ton

0:34:02.520 --> 0:34:05.720
<v Speaker 1>of people following you and have a huge following and

0:34:06.480 --> 0:34:09.240
<v Speaker 1>sell books and do this and do that. Whatever success

0:34:09.280 --> 0:34:13.600
<v Speaker 1>is for you, there's nothing wrong with being extremely extremely successful,

0:34:14.800 --> 0:34:17.319
<v Speaker 1>because that if you live the lot, if you live

0:34:17.360 --> 0:34:21.080
<v Speaker 1>a life that still shows humility. Do you think God

0:34:21.760 --> 0:34:27.560
<v Speaker 1>prepares people for success by putting them through trials and

0:34:27.600 --> 0:34:30.680
<v Speaker 1>suffering and pain before. Do you think that's part of

0:34:30.719 --> 0:34:34.400
<v Speaker 1>the process to become great? Do you think it's necessary

0:34:34.560 --> 0:34:36.239
<v Speaker 1>and do you think you can avoid that? I think

0:34:36.280 --> 0:34:39.839
<v Speaker 1>I think it's absolutely necessary. It is hard to I mean,

0:34:39.880 --> 0:34:42.399
<v Speaker 1>as as a Christian, it's hard to say. It's hard

0:34:42.440 --> 0:34:45.759
<v Speaker 1>to say that God would have, you know, wanted you know,

0:34:45.760 --> 0:34:47.759
<v Speaker 1>because it's the age old question, Why does God? If

0:34:47.800 --> 0:34:50.239
<v Speaker 1>God is such a loving and forgiving and amazing God,

0:34:50.280 --> 0:34:52.799
<v Speaker 1>why does he let bad things happen to you? Right now?

0:34:52.920 --> 0:34:56.319
<v Speaker 1>Host the food? Why does it happen? And it's and

0:34:56.480 --> 0:34:58.399
<v Speaker 1>I think that's one of those questions that's so deep

0:34:58.440 --> 0:35:02.319
<v Speaker 1>and so layered and so hard to answer. Um so

0:35:02.480 --> 0:35:06.880
<v Speaker 1>along that same vein, I think what we describe or

0:35:06.920 --> 0:35:10.080
<v Speaker 1>what what our definition of bad is might be wrong sometimes,

0:35:10.080 --> 0:35:12.440
<v Speaker 1>you know. So so maybe God did let us go

0:35:12.520 --> 0:35:14.960
<v Speaker 1>down a path that led to a dead end or

0:35:15.040 --> 0:35:18.200
<v Speaker 1>led to a loss, or led to a setback or heartbreak,

0:35:18.680 --> 0:35:21.160
<v Speaker 1>and it was such a bad thing. But if but

0:35:21.239 --> 0:35:24.120
<v Speaker 1>if that bad thing turns into something good, was that

0:35:24.200 --> 0:35:26.400
<v Speaker 1>really a bad thing? You know? So that perception of

0:35:26.440 --> 0:35:28.120
<v Speaker 1>what bad is. I mean, I've had a lot of

0:35:28.120 --> 0:35:30.279
<v Speaker 1>bad things happen in my life, but I can look

0:35:30.280 --> 0:35:32.839
<v Speaker 1>back and say, well, that wasn't so bad. And yeah

0:35:32.840 --> 0:35:35.640
<v Speaker 1>it was bad at the time, but shoot, if this

0:35:35.760 --> 0:35:37.920
<v Speaker 1>happened because of that, I guess it wasn't really a

0:35:37.920 --> 0:35:40.279
<v Speaker 1>bad thing. So it's our perception every single day, and

0:35:40.320 --> 0:35:43.920
<v Speaker 1>it's and it's really is just believing that that believing

0:35:43.960 --> 0:35:46.560
<v Speaker 1>in God's will, you know. I mean the older I get,

0:35:46.600 --> 0:35:49.360
<v Speaker 1>the less I pray for things and I pray and

0:35:49.400 --> 0:35:52.879
<v Speaker 1>I pray that God's will be done right, you know. Yeah,

0:35:52.920 --> 0:35:54.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean I think it's you know, because I think,

0:35:55.000 --> 0:35:57.680
<v Speaker 1>like like we said, you know, if something bad happens,

0:35:57.680 --> 0:35:59.680
<v Speaker 1>that means maybe I was praying for something to happen

0:35:59.800 --> 0:36:02.120
<v Speaker 1>and then all of a sudden a bad thing happened.

0:36:02.280 --> 0:36:04.480
<v Speaker 1>Or maybe maybe the bad thing was that not happening

0:36:04.560 --> 0:36:07.279
<v Speaker 1>or that not coming to fruition. But that might just

0:36:07.320 --> 0:36:08.879
<v Speaker 1>be a closed door that's going to lead to another

0:36:08.920 --> 0:36:11.719
<v Speaker 1>open door, right you now, So it's you know, the

0:36:11.719 --> 0:36:14.360
<v Speaker 1>older you get, the more the more you realize that

0:36:15.160 --> 0:36:16.600
<v Speaker 1>you're just trying to make it in this world. You're

0:36:16.600 --> 0:36:18.160
<v Speaker 1>just you're just we're just flying by the seat of

0:36:18.160 --> 0:36:20.719
<v Speaker 1>our pants. And I think I think that's something that

0:36:20.719 --> 0:36:23.080
<v Speaker 1>that if people live live by that as well, that

0:36:23.239 --> 0:36:25.400
<v Speaker 1>realizing that you might look at this person and that

0:36:25.440 --> 0:36:27.440
<v Speaker 1>person realized they got it all, they have it all together,

0:36:27.640 --> 0:36:29.640
<v Speaker 1>think they have it all together, but they're just trying

0:36:29.640 --> 0:36:30.839
<v Speaker 1>to make it in this world where they're just they're

0:36:30.840 --> 0:36:32.360
<v Speaker 1>just flying by the seat of their pants too, And

0:36:32.440 --> 0:36:34.360
<v Speaker 1>you're just living on a women a prayer and and

0:36:34.600 --> 0:36:36.719
<v Speaker 1>just hoping that hoping that good things happen, you know.

0:36:36.760 --> 0:36:38.839
<v Speaker 1>And that's the older I get, the more I kind

0:36:38.840 --> 0:36:42.160
<v Speaker 1>of have that, I guess, carefree kind of mentality. So

0:36:42.760 --> 0:36:47.640
<v Speaker 1>what has marriage taught you? Oh my gosh, Oh man,

0:36:47.719 --> 0:36:49.960
<v Speaker 1>it's it's been the most amazing thing ever. You have

0:36:49.960 --> 0:36:52.160
<v Speaker 1>an incredible life. I have an incredible but I feel

0:36:52.160 --> 0:36:54.160
<v Speaker 1>like y'all have done marriage right. You have the right

0:36:54.400 --> 0:36:58.360
<v Speaker 1>perspective for marriage. Yeah, I think it's it's been tough.

0:36:58.440 --> 0:37:00.879
<v Speaker 1>I mean not tough, it's it's with my career. I mean,

0:37:00.880 --> 0:37:07.160
<v Speaker 1>I long story short, I chased her for like seven years,

0:37:07.239 --> 0:37:08.960
<v Speaker 1>and she didn't. I didn't really chase her, like I

0:37:09.040 --> 0:37:10.960
<v Speaker 1>had an idea of her for about seven years when

0:37:11.000 --> 0:37:12.879
<v Speaker 1>I was in child. She didn't really even know her.

0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:15.920
<v Speaker 1>I knew, I knew her dad, and I knew his reputation.

0:37:16.960 --> 0:37:21.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh gosh, yeah, well yeah, A long story, long story, like,

0:37:21.080 --> 0:37:23.680
<v Speaker 1>well was it about her? You love? Well? I I

0:37:23.719 --> 0:37:26.200
<v Speaker 1>just knew there was this idea of what I had

0:37:26.400 --> 0:37:27.759
<v Speaker 1>of her. And then the day that we met, it

0:37:27.800 --> 0:37:29.560
<v Speaker 1>could have been a huge letdown, you know, it could

0:37:29.560 --> 0:37:31.560
<v Speaker 1>have been like, well, shoot, guy, like glad. I wasted

0:37:31.600 --> 0:37:34.960
<v Speaker 1>all that time drinking up thinking about this Bree Willett girl. Um,

0:37:35.000 --> 0:37:37.080
<v Speaker 1>but I went and I got this tooth knocked out

0:37:37.080 --> 0:37:39.640
<v Speaker 1>in college wrestling, and then the University Missouri sent me

0:37:39.640 --> 0:37:43.239
<v Speaker 1>to her dad. He's a dentist, and then here you go. See. Um,

0:37:43.400 --> 0:37:45.239
<v Speaker 1>So he was sitting there and I was looking at

0:37:45.239 --> 0:37:47.600
<v Speaker 1>all these pictures and his family photos, and I'm like, gosh,

0:37:47.680 --> 0:37:50.480
<v Speaker 1>dagn that's a cute. Little little brunette is cute, and

0:37:50.480 --> 0:37:54.600
<v Speaker 1>what if that's his daughter? And then I you know exactly,

0:37:54.640 --> 0:37:56.560
<v Speaker 1>I will never and it's still there. It's I've had

0:37:56.760 --> 0:37:59.160
<v Speaker 1>twenty fights now and this tooth is still sticking in.

0:37:59.160 --> 0:38:03.400
<v Speaker 1>There's still still because some good glue. Um. But and

0:38:03.440 --> 0:38:06.040
<v Speaker 1>then anyways, in a roundabout way, my Bible study leader

0:38:06.560 --> 0:38:08.560
<v Speaker 1>was in a Bible study that he led, and then

0:38:08.680 --> 0:38:11.040
<v Speaker 1>I was in another Bible study that all of her

0:38:11.200 --> 0:38:14.839
<v Speaker 1>friends we're in, and it was just act. I kept

0:38:14.840 --> 0:38:16.799
<v Speaker 1>hearing these little stories about this girl, bree Will, and

0:38:16.800 --> 0:38:18.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, that's that girl, man, that's that girl. And then,

0:38:18.840 --> 0:38:21.080
<v Speaker 1>of course, in our and our in our industry, in

0:38:21.120 --> 0:38:23.719
<v Speaker 1>our in our day and age, in our generation, it's

0:38:23.719 --> 0:38:25.520
<v Speaker 1>so easy to hop on Facebook dot com and then

0:38:25.840 --> 0:38:29.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, type in their name and it's like, wow, okay, cute, cute, cute,

0:38:29.480 --> 0:38:32.480
<v Speaker 1>really really cute. Oh while she likes this well, you know. So,

0:38:32.480 --> 0:38:35.759
<v Speaker 1>so I had this vision of for some reason, I

0:38:35.800 --> 0:38:38.759
<v Speaker 1>had this crush on her, and eventually we finally I

0:38:38.800 --> 0:38:42.560
<v Speaker 1>finally asked her to coffee, and there we are. Fi've

0:38:42.600 --> 0:38:45.279
<v Speaker 1>almost are. We've been married three years now, but it's

0:38:45.320 --> 0:38:49.080
<v Speaker 1>been a little over four years. But the secret to

0:38:49.120 --> 0:38:51.520
<v Speaker 1>marriage is is, I don't know. I think it's just

0:38:51.560 --> 0:38:54.879
<v Speaker 1>constant service, you know, I think it's for us. It's

0:38:55.440 --> 0:38:58.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean, if we're not kind of doing something for

0:38:59.000 --> 0:39:02.280
<v Speaker 1>the other person, not out of not out of um,

0:39:02.320 --> 0:39:04.440
<v Speaker 1>not out of necessity, but just out of love or

0:39:04.480 --> 0:39:07.080
<v Speaker 1>out of just to constantly. That's that's how I show

0:39:07.120 --> 0:39:09.320
<v Speaker 1>her how how much I love her, is is doing

0:39:09.320 --> 0:39:11.719
<v Speaker 1>things for her or reminding her how much I love

0:39:11.719 --> 0:39:15.759
<v Speaker 1>her through you know, there's the love languages and and

0:39:15.920 --> 0:39:18.840
<v Speaker 1>we and we we practice those as much as possible.

0:39:19.000 --> 0:39:23.080
<v Speaker 1>And I think it's just constant service and it's constant humility.

0:39:23.200 --> 0:39:25.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's that's really what it is. Is you

0:39:25.120 --> 0:39:28.040
<v Speaker 1>never really have to be um. I don't know just

0:39:28.120 --> 0:39:30.279
<v Speaker 1>that that raw like here I am, this is this

0:39:30.360 --> 0:39:32.239
<v Speaker 1>is this is me from head to toe. This is

0:39:32.280 --> 0:39:34.160
<v Speaker 1>who I am, you know. And these are my insecurities,

0:39:34.160 --> 0:39:35.719
<v Speaker 1>and these are my fears, and these are my these

0:39:35.719 --> 0:39:37.359
<v Speaker 1>are my goals, and these are my doubts and these

0:39:37.400 --> 0:39:40.120
<v Speaker 1>are my everything. And and she's been with me when

0:39:40.120 --> 0:39:42.319
<v Speaker 1>I was the world champion, right you know, top three

0:39:42.320 --> 0:39:43.920
<v Speaker 1>in the world, and then all the way down to

0:39:43.920 --> 0:39:47.040
<v Speaker 1>the dumps, losing three fights in a row. Um, and

0:39:47.080 --> 0:39:49.719
<v Speaker 1>we've gone through this together and it's been it's made

0:39:49.760 --> 0:39:51.920
<v Speaker 1>our marriage stronger, and it's and we will be the

0:39:51.960 --> 0:39:55.160
<v Speaker 1>parents that we are going to be because of the

0:39:55.280 --> 0:39:57.719
<v Speaker 1>losses and the time away from each other. You know,

0:39:57.800 --> 0:40:01.240
<v Speaker 1>She's been so awesome through my travel and my training

0:40:01.239 --> 0:40:04.080
<v Speaker 1>camps and my wins and my losses. So I think

0:40:04.120 --> 0:40:06.680
<v Speaker 1>that the secret to marriages is waking up every morning

0:40:07.080 --> 0:40:10.440
<v Speaker 1>and realizing how truly busted you are to have that

0:40:10.480 --> 0:40:15.359
<v Speaker 1>person and that constant service of the humility of I'll

0:40:15.360 --> 0:40:17.000
<v Speaker 1>do anything in the world for you, you know. So

0:40:17.239 --> 0:40:19.239
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of what what we do. I love that

0:40:21.000 --> 0:40:23.160
<v Speaker 1>to Nashville, and we just moved to Nashville, and so

0:40:23.520 --> 0:40:25.799
<v Speaker 1>is it you guys are going to be planning routs

0:40:25.840 --> 0:40:28.080
<v Speaker 1>here and planning roots. Yes, yea. We we got a

0:40:28.080 --> 0:40:31.400
<v Speaker 1>house here, yes, and I'm opening up a gym, okay,

0:40:31.480 --> 0:40:34.360
<v Speaker 1>so we can all come to your gym. What's um

0:40:34.360 --> 0:40:35.920
<v Speaker 1>It is not open yet. It's gonna be a Paramount

0:40:35.960 --> 0:40:40.560
<v Speaker 1>Fitness and it's right across the river in East Nashville,

0:40:40.880 --> 0:40:44.160
<v Speaker 1>the East Side Para Paramount Fitness. Yeah, we're going. We're

0:40:44.200 --> 0:40:46.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna be on Davidson Street right there. We expecting the gym.

0:40:47.239 --> 0:40:49.920
<v Speaker 1>So the gym is going to be UM. Obviously, since

0:40:49.920 --> 0:40:52.439
<v Speaker 1>I'm a fighter, we're gonna My goal is to put

0:40:52.760 --> 0:40:55.680
<v Speaker 1>Nashville on the map as a Mixed Martial Arts city.

0:40:55.800 --> 0:40:57.440
<v Speaker 1>You know what we've We've got a couple of m

0:40:57.480 --> 0:41:00.799
<v Speaker 1>m A gyms here, but no real true blue pro

0:41:00.880 --> 0:41:04.719
<v Speaker 1>fighters that live here. We had two guys that are

0:41:04.719 --> 0:41:07.480
<v Speaker 1>in the UFC right now, Dustin Ortiz and Luke Sanders,

0:41:07.480 --> 0:41:10.200
<v Speaker 1>who are from Nashville or from Franklin that had to

0:41:10.200 --> 0:41:13.680
<v Speaker 1>go to Arizona or California to go get their training

0:41:13.719 --> 0:41:16.560
<v Speaker 1>because there's not a training hub here. So you want

0:41:16.600 --> 0:41:18.200
<v Speaker 1>to that's what I want to build. I mean, this

0:41:18.280 --> 0:41:19.920
<v Speaker 1>is it's such a big city. It's such a not

0:41:19.960 --> 0:41:22.160
<v Speaker 1>it's not a huge city anymore, but it's a growing city.

0:41:22.440 --> 0:41:24.640
<v Speaker 1>But it's a big enough city that we should have

0:41:24.680 --> 0:41:26.759
<v Speaker 1>a phenomenal fight team. You're right now, you know, so

0:41:27.400 --> 0:41:29.319
<v Speaker 1>no doubt that you're going to make this happen. So

0:41:29.360 --> 0:41:31.040
<v Speaker 1>it'll be we'll have a pro fight team, but but

0:41:31.080 --> 0:41:32.400
<v Speaker 1>it would be open to the general public. And if

0:41:32.400 --> 0:41:35.040
<v Speaker 1>we're going to have a fitness group classes and one

0:41:35.040 --> 0:41:39.120
<v Speaker 1>on one training as well as UM adults and children's

0:41:39.160 --> 0:41:43.000
<v Speaker 1>Brazilian jiu jitsu, adult and children's m m A kickboxing

0:41:43.080 --> 0:41:45.400
<v Speaker 1>classes and all that kind of stuff, plus a wrestling club,

0:41:45.440 --> 0:41:47.840
<v Speaker 1>and so we'll have to have a ton of programs

0:41:47.840 --> 0:41:50.160
<v Speaker 1>and hopefully change a bunch of people's lives, get him

0:41:50.160 --> 0:41:52.880
<v Speaker 1>in shape. Yes. Okay, So before we wrap up my

0:41:52.960 --> 0:41:55.120
<v Speaker 1>last question, I like to ask all my guests, well one,

0:41:55.200 --> 0:41:57.319
<v Speaker 1>I really want to know this from you. What is

0:41:57.880 --> 0:42:02.440
<v Speaker 1>some advice you would tell your younger self. Um, I

0:42:02.480 --> 0:42:07.240
<v Speaker 1>think just don't put so much pressure on yourself and

0:42:08.400 --> 0:42:12.400
<v Speaker 1>there's nothing wrong with being successful, Absolutely nothing wrong with

0:42:12.400 --> 0:42:16.320
<v Speaker 1>being successful. This kind of goes hand in hand with

0:42:16.360 --> 0:42:19.040
<v Speaker 1>my last question, which is leave your light, which is

0:42:19.320 --> 0:42:21.719
<v Speaker 1>leaves some inspiration. How have you been inspired? What is

0:42:21.719 --> 0:42:23.560
<v Speaker 1>it that you want your legacy to be in your

0:42:23.560 --> 0:42:28.600
<v Speaker 1>inspiration to be or how have you been so inspired? Yeah?

0:42:28.600 --> 0:42:31.359
<v Speaker 1>So I think it's it continues to go back to

0:42:31.600 --> 0:42:36.160
<v Speaker 1>realizing and counting your blessings and realizing that, um, you've

0:42:36.160 --> 0:42:38.200
<v Speaker 1>been put in a position to be able to do

0:42:38.440 --> 0:42:42.360
<v Speaker 1>to do something great, and every single day that you

0:42:42.400 --> 0:42:45.000
<v Speaker 1>don't give your best is is squandering those gifts that

0:42:45.000 --> 0:42:48.200
<v Speaker 1>you've been given. And constantly remembering that it's not that

0:42:48.239 --> 0:42:50.560
<v Speaker 1>people don't do the right things, is that people don't

0:42:50.600 --> 0:42:55.759
<v Speaker 1>do the right things for long enough? You know that's good,

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<v Speaker 1>that's been you know well, and you're you're just constant

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<v Speaker 1>work in progress. We all are gosh, I'm gonna I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to fail again, and I'm going to fail again. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but through all that, I'm going to become a successful person.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's and if you can and if you can

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<v Speaker 1>continue to move forward and continue to fight literally or

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<v Speaker 1>or figuratively for long enough, eventually you're going to continue

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<v Speaker 1>to find success. So it's not that people don't do

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<v Speaker 1>the right things. We can all do the right things

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<v Speaker 1>for a day or a week or a month. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's just that people don't do the right things for

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<v Speaker 1>long enough. And so many of us have have given

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<v Speaker 1>up on a dream or given up um on anything

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<v Speaker 1>or any endeavor just moments before they were about to

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<v Speaker 1>have that breakthrough or moments before they were finally gonna

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<v Speaker 1>shake that one hand that got them to the next level.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I think Nashville is a city of that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and it's and it's all about who you

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<v Speaker 1>know and constantly grinding and trying to make it and

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<v Speaker 1>scrape to the top, you know. And that's that's really

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<v Speaker 1>what it is. It's not that people don't do the

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<v Speaker 1>right things and that they don't do them for long enough. Heck, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Michael Chandler, you know what your second half career is. Motivationally,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to walk up. Michael Janser, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>joining me on my show. You're amazing. Thank you You're

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<v Speaker 1>the best. How inspiring was that episode? I mean, Michael

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<v Speaker 1>Chandler has to be the most inspirational person on the planet. Him,

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<v Speaker 1>Joel Ostein, and Tony Robbins, them together are the most

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<v Speaker 1>inspiring people. He is so uplifting. I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>just went to church or went to school or learned

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<v Speaker 1>so much by just being around him and hearing what

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<v Speaker 1>he had to say. I know you love that episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Get excited. Next week. I have Jesse Alexander in the house.

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<v Speaker 1>She is one of the most incredible songwriters in Nashville.

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<v Speaker 1>She wrote The Climb for Miley Cyrus. She wrote I

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<v Speaker 1>Drive Your Truck for Lee Bryce. She's written so many songs.

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<v Speaker 1>Her story is so inspirational. I mean there's a theme here.

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<v Speaker 1>I like inspirational people. So get fired up Jesse Alexander

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<v Speaker 1>next week. Se y'all soon