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Speaker 2: Your clothes finna be mill dealie, bitch, stay out there, noo,

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Speaker 2: Don't be putting that shit on anyway, country motherfuckers.

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Speaker 1: I got one the blood bank that was created by

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no hole, no iron assholes just shiverings are Nope, Nope,

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Speaker 2: they don't get no transfused.

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Speaker 1: I want to hear it. I don't want to hear nothing.

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Speaker 2: No, it's lo ugh that ain't got shit to do it.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all, it's your girl lex p Any Sugarl's

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Speaker 1: Where I drunk mind seeks sober thoughts. We ain't got

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Speaker 2: We ain't got no guests today, so you know what

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Speaker 2: When y'all see her, it's abby abbed up, abbed up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's not gonna move every single week. But

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a lot going on.

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Speaker 1: And niggas was still outside running and I said.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: If you are the type of person that runs in

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Speaker 2: I can't do it. I can't do it either. I

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Speaker 1: It did just come back to me what I went

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Speaker 3: Oh okay. It was like I had went to get

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Speaker 2: Did you know that I saw this on y'all know

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Speaker 2: I'm a TikTok scroller that when people are shoveling snow

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Speaker 3: I never knew that.

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Speaker 1: Now, what's the science behind.

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Speaker 2: It's something that has to do with like the blood

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Speaker 3: And you'll like die.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy. And then what was so crazy? Because I'm

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Speaker 2: that's really true, why don't you go.

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Speaker 3: And tell him?

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Speaker 2: Because they say it usually happens in like older men,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you need to go save his life?

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie though it was people in the

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Speaker 1: They're there moving, Yeah, normally or echo workout routine. Then yeah,

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah that happened.

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Speaker 1: That'd be in Chicago.

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Speaker 3: People be dying left or right.

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Speaker 1: Show because we're used to it now. I had to

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Speaker 3: I didn't know that.

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Speaker 2: Like what do they call it in Chicago when y'all

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Speaker 1: That's a chair, Yes, the way you leave like a

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Speaker 2: I shovel this whole spot.

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Speaker 3: This is mine. Okay, So it's like rude.

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Speaker 1: Like they be fighting. I don't want to fight. So

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Speaker 2: To fight in Atlansa with somebody.

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Speaker 6: Still.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever had somebody steal your parking.

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Speaker 1: Spot, like you was waiting to turn in and you

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Speaker 1: Bitch, can't nobody see me? No, I be trying to

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Speaker 1: But real, nobody never stole your parking spot ever.

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Speaker 2: But I also will say I've always been the type

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Speaker 1: You are like that, I'm always trying to park close

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Speaker 2: Already hit my team k steps to today.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't mind. I'm a walker.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, that's funny.

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Speaker 2: It's money, and y'all know every week we have to

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Speaker 2: I know y'all be mad because we don't be giving

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Speaker 2: But oh, I didn't want people to think I was

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Speaker 2: Path Did I see y'all wrong? Because I was gonna

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Speaker 3: Because I've been there.

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Speaker 2: But I was glad I told my truth and I

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Speaker 2: I was glad.

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Speaker 2: I was just gonna say that's good. I do think

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Speaker 3: And that's why I said, m M, I'm working on it.

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Speaker 1: But my poor decision this week?

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Speaker 3: What is my poor decision this week? You know what.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. So this has something to do

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Speaker 2: that was the worst decision I've ever made in my life.

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Speaker 1: I'm miserable. It's been very tough for me.

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Speaker 2: I should have did my closet the first thing I

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Speaker 3: Break down the tough first world problems. I know, but

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00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:11,480
Speaker 3: why you.

445
00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:13,480
Speaker 1: Didn't just hang why you didn't just hang your stuff

446
00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:16,560
Speaker 1: up in your other quasi until you got your master closet.

447
00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,480
Speaker 3: It's not enough room. I don't have enough room.

448
00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:21,480
Speaker 2: And honestly, I thought it was gonna be easy and

449
00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:24,400
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I'll have to It's awful, it's horrible,

450
00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:26,240
Speaker 2: but I'm getting my closet done this week, and I'm

451
00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:29,359
Speaker 2: just so excited because it has been months and months

452
00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:31,080
Speaker 2: of just struggling.

453
00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,800
Speaker 3: Like stuff everywhere. I get overwhelmed.

454
00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:37,240
Speaker 2: So honestly, anybody who is in the housing market or

455
00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:40,440
Speaker 2: you're buying a fixer upper, do your club, do your

456
00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:44,320
Speaker 2: closet first. Do your closet first, Please please, please please,

457
00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:47,359
Speaker 2: cause I have been in hell luck over there. So

458
00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,280
Speaker 2: I'm so happy the time has finally come. But like

459
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Speaker 2: I said, this is a learning process for me, and

460
00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:54,280
Speaker 2: I've really been enjoying the I'm glad I bought a

461
00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,480
Speaker 2: fixer upper because it's like really custom to what I

462
00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:59,280
Speaker 2: want and what I like. But I'm learning, so if

463
00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,200
Speaker 2: I do, I'm never gonna get a fixer upper again.

464
00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:07,200
Speaker 2: For myself personally, as I build, it's gonna.

465
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Speaker 1: Take a while.

466
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Speaker 3: I'm probably gonna.

467
00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,800
Speaker 2: When I start building my house, I imagine it's probably

468
00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:13,600
Speaker 2: gonna take me about two or three years to build it.

469
00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:15,919
Speaker 2: Yeah for real, for real, Like once I if I

470
00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:18,280
Speaker 2: really get in there and get the details done, I'm

471
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Speaker 2: not gonna be in that house for like two or

472
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Speaker 2: three years.

473
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Speaker 1: So but I know what to do.

474
00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:23,920
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

475
00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:25,240
Speaker 2: I know what to do because it's been a lot

476
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Speaker 2: of poor decisions I have.

477
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Speaker 3: Made with this home. Yeah, but I'm learning. You know,

478
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:30,960
Speaker 3: you live and you learn.

479
00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,240
Speaker 1: Che I feel like it is with your first anything.

480
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:34,960
Speaker 1: Like you know, it's just trial and errors.

481
00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:39,120
Speaker 2: It's fucking it all and air. But nevertheless, uh, never

482
00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:44,920
Speaker 2: the less, I'm an nevertheless, INFI what's the hell cub

483
00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:45,680
Speaker 2: that ain't no water?

484
00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:48,320
Speaker 1: I got this drinking?

485
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,160
Speaker 3: My good shout out to Kirk.

486
00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:53,080
Speaker 1: Actually it's not water, it's Taylor pork.

487
00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:55,480
Speaker 3: So what's your poor decision, Chap?

488
00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:00,879
Speaker 2: So my poor decision? Us man?

489
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:03,840
Speaker 1: Okay, my best friend Lynn, she had came and spent

490
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 1: the night over my house during like the ice storm

491
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:12,120
Speaker 1: or whatever, and we had these THHC drinks that we

492
00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:16,439
Speaker 1: were drinking. And y'all, when I say we had the munchies.

493
00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

494
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,919
Speaker 1: I just kept getting up and going to the kitchen

495
00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,080
Speaker 1: and was like, well, I'm just gonna get one little snack,

496
00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:26,200
Speaker 1: one more little snack. And we was eating so much stuff,

497
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,960
Speaker 1: like we bust down a whole bag of popcorn, a

498
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:31,159
Speaker 1: hall bag of trail mix. I mean, it was somewhere

499
00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 1: healthy snacks, but then you know, anything isn't really that

500
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:38,479
Speaker 1: healthy if you're eating the whole day, the whole bag,

501
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:41,119
Speaker 1: it's like ten serving in the bag. But we was

502
00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:47,560
Speaker 1: busting them snacks dime, so weak, and we was high spun, yes,

503
00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:52,640
Speaker 1: crazy because we had drunk like two of them, yes,

504
00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:56,399
Speaker 1: no one a pee Okay, well we had two. We

505
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 1: had two different cans, so we both drunk half of

506
00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:03,359
Speaker 1: each one like through after that and when you was

507
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,159
Speaker 1: watching movies and stuff, and then she was like, I

508
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 1: don't know, do you feel anything, because I don't really

509
00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:11,560
Speaker 1: feel anything any She just started laughing randomly, and I'm like,

510
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 1: are you sure you don't feel anything?

511
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:13,640
Speaker 2: Y'all?

512
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:14,200
Speaker 3: Are so so?

513
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:14,879
Speaker 2: Now?

514
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, we was up in that beach, high as fuck

515
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:21,240
Speaker 1: and just snacking and I'm just not even a snacker, Like, yeah,

516
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 1: I'm not, like I could have literally I be having

517
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:25,159
Speaker 1: snacks in my house and it'd be lasting me for

518
00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:28,440
Speaker 1: like weeks, because every once in a while I want

519
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:30,760
Speaker 1: a little some something. But for the most part, I'm

520
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,919
Speaker 1: like a person who really like meals. But when I

521
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 1: tell you all I'm snacks long, they all.

522
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Speaker 3: Go, was it like p.

523
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,440
Speaker 1: No, it wasn't procause you know what's funny, I don't

524
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 1: even really like popcorn for real. I think it's because

525
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 1: when I used to have my braces, you know, it's

526
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,200
Speaker 1: such a long list of things that you're not supposed

527
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,800
Speaker 1: to eat, so I couldn't eat popcorn for a really

528
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 1: long time. And I just also don't like the way

529
00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 1: like the kernels and stuff said I'm colonel, yeah, be

530
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 1: getting stuck in your teeth, Like I don't like it.

531
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:06,160
Speaker 1: But because I am doing seventy five hard right now,

532
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 1: I've been trying to find like super healthy snacks. So

533
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 1: they had these popcorn at Trader Joe's, and oh my guy,

534
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,160
Speaker 1: when I tell you, I've already ate like six bags

535
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:19,880
Speaker 1: of it in the past like three weeks. I know,

536
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 1: I know, but it's so good. It's the kilcorn because

537
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,359
Speaker 1: you know, I'm doing no dairy and stuff with seventy

538
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,879
Speaker 1: five hard, so I'll be having to read the ingredients

539
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,639
Speaker 1: and stuff. And it was like the only popcorn that

540
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 1: they had that only had four ingredients sugar, salt, I think.

541
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 3: Probably some kind of palm oil or something.

542
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, like some flower oil something, but it didn't have

543
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 1: no butter or anything. Legs. When I tell you this

544
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:51,640
Speaker 1: popcorn is so good, like, I'll be tearing that popcorn

545
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,159
Speaker 1: up a bear's how many bags I've went through in

546
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Speaker 1: like three weeks.

547
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 2: I think the only thing about healthy snacks that I

548
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 2: don't like it's just the overload of protein. They be

549
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 2: like protein protein dip, protein, water protein, protein, protein soap,

550
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 2: protein enough for the goddamn protein.

551
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 3: Ooh.

552
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:11,919
Speaker 1: But speaking of protein snacks, them Quest chips. Have you

553
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 1: ever tried to question chip?

554
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 2: They're good? They tried them before, but then like them,

555
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 2: I want a real potatoes you want.

556
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 1: To I don't want this ship. If I'm on a

557
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 1: healthy kick, I would just rather.

558
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,120
Speaker 2: Get my protein from the chicken and sayd I don't

559
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 2: want no protein chipping protein deal. I made some nachos

560
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 2: the Quest protein chips with turky, ground turky and black beef.

561
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 2: It was good enough when you get off y'all Chinese die.

562
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 2: You should try it.

563
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:47,880
Speaker 3: I don't eat that my We only eat egg drop soup.

564
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,040
Speaker 3: Me soa soup. We are good.

565
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 2: Okay, warm lemon water, that's it.

566
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:53,920
Speaker 1: We are good.

567
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,359
Speaker 2: Okay. Yes, that was my bad. That was my poor

568
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:57,400
Speaker 2: decision for the weed.

569
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:01,360
Speaker 1: A little splurge. You've been doing really, thank you. I'm

570
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 1: try not to be so hard on myself. But yes,

571
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 1: it is black history mine, how to the people?

572
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 2: Amen.

573
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 1: So we're gonna talk about like some fun little black

574
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 1: history facts and stuff. But then, but before we get

575
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,919
Speaker 1: in today, I want to talk about this all white

576
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,879
Speaker 1: town in Arkansas. Have you heard about Oh?

577
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 2: I thought she's about to say Orange, that's not why

578
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 2: all whites not there?

579
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 1: But and didn't you say little Mauriceville. That's what the

580
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: black bro is, a little cypress Mariasville.

581
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 2: But there's a lot of West Orange is like you know,

582
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 2: you know, somebody left the comment side note and they

583
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 2: were like, why does Lex talk about Orange like it's

584
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 2: all white?

585
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 3: There's plenty of black.

586
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 2: I never said it was always I said I went

587
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 2: to a predominantly white school. Y'all be trying to clock

588
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 2: my tea, and it's like, let's move on for I

589
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 2: curse somebody I'm working on myself.

590
00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand they do be trying to clock it

591
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 1: time that to both of us, but yees, So, it

592
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: is this all white town in Arkansas and basically like

593
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: no black people live there. So do you feel like

594
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: because it's all white town and none of us are

595
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: welcome there, that they should get rid of all of

596
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:17,359
Speaker 1: our motherfucking and bemchain apps?

597
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 3: So fucking lutely I think tho too, and no offense.

598
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 2: That's why have y'all seen that on TikTok, that family

599
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 2: that they had to come and like kind of save

600
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 2: them because they were in bread so bad. They were severely,

601
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:33,400
Speaker 2: severely like mentally like I don't know what the word

602
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 2: I'm looking for, but it was bad. It looked like

603
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 2: the hills have eyes type of people. Yeah, so stay

604
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:42,119
Speaker 2: y'all g asses over there and keep our inventions out

605
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:43,880
Speaker 2: of there. You know, I'm perfectly fine with that, cause

606
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,360
Speaker 2: people that have that type of thinking. I don't want

607
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 2: y'all in society anyway, because y'all are type of people

608
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 2: that do dangerous things to people who don't look like you.

609
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 2: Y'all are ignorant, y'all don't deserve to be around people

610
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,880
Speaker 2: that are normal because you are weird. I think it's

611
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 2: so weird how in twenty twenty six we are still

612
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 2: separating people by their skin color. How ignorant can you be? Now,

613
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 2: it's just a bunch of dumb asses in one town.

614
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 2: Can't count one plus one? Ugly motherfuckers too, Okay, ain't

615
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 2: a bad bitch.

616
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 1: And site well, the name of the organization is called

617
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 1: Return to the Land, and it's based in northeastern Arkansas.

618
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 1: And they have a whites only community on privately owned

619
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:29,399
Speaker 1: land in rural Arkansas. And it was founded in twenty

620
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:31,439
Speaker 1: twenty three. But it says okay, they own about one

621
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: hundred and sixty acres in the Ozark region. It's is

622
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 1: the Ozark region.

623
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Speaker 2: Where that show was found. It seemed like its on

624
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 2: that show. Yes, So now can you look that up time?

625
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,719
Speaker 1: Because I was never a really an Ozark watcher.

626
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I watched like the first season, but I don't know,

627
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:49,880
Speaker 2: I just didn't stick to it. That one was set

628
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 2: in o Sage Beach, Missouri.

629
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, all right, but yeah, I just think

630
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,959
Speaker 1: that's so interesting that it's still places like that in

631
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 1: twenty twenty six. Yeah, it's very weird. People are y'all

632
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: are so weird, it is.

633
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 2: It's very strange.

634
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 3: So one thing that y'all can't have is traffic lights.

635
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 2: Whole ass niggas run into each other and crash and burn.

636
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 1: Bitch, don't I if.

637
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 3: I see them on the fucking traffic like, bitch.

638
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: Blow that bitch up, Blow that bitch up? What else?

639
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 3: Drell?

640
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 1: They can't have ice cream schools.

641
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 3: And you know they love protein ice cream.

642
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:26,360
Speaker 1: Bitch, put it off.

643
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,400
Speaker 2: I would be miserable if I couldn't have no protein

644
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 2: ice cream. You know, Bluebell made some protein ice cream

645
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 2: they do. It's coming out, But you know, I don't

646
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 2: really eat.

647
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 1: Ice cream anywhere unless it's like, what is that stuff

648
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 1: called so Delicious?

649
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 3: I don't know what that is.

650
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 1: It's like a coconut milk bas ice cream.

651
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 2: It's really good. Though. Another thing y'all can't have y'all

652
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 2: can't dry y'all clothes. The clothes dryer was invented by

653
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 2: George T.

654
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 3: Sampson.

655
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 2: Your clothes fitna be mill dealing, bitch, stay out there

656
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 2: enough damn ass clothes, Bitch, hang it up on the

657
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 2: clothes line. I better see cloth, those pins, nothing but

658
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 2: your clothes hanging up, y'all.

659
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 3: Don't be putting that ship on anyway.

660
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 2: Country, motherfuckers, hang that ship up on the clothesline. Bitch,

661
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 2: I got.

662
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: One the blood bank that was created by doctor Charles Drew.

663
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 1: If we ain't welcome to your town beach, you on

664
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Speaker 1: need our blood die.

665
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

666
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Speaker 2: No lighthole, no iron assholes, just shivery are nope, Nope,

667
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 2: they don't get no transfused.

668
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear it. I don't want to

669
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Speaker 1: hear nothing.

670
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 3: No, it's.

671
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 2: That ain't got ship to do it, ain't.

672
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 3: Got shipped to do with us. Ooh, this is a

673
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 3: good one.

674
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 2: Touch screen tech contributions that was by doctor Samuel C.

675
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Speaker 2: Collins and others. Give me that my phones, give them

676
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 2: my betch Yeah. I don't want to see no no

677
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 2: skinning or nothing, no nothing with that. Put it up.

678
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 1: That's for us, keeping it on this side, bitch.

679
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 3: Okay, that's a good one.

680
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 2: That motherfucker is gonna be the dark with candles and

681
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 2: it can't be the candles that uh that Drake made

682
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 2: it because you know Drake got a candle line. Those

683
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 2: are for us two, bitch, he deleted.

684
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, he did a long time ago. I didn't know

685
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 3: that he had a candle line.

686
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 2: But he don't have it no more.

687
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: I don't know.

688
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 2: But if they can try to buy a candle not

689
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 2: Drake put it back, put the bit so.

690
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 1: The folding chair. Uh huh uh huh?

691
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 3: What am I here? I got mad?

692
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 2: I said, And don't youse sprint season if I'm mad

693
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 2: now my blood pressure high. But I could get a transfusion.

694
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 2: I can get one. Go ahead ahead.

695
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: The folding chair. Which is good because once we beat

696
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: y'all ass with them age.

697
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 3: A moment in his in history.

698
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 2: We need to bring this ship. Bring it back. No barbecues.

699
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 2: I better see four dining chairs in your yard when

700
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 2: y'all have a barbecue.

701
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 3: Bitch, you know what I'm saying.

702
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 2: I agree, no voting chairs for you.

703
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 3: Home security systems. That was invented by Marie van Britton Brown.

704
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 1: Leave that ship.

705
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 2: I don't want no rings.

706
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck if a white man invented it.

707
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 3: You know who it came from.

708
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 2: Marie put it back. No vivid, No, no, I didn't

709
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 2: even want to see a fucking What is the thing

710
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 2: the Google the Google.

711
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 1: Speak Siri, No of that. No, Siri, no, Alexa nothing,

712
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 1: put it back? No, iye home, put it none of that.

713
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: I'm not playing with you, motherfuckers.

714
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 3: You don't understand what.

715
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 2: Okay y'are asking. I'm okay. Pull it tis shoe holder

716
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 2: by lighter D. Newman. Yeah, put that ship on.

717
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 1: The counter, y'all don't wipe anyway, They don't.

718
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not talking about all of y'all. I'm talking

719
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 2: about the people in this town. Yeah, I know they

720
00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 2: don't be wiping.

721
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 3: Just now, put it the funk back.

722
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 2: Sit your toilet paper on the groundhold ad nigga set

723
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 2: it on the ground.

724
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 1: You don't.

725
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 3: You're not fit to.

726
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: Prop that bitch up? Are you some white? But don't

727
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: get no toilet paper holder?

728
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 2: And then this is a this is a good one too.

729
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 2: Microphones by James Edward West. I don't want to see

730
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,239
Speaker 2: no motherfucking podcast coming out that bit.

731
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 1: Put it but.

732
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 3: I don't want to hear no old welcome to the podcast.

733
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: Motherfucking poecast. Put it back. Well, just in that one,

734
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 1: little eerie Yeah.

735
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 3: Just in that one.

736
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 1: Put it back. Bitch, put it back. But I do

737
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 1: I think that's crazy, And I know they using all

738
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 1: that ship Peanut butter.

739
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 3: And jay. You know they love a mean peanut butter cooking.

740
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 1: Now put it back. I like a peanut butter cook

741
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 1: they love a little girl scout.

742
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 3: You can't eat it. That's not for you. That is

743
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 3: not for you. I surely feel like if you.

744
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 2: Do not like people and don't get us, even other

745
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,479
Speaker 2: races who haven't be any things because they said not

746
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 2: only blacks, non whites, curious only. I don't want to

747
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 2: see no motherfucking taco night, no butter chicken.

748
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 1: You better not eat no egg.

749
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 2: Drop soup because that's my other people. I don't want

750
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 2: to see none of that shit on your plate, unseasoned chicken.

751
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 1: Only good thing is I don't think you was EVI

752
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: gonna see what's on a plate anyways. Because you're not

753
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 1: welcome there you was in, they'll probably run you out

754
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 1: of town.

755
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 2: They would, they would. I don't give a damn man.

756
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 2: It's just nasty of them.

757
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: But I wonder do they go other places or do

758
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 1: they just stay there? If you live out that if

759
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 1: you leave out of the town, I mean, you're gonna

760
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:46,239
Speaker 1: run into other people that aren't right. But imagine these

761
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: people like probably used to be somebody's neighbor. That's just

762
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: a scary thought. And I know it smelled crazy.

763
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 2: In there in there, yeah, in the society one hundred

764
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 2: and sixty acres of fucking bullshit.

765
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, it's m m mm mm mmm. So

766
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 3: prayers down to y'all.

767
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 2: Y'all are very very strange, and shout out to all

768
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 2: all jokes aside. Shout out to all the black creators

769
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 2: and black inventors out there, all of our brothers and

770
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 2: sisters who have helped us advance and all that great technology,

771
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 2: good foods and things that we use to this day.

772
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 1: Yes, we are innovators. They can't do shit without it.

773
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 2: Here, all right, y'all, this one is smooth grown, it's

774
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 2: a little classic, but at the same time it's elevated.

775
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 1: We're starting it off with Taylor port Rich Jimmy and

776
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Speaker 1: giving dark fruit energy.

777
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 3: Yes.

778
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 2: Then we balance it out with some bourbon because you

779
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 2: already know.

780
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:43,320
Speaker 1: So you know, we had to add a few dashes

781
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 1: of bitters to tighten it up. Keep it classy and

782
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:47,319
Speaker 1: not too sweet.

783
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 2: Yes, stir it down nice and slow. Let everything just

784
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 2: you know, get acquainted together.

785
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 1: So you know, you got to finish with an expressed

786
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 1: orange peel oils only because Arama matters and we're doing

787
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: this with Ki. This is a slow, simple, late night

788
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: conversation vibe. That's why we're calling this one couch confession.

789
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 2: It's smooth, layered and built for real talk. This one's

790
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 2: for you.

791
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,799
Speaker 1: So for topic number two, I wanted to talk about

792
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: an old topic. So I saw somebody leave a comment

793
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 1: and they was just kind of like, why don't y'all

794
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: revisit some of the old topics that y'all talked about

795
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 1: and see if y'all have a different perspective now. So

796
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:28,879
Speaker 1: I think that would be fun for us to start doing,

797
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 1: not every week, but like on some of the episodes.

798
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:32,359
Speaker 2: So for this.

799
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:34,800
Speaker 1: Topic, I wanted to talk about how do you argue?

800
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 1: Are you an emotional arguer? And this is something that we.

801
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 2: Talked about before years ago.

802
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: I can't, and that's probably what we should try to do.

803
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 1: Toolip and inserted and good.

804
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 2: Because I want when y'all insert the clip, I don't

805
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:49,839
Speaker 2: know what I said. So if we can find a clip,

806
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 2: we're gonna insert ituse you can see my answer.

807
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 3: But I'm not gonna lie.

808
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,879
Speaker 2: If we're having a heated discussion, don't let me get

809
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 2: my turn. Them words fenna flow and then I'm gonna

810
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 2: say some me because I like to cut a person deep.

811
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 2: I like that little dagger.

812
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:04,880
Speaker 3: In the heart.

813
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 1: What if you can't come back from there?

814
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 3: That's all right.

815
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 2: I love to use a big word because everybody ain't

816
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 2: that articy because but see, and that's why I don't

817
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 2: like ar you with smart people.

818
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love it because.

819
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 1: I love to use a word that I know.

820
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 2: You're not gonna understand, hold on because what the hell that?

821
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 2: But you can't say hold on there? You can't.

822
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be good. You lost. I never lose.

823
00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 2: You lost if you had to stop and pause. Luckily

824
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 2: for me, anytime we've argued, I be prepared because I

825
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 2: talked to you a lot, so I know the words

826
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 2: that you be using, like like perplexed. The first time

827
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 2: you used perplexity, you said legs.

828
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: I was stole perplexed.

829
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 2: I said, what the hell does that mean that you

830
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 2: just call me the N word.

831
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 1: I wouldn't consider myself necessarily an argumentative person. I'm a confronter,

832
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,760
Speaker 1: but I'm not an argumentative person because I will confront

833
00:36:56,840 --> 00:37:00,359
Speaker 1: you if you have me missed up. But I'm trying

834
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: to argue with you though, because I said what I said.

835
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 1: That's really the type of person I am, And it's

836
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: probably my problem in my downfall because I'm gonna say

837
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: what I gotta say and I ain't trying to We

838
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 1: ain't about to go back and forth about it.

839
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 2: I said what I said, and that's what I'm standing on.

840
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 1: That's my favorite Carlos joke. What you said, what you said?

841
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 2: That's the classic go if you know you know? But anyways, no,

842
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 2: you know what about me that pisces people after and

843
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 2: all our argument. I'm confrontational, but I ain't trying to

844
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 2: argue with you. I just got to geet it off

845
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 2: my chair. And you know, for me, I'm like more

846
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 2: so is people will be mad as hell going off

847
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 2: on me, and I'll be like, I'll try to crack

848
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 2: a joke because I feel so uncomfortable. Yeah, like that's

849
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 2: the only thing I know how to do. Like, yeah,

850
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 2: I will crack it.

851
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 3: My man is like that too.

852
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 2: But honestly, now, I will say, it depends on what

853
00:37:54,920 --> 00:38:00,040
Speaker 2: it is, but I will say I definitely go into.

854
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 3: Our being more logical now than I used to be.

855
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 2: I feel like when I look back on certain things

856
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 2: I would get mad at, or certain things that would.

857
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:09,280
Speaker 3: Blow like I would blow up about.

858
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 2: I'm like, if I would have handled that better, I

859
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 2: would things would have been easier and better with our communication.

860
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 2: So I feel like one hundred percent. Sometimes I still

861
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 2: do get out of character a little bit, like I said,

862
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 2: depending on what it is, but one hundred percent now,

863
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 2: I definitely think about things before I say it. I

864
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:28,800
Speaker 2: don't speak from emotion, because when I speak from emotion,

865
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,359
Speaker 2: I say hurtful things. I say things I don't mean,

866
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:34,280
Speaker 2: and sometimes you say things that you really can't take back,

867
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 2: and you take things too far.

868
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 3: And I've learned.

869
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 2: That from even like my past situations that I've been

870
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 2: in with like friends, people I've dated.

871
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 3: So I think now I definitely I definitely argue.

872
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 2: And I don't even like to use the word argue

873
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 2: because I don't even feel like me and my partner

874
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 2: don't really argue now. And now I think that's something

875
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 2: that we've grown in in our cause at first, maybe

876
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 2: it was World War three and that motherfucker, yeah, but

877
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 2: now it's like we have this agreements and we talk

878
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:04,840
Speaker 2: it out, you know, And I think I try to

879
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 2: go in from a logical standpoint. I don't always succeed,

880
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 2: but I'm growing and I'm learning very different how it

881
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,879
Speaker 2: used to be, because it used to be like, fuck you, nigga,

882
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 2: I hope your mama just fucked that bitch with a

883
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 2: crusty ass and she had a crusty ass son.

884
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 3: Both of y'all just crusty, the crusty twins. Bitch.

885
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 1: You think I give a fuck about a nigga with a.

886
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:34,279
Speaker 2: Crusty mama, don't eat.

887
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 1: I used to just bring niggas mama's.

888
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:40,840
Speaker 2: I used to talk about niggas so bad when I

889
00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 2: got it because I.

890
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,319
Speaker 3: Wanted to hurt them so bad.

891
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 2: But so I don't do that no more. I definitely don't,

892
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 2: cause it's like, no, m hm, no, what about you?

893
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 1: My absence is gonna hurt you. So I've never and

894
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 1: I've never been like an emotional arguer because I don't

895
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 1: like arguing on people to be because I'm gonna take

896
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 1: it to the moon. I don't like being taken to

897
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 1: a place to have to argue with people because if

898
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 1: I have to argue with you.

899
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 2: I'm going her show feeling, yeah, like I'm going to.

900
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:13,839
Speaker 1: Hur show feeling. So I just don't even like I'm

901
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,399
Speaker 1: really more of a bitch, I'm just not gonna talk

902
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:19,239
Speaker 1: to you type of person. And I always been like that,

903
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 1: like I'm not entertaining this bullshe like, and when we

904
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 1: do have a conversation, if you being emotional, I'm really like, Okay, bro,

905
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:30,360
Speaker 1: I'm really not entertaining this bullshit. Go away from you

906
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 1: with these Yes, it's like I just I don't be

907
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:39,879
Speaker 1: having time like and because to me also, anybody I've

908
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 1: just never really been into like that super toxic sheet.

909
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:46,840
Speaker 1: I feel like anybody who can make me argue with

910
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 1: them all the time or make me want to like

911
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:50,439
Speaker 1: go back and forth with them, you're not a good

912
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 1: person to be in my life, m h. Because I'm

913
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 1: naturally a person who I don't I don't be on

914
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,319
Speaker 1: that type of shit. Yes, so if you bring that

915
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,120
Speaker 1: out of me, you're not a good person that I

916
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 1: need around me. Because why should we be dealing with

917
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:06,879
Speaker 1: each other if we always arguing? Are we always trying

918
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 1: to say something to like hurt each other or have

919
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 1: one up on each other or oh you said this,

920
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna say this back like that shit just

921
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:16,359
Speaker 1: always being like childish to me, And like I said,

922
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 1: like maybe because I am a tourist and like, we

923
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 1: just don't fucking play this. She like, we only about

924
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 1: to do so much argument. Yeah, yeah, before I'm ready

925
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 1: to punch you, as I don't feel like to argue

926
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 1: with people like I remember vividly one argument that I

927
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 1: had with this girl that I used to live with,

928
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 1: and I was about to hit the home side the

929
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: head with a glass, remember that, and luckily my best

930
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 1: friend was there.

931
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 3: I remember you called me and I was like, what

932
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 3: the down the tea was hot?

933
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was about to stack fire out there.

934
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 3: I remember that because, bitch, what we.

935
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:48,919
Speaker 1: Not about to do is keep going back and forth,

936
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 1: especially when you're standing in my room. Yes she would

937
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 1: that wouldn't get out sitting on the edge of my

938
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: bed and telling me you not about to get out?

939
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,799
Speaker 1: Oh you about to get the fuck out now? A

940
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 1: vile or I'm a four show assuut it was? But yeah,

941
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: so like, I just don't be with all this shit,

942
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 1: and I feel like, when you and a person respect

943
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 1: each other, y'all not gonna be having a whole bunch

944
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 1: of arguments all the time.

945
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:16,879
Speaker 3: Yeah. I agree with that point. You said too.

946
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 2: You have to notice when people bring a certain side

947
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:24,439
Speaker 2: out of you that you really don't even like. I'm

948
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 2: not gonna lie to you. I'm really like when I'm

949
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 2: around my friends and like certain people, I'm like a

950
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 2: great ball of fun. And then I was noticing this

951
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 2: person I was around every time.

952
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 3: It was like I would just turn.

953
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, it got to the point to where I

954
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 2: didn't even recognize myself and I had to take a

955
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 2: step back, like, girl, what are you doing? Why is

956
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 2: every time you're around this person you don't feel good.

957
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 2: They're saying things to you that make you feel bad.

958
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 2: You just get in a molde that's not you. I

959
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 2: got a protective mode because I felt like, let me

960
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 2: protect myself against you. I should not have to feel

961
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 2: like I need to protect myself when I'm around you.

962
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 2: So I think that's stuff that we need to take

963
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 2: note of. That was an excellent point. If you bring

964
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 2: out a side of me that is not normal, Like

965
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 2: when I'm around my friends, we drink, we have a

966
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 2: good time, we party even if we're not drinking, we're

967
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:14,920
Speaker 2: just being girls having a good time.

968
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 1: That arguing shit is just that's too much. And like

969
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 1: I said, like I'm just not even trying to go

970
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 1: there with people because I am I be taking it

971
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 1: to the moon when I argue with you people, But

972
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:26,760
Speaker 1: I just don't even want to be brought to that place.

973
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:30,759
Speaker 1: I like to stay in my happy place. But do

974
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 1: you feel like when people cry or they are emotional

975
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 1: doing art during an argument, people don't take them as series.

976
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 2: I do to a certain extent because I'm the type

977
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:44,320
Speaker 2: of person everything makes me cry. I cry when I'm happy,

978
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,760
Speaker 2: I cry when I'm sad. I cry when I'm mad.

979
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 2: That's just my I don't know why my body does that.

980
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:53,399
Speaker 2: I cry for every emotion. So sometimes when I feel

981
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 2: like I'm mad, like people be like, oh look at

982
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 2: this week ass, So it's like, no, bitch, I'm fucking mad.

983
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 2: So sometimes I be feeling like how Candy.

984
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 3: Used to be. That's my mama. That's my mama.

985
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:07,759
Speaker 2: That's a happy Oh boy starts shaving.

986
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,840
Speaker 3: That's my mama.

987
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 2: That's a harpy.

988
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 1: Because I know you don't.

989
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 2: People you not like, does what the I sound like? Candy?

990
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 3: That's my mama.

991
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 2: And I feel like, because that's my mama, BA, you

992
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 2: got me fucked up. So sometimes I do think crying

993
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 2: makes people look weak, But don't get it twisted. You

994
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,359
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying now, I do think there are

995
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 2: certain people who cry to be manipulated. That's what I was.

996
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 1: About to say.

997
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 2: I don't think.

998
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 1: I don't never really think that it makes people look weak.

999
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,839
Speaker 1: I just hate when people be crying when we get

1000
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 1: into it, because, bitch, you should have thought about that

1001
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: ship before you wanted to argue with me, or you

1002
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 1: know what the fuck you need, So why are you

1003
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 1: surprised that we arguing and now you want to pull

1004
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 1: out the crying car. I hate people who cry when

1005
00:44:58,520 --> 00:44:59,760
Speaker 1: they know what the fuck they need.

1006
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 3: And then it you do it.

1007
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you've been doing it.

1008
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 2: I mean, that's that's why. That's why I asked looking

1009
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 2: at you.

1010
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 1: Definitely used to do that all the time, and I'll

1011
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:09,800
Speaker 1: be like, bro.

1012
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 3: I'm still crying.

1013
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:14,840
Speaker 1: I can't help me every argument though, Like.

1014
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:17,399
Speaker 2: Right here we go again.

1015
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, but That's what I'm saying.

1016
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:22,279
Speaker 1: I don't do it on purpose, and honestly I don't.

1017
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 2: I actually try not to because I know what it

1018
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 2: looks like and I know when it comes off ast.

1019
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,439
Speaker 2: So like sometimes like if I'm arguing with a friend

1020
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 2: or me or somebody we're not seeing out of eye.

1021
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 3: I'll be like, Okay, either let's talk.

1022
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:36,839
Speaker 2: About this later when I can gather myself, or I

1023
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 2: just try to like, okay, give me a give me

1024
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,240
Speaker 2: a second, or I try to hold back my tears.

1025
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 2: But sometimes when I start talking, when it's my turn talking,

1026
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 2: and you know, but I will say I have had

1027
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 2: disagreements with friends in the past before where it's just like, girl,

1028
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 2: you trying.

1029
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:55,439
Speaker 3: You trying me right now, like you you can't.

1030
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 2: This is gonna make me feel like, oh, let no, girl,

1031
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 2: you know what you did. Because I've been in situations

1032
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 2: where somebody did things purposely to me to hurt me,

1033
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,359
Speaker 2: and you're trying to cry.

1034
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 3: As a defense mechanism.

1035
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 2: Yeah. But and then I've had people who did things

1036
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 2: and it's like they didn't know necessarily it was gonna

1037
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:15,320
Speaker 2: hurt my feelings or something, and I know they didn't

1038
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 2: mean it they and you can just kind of tell

1039
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 2: I think in that situation because it's like girl, you

1040
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:24,319
Speaker 2: trying it. But I get that sometimes people just can't

1041
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:24,839
Speaker 2: help it.

1042
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 1: It's like my mama always say, get them a t

1043
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 1: shoe and finish what you're saying.

1044
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, here, you go clean it up.

1045
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: But like I was saying right now, my mom gonna

1046
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,319
Speaker 1: be like, tears, don't let them tears move you. But

1047
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: my mama always been like that, even with me, like

1048
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:41,279
Speaker 1: she gonna still say what she has to say. She

1049
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: don't give an amble about you crying because at the

1050
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 1: end of the day, majority of the time, people know

1051
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 1: what they did.

1052
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 3: So why you crying?

1053
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:48,959
Speaker 2: Now? You wasn't crying.

1054
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 3: Me did. Yeah, that's a tourist thing.

1055
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 2: But my mom was like that for I don't because

1056
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 2: again I'm a cry baby girl.

1057
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 1: Shut the hell up, girl. She didn't girl, Shut up, girl, Yeah,

1058
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 1: finish it. I mean, especially because me and Y'allama got

1059
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 1: the same. Oh my God used to be like, oh.

1060
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:07,959
Speaker 2: She did, and she used to be like, I don't

1061
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 2: give a fuck about you crying, brouh, go do what

1062
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 2: I said you were supposed to do.

1063
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:15,279
Speaker 1: I won't say that to people. I don't really say

1064
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 1: it to people when they be cryme. But I be thinking,

1065
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 1: any of my head, bitch, I don't give it damn anyways,

1066
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 1: Like I was saying, but I don't know, what do

1067
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 1: you think? Tay? Are you an emotional arguer?

1068
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 8: I used to like to fight, why what?

1069
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 2: For real?

1070
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 1: I would get mad really quickly. So maybe that's the

1071
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: emotional signe. Yeah, and that I'm more logical, especially now

1072
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 1: I agree one hundred percent, like I love my peace.

1073
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 1: I don't even if I know a situation is going

1074
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 1: to be like some confrontation, I'm like even more hesitant

1075
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 1: now I think through it. What am I gonna say?

1076
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 2: How am I presenting myself?

1077
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:58,399
Speaker 1: Because I just would like to avoid any confrontation at all.

1078
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I used to be ready to throw them, but

1079
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 2: I'm weird.

1080
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 1: I get when I get mad, I get real mad,

1081
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 1: Like I just don't like going It's like you're up

1082
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 1: to one hundred. Somebody was telling me the other day.

1083
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: They was just like you be letting stuff slide off

1084
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 1: your back a lot. Like I feel like you don't

1085
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 1: really let stuff like get you super riuld up, like,

1086
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 1: and that's intentional because I feel like when I was younger,

1087
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,560
Speaker 1: I d like I used to get really upset about

1088
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: a lot of shit. Now I just be like, it's

1089
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 1: not even that big of a deal. It's not something

1090
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: that's gonna matter in a few hours. I don't work

1091
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 1: myself up over it because when I get mad, i'd

1092
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: be ready to fight too. Yeah, I'm a high fighter though,

1093
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 1: because I haven't gotten a fight in a really long time,

1094
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:37,920
Speaker 1: so I wouldn't call myself a fighter. But when I

1095
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:41,840
Speaker 1: was younger, I did use yeah, when I was in

1096
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:43,839
Speaker 1: high school and middle school and somebody used to get

1097
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:44,320
Speaker 1: in fights.

1098
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:46,799
Speaker 2: I will say, though, I haven't seen you be like

1099
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 2: upset like that like that for real.

1100
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:52,800
Speaker 1: Since that friendship, it was like all.

1101
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 2: Something like every day I'm like, what the actual fuck?

1102
00:48:57,480 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 2: This situation is actually worse than what I thought it

1103
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 2: was gonna be.

1104
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 3: Till this day, I have never.

1105
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,799
Speaker 1: Seen the day. To this day, I still have not.

1106
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 3: Seen you just be around somebody.

1107
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 2: It was just like it was draining for me to

1108
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 2: feel that energy come.

1109
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:15,240
Speaker 3: It was so weird.

1110
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:17,799
Speaker 1: Because I really can't be bothered by a lot of sheep.

1111
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:19,879
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know that about me. In order

1112
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:23,280
Speaker 1: to be bothered by things, you have to care. And

1113
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 1: I hope it doesn't sound bad, but then I mean

1114
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 1: will if it does. I really don't be giving a

1115
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 1: fuck about a lot of sheep, you know what I mean?

1116
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 1: So that's why I think things just don't ever bother me.

1117
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: But that particular situation, because that girl was just she

1118
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 1: was so weird and I've had a lot of weird

1119
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,800
Speaker 1: friendships over the years, like with different girls. Girls I

1120
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:45,719
Speaker 1: don't know, they just don't need some weird sheep, but

1121
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 1: like she was by far the weirdiest one to the

1122
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:51,319
Speaker 1: point that it was like, I can't do this, And

1123
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:53,320
Speaker 1: that's why the friendship didn't last, because I was literally

1124
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 1: about to whoop her ass.

1125
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 2: And if it gets to that point, we can't be friends.

1126
00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 1: And we lived together, yeah, I would have in fight.

1127
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:03,360
Speaker 2: It would have been asked, all of them, not their apartment.

1128
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:08,400
Speaker 2: That was a lot of ass in that friendship. It was.

1129
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 2: It's more all over the polways.

1130
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 1: But yes, And like, I just think what you said

1131
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 1: is a really good point though, because I think that's

1132
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 1: a testament to the people that I keep around now too,

1133
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:25,279
Speaker 1: Like if somebody is making you feel that way or

1134
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 1: taking you to that place, get rid of them immediately immediately,

1135
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 1: because they're not somebody that needs to be in your life.

1136
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:32,880
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody worth taking penitentiary chance?

1137
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 3: Penitentiary serious?

1138
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:37,799
Speaker 1: I mean, because if you want somebody asked and then

1139
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 1: they say that you assaulted.

1140
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 2: Them, you will go to jail for that.

1141
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 1: Shee, especially if you swung first. Definitely about to swing first,

1142
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 1: if you.

1143
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 2: Would have hit her in the head with that glass.

1144
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 2: You would have definitely been in jail.

1145
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 1: I would have smiling shot.

1146
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 2: Ah, yeah I did.

1147
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:57,440
Speaker 3: Alright, So y'all let us know. Are you an emotional

1148
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 3: are you?

1149
00:50:58,080 --> 00:50:59,440
Speaker 1: Are you more logic?

1150
00:50:59,600 --> 00:50:59,839
Speaker 3: Do you?

1151
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 1: Do you not cry?

1152
00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:03,320
Speaker 3: Because I'm a lex Is gonna cry?

1153
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:05,320
Speaker 2: Lexis the cry.

1154
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:07,839
Speaker 3: Everything makes me crying. I'm gonna cry right now.

1155
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 1: I only ever cried in arguments. What I mean, same

1156
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 1: with my friends. I don't cry argue me, but I

1157
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 1: rarely argue with my friends.

1158
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 2: Yo.

1159
00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 3: Why is that y'all only cry with y'all? Man?

1160
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: I mean for me, it's more manipulat.

1161
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 2: Okay, that's real.

1162
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 1: I can accept that because I'm like you yelling at Okay,

1163
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:33,759
Speaker 1: for me, it's my manipulation. It's just I think it's

1164
00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:38,400
Speaker 1: more emotional because we just more emotionally intertwined.

1165
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 3: Okay, I can understand that too.

1166
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. Like, I don't know how to explain, and it's

1167
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:43,480
Speaker 1: for me.

1168
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 2: I actually like I had to hold back my tears anyway,

1169
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:50,319
Speaker 2: but with my man, I really try to hold them

1170
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 2: back because I don't want you to think I'm being like.

1171
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:54,760
Speaker 2: I need you to take me seriously and stop thinking

1172
00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:57,759
Speaker 2: I only no bitch, I'm gonna fuck you up.

1173
00:51:57,920 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 3: Okay.

1174
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 1: So with my man, I really try to hold my

1175
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 1: tears back.

1176
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 2: With my friends, I feel more like I can be

1177
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 2: a little I can like just kind of be myself.

1178
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:07,120
Speaker 2: With my man, I feel like I'll be having to

1179
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:09,359
Speaker 2: hold my ground, let you know, and shits sweet over

1180
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 2: there as nigga, I can't let that boy shake.

1181
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:16,280
Speaker 1: I'm a hold my ground. But then I'm also gonna

1182
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 1: like cry too, because oh my god, I'm just a girl,

1183
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: just a girl. I'll put you in your chest. I'm

1184
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:25,720
Speaker 1: a little sweet baby, y'all, Like, why would you treat

1185
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 1: me like.

1186
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 3: I want to?

1187
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: Maybe I should try that approach?

1188
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 2: You should?

1189
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 1: You were practicing you get more bees with honey and

1190
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 1: anything like in life, in any relationship.

1191
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 2: Well, you know what I will say, I think I'm

1192
00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:44,359
Speaker 2: learning to do also what works, what works for us

1193
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 2: at the same time. Yeah, but I will say I

1194
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,800
Speaker 2: don't have to do that anymore because we discuss things

1195
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:54,600
Speaker 2: now a thousands that I can't like. We don't raise

1196
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 2: our voice at each other no more. It's baby steps,

1197
00:52:57,160 --> 00:52:59,520
Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, But I think that's something I'm trying

1198
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:02,360
Speaker 2: to work on internally with myself, you know. M M

1199
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 2: all right, y'all, now it's time to get freaking now.

1200
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 2: It's not into the bow.

1201
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:18,839
Speaker 1: And per usual, y'all know the bed is sponsored.

1202
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:21,880
Speaker 3: Love it.

1203
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:24,080
Speaker 1: I just feel like, what more can I say about

1204
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:28,880
Speaker 1: Salt x So, Like I love this couchie wash. It's

1205
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:31,839
Speaker 1: so good. And y'all know, I'm not just saying it

1206
00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:34,800
Speaker 1: because like we work with Salt x SO now, because

1207
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 1: I've been using salt for years and this is the

1208
00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:42,759
Speaker 1: best vaginal wash that I have ever came across and

1209
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: I loved it. Now I wish we had one up here,

1210
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 1: but I love it now. They have it in a

1211
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,399
Speaker 1: Trouble Lives because you could take it with you want

1212
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 1: to go. You can put it in ye little how big

1213
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 1: if you're about to go, do you know some hoeing?

1214
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:58,880
Speaker 1: And not only do they have not only do they

1215
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:02,359
Speaker 1: have vaginal wash, they have so many other products. They

1216
00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 1: have the Rejewvel oil, love them. Now they have the

1217
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:07,160
Speaker 1: slippery ELM pills.

1218
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:10,760
Speaker 3: I just want to take a second these.

1219
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:14,319
Speaker 2: Okay, let me get into this spill real quick before

1220
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:16,799
Speaker 2: we get into this hoppy because one thing I've always said,

1221
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 2: I hate it if you follow me like I'm the

1222
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:22,360
Speaker 2: type of woman who I hate the fact that media

1223
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 2: is always telling women, Uh, this is how to keep

1224
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,360
Speaker 2: your man happy in the bedroom. This is how to

1225
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:30,080
Speaker 2: turn your man on to where he don't want to

1226
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 2: leave you. This is like everything is geared towards women.

1227
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:35,960
Speaker 2: This is how you suck big. This is how everything is.

1228
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:38,240
Speaker 2: We have to overperform in the bedroom.

1229
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 4: Right.

1230
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 1: I hate that.

1231
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 3: I do.

1232
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: I hate that, but sometimes these products do make it.

1233
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 3: Do what to do?

1234
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:45,400
Speaker 1: Man, what you do?

1235
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:47,880
Speaker 3: This slippery elm.

1236
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 2: Slippery elm is also good for your inside, your digestive system.

1237
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 2: So if you want to take it for that, take

1238
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:56,799
Speaker 2: it for your diget It makes everything just you.

1239
00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 3: Know, slide right on that.

1240
00:54:57,800 --> 00:54:58,919
Speaker 1: But it coats something else.

1241
00:54:59,000 --> 00:54:59,879
Speaker 3: But it coats that.

1242
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 2: That motherfucker is lubricated like a strip of pole on

1243
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 2: a Saturday night. Yeah. Facts, if you take it, But

1244
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 2: you have to take it consistently.

1245
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:10,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to take it everything. When I tell.

1246
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 2: You, I can one tell the difference. And you know

1247
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 2: it was already given splash town. You know, I'm a

1248
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:24,399
Speaker 2: drowned a motherfucker. I'm not lying to y'all. I was like,

1249
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:26,800
Speaker 2: I just added it to my you know, I already

1250
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 2: take my daily meds or I mean, my supplements and everything.

1251
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:31,600
Speaker 3: So I just makes too.

1252
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 2: Does it have vitamins supplements in it too? Like, well,

1253
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 2: it says the slippery elm of course is the main

1254
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 2: thing in there.

1255
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's it.

1256
00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:42,279
Speaker 3: Okay, it's just a slippery elm.

1257
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 1: Okay, slippery elm is natural. So yeah, so just a

1258
00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 1: natural plan.

1259
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 3: If you having a little dry.

1260
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:50,960
Speaker 2: Issues down there, that's that's gonna fix it right on them.

1261
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,040
Speaker 2: Now we not know doctors. I'm not saying it's guaranteed,

1262
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:54,319
Speaker 2: but it works wonders for me.

1263
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:55,439
Speaker 1: So shout out to salt eggs.

1264
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 2: So I used to have, like I have my favorite products,

1265
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 2: but that has been like added to my top.

1266
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 1: Two for yes, for sure, me too. It's definitely part

1267
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: of my daily supplements. So shout I took the sweet release.

1268
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 2: And speaking up supplements real real quick. Did y'all know

1269
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:14,919
Speaker 2: vitamin D like is amazing for your hair? No? I didn't.

1270
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 3: I did not know that. So this is so crazy.

1271
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 2: I've been taking vitamin D for about three months now,

1272
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:22,719
Speaker 2: just because you know, I've had fibroids in the past

1273
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:24,400
Speaker 2: and we're gonna talk about that in the future episode.

1274
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 2: But I have a vitamin D deficiency whatever. So I

1275
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 2: started taking vitamin D. And it was so crazy because

1276
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 2: this TikTok came across my page and this lady was like,

1277
00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 2: basically before I take clients on, I tell them to

1278
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:37,279
Speaker 2: start taking vitamin D because it helps with your hair.

1279
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 3: I went and got my hair done yesterday and d D.

1280
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 1: He was like, girl, why is your hair so soft?

1281
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 3: I was like, I don't fuck him, know.

1282
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 2: She was like, it's grown so much because y'all remember

1283
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:46,680
Speaker 2: I actually cut my hair.

1284
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:47,759
Speaker 3: Off when I took them rays out.

1285
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 2: She was like, your hair is basically already evened out.

1286
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:52,880
Speaker 2: And she was like, and it's so soft. And I

1287
00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:55,040
Speaker 2: was like, oh my gosh, I've been taking vitamin D.

1288
00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 2: So if y'all are having issues with like your hair

1289
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 2: not retaining moist sture or like little growth, take some

1290
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:02,279
Speaker 2: vitamin D.

1291
00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:03,399
Speaker 3: It's excellent for your hair.

1292
00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:05,680
Speaker 1: I like vitamin D. That's a part of my daily

1293
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 1: suppliment too, and I've been taking it for years, but

1294
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 1: for other reasons, like it's really good like you said,

1295
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:11,879
Speaker 1: for like.

1296
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 2: Fib or yea and things like that. But I didn't

1297
00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:16,760
Speaker 2: know what was good for your hair.

1298
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 3: Yes, I did. Not did was like she kept. She

1299
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 3: was like, girl, your.

1300
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: Hair is so soft.

1301
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 3: She was like, it's gotten. So I was like, I

1302
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:22,640
Speaker 3: don't know.

1303
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, you know what, it's the vitamin

1304
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 2: D because I saw that TikTok.

1305
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 1: I was like, that's so crazy that you said that. Yeah,

1306
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 1: it's D three.

1307
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 2: Vitamin D three is just good for like your reproductive

1308
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:33,480
Speaker 2: hill hook in general.

1309
00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 1: So something good to add.

1310
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 3: All right, let's get into this topic.

1311
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:41,400
Speaker 2: So and we have this is another one that we

1312
00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:44,720
Speaker 2: have discussed before, but it's sex better in the dark.

1313
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:47,480
Speaker 3: You know, like, do you feel like you like to be.

1314
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 1: Like, oh, surprise, it's a nut, you know what I'm saying.

1315
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 2: Do you like to be in the dark and be

1316
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:54,240
Speaker 2: like you don't know what's grabbing and touching and pulling

1317
00:57:54,280 --> 00:58:00,600
Speaker 2: and squeezing surprising, Oh you know it's coming, you know

1318
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

1319
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 1: So do you like having sex in the dark?

1320
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:06,560
Speaker 3: You know? Like is that your thing? You know?

1321
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:11,320
Speaker 2: It could be more focused on sensations. Your other senses

1322
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:13,440
Speaker 2: could be risen because you can't see.

1323
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not opposed to it, but I like

1324
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:21,200
Speaker 1: to see during it. You Yeah, I like to see myself.

1325
00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:26,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, Like the darkest cool.

1326
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:29,480
Speaker 1: It's fine, I mean, and I think sometimes it's definitely

1327
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 1: up it a little bit, like especially like if you

1328
00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 1: don't have had a few dreams and then you put

1329
00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 1: a little blind fold on or something like that.

1330
00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 2: Remember when Tea Paint had that song and I think,

1331
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:40,040
Speaker 2: won't drink.

1332
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm going that what you want to do?

1333
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, I do like I think that darkness is

1334
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 1: appropriate or some sittings because I do like a little blindfold.

1335
00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 2: I do.

1336
00:58:56,920 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

1337
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 2: I don't like like black, That's what I'm thinking about.

1338
00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 1: I don't like that.

1339
00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 3: I don't I know. I like a sexier lighting, like

1340
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:07,920
Speaker 3: moody light.

1341
00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 1: Moody lighting, yes, because.

1342
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:10,600
Speaker 3: I can still see.

1343
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 2: But like I do not like having sex like and

1344
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 2: the lights are on like white lights. I don't even

1345
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 2: have white lights in my home period. All my lighting

1346
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:21,439
Speaker 2: in my house is warm Yeah, warm.

1347
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 3: Up, moody lighting.

1348
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:22,440
Speaker 1: Yes.

1349
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 3: I do not like sex and dark.

1350
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 2: I feel like sex and dark is either for people

1351
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:27,920
Speaker 2: who are a little self conscious about their body.

1352
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, are you hiding something? Is there? Dick?

1353
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:32,200
Speaker 2: I told you I think kind of like that.

1354
00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's check it out.

1355
00:59:33,560 --> 00:59:33,960
Speaker 3: Let me see.

1356
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 2: I need to see the balls I told you, yes,

1357
00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 2: I need to see what's going on. I don't too.

1358
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:41,920
Speaker 1: And I think I talked about this on the show before,

1359
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 1: like I told this story about my mom put you know,

1360
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 1: my mom used to be a nurse are in and

1361
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:49,920
Speaker 1: this lady that she used to work with at the hospital.

1362
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:53,200
Speaker 1: She was saying how like she had a little date

1363
00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:54,760
Speaker 1: with this man, and the end it up like they

1364
00:59:54,760 --> 00:59:56,959
Speaker 1: were about to have like a little you know, after

1365
00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 1: after party, and so they w back to the hotel

1366
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:04,960
Speaker 1: and he was like super atomy about having sex with

1367
01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 1: the lights off, and she was like, no, like I

1368
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:08,800
Speaker 1: want to have the lights on. I need to see

1369
01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:12,480
Speaker 1: what's going on because we just met each other. They

1370
01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:15,760
Speaker 1: went back to the hotel and he was like super

1371
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:18,760
Speaker 1: atomy about having sex with the lights off, and she

1372
01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: was like, no, like I want to have the lights on.

1373
01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 1: I need to see what's going on because we just

1374
01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:25,760
Speaker 1: met each other. I don't know you liked that, And

1375
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 1: he was just being really weird about turning the light song.

1376
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 1: So she got up turned the lights on, and he

1377
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:34,680
Speaker 1: had like all kind of crests and like bumps on

1378
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 1: his dick. Well I want his actual shafts, but around yeah,

1379
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 1: that is horrifying. Yeah, that's fucked up. You was really

1380
01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:49,120
Speaker 1: about to get that lady. So yeah, people be dirty

1381
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 1: and nasty like that, Oh my god, given about other.

1382
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 3: People, and they don't want to have sex.

1383
01:00:55,560 --> 01:00:57,680
Speaker 1: He wanted to, of course, and needless to say, I

1384
01:00:57,720 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 1: mean she ended up leaving him bare.

1385
01:00:59,640 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 2: God, but thank god.

1386
01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:03,280
Speaker 1: She was like, no, I'm turning the light on because

1387
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 1: i want to see what's going on.

1388
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 3: I'm surprised he didn't jump up and put his panties

1389
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 3: on Jesus Christ.

1390
01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:12,919
Speaker 2: But yeah, but this was like a really really long

1391
01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 2: time ago, because my mama said, it's like in the

1392
01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:18,560
Speaker 2: eighties something about it. But honestly, that's even worse because

1393
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:21,800
Speaker 2: they used to think everything was something back then.

1394
01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 1: Because HIV had just came out and they didn't really

1395
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:25,960
Speaker 1: have you know, they.

1396
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 3: Just they just were figuring out, you know, in the.

1397
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 1: Eighties how they had just hit like America.

1398
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 2: No really, Christopher Columbus was passing around some but I

1399
01:01:38,600 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 2: thought they was having.

1400
01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 3: They had everything everything. That's what exactly what in the Osarks.

1401
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:48,640
Speaker 1: Okay, but yes, you have to be careful out here though,

1402
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:51,400
Speaker 1: with like, especially on your first encounter, if somebody trying

1403
01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 1: to be weird about I don't know, but like I'm

1404
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 1: not really so much of a light person, but I

1405
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 1: like daytime sick you do, yeah.

1406
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, like you like daytime.

1407
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:08,240
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's something about.

1408
01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 3: Night that just makes it more romantic.

1409
01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 2: But I do catch myself having more daytime morning sex.

1410
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:17,760
Speaker 3: I feel like, honestly at this age, like we be hired.

1411
01:02:19,400 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 2: I hangover going too bad, Like i'd be like when

1412
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:25,960
Speaker 2: I get over the up and rock your world, daddy,

1413
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:28,440
Speaker 2: I'll be over there. We knocked out morning sacks. Be

1414
01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 2: easy to a You gotta do is turn over, lift

1415
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 2: that lead good.

1416
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:31,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1417
01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:33,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I do feel like but we gets it

1418
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 2: in in the morning. Now we get we put it

1419
01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 2: like daytime. See, I mean I don't necessarily like I

1420
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 2: prefer nighttime sex, but we have more daytime morning sex.

1421
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 1: But we still get it in because I feel.

1422
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:47,280
Speaker 2: Like sometimes it's okay to kind of like lift it

1423
01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:49,440
Speaker 2: up just from the side. But I think that if

1424
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:51,480
Speaker 2: you have too much morning sex, it tends to get

1425
01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:54,240
Speaker 2: repetitive and quick. Oh, because we gotta go to work,

1426
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:56,320
Speaker 2: we gotta go to the gym, we got things to do. Yeah,

1427
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:58,439
Speaker 2: I feel like when you have sex at night, it's

1428
01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 2: like you get to take your time and it's more

1429
01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:05,160
Speaker 2: like you know, but I do find myself heaven daytime

1430
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:05,720
Speaker 2: sex more.

1431
01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 1: I love a little daytime yeah, little, especially after breach. Yeah,

1432
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 1: now midday sex.

1433
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 2: I like, yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like you

1434
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:16,680
Speaker 2: just came over and we just get into it, just

1435
01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:17,160
Speaker 2: to do it.

1436
01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 1: Let me call man, you gotta make them little daytime

1437
01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 1: appoint me.

1438
01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 2: Yes, And sometimes I don't care what nobody says.

1439
01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 3: We all love a good date night, but sometimes.

1440
01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:30,000
Speaker 1: You do need a Netflix and chill night.

1441
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:32,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like sometimes you need a weekend where y'all just

1442
01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 2: locked up in the house and y'all are just chilling,

1443
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:38,200
Speaker 2: ordering food or cooking and just watching movies and relaxing

1444
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:43,440
Speaker 2: and fucking yes, a marathon. I love a good sexathon,

1445
01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:47,600
Speaker 2: just fucking yeah. I've always said this, like, just no,

1446
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:51,640
Speaker 2: if if I'm in a relationship with a man and

1447
01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:53,560
Speaker 2: like we break up and you start dating him after

1448
01:03:53,600 --> 01:03:55,480
Speaker 2: me or not that it matters, but just no, we

1449
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:59,000
Speaker 2: was fucking down, and anytime I'm in a relationship, we

1450
01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 2: be fucking down, bitch, Like you are never gonna be like,

1451
01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 2: oh did we No, we be fucking down to the ground.

1452
01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 1: To the down, down, down, shout out to big sex down.

1453
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:15,960
Speaker 1: That's how I be feeling. You got some big shoes

1454
01:04:16,040 --> 01:04:16,440
Speaker 1: to feel.

1455
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:19,960
Speaker 2: Oh, but like, I don't know.

1456
01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 1: I just think going back to the topic, I just

1457
01:04:22,760 --> 01:04:26,800
Speaker 1: think that darkness is not as into me. Like I

1458
01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 1: think that when you can see somebody, y'all can make

1459
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:32,880
Speaker 1: eye contact and he's just more of a connection.

1460
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:34,960
Speaker 3: Have you ever had sex with a cock cod man?

1461
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 1: Mmmm mm hmmm, why don't sucks? Would you ask me this?

1462
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:42,680
Speaker 1: Because I'm saying, sometimes people have a lazy eye.

1463
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:46,680
Speaker 2: And then you've seen everybody that I've dated, I've never

1464
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:48,000
Speaker 2: dated anybody cock eyed.

1465
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:50,320
Speaker 3: Well, honestly, I don't really look.

1466
01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:52,240
Speaker 1: You've seen everybody for the most part. Yeah, I mean

1467
01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:54,960
Speaker 1: since we've been friends, everybody that I've dated, you've seen.

1468
01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:57,040
Speaker 1: I have, but I've never like looked them niggas in

1469
01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:57,280
Speaker 1: the eye.

1470
01:04:57,280 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 2: Because sometimes you'll look at so, now I got a

1471
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 2: cock eye. You don't need to be close to see that.

1472
01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 2: But no, but sometimes they have an eye that will

1473
01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:08,480
Speaker 2: drift off and you don't think you would have caught that. Sometimes, No,

1474
01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 2: because sometimes it'll be like this for a good five

1475
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 2: seconds and then it's it'll start to wander.

1476
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:17,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't ever wonder.

1477
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't think I have myself, but I don't know.

1478
01:05:20,480 --> 01:05:21,120
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1479
01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:22,040
Speaker 3: I don't think I have.

1480
01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:26,320
Speaker 1: It was cocky, you know, I'm a little cross eyed.

1481
01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:29,680
Speaker 2: That's why I asked. I'm a little cross eyed sometimes

1482
01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 2: when hmm, they do, they get a little cross especially.

1483
01:05:34,240 --> 01:05:35,040
Speaker 3: When I was younger.

1484
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 1: Did you used to wear glasses?

1485
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:39,880
Speaker 2: No, my eyes used to just be cross like sometimes,

1486
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:42,360
Speaker 2: especially now when I get a little drunk. But isn't

1487
01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:43,640
Speaker 2: that something for like corrective?

1488
01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 1: They don't need to be corrected, all right, if they

1489
01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:49,720
Speaker 1: crossed it, they might need a little correction.

1490
01:05:49,800 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 3: But it only happened when I have a little.

1491
01:05:52,640 --> 01:05:55,320
Speaker 1: Drunk, so you feel it like drifting.

1492
01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:58,440
Speaker 3: Sometimes it be too late. But I noticed everything and

1493
01:05:58,520 --> 01:05:59,000
Speaker 3: crossed up.

1494
01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:02,480
Speaker 1: I ain't never seen your eyes crying. I don't see

1495
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:05,880
Speaker 1: some cross eyed people. It's not bad though, it's very faint.

1496
01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:09,240
Speaker 2: Like if y'all notice, like like if y'all make an

1497
01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:11,720
Speaker 2: AI picture of me, AI gets in everything, so my

1498
01:06:11,760 --> 01:06:14,280
Speaker 2: I'll be a little crossed. But AI gonna cross them bitches,

1499
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. They be like, oh, her

1500
01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:19,680
Speaker 2: eyes are crossed, let's make sure they're crossed. They be

1501
01:06:19,720 --> 01:06:21,920
Speaker 2: crossed a little bit to where the average I can't

1502
01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:25,120
Speaker 2: really tell, okay, but AI the way it aligns, it

1503
01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 2: it's like, oh.

1504
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:27,880
Speaker 1: She's cross eyed. Let's just go ahead and make them.

1505
01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:32,160
Speaker 3: Cross, you know. But that's all right. It ain't bad bad.

1506
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:35,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I was gonna say, I mean, I've never noticed.

1507
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 1: I think the men that I've dated have noticed it.

1508
01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:42,640
Speaker 1: They said something, have they said.

1509
01:06:42,520 --> 01:06:46,000
Speaker 3: Them because they're not copped.

1510
01:06:46,680 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 2: They're just like it be sometimes and I'm like focusing

1511
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:51,040
Speaker 2: on something a little bit.

1512
01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:54,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it won't it be like, well, you little

1513
01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:54,880
Speaker 1: miles a.

1514
01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:58,280
Speaker 2: Little that's all right, that slippery. I hear them where

1515
01:06:58,280 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 2: it hurts, so they don't know that's slippery. L make

1516
01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:06,880
Speaker 2: their eyes cross. So we just too cross sided? Mother

1517
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:07,920
Speaker 2: fuck our flow.

1518
01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:10,400
Speaker 1: I thought you was saying, like because the lubri khow

1519
01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:12,080
Speaker 1: is hockey too? And he getting.

1520
01:07:18,680 --> 01:07:23,240
Speaker 2: Multiple Yes, But that's all right, all right, let's move

1521
01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 2: on to the next topic.

1522
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:26,400
Speaker 3: Now, it's time.

1523
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:27,920
Speaker 1: To get into the.

1524
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:33,640
Speaker 2: Bow the by aye bow a bow bow bow bow.

1525
01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:38,480
Speaker 3: Okay, y'all, y'all know the weather is starting to maybe

1526
01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:39,760
Speaker 3: warm up in a few weeks.

1527
01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:40,760
Speaker 1: You know, we're getting there.

1528
01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:44,960
Speaker 2: We are almost done with the cold months. So with

1529
01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:47,640
Speaker 2: that being said, y'all, it's time. It's time for y'all

1530
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 2: to start releasing the summer spring tunes. We're ready to

1531
01:07:51,560 --> 01:07:54,440
Speaker 2: go outside. You're ready to pop that couche. Okay, y'all

1532
01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:57,400
Speaker 2: know I love Eric Billinger. Shout out to Eric Billinger,

1533
01:07:57,600 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 2: that's my dog. I actually have to sing this song?

1534
01:07:59,840 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 1: Is I have to send him a message?

1535
01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:05,080
Speaker 2: I was like, bro, y'all killed this, Like this is

1536
01:08:05,200 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 2: my shit. It's such a summer song. It's called Worldwide.

1537
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 2: It's with him and an artist's name Will Gittin's and

1538
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:13,920
Speaker 2: I hope I said his name right, y'all. When I

1539
01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:17,759
Speaker 2: tell y'all, it is a summer fucking bop, it's about

1540
01:08:17,800 --> 01:08:21,920
Speaker 2: you and y'all. Woman, you stamping that passport up for y'all.

1541
01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:24,640
Speaker 2: Finna go worldwide. It's one of them. You got to

1542
01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:27,120
Speaker 2: do a little duftea line to it. You got to

1543
01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:30,479
Speaker 2: get real. When I tell y'all, Eric Billinger is like

1544
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:31,519
Speaker 2: the perfect artists.

1545
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:34,040
Speaker 3: When you meet like these indie guys that try to like, yeah,

1546
01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:34,559
Speaker 3: I'm going to.

1547
01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:37,200
Speaker 2: The stew I think when men go to the studio,

1548
01:08:37,360 --> 01:08:39,960
Speaker 2: especially R and B singers, they they are trying to

1549
01:08:40,040 --> 01:08:44,160
Speaker 2: get that sound that Eric Bilinger just makes naturally his talent.

1550
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:47,759
Speaker 2: I just I can't. I don't know how to even

1551
01:08:47,960 --> 01:08:51,280
Speaker 2: explain it. He gets in this pocket. Yeah, the ad libs,

1552
01:08:51,320 --> 01:08:54,200
Speaker 2: the lyrics, everything. I feel like nobody is sleep on

1553
01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:56,160
Speaker 2: Eric when I say this, because we all know the

1554
01:08:56,240 --> 01:08:58,719
Speaker 2: amazing songwriter he is, but I feel like his music

1555
01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 2: needs to be talked about a lot more than it is.

1556
01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:04,960
Speaker 2: He's got the type of music it doesn't need to

1557
01:09:04,960 --> 01:09:07,200
Speaker 2: grow on you. One listen and you're like, this is

1558
01:09:07,240 --> 01:09:10,719
Speaker 2: a fucking hit. Bit, So that's my bop of the week,

1559
01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:14,760
Speaker 2: Eric Billinger Worldwide. It's time to pop that koochie, and

1560
01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:17,960
Speaker 2: I'm ready to This is the kind of music. Yes,

1561
01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:20,800
Speaker 2: when you're on vacation with your man on the beach,

1562
01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:22,120
Speaker 2: this is the song you play.

1563
01:09:22,360 --> 01:09:26,720
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't have to listen to it. Yes, my

1564
01:09:26,800 --> 01:09:27,799
Speaker 1: dog our homie.

1565
01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:32,880
Speaker 2: Okay, So my bop is an old vibe.

1566
01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:35,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I was listening because I and I really

1567
01:09:35,800 --> 01:09:37,639
Speaker 1: have to do better this year, because I know I'm

1568
01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:41,960
Speaker 1: always telling everybody about my workout play lead and I

1569
01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:44,479
Speaker 1: still ain't never dropped their hell, and I have multiple ones.

1570
01:09:44,520 --> 01:09:46,479
Speaker 1: I need to start dropping my workout play least but

1571
01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:47,639
Speaker 1: I was working out.

1572
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:48,920
Speaker 3: If it was making public.

1573
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:51,000
Speaker 1: I know, I just need to do that. Yeah, I

1574
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:53,880
Speaker 1: don't know why, I just always forget. But I was

1575
01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:58,599
Speaker 1: on a StairMaster today and I was listening to lay Up.

1576
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:00,920
Speaker 3: Sure, and.

1577
01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:05,559
Speaker 1: I was just like, oh my god, this was such

1578
01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:06,400
Speaker 1: a good song.

1579
01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:10,800
Speaker 2: It was the bee It was the bee Man as

1580
01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:12,680
Speaker 2: they told me, gets on that piano and does the

1581
01:10:12,720 --> 01:10:15,040
Speaker 2: mother does like it was?

1582
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:16,960
Speaker 1: I mean, and of course future and they told me

1583
01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:19,720
Speaker 1: have like a lot of good songs together. But lay

1584
01:10:19,800 --> 01:10:22,040
Speaker 1: Up was such a good song, and that was just such.

1585
01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:25,320
Speaker 2: A time something that people are always argue with me

1586
01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:29,480
Speaker 2: about what I personally like lay Up and Peacoat.

1587
01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:31,960
Speaker 3: I love Peacock better than March Madness.

1588
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:34,760
Speaker 2: Just I got on my pea coat today, Conn, Yeah

1589
01:10:34,800 --> 01:10:38,439
Speaker 2: you do a mini pea coat an a meanie p

1590
01:10:38,720 --> 01:10:42,240
Speaker 2: abby and a minip I do. I like Peacoat and

1591
01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:44,800
Speaker 2: I like lay Up better than March Madness. Like March

1592
01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:47,160
Speaker 2: Madness is a classic, but it's something about.

1593
01:10:46,920 --> 01:10:51,960
Speaker 1: That peak coat. But you gotta be deep in your funeral.

1594
01:10:52,080 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to say deep in your future bags

1595
01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:56,160
Speaker 1: and know about Peacock because to me, March Madness was

1596
01:10:56,240 --> 01:10:59,679
Speaker 1: just more of a it was more of an easily

1597
01:10:59,680 --> 01:11:01,920
Speaker 1: wreckednizable song because it was on the radio and stuff.

1598
01:11:01,960 --> 01:11:03,800
Speaker 1: Pea Coat was never I don't think pea Coat was

1599
01:11:03,840 --> 01:11:05,600
Speaker 1: ever a single. Yeah, I don't think it was on

1600
01:11:05,800 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 1: his mixtape Making the Day. But pea Coat is better

1601
01:11:09,000 --> 01:11:13,200
Speaker 1: than Marsh Madness to me too. So okay, I wish

1602
01:11:13,520 --> 01:11:14,639
Speaker 1: I wish you when you're right.

1603
01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:17,080
Speaker 3: That's all I'm saying. Don't get me wrong. It's a classic.

1604
01:11:17,120 --> 01:11:24,720
Speaker 2: But fucking Peacoat and Layupt was a.

1605
01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 1: It's so good I had to run it back twice.

1606
01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:33,559
Speaker 1: I need to finish my little workout. Yeah, my workout

1607
01:11:33,560 --> 01:11:35,560
Speaker 1: playlist is full of future songs.

1608
01:11:35,680 --> 01:11:38,320
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, and sometimes my playlist will end

1609
01:11:38,360 --> 01:11:39,840
Speaker 2: while I'm working out. You know what came on the

1610
01:11:39,840 --> 01:11:42,000
Speaker 2: other day and I caught myself bopping. But I have

1611
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:44,400
Speaker 2: to stop that Jack Carlow song.

1612
01:11:44,640 --> 01:11:46,400
Speaker 1: I was about to say that I was gonna say

1613
01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:49,320
Speaker 1: something inappropriate. No, you know what I thought she was

1614
01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:51,760
Speaker 1: gonna say. Time I knew what she was talking about.

1615
01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:53,800
Speaker 3: Hush now.

1616
01:11:54,280 --> 01:11:56,680
Speaker 2: I didn't bring it up with Jack Carlos.

1617
01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:57,840
Speaker 1: That I know.

1618
01:11:58,040 --> 01:12:01,719
Speaker 3: List you get me, But that was a good song.

1619
01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:03,960
Speaker 2: But it was like Whips and Chains, who are you

1620
01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:06,360
Speaker 2: talking about? Not during this month, nigga. I had to

1621
01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:10,479
Speaker 2: switch it. Not now, nigga, turn it off, wigger, not

1622
01:12:10,680 --> 01:12:13,559
Speaker 2: to that, not on my watch. It'll start March first.

1623
01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:15,479
Speaker 2: That was a good song. I thought you you was

1624
01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:16,960
Speaker 2: about to scare me for a minute. I about to

1625
01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:19,960
Speaker 2: stay now what Jack Doe? No, Jack can't do it.

1626
01:12:21,400 --> 01:12:24,080
Speaker 2: But not during that. We can still listen to him,

1627
01:12:24,120 --> 01:12:26,120
Speaker 2: just not during February, especially when he talking about.

1628
01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:26,519
Speaker 3: Whips and chains.

1629
01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:29,320
Speaker 2: Okay, you ain't putting no loving on me with that ship,

1630
01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:31,720
Speaker 2: white boy, get on, get on back.

1631
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:35,720
Speaker 1: But that is a good song, your workout play. I

1632
01:12:35,720 --> 01:12:37,080
Speaker 1: feel like it's gonna get you through it.

1633
01:12:37,080 --> 01:12:37,479
Speaker 7: It did.

1634
01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:39,640
Speaker 3: I finished it, though, but then I turned it off.

1635
01:12:39,920 --> 01:12:40,519
Speaker 1: I turned it off.

1636
01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:43,840
Speaker 2: All right, all right, okay, y'all, let's get into our

1637
01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:47,960
Speaker 2: favorite segment of all pour your heart out. If you

1638
01:12:47,960 --> 01:12:50,200
Speaker 2: want your question answered on the show, make sure you

1639
01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:53,880
Speaker 2: email us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1640
01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:55,519
Speaker 3: Y'all, keep it short, cute and sweet.

1641
01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:59,840
Speaker 1: Okay, period, go ahead, Look j okay. I hope you

1642
01:13:00,040 --> 01:13:02,759
Speaker 1: daddies are doing great. You can call me Cherry because

1643
01:13:02,760 --> 01:13:05,360
Speaker 1: I don't want my name revealed. But I've been feeling

1644
01:13:05,400 --> 01:13:08,840
Speaker 1: conflicted about maintaining a relationship with my mother. When I

1645
01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:11,160
Speaker 1: was seventeen, I moved from my mother's house to my

1646
01:13:11,200 --> 01:13:13,840
Speaker 1: grandma's house due to the physical and mental abuse from

1647
01:13:13,880 --> 01:13:16,679
Speaker 1: my mom. I became very decent and we didn't start

1648
01:13:16,720 --> 01:13:19,880
Speaker 1: talking again until I started dating my fiance in twenty

1649
01:13:19,880 --> 01:13:23,360
Speaker 1: twenty three. Then in December twenty twenty three, my grandmother

1650
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:26,479
Speaker 1: passed away from pneumonia. During this time, I found out

1651
01:13:26,479 --> 01:13:29,040
Speaker 1: that I was pregnant. My mom sued me for my

1652
01:13:29,080 --> 01:13:33,040
Speaker 1: grandma house and lost. We physically thought. She harassed me

1653
01:13:33,240 --> 01:13:35,960
Speaker 1: and told my grandmother and told me that my grandmother's

1654
01:13:36,000 --> 01:13:38,400
Speaker 1: death was my fault. And she still hadn't gotten my

1655
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:41,880
Speaker 1: grandma ahead soone yet and he's twenty twenty six. My

1656
01:13:41,920 --> 01:13:45,040
Speaker 1: grandma left her fifty thousand dollars. By the way, now

1657
01:13:45,080 --> 01:13:48,000
Speaker 1: I'm twenty three and we do have a relationship and

1658
01:13:48,040 --> 01:13:50,400
Speaker 1: she's a good grandma. But it's just hard to let

1659
01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:52,600
Speaker 1: go of my anger of everything she's done to me,

1660
01:13:52,680 --> 01:13:54,200
Speaker 1: and I hate that I have to be the bigger

1661
01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:57,519
Speaker 1: person and let it go, especially since she's never going

1662
01:13:57,560 --> 01:13:59,920
Speaker 1: to apologize. Can y'all give me advice?

1663
01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:04,200
Speaker 2: You know, it's hard for me to give advice on

1664
01:14:04,240 --> 01:14:07,880
Speaker 2: situations like this just because I was blessed with the

1665
01:14:08,520 --> 01:14:12,280
Speaker 2: amazing mother. So a lot of times, like when people

1666
01:14:12,280 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 2: talk about how their mom was their like first hater,

1667
01:14:14,240 --> 01:14:18,000
Speaker 2: their biggest enemy, and stuff like, I can't even comprehend

1668
01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:20,759
Speaker 2: that or understand that. But I will say I think

1669
01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:24,160
Speaker 2: that there is a space where you have very very

1670
01:14:24,160 --> 01:14:28,160
Speaker 2: strong boundaries and you can still have a relationship because

1671
01:14:28,160 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 2: I don't want to say, completely cut her off and

1672
01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:32,320
Speaker 2: then something happens and you would have wished that you

1673
01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:34,320
Speaker 2: had this type of relationship, because what I do see

1674
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:37,000
Speaker 2: a lot is people have a strained relationship with their

1675
01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:39,960
Speaker 2: mother and somebody ends up passing away and they're like, damn,

1676
01:14:40,160 --> 01:14:41,840
Speaker 2: I wish we could have fixed things, you know what

1677
01:14:41,920 --> 01:14:42,360
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

1678
01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:45,759
Speaker 3: So I think that I can only.

1679
01:14:45,560 --> 01:14:47,680
Speaker 2: Give you so much advice, but I will say, this

1680
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:50,879
Speaker 2: is a relationship where you have to have very strong boundaries.

1681
01:14:50,920 --> 01:14:53,479
Speaker 3: Because anybody that soothes somebody when.

1682
01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:56,880
Speaker 2: Things get ugly, when people die, and that shows their

1683
01:14:56,880 --> 01:14:59,519
Speaker 2: true side of who's coming for the money, who's coming

1684
01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:02,479
Speaker 2: there to you, who really cares about your well being?

1685
01:15:02,880 --> 01:15:05,479
Speaker 2: So to me, her suing her when her mother has

1686
01:15:05,520 --> 01:15:08,679
Speaker 2: passed away, this is not he, This is her own mother,

1687
01:15:09,160 --> 01:15:11,040
Speaker 2: and she was worried about going to court and things

1688
01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:13,440
Speaker 2: like that when she already got fifty thousand dollars.

1689
01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1690
01:15:14,479 --> 01:15:16,599
Speaker 2: Some's not sitting right in the water with me with her,

1691
01:15:16,760 --> 01:15:20,600
Speaker 2: So I think that just tread lightly. But you do

1692
01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:22,559
Speaker 2: have a child, and you don't you do want to

1693
01:15:22,560 --> 01:15:25,559
Speaker 2: have a child who gets to know their grandmother and

1694
01:15:25,600 --> 01:15:28,120
Speaker 2: things like that. But I don't know, it's a very

1695
01:15:28,160 --> 01:15:32,160
Speaker 2: tricky thing. It's a very tricky thing. I know what

1696
01:15:32,200 --> 01:15:33,200
Speaker 2: you finish say.

1697
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:38,080
Speaker 1: I mean, no surprise, d I just feel like it

1698
01:15:38,120 --> 01:15:41,680
Speaker 1: don't matter who it is, Like, if somebody is toxic,

1699
01:15:42,040 --> 01:15:45,120
Speaker 1: you need to cut them off, mother or not. Like

1700
01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 1: And as far as like her child having a relationship

1701
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:51,240
Speaker 1: with her grandma, I wouldn't want my child to have

1702
01:15:51,280 --> 01:15:53,519
Speaker 1: no relationship with my mom. My mom treated me like

1703
01:15:53,560 --> 01:15:56,280
Speaker 1: that and with that way towards me because you're not

1704
01:15:56,360 --> 01:15:58,840
Speaker 1: a good person. Yeah yeah, And I don't care if

1705
01:15:58,840 --> 01:16:01,920
Speaker 1: you're nice to my child and you're me and you

1706
01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:04,839
Speaker 1: have a different relationship. I don't want my child around

1707
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:06,920
Speaker 1: you because I don't know. I just feel like somebody

1708
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:09,280
Speaker 1: who would fight they all kid. I don't know what

1709
01:16:09,320 --> 01:16:11,880
Speaker 1: you would be telling my kid about me when I'm

1710
01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:14,439
Speaker 1: leaving them in your possession, you know what I mean,

1711
01:16:14,560 --> 01:16:16,400
Speaker 1: or like letting you watching them and stuff as they

1712
01:16:16,400 --> 01:16:18,639
Speaker 1: get older. I don't know what you might be telling them.

1713
01:16:19,320 --> 01:16:21,760
Speaker 1: I just I don't know. I think that no matter

1714
01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:27,000
Speaker 1: what position a person plays in your life, if something

1715
01:16:27,040 --> 01:16:30,000
Speaker 1: don't feel right in your spirit, cut them off and

1716
01:16:30,280 --> 01:16:31,439
Speaker 1: mother or not right.

1717
01:16:31,479 --> 01:16:33,519
Speaker 2: And then also a paintention to how you feel when

1718
01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:36,479
Speaker 2: you're around her. Do you feel like things are getting better?

1719
01:16:36,800 --> 01:16:40,880
Speaker 2: Do you feel how does your nervous system feel around her?

1720
01:16:41,040 --> 01:16:42,960
Speaker 2: And like I said, I do agree with Dreda to

1721
01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:46,639
Speaker 2: a certain extent. It's like if it's not feeling good,

1722
01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 2: you know, you can cut her off. But I'm also

1723
01:16:48,280 --> 01:16:50,200
Speaker 2: in an area where, like I said, I've seen people

1724
01:16:50,240 --> 01:16:52,240
Speaker 2: be like, damn, my mom passed.

1725
01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:53,800
Speaker 3: I wish I would have fixed things.

1726
01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:55,560
Speaker 2: So I think that's something that you really have to

1727
01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:58,240
Speaker 2: sit down and listen to your body and how you

1728
01:16:58,360 --> 01:17:02,240
Speaker 2: feel around it. Very tricky because I don't know. Fighting

1729
01:17:02,680 --> 01:17:04,280
Speaker 2: is a difference that's all about to stay.

1730
01:17:04,280 --> 01:17:07,400
Speaker 1: It's different when like you and your minds disagreement, but

1731
01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:11,559
Speaker 1: like physically fighting that's just a little too much, Like

1732
01:17:11,640 --> 01:17:14,160
Speaker 1: that's toxic. That's really really toxic.

1733
01:17:14,680 --> 01:17:15,240
Speaker 3: That's scary.

1734
01:17:16,720 --> 01:17:19,600
Speaker 1: I was gonna recommend family counseling too. Yeah, if you

1735
01:17:19,600 --> 01:17:22,360
Speaker 1: feel like you want to kind of rebuild that relationship,

1736
01:17:22,400 --> 01:17:25,559
Speaker 1: try family counseling because then you're in a safe space

1737
01:17:25,600 --> 01:17:28,200
Speaker 1: where both of you all can communicate and articulate how

1738
01:17:28,240 --> 01:17:30,639
Speaker 1: you feel, how you felt, how this person has made

1739
01:17:30,680 --> 01:17:33,000
Speaker 1: you feel in the past, where you're both looking to

1740
01:17:33,080 --> 01:17:35,960
Speaker 1: go in the relationship, and then you can, to your point,

1741
01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:38,880
Speaker 1: determine do you still want this relationship? Do you want

1742
01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:41,080
Speaker 1: this person to be in your life? And that might

1743
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Speaker 1: be just a little helping hand to just set up

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Speaker 1: that safe space for you to communicate how you feeling.

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Speaker 2: I agree, your girl.

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Speaker 1: Protect y'all peace because now you have more thanges you

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01:17:50,479 --> 01:17:52,760
Speaker 1: to think about. You got to hear about your child too, So.

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Speaker 2: Look sustar all right, now to our bottled up segment,

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01:17:57,760 --> 01:17:59,880
Speaker 2: y'all know we like to listen to y'all get things

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Speaker 2: off of your chest just to quick thirty to sixty seconds.

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Speaker 2: This is sponsored by our family at Taylor Port. Shout

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Speaker 2: out to our family at Taylor Port. Y'all make sure

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Speaker 2: if you're in Atlanta, y'all go to the Hawks game

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Speaker 2: and visit the taylor Port bar.

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Speaker 1: It is so nice.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we had a ball, so shout out to taylor Port.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into our bottled up.

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Speaker 4: Don't you hate when you finally done with a nigga

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Speaker 4: and hey want to be like, oh, after all this time,

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01:18:25,960 --> 01:18:29,519
Speaker 4: after everything we've been through, you finally done. Yes, that's

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Speaker 4: why I'm done because after all that shit that you

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Speaker 4: put me through, that I've been through, the pain that

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Speaker 4: I endured, the tears are less.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, nigga, I'm done.

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Speaker 4: I'm not about to keep going through that shit. It's

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Speaker 4: trying to elevate an update the.

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Speaker 1: Fuck Ami and Sister and upgrades to a new nie.

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Speaker 2: That's like they call that the rubber band theory. Like

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01:18:53,240 --> 01:18:55,160
Speaker 2: when you pull away from a man and he just

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Speaker 2: slopped back. I don't want to do all that. I

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01:18:57,720 --> 01:19:00,120
Speaker 2: don't I'm not for that in that playing games. So

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Speaker 2: and when you're when if you decide to cut a

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Speaker 2: man off and all of a sudden he wants to

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01:19:05,120 --> 01:19:06,880
Speaker 2: act right and try to guilt trip you, that is

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Speaker 2: the biggest red flag Because a man that really cares

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Speaker 2: about you and loves you, I'm not saying he's necessarily

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01:19:11,400 --> 01:19:14,280
Speaker 2: gonna get it right. The first time, but change behavior

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01:19:14,320 --> 01:19:16,599
Speaker 2: is everything. He would have been stopped before you would

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01:19:16,600 --> 01:19:18,559
Speaker 2: have gotten to that point of walking away.

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Speaker 1: Okay, mmm doing on? Yeah, I agree, I mean, and

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Speaker 1: sometimes I do feel like people do really change, agreed,

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Speaker 1: But a lot of the time, more often than night,

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01:19:29,439 --> 01:19:30,679
Speaker 1: niggas be being manipulat.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just remind me a situation where I many.

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Speaker 1: Like, you really gonna walk away from me? Uh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I am, watch me, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: And I always say this.

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01:19:40,880 --> 01:19:42,600
Speaker 2: It's some men that I've walked away from and I

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01:19:42,720 --> 01:19:46,400
Speaker 2: was just in awe of how much better my life got.

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01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:49,200
Speaker 2: And I know it's easier said than done, but I'm

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Speaker 2: telling you you are. I have never not once regretted

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Speaker 2: walking away from a man.

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Speaker 1: And don't warrn niggas just walk away or black mass

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Speaker 1: change our number. I don't like. I don't really get

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01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:02,439
Speaker 1: people warnings that I'm not talking to him no more,

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01:20:02,479 --> 01:20:05,439
Speaker 1: because especially if I'm cutting you off for good, I

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01:20:05,479 --> 01:20:07,559
Speaker 1: already done told you where you had me fucked up

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01:20:07,640 --> 01:20:11,559
Speaker 1: numerous times. So when I'm really walking away and not

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01:20:11,680 --> 01:20:13,800
Speaker 1: just saying it, because because I think sometimes two women

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01:20:13,880 --> 01:20:16,000
Speaker 1: will say that they done with a nigga. But sometimes

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Speaker 1: they'll say it because they want the reaction, yea, they

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01:20:18,840 --> 01:20:20,639
Speaker 1: want him to react or they want him to get

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Speaker 1: his shit toget. But like I think, when you really

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01:20:23,080 --> 01:20:25,160
Speaker 1: ready to walk away, I don't need to say anything

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01:20:25,160 --> 01:20:27,200
Speaker 1: because I'm really done with you and I don't need

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01:20:27,240 --> 01:20:28,320
Speaker 1: you trying to convince me.

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01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:32,639
Speaker 2: And I'm Every Monday at ten am, we get into

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Speaker 2: all the tea, all the hot topics.

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Speaker 3: We're reviewing traders right now.

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Speaker 2: Y'all know, Real Housewives of Atlanta's coming back really soon,

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Speaker 2: so we're reviewing all.

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Speaker 3: The good stuff.

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Speaker 2: We just wrapped up Atomac, you know, the reunions and

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Speaker 2: all that good stuff is going on. So yeah, and

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Speaker 2: y'all go follow me on Snapchat lex p zero five

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Speaker 2: and I'm on Facebook as well, lex p Oh, I

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Speaker 2: thought you was still talking.

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Speaker 1: Make sure y'all go the www. Dot mus Beauty collection

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Speaker 1: like with lipstick. This is like the first I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: even say I have on like a full beat today

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Speaker 1: because I don't have no foundation all. But it's like

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Speaker 1: the first time that I did my eyeliner in a

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Speaker 1: really long time. And thank you and it's.

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Speaker 2: That ship had me so being is funny.

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Speaker 1: But yes, so I have on MUSBD eyeliner today and

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Speaker 1: then of course I also have on the mess Cara.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, make sure y'all shop black owned besness.

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Speaker 2: Period for Black History Month. Now, we'll see y'all next

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Speaker 2: week by maybe.

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Speaker 1: Y'all get y'all a little black history.

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Speaker 3: That's all.

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01:21:43,600 --> 01:21:44,160
Speaker 2: Never boughty.

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Speaker 1: Wake the fuck up? Everbody, wake the fuck up? You ready?

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Speaker 1: I am? This is serious. This is serious.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, not this, it's serious.

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Speaker 2: This is a marching the freight of skin Oh, I'm early,

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01:22:06,360 --> 01:22:08,439
Speaker 2: I got excited, I'm nervous.

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Speaker 1: We gotta do it right for Mike. We do. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go, now, skin head that had everybody gone back, situation, aggravation,

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Speaker 1: everybody allegation, innocent on the everybody dog food bab bake shot.

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Speaker 3: That everybody gone man.

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Speaker 6: All I want to say is that they don't even

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Speaker 6: know about us.

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01:22:31,360 --> 01:22:32,479
Speaker 1: All I want to say is.

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Speaker 2: That they don't really care about us. Beat me, hate me,

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01:22:38,000 --> 01:22:40,800
Speaker 2: you can never break me, will me, thrill me, you

1848
01:22:40,840 --> 01:22:44,200
Speaker 2: can never kill me, hues me, sue me, everybody, do.

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Speaker 1: Me, kick me. All I want to say is that

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01:22:48,600 --> 01:22:53,599
Speaker 1: they don't really care about us. I was gonna say

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01:22:53,640 --> 01:22:59,400
Speaker 1: is that they don't really care about us. Oh, become

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Speaker 1: my mother life.

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Speaker 6: I have my wife and two children who love me.

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01:23:03,640 --> 01:23:09,320
Speaker 6: I am affecting the police brutes that lot. I'm tired

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01:23:09,320 --> 01:23:12,000
Speaker 6: of being an a victim of hate. You got bring

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01:23:12,080 --> 01:23:14,960
Speaker 6: my pants all for God's sake, I look at heaven

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01:23:15,040 --> 01:23:17,479
Speaker 6: and fulfill his prop fusty.

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Speaker 1: Skinning hit they hit. Everybody gone back, that speculation, everybody allegation.

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Speaker 2: I'm on the news. Everybody doggful black man, black men

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Speaker 2: though their brother in jail.

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01:23:29,960 --> 01:23:31,960
Speaker 1: All I want to say is that they don't really

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Speaker 1: care about us.

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Speaker 7: Wow, woa, we'll be friend. Set my paper free. Oh

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Speaker 7: it is an in