WEBVTT - Debunking the Rumors with Sally Carson

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<v Speaker 1>This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everyone, welcome to another mini episode of the Almost

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<v Speaker 2>Famous Podcast. Today we have Sally Carson. You may know

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<v Speaker 2>her from Clayton season. She was the girl that kept

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<v Speaker 2>running away. She was all running away bride. Sally was

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<v Speaker 2>the one that was like, do I want to be here? No,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be here, and she left, and

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<v Speaker 2>then she did it again in Bachelor in Paradise in

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<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty two, and now she's on Southern Charm on

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<v Speaker 2>Bravo and she's not running away. First off, let's talk Bachelor.

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<v Speaker 2>When we saw you running away?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Was that all legit? Were you just really scared to

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<v Speaker 2>do the show and you were just uncertain at all times?

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<v Speaker 2>Or was there some behind the scenes you weren't seeing

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<v Speaker 2>You know that there was a boy at home that

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<v Speaker 2>you weren't sure were you whether you wanted to be

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<v Speaker 2>with him or not?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes? So it actually happened so fast. So I was

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<v Speaker 3>engaged and then none of the Bachelor franchise knew this,

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<v Speaker 3>but like he cheated on me thirty days before the wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>I found out through DM and I got a call

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<v Speaker 3>from the Bachelor, Like a week after I canceled my wedding?

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<v Speaker 3>Did they? Who did?

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<v Speaker 2>Who? What friends submitted you for this?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It was anonymous, okay, but it was somebody For some reason,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's the girl that DMed me because she felt

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<v Speaker 3>so bad that I canceled my wedding and stuff. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know though, that's just like my thought.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh and one that cheated, Yeah, the cheaty that one.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, I have a consolation, DRIs. Yeah, Hey, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what if he didn't cheat with her, he was

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<v Speaker 2>probably gonna cheo with someone else, and she probably got

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<v Speaker 2>you out of bad situation.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right, That's right. So yeah, they called, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like kind of in this mindset of like Kim,

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm going I'm gonna go do this for myself

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<v Speaker 3>like I deserve it. I get out there and the

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<v Speaker 3>whole process was like super rush. I know people were

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<v Speaker 3>confused on my timeline.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, lots of people. The speculation before the season even

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<v Speaker 2>started was that there was this girl and she canceled

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<v Speaker 2>her wedding to be on the back. That was the

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<v Speaker 2>rumor about you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yes, and I'm sure that's the one that my

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<v Speaker 3>Eggs would love to be out there and not this one.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I mean when he was at work one day,

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<v Speaker 3>I called my wedding planner. I canceled the wedding, and then,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I don't even know. A week or two

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<v Speaker 3>weeks later, I was on a flight LA and I

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<v Speaker 3>got there and you know, they isolate you in the rooms. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so I started to just kind of panic a little bit,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, what am I doing. I've had

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<v Speaker 3>some time to really process all of this. I'm still

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<v Speaker 3>in love with my Eggs. Why am I here all

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<v Speaker 3>the fields? Because it was supposed on my wedding weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>And then yeah, they were like, if you want to leave,

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<v Speaker 3>you have to go see him.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, if you want to leave.

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<v Speaker 3>If I want to leave, I have to go break

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<v Speaker 3>up with Clayton.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, even though we didn't really start getting yet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I went. There was like four nights before

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<v Speaker 3>the limos, right, I think they made it seem like

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<v Speaker 3>it was like the night before, but it was not,

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<v Speaker 3>and we actually had like a really good chat. And

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<v Speaker 3>then I genuinely got confused sitting in front of him.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, wait, this guy's kind of great. Do

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<v Speaker 3>I want to stay, and I was like, no, like,

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<v Speaker 3>I got to stick to my like, I'm not ready

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<v Speaker 3>to be here. I can't like go and get engaged again,

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<v Speaker 3>you know. Yeah, So I left and then I got

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<v Speaker 3>back together with my eggs.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my goodness. Yeah, and how long did that last?

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<v Speaker 3>For? Not long, because the same result happened again.

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<v Speaker 2>A new girl yep. Oh see, I told you he

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<v Speaker 2>was going to.

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<v Speaker 3>Die, I know, learned my lass about and so then I.

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<v Speaker 2>Went on back to my Maaradise and we were still

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<v Speaker 2>not convinced with him because I remember there was a

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<v Speaker 2>visit to his house.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, so I actually genuinely did work with him. So

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<v Speaker 3>he was like my main surgeon at the time.

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<v Speaker 2>And so you are a medical sales reup, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't sell anything I control. I controlled the robot. I

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<v Speaker 3>also got a lot of shit for that. But I

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<v Speaker 3>control a robot in spine surgery. Oh, it doesn't do

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<v Speaker 3>to serve me. It's just like a guidance system for

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<v Speaker 3>the servant. So he's very much still in control. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so I like went and had a conversation with him

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<v Speaker 3>before I left. And again the whole process was super rushed.

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<v Speaker 3>And one of the things that the producers told me

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<v Speaker 3>was that he would not his name would not be

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<v Speaker 3>spoken about, because you know, I didn't want to bring

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<v Speaker 3>his life into the Bachelor again and I didn't want

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<v Speaker 3>all the articles coming out about him again, which they

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<v Speaker 3>ended up doing anyways, And I get there in the

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<v Speaker 3>first thing the girls start asking me is about him.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was just I'm going to remove myself because

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<v Speaker 3>it was just toxic and my producer was nowhere to

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<v Speaker 3>be found.

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<v Speaker 2>She like, ran, but they followed you home the cameras, right, No,

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<v Speaker 2>well I didn't know it. Did you self shoot some stuff?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, wow, I'm making up something in my memory.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think. Well, they had that whole skit.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, thank you. That was I knew I had something

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<v Speaker 2>visual in my memory.

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<v Speaker 3>So much for that skit, but that is like it

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<v Speaker 3>was just very embellished and like it was funny, but

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<v Speaker 3>it was, you know, just not the full truth.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, your whole storyline was quite entertaining, so thanks for

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<v Speaker 2>good reality TV.

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<v Speaker 3>I was super messy and the suitcase was hilarious too.

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<v Speaker 3>I was cracking up.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right. Oh yeah, you had supposedly like lost your

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<v Speaker 2>suitcase and it had the dildo in it.

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<v Speaker 3>Well yeah, well no, that was that was not a

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<v Speaker 3>real suitcase.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I know, I know that, but I know it's

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<v Speaker 2>a plant. But yes, they tried to pretend as if, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>people who watched the show and take things literally too

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<v Speaker 2>literally would yes, they would think that you really did

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<v Speaker 2>leave a suitcase there with a dildo and I know

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<v Speaker 2>I knew you did it and a veil. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh yeah, who what. It just made that the girls

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<v Speaker 2>went along and acted with it. It was just silly

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<v Speaker 2>that I know. All right, So then you got called

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<v Speaker 2>onto the Bravo shows? Is it because they saw you

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<v Speaker 2>on the Bachelor and they're like, this girl is wonderful

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<v Speaker 2>reality TV? No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, So well with Southern Hospitality, I actually met Joe

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<v Speaker 3>Bradley randomly at a bar here in Charleston, and I

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<v Speaker 3>had no idea. I didn't even know about the show

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<v Speaker 3>about Southern Hospitality, didn't know how Shoe I had just

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<v Speaker 3>moved here. I met him and he just walked up

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<v Speaker 3>to me, and I remember he was like, Hey, you're cute,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, damn, he's kind of cute too,

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<v Speaker 3>and me and him, I had a friend that worked

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<v Speaker 3>at Republic and he said that they had VIP hosts

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<v Speaker 3>opportunities and the show was never like presented to me

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<v Speaker 3>at all, but me and show started hanging out. So

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<v Speaker 3>then I became in a few clips on Southern House Valley,

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<v Speaker 3>but I was never a cast member or anything. And

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<v Speaker 3>then Southern Charm came about through my friend Madison, so

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<v Speaker 3>I just, you know, am good friends with Madison, better

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<v Speaker 3>friends with her now. But you know, that's just kind

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<v Speaker 3>of how that landed into my lap. But I've never, like,

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<v Speaker 3>I never really tried to be on all these shows,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think that's what everyone has a problem with.

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<v Speaker 3>And they're like, this girl is just chasing clout and

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<v Speaker 3>chasing reality TV. And I'm like, I know how it looks.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, I have fallen into these opportunities.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they just keep coming, and I'm like, why would

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<v Speaker 3>I say ou?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, yeah, this season on Southern Charm, you've had

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of drama revolve around you, Taylor and Gaston. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>how have you been handling this? How's the fan response been?

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, it's been very positive towards me at least. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>obviously there's always going to be that one negative Nancy

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<v Speaker 3>that wants to say some stuff, but I have honestly

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<v Speaker 3>kind of just you know, I don't. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 3>hard right now after filming cuts because you know, you

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<v Speaker 3>hear things because Charles is such a small town, and

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I hear that her and him are just

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<v Speaker 3>around him running their mouths about me. But you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I just try to I'm trying to just keep them

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<v Speaker 3>out of my mouth. And I hope the best for

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<v Speaker 3>her and I hope she's happy in that relationship. It's

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<v Speaker 3>not the experience that I had, and I think that,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, it rubbed her the wrong way that I

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<v Speaker 3>had some negative things to say about her man, which

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<v Speaker 3>it would rub anyone the wrong way. But that's my

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<v Speaker 3>experience and that's you know, that's what I lived through

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<v Speaker 3>with him, and it might not be what she's going through.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope it's not what she's going through.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there any more drama that you can tease for

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<v Speaker 2>the up coming part of the season.

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<v Speaker 3>Just the whole Like, you know, I don't really think that.

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<v Speaker 3>Me and Taylor, we tried to get along for the

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<v Speaker 3>rest of the season, and we kind of coexisted because

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<v Speaker 3>we wanted to be you know, around our friend group

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<v Speaker 3>and not have any drama really mm hmm. But the

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<v Speaker 3>whole Shep and Sianna thing is weird.

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<v Speaker 2>That I was going to ask about. Yeah, so what

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<v Speaker 2>are your thoughts about that that relationship? Did you think

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<v Speaker 2>it was going to be a little off from the

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<v Speaker 2>get go?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes? Absolutely, Since the moment I met her at the

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<v Speaker 3>dog party, I was like, this girl is not into him,

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't know. I felt so bad for him

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<v Speaker 3>because Shep is amazing and you know, love Shep, but

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<v Speaker 3>we go way back, and I mean she just anyone

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<v Speaker 3>with eyes could see that she just was not interested

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<v Speaker 3>in him except for him. So that gets kind of

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<v Speaker 3>messy in the and it does really make you feel

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<v Speaker 3>bad for the guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you still with the boyfriend that we've seen you

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<v Speaker 2>with in the teasers, the little glimpses of this season?

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<v Speaker 3>No? No, okay, so yeah, yeah I got chewing on again.

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<v Speaker 3>How does that happen? Hm?

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<v Speaker 2>We have to work on your picker, I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe I'm the problem. I really know how, But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that didn't We're.

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<v Speaker 2>Going to document any more of your love life, not.

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<v Speaker 3>This season now, but maybe next season.

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that a greenlit season?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it? What is it? Like happening, happening, not not

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<v Speaker 2>currently now okay, okay, but yeah, there's regulation that it

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<v Speaker 2>will happen. Yeah, you'll be part of it. Yes, okay, wonderful, Yah, wonderful.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, I don't know if I'm allowed to say

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<v Speaker 3>that we.

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<v Speaker 2>Will have a breaking news story here.

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<v Speaker 3>True. Yeah, So I don't really know. I've just been

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<v Speaker 3>kind of after that breakup. I've just been living, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>a real single life in Drawsen, having a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>too much fun. I am kind of hanging out with

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<v Speaker 3>someone right now, but it's super fresh and new, so

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really know where that's going.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you still work with your ex?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>God, no, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like weird, not on speaking terms.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, because I wasn't sure about your job and him.

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<v Speaker 2>You move, You moved on from that job?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, I know I still have the job. I've

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<v Speaker 3>actually been doing the job for seven years.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm on my seven But you move locations, I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 2>move doctors, and you still are working a full time

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<v Speaker 2>job in the medical field while recording the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's fun, it's you know, my my hospital job.

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<v Speaker 3>My medical job comes first. So like if there was

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<v Speaker 3>ever a time where I had to choose between the two,

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<v Speaker 3>it would definitely be my medical career because I love

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<v Speaker 3>it so much. I get I work with kids a lot,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's just a very rewarding job. Where I love

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<v Speaker 3>Southern Charm too. It's very fun, but it's more you know,

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<v Speaker 3>fun and chaotic and messive rather than you know, business forward. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so it's been great.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. If you had to compare your reality experiences,

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<v Speaker 2>like we're talking the production side, what's the difference between

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<v Speaker 2>the two shows the Bachelor, of course, in Southern Term, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>My god, it's nine. It's not like I actually have

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<v Speaker 3>so much fun like filming for Southern Charm and working

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<v Speaker 3>with the producers, and they've become like some of my

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<v Speaker 3>good friends, Whereas on the Bachelor, it was honestly pretty

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<v Speaker 3>pretty brutal.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry you had an experience and you experienced it too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but I loved it, really, I loved it

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<v Speaker 2>all and I made like really good friends with them,

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<v Speaker 2>and I did four seasons and I've always felt so

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<v Speaker 2>comfortable with them. And I know everybody has their different experiences. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, I just oh, I love I love so

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<v Speaker 2>many of them. They're not most of them aren't there anymore,

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<v Speaker 2>like like eighty percent of them that I would our

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<v Speaker 2>friends are no longer there, but.

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<v Speaker 3>Which I loved some of them. But my main girl

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<v Speaker 3>she did yeah, I'm pretty sure she got fired, but

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<v Speaker 3>she was just she was just kind of brutal. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>so yeah, Curry, But I love the other ones.

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<v Speaker 2>And like, I've had experiences on other reality shows where

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be like, this is the fakest shit ever, and

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<v Speaker 2>I always felt like The Bachelor felt more real. But

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<v Speaker 2>then it's interesting to talk about people from other shows

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<v Speaker 2>and you feel like your show is more real than

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<v Speaker 2>The Bachelor was. I did Stars on Mars and that

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<v Speaker 2>was like, actually it was two hands off. Production was

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<v Speaker 2>two hands off for me because I felt like when

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<v Speaker 2>I was doing confessionals, I thought I was talking to myself.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't having a room with anyone, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>like that. I didn't like the way I didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't feel like I had support outside of the cast,

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<v Speaker 2>because yeah, like sometimes you want somebody to talk to

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<v Speaker 2>you outside of the people who are you know you're

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<v Speaker 2>feeling with. I didn't feel like that. And then with

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<v Speaker 2>I did Oh, I did a million dollar match Maker,

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<v Speaker 2>which was like a million dollar millionaire Matchmaker with Patti

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<v Speaker 2>Stanger and that was years ago. Oh my gosh, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like eight years ago. But that felt that was

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<v Speaker 2>so fake, feeling like that was scripted. It was like

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<v Speaker 2>everything was coming out of the earpiece. So it was

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<v Speaker 2>just like, it's crazy. However, reality show is different.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think it's a and I did feel like

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<v Speaker 3>The Bachelor was real. I mean, obviously some circumstances were

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<v Speaker 3>kind of forced or pushed on, but like everything I

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<v Speaker 3>said on there was true, like they were. They never

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<v Speaker 3>forced me to say anything. I was very much myself

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<v Speaker 3>on there and then. But Southern charm, I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>it's so we're all so comfortable because we are actually

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<v Speaker 3>a good group of friends and there is actually, like

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, in every group of large group of friends,

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<v Speaker 3>there's gonna be drama. So it's like it's like a

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<v Speaker 3>little family, and you know, we don't really need much

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<v Speaker 3>force or push for things down.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. How many did you know before the show?

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<v Speaker 3>Pretty much all of them? In a weird twisted way.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you lived there your whole life?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I've only lived here for almost three years. But

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<v Speaker 3>I had like a one night stand with shap and

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<v Speaker 3>then like Whitney and JT, is it really a one.

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<v Speaker 2>Night stand if they continue to be in your life?

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<v Speaker 3>I guess not.

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<v Speaker 2>I never yet we had a one night thing. Does

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<v Speaker 2>that get weird? Will ever happen again?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean never say never. But I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not against you, guys, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't think so. He does look better now than when

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<v Speaker 3>I got with him, That's for sure. He was like

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<v Speaker 3>a mess when I got with him a couple of

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<v Speaker 3>years ago. He was just, you know, drinking a lot

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<v Speaker 3>and sloppy. He's cleaned up his act.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we have one headline, I want to go with

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<v Speaker 2>you before we let you go. I think this just

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<v Speaker 2>from People magazine, says Southern Charms Sally Carson removes breast

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<v Speaker 2>implants she got for her ex. I thought that's what he.

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<v Speaker 3>Liked, Okay, Yeah, I mean I wouldn't say I necessarily

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<v Speaker 3>got them for him, But I became very insecure in

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<v Speaker 3>the relationship because of the other women he was looking at,

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<v Speaker 3>like online and like instagrams.

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<v Speaker 2>It is the.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, so this was a few years ago, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so he just was looking at all these girls that

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<v Speaker 3>like didn't resemble me, and I was like, what the hell,

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<v Speaker 3>Like does he not like me? And it just made

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<v Speaker 3>I think. It just broke me down after a year

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<v Speaker 3>or so, and I was like super insecure and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, I'm going to do this. So I did it.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually did it right before going on Bachelor in

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<v Speaker 3>Paradise and then I just got them out. I just

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<v Speaker 3>got my rest and plants out.

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<v Speaker 2>That is the new move. It seems like lots of

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<v Speaker 2>women are getting their implants out, whether it's for toxicity

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<v Speaker 2>reasons or otherwise. Just like, you know, aesthetic reasons. Why

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<v Speaker 2>did you get them out? Because they they weren't you.

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<v Speaker 3>I got them out. They weren't causing any issues. But

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<v Speaker 3>I just felt like I finally found my confidence again

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<v Speaker 3>and myself and I'm like very happy with who I

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<v Speaker 3>am and I just am like these are not me anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>And I got them for the wrong reasons in the

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<v Speaker 3>first place, and I just I want basically cleansing myself

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<v Speaker 3>of anything that reminded me of my eggs.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, perfectly put Yeah, all right, Well, Sally, thank

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<v Speaker 2>you so much for joining us. It's nice to meet you,

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<v Speaker 2>run Away. I love it. You're a very sweet girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh thank you. Nice to meet you.

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<v Speaker 2>Nice to meet you. Bye bye, see you guys, Till

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<v Speaker 2>next time I've been. Nashley too.

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