WEBVTT - Sarah Belle

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<v Speaker 1>Carola. She's the queen of talking. He was your man.

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<v Speaker 1>She's on the inside, she got the scoop on on

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<v Speaker 1>the on side. No one can do with clid my

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<v Speaker 1>Caral Carola. No one can do with cuid Caroline. This

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<v Speaker 1>time Caroline Today, I'm so excited. Sarah Bell is joining me.

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<v Speaker 1>She is a force to be reckoned with, beautiful inside

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<v Speaker 1>and out, incredible influencer, YouTuber, Instagram, fashionista, blogger, she does

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<v Speaker 1>it all. You guys, get excited. Sarah Bell is in

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<v Speaker 1>the house and we talked about how she got started

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<v Speaker 1>in YouTube, how to get started as an influence, certain

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<v Speaker 1>all of her tips in secrets. So get excited. Here

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<v Speaker 1>she is Sarah Belle in the hissy and we have Miller,

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<v Speaker 1>the tiny little teacup. What is this your teacup? Your key?

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<v Speaker 1>He's so cute, high Miller? What? And he has his

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<v Speaker 1>own TP? Does he sleep in his TP? Well, he's

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<v Speaker 1>missing the pad right now because Cody actually took his

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<v Speaker 1>to work when he was like when I was out

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<v Speaker 1>of town, and so he usually sleeps in it though

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<v Speaker 1>he yeh, he's sun bathed. We turn it that way

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<v Speaker 1>so it faces the window and then he just just

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<v Speaker 1>bask in the sun. We are in a swanky apartment

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<v Speaker 1>that you have. Thank you. This is amazing. Oh my gosh. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're a new transplant to Nashville. I am a neobe.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a newbie. So you moved from l A right,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're a YouTube phenomen and an influencer for blogger, Form, Staffs, Stylist, Fashionista,

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<v Speaker 1>all of that and you're only holl four twenty four.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you become a YouTube phenomen and how did

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<v Speaker 1>it get going? You said you're you're from Arkansas, from

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<v Speaker 1>Kentucky's from Arkansas? I don't know. Okay, you're from Kentucky.

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<v Speaker 1>How did how did you get this dream to become

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<v Speaker 1>a YouTuber? And how did you get to l A, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>how did it start? Give me? Give me the background

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<v Speaker 1>of who Sarabelle is growing up and how she got

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<v Speaker 1>into this. So when I started YouTube, it's probably like

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<v Speaker 1>the very same kind of story as Megan and Liz,

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<v Speaker 1>who I know you interviewed. But I started when YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>was like first becoming a huge thing. And how did

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<v Speaker 1>you even know about it? I quit cross country and

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<v Speaker 1>I had so much free time, so bad. Uh, it's

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<v Speaker 1>so much free time. Didn't know what to do with myself,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I started watching these videos on YouTube and

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<v Speaker 1>they were all about like makeup and fashion, and I

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea what bakeup was. Basically I would pretending

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<v Speaker 1>like I did, and so I started One day I

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<v Speaker 1>had like a digital camera that was like blue. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember exactly what it looked like, and I just like

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<v Speaker 1>put it on the top of my desk and I

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<v Speaker 1>just started talking to it in my room by myself.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was like sixteen years old. And it was

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<v Speaker 1>at the time where like YouTubers were like weird, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. It wasn't like socially accepted. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like one of those people almost like clicked dragons

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<v Speaker 1>or something. Yeah. Basically I was like so humiliated because

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<v Speaker 1>it was leaked at my high school and we're you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of just trying to do private. Yeah, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want anyone to know about it. But then they posted

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<v Speaker 1>about it on Facebook. They were so me It was

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<v Speaker 1>just like such a weird thing, and like a time

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<v Speaker 1>they were like, oh, I like Eichelberger thinks she's famous,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like no, I just wanted because at the

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<v Speaker 1>time I had like fifteen thousand followers, but she would

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<v Speaker 1>get fifteen thou followers so fast. No one didn't do it, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>no one did it, and so it was just like

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<v Speaker 1>luck of the draw, I guess. So really that was

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. That's exactly what megan listened. So there wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>anyone doing it, so people were like, okay, yeah, follow you.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's exactually like what happened. Wow, so kind of

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<v Speaker 1>right away you had fifteen thousand followers and what how

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<v Speaker 1>old are you? I was seventeen and probably yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>was probably seventeen, so like a senior in high school

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<v Speaker 1>when I got to like that ranking, I guess. But

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<v Speaker 1>I remember like it was so easy to grow back

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<v Speaker 1>then because so like there wasn't anyone doing and everyone

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<v Speaker 1>was getting into that like watching YouTube and everything. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's literally luck. I mean that was amazing. So what

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<v Speaker 1>were you? Started off doing makeup and and then what

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<v Speaker 1>did that morph into? Miller is dying to be a

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<v Speaker 1>part of this? Um. I started doing makeup because that

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<v Speaker 1>was what was popular, and then I've was not good

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<v Speaker 1>at that honestly at all. I'm so bad at makeup,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I pretended to be good at it. I was

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<v Speaker 1>doing all these like extravagant makeup tutorials and it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even wear makeup that much, so like that's

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<v Speaker 1>not really me. And then I started doing fat videos

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<v Speaker 1>and I was very good at that either, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was like I thought it was you had great makeup

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<v Speaker 1>and great fashion, so you've obviously grown into you grown.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't want to see that the evidence from this

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<v Speaker 1>eighteen year old Sarah eighteen year old Sarah YouTube still up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah yeah, oh yeah, you can creep on it um.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I went to college and then that's really

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<v Speaker 1>like where my following kind of take took off, because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like the only YouTuber in college because most

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<v Speaker 1>people don't go to college when they are using YouTube stardom,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, so did you how did people? How did

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<v Speaker 1>it take off in college? Like just because people in

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<v Speaker 1>your college and you're a YouTuber? It was just because

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<v Speaker 1>I was posting videos like content about college, so like

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<v Speaker 1>what to bring with you to college and all this stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>and so people working on to college because my age

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<v Speaker 1>demographic kind of grew with me, so like I was eighteen,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone else was eighteen, so and I guess that's just

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<v Speaker 1>how more people found me and like how to pack

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<v Speaker 1>for spring break and like what to bring with you?

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know, just luck, When did you realize

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<v Speaker 1>that this could be a job and you could get

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<v Speaker 1>paid for it? And how do you get paid for youtubing? Crazy? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I started getting paid when I was in high school

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<v Speaker 1>and basically at the age of sixteen, my brother I

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<v Speaker 1>had to be either in extra curricular activities or we

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<v Speaker 1>had to get a job. And so I was running

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<v Speaker 1>across country and stuff. And then when I quit that,

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<v Speaker 1>my I was doing YouTube obviously, and I remember my

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<v Speaker 1>first paycheck was like eighty dollars and I remember, like

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<v Speaker 1>I mean for high school. That is like it was

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<v Speaker 1>for like per thousand view. Yeah, so like ad cents

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<v Speaker 1>on your video, so like the ads they put next

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<v Speaker 1>to your video you get paid for if you were

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<v Speaker 1>like part of their partner program. And so I got

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<v Speaker 1>my first paycheck and I was like, holy crap, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>rolling in the door, like I'm so rich. My parents

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<v Speaker 1>were like, Okay, well you don't have to get a job,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, awesome, be myself. Yeah, And so

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<v Speaker 1>from then I just kind of like took off from there.

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<v Speaker 1>But I also had like the luxury of not having

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<v Speaker 1>to pay for my college. My parents did yes, so

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<v Speaker 1>thank god, or else I would have been paying out

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<v Speaker 1>of pocket for YouTube. But I was able to save

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<v Speaker 1>money and then that eventually that money led me to

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<v Speaker 1>l A. Okay, so how did you decide? Las where

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta go? That's where ever YouTuber goes and Israel?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you all meet up? How do you all get together?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is it just like why why l A? Because

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<v Speaker 1>it's just I guess the entertainment industry. There's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of like YouTube people out there and it's sunny. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>wants to be out there. And so I decided because

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<v Speaker 1>it was like every YouTuber I knew was moving out

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<v Speaker 1>there that I wanted to do the same. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I moved out there just for summer to try it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Um with my best friend who's also a YouTuber. Who's

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<v Speaker 1>that Caitlin B the the letter V. Well, it's b

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<v Speaker 1>e A. It's cute. Yeah, she uh. We've known each

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<v Speaker 1>other since we were in high school, so we grew

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<v Speaker 1>up with each other. It's super cute, but it Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we decided to move out and so it was just

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<v Speaker 1>when I turned twenty one, and so I was like

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<v Speaker 1>living the l A dream? Was it? So fun, so

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<v Speaker 1>much fun. What was life like for you, l A

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<v Speaker 1>when you got out there? Oh my god, it's your

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<v Speaker 1>twenty one, your best friend in l A, your YouTube famous,

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<v Speaker 1>and so what is life looking like for you? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>It was a lot of honestly, drinking in hot tubs,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of making out. No, no, any like gay

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<v Speaker 1>guys out there. But that's kind of fun that to

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot of gay best That was so much fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I never had so much fun dancing on a dance

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<v Speaker 1>floor then I did at this party And it was

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<v Speaker 1>just Caitlin me in a bunch of like awesome game

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<v Speaker 1>in and they don't they weren't trying to hook up.

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<v Speaker 1>They just want to dance and happen dance. It was

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<v Speaker 1>the best day of my life. That's pretty much what

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<v Speaker 1>l it was. That's awesome. So what did you learn

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<v Speaker 1>when you moved to l A and you got involved

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<v Speaker 1>with this big YouTube community? Ay? How did you get

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<v Speaker 1>involved with the community? How did you meet up? Y'all

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<v Speaker 1>just like message each other. Yeah, basically, I mean the

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<v Speaker 1>thing is is like when I started, a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>girls my age also started and so we all just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like grew up with each other and like

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<v Speaker 1>started messaging each other, shouting each other out in YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>videos and all that fun stuff. And so now that

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's just kind of doing their own thing, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>awesome because I get to see like these girls that

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<v Speaker 1>we all had so much in common at age eighteen,

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<v Speaker 1>now there were twenty somethings and we're doing something completely

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<v Speaker 1>different and it's so cute. I feel like you are

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<v Speaker 1>such a positive influencer. Like every time being around you,

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like you are such an encourage r. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't ever get the vibe where you've been like competitive,

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<v Speaker 1>or you've been in situations where it's been nasty, Like

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<v Speaker 1>it seems to me that your energy is always like

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<v Speaker 1>great with collaborating, great, building each other up. Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't since that you've ever had like drama. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>had any like YouTube drama or any like cattiness? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I would say, like when I first started YouTube, there

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<v Speaker 1>was like cattiness, but that was just because we were

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<v Speaker 1>all high schoolers, and I mean there's clicks in high school,

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<v Speaker 1>so there were clicks on YouTube. And I mean obviously

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up in that kind of faded away and

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<v Speaker 1>I just try to like remind myself that while you know,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's growing and stuff, like we're growing for different reasons

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<v Speaker 1>and so like no one is exactly like me. And

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<v Speaker 1>so that's why I have no problem collaborating with people.

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<v Speaker 1>Or I'm not a very competitive person. And it's like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of hard, I guess to not be competitive, especially

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<v Speaker 1>when I lived with like Caitlin for a whole year,

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<v Speaker 1>like a year ago, and we just saw each other's

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<v Speaker 1>work like go in different directions, and so it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>why am I not doing this? Why am I not

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<v Speaker 1>doing that? And at the end of the day, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh wait, we're different and I'm doing this,

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<v Speaker 1>And She's right, it's easy. It's hard not to compare.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually talked to a Brooke um Web about that she

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<v Speaker 1>wrote this blog entry and actually, I think, actually, Wilson,

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<v Speaker 1>it to just how comparison you really can't compare, especially

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<v Speaker 1>in this industry because it is such a new world

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<v Speaker 1>out there. What do you think Miller Miller has a

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<v Speaker 1>big slice of pizza toy Um, You really can't compare

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<v Speaker 1>because it will drive you crazy, literally to drive you

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<v Speaker 1>into How did you teach yourself not to compare? I

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<v Speaker 1>just think it was one of those things I just

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<v Speaker 1>grew up doing because I mean I was on YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>so for so long. It's just you've developed like thick skin.

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<v Speaker 1>You developed like basically seeing other people succeed and sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you're not succeeding, and so you just kind of develop

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<v Speaker 1>it over time, I guess, and it just pikes for

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<v Speaker 1>a happier life, really it does. How what did you

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<v Speaker 1>learn in l A? So when you were out there,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you learn from this YouTube community that you

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't known before? Like, what are some tips that you

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<v Speaker 1>learned that you would tell you. I would tell them

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<v Speaker 1>not to move out to l A. Save your money.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an expensive city. And honestly the friendships and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that you make out there are very shallow. Um obviously

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<v Speaker 1>work related or how you can benefit each other, Yeah, definitely,

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<v Speaker 1>how you can benefit each other's how people want to

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<v Speaker 1>advance themselves, thankfully, Like I found a few great humans

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<v Speaker 1>that when I was there that weren't like that. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to really watch yourself, which is why did

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<v Speaker 1>not date like any guys in l A. Because they

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<v Speaker 1>all just want to like see what you can do

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<v Speaker 1>for them. And so I was just like so over that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just think creativity create creative, creatively, creatively, that's it. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just not the best place. Like, yes, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>good place to grow and be in the center of

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<v Speaker 1>everything when it comes to like the industry, but it

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<v Speaker 1>just wasn't for me. And I think you are so

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<v Speaker 1>much happier when you're in the place that's like for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you learn anything that helped you with YouTube out

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<v Speaker 1>there from being around all these YouTubers or just kept

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<v Speaker 1>doing what you always did? Just kept doing what I

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<v Speaker 1>always did. So what are some tricks or tips that

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<v Speaker 1>you would tell a YouTuber who's getting started, Like, don't

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<v Speaker 1>do this for sure, definitely do this as far as

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<v Speaker 1>getting going, getting building following, getting good content, collaborating, I

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<v Speaker 1>would definitely say, especially nowadays, is buying followers is such

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<v Speaker 1>a big thing and it just like tears me up

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<v Speaker 1>inside because it's just like these people like it's just

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<v Speaker 1>a number to them, and it's like that's not what

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<v Speaker 1>you want. You want like quality over quantity, as stupid

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<v Speaker 1>as it sounds, but people true following you for you

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<v Speaker 1>and your stuff just because it's I mean, you feel

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<v Speaker 1>better honestly if you have like better followers that actually

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<v Speaker 1>want to see what you put out and want to

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<v Speaker 1>see you succeed. And so that's honestly the biggest one

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<v Speaker 1>these days is growing an authentic following, just because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like people want to collaborate with people who obviously

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<v Speaker 1>have authentic ones instead of bots and stuff. Totally. I

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<v Speaker 1>totally agree. Actually, everyone I've interviewed has said that, Yes, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>What about getting good content? What do you suggest on

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<v Speaker 1>when you put content out? What makes a great YouTube video? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good question, just because everyone's I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>there honestly is a correct answer to that, because I

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<v Speaker 1>think everyone has like a personality that's so different and

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<v Speaker 1>that's what people really want to see. They don't really

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<v Speaker 1>care as much these days about like how amazing the

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<v Speaker 1>camera quality is. I'm granted, yes, if you're like a

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<v Speaker 1>filmographer or whatever it's called, then they want to see that.

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<v Speaker 1>But like we're coming on an iPhone right now, hey guys.

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<v Speaker 1>But like at the end of the day, like you

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<v Speaker 1>can start with like your MacBook, Like that's how I started,

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<v Speaker 1>was just with that, like the little camera that was

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<v Speaker 1>built into my computer. And as long as you're like

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<v Speaker 1>consistent and do that mean like weekly or like one

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<v Speaker 1>on the same day, each week or a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people want schedules and they want to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>go back and like see when you're posting, so like

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<v Speaker 1>for me, I usually post on Mondays and Thursdays, And

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<v Speaker 1>so do you do to videos a week? I tried to,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's been a little What is the content that

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<v Speaker 1>you put up? Is it just whatever you're feeling? It's

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<v Speaker 1>just like the at this point, it's not even so

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<v Speaker 1>much about like the best quality video. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>people just want to know what's going on in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>which is cool because I'm like, it's really not that exciting,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you want to know, so it's almost like

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<v Speaker 1>your own little reality show. You kind of recap what

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<v Speaker 1>you've been doing. Nice. It's really boring reality show though. Whatever. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you moved to Nashville. You say I'm done with

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<v Speaker 1>l A. What was your turning point when you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm out. I got kind of sick of l A

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<v Speaker 1>after like a year and a half out there, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just knew it wasn't for me, Like I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>getting anywhere from it, you know, I was just spending

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<v Speaker 1>so much money on rent and just the cost of

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<v Speaker 1>living out there, and I was just having fun and

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<v Speaker 1>not doing much. I'd be like hungover all day basically,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it's perfect to do that in your twenties.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was good. It look good at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I utilized every minute out in l A. But I

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<v Speaker 1>just like I was sick of it. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>just somethings so much, yeah, exactly. And so I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>where should I move? I wanted to be somewhere that

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<v Speaker 1>was closer to where I'm from, which is like five

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<v Speaker 1>minutes south of Cincinnati, so it's like right across the

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<v Speaker 1>river in Kentucky. And I was sick of paying like

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<v Speaker 1>five hundred, six hundred dollar flights to go home and

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<v Speaker 1>visit my family obviously, and everyone would be sick of that.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I this was like, Okay, what's a big

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<v Speaker 1>city near Cincinnati that's not Cincinnati? Because I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>be like away still and Nashville was it. So and

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<v Speaker 1>so you just took a leap of faith and just said, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do this without really knowing much about it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know anyone here except Mallory. How do you

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<v Speaker 1>know Valerie just from like influencing. Okay, so you move

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<v Speaker 1>out here and what was your first impression and how

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<v Speaker 1>did it go for you? Because I feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't been here that long, right, yeah, it will be

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<v Speaker 1>a year in April, and you have I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you've gotten right involved, like a huge group of friends.

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<v Speaker 1>To tell me what it was like for you moving here,

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<v Speaker 1>the difference between l A and Nashville and how you

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<v Speaker 1>how you compare it. Well. I feel like the minute

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<v Speaker 1>I moved here, it was just so easy to like

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<v Speaker 1>find other influencers as opposed to l A because there's

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<v Speaker 1>so many of them and they all are just doing

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<v Speaker 1>such like crazy things and I'm like, okay, well I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like pretty chill, so like not for me. Um. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I just like honestly started creeping on like every

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<v Speaker 1>Nashville blogger. I was like follow, follow, follow, follow, and

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<v Speaker 1>so eventually they followed back, and I would like slide

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<v Speaker 1>into their d M. So I was like, hey, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to get coffee? Like it's me that's awesome. And

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<v Speaker 1>so you just kind of reach out and did you

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<v Speaker 1>find that people were pretty friendly. The first person I

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<v Speaker 1>actually got food with we got tacos, was Shelly no Way,

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<v Speaker 1>and she had just moved here too, kind of on

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<v Speaker 1>a whim also from evergot where she's from, Michies, Indiana, Illinois.

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<v Speaker 1>Shelly is so stinking huge, d'all hit it off right away. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like in two weeks that I moved here.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was like instant friend, which was awesome because

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<v Speaker 1>I needed that because I was like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>anyone here. And then I met up with Balerie and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, you need to meet like Megan and Liz,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I met them at a concert in Michigan.

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<v Speaker 1>We were which is so random. We were in Michigan

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<v Speaker 1>for like Soap and Glory, which is the brand they

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<v Speaker 1>sent us to, like a country concert Faster Horses. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember seeing that in your house. Yeah, when to post

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<v Speaker 1>her um and I was I was having way too

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<v Speaker 1>much fun and it was just not the best time

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<v Speaker 1>to meet me. So I end up meeting them again

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<v Speaker 1>at your house and so was much better then. But

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's so kind. Everyone's so nice. That's the thing I

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<v Speaker 1>have realized about this influencing world is everyone is so

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<v Speaker 1>nice and so willing to help and give tips. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so give me some tips about what is influencing. Like

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<v Speaker 1>if you had a breakdown what influencing even means what

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<v Speaker 1>is what does it mean to you? Like, how would

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<v Speaker 1>you describe it? Oh? God, I don't even know. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like the moment you kind of impact someone in

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<v Speaker 1>like a positive way, whether I mean some would debate

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<v Speaker 1>maybe like buying a shirt is a positive way, but

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<v Speaker 1>like influencer is such like a a wide variety of

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<v Speaker 1>a word because anyone can do it, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. I don't really have a good answer for it.

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<v Speaker 1>So it could be like, can you be an influencer

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<v Speaker 1>just be on Instagram? Or do you need to have

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<v Speaker 1>something else to back it up, like a YouTube to follow,

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<v Speaker 1>a blog to follow, like a podcast, or like something

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do you need to have something else?

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<v Speaker 1>Or can you just be like I'm going to influence

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<v Speaker 1>the show close. I think you can be like an

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<v Speaker 1>influencer just on Instagram. I don't think you need to

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<v Speaker 1>have anything, but I think it's safe to have. Like

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<v Speaker 1>a miller is so chill right now. Uh, it's so

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<v Speaker 1>much better to have like something to fall back on

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<v Speaker 1>in case Instagram shuts down, because it probably will. Yeah, eventually,

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to like be an old new It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like Facebook kind of. It's just like parents. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what's going to be the next thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. My space is over. Oh my god, rest

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<v Speaker 1>in peace day Oh those we're good. Okay, So when

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<v Speaker 1>you are, if you're telling someone who was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I really want to start this fashion blog, what is

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<v Speaker 1>your suggestion on growing followers, on how to get brand deals,

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<v Speaker 1>on how to just start increasing your reach to people.

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<v Speaker 1>What are some things that you would recommend doing. I

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<v Speaker 1>would recommend definitely kind of if you're starting a fashion blog,

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<v Speaker 1>go to like Forever Tony one, pick up a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of different outfits and start styling them you can, especially

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<v Speaker 1>if they're like more basics. Take your iPhone, start taking

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<v Speaker 1>pictures in different locations. Don't do like an all white wall,

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<v Speaker 1>because people want to see different things. They want to

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<v Speaker 1>see creativity and instantly, I'm sure you'll find stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Your Instagram is growing because people want affordable things, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's kind of like the niche. I totally

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<v Speaker 1>agree with that. So start just showing that you have

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<v Speaker 1>an eye for fashion and putting stuff together. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you get collaborations? I thankfully I had a manager since

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<v Speaker 1>I was in high school. I know it's been so long,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, I can't believe she's known me this long.

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<v Speaker 1>She's seen me through the good and the bed. But

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<v Speaker 1>uh yeah. So I have a manager named Abigail. She

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<v Speaker 1>gets me brand deals and then she brings them to

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<v Speaker 1>me and everything gets negotiated through her, which is so

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<v Speaker 1>nice because I'm not good with contracts, but I understand

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<v Speaker 1>that can be very overwhelming, and so I think having

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<v Speaker 1>that buffer, whether it be like your boyfriend or your mom,

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<v Speaker 1>even being like your manager, it's good because like you're

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<v Speaker 1>not it's like being handled and you can do all

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<v Speaker 1>the creative stuff, you know what I mean. So when

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<v Speaker 1>you collab with I was talking to the Ashley's about this,

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<v Speaker 1>When you collab with like a brand deal, they will

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<v Speaker 1>say you have like a contract and you agree to

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<v Speaker 1>do something like three posts on Instagram, a blog and

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<v Speaker 1>or something, and then they is that is that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of how it goes? Is it different for every brand deal? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's different for me for every brand deal because like

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<v Speaker 1>on YouTube, but we have three different kind of ways

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<v Speaker 1>of collaborating and so my manager will give like the

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<v Speaker 1>brand an option of like a feature, so it's just like, hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I bought this the other day and then moving on

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<v Speaker 1>to like whatever else I'm talking about, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>forget what the other word is for the next one.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's like we incorporate it more into the video.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's kind of like that a secret marketing or

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<v Speaker 1>like drinking a Coca Cola can. Yeah, kind of secret marketing,

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<v Speaker 1>but like yeah, but subtle. Yeah, it's not as like

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<v Speaker 1>obvious that it's like a fool on dedicated thing. You

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<v Speaker 1>kind of just like have it in the post with you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And so then there's also like a fool on like

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<v Speaker 1>dedicated video. So it's just like the product is basically

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<v Speaker 1>what the entire video revolves around. Okay, So that would

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<v Speaker 1>be like, okay, I'm I'm gonna show you how to

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<v Speaker 1>do this product editorial or something. Okay, so that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>What about with blog post? That's the one we're like

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<v Speaker 1>just now getting into because I launched my blog back

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<v Speaker 1>in May or June of last year, and so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still new to it, um, but I would say most

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<v Speaker 1>of my campaigns and stuff come through Instagram. Actually, blog

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<v Speaker 1>posts I think are so easy, and I always think

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<v Speaker 1>it's like so crazy that like brands want to pay

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<v Speaker 1>me for a blog post because I'm like, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a diary. You know. I'm like, you really want to

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<v Speaker 1>pay me for that? But okay, I mean whatever, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>come on. Uh. But Instagram is like, honestly my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>thing because I think you can really be creative and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, people can either shoot that picture down and

0:23:05.520 --> 0:23:08.840
<v Speaker 1>he had to take another one, or you know, they

0:23:08.880 --> 0:23:10.720
<v Speaker 1>love it. And it's always awesome when they love it,

0:23:10.720 --> 0:23:12.840
<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, because this is like my vision, you

0:23:12.840 --> 0:23:16.840
<v Speaker 1>have more creative like aspects of it, right, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>go do the picture and then you sent it into

0:23:19.000 --> 0:23:20.679
<v Speaker 1>them and they're like, Okay, we either love this or

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<v Speaker 1>it's your creativity. Do you blog on a regular basis

0:23:25.000 --> 0:23:28.320
<v Speaker 1>or is blogging kind of depending on do you like

0:23:28.440 --> 0:23:30.280
<v Speaker 1>weekly blog or is it based on if you have

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<v Speaker 1>something going on. I tried a weekly blog. When I

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<v Speaker 1>first kind of got into it, I was I went

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<v Speaker 1>like full on craziness. I had basically content going up

0:23:43.040 --> 0:23:46.440
<v Speaker 1>every single day. It was, uh, whatever day I wasn't

0:23:46.480 --> 0:23:49.320
<v Speaker 1>posting on YouTube was being posted on my blog. And

0:23:49.359 --> 0:23:52.280
<v Speaker 1>then I quickly was like like five times a week

0:23:52.320 --> 0:23:54.800
<v Speaker 1>I was, but now I'm like, that's just like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of work. I was like what am I like,

0:23:57.600 --> 0:24:00.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm over committing myself and so now it's it's like

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<v Speaker 1>once or twice a week. But it's still a lot

0:24:02.320 --> 0:24:05.440
<v Speaker 1>because I'm still posting on YouTube, but see YouTube twice

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<v Speaker 1>a week, blog once or twice a week. Is there

0:24:07.720 --> 0:24:10.720
<v Speaker 1>any other things that you're instagram every single day? And

0:24:10.800 --> 0:24:13.520
<v Speaker 1>is that like someone shows doing outfit or what's your

0:24:13.560 --> 0:24:15.800
<v Speaker 1>what's your What do you like to post on Instagram?

0:24:16.000 --> 0:24:18.640
<v Speaker 1>I love posting my outfits. And you don't necessarily blog

0:24:18.680 --> 0:24:20.679
<v Speaker 1>about this. You just link. You just link your clothes.

0:24:20.680 --> 0:24:22.560
<v Speaker 1>I link my clothes and that's what I usually blog

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<v Speaker 1>about on my blog, is the fashion. I don't really

0:24:25.040 --> 0:24:28.560
<v Speaker 1>talk about that on my YouTube as much. But I

0:24:28.600 --> 0:24:33.679
<v Speaker 1>love Instagram like it's my favorite. I love your Instagram beautiful.

0:24:34.520 --> 0:24:37.320
<v Speaker 1>Gosh your Stagram boyfriend? Is that your Did your boyfriend

0:24:37.359 --> 0:24:40.360
<v Speaker 1>take the pictures? Every picture? Yeah? How great is that?

0:24:40.440 --> 0:24:42.680
<v Speaker 1>I know it's a luxury and he doesn't complain either,

0:24:42.760 --> 0:24:46.800
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, thank you. And your style is very

0:24:47.040 --> 0:24:49.080
<v Speaker 1>you tell me what your style is because like no

0:24:49.119 --> 0:24:50.920
<v Speaker 1>one else dresses like you like you have a starabil

0:24:50.960 --> 0:24:57.440
<v Speaker 1>style for sure. I would definitely say like very free people. Yes,

0:24:57.720 --> 0:25:00.280
<v Speaker 1>I love free people. Free people's my favorite brand. So

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<v Speaker 1>I would say more of like a bohemian like eclectic

0:25:05.160 --> 0:25:09.720
<v Speaker 1>kind of out there sometimes, yes, but yeah, just chill

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<v Speaker 1>comfy and you rock bell bottoms like major flares. I

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<v Speaker 1>love flair jeans kill the flares, like you'll start with

0:25:16.760 --> 0:25:20.000
<v Speaker 1>the flare from your knee and it's awesome. I'm like, gosh,

0:25:20.080 --> 0:25:22.720
<v Speaker 1>I want to dress like that. I love them. They're

0:25:22.720 --> 0:25:25.640
<v Speaker 1>like my favorite pants. But my like some people don't

0:25:25.680 --> 0:25:28.600
<v Speaker 1>appreciate them. Ak. My father he's like, oh my god,

0:25:28.920 --> 0:25:32.400
<v Speaker 1>it's like two thousand again in the seventies again. He's like, Sarah,

0:25:32.400 --> 0:25:34.280
<v Speaker 1>You've done this trend too many times now, and I'm

0:25:34.320 --> 0:25:39.040
<v Speaker 1>like them, love it. What's the high, like the highest

0:25:39.080 --> 0:25:41.600
<v Speaker 1>high and the low slow. What's the best experience you've had,

0:25:41.640 --> 0:25:44.280
<v Speaker 1>and as your job as an influencer, like your best moment,

0:25:44.359 --> 0:25:45.800
<v Speaker 1>like a moment that mark time for you in a

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<v Speaker 1>great way, and a moment that mark time for you,

0:25:48.000 --> 0:25:53.160
<v Speaker 1>and like, oh my god, this is awful. Um honestly

0:25:53.200 --> 0:25:57.080
<v Speaker 1>they might be the same day, which is crazy, I know.

0:25:57.880 --> 0:26:00.520
<v Speaker 1>So this past year I went in to the c

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<v Speaker 1>m AS and it was so awesome, like an awesome

0:26:04.280 --> 0:26:10.640
<v Speaker 1>experience and basically everything kind of like went to Yeah,

0:26:10.720 --> 0:26:13.760
<v Speaker 1>I went to Talkies real quick. Um, the brand I

0:26:13.800 --> 0:26:16.720
<v Speaker 1>was working with, I obviously don't want to mention anyone's name,

0:26:17.040 --> 0:26:20.240
<v Speaker 1>but it just wasn't a pleasurable experience. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>basically like bawling my eyes out after like the red carpet,

0:26:24.920 --> 0:26:27.600
<v Speaker 1>just because I didn't have basically what they promised me,

0:26:28.080 --> 0:26:29.920
<v Speaker 1>and so they were expecting all this stuff and I

0:26:29.920 --> 0:26:31.760
<v Speaker 1>couldn't give it to him because I didn't have help.

0:26:32.119 --> 0:26:34.400
<v Speaker 1>So it was just like I was just free for all.

0:26:34.680 --> 0:26:37.879
<v Speaker 1>So here you are at this amazing experience. You're in Nashville,

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<v Speaker 1>neuter Nashville. You're going to c m as all dressed up,

0:26:40.560 --> 0:26:43.480
<v Speaker 1>great brandial partnership, so you're super excited, and then it's

0:26:43.520 --> 0:26:46.640
<v Speaker 1>all like it's just like just kidding, So what did

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<v Speaker 1>you What do you do in a situation like that

0:26:48.240 --> 0:26:51.960
<v Speaker 1>when the brand doesn't follow through on their end. I

0:26:52.000 --> 0:26:54.159
<v Speaker 1>prayed that my best because my best friend flew in

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<v Speaker 1>from uh California to come with me because she was

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<v Speaker 1>my plus one and basically it was told by me

0:27:01.240 --> 0:27:02.760
<v Speaker 1>that she would be on the red carpet with me,

0:27:02.840 --> 0:27:05.080
<v Speaker 1>so then I could get all the content that they needed.

0:27:05.720 --> 0:27:08.120
<v Speaker 1>And then that day, they were like, just kidding, she's

0:27:08.119 --> 0:27:09.320
<v Speaker 1>not going to be on the Red carpet with you.

0:27:09.400 --> 0:27:11.400
<v Speaker 1>They're being extra strict this year. And I'm like, so

0:27:11.520 --> 0:27:14.119
<v Speaker 1>you expect me to get all this content because you

0:27:14.160 --> 0:27:16.360
<v Speaker 1>needed her to film it and like record stuff, right, yeah,

0:27:16.400 --> 0:27:19.760
<v Speaker 1>I needed pictures and like all this crazy stuff because

0:27:19.760 --> 0:27:22.359
<v Speaker 1>they were being very specific on what they wanted. I

0:27:22.440 --> 0:27:24.800
<v Speaker 1>had to be smiling showing my teeth, and so I

0:27:24.920 --> 0:27:28.879
<v Speaker 1>was like, I just I couldn't do it, like it

0:27:29.040 --> 0:27:31.719
<v Speaker 1>just I had a meltdown right then and there. I

0:27:31.760 --> 0:27:33.800
<v Speaker 1>was just like this is crazy, Like I don't have

0:27:33.840 --> 0:27:35.960
<v Speaker 1>any direction, no one's here, like no one from the

0:27:36.000 --> 0:27:38.639
<v Speaker 1>brand was there to help me as they told me

0:27:38.720 --> 0:27:41.679
<v Speaker 1>they would be. And so I just got off that

0:27:41.720 --> 0:27:43.760
<v Speaker 1>red carpet as soon as it possibly could because I

0:27:43.800 --> 0:27:45.679
<v Speaker 1>was like, get me off of here. And then I

0:27:45.720 --> 0:27:48.560
<v Speaker 1>went to find Caitlin in her seats and I just

0:27:48.640 --> 0:27:52.400
<v Speaker 1>like started bawling. I was like this was so bad.

0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:54.400
<v Speaker 1>I was like and they were telling me I needed

0:27:54.440 --> 0:27:57.159
<v Speaker 1>to get a picture and I couldn't deliver that. And

0:27:57.200 --> 0:27:58.720
<v Speaker 1>so I was like, I don't know how you expect

0:27:58.760 --> 0:28:01.320
<v Speaker 1>me to get this picture, Like there's literally no way

0:28:01.359 --> 0:28:03.560
<v Speaker 1>I could unless you wanted like a selfie, but that's

0:28:03.600 --> 0:28:05.480
<v Speaker 1>not the kind of content I post, so it's like

0:28:05.520 --> 0:28:08.399
<v Speaker 1>professional pictures. Yeah. So I was like I don't know

0:28:08.440 --> 0:28:11.040
<v Speaker 1>what to do. So my manager I got a little

0:28:11.040 --> 0:28:13.760
<v Speaker 1>sassy with the brand and which was a bad don't

0:28:13.760 --> 0:28:16.800
<v Speaker 1>do that body you say, how what is your sassie mean?

0:28:17.080 --> 0:28:18.800
<v Speaker 1>I was just like, how do you expect me to

0:28:18.840 --> 0:28:21.040
<v Speaker 1>do this when you guys aren't even like following through?

0:28:21.200 --> 0:28:23.240
<v Speaker 1>Like it was just I did not need to be

0:28:23.320 --> 0:28:25.680
<v Speaker 1>talking to them. My manager should have been talking to them.

0:28:27.000 --> 0:28:29.280
<v Speaker 1>But sometimes it's hard to keep it's hard to it's

0:28:29.280 --> 0:28:31.280
<v Speaker 1>hard to stay perfect, to do everything. I know, even

0:28:31.320 --> 0:28:33.520
<v Speaker 1>we feel like you've just been totally screwed. I was

0:28:33.560 --> 0:28:35.640
<v Speaker 1>like I can't do this. I was like piste off

0:28:35.680 --> 0:28:38.680
<v Speaker 1>and so my manager was like, Sarah, just talk to

0:28:38.760 --> 0:28:40.640
<v Speaker 1>me now, and I was like, okay, fine, I'll talk

0:28:40.640 --> 0:28:43.480
<v Speaker 1>to you. And then it was just a disaster. But

0:28:43.600 --> 0:28:47.120
<v Speaker 1>thankfully I got it done. The brand deal is over.

0:28:47.400 --> 0:28:49.800
<v Speaker 1>Won't work with them ever again. And it all worked

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<v Speaker 1>out like they were happy with the content and we

0:28:53.440 --> 0:28:56.640
<v Speaker 1>I got paid, so I guess that's all that matters

0:28:56.680 --> 0:28:59.280
<v Speaker 1>because I got the money in the end. So but

0:28:59.360 --> 0:29:01.560
<v Speaker 1>that's fresh rating because you want to do great work

0:29:01.640 --> 0:29:04.960
<v Speaker 1>and you want that's why I m Ashley Wilson was saying,

0:29:05.000 --> 0:29:06.840
<v Speaker 1>you want to have the contracts later ahead of time,

0:29:06.880 --> 0:29:08.400
<v Speaker 1>and you probably had all these stuff agreed upon. Like

0:29:08.440 --> 0:29:11.360
<v Speaker 1>they're doing that, they're showing up this way and oh man,

0:29:12.000 --> 0:29:15.080
<v Speaker 1>so that's how Brandell's can go real south, real quick,

0:29:15.080 --> 0:29:17.280
<v Speaker 1>real south, real quick. It could be like the best

0:29:17.360 --> 0:29:19.520
<v Speaker 1>day ever and then the worst day ever all in one.

0:29:20.400 --> 0:29:24.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, did you end up having fun after seats? Were? You?

0:29:24.960 --> 0:29:26.880
<v Speaker 1>Kind of did it right? It was just rained on

0:29:26.960 --> 0:29:30.440
<v Speaker 1>my parade, honestly, because then I had like they kept

0:29:30.560 --> 0:29:33.240
<v Speaker 1>coming back because I had to like post at the event,

0:29:33.440 --> 0:29:35.920
<v Speaker 1>and so here I'm trying to post, but they promised

0:29:35.960 --> 0:29:37.720
<v Speaker 1>me these really nice seats and I didn't get the seats,

0:29:37.720 --> 0:29:40.760
<v Speaker 1>and so everything was like really far back, and I

0:29:40.800 --> 0:29:42.560
<v Speaker 1>was like, this is this is not what I wanted

0:29:42.560 --> 0:29:44.880
<v Speaker 1>for the teams because I love country music. Yes, I

0:29:44.920 --> 0:29:46.760
<v Speaker 1>was like, I'd like to be able to see the people,

0:29:47.360 --> 0:29:50.479
<v Speaker 1>but you know, people on TVs got better views than

0:29:50.520 --> 0:29:56.200
<v Speaker 1>I did, so man, that's so frustrating. It was so annoying. Okay,

0:29:56.240 --> 0:29:59.320
<v Speaker 1>So I like to sort of talk about callings to

0:30:00.520 --> 0:30:03.760
<v Speaker 1>and its influencing. It is such an interesting thing because

0:30:03.760 --> 0:30:06.480
<v Speaker 1>it's it is it's a job, like it's a job,

0:30:06.520 --> 0:30:10.160
<v Speaker 1>but it's like it's such a new career path. Do

0:30:10.240 --> 0:30:13.920
<v Speaker 1>you feel like you're walking in your calling? Like like

0:30:14.000 --> 0:30:17.800
<v Speaker 1>this whole smart report of YouTube, blogging, fashion, all this

0:30:17.920 --> 0:30:20.040
<v Speaker 1>is what you're meant to do? Like, do you feel

0:30:20.040 --> 0:30:23.880
<v Speaker 1>like that's what your soul want you? Like? Is that

0:30:24.000 --> 0:30:28.000
<v Speaker 1>what you were meant to do? I think so, because

0:30:28.080 --> 0:30:31.360
<v Speaker 1>it's so funny. I went to college for pre law

0:30:31.480 --> 0:30:36.440
<v Speaker 1>and law that's useful for me now clearly. Um, And

0:30:36.960 --> 0:30:39.160
<v Speaker 1>when I was growing up, I had all these like

0:30:39.440 --> 0:30:42.600
<v Speaker 1>guidebooks basically from like teen Vogue and stuff like how

0:30:42.640 --> 0:30:44.440
<v Speaker 1>to land your dream internship. And I was like, I'm

0:30:44.440 --> 0:30:46.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna work at Team Vogue and I'm going to like

0:30:46.720 --> 0:30:49.160
<v Speaker 1>do their blogging for them and all this cool stuff

0:30:49.200 --> 0:30:51.360
<v Speaker 1>and like style and like I want to be a

0:30:51.400 --> 0:30:53.400
<v Speaker 1>model like all this stuff. So I always wanted to

0:30:53.400 --> 0:30:57.360
<v Speaker 1>be in the fashion industry, wanted to style blog, I

0:30:57.360 --> 0:30:59.080
<v Speaker 1>want to do all of it. That's what you're doing.

0:30:59.080 --> 0:31:01.960
<v Speaker 1>You're a model for you, You're styling for yourself and

0:31:02.000 --> 0:31:05.000
<v Speaker 1>others if they want to mean you're also giving inspiration,

0:31:05.000 --> 0:31:07.160
<v Speaker 1>so you're kind of doing exactly what you wanted to do. Yeah,

0:31:07.200 --> 0:31:09.520
<v Speaker 1>it's it's so funny how everything worked out because I

0:31:09.600 --> 0:31:12.400
<v Speaker 1>was like dead set on that being what I was

0:31:12.400 --> 0:31:14.800
<v Speaker 1>gonna do, and it ended up working out, which is

0:31:14.840 --> 0:31:17.240
<v Speaker 1>awesome because so I was like, I couldn't have asked

0:31:17.280 --> 0:31:21.480
<v Speaker 1>for a better job. Why do you think some people

0:31:22.120 --> 0:31:26.480
<v Speaker 1>don't follow their passion and they settle That's a good question.

0:31:27.080 --> 0:31:30.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean it can be a risk, I think whenever

0:31:30.720 --> 0:31:33.640
<v Speaker 1>you try to like go towards your passion, because sometimes

0:31:33.720 --> 0:31:36.360
<v Speaker 1>your passion isn't always what's going to pay the bills,

0:31:36.720 --> 0:31:39.240
<v Speaker 1>and that can be intimidating because I mean I wanted

0:31:39.280 --> 0:31:40.680
<v Speaker 1>to be a lawyer because it was going to pay

0:31:40.840 --> 0:31:43.680
<v Speaker 1>the bills. I mean, that's on the reason why I

0:31:43.720 --> 0:31:46.280
<v Speaker 1>wanted to do it, Like I like, you know, political

0:31:46.320 --> 0:31:49.040
<v Speaker 1>science and stuff, but it's not like my passion, you know.

0:31:50.160 --> 0:31:54.600
<v Speaker 1>So I honestly think it's just being able to afford

0:31:54.640 --> 0:31:57.320
<v Speaker 1>a living. That's what it boils down to. Do you

0:31:57.360 --> 0:32:00.720
<v Speaker 1>think that it's worth that people should take the risk? Oh? Yeah.

0:32:01.000 --> 0:32:03.840
<v Speaker 1>Anytime I hear that someone's like quitting their job to

0:32:03.880 --> 0:32:07.320
<v Speaker 1>go full time blogging, I'm like that is so cool,

0:32:07.600 --> 0:32:09.880
<v Speaker 1>Like good for you, Like this is literally what you

0:32:09.920 --> 0:32:12.000
<v Speaker 1>want to be doing. And I think that's so awesome.

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:14.800
<v Speaker 1>It's I agree because to me, like this life is

0:32:14.840 --> 0:32:17.840
<v Speaker 1>so short and it's already hard enough if you're not

0:32:18.000 --> 0:32:19.760
<v Speaker 1>if you're working every day and hating what you do.

0:32:19.840 --> 0:32:22.480
<v Speaker 1>And I understand there's all sorts of circumstances, but I'm

0:32:22.520 --> 0:32:24.719
<v Speaker 1>the same way. When people take that jump and they

0:32:24.760 --> 0:32:27.480
<v Speaker 1>go for their passions, I feel like it has to

0:32:27.480 --> 0:32:31.080
<v Speaker 1>pay off in some way though, right, especially if you're talented. Yeah,

0:32:31.120 --> 0:32:33.520
<v Speaker 1>And it's just like it must be like the most

0:32:33.560 --> 0:32:37.520
<v Speaker 1>rewarding feeling. I can't imagine because I've only just done it,

0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:41.520
<v Speaker 1>but like I just wish for one day I could

0:32:41.520 --> 0:32:44.080
<v Speaker 1>like being someone choose that's just like you know, put

0:32:44.120 --> 0:32:47.480
<v Speaker 1>it in there two weeks at Corporate America and being like, Pizza,

0:32:47.640 --> 0:32:50.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go chance this dream of mine. I think

0:32:50.240 --> 0:32:53.600
<v Speaker 1>it's so awesome. It's so awesome. I know, I know,

0:32:53.720 --> 0:32:56.600
<v Speaker 1>and I feel the same way. I love it when

0:32:56.600 --> 0:32:58.720
<v Speaker 1>people are like, Okay, I'm taking the risk because you

0:32:58.720 --> 0:33:00.680
<v Speaker 1>really don't know how it's gonna end up. The thing

0:33:00.720 --> 0:33:02.880
<v Speaker 1>with this influencing job and all this stuff, like nothing's

0:33:02.880 --> 0:33:04.840
<v Speaker 1>ever set in stone. Really like your brand deals are

0:33:04.880 --> 0:33:07.360
<v Speaker 1>kind of coming in sporadically, not sporadically, but it's not

0:33:07.400 --> 0:33:10.920
<v Speaker 1>like commit committed thing happening, So you sort of have

0:33:10.960 --> 0:33:13.760
<v Speaker 1>to have faith in general that it's going to work

0:33:13.760 --> 0:33:17.760
<v Speaker 1>out definitely. And I mean even when you're like made it,

0:33:17.800 --> 0:33:20.600
<v Speaker 1>I guess you're still well, like being able to pay

0:33:20.640 --> 0:33:24.120
<v Speaker 1>the bills, I guess is making it. But like even

0:33:24.160 --> 0:33:26.600
<v Speaker 1>for me, like some days I'm like, oh my god,

0:33:26.680 --> 0:33:28.600
<v Speaker 1>Like if I don't get a brand deals soon, like

0:33:28.960 --> 0:33:31.160
<v Speaker 1>is this all over? Like is this do I have

0:33:31.200 --> 0:33:34.160
<v Speaker 1>to go back to like law school down? Like no,

0:33:34.320 --> 0:33:36.600
<v Speaker 1>thank you. It's one of those things because you're always

0:33:36.640 --> 0:33:39.680
<v Speaker 1>like praying basically because you never know when your next

0:33:39.720 --> 0:33:42.640
<v Speaker 1>paycheck will be. Yeah, where do you see yourself in

0:33:42.680 --> 0:33:45.240
<v Speaker 1>five years? If it can go according to you exactly

0:33:45.240 --> 0:33:46.800
<v Speaker 1>how you have a dreamed in your head? What would

0:33:46.840 --> 0:33:50.240
<v Speaker 1>your life look like in five years? Um? Hopefully the same.

0:33:50.920 --> 0:33:54.240
<v Speaker 1>That's awesome? How great is that? Yeah? Um, hopefully like

0:33:54.280 --> 0:33:56.320
<v Speaker 1>married because because you got a real cute I got

0:33:56.400 --> 0:33:59.840
<v Speaker 1>a cute boyfriend. So in five years, I'll be almost thirty,

0:34:00.440 --> 0:34:03.040
<v Speaker 1>which is insaneties are awesome. You're gonna love it. I'll

0:34:03.080 --> 0:34:05.400
<v Speaker 1>be almost forty, so you know, I can just like

0:34:05.560 --> 0:34:10.160
<v Speaker 1>be your mom, or I like, I just can't imagine

0:34:10.200 --> 0:34:13.120
<v Speaker 1>being like twenty nine. That's like feels like so long

0:34:13.160 --> 0:34:15.160
<v Speaker 1>from now because whenever I was like in high school,

0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:16.839
<v Speaker 1>I was like five years from now, I'll be twenty four,

0:34:16.880 --> 0:34:19.440
<v Speaker 1>and now I'm twenty four, and I'm like, oh my god,

0:34:19.680 --> 0:34:22.040
<v Speaker 1>like I thought all these people had it together, and

0:34:22.480 --> 0:34:25.840
<v Speaker 1>no one actually has it together. Collaborate on that because

0:34:25.840 --> 0:34:27.960
<v Speaker 1>so many people, especially like you see a perfect Instagram

0:34:27.960 --> 0:34:30.279
<v Speaker 1>feed and you see like to like, honestly, to me,

0:34:30.480 --> 0:34:32.719
<v Speaker 1>you look like you have it all together, Like I

0:34:32.719 --> 0:34:35.000
<v Speaker 1>look at you on socials anonymous, but you're so real,

0:34:35.080 --> 0:34:38.160
<v Speaker 1>which is awesome. So people can actually get to know

0:34:38.200 --> 0:34:40.000
<v Speaker 1>you and realize that you are human definitely don't have

0:34:40.000 --> 0:34:43.239
<v Speaker 1>it together. But what is that? Because people you think

0:34:43.239 --> 0:34:45.160
<v Speaker 1>people have it together, and what have you learned about

0:34:45.239 --> 0:34:48.520
<v Speaker 1>the truth behind the behind the facade? No one is

0:34:48.560 --> 0:34:51.600
<v Speaker 1>actually perfect, which is hard to like wrap my mind

0:34:51.600 --> 0:34:54.880
<v Speaker 1>around because even I get like so like sucked on

0:34:54.880 --> 0:34:57.839
<v Speaker 1>this idea that like this person is perfect, they have

0:34:57.920 --> 0:35:01.319
<v Speaker 1>no problems, but like we have problems, we just don't

0:35:01.400 --> 0:35:05.040
<v Speaker 1>choose to share them, Like everyone goes through stuff. How

0:35:05.040 --> 0:35:07.959
<v Speaker 1>did you realize this that no one was perfect. Oh God,

0:35:08.040 --> 0:35:10.680
<v Speaker 1>when did the veil get lifted? That's a good question.

0:35:11.880 --> 0:35:13.960
<v Speaker 1>I honestly have no idea, Like, I can't think of

0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:16.960
<v Speaker 1>a specific time started. Gradually, it all started. You started

0:35:17.520 --> 0:35:20.960
<v Speaker 1>meeting people probably that you thought were perfect. And when

0:35:20.960 --> 0:35:23.160
<v Speaker 1>you meet like somebody that you looked up to, Like

0:35:23.239 --> 0:35:25.720
<v Speaker 1>I remember years ago I looked up to this one blogger.

0:35:25.800 --> 0:35:29.240
<v Speaker 1>I met her and it was just like stone cold,

0:35:29.360 --> 0:35:33.239
<v Speaker 1>and I was just like, oh, like I thought you

0:35:33.320 --> 0:35:36.359
<v Speaker 1>were warm and fuzzy. Yeah, I was like, this is disappointing. Like,

0:35:36.480 --> 0:35:39.680
<v Speaker 1>but I mean, it's not all that it's cracked up

0:35:39.719 --> 0:35:42.719
<v Speaker 1>to be. Basically, everything you see on Instagram just goes,

0:35:42.800 --> 0:35:45.719
<v Speaker 1>especially before like Instagram stories, we never really knew what

0:35:46.080 --> 0:35:49.000
<v Speaker 1>people sounded like. You know, you just saw the pictures

0:35:49.000 --> 0:35:50.799
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, oh, this person is so cool, like

0:35:50.840 --> 0:35:52.520
<v Speaker 1>they have it all together, and then you meet them

0:35:52.560 --> 0:35:54.480
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, that's not the voice I was expecting.

0:35:54.920 --> 0:35:57.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's ever happened to you. That's

0:35:57.640 --> 0:35:59.759
<v Speaker 1>it's always so like it's like when you go to

0:36:00.200 --> 0:36:01.960
<v Speaker 1>or drink like your coke and then you get iced

0:36:01.960 --> 0:36:05.640
<v Speaker 1>tea and you're like, yeah, a little shop, Yeah, totally unexpected.

0:36:06.200 --> 0:36:07.920
<v Speaker 1>Do you think it's important to be real and your

0:36:07.920 --> 0:36:11.040
<v Speaker 1>inst stories? Oh yeah, I think it's so fun too,

0:36:11.040 --> 0:36:14.160
<v Speaker 1>because it's like everyone I forget what picture it was.

0:36:14.280 --> 0:36:16.279
<v Speaker 1>Like a few days ago, I posted a picture on

0:36:16.360 --> 0:36:18.759
<v Speaker 1>my bed and I had a bun in my hair

0:36:19.280 --> 0:36:22.040
<v Speaker 1>and I had like this little bandana wrapped around it,

0:36:22.040 --> 0:36:24.680
<v Speaker 1>and it was like leopard and you couldn't tell from

0:36:24.719 --> 0:36:27.160
<v Speaker 1>a picture, but I had to like take like a

0:36:27.239 --> 0:36:30.400
<v Speaker 1>hair clip and like clip the ends of the bandana down,

0:36:30.719 --> 0:36:32.840
<v Speaker 1>and so I just had this massive hair clip on

0:36:32.880 --> 0:36:34.200
<v Speaker 1>the back of my head, but you couldn't see in

0:36:34.239 --> 0:36:37.120
<v Speaker 1>the picture, and so obviously, like I took it out

0:36:37.160 --> 0:36:38.920
<v Speaker 1>and then all my story, I was like, guys, look,

0:36:39.000 --> 0:36:41.200
<v Speaker 1>this is what it really looks like, but you can't

0:36:41.200 --> 0:36:44.040
<v Speaker 1>tell from the picture. So that's so awesome that you

0:36:44.040 --> 0:36:46.760
<v Speaker 1>share that too, just to help people relate, to be like, Okay,

0:36:46.920 --> 0:36:49.960
<v Speaker 1>we got a great shop. But then here's the real side. Yes,

0:36:50.120 --> 0:36:53.000
<v Speaker 1>it's definitely not all that's cracked up to be. My

0:36:53.080 --> 0:36:55.400
<v Speaker 1>life is not what it looks like on Instagram, but

0:36:55.520 --> 0:36:57.799
<v Speaker 1>it is pretty fabulous. And then your fabulous apartment, which

0:36:57.800 --> 0:36:59.920
<v Speaker 1>I have seen on Instagram, and it's just as amazing

0:37:00.000 --> 0:37:02.200
<v Speaker 1>that I thought it was. I love your wallpaper, thank

0:37:02.280 --> 0:37:06.120
<v Speaker 1>you love your Queen chair, Queen peacock chair. I have

0:37:06.160 --> 0:37:08.200
<v Speaker 1>another one in my bedroom too. I'm like an obsessed

0:37:08.560 --> 0:37:12.239
<v Speaker 1>because it's awesome. Yeah, my boyfriend's like another one. Yes,

0:37:12.280 --> 0:37:15.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yes, another one for our seven square foot apartment.

0:37:15.880 --> 0:37:18.279
<v Speaker 1>He needs Yes, he needs one. A king chair. A

0:37:18.400 --> 0:37:21.320
<v Speaker 1>king chair. So if you could have a dinner party

0:37:21.360 --> 0:37:23.680
<v Speaker 1>and you could invite five people, who would you invite

0:37:23.680 --> 0:37:26.800
<v Speaker 1>and why? Okay, so my first one is a no brainer.

0:37:27.160 --> 0:37:30.600
<v Speaker 1>It would be George W. Bush. I think George Bush.

0:37:30.800 --> 0:37:34.240
<v Speaker 1>I think he's the cutest yes man ever to exist.

0:37:34.440 --> 0:37:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I just think he's so cute, right, I have looked

0:37:38.080 --> 0:37:40.640
<v Speaker 1>up to him for years And what is it you

0:37:40.640 --> 0:37:43.719
<v Speaker 1>love about him? His personality? He's pretty precious. He like

0:37:44.000 --> 0:37:46.080
<v Speaker 1>it reminds me so much with my dad. Reminds me

0:37:46.120 --> 0:37:48.960
<v Speaker 1>of my dad to right, Like, I just want to

0:37:48.960 --> 0:37:52.320
<v Speaker 1>give him a hug so bad. So definitely George W. Bush.

0:37:52.400 --> 0:37:54.680
<v Speaker 1>Like I missed out on the opportunity to meet him

0:37:54.719 --> 0:37:57.239
<v Speaker 1>last year and I'm still not over it, but one

0:37:57.280 --> 0:38:00.360
<v Speaker 1>day my time will come. Um and he loves dogs,

0:38:01.080 --> 0:38:07.880
<v Speaker 1>must love dogs. Yes. Another person would probably be Marion Morris.

0:38:08.120 --> 0:38:11.280
<v Speaker 1>I love her. She's amazing. She is my favorite country artist.

0:38:11.400 --> 0:38:17.719
<v Speaker 1>She's so fantastic. Yeah, definitely, Uh. Blogger wise, I don't

0:38:17.719 --> 0:38:20.759
<v Speaker 1>know if there's there's people I'd like to meet, but

0:38:20.880 --> 0:38:24.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't necessarily like, I don't know if I would

0:38:24.239 --> 0:38:25.440
<v Speaker 1>want to meet them because I don't want to like

0:38:25.480 --> 0:38:27.799
<v Speaker 1>the facade, Like I don't like they say, don't make

0:38:27.800 --> 0:38:31.000
<v Speaker 1>your heroes because they might let you down. Right, Um,

0:38:31.239 --> 0:38:33.359
<v Speaker 1>I honestly don't know who the other people would be.

0:38:34.080 --> 0:38:36.000
<v Speaker 1>It's such a hard question because there's so many people

0:38:36.040 --> 0:38:38.839
<v Speaker 1>I want to meet. Geezy, Oh my god, I can't

0:38:38.840 --> 0:38:41.440
<v Speaker 1>believe I didn't think of that one. I want to

0:38:41.480 --> 0:38:45.279
<v Speaker 1>meet so bad. This would be a great party, so much, right,

0:38:45.280 --> 0:38:48.360
<v Speaker 1>I have the best people. I've got a country artist,

0:38:48.560 --> 0:38:53.600
<v Speaker 1>the former president, and a rapper that sounds good to me.

0:38:54.440 --> 0:38:56.560
<v Speaker 1>It's like a bad joke or something with a bad

0:38:56.600 --> 0:38:59.799
<v Speaker 1>punch line. What would the conversations be? I wonder if

0:39:00.000 --> 0:39:04.880
<v Speaker 1>I okay, if if what is something that someone would

0:39:04.960 --> 0:39:07.440
<v Speaker 1>never guess that about you, Like a trade about you

0:39:07.800 --> 0:39:09.880
<v Speaker 1>that someone would never know, like a secret skill or

0:39:10.000 --> 0:39:13.600
<v Speaker 1>personality quirk or something that you love or crazy food

0:39:13.600 --> 0:39:15.720
<v Speaker 1>that you eat, Like, what's something that no one would

0:39:15.719 --> 0:39:19.240
<v Speaker 1>know about you or only your closest friends. Um, well,

0:39:19.320 --> 0:39:21.759
<v Speaker 1>there's one that like a lot of people know about me,

0:39:21.880 --> 0:39:24.200
<v Speaker 1>but it's still like shocks people. Is I actually do

0:39:24.280 --> 0:39:28.200
<v Speaker 1>carry like a Tabasco sauce in my bag? Yeah, I

0:39:28.400 --> 0:39:30.920
<v Speaker 1>really do, And it's I go through them so fast,

0:39:30.960 --> 0:39:33.440
<v Speaker 1>Like I have a huge bottle of Tabasco sauce in

0:39:33.440 --> 0:39:37.520
<v Speaker 1>my cabinet, like I'm addicted. I will put it on anything.

0:39:37.600 --> 0:39:39.400
<v Speaker 1>Do you have to have it? I have to because

0:39:39.400 --> 0:39:40.880
<v Speaker 1>you need it for every meal. Like I hate when

0:39:40.920 --> 0:39:42.399
<v Speaker 1>I go to a restaurant and I'm like, hey, can

0:39:42.480 --> 0:39:44.759
<v Speaker 1>I have some Tabasco sauce and they're like it is

0:39:44.800 --> 0:39:49.160
<v Speaker 1>cholula okay, And I'm like, no, that's so rude, Like no,

0:39:50.440 --> 0:39:52.640
<v Speaker 1>that's like giving you a pepsi when you ordered the

0:39:52.680 --> 0:39:57.080
<v Speaker 1>worst thing in the entire world. Another thing would obviously

0:39:57.120 --> 0:39:59.560
<v Speaker 1>be my obsession with you easy. That one shocks people

0:40:00.000 --> 0:40:01.880
<v Speaker 1>there more. It's like, oh, Sarah Love's country music and

0:40:01.880 --> 0:40:05.040
<v Speaker 1>then that's just not country music at all. Who's your

0:40:05.040 --> 0:40:07.520
<v Speaker 1>country crash? If you weren't dating this cutie pie Cody

0:40:07.600 --> 0:40:10.640
<v Speaker 1>and you can date any you know this one. It's

0:40:10.680 --> 0:40:15.040
<v Speaker 1>Brett Elders. I love him He's my favorite. I listened

0:40:15.040 --> 0:40:16.600
<v Speaker 1>to him all the time and I cried when I

0:40:16.640 --> 0:40:18.480
<v Speaker 1>saw him live. What are you gonna do when you

0:40:18.480 --> 0:40:20.160
<v Speaker 1>actually meet him and hang out with him, because you

0:40:20.160 --> 0:40:22.040
<v Speaker 1>know you will, I won't be able to form words.

0:40:22.080 --> 0:40:25.440
<v Speaker 1>I'll just be excusing myself. That was like a question

0:40:25.480 --> 0:40:27.840
<v Speaker 1>I got once before when I was in l A.

0:40:27.880 --> 0:40:29.880
<v Speaker 1>They were like, what if you meet g easy? And

0:40:29.880 --> 0:40:33.400
<v Speaker 1>I was like, honestly, I had the opportunity. His like

0:40:33.440 --> 0:40:35.440
<v Speaker 1>photographer was like, want to kick it with him? And

0:40:35.480 --> 0:40:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I did you kick it with him? You said no,

0:40:38.360 --> 0:40:40.960
<v Speaker 1>I could, Like I just ignored it, like, no way,

0:40:41.560 --> 0:40:44.240
<v Speaker 1>are you kidding me? I know, don't meet your heroes.

0:40:45.239 --> 0:40:47.319
<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, how do I look cool like

0:40:47.360 --> 0:40:52.520
<v Speaker 1>around Geasy? You know? He's like and I'm like, you're like,

0:40:52.600 --> 0:40:54.360
<v Speaker 1>words are your mouth is moving sort of, but no

0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:56.279
<v Speaker 1>words are coming out. So it's just like I'm just

0:40:56.280 --> 0:40:58.600
<v Speaker 1>gonna keep it chill and like not speak. I'll be

0:40:58.640 --> 0:41:06.359
<v Speaker 1>a mute, right Miller That um okay, and a few

0:41:06.360 --> 0:41:08.359
<v Speaker 1>more carses isn't gonna wrap up because I could talk

0:41:08.400 --> 0:41:11.400
<v Speaker 1>to you forever because you're so inspiring. It's so interesting.

0:41:12.160 --> 0:41:16.120
<v Speaker 1>What is the best advice that you've ever gotten? Be yourself.

0:41:17.680 --> 0:41:19.640
<v Speaker 1>I feel like a lot of times, especially in the

0:41:19.680 --> 0:41:25.440
<v Speaker 1>influencer world, you often thanks Miller uh Ye by squeaking

0:41:25.440 --> 0:41:28.239
<v Speaker 1>his pizza. It's so easy to see other people doing

0:41:28.320 --> 0:41:31.359
<v Speaker 1>something that is good for them and it's growing them

0:41:31.360 --> 0:41:33.600
<v Speaker 1>and everything like that, and that you want to replicate

0:41:33.680 --> 0:41:37.000
<v Speaker 1>that and then you kind of like lose yourself. That's

0:41:37.000 --> 0:41:39.879
<v Speaker 1>the best advice I can give. Have you ever done that?

0:41:41.680 --> 0:41:45.719
<v Speaker 1>Especially on YouTube, because like YouTube goes through these phases

0:41:46.040 --> 0:41:49.919
<v Speaker 1>where something is super popular. Like for a while there,

0:41:49.920 --> 0:41:54.640
<v Speaker 1>it was like morning routines and like bathtime routine, so

0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:56.359
<v Speaker 1>it's just showing them like what you do to get

0:41:56.360 --> 0:41:58.560
<v Speaker 1>ready for like your bath and like all this stupid stuff.

0:41:58.600 --> 0:42:00.480
<v Speaker 1>And so I was like, oh, got to do this

0:42:00.560 --> 0:42:02.839
<v Speaker 1>to get popular because these get so many views, and

0:42:02.920 --> 0:42:05.480
<v Speaker 1>that's like not interesting to me. It's not fun for

0:42:05.520 --> 0:42:08.200
<v Speaker 1>me to film. It's not like you're not passionate about it.

0:42:08.880 --> 0:42:10.760
<v Speaker 1>And so I was like, this is not my forete.

0:42:10.960 --> 0:42:12.879
<v Speaker 1>So eventually I had to like get a wake up call.

0:42:12.960 --> 0:42:15.040
<v Speaker 1>I was like, this is not for me. So I

0:42:15.080 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 1>love that. So even if it's hot and you could

0:42:17.120 --> 0:42:20.279
<v Speaker 1>do it, if it doesn't speak to your self and

0:42:20.280 --> 0:42:21.719
<v Speaker 1>your soul. And then don't do it, and people like

0:42:21.719 --> 0:42:23.359
<v Speaker 1>would call me out on it. They're like, Sorah, this

0:42:23.440 --> 0:42:27.120
<v Speaker 1>is like not your calling, and so I was like, Yep,

0:42:27.200 --> 0:42:30.400
<v Speaker 1>you're right, that's good that you know that. So with YouTube,

0:42:30.440 --> 0:42:33.040
<v Speaker 1>you would like to stay more to just talking, just

0:42:33.120 --> 0:42:34.800
<v Speaker 1>talking like kind of like what do you talk about?

0:42:35.440 --> 0:42:38.360
<v Speaker 1>Oh God? I have talked about everything on my channel,

0:42:38.440 --> 0:42:42.560
<v Speaker 1>whether like growing up. People want to kind of like

0:42:42.600 --> 0:42:45.480
<v Speaker 1>connect with you. They see you grow up on YouTube.

0:42:45.560 --> 0:42:48.200
<v Speaker 1>They want to know your like life experiences. They want

0:42:48.200 --> 0:42:51.960
<v Speaker 1>to know how your breakup went. You share all I've shared,

0:42:52.200 --> 0:42:58.400
<v Speaker 1>like shared everything I've shared from sex to oh my gosh,

0:42:58.560 --> 0:43:01.480
<v Speaker 1>just like pan after her sex. You know, like that's

0:43:01.520 --> 0:43:05.680
<v Speaker 1>important just because I didn't know. And so I see

0:43:05.719 --> 0:43:08.640
<v Speaker 1>sharing things that have been useful information to you in

0:43:08.680 --> 0:43:11.719
<v Speaker 1>all areas. I like to say that it's like the

0:43:11.760 --> 0:43:15.840
<v Speaker 1>things if you had an older sister, she'd tell you nice.

0:43:16.880 --> 0:43:20.920
<v Speaker 1>I like that. Yeah, it's sometimes a little awkward, especially

0:43:20.960 --> 0:43:24.080
<v Speaker 1>when your mom watches every single video. Did your mom

0:43:24.080 --> 0:43:26.560
<v Speaker 1>ever call? You know? Like she never questions anything, so

0:43:26.680 --> 0:43:31.239
<v Speaker 1>doesn't that's awesome? And there's like some stuff on there.

0:43:31.320 --> 0:43:33.520
<v Speaker 1>There's some dirt on my channel, so it's like she

0:43:33.560 --> 0:43:36.080
<v Speaker 1>could have been like who cheated on you? Who? What's this?

0:43:36.800 --> 0:43:38.680
<v Speaker 1>But she never said. She just lets you put And

0:43:38.719 --> 0:43:41.200
<v Speaker 1>how kind of awesome to put out your own dirty

0:43:41.280 --> 0:43:42.960
<v Speaker 1>laundry however you want to, because then it's like you

0:43:42.960 --> 0:43:45.439
<v Speaker 1>have no secrets. It's like you've already put everything out there,

0:43:46.120 --> 0:43:48.640
<v Speaker 1>you know. It's not like I'm putting out like, you know,

0:43:49.000 --> 0:43:51.759
<v Speaker 1>the bad, bad stuff that like no one wants to

0:43:51.760 --> 0:43:54.600
<v Speaker 1>share about themselves just because I think it's good to have, like,

0:43:54.840 --> 0:43:58.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, a filter. But I'm just being real, just

0:43:58.040 --> 0:44:01.000
<v Speaker 1>being real as much as I can. Yeah, that's brave.

0:44:01.200 --> 0:44:04.400
<v Speaker 1>That takes the bravery. Do you ever, like no freak outen, Like,

0:44:04.400 --> 0:44:06.439
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I can't live with that out there. Nah,

0:44:06.960 --> 0:44:09.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm like so used to it. I've been doing it

0:44:09.480 --> 0:44:12.359
<v Speaker 1>for years. So it's just like whatever. And I guess

0:44:12.360 --> 0:44:13.799
<v Speaker 1>your boyfriend has to be okay with it because he's

0:44:13.800 --> 0:44:16.200
<v Speaker 1>obviously gonna be a character in your YouTube videos. He

0:44:16.360 --> 0:44:19.319
<v Speaker 1>actually has never been in my YouTube what he's been

0:44:19.360 --> 0:44:21.759
<v Speaker 1>like vlogs and stuff, so like my week in my

0:44:21.800 --> 0:44:23.880
<v Speaker 1>life and he'll be in the background, probably like singing

0:44:23.920 --> 0:44:26.960
<v Speaker 1>the Greatest Showman or something. But like other than that,

0:44:27.280 --> 0:44:30.359
<v Speaker 1>like no one's really gotten like the Cody Experience. We're

0:44:30.360 --> 0:44:33.680
<v Speaker 1>gonna have a Cody Experienced debut someday. I mean, I

0:44:33.800 --> 0:44:37.319
<v Speaker 1>just don't feel the rush. I guess because like back

0:44:37.320 --> 0:44:40.239
<v Speaker 1>when I went through like another relationship, the guy was like,

0:44:40.400 --> 0:44:42.040
<v Speaker 1>so many you can put me on YouTube videos, and

0:44:42.040 --> 0:44:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I was like, um never, because like that's my thing,

0:44:45.239 --> 0:44:48.800
<v Speaker 1>Like so it just takes time for me, Like totally,

0:44:48.800 --> 0:44:50.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe if I had to ring on

0:44:50.280 --> 0:44:52.520
<v Speaker 1>my finger, I would do it. Then the Cody Experience

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<v Speaker 1>could be debut. Yeah, I would totally debut then no

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<v Speaker 1>pressure that, no subtle hands, nothing like, no nobody's here

0:44:59.320 --> 0:45:03.600
<v Speaker 1>wanting to get engage. No, no, absolutely not definitely not okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And let's wrap up with always leave leave your light.

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<v Speaker 1>So leave some inspiration, just how you want your life

0:45:09.239 --> 0:45:11.960
<v Speaker 1>to inspire people, how you've been inspired, what you wish

0:45:12.000 --> 0:45:15.799
<v Speaker 1>people knew that would make their life better, Just some

0:45:15.800 --> 0:45:18.640
<v Speaker 1>wisdom you want to drop on people, what you've learned

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<v Speaker 1>over your experiences. That everybody has a struggle that they're

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<v Speaker 1>not always posting about. I love that break that down. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I mean for me personally, I've talked about this before,

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<v Speaker 1>especially if you creep far enough back on my YouTube channel,

0:45:33.640 --> 0:45:35.920
<v Speaker 1>but like in college, I had to eating disorder, but

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't like something I like talked about and like

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<v Speaker 1>no one would talk about it basically, and eventually, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>some day I did talk about it and had you

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<v Speaker 1>end up healing yourself from that. Just I guess I

0:45:48.880 --> 0:45:51.759
<v Speaker 1>struggled with eating disorders also snapped out of it one day.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I got work more with it. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, like, this is stupid, Like what am I

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<v Speaker 1>doing to myself? Like so I just snapped out of it.

0:45:59.840 --> 0:46:02.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean that's just the luckiest way I could get

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<v Speaker 1>out of it. I guess my mom and dad started

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<v Speaker 1>hinting at stuff, and I was just like, oh frick,

0:46:06.400 --> 0:46:08.960
<v Speaker 1>Like you're right, like this is stupid, Like what am

0:46:08.960 --> 0:46:12.160
<v Speaker 1>I doing? Right? Food is awesome and it's not worth

0:46:12.200 --> 0:46:14.279
<v Speaker 1>it to hurt yourself. That's what I finally realized. Like

0:46:14.600 --> 0:46:17.200
<v Speaker 1>I dabbled with Blaemian and then diet pills and all

0:46:17.239 --> 0:46:19.560
<v Speaker 1>sorts of stuff and found them like I'm not losing

0:46:19.600 --> 0:46:22.880
<v Speaker 1>any weight, I'm feeling awful, I'm noted with food, and

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<v Speaker 1>like my life sucks because I think about it all

0:46:24.960 --> 0:46:26.880
<v Speaker 1>the time and it's just had to go to therapy

0:46:26.920 --> 0:46:29.279
<v Speaker 1>for like a year, but really but the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, it's so great to share that stuff

0:46:32.520 --> 0:46:35.120
<v Speaker 1>because so many people struggle with that and they think

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<v Speaker 1>they have to be this perfect thing when real when really,

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, we all have struggles, especially like in college,

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<v Speaker 1>when like it's hookup culture and everything is just so

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<v Speaker 1>sexual in a way, and you just want to look

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<v Speaker 1>like fabulous and you're getting all this guy attention, you

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<v Speaker 1>just like thrive on that, and that just seeps you

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<v Speaker 1>down to the dark, dark path. That's what happened to me.

0:46:55.320 --> 0:46:57.280
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my god, I'm getting so many guys,

0:46:57.400 --> 0:46:59.920
<v Speaker 1>Like guys are actually looking at me for once. It's

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<v Speaker 1>I just got skinnier and skinnier and skinnier. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I guess one day, like I'm sure some guy probably

0:47:05.440 --> 0:47:07.160
<v Speaker 1>said something I don't even remember anymore because it was

0:47:07.160 --> 0:47:10.960
<v Speaker 1>so long ago, but I just was like, no, And

0:47:11.080 --> 0:47:12.960
<v Speaker 1>the thing is too like you want someone who really

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<v Speaker 1>loves you for you, but when you're young, especially, that's

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<v Speaker 1>why social media can be so dangerous for young girls,

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<v Speaker 1>especially because if you don't realize, like you said, that

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<v Speaker 1>everyone has a struggle and there's a backstory in a

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<v Speaker 1>real side, it can really mess with you. Yeah, definitely

0:47:26.400 --> 0:47:29.640
<v Speaker 1>messes with you. Like I mean you it's hard to

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<v Speaker 1>like not compare. I mean, at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what it boils down to, especially girls looking up

0:47:34.719 --> 0:47:37.719
<v Speaker 1>to these like you know, Instagram models who are like

0:47:38.160 --> 0:47:41.040
<v Speaker 1>big butts like Higlie Jenner and like tiny, tiny ways

0:47:41.120 --> 0:47:43.799
<v Speaker 1>like that's just like I'm sure that person is going

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<v Speaker 1>through something that they're not talking about. I love that.

0:47:47.360 --> 0:47:50.920
<v Speaker 1>So everyone has a struggle. Everyone has a struggle. I

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<v Speaker 1>love that. And it's not aesthetically pleasing, so they're not

0:47:53.440 --> 0:47:57.840
<v Speaker 1>going to post it. True, true that, But do you

0:47:58.040 --> 0:48:01.520
<v Speaker 1>but you what's your balance of sharing your struggles to

0:48:02.080 --> 0:48:09.040
<v Speaker 1>esthetically pleasing stuff. I would say Instagram is like the

0:48:09.160 --> 0:48:12.360
<v Speaker 1>filtered life of me, Like everything looks great except for

0:48:12.400 --> 0:48:16.200
<v Speaker 1>the stories of course, and then well except for my

0:48:16.200 --> 0:48:18.160
<v Speaker 1>bluebir account. I have a bluebir account. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>that just kind of like keeps me humble. I love that.

0:48:20.680 --> 0:48:25.080
<v Speaker 1>What's it called, Sarabelle Bloops camp. That's good, it's good.

0:48:25.560 --> 0:48:27.600
<v Speaker 1>And just because I mean, we see all these beautiful

0:48:27.640 --> 0:48:30.680
<v Speaker 1>pictures and girls are like, you know, you see a

0:48:30.680 --> 0:48:32.560
<v Speaker 1>picture and you're like, that person probably got that picture

0:48:32.560 --> 0:48:36.040
<v Speaker 1>in like five takes, whereas me, it takes like two

0:48:36.520 --> 0:48:40.759
<v Speaker 1>fifty for the one picture. For the one picture, you

0:48:40.800 --> 0:48:42.560
<v Speaker 1>get this awesome picture where you're like, Okay, that wasn't

0:48:42.600 --> 0:48:46.200
<v Speaker 1>just a quick little snap. You see that good bad

0:48:46.320 --> 0:48:49.560
<v Speaker 1>ugly on my accounts. So but I think YouTube is

0:48:49.640 --> 0:48:53.760
<v Speaker 1>kind of like the unfiltered way. So it's like Instagram filtered,

0:48:54.160 --> 0:48:57.520
<v Speaker 1>YouTube unfiltered in blog to unfiltered. What's your advice to

0:48:57.600 --> 0:49:02.279
<v Speaker 1>young girls out there? Be yourself, never change, never change

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<v Speaker 1>for any boy. Amen to that, because you will find

0:49:06.200 --> 0:49:10.359
<v Speaker 1>your prince charming eventually. I love that, Is it so true? Though?

0:49:10.560 --> 0:49:13.680
<v Speaker 1>It's so true, and after dating so many toads and

0:49:13.719 --> 0:49:15.719
<v Speaker 1>going through it and the same kind of thing, like

0:49:15.880 --> 0:49:17.640
<v Speaker 1>when you're young, you want to be pretty and you

0:49:17.640 --> 0:49:20.480
<v Speaker 1>want guys to like you. But I've realized now being

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<v Speaker 1>married to a great guy that and you're with a

0:49:22.200 --> 0:49:25.720
<v Speaker 1>great guy, it's just it wait for that, because life

0:49:25.760 --> 0:49:27.480
<v Speaker 1>is too long to be married someone who doesn't value you,

0:49:27.560 --> 0:49:30.520
<v Speaker 1>or to be with someone who doesn't see you fully exactly.

0:49:30.680 --> 0:49:32.880
<v Speaker 1>It's okay if you have fights and disagreements, but like

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<v Speaker 1>someone who wants the best for you, who wants you

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<v Speaker 1>to grow, wants you to blossom, to hold you down.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like the best feeling when you find it. But

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<v Speaker 1>you have to kiss a lot of frogs and don't

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<v Speaker 1>get discouraged because it might take a while. It takes

0:49:44.960 --> 0:49:48.520
<v Speaker 1>a long time a lot of guys, But I know

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta kiss a lot of frogs, lots of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Just a marathon at this point. Amen. Amen to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Sarah Belle, You're amazing. Thank you so much. Thank you.

0:50:00.680 --> 0:50:02.600
<v Speaker 1>It's so much fun. I could talk to you for

0:50:02.640 --> 0:50:04.399
<v Speaker 1>like days. I could just talk to you forever. Two.

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<v Speaker 1>I know we're already at like fifty minutes, so we'll

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<v Speaker 1>have to wrap it up. But Sarahbell, you're awesome. What's

0:50:09.239 --> 0:50:11.880
<v Speaker 1>your Instagram? Everyone gonna follow you, Sarah Bell Elizabeth, and

0:50:11.880 --> 0:50:13.799
<v Speaker 1>then Sarahbell Bloops too if you want to check out

0:50:13.800 --> 0:50:16.680
<v Speaker 1>the unfiltered one, you know, and then Sarahbell Elizabeth on

0:50:16.680 --> 0:50:20.880
<v Speaker 1>YouTube too. I love it. You're a basic. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>How amazing is Sarah Belle to be so young and

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<v Speaker 1>so successful and to know what she wants to do

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<v Speaker 1>and to have made it happen for herself. It blows

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<v Speaker 1>me away. So inspiring. You guys, stay tuned to this

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<v Speaker 1>episode because we still have so many Influencer series coming

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<v Speaker 1>your way. We have a new one next week, so

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see you Wednesday. Bye.