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Speaker 1: It's the Fread Show. Tim. How you doing, I'm doing well?

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Speaker 2: How about you?

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Speaker 1: We are great? It's waiting by the phone. Let's learn

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Speaker 1: about this date. I'm going through your email here. You

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Speaker 1: went out with Roxy, you met on Tinder and then

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Speaker 1: what happened? We talk for that.

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Speaker 2: We actually went out twice and that don't you know,

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Speaker 2: mean to get too much into things. But after the

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Speaker 2: second date we hooked up, which I looked as a

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Speaker 2: pretty good sign. I thought she was into it, but

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Speaker 2: you know, she's our ghosted me after that and I'm

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Speaker 2: here to find out why.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I see what I don't. I don't hear

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Speaker 1: you bragging about hooking up on the second date. I

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Speaker 1: think sometimes on a second date that's a good sign, right,

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Speaker 1: I mean, especially if you get a second date then

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Speaker 1: you hook up. It's like this is going in the

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Speaker 1: right direction, except she's ghosting you and it's driving you crazy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, we'll call her, we'll see if we can

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Speaker 1: figure out what's going on and uh and put this

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Speaker 1: to rest and hopefully we can straighten out whatever the

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Speaker 1: issue is. Maybe nothing's going on, maybe she's just been

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Speaker 1: busy or who knows. And if that's the case, we'll

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Speaker 1: set you up on another date and we'll pay for that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I really appreciate that. Part two of waiting by the

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Speaker 1: phone tm me doing okay, doing good?

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Speaker 2: Well, an'ter just to figure out what's going on here?

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Speaker 1: Right right, Well, we're about to find out. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: call rock Sy. We're gonna see what's going on. You guys,

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Speaker 1: been in a couple of dates. You thought they were successful.

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Speaker 1: Now she's ghosting you and you want to know why.

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Speaker 2: You got it?

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Speaker 1: Okay, good luck? Hello? Hi is this Roxy? Yeah, this

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Speaker 1: is Roxy. It's Fred from the Fred Show. I have

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Speaker 1: to tell you that we are on the radio right

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Speaker 1: now and I need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Is it okay if we keep talking? Yeah, I guess

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Speaker 1: that's okay. I know it's kind of awkward, but thank you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know, I know. Thank you so much. We're calling

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Speaker 1: on behalf of this dude named Tim who I guess

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Speaker 1: you met you on Tinder and you went on two dates.

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Speaker 1: Do you recall this guy? Yeah? Yeah, sound excited. We

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Speaker 1: know that. Yeah, we've heard it before. So what happened

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Speaker 1: with this guy? Because he described a couple of really

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Speaker 1: good dates, he liked you a lot, was hoping to

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Speaker 1: take you on a third date, says that you're ghosting.

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Speaker 1: Can we sort of get to the bottom of why.

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Speaker 2: It's like I.

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Speaker 1: Steel called out, but.

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Speaker 3: I was just trying to be discreet. Yeah, Tim is

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Speaker 3: I mean he was like a cool like honestly, we

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Speaker 3: actually got along really well.

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Speaker 1: He was a really nice guy.

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Speaker 3: We had gone on a couple of dates and we

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Speaker 3: had kind of pulled around and stuff. And after one

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Speaker 3: of the hook up, this is like weird to even

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Speaker 3: talk about with, Like I told my closest friends, but

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Speaker 3: he asked to keep my underwear if you call them panties.

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Speaker 1: Got a lot of problems when I hate that word. Second, yeah,

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Speaker 1: same the same these So he what like he wanted

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Speaker 1: them as some kind of a souvenir.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what he was gonna do with him

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Speaker 3: I was, but I was like, no, dude, absolutely not. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and so, I mean that is just kind of how

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Speaker 3: I felt about the whole situation.

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Speaker 1: You're kind of spooked. You're like, I'm not doing this spook.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I just I don't get like, I don't

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Speaker 3: consider myself like vanilla necessarily, but I'm not into I

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Speaker 3: didn't know.

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Speaker 1: What the hell he was gonna do with it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I was like, no, I'm going to go

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Speaker 3: ahead and keep the clothing that I Yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Love the expensive panties, nice ones. I mean, you know

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Speaker 1: what was going to go if made would you leave

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Speaker 1: somebody if a guy asked you, yeah, he would. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: little things to make people happy. You know what if

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Speaker 1: they were expensive ones? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Why not?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? What is an expensive What is an expensive pair

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Speaker 1: of underwear? I don't know. I don't buy like expensive. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like the expensive ones I have are like in a set,

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Speaker 1: you know, like pinky or something. Would those be like

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Speaker 1: thirty bucks for underwear or Tim is here. I always

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Speaker 1: leave that part out. Tim has been listening to all this, Tim,

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Speaker 1: what what do you? I mean, Look, you're entitled to

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Speaker 1: your own freaky but.

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Speaker 2: I just like keeping them as a bit of a souvenir.

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Speaker 1: So do you have a box full of them somewhere?

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Speaker 1: Like that's disgusting? Oh yeah, if I'm not special, it's

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Speaker 1: nothing like that.

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Speaker 2: Like what if I hook up with somebody and they

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Speaker 2: give me their painting, let's me keep it. But if

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Speaker 2: I'm seeing somebody else, I throw the old ones away.

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Speaker 1: That's collection, that would be That would be creepy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: no question. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And also I don't see what the big deal is.

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Speaker 2: You know, a lot of people are into this sort

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Speaker 2: of thing. She told me no, and I was totally

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Speaker 2: cool with it. I didn't freak out or anything like that.

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Speaker 2: And also, aren't you supposed to not kink? Shame? But

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm being very judged right now, and

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Speaker 2: that's not very cool, not.

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Speaker 1: Very well a whole. On a second, I mean, I

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Speaker 1: don't know that we're judging you so much. She's allowed

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Speaker 1: to judge you because she doesn't have to do what

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Speaker 1: you asked me to do I'm not into it.

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Speaker 2: Oh she does do it, and that like no, And

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Speaker 2: I respected you saying no. I didn't push the matter.

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Speaker 2: I just said, hey, by the way, I'm into this one.

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Speaker 2: Do you mind if I kept it? You said no.

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Speaker 2: I said, that's.

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Speaker 1: Cool, okay.

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Speaker 2: At the end of it, you could have just said afterwards, hey,

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Speaker 2: that really freaking me out. I didn't want to see

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Speaker 2: you again.

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Speaker 1: That's true. She could have. She doesn't know you that

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Speaker 1: I didn't really well it, so you can't let it go.

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Speaker 2: I did want to chat about it, and you didn't

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Speaker 2: want to chat that. But this is my only recourse.

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Speaker 2: I thought we had something now. I wanted to know

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Speaker 2: what was going I thought maybe you were.

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Speaker 1: You guys, you guys, we talk about this all the time, right,

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Speaker 1: I mean, you guys have only been out to h

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Speaker 1: there's no equity. I used to wear equity all the time. Like,

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Speaker 1: she doesn't she likes you, but she doesn't really, really

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Speaker 1: really like you to the point where you can bust

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Speaker 1: out something that's that that she thinks she's abnormal or

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Speaker 1: uncomfortable with, and that she's just gonna get over it.

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Speaker 1: Like I understand what you're saying, which is I asked

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Speaker 1: you for something she said no, and you were cool

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Speaker 1: about it, and you can communicate, but like, you're not.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you're there yet. You're still getting to

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Speaker 1: know each other. She can't get that out of her mind.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't known anything else about you, she says, wanting

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Speaker 1: a bunch of other stuff. If I'm dating somebody for

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Speaker 1: six months and they asked me to do something weird

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Speaker 1: that's different than two times weird, and I found and

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Speaker 1: that was that. With my luck, I would ask for

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Speaker 1: that and get kinky. I'd forget I had them, and

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Speaker 1: then I would meet the woman of my dreams and

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Speaker 1: she'd come over and be like, what are these? And

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Speaker 1: then I'm in trouble. I got this is kind of weird. Roxy.

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Speaker 1: Any chance you would forgive this guy and give another shot?

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Speaker 1: It's just not my thing.

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Speaker 3: I think we both be better off we found people

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Speaker 3: that that are mold a little bit better.

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Speaker 1: There you go, Well, if you will, Jim, good luck

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Speaker 1: to you. Tim. Okay, Sorry, thanks,