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Speaker 1: The best Bits of the week, and we've got a organ.

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Speaker 2: Best Bits of the week with Morgan number two.

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Speaker 1: It is time for the listener, Q and A. Abby

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Speaker 1: is still here with me.

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Speaker 2: I'm here.

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Speaker 1: I've not made a run out of the room crying

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Speaker 1: because apparently you guys think I do that.

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Speaker 2: You haven't yet.

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Speaker 1: We're not adding to their idea. I was not. That

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Speaker 1: was competitive. Yes, we'll go with that, Abby sarcaso. I

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Speaker 1: know your game. They did not. But now I also

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Speaker 1: can't tell you my daughter or not. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yep, that's what I do.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Do we ever consider going on different career paths? Also,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to say everybody's names, but some of these

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Speaker 1: last things, I'm absolutely gonna Butcher oh so very much apologized.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to hear this.

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Speaker 1: This is from Sarah Coolier.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so probably wasn't right. I don't know what's happened.

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Speaker 2: I'm like roasted today, Like.

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Speaker 1: Make me cry.

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Speaker 2: Oh you're good?

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Speaker 1: Got this? Do we ever consider going on different career paths? Abby?

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Speaker 1: Go for it?

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Speaker 2: Man, there, I think about this all the time. I'm

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Speaker 2: just like, there's so much I want to do in

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Speaker 2: like I love that decorating my house and designing, and

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Speaker 2: they don't know what they're doing. I'm like, I would

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Speaker 2: love to go in like stage housing, in stuff like

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Speaker 2: I always think about that.

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Speaker 1: You want to like stage my house? Does my house like?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Yeah, I like it, but I could I could

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Speaker 1: I'm definitely very minimalists and I like things matching. Yes,

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Speaker 1: So I might have to take you up on that.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's fun. It'd be so fun. Yeah, like coming

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Speaker 1: Okay, I love all that. I mean, hit you up

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Speaker 2: I would love to, but like at this point, no,

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Speaker 1: Know, I do like it is really interesting for me

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Speaker 1: because this was my dream job, like not necessarily going

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Speaker 1: I listened to Bobby Bunchow growing up, so like this

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Speaker 1: unattainable going from where I was to hear And so

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Speaker 1: It'd be really fun, Like it'd be really hard to

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Speaker 1: So that's the only way you grow is out of

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Speaker 1: to turn into a sunflower, right, yes, exactly. Yes, Okay,

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Speaker 1: It was good. It was good, and we're going to

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Speaker 1: come back. We got some questions about egg freeze.

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Speaker 1: Okay, be right back. I don't mean to laugh about

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Speaker 1: egg freezing. It just feels weird saying egg freezing. Yes,

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Speaker 2: But the whole conversation. That's kind of why I laughed.

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Speaker 2: No, you're good. What's the biggest fear?

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Speaker 1: talking about favorite things we've purchased from Amazon from Kelly

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Speaker 1: Neubauer I really hope I'm pronouncing half these last names corrected.

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Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm very sorry. One of my favorite things

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Speaker 1: One of my favorite things is a little this little

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Speaker 1: But it's this little piece that I hook up to

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Speaker 2: Way?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that one's really cool. A water bottle I talked

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Speaker 1: about I think with Scuba that like for that and

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, those are all amazing, both amazing contraptions.

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Speaker 1: Hold on time, I think, are you looking at yours? Yes?

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Speaker 1: A lot of any others.

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Speaker 2: For Halloween because I was Landy Wilson and I went

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Speaker 2: hard on Amazon getting bell bottoms and everything, try to.

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Speaker 1: Figure out what you were gonna do. Yeah, that's fair.

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Speaker 1: I yeah, I'm trying to think of anything else. Like

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Speaker 1: front of Mine, Yeah, that I've purchased from Amazon, and

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Speaker 1: I don't know that I have any in this moment.

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Speaker 1: Those are just two that like really changed my change

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Speaker 1: my life. Oh. I do have timers that I have

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Speaker 1: all my Christmas trees on that I literally control an app.

445
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Speaker 1: I can just hit a button and they turn on

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Speaker 1: and off.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Look, I was just gonna show you that.

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Speaker 2: That's why I got this heavy duty like smart thing.

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Speaker 2: I just ordered it, but I haven't set it up.

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Speaker 1: I think those might be the same ones I have.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. So yeah, you plug it in and

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Speaker 2: you can control it like right now you could.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I can turn it on and off and you

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Speaker 1: can set schedules on it. It's amazing.

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Speaker 2: I need you to help me set mine up. I

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Speaker 2: was struggling. I can get that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I got you. I can help you. But

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Speaker 1: that's a good one.

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Speaker 2: So my ice maker is not tastes bad in my freezer?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just does.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what's wrong with it. So I just

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Speaker 2: got like this portable little countertop ice maker, Like how

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Speaker 2: cute it is? It makes ice?

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Speaker 1: Oh does it make a little little teeny tiny sonic ice.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, you can do two sizes and you can

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Speaker 2: plug it in anywhere, like you can take it with

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Speaker 2: you somewhere that it actually works. It does. It takes

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Speaker 2: a while to make the ice, because it does, but

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Speaker 2: it does freeze it really fast. But if you want

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Speaker 2: it like instant, if you want a whole bunch, you

471
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Speaker 2: would have to be a couple hours to okay making enough.

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Speaker 2: But I thought that was cool. I also got this

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Speaker 2: like little like tabletop fire like that goes outside random things. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but you can have it inside Amazon is meant to

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Speaker 2: be random, like you just put alcohol in it, which

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Speaker 2: I don't know. All this fire kind of makes me nervous,

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Speaker 2: so I got to read up and make sure I

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Speaker 2: don't do anything dangerous. But it's just like a cute

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Speaker 2: little tabletop fireplace.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, yeah, like I thought you were expected, Like

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Speaker 1: you know how I have the tables like full blown

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Speaker 1: table one. Huh No, that's what I was anticipating.

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Speaker 2: It's got a little one.

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Speaker 1: You got like a little flame. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I just can't like random things. I don't have that

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Speaker 2: nothing's good.

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Speaker 1: It's like those are good jewelry. It's all right, Hey,

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Speaker 1: these are favorite things that make our life a little

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Speaker 1: bit easier. So true. We do have one more from

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Speaker 1: Emily Ferrara.

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Speaker 2: I have to tell you one more I got. Oh

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Speaker 2: my gosh, it's so cute. It is a Christmas light

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Speaker 2: USB phone charger for your car, for your car. Look

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Speaker 2: at that and you plug it in.

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Speaker 1: You you are you are buying plitlessing now I see it.

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Speaker 2: Ten dollars, but it's so cute. I'm driving down the

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Speaker 2: road and my car is like a little up inside

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Speaker 2: like Christmas light.

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Speaker 1: Listen. I do love that because I love Christmas lights.

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Speaker 1: So I do like the vibe. But you do have

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Speaker 1: a bunch of random.

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Speaker 2: It must have been really bored.

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Speaker 1: I don't. I was either shop. You love to shop.

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Speaker 1: I do, okay, Emily for Rara for yep, we're rolling

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Speaker 1: with it. Biggest life lessons from our twenties and what

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Speaker 1: are we looking for it in our thirties? Oh, I

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Speaker 1: know this is a big question. I think the biggest

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Speaker 1: life lesson I learned in my twenties is that everyone

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Speaker 1: is not like me. They don't have a personality like me,

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Speaker 1: they don't have a heart like me. We are all

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Speaker 1: different humans and it can be very disappointing and very disheartening.

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Speaker 1: But it's also okay that we are not like each other.

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Speaker 1: But everyone is not going to be like you as

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Speaker 1: far as the way you see the world, the way

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Speaker 1: you feel about the world and your opinions and thoughts

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Speaker 1: and life, especially potential partners, Like you can't make somebody

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Speaker 1: feel certain things that you feel. That was a big

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Speaker 1: life lesson for me in my twenties. That's a good

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Speaker 1: feel like that just comes to mind, like without thinking

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Speaker 1: much about it. Mm hmm, anything that comes to yours.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like mine would be know what you want, like

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Speaker 2: try to really like pinpoint once you want in life

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Speaker 2: and go after that because, like I said, mine, when

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Speaker 2: I didn't really know, I was like, oh, I'll just

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Speaker 2: see what happens. That's when I was in a job

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Speaker 2: for five years that I really wasn't that happy. I

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Speaker 2: knew it wasn't a direction I was going that I

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Speaker 2: wanted to go in. I was doing administrative work like

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Speaker 2: and doing spreadsheets. That's not something that's gonna get me

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Speaker 2: what I want to be doing. So I feel like

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Speaker 2: that like five years in my twenties was not really wasted,

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Speaker 2: but like it didn't challenge me, and I just feel

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Speaker 2: like I should have tried to do do some of

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Speaker 2: the goals I'm trying to make right now about singing,

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Speaker 2: Like I don't know why I waited in that five years, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: just because I really wasn't happy and I didn't have

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Speaker 2: motivation to do anything. So I just say, like, go

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Speaker 2: after what you want, like don't wait until later, Like

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Speaker 2: do it now, because like twenties is your best time

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Speaker 2: to like.

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Speaker 1: Explore what to try a bunch of different yes.

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Speaker 2: Like try everything. Don't just get stuck in a job

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Speaker 2: that just because it makes good money or whatever, Like

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Speaker 2: do what you really want to do and just try

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Speaker 2: everything you can. That's what I would say.

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Speaker 1: No, it's a great life lesson and a very big one,

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Speaker 1: especially for you, like personally, mm hmm, okay, what about

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Speaker 1: looking forward to in our thirties.

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Speaker 2: I am positive in my dating. I'm positive something good

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Speaker 2: is going to come in my thirties. Like I've been

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Speaker 2: with a lot of not great ones and I'm.

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Speaker 1: Losing that boy's mind.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh yeah, basically that like have not treated me

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Speaker 2: well and I'm finally like just saying I'm like, no,

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Speaker 2: you don't have to be treated that way, like that's

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Speaker 2: not normal, and don't make excuses for them. And so

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Speaker 2: I've finally like I'm like, that's what I'm looking forward to.

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Speaker 2: I know, like what I'm worth and I'm not gonna

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Speaker 2: settle or let anyone treat me that way again.

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Speaker 1: I'm with you. I do feel like I'm I am

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Speaker 1: excited to meet the partner that's supposed to make my

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Speaker 1: life better, you know, not just find a partner that's

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Speaker 1: gonna be my boyfriend. Like I'm excited to meet someone

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Speaker 1: that will hopefully change the course of my life as

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Speaker 1: far as the way I see the world. Yes, and

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Speaker 1: experience partnerships and relationships. Right, So I have you like

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Speaker 1: I've d we all have seen it. I've dated some

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Speaker 1: crappy dudes. So I am excited and I am hopeful

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Speaker 1: that that person is around, Yeah, somewhere in my thirties,

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Speaker 1: Like a teammate.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm looking for. It's just a teammate.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, let's just do life together, not you by yourself,

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Speaker 1: not me and my myself like together, yes, and we

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Speaker 1: figured it out along the way.

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Speaker 2: I think that's what that's what our thirties are gonna be.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm I'm also just looking forward to see

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Speaker 1: what I do in my career. I'm excited because it's

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Speaker 1: a mystery to me right now, and I am excited

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Speaker 1: to see what my thirties will bring for what I do.

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Speaker 1: So I am excited for that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're but excited, which is understandable to be nervous.

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Speaker 1: Yeah about dreams, life, Yes, love and the pursuit of happiness.

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Speaker 2: That's what it's all about right there there, it is, okay, Abby, Well,

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Speaker 2: thank you joining me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is telling people where they can find you.

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Speaker 2: I am on Instagram Abby Lee, Anderson l E, I

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Speaker 2: G H and then Twitter hang or X is it

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Speaker 2: X now I don't even know I'm hanging on to

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Speaker 2: singing Abby.

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Speaker 1: You are that okay? And I'm at WEP Girl Morgan.

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Speaker 1: If you want any of those Amazon things, I do

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Speaker 1: have them linked on my Instagram bio. And of course

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Speaker 1: please follow the show at Bobby Bone Show. Lots of

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Speaker 1: good content up there, things that I talked about, and

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Speaker 1: you can check out part one where we went on

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Speaker 1: some unusual talent conversations, show rants, Christmas movies and a

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Speaker 1: mysterious Taco Bell package. So all good stuff over interesting,

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Speaker 1: very interesting. We'll see you later, ye