Speaker 1: Who's getting that donky, that donkey that don't don't don't
Speaker 1: don't donky other.
Speaker 2: Day right here.
Speaker 3: To the breakfast club.
Speaker 2: Bitch, you can call me the donkey of the day,
Speaker 2: but like I mean no harm.
Speaker 1: You know, donkey today for Tuesday, August twenty if it
Speaker 1: goes to a woman from Minnesota named Veronica Gas. Now,
Speaker 1: if you know anything about your uncle Charlotte, and you
Speaker 1: know I got a few screws loose.
Speaker 3: You also know that, yes, shut up.
Speaker 1: You also know that I'm a big proponent of doing
Speaker 1: everything I have to do in order to get those
Speaker 1: screws tightened. Okay, I'm a huge mental health advocate. Yes,
Speaker 1: I encourage people, especially black men, to go to therapy.
Speaker 1: Are just to get on some type of healing journey.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: One form of therapy that is great for those of
Speaker 1: us in relationships is couple's therapy. Dropping the clues bombs
Speaker 1: for couples therapy. Okay, what is couple's therapy exactly?
Speaker 3: It's simple.
Speaker 1: Couple therapy is a form of psychotherapy that can help
Speaker 1: you and your partner improve your relationship. All right, if
Speaker 1: you are having relationship difficulties, you can see couples therapy
Speaker 1: to help you build your relationship. Psychologists say couples therapy
Speaker 1: you can address a wide range of relationship issues and
Speaker 1: including recurring conflicts, feelings of disconnection, and a fair issues related.
Speaker 3: To sex are just difficulties do to stress. Okay.
Speaker 1: If you and your partner are going through a rough patch,
Speaker 1: couple's therapy can help you work on your relationship. Your
Speaker 1: therapist can help you express your feelings, discuss issues with
Speaker 1: your partner, and resolve conflicts.
Speaker 3: All right. Couples therapy is good, all right.
Speaker 1: It can help increased understanding and respect, affection and intimacy
Speaker 1: between you and your.
Speaker 3: Partner, which can help you be happier together.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying this for those who don't know, because
Speaker 1: a lot of times we hear the phrase couple's therapy
Speaker 1: but don't know what it is. Okay, It's more than
Speaker 1: just you and your significant other getting up and going
Speaker 1: to see the lady.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: They also got the same types of couple's therapy that
Speaker 1: you can get in one on one sessions like CBT, right,
Speaker 1: cognitive behavioral therapy, emotionally focused therapy. So I'm all for it, Okay.
Speaker 1: I believe that it can be a major key to
Speaker 1: a healthy relationship. Hell, as I talk, I'm like, shoot,
Speaker 1: why not go do a couple sessions with the wife
Speaker 1: my damn self, Not because anything is wrong, but because
Speaker 1: we want everything to keep going right. Okay, It's like,
Speaker 1: don't wait until the doctor that you're sick to change
Speaker 1: your diet. Don't wait until you look down and can
Speaker 1: no longer see your penis to start working out.
Speaker 3: Let's do preventive maintenance now.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know, because you know you might get to
Speaker 1: a point where it's a little too late. Now, this
Speaker 1: happens in real life. You stop drinking when your living
Speaker 1: is already done. Some people are obese, and you know
Speaker 1: they have the massive heart attack and died too late
Speaker 1: to start eating, eating right and exercise and then and
Speaker 1: that's what I feel happened in the case of Veronica Gas. Okay,
Speaker 1: see Veronica and our boyfriend. They were off to see
Speaker 1: the wizard. By wizard, I mean therapists. Okay, they were
Speaker 1: on the way the couple's therapy, and they had an
Speaker 1: argument that morning. And I'm gonna tell you right now,
Speaker 1: I'm about to gas. Like you, this is another example
Speaker 1: of why women are the problem. See this man wanted
Speaker 1: to go see the lady with his woman, Veronica. He
Speaker 1: was trying to make it work. She's arguing with him
Speaker 1: in the morning. They are on the way to go
Speaker 1: see the wizard. They are on the way to couple's therapy.
Speaker 1: I'm not making this up. They're on the way to
Speaker 1: see the wizard. Veronica stops in the middle of the
Speaker 1: lane and forced her boyfriend to exit the car because
Speaker 1: she decided right there and there, she didn't even want
Speaker 1: to go see the lady. She just wanted to break
Speaker 1: up with him, so he did as asked.
Speaker 3: He got out the car.
Speaker 1: And when he got out the car and passed the
Speaker 1: front of the car to walk to the sidewalk, the
Speaker 1: pair made eye contact.
Speaker 3: So guess what she decided to do.
Speaker 1: Hit him, Hit the damn gas, hit the gas, and
Speaker 1: then hit him.
Speaker 4: Came.
Speaker 1: They was just arguing and she decided she wanted to
Speaker 1: break up, so she asked him to get out the car, so.
Speaker 3: He got out the car.
Speaker 5: The argument stand from somewhere though.
Speaker 3: See victim blaming. You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: To journalists trying to get to the bottom of it
Speaker 5: all I.
Speaker 3: Hear is victim blaming.
Speaker 1: Okay, the man rolled over the hood of the car
Speaker 1: and shattered the window.
Speaker 3: And then hold on, it gets worse.
Speaker 5: He better pay for it.
Speaker 3: Veronica lies the police and tells.
Speaker 1: Police she didn't see her boyfriend, but then eventually admitted
Speaker 1: to police that she hit.
Speaker 3: Him on purpose. Damn, mind you, they only been together
Speaker 3: for a year. They were shacking up. That's right. Now,
Speaker 3: you got your mouth open. Now you're on the man.
Speaker 6: I can't believe that you said only a year. That's
Speaker 6: twelve months of her life.
Speaker 2: How old is she?
Speaker 3: Thirty?
Speaker 5: He tried to take the best years of her thirties.
Speaker 1: They were shacking up, living together for a year, and
Speaker 1: they already in therapy, and she already tried to kill him.
Speaker 1: Now she facing second degree assault, criminal vehicular operation, bodily harm,
Speaker 1: gross negligence, and domestic assault.
Speaker 3: All that for a year relationship.
Speaker 1: I mean, damn, is that even enough time to really
Speaker 1: ruin a woman's pH balance? Now, I'm not the highest
Speaker 1: grade of weed in the dispensary, but I've been around
Speaker 1: long enough to know that Ayanla couldn't fix this life. Okay,
Speaker 1: this man was in a relationship with a toxic crusader. Okay,
Speaker 1: if y'all in therapy. She tried to kill you already
Speaker 1: and it's only been a year, then you shouldn't be
Speaker 1: going to therapy. You should be packing your stuff up
Speaker 1: and going home, or if she's living with you, send
Speaker 1: her home.
Speaker 3: Either way, y'all shouldn't be living with each.
Speaker 1: Other because if you're in a relationship and all you
Speaker 1: do is cry, you need to stop and ask yourself.
Speaker 3: Are you dating a human? Are an onion?
Speaker 1: Okay? Now I'm gonna close with this. Couple's therapy won't
Speaker 1: work if you haven't addressed your individual issues. Sometimes individual
Speaker 1: issues can overshadow relationship problems. Okay, unresolved trauma, personal mental
Speaker 1: health issues, addiction, you know, daddy issues, mommy issues. They
Speaker 1: can and will have a huge impact on a partnership,
Speaker 1: and couple's therapy will be less effective if these underlying
Speaker 1: issues are not addressed. The reason couple's therapy wouldn't have
Speaker 1: worked for Veronica and her Man is simple. It's because
Speaker 1: Veronica actually needed an exorcism. Please give Veronica gas the
Speaker 1: sweet sounds of the Hamiltons.
Speaker 4: You won't oh the day, Oh the day, Ye.
Speaker 3: Poor poor poor man.
Speaker 2: Now you feel bad for him after you said, what
Speaker 2: did he do?
Speaker 6: After he got hit by a car for you to kate, No,
Speaker 6: I feel bad for him because he got paid for
Speaker 6: that one shield? Wowe, because why are they arguing?
Speaker 5: See who was arguing about?
Speaker 1: Doesn't matter he got she ran him over with a car,
Speaker 1: clearly something she did.
Speaker 5: How do you know that though? How can you just imply.
Speaker 4: That you know?
Speaker 2: If there's a guy listening right now and they were
Speaker 2: think about kicking it to you, they have to think. Damn,
Speaker 2: I wonder if Lauren would hit.
Speaker 3: Me with a car and I might want to be
Speaker 3: in a relationship with that.
Speaker 6: You want everything about me to get she would? Don't
Speaker 6: play with her? Because why to get that mad? You
Speaker 6: hit somebody with a car? What were they arguing about?
Speaker 6: He had to have a baby on the way?
Speaker 3: All right? I want to play a game. Yes, let's
Speaker 3: play a game up?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 3: What racing?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 3: A woman from Minnesota from.
Speaker 1: A town called Ottertail Ottertail Okay, She was arrested after
Speaker 1: she struck her boyfriend with her car while the pair
Speaker 1: was on their way to couple's therapy.
Speaker 3: Dj MVY guess what races?
Speaker 2: It's a tough one. The reason I'm thinking it's tough
Speaker 2: because Lauren said, this is what she would do.
Speaker 5: I didn't say that. I just feel for my sins.
Speaker 2: But she's from Delaware.
Speaker 3: She's from Delaware. Always keep that in mind.
Speaker 1: When Delaware address whoa white white Laura and l Rossa,
Speaker 1: a woman was arrested Veronica after she struck her boyfriend
Speaker 1: with her car water pairs on.
Speaker 3: Their way to couple's therapy. Laura Lrosa guess what right
Speaker 3: she is?
Speaker 6: At first I was thinking maybe she's Puerto Rican white
Speaker 6: Puerto Rican.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 6: It just seemed a bit like she reacted really fascially extensively,
Speaker 6: like you know what I.
Speaker 3: Mean, like glad to know about perto Ricans.
Speaker 6: From the in the Bronx, she's an ottertail Minnesota, you said, yes,
Speaker 6: I stayed there as a flight attendant.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 6: I feel like not ottertail, but in Minnesota. I feel
Speaker 6: like she could be a sister, just maybe a.
Speaker 2: Little like light skin. Why light skin?
Speaker 3: She say, what's on your mind? Lauren, don't stut a
Speaker 3: goat like this?
Speaker 6: She caught her feelings, real fasting feelings, just light skin
Speaker 6: like this that's so long and.
Speaker 5: Feelings to because he toxic. He went trolling me in.
Speaker 1: The comments, me and you against the light skin, which
Speaker 1: is you.
Speaker 5: Don't feel like there's an emotional difference between.
Speaker 2: The two of y'all know, I just get called that
Speaker 2: on mine.
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, well I'm just you know that's how
Speaker 5: I feel.
Speaker 3: You think the light skin black.
Speaker 2: Wow, the light skin black.
Speaker 3: We need to drink.
Speaker 2: You just threw something that just can't be black. Light
Speaker 2: skin black, light skin. Yeah, we need to we need.
Speaker 5: I just lynched, like.
Speaker 3: Listen, one of you was correct, when of you was wrong?
Speaker 3: Dj n B. You are absolutely positively correct.
Speaker 2: She's the light skin cousin, not skin.
Speaker 1: She's white lord waiting people this morning.
Speaker 3: Go stop man, hurt you.
Speaker 6: I don't even deal with like skinning from I had
Speaker 6: like point five of them. Y'all be doing too much
Speaker 6: skin man hurt too. I had like a point a
Speaker 6: point five of a light skin man.
Speaker 5: It was too much. My light skin. Guy's got to
Speaker 5: act dark skin lorn.
Speaker 3: If you don't want to hear him, say no more,
Speaker 3: you stand on that. Damn it.
Speaker 2: I witch shout to my light skin brothers out there.
Speaker 2: I don't know what she did, yo, envy yo.
Speaker 5: At the car show, I walked up on envy to
Speaker 5: say bye. He had.
Speaker 6: It was like a crusade. It was like thirty dominic
Speaker 6: kid like, I'm like, yo, don't mind as well. I
Speaker 6: had merch in here like it was a p It
Speaker 6: was crazy. They were all taking one picture.
Speaker 3: There was not pack a p P.
Speaker 1: There was no ten it's a Brigada base it with
Speaker 1: light skink.
Speaker 2: It was just black yo yellow tan claim. We have
Speaker 2: to break that. We had to go to therapy about
Speaker 2: because no men, you go therapy together.
Speaker 6: But why this time there was no d E I
Speaker 6: in that photo. Y'all needed some d E I like
Speaker 6: y'all needed a brown skin friend.
Speaker 2: Shoot black and black.
Speaker 6: Now, y'all don't don't you don't you because when they
Speaker 6: in my comments, you yeah, my under arms it'd be
Speaker 6: braided like bow wow hair.
Speaker 2: So this whole show is probably problematic. He said, light
Speaker 2: skinned man looked like pit bulls, and you saying you
Speaker 2: just don't watch.
Speaker 5: I didn't like them.
Speaker 3: And when a time coming, you're about to look like
Speaker 3: sugar cookies.
Speaker 5: I enjoy your warm sugar cookie.
Speaker 6: Don't what, Wendy, that's the best.
Speaker 2: Don't do that, just jump in please no, wait, wait
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