WEBVTT - Second Date Update: When Nature Calls

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<v Speaker 1>Second, d Brook, you like it when a guy knows

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what he wants? Right? Yeah? Absolutely, But that's an

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<v Speaker 1>attractive quality. Oh sure? Do you like it when a

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<v Speaker 1>guy knows exactly what he doesn't want? I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>he's not I don't need to hear about that. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's good for him as a person, But I

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<v Speaker 1>think usually that means that he doesn't want me, So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to you know, up right, just keep

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<v Speaker 1>it to yourself. I'm just bringing it up because one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners says he likes one thing, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>curvy women. Okay, but not a unique thing. He says

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<v Speaker 1>he believes women on dating apps are abusing that term,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm curious to know what he means by that. So, Glenn, Glenn,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show man. Hey, thanks for having me

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<v Speaker 1>out today. It's kind of like, shouldn't be describing themselves

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<v Speaker 1>that way? Well, I don't know what he means. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you tell us what you mean? Like? What do you

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<v Speaker 1>why do you think people are abusing the term curvy? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone tries to make themselves sound as as attractive as

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<v Speaker 1>possible on these things, but curvy is you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>old cartoons, the classic. You get your hands and you

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<v Speaker 1>make the hourglass shape you want, like you mean the

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<v Speaker 1>unobtainable measurements of Barbie. Is that what you're talking about? No,

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<v Speaker 1>not even that, Like, no, no, I like a real

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<v Speaker 1>woman with curbs. If I wanted a twelve year old boy,

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<v Speaker 1>I date a twelve year old boy. But no, Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just trying to understand what you're saying. You're Glenn,

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying, Do we want more clation? I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to, you know, see his perspective. He thinks women

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<v Speaker 1>of all shapes use the term curvy too liberally. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>because you have to have a curve up top, a

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<v Speaker 1>curve down bottom, but in the middle it's got to

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<v Speaker 1>taper in a little bit, so you have a clear,

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<v Speaker 1>definitive waste area. So you're saying that like your date

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<v Speaker 1>shut up and didn't match her description. Is that what

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to get to? No, no, no, I I

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<v Speaker 1>just took me a long time to find the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of girl that I was looking for on the on

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<v Speaker 1>the dating apps. Okay, Glenn, what did you like about

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<v Speaker 1>her outside of her physical appearance? Well, what was her

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<v Speaker 1>name or does it doesn't even matter. Tell us more

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<v Speaker 1>about her. Her name's Megan. And one of the things,

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<v Speaker 1>one of the things that I said when I was

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<v Speaker 1>looking for the date was I'm looking for a nature girl,

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<v Speaker 1>like a nature nerd. I love going hiking. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>know there's over nine hundred different types of fig trees.

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<v Speaker 1>I know there's one breed of wasp that pollinates them.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I know these things. It's it's a it's a

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<v Speaker 1>big hobby of mine. Many do you need a girl

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<v Speaker 1>that's curvy and knows that stuff too well, at least

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<v Speaker 1>can pretend to be interested. If not the I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's attractive. I don't know about Alexis, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's attractive when people have like a like a nerd

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<v Speaker 1>out on something, like have a true passion. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>good sign, I think if they're actually not nerds. Though. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know my focus is kind of narrow. But again,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I'm on the dating site, so that I

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<v Speaker 1>can find someone kind of sort of will match. That

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<v Speaker 1>is that what you did for your date? You guys?

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<v Speaker 1>Went outside? Yeah? Yeah, yeah. I found a site where

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<v Speaker 1>you can print out these lists of nature scavenger hunts. Said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>this would be really cool. Yeah, I do that for

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<v Speaker 1>my kids. What do you mean, like find a heart

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<v Speaker 1>shaped rock? Is that what you mean? Yeah, stuff like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so we can go out for a walk and talk

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<v Speaker 1>and kind of get to know each other and just

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<v Speaker 1>explore nature. And that sounds fun. Well it was okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh just okay. Yeah, the checklist that I had, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think it would be a big deal. But there's

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<v Speaker 1>things like find a wild mushroom, find some feathers, find

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<v Speaker 1>a butterfly. I think I know what the problem is here.

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<v Speaker 1>The butterflies weren't proportionate enough. Is that what it is?

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<v Speaker 1>Not curving? Yeah, they're two round? You want those monarchs

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<v Speaker 1>with an hour glass shape. We're just messing around with you, Glenn.

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<v Speaker 1>Did Megan seem to have any fun? Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it got a little less friendly as the day wore

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<v Speaker 1>on because we couldn't find a damn thing. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>was getting a little frustrated. You're getting frustrated over your list.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, over the lack of being able to find

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<v Speaker 1>anything on this damn list. They had ants in an

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<v Speaker 1>ant hill on the list and we couldn't find ants.

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<v Speaker 1>We couldn't find anything. Is this how is this was

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<v Speaker 1>this your mood as the list became more obtained. I

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<v Speaker 1>did you show your frustration to Megan? I think it

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<v Speaker 1>kind of leaked through because I'm going I finally got

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<v Speaker 1>a date with a girl that I am attracted to,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're doing something that she's she's willing to be

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<v Speaker 1>interested in, and we can have a good time and

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<v Speaker 1>get to know each other, and now nothing else is

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<v Speaker 1>working out and like a jacket. Ye, honestly, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think she really probably cared about completing your scavenger huns Well,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us how it ended, because we got to wrap

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<v Speaker 1>this up soon. So at the edge of the park

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<v Speaker 1>there's a food truck. So we went over to the

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<v Speaker 1>food truck and we got corn dogs and oh yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's terrific. We're sitting on a step, we're eating them,

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<v Speaker 1>we're finishing up, and she just goes really nice meeting you,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I have to go I have to meet

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<v Speaker 1>up with my roommate for a work thing. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>have a question. Why are we calling her? Is this

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<v Speaker 1>because this is the only woman that has ever matched

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<v Speaker 1>with you? And I, you know, like you have very

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<v Speaker 1>very high standards and specific requests here. It's just sort

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<v Speaker 1>of up with so much potential and the ants had

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<v Speaker 1>to ruin it for you, So we're gone. Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>lack of the ants would have saved it for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Answer it for me? Well, at the wouldn't step up

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<v Speaker 1>for you? We will right now. We're gonna call Megan

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna ask her why she isn't wanting another date. Why. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to try and convince her to give you

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<v Speaker 1>another We're gonna give her a reason why to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him one more time? How about that, Brooke,

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<v Speaker 1>you think of that during the break, We'll come back

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<v Speaker 1>call Megan. You get your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, guys, Thank you very much. Right hold on, man.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what's funny is when you think of your

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<v Speaker 1>social circle, and this is true a lot of the times,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the people you didn't get along with at first

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<v Speaker 1>who later go on to become your closest friends and

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<v Speaker 1>even lovers. So I think Brooke might be coming after

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<v Speaker 1>you so hard right now because she actually has a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of a crush on you would read it

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<v Speaker 1>that way. Have you seen a picture of her online?

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<v Speaker 1>Because Brooke, would you describe yourself as Kurvey? Uh? No, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>how would you descri I have the flattest booty ever?

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<v Speaker 1>Describe myself as kurvy, You're like a little flat back.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh no, no, uh. Like I said, I know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a unicorn that I'm looking for here, but a curby

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<v Speaker 1>girl who was into nature and just a great conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you check to at least two of them? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, but I'm talking about me anymore like a potato. Yet,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you offering? You know, like you're asking for

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<v Speaker 1>such like high I'd like to hear this too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you bringing to the table for this unicorn?

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like someone's interesting. Yeah, I just I'm doubting. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm I'm reasonably smart, I'm educated, taking interest

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<v Speaker 1>in a wide variety of jecks. I try not to

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<v Speaker 1>be cliche, which is why I try to find stupid

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<v Speaker 1>things like nature scavenger, hunch a nature. We know that.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's also humble. You only called himself reasonably smart. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know what I like, but I respect women. I

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<v Speaker 1>love women, and I just want to find the right one,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all. And he feels like the right one was Megan,

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<v Speaker 1>who he met online and they went on a scavenger hunt. Unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>he did get a little bit frustrated when he couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>find some of the things on their list, like ants.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's hoping that didn't blow it for him. And

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to find out if we can get you

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<v Speaker 1>another chance here, all right, And no matter what, Glenn,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll have a little offline conversation with you. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>told you the flat boot. He does not do it

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<v Speaker 1>for me. Are you about to appreciate your I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think he's joking. He's little to Megan. So let's call

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<v Speaker 1>her and see what she has to say. Here we go,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a dot number right now. Hello, Hello is this Megan?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god? Yeah, hey Megan. Can we apologize now? Why

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<v Speaker 1>we want to talk to you a little bit? Megan?

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<v Speaker 1>When you're on the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. I'm sorry? What what is this? Oh? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>just no, I'm on your side. We're talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's important to start out the games. We're a morning show, Megan,

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<v Speaker 1>and we do a segment on our show called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update. That's what this is. We're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>help one of our listeners who went on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Recently. His name is Glenn. Do you remember Glenn? Uh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah I do. I don't know why you're calling me

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<v Speaker 1>about him, though. Well, he said that he had this

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<v Speaker 1>big idea to do a nature scavenger hunt and it

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<v Speaker 1>was going okay, and then he got a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>frustrated when certain things in nature weren't making themselves appear

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<v Speaker 1>to you, guys, I think what it was is that

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<v Speaker 1>he had the idea of a perfect date for you

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<v Speaker 1>and it wasn't panning out, and so he let his

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<v Speaker 1>frustrations get the better of him. Do you agree with that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he seems to have a temper and it wasn't it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't necessarily it wasn't focused on me per se. But

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<v Speaker 1>he would go m zero to just letting loose a

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<v Speaker 1>string of curses because you couldn't find the ants on

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<v Speaker 1>the checklist. And he was so into it. He had

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<v Speaker 1>this laser focus on completing this task and he was

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<v Speaker 1>getting red faced and really bad about him. That is

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<v Speaker 1>such a we spoke to him. We didn't get that

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<v Speaker 1>impression at all, did not, because I have that impression

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<v Speaker 1>to hear that, But like this guy, I mean, did

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<v Speaker 1>you tell him to calm down? Well, I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to redirect, was trying to ask about himself.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to find out his other interests, and

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<v Speaker 1>instead he would start giving me this litany of facts

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<v Speaker 1>like the Latin name for dandelion and what who were

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<v Speaker 1>the pollinators for it? And I was like, I'd rather

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<v Speaker 1>know about you. Um so my understanding. You're at like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the reason that you're not calling him back because

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<v Speaker 1>you felt maybe a little bit of a temper. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's one of them. Oh, there's more red flags. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>The other one was that the man that I met

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<v Speaker 1>that day didn't match up with the man that was

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<v Speaker 1>described in his profile. Really, oh, I am very interested

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<v Speaker 1>in the way he described himself a beast. On the

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<v Speaker 1>photos I saw, he described his build as athletic, and

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<v Speaker 1>that really appealed to me because I go rafting. I

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<v Speaker 1>love that stuff. Okay, that's great, But he said he

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<v Speaker 1>looked athletic, and when you showed up, what did he

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<v Speaker 1>look like to you? Well, he looked he looked softer. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a kind way to say it. Yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know about all that. He just didn't look as sturdy

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<v Speaker 1>as in his photos. And and he was getting winded

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<v Speaker 1>while we were just walking around that park. I know

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<v Speaker 1>he was getting mad, but I was paying attention to

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that he was getting out of breath. Why

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<v Speaker 1>aren't you getting outraged at her for you're telling about that,

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<v Speaker 1>and honesty of it all is amazing hypocrisy, the apocrisy

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<v Speaker 1>of you right now because the athletic body style is

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<v Speaker 1>unattainable that they show Men's Health magazine. We started the

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<v Speaker 1>conversation and he was moaning about how women mislabeled themselves

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<v Speaker 1>and how horrible they are for calling themselves Kirby, and

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<v Speaker 1>then he has the audacity to mislabel himself. We're finding

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<v Speaker 1>out a little bit too much information at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>a little oversharing, And I need to let you know

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<v Speaker 1>at this point that Glenn is on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>and has been hearing all of this. O Hi, O, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>got your tail between your legs on that one. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't know if I was out of

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<v Speaker 1>breath so much, but I was. I was a little

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<v Speaker 1>breathless in your presence. I guess, Glenn, what do you

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<v Speaker 1>think of that she doesn't think that you're athletic looking? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, every one goes through cycles. Everyone has, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>good good weeks, bad weeks. So wait, so you're asking

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<v Speaker 1>for a little bit of empathy maybe a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of course. Yeah, of course, you know everyone's work in progress. Everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a really smart thing to say. Yeah, maybe if

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<v Speaker 1>you actually gave that to other people then you would

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<v Speaker 1>receive it back the empathy lost. No. Yeah, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just speechless there because No, I think she's perfect

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<v Speaker 1>the way she is. I just I'm just I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>so frustrated, aggravated with myself, or get aggravated Broy Megan,

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't heard from you. I mean, what now you

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<v Speaker 1>can talk to Glenn and tell him, tell him about

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<v Speaker 1>his soft body and have disappointed. Well, I'm a call

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't think I need to repeat myself. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't mean any offense. If I offend you, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>know I can. I can definitely work on the softness.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess there's not much I can do about the

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<v Speaker 1>butterflies and migration. Okay, you're still worried about the Glenn.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, why are you using old photos again? Another

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<v Speaker 1>fault of mine. I put up a couple of old photos.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't updated my photos and yeah, put on a

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<v Speaker 1>few pounds and then that's my fault too. Everything. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't beat yourself up over it. I very like his cushion,

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<v Speaker 1>so wouldn't hurt his bad. But Glenn, we want to

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<v Speaker 1>help you here, man, we want to get you another day.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe if we could just end with you saying one

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<v Speaker 1>nice thing about Glenn, that would help Glenn, because I

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<v Speaker 1>think what Glench would work on is maybe himself for

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<v Speaker 1>a while. I yeah, I'm I do agree with that,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So let's think of one nice thing to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say the nicest thing that I noticed you

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<v Speaker 1>had going for yourself were your manners and how you

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<v Speaker 1>treated me. Yeah, that's a real positive Glenn. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think of that? Glen? I certainly appreciate that, and

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, I try to be as respectful as

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<v Speaker 1>as possible. Uh maybe maybe the frustration that I point

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<v Speaker 1>to myself, I should probably have a few more manners

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<v Speaker 1>towards myself too. But yeah, that that's a moment of growth.

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<v Speaker 1>It's nice to yourself, budd Okay maybe, But the stating thing,

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<v Speaker 1>this this jungle of dating thing, it's it's horrible. So

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<v Speaker 1>I probably just got over excited that I thought I

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<v Speaker 1>actually found someone I could connect with. Okay, well, let's

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<v Speaker 1>get out of the jungle and let's just go back

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<v Speaker 1>to the park. And we want to send you on

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<v Speaker 1>a date that we will pay for, like a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a redo. What do you think of that? Uh, Glen,

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<v Speaker 1>If if we can do something where you can be

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<v Speaker 1>a little more curious about me and less about the

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<v Speaker 1>greenery the environment, I would say yes to another that

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<v Speaker 1>it was nice. Don't know if he's smart, Glenn. I

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<v Speaker 1>would love another chance. And I am very curious about you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm super curious about you, and I promise I will

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<v Speaker 1>try as hard as I can to not get in

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<v Speaker 1>my own way and and screw things up. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>look at that. It's a successful second date update, even

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<v Speaker 1>though Brooke tried to sabotage it the entire time with

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<v Speaker 1>her flat behind. Don't worry, Brook, there's someone out there

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<v Speaker 1>for you to Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,