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Speaker 1: Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decisions.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome to yet another episode of Harvard Bloody Old.

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Speaker 1: I'm your girl. Maybbe Ak, Pant Sanianak, Debbieach, what's up,

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Speaker 1: I'm wheezy. Welcome back to another episode. We have a

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Speaker 1: guest that is very special. You've probably heard of her.

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Speaker 1: She's been here before, but not in a long time.

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Speaker 1: And we just love supporting your ship. Jet Setting Jasmine

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Speaker 1: was going on. They're happy to be back here. I'm

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Speaker 1: actually still sad though, that we've only had you and

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Speaker 1: your partner solo to have yall together we can. We

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Speaker 1: did a live show with you. Yeah, okay, we were

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Speaker 1: together there, but were the last the last? Hurra Yes,

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Speaker 1: I remember the before times. I got so many client

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Speaker 1: What happened at that show? Well, I mean I had

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Speaker 1: a good time. Were spanking people, were like licking people.

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Speaker 1: I don't do that because one of y'all that you

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Speaker 1: were a king y'all was spanking my mama and I

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Speaker 1: go get miss Tammy, like, Mom, do you remember was

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Speaker 1: it you were or king spanking my mom? Where my

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Speaker 1: mom was literally like I think I'm gonna go to

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Speaker 1: Tampa they limp close and I was like, no, you're

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Speaker 1: not mom session. Yes, We've got so many clients off

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Speaker 1: of that show, so thank you so much. I would

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Speaker 1: never be able to disclose if it were your mom's

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Speaker 1: or not. Girl, I will tell miss Tammy. Do you guys?

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Speaker 1: Is it like therapy, like for real, like you never disclose? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Of course, yeah, violations it is, but we're not bound

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Speaker 1: by law. But I mean we have our own person.

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Speaker 1: We're not bound. I wanted for those of you who

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Speaker 1: may not have heard the first time you were here

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Speaker 1: because it was like four or five years ago. Um,

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Speaker 1: it was in the before time. It was in the

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Speaker 1: before time BC, before coming. UM. I wanted to introduce

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Speaker 1: you to our audience. And there are three things in

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Speaker 1: what you do. One is you are a master fetish trainer.

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Speaker 1: Can you explain to our audience what that is? Because

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Speaker 1: I'm like, they just be making new titles of everything.

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Speaker 1: I can't keep up. I was a master fetish trainer,

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Speaker 1: So King and I have been in this industry for

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Speaker 1: over twenty years combined, and we help people explore their

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Speaker 1: fetishes by what hand over hand or producing experiences events,

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Speaker 1: and Um, we also combine our experience, our lived experience

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Speaker 1: as sex workers and a therapist to help people get

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Speaker 1: to either the bottom of their shame or stigma that

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Speaker 1: keeps them from being able to help explore their fetishes

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Speaker 1: in a healthy way. And so are you a license

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Speaker 1: in your bios? Well, there's a psychotherapist and you've then

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Speaker 1: focused specifically on sex trauma fetish in psychotherapy or what

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Speaker 1: do you do as a psychotherapist Because of my work

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Speaker 1: as a sex worker, most of my clients do come

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Speaker 1: and see me from that that perspective, but I am

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Speaker 1: a general us in in terms of therapy. Okay, and

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Speaker 1: then sex Ask you what kind of sex work have

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Speaker 1: you in King Noir done? Um, there's very little that

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Speaker 1: we haven't done, like everything from live sessions hands like

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Speaker 1: you know, in person sessions, to cam modeling, the whole,

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Speaker 1: the whole gamut. I saw my breast milk, you know,

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Speaker 1: like whatever for pleasure my breast milk? Yeah, like lactation fetish.

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Speaker 1: So I mean that's why you got pregnant so you

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Speaker 1: could go ahead and get into celine. Well, it's like

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Speaker 1: one hand washes the other about that. I don't know

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Speaker 1: about that either. Well, right now, my going rate is

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Speaker 1: about one fifty an ounce. And what that's more than

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Speaker 1: we all know grams? Oh tell on ourselves. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: one fifty And how do you ship it into like

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Speaker 1: somewhere a little bit further than part of white Middle America?

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Speaker 1: Do you sell your breast? Oh, I don't limit it

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Speaker 1: farthest place you set the breast milk? Um? That's a

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Speaker 1: Is that like a premium rate? I guess I'm asking,

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Speaker 1: well listen to the shop. So like, do okay, was

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Speaker 1: it's yeah for everything. Yeah. And so for our company

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Speaker 1: I would say it's hard to say for every sex worker,

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Speaker 1: I And that's sort of been like the beauty of

424
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Speaker 1: working in this industry, into sex industry, where people have

425
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Speaker 1: said things like, you know, I really want to play,

426
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Speaker 1: but my limits are like here and here because things

427
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Speaker 1: are going on down there. Cool. I could respect that,

428
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like, oh, you're having okay,

429
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Speaker 1: well whatever, what's going on down there? But I know

430
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Speaker 1: it may look like Lamidia. I don't need to change

431
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Speaker 1: the verbage. I mean you could, but really like just

432
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Speaker 1: being able to say, just being able to say like

433
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Speaker 1: I'm having to or what have you? Okay, Cool? Then

434
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Speaker 1: let's work with what you've got and not catch what

435
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Speaker 1: you have and share with other people. Oh I love that.

436
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Speaker 1: I love that. All right, Well, let's get to some funnies.

437
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,879
Speaker 1: We're gonna get to our Vanilla's ship for those of

438
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Speaker 1: you who are tuned in for the first time because

439
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Speaker 1: you absolutely loved just sitting Jasmine. Our Vanilla Ships segment

440
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 1: is where we get into sex in the news. And

441
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 1: I found this one and I was just like, bitch,

442
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:23,120
Speaker 1: you lyone. But it's a real thing. A man developed

443
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Speaker 1: sudden amnesia after having sex with his wife completely forgetting

444
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Speaker 1: his own wedding anniversary party the day before. Yes, um,

445
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 1: and I brought this up. It is well it's sex related, bitch,

446
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:38,960
Speaker 1: so um it was a man. A man got amnisia

447
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:42,640
Speaker 1: ten minutes after having afternoon sex with his wife, temporarily

448
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:45,640
Speaker 1: wiping out his memory of the previous day and rendering

449
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 1: him unable to retain new informations. Doctors have said the

450
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: sixties six year old man became distressed after he looked

451
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Speaker 1: at his phone after sex one afternoon, saw the date

452
00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 1: and thought that he'd forgotten his wedding anniversary, when in

453
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Speaker 1: fact he's celebrated it with his wife and family just

454
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 1: the day before. The memory laws lasted for an hour,

455
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 1: with the man repeatedly questioning his wife and daughter over

456
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Speaker 1: the events of the morning and the previous day. The man,

457
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,680
Speaker 1: who was not identified in the case report, visited an

458
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,880
Speaker 1: emergency room and had a completely normal neurological examination by

459
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 1: the time he got there. Um any, oh, here we go.

460
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: Doctors diagnosed him with transient global amnesia, a benign condition

461
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 1: that caused this sudden short term memory lass and the

462
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 1: inability to form new memories. This is any memory lass

463
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Speaker 1: that lasts anywhere from four to six hours. Does the

464
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Speaker 1: pussy trigger it? It actually said that. This was like, oh,

465
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Speaker 1: here we go. Most cases have been reported in men

466
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Speaker 1: between the ages of fifty and seventy, so y'all be

467
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Speaker 1: careful for your day and olderman, but here we go.

468
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Speaker 1: They say that it is linked to several activities, including

469
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Speaker 1: physical exertion, immersion in cold or hot water, emotional stress, pain,

470
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Speaker 1: and sex. I have this Shaggy was talking about. It

471
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Speaker 1: wasn't me. That was every time I get dumb. Do

472
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Speaker 1: you hear this ship? Does it return? Do your brain

473
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Speaker 1: cells return? It takes a minute. Okay, you'd be like, like,

474
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 1: it takes so much time to get back. It's not

475
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 1: just high, bro, I really like, I forget all the

476
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 1: bullshit they've done. I'm telling you that we get the

477
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: bullshit they've done because the sex was good. I'm telling

478
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Speaker 1: you when that's what I'm saying, hurt, pussy aspired, that's

479
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Speaker 1: what That's why he forgot it again. I don't know

480
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Speaker 1: where he lives, bro. And after I fun, he told

481
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Speaker 1: me had a girlfriend. I'm just like, I don't know

482
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:53,119
Speaker 1: if I remember what he said. And he said, I'm

483
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Speaker 1: gonna keep sucking him because I don't want mean sucking him,

484
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 1: but like I want to Yeah, that's nuts. But I'm

485
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Speaker 1: not only trying to be I'm trying to hold my

486
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Speaker 1: carma up. I made a lot of mistakes in the

487
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 1: past with things I shouldn't have, and I feel like

488
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 1: I've wiped that slid away and so I need are

489
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:12,360
Speaker 1: born again. Okay, have you ever had dick so good

490
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 1: that it just made you forget about the bullshit that

491
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: they had? Did? No? No, You're like, no, well is benign?

492
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: You should just what what things have you seen as

493
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 1: a psychotherapist? Like, that's like, that's neurological ship, right, that is,

494
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 1: while pertaining to sex, either sex trauma or uh like

495
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:38,399
Speaker 1: literally a neurological effect because of sex. We just actually

496
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Speaker 1: talked about a couple episodes ago when Chloe Kardashian came

497
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,919
Speaker 1: out and said that she experienced PTSD from being cheated

498
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 1: on so much. Yeah, I can I can imagine that. Okay,

499
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 1: are there things that you've been like, let I think

500
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 1: the more challenging sex and and neurological and psychological has been. Um,

501
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,080
Speaker 1: I had a client. I don't want to say, I

502
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 1: don't want to misdignose right now, but that had different personalities,

503
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 1: Like they really had different embodiments, about eight different embodiments,

504
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 1: and the challenge I met with them in their partner.

505
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 1: And the challenging part was for one of those embodiments

506
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,959
Speaker 1: was triggered sexually, like it sort of encompass their sexual trauma.

507
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 1: Another one was very excitable and very sexual, and so

508
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 1: it was really challenging for the partner to know who

509
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,360
Speaker 1: was showing up when they would be able to get

510
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 1: their needs met when they had to completely fall back.

511
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: So that was just like, oh, okay, this is this

512
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 1: is hard, this is tough, and I mean they're last

513
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,119
Speaker 1: I know, still together and working through it. And it

514
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 1: really had to put a lot of responsibility on that

515
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: person to share who you are. Um. But it was

516
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 1: something similar with respect to stress. High levels of stress

517
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:56,360
Speaker 1: would bring out that trauma personality. But this person had

518
00:27:56,640 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 1: different names for these people. And as a therapist was

519
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 1: also challenging because I had to ask, like, I'm in

520
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:07,399
Speaker 1: therapy with this person. This is a person who signed

521
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,919
Speaker 1: up for practice. If that person is not available, we

522
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 1: cannot have sex. You charge them times eight because like

523
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: that that's a whole bunch of different people. I did

524
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Speaker 1: not God damn no, now have a therapy was eight people,

525
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:25,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to premium, but that's my only one person. Yeah,

526
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: but time at a time. But yeah, it was. So

527
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 1: that was very, very challenging. But that's crazy. I'm just saying.

528
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Speaker 1: Was that was that I can't answer that question something

529
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Speaker 1: in my head that'sn't appropriate to say for that good karma. Um.

530
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 1: I want to make sure we keep this kinky because

531
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Speaker 1: if you all are watching on the YouTube that's right,

532
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Speaker 1: Horror Decisions YouTube, you can see the full video here.

533
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Speaker 1: You was dressed, you dressed the Hella looking like a

534
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Speaker 1: bondage queen. I wanted to ask you. We have our

535
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Speaker 1: horror Dirt segment where we ask for a tip from

536
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Speaker 1: our guests, and I wanted you to give us a

537
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Speaker 1: kinky tip. Okay, I'm gonna go superkink because this is

538
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Speaker 1: something that super don't don't communication, we don't want to

539
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Speaker 1: hear communication, we don't want blow job tips, we don't

540
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Speaker 1: want how to eat pussy. Those are basics. Yeah, then

541
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 1: give us some hardcore ship. Okay. So this is for

542
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 1: people who are ready to take it up to the

543
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Speaker 1: next level. I am really suggesting that you start to

544
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Speaker 1: experience sounding, Oh girl, yeah, is this really where we're heading? Yeah?

545
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: Is this where we're go? Are you in black face

546
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Speaker 1: right now? Black people sounds? Yes? Yes, wait it no,

547
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: he films me, do it though? You doing it to

548
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 1: other people? I have a session coming out. That's why

549
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about it right now. I guess we gotta

550
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Speaker 1: go into what it is. Please explain for those of

551
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 1: you listening, has it come up on? Oh yeah, we

552
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Speaker 1: us have it all the nerve, give us the kick,

553
00:29:56,040 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: no bullshit, Well now to do a good blow job. Okay,

554
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 1: give us the cake sounding. For those of you who

555
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: are unaware, please break it down to what you enjoy

556
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: doing this. So it's a fetish where you take a

557
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 1: medical sound, which is a it can be steeler, could

558
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 1: be stillicone rod. Usually it's medical grade steel and you

559
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 1: stick it in the uretha of the penis soba penis

560
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 1: hole be a dick hole, you stick it in there,

561
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 1: and a sexual captor. You think of it that. Yeah,

562
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 1: and so you're opening up that and it is giving

563
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 1: them the sensation, so you know the sensation that you

564
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 1: have when you have to pee. No, that's not a sensation. Yes,

565
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 1: the urge, the urge to be okay, So it's that

566
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: full feeling. Yeah, no, no, right, yeah, that's what you want.

567
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: The pressure. Don't we like that pressure? Now? You know

568
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: how women we when we feel full, right, when we're

569
00:30:56,440 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: getting fun, we feel full. Definitely that bladder you like that.

570
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 1: Don't you want that for your man? I mean there too? Okay, both,

571
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: so I would, and you do this on black men.

572
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 1: Black men are asking for this. Oh men are asking okay,

573
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 1: So what's what's the what's the tip? Give us the tip.

574
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: The tip is to make sure that everything is clean

575
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:24,479
Speaker 1: super hard, because like, what is it? No, you just

576
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 1: have to move very slow. I do you want gloves

577
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 1: when you do it? I do? I do because I

578
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: don't want to. I don't want to give anyone infection.

579
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: I use sterile um, sanitized alcohol, you know white. It's

580
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 1: on a pad ah and I used, well, no, I

581
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 1: mean you could, but I don't want to. You can't

582
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:49,959
Speaker 1: put a condom on it. No, No, you shouldn't um

583
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 1: because it's not it's not like tight enough. So I

584
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 1: clean it really good and then I use surgical lube.

585
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 1: It's like and I feel like a doctor's like a

586
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,080
Speaker 1: medical procedure. And then you could feel like, and I

587
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 1: like to make it down. Yeah it's so, and then

588
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: and then they come, yeah, yeah it's on. It's on

589
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Speaker 1: Royal Fetish falm xx dot com. Can I have you?

590
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 1: How did you, as a woman, realized that this was

591
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 1: something you would enjoys the bottom asked me to do it.

592
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: I submissive, was like yeah, it was like I'm into sound.

593
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: We were actually seeming and they were like, um, yeah

594
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 1: we could do this, and I was like sounding, Oh

595
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 1: my god, someone, I'm telling you when you fucking click

596
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: on this ship, uh huh, I don't. I don't want to,

597
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 1: you know what it And they can get really big too,

598
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: jerking off into it. Yeah it looks like you know

599
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 1: when you have a long lighter for barbecue. That's but

600
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 1: I'm on to share. So my tip is if you

601
00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 1: do it, keep it clean right, keep it sterile. Now,

602
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 1: like you said, we talk all over the years about

603
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: how we've learned and how we've grown into this work.

604
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 1: I will say that when I was just a therapist

605
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: in a medical unit, there was a client, not like

606
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 1: a therapeutic client, that was putting things in his penis. Alright,

607
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 1: so pens, pencils, um safety pens, like all kinds of stuff.

608
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: I was not a kink informed therapist like I am now,

609
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 1: just like the exact reaction like oh my gosh, like

610
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 1: we have to stop this behavior. His caregiver was just

611
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 1: like taking him to the ear every single time he's

612
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 1: got a disinfection. He was an older person, but he

613
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: had some other medical issues that kept him from being

614
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: able to care for himself completely. So he would get

615
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 1: like dick infections, right, and she would be bringing him

616
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Speaker 1: into the e er. You don't have a word another

617
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 1: board for that, dick infections. She was saying, everything's caregiver,

618
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 1: but dick infections was I'm trying to still be relatable

619
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Speaker 1: to the streets. We easy. She a nurse that she

620
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 1: loved getting on the phone telling me all these medical terms,

621
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 1: and I said, bitch, can you speak English? What does

622
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 1: it mean? It's it's an infection, It's not something ophilial.

623
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 1: To be relatable, we see all outfit. We got it, Okay,

624
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: So he kept getting dick infections and and so in

625
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,880
Speaker 1: the treatment team, if I would have known what I'm

626
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 1: what I know now, I would have just asked a

627
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,879
Speaker 1: simple question like are you getting sexual pleasure from this?

628
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 1: Can I help you find instruments. Were you in the

629
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:33,959
Speaker 1: on the medicals. Yeah, I was on the treatment team

630
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: as as a Yeah, and so you know, they were

631
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,399
Speaker 1: just like we gotta help this this family, like he's

632
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:42,879
Speaker 1: going to hurt himself with you know what's wrong with him.

633
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Speaker 1: And I just wish that I knew what I knew

634
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 1: now to be able, because this is the thing about

635
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 1: being a fetish trainer's like, oh you like that sensation,

636
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,920
Speaker 1: let me help you find a safe way to do this.

637
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:58,760
Speaker 1: At that time, what was the diagnosis like without having

638
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:01,879
Speaker 1: that fetish training, you guys just again thought something was wrong.

639
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 1: They were like looking at everything UM related to the

640
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 1: early stage dementia. They were looking at um he had

641
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:13,879
Speaker 1: some PTSD issues. He had um post stroke. But these

642
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 1: are not behaviors necessarily if somebody who has a stroke.

643
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 1: And he wasn't forgetting like he was consistent with finding

644
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 1: things to put in. He did not have the autonomy

645
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 1: to date because he was under medical care and somebody

646
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 1: was overseeing his day to day stuff like his bath

647
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 1: and all that kind of stuff. He just he was hoarding.

648
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: He was getting pleasure that way, and I just it

649
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 1: bothers me so bad to this day. Probably, Yeah, it's

650
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:41,320
Speaker 1: been a while and he had a lot of medical conditions,

651
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 1: But I just wish I could have been like, y'all,

652
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 1: get this man some privacy, give him some sound, some gloves,

653
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 1: you know, and that's it down, I hope. So thank you, gosh.

654
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, so like having these kind of conversations for

655
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 1: people who are not in the sex field, but we

656
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 1: encounter people's kinks all the time, like how can we

657
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:01,840
Speaker 1: make it safe? Are there any kinks that you feel

658
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:05,280
Speaker 1: are more more than others that get the bad rep

659
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 1: to be something that's associated with some sort of or

660
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: just being wrong, Like, are what what kinks have you

661
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 1: like worked through with people to make them know that

662
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 1: what they're into is actually okay. Yeah, I mean people

663
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,760
Speaker 1: have such a high level of shame if they deviate

664
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 1: anywhere outside of vanilla's sex, you know, Like I mean

665
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: just the way people like I'm sure that they they

666
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 1: come at you for pegging, you know, or just like like,

667
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: oh I don't want to talk to you. You like

668
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 1: men's booty? All right? Um? I mean it really is

669
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 1: damn near everything. And it's really the way that to me,

670
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: it's like not even a particular kink, it's just it

671
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 1: makes me so sad how people like shrink themselves, you know,

672
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:52,720
Speaker 1: like just even coming and saying I want for black women,

673
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: especially anything outside of vanilla sex, like damn near anything

674
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 1: like I want to be pet on, you know, and

675
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: such a stigma our community around any type of like

676
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: urine play. I have people that like scat play. It's like, okay,

677
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 1: you like defilement, get it, Okay, there's a couple of

678
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 1: ways that we could do this without maybe not necessarily

679
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 1: using excrement. There's ways that we can do it using excrement.

680
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,799
Speaker 1: Can we actually And I'm let you say it that way,

681
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: because yeah, like so you say it's defilement. So I

682
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 1: actually said that would be my hard limit. I'm not

683
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:26,440
Speaker 1: interested in scat play, But if I were to come

684
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:29,479
Speaker 1: across a partner who was really into it, what would

685
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,320
Speaker 1: be other options that I could do to still allow

686
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 1: him the pleasure, like what Scott play would do for him.

687
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 1: So a couple of them. When people think Scott, they

688
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 1: just automatically think like the worst thing, like eating ship, right,

689
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,760
Speaker 1: But for some people it's not that. Some it's watching

690
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 1: you go to the bathroom. Maybe it's not flushing the

691
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 1: toilet after you go out to the bathroom. I mean,

692
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 1: it's like right in your town hall recently, where one

693
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 1: of the patrons um and are we have a upper

694
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 1: tier where they can join in the scord. And he

695
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: met a woman on there that allowed him to engage

696
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 1: with her in his play, which I guess is development,

697
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 1: where he face fucked until she threw up and then

698
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: he peted in her mouth and we were all like,

699
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 1: oh t Now, y'all may have heard that in a

700
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:20,319
Speaker 1: five minute clip, but I did really appreciate, Like I'm

701
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:23,240
Speaker 1: laughing about it and joking, but midway through the conversation,

702
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, I am so happy that he found her

703
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:28,359
Speaker 1: on a Horrible Decisions chat where he probably found you know,

704
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: skin folk, And I was like, damn, I get to

705
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 1: explore the ship with you, because I do call it

706
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: WPS white people ship, but I know that's to say, yeah,

707
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 1: I mean, it's only white people should is because they

708
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: have took all of our sex play and narrowed it

709
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 1: into the procreation for their systems, their capitalistic system, and

710
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: so everything outside of that, any fun is like white

711
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 1: people ship. Our jobs when it comes to sex is

712
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 1: to be sexy for their gaze and to have more

713
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: children to work their fucking jobs. You know. So there

714
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: is truth to what you're saying. But I think that

715
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 1: it's time for us to broaden up our scope of

716
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 1: what is our ship like and our ship meaning yours,

717
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 1: your own. You wanted to come on horrible because you've

718
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,399
Speaker 1: got some new ship going on. You came out with

719
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: a line of so we have lunchables. What was the

720
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:28,760
Speaker 1: word you use? Penetratable? Wait wait wait wait they're edible

721
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: to me. I eat us today. Now their body safe.

722
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 1: You shouldn't bite a chunk off. You have some strong

723
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 1: ass teeth. If you can break this to the cone

724
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 1: shorter when I get these veneers, maybe so we Um

725
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 1: y'all know the King nor dil though, yeah, I'm aware

726
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 1: of it. Yeah sometimes with that, I've had a lot

727
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 1: of times. I have spent the last three years with

728
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 1: King um right next to my bed, um in my

729
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:02,440
Speaker 1: suitcase from time to time. UM, and I just it's massive,

730
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: it's massive, And I think I told you this the

731
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:09,919
Speaker 1: last time you're on here. God bless you, just God

732
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 1: bless you. In our growing family and you're growing trampling.

733
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 1: If they hold a lot of sperms, how they can

734
00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 1: support you support your products. So penetrable is something that

735
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: you can penetrate. And we just call it that because

736
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 1: you know, like a pocket pussy, and it's like, you know,

737
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: every let's let everybody do whatever they want to do

738
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 1: us the names that they want to call it. It.

739
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 1: Um looks like a little statue of me um and

740
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 1: so it could be anywhere the art. I mean, it's

741
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 1: like in my likeness, it's not necessarily me and I

742
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:41,919
Speaker 1: call it Jasmine's garden and then you flip and it's

743
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 1: my volva. And it was super intentional to make my

744
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:47,439
Speaker 1: volva the way my volva looks, not like some white

745
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,720
Speaker 1: people should were pre pubescent, like, no, my ship has

746
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 1: it butterfly wings? Did you get the mold where? And well, um,

747
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 1: So we did it a little bit differently. We did

748
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,320
Speaker 1: it through some three D printing with less art, so

749
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: there was a lot of in um. It was a

750
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 1: really really awesome experience to see my body in that

751
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,320
Speaker 1: way and then for us to sit down and have

752
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 1: a conversation where they were like, this is this is

753
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 1: what your pussy looks like? Is this what you would

754
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: like to look at? And I have to wait wait

755
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 1: they literally, well, I mean you know a nice like

756
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 1: you know tech, you know toy terms like this is here,

757
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 1: how do you feel about it? And you know for

758
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,959
Speaker 1: me to like take a moment and go like yeah,

759
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 1: like that's what it looks like. I don't I don't

760
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 1: want a badger plasty. I don't want to botox in it.

761
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: I really would like, wait, you can get botox in

762
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 1: your puss um. You know. I'm not sure if that's

763
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 1: what it's called, but fuller, I know you can get

764
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 1: an I watched the show called Uncoupled on Netflix to

765
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 1: show from the creators of Sex in the City, but

766
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 1: basically one of the dudes like, you're too big to

767
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 1: fuck me, and the guy put botox in his ask

768
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,799
Speaker 1: to relax the muscle or something. It was so I

769
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: know that there's I know that they're is like um

770
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 1: plastic surgery for vaginas, but I didn't want to do that.

771
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 1: I just wanted it to be to be me. You say, king,

772
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 1: they are here fucking you have to make sure be

773
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 1: out here sucking me too. So then the inside of it,

774
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: I had him explained to the artists what it feels

775
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 1: like to be inside of me girl, so that the

776
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 1: artists could create actually did you did you record him

777
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 1: explaining that that, to me would be like all his

778
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 1: voice and his audio he should explain the podcast that

779
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 1: would be launching soon. Yes, and thank you for that idea. Um.

780
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,879
Speaker 1: And then we have a whole line of penetrables what

781
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 1: people usually call dildos. I just want to use what

782
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,120
Speaker 1: it what it actually does. Dildo When you kind of

783
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 1: look back the word, it's a real silly word. Um.

784
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: It was actually used to describe lullabyes. Two babies like, um,

785
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 1: so penetrables, Um, what else? We have a vibration they

786
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 1: do not, they don't. They just yeah, and they function

787
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 1: well with We have a harness for them. Good. I

788
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 1: gotta harness. I travel with it. Yeah, we have a

789
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 1: three and one harness that fits all of them. So

790
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 1: it's my mind was for sex workers. This line is

791
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 1: for anybody to use it, but it's definitely for sex

792
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 1: workers because we need quality toys that last and that

793
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 1: grow with us. It's like you buy your whole kit

794
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 1: and you don't need to revisit it for like another

795
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 1: there's a sex worker making the toys for us. You

796
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying nothing, you know, I don't know

797
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 1: that you'll hear it at in the middle of this

798
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 1: episode where they're like, you know, it's nice to know.

799
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 1: It's kind of like people that make tampons having pussys.

800
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 1: It's a great thing. It is. It's you know, food,

801
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 1: the food Boom model. So um that we have some

802
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,360
Speaker 1: new impact play toys out. So I got some of

803
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:44,399
Speaker 1: that for you, some floggers, a girl contral, these things

804
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:46,319
Speaker 1: that this week. Maybe I don't know if you're not.

805
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 1: What's the site that people can buy one? Just sad

806
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,359
Speaker 1: jain everything and we'll make sure that the description of

807
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 1: that is is in the episode. I'm gonna ask you

808
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 1: before we get out of here. We have time for

809
00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 1: either the Horrible Decision or for Home Male where you

810
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 1: could help us answer questions. I love it only because

811
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 1: to we talked about um, how you talked to you know,

812
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:12,399
Speaker 1: your children, family, everything that was kind of in there.

813
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:14,839
Speaker 1: I said, you touched on it. So we're gonna get

814
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 1: to um our homemail. This one is speaking to male

815
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 1: and securities. So I would love you as a psycho

816
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: therapist to help us with this. What's up Mandy and Wheezy?

817
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 1: So my wife and I thirty and twenty eight with

818
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 1: three kids, are pretty open with communication and honesty. To

819
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 1: be honest, she's bisexual and has had a couple of

820
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 1: threesomes with other women. She has tried to initiate a

821
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: threesome with her female friend and me, but it didn't

822
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 1: work out anyway. Recently, she told me that she wanted

823
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 1: to fund another chick that she also found attractive, and

824
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 1: said that she wouldn't be mad if I smashed this

825
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:55,279
Speaker 1: chick as well. Here's the thing you write. As a male,

826
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 1: I used to be a home before marriage. I do

827
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 1: not want this freedom one. I will never be okay

828
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 1: with her having another dick inside of her, especially if

829
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 1: it's bigger than mine. She said, the deep down she'd

830
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: want to have other dick, but to be a hundred.

831
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:14,720
Speaker 1: That killed myself confidence and made me feel inadequate. Look,

832
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:17,800
Speaker 1: I'm short five seven with about a five and a

833
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 1: half to six inch curb dick, so below averaging height

834
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 1: and below averaging dick. Let's be real, how can I

835
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:27,399
Speaker 1: not feel inadequate? So here's the thing, y'all always talk

836
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: about loving big dick, So as a man who ain't

837
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:32,759
Speaker 1: blessed like that, how can I ever be okay with

838
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 1: her taking a bigger dick any other dick, and not

839
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 1: feel like a man. In my eyes, that man is

840
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:41,240
Speaker 1: better no matter what, Like I should lower my voice

841
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 1: if he caring around magnums and I'm carrying around regular trojans.

842
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:47,399
Speaker 1: I could never see her the same, and truthfully, I'd

843
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 1: resent her for moaning on another dick, which is ironic.

844
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: It took forever for my partner to be okay with

845
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:54,879
Speaker 1: how I moaned with the King Dick, and we talked

846
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: about it so um she said, h he said, bro,

847
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 1: just leave me at this point, even though we've been

848
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 1: together for seven plus years, she's even said she's down

849
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:08,280
Speaker 1: to start swinging. I respect her honesty, but I really

850
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 1: don't know how to get it out of my head.

851
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:11,800
Speaker 1: She even told me there's a guy she wished she

852
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: could still to this day fuck, but she doesn't want

853
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:17,760
Speaker 1: to leave me for him. How shitty does that sound?

854
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: Or am I being a bit? They used to work

855
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 1: together and all that, but she but she reassured me

856
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 1: that ain't nothing. Here we go, he's wrapping it up.

857
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 1: To wrap it up. I'm completely okay with her. Fucking women.

858
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:31,280
Speaker 1: All she wants, I do not have to be involved

859
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 1: in any way. She even had a full blown girlfriend

860
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 1: during our marriage, which I had no role in because

861
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 1: obviously still being her husband and all that. A lot

862
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 1: of men feel this way but won't admit to it

863
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 1: as women. Be real, Am I doing too much? He

864
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 1: also asks, um, if that's a whole another story, I'm

865
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 1: gonna say that for another But in terms of insecurities

866
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:56,840
Speaker 1: of a man coming into where now you do have

867
00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 1: a partner that's open about her sexuality, the things she

868
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: like to introduce. What advice would you get give to

869
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,320
Speaker 1: I would say a male or woman in this case,

870
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: Um to insecurities regarding your partner or your own shortcomings.

871
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:15,800
Speaker 1: So his last question, am I doing too much? Yeah?

872
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 1: I think he is over overthinking, overthinking, overthinking, And you

873
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 1: know my first thought is none of that belongs to

874
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 1: his wife. None of that belongs to his wife. She's

875
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 1: being honest about what she would like. She's being honest

876
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,359
Speaker 1: about like, if this is your limit, then I can

877
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:36,240
Speaker 1: respect that limit. I would like to do those things,

878
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 1: but you would not like that, so I will respect

879
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 1: the container of our marriage. That's all his work. How

880
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: he feels about his penis how he feels about how

881
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 1: it is in comparison to other people how his dick

882
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:53,959
Speaker 1: is where his manhood starts and ends. That is all

883
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 1: his I would suggest that he stepped back from the

884
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: I think his wife is bringing those insecurities out, like

885
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,319
Speaker 1: his relationship to his wife and her sexuality is bringing

886
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 1: those insecurities out. But he needs to take that whole thing,

887
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 1: that whole right up that he gave and go find

888
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:11,840
Speaker 1: himself somebody to work with on those insecurities as it

889
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 1: relates to himself, because that's too much for her to

890
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 1: have to try to figure out with him. And I

891
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:19,800
Speaker 1: don't think that he can figure that out by himself,

892
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 1: and he shouldn't have so he doesn't have to. It's

893
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 1: interesting that you say that because I the advice that

894
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: I want to say, and before I give advice, I

895
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 1: would like to say to any of our male listeners,

896
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 1: where we've sat here and said we're size queens, a

897
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 1: lot of my friends do like smaller dicks, and so

898
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: I don't want any man listening to the show to

899
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:42,719
Speaker 1: feel berated or like we're saying that they're not as

900
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 1: much of a man because they have a small dick.

901
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:48,239
Speaker 1: There's a lot of women that do prefer that. In

902
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 1: the same way, I'm like girl, I don't know how

903
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:57,919
Speaker 1: you could do you know, big, I don't. I don't

904
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:00,359
Speaker 1: want to ever because we come on the show and

905
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 1: speaks so highly of big dicks to feel like you're

906
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:04,840
Speaker 1: not a man with a little dick, because that's not

907
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:07,399
Speaker 1: the truth. Know that that the size of your dick

908
00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: does not make your man period there at all. It

909
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 1: has It's like you're a man with a right, so

910
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 1: gets your money that girl girl, So it's it's okay,

911
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:33,840
Speaker 1: he goesth that God is fair. Uh so no, I

912
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 1: and and respect your preference. But there are things that

913
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: I don't do with my partner because this dick is big. Right.

914
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,280
Speaker 1: We do a lot of things, but we don't do everything.

915
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:43,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, if that's what she wants, like, go ahead,

916
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 1: put it there, don't put it in mind, you know,

917
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 1: Like I don't do a no with him. We could do.

918
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:51,359
Speaker 1: We we gather, but a lot of women do, a

919
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: lot of women do. We have a library of women

920
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 1: that doing. I'm just like, that's like great, Like your

921
00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 1: body is different and I'm so glad that I get

922
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 1: to have this outer body experience with my partner in

923
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 1: your ass, like I love that. I can't do it though,

924
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: you know now I agree, and um, I think that

925
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: what he's saying actually holds true to just a lot

926
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 1: of relationships, right, Like I've been to where I think

927
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:18,720
Speaker 1: I've had a partner who was open to doing things

928
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:20,920
Speaker 1: and I thought he was gonna be able to put

929
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,239
Speaker 1: his ego aside, and I've had to step in and

930
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 1: be like, you're not ready, Like I don't want you

931
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 1: to feel pressured to going to a sex club or

932
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: to bringing other people in, or for because you we

933
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,799
Speaker 1: brought so many other women in for you to say

934
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 1: it's time for me to bring in a man, so

935
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:39,319
Speaker 1: that you're not ready for that and I'm not and

936
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 1: I know, so don't push it because I know that

937
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 1: you're still not ready for that. And I think that

938
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:47,279
Speaker 1: a part of me would say I would wish that

939
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 1: he would share this with her. Yeah. Absolutely, With a therapist,

940
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:56,360
Speaker 1: you can't emotionally dump on someone, and I feel like

941
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 1: that's a lot of dumping and a lot of pressure.

942
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,319
Speaker 1: I think you gotta figure out what to start with first,

943
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 1: and again, like with therapy, because if I read that

944
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 1: with someone I was with, I'd be like, that was

945
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:11,279
Speaker 1: even a lot. She's probably already feeling a lot of

946
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:13,879
Speaker 1: that already. You know, I bet that there's a lot

947
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 1: of projection already onto onto their relationships. So maybe this

948
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 1: would be like, oh, that's what's going on, um, but

949
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 1: definitely that's what he needs to he needs to work. Well.

950
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:27,400
Speaker 1: Good luck to you, uh Jasmine. Please let everyone know

951
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:29,600
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952
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964
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 1: Backslash Horribor Decisions, Thank you guys so much again for

965
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 1: tuning in too. You had another episode of Corbor Decisions.

966
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 1: All of our most popular episodes we've ever had were

967
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 1: guests with disabilities, and I think it's because you know,

968
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 1: everybody's curious. We all want to know, and it's like

969
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Speaker 1: this is like our secret way of figuring out this

970
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:25,439
Speaker 1: is your dick work. I don't wanna keep it funky

971
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 1: with you. Listen. I was finding core injury when I

972
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:34,759
Speaker 1: was eighteen. I was um in a football scholarship and

973
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:36,880
Speaker 1: a lady was texting and driving and ran me off

974
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 1: the road right after practice and I broke my naked

975
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: in two places. Now, your name is Fletcher, let's start

976
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:47,439
Speaker 1: with that. You You're known on i G as Rolling

977
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:50,800
Speaker 1: on Faith, but some people call you the wheelchair Nomad.

978
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:52,800
Speaker 1: Is that right? Yeah? Correct, Creig. Yeah, I obtain the

979
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 1: nick name the wheelchair Nomad because I do a lot

980
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:57,880
Speaker 1: of traveling and moving and grooving. How long have you

981
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,879
Speaker 1: been to say, like, how are you? Um? Thirty one,

982
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:03,759
Speaker 1: twelve twelve, my birthday coming up thirty two, I know, right,

983
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 1: get oh real? UM? I know you said, like you know,

984
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 1: the texting and driving, which is it's so crazy because

985
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:18,040
Speaker 1: we we take for granted so much, like we're like technology,

986
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:19,919
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and like actually just having

987
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:23,160
Speaker 1: an experience just to drive and not text people can't

988
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 1: do anymore. When when it happened to you, did you

989
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 1: think that there was a chance that you would walk again?

990
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:32,759
Speaker 1: Like what was that experience? Like, oh, well, of course

991
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 1: you don't say, being eighteen years you know, you have

992
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 1: the idealization like damn, like I really can't walk, you

993
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, and especially being an athlete, like

994
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 1: I've a lot on my physical capabilities my entire life,

995
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:45,839
Speaker 1: and I was blessing up to receive a football scholarship,

996
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:48,120
Speaker 1: and then when my physical ability were taken away, I

997
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:49,880
Speaker 1: was like, damn, what I'm gonna do now? But you know,

998
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,759
Speaker 1: unfortunately my parents are still education inside of me. So

999
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:54,839
Speaker 1: I went back to college and I got a degree

1000
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,319
Speaker 1: in computer science. But it was it was tough in

1001
00:53:57,360 --> 00:54:00,200
Speaker 1: the beginning, and because that's the main goal, is like, right,

1002
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:01,400
Speaker 1: I need to walk. I need to walk. I need

1003
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 1: to walk. I need to walk. But then you start

1004
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 1: to learn what it really means to be paralyzed. It

1005
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:07,759
Speaker 1: was like before I walked, maybe I should learn how

1006
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 1: to put my shirt on first, Maybe I should learn

1007
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 1: how to get myself dressed. You know, it's like levels

1008
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:14,479
Speaker 1: to it. It ain't just like not being able to walk.

1009
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:19,320
Speaker 1: What were basic things that you like that we're super frustrating.

1010
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:20,879
Speaker 1: I'm sure you you know what I mean. It's been

1011
00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 1: what thirteen years now, thirteen years? Yep? What was something

1012
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:28,480
Speaker 1: basic that you were like, funk, I can't do this

1013
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:32,280
Speaker 1: and it was difficult for you. Basic needs with yourself

1014
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 1: in the beginning are like now that I'm thirty thirty one,

1015
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 1: because it changed, it changed throughout the times, so like,

1016
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 1: you know, like being honest, like when I was eighteen,

1017
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 1: I got hurt and then you paralyzed. First day a thing,

1018
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:50,319
Speaker 1: Can I still have sex? Like that's the first day

1019
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 1: you started thinking? That was that young? When did you

1020
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 1: start working now that you can't tell nobody, but I

1021
00:54:56,360 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 1: lost propertinity in fourteen? That ain't there, man, it is?

1022
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:02,560
Speaker 1: That's too You want to be doing what I was doing.

1023
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:06,320
Speaker 1: I yeah, I got here for the first time in

1024
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:09,919
Speaker 1: seven grade and I lost my regine in the eighth grade. Yeah,

1025
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:13,279
Speaker 1: that sounds about you didn't think it's your dick on work?

1026
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 1: But did it work? What's so? That's what you know?

1027
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 1: You go to the doctors and they give you all

1028
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 1: the you know, the blue diamonds and all the sealysis

1029
00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 1: and all that stuff. So you know, everybody's body is different,

1030
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 1: So what it might work for media? Oh yeah, you

1031
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 1: get it right to it. Well, I was still a

1032
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:32,040
Speaker 1: fresh in my injury. So like after like a year

1033
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 1: of like all right, before you start thinking about that,

1034
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 1: let's work on therapy, you know what I'm saying. So

1035
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: after that accident, you went a year then not having

1036
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 1: sex because they wanted to do I would say, I

1037
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:45,799
Speaker 1: would say, like a year. I would say, like a

1038
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:49,799
Speaker 1: year and a half. Yeah, did you did you have

1039
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 1: any excess that uh you were working before the injury

1040
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 1: that came back and sucked you after the injury, not

1041
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 1: to give you penny pussy, not not not not before,

1042
00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 1: not before and after. I wish, but not before and after.

1043
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: So like unfortunately the situation I was involved in just

1044
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 1: being young, she ended up breaking up with me and

1045
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 1: when I was in the hospital, and uh no she didn't.

1046
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 1: I don't even call it that. She good, She good people.

1047
00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:17,879
Speaker 1: She was just young. How did you do it? How

1048
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 1: did she do it? No? Her? Uh yeah, I ain't

1049
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:22,719
Speaker 1: that type of nigga. I can't do it like that,

1050
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:24,920
Speaker 1: Like I can't, you know what it's like it that's

1051
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:28,319
Speaker 1: still my homie. She was just like because I was

1052
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:30,800
Speaker 1: a freshman in college. She was a senior in high school.

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Speaker 1: And she was just like, you know, Flitch, everybody's been

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Speaker 1: coming up to me, how to flitch house, Flitch. I've

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Speaker 1: had to check in the therapy. I can't. I just

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Speaker 1: need a break from everything, you know. I of think

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Speaker 1: is best if we just you know, take some time apart.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, which, I mean, I see you,

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Speaker 1: Like I didn't like to like this at the time,

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Speaker 1: but it is at least wait till I got to

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Speaker 1: a regular room. That part. I'm like, there, she could

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Speaker 1: have waited a little bit, but I get it, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like being that quote unquote star

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Speaker 1: an athlete and then being paralyzed, you think, you know,

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Speaker 1: she eighteen, She don't have to take care of this, nigga,

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Speaker 1: she don't have to do this. You don't have to

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Speaker 1: do that. But then the Nikkel boss stuff, and was like, okay, damn,

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Speaker 1: maflet's you right here doing these things.