WEBVTT - ADHD pt 2

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, everyone, In case you're listening to these episodes out

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<v Speaker 1>of order, we gave a heads up in episode one

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<v Speaker 1>that we have a kind of a grown up talk

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<v Speaker 1>about ADHD in these two episodes, So we wanted to say,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're a parent with a kid who has ADHD,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe listen to it yourself first before you share it

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<v Speaker 1>with them. On with the.

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<v Speaker 2>Show, Welcome to Stuff you Should Know, a production of iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh and there's

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<v Speaker 1>Chuck and Jars here again and we're starting up part

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<v Speaker 1>two of our double episode on ADHD.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right, And if you remember in part one we

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<v Speaker 3>discussed ADHD.

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<v Speaker 2>Some people have it, some.

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<v Speaker 3>People don't, and we're going to talk right now about

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<v Speaker 3>how you can figure that out, and that's called diagnosis.

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<v Speaker 3>Right now, where we are scientifically is that the biggest

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<v Speaker 3>factor on whether or not you have ADHD or not

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<v Speaker 3>is hereditary. If you have kids and you have ADHD

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<v Speaker 3>as a parent, your kid has about a fifty percent

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<v Speaker 3>chance of having it as well. And like we mentioned

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<v Speaker 3>in the first part, a lot of adults from especially

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<v Speaker 3>our generation Gen Xers, are now getting diagnosed in their

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<v Speaker 3>thirties forties, fifties because they found out that their kid

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<v Speaker 3>has ADHD and they're like, wow, little Chucky Junior looks

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<v Speaker 3>a lot like big Chucky.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a symptom. I thought that was charming exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Cattle's a bug.

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<v Speaker 1>And even if they don't recognize it in them, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a one hundred percent chance that their spouse will be like,

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<v Speaker 1>I really think you have this too.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but there are some other factors, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, there's issues during pregnancy, that's a big one, usually

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<v Speaker 1>exposure to alcohol or tobacco, premature delivery, if you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>weigh very much when you were born, if you were

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<v Speaker 1>exposed to lead as a kid, if you had a

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<v Speaker 1>brain injury as a kid. There's a lot of concern

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<v Speaker 1>about some other stuff. I think you said at the

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<v Speaker 1>very outset of part one. There isn't any research that

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<v Speaker 1>suggests watching too much TV or living in a go

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<v Speaker 1>go go world. There is some research that suggests that

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<v Speaker 1>blue number one and Blue number two food dies may

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<v Speaker 1>actually at least exacerbate ADHD symptoms, But for the most part,

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<v Speaker 1>they think it's a combination of genetics, the environment you

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<v Speaker 1>were raised in, and then possibly like actual environmental factors

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<v Speaker 1>like being exposed to lead or your mom, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>smoking when she was pregnant with you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and just to kind of clear up the TV

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<v Speaker 3>and the screen thing, watching TV or being on screens

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<v Speaker 3>too much or too much TV quote unquote isn't going

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<v Speaker 3>to help give you ADHD, but there is a connection there.

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<v Speaker 3>If you are a kid with ADHD, the pool toward

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<v Speaker 3>a screen is going to be way stronger than a

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<v Speaker 3>kid who doesn't have it. That short attention span is

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<v Speaker 3>gonna really crave like the flashy graphics that video games

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<v Speaker 3>or cartoons can deliver you, it'll deliver that steady dose

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<v Speaker 3>of dopamine. They've done studies, it was. I found one

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<v Speaker 3>a large study of five year olds that compared tension

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<v Speaker 3>span of kids who watched less than thirty minutes per

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<v Speaker 3>day of TV with those who spent more than two

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<v Speaker 3>hours in front of a TV, and of course we

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<v Speaker 3>mean you know, screens basically.

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<v Speaker 2>And pretty dramatic results.

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<v Speaker 3>The kids who watched the most TV had almost an

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<v Speaker 3>eight times more of a chance of meeting the ADHD

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<v Speaker 3>diagnosis criteria, and it even outranked other things that cause

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<v Speaker 3>attention problems like you know, lack of sleep or parents

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<v Speaker 3>stress eutonomic stress stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's a link. It's not going to get you ADHD.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you have a kid with ADHD, then you

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<v Speaker 3>should probably just monitor screens even more. You know, you

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<v Speaker 3>should be doing that anyway, but maybe even more so.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because those sites are designed to release dopamine and

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<v Speaker 1>train you to come back and do it again and

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<v Speaker 1>again and again. And so kids with ADHD who don't

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<v Speaker 1>normally have a flood of dopamine when they get it,

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<v Speaker 1>they really learn to do that thing that gives them

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<v Speaker 1>that dopamine, which again doesn't give you like a feel

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<v Speaker 1>good rush, It just comes along with that and tells

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<v Speaker 1>your brain this is a really important thing to do,

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<v Speaker 1>so do it again and again and again.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>It's also like the age of your kid is really

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<v Speaker 3>important when you're trying to diagnose if you're pre preschool

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<v Speaker 3>aged or younger or I guess that counts as all

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<v Speaker 3>ages younger than preschool, but.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>That that can be a lot tougher because there are

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<v Speaker 3>other developmental delays that may look like ADHD that change

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<v Speaker 3>and you may not be able to get a good

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<v Speaker 3>diagnosis until they're you know, six, seven, eight, years old,

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<v Speaker 3>and even when they're older, like you know, teenagers.

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<v Speaker 2>You got to rule out a lot of stuff like.

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<v Speaker 3>Learning disabilities, mood disorders, if you have like vision or

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<v Speaker 3>hearing problems or a sleep disorder. A lot of that

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<v Speaker 3>stuff can can fool you into thinking you have ADHD.

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<v Speaker 2>So it can be tricky, it can be.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's two lists. There's an inattentive list and then

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<v Speaker 1>there's a hyperactive list. Yeah, and each one has I

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<v Speaker 1>think nine like criteria things like you know, you lose

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<v Speaker 1>things frequently, you appear to zone out while people are

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<v Speaker 1>talking to you, stuff like that. And if you have

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<v Speaker 1>six out of the nine on the inattentive list, you

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<v Speaker 1>have inattentive type ADHD. If you have six out of

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<v Speaker 1>nine on the hyperactive list, you have hyperactive type ADHD.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you're really running up the numbers and you've

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<v Speaker 1>got six of nine on inattentive and six of nine

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<v Speaker 1>on hyperactive, you've got the combined version of ADHD. Adults,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the same thing, although the criterias adjusted a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>For you know, runs around rambunctiously in class. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>do that, but say you feel restless at it during

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<v Speaker 1>meetings like it's really hard to sit still.

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<v Speaker 2>You may be mentally doing that exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>I would love to jump up and spin in a circle,

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<v Speaker 3>right right, But a kid will actually do that. Where's

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<v Speaker 3>the adult in the meeting will just struggle through that exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So the criteria is essentially the same, it's just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of adjusted for adults, and then for adults it's five

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<v Speaker 1>of nine yeah, for either lists. And then also with kids.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're diagnosing kids, you look at their educational records,

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<v Speaker 1>you talk to their parents, you talk to the guidance counselors.

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<v Speaker 1>You get as much information as you possibly can to

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<v Speaker 1>properly diagnose somebody with ADHD, because there's not one like

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<v Speaker 1>here's our ADHD test, whether it's a blood test or

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<v Speaker 1>a written test. You're basically pulling all of these disparate

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<v Speaker 1>info together to put together like, Okay, this kid has

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<v Speaker 1>ADHD and it's this kind Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's why you know, parent teacher conferences are super valuable.

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<v Speaker 2>I think when you first start to have to do

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<v Speaker 2>that stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>You're just like, oh God, kill me, I gotta seriously, like,

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<v Speaker 3>because your experience is from when you're a kid, Like

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<v Speaker 3>what a waste of time.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's not at all.

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<v Speaker 3>When you go in there as a parent, you know

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<v Speaker 3>how your kid is at home. You don't know how

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<v Speaker 3>they are at school because you don't have a little

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<v Speaker 3>camera in their classroom where you can just sit around

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<v Speaker 3>and watch what they're like.

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<v Speaker 2>So rich parents do, right, Yeah, maybe so, but.

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<v Speaker 3>You can really glean Like I think when you have

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<v Speaker 3>challenges with a kid at home as a parent, you're

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<v Speaker 3>dying to know if it's just you or if it's

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<v Speaker 3>just the way it is at home. In other words,

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<v Speaker 3>obviously not just the parent's fault, but you're wondering. So

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<v Speaker 3>you're you're like when we get in there with Ruby's teachers,

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<v Speaker 3>we're always just like, so, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>What was she like? Does she have trouble with this

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<v Speaker 2>or that?

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<v Speaker 3>And sometimes it's like, yeah, she has the same trouble

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<v Speaker 3>with this or that at home, And sometimes it's like no,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not at all at school.

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<v Speaker 2>And so it's really super enlightening.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that is super enlightening. Does it make you feel

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<v Speaker 1>better or is it more just like it just answers

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<v Speaker 1>the question that you have.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just I think you know, knowledge is power, So

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<v Speaker 3>just knowing that stuff that.

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<v Speaker 2>Dude, we should start doing that with you and Jerry.

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<v Speaker 2>They needed to be adult versions of parent teacher conferences.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a great idea, you know, I would be

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<v Speaker 1>so anxious.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, it'd be good. We do it over drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. One other thing, you can find a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>really great accurate diagnostic tests on sites like TikTok, which

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<v Speaker 1>have lots of misspelled words in the title. So those

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<v Speaker 1>are always really great to test whether you have ADHD

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<v Speaker 1>or not.

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<v Speaker 3>Be aware of that. I mean, social media stuff can help.

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<v Speaker 3>There's lots some good resources. But what was that study?

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<v Speaker 3>Like half of that stuff on TikTok was just wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if I think fifty two yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>When it came to this, yeah, more than half.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So one of the big questions that we're still

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<v Speaker 1>answering today, and if you haven't picked up that we

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a full grasp of ADHD in any way,

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<v Speaker 1>shape or form yet. That's correct. But one of the

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<v Speaker 1>factors that we're trying to figure out is the prevalence

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<v Speaker 1>of ADHD among kids and among adults, and it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of all over the map. It does seem like we're

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<v Speaker 1>starting to kind of zero in a little bit. We're

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<v Speaker 1>figuring out like the criteria to really like to really

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<v Speaker 1>diagnose ADHD, and it seems like the numbers are starting

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<v Speaker 1>to get a little smaller as time goes on and

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<v Speaker 1>we get a little better with recognizing ADHD.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and correct me if I'm wrong, because I know

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<v Speaker 3>that you found some other numbers, but we'll just go

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<v Speaker 3>through them and you can just say.

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<v Speaker 2>If I'm wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>Between ages of three and seventeen, so school age kids

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<v Speaker 3>in the US United States of America, around ten percent

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<v Speaker 3>have been diagnosed with ADHD. That number does get bigger

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<v Speaker 3>with age because a lot of times you won't get

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<v Speaker 3>tested until a little later, and some you know, diagnostic

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<v Speaker 3>testing requires money, and sometimes a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you can do.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a just a sort of a psychiatric evaluation maybe

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<v Speaker 3>if your kids go into a therapist or something, and

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<v Speaker 3>they may just look at criteria and ask a few questions.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you want like.

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<v Speaker 3>A real deal diagnostic diagnostic evaluation, like those aren't cheap.

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<v Speaker 3>And that sucks because, like these numbers are kids who

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<v Speaker 3>have been diagnosed because they were able to be diagnosed.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm sure there are a lot of situations where

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<v Speaker 3>that's not possible.

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<v Speaker 1>There's also a shortage of psychiatrists in the United States,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's often there's a long wait list to even

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<v Speaker 1>be seen from that psychiatrist, so you have to pay

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money too. Not all psychiatrists specialize in ADHD,

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<v Speaker 1>so you really need to find from an even like

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<v Speaker 1>smaller pool to choose from of psychiatrists. And then also

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<v Speaker 1>once they diagnose you that the outlay of money is

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<v Speaker 1>not over there, like you have to keep seeing them

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<v Speaker 1>and they charge you every time for that. And psychiatrists

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<v Speaker 1>are medical doctors, so their fees are not on the

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<v Speaker 1>par or on the order of a psychologist or a therapist.

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<v Speaker 1>They're four or five times more on average. Probably I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pulling that out of thin air, but it's very clear

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<v Speaker 1>that you're going to pay more for your psychiatrists than

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<v Speaker 1>you would for a therapist.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Generally still boys are more likely to get that diagnosis

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<v Speaker 3>than girls, about thirteen percent to six percent. There's also

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<v Speaker 3>variations by race. I believe the highest percentage Black kids

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<v Speaker 3>are at twelve percent, ten percent for White kids, eight

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<v Speaker 3>percent for Hispanic kids, and three percent for Asian children,

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<v Speaker 3>which is just super interest.

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<v Speaker 1>It is interesting, for sure, and there's got to be

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<v Speaker 1>some clue in there somewhere like, Yeah, that seems like

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<v Speaker 1>there's that's weird that there's a difference because I think

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<v Speaker 1>all of those numbers were for kids in the United States.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was.

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<v Speaker 1>I think globally they've come up within a twenty seventeen

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<v Speaker 1>study across the world that five almost five point three

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<v Speaker 1>percent of kids have ADHD. And there's a there's a

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<v Speaker 1>question like, Okay, is this over diagnosed because I said

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<v Speaker 1>that the prevalence rate seem to be kind of getting

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<v Speaker 1>a little smaller as we zero in better and better.

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<v Speaker 1>But the diagnostic or the rates of diagnosis have really

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<v Speaker 1>picked up where they really did at the beginning of

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<v Speaker 1>the twenty first century. Between two thousand and five and

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<v Speaker 1>twenty fourteen, diagnoses of kids with ADHD doubled, doubled. That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a huge increase doubled. It's almost like one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>percent more.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And you know, there's just no scientific consensus right

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<v Speaker 3>now on whether it's an over diagnosis or whether it's

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<v Speaker 3>just we know more now and there's less stigma. There's

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<v Speaker 3>more kids getting tested now there. You know, the criteria

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<v Speaker 3>changed in twenty thirteen from the DSM four to the

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<v Speaker 3>d S m five as far as that threshold, So

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<v Speaker 3>all of those things probably factor in.

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<v Speaker 2>To the doubling.

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<v Speaker 1>I would think, Yeah, one thing though, if you are

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<v Speaker 1>taking your kid into be tested, make sure that it's

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<v Speaker 1>since they kind of evaluate the kid against the expectations

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<v Speaker 1>of their grade level. If they're young for their grade, Yep,

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<v Speaker 1>that needs to be taken into account because they can

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<v Speaker 1>easily be misdiagnosed because they're actually not at that grade

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<v Speaker 1>level yet, because they're not of that age quite yet,

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<v Speaker 1>even though they're in that grade.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and with COVID kids, you know, potentially missing out

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<v Speaker 3>on depending on what happened where you were, on a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of valuable school. So yeah, it's important to look

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<v Speaker 3>at because because Ruby is young for her grade, so

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<v Speaker 3>in some cases she's like eight or nine months younger

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<v Speaker 3>than some of her classmates. And then when you throw

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<v Speaker 3>even though she did COVID kindergarten, which was a real boon,

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<v Speaker 3>they did their best, they it wasn't like regular school. Still,

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<v Speaker 3>so teachers and educators are having to sort and parents

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<v Speaker 3>are having to sort through all of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Still chuck.

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<v Speaker 1>Just to kind of give a hat tip to some

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners in other countries, I saw that the

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<v Speaker 1>NHS says in the UK five percent of kids have ADHD.

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<v Speaker 1>In Australia they estimate six to ten percent of kids

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<v Speaker 1>have ADHD, Canada rich five to seven percent.

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<v Speaker 2>Not bad eh.

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<v Speaker 1>And then our friends in Germany can expect a percentage

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<v Speaker 1>of four point three three for the number or for

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<v Speaker 1>the percentage of kids that have ADHD in that country.

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<v Speaker 2>Funderbar.

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<v Speaker 1>So what about adults, because as we now realize, adults

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<v Speaker 1>have ADHD too, or they probably had it in childhood

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<v Speaker 1>and it was just undiagnosed and they just didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>diagnosed until later in life. That's typically what happens.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, my friends, let's take a break and find out

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<v Speaker 3>those results right after this.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely should.

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<v Speaker 1>Childhood each other?

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<v Speaker 4>Y s K. Lately I've been learning some stuff about

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<v Speaker 4>insomnia or aluminia. How about the one on border like

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<v Speaker 4>disorder that are nder border that one before, but it

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<v Speaker 4>was so nice I learned this.

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<v Speaker 5>Why everybody listen, all right?

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<v Speaker 3>What a cliffhanger that was our adult listeners on the

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<v Speaker 3>edges of their collective seat seats seat collective seat.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, collective, yeah, because it's collective, collective soul.

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<v Speaker 2>Collective soul. That's a good one.

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<v Speaker 3>The rate of the condition into adulthood is all over

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<v Speaker 3>the map. Some you might look at one thing that

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<v Speaker 3>says about five percent, because you know, that's kind of

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<v Speaker 3>what it is for kids, ish, and then you might

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<v Speaker 3>read something else that said, now like seventy five percent

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<v Speaker 3>adults have it. It's really really startling when you start

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<v Speaker 3>looking into this as an adult. There was a study

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<v Speaker 3>from twenty twenty one that found that it can fluctuate

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<v Speaker 3>over time, and you know, it's kind of what I

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<v Speaker 3>was talking about being on a spectrum. But about nine

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<v Speaker 3>percent of those diagnosed as kids, they said, had quote

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<v Speaker 3>unquot fully recovered in young adulthood. So I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if what that means though that that like our systems

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<v Speaker 3>in place such that they've learned to manage it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's the weird thing is there's no known cure

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<v Speaker 1>for ADHD. All of the stuff that we use for

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<v Speaker 1>is just managing it. But I think one of the

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<v Speaker 1>reasons also that they were like it's just a childhood

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<v Speaker 1>disorder that you outgrow is because some people actually do so.

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<v Speaker 3>You actually can way, so that maybe the nine percent

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<v Speaker 3>or part of that nine percent.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, But to pull one of your old old

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<v Speaker 1>school wards and it seems shinky to me, like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand how. Yeah, I don't understand how you could

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<v Speaker 1>outgrow something that arises from your brain being literally different

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<v Speaker 1>than other people's brains. Yeah, I don't get it. But

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we just don't don't understand it quite yet. But

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<v Speaker 1>it is true. I'm not one hundred percent sure, but

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<v Speaker 1>for the most part, it does seem like if you

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<v Speaker 1>have ADHD as a kid, you have it as an

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<v Speaker 1>adult as well.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and if you're in a adult with ADHD, you're

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<v Speaker 3>probably seeing it play out with organization and focus, you

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<v Speaker 3>know a lot of times with your job, but in

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<v Speaker 3>just in your life as well, because it's always there.

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<v Speaker 3>You might have some pretty severe mood swings. You might

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<v Speaker 3>be a procrastinator a lot of times, you're misdiagnosed because

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<v Speaker 3>it might make you really anxious. So there's like, now

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<v Speaker 3>you have anxiety or it might really bum you out

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<v Speaker 3>with these mood swings, and they might say, oh, you're

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<v Speaker 3>just depressed. All of that could just be ADHD or

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<v Speaker 3>a kill morbidity.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and we'll talk about cole morbidities in a second.

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<v Speaker 1>I got it. But with adults, you know, again, the

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<v Speaker 1>adults don't get up in meetings and run around the

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<v Speaker 1>table and they're like, just go ahead, I'm listening, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Instead great, they're just going to sit there and just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, use all of their energy to not do that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then also to try to focus on what's being said.

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<v Speaker 1>And then girls with ADHD, Chuck, tend to fall through

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<v Speaker 1>the cracks much more frequently for a couple of reasons,

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<v Speaker 1>but the main one that I saw is that girls

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<v Speaker 1>are so expected to be like demure and quiet and

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<v Speaker 1>self possessed that girls learn to mask their symptoms earlier

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<v Speaker 1>than boys do, who can get away with being more

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<v Speaker 1>rambunctious than girls can, so it goes undetected. And then

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<v Speaker 1>finally when they grow up and have a family, there's

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<v Speaker 1>like I can't there's too many plates, I can't do this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just exhausted and I'm not doing any of this

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<v Speaker 1>the way that I'm supposed to be. And they'll usually

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<v Speaker 1>get diagnosed with depression and then anxiety or something like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but if they find the right doctor, they'll be properly

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<v Speaker 1>diagnosed as ADHD.

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<v Speaker 2>For sure.

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<v Speaker 3>You mentioned comorbidities. Autism is a very interesting one. Thirty

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<v Speaker 3>to eighty percent of people with autism spectrum disorder are

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<v Speaker 3>also diagnosed with ADHD. In about twenty to fifty percent

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<v Speaker 3>of people with ADHD also have autism spectrum disorder.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're just like, why aren't they the same percentages?

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<v Speaker 1>But it turns out that ADHD is actually more common

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<v Speaker 1>than autism, so that, yeah, is solved.

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<v Speaker 2>For sure, and there's a lot of overlap there.

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<v Speaker 3>I think before twenty thirteen with the updated criteria in

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<v Speaker 3>the DSM five, they thought that was like a mutually

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<v Speaker 3>exclusive thing, and some people this is much the minority

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<v Speaker 3>for sure, but there are some researchers that do think

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<v Speaker 3>it's just sort of a single condition manifesting in a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of different ways. But most researchers don't think that.

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<v Speaker 3>They think it's like, you know, two separate things that

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<v Speaker 3>live alongside one another a lot of times.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, And Chuck, I just I just realized, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if we've shouted out Livia this whole time yet

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<v Speaker 1>for helping us out with this one. But she did

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<v Speaker 1>a great job.

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<v Speaker 2>She did a great job. And before I forget the other.

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<v Speaker 3>Thing, as far as ADHD and autism spectrum disorder is,

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<v Speaker 3>you're more likely to just do better if you have

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<v Speaker 3>one or the other than if you have both. That

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<v Speaker 3>may feel intuitive, but I think it was you know,

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<v Speaker 3>Bear saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I interrupt and interject that Livia thing.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Depression is another one, Chuck. I think kids with are

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<v Speaker 1>people with ADHD are five times likelier to have depression

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<v Speaker 1>than neurotypical peers, and they're not exactly sure why. A

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people are like, well, it's obvious. I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>it can be a really hard life to have ADHD,

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<v Speaker 1>especially when it's undiagnosed and untreated, so of course people

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<v Speaker 1>have depression. Other people are like, no, we're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>actually like clinical, like brain based depression. It's possible that

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<v Speaker 1>there's actually they share similar roots in the structure of

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<v Speaker 1>the brain, and that might account for it that there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of overlap physically between depression and ADHD.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>And about forty percent of kids, and I think we

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<v Speaker 3>touched on this a little bit in Part one, also

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<v Speaker 3>have anxiety, which just makes it all tougher to deal

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<v Speaker 3>with because it kind of feeds on itself. Thirty to

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<v Speaker 3>fifty percent of kids with ADHD fit the criteria for

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of other conditions, one called oppositional defiant disorder

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<v Speaker 3>and conduct disorder, which we should maybe cover.

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<v Speaker 2>We could probably cover both of those in one episode

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<v Speaker 2>at some.

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<v Speaker 1>Point, we should. Man One of the most heartbreaking things

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever seen in my life was on a plane

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<v Speaker 1>and this kid was just kicking the back of my

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<v Speaker 1>chair and on stop hard. And I turned around to you, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what the heck's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>You said, don't Josh, no, right, And.

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<v Speaker 1>The parents were there with them, and they just gave

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<v Speaker 1>me a look like what do you want us to do?

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<v Speaker 1>We can't do anything. Yeah, And I've never seen two

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<v Speaker 1>people look more tired and more defeated in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>And their kid was probably only three or four, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was just like, like I still today, I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel so bad for those people because that's your kid,

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<v Speaker 1>and like there's not a lot of understanding or treatment

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<v Speaker 1>with that, and certainly not out in the general public,

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<v Speaker 1>who turns around like you know, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Why is your kid doing that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>And in the old days, like you would tie your

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<v Speaker 3>kid to a plane seat or something a barbaric like.

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<v Speaker 1>That, yeah, which I'm sure helps a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So.

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<v Speaker 3>If you don't have ADHD, like me, It helps you

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<v Speaker 3>grow older because you do get a little wiser and

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<v Speaker 3>you do gain empathy, hopefully at least I have. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so it's hard to put yourself in someone's shoes until

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<v Speaker 3>you are close to someone with ADHD and then it,

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<v Speaker 3>like I said, it really benefit it's everyone you can

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<v Speaker 3>if you can lead with empathy and understanding, like in

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<v Speaker 3>your case with that kid even and that's coming from

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<v Speaker 3>someone with ad ADHD recognizing maybe this behavior and a kid.

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<v Speaker 3>But it can be hard if you don't have it

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<v Speaker 3>to understand this stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So people like low empathy generally with people walking

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<v Speaker 1>around who know about autism or probably like yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's that has to do with autism. Turns out it's

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<v Speaker 1>a huge symptom with ADHD too, and probably the exact

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<v Speaker 1>same stuff applies to people with autism. But with ADHD,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not that you don't care, you couldn't care less

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. You do care. You just either lack the

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<v Speaker 1>ability to, like you said, put yourself in that person's situation,

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<v Speaker 1>so your empathy can be triggered, or you lack emotional empathy,

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<v Speaker 1>which is where you're like, oh man, that's terrible that

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<v Speaker 1>that happened to you, but I'm not feeling empathy, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel it. That's the difference. They're not sure

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<v Speaker 1>how many people with ADHD have low empathy and exactly

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<v Speaker 1>how it works, but it is a huge problem because again,

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<v Speaker 1>like they're if you can't if you can't empathize with people,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a basic human thing, and that will really cut

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<v Speaker 1>down on the number of connections you have with people.

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<v Speaker 1>Because if somebody's telling you something and they've just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>inserted that pop like the end of it, and like

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<v Speaker 1>this is what happened, and you're like, oh uh, like

0:25:31.320 --> 0:25:33.960
<v Speaker 1>you're just taking their words at face value and you're

0:25:34.040 --> 0:25:37.479
<v Speaker 1>losing the emotional component. It's missing, it's not landing on you.

0:25:38.000 --> 0:25:40.320
<v Speaker 1>And they're just like, well, what is wrong with you?

0:25:40.359 --> 0:25:40.439
<v Speaker 4>What?

0:25:40.640 --> 0:25:42.600
<v Speaker 1>Like you did you not hear what I just said?

0:25:43.119 --> 0:25:45.160
<v Speaker 1>And you can stop and think about it and be like, oh, yeah,

0:25:45.240 --> 0:25:49.400
<v Speaker 1>that's crazy, but like in the moment, it's not, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, totally another And this is something I never

0:25:54.000 --> 0:25:57.439
<v Speaker 3>knew anything about until we started researching this, but false

0:25:57.520 --> 0:25:59.919
<v Speaker 3>memory or falty memory can.

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<v Speaker 2>Be issue if you have ADHD.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's not just well I just don't remember things

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<v Speaker 3>as they really were.

0:26:09.520 --> 0:26:12.639
<v Speaker 2>It can literally be like a false memory.

0:26:12.520 --> 0:26:16.119
<v Speaker 3>They've done tests with kids and they showed that kids

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<v Speaker 3>with ADHD are much more likely to remember things that

0:26:19.600 --> 0:26:21.919
<v Speaker 3>weren't on a list. And this is sort of the

0:26:21.960 --> 0:26:26.040
<v Speaker 3>key here. Not only that, but be really emphatic that

0:26:26.080 --> 0:26:30.040
<v Speaker 3>those memories were correct and trying to defend those memories.

0:26:30.119 --> 0:26:33.560
<v Speaker 3>And that can be not only a frustration, but a

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<v Speaker 3>real challenge, especially as you get into adulthood to sort

0:26:37.080 --> 0:26:40.840
<v Speaker 3>of be able to construct your autobiography of who you are,

0:26:40.920 --> 0:26:42.960
<v Speaker 3>because that's all based on your memories.

0:26:43.720 --> 0:26:46.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because if you can accept that you have false

0:26:46.320 --> 0:26:49.880
<v Speaker 1>memories and that you embellish stuff that you don't remember

0:26:50.200 --> 0:26:52.880
<v Speaker 1>inadvertently you don't know that you're doing this, you start

0:26:52.920 --> 0:26:55.160
<v Speaker 1>to question all of your memories, like which ones are true,

0:26:55.200 --> 0:26:58.960
<v Speaker 1>which ones are made up. That's a huge problem individually,

0:26:59.000 --> 0:27:02.960
<v Speaker 1>but also as far as relationships go. You're accidentally inadvertently

0:27:03.000 --> 0:27:06.400
<v Speaker 1>gaslighting the people that you're like, no, that totally didn't happen,

0:27:06.520 --> 0:27:10.240
<v Speaker 1>or you said this, I didn't say that. And to

0:27:11.200 --> 0:27:13.440
<v Speaker 1>get to a point where you can trust the other

0:27:13.520 --> 0:27:18.720
<v Speaker 1>person's version of events what you're doing, you're having to

0:27:18.760 --> 0:27:23.800
<v Speaker 1>disavow your own version of reality and rely on somebody

0:27:23.800 --> 0:27:29.000
<v Speaker 1>else's version of reality. And that's probably the hardest mental

0:27:29.040 --> 0:27:32.600
<v Speaker 1>thing a person can do in their life, is abandoned,

0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:36.719
<v Speaker 1>like just like not trust their view of reality and

0:27:36.760 --> 0:27:39.600
<v Speaker 1>be like, okay, I trust your version instead. It's one

0:27:39.640 --> 0:27:41.919
<v Speaker 1>of the hardest things you could possibly ever do. And

0:27:41.960 --> 0:27:45.760
<v Speaker 1>that's what it requires to not accidentally gaslight people and

0:27:45.800 --> 0:27:49.320
<v Speaker 1>not get arguments all the time because your memories are false.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I imagine you know, you keep kind of

0:27:52.320 --> 0:27:54.920
<v Speaker 3>going back to this. How so much of this can

0:27:55.000 --> 0:27:58.600
<v Speaker 3>lead to a lack of ability to connect with people

0:27:58.680 --> 0:28:02.080
<v Speaker 3>in different ways. I imagine when you find your person

0:28:02.320 --> 0:28:05.560
<v Speaker 3>or your person's in your life, it may be maybe

0:28:05.560 --> 0:28:08.399
<v Speaker 3>a smaller number than it would have been otherwise, but

0:28:08.680 --> 0:28:11.439
<v Speaker 3>I'm I would think that maybe some of those connections,

0:28:11.840 --> 0:28:16.080
<v Speaker 3>because so much trust is involved, can be even deeper sometimes.

0:28:16.400 --> 0:28:19.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Oh, for sure, if you can find somebody that

0:28:19.440 --> 0:28:21.439
<v Speaker 1>you feel like you can be yourself around and just

0:28:21.520 --> 0:28:23.439
<v Speaker 1>let your guard down and they accept you as you

0:28:23.520 --> 0:28:27.080
<v Speaker 1>actually are, you hang on to those people for sure.

0:28:27.160 --> 0:28:30.000
<v Speaker 1>And that's true whether you have ADHD or autism. For sure,

0:28:30.200 --> 0:28:33.240
<v Speaker 1>Like if that's how whenever you find those people. But

0:28:33.320 --> 0:28:35.240
<v Speaker 1>it's like you said, they're going to be much fewer

0:28:35.280 --> 0:28:39.440
<v Speaker 1>and farther between because you're lacking that initial easiness of like,

0:28:39.520 --> 0:28:41.160
<v Speaker 1>oh I like you, Oh I like you too, Let's

0:28:41.160 --> 0:28:44.560
<v Speaker 1>start hanging out more and cultivate a friendship naturally without

0:28:44.600 --> 0:28:48.200
<v Speaker 1>even thinking about it. Each relationship is a lot of

0:28:48.240 --> 0:28:51.120
<v Speaker 1>work for people with ADHD. So yeah, of course you're

0:28:51.160 --> 0:28:52.200
<v Speaker 1>going to have fewer of them.

0:28:52.360 --> 0:28:53.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for sure.

0:28:53.840 --> 0:28:55.400
<v Speaker 3>You and these are you know, we're kind of going

0:28:55.400 --> 0:28:56.920
<v Speaker 3>through just sort of like what it's like to live

0:28:56.920 --> 0:29:00.560
<v Speaker 3>with it. So some of these our downers, but you

0:29:00.600 --> 0:29:04.320
<v Speaker 3>are more I believe, twice as likely to be injured

0:29:04.560 --> 0:29:08.480
<v Speaker 3>in life if you have ADHD, which sounds kind of weird,

0:29:08.560 --> 0:29:12.440
<v Speaker 3>but it makes sense. You know, if you're distractive or distracted,

0:29:12.520 --> 0:29:15.880
<v Speaker 3>or if you're impulsive, if you take more risks, that's

0:29:15.920 --> 0:29:18.920
<v Speaker 3>going to lead to more injury in life. There's also

0:29:19.000 --> 0:29:24.320
<v Speaker 3>this very very strange thing called the ADHD sway, where

0:29:24.320 --> 0:29:31.360
<v Speaker 3>it's a literal physical imbalance, a postural imbalance that's associated

0:29:31.400 --> 0:29:35.440
<v Speaker 3>with ADHD, which could be a short stuff on its own, maybe.

0:29:35.960 --> 0:29:39.160
<v Speaker 1>I think so you have found this hilarious video I

0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:42.360
<v Speaker 1>think on Instagram of somebody saying, like, what it's like

0:29:42.400 --> 0:29:47.000
<v Speaker 1>walking next to somebody with ADHD. And because the ADHD

0:29:47.080 --> 0:29:49.560
<v Speaker 1>person will accidentally walk in front of you or walk

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:51.880
<v Speaker 1>like kind of sway too close to you or something

0:29:51.920 --> 0:29:54.880
<v Speaker 1>like that, you end up the guy who's like walking

0:29:54.920 --> 0:29:57.440
<v Speaker 1>along next to this girl who's talking to him, and

0:29:57.520 --> 0:29:59.400
<v Speaker 1>like he ends up having to like climb over like

0:29:59.440 --> 0:30:01.880
<v Speaker 1>a jungle. It ends up having to walk through a

0:30:01.880 --> 0:30:04.760
<v Speaker 1>bush and like all this all this stuff, and the

0:30:04.760 --> 0:30:07.400
<v Speaker 1>person with ADHD is totally oblivious that all this is

0:30:07.440 --> 0:30:10.760
<v Speaker 1>going on. But it's because of that that ADHD sway.

0:30:11.320 --> 0:30:13.240
<v Speaker 1>They don't as far as I know, no one knows

0:30:13.240 --> 0:30:15.200
<v Speaker 1>exactly what it is, but they think it could have

0:30:15.280 --> 0:30:18.520
<v Speaker 1>something to do with the differences in brain structure, has

0:30:18.560 --> 0:30:21.280
<v Speaker 1>something to do with the balance as well, because it's

0:30:21.280 --> 0:30:23.160
<v Speaker 1>in the brain as well as in the ears.

0:30:23.200 --> 0:30:25.320
<v Speaker 2>Fascinating. All right, we're in.

0:30:25.320 --> 0:30:28.280
<v Speaker 3>The act one, two, three, four, five, We're headed toward

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<v Speaker 3>the act six.

0:30:30.440 --> 0:30:33.280
<v Speaker 1>Wow, is this the one where the guns go off?

0:30:33.400 --> 0:30:33.560
<v Speaker 4>Oh?

0:30:33.720 --> 0:30:34.200
<v Speaker 2>I hope not.

0:30:35.000 --> 0:30:37.920
<v Speaker 3>So we're headed toward act six and we will talk

0:30:38.000 --> 0:30:41.920
<v Speaker 3>more about the destruction of masking behaviors right after this.

0:30:42.360 --> 0:30:53.640
<v Speaker 1>Definitely large chrysk.

0:30:54.080 --> 0:30:57.320
<v Speaker 4>Lately, I've been learning some stop about in.

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<v Speaker 1>Volume.

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<v Speaker 4>How about the one on border like disorder orner before

0:31:09.200 --> 0:31:13.760
<v Speaker 4>but it was so nicety e.

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<v Speaker 5>Body listen.

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<v Speaker 4>Stop.

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<v Speaker 1>So Chuck, you promised that we're going to talk about masking.

0:31:29.840 --> 0:31:32.000
<v Speaker 1>So I feel like my back's against the wall. I

0:31:32.000 --> 0:31:34.680
<v Speaker 1>have to start talking about masking, which I will right now.

0:31:34.840 --> 0:31:38.280
<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, are you masking right now?

0:31:38.840 --> 0:31:39.120
<v Speaker 1>Sure?

0:31:39.360 --> 0:31:39.600
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:31:39.800 --> 0:31:44.120
<v Speaker 1>I think at all times people with ADHD mask to

0:31:44.280 --> 0:31:47.640
<v Speaker 1>varying degrees. For sure. I feel very comfortable on the episode.

0:31:47.680 --> 0:31:50.320
<v Speaker 2>But you know, yeah, I didn't mean to put you

0:31:50.360 --> 0:31:51.920
<v Speaker 2>on the spot. I was kind of just joking. What

0:31:52.040 --> 0:31:53.200
<v Speaker 2>is masking? Let me ask you.

0:31:53.160 --> 0:31:57.280
<v Speaker 1>That masking is camouflaging your symptoms to blend in better.

0:31:58.280 --> 0:32:01.440
<v Speaker 3>And how bad can that get? And how bad is

0:32:01.480 --> 0:32:02.480
<v Speaker 3>that for somebody?

0:32:03.080 --> 0:32:06.800
<v Speaker 1>In some ways it's necessary and needed just to navigate

0:32:06.800 --> 0:32:08.600
<v Speaker 1>the world just to blend in and not to blend

0:32:08.600 --> 0:32:11.880
<v Speaker 1>in like don't look at me, but to seem but

0:32:11.960 --> 0:32:14.200
<v Speaker 1>to be able to interact with people in levels that

0:32:14.240 --> 0:32:16.920
<v Speaker 1>they're not like, huh, what's wrong with you? They're paying

0:32:16.960 --> 0:32:19.720
<v Speaker 1>attention instead to what you're saying or you know, the

0:32:20.200 --> 0:32:23.400
<v Speaker 1>value that you have. Yeah, you have to if you

0:32:23.440 --> 0:32:27.240
<v Speaker 1>have ADHD and autism. A lot of neurotypical disorders, if

0:32:27.280 --> 0:32:30.040
<v Speaker 1>not all of them require you to mask to be

0:32:30.080 --> 0:32:32.560
<v Speaker 1>able to just kind of live in the world. Right,

0:32:32.640 --> 0:32:35.880
<v Speaker 1>So in that sense, it stinks. And there's a lot

0:32:35.920 --> 0:32:38.640
<v Speaker 1>of I think you kind of mentioned it either earlier

0:32:38.800 --> 0:32:42.680
<v Speaker 1>in Part one. Some employers are starting to create more neurodiverse,

0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:47.280
<v Speaker 1>inclusive workplaces where it's just like, just be yourself. But traditionally,

0:32:47.400 --> 0:32:49.480
<v Speaker 1>if you want to just make it in the world,

0:32:50.000 --> 0:32:52.840
<v Speaker 1>you have to mask to some degree, right, And so

0:32:53.120 --> 0:32:56.160
<v Speaker 1>in that sense that's okay, or at the very least

0:32:56.240 --> 0:32:59.800
<v Speaker 1>that's not the most insidious version of masking. The problem

0:32:59.840 --> 0:33:03.320
<v Speaker 1>with that is that starts to carry over throughout other

0:33:03.400 --> 0:33:06.320
<v Speaker 1>parts of your life, and you find that you eventually

0:33:06.320 --> 0:33:10.560
<v Speaker 1>develop a version of yourself that you assume other people

0:33:10.600 --> 0:33:12.760
<v Speaker 1>would prefer to be around, and in a lot of

0:33:12.760 --> 0:33:17.120
<v Speaker 1>cases you're probably correct. And so in addition to, you know,

0:33:17.240 --> 0:33:20.840
<v Speaker 1>all of the exhaustingness that it keeps from not you know,

0:33:20.920 --> 0:33:23.200
<v Speaker 1>getting up and running around the conference table during a

0:33:23.240 --> 0:33:25.240
<v Speaker 1>meeting and being like, now go ahead, I'm just keep going,

0:33:25.280 --> 0:33:30.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm listening you. You. Also, your self esteem takes a

0:33:30.560 --> 0:33:33.880
<v Speaker 1>real nose dive because what you're training yourself is that

0:33:34.560 --> 0:33:38.000
<v Speaker 1>your you is not good enough. You have to you

0:33:38.040 --> 0:33:41.000
<v Speaker 1>have to hide yourself for people to accept you or

0:33:41.080 --> 0:33:44.880
<v Speaker 1>value you. That's the most insidious part of masking.

0:33:45.680 --> 0:33:50.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I can't imagine that to even It can get

0:33:50.800 --> 0:33:53.280
<v Speaker 3>so bad where you lose your sense of self because

0:33:53.280 --> 0:33:57.640
<v Speaker 3>you're masking so much. Obviously, something like this can manifest

0:33:57.720 --> 0:34:03.080
<v Speaker 3>in bad ways. Swings, anger, those are symptoms that can

0:34:03.080 --> 0:34:07.880
<v Speaker 3>be associated with ADHD because of the masking, and you know,

0:34:10.239 --> 0:34:16.080
<v Speaker 3>regulating those mood swings. Being unable to to be sort

0:34:16.120 --> 0:34:18.759
<v Speaker 3>of generally in a stable emotional state can be very,

0:34:18.840 --> 0:34:22.480
<v Speaker 3>very challenging, and that takes a lot of energy. And

0:34:22.520 --> 0:34:24.520
<v Speaker 3>that's part of the fatigue that can come along with

0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:29.440
<v Speaker 3>ADHD is you're if you're always on or playing a

0:34:29.520 --> 0:34:31.399
<v Speaker 3>role that you think you should play to fit into

0:34:31.440 --> 0:34:35.279
<v Speaker 3>work or life for the world, it's got to be exhausting.

0:34:35.680 --> 0:34:35.960
<v Speaker 4>It is.

0:34:36.000 --> 0:34:38.480
<v Speaker 1>So you're more irritable, So you're more prone to like

0:34:39.040 --> 0:34:41.840
<v Speaker 1>get mad at somebody who cut you off in traffic,

0:34:41.840 --> 0:34:44.560
<v Speaker 1>whereas like a neurotypical person might be like, huh, that

0:34:44.680 --> 0:34:46.960
<v Speaker 1>guy's having a bad day, or what a jerk or

0:34:47.000 --> 0:34:50.840
<v Speaker 1>something like that. You know, Yeah, you add all this

0:34:50.880 --> 0:34:55.480
<v Speaker 1>stuff together, and research consistently shows that people with ADHD

0:34:55.600 --> 0:34:59.319
<v Speaker 1>have lower self esteem and lower self compassion too than

0:34:59.360 --> 0:35:03.359
<v Speaker 1>neurotypical people. And that's yeah again, like I said, it's

0:35:03.360 --> 0:35:08.120
<v Speaker 1>a really insidious part of ADHD and just being neurodiverse

0:35:08.160 --> 0:35:10.759
<v Speaker 1>in general. Again, it's not just ADHD people who have

0:35:10.800 --> 0:35:15.439
<v Speaker 1>to mask. Anybody who isn't neurotypical will feel like they

0:35:15.480 --> 0:35:18.600
<v Speaker 1>have to mask at least in some situations unless they

0:35:18.600 --> 0:35:23.240
<v Speaker 1>make a conscious decision not to do that. It's almost

0:35:23.320 --> 0:35:25.920
<v Speaker 1>like resisting an impulse and just being like, I am

0:35:25.960 --> 0:35:29.239
<v Speaker 1>going to be me in every situation, and to tell

0:35:29.280 --> 0:35:31.719
<v Speaker 1>you the truth, I'm not even sure that that's possible.

0:35:32.320 --> 0:35:35.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and resisting impulses one of the challenges anyway.

0:35:35.520 --> 0:35:37.520
<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, exactly, good point.

0:35:38.440 --> 0:35:40.560
<v Speaker 3>So you know, as far as families go, we already

0:35:40.560 --> 0:35:43.759
<v Speaker 3>mentioned that that can you know, family members maybe on eggshells.

0:35:44.480 --> 0:35:48.319
<v Speaker 3>There have been studies that have shown that you may

0:35:48.360 --> 0:35:54.040
<v Speaker 3>have a lower parental warmth and especially maternal warmth toward

0:35:54.080 --> 0:35:59.000
<v Speaker 3>a kid with ADHD, which is super sad, more stress,

0:35:59.200 --> 0:36:05.480
<v Speaker 3>more depression they found among among mothers especially, And if

0:36:05.480 --> 0:36:09.399
<v Speaker 3>you have like one neurodiverse child, one kid with ADHD,

0:36:09.520 --> 0:36:11.359
<v Speaker 3>and two or three other kids or just one other

0:36:11.480 --> 0:36:17.000
<v Speaker 3>kid who is neurotypical, that can be really challenging for everybody,

0:36:17.600 --> 0:36:22.160
<v Speaker 3>including the neurotypical kid. And they have found adults with

0:36:22.200 --> 0:36:26.480
<v Speaker 3>ADHD have about a twice as likely a chance of

0:36:26.480 --> 0:36:29.280
<v Speaker 3>getting divorced as a neurotypical couple.

0:36:29.719 --> 0:36:32.719
<v Speaker 1>Right, So, yeah, there's a lot of challenges just in

0:36:33.360 --> 0:36:36.440
<v Speaker 1>living everyday life at home, even not even just at

0:36:36.480 --> 0:36:39.439
<v Speaker 1>work or at the mall or something like that. There's

0:36:39.440 --> 0:36:44.279
<v Speaker 1>some other real bummer downsides to having ADHD. As a population,

0:36:46.080 --> 0:36:51.320
<v Speaker 1>you're very susceptible to addiction because again, like these things

0:36:51.640 --> 0:36:54.000
<v Speaker 1>flood your brain with dopamine, so you learn to do

0:36:54.040 --> 0:36:56.279
<v Speaker 1>those over and over and over again. So it's really

0:36:56.280 --> 0:36:58.600
<v Speaker 1>easy to get addicted to just about anything if you

0:36:58.640 --> 0:37:02.080
<v Speaker 1>have ADHD. There's a study of people who were in

0:37:02.120 --> 0:37:05.719
<v Speaker 1>treatment in the US. I can't remember when it was conducted,

0:37:05.880 --> 0:37:09.400
<v Speaker 1>but they found a quarter of them had ADHD and

0:37:09.560 --> 0:37:12.840
<v Speaker 1>another quarter. Between twenty four percent and sixty two percent

0:37:13.120 --> 0:37:15.759
<v Speaker 1>of homeless people in the US were found to have

0:37:15.840 --> 0:37:22.279
<v Speaker 1>ADHD despite again only maybe three point one percent of

0:37:22.480 --> 0:37:27.600
<v Speaker 1>adults globally having the disorder, so they're disproportionately represented in those.

0:37:27.640 --> 0:37:31.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for surations. So here's the good news, everybody.

0:37:31.640 --> 0:37:35.799
<v Speaker 3>We've been through five acts and a third of some

0:37:35.880 --> 0:37:38.880
<v Speaker 3>good things, some bad things, and real challenges.

0:37:39.280 --> 0:37:42.080
<v Speaker 2>We cried, we laughed, we cried.

0:37:42.200 --> 0:37:45.920
<v Speaker 3>For sure, it's a very, in fact, one of the

0:37:45.960 --> 0:37:50.200
<v Speaker 3>most highly treatable conditions or disorder.

0:37:50.200 --> 0:37:51.879
<v Speaker 2>I don't even like saying disorder, you know.

0:37:51.840 --> 0:37:54.560
<v Speaker 3>But I guess that's how they list it that you

0:37:54.600 --> 0:37:57.719
<v Speaker 3>can have. There are a few things you can do

0:37:57.760 --> 0:38:02.400
<v Speaker 3>treatment wise. There is coaching, there's therapy, and there's medication.

0:38:03.440 --> 0:38:06.560
<v Speaker 3>You may try one of these things, you might try two,

0:38:07.000 --> 0:38:10.960
<v Speaker 3>you might try all three. As an individual or a parent,

0:38:11.040 --> 0:38:14.080
<v Speaker 3>if you're helping your kid through the situation.

0:38:14.440 --> 0:38:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Well that's the most effective usually is all three of those.

0:38:18.040 --> 0:38:20.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, medication can be very effective.

0:38:21.000 --> 0:38:24.480
<v Speaker 3>As of twenty sixteen, sixty two percent of kids in

0:38:24.480 --> 0:38:29.720
<v Speaker 3>the US that are diagnosed were on medication, thirty percent

0:38:29.760 --> 0:38:33.640
<v Speaker 3>of those were only on medication, thirty two percent were

0:38:33.680 --> 0:38:38.440
<v Speaker 3>on medication and behavioral treatment, and fifteen percent shunned the

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<v Speaker 3>medication and just did behavioral treatment.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's kind of understandable for a parent to make

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<v Speaker 1>a decision, and that many parents to make the decision

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't want to put my kid on speed. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because again, like central nervous system stimulants are the go

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<v Speaker 1>to drug for treating ADHD because it really really works.

0:38:59.160 --> 0:39:03.239
<v Speaker 1>It's like flip a light switch, I understand, where like

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<v Speaker 1>just even from the first dose, you're like, oh, this

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<v Speaker 1>is what it feels like to be neurotypical. And one

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<v Speaker 1>of those stimulants that is prescribed one type adderall vivance straterra,

0:39:14.719 --> 0:39:17.799
<v Speaker 1>they are literal amphetamines. So the idea of putting your

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<v Speaker 1>kid on amphetamines really does not sit right with a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of parents, even though the state of understanding the

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<v Speaker 1>consensus in the professional ADHD community, despite a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>non professionals giving contrary advice for information, Yeah, study after

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<v Speaker 1>study has shown that kids on stimulants for ADHD treatment

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<v Speaker 1>do not get addicted to those stimulants, Like it just

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't happen. And then it also doesn't set them up

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<v Speaker 1>for increased addictions later in life, and it may actually decrease.

0:39:59.200 --> 0:40:03.080
<v Speaker 1>Some studies of show the proneness to addiction of other

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<v Speaker 1>stuff later in life even too. And I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be just like a lackey for psychostimulants as ADHD treatment.

0:40:10.200 --> 0:40:13.040
<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of different info out there, but from

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<v Speaker 1>what I could tell when I researched it for this.

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<v Speaker 1>The professional community generally agrees they are not harmful to

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<v Speaker 1>be on, even long term.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there are a couple of kinds. There's immediate release

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<v Speaker 3>medicines that's sort of as needed, like a maybe up

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<v Speaker 3>to four hour effective time window. You may crash really

0:40:36.000 --> 0:40:39.600
<v Speaker 3>hard after that or get really tired or depressed after that.

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<v Speaker 3>There are extended release medications that's sort of the morning

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<v Speaker 3>pill that can last all day. Sometimes sometimes it's six hours,

0:40:47.600 --> 0:40:51.120
<v Speaker 3>sometimes it's up to sixteen. Sometimes people tag team those

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<v Speaker 3>take that pill in the morning and then either as

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<v Speaker 3>needed or in the afternoon or evening one of the

0:40:58.200 --> 0:41:03.600
<v Speaker 3>immediate release medicines. And you have to get screened, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>for something like this. They're going to do like a

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<v Speaker 3>cardiovascular screen for health risks and stuff like that. But

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<v Speaker 3>it's sort of I believe they haven't found link to

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<v Speaker 3>cardiovascular disease, right, But didn't they there was something about

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<v Speaker 3>the heart you found that was contrary to that, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. There's a study in the Journal of the American

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<v Speaker 1>Medical Association that I think from like twenty twenty three

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<v Speaker 1>that was like, actually, we studied some dudes in Sweden,

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<v Speaker 1>and it seems like they were at an increased risk

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<v Speaker 1>of cardiovascular disease from long term psychostimulant use for ADHD.

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<v Speaker 1>So again it's possible that we just don't know enough

0:41:43.840 --> 0:41:45.600
<v Speaker 1>or people haven't been on it long enough. But again,

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<v Speaker 1>these things were developed in the fifties and kids have

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<v Speaker 1>been on them since the seventies eighties at the latest

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<v Speaker 1>when they started putting them on well effectively speed to

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<v Speaker 1>treat this stuff. And there doesn't seem to be a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of research that suggests they are harmful.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, if you don't respond well of those, if the

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<v Speaker 3>side effects are no good, there are other medicines that

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<v Speaker 3>you can take that are not stimulants alpha antagonists sometimes

0:42:14.080 --> 0:42:17.759
<v Speaker 3>sometimes like they found that some medications to treat high

0:42:17.880 --> 0:42:25.200
<v Speaker 3>blood blood pressure like clonidine, have you know, improved ADHD symptoms.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, talk to your doctor if this is

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<v Speaker 3>something you're interested in, and you know, just we're not

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<v Speaker 3>medical professionals, so you know, speak, speak to your doctor

0:42:36.400 --> 0:42:39.440
<v Speaker 3>and like really do some research and dig in. It's

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<v Speaker 3>you know, putting your kid or your adult self on

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<v Speaker 3>a on any kind of medication, it's not something to

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<v Speaker 3>take lightly. So just you know, really really dig in

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<v Speaker 3>there and ask questions.

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<v Speaker 1>For sure, and no no shade on you if you're

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<v Speaker 1>a parent, that's like, I don't care what you say.

0:42:54.760 --> 0:42:57.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm not putting my kid on speed for sure, totally

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<v Speaker 1>totally get that. Like I respect anybody's to about that,

0:43:00.920 --> 0:43:03.000
<v Speaker 1>because it doesn't mean that you don't care about your kid.

0:43:04.160 --> 0:43:06.680
<v Speaker 1>I respect anybody's decision about stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course.

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<v Speaker 1>So I said that the most effective I guess approach

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<v Speaker 1>to treating ADHD is not just medication, but also different

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<v Speaker 1>types of therapy and then also some other interventions like

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<v Speaker 1>exercise and nutrition, and when you put all that together,

0:43:23.800 --> 0:43:27.319
<v Speaker 1>it's much easier to treat ADHD symptoms. And one of

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<v Speaker 1>the first things, especially with kids with ADHD, is family training,

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<v Speaker 1>where you teach the family how to teach the kid

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<v Speaker 1>how to act and behave like what's expected of them,

0:43:39.920 --> 0:43:42.719
<v Speaker 1>what the consequences are, and not just the kid, the

0:43:42.800 --> 0:43:46.160
<v Speaker 1>whole family is supposed to fully understand and be very

0:43:46.160 --> 0:43:49.440
<v Speaker 1>clear on all of the house rules and the structure

0:43:49.480 --> 0:43:53.279
<v Speaker 1>of the family. And I guess so the younger kids

0:43:53.320 --> 0:43:55.920
<v Speaker 1>can effectively tell on the kid with ADHD when he

0:43:56.000 --> 0:44:00.520
<v Speaker 1>misbehaves or she does. And I saw the authoritative parenting

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<v Speaker 1>type is the most effective, which was described as high

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<v Speaker 1>control with high warmth and high support. Oh interesting, but

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<v Speaker 1>also that means okay, so high warmth, right, does that

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<v Speaker 1>mean that some parents make a decision to not be

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<v Speaker 1>warm to their kids, like they think that that's the

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<v Speaker 1>best way to raise kids?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, sadly, sure there are all kinds of parents,

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<v Speaker 3>but I feel like that probably high warmth probably means

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<v Speaker 3>extra warmth, like being really attuned to providing that extra

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<v Speaker 3>warmth would be my.

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<v Speaker 1>Guests on fire, like a furnace of a parent.

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<v Speaker 2>You mentioned exercise.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course, that's good for everybody when it comes to

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<v Speaker 3>mood regulation and your brain functioning at its highest. But

0:44:46.560 --> 0:44:51.040
<v Speaker 3>for sure, if you have ADHD, it can increase dopamine,

0:44:51.920 --> 0:44:55.880
<v Speaker 3>it can improve your executive functioning. If you have a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of pen of energy, especially if you're a kid,

0:44:59.600 --> 0:45:04.279
<v Speaker 3>you know, with hyperactivity, exercise can really can really help

0:45:04.400 --> 0:45:04.880
<v Speaker 3>for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Coaching is another one too, this therapy obviously, but coaching

0:45:10.760 --> 0:45:14.560
<v Speaker 1>is huge in the ADHD community because you're not like, Okay,

0:45:14.680 --> 0:45:16.520
<v Speaker 1>what's wrong with you, Let's figure out all your traumas

0:45:16.520 --> 0:45:18.560
<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that. It's like, okay, you're having trouble

0:45:18.560 --> 0:45:21.359
<v Speaker 1>with time management, Let's figure out what works for you

0:45:21.480 --> 0:45:24.759
<v Speaker 1>for getting better at time management. It's a it's a

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<v Speaker 1>legitimate way to approach ADHD symptoms. So are productive strategies

0:45:30.239 --> 0:45:33.760
<v Speaker 1>where that will probably also come out of coaching sessions.

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<v Speaker 1>And one thing that you'll learn very early on is

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<v Speaker 1>phone calendars that are easily accessed, that you can put

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<v Speaker 1>reminders on all the time, alarms on your phone, anything

0:45:46.040 --> 0:45:48.920
<v Speaker 1>that can remind you can become like second nature to

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<v Speaker 1>use it to really help you navigate ADHD symptoms and

0:45:52.200 --> 0:45:53.640
<v Speaker 1>remember important stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Systems, baby, that's the key, that's right, Getting systems in

0:45:58.120 --> 0:46:01.759
<v Speaker 3>place ADHD or not. Systems are just the older I get,

0:46:01.800 --> 0:46:04.799
<v Speaker 3>the more I realize it. If you don't have a

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<v Speaker 3>system in place, then you're just you're just flailing.

0:46:08.239 --> 0:46:12.800
<v Speaker 2>You know. You got to get a system. They did,

0:46:14.120 --> 0:46:15.319
<v Speaker 2>you know, outcomes are pretty good.

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<v Speaker 3>There was a survey This is a little bit old,

0:46:17.120 --> 0:46:19.000
<v Speaker 3>but it's you know, I think it's probably still pretty

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<v Speaker 3>pretty on par. But twenty twenty twenty twelve, twenty twelve

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<v Speaker 3>survey of three hundred and fifty one English language studies,

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<v Speaker 3>So I guess this is like a meta analysis of

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<v Speaker 3>long term outcomes of people with ADHD found that seventy

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<v Speaker 3>two percent of people treated had improved outcomes when it

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<v Speaker 3>comes to everything from self esteem to fewer accidents behind

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<v Speaker 3>the wheel, less rates of addiction, anti social behavior, increased employment,

0:46:46.400 --> 0:46:51.520
<v Speaker 3>increased academic success. So seventy two percent if you are treated,

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<v Speaker 3>that's that's great, that's really successful.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's a lot of good resources too for ADHD.

0:46:58.520 --> 0:47:03.680
<v Speaker 1>There's a researcher named Melissa Orlov. She holds marriage seminars

0:47:03.800 --> 0:47:07.960
<v Speaker 1>that really kind of paint ADHD in an almost exclusively

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<v Speaker 1>positive light. And if you were a couple that's tried

0:47:11.200 --> 0:47:14.640
<v Speaker 1>like traditional marriage counseling, you've been like, this isn't working.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because that stuff's geared toward neurotic typical people. Hers

0:47:19.239 --> 0:47:24.080
<v Speaker 1>is geared toward neurodiverse people. Melissa Orlov is very frequently

0:47:24.080 --> 0:47:29.560
<v Speaker 1>criticized as being overly positive about ADHD. There's a researcher

0:47:29.640 --> 0:47:31.879
<v Speaker 1>named Gina Perla who came out with a much more

0:47:31.880 --> 0:47:34.759
<v Speaker 1>balanced look. It seems like an ADHD called is it

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<v Speaker 1>You Me or adult ADHD, which is a yeah. And

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<v Speaker 1>then Russell Barkley has written a lot of books too

0:47:42.320 --> 0:47:45.719
<v Speaker 1>for kids and parents and adults, and he was the

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<v Speaker 1>president of the American Psychological Association for a while, so

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<v Speaker 1>he's no slouch no, And again, be very wary of

0:47:54.000 --> 0:47:56.200
<v Speaker 1>who you're listening to on social media. But there are

0:47:56.360 --> 0:48:00.600
<v Speaker 1>psychiatrists who specialize in ADHD who post a lot on

0:48:00.640 --> 0:48:04.040
<v Speaker 1>social media. And Kim be really helpful on Instagram too

0:48:04.040 --> 0:48:08.280
<v Speaker 1>that I wanted to shout out Perry Nichols mandanis it's great.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the psych doctor Md. Sasha Hamdani, she has

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<v Speaker 1>ADHD yourself and she wrote a book called Self Care

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<v Speaker 1>for People with ADHD.

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<v Speaker 3>All great resources, and you know what, let's skip listener

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