1 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Welcome to Reality with the King. 2 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:10,120 Speaker 2: It's me Carlos King, the King of Reality TV and 3 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 2: one of the most sought after executive producers in reality 4 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 2: television with over ten years a production experience. So today's 5 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 2: topic is exploring conversations that I've been seeing on social 6 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: media as relates to the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, 7 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 2: between Erica Jane telling Garsell's son to get the fuck 8 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 2: out of here, to Lisa Renna's problematic tweets to the 9 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:50,919 Speaker 2: ultimate gas lighting that I've been seeing. On this episode, 10 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 2: I wanted to dedicate this episode to a larger conversation 11 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 2: about the state of the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills 12 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 2: and Garcel being a part of this franchise. So I 13 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,479 Speaker 2: knew I could not do this alone, so I wanted 14 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 2: to bring on someone who has an experience being a 15 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 2: reality star. But she's also a Haitian American, like Garcel, 16 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 2: a black woman. She has a very interesting take about 17 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 2: what she's been seeing in these past couple of episodes 18 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 2: as it relates to Garcel and the rest of the 19 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 2: Real Housewives of Beverly Hills cast. Her name is Jesse 20 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 2: Woo and she is super hilarious. She's super honest and 21 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 2: super insightful. This is probably the most end up conversation 22 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 2: that I've had on the podcast since Ebidy k Williams, 23 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 2: where we do talk about very sensitive subjects. But my 24 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 2: hope is that when you listen to this, you can 25 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 2: walk away with the greater understanding of the reason why this. 26 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 1: Was important to me and hopefully to you. 27 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 2: We know that Garsell was cast on the show because 28 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 2: obviously she represents being a black woman in Hollywood. Yes, 29 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:21,119 Speaker 2: being a black woman in the zip code of nine 30 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:24,519 Speaker 2: to two one zero. And when Garsel came on the show, 31 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 2: I mean, listen, we were fans of her. She was 32 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:30,839 Speaker 2: fancy on the Jimmy Fox Show. Garsel is an icon 33 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 2: in the black community, so we were all very happy 34 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 2: and thrilled when she was cast on the show. 35 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 1: And she literally fit in like a glove. Like it wasn't. 36 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: It wasn't like Ebany k Williams. 37 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 2: Who I felt was an odd ball because those weren't 38 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 2: her real friends, but Garcel. 39 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: Just felt in seamlessly. 40 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 2: What are you thinking right now of Garzil's presidence on 41 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 2: the Real Housewives of Belly Hills, Like. 42 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 3: You said, she's an icon in the black community, but 43 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 3: as a Haitian like she is like our your dead, 44 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 3: which means our star like she was. She's one of 45 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 3: the first to ever do what she did as a 46 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 3: Haitian coming to America with nothing and being able to 47 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 3: translate it into stardom like that's not something that a lot. 48 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 4: Of us Haitian see. 49 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 3: Now in my generation, we're seeing more of it, and 50 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 3: so seeing her in Beverly Hills especially was a big 51 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 3: deal because we know that it is a predominantly white franchise. 52 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:31,119 Speaker 4: I think she's a class act now. 53 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 3: I do think this particular season, Garsela is working the girls, 54 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 3: Garsel is working my sys don't really have a storyline 55 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 3: like that. Her storyline is, let me go ahead and 56 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 3: let me get these things. Let me make y'all work 57 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 3: for y'all coin this season, because y'all ain't been working. 58 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 4: Let me make y'all work for y'all coin this season. 59 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 3: Let me drop a little salt, let me drop a 60 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 3: little peakles here and there, and let me spice things up, 61 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 3: let me. 62 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 4: Confront certain things. 63 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 3: And she has such a classy way of doing it 64 00:03:58,200 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 3: where you can't check her. 65 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 4: You're not gonna check her you know what I mean, 66 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 4: because she's being very honest. 67 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 3: She's respectful about it. So you have to address what 68 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 3: she says, which is great. 69 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 2: No, it's it's great. I agree with you. I've said 70 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: for the longest time. Kyle Richards is the uncredited executive 71 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 2: producer of Beverly Hills. 72 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: Kyle puts the girls to work. He sits back, she 73 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: watches them fight. 74 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 2: She'll give you a leg split, she'll give you a 75 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 2: good reaction shot, and she'll give you very much tears up. 76 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:33,479 Speaker 1: Oh my god, like, do you what do you mean 77 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 1: that happened? Right? 78 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 2: What's been interesting is Garcel Bubet this season I like 79 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 2: to call the co executive producer. 80 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: She is definitely. 81 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:49,559 Speaker 2: Moving story forward, pushing story, making sure that the girls 82 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 2: are held accountable. She's defending something who A lot of 83 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 2: people think Sutton is a Karen. I don't think Sutton 84 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 2: is a Karen. I think someton is Catherine. Okay, so 85 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 2: a Catherine is a white woman. 86 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: Who comes from privilege. 87 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 2: She behaves in a way where everything's very sensitive to her. 88 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 2: I don't think she's a Karen though, So instead of 89 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 2: a Karen, I'll call her Catherine. 90 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 3: I can kind of see what you're saying with Sutton. 91 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 3: I think what I don't like about Sutton is, like 92 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 3: you said, she comes from a background of privilege, and 93 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 3: her strategy is, but I can relate to everything. I 94 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 3: can relate to everything. If you say something to her, 95 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 3: she's like, oh, but I too have experienced. Oh but 96 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 3: I too have seen, but I too, Like she's very 97 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 3: much I too, and it's like, bitch, you have not 98 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 3: experienced what the fuck. 99 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 4: I'm talking about? Like, get the entire hell out of here. 100 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 3: But she has a way of saying it too that 101 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 3: you're like, oh, you know what, Okay, fine girl, Like 102 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 3: I can't fight this lady, you know what I'm saying. 103 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:56,719 Speaker 2: So now that's why to me, she's a great supervising producer. 104 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 1: So going back to. 105 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:00,359 Speaker 2: Garcelle, because you was about to say something along the 106 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 2: lines of there's things that's happening with garcel this season 107 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 2: that you're not liking, So what are those things? 108 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 5: I just I really want to see garcel have a 109 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 5: little more smoke because I feel that her time on 110 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 5: the show, she again she keeps it very classy, and 111 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 5: I think that she does that because she does not 112 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 5: want the narrative of a mad angry black woman to 113 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 5: fall over her. But these white women have been tugging 114 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 5: at your slip for a minute now, especially Lisa Rena, 115 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 5: whose lips have been imported from the Motherland. 116 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 4: You got no rito over there too. 117 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 3: And then now you have Kyle like gaslighting you like 118 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 3: a motherfucker, like continuously. 119 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 4: I just feel like I want to see her have. 120 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:47,279 Speaker 3: A little more smoked, just a little more smoke, because 121 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,720 Speaker 3: if the shoe was on the other foot for these ladies, 122 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:51,840 Speaker 3: these ladies. 123 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 4: Know how to get they white women cry on. They 124 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 4: know how to No, that's not what I meant and no, 125 00:06:57,839 --> 00:06:59,039 Speaker 4: oh my god, like they know. 126 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 3: So you you gotta find a way to get your 127 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 3: black women's tears flowing too. 128 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 1: With us. 129 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 3: The thing with us is we don't really cry unless 130 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 3: we want to beat somebody's ass. So we have to 131 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 3: find a way to tap into that, Like, what. 132 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 4: Is that thing? 133 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 3: Where is that space where black women can have their 134 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 3: black women's tears. 135 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 4: I don't know what that would look like for her. 136 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 3: Because there's been times when she's really been backed up 137 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 3: and they've been able to really like make her seem 138 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 3: like something is wrong with her, and there's nothing wrong 139 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 3: with Garcella. 140 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 2: Now I have to agree with you on that because 141 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 2: remember last season, Yeah, Garcella had this very beautiful, vulnerable 142 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 2: moment when Garcel explained to her coworkers, I'm not gonna 143 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 2: call these women her friends. I don't think in real 144 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 2: life Garcila will ever hang with these women, So I'm 145 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 2: not gonna say her friends. I'll say her coworkers what 146 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 2: it was like as a black woman being the only 147 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 2: black woman in this white space. And she did it 148 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 2: in a way Jesse that I felt like she had 149 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 2: the tears, but it wasn't tears looking for sympathy. It 150 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 2: was tears struggling for them to understand what it's like 151 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 2: to be her. And I thought that was such a 152 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 2: powerful moment for her and for me. 153 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: I know what that feels like. 154 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 2: I'm was the first black male executive producer of the 155 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 2: Real Housewives, and when you are a black person in 156 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 2: a field of excellence, you are oftentimes the only in 157 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:36,079 Speaker 2: the room. And I felt in that moment Garcel spoke 158 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 2: for her, but she also spoke for the likes of me, 159 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 2: and I think I can say she spoke for the 160 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 2: likes of you too. So going back to what you 161 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 2: were saying about her comfortability of owning herself in this space. 162 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 2: What do you think are the struggles Garcel was going 163 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 2: through Because, like you touched on before, she did say 164 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 2: that she did not want to be the angry black 165 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 2: woman like she was. She was definitely not trying to 166 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 2: be that. Because for my listeners, a'ma Rossa Manigault was 167 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 2: considered that for the longest time, Needy Lee Tiffany Pollard 168 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:11,599 Speaker 2: was considered that for the longest time. 169 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 3: Like we've seen white women or white men come forward 170 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 3: and say certain things about where they work, what has happened, 171 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 3: and they don't get that same BackFlash even from their 172 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:25,319 Speaker 3: own community. But here's the thing, right, is that I'm 173 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 3: at a point personally in my life where I'm not 174 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 3: going to be fighting for white people. 175 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 4: To understand. 176 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 3: What you will do is you will respect me though 177 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 3: you won't respect me. And when I come in as bitch, 178 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 3: there are certain things you will not say. There are 179 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 3: certain tones you will not use, there are certain jokes. 180 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 4: You will not express. 181 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, and if you do those things, 182 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 3: cameras are not your teeth are liable to be on 183 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 3: the flow. I don't care like That's where I'm at 184 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 3: with it, because the thing is respectability politics is not working, 185 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 3: and I think that Garcel is trying to in her 186 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 3: own way play the respectability card kind of like, Okay, 187 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 3: as a black woman, this is what it is for 188 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 3: me as a black woman when you. 189 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 4: Say this, this is how it registers for me. 190 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:14,199 Speaker 3: Right, how many times are we gonna tell these women 191 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 3: that these women do not care. 192 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 4: They do not care. They don't want to hear that. 193 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 3: They're so used to existing in their world and not 194 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 3: having to think about how they have to exist. They're 195 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 3: so they're so used to living in their world and 196 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:33,839 Speaker 3: just being there, and what they say goes, now here 197 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 3: come your black ass. 198 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:38,440 Speaker 1: Who barely You're barely. 199 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 3: In the area code. You're barely here, and now you 200 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 3: want to come tell me how. 201 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 4: To exist up in my sheep. 202 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 3: So that's why, like for me personally, when I sometimes 203 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 3: when I watch Garselves do this, it's like I understand, 204 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 3: I understand, but Sis, that is a fight I can 205 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:59,079 Speaker 3: no longer fight. And especially as a Haitian American, we've 206 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:02,680 Speaker 3: seen Garselves open up her door and give these white 207 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 3: people bunnon d d fuss what let get and zo 208 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 3: mo and grab mass and then you're gonna turn around 209 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:15,080 Speaker 3: and you're gonna tell my son to get the fuck 210 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:16,720 Speaker 3: out of here, and. 211 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 4: That just be the end of that. Oh no, oh no, 212 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:21,839 Speaker 4: we're gonna it's gonna be eighteen oh four Part two 213 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 4: up in this bitch, That's what's gonna be. 214 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 1: Oh no. 215 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 2: But this is the reason why it was important for 216 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 2: me to talk about this conversation because to me, it's 217 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 2: easy to tap into what the scenes are, right, but 218 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 2: to me, I wanted to really talk about what's happening 219 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 2: on that show as it relates to garcell So you 220 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 2: brought up Erica Jane in. 221 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 1: One of the most recent episodes. 222 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 2: Ye telling Garcelles fourteen year old son to get the 223 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 2: fuck out of here. I mean, listen, a it was 224 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 2: a level of disrespect, right, I mean, I think we 225 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 2: all can agree to that. We did see Garcel go 226 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 2: back and tell Eric she was wrong. Look, I think 227 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 2: if that was Charay, it would have been handled differently. 228 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 2: But again, Garcel doesn't represent all black people, and I 229 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 2: think that needs to be a big conversation of we 230 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:13,719 Speaker 2: don't represent the culture of the community. 231 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 1: We do represent ourselves, but. 232 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 2: As a viewer, because we were raised by black women. 233 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 2: We know that oftentimes black mothers will go in if 234 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 2: someone ever spoke to their child that way, And a 235 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 2: lot of people felt that Garcel let Erica off easily. 236 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 3: Garcel, even though Garcella has held her feet to the fire, 237 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 3: Garcella has still shown her a lot of compassion. She 238 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 3: really has shown her a level of compassion. And so, 239 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:48,199 Speaker 3: drunk or not, drunk or not, those words should have 240 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 3: never came out of Erica's mouth for anybody's child. But 241 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 3: I cannot sit here and act like I'm not gonna 242 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,080 Speaker 3: sit here and give her the benefit of the doubt. 243 00:12:57,160 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 4: That shit was racist as hell. It was racist. 244 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 3: First of all, there was a comment that several of 245 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 3: them kept saying about Garcill's son. Oh, they're so well behaved, 246 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 3: They're so respectful, they're so well behaved. 247 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 4: Mitch, what are we talking about here, adug. 248 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 2: Erica said to Garcil before I yelled at her son. 249 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 2: I complimented them and was saying, how well spoken they are. 250 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 4: Why is that what you're pointing out. 251 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,199 Speaker 3: I've never heard any of them say that about anybody 252 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 3: else's white child on that show. They're so well spoken. 253 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 3: I've never heard that they're so well behaved. Never heard that, 254 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:32,680 Speaker 3: Never heard that, So why are you saying that about 255 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 3: a black child? Number two, let's go back to the 256 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 3: whole you know, to get the f out of here. 257 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 4: I have never seen any of them. 258 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 3: Remotely speak that way to any of their children on 259 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 3: that franchise. Ever, there have been times when someone has 260 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 3: made a comment about, like, you know. 261 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 4: Eating disorders with something like that. I think, like with 262 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,319 Speaker 4: Renna's child, a daughter or something like that. 263 00:13:55,440 --> 00:14:00,040 Speaker 3: Yes, but that was like there was a conversation about that, 264 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 3: so that was brought up. 265 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 4: But this little boy is literally coming to get flowers. 266 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 4: It made absolutely no sense. 267 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 3: And then you see Dorito, even Dorito, even her try. 268 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 4: She's trying to tell Erica, girl, what's going on? Girl, 269 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:18,720 Speaker 4: that's HER's sun. The baby came to get his flowers 270 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 4: for his mama. He needs to get the fuck out, 271 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 4: like no, no, no, no, no no no no no no no. 272 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 4: That was racist. Fast forward. Then you had that scene 273 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 4: with Kyle and. 274 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 3: And Dorito and their husbands where they're talking about it 275 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 3: and Kyle said, so did you hear about Erica saying 276 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 3: to Garsolthtan to get the fuck out of here? 277 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:40,360 Speaker 4: And she left like she thought it was funny. 278 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 3: She went on to say, you know, it's nice to 279 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,960 Speaker 3: see and I'm paraphrasing too, it's nice to see Erica 280 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 3: letting her hair down. This is your definition of letting 281 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 3: your hair somebody letting their hair down. 282 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 4: And then you see the men join in and say, yeah, yes, 283 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 4: I mean she's old. She's old. 284 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 3: A moment like that, you know she's been going through 285 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 3: a lot. What exactly is she going through? And why 286 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 3: are you guys okaying that? 287 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 4: When I saw that moment, it made me. 288 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 3: Go back to the whole Crystal thing where Crystal said that, 289 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 3: Suton said more in that conversation, and it was so 290 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 3: easy for everybody to be like, no, she's lying, and 291 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 3: Kyle's like, no, she didn't say anything else. 292 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 4: Well else did she say? Now I'm looking. 293 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 3: At you, Kyle like nah, I think someton might have 294 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 3: said something else, because you don't register. Because the compass 295 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 3: that you use for things that are offensive, I can't 296 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 3: trust it. 297 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 2: So what you're saying is because Kyle swept Erica's disrespect 298 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 2: under the rug. As related to you talking about someone's 299 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 2: son and Erica letting her hair down, Listen what I 300 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 2: can say to you guys, is that's not the first 301 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 2: time they've seen Erica behave that way allegedly. So I'm 302 00:15:56,720 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 2: friends with people in this business. What I can say 303 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 2: to you, guys, here's an exclusive. I've been told allegedly 304 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 2: that Erica Jane acts like that all the time, not 305 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 2: maybe to someone's son, but to the producers. I've heard 306 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 2: that Erica Jane is not the nicest when it comes 307 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 2: to her treatment of the crew. And what's interesting is, 308 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 2: going back to what you were saying, Jesse about Kyle's behavior. 309 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 2: I was so disturbed by Kyle's behavior in these past 310 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 2: two episodes. Why are you over compensating so much for 311 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 2: something that is truly awful, Like if someone spoke that 312 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:45,800 Speaker 2: way to your daughter Portie or you saw how Denise 313 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 2: Richards freaked out because y'all were talking about sex around 314 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:54,239 Speaker 2: her children. For Kyle to low key defend the behavior 315 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 2: and what you said is so interesting. She also kept 316 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 2: trying to defend Chrystal. Kyle deafinly was trying to make 317 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 2: sure that it wasn't a big deal. 318 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 1: Let's move on. 319 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 2: So it does question whether or not Kyle was hiding 320 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 2: something Kyle. 321 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:11,320 Speaker 3: Does not want to understand. Kyle's another one who does 322 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:14,200 Speaker 3: not want to understand. She doesn't want to hear what 323 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 3: Garcel or Crystal have to say. Like even when the 324 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:19,639 Speaker 3: back and forth with her in Crystal or Cristal was 325 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 3: like telling her, you don't give me a space yet, 326 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 3: it's not a safe place. 327 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 4: It is not a safe place for Crystal. 328 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 3: Crystal isn't totally innocent, but it's not a safe place 329 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 3: for Crystal. 330 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 4: Crystal has used the right verbiage. 331 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 3: Now, Crystal too has a way of being condescending. She 332 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:38,200 Speaker 3: can be quite condescending. And you know that's a conversation 333 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 3: to have. But Crystal don't be exactly wrong when she says, nah, 334 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 3: that's a violation, Like it is a violation if I 335 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 3: don't if I'm not rocking with you like that, you 336 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 3: can't just open up my room door and come in 337 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:53,240 Speaker 3: my room. And when she was saying that, and everybody 338 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 3: was kind of telling her, no, that's not that that 339 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 3: was it was crazy to me as if you were 340 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:00,159 Speaker 3: watching it. And even though I'm not a producer, but 341 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 3: I've been on reality television and I can understand things 342 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 3: a little different than what the viewer sees. I'm like, nah, 343 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 3: there's clearly like a pact here with some of these women. 344 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:13,919 Speaker 3: It's like, these are the untouchables right here, these right here, 345 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:17,160 Speaker 3: we're the untouchables right here. And so if you try 346 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 3: to break through that, you're on your own. You're on 347 00:18:20,359 --> 00:18:23,239 Speaker 3: your own, like there's literally a path there. And so 348 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 3: that's why you see Garcell and Sutton. And I really 349 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 3: wish Crystal would have done a better job of allyship 350 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:33,720 Speaker 3: with Garsell and Sutton. 351 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:35,879 Speaker 4: She really missed the ball with that. 352 00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 1: I could not agree with you, Mark. 353 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 2: When I look at the cast of the Real Housewives 354 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 2: of belly Hills, Kyle runs the show, and everybody wants 355 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,119 Speaker 2: to be a part of Kyle's team, which is to 356 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:53,399 Speaker 2: reach Lisa, Rena, and Erica. I think those women that 357 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 2: I just named are the type of friends that Crystal 358 00:18:58,119 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 2: hangs with. I think she definitely considers them the cool kids. Yes, 359 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 2: and Crystal, to me, who's a social butterfly. She wants 360 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 2: to add Kyle, Lisa, Rena, Derry and Erica to her roster, 361 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,639 Speaker 2: and I think when it comes to Garsela and Sutton, 362 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 2: in her mind, she doesn't see them as a top 363 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:22,640 Speaker 2: tier group to want to be with. I think that's 364 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 2: why she refuses to really go after them when they 365 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 2: play with her in her face. Now, I think Garcel 366 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 2: suffers from that too. I think Garcel wants so much 367 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 2: to be liked by those women. And in my opinion, 368 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 2: when Garcel told Lisa Renna at last season's reunion that 369 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 2: she was told through a mutual friend that Lisa Renna said, 370 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 2: Garcel being on the show forces us to talk about race, 371 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 2: and this is not our show. 372 00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: We do not talk about race. 373 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 2: And Lisa Sara, who is a self opera digest actress. 374 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,280 Speaker 1: Gave the performance of her career. 375 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:09,959 Speaker 2: When Lisa Renna carried herself over to the other couch, 376 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 2: it was to shut Garcel up before she could say 377 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 2: anything further because she knew this coureuin my career right 378 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 2: and I could be canceled. So when Lisa Rena showed 379 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:26,159 Speaker 2: her slip when she tweeted, just because Garcella is on 380 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:29,640 Speaker 2: this show doesn't mean everything is racist. I put two 381 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:33,120 Speaker 2: and two together because I know math it equals four, 382 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 2: and that four was for Garsel and the audience to know, 383 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 2: we do not want to talk about race on this show, 384 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 2: and we are afraid of having any disagreement with Garsel 385 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 2: and I think they don't want Garcel on the show, 386 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:53,639 Speaker 2: and they are not happy that Scharie Garcel's friend is 387 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 2: on the show because in their minds, they're thinking, what 388 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:59,239 Speaker 2: in the real Housepwalks of Atlanta is going on with 389 00:20:59,280 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 2: our show. 390 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 3: They think that it's about to be the Niemi Gang, 391 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 3: like they think. 392 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:06,920 Speaker 4: It's about to be. 393 00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 3: Close your neck to marry me, Like they really think 394 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 3: that that's what it's about to be. And like you 395 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 3: said earlier, right, black women are not a monolith. So 396 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:21,880 Speaker 3: every black person or every black woman is not going 397 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 3: to react the same way to. 398 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 4: Certain situations as another one would. 399 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 3: And especially as you can see with the Shari and 400 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 3: you know Garcel, these are nine two one oh black women. 401 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:40,160 Speaker 3: There's a presence, a certain style, a certain behavioral pattern 402 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 3: that they have. Right now, I will say this is 403 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,919 Speaker 3: that Garcel's here to get her corn. Garcela is here 404 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 3: to you know, elevate her career. Garcella is here to 405 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:52,159 Speaker 3: translate this into what else, whatever it's gonna be. So 406 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 3: if it's gonna be a book, if it's gonna be 407 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 3: a podcast, if it's gonna be a TV show, if 408 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 3: it's gonna. 409 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:58,040 Speaker 4: Be lighttime movies. 410 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:01,120 Speaker 3: Whatever it's gonna be, Garcia tell us here to translate 411 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:06,360 Speaker 3: it to that. Okay, However, she knows that she has 412 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 3: to somewhat play the game. You have to somewhat play 413 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 3: the game because like, this is an ensemble show. It 414 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 3: is that's how it is on reality television. It is 415 00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 3: an ensemble show. So you have to play the game. 416 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 3: So I don't think that she necessarily wants to be 417 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,560 Speaker 3: liked by these girls. I think that she's playing the 418 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 3: bad I don't think that any of these girls, including Suddon. 419 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 3: I don't care how many times Garsels says me and 420 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:34,639 Speaker 3: stting a cool girl, give give me a break. 421 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,479 Speaker 2: I could not agree with you more. Sutton does not 422 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 2: want to be friends with Garsels at all. She's like Crystal. 423 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 2: She really wants to be a monster the cool girls. 424 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 4: She really does not. 425 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,479 Speaker 3: When I really saw it, when her and Diana was 426 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:50,120 Speaker 3: going back and forth, that was. 427 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 4: So cringe to watch because that was not Sutton at all. 428 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,400 Speaker 3: You could tell something what the YouTuber said, all right, 429 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 3: let me Meei leaks reads part one. 430 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 4: Ni, Okay, what did he say? Let me tell you 431 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 4: what Suton want. 432 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 3: Some went to the episode where Nini and Claudia and 433 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 3: Jordan was going back at. 434 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,439 Speaker 4: She's like, let me, okay, what is it. Okay, they 435 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:14,919 Speaker 4: got him when you get the coin. They got him 436 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 4: when you got the coin? Okay? 437 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:16,719 Speaker 1: Are you? 438 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 2: Are you suggesting Jesse that when Sutton. 439 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,399 Speaker 1: And Diana had their one on. 440 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 2: One moment at Garcell's birthday party, that something went on 441 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:32,359 Speaker 2: YouTube and type in the search engine Niini leaks reads 442 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 2: and she studied specifically the Putter read Code episode, and 443 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 2: she applied that to her conversation with Diana, because, to. 444 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 1: Your point, they both were perotious for no reason. 445 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:48,680 Speaker 4: It was like somebody was in there like pulling streams. 446 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 4: All of a sudden. 447 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 3: It was like Niini and Claudia like just and then 448 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:57,280 Speaker 3: it was ridiculous to me to watch. But I did 449 00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 3: feel like that was more in character for Diana, though. 450 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 3: I did feel that for Diana. I think that Diana 451 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,240 Speaker 3: the moment she sat down to do this show, she 452 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,520 Speaker 3: was like, who the fuck are these bitches? 453 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 1: These? 454 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,680 Speaker 4: Like, every last one of y'all are beneath me. 455 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 1: I agree. 456 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 4: Diana was like, first of all, none of y'all got 457 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 4: my point? 458 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 1: What are we talking about here? 459 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 4: I'm forty nine. I just had a baby. 460 00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 3: None of y'all hoss is having babies at forty nine, 461 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:29,280 Speaker 3: y'all hoss can't do this. I own three countries, not 462 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:33,640 Speaker 3: own I own three countries. Like what do y'all miss 463 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 3: his own mansions? I own three countries, okay, Like my 464 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 3: baby daddy is fifteen. None of y'all y'all ain't got 465 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 3: fifteen year old baby daddy's. Diana is like she's diabolic 466 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:52,479 Speaker 3: for like I can't sinna as listen, I cannot Diana please, 467 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 3: Like it's like and you know what's crazy. The first 468 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,479 Speaker 3: episode that she was there, I was like, okay, guess 469 00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,280 Speaker 3: make me feel poor, queen, Yes, I do like to 470 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:06,080 Speaker 3: watch certain franchises for the coin, like, yes, make me 471 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 3: feel like I'm not doing shit with my life. But 472 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 3: Diana makes you feel like you worthless. Like I'm like, okay, 473 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 3: it's not this, ain't it Like not this ain't it 474 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:19,159 Speaker 3: right here? I wanted to feel poor, not worthless, not 475 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 3: like my mama's swallowed me. But while when all Diana 476 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 3: though that comment that Diana made when Garcell said she's uneducated, 477 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,880 Speaker 3: and Diana came back and was like, well, why don't 478 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 3: you tell them how much money I've sent a Haiti. 479 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 3: Let me tell you something again, Garcel is better than me. 480 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:48,359 Speaker 3: That comment right there, and I don't really have to 481 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 3: I don't really have to dissect why that comment was trapped. 482 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 3: If that is the first thing you reached for to say, well, 483 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 3: tell them, We'll tell them why I sent money. Tell 484 00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:57,399 Speaker 3: them about how I sent money to the porest country 485 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:58,119 Speaker 3: in the hemisphere. 486 00:25:58,280 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 4: I go through this a lot. 487 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,719 Speaker 3: If I point not something that is wrong with our 488 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 3: government or with our country, I get go back to 489 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:08,240 Speaker 3: your country very often. Well, bitch, I wouldn't be living here. 490 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,640 Speaker 3: I would love to be in my country. But because 491 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 3: of capitalism, because of slavery, because of imperialism, because. 492 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:18,880 Speaker 4: Of white supremacy. You know why this country is where 493 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 4: it's at. 494 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,879 Speaker 3: And even someone like Diana who talks about coming from poverty, 495 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:26,440 Speaker 3: when that's the first thing you reach for to point 496 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:28,439 Speaker 3: out somebody's poverty. 497 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 4: You haven't learned. You didn't have to because you're still white. 498 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 4: You are still white. 499 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 3: I don't care what I don't care what country you 500 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,239 Speaker 3: came from. I don't care what language you speak. You 501 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 3: are still a white woman with blonde hair, and when 502 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 3: you walk around. 503 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,359 Speaker 4: People are not gonna see that you came from whatever. 504 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:46,479 Speaker 1: Let's unpack this. 505 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:49,720 Speaker 2: You're even educating me, which is again the beauty of 506 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 2: this conversation. 507 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 1: I never looked at it that way. 508 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:56,440 Speaker 2: So you're saying that Diana, who is from a poor country, 509 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 2: who was proud to let the world know that, she 510 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:04,720 Speaker 2: rolls above it and became this multi millionaire. So if 511 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 2: you are somebody who was born in a poor country, 512 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 2: how dare you throw that back up in another woman's 513 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,160 Speaker 2: face as a clap. 514 00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 1: Back because you called you uneducated? 515 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,399 Speaker 3: And the reason why you're comfortable with doing that is because, 516 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 3: like I said, you are white. 517 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 4: And let's be very motherfucking clear. 518 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:28,359 Speaker 3: The way Diana got her riches, it's not the same 519 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:29,879 Speaker 3: way that Garcel got hers. 520 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 4: Gausie, Diana, you married into yours. 521 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 1: Garcel did not drop the mic. 522 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 2: That's very interesting, and to sort of go back into 523 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,879 Speaker 2: these sort of different treatments and the way the children 524 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:49,840 Speaker 2: are treated. Erica made a big deal about Garceil's book, 525 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 2: so much so she did a video of throwing in 526 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,439 Speaker 2: the trash can, right yeah, And she said in a 527 00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 2: response to a fan on Twitter that Garcel said something 528 00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:07,879 Speaker 2: about Lisa Renna's adult child, her daughter and how that 529 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:11,640 Speaker 2: was out of line, and everyone sort of rallied around her. 530 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 1: And said like, yeah, that's true. Right. 531 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 2: So what's interesting is if you women felt that Garcela 532 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 2: mentioning Lisa renna U's adult daughter having eating disorder, Garcel 533 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:28,400 Speaker 2: suggested that maybe it's because she's watching her mother who's thin, 534 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 2: and maybe that did something to her desire to not 535 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:34,120 Speaker 2: want to eat. Right, Yeah, Erica felt that was out 536 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 2: of line. It's funny to you guys when Erica, that 537 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 2: same woman who was on this pedestal said get the 538 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:45,120 Speaker 2: fuck out of here to someone's non adult child who's fourteen, 539 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 2: and it's funny and it's comical. So we are seeing 540 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,840 Speaker 2: some different treatment in what they're doing. And that's the 541 00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,960 Speaker 2: reason why it is my belief that I just don't 542 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 2: think these women want Garcel around them. 543 00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 1: I don't think they like her. And I do think 544 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 1: you're right in. 545 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:06,440 Speaker 2: The sense of as a community, we're proud to see Garcel, 546 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,920 Speaker 2: we root for her and to see her bring on Sharie. 547 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 1: I think this. 548 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 2: Franchise is going to have a makeover, and in my opinion, 549 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 2: I think Diana and dur are out and I think 550 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,880 Speaker 2: Sharia is stepping in to hold the diamond so that 551 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 2: they can really make sure that Garcel, who's a formidable 552 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,920 Speaker 2: cast member, is not on an island. 553 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:36,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, Diana can go, Danga could go. 554 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 3: It's just I was expecting more from her, like the fabulousness. 555 00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 4: I was looking for fun. 556 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 3: Rich shade, not like she is just unbelievably condescending, like 557 00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 3: it's like, damn girl. 558 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 4: But my thing with Garcel. 559 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 3: Again is I appreciat seeing Harna's platform. 560 00:29:58,080 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 4: I love like that she's her. 561 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 3: And what I love about this show too is they've 562 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 3: been able to capture that Garcel is somebody who's still working. 563 00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 3: She's going through to the real, even though the real 564 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 3: is canceled now, but she's not the real. She's writing books, 565 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,400 Speaker 3: she's doing lifetime movies, and even though this looks like 566 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 3: a resurgence, Garcel has constantly been working. She may not 567 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 3: be like Gabrielle Union or Biola Davis, but Garcel keeps 568 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,680 Speaker 3: a job. So it's been good to see her do this. 569 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 3: But I think it is time to move in some 570 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 3: more black women. I kind of feel like when I 571 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,240 Speaker 3: think about Garcel, I kind of think about Ebony on 572 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,760 Speaker 3: Real Housewives of New York, and I really feel like 573 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 3: she was not given a fair shot. She wasn't given 574 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 3: the support, she wasn't given the space to be fun 575 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 3: and be funny because I see that personality in her, 576 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 3: especially like on socials. 577 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,560 Speaker 4: I follow her on socials, love Ebony. 578 00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 3: She's so ridiculously smart, I mean, beautiful, gorgeous woman, great presence. 579 00:30:57,560 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 3: But I feel like she wasn't given an ease, a 580 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,880 Speaker 3: fair shot. So I do want to see them build 581 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:03,080 Speaker 3: something around ourselves. 582 00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:04,280 Speaker 4: I do. I agree with you. 583 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 2: Do you think America is ready for a diverse real 584 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 2: Housewives of Beverly Hills. 585 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:18,560 Speaker 4: No, but I don't care. No, but I don't care. 586 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 4: We don't care what y'all what America want? 587 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 3: There are black people in Beverly Hills, There are Asian 588 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:30,960 Speaker 3: people in Beverly Hills. There are Indian people in Beverly Hills, 589 00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 3: Like they need to be represented too. And I'm sorry, 590 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 3: but what exactly are these white women bringing? Like you 591 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,120 Speaker 3: have Crystal over there, and even though Crystal she has 592 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,800 Speaker 3: a lot of work to do, Crystal is married to 593 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 3: the dude who co created. 594 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 4: The Lion King? 595 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 1: What are what are the. 596 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 4: Other girls bringing? Like, come on and Kyle, I feel 597 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 4: like holl is someone who will never leave and don't. 598 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:55,719 Speaker 4: I don't feel she should. 599 00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,640 Speaker 3: I want to. I would love to see Kathy come back, though, 600 00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:00,920 Speaker 3: but I mean it it is I don't care what 601 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:01,920 Speaker 3: America wants. 602 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 4: It's time, especially in. 603 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 3: These socially revolutionary conscious times where we want to see 604 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 3: people represented. 605 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 2: So one thing I bought my listeners to know about 606 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 2: you is you are also an actress and you are 607 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 2: starring my love in a script is show right that 608 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 2: is on the All Black Network. Correct, Yes, and it's 609 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 2: a show called a La Carte. You are playing Misha Taylor, 610 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:40,760 Speaker 2: who is in a lesbian relationship with a woman named Nicole, 611 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 2: who is played by one of my loves and fan 612 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 2: favorite of the Real Houseporks of Atlanta, Candy Burrs. 613 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 4: Candy money Bag Birds. 614 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:56,320 Speaker 3: Yes, but the show is executive produced by Megan Good. 615 00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 4: It was created by a black woman. 616 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 3: Breanna Hogan, and the storyline follows four friends who are 617 00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 3: living in Studio City, California, and they're just trying to 618 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:11,480 Speaker 3: figure life out. My character is she's a teacher by day, 619 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,479 Speaker 3: very educated, but at night, you know, the freaks come 620 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:16,840 Speaker 3: out at night, and that is where she kind of 621 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 3: lets her wig down and she's exploring herself sexually. 622 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 1: What is it like playing opposite Candy? 623 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:25,760 Speaker 3: You know, It's funny though, because I've known Candy for 624 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:29,400 Speaker 3: a couple of years. Candy is the first person to 625 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 3: put me on tour. So back in twenty nineteen, I 626 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 3: had an EP called Moves of the Cancer. She put 627 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:37,880 Speaker 3: me on her dungeon tour. I sang on it, which 628 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 3: was great. 629 00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:39,920 Speaker 4: So we've been cool ever since. 630 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 3: And so I didn't know she was gonna be my 631 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,200 Speaker 3: love interest until I got there that day. 632 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 4: And when it was her, like I could not stop laughing. 633 00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 4: I was so nervous. And this was my first acting job, 634 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 4: which is crazy. 635 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,240 Speaker 3: Everybody keeps saying how great I did, but it was 636 00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 3: my first acting job. And when we were supposed to 637 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 3: record we had a love scene. She had to calm 638 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 3: me down because I could not stop laughing. Like I 639 00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,560 Speaker 3: just was like, I don't know, like I can't even 640 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,320 Speaker 3: fake it because it's like it was a nervous laughter. 641 00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:13,240 Speaker 4: I could not stop laughing. And then she was just nice. 642 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,200 Speaker 3: She just she's like, girl, come on now, we gotta 643 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,239 Speaker 3: come on now, Like she pulled me to the side, 644 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:18,720 Speaker 3: She's like, come on now, we gotta get serious. 645 00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 4: We gotta do this. 646 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 3: She's like, let me know what you're comfortable with. So 647 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:27,120 Speaker 3: she's great. But most importantly, she's professional. She's professional. She 648 00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:31,200 Speaker 3: takes what she does so serious, like I don't know 649 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:35,120 Speaker 3: how she does all these things at once and does 650 00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:39,799 Speaker 3: them all so well. But she's definitely someone who is 651 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:43,840 Speaker 3: chasing excellence constantly, constantly, and she's so sweet. She's so 652 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 3: give me, like you can call her anytime, she'll talk, 653 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,920 Speaker 3: she'll hang out with you, like I don't know, I've 654 00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:51,920 Speaker 3: told her before, I'm like. 655 00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:53,240 Speaker 4: Are you Are you okay? 656 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,920 Speaker 3: Because I've met people who don't even have close to 657 00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:59,720 Speaker 3: what Candy has, but they don't have that the character 658 00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:04,799 Speaker 3: that she has, the generosity that she has. She's genuine, 659 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:08,560 Speaker 3: she's nice, she's kind. So I look forward to working 660 00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:11,480 Speaker 3: with her again. They have not renewed us just yet, 661 00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 3: but you know perfectly they will because there was a 662 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:14,600 Speaker 3: pleasure working with her. 663 00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:15,600 Speaker 1: I love hearing that. Now. 664 00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:19,880 Speaker 2: Kennie's the best, She's the umast professional. So recently the 665 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 2: BT Awards were on and. 666 00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 1: You are guys. You have to follow Jesse Will on Twitter. 667 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,760 Speaker 2: You are truly one of the funniest people on Twitter. 668 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:35,360 Speaker 2: Your tweets are funny. It's to the point where I 669 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 2: want to retweet Jesse tweets so bad, but because I 670 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,880 Speaker 2: give my own shade and because I get dragged anyway, 671 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:46,080 Speaker 2: I'm like, Jesse, I can't also add your dragness on 672 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,520 Speaker 2: my drag news. I just can't do it right. But 673 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:53,200 Speaker 2: you Live tweeted during the BT Awards and Young Miami 674 00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:57,719 Speaker 2: aka Carisha Please she was holding a sign while p 675 00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:01,279 Speaker 2: Diddy was giving his acceptance speech because he won like 676 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 2: the icon of word or something, and Kresha I eat 677 00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:11,000 Speaker 2: Young Miami was holding a sign saying go Poppy, and 678 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:14,439 Speaker 2: you tweeted something along the lives of did he thank 679 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 2: every one in the world except the woman who's holding 680 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:21,919 Speaker 2: the side? And then Karsha and JT both retweeted you 681 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,959 Speaker 2: pretty much say bitch, they ain't what you want. 682 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:36,520 Speaker 3: It's hilarious because, I mean, the moment was so chaotic 683 00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,480 Speaker 3: to me because that man really thank everybody in his life, 684 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:44,040 Speaker 3: including Cassie, and you think everybody but except for this 685 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:45,560 Speaker 3: girl that's right in funny. 686 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,800 Speaker 4: Tom don't Poppy, don't pap and you don't think of 687 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:49,280 Speaker 4: that's not weird. 688 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,200 Speaker 3: So I thought that was weird, and I feel like 689 00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:53,920 Speaker 3: I wasn't the only one who thought that everybody was 690 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:54,360 Speaker 3: tweeting that. 691 00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:57,880 Speaker 4: Now, Carlos, I tweeted what I tweeted, I go home with. 692 00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:02,879 Speaker 1: My fi'm on with my night, I go to bed. 693 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 4: I wake up the next morning. My friend is like 694 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:09,359 Speaker 4: blowing up my phone. She's like, girl, did you see 695 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,320 Speaker 4: what's going up? Shade room? Everybody I'm posted my tweet. 696 00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:13,360 Speaker 4: My tweet is everywhere. 697 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 3: And then you have JT saying something paraphrasing when she 698 00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,279 Speaker 3: was like, you know, don't don't be acting like it's 699 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:22,360 Speaker 3: not easy to identify you. 700 00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:29,240 Speaker 4: I identify, verify you, touch you, and then have you identify. 701 00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:29,320 Speaker 1: Something like that. 702 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:33,440 Speaker 4: So when I saw that, that was clearly a threat, 703 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,160 Speaker 4: and what I did. 704 00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:39,880 Speaker 3: Was I reached in my kneknee bag with all her reactions, 705 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:45,040 Speaker 3: and she had this episode of Housewives where remember her guy. 706 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 4: He bought her something and he was like telling. 707 00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:54,560 Speaker 6: Her John yes, and then she was like, okay, whatever 708 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:59,680 Speaker 6: that means things are getting weird this season. 709 00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,919 Speaker 1: Or Nini was dating a white man named John. 710 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:07,320 Speaker 2: John bought Nini a rolex and Niini got the rolex 711 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:08,160 Speaker 2: and said. 712 00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 1: Uh, okay, this is getting weird. So that was your 713 00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 1: response to JT. 714 00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 3: That's what I responded the next day, and everybody was 715 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:18,719 Speaker 3: pretty much like on my side with that. And I 716 00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:23,000 Speaker 3: think that sometimes, and I've learned this, when somebody says 717 00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:26,080 Speaker 3: something on social media that you don't like, your best 718 00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:29,839 Speaker 3: bet is to not even engage. Because the tweet was there, 719 00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,480 Speaker 3: it didn't go viral until they engaged with it. 720 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 4: And when they engaged with it, it got picked up everywhere. 721 00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:38,840 Speaker 3: I mean I looked at E News. It was on 722 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:43,760 Speaker 3: E News, like it was everywhere, and it was because 723 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:45,719 Speaker 3: they engaged with it. 724 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:47,319 Speaker 4: And it's like I tried. 725 00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,799 Speaker 3: I tried to learn this too, Like somebody will say 726 00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,360 Speaker 3: something I don't like, I will engage because you know what, 727 00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,520 Speaker 3: in the moment, you might be like in your feelings. 728 00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:56,719 Speaker 3: But then it's like, actually I ain't like what they said, 729 00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:58,640 Speaker 3: but that shit was funny, Like, yes, it's about me, 730 00:38:58,760 --> 00:38:59,880 Speaker 3: but it was fucking funny. 731 00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:01,640 Speaker 4: I know how to take a joke, you know what 732 00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:01,920 Speaker 4: I mean? 733 00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:05,320 Speaker 1: And so that was that Where can people follow? 734 00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:05,480 Speaker 4: You? 735 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 1: Find you? 736 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:06,600 Speaker 4: Jesse? 737 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:12,760 Speaker 3: You can find me on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, the same, 738 00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,840 Speaker 3: It's all the same on all platforms. Th E j 739 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,840 Speaker 3: E S s I E woo V Jesse Wu on 740 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:20,360 Speaker 3: all social media platforms. 741 00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:28,759 Speaker 2: Baby, that was a conversation for the books. I could 742 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:33,080 Speaker 2: not stop laughing at Jesse. I could not stop learning 743 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,719 Speaker 2: more from her. I'm so happy that I chose her 744 00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:41,840 Speaker 2: to have this conversation with because, guys, she even opened 745 00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 2: up my eyes to a lot of things that I 746 00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:47,800 Speaker 2: didn't see. And that's the beauty of this podcast is 747 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,120 Speaker 2: the fact that I'm not a know at all. I 748 00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:53,800 Speaker 2: don't know everything, so to have someone also educate me 749 00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 2: on things, it's the beautiful part of this conversation that 750 00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 2: I have with Jesse Wu. And I must say, we 751 00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:03,239 Speaker 2: need to invite her back when we have more to 752 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,279 Speaker 2: talk about, more to dish. 753 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:10,920 Speaker 1: And when she meets the city girls. Yes a let 754 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:11,680 Speaker 1: us know Jesse. 755 00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:19,200 Speaker 2: Thoughts, opinions, reads about my conversation with Jesse wou email 756 00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,319 Speaker 2: me at Reality with the King at stitcher dot com 757 00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:26,279 Speaker 2: or Leadmai a voicemail at three one zero five nine 758 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 2: three eight one eight eight. 759 00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:32,359 Speaker 1: Thank you for listening to Reality with the King. 760 00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:38,200 Speaker 2: New episodes drop every Wednesday and Friday, Share, comment, follow 761 00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:41,839 Speaker 2: and subscribe to Reality with the King. Wherever you get 762 00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:46,239 Speaker 2: your podcast, visit realitywith King dot com and be sure 763 00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:50,280 Speaker 2: to follow me at b Carlos King underscore on Instagram 764 00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:55,120 Speaker 2: and Twitter. Reality with the King is a production of 765 00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:58,759 Speaker 2: More Sauce by Stitcher. It is executive produced by Me 766 00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:03,080 Speaker 2: Carlos King and Jasmine Henley Brown. We are also produced 767 00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:07,239 Speaker 2: by Sierra Spradley, Rix engineering and music by Marcus Ham 768 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:14,000 Speaker 1: More Sauce