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Speaker 1: All right, good afternoon, good morning, and good evening. Welcome

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Speaker 1: to give them Lala with Randall. Now you're wondering why

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Speaker 1: you don't.

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Speaker 2: Hear Lala's voice for the first time, it is because

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Speaker 2: we have a special special podcast today.

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Speaker 1: I have taken over the entire podcast because all of

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Speaker 1: you complain that I talk too much.

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Speaker 2: So this is my platform.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna sit and listen for forty eight minutes of

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Speaker 1: me talking about whatever I want by myself.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 1: It is a special podcast today because Lala and I

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Speaker 1: have decided that it is a big moment in our

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Speaker 1: life having a baby. We thought, what if we did

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Speaker 1: a special podcast where the new the uh expecting Fathers

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Speaker 1: come on together and we chitter chatter about having a baby.

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Speaker 2: So I want to welcome my two guests.

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Speaker 1: This week on Expecting Father's Week, Jack's Taylor and Bokeler.

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Speaker 2: Can we can we actually change the name of the

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Speaker 2: just for today and like give them Randall with Jackson

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Speaker 2: baw Oh my god, give them Randall. Let's start.

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Speaker 1: Let's start, all right, I want to welcome YouTube give

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Speaker 1: them Randall with Jackson Beau. Hello, Hello, I would just

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Speaker 1: keep it all Yeah, I like, I'm not cutting ship.

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Speaker 2: No, it's just how creative. Well, I like it. I

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Speaker 3: I really like this office. I'm glad. Maybe you should

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Speaker 3: there's not much room, but if you could get at

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Speaker 2: She is always watching your she is always. I mean,

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Speaker 2: if you guys could see this room, there's also four.

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Speaker 3: There's there's alternatives, there's about the pillow, and.

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Speaker 2: There's literally like fifteen photos.

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Speaker 1: She is here, She's want to tell you here. Also

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Speaker 1: in the bathroom of our house. Very beautiful face is

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Speaker 1: everywhere on the wall pit.

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Speaker 2: So you definitely do don't do number two there never

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Speaker 2: you can be there. It's fine, but I would just

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Speaker 2: I would not want to do number two with a

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Speaker 2: lot of photos of Sasi.

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Speaker 1: So, guys, first of all, want to thank you guys Tim.

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Speaker 2: Some people are.

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Speaker 1: Tim your opinions don't wanted to do. Okay, uh back

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Speaker 1: to back to my stars, Jacksonville. So we're all having babies. Bo,

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Speaker 1: you were first.

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Speaker 2: I'm the first time the trend starter. Yeah, I put

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Speaker 2: to do that. I was second, I was second, I

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Speaker 2: was third, But I'm having the only boy. True. True,

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Speaker 2: We're all scared about that. You should be, you should be.

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Speaker 1: So you got so Laala and I've talked about many

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Speaker 1: times about when we found out, the moment we found out,

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Speaker 2: Just take us through your day, like the day you

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Speaker 2: found out. Did you do it together? Was it plant?

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Speaker 2: You know, the whole thing when she missed her period?

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Speaker 3: Like oh yeah, you don't want to put it on

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Speaker 2: But if you know ahead of time, you'll you'll feel guilt, right, yeah,

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Speaker 2: And this is like the beginning of May, and I right,

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Speaker 3: So we started after Obviously I wanted to do this

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Speaker 3: the first month goes by the app. I was off

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Speaker 3: by a day. I was in the pink day. Let

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Speaker 3: me tell you about fellas. By the way, how extremely

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Speaker 2: I do your chores, Jack, Yeah, well no, it's like

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Speaker 3: So like, I don't know how all my junk friends

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm doing my choice. So I get up there,

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Speaker 3: It's two o'clock in the afternoon on a Tuesday. Okay,

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Speaker 3: my thing. We're packing up the airbnb. We were in Kentucky.

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Speaker 3: And so we were in Kentucky when I now, let

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my god, Holy the stick. I'm pregnant.

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Speaker 3: First of all, it's four in the morning. I'm sleeping

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Speaker 2: I thought the dogs were in trouble. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: She goes, I'm pregnant. I'm pregnant.

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Speaker 3: I'm like meanwhile, I'm half groggy. I'm like, oh my god, Like,

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Speaker 3: I got five more tests. I'm gonna take them off

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Speaker 3: in her mind made her decide to She had you

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Speaker 3: just it's five am.

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Speaker 3: She's got her she's got her menstruation sticks, she's got

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Speaker 3: pregnancy sticks, she's got all kinds of sticks.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so she takes the pregnancy test. I go, baby,

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Speaker 2: I mind you. I'm groggy. Ah, yay, I'm great.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, maybe go take another one, just to

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Speaker 3: much said Jack's Taylor, you are pregnant, basically said, and

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Speaker 3: stop taking these tests. You're fucking pregnant. So she's got

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Speaker 3: But right now it's the dogs have my mind. My

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Speaker 1: just just watching her, like like just touching her belly

431
00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:21,280
Speaker 1: every day and laying in bed and I'm talking to

432
00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:24,440
Speaker 1: our daughter and I'm talking to her stomach, and she's

433
00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:27,679
Speaker 1: just so protective Lala's I've never seen her like this.

434
00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:30,480
Speaker 1: You know, she's protective of me, she's protective of my girls,

435
00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:34,359
Speaker 1: or consider our girls, but you know, she's protective of

436
00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:39,080
Speaker 1: her dogs. But the protection that she puts onto a safe,

437
00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:40,000
Speaker 1: healthy environment.

438
00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:41,480
Speaker 3: But I undergrad what you say, Like I see what

439
00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:44,840
Speaker 3: you're saying. Just watch like they just they I don't know,

440
00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:46,960
Speaker 3: they don't know where it comes from, but they just

441
00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:49,040
Speaker 3: you see them, and you watch them, it's almost like

442
00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,399
Speaker 3: a different person. It's like they were born. It's like

443
00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:54,760
Speaker 3: their instincts kicking. And she's, like I said, constant rubber belly,

444
00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:58,320
Speaker 3: constantly aware. She's very aware, and just the way she

445
00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:01,320
Speaker 3: touches herself, the way she glows smiles, and it's like

446
00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:03,080
Speaker 3: and I think You're right, it's a little bit more

447
00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:05,440
Speaker 3: to them because they're carrying this child, right, They're there

448
00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:06,640
Speaker 3: from the beginning.

449
00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:10,639
Speaker 2: And it gets heavy, Yeah, gets heavy like Becaustas is

450
00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:15,239
Speaker 2: like you know, like months like no months before at

451
00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:17,959
Speaker 2: least that. And so her belly is big right right,

452
00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:19,919
Speaker 2: and like you know, just her like sometimes when she

453
00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:21,760
Speaker 2: it's like when she has like this like one like

454
00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:24,119
Speaker 2: a short shirt on and just like lifts up the belly.

455
00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:25,919
Speaker 2: I'm just like, God, that's so hot. But she's like

456
00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,359
Speaker 2: holding it. She's just like holding it. It's like always

457
00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:30,680
Speaker 2: like hugging it, always holding it, loving it. I feel

458
00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:32,480
Speaker 2: like that energy that she's putting through her hands and

459
00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:34,640
Speaker 2: her love is just like you know, just shooting into

460
00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:36,199
Speaker 2: the baby, you know. So I feel like that's what

461
00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,600
Speaker 2: mothers do. Yeah, you know, so that's why that protection.

462
00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,000
Speaker 2: It's like, it's just it's beautiful to watch. Here's my

463
00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:41,920
Speaker 2: question to you bo.

464
00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:44,640
Speaker 1: We need advice because Jackson and I are just coming

465
00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:46,560
Speaker 1: out of the first try Master, which Jackson I share

466
00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:50,320
Speaker 1: notes all the time, which is emotional rollercoaster right hormone

467
00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:53,560
Speaker 1: fourth of July, right, and we and we are very

468
00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:56,800
Speaker 1: loving and very understanding and all and and every we

469
00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:59,680
Speaker 1: just share notes and we strap in. We have rough days,

470
00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:02,040
Speaker 1: we have eight days. We love our women and we

471
00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:05,280
Speaker 1: and we stay about them. What should we expect when

472
00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:09,359
Speaker 1: they get really uncomfortable and the baby is as you know,

473
00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:10,680
Speaker 1: where where Sassy is now?

474
00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:16,640
Speaker 2: Okay, so where she's waddling? Yeah? Basically, well you just yet.

475
00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,560
Speaker 2: You know, first of all, Stas is totally different. I

476
00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:21,280
Speaker 2: don't know much about Laala. I know the Brits just

477
00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,639
Speaker 2: always you know, from her posts. He's like always like

478
00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:25,240
Speaker 2: like just the normal stuff that you read in books,

479
00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:28,200
Speaker 2: like she's sick, like like what's going on with you? Jacks?

480
00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:31,400
Speaker 2: Is like every book that I read is basically what's

481
00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:34,440
Speaker 2: happening to you? Like seven day nothing. All the books

482
00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:36,720
Speaker 2: that I spent money on to like learn about pregnancy

483
00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:40,480
Speaker 2: had nothing to do with me. Stasi barely ever got sick.

484
00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,960
Speaker 2: She wasn't like, you know, there wasn't no Dark Passenger

485
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,119
Speaker 2: Season one, Stassy as a pregnant, nice woman, you know,

486
00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,600
Speaker 2: there was no craziness. So it's like the only thing

487
00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,439
Speaker 2: I say now that she's getting bigger is just like

488
00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,760
Speaker 2: she's tired more. We have a lot of stairs in

489
00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:56,760
Speaker 2: our place, so it's like walking up. So it's like

490
00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:59,280
Speaker 2: just doing things for her, whether it's like she can't

491
00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:01,080
Speaker 2: been down a lot, you know, or it is, but

492
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:03,400
Speaker 2: it's just such an effort. So, you know, I'm cooking

493
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 2: for her, I'm helping her just like everything like physically, right, So,

494
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:07,720
Speaker 2: but I don't she.

495
00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:11,000
Speaker 1: Doesn't have the movement that she had before. Is it

496
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,119
Speaker 1: tough for her to sleep at night? Because I know

497
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:14,240
Speaker 1: she she sleeps.

498
00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:18,200
Speaker 2: There's also like like there's like doctor recommended like sleep

499
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:22,119
Speaker 2: things to help you that's helpful, you know, So she

500
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 2: takes Lala takes that. Yeah, so they all share.

501
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,879
Speaker 3: They all have a like everything that they all do

502
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 3: the same ship, right, Hey, you want to pill.

503
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:34,919
Speaker 2: Just take it on the table. But I you know,

504
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,040
Speaker 2: I just feel like, yeah, it's a total different it's

505
00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 2: a totally different thing. So I don't really know what

506
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:40,879
Speaker 2: to say because everyone's different. Like I don't know how

507
00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:42,359
Speaker 2: Lala is actually Lala.

508
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:46,359
Speaker 1: Lala was didn't feel great obviously the first three months,

509
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:48,879
Speaker 1: but not as bad as I thought she was going

510
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:49,119
Speaker 1: to be.

511
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:52,120
Speaker 2: And now she's pretty good now during the day.

512
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:55,399
Speaker 1: At night she starts to feel a little nauseous, but

513
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:56,080
Speaker 1: nothing that.

514
00:21:56,080 --> 00:22:02,120
Speaker 4: Start exercising with Jenna she's she's, she's she Well, she

515
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 4: was so frustrated because for the first three months, you know,

516
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 4: she'll always talk about, you know, part of her sobriety

517
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 4: working out is something that really so not be able

518
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 4: to work out the first three months was really tough first.

519
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:13,600
Speaker 2: So I think she's but they say, if you're used

520
00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:15,919
Speaker 2: to working out, keep doing it. Yeah. Yeah, Well we

521
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,479
Speaker 2: got a Nordic track and so Stas has been walking,

522
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:20,680
Speaker 2: I've been running, So that's wow. But I feel like

523
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,479
Speaker 2: the thing that COVID, like everything's in a way just

524
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,040
Speaker 2: sucks because of COVID. So normal things that I feel

525
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 2: like that we would be doing as a couple, as

526
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,439
Speaker 2: she would be doing as like a pregnant woman, that

527
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:32,600
Speaker 2: she would be out more, you know, trying to like

528
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 2: get more sun and enjoying things with their friends, you

529
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 2: just can't especially just like yeah, so it's it's it's

530
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,919
Speaker 2: like it's it really sucks, like the confinement that we

531
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,520
Speaker 2: that we author buyselves in. I agree.

532
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:46,159
Speaker 1: I give a lot a lot of props because she

533
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:50,200
Speaker 1: is she she was on doctor instructed you know, uh,

534
00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:52,800
Speaker 1: somewhat bed rest where she couldn't do any activity. But

535
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 1: now she's clear of that and she's out there working

536
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 1: out and it makes her, it makes her happy, you know,

537
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 1: like physically.

538
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 2: So I think, uh, I feel bad, you know, like

539
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 2: because Britney's having you know, and.

540
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 3: She she's the opposite of you girls. I mean she

541
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,360
Speaker 3: literally since she's been pregnant, maybe not been sick. It's

542
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 3: easier to say not been sick, maybe five or six days. Wow,

543
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 3: she's literally I woke up this morning on the way here,

544
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:16,879
Speaker 3: she was thrown up. And she knows it's coming, like

545
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 3: she knows every morning. I set up a bathroom. She's

546
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 3: got her a case of water in the bathroom, casey gatory.

547
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:24,119
Speaker 3: I put towels down by the toilet. I'm not allowed

548
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:25,560
Speaker 3: to use that toilet anymore.

549
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 2: And there's like it's.

550
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 3: It's it's it's a sanctuary in there now because she's

551
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,159
Speaker 3: in there so much and she knows it's coming. And

552
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 3: I'm just like I I told her the other day,

553
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 3: I'm like, are we gonna be able to have a

554
00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 3: second one? She's like, you, damn right, we're having another one.

555
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,439
Speaker 3: I'm like, I just watch her going through hell, like

556
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:42,880
Speaker 3: absolute hell, and she's like she can't keep anything down.

557
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 3: She's constantly throwing up the doctor said, this is totally normal.

558
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 3: The baby's fine.

559
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:48,920
Speaker 2: The books I read said it's totally toilet normal. Like

560
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 2: everybody's supposed to beel here.

561
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess the b the who's the what's

562
00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 3: the lady in England, Queen Kate whatever, she went through

563
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,439
Speaker 3: the same thing, apparently. Yeah, she's been reading throwing up

564
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 3: every single day till the day she was day she

565
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 3: gave birth. So again, like you said, every woman is different,

566
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 3: you know, I.

567
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 2: Know Sacy has a lot of fear that the fact

568
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 2: that everything's been so good, like the birth is going

569
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 2: to be the worst, this is where you're gonna have

570
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 2: She's gonna be like, I mean, she's lucky.

571
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 3: She's lucky, I said. But Brittany's a trooper man. She

572
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 3: does not let it get her down where most people

573
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 3: would be like crying and this and that. She gets

574
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,680
Speaker 3: through her pains. She's still like, you know, for the reveal,

575
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 3: she was sick on that reveal, but she manned up.

576
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,439
Speaker 3: Like there's times where she like yesterday, for instance, she

577
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 3: got pretty to go out for an event and she's like,

578
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 3: I put makeup on for the second time in four months.

579
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 2: She just feels pretty.

580
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 3: She wants to take some pictures, like tonight, I want

581
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 3: to take her out. She's like, I just want to

582
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 3: feel pretty, you know.

583
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 2: And I feel like a lot of the girls go

584
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:43,239
Speaker 2: through this.

585
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I feel like a lot of

586
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:46,119
Speaker 3: the girls when they're going through this pregnancy they have

587
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 3: obviously their bodies are changing.

588
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 2: They don't feel pretty, they don't feel loved.

589
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,200
Speaker 3: So it's important for us to make sure that they

590
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,880
Speaker 3: are loved, you know, whatever they need. Like I've been

591
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 3: literally I went to it with Randall de Vegas for

592
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 3: what twenty four hours maybe a little bit more than that,

593
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 3: and I came home. She's, oh my god, She's like,

594
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:02,919
Speaker 3: oh my god, I'm so glad you're I was go

595
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 3: ahead to go downstairs getting water and this because I'm

596
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 3: literally doing exactly what you're doing. I go get her

597
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 3: because I feel so we don't have to go through anything.

598
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 3: We didn't get this to her, Jack, exactly, you need this.

599
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 3: I feel bad, So I like, literally, I'm like, what

600
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 3: do you need now?

601
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 2: What do you need? You want talent all? Do you

602
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 2: need this? Do you want? Do you want pineapples? Pickles?

603
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 2: What do you want?

604
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: She's he's weird, cramped by the way and Jack's defence.

605
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 1: I also becomes support me on my pickleball term in Vegas,

606
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 1: he came. It was supposed to be two nights. After

607
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,040
Speaker 1: the first line, he goes, you know what, I feel

608
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 1: so bad. I want to go home and I have

609
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 1: to be with my wife. I mean it was like, yeah,

610
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 1: and you went home. You went home early. I mean

611
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 1: you got up six in the morning.

612
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 2: I just felt bad, you know.

613
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 3: And the more Brittie goes, no, go enjoy yourself, that

614
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:39,919
Speaker 3: makes me even feel worse. And she was just like

615
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 3: if we were arguing and she's like, fine, do whatever

616
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 3: you want, I be like okay. But when she's nice

617
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:45,479
Speaker 3: and says, babe, I want you to enjoy yourself, then

618
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, shit, right, I do have to say that

619
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 3: one thing that Stuss does. You're saying, like Britty put

620
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,119
Speaker 3: on makeup twice. Stuss puts on.

621
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,639
Speaker 2: Stuss gets together, takes a shower every day, puts on

622
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,159
Speaker 2: makeup because there's nothing to do anything right. So it's like,

623
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 2: but for her, like putting on makeup and just and

624
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 2: makes her feel pretty, and she does, you know, she

625
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 2: looks pretty. I always love no makeup, Like what she

626
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 2: wakes up in the morning, librarian, she had glasses on,

627
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 2: and like that turns me on. But for her, it's

628
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 2: like the routine is putting on makeup because we're locked

629
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 2: in and she needs to feel pretty. And I feel

630
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 2: like women should start doing that. If if you, if you,

631
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 2: if you're in the same boat that you're not feeling pretty,

632
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,159
Speaker 2: do you like your normal routine that you would do

633
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 2: if you're going to go out?

634
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 1: One hundred percent agree, that's what makes it right, that's

635
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:27,919
Speaker 1: what And I agree because I always tell Lala when

636
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: she waits somewhere, I'm like, babe, you look beautiful. Let's

637
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:31,639
Speaker 1: get in the cargo to the office. She's like, I

638
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: haven't putting makeup. I'm like, you are stunning as is.

639
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 1: But like you said, some woman putting on makeup feels

640
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: whatever makes feel. I don't argue with it, but I

641
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:43,160
Speaker 1: always let her know.

642
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 2: Like you, you look perfect. Also, I've learned too from going

643
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 2: to the grove when we will sit out of the

644
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 2: grove like some other women be like, oh my god,

645
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 2: you are so beautiful as a pregnant woman, I've realized

646
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 2: that me giving like affirmations to Stacy really doesn't matter.

647
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,399
Speaker 2: Does when other random women come up to her and

648
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 2: they're just like, oh my god, you are you are

649
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 2: a gorgeous pregnant woman. She just lights up. So if

650
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 2: you're like this, just go up to go up to

651
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 2: pregnant ones and tell them how beautiful they look, because

652
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 2: it is literally the best thing that another woman can

653
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:15,399
Speaker 2: give to a pregnant one. I agree.

654
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 3: Every time somebody says that to Bernie, I'm always like,

655
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 3: thank you, thank you, because not like you said, of

656
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 3: course we're going to tell our wives that they're beautiful

657
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 3: and gorgeous, say that's expected.

658
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 2: But when other people do it, oh, no, women, because yeah,

659
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 2: I walked off like that's what I mean. That's what

660
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 2: I mean. I mean other women do it. I like

661
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 2: a gay man can do it.

662
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 3: Women and gay men can do that. I've never seen

663
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 3: a regular random guy you ever do that. You're right,

664
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:36,400
Speaker 3: just just women.

665
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:37,679
Speaker 2: But I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what.

666
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 1: That's funny that you say, because Laala, when I post

667
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: a picture of us where she's completely natural, she flips out.

668
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 1: Sometimes she's like, babe, and I'm like, please let me

669
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: post the picture. You look stunning. I post the picture.

670
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 1: It's the most commons I ever get with like, oh

671
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 1: my god, Laala looks stunning, Laala looks epic. It's like

672
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 1: my biggest most like pictures are or when I Hostess

673
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 1: just as Is and I'm like, Lali, you don't realize

674
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: how beautiful, like in your mind, like when you wake

675
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,360
Speaker 1: up in the morning, you don't think you look beautiful.

676
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: You are stunning. And it's the same for you and

677
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,199
Speaker 1: Stossey and same for Brittany. And I think, you know,

678
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,439
Speaker 1: we have to give them affirmation, like you said, but

679
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 1: at the same time, you.

680
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 2: Know it's tough to fight that battle.

681
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 1: But when other people, when Lala sees the comments, she's like,

682
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: oh my god, they love this picture.

683
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, babe, really builds people up. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

684
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:28,639
Speaker 2: I think pregnant are beautiful. I don't know if it's

685
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 2: those prenatal vitamins or whatever. She's glowing, her hair's gray,

686
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,120
Speaker 2: or she looks beautiful. I agree.

687
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 1: We're gon, We're gonna take a quick break, come right back.

688
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: So we are back with give them randall with bowen.

689
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 2: Jack's all right.

690
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: So producer Tim came up with a game today for

691
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: us to play, kind of like the Newlywed game, but

692
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 1: the new Baby Dad.

693
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 2: We can baby daddy's.

694
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 1: Okay, I could be you can baby a baby daddy

695
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: h new father game, new father game, expecting father.

696
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, we be baby daddy's because you're married. You don't

697
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 2: have a plane, bro. Wow, is just going on? Okay,

698
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 2: Timmy give us the questions.

699
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 5: So basically, so just to clarify, I'll ask you the

700
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 5: questions and if I'm asking Randall, you answer on behalf

701
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 5: like four of the kids of jack of.

702
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 1: Okay, like so yeah, we're basically giving our opinion of

703
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: the question is how well do we know them?

704
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 2: And right? Got it? Yeah? Okay, all right, let's.

705
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 5: Try so out of the three of you rate each

706
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 5: other on who's going to be the strictest versus the

707
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 5: least strict as parents?

708
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 2: Okay, so like one to ten, yeah, one to ten.

709
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 6: Or just like say, you know, who do you think

710
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 6: is going to be the mi.

711
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 2: Strict out of us three? Okay? Okay, okay, okay, I'm

712
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 2: gonna say out of one out of ten, Jackson is

713
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 2: gonna be seven wow, and Randall's going to be like

714
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 2: five five and a.

715
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: Half because it's like I feel like you're gonna be less.

716
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: I am I saw get that part. Yeah, I say,

717
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 1: unless they get so out of line that I have to.

718
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 1: But so I rated Jacks out of nine okay, because

719
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: I just think Jackson is going to keep his house

720
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: in order. And bo I put you in like a

721
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 1: six six and a half, like like you're gonna be strict.

722
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 2: But not I'm having a little girl. So I'm gonna

723
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 2: be the less strict. I'm like, I'm the fun dad people,

724
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 2: that's me. I'm the fun dad. Like that's what I

725
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 2: have is gonna be the one who's gotta be like strict.

726
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 2: So stay with Lalla by the way, ye okay, go ahead.

727
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 3: I have for myself a ten. I told you, Randall,

728
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 3: I have a five. Yeah, and bo I have a five.

729
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 2: Wow.

730
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 3: I just because I think Susy is going to be

731
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 3: the strict one.

732
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 2: Even if less even if Stussy is not, I'm going

733
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 2: to make that happen. I'm gonna make that happen. Stuff

734
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 2: will be like, go do this. I'm like, maybe it's okay,

735
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 2: I'll do it for you. I got you, Yes, I

736
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 2: got you. Fun dad, fundad love me more, love me more,

737
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 2: due follow yours. I'm literally gonna milk Daddy's girl for

738
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 2: like for all it's worth I'm with you, all right.

739
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 3: Next, I mean, my kid's not gonna hate me, but

740
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 3: he's just gonna he's gonna know what's right and what's wrong,

741
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 3: and he's gonna know not to fuck up more than like.

742
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 2: You see your grandfather's corvette, You better do those dishes.

743
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 2: You won't get that when you're sixteen.

744
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 5: That's right, Okay, Next question, what age do you think

745
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 5: the dads will allow their kids to start dating?

746
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 7: Oh?

747
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 2: Hold on, Oh there's a good one. This is a

748
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 2: good one. Hold on, I got that's good. I'm having them.

749
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 2: I already got mine. Just your number. You can't age age? Okay?

750
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 6: Do you think their kids will be allowed to start doing?

751
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 2: Okay? Oh god, all right. I basically wrote eighteen. When

752
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 2: she moves out, that's her. But I also want to

753
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 2: be like that stereotypical eighties dad where he like opens

754
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 2: the door and he's not standing there like the shotgun,

755
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 2: you know, but you know it's not a shotgun, and

756
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,239
Speaker 2: he's like and he like looks up and he's like,

757
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 2: who are you? Exactly? Did I order a pizza? Exactly?

758
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 2: I want to be the dad that bust my balls

759
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 2: of every girl that I dated back when I was younger,

760
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 2: and they were kind, but they did the thing and

761
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 2: it's like, I'll do it in like a very fun way.

762
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 2: But guys, but I'm actually looking forward to me, like

763
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:20,479
Speaker 2: open the door and it's like, you know, you have

764
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 2: the wrong house, some guy. I'm like, yeah, what are

765
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 2: you doing? Can I see blah blah blah blah, And

766
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, uh, who, I got it, Like I got

767
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 2: it too.

768
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 3: Okay, you can remember this is what almost if you're okay,

769
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 3: almost sixteen years from now. Okay, so you got to

770
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 3: think the times of how they are right now and

771
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 3: think about how the times are in sixteen when they're sixteen. Now,

772
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 3: mind you, I have niece's nephews that I hear fucking

773
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 3: horror stories that these kids in school, like they have

774
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 3: bracelets of what they do, the colors sexually, they like.

775
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 3: Kids have cell phones now like obviously a lot. Early

776
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 3: I didn't have one, so it worries me. Which again

777
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 3: I'm having a boy, it's a little different. I don't

778
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 3: think he's gonna want to date my guy on to

779
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 3: date with that, and they want to go out with

780
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 3: girls and hang out.

781
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 2: But who wants to have a girlfriend at sixteen knowing you,

782
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 2: of course not.

783
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 3: Well, I did have girlfriends, we know, blowing out right,

784
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 3: and the ones that I did lasted a hot minute, man,

785
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 3: So I just think, again, we have.

786
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 2: To predict sixteen years.

787
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 3: I got I got bo at sixteen for the girl

788
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 3: because I think things are going to be a little different.

789
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 3: Then I got Randall at sixteen too, but that could

790
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 3: go up or down depending on how La feels and

791
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 3: myself put I put sixteen because.

792
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 2: I just don't think. I think he's I'm in my head,

793
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 2: I'm raising my kid to go yourself right now.

794
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 3: I'm picturing my kid is such an alpha male because

795
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:44,479
Speaker 3: that's how I grew up.

796
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

797
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: I know kid's going to be such a sports kid

798
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 1: that dating will be there, but it won't be the priority.

799
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 2: I don't think. Sorry, he'll be the total opposite, because

800
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 2: you're going to freaking shove hockey down. Is no, I'm not. Now,

801
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 2: he's gonna be like, I want to do ballet and

802
00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 2: piano now, and that's fine.

803
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 3: And by the way, and by the way, Billy Elliott movie,

804
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 3: ID I would not I would not mind it. If

805
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 3: my kid wants to go to theater, he's gonna be if.

806
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 3: Here's the thing, I'm gonna throw him and make him

807
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 3: so occupied with his whole life that he will not

808
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,840
Speaker 3: have time to fuck up. He's gonna be in dance,

809
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 3: boy Scouts are day Sorry, He's gonna be in theater.

810
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 3: He's gonna be in boy Scouts. He's gonna be in tennis.

811
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 3: He's gonna be in base He's he's gonna be pick

812
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be. I am gonna hey, I'm gonna be

813
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 3: in the PTA one hundred percent.

814
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna school. I want to go. I'm setting our

815
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 2: daughter to whatever school you're on.

816
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 1: To watch, throw your ass out of it. You better

817
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 1: make Brittay ahead of the pizza.

818
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. I want to be involved. That's the best.

819
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 3: Like, that's why we're trying to work so hard now

820
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 3: so I can be fortunate enough to spend time with

821
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 3: I love that. I want to be involved. My parents

822
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 3: were involved. Were your parents involved?

823
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 2: My mom was involved, but that worked a lot, right, Yeah,

824
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 2: my dad too, but my mom. One of them was

825
00:34:58,200 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 2: always there.

826
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 1: My mom was always there, right, but they would someone

827
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:03,800
Speaker 1: would be there, yeah, always, And my dad was always supportive.

828
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 2: Like it all.

829
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 1: I was a theater kid, so he was always at

830
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 1: my productions and stuff like that.

831
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 2: But but my.

832
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 1: Mom was all anything that you know sideways, My mom

833
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: was there. So my prediction is bo seventeen for dating.

834
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: Jack's fifteen.

835
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:19,879
Speaker 2: The boy is going to start going to the mall

836
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 2: and little dates. Yeah yeah, and then I put my daughter,

837
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 2: we'll start dating at sixty five.

838
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 3: Sixty five, So I mean, that's what I said. If

839
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 3: when she moved out, yeah, that's this is another up.

840
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 3: Another thing mask is the open door policy. We had

841
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 3: that at my head that at Migrowing open Door Policy meeting.

842
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 3: If you're like, our kids are going to grow up

843
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 3: with lots of crazy shit. If they want to try smoking,

844
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 3: if someone had tried marijuana, if something, so it can

845
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 3: they like if if my son my son, hey listen, hey,

846
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 3: someone talked about cigarettes the other day.

847
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 2: I'm interested.

848
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 3: I would rather him come to me and said, listen,

849
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 3: I will watch you smoke that cigarette.

850
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:57,399
Speaker 2: I want to be there. I want to make sure

851
00:35:57,640 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 2: if he tries it and you're going to smoke the

852
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 2: whole pack. That was my dad. That was that was

853
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 2: my dad.

854
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 3: But it's important though, It's important though to me that

855
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 3: my kids can come me listen. I think I can

856
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:14,879
Speaker 3: talk to my dad about that, because I knew kids

857
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 3: growing up that, oh I can't talk to my mom

858
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 3: and dad about that, that's my worst fear.

859
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: I was very open with very old like when I

860
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 1: would my parents were very open. They talked to me

861
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 1: about everything, and I could talk to them about and

862
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 1: I think Laala talks to me a lot about in

863
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,840
Speaker 1: her family, very similar. So I'm interested to hear. But

864
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: I always want to have an open door policy.

865
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 3: Right, sex, drugs, things that are uncomfortable, we have to

866
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 3: make comfortable.

867
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 2: True. And before my mom was a relationship, there was

868
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 2: she was also she was doing I don't know the

869
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 2: technical term, but she was dealing with like drug addicts

870
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 2: and everything before she switched like trends over and like

871
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 2: every time I did something, she woul always sa, if

872
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,240
Speaker 2: you're gonna go outsidef you're gonna do anything, I'm always

873
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 2: here to pick you up exactly thing you're not going

874
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,359
Speaker 2: to get in trouble. So I remember the first time

875
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 2: I did like ecstasy, you know, and it was an

876
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 2: ebor city in Florida, and I was like, oh my god,

877
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 2: I'm not feeling really good. My mom drove and picked

878
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 2: me up from Clarida beach and picked me up and

879
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 2: I wasn't in trouble, and she talked to me about why

880
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 2: did you decide to do that? Well everyone else was

881
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 2: doing I'm like, okay, are you going to do it again?

882
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know right now. I don't feel

883
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 2: like I should. But she was very like, if I

884
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:19,879
Speaker 2: tried something, I did something, I would call her let

885
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 2: her know. I was very open about it, and then

886
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 2: she talked to me about it. Then I never had

887
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 2: a problem, like I never had like a drug issue

888
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 2: or anything like that, because it was just like, I

889
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 2: tried this stuff, Okay, cool. It wasn't like you can't

890
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 2: do that, and when you can't do something, then you

891
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,280
Speaker 2: want to do it more as a teenager exactly exactly.

892
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 3: It's like the reverse psychology. I think we had the

893
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 3: same thing at my house, same thing. If we could

894
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 3: talk about it, that approach was the best approach. And

895
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,840
Speaker 3: remind you this is the late eighties, early nineties, and

896
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 3: that approach and now a lot of people too. I

897
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 3: had a lot of friends that went the opposite direction.

898
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 3: Their fathers and their parents. I don't want to know,

899
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 3: you're grounded, And what did they do? They don't have

900
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 3: close relationships with their kids, or they rebuilt and you

901
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 3: look at that, I'm like, well, you know, there's both ways.

902
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 3: You don't want kids to try these you don't you

903
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 3: want to shelter them from this, But at the same time,

904
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 3: you want them to be able to come to you

905
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 3: with problems, not just these kind of problems. They're gonna

906
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 3: have emotional problems, other kinds of problems that I want

907
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 3: them to be Like, you don't want to be their

908
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 3: best friend, you're their parents, but you kind of want

909
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 3: to have to Like I dance on that line.

910
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 2: I'm not here to be your friend. I do want

911
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 2: to be your friend.

912
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 3: Getting from you exactly. And I'm the best guy to

913
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:27,879
Speaker 3: come do about all that information. I've done it all,

914
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 3: I've done it all, and I'm going to tell you

915
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:30,760
Speaker 3: what's gonna happen.

916
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 2: But that that mentally applies to everything from like even

917
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:36,880
Speaker 2: like religion. You know, it's like my mom was I

918
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 2: felt like she was with my grandma was shoved down

919
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 2: with Christianity that she reversed into a lot of New

920
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 2: Age stuff, and then I was kind of shoved with

921
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 2: a lot of New Age stuff that I reverted to Christianity.

922
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 2: But in a sense of more of like that like

923
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 2: the New Age Christianity where it's like it's just not

924
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,359
Speaker 2: so judgmental, and you know, and and so I'm worried

925
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 2: about my kid. It's like, how am I gonna do that?

926
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,440
Speaker 2: So I don't want to shove anything down her throat,

927
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,359
Speaker 2: but I want to like give her options, and if

928
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,399
Speaker 2: she's an interest into something, I'm not going to be like.

929
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 3: No, because then she's gonna want to do that. I

930
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,399
Speaker 3: think too, it's important to believe in something. I don't

931
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 3: care what it is. I don't care if you believe

932
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:10,760
Speaker 3: in a tree. I don't care if you believe in bugs.

933
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:14,240
Speaker 3: Just believe in something. Believe in something that makes you

934
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 3: you know, there's something bigger than us.

935
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 2: That's all I care about us. It makes life so

936
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 2: much more fun. Right, I agree, you know, I like

937
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 2: I like that. I agree with you guys.

938
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 1: Like being a great parent I think starts with being

939
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:29,359
Speaker 1: being a good listener and being good communicator. And if

940
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: you have that bond with your child where they can

941
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 1: come to you, I think that you can never go wrong.

942
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 2: Right.

943
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 1: They always can come through that door, and that's a

944
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 1: safe place for them to say what is going on,

945
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 1: they're having a shitty day, they're having a great day.

946
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 1: If they're worried or nervous or or want to experiment,

947
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 1: at least they feel they can talk about it, then

948
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 1: nothing outside the house is going to be a surprise, right,

949
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: And I agree, I think that's a great you know lesson.

950
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

951
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 3: And also a lot of my wife's from U from

952
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 3: the South, so it's going to be a lot of yes, ma'am, no, ma'am.

953
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 3: A very very polite to people like that's how Brittany. Now,

954
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 3: if you go down to the South and you talk

955
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 3: to any Brittany's cousin brothers, Brittany's ready. That's why she's

956
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:07,880
Speaker 3: gonna be an awesome mom. She raised all her nephews.

957
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 3: She's born for this. But if you go down there

958
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:14,359
Speaker 3: and you see young kids and how they treat their parents, yes, ma'am, no, ma'am, Yes, sir, no, sir,

959
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,879
Speaker 3: there's that's gonna especially with the young boy, a lot

960
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 3: of that yes ma'am, no, ma'am. Of course, outside well

961
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 3: that's fine. Hey, that's I mean, whatever you do here,

962
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,399
Speaker 3: but I'm gonna, hey, listen, I'm gonna do my part.

963
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:27,400
Speaker 3: I'm gonna drill that in at home, because as a

964
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 3: young man, that's very important. Yes, ma'am, no man, yes, sir, No, sir.

965
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 3: Politeness is goes a lot far. Look how polite Brittany is.

966
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:36,839
Speaker 3: She's the sweetest thing in the world.

967
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 2: Now, to have a young man raised like that would

968
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 2: be great. I have a question.

969
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 1: Let's just talk fashion for a second, because I have

970
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:52,879
Speaker 1: done Laala has been ordering on this internet like they're

971
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:56,280
Speaker 1: giving the ship away for free. I have never seen

972
00:40:56,920 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: more shit, more stylis, shoes, more clothes. She hurt my

973
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,720
Speaker 1: feelings the other day. So we now have a rule.

974
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 1: She didn't mean to, but we have a rule where

975
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,760
Speaker 1: I am not allowed to buy anything for our daughter

976
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 1: without her approval. I went into a store Target.

977
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 2: Oh, I heard about this, and you guys got in

978
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 2: an argument. I didn't hear about this. I went to Target.

979
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: I went Target with one and the ryot and we

980
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: were just buying some fun shirts that they wanted, and

981
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 1: so I bought them a bunch of shirts and I

982
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:27,839
Speaker 1: pivoted right and there was like a newborn section, and

983
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 1: I thought, what a great respecting father, and I picked

984
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: it out and on it said something corny like like

985
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:39,319
Speaker 1: Daddy's girl something like that, ask your mom, r ask

986
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: your dad.

987
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 2: Right.

988
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 1: But so I was like, we're gonna get this for

989
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: for the baby, for baby, because I can't say the name.

990
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 1: So we're gonna get this for baby. I check out.

991
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:50,399
Speaker 1: I'm so excited. Lala's in the car waiting for us.

992
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 1: I come running out. She goes, what did you guys get?

993
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,799
Speaker 1: I showed the little onesie and she looks she can't

994
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 1: even hide it. She looks at me and she goes,

995
00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:02,240
Speaker 1: not even wait, I have to just do this, I imagine,

996
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 1: I just have to do this slowly, you know, when

997
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: you put the effort in, you're like so proud. Well

998
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: it doesn't have a filter of the duy, but she

999
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 1: goes like that. She looks at it, and she goes,

1000
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 1: that's ugly. Not even a buffer, not even a buffer.

1001
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 1: Where the fuck is the buffer?

1002
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 7: Like like like you that like like okay, my favorite, yeah,

1003
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 7: or we'll see right or or that's sweet not my favorite,

1004
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 7: right it was hum that's ugly.

1005
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:32,919
Speaker 2: Well, at least it wasn't like, no, throw it away

1006
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,760
Speaker 2: right now. No's more or less even on the ground

1007
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 2: more or less.

1008
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 1: So she said take it back now, she said take

1009
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: it back, and I said, I'm not taking shit back

1010
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 1: And I got in the car and I didn't speak

1011
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 1: to her for probably twenty fucking minutes. I'm furious, and

1012
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 1: she goes, I said, and she said, I hurt your feelings?

1013
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 2: I go, what do you think? Do you know what?

1014
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 2: You know what?

1015
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 3: Girls have a hard time with the phrase is it

1016
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 3: what's just such a p pick and choose your battles

1017
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 3: and is it worth it?

1018
00:42:58,120 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 1: Now?

1019
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 2: Would your day would have changed? Hey? Hey? Would you

1020
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 2: about it? Ever since south you got brennant?

1021
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 3: We don't no no no no no no no no

1022
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 3: no no no no no no no. First of all, listen,

1023
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 3: as as men we sit there, listen. We just look

1024
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 3: for a little confirmation that we're doing the right thing.

1025
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:14,720
Speaker 3: When you shut me down, you don't even have listen.

1026
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 3: If I buy something like it or not just humor.

1027
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 2: Meat, we can't pig, oh cannot say hey, babe, hey babe.

1028
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 3: A very heavy child he was. That was great for

1029
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 3: you to think of the kid while you were shopping

1030
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 3: at targets.

1031
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1032
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 3: You know what, if you would have put in the backseat,

1033
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 3: you probably would have never even known if the kid

1034
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 3: warned it or not.

1035
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 2: Thank you? Why did you have to go there with

1036
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 2: the By the way, it was fucking cute. But I

1037
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 2: want to say one other things.

1038
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: But the funny thing is we barely have any arguments

1039
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 1: now because it's really about there's this love and then.

1040
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:50,880
Speaker 2: She was pregnant all the time. To be honest, correct,

1041
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:57,760
Speaker 2: go ahead, but no, but but so fast forward pause

1042
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 2: on that moment. Just think about I mean, I don't

1043
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 2: think she wants to know she does it.

1044
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 3: But I tell you what, like Randall said, there's there's

1045
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 3: something inside her that's more important than you're arguing about that.

1046
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 2: If I left the cabinet open.

1047
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 3: Okay, there's something more important than arguing about what I'm

1048
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 3: doing tonight, Like there's more important things to argue about that.

1049
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,680
Speaker 3: She's finally realizing that so she can keep that mentality

1050
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 3: throughout our whole marriage.

1051
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 2: That would be amazing. I'm stepping out of them. Why

1052
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:25,280
Speaker 2: it's great. No, I'm not saying I have a hospital.

1053
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 3: No, I'm saying in general, when you have pointless arguments

1054
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 3: with our wives, which I know you all have, you like, no,

1055
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 3: you listen, I know see you.

1056
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:38,240
Speaker 2: Guys are perfect.

1057
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 3: No, they are perfect. And Brittany, I love you know

1058
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:45,440
Speaker 3: what I'm talking about what listen anything you know. You know,

1059
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 3: when you do something just done and you don't mean

1060
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 3: it much in your way, she just wants to ride

1061
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:51,400
Speaker 3: you on something dumb. Like for me, it's leaving the

1062
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 3: cabinets open. She goes on to tone on me on that,

1063
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 3: and it's such a The toilet's okay, but God forbid

1064
00:44:56,719 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 3: the time. Yes, yes, one hundred percent. I leave a

1065
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 3: cabinet open. It's it's how the door.

1066
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:05,839
Speaker 2: No, if I leave the toothpaste on the counter, if

1067
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 2: I leave the we.

1068
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 3: Had a My wife's okay, I love you.

1069
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 2: We're working about how a lot of stuff STASA gets

1070
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,359
Speaker 2: to the same amount of stuff too. I literally like

1071
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 2: four hundred dollars a month on having a guy come

1072
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 2: up and pick boxes up because it fills up my

1073
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 2: garbage can cause they only come once a week, so

1074
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:27,240
Speaker 2: I have to have Yeah, somebody come up with stacks.

1075
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 2: I do. I llegal dumping, by the way, I have.

1076
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 2: I have a spot.

1077
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 3: I go behind this deer really yeah, a legal dumping place,

1078
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:33,360
Speaker 3: A smart and final down the street.

1079
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 2: I've been going there for a year. I will I

1080
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 2: go to I go in the valley.

1081
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:38,399
Speaker 3: If I have a system, I go to eleven thirty

1082
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 3: at night so no one sees me the I know where

1083
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 3: the cameras are in the behind Smart and Final and

1084
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 3: I dump and I dump, and I dump and I dump.

1085
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 3: Its hilarious, dude, you know how many Amazon packages I

1086
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 3: get it down? I would my garbage cans all the time.

1087
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 3: I would fill up my garbage cans the day after

1088
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 3: guard if I didn't.

1089
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 2: The one thing that I bought, like the couple of

1090
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 2: things that I bought Stas was just ram stuff. I

1091
00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 2: bought little rams little baby. I have literally from infant

1092
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 2: all the way till she's two little rompers, little ram stuff.

1093
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 2: But the one thing that I have I've realized that

1094
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 2: STOSSI doesn't like is the little onesies with like the

1095
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 2: le like the same thing with writing, the writing they don't.

1096
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 2: I just I just don't like. I don't. I don't

1097
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 2: actually don't like it either. It's like it's kind of cheesy.

1098
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:18,840
Speaker 2: It is it is, and hey, listen listening.

1099
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 3: I think those are okay for the beginning, because the

1100
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 3: baby's gonna grow so quick, and when you're in a

1101
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:24,840
Speaker 3: hurry and she's hanging out a home the little I

1102
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 3: love Daddy shirts.

1103
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:27,400
Speaker 2: By the way. By the way, the baby's gonna be

1104
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:30,480
Speaker 2: spitting up. Yes, you're gonna need a lot of it.

1105
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 2: I don't know why I can't go out and show

1106
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 2: them off. Yeah, I know, it's like it's basically for Instagram.

1107
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:38,879
Speaker 2: Let's be real. I know you're one thousand percent right.

1108
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 3: Although my kid has all My kid has every pair

1109
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:44,479
Speaker 3: of Jordan's that you could possibly have already. No, we've

1110
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:46,760
Speaker 3: seen you've seen what is that like thirty five bears?

1111
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 3: You know those feed grow now now people say this

1112
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 3: to me. I don't know if you've seen the pictures now,

1113
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 3: if you zoom in, there are different ages.

1114
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 2: I didn't buy all pre baby. I bought one for

1115
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 2: two years old. I bought for one.

1116
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 3: I bought them for six months. It's not all for

1117
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 3: the first six months my kid.

1118
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 2: I can't wait to get your kid, your son a

1119
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 2: pair of Vans, and all of a sudden he hates Jordan's.

1120
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 2: Oh my god, he he doesn't.

1121
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 3: He only has one pair of He has all Nikes

1122
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 3: and maybe one pair of Converse.

1123
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 2: I think that's it so far, Like, yeah, Chuck, I

1124
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 2: gonna have Chucks. If he just starts getting Chucks and

1125
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 2: Vans out and then he joins theater. That'd be great.

1126
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 3: He joins theater and he wears Chucks and Vans, and

1127
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 3: he wants to get his first apartment in Los VELAs.

1128
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 2: I'm in trouble. If he comes over to try to

1129
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 2: date my daughter, he'd be wearing a pair of checkerboard vans.

1130
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1131
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 3: And he said, hey, can I go to Uncle Bo's

1132
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:33,319
Speaker 3: and like hang out in his Volkswagen. I'm gonna be like,

1133
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 3: what what is it?

1134
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 2: Do you have a did you have another question we have?

1135
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 2: Let's skip to the last question.

1136
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 3: I mean, we could literally do a dad talk every week, dude,

1137
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 3: we could we could do a dad like you know

1138
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 3: what to expect expecting.

1139
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 2: Y's copyright right there? No, well, I mean, like dad talk,

1140
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 2: Why can't we just do a book? It is Yeah,

1141
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:02,800
Speaker 2: it's a million, it's a million a book, it's a movie.

1142
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:05,359
Speaker 2: Well we'll change it. Hey, yeah, we'll change a couple

1143
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 2: of letters. You know what if people write us in

1144
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:08,319
Speaker 2: and they say, then we can.

1145
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: Just have a dad who does a dad Talk dad

1146
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: cast that dad podcast and every week we talk about

1147
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 1: our kids all the way until they graduate high school.

1148
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 3: To be a dad and kids, how to be a dad,

1149
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:21,720
Speaker 3: in twenty twenty one during a pandemic.

1150
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 1: Can you imagine we talk about our three kids like

1151
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: every week, like, okay, what happened to yours?

1152
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 3: Oh god, here we go this week? My kid, my

1153
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 3: kid tried to do this and no, we came from school.

1154
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 2: She's a piano. That's what I'm moving my What if

1155
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:36,840
Speaker 2: my kid becomes a genius? S Britney and I are

1156
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 2: going to be We're gonna be like I'm gonna be like,

1157
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:43,239
Speaker 2: I consider myself like Phil Dumphy from Modern Family. I'm

1158
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:44,439
Speaker 2: a Phil Dumphy, I think.

1159
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, okay, this is directed just to Randal

1160
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 5: and Bow. Will you let your daughters date Jackson Britney Son?

1161
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 2: Go ahead, man, not everybody wants to know this.

1162
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be straight up like Lala is trying to

1163
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 1: teach me to be. I love Jackson but not no,

1164
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: but fuck no, I'm gonna jump that. I'm gonna be like, hey,

1165
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 1: Jackson's son is gonna be such a stud that I

1166
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 1: am gonna have to keep my daughter so far away.

1167
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:40,040
Speaker 2: Any school districts, even when COVID's OVID. I'm gonna be like, hey,

1168
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 2: little man six feet apart, six feet apart all.

1169
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 1: Jackson's son is gonna be such a good look like

1170
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:50,439
Speaker 1: I have all the game in the world, and he's

1171
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: gonna be a charmer because Britney is such a sweetheart.

1172
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:59,080
Speaker 1: So he's gonna have Jackson's game, Britney's sweetheart, sweetness and

1173
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:04,240
Speaker 1: class and Jackson's looks and Britney's looks forget it off

1174
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 1: the table.

1175
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:07,239
Speaker 2: Off the table, Yeah, definitely not.

1176
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,400
Speaker 6: And Jack's would you let your son date their daughters?

1177
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 2: Sure? I would. What do you do? Why not keep

1178
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 2: it all in the fame. But if my daughter like

1179
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,360
Speaker 2: ends up being ugly, she's gonna have hot freaking outfits on.

1180
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 2: That's just gonna make her look good to lead that. No,

1181
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 2: I'm kiddings.

1182
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 1: We have and we know doctor are gonna be so

1183
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 1: dialed in on the fashion.

1184
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:31,439
Speaker 2: Oh my god, what I'm taking to like that because

1185
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 2: they're gonna be gone doing their little shopping thing. We

1186
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 2: could go, we go, TI. I agree. By the way,

1187
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 2: Jackson will be in your guy garage.

1188
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 3: Well, I mean yeah, in the first the first what

1189
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 3: five years, they're all they're all going to be treated

1190
00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:46,359
Speaker 3: the same anyway, this my girl boy anyway, first until

1191
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 3: they figure out there you know, you.

1192
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:49,359
Speaker 2: Know, it's gonna be great if Tom and Katie they

1193
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 2: actually have a voice, and then it's like two and

1194
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 2: two and that together. That would be great family vacation.

1195
00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:58,760
Speaker 2: That would be great barbecues and fun going to sports.

1196
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:01,239
Speaker 2: Who knows, maybe it's like US three, US four will

1197
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:03,880
Speaker 2: go with your two kids to like rams games and

1198
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 2: the girls can go do shopping. Yeah, I love that

1199
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 2: camping trip. That would stay all that kind of.

1200
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:11,759
Speaker 1: By the way, I by the way, and then I

1201
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 1: could take your daughter and Stascy because you don't do

1202
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:16,320
Speaker 1: many petties, but I could get manny petties.

1203
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 2: I don't do many. Are you kidding you? Bro? I

1204
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 2: was ready by majority of women, especially nanny. Yeah, then

1205
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 2: we're gonna have scrub those calluses. Let's go bit God,

1206
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:29,360
Speaker 2: this is great.

1207
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 3: I'll go get you guys coffee while that's happening. Because

1208
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:34,520
Speaker 3: you do not need to see your feet, No, nobody

1209
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 3: needs to see them.

1210
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 2: I was not. I have a question.

1211
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 1: I have a question because I definitely don't know the

1212
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,839
Speaker 1: answer because I'm not as versed in this area as

1213
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 1: the two of you. Who would you let babysit your children?

1214
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:52,840
Speaker 1: Your child? And who would you not from vander Pump.

1215
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 3: That's a really easy question. I'll go first. I'm Doty.

1216
00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,839
Speaker 3: We've we've least talked about this one hundred times. We've

1217
00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 3: made jokes about it. Toty's a yody, Doty.

1218
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:03,359
Speaker 2: Listen, you could say whatever you want about doing.

1219
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 3: Say that girl cares about she loves her friends, a

1220
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:09,160
Speaker 3: good person, she'll go above and behind.

1221
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 2: She goes above and behind, but she also falls a lot.

1222
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 2: So if she's holding my child and she falls, oh

1223
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 2: my god. But yes, I would say Christian as well,

1224
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:20,359
Speaker 2: because the way she is with her dogs.

1225
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:23,439
Speaker 1: But please just wait, are you saying that's for sure?

1226
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:25,439
Speaker 1: Who you would let? I would out of the whole cast.

1227
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, okay, I would say okay, but also, oh wait,

1228
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 2: hold on, man, you know what Katie would be on that.

1229
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:34,799
Speaker 2: Katie would be on that as well. I'm gonna say

1230
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:37,759
Speaker 2: Katie on my side. Christian's Christien's for me. I think

1231
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 2: Christen's a great, great, great backup. But I'll definitely say Katie.

1232
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 2: So she's beat team yeah, Christend just it's just the

1233
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:49,359
Speaker 2: falling thing. Christen falls too much. That's that's problem. That's about.

1234
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 1: Okay, who would you definitely one? Not if you had

1235
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 1: a Schwartz, I was gonna say that. Schwartz was gonna

1236
00:52:58,200 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 1: say the same.

1237
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 3: Probably again, he's baby, he even forget. And it's not

1238
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:03,960
Speaker 3: a knockout Tom and it's not a knot.

1239
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:06,320
Speaker 2: It's just who he is. I mean, it's just he

1240
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 2: would be like Tom, I'm busting your balls.

1241
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, he would be. He would be I don't know

1242
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,479
Speaker 3: it is. Is this all like just a funny games?

1243
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 3: But no, he I would not do that to him.

1244
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 3: I would not ask him to do that either. I

1245
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:19,319
Speaker 3: would never put him in that position either, because he

1246
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:21,520
Speaker 3: would feel so uncomfortable. He would not know what to do.

1247
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:22,839
Speaker 3: He would not know what to do.

1248
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 2: You're right.

1249
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 3: He would be listening to music or something. My kid

1250
00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 3: would be crawling out the backyard. I don't get into,

1251
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 3: like his bottle of Jaeger in the fridge. Yeah, I

1252
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 3: don't know, finding the mushroom somewhere. I don't know, Like shit,

1253
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:37,480
Speaker 3: I don't you know question question?

1254
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 2: You know?

1255
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:40,359
Speaker 1: You know you answer the question. Okay, I'll answer a question.

1256
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 1: I'll tell you it's true, not that she'll ever do this,

1257
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 1: but I think you would all agree with me on

1258
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 1: this one. Lisa Vaner, What I would know, I would

1259
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:49,120
Speaker 1: let her watch.

1260
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 2: She wouldn't watch him. She did, she did, actually, baby,

1261
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:55,400
Speaker 2: because I doatter would come back with like a new outfit.

1262
00:53:55,520 --> 00:54:00,839
Speaker 2: Probable he would be dude, hair done, my god, maybe

1263
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:03,320
Speaker 2: a new puppy, puppy that she gave him the rescue

1264
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 2: one hundred and I'm gonna.

1265
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:08,280
Speaker 1: Agree with both of you. If Tom Schwartz can't remember

1266
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 1: to get me for your wedding to walk down the aisle,

1267
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:11,879
Speaker 1: there ain't no fun.

1268
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:15,479
Speaker 3: If he couldn't remember, he didn't even remember his own cake.

1269
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:17,840
Speaker 2: I think he forgot his cake. He had one job,

1270
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 2: and this was his own wedding. He forgot well he

1271
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 2: was he was trying to memorize his two hour long monologue.

1272
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:26,319
Speaker 3: Right right, Oh, he wrote, He wrote his vouse for

1273
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:27,920
Speaker 3: his own wedding five minutes prior.

1274
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:29,919
Speaker 2: Really, yeah, I was there. I had to go find

1275
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 2: a pencil. Oh my gosh, that's amazing. YEA, love you Tom.

1276
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 3: I love you Tom more than anything. You're my best friend.

1277
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 3: But man, I just I wouldn't do that to you.

1278
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 3: I think he would agree. I think he would agree.

1279
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:39,760
Speaker 2: I think he knows.

1280
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 1: I mean, come on, he's I mean the fact I

1281
00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 1: love Tom, He's got the biggest heart. But he will

1282
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:48,439
Speaker 1: suck as a babysitter, but he will be a phenomenal follower. Yes,

1283
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:53,359
Speaker 1: oh my god, his own child, his own child, his

1284
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:55,239
Speaker 1: own child, he will crush being that.

1285
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,239
Speaker 2: We just got to start like after this episode. We

1286
00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:59,040
Speaker 2: got to hold hands and just like like do some

1287
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 2: like good ju ju too. It's Tom's seamen, yes, yes,

1288
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 2: make it, get it, get it in there. Jack's Jack

1289
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:15,400
Speaker 2: you really? I mean right? And I was having like,

1290
00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:19,279
Speaker 2: you know, like sparkling seltzers right now. Well, no, there's

1291
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 2: nothing wrong with that.

1292
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:21,839
Speaker 1: It's just you know, it's by the way I want

1293
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:24,400
Speaker 1: I want the audience to know because they don't have

1294
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 1: the stage that here Bo came in hot with the

1295
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 1: white claws and the fireball mini bottles from the mini fridge,

1296
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:36,759
Speaker 1: and it is a celebratory day of men and men

1297
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 1: and men being men.

1298
00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 2: Yes, I mean maybe if I maybe if I didn't

1299
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:40,240
Speaker 2: have white claws.

1300
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:44,440
Speaker 1: But you know, it's the middle of the day, so

1301
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 1: you don't want to go to uber, so no one

1302
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:50,239
Speaker 1: has to worry. We got to get it out of

1303
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:52,120
Speaker 1: our system now, right, all right, we got we got

1304
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:54,759
Speaker 1: a cold minutes left. Is there anything that anybody wants

1305
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: to say that we left out because I think we

1306
00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:57,359
Speaker 1: put it all out there today and.

1307
00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 3: I would really like to know somehow you can find

1308
00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:02,799
Speaker 3: out if if your fans would love for us to

1309
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:05,319
Speaker 3: do a dad chat once a week or once a

1310
00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:09,439
Speaker 3: month or something like that, would like that, Well, let.

1311
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:10,840
Speaker 2: Me tell you, I think we should try to do

1312
00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:12,640
Speaker 2: it a couple times a month. I think it would

1313
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:14,879
Speaker 2: be fun. I think it'd be fun, especially nothing else

1314
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:19,439
Speaker 2: going on, So why not? I agree? All right? I agree.

1315
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 1: Well, listen, we're putting it out there, dm us sending comments,

1316
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 1: let us know. We love doing this, and uh, I'm

1317
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:31,279
Speaker 1: gonna let you all know next week that Sorry, Yeah,

1318
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:34,200
Speaker 1: next week's episode is a surprise. I am blowing the

1319
00:56:34,239 --> 00:56:38,920
Speaker 1: surprise right now. Lala, Stassy, and Brittany are taking over

1320
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:42,920
Speaker 1: the Give Them podcasts and having a Future Mother podcast.

1321
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:50,439
Speaker 2: It's gonna be cool. It'll be fun because they're both

1322
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 2: on their own different journeys with pregnancy. Yeah they are.

1323
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 2: They all have different like feelings and what's happening physically

1324
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 2: to them and you know everything. This is a that's

1325
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 2: a really good idea. That's a really good idea. I

1326
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 2: do have to say that I'm really excited to grow

1327
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 2: up with you guys. As I know next year, once

1328
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:09,600
Speaker 2: they're all out, I'm happy to have. It's going to

1329
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:12,720
Speaker 2: be an interesting journey. It's going to be an interesting journey.

1330
00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:15,720
Speaker 3: It's going to be a fun journey, and I'm excited

1331
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 3: for it. I think they're gonna I think these kids

1332
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 3: are going to have a great future.

1333
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 2: I really do. Yeah, they just have to be better

1334
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:25,919
Speaker 2: than all of us generation new generation. You know we're

1335
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 2: gonna they're they're definitely just better than going to be fine.

1336
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 3: Just Jack, as long as you're better, as long as

1337
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 3: you want to call you out, as long as you

1338
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 3: as long as.

1339
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 2: You all joking aside, I'm not that bag of an asshole.

1340
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 1: So Jack, you're you're a great man, and I know

1341
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 1: you're gonna be great to just have your son not

1342
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:42,920
Speaker 1: have a Twitter.

1343
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 2: God, oh god, all right, we are you love? Yeah,

1344
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 2: we all love our wives, by the way, we all

1345
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:53,920
Speaker 2: love them very much. They hope. Well, we don't get

1346
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:55,080
Speaker 2: too mad at us, by the way.

1347
00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 1: You know we're going to get it because oh yes,

1348
00:57:57,960 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: and then do the next week's episode and they're gonna

1349
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 1: go off.

1350
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:03,920
Speaker 2: Which is why we need to have a rebuttal.

1351
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 1: Yes, all right, Well, I want to thank everybody for listening.

1352
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 1: I want to thank my good friends Jack's and BO.

1353
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 1: You guys are friends and family, and I can't.

1354
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:16,520
Speaker 2: Wait to raise children with you guys. All right, fun man,

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00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 2: Thank you everybody. Until next time,