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Speaker 1: My girlfriend just had her baby and is dumping me.

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Speaker 1: She wants nothing to do with the baby. I think

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Speaker 1: I have to take drastic measures. Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Baby, I can't just say no words. My eyes are dying.

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Speaker 2: That's really rough.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like, baby, you will be the father and only parents.

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Speaker 2: I think you have to take the baby. I think

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Speaker 2: that's the drastic measure.

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Speaker 1: The drastic measure that sucks. I think divorce.

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Speaker 2: I think divorce.

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Speaker 1: I think divorce, divorce. Also, this is my sister Sophia,

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Speaker 1: not me in a wig hello, not John's shaves, not

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Speaker 1: a twin. The mother of my child, who has been

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend for over three years up until last night,

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Speaker 1: broke up with me and told me she doesn't want

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Speaker 1: to be a mom right now. Ooh, I'm nineteen oh

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Speaker 1: and in my sophomore year of college.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, she's.

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Speaker 1: About to turn eighteen and her senior year of high school.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 1: We have been together for three years. Since we were

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Speaker 1: in high school together. She got pregnant towards the end

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Speaker 1: of my senior year. Our daughter just turned one year old.

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Speaker 1: The pregnancy wasn't planned.

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Speaker 2: Oh boy.

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Speaker 1: They were careful, but not careful enough, and it happened.

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Speaker 1: I was willing to support any decision she wanted to make.

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Speaker 1: We talked through all the options together. She wasn't forced

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Speaker 1: by anyone to keep the baby, but I told her

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Speaker 1: I would be involved and support that if it's what

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Speaker 1: she wanted to ultimately do. She said she already started

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Speaker 1: to grow attached to the baby and love it early

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Speaker 1: in the pregnancy and couldn't get an abortion. Neither of

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Speaker 1: us were very comfortable with adoption, so she decided to

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Speaker 1: keep it, and I adjusted to the idea of becoming

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Speaker 1: a dad at eighteen years old. Wow.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I mean, ohp sounds like a good person.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, guy, So far, not every eighteen year old.

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Speaker 2: Would do, would be ready to have a baby?

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Speaker 1: Crazy though, eighteen and nineteen.

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Speaker 2: That is crazy?

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Speaker 1: My goodness. Wow. I'd been accepted to another college a

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Speaker 1: state away, but changed my plans after this happened and

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Speaker 1: decided to go to an in state school within driving

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Speaker 1: distance of where we live. I live at home with

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Speaker 1: my parents and commute to I'm only going to college

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Speaker 1: part time, and I will most likely graduate in six

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Speaker 1: years instead of four. I had planned to go full

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Speaker 1: time out of state and had much bigger goals for

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Speaker 1: what I'd like to do after that. I also have

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Speaker 1: a job, and all of the income goes to supporting

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Speaker 1: our child. I'm okay with that.

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Speaker 2: Wow, oh, Pie sounds like a really nice person.

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Speaker 1: Damn, Oh, damn, dude, this.

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Speaker 2: Is row that's so sad.

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Speaker 1: No, this is my responsibility. I love my daughter. I

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Speaker 1: don't have a ton of free time, but we do

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Speaker 1: share custody, and our daughter splits her time about fifty

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Speaker 1: to fifty now between both of our family's houses. She

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Speaker 1: used to have her more often because she was so little,

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Speaker 1: but I still went over to her parents to help

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Speaker 1: and to see my child all the time. My girlfriend

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Speaker 1: is a loving mom. Or always seemed like she was, Oh, oh,

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Speaker 1: this is gonna go downhill. Oh. She told me last

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Speaker 1: night that she's been thinking about it for a while.

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Speaker 1: Oh jeez, but I see you in the comments if

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Speaker 1: you know where this was going. She's applying to some

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Speaker 1: colleges further from home and eventually wants to study abroad.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, this isn't what she wants for her life,

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Speaker 1: and she's not ready to be a parent right now.

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Speaker 1: She told me that I'm much better at it than

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Speaker 1: she is, and she feels like a fraud. She says

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Speaker 1: she wants to figure out what needs to be done legally,

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Speaker 1: give me full custody of our daughter. We don't have

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Speaker 1: any sort of legal custody agreement right now.

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Speaker 3: That's really hard. She's eighteen. I can't even say that.

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Speaker 2: Anyone's the a hole. She's eighteen, when he's nineteen.

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Speaker 1: They're trying to be young, so young, so young. Like

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Speaker 1: if you're going to have a kid, though, you have

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Speaker 2: You have to be prepared. It's a big deal.

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Speaker 1: It's a big deal. I don't know. Maybe I don't

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Speaker 2: No, I don't think she did. But you know, she's eighteen,

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Speaker 1: Who I wasn't thinking anything through it. Eighteen.

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Speaker 2: I had no thought.

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Speaker 1: I was climbing buildings. I was climbing buildings when I

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Speaker 3: I was in Home, Vegas, and I was in my

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Speaker 1: You look at my old YouTube channel, sam dot. You

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Speaker 1: can see some of the early videos are are me

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Speaker 1: climbing buildings?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Are they still up? I think those are still

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Speaker 1: at anyway. She also suggested that maybe it's good to

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Speaker 1: starting right now. She wants her to have less time,

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Speaker 1: but thinks it won't be right to do it suddenly. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm just sort of in shock, blown away by this. Really,

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Speaker 1: I can't believe she would do this. There is an update, Sophia,

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Speaker 1: But oh my, what do you think? Like so far,

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Speaker 1: what do you think OPI should do? Should should? He say? Like, hey,

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Speaker 1: like this is your responsibility to what do you think?

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Speaker 3: I mean, Yeah, it's I think it's both of their responsibilities,

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Speaker 3: But I think that I don't know, Like she.

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Speaker 2: This is rough, This is really rough.

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Speaker 1: She's eighteen eighteen, he's nineteen.

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Speaker 2: He's nineteen.

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Speaker 3: I think that maybe they might have to revisit the

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Speaker 3: adoption thing if neither of them are ready to be parents,

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Speaker 3: because I think you have to be fully committed and

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Something I wonder though, is like, you know, is

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Speaker 1: often the you know, foster cares, foster care, foster care

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Speaker 1: is good, not good. Yeah, foster go in America kind

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Speaker 2: It's really bad. So like yeah, I don't know, but

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Let us know what you would do in the comments

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Speaker 1: put it then, when you give the kid up for adoption,

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Speaker 1: what do you stand up? But let's see what op does.

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Speaker 1: I gave my ex about a week to tell her

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Speaker 1: She insists she was screened for postpartum depression already and

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Speaker 1: she's fine, so she's not going to be postpartum depression.

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Speaker 1: That she's just nacle.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's such a like I will say,

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Speaker 3: I I think that for the most part, Opie's been

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Speaker 3: doing you know, good stuff, Like I don't think you

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Speaker 3: need to have postpartum depression to be like, wow, I'm

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Speaker 3: not ready to be a parent, like not saying she doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'd be a little harsh with calling her

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Speaker 1: nith clothing. She's eighteen, but she eight You know, you have.

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Speaker 2: A responsibility of her responsibility.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately that responsibility. Her parents told her that if she

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Speaker 1: wants to go to school out of state orgo study abroad,

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Speaker 1: she'll be all on her own and they won't support

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Speaker 1: mom assured me she'll make sure she gets screened for

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Speaker 1: Postparder depression, although her parents didn't want to agree to

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Speaker 1: it at first. My daughter is staying with me and

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Speaker 1: my parents for the next few weeks to give my

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Speaker 1: ex a break. Sometimes her parents forget they aren't my

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Speaker 1: daughter's parents. That tells me a lot about what probably

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Speaker 1: goes on over at their house. She texted me last night.

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Speaker 1: I know some people are critical of the assumption she

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Speaker 1: has Postparder depression or something else going on, but she's

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Speaker 1: done acting like herself. I'm not trying to vilify her

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Speaker 1: or call her crazy. She said, I miss you. You

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Speaker 1: never want to have sex with me anymore? Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 1: That was really strange and not like anything she has

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Speaker 1: ever said before. She didn't even mention our daughter. But

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Speaker 1: she misses sex and where are we supposed to do

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Speaker 1: that now? I said, sorry, I'm too busy taking care

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Speaker 2: Well what do you what do you guys think?

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Speaker 1: Doozy dude, that's a newsy. Yeah, I mean this is

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Speaker 1: like I think Sophie is right what she said at

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Speaker 3: Also, she does have PPD, like that is also a

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Speaker 3: factor to you know, like you know, like sure, not

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Speaker 3: saying she does, but if she did, like that's even

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Speaker 3: it's so having a child is like such a hard

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Speaker 3: And then also like being eighteen years old. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: I think they were splitting at fifty to fifty.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well I think yeah, I think it needs to

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Speaker 1: She just flips now she visits. Yeah, yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: also just like everyone should go to therapy right now.

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Speaker 3: Everyone should go to therapy right now, right this second, right,

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Speaker 3: this is now.

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Speaker 2: If you're hearing this.

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Speaker 1: Go to therapy. It's yeah, this is a pretty difficult situation,

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Speaker 1: and I can't. I don't think Op's ex girlfriend is

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Speaker 1: making the best decisions. But again, eighteen, it's it's a freakin'

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Speaker 1: it's a tough situation. I also, I would love to

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Speaker 1: know from in the comments if like anyone knows any

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Speaker 1: like teen pregnancy pregnancy stories or if you saw you

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Speaker 1: yourself had a kid when when you were young, Like

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Speaker 1: about that? Because man, this is this is tough. This

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Speaker 1: is tough. But you know what else is tough? Waiting

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Speaker 1: for us to go into this next story. Woo, we're

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Speaker 3: My lazy coworker tricked me into babysitting, so I told

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Speaker 3: her to watch her kids.

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Speaker 1: DS or else else what I murder.

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Speaker 2: Them else they're gone for good.

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Speaker 1: Else I'm abducting your children.

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Speaker 2: I'm taking your kids.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give them some free candy and maybe bring

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Speaker 1: them into my van. Who knows who knows?

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Speaker 3: Alrighty, I don't want to give too much away since

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Speaker 3: she has read it.

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Speaker 2: It's one of you you.

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Speaker 1: I see you watching me, watching you watching me, watching.

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Speaker 3: Me watching But we work in a food service establishment.

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Speaker 3: All the employees work with the food in the back

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Speaker 2: Usually usually that's how it goes.

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Speaker 3: My coworker can't find a babysitter daycare nine out of

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Speaker 3: She takes her kids to work and keeps them in

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Speaker 1: You got to see the iPad is the new passive.

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Speaker 2: iPad is the new bus.

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Speaker 1: Which kind of sad and terrified.

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Speaker 2: No, don't make your kids, I buy kids.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, iPad kids are the worst kind of kids.

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Speaker 3: Well, the four year old already knows how to climb

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Speaker 3: He probably does and keeps running around the establishment barefoot

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Speaker 1: He's learning how to be you know, I guess a

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Speaker 3: Her one year old always tries to be like his

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Speaker 1: This doesn't seem like a This.

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Speaker 2: Doesn't seem like a kid. This doesn't seem like a

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Speaker 2: How is this kid safe space?

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Speaker 1: Is this allowed? No to have children?

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Speaker 2: I don't think you can have children in a workplace.

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Speaker 3: My coworker uses her phone a lot, so she constantly

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Speaker 1: Also, I'm not your.

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Speaker 2: Babysit up, I'm not a babysit.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna just sit on your babies.

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Speaker 3: Babysits, No, I mean baby, I got customers to feed exactly.

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Speaker 1: I want your babies to fall flat on the face. No,

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Speaker 1: Noah's punched in colorflower ears and fall on the face

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Speaker 3: Yes, alrighty, then watch your kids around Sam.

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Speaker 1: That sounds bad.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yesterday this happened. She went outside to talk to

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Speaker 1: Stay them, stay, go on. Watch What what do kids

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Speaker 1: watch on YouTube? Blippy? Watch Blippy? Yeah, you don't own Blippy.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't know Blippy Blippy. I'm sorry, this girl doesn't

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Speaker 1: like Baby Shark. Do Do Do Do Do Do? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What do your kids watch on their iPad? If you

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Speaker 3: But in the comments, as I'm taking their order, I

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Speaker 1: My head falls that again.

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Speaker 2: Right then my coworker walks in and asks what happened.

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Speaker 2: I tell her. She tells me how she asked me

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Speaker 3: since that's not the job I'm getting paid for.

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Speaker 2: Nice. Comeback customer, and come back love that customer. Ten

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Speaker 1: Customer, customer, preach girl.

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Speaker 2: Customer is great.

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Speaker 1: Customer is great. My co Workustomers always right. Customer is

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Speaker 3: My coworker gets her kid and goes to the back.

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Speaker 3: After a while, the store emptied again, and my coworkers

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Speaker 2: I was getting called all sorts of names.

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Speaker 3: Now she complained about me to our boss, and I'm

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Speaker 2: So am I the a hole?

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Speaker 1: No? No, I want to know what everyone else do

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Speaker 1: you think? And also don't like what is the deal

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Speaker 2: I don't think. I don't think that's allowed.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like, but what if you don't have the

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Speaker 1: It shouldn't be on It shouldn't be on other people

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Speaker 1: I saw this.

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Speaker 2: But it seems like a like a safety thing?

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Speaker 1: nice to see you and we'll see you soon. And

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Speaker 3: You even if they're even if they're iPad children, even

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