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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Andy and Samantha, and welcome to Stephane

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Speaker 1: Never Told You, Protection of iHeart Radio, and welcome once

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Speaker 1: again to Sex in the City watch Party with Sminty. Yes,

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Speaker 1: here we go, and we are on episode ten. We

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Speaker 1: faced the progress of the ninety four episodes. We're closing

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Speaker 1: into see of season one, so we're getting there, We're

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Speaker 1: getting there. You scored a zero in the last episode. Okay,

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Speaker 1: could ever good. But that's okay, it's okay, it's um

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Speaker 1: So can you give us a little revamp of what

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Speaker 1: just happens? A revamp? Is that that word? I think

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Speaker 1: you mean recap, but vamp revamp would be. It turns

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Speaker 1: out they're all vampires. So yes, we've had a lot

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Speaker 1: of conversations about sex vibrators, single women, the female body relationships,

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Speaker 1: and particularly like hiding somebody in a relationship or settling

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Speaker 1: of conversations about oh, dramatic conversations, I gotta say, about marriage.

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Speaker 1: And she felt like she was hiding him and he'd

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Speaker 1: been married before, been divorced. Um, So we're setting up

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Speaker 1: this relationship. I feel like we're closing in on the

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Speaker 1: season finale, which you've really built up. But I have

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Speaker 1: no idea what's gonna happen. So, uh, I'm excited to

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Speaker 1: see where it goes. Alright, alright, alright, that's pretty good.

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Speaker 1: That's pretty good vamping. Yeah, but look out for my

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Speaker 1: Please someone do this? Has it already existed? Like? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we have episode ten coming up, um, and it

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Speaker 1: In our episode nine, I had created a champagne cocktail

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Speaker 1: called the BlackBerry Mosa. We have moved on for the

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Speaker 1: That it happened. I think we'll talk about this later predictions.

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Speaker 1: But we are on episode ten, season one, and the

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Speaker 1: title Annie of this is the baby Shower. Will you

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Speaker 1: tell me what you predict for this? Very obvious? It

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Speaker 1: feels like they go to a baby shower and they

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Speaker 1: talk about having kids, much in the same way they

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Speaker 1: this one, it's the kid discussion. Okay, very good, very good.

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Speaker 1: All right, So y'all are you ready to begin this episode?

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Speaker 1: Here we go. There's hell on earth that only your

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Speaker 1: closest friends can inflict on you. The baby shower. You

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Speaker 1: cannot drag me to that thing if you put a

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Speaker 1: to a baby shower. Oh, you haven't been invited to one,

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Speaker 1: in April, so it's interesting. Typically I've been just sending gifts. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I never did that. I've lost I guess in this

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Speaker 1: and I were just talking about this, Samantha, like, you've

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Speaker 1: as you said, but there's also just that's kind of

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Speaker 1: but it's still nice. Yeah, enjoy things while you can. Alright, Anny,

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Speaker 1: you got much higher score on that one. The bay

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