WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: The Long Game

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<v Speaker 1>lot of us have gone out on a first date

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<v Speaker 1>with low expectations, and before you know what, things happen

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<v Speaker 1>and you end up spending the night. Oh yeah, you're lucky,

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<v Speaker 1>but not very often doesn't happen the opposite way, where

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<v Speaker 1>your whole plan is to stay the night, but you decide, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm gonna play the long game on

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<v Speaker 1>this one. That's exactly what's happening with Jose and Alexis

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<v Speaker 1>right now. We're not here to talk about them today,

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<v Speaker 1>bag you know the protest too much? Yeah, protest too much.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys can pretend we're not here to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>the situation happening between you two. For one of our listeners, Sydney,

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<v Speaker 1>who needs our help today. Welcome to the show, Sydney.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks guys, oh man, thank god you're on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>You cut the tension in Yeah, sounds seeming. So tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about the guy that you went out with recently.

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<v Speaker 1>What's his name? His name is Kurt, And I met

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<v Speaker 1>him on Tinder? Okay, okay, And I mean what struck

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<v Speaker 1>him about you on Tinder? On Tinder? He was just cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was originally into it for like the meaningless

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<v Speaker 1>hook up, which is it you don't go to Tinder

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<v Speaker 1>to like read the bios, but but you still want

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<v Speaker 1>to have like a good like chemistry on your like

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<v Speaker 1>messages together or you know some some liked shared interest.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give you that. I'll give you. So how did

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<v Speaker 1>things play out with you and Kurt? Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>So it turned out he was pretty amazing. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>met him at this bar and he was just so

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<v Speaker 1>put together and had this beautiful smile. Wow, well hello, Kurt,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yes at all it takes just a little smile. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this guy really knows what he's doing. Did you have

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<v Speaker 1>your expectations so low it doesn't take much that should

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<v Speaker 1>be tenders catch for the expectations so low that it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't take much. Did you feel yourself like growing more

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<v Speaker 1>nervous during the date because you're realizing this Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't say nervous, but just shifting like away from wining

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<v Speaker 1>to hook up to like wine to play like the

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<v Speaker 1>long game. You know. Okay, you suddenly felt like this

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be more than just a one night thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You wanted to actually maybe start a relationship this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that style seems pretty deep, but yeah kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, so how do you go about

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<v Speaker 1>doing that? The shift? Did the shift happen? How do

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<v Speaker 1>you sleep right away? This is interesting to me. Pivot

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<v Speaker 1>When was your pivot? So? I mean, we hang out

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<v Speaker 1>at the bar for a little bit and then it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of early and it's really hot day. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>you excuse yourself to the bathroom and you go put

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<v Speaker 1>on some real underwear. Now, this could be a relationship situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Get rid of the edible stuff. I see where you're

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<v Speaker 1>at Sydney. Keep going. Yeah. So, anyway, it was super

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<v Speaker 1>hot out and he said that he had a pool

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<v Speaker 1>at his house. Yeah what I know. So I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this could be shady, but the fact is

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<v Speaker 1>I've been hanging out with him for a while and

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<v Speaker 1>he's just so easy and that we just get along,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So I was like, why not? Yeah, so wait,

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<v Speaker 1>was your plan then to skinny dip because I assume

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't come with a swimsuit. Well I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>a skinny dip, but like I just went my T

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<v Speaker 1>shirt and my undies. It was time. Oh you okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a strong move. No, that's all you got,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, right as well. Yeah, but it's also like

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to hook up with him. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go get naked and wet. Okay is an expert

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<v Speaker 1>in the art of seduction. So did it work? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I think so. Like, first of all, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you his house. Holy moly, oh really, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>this guy's rich, lucky, Oh my god, like brand new,

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<v Speaker 1>like all the finishing touches, like a floaty staircase. Who

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<v Speaker 1>not only does he have a pool, but he's got

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<v Speaker 1>a hot tub. So we did got I get thinking

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<v Speaker 1>a guy with a bed like not on the groundless

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<v Speaker 1>is trying to graduate from a futon. Yeah, so there's

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<v Speaker 1>there's hot tub action happening now. Well not yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>not even like action. It was totally just like hanging out.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, super good chemistry though, but I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to like mess it up by just cheap in. You know, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not cheapening it. I mean, you're he's inviting you

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<v Speaker 1>at his house, you're in his hot tub, Like you're

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<v Speaker 1>telling me nothing happened. No, I won't say we did

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<v Speaker 1>kiss where where? Where? Where on the body or where? Mike? Well, um,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like after the hot tub, so it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get too steamy, like it was almost more romantic. A

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<v Speaker 1>towel and then he pulled you in. Yeah, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>happened after after the nice kiss, he asked for one

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out a little more. But I thought, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's time to call it, just to keep

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<v Speaker 1>it super high point, yeah, keep him wanting more. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh. I was him, I would be like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, right, because you have the kiss, you have

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<v Speaker 1>the moment, you heart racing, and I'd be thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>you every day after. I don't know. If I was him,

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<v Speaker 1>i'd feel like I just blew it. She just left,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't So she said it was a romantic kiss. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so what happened? So when I left, he said that

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<v Speaker 1>he was going to be out of town for about

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<v Speaker 1>two weeks for sure. WHOA Okay, But then like he

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<v Speaker 1>got back and it's just been like he texted me

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<v Speaker 1>one time that he wanted to hang out, but now

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<v Speaker 1>he keeps saying that he's like busy. So I'm like, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. I mean, did you, like, you know, meet

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who was out of town or I mean two

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<v Speaker 1>weeks is a long time to go between seeing someone

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<v Speaker 1>in the dating world. Were you able to keep a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation going with him while he was away? Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>did text a little bit. Okay, how was it. What

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<v Speaker 1>was the vibe? It was kind of flirty, it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was nice. So you know, it makes it even

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<v Speaker 1>weirder when he gets back, like the text aren't at flirty? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>From experience, I mean the momentum, Yeah, without even talking

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<v Speaker 1>to somebody or a lot, I mean, it definitely changes

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<v Speaker 1>the moment. Well, maybe we can change it again. Maybe maybe. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's give this a shot. We're gonna play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll come back, We're gonna call Kurt for you, and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll try and get you a second date up dude. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Sydney sounds great. Thank you guys. Second day. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a challenge that we've never had before on this Morning Show. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that challenge is find the only catch on Tinder and

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<v Speaker 1>then reel them in without any favors. And the reason

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<v Speaker 1>that he's a catch is because Kurt not only has

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<v Speaker 1>good hair and a nice smile and he's put together.

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<v Speaker 1>On top of all that, he owns a great house

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<v Speaker 1>with a swimming pool, a floaty staircase, an expensive hot tub,

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<v Speaker 1>and they even shared a passionate kiss during sunset as

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<v Speaker 1>a pot of dolphins swam by and did a synchronized

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<v Speaker 1>water dance to a BTS song. Wow. And after all that,

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<v Speaker 1>Sydney still turned down the invitation to spend the night

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<v Speaker 1>just to try to play the long game with this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>W I feel like Sidney's having regret so after hearing

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<v Speaker 1>about the dolphins, like he literally was like, hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>have millions of dollars if you'd like it, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, I'm good. The reason why she might

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<v Speaker 1>have some regrets is because it's been two weeks and

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<v Speaker 1>now their conversation has cooled off a lot, so she's

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<v Speaker 1>hoping that we can turn the heat back up with

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<v Speaker 1>this second date update. How are you feeling right now, Sydney,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm nervous as heck. I really am. Yeah, I perfect

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<v Speaker 1>guy pretty much. Yeah. I mean it's interesting because you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to play the long I'm cool game, and now

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<v Speaker 1>you have a radio station calling for you, so that

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<v Speaker 1>it seem very cool. N She's like, now I'm having

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<v Speaker 1>a panic attack. Yeah, yeah, thank you for that. I

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<v Speaker 1>think we can do it though. I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're like rich, powerful people too. What. I just think

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<v Speaker 1>we'll impress him. No, we better hurry up and just

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<v Speaker 1>make this call before this gets any worse than it

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<v Speaker 1>already is. Yeah, okay, so we might not have to

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<v Speaker 1>pay the phone bill. Yeah, let's just check and make

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<v Speaker 1>sure it works. But I think if we've learned anything

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<v Speaker 1>from Sydney, it's start with low expectations, so then it

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<v Speaker 1>can only go up from there. Yeah that's good. All right, son,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial Kurt's phone number right now, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna try and get your second day up to you. Ready, Sydney, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready. We'll try to screw it up. No promises though.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello. Hey is this Kurt. It's Kurt. Hey, Kurt,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing. My name's Jeff. Awkward. It was awkward, though.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry for my awkwardness. Kurt Hi, Kurt Hi, what

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on? This is a morning radio show called

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and this is the

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<v Speaker 1>morning radio show team that apparently doesn't like the job

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing. You're not very good at small talk, including

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<v Speaker 1>just saying your name is said. Hi, I'm Jeff. What's up? Jeff?

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<v Speaker 1>Currently had a great reason for calling you though. We

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<v Speaker 1>am I the air right now. Yeah. Is that okay? Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just weird cool, yeah something or what happened? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that we're calling you is because one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners has been trying to get a hold of

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<v Speaker 1>you and she's been having a hard time lately. Her

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<v Speaker 1>name is Sydney. Oh yeah, yeah, Okay, remember Sydney, Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>I do remember. So she had you guys call me. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>She was just so excited about your date. I mean, now,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys want to talk about the date? Well kind of, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>sort of, because we know that a date happened two

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<v Speaker 1>weeks ago over at your house and she had a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of great things to say about you and your place,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's a little bit confused. Why now two weeks

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<v Speaker 1>later things have cooled off? Between you. This is really awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it Brooke again? It is? I apologize. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is kurt, Like, she really felt like there

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<v Speaker 1>was a true connection between you two, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>something that she wasn't expecting at all, and it really

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<v Speaker 1>surprised her. I agree, I did think there was potential

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest with you. Okay, that's good, But I

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<v Speaker 1>just I feel like I, honestly, I think I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of screwed up a little bit. Why do you say that? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're like she really liked the pool. Yeah, people

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy it when they come to visit. I get that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I kind of messed up. I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you're welcome to use it anytime. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>made this comment, and then I went away for a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks for business, and then I found out

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<v Speaker 1>when I was away that she used the pool multiple

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<v Speaker 1>times with her friends. Wait, what will you weren't there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she just kept over and over because come in love

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<v Speaker 1>with her friends. How would you know that? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>have security you know my security footage. Yah. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I'm gonna say, like security guards, the worst security guards. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my security dog, my security dog. But you told her

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<v Speaker 1>she could use it whenever the wait hold up, she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't ask you, no, she didn't mention it, and then

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<v Speaker 1>like the motion sensor triggers, like I know people were

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<v Speaker 1>in there, so I you know, multiple times I got

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<v Speaker 1>an alert people were in the backyard or whatever, and

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<v Speaker 1>when I checked the footage, it was like, yeah, there's

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<v Speaker 1>apps now where Yeah, yeah, yeah, we have one that's

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<v Speaker 1>the same. You can see it from your phone. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>my brother uses my pool at the time, so I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of figured it was him. And then when I

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<v Speaker 1>got back, I was curious to see, like who had

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<v Speaker 1>been using the pool, and then it was her over

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<v Speaker 1>and over, Like it was like the YMCAU. So you

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<v Speaker 1>come home and you check your security cams and you

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<v Speaker 1>see that it's actually Sydney and her friends using your pool,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why you've kind of cooled off towards her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I just feelt she took advantage. Absolutely. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you warn her that you have security cameras outside your

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<v Speaker 1>foot We just had this conversation like not too long

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<v Speaker 1>ago where you said, if anybody comes over to your house,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to warn them that you have cameras, and

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<v Speaker 1>if you invite someone to your home. She was never invited.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's the thing, like when you give an open

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<v Speaker 1>invitation to somebody saying, oh, use the pool. You know

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<v Speaker 1>everyone knows that you ask before you do it. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't just show up that. It sounded to me like

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<v Speaker 1>he told her you can come over at any time,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know if that's true. Maybe we should

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<v Speaker 1>ask Sydney. Sydney, is that what he said? Um? Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like, yeah, sorry, I should have let you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Kurt that Sydney's been on the other line listening this

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<v Speaker 1>entire time. She wants to talk to you. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>all that now you didn't let me know. Yes, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess are right. I'm not very good at this job.

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<v Speaker 1>I apologize, but go ahead, Sydney. Oh my gosh, I

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<v Speaker 1>can barely even stand. I'm so horrified right now. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel so bad. Maybe I was just so excited about

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<v Speaker 1>like the time we had. I just kind of was

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<v Speaker 1>like showing off your place to my friends. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but now I just feel like I messed up so bad,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just that's not respectful in my part, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. I feel really bad. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that. I just I don't know, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>a little weird. Sidney, how did you even get into

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<v Speaker 1>his pool? Like did you have to scale a fence

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<v Speaker 1>or something? Yeah? No, there's like a door that isn't

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<v Speaker 1>kept one of those over that too. I'm like, why

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<v Speaker 1>do you have a door that in? Sydney? What were

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<v Speaker 1>you thinking? What do you mean? Why? Why wouldn't you

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<v Speaker 1>ask him? Why wouldn't you say, Hey, do you mind

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<v Speaker 1>if my friends and I come over while you're out?

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<v Speaker 1>I bet she thought you'd get away with it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>asking her. I mean, if you want me to be

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<v Speaker 1>completely honest here, You're right. I didn't think he would

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<v Speaker 1>actually know, and I was so excited to show my

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<v Speaker 1>friends where he lived. I mean, it sounds to me, Kurt,

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<v Speaker 1>like Sydney realizes that she made a mistake and she's

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<v Speaker 1>really sorry about what she did. It was just like

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<v Speaker 1>everything was just thrown around too. She even clean up

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<v Speaker 1>after it was just like it was just a disaster.

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<v Speaker 1>I really, well, she just figured that she would come

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<v Speaker 1>back the next day. I don't recall that. Pardon if

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. I'm super horrified in every way right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I really, I mean, honestly, this seems unforgivable. But I

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<v Speaker 1>really hope that you'll just take my word that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not a tool and that like, I'm so sorry, and

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<v Speaker 1>I hope we can give it a second chance. As all,

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<v Speaker 1>she's impressed by you, bro, she's trying to show off

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<v Speaker 1>your pad to her friends. Yeah, and with that being said,

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<v Speaker 1>we want to send you out on another date and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll pay for it, Kurt, if you're willing to give

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<v Speaker 1>Sydney one more chance public pool. I mean, to be fair, Kurt,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't. I don't think she's like a gold digger.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she's trying to use you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it is hard to find a guy with a pool.

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<v Speaker 1>But she liked you for you before she knew about

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<v Speaker 1>the pool. Yeah, that was a She seemed sincere when

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<v Speaker 1>she told us about Yeah. Yeah, I mean, before you answer,

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<v Speaker 1>just think about Sydney in her shirt and her no

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<v Speaker 1>pants swimming around in your pool. Okay, I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to think about it. I've seen the video ready. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>just visualize it and then let us know. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think one more shot with Sydney on our bill?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I don't think so. I feel like it

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<v Speaker 1>and she blew it. I'm blew it. Oh this is

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<v Speaker 1>why you hook up the first night. Everybody swipe right on, Kurt,

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<v Speaker 1>hurry the rescue. You guys, you're welcome to use the

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<v Speaker 1>pool any time you want. Oh man, we've moved on.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.