1 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: You really do see that. There are women who like 2 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 1: keep the door open for you. Yeah, and those women. 3 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 2: Are like, really what I want to be when I 4 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 2: grow up? 5 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 3: I get it. 6 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 7 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:19,119 Speaker 3: Yes, As I have said many times before, I have 8 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:22,759 Speaker 3: made so many fun friends in this job, and sometimes 9 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 3: you become friends without even meeting someone. It's an increasing 10 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 3: thing in my business, the news, these remote hits. You've 11 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 3: seen them a hundred times, people doing a news segment 12 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 3: from their house. It became a necessity during COVID, but 13 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 3: since then just made things a little easier and cheaper, 14 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 3: so you're seeing more and more of these TV hits 15 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 3: from people's basements and offices and kitchens and home studios. 16 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 3: So I did countless remote hits with my next guest, 17 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 3: I think, starting in COVID or shortly thereafter, and only 18 00:00:55,520 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 3: recently physically met in person, like maybe a month ago, 19 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 3: two months ago. But however, weird the circumstances of our 20 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 3: not meeting and then meeting. I'm just so glad we did. 21 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 3: Because she's smart, she's fearless. She's one of the funniest 22 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 3: and wittiest producers of social media content in the game. 23 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 3: She's a novelist, a political writer, for everyone from Vogue 24 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 3: to the Daily Beast, the Atlantic special correspondent to Vanity Fair, 25 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 3: host of iHeart Podcasts, Fast Politics, and an MSNBC political analyst. 26 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:28,759 Speaker 3: It's Mollie John Fast. 27 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, thank you for having me. 28 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 3: I'm so excited to have you. People think of you. 29 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 3: I think in this like iteration, Oh they think politics. Yeah, 30 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 3: but this is as our listeners know. Off the cup 31 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 3: is off politics, yes, and on life. Do you remember life? 32 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 1: No? 33 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 3: Me neither. What is it right? What is that? 34 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 2: It's a thing we did before we had children. 35 00:01:58,200 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 3: The thing we did before we had children, and the 36 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 3: thing we did before politics took. 37 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 2: Over over our lives. 38 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, they kept I thought this was funny. They 39 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 3: kept pairing us together on that like Saturday Night show, 40 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 3: which I loved. But why did you think they liked 41 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 3: us together? 42 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: Because we're similar, but also we have different You know, 43 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:22,799 Speaker 1: you're from the conservative side, though, you know, a complicated 44 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 1: relationship with conservative with the Republican Party right now, as 45 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: is legitimate. And I'm from the more liberal side. But 46 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: you know, got my start writing for never you know, 47 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 1: never Trump publications like The Bulwark, so have a certain 48 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: never Trumpy bend. 49 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 50 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, So and then you know, as you and I 51 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: both know, CNN has a complicated relationship with trying to 52 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: represent a fullsome view of what. 53 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:59,679 Speaker 2: The political landscape looks like. Which is it? 54 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 1: I mean, it's something that I think is like a 55 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:05,919 Speaker 1: problem for the mainstream media or at large. 56 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 3: It's a legitimate challenge because you want, I anyway, I 57 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 3: want to hear from people representing Trump voters, right, I 58 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 3: think that's really important, But unfortunately so many of the 59 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 3: talking heads or surrogates are also just liars. And as 60 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 3: a news organization, you don't want to platform liars, and 61 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 3: you don't want to waste ten minutes of a segment 62 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 3: debunking or fact checking. Right, I'm not saying all, but 63 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 3: like that's that is the rub. Because you want to 64 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 3: hear from right voters you like Trump and why, but 65 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 3: you know, finding the people who will do that genuinely 66 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 3: and honestly it's hard. 67 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 1: That is it's the It is the problem with that 68 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: a lot of the people from the Trump ecosystem. And 69 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: this does not mean that oh out of you know, 70 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: this is not true of all Trump voters by any 71 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 1: stretch of imagination, but it's true of his surrogates to 72 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: some extent that there a lot of them are bad 73 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: faith actors, right, so they will get on television or 74 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: on your podcast and they will do they will filibuster 75 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: for as long as they can and guess yes, which 76 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 1: that with things that aren't true. 77 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 2: And then when you come to them. 78 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: And say, I'm thinking of like a specific female surrogate 79 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: of his where they said, you know, well there's you know, 80 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: there was pushback, by the way, the pushing back on 81 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 1: these things is so important and so hard to do, 82 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 1: and there was pushback and she said, well those are 83 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:43,280 Speaker 1: alternative facts, right, They're not you know the craw and 84 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 1: like it blows my mind. 85 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 3: But that's why I'm in therapy and why we're doing 86 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 3: this podcast that is not about politics, even though all 87 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 3: we've done so far is talk about is. We're not 88 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 3: gonna do that anymore. Okay, but I do want to 89 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 3: talk about TV. I've worked at all the networks. You 90 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 3: were at the and now you're at MSNBC. What's it 91 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 3: like now over at MSNBC. Is it different from when 92 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 3: you were with us at CNN. 93 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I just think I come from magazines in 94 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: the nineties, so remember like I come from like the 95 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 1: last days of magazines, you know, when magazines were you know, 96 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 1: the Devil Wears Prada. And also I'm not you know, 97 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 1: I'm a contributor. I'm not like a you know I 98 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: have I'm not in I don't I'm not in meetings 99 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 1: where at a huge editorial decisions are being made. 100 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 2: So I don't know about that. 101 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: But I've had a very nice experience there because they're 102 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: very lovely and it's also in this incredible building. 103 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 2: Or yea Rock, which is like, yeah, this iconic. 104 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 3: I used to love that part of it. 105 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 2: Yeah. 106 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 3: I was at MSNBC for about a year, like officially, 107 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 3: and I had a show there for about a year, 108 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 3: and our office was down the hall from SNL, right, 109 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 3: And I mean one time Kate McKinnon spoofed me, oh amazing, 110 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 3: right because same network, And the next day I run 111 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 3: into her in the hallway and she thinks I'm going 112 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 3: to be mad at her, and of course I wasn't awesome, 113 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 3: and so we hugged and you know, gossiped about it. 114 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 3: But like, that's the coolest part of working at thirty Rock. 115 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 3: You were just in TV lore, yeah yeah, yeah, but 116 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 3: you can feel it every time you walk in and 117 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 3: see that like peacock carpet. 118 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, I mean strat and that is and that's 119 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:41,160 Speaker 1: what it is. Yeah, you definitely feel like you're in 120 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 1: a kind of world that is New York iconic kind 121 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 1: of So I've had good experiences there, especially because like 122 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: I grew up in New York and my parents grew 123 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: up in New York and my kids are growing so 124 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 1: that element of it I'm really charmed by. 125 00:06:59,320 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 2: I get that. 126 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 3: Who has been the best person to work with on 127 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 3: TV at any network? 128 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: So I've had a lot of really incredible women who 129 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: have supported me, Like Mika has been amazing, and Nicole 130 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 1: Wallace has been amazing, and Joy Reid has been amazing, 131 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 1: you know, and I hope I'm not leaving anyone out. 132 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: There have been a bunch of women who have been 133 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: I'm meant too, but like a bunch of women producers. 134 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: There have just been a lot of people where they've 135 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: been really kind to me. I mean, Acosta is my buddy, 136 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: and I love Acosta, Jim Acosta, but like, there have 137 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: been a lot of people where they've just been like, really, 138 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: you really do see that there are women who like 139 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 1: keep the door open for you, and those women are 140 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: like really what I want to be when I grow up. 141 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 3: You know, I get it. 142 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, Like Alisa. 143 00:07:56,680 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 1: Menandez is another one, Katie Tar you know, just it's 144 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: like really generous, really nice. 145 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 2: You know. 146 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 1: I love Michael Steele. You know I love Michael Steele. 147 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: I love Simone too, But like, but like there have 148 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 1: just been a lot of people who have been really 149 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: like generous to me. And also just I mean Miek 150 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 1: has really been like has you know, Like I've had 151 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: problems and been like what should I do? And She's like, 152 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: do this, don't do that, do this stuff. And you 153 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 1: need a woman to like ex I mean, it doesn't 154 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: have to be a woman, but you need someone who 155 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: has like done this before to explain to you how 156 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: to do it a lot of times, and even if 157 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 1: it's just small, like nuanced things, it's really helpful. 158 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 3: Has anyone been shitty? 159 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 1: You know? I would say I have not had such 160 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 1: I have not had bad Okay, I haven't had any 161 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: bad experiences when anyone who works there, Okay, I've had 162 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: and I haven't had so many bad experiences. But more 163 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 1: I also like really am careful to be nice to everyone. Yeah, 164 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 1: because I think it's so important and I also think 165 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: like I am, like, you know, part of my situation 166 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: is like I had a lot of advantages because I 167 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 1: had a mother who was not in this business, but 168 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 1: who was a little bit famous, and I had grandfather 169 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 1: who was a little bit famous. 170 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:21,239 Speaker 2: So I had a lot of advantages. 171 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: So I was able to you know, I got treated 172 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: better than some other people. 173 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:27,679 Speaker 2: It's funny. 174 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 1: I was actually thinking about this. This is I don't 175 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 1: know how dark you want to go here about dark? Okay, 176 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 1: So a friend of mine, this was years ago, maybe 177 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: ten years ago. A friend of mine is a There 178 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 1: were sort of two women writers who were in this 179 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: world that doesn't really exist anymore, that were like these 180 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 1: sort of feminist but kind of anti feminist feminists. 181 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 3: Wait, I think I know who you're gonna say. 182 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 1: This is like nineties world. I'm not gonna say who 183 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 1: they are, but I'll just tell you the story. So 184 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 1: I think it was one of these terrible stories about 185 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: someone being sexually asked by their boss. And a friend 186 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 1: of mine wrote a piece basically saying, well, this didn't 187 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: happen to me, so it couldn't happen to her to 188 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: the extent that she could. And she also came from 189 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 1: a literary family, and the thing what you have to 190 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: realize about coming from you have an advantage, so people 191 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 1: might not sexually harass you the way they would sexually 192 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 1: harass someone who's from Arkansas and doesn't know anyone and 193 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 1: doesn't have that the kind of like structure around them 194 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 1: to protect them. 195 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. 196 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I always feel like I had a lot 197 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 1: of protection in certain ways. So that's why not that 198 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 1: there aren't people who might be shitty to me. But 199 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:44,079 Speaker 1: I think like I'm always cognizant of that as an advantage, 200 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 1: and so I feel like I'm really careful just to 201 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,439 Speaker 1: like when I look at things, like I say, well, 202 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: this person is very nice to me, but it doesn't 203 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 1: necessarily mean that I can judge them on that. 204 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,679 Speaker 3: Yea, if that makes sense, it does make sense. And 205 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 3: in fact, I remember, I think I don't know if 206 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 3: I was at MS or it was after that, but 207 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:06,680 Speaker 3: someone there was accused of sexual harassment and a number 208 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 3: of women came out and said he never did that 209 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 3: to me, right, They wrote it in a letter, And 210 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 3: I thought, that's really shitty because that means nothing. It 211 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 3: means absolutely nothing, saying he didn't do it to me. Therefore, 212 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 3: so yeah, I mean, I don't think you have to 213 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 3: be in a position of privilege, although it helps to 214 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:27,319 Speaker 3: just recognize that, like your experience is not. 215 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 2: In any wayone else's. 216 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And that's why I try to be 217 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 1: really thoughtful about, you know, how I interact with people 218 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:39,439 Speaker 1: in the world. I also, like, don't want to be 219 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 1: the person who ruined someone else's day. 220 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, right, we totally. 221 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 1: I think about that so much, like you want to 222 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:50,439 Speaker 1: be the person who, like, you know, somebody's talking their shrink. 223 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 3: About right, or like going home and talking to their 224 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 3: husband like, oh yeah, leave what this person did? 225 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 2: Yeah? 226 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. I want to talk about your childhood. Most people 227 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 3: know that you're the daughter of famous feminist icon novelist 228 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 3: Emily Jong, but your dad and granddad were also very 229 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 3: accomplished novelists as well. Because of all of that, did 230 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 3: writing come naturally to you? Like, what's your relationship with 231 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:20,599 Speaker 3: writing given how you know the environment you were raised in? 232 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:24,840 Speaker 1: So I hate writing and think it's the world but 233 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 1: I do it. 234 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 2: But I hate it. I mean I don't know how 235 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 2: I reach. 236 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 3: It's got actual goosebumps. 237 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 2: It sucks. 238 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 1: It's so I mean, I'm happy I get to do 239 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 1: it for a living. But it is like sometimes sometimes 240 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 1: it's great and sometimes you're like, oh, I'm so smart. 241 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 1: But a lot of times sometimes you're like, oh, this 242 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: is so good. I'm such a good writer. Everyone's gonna 243 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: love this. And then sometimes you're like this sucks. I 244 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 1: want to die. Yeah, there's a lot of that. I mean, no, 245 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 1: the thing with me is that I didn't know you 246 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 1: could do other stuff. I literally had no idea that 247 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: you could like work in a bank. Like someone told me, 248 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:06,719 Speaker 1: like my kids. Now I have all these kids, and 249 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, you want to go to law school, 250 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 1: or you want to go to law school, or maybe 251 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: you want to go to law school. But like but 252 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 1: like with but for me, I was like I thought 253 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 1: you just had. 254 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 2: To be a writer. 255 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 3: That's amazing. 256 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 1: Like I didn't know that there were other careers available 257 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 1: because I just came from such a. 258 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 2: Like myopic stock. Yeah, so I. 259 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: Was like it just literally I wrote a book when 260 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 1: I was nineteen because I like dropped out of college 261 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: and I thought my parents were going to be mad 262 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 1: at me. And I thought that if I wrote a book, 263 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 1: they would forgive me and that would be I mean, 264 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 1: it was like there's no it's literally it's like the worst. 265 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: It is absolutely like the worst, dumbest thinking ever, Like 266 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: I just didn't know, like nobody ever said to me, 267 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: like you might want to get a job doing something. 268 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:58,440 Speaker 3: I think a lot of a lot of your readers 269 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:00,320 Speaker 3: are going to be surprised to hear that, because you know, 270 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 3: I think you're a terrific writer and I'm I'm a 271 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:07,320 Speaker 3: writer who loves writing and I have to write. Yeah, 272 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:10,600 Speaker 3: it's like breathing. If I don't write it, I can't 273 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:13,440 Speaker 3: make sense of it. And that's been true of my 274 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 3: mental health. It's just been how I've been since maybe 275 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 3: thirteen fourteen. And writing came so naturally to me, in 276 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 3: fact that I didn't think it was a job, Like 277 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 3: I didn't think you could who could do this and 278 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 3: get paid for it? Like I couldn't imagine it. And 279 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 3: then I got to college and I started working at 280 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 3: the newspaper and I was like, Oh, this is it. 281 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 3: I can get paid to do what I absolutely love 282 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 3: and do what I have to do. And it's Mollie, 283 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 3: I could lose TV tomorrow and not care at all, 284 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 3: because it's the writing is all I care about. Yeah, 285 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 3: And I love it. I'm obsessed with it. 286 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 1: That is amazing, But not you. Now, if I did 287 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 1: get a real job, I would do it. 288 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 2: I mean no, I'm literally. 289 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 3: Like, I'm not good at anything else to get a 290 00:14:58,280 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 3: real job. 291 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 1: I mean I I just I would say there are 292 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: certain parts of it that I like. And when I 293 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 1: wrote this book that's coming out in June, about this memoir, 294 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: I really did have moments where because this memoir is 295 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 1: about how what happens when things really go wrong, and 296 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: I did have moments where I was like, I am 297 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. 298 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 2: I have to write this down. 299 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:25,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, so in that way, but then I was like, 300 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: I have to go to bed. I was like, I 301 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 1: have to write this down. I have to go eat 302 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 1: in ice cream. Now I'm going to slay. 303 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 3: Well, let's talk about writing about the hard things. Because 304 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 3: my first two books were nonfiction political, I was detached 305 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 3: from them completely. They were almost research projects. And this 306 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 3: book that I'm writing now is about my mental health 307 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 3: and having a nervous breakdown, and I'm struggling to finish 308 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 3: it because when I feel good, the last thing I 309 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 3: want to do is write about my mental health and 310 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 3: get back into that. So it's not that I'm avoiding it. 311 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 3: I'm protecting my mental health. But I have I want 312 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 3: to write it and I want to go into it. 313 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 3: But it's really hard and emotional, Yeah, to write about 314 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 3: the bad stuff. 315 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's hot. Yeah. 316 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 1: I mean this book I wrote is just makes me 317 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: want to die. I mean it's just so depressing. I 318 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 1: mean it's just dark. 319 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 2: You know. 320 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:25,200 Speaker 1: And and but but a lot of life is like 321 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 1: dark and funny and dark and interesting, you know what 322 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 1: I mean. It's like, you know, I think we do. 323 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 1: I think that's sort of how it works. 324 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 3: So people ask like, is it cathartic? 325 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 2: Right? 326 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 3: It's not cathartic for me, No at all. I'd cathartic 327 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 3: for you. 328 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 2: No. I mean I think it's like, is it cathartic? 329 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 3: No, No, it's torturous for me? 330 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 2: Torture, Yeah, it's really but it's and it's. 331 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 3: A means to an end. The end for me is 332 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 3: I want this book out there so people can understand how, 333 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 3: in my case anxiety works and maybe catch it earlier. 334 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:01,360 Speaker 3: It's a means to an end. The process is awful. 335 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think it's a means to an end. 336 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 1: I also think you do it because you want to 337 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 1: share what's happened to you and help people. 338 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 339 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 2: I also think you. 340 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 1: Do it because you have to, right, because they're just 341 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: no other choice. 342 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:19,679 Speaker 3: There's I mean, you can talk about it in therapy, 343 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 3: which I do, but like sometimes the outlet, right, the 344 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 3: book is the outlet and nothing else feels weighty enough. 345 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I mean also I don't know, I mean 346 00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:33,239 Speaker 1: I think it's good we still do it. There's so 347 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 1: much of American life that's become so like computerized. 348 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 349 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 1: So the idea that like I mean eventually I mean 350 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:48,159 Speaker 1: we come you know, we both you know, do cable news. 351 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:51,879 Speaker 1: Cable news is like there are millions less people with 352 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 1: cable boxes. 353 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:54,880 Speaker 3: Yes, like yeah, it's dying. 354 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 1: Where that goes next? It will go somewhere, but we 355 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: don't know how or where or why. And and you 356 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 1: know that's like I mean, now. 357 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 2: Well that was the thing though. 358 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 1: That was the thing with magazines, like you just could 359 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 1: tell that it was going online, and it was like 360 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 1: this ye to get it online. 361 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,359 Speaker 3: It was a bummer. I remember, I remember when I 362 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 3: was I worked at the New York Times for about 363 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 3: eight years, and I remember there was at first a 364 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:28,879 Speaker 3: real resistance to putting things online, and especially for free, 365 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:31,160 Speaker 3: Like they didn't want to put Twitter bugs under anything 366 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:33,880 Speaker 3: because they didn't want anything shared. And now, of course 367 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 3: that's the whole model, But yeah, it was because I 368 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:40,439 Speaker 3: love magazines too. Did you ever read when I was 369 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 3: like eighteen, a magazine called Brill's Content came out? Oh yeah, yeah, 370 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:45,640 Speaker 3: yeah Stephen Brill. 371 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 372 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 3: Well I spent my own money to get a subscription 373 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:51,639 Speaker 3: to that magazine. It was a covered media, it was 374 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 3: a media magazine. I was obsessed with it. 375 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:58,120 Speaker 2: I loved George, right, George was amazing. 376 00:18:58,440 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 3: That was such a good magazine. 377 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 1: I wonder if we could get George back. I don't 378 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 1: know why George doesn't exist anymore. Yes, I think someone 379 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 1: should restart George. 380 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 3: Someone like you. 381 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:15,200 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we should do by millions. That's a joke, everyone, 382 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:15,879 Speaker 2: that's a joke. 383 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:17,840 Speaker 3: Don't come and steal from Molly's. 384 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:22,879 Speaker 1: It's like, but yes, No, the best way to start 385 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 1: a media company is to want to lose a lot 386 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:25,439 Speaker 1: of money. 387 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 3: Yes, it's like buying a boat. It's a whole to 388 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:42,919 Speaker 3: throw money into your mom. Let's talk about your mom 389 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 3: for a minute. Yeah, she had a few marriages, a few. 390 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,200 Speaker 3: Did that shape your view of marriage. You've been married 391 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 3: a long time. 392 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:56,640 Speaker 1: Now, yeah, you know, I would say, did it shape 393 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:58,120 Speaker 1: my view of marriage? 394 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean my mom was. 395 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:11,239 Speaker 1: A complete train wrap whose life was completely shaped by 396 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 1: the fact that her parents were My grandmother was an alcoholic. 397 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:21,679 Speaker 1: My mother was an alcoholic. My grandmother had wanted to 398 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:25,879 Speaker 1: be a famous painter. She had not become a famous 399 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 1: painter her entire life. My grandmother believed that the reason 400 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 1: she was not a famous painter was because she had children. Oh, 401 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 1: she's somehow I know, this is really bad. She's somehow 402 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:39,399 Speaker 1: transmitted to my mother that if she ever wanted to 403 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 1: be famous, she should not have children, and the children 404 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:43,159 Speaker 1: could ruin your career. 405 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 2: It's not good. 406 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 1: And then my mother had me at thirty seven because 407 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 1: she wanted to have a kid, but she had a 408 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 1: very complicated relationship with me because she was worried that. 409 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 2: I would ruin her career and my dad. It's really bad. 410 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 1: And she published this novel that made her famous in 411 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,720 Speaker 1: nineteen seventy three, so I was born in nineteen seventy eight, 412 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 1: and basically she could not She just wanted to get 413 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 1: that fame back, and her whole life was this insane 414 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 1: cycle of trying to be famous again or trying to 415 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 1: hold on to that moment in nineteen seventy three. Whoa 416 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:32,280 Speaker 1: and a very very unsatisfying way to be in the world. 417 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,879 Speaker 3: Yes, did she ever get to a place where she 418 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 3: felt okay now now? 419 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:42,440 Speaker 1: And it was like it just was like the story 420 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 1: like my grandfather Howard Fast went to jail house. Some 421 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 1: American activities wrote Spartacus rode April morning. Spartacus became a 422 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:57,480 Speaker 1: big movie. He hated, hated, hated, hated Kirk Douglas, but 423 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:04,480 Speaker 1: like hated Kurt dug There's an article and cracked about 424 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:08,639 Speaker 1: the people being too honest in their document in the 425 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 1: commentary section of movies, and it was my grandfather being like, 426 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:18,359 Speaker 1: I hated Kurt Douglas. He doesn't, He didn't write any 427 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 1: of the lines. I was like, no one cares Grandpa, 428 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 1: like no one. He felt Kurt Douglas got too much 429 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:29,960 Speaker 1: credit for Spartacus. He was very mad. I mean literally 430 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:33,160 Speaker 1: to his dying day. He was like that fucking Kurt Douglas. 431 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 1: I was like, so let it go, right, let it go. 432 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 1: But he so he had like later success. He wrote 433 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 1: these trashy novels that became best sellers called The Immigrants, 434 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 1: and he kept writing books and it were varying degrees 435 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:50,719 Speaker 1: of good, but like he was able to kind of 436 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:54,879 Speaker 1: keep going with his career, whereas my mom really just 437 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 1: tried to get that fear of flying magic back. 438 00:22:58,400 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 439 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean my grandfather was a little different too, 440 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:07,159 Speaker 1: because he did really believe. I mean, he was very 441 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 1: They were both terrible narcissists, but my grandfather really believed 442 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:15,160 Speaker 1: that he was that in communism really a lot. 443 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 3: He believed in communism, yes, okay, and he. 444 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 1: Really believed in it, like he loved I mean, he 445 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 1: was very much a communist. Like some of those people 446 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 1: who went to jail were not communists. He was one 447 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 1: hundred percent of communists. But towards the end he lived 448 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 1: in here. 449 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 3: Was not wrongly accused, No, he was rightly accused. 450 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 2: But he did live in Greenwich. 451 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 1: And so the you can't be a really good communist 452 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 1: and live in Grantwich. 453 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,880 Speaker 3: No, you can be a good beatnik, right. 454 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 2: You can't be a good communist. 455 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 3: True, that needs to be an article. You can't be 456 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,640 Speaker 3: a good communist living in Greenwich Village. 457 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 2: No, Greenwich, Connecticut. 458 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 1: No, I'm aware, Yeah, like you can't. 459 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 2: No Greenwedge, Connecticut. 460 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:05,399 Speaker 3: Oh you can't be a communist. Yes, you're only allowed 461 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 3: to be a wasp. Yes, she was frown next to me. 462 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was a Jewish communist who lived in Greenwich, Connecticut. 463 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,879 Speaker 3: So yeah, that's amazing. 464 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 2: Do with that what you will? 465 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,680 Speaker 3: We have some mutual friends, and I've heard about your 466 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 3: very cool parties you have. Is that Andy Levy that's 467 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,920 Speaker 3: one of them who shall not be named because he's 468 00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 3: probably convalescing somewhere, but I have why is he? Wellie? 469 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,160 Speaker 3: I want to have a podcast. It's called What's Wrong 470 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,680 Speaker 3: with Andy Today? And it's just me asking Andy Levy 471 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,200 Speaker 3: what's wrong today? Because it's amazing. 472 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 2: Is he just a hypochondriac? 473 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 3: Listen? I would never speak of him that way, but yes, okay, I. 474 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,120 Speaker 1: Got a right just check it out because like, as 475 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,960 Speaker 1: a Jew myself, I who. 476 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:57,679 Speaker 2: Is somebody who's like, did you have an have you 477 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 2: had an MRI? I'm like, what we like? 478 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:02,159 Speaker 3: I had no one? 479 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 2: Right with contrast or without? Like you know, I've had 480 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 2: all the you know, I've had. 481 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,480 Speaker 3: Everything you can have. Yeah, but Andy and partly thinks 482 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 3: he just likes having things done. But yes, it's been 483 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,880 Speaker 3: his wrist, his elbow, his stomach, his this, his that. Yes, 484 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:24,360 Speaker 3: and I knew I knew it might be psychological when 485 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 3: he started telling me his cats were also having health issues. 486 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:32,480 Speaker 2: So he has munch asens by proxy with the cats. 487 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 3: That's that's I adore Andy, And Andy, if you hear this, 488 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:37,560 Speaker 3: I believe you, I really do. 489 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,479 Speaker 2: But no, I believe you too. Andy. 490 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:43,440 Speaker 3: The parties, I haven't been to one because you haven't 491 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 3: invited me, but. 492 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:45,399 Speaker 2: I will invite you. 493 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 3: But they sound like a throwback to the kinds of 494 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 3: cocktail parties I imagine, like your mom going to or 495 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 3: your mom having like the cock TOI Manhattan cocktail parties 496 00:25:56,520 --> 00:26:00,359 Speaker 3: that like defined like the sixties and seventies is and 497 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:01,640 Speaker 3: we're like the place to be. 498 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:06,119 Speaker 1: Right like the the I'm trying to think of the 499 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 1: the Black Panthers party at on Park Avenue, remember for 500 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 1: that was written about by Tom Wolfe. Yes, right, I 501 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 1: have not been. I've been sort of like not doing 502 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 1: as many parties because I just amlet for whatever reason, 503 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,120 Speaker 1: I'm I just it's not where my head is right now. 504 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 2: But I do. I do what I like. 505 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 1: The thing that I am obsessed with, and the central 506 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 1: tenant for all of this is that I I really 507 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 1: like introducing people to each other. 508 00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:48,120 Speaker 2: Yes, and that's why. Yeah, And that's like my thing. 509 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,679 Speaker 1: Like if I can introduce you to someone who you 510 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:54,120 Speaker 1: can be best friends with or work with or mary 511 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,760 Speaker 1: you know that for whatever reason like that, there's nothing 512 00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,679 Speaker 1: that makes me happier than that. 513 00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,399 Speaker 2: I like that too, Yeah, because it just is. And 514 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,480 Speaker 2: it's also like you'll meet someone and you'll be like 515 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,200 Speaker 2: this person needs to know this person and it'll make 516 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:09,600 Speaker 2: you crazy until they do. 517 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 3: Yes, I feel the same way. 518 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I really like So that's ultimately the primary 519 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 1: purpose on all of that is just to get I 520 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: feel like this person should know this person. 521 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,680 Speaker 2: And then if they know each other, like who knows, 522 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:23,439 Speaker 2: what will happen? 523 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,440 Speaker 3: Who do I need to know in your in your 524 00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:26,199 Speaker 3: social circle? 525 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:28,919 Speaker 1: Well, I'm trying to think you have to sort of 526 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 1: I have to like now think about like this is 527 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 1: what will happen. It'll come to me and it'll be like, 528 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:42,480 Speaker 1: you know, s he needs to know this person because. 529 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 3: They are what if I said, like if I told 530 00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:49,680 Speaker 3: you I'm super obsessed with musicals and I've always been 531 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,520 Speaker 3: into musicals, like this might give you an idea to 532 00:27:52,680 --> 00:28:10,439 Speaker 3: someone yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You're a mom and 533 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:15,159 Speaker 3: like me because you're tuned into the news, plugged in, 534 00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,119 Speaker 3: well read whatever however you want it to be. I'm 535 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:23,360 Speaker 3: sure you want your kids to be thoughtful news consumers. 536 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 3: You want them to know what's going on. I do too. 537 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 3: I read The Week Junior with my nine. 538 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 2: Year old every week, every week. 539 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 3: But also the news is really scary. 540 00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:38,160 Speaker 2: Yes, So two things. How do I raise good news consumers? 541 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 3: Yeah? 542 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 1: First, I have really cracked the code on this, and 543 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 1: so I want to tell everyone this. 544 00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 2: I have three kids in twenty two, sixteens. 545 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:58,120 Speaker 1: I subscribe to three newspapers okay in print okay, And 546 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 1: every morning i'd bakfast, there are three newspapers at the 547 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 1: dining room table. So if you come to breakfast, you're 548 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 1: probably going to open a newspaper. 549 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 3: I love that. 550 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 1: And if you'll open a newspaper, you're probably gonna know 551 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 1: what's going on. 552 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 2: And so that is I do the ft the. 553 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 1: New York Times and the Horrible, Horrible New York Post, 554 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:20,920 Speaker 1: which that was not my pick. 555 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:22,840 Speaker 2: That's a more complicated story. 556 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 3: But I have to read page six every day. 557 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 1: Yes, exactly. Well that one of my kids subscribe to 558 00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 1: it to make us mad. 559 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 3: But that's a real story. That's how you make Molly mad. 560 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 1: It really my husband, I actually deal with it much 561 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:38,160 Speaker 1: better than he does. 562 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:39,560 Speaker 2: He's like, I just can't. 563 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,720 Speaker 1: He's like sometimes he'll just be like, I can't, I 564 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 1: can't because I know there are other views, Whereas he's 565 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 1: just like, I can't, I can't. 566 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 2: He gets him so angry. 567 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 1: But but but yeah, so like that. Yeah, so people 568 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:57,600 Speaker 1: read the newspaper in our house. And then also, I 569 00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 1: don't I mean, you have a nine year old. Nine 570 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 1: year olds don't need to know everything. 571 00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 3: You know, no details. 572 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, my kids are older, so I feel they like 573 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:09,920 Speaker 1: can know pretty much everything. 574 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,960 Speaker 2: I mean, what's so interesting about that? 575 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 1: What's happening right now with the Republicans at the state 576 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:19,400 Speaker 1: legislature who are banning books. 577 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:21,680 Speaker 2: These kids have bones. 578 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 1: They are literally like they can get like the most 579 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:27,960 Speaker 1: grotesque pornography. 580 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 2: I mean they can get anything. 581 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 3: They read feature books with a. 582 00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 1: Clique, like you wish they were reading books, right, I 583 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 1: mean like their I'm like what you oh, yeah, they're 584 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 1: going right, I mean exactly. I mean, like you know 585 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 1: what they're gonna ban. I mean they're gonna ban fax machines. Next, 586 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 1: like nobody doesn't fun and so that so that's always like, 587 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 1: you know, there's just so only so much control you 588 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 1: can have. I mean with the nine year olds is different, 589 00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 1: but with yea with older kids is that you know, 590 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 1: you kind of have to you you know, you hope 591 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,520 Speaker 1: that they have a moral compass and that they don't 592 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 1: do drugs and that they don't do crime or something, 593 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 1: and you know, and then you sort of, you know, 594 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 1: you kind of have to trust that there's a universe 595 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:17,720 Speaker 1: out there taking care of them. 596 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 3: That's hard for me. Yeah, speaking of minds, because a lot 597 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 3: of my anxiety stems from parenthood. What how do you 598 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:25,040 Speaker 3: protect your mental health? 599 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 2: So okay, so there are a couple of things I do. 600 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 1: One is I'm just like careful about like I don't 601 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 1: I try not to like I'm trying to do too much. 602 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:40,680 Speaker 1: So for example, like during the DNC, I did not 603 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 1: go to a lot of parts, Like there were all 604 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 1: these fun parties. I didn't go to any of them. 605 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 1: I just like went home in god in bed. Yeah, 606 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 1: I mean part of it because I have one vocal cord, 607 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 1: I do have to really protect my voice, so I 608 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 1: can't like go to parties and scream at people and 609 00:31:55,760 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 1: like like you know, but then also so I do that, 610 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 1: but I also just like I just don't have the 611 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 1: bandwidth for because you know, I'm sober since I was nineteen, 612 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 1: I guess one was nineteen, and like when you're sober, 613 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: some of that stuff really like if somebody spills a 614 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:15,960 Speaker 1: drink on me, I really don't like that. 615 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:19,200 Speaker 3: It's not funny. It's not fun like that, I really 616 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,960 Speaker 3: don't like it's not it's like real annoying. 617 00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, there are a few things I like less than 618 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:30,400 Speaker 1: coming home smelling like someone else's like alcohol that they accidentally. 619 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:30,440 Speaker 2: Spilled on me. 620 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 1: Yes, So so that kind of thing, like I don't 621 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:39,480 Speaker 1: I'm careful not to set myself up for being too 622 00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:45,960 Speaker 1: exhausted or also feeling like I'm just not getting you know, time, 623 00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,959 Speaker 1: So I do that, And then I also I just 624 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 1: am like protective of like if people like I won't 625 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:56,120 Speaker 1: necessarily engage with stuff that I think is destructive. Like 626 00:32:56,640 --> 00:33:00,560 Speaker 1: even like with my friends, I won't talk about politics, yeah, 627 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 1: because it's. 628 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 3: Like, but don't they want to talk to you about politics? 629 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 3: Because that's all my friends and family. 630 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,760 Speaker 2: So this is the thing that is so interesting to me. 631 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 1: There was like years ago, I was at a dinner 632 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 1: and I was with this food reviewer and I was like. 633 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 2: Oh, this is so great. 634 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 1: I love eating, Like I just want to talk to 635 00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,400 Speaker 1: you about restaurants, and he just want to talk to 636 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 1: me about politics. And he had the most atrocious political 637 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 1: views ever, like just like you know, and they were 638 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 1: just like and it was like one of these things 639 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 1: where he was trying to bait me, Like he was like, so, 640 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 1: what do you think about the border? And he's like, 641 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 1: but something has to happen on it, and I was like, 642 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 1: oh Jesus fun, you know. I was like and I 643 00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:41,960 Speaker 1: just wanted to know about like the best new Chinese restaurant, right, 644 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,760 Speaker 1: And it was like, really he didn't want to talk 645 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 1: about food, and I didn't want to talk about. 646 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. I have to be more cognizant of that, 647 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:51,960 Speaker 3: because that's how I would be if I were sitting 648 00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:53,880 Speaker 3: next to a food critic. I'd be like, I want 649 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,320 Speaker 3: to know everything, right, and he probably doesn't want to 650 00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:57,920 Speaker 3: talk about it, just like I don't want to talk 651 00:33:57,960 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 3: about politics. 652 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 1: Talking about politics, I went to a dinner where they 653 00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 1: were like, we're like somehow they were all like, we 654 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 1: want to hear what we have to say. 655 00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,319 Speaker 2: And I was like no, I was like. 656 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,879 Speaker 3: I get paid for this. Shoot me. I mean that's 657 00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,040 Speaker 3: the the first thing is people pay me to do this. 658 00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:15,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. 659 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 3: The second thing is I do this all fucking day. 660 00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:21,280 Speaker 3: I don't want to do it in my off time. 661 00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,920 Speaker 1: And also the other thing is that they want you 662 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 1: like usually it's not that they agree with you and 663 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 1: want to tell you how great you are. 664 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:33,480 Speaker 3: No, it's the opposite. Yeah, they're dying to tell you 665 00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:37,279 Speaker 3: what you're wrong about and and they want your validation 666 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,600 Speaker 3: that they are on the right track, that they said 667 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,239 Speaker 3: something really smart. And yeah, I realized this makes me 668 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,880 Speaker 3: sound very snobbish. And I always love talking to fans 669 00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:46,360 Speaker 3: and people who want to talk. 670 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:50,319 Speaker 1: About fans different. I mean, a fan is like I 671 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,520 Speaker 1: want to take a selfie with you. If you're a fan, 672 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:53,960 Speaker 1: I want to be there with you. 673 00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:55,360 Speaker 2: That's different. 674 00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:59,040 Speaker 1: I'm talking about like family friends, you want to yell 675 00:34:59,080 --> 00:34:59,319 Speaker 1: at you. 676 00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember so. I when I first got their 677 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,720 Speaker 3: job at CNN, like eleven years ago, I was home 678 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 3: visiting my parents and we went to their country club. 679 00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:13,000 Speaker 3: By god, I'm just digging myself a deeper and deeper 680 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,360 Speaker 3: hole here. But we went to we went to their 681 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:19,120 Speaker 3: country club for dinner, and one of their friends, this 682 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 3: guy comes like barreling over sc here, you got a 683 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:31,840 Speaker 3: job at that communist trash network CNN. And I just 684 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:36,480 Speaker 3: looked at him and I was like, who does this? 685 00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:39,880 Speaker 3: First of all, I'm a child to you, right, I 686 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:44,040 Speaker 3: was like thirty or whatever, And this is a job 687 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:47,960 Speaker 3: that's paying my bills, right, who are you? But like, 688 00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:53,040 Speaker 3: everyone has this entitled opinion about politics and your job, 689 00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 3: and you're on the wrong side. And I'm just going 690 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:57,400 Speaker 3: to tell you, even though you did not ask, right, 691 00:35:58,320 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 3: it's annoying. 692 00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:01,560 Speaker 2: No, I agree, I agree, I agree. 693 00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:06,360 Speaker 3: I haven't come up with the right, perfect thing to 694 00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 3: say to get around it, to like avoid it. So 695 00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:10,759 Speaker 3: right now, all I've got is I don't want to 696 00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:15,759 Speaker 3: talk about politics. That's not it's not great, it's not creative, 697 00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:18,960 Speaker 3: it's not endearing. So I'm trying to find the thing 698 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,520 Speaker 3: that gets me out of those conversations with friends and family. 699 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,399 Speaker 3: But I'll let you know what I do. Oh good, 700 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:26,120 Speaker 3: but okay, I want to do. It's kind of a 701 00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:28,080 Speaker 3: lightning round. You don't you don't have to be like 702 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:36,040 Speaker 3: one word answers, But it's kind of quick. Okay, we've 703 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,920 Speaker 3: sort of gotten to this. But if you weren't a writer, 704 00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:39,160 Speaker 3: what would you be? 705 00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:46,560 Speaker 2: I would be a I don't know. I guess I 706 00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:50,920 Speaker 2: would be a Oh, I don't know. I guess it 707 00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 2: would be like it's too hard. I don't know. 708 00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:59,279 Speaker 1: Everything else is too hard, right every Yeah, I mean, 709 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:00,520 Speaker 1: I guess i'd be like it. 710 00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:05,360 Speaker 3: I don't know, you know, I don't know either. I 711 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,319 Speaker 3: mean I can't picture anything else either. 712 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:12,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, okay, an oddity shop. I'd have an 713 00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:17,160 Speaker 1: audity shop and I would sell like ostra eggs and 714 00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:20,400 Speaker 1: fat goals and yeah, yea, yeah, I like that. 715 00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:24,960 Speaker 3: There's a really good one of those in the village. 716 00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 3: Could you see yourself living in a foreign country and where? 717 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 2: Yes? If Trump wins Canada England. 718 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:39,160 Speaker 1: Speaking countries, right, it's a little cheaper than England. 719 00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:42,920 Speaker 2: Not that I've checked this out or not sure that you. 720 00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I could see, yes, especially if he's like 721 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,440 Speaker 1: locking us all up, if there's like if he starts 722 00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 1: really locking people up, like like I I it's because 723 00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:55,800 Speaker 1: my brother and I had a long talk about this 724 00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,960 Speaker 1: because our father, our grandfather, went to jail, so he 725 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,479 Speaker 1: was like, you know, Graham being in jail was really 726 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:02,800 Speaker 1: good for Grandpa's career. 727 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,720 Speaker 2: And I was like, I am not going to jail 728 00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:06,880 Speaker 2: for being a writer. 729 00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,840 Speaker 1: Like I was like, I know it was good for 730 00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:12,879 Speaker 1: Grandpa's career, but I am not going to do it. 731 00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:14,719 Speaker 3: I will not follow in his foot sex. 732 00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,320 Speaker 1: No, I was like, I don't want to go to jail. 733 00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:19,799 Speaker 1: And I was like, and you shouldn't want me to 734 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,359 Speaker 1: go to jail either. 735 00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:22,920 Speaker 3: Like you should not. 736 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,920 Speaker 2: You are my brother, you should we have different mothers, 737 00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,360 Speaker 2: but you should not want me to go to jail. 738 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:37,719 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, we both got a few degrees. Yes, is 739 00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:38,840 Speaker 3: college worth it today? 740 00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,759 Speaker 1: I only have one degree, I have an MFA. I 741 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,279 Speaker 1: don't I never want to agree. Yeah, but I never 742 00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:46,640 Speaker 1: went to college, so I can't speak to whether college 743 00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 1: is worth it. I think, look, is college worth it? 744 00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:50,280 Speaker 1: It's a good question. 745 00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:56,000 Speaker 2: I think that it depends right if you're I think there. 746 00:38:55,840 --> 00:39:00,840 Speaker 1: Are certainly a lot of ways in which COMEDE is 747 00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:04,320 Speaker 1: really great. And I have this the this is something 748 00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:07,440 Speaker 1: I want to do that I want politicians to do. 749 00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:08,359 Speaker 2: They'll never do it. 750 00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,319 Speaker 1: It's like wildly unpopular, but I think everyone in this 751 00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,760 Speaker 1: country should do a national year of service. 752 00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:18,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, at eighteen and like that can be the army. 753 00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:23,640 Speaker 1: That can be working in daycare, like being a daycare worker, 754 00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:27,000 Speaker 1: that could be working in eldercare, that could be working 755 00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:29,640 Speaker 1: in the parks, that could be Like I love the 756 00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:33,680 Speaker 1: idea that every single American kid from the age of 757 00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:39,919 Speaker 1: eighteen to nineteen works in this federal service program, and 758 00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,640 Speaker 1: that it's like a couple different things, so you don't 759 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be the Army. 760 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,360 Speaker 2: It could be any number of things, but their service. 761 00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:51,160 Speaker 1: Oriented and that they all get to know each other 762 00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 1: and they're all from you know, they are rich kids 763 00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,000 Speaker 1: and poor kids, and white kids and black kids and 764 00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:59,799 Speaker 1: this and that where you get everybody together and they 765 00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:03,000 Speaker 1: all have this shared experience and it is like what 766 00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:04,279 Speaker 1: it means to be an American. 767 00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,040 Speaker 2: It's a way of giving back. 768 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,400 Speaker 1: And it's also I mean, I think they should be paid, 769 00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 1: you know, I think they should be paid like federal employees. 770 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:14,480 Speaker 1: But I also just think it's like a very cool 771 00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:17,680 Speaker 1: kind of because what the problem is just and this 772 00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:21,040 Speaker 1: just gets back to college, is the problem with college 773 00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:24,680 Speaker 1: is that people are not ready at eighteen to go 774 00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:25,160 Speaker 1: into the world. 775 00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:26,919 Speaker 2: I say this as someone who dropped out. 776 00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,480 Speaker 1: Of college and went into the world at eighteen, Like 777 00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:32,879 Speaker 1: it's too young, especially right now, and so they need 778 00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:36,400 Speaker 1: a place to go where they can learn to be 779 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:40,360 Speaker 1: a half adult and learn to and that's what college 780 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:44,759 Speaker 1: functions as that in itself is good. It shouldn't be 781 00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 1: eighty thousand dollars a year, and so, like the question 782 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:51,840 Speaker 1: is in my mind, like part of the reason we 783 00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:55,120 Speaker 1: have this student loan crisis is because these colleges are 784 00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,080 Speaker 1: eighty thousand dollars a year and it was sort of 785 00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:00,359 Speaker 1: like de facto you would go to them and then 786 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 1: you could go and have a job where you don't 787 00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:05,719 Speaker 1: make eighty thousand dollars a year and you have to 788 00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,960 Speaker 1: pay off forty years of eighty thousand dollars. 789 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:09,120 Speaker 2: A year with crazy. 790 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 1: So so my thinking is that I would love to 791 00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:15,200 Speaker 1: see like I would love to see like more money 792 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:20,319 Speaker 1: spend on community colleges cheaper state colleges, so like you 793 00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 1: can choose between going to a forty thousand dollars a 794 00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,920 Speaker 1: year college or a twenty thousand dollars a year college 795 00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:29,640 Speaker 1: or a you know, like there should be I don't 796 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:33,120 Speaker 1: think like, for example, right now, very fancy ivy league 797 00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:37,480 Speaker 1: colleges can be free in itself that's great, but you 798 00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:40,239 Speaker 1: you should have you know, there should be like University 799 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:44,320 Speaker 1: of California should be you know, if you're in state, 800 00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:48,680 Speaker 1: very very cheap and that and there should be you know, 801 00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:50,840 Speaker 1: if you're in state, you should get a huge preference, 802 00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:53,200 Speaker 1: and there should be a you know, there should be 803 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:56,239 Speaker 1: college that you can go to that's in nearly free, right. 804 00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,160 Speaker 1: And then if you want to go to Harvard and 805 00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,279 Speaker 1: you want to spend eighty thousand dollars a year and 806 00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,719 Speaker 1: you have or you have the money or you have 807 00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:07,080 Speaker 1: the kind of you can apply for the grants to 808 00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,359 Speaker 1: do it, then that's fine, but that there should be 809 00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:11,720 Speaker 1: really I mean that we we. 810 00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:12,759 Speaker 2: And we're rich enough. 811 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,359 Speaker 1: I mean, we're this really really rich country where we're 812 00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:18,440 Speaker 1: giving you know, we're giving Elon Musk hundreds of millions 813 00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:21,320 Speaker 1: of dollars in government subsidies so that he can tweet 814 00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:26,040 Speaker 1: all day. We should be giving that money to University 815 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:30,360 Speaker 1: of Colorado, the state you know, the state college system, 816 00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:34,000 Speaker 1: and we should be supporting such things. Okay, sorry, no 817 00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:35,360 Speaker 1: to get political. 818 00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:40,560 Speaker 3: Great worst fashion trend today, I think. 819 00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,760 Speaker 2: All the oversized clothing is not so great. 820 00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:46,480 Speaker 1: And everyone, I mean, I guess it's good and it's 821 00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,040 Speaker 1: maybe it's a little feminist, so I shouldn't say that. 822 00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:51,880 Speaker 1: But I don't want to be so oversized, especially in 823 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:54,759 Speaker 1: New York where the streets are really dirty, like you 824 00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:58,680 Speaker 1: don't want your cuffs dragging on the ground. 825 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:03,680 Speaker 2: It makes me anxious. Oat, okay, oversize. 826 00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:06,200 Speaker 3: Best novel of the twentieth century. Oh. 827 00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:08,840 Speaker 1: I So this is hard because there I like a 828 00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:13,160 Speaker 1: lot of books that aren't that are like not like 829 00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:17,480 Speaker 1: I love Bonfire the Vanities, even though I know that 830 00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:21,960 Speaker 1: Tom Wolfe has has problems and I love. 831 00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:25,200 Speaker 2: There are a lot of books that I love that 832 00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:25,840 Speaker 2: are like that. 833 00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:29,479 Speaker 1: But I'm going to go with Bonfire the Vanities because 834 00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:32,000 Speaker 1: it's like, it's just a book about the world that 835 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,920 Speaker 1: I grew up in that's pretty that I relate to. 836 00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:36,120 Speaker 2: But it's well done. 837 00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:40,640 Speaker 3: I think my favorite novel is I think it'd be 838 00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:41,919 Speaker 3: like Rabbit Run John. 839 00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:43,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, it's okay. 840 00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. Two more questions. First, what's san Culter's deal? 841 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:49,920 Speaker 2: I think I. 842 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:54,640 Speaker 1: Actually read this really interesting book called Partisans, which talked 843 00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:59,960 Speaker 1: about the world that created and culture, which was very 844 00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:01,240 Speaker 1: very involved with Bill Maher. 845 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:04,800 Speaker 2: Yes, and I wondered. 846 00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:09,520 Speaker 1: If and Culter's deal is that she is she's kind 847 00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:13,000 Speaker 1: of a she's a she's a woman who has gotten 848 00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:19,120 Speaker 1: a lot of she has gotten a lot of money, power, 849 00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,839 Speaker 1: success from all of her worst opinions. 850 00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:26,359 Speaker 3: Yes, do you think she's lonely? I think about this 851 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:30,440 Speaker 3: a lot, Like I don't agree with her, right obviously, Yeah, 852 00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:33,200 Speaker 3: we both went to Cornell, which it doesn't make me 853 00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:37,279 Speaker 3: feel good either, But I wonder is she, like, is 854 00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:40,480 Speaker 3: she lonely being out there with so many bad opinions? 855 00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:43,520 Speaker 1: I think that, Like, it's funny because my mom went 856 00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:46,359 Speaker 1: to college with Martha Stewart, and my mother and Martha 857 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:49,480 Speaker 1: Stewart always like hated each other and at this crazy rival, right, 858 00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:54,480 Speaker 1: and because my and and Martha Stewart, you know, I 859 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,160 Speaker 1: wrote this piece about it in the New York Review 860 00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:57,799 Speaker 1: of Books and million years ago where I was like, 861 00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:02,160 Speaker 1: Martha Stewart was this girl who came from really a 862 00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:06,719 Speaker 1: poor family, was an immigrant, like had She was like 863 00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:10,880 Speaker 1: working her way through college modeling and also like cooking, 864 00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,640 Speaker 1: and then married this guy who my mother slept with 865 00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:15,240 Speaker 1: while they were married. 866 00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:17,600 Speaker 2: But my mom was like he slept with everyone. I 867 00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:19,520 Speaker 2: was like, okay, but you. 868 00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:20,319 Speaker 3: Know, like. 869 00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:25,400 Speaker 1: Martha had this very tough upbringing in a certain way, 870 00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 1: and my mother had had this very I mean, my 871 00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:30,640 Speaker 1: mother was very fucked up, but she had had this 872 00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:32,920 Speaker 1: sort of grew up on the Upper West Side and 873 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:36,520 Speaker 1: her parents were very genteel and while they weren't necessarily 874 00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:38,520 Speaker 1: good parents, she had a lot of secure you know, 875 00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:42,279 Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of structure around her to 876 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,839 Speaker 1: protect her. And when her first husband went crazy, which 877 00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:48,720 Speaker 1: you probably shouldn't marry a person who you could probably 878 00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:51,120 Speaker 1: a normal person might have been able to see that 879 00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:56,000 Speaker 1: he was schizophrenic. Okay again, but like she had, her 880 00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:59,040 Speaker 1: parents rescued her. She had a structure that helped her, 881 00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,160 Speaker 1: you know, in some ways. I don't know where I 882 00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:03,719 Speaker 1: was going with a story. Oh I know where I 883 00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,920 Speaker 1: was going. So my mother when we saw Martha, you know, 884 00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:09,480 Speaker 1: I asked her, you know, I said, like, Martha Stewart 885 00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:12,439 Speaker 1: has billions of dollars. Aren't you super jealous that she's 886 00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:17,520 Speaker 1: so rich and successful and iconic and famous? And you're famous? 887 00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:20,399 Speaker 1: But now really that famous? Complained to the Steward. And 888 00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:25,160 Speaker 1: she was like, she seems really lonely. Uh huh, yeah, 889 00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:28,360 Speaker 1: And I mean, now my mom is also lonely because 890 00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:32,120 Speaker 1: she's got Tomni living in a nursing home. But I 891 00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:35,560 Speaker 1: just thought, like I kind of get that sense a yeah, 892 00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,080 Speaker 1: and culter, but who knows. You know, she has a 893 00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:39,320 Speaker 1: lot of money. 894 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 3: Okay, last question, when is iced coffee season? 895 00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,560 Speaker 2: I'm not an iced coffee person. The thing I like, 896 00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:47,560 Speaker 2: I know. 897 00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:51,279 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, we're really getting into the controversial opinions here. 898 00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:51,680 Speaker 3: It hurts me. 899 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:55,960 Speaker 2: I like iced tea and lemonade half and half. 900 00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:59,320 Speaker 3: Arnold Palmer mm hmm. Yeah, well that's delicious, but it 901 00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:00,960 Speaker 3: has nothing to do with iced coffee. 902 00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:02,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's better than ice coffee. 903 00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:04,720 Speaker 3: That's like the wrong answer. 904 00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,319 Speaker 1: But iced coffee is so bitter and not if you 905 00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:10,920 Speaker 1: put sweetener in it. Oh no, I don't like sweetener. 906 00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:14,800 Speaker 1: I love sweet things, but I don't like sweetener and coffee. 907 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:17,160 Speaker 1: And like if you put too much milk in it, 908 00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:20,360 Speaker 1: it gets really gross because the ice aw melts and 909 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:21,320 Speaker 1: it gets too melty. 910 00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:24,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's why you have to drink it fast. 911 00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:28,239 Speaker 1: But then you can do it's too cold and then 912 00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:31,640 Speaker 1: your teeth I have veneers, so it's too cold on 913 00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:32,360 Speaker 1: your teeth. 914 00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,640 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, And then you're cold. Then you have to 915 00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,080 Speaker 2: put on a sweater. Too cold. 916 00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:40,960 Speaker 3: We've written a whole story around the ice coffee. 917 00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:43,600 Speaker 1: Past coffee, just like one. I would have ice coffee 918 00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:45,360 Speaker 1: if it had like one or two ice cubes and 919 00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,040 Speaker 1: it was like room temperate coffee. 920 00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:48,680 Speaker 3: No, that's the wrong way to drink it. 921 00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:53,120 Speaker 2: That's what I would at coffee is water. Yeah, that's 922 00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:53,640 Speaker 2: what I like. 923 00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,239 Speaker 3: Well, jump fast. This was delightful. Thanks so much. 924 00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:59,319 Speaker 1: Don't tell Andy that I like room temperature coffee. I 925 00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,279 Speaker 1: feel like i've I don't want him to know that. 926 00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:06,160 Speaker 3: I won't tell Andy. We were talking about him. Okay, 927 00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:06,920 Speaker 3: we love. 928 00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:09,000 Speaker 2: And Andy, we love you. We're sorry. 929 00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:12,080 Speaker 1: We were talking about your reflux and the weird magnet thing. 930 00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:13,720 Speaker 1: You got to control your reflux. 931 00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:17,960 Speaker 2: I hol people just take privas that you. 932 00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:20,920 Speaker 3: Can't do it. I can't do Sorry. We love him, Andy, 933 00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:26,600 Speaker 3: all right, thank you, Thank you. 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