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Subject the visiting pastor is my sugar daddy. 11 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I live in North Carolina, and I'm 12 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 1: in a long distance relationship with a man I've known 13 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 1: all my life. He's a great man that would never 14 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: cheat on me because he barely has enough money to 15 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,160 Speaker 1: take care of the two of us. After dating him 16 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: for seven years without him having a real plan for 17 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: our future, I cheated on him. I got a sugar 18 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: daddy that lives in the same city as my man. 19 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 3: He is a. 20 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: Preacher and he's thirty one years older than me. He 21 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: spoils me with gifts and he knows exactactly what he 22 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: is doing in the bedroom. But I have a potential 23 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: problem coming up Easter weekend, and I don't know what 24 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: I should do. My boyfriend is spending Easter Sunday in 25 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: North Carolina with me and my mom. My sugar Daddy 26 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: is going to be our visiting pastor at my home 27 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: church for Easter Sunday. He has no idea that I 28 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: have a boyfriend. He said, it's a no no. So 29 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: he called me today and said he's planning to stay 30 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: at my apartment because it's just one night. He also 31 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: said he wants to cook for me. I suggest it 32 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: would get a hotel suite and order room service. He said, 33 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: even though he's divorced, he wants to be discreet, so 34 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:39,960 Speaker 1: he'd rather stay at my place. I truly need him 35 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:43,400 Speaker 1: to get a hotel room because my boyfriend is staying 36 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: with me. I can't afford to mess things up with 37 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: my sugar Daddy because he's talking about buying me a 38 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: new car. My mom said, I'm thirty now, so I 39 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 1: should focus on the man with money, not the broke one. 40 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 1: Dumping my boyfriend on Easter would be too harsh. I 41 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: need advice. How do I decide who I'm spending Easter with? 42 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 3: Are you serious? Are you for real? 43 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 1: So you need Steve and I to help you navigate 44 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: between these two guys the best way to cheat. But 45 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: it seems to me like you're doing pretty good on 46 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 1: your own. I mean, both these guys live in the 47 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,639 Speaker 1: same city. You say, they don't live in your town. 48 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,959 Speaker 1: Your boyfriend of seven years, though he can't even afford 49 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: a hotel room. How are they just telling you where 50 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: they're gonna stay. Your mother must be right that your 51 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: boyfriend of seven years is broke or just really really cheap, 52 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: and not only that he sounds married or something like 53 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: he has another woman where he lives. Because after seven years, 54 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 1: you would think there would be some sort of movement 55 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 1: toward future plans for you guys. But no, no, he's just, 56 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:58,359 Speaker 1: you know, just come moving along with seven years. And 57 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: neither one of these men should should be trying to 58 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 1: stay at your house anyway. Let them get their own rooms. 59 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: Whenever they come to see you. Tell mister long distance 60 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: lover that your plans have changed and he can't come 61 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: for Easter at all. That's what you tell him. Tell 62 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: him that visiting pastor can't stay with you And why 63 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: should you be all stressed out and inconvenienced. He can 64 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 1: get a hotel room. I'm sure he does that when 65 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 1: he visits other churches in other cities. 66 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 3: That's what he does. He'll understand. 67 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:28,399 Speaker 2: Uh, yeah, you're right. 68 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:29,919 Speaker 3: This is a no no. He said. 69 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 1: This is a no no meaning you can't see anyone else. 70 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: Who is he to tell you who to see? Get 71 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: your life together? Listen to your mom. He'll understand. Everybody 72 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: will be everybody will understand. This is crazy. We can't 73 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: help you with this. 74 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 2: Steve Shirley, do we read the same letter? 75 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: Uh? 76 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 4: Huh, I'm factually off base here. Then what I don't understand? 77 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 3: What what? Steve? 78 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Listen. 79 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 4: The visiting past is my sugar daddy. Now, you're in 80 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 4: a long distance relationship with this guy that you've known 81 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 4: all your life. He's a great man who would never 82 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 4: cheat on me because he barely has enough money to 83 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 4: take care of the two of us. 84 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 2: How you know? 85 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 4: I just have a question for you. How do you 86 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 4: know that it's long distance? Y'all been together seven years. 87 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 4: He barely got enough money. That's why he wouldn't cheat. 88 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 4: Money has nothing to do with a man cheating. You 89 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 4: just need to understand that right now. So I don't 90 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 4: know where you got that little stupid notion from. After 91 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 4: dating here for seven years without having a real plan 92 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 4: for our future. I the letter that the lady that 93 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 4: wrote the letter I cheated on him. I got a 94 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 4: sugar daddy that lives in the same city as my man. 95 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 4: So now there's two men that live out of state, 96 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:00,039 Speaker 4: out of the city. He is a preacher and he 97 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 4: he's thirty one years older than me. Now, I found 98 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 4: out later on in the letter that your mama told 99 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 4: you you thirty now, so you need to focus on 100 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 4: the money instead of a broke man, which means that 101 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 4: sugar Daddy passed. It is sixty one, sixty one, you thirty. 102 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 4: We got that math together. He spoils me with gifts. 103 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 4: He knows exactly what he's doing in the bedroom. He's 104 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 4: sixty one. Damn if you ain't picked up nothing by sixty, 105 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 4: he not. 106 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 2: Good in the bedroom. By sixty he not fit to 107 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 2: get good. 108 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 3: It's not gonna happen. 109 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 4: So I ain't nobody surprised about this. But I have 110 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 4: a potential problem coming up Easter weekend, and I don't 111 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,720 Speaker 4: know what I should do. My boyfriend is spending Easter 112 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 4: weekend in North Carolina with me and my mom. Okay, 113 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 4: and you want him to because that's who you feel 114 00:05:56,920 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 4: secure with, and you've already made these plans. If my 115 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 4: sugar daddy is going to be our visiting pastor at 116 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 4: my whole church for Easter Sunday, he has no idea 117 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 4: that I have a boyfriend. How where does old ass 118 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:17,479 Speaker 4: dude come from? Meet you and expect you not to 119 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 4: have no history? And then he say that's a no note? Sureley, 120 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 4: want to know, how can he tell you what to do? 121 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 4: Because he paying for stuff, Shirley, that's how. That's exactly 122 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 4: how he paying for you. Well, he said it, and 123 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 4: he meant it because he paid. Now he got her tripping, 124 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 4: because if he was, if the money wasn't. 125 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, hang on, we'll have part two of 126 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: your response coming up to the Strawberry letter. The subject 127 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 1: is the visiting pastor is my sugar Daddy. That's all 128 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour right 129 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 1: after this. 130 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 3: You're listening Morning show. 131 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 132 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: The subject is the visiting castor is my sugar Daddy? 133 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 2: We got a. 134 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 4: Tricky woman that the wrote a letter, got this boyfriend 135 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 4: long this and she's known all the life, been dating 136 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 4: him for seven years. He's made no plans for the future, 137 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 4: and he's broke. He don't have enough money to take 138 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 4: care of the two of them, so she assumes that 139 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 4: he's in this long distant relationship, not cheating because he 140 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 4: don't have the money for two of us. I stated, 141 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 4: and will state again, cheating has nothing to do with 142 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 4: how much money he got. The reason y'all might not 143 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 4: have enough money is because he split that money around town. 144 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying. 145 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 4: He doing something, So anyway, you decided, now you think 146 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 4: you gonna beat him to the punch, So I cheated 147 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 4: on him. I got me a sugar daddy. And the 148 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 4: sugar daddy is thirty one years older than you, and 149 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 4: he spoils you with gifts and everything, and he knows 150 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 4: exactly what he's doing in the bedroom. What hell, he's 151 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 4: sixty one. He's sixty one, because he thirty one years 152 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 4: older than you and you thirty, he's sixty one supposed 153 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 4: to know what he's doing by now, he's sixty years 154 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 4: of practice. 155 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 2: So what y'all wouldn't killed me with this. 156 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 4: He know what he's doing in the bedroom, and he's 157 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 4: sixty I'm gonna tell you right now, Yeah, sixty sixty years. 158 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 4: He supposed to know something. He done picked up a 159 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 4: move or two. So what what you need to be 160 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 4: thinking about is how many how many more performances he got. 161 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 2: That's what you need to start looking at. 162 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 3: It's almost time for the curtain call. 163 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, you may say, start slowing down. Now 164 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 4: here's the problem I have on Easter weekend. I don't 165 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 4: know what I should do. My boyfriend is spending Easter 166 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 4: Sunday in North Carolina with me and my mom. Your 167 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 4: mom is looking forward to it. You looking forward to 168 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 4: it because he's safe. But now your sugar daddy is 169 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:56,199 Speaker 4: gonna be our visiting pastor at the Home church on 170 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 4: Easter Sunday. And he has no idea that I have 171 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 4: a boyfriend. Well he should. I don't know how he 172 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 4: thinks he met you and you were just dangling out 173 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 4: there free, but he should. And he say that's a 174 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 4: no note. And he has every right to say that's 175 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 4: a no note because he paying. 176 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 2: He paid. 177 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,680 Speaker 4: So he called me today and said he's playing on 178 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 4: staying at my apartment because it's just one night. 179 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 2: He also said he wants to cook for me. 180 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 4: I suggested we get a hotel suite and on a 181 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 4: room service. 182 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 2: He said, even. 183 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 4: Though he's divorced, he wants to be discreet, so he'd 184 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 4: rather stay at my place instead of y'all trouncing through 185 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 4: that hotel lobby and somebody see y'all, I truly need 186 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,679 Speaker 4: him to get a hotel room because my boyfriend is 187 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 4: staying with me. Now that's because y'all been together seven years. 188 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 4: It would be if you asked him to get a 189 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 4: hotel room. He ain't gonna understand that the gig is up. 190 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:00,319 Speaker 4: But now I truly need him to get a hotel room. 191 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:03,559 Speaker 4: She talking about sugar Daddy because my boyfriend is staying 192 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 4: with me and I can't afford to mess things up 193 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 4: with my sugar Daddy because he's talking about buying me 194 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 4: a new car. 195 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:12,840 Speaker 2: M Oh, you got to be in that clowning girl. 196 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 4: Any time they talking about buying you a car, you 197 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 4: got to be in there doing multiple monkey flips per. 198 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 2: Evening, per army crawling towards the bed. 199 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 3: Harby crying her elbows. 200 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 2: Diving off doughknobs. You just in there. 201 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 4: You in there, just clowning, leaning over the couch, picking 202 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 4: up the remote, talking about. 203 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 2: You see it? Shit? Okay, heah, you in there playing. 204 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 4: My mom said, I'm thirty, now show I should focus 205 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:52,079 Speaker 4: on the man with money and not the broken Dumping 206 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 4: my boyfriend on Easter would be too harsh. Wait a minute, 207 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 4: where wildly mals come from? You know, y'all kill me 208 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 4: doing all this moral stuff. Then dumbing him on Easter 209 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 4: be too harsh? Well, you got don get rid of him? 210 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 4: Now Easter is this Sunday? 211 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 3: Yeah? 212 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 4: I need advice. How do I decide who I'm spending 213 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 4: Easter with? Lady, You have a bigger problem than who 214 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 4: you spending Easter with. You need to decide who you 215 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 4: gonna be with. You can't be with both these men. 216 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 4: It ain't working. You too stupid to be with two men. No, 217 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:33,119 Speaker 4: you don't even have the basics of cheating down. 218 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 3: Pat, You can't lie. 219 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 4: Well, now you should tell sugar Daddy you don't have 220 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 4: men at your house. M you know, unless we go 221 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 4: in to the next level, I don't have men at 222 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 4: my house and that would force him to get a hotel. 223 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 4: But then how you gonna go over there to the 224 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 4: hotel because your boyfriend gonna be at your apartment. You see, 225 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 4: you have a quandary because you got to get over 226 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 4: to this hotel because there's a new car riding on 227 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 4: the lane, so you got to get to that hotel. Now, 228 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 4: this man that already said he wanted to stay at 229 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 4: your apartment because he want to cook for you, So 230 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 4: now he trying to do some other stuff. And he's divorced. 231 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 4: Obviously you think he's divorced, or he should be divorced, 232 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 4: and he could potentially not be divorced because he's scared 233 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 4: to get that hotel room. So now you got a 234 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 4: whole bunch of liars in a relationship, Sugar daddy, broke boy, 235 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 4: and stupid girl. Yeah see, we have a how do 236 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 4: you decide? You need to decide who you're gonna be with. 237 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 4: Your Mama's right, you're thirty. You need to get your 238 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 4: focus on now what you're gonna dose. So I can't 239 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 4: tell you how to do this here because you don't 240 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 4: already messing right. 241 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: I leave your comments on Today's Struwberry Letter. Options on 242 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 1: Instagram at Steve Harvey f them and check us out 243 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 1: on the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app, 244 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: where free never sounded so good. 245 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 3: Coming up next it is Junior and Sports Talk. 246 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show