WEBVTT - Ep. 136 – In Our Feelings 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:21.040 Hey, hey, hey, I'm back. I'm actually back and back home. 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:27.200 It's Tiffany and Mandy and this is Brown Ambitious. 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:29.520 How's it going. 0:00:30.880 --> 0:00:33.320 Honestly, I'm so glad to be home because Essence Fest 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:35.480 was like the weekend before, and then this past weekend 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:40.720 I did Women Evolved, which was Sarah Jake Schrobert's first conference. 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:41.960 She's the daughter of T. D. 0:00:42.120 --> 0:00:49.240 Jake's, the really popular bishop and religious leader. And it 0:00:49.400 --> 0:00:52.320 was Honestly, the conference was amazing, but like just two 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:55.279 back to back really packed weekends where it's just it 0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:55.880 was just a lot. 0:00:56.280 --> 0:00:58.800 It is, but I have to say I met a 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:01.360 bunch of ba lists. 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:03.680 And literally, I mean, now I've started this thing which 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:06.080 is so funny because I'm not a hugger, but because 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:08.000 I say, oh, Mandy, people gave me a hug for you. 0:01:08.080 --> 0:01:10.800 Now every time I need a listener. 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:12.880 Maybe because I don't know if you guys know this, 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:14.480 but she really is not a hugger. 0:01:14.720 --> 0:01:15.280 Like no, I'm not. 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:17.440 If she might feel her tense up a little, it's 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:21.000 because she's thinking, ill, what if the change it to 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:23.759 like a this bump? Why do you set yourself up 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:24.080 like this? 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:25.520 I don't know, because you know what I mean. 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:27.760 Somebody actually gave me a hug and I wanted to 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:30.240 mention it, and then it was like, oh, so that's 0:01:30.240 --> 0:01:33.480 the thing, and I'm like, oh, no, it's not the thing. Honestly, 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:36.160 I mean, I don't mind, because I get hugs like 0:01:36.520 --> 0:01:39.160 on the budget n East Side, and so people are like, look, 0:01:39.440 --> 0:01:41.120 I know you're not a hugger, but I'm gonna have 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:42.560 to hug you because you help me with like that. 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:44.560 So I mean, I accept it. 0:01:44.600 --> 0:01:46.759 You know, keep the hugs, keep the love coming. Well 0:01:46.760 --> 0:01:50.080 that's dope. Yeah, that sounds really exhausting. Not gonna lie. 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:54.760 I myself am very high profile auntie lately. So it 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:57.400 was a back to back kittie weekend for us. We 0:01:57.520 --> 0:02:00.160 visited kids, We had kids over at the house. Well 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:02.040 we really wanted the parent. We wanted our friends and 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:04.200 now all of our friends have kids who were like 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:07.640 running around age like ages two to four. So they 0:02:07.680 --> 0:02:09.560 came over to the house and then I realized, oh 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:12.760 my god, this is a lot. It was like, first 0:02:12.800 --> 0:02:14.480 of all, no one was ever in the same room 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:16.480 together because some of them was always chasing one of 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:19.280 the children, where a child was always having a tantrum 0:02:19.320 --> 0:02:22.200 and needed to be chased somewhere. So at one point 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:24.799 there was like a holy girl moment for ten minutes 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:27.040 when we were all in the backyard together, just all 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:28.880 the kids, all the grown ups, and it was it 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:33.040 was awesome, but definitely good birth control. I must say. 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:35.520 Yeah, kids are really exhausting. 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:38.480 Like I was going to visit my niece and my 0:02:38.560 --> 0:02:40.400 nephew yesterday and then I was like, oh, let me 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:43.120 FaceTime them before I leave, And then watching them, I 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:43.760 was like, you know what, I. 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:46.800 Actually I'm going to stay home. I was tired. 0:02:47.160 --> 0:02:49.120 And then just like like literally every time I said 0:02:49.160 --> 0:02:51.200 hi to my nephew on FaceTime, he would zip into 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:51.600 the other. 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:53.359 Room and I'm like, what is she doing? He doing? 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:55.799 And she's like, girl, I mean, I mean he's just 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:58.880 running for dear life. As if you're no, there's no robber. 0:02:59.000 --> 0:03:00.760 She just look like sitting on the couch. She's liked, 0:03:00.760 --> 0:03:02.760 there's no rhyme or reason. It's just you say hi, 0:03:02.880 --> 0:03:03.480 he picks off. 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:04.280 That's just what we do. 0:03:04.840 --> 0:03:05.280 It's just. 0:03:07.200 --> 0:03:10.880 Meanwhile, my niece who's barely one, Like the other day, my. 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:13.200 Sister said, she crawled over to her, handed her the 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:18.640 remote and said TV was like I don't know whether 0:03:18.720 --> 0:03:20.960 to be proud or shame, Like do we watch that 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:21.640 much TV? 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:24.200 She was like, she only says like three words, and 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:26.520 now one of them is TV. She's like, and why 0:03:26.560 --> 0:03:27.880 do it? Was the right remote? 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:29.639 You know how you have like three TV remote? She's like, 0:03:29.680 --> 0:03:31.519 I'm clear on the I'm clear on what I want. 0:03:31.600 --> 0:03:32.200 Thanks. 0:03:32.480 --> 0:03:35.280 I witnessed the power of the smartphone. I'm telling you 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:37.120 when those ten minutes we were all together, it was 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:40.920 brought to you by Apple, Android and other devices because 0:03:40.960 --> 0:03:43.000 that was the only way at a certain point. I 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:45.000 just watched the light in their eyes go out. The 0:03:45.040 --> 0:03:47.160 parents and they just gave up. They're like, fine, I'm 0:03:47.200 --> 0:03:52.440 just bring out the cell phone. Exactly what else is happening? 0:03:53.120 --> 0:03:53.320 Ooh? 0:03:53.320 --> 0:03:57.720 I had an interesting call today. We're thinking about using 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:02.640 like one of these new home what's the word like, 0:04:02.680 --> 0:04:06.720 not interior design but interior stylist services. Now they have 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:10.520 all these they have all these new businesses where they 0:04:10.560 --> 0:04:13.120 sort of have made it easier for, you know, everyday 0:04:13.120 --> 0:04:17.279 people to hire an interior designer, so someone to help 0:04:17.320 --> 0:04:19.720 you pick out They can do everything as little as 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:21.320 just help you pick out furniture, but they can go 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:24.320 deeper and help you pick out cabinets and fixtures and 0:04:24.400 --> 0:04:26.919 lighting and all that kind of stuff. And for me, 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:29.440 I figured it was smart the same way that it 0:04:29.520 --> 0:04:32.120 was smart when we got our financial planner to help 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:35.600 us kind of be the middleman because we may disagree 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:38.680 on stuff, and I always liked having an independent third 0:04:38.720 --> 0:04:42.720 party like mediator. So for me, when we're like, we're 0:04:43.000 --> 0:04:45.080 doing a lot all at once, you know, trying to 0:04:45.120 --> 0:04:47.599 plan how the house is going to look, and I 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:49.960 have a heart, I'm like already overwhelmed thinking about, okay, 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:52.680 the backslash in the kitchen and how's it with the 0:04:52.720 --> 0:04:55.960 bathroom tile, and like I need someone to sort of 0:04:56.000 --> 0:04:58.080 help not just keep the peace between us as we 0:04:58.200 --> 0:05:01.000 try and merge our styles, but also yeah, I just 0:05:01.080 --> 0:05:03.080 keep tabs on like the high level and then talk 0:05:03.160 --> 0:05:06.159 to the contractor about, you know, stuff and order stuff. 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:09.800 So we're looking at a couple of different places, okay, 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:11.680 And the first one that I've talked to is called 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:15.680 home Polish, and I've heard good things about them. They 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:19.359 used to charge an hourly rate something like one hundred 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:22.320 and forty dollars an hour for their services. But when 0:05:22.320 --> 0:05:23.640 I talked to them today and I was a little 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:25.640 weary of that because I don't like I feel like 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:28.159 that would make it feel almost as if you're working 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:30.880 with an attorney. You know, Oh, I sent home polish 0:05:30.960 --> 0:05:33.000 an email, so now I'm going to get billed, you know, 0:05:33.080 --> 0:05:35.520 for half an hour or whatever. But when I actually 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:37.800 talked to them, and the girl was super nice today 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:40.719 and asked a lot of questions, and it was just 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:43.799 like the introductory call to learn a little bit about 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:46.560 and then they refer you to one of their designers 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:48.760 and then you have an additional like meeting at your 0:05:48.760 --> 0:05:51.960 house with them. But they change their business, they change 0:05:51.960 --> 0:05:54.880 their their payment model now so it's just a flat 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:57.960 rate that you pay the designer, which I just think 0:05:58.000 --> 0:06:00.440 that's so much better because then you just know up front, 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:02.880 here's how much is going to cost, and it includes everything, 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:04.760 and you don't have to feel bad about calling them 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:07.400 or you know, them spending an extra half an hour 0:06:08.120 --> 0:06:10.520 with you, I don't know, picking out pillows or whatever 0:06:10.520 --> 0:06:10.800 they do. 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:15.640 No, I like that, and honestly, I like, like, thankfully, 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:18.080 you know, we have a blue design and development so Rihanna, 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:21.800 who's the wife's side of the team, she's doing that 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:24.560 for us, thank goodness, and then you know her husband's 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:28.720 doing the project management. But because honestly, I'm not gonna lie, 0:06:28.760 --> 0:06:31.080 I have no idea, Like I'm not I don't have 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:32.680 a good eye for things like that. 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:32.919 You know. 0:06:32.920 --> 0:06:34.520 I'm the type of person that like when I see 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:36.480 it and I like it, I'm like, I like it, 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:38.080 but i have no idea how we got here. 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:40.800 So I'm excited for that. 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:43.000 Also, do you ever feel like, I don't know living 0:06:43.000 --> 0:06:45.039 in New York or anyone who's ever if you've ever 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:47.359 been a if you've been a serial renter. It's one 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:49.200 of the questions she asked me was, what's what do 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:52.680 you like to shop for home furnishings? And I'm like, honestly, 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:55.120 I'm tired of West Elm and I'm sick of Ikea. 0:06:55.200 --> 0:06:56.880 I don't know what else is out there because I've 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:59.239 only been renting, and I never really cared to learn 0:06:59.320 --> 0:07:01.080 because no one wants to invest a lot of money 0:07:01.080 --> 0:07:04.039 in into a rental. So I'm also interested to learn 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:06.880 about new places to shop or like, where are the 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:10.640 grown ups by their furniture? I don't know to get 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:12.800 me out of that, you know, Western because everyone's place 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:15.080 looks the same. If you like everyone's shops at the 0:07:15.080 --> 0:07:17.120 same three places when they're renting, and I'm just like, 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:20.880 take me somewhere different. Also, take me somewhere. 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:22.040 Cheaper, exactly. 0:07:22.480 --> 0:07:24.920 I'm excited some wholesale discounts, and. 0:07:24.880 --> 0:07:25.560 That's what I'm excited. 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:28.680 There's a lot of like Chile wholesalers and like just 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:31.160 in Jersey there's I've noticed. It's just like I you know, 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:33.080 I never really looked before, but as I drive through, 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:35.640 I'm like, oh, look, granted wholesalers and this, and so 0:07:35.760 --> 0:07:38.240 I'm excited to kind of like do like some high 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:40.840 low like put the money where it really matters and 0:07:40.880 --> 0:07:43.200 then cut back the places where it doesn't matter as much. 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:44.800 Yeah. So yep. 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:46.440 And then I'm definitely going to be reaching out to 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:51.000 my online family, like anybody know anybody got a discount 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:53.920 at so be prepared. 0:07:54.600 --> 0:07:56.320 Yeah, I mean, I want to hear if anyone any 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:58.200 of our listeners, have you ever used a home polish 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:01.000 Or's also this website called decor I was looking at. 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:03.960 I might check them out as well. If you've ever 0:08:04.040 --> 0:08:06.360 used one of these, like I don't know, on demand 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:09.400 interior design services, let me know. Let me know how 0:08:09.480 --> 0:08:12.760 you liked your experience. Tweet us at the BA podcast 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:16.560 or yeah, that's probably the best way to tweet us 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:18.640 out the BA podcast, or you can send us an 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:22.800 email at Briananmission Podcast at gmail dot com dot com. 0:08:22.840 --> 0:08:25.080 Speaking of tweets, you want to look at these tweets 0:08:25.080 --> 0:08:25.640 streets you. 0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:28.320 Like how I just handed you that segue I. 0:08:28.200 --> 0:08:29.720 Did because I told her, God, you canna have the 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:31.160 worst memory. I was like, oh, that's right. 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:35.040 Honestly, I love that you guys are starting to tweet 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:39.120 us more. Remember our Twitter is at the BA podcast. 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:40.760 So Shana J. 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:45.280 Her Twitter hander is at Foxy with two x's y J. 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:48.080 Underscore eighty five? Girl were you born? Eighty five? You 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:49.720 young girl? When were you born? Mandy? 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:52.480 I mean, you're gonna ask a woman her age on 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:54.560 Girl Live podcast. 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:58.160 Manny is like a true millennial. She's like fourteen anyway. 0:08:58.600 --> 0:08:59.360 So Shana J. 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:03.200 She wrote love listening to at the BA podcast on 0:09:03.240 --> 0:09:05.880 my drive to work because I always get inspired to 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:07.800 do my budget while I'm on break love y'all. Oh 0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:10.560 we love you too, Shaea. And there was another one 0:09:10.559 --> 0:09:15.400 that I thought was really nice. Hank Green, who I'm 0:09:15.440 --> 0:09:19.480 not sure what he does. Yes, he he's got the 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:22.480 blue checks. I'm like, thank you somebody. So Hank wrote, 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:25.679 he just wrote a post saying he's a white guy. 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:28.760 He wrote, your favorite podcasters who aren't white guys? 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:31.280 Go and Emily and Ithaca. 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:34.839 Wait, we need to tell him who are favorite podcasters 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:35.520 who aren't white? 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:36.480 Are you know? 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:40.640 And that's what Emily and she replied, Oh okay, so 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:43.160 that's what really shouting at Emily Emily and Ithaca. Her 0:09:43.559 --> 0:09:47.880 her handle is HbF fights Nazis. Oh okay, well. 0:09:47.679 --> 0:09:50.360 Hey Emily and so I guess we support that. 0:09:51.679 --> 0:09:54.640 So Emily wrote, Brian Ambition, it's such a great podcast 0:09:54.679 --> 0:09:57.240 about money and more so you're fighting the Nazis and 0:09:57.240 --> 0:09:58.240 you're listening to Brann and Bish. 0:09:58.360 --> 0:10:01.160 We love you. So that's an in my Twitter, my 0:10:01.200 --> 0:10:03.840 Twitter tweets I love so what about you? Yeah. 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:06.000 I see a lot of people on Instagram give a 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:08.839 shout outs when people ask them who their favorite podcasts are. 0:10:08.920 --> 0:10:11.719 So thank you guys. I should start shouting you guys out. 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:15.280 But appreciate the love on the Gram. I have to say, 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:17.520 I think I know what the secret sauces to getting 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:20.360 likes on Instagram from our listeners. Just post something about 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:23.920 living signal single that's all you need because like, by far, 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:26.439 our most popular posts over the last couple of weeks 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:31.640 has been this picture from Eric Alexander featuring I don't 0:10:31.640 --> 0:10:34.640 even know his real name who plays Kyle on on 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:38.480 Living Single? It doesn't matter anyway. Max and Kyle got 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:41.200 back together for the gram and I posted on an 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:45.040 Instagram page and our listeners went batshit crazy one hundred 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:48.839 over one hundred and sixty likes, and uh listener a 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:52.760 fod doju a fao jew said, looking like fine, why 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:55.719 does anyone remember when Kyle sang over ten in Sinclair's 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:58.400 wedding but was looking at Max sad face sad face? 0:10:58.880 --> 0:10:59.480 No, I don't. 0:10:59.520 --> 0:11:02.600 But okay, first of all, you need to revisit this 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:06.760 episode because it is like a masterclass in bad nineties 0:11:07.000 --> 0:11:12.120 like mood lighting and soft filter. It is so bad. 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:15.280 And also just any any show in the nineties of 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:18.360 like a wedding scene the outfits are hi there. Well, 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:22.520 this is a classic episode. I do remember when he's 0:11:22.559 --> 0:11:25.960 sang my funny Valentine, though, I mean, how can you forget? 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:27.280 Did you forget it? 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:29.359 I did you know what? It's so crazy? 0:11:29.640 --> 0:11:32.040 I know my memory, I know you know what it 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:35.280 is I don't watch the rewe don't have Hulu. Yeah, 0:11:35.320 --> 0:11:36.800 well I do, but I guess I haven't watched the 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:38.360 rewnth and I need to. I'm gonna get back into 0:11:38.360 --> 0:11:39.840 because honestly, I love Living Single. 0:11:40.000 --> 0:11:43.280 You need to watch the refunds. I've got my husband 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:45.320 hooked on it too. It's so funny. Sometimes I come 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:48.319 in the room, he's just watching episodes by himself. Oh, 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:51.400 they age so well. These episodes are so good. No, 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:53.680 I'm not gonna lie because I don't know when the 0:11:53.720 --> 0:11:55.439 show was on. If you missed it, you missed it, 0:11:55.520 --> 0:11:57.520 right unless you got a VHS tape and you could 0:11:57.520 --> 0:12:00.360 record stuff. There was no DVR, so for me, there's 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:03.040 so many episodes I never saw. Yes, you're right now, 0:12:03.120 --> 0:12:05.160 I don't think I saw the entire last season. I 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:06.160 never knew what happened. 0:12:06.679 --> 0:12:07.520 Yeah, no, you're right. 0:12:07.600 --> 0:12:09.480 I was thinking about that because you're because they don't 0:12:09.520 --> 0:12:11.280 do the replays like they do with other shows, like 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:14.160 obviously like Golden Girls, which you know plays all the time. 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:16.520 But so if you miss it, you missed it. And 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:17.920 that's why I'm like missing out on a lot. 0:12:18.000 --> 0:12:19.520 But you know what, I'm gonna make that my mission 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:21.080 because that night when I kind of go to sleep, 0:12:21.480 --> 0:12:24.640 I need some an injection of good TV. 0:12:24.920 --> 0:12:26.000 So that'll be my go to. 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:28.640 It's a good tonic for the soul after everything that 0:12:28.679 --> 0:12:30.000 you read all day, I have to say, it's like 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:33.960 twenty four minutes, perfect little, perfect little cure for the 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:37.640 for the blues. And anyway, they're looking amazing. If you 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:39.319 guys want to see the picture I'm talking about, go 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:42.920 to Instagram. Fine us at Brown Ambisson Podcast on Instagram. 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:45.880 You can see the beautiful couple. I don't think they've 0:12:45.920 --> 0:12:48.320 aged at all, except Kyle has a little gray hair. 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:49.400 But they look amazing. 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:50.800 Yeah, they do look amazing. 0:12:50.920 --> 0:13:05.280 Yeah. 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:09.720 Are you ready to boost and break or boost and break? 0:13:09.720 --> 0:13:11.160 It's funny because I have a boost, I have a 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:11.760 boost break. 0:13:12.200 --> 0:13:15.200 You go first this week, but I'm ready. I'm ready 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:15.440 for you. 0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:21.080 So mine is so random and so what So have 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:25.360 you seen the shiggy dance or aka the in my 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:26.120 Feelings Dance? 0:13:26.880 --> 0:13:27.080 Oh? 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:29.280 Yes, I don't know what a shiggy is, but I 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:32.120 do know. I am like, yeah, I watched Will Smith's 0:13:32.200 --> 0:13:35.800 had the best Yes, I think and I feel challenge right. 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:42.319 So, Kiki, do you love me? Are you Ridingside. 0:13:43.840 --> 0:13:45.240 His album has been out for a week. I don't 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:47.360 know the words yet. Sorry, yes, no me either. 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:48.120 No one knows that part. 0:13:48.200 --> 0:13:51.920 So anyway, that dance started from a young Instagram comedian 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:54.360 named I don't know what is your name is, but 0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:57.320 like on Instagram, his name is the Shiggy Show and 0:13:57.360 --> 0:13:59.719 he's hilarious. And what I like about him is that, 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:02.160 like his whole premise was like I'm from New York 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:04.640 and instead of being like this hard New York guy, 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:08.800 I'm happy and I dance and he's super silly. So 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:13.720 he started a dance to that song and it just 0:14:13.880 --> 0:14:16.680 took took over the interwebs. 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:19.640 And so it wasn't Sierra. I thought I was Cierra. 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:22.840 No, so they started, Yeah, they started doing it as 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:24.720 a result, like because, like I said, he's known for 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:27.160 like his silly dancing and like always being joyful and 0:14:27.200 --> 0:14:30.120 smiling and like the opposite of typically like you would 0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:32.520 think like a queen's dude, like you know, so he 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:33.840 kind of is like I'm the opposite of that. 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:36.440 I'm I'm happy, I'm smiling, and I'm not mad at anybody. 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:38.960 And so he actually. 0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:40.720 Because you know, that song is not I mean it's 0:14:40.760 --> 0:14:43.080 a fun song, but I didn't really think about it 0:14:43.160 --> 0:14:45.480 until I saw the Shaky Dance craze. 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:47.680 So he's been on every type of radio show, TV 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:50.040 and one of the big things. 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:52.440 So this is my brown My brown break is kind 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:54.400 of like, Okay, I'm over the dagone. 0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:55.120 Kiki, are you writing? 0:14:56.080 --> 0:14:59.160 But my brown boost is for him because he just 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:02.600 posted a picture on ig three hours ago because people 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:05.480 were like, yo, Drake needs to acknowledge you. You know, 0:15:05.720 --> 0:15:07.960 like you did this, you blew up his songs. He 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:09.920 just posted a picture with Drake. And when I tell 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:11.400 you to smile on his face, Mandy, it is. 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:15.040 So he met Drake. He I mean, Drake should be 0:15:15.120 --> 0:15:15.960 paying him. 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:16.560 I know. 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:20.840 But it is so amazing because through this he got 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:22.600 his blue check on Instagram. 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:23.000 Yo. 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:25.960 The look on his face if you get it, if 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:28.280 you're by your pro Mandy, just type in the Shiggy 0:15:28.280 --> 0:15:30.880 show and the look on his face, he looks like 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:34.320 he's like my life. I'm just like he won, like 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:38.200 he won the Life the Life Award, and everyone has 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:41.200 been following his like kind of like success, I guess 0:15:41.200 --> 0:15:43.800 with this kind of challenge, and everybody's been rooting him 0:15:43.840 --> 0:15:46.040 on and he's just been so grateful and it's just 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:47.560 really cute. So I just wanted to do a brown, 0:15:47.680 --> 0:15:49.720 a brown boost to that, I mean, a break from 0:15:49.800 --> 0:15:51.960 I'm tired of the Dagon song. I get it the challenge, 0:15:52.080 --> 0:15:55.160 but a boost for someone who you know, been using 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:58.840 Instagram to right to make people smile and as a result, 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:00.640 look at you you know, you know know, maybe he'll 0:16:00.640 --> 0:16:01.200 be in the video. 0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:05.320 Yeah, he needs to get paid like free promotions. 0:16:05.400 --> 0:16:07.880 Sorry, and no it is no, you're right because honestly, 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:10.600 people weren't thinking about that song until that came out. 0:16:10.640 --> 0:16:12.280 In it blew that song out of the water. 0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:17.480 I'm not tired of it yet. Sorry, it's in my 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:21.040 head man, Okay. I don't know what to boost or 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:25.480 break first. Maybe should I break the CBS workers who 0:16:25.520 --> 0:16:27.640 called the cops on a black woman who just tried 0:16:27.640 --> 0:16:31.600 to use damn coupons? Or should I do a boost 0:16:31.680 --> 0:16:35.960 for the one last standing blockbuster in America, which Washington 0:16:36.000 --> 0:16:38.280 Post wrote about this week. I don't know which. I 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:40.760 think I might do CVS. I'm leaning towards CVS because 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:42.320 I just want to say something about. 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:43.320 This, Yes do that. 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:46.080 I love that these stories are becoming part of mainstream news, 0:16:46.080 --> 0:16:48.120 Like it's like every news outlet wants to have their 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:50.640 story to make it go viral. But I also feel 0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:52.680 like it's one of these cases where this is not 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:56.560 anything that's new. I feel like it's been happening for 0:16:56.640 --> 0:16:58.840 a long, long, long long time. I was just I 0:16:58.880 --> 0:17:00.880 don't know, like a little bit but also a little 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:03.520 bit glad that there's things like cell phones today and 0:17:03.560 --> 0:17:07.159 people are shining a light on these crazy and pointless 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:12.640 instances of racism where just like every day when you're 0:17:12.680 --> 0:17:16.000 walking around being a certain color, you do something and 0:17:16.000 --> 0:17:18.400 you're treated entirely differently. It's it's insane. 0:17:19.119 --> 0:17:22.359 Like when I saw I was like, wait, I see 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:26.520 for a coupon, not for like you you know. I 0:17:26.560 --> 0:17:29.240 just I was like, this can't be real because because 0:17:29.280 --> 0:17:32.160 you're saying it's a fraudulent coupon, like what. 0:17:32.920 --> 0:17:34.440 This No, No, this coupon's too good. 0:17:34.960 --> 0:17:35.160 No. 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:37.359 And even let's just say, even if it was, what 0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:38.640 does that have to do with the police, Like, well, man, 0:17:38.640 --> 0:17:39.600 we're not taking this coupon? 0:17:40.160 --> 0:17:41.600 I mean you know what I mean, he was the 0:17:41.680 --> 0:17:43.640 guy was shaking calling the police. 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:47.240 So I list in Chicago too. You wouldn't even think 0:17:47.280 --> 0:17:49.840 normally of sugar. And if you're thinking this word, this 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:51.680 would happen, and you know in the US, I don't 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:55.680 think I would necessarily think Chicago, but that would happen, Like. 0:17:55.600 --> 0:17:56.840 You know there's black people in Chicago. 0:17:56.880 --> 0:17:59.119