WEBVTT - Soulmates

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<v Speaker 1>It's with Jenny Garth and Tori Spelling. Who's ready for

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<v Speaker 1>another episode of nine O two? I know, MG, me me,

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<v Speaker 1>pick me, I pick you. Every guys, welcome to our show.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that. Thank you big show. Uh it's me Jenny.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here with Tori and Amy and we are ready

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<v Speaker 1>for another episode. I need to know. I need to

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<v Speaker 1>know if you guys got anything in high school, in

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<v Speaker 1>real high school in your senior poll. Oh right, this

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<v Speaker 1>is senior pool episode. So that's a good question. What

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<v Speaker 1>were you anything? They didn't do it in my high school.

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<v Speaker 1>I went to an old girls school and they somehow

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<v Speaker 1>didn't do it. But my mom likes to remind me

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<v Speaker 1>that when she was in high school and she went

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<v Speaker 1>to Beverly that she at the body, best body, best body. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they called the body. That was the thing all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>And then she's like, and look what you kids did

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<v Speaker 1>to me. And I was like, she's like I know,

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<v Speaker 1>and she goes, I never had a butt before, and

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<v Speaker 1>the doctor was like, that's from Victoria. And I never

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<v Speaker 1>realized that was a thing until after bow. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, look at big booty Judy coming down

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<v Speaker 1>the line. Here. I am did I know your name

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<v Speaker 1>was Victorian Booty, Judy boot That's what he does. He

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<v Speaker 1>slaps me on the button and calls me big booty Judy.

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<v Speaker 1>Your god given name is Victoria. What's your middle name? Davey, David?

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<v Speaker 1>You listen? Jenny? Are you? Are you Jennifer? Yes? I am.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your middle name? Eve? Oh? I knew that? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>And did you get what did you get? You didn't

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<v Speaker 1>go to high school? Amy? Wait? Did you have it all? Ever?

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<v Speaker 1>To real high school? I dropped out when I was

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<v Speaker 1>a sophomore junior. He didn't drop out. I dropped right out,

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<v Speaker 1>just disappeared. No, didn't you do schools? Set school? We

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<v Speaker 1>took the g D, and you stopped going. I took

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<v Speaker 1>the g D. I just stopped going and then took

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<v Speaker 1>the g D. Got my diploma. One day they were like,

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<v Speaker 1>where is she? Where is she in the on TV?

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<v Speaker 1>Look at me? Now? I remember? I wonder not hard?

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<v Speaker 1>I passed it. It's it's not hard. Let's just say

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<v Speaker 1>I was a bad girl when I was that age,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had gone out the night before and I was,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, doing things I shouldn't have done at that age,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe drinking some things and I had the worst hangover.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I was actually still inebriated when I took

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<v Speaker 1>the g D because I remember vividly, uh getting up

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle. Was in classroom and there was full students.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember getting up in the middle of it, going

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<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom, throwing up, coming back, finishing the test.

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<v Speaker 1>That's called rallying, guys, and I am proud of you,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. That's probably the one only time I've done that. Rallied.

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<v Speaker 1>That is no, I've been with you when you've done

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, all right, I rally I rally man. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you get, Amy? What what was your type?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you yeah? Wait, wait, wait, you want to take

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<v Speaker 1>a guess, Jen, you want to go first. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think it was the laugh that's so nice. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think it was best whispers, most likely to interrupt.

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<v Speaker 1>They get so mad and I'm going to work on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh best hair, that's so nice. Now you get most

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<v Speaker 1>likely to six seed what they were, And just just

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<v Speaker 1>like that, you two are two pies in a pod. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, did you get another one? I think I got.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what I wunnderstand. What do you think

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<v Speaker 1>you would have gotten and we got titles in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I don't know. Um, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know what the titles were. To be honest, quietest, biggest flirt.

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<v Speaker 1>That that's what Tory would get in high school. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you're well, excuse me? Are you? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>mixing me up with Donna? You are Donna? I might

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<v Speaker 1>have gotten biggest flirt at flirty. That's a good that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good one. That's a good one. Do they have that?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a thing? I just don't know the terms anything,

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<v Speaker 1>like they is still a thing they do this with

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<v Speaker 1>your kids. It's upsetting, Like if this is a thing

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<v Speaker 1>on the way, you know what we had that they

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<v Speaker 1>definitely do not have anymore in high school. At my

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<v Speaker 1>high school, we had a rally and it was called

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<v Speaker 1>a kissing rally and you could write a letter. So

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<v Speaker 1>you were like, like, I got a friend in Her

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<v Speaker 1>name is Jenny. She's really cool, she looks like a penny.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she should come down and kiss Bob. He's

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<v Speaker 1>on the football team and he's a slob. Yeah. And

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<v Speaker 1>then and then two people had to come down to

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<v Speaker 1>the center and kiss Oh my gosh, well that that

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<v Speaker 1>just that screams COVID. Wow, how was that a school

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<v Speaker 1>that was supported pepper rally? But it was and everyone

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<v Speaker 1>loved it. Yeah, but they also like put terms on

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<v Speaker 1>people that were like made other people feel ashamed about

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<v Speaker 1>that they didn't get like it was awful. Like when

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly and Brenda were standing there and they're saying, who's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty prettiest? I was like, please don't pick Kelly, Please

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<v Speaker 1>don't pick Kelly. That's so funny. I wonder if you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like it because you didn't go to high school.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, oh, this is just totally normal. Like

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<v Speaker 1>we best eyes, best hair, best smile, biggest flirt. It

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<v Speaker 1>made me feel like it best couple. But if you

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<v Speaker 1>got nothing, what happened to nothing? There's like twenty things,

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<v Speaker 1>and like my class had like two people in it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I thought the award was embarrassing. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>was right with you, even though I was presenting it

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<v Speaker 1>to you. So I just was like, this is great.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like totally in the whole episode. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is just great. Well, we're talking about episode Senior

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<v Speaker 1>Pole aired ape y'all Synopsis, Brenda reconsiders her college choice

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<v Speaker 1>most Beautiful Senior Kelly fears no one's looking beneath her surface.

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<v Speaker 1>Steve forgets he's dateless when he shines at one of

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<v Speaker 1>l A's hippus venues. Directed by Chris Hibler and written

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<v Speaker 1>by Chip Joe Hanson. Where we Where do we even begin?

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<v Speaker 1>I think we begin with Steve, because I mean, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>the Kelly stuff always want to jump to Steve every time,

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<v Speaker 1>and my Ron, thank you for backing me up there,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, I don't. Yeah, it's okay, we can start

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<v Speaker 1>with I mean I would have started with the opening

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<v Speaker 1>sea of the episode, but sure, let's jump brand to Steve.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the real forum, Okay, is the real venue

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<v Speaker 1>where the lads played back then? That part was so

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<v Speaker 1>cool because it was an actual game. It was so crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't tell if it was if they Does anybody

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<v Speaker 1>remember did he do that at a game? Can we should?

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<v Speaker 1>I tell? I? Had it had to have been at

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<v Speaker 1>Should I text him? Oh? My god? They met someone

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<v Speaker 1>on the team. So I don't know any Lakers, but

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<v Speaker 1>I was hoping they. First of all, Diane Canon, which

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<v Speaker 1>about why did they keep cutting to her? But she

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<v Speaker 1>had like four close ups because she literally like back

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<v Speaker 1>then she used to go to every Laker game, like

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<v Speaker 1>she was always on camera the Lakers game. But you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>that's Jennifer Grants mom. So she probably was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course I'm gonna let nine O two one oh

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<v Speaker 1>film me because yeah, I was pretty I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so cool. It was a real game, and

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like they they used the parts of the

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<v Speaker 1>real game, so they had like the whole stadium fully

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<v Speaker 1>for for certain things, and then there were certain parts

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<v Speaker 1>of its segments that they were able to do without

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<v Speaker 1>the full crowd. It felt like they were you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like production wise, they kind of planned it out like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but it really did look real. And I was so

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<v Speaker 1>excited when the Walsh cutaways looked like they did that

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<v Speaker 1>a different day. Yeah, what about when they went back

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<v Speaker 1>to have their little hideaway, their little conversation in the

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<v Speaker 1>back ay? How did they get backstage at the Forum

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<v Speaker 1>and there was not a soul in there? Like that

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<v Speaker 1>was just the way completely empty. You know. The director

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Hibbler was probably like, this is like a man's dream,

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<v Speaker 1>like not so direct, but to be able to be

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<v Speaker 1>lying like this game and be directing and that's your job.

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<v Speaker 1>And clearly Iron was at the game. Yeah, run around.

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<v Speaker 1>It reminds it was like when we went to the

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<v Speaker 1>Rolling Stones concert. I know we'll get to it, but

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<v Speaker 1>they filmed there and we got to actually be there,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is like a live Lakers game and all

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<v Speaker 1>of us, Wait, were you there? I think you were

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<v Speaker 1>next to me. I think you were there. We went

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<v Speaker 1>to a Rolling Stone concert. Oh it was pretty I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I was there. You. I feel like she

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<v Speaker 1>would have to remember if she went to a she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't there. I remember being at Dave cause I'm quite

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<v Speaker 1>the same same thing Dave cause is still around. Yeah. Wait, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so a few questions. Did anyone think though when they

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<v Speaker 1>did that? Okay, so they do the zoom in on

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<v Speaker 1>Steve right, then they do the long one where it's

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<v Speaker 1>further back. It didn't look like Iron to me. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like, was that weird? Yeah? No, that was him.

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<v Speaker 1>It was for who else is they going to get

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<v Speaker 1>to stand there and look like, all right, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what that part did not look like him. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go back and look. You wouldn't know you catch

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<v Speaker 1>things like that. I know, right sure, they used like

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<v Speaker 1>a stand up. I don't know that's what I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it looked like a body double when they did the

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<v Speaker 1>what would you call that a wide shot? Wide shot? Yeah? Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>But were you guys if you guys were bummed you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get to go? I probably wasn't at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>if we probably weren't. The traffic to the Forum is terrible,

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<v Speaker 1>but it looks so cool. They don't use that forum anymore, right,

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<v Speaker 1>well now it's not for the Lakers, but they have

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<v Speaker 1>concerts there. It does exist. The exact same building looks

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<v Speaker 1>the same, but it's just not the Lakers. It's so

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<v Speaker 1>iconic that building. And Chick her and so so he died,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, but Chick Heern was the voice of the Lakers.

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<v Speaker 1>He was on the show. And then now by if

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<v Speaker 1>you ever go to Staples Center, I think it's called

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<v Speaker 1>something else. Now it's called Crypto. There's so many bird names.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it's called what now crypto? I don't like that

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<v Speaker 1>at all. It's terrible. And there's Chicker and court they

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<v Speaker 1>named the street after him. On the street. Yes, I've

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<v Speaker 1>gotten stuck on that street so many times in traffic.

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking for Paula Abdul. I was like, where's Paula? Good?

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<v Speaker 1>What about when um uh Okay, So when they're at

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<v Speaker 1>the school and then they're talking about going to the

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<v Speaker 1>to them when they're Ian and Jason are doing that

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<v Speaker 1>walk and talk down the hall, I mean Steven Brandon, um,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, they're they're talking. First of all. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>they're talking about like first Brenda and Brandon are talking

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<v Speaker 1>about the senior pole, and she kind of gets him

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<v Speaker 1>to confess that he voted for himself for something. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>most like Succeedeah. Did you see when Brandon kind of

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<v Speaker 1>I mean Jayson, I don't know what to say, Brandon

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<v Speaker 1>slash Jason. Uh, he broke care number one? Remember when

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<v Speaker 1>number one? Uh started laughing. No, I didn't see this

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. It was so cute because they were walking

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<v Speaker 1>and talking and um, Steve's line was something of it's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be a red letter day, and it really

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<v Speaker 1>really sounded like he he said accidentally a red leather day.

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<v Speaker 1>And us laughing at it. It just makes and I

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<v Speaker 1>could see him trying to pull it together, and somehow

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<v Speaker 1>Iron kept going because it's all in one shot. Iron

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<v Speaker 1>kept going, and Jason was like all right, and he

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<v Speaker 1>got back into it and stopped laughing. But I was

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<v Speaker 1>like I've been in that position so many times, right

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<v Speaker 1>where you like, I'm gonna lose it, They're gonna laugh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna laugh. Oh my god, I have that. That's

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<v Speaker 1>such a good catch. It's cute. But then Steve says,

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<v Speaker 1>make sure to bring a condom. Feeling lucky tonight. That

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<v Speaker 1>was safe, that's true. True. I'm sure they worked it

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<v Speaker 1>in because they probably wanted to promote condom use at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, but like it was still brody. There was

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<v Speaker 1>another condom moment in this episode. I think I was

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<v Speaker 1>a little confused when Kelly and Dylan are whooping it

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<v Speaker 1>up in his house and then she goes back to

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<v Speaker 1>her person. What I saw that I couldn't figure out

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<v Speaker 1>because it was you, like, were you getting him a

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<v Speaker 1>condom or were you going to Like I didn't get it.

0:14:20.280 --> 0:14:22.440
<v Speaker 1>It was a little misleading because like, I'm not sure

0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:26.080
<v Speaker 1>what you she said. Did she say something like better

0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:30.000
<v Speaker 1>safe than sorry? Yes, it was definitely a suggestion that

0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:31.920
<v Speaker 1>they were going to have sex, but they're very safe

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Okay, But why did she have to go

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<v Speaker 1>back to her person get it? Doesn't he just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have it at this point. Maybe that was the easiest

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<v Speaker 1>way to acknowledge it. But I was trying to think,

0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:50.320
<v Speaker 1>like what could could you just pull it out of

0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:54.760
<v Speaker 1>a drawer that is really weird, not like a boyfriend

0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:59.040
<v Speaker 1>girlfriend situation. That's like a you're a girl and you're

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<v Speaker 1>on a date and the it might happen. So he

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<v Speaker 1>put it out. Yeah, Like I think of as like

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<v Speaker 1>the director wanted to see that last like a last

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<v Speaker 1>moment on Kelly of being kind of like feeling not

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<v Speaker 1>great about it or something. I don't know, but it

0:15:18.080 --> 0:15:22.960
<v Speaker 1>just didn't really work for me. Obviously, they nine O

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<v Speaker 1>two one oh wants to make sure every moment they

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<v Speaker 1>can that they are acknowledging these people have safe sex. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was in the nineties, you know. That was when

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<v Speaker 1>it was all about safe sex and found them awareness

0:15:35.800 --> 0:15:39.480
<v Speaker 1>and passing out condoms and schools was the first thing happening.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's a lot of talk of sex. Like my

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<v Speaker 1>high school experience was. I mean, I didn't have sex

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<v Speaker 1>in high school, I'm not afraid to say, but no

0:15:47.040 --> 0:15:50.240
<v Speaker 1>one cares. But anyway, so the people that we're having

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<v Speaker 1>sex never talked about it, probably to anyone but each other.

0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:58.160
<v Speaker 1>Like it was not I don't think two dudes would

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<v Speaker 1>have ever walked down the high school that hallway in

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<v Speaker 1>my high school and been like, let's get some ladies

0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:05.200
<v Speaker 1>to night. Let's bring some condoms because I'm gonna get lucky.

0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:09.440
<v Speaker 1>Like no, and like, nobody in high school is having

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<v Speaker 1>sex on a one night stand. I mean in my

0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:15.320
<v Speaker 1>high school. But I like that was for the girls

0:16:15.360 --> 0:16:20.000
<v Speaker 1>that were like way together. Agreed. Yeah, I don't remember.

0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:23.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it's I mean, having a daughter

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<v Speaker 1>in high school now, I'm like, oh god, I don't

0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:31.600
<v Speaker 1>want to watch. And sex was a big issue for

0:16:31.680 --> 0:16:37.880
<v Speaker 1>Dylan and Kelly in this episode, Yes, it was. I

0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:42.440
<v Speaker 1>mean she's really feeling like he only likes her for

0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:47.720
<v Speaker 1>her body and for the thing she does on the mattress,

0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:51.560
<v Speaker 1>which I never get that vibe from him at all.

0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:56.800
<v Speaker 1>H Yeah, but she's not feeling great right now. He's

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<v Speaker 1>like a little I think he's a little are sexualized

0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:04.240
<v Speaker 1>with Kelly than he felt like he was with Brenda. Definitely,

0:17:04.480 --> 0:17:09.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm wrong, right, That's definite. It just felt like, Yeah,

0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:13.680
<v Speaker 1>they're always fighting. In the beginning, in the first half

0:17:13.680 --> 0:17:15.520
<v Speaker 1>of the episode, I was like, oh my god, these

0:17:15.520 --> 0:17:20.400
<v Speaker 1>two are doomed. They they're always fighting. Yeah, I mean

0:17:20.440 --> 0:17:23.000
<v Speaker 1>this let's dig into the Kelly stuff then. All right. So,

0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:26.879
<v Speaker 1>so I was wrong last week because I thought the

0:17:26.920 --> 0:17:30.440
<v Speaker 1>Eating Disorder story was ending. I do now think it's ending.

0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:34.320
<v Speaker 1>But what did you think of that opening where you're

0:17:34.359 --> 0:17:38.399
<v Speaker 1>a group therapy. I just really appreciated the giant eating

0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:42.439
<v Speaker 1>disorder sign outside the door, like they opened on it.

0:17:42.480 --> 0:17:45.359
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Wow, okay, just announced it to the world.

0:17:46.040 --> 0:17:49.159
<v Speaker 1>They wouldn't have a giant sign that says eating disorder.

0:17:50.760 --> 0:17:54.960
<v Speaker 1>The girl telling her story, she was really good, very offense. Yeah,

0:17:55.680 --> 0:18:00.240
<v Speaker 1>I liked her. Yeah, I remember that they got though.

0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:03.159
<v Speaker 1>There were a few girls in that circle that were

0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:07.800
<v Speaker 1>actually patients of a certain place, and they agreed to

0:18:07.840 --> 0:18:13.840
<v Speaker 1>be a part of it. I remember, wow like that. Yeah,

0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:20.960
<v Speaker 1>it was heavy. It is heavy. This episode was primarily

0:18:21.200 --> 0:18:27.000
<v Speaker 1>very heavy with with for Kelly. I felt like they

0:18:27.040 --> 0:18:30.560
<v Speaker 1>were really I don't know if this was a decision

0:18:30.680 --> 0:18:33.360
<v Speaker 1>or not, but it felt like they were really redeeming Kelly,

0:18:33.400 --> 0:18:41.240
<v Speaker 1>like trying to redeemed Kelly because so many people hated

0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:45.399
<v Speaker 1>her for stealing Dylan and that was so polarizing, you know,

0:18:46.160 --> 0:18:48.200
<v Speaker 1>And I, for one, like I was on the knot.

0:18:48.280 --> 0:18:50.720
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't a big fan of Kelly. But this episode

0:18:50.840 --> 0:18:54.679
<v Speaker 1>kind of made me feel for her again, which I

0:18:54.760 --> 0:18:59.080
<v Speaker 1>think was their intention. And you know, it's interesting, so

0:18:59.119 --> 0:19:06.320
<v Speaker 1>you're talking about you're talking about fans viewers because oh wow,

0:19:06.359 --> 0:19:10.120
<v Speaker 1>So do you think that that actually could have impacted storyline?

0:19:12.840 --> 0:19:14.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I mean, I don't know how they

0:19:15.000 --> 0:19:18.880
<v Speaker 1>got feedback from the audience or I don't know how

0:19:18.920 --> 0:19:21.840
<v Speaker 1>they because there was no social media. There was no

0:19:21.880 --> 0:19:24.920
<v Speaker 1>way for the audience to like say what they thought

0:19:25.000 --> 0:19:28.879
<v Speaker 1>right away. People write letters back then, but maybe internally too,

0:19:29.000 --> 0:19:33.520
<v Speaker 1>they just figured we had to go this direction, so

0:19:33.600 --> 0:19:37.960
<v Speaker 1>we need to at the end. Yeah, the second half

0:19:37.960 --> 0:19:41.200
<v Speaker 1>of the episode, she really started to be redeemed, and

0:19:41.320 --> 0:19:47.160
<v Speaker 1>you really did feel the connection between Kelly and Dylan.

0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:53.000
<v Speaker 1>And this is the episode where he says, soulmate, we'll

0:19:53.040 --> 0:19:57.240
<v Speaker 1>get to that. That seems really powerful. Okay, so it

0:19:57.560 --> 0:20:01.600
<v Speaker 1>is very easy to persuade. Kelly's got her wrapped around

0:20:01.640 --> 0:20:05.600
<v Speaker 1>her finger. It's obvious. But she's so cute the way

0:20:05.600 --> 0:20:10.760
<v Speaker 1>that she's getting out of a little showered. So one

0:20:10.800 --> 0:20:16.399
<v Speaker 1>thing is Jackie is almost more prominent than Jim and

0:20:16.440 --> 0:20:20.959
<v Speaker 1>Cindy in the last few episodes. Really, Jackie is a

0:20:21.080 --> 0:20:25.840
<v Speaker 1>major character right now. Yeah, I don't know, It's it's

0:20:25.920 --> 0:20:28.000
<v Speaker 1>just me. I just always love when Jackie's on the

0:20:28.040 --> 0:20:30.399
<v Speaker 1>screen because she just I don't know, I just like

0:20:30.520 --> 0:20:35.359
<v Speaker 1>watching her working with her so and so vibrant, like

0:20:35.400 --> 0:20:37.800
<v Speaker 1>every time she enters. She just like, what have I

0:20:38.119 --> 0:20:43.240
<v Speaker 1>seen for a woman who was a little older to

0:20:43.359 --> 0:20:46.560
<v Speaker 1>be very no makeup getting out of the shower? That

0:20:46.600 --> 0:20:49.720
<v Speaker 1>cotton ball got a lot of work. I mean, she's

0:20:49.760 --> 0:20:55.600
<v Speaker 1>but that was like a very unique scene. I thought, gosh,

0:20:55.720 --> 0:20:57.720
<v Speaker 1>and I was wondering too, like while I was watching it,

0:20:57.800 --> 0:21:01.959
<v Speaker 1>like why why they have her get Why would they

0:21:01.960 --> 0:21:03.480
<v Speaker 1>have her in the shower? Why they have her get

0:21:03.480 --> 0:21:05.720
<v Speaker 1>out of the shower? I mean, and then I thought, well,

0:21:05.720 --> 0:21:07.840
<v Speaker 1>you know what, it makes it really feel very authentic

0:21:07.880 --> 0:21:11.399
<v Speaker 1>and real, and I liked the way it was it felt,

0:21:11.480 --> 0:21:13.560
<v Speaker 1>but it just I was at first, I was like,

0:21:13.560 --> 0:21:16.840
<v Speaker 1>why is she in the shower? It was such an

0:21:16.840 --> 0:21:19.240
<v Speaker 1>interesting choice, but it was like so real. A mom

0:21:19.280 --> 0:21:22.520
<v Speaker 1>and daughter definitely talk in the bathroom like that, and

0:21:22.600 --> 0:21:27.200
<v Speaker 1>people take showers apparently with blue. A lot of blue

0:21:27.200 --> 0:21:29.520
<v Speaker 1>blue in that bathroom, A lot of blue towels. Maybe

0:21:29.560 --> 0:21:31.720
<v Speaker 1>have something to do with Kelly being voted most Pretty

0:21:31.720 --> 0:21:34.119
<v Speaker 1>and how Kelly feels about herself and it's all about

0:21:34.800 --> 0:21:40.000
<v Speaker 1>her physically, her appearance. And then there's Jackie, you know,

0:21:40.280 --> 0:21:42.720
<v Speaker 1>just a real moment. Maybe do you think a mom

0:21:42.760 --> 0:21:46.800
<v Speaker 1>would have let their daughter out of the group that easily?

0:21:47.000 --> 0:21:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't. I mean, I yeah, I'm a little bit

0:21:52.800 --> 0:21:56.960
<v Speaker 1>too much like Jackie. I'm very easy to persuade when

0:21:56.960 --> 0:21:59.920
<v Speaker 1>it comes to my kids. So but not after one time?

0:22:00.080 --> 0:22:03.640
<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't, right, No, I would. I would be like

0:22:04.080 --> 0:22:06.160
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't bad, was it? You know, like, oh, yeah,

0:22:06.800 --> 0:22:08.280
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to go, okay, let me talk to

0:22:08.280 --> 0:22:11.640
<v Speaker 1>your dad. Fine. I guess I would too. I don't know.

0:22:12.320 --> 0:22:17.320
<v Speaker 1>I I would try, like twice at least. Yeah, maybe

0:22:17.359 --> 0:22:19.480
<v Speaker 1>that's a good idea, like just try one more time.

0:22:20.800 --> 0:22:25.760
<v Speaker 1>In this episode, we do see and the landed normal

0:22:25.880 --> 0:22:29.840
<v Speaker 1>like it. It played authentically to me the impact that

0:22:30.040 --> 0:22:35.440
<v Speaker 1>Jackie had on Kelly and maybe the damage that Jackie

0:22:37.119 --> 0:22:41.080
<v Speaker 1>was doing, because I did think, oh, this is weird

0:22:41.119 --> 0:22:43.280
<v Speaker 1>that she said, oh you have no eyelashes and very

0:22:43.280 --> 0:22:46.840
<v Speaker 1>pale skin, and like we hadn't really seen that before,

0:22:46.840 --> 0:22:48.439
<v Speaker 1>but I do. I could see a mom that's a

0:22:48.520 --> 0:22:53.400
<v Speaker 1>model really messing up their kidal intentionally. Yeah, she didn't

0:22:53.160 --> 0:22:55.439
<v Speaker 1>want to you have to be a mom that's a

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<v Speaker 1>model to mess up your kid. Yeah, it's really see

0:23:00.000 --> 0:23:02.920
<v Speaker 1>it happens from every most moms out there. I'm sure

0:23:02.960 --> 0:23:04.840
<v Speaker 1>in some way we'll mess up our kids and not

0:23:04.960 --> 0:23:08.240
<v Speaker 1>even think we're doing it. Yeah, say something little and

0:23:08.400 --> 0:23:11.679
<v Speaker 1>not really notice it or see the impact that it

0:23:11.680 --> 0:23:14.880
<v Speaker 1>has on them. So hard. What do you guys think

0:23:14.880 --> 0:23:24.240
<v Speaker 1>of Jackie and Kelly like that dynamic? I love them together.

0:23:24.440 --> 0:23:28.040
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I just felt really bad for Kelly,

0:23:28.160 --> 0:23:30.159
<v Speaker 1>especially during all that part where she was trying to

0:23:30.160 --> 0:23:37.600
<v Speaker 1>get ready and she was feeling so insecure and self conscious. Um,

0:23:37.640 --> 0:23:41.240
<v Speaker 1>I felt, you know, it's so hard to love yourself

0:23:42.200 --> 0:23:45.160
<v Speaker 1>at all anyway, It's really hard. That concept of loving

0:23:45.200 --> 0:23:49.440
<v Speaker 1>yourself the way you are is really hard for some people. Um.

0:23:49.480 --> 0:23:52.040
<v Speaker 1>And I think that it's really a lot harder for

0:23:52.080 --> 0:23:57.600
<v Speaker 1>people who are put in that category of being pretty

0:23:57.760 --> 0:24:02.960
<v Speaker 1>or being being something or someone that people look at.

0:24:05.160 --> 0:24:08.919
<v Speaker 1>It's it just feels a lot different when the focus

0:24:09.680 --> 0:24:11.600
<v Speaker 1>is all on your appearance. It's hard for you to

0:24:11.680 --> 0:24:14.840
<v Speaker 1>not focus on your appearance and that the importance of it.

0:24:15.760 --> 0:24:20.760
<v Speaker 1>And I could relate with Kelly and I've felt like

0:24:21.440 --> 0:24:25.359
<v Speaker 1>that before, Like it's not a good feeling and it

0:24:25.880 --> 0:24:28.560
<v Speaker 1>and it doesn't make it. People can tell you, oh

0:24:28.600 --> 0:24:31.280
<v Speaker 1>you're so pretty or your whatever this that it doesn't

0:24:31.280 --> 0:24:39.040
<v Speaker 1>make it any easier for you to love yourself. So true. Yeah,

0:24:39.320 --> 0:24:42.600
<v Speaker 1>she was really struggling with that. I often feel like

0:24:42.680 --> 0:24:46.399
<v Speaker 1>Kelly's the mom and Jackie's the daughter. I feel like

0:24:46.480 --> 0:24:48.879
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of mixed up. I like their relationship. I

0:24:48.960 --> 0:24:51.480
<v Speaker 1>love you guys together, like it's magic on screen, you

0:24:51.480 --> 0:24:55.000
<v Speaker 1>guys working together, but it's I always want like I

0:24:55.040 --> 0:24:57.720
<v Speaker 1>wish Kelly would just have could do like a kid

0:24:57.760 --> 0:25:01.160
<v Speaker 1>swap parents swap, be with have Cindy for a while.

0:25:02.280 --> 0:25:05.240
<v Speaker 1>She would love that, right. It would have probably done

0:25:05.240 --> 0:25:11.080
<v Speaker 1>a lot to heal some wounds that she's had just from.

0:25:11.080 --> 0:25:13.960
<v Speaker 1>And I felt for Jackie too, because she was really

0:25:15.800 --> 0:25:20.320
<v Speaker 1>looking inside too in this episode and acknowledging the impact

0:25:20.359 --> 0:25:24.439
<v Speaker 1>that she had on her you know, daughter, and and

0:25:24.600 --> 0:25:28.080
<v Speaker 1>all the mistakes that she must have made along the way.

0:25:28.200 --> 0:25:30.600
<v Speaker 1>Like I felt my heart broke for her a little

0:25:30.600 --> 0:25:46.680
<v Speaker 1>bit too. H It's interesting to compare in this specific

0:25:46.680 --> 0:25:50.159
<v Speaker 1>episode Jackie and Kelly and then Jim and Cindy and

0:25:50.200 --> 0:25:53.280
<v Speaker 1>Brenda who are also having I guess you could call

0:25:53.359 --> 0:25:55.719
<v Speaker 1>a bit of a conflict, but it's so the Walsh

0:25:55.800 --> 0:26:00.440
<v Speaker 1>conflict is so like it's like nothing, know what I mean,

0:26:00.480 --> 0:26:03.000
<v Speaker 1>Like Brendo maybe wants to go to school back home,

0:26:03.440 --> 0:26:07.199
<v Speaker 1>she needs fifty dollars, like she didn't tell them, and

0:26:07.240 --> 0:26:10.640
<v Speaker 1>then they are so the way they approach it, it's

0:26:10.680 --> 0:26:13.560
<v Speaker 1>so different, you know, Like think about that conflict. There

0:26:13.640 --> 0:26:16.320
<v Speaker 1>was no yelling. It was all it was all like

0:26:16.960 --> 0:26:19.040
<v Speaker 1>from love and talking and like we want you to

0:26:19.080 --> 0:26:21.320
<v Speaker 1>go to school wherever you want, just come to us.

0:26:21.359 --> 0:26:25.080
<v Speaker 1>And then like Brandon opens up to Jim about the gambling,

0:26:25.240 --> 0:26:30.680
<v Speaker 1>like they just are so Minnesota parents versus Beverly Hills parents.

0:26:32.000 --> 0:26:35.160
<v Speaker 1>I was when I was watching Kelly and Jackie, I

0:26:35.200 --> 0:26:38.960
<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm seeing a lot of similarities in my household.

0:26:38.960 --> 0:26:42.520
<v Speaker 1>With this household like that we have. There's there were

0:26:42.560 --> 0:26:45.200
<v Speaker 1>three girls growing up now there's only one girl still

0:26:45.240 --> 0:26:47.280
<v Speaker 1>in the house. But and me, and I'm just a girl,

0:26:47.280 --> 0:26:49.240
<v Speaker 1>like I don't know what I'm doing. And a lot

0:26:49.240 --> 0:26:51.920
<v Speaker 1>of time when there's a conflict or like there's a

0:26:51.920 --> 0:26:57.119
<v Speaker 1>tough spot, it's like everybody just starts like me included,

0:26:57.200 --> 0:27:00.600
<v Speaker 1>like I'm not very good when it comes to being

0:27:00.640 --> 0:27:04.520
<v Speaker 1>more like Cindy Walsh. I guess. Yeah, I don't think

0:27:04.520 --> 0:27:07.520
<v Speaker 1>anybody is. Tori. Do you think you're more like Jackie

0:27:07.640 --> 0:27:12.359
<v Speaker 1>or more like Cindy in real life? As I was

0:27:12.440 --> 0:27:16.760
<v Speaker 1>like Cindy for many years, but now that I'm getting older,

0:27:16.960 --> 0:27:20.640
<v Speaker 1>like the Jackie's coming out, you've got five now you've

0:27:20.640 --> 0:27:23.520
<v Speaker 1>got no time for Cindy. The patients. Yeah, I used

0:27:23.560 --> 0:27:26.359
<v Speaker 1>to have the patience of a saint. Everything would be

0:27:26.440 --> 0:27:29.800
<v Speaker 1>handled like this, and I hear you and I understand

0:27:30.000 --> 0:27:32.080
<v Speaker 1>and I know what you're feeling. But it was like

0:27:32.240 --> 0:27:35.120
<v Speaker 1>very therapy. Talked to the kids. I think that worked well.

0:27:35.160 --> 0:27:38.160
<v Speaker 1>I never raised my voice, And now like they start

0:27:38.280 --> 0:27:41.440
<v Speaker 1>arguing and I'm just like, ah, yeah, it's just losers.

0:27:41.480 --> 0:27:45.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Yeah, I hate it when they argue

0:27:45.240 --> 0:27:49.680
<v Speaker 1>the kids. Oh my god, that's the worst, the worst.

0:27:50.520 --> 0:27:52.960
<v Speaker 1>My kids still do it. And I'm like, you guys

0:27:52.960 --> 0:27:54.560
<v Speaker 1>are going to send me to the hospital. I can't

0:27:54.560 --> 0:27:58.800
<v Speaker 1>handle this. And you couldn't just like walk away because

0:27:58.800 --> 0:28:01.320
<v Speaker 1>they usually do it in your space, like do it

0:28:01.320 --> 0:28:08.080
<v Speaker 1>in front of you because they want you to do something. Yeah,

0:28:08.119 --> 0:28:13.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm sort of thinking about Jackie versus Cindy and ultimately,

0:28:13.800 --> 0:28:17.200
<v Speaker 1>like is one a better mom than another? You know what?

0:28:17.280 --> 0:28:19.520
<v Speaker 1>Cindy's got her own issues because I was a Cindy

0:28:19.600 --> 0:28:21.879
<v Speaker 1>for a long time, and when you repress your voice

0:28:21.880 --> 0:28:24.840
<v Speaker 1>and you just keep everything down, it somehow comes out

0:28:24.880 --> 0:28:27.320
<v Speaker 1>at some point, and not in a healthy way. So

0:28:27.440 --> 0:28:30.600
<v Speaker 1>like there's gotta be moments where Cindy wants to just

0:28:30.680 --> 0:28:35.800
<v Speaker 1>like be like yeah, like well, and I kind of understand. Mean,

0:28:36.640 --> 0:28:40.120
<v Speaker 1>it's that tricky thing where Jackie thinks she's helping Kelly,

0:28:40.360 --> 0:28:43.240
<v Speaker 1>helping her look better, helping her with her makeup, and

0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:46.160
<v Speaker 1>like it's the only way she knows to help her though, well,

0:28:46.200 --> 0:28:49.160
<v Speaker 1>and she might be even was right like maybe do

0:28:49.200 --> 0:28:50.920
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, Like, but how do you

0:28:50.960 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 1>help a kid without making them feel like they don't

0:28:53.520 --> 0:28:56.400
<v Speaker 1>look right? How do you do that? It's so hard

0:28:56.480 --> 0:29:00.520
<v Speaker 1>no matter because just in my own experience, it's even

0:29:00.560 --> 0:29:04.680
<v Speaker 1>currently like whatever I say or whatever suggestion I have,

0:29:05.280 --> 0:29:08.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how it's going to be received. So

0:29:08.080 --> 0:29:10.640
<v Speaker 1>it kind of almost even stops me from saying anything

0:29:10.680 --> 0:29:15.360
<v Speaker 1>because I don't want to get in her head in

0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:17.520
<v Speaker 1>a way that wasn't already there, like you know what

0:29:17.560 --> 0:29:21.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean, like the two perspectives, because you see that

0:29:22.040 --> 0:29:24.960
<v Speaker 1>in the big blow up where she's saying, you made

0:29:24.960 --> 0:29:27.320
<v Speaker 1>me get a nose job. You begged for the nose job.

0:29:28.040 --> 0:29:30.880
<v Speaker 1>You know, you didn't give me a cake or something.

0:29:30.960 --> 0:29:33.960
<v Speaker 1>You made me go on weight watchers. Like. It was

0:29:34.000 --> 0:29:39.960
<v Speaker 1>these two perspectives where I'm sure Kelly did ask for

0:29:40.000 --> 0:29:42.240
<v Speaker 1>the nose job, you know what I mean, like, and

0:29:42.280 --> 0:29:44.240
<v Speaker 1>then Jackie gave it to her because she thought that's

0:29:44.240 --> 0:29:46.880
<v Speaker 1>what she wanted, like, but in giving it to her,

0:29:47.160 --> 0:29:51.200
<v Speaker 1>she solidified Kelly's belief that she needed it right. So

0:29:51.280 --> 0:29:54.880
<v Speaker 1>it's just like and then saying, oh, if Kelly said,

0:29:54.920 --> 0:29:57.680
<v Speaker 1>oh I ate this cake, I feel like I should

0:29:57.680 --> 0:29:59.480
<v Speaker 1>lose some weight, her mom was probably trying to be

0:29:59.520 --> 0:30:01.800
<v Speaker 1>helpful and saying, oh, I just did this great program

0:30:01.880 --> 0:30:04.320
<v Speaker 1>called weight Watchers and you could do it too. It'll

0:30:04.360 --> 0:30:06.760
<v Speaker 1>be fun like, and then in Kelly's mind that was like,

0:30:06.800 --> 0:30:09.479
<v Speaker 1>oh I need weight Watchers. I'm I'm overweight, you know.

0:30:09.560 --> 0:30:12.200
<v Speaker 1>Like you know, if you're trying to be helpful with

0:30:12.240 --> 0:30:16.760
<v Speaker 1>your teenage daughter, it's really tricky because they have to

0:30:16.800 --> 0:30:21.840
<v Speaker 1>figure it all out themselves. I just try to stand

0:30:21.840 --> 0:30:24.640
<v Speaker 1>back at this point and let them come to me

0:30:24.680 --> 0:30:30.479
<v Speaker 1>and not offer any advice or tips or anything until

0:30:31.440 --> 0:30:35.200
<v Speaker 1>I feel it's a safe space. The nose job combos

0:30:35.240 --> 0:30:38.600
<v Speaker 1>giving me PTSD. I wanted to ask I wanted to

0:30:38.640 --> 0:30:40.760
<v Speaker 1>ask you that, but I didn't. I wanted to. I'm

0:30:40.760 --> 0:30:45.440
<v Speaker 1>glad you are opening the door for me. Yeah, we'll

0:30:45.440 --> 0:30:49.920
<v Speaker 1>talk about it. Did it like? I don't know, but

0:30:50.000 --> 0:30:52.560
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I didn't even feel it watching it,

0:30:52.640 --> 0:30:55.280
<v Speaker 1>But hearing you talk about it now, I'm like, did

0:30:55.320 --> 0:30:58.080
<v Speaker 1>my dad say something to the writers about this situation?

0:30:58.120 --> 0:31:01.800
<v Speaker 1>Because it was it was a constant kind of we

0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:04.280
<v Speaker 1>didn't fight in our house, like, everyone just like kept

0:31:04.280 --> 0:31:07.440
<v Speaker 1>their feelings inside. And then I almost quiet and happy.

0:31:07.480 --> 0:31:09.800
<v Speaker 1>And even if you weren't, so it was it was

0:31:09.840 --> 0:31:11.560
<v Speaker 1>not good. No one ever yelled. I never heard my

0:31:11.600 --> 0:31:16.239
<v Speaker 1>parents fight my entire life. Um, but yeah, it's it's

0:31:16.400 --> 0:31:20.000
<v Speaker 1>a constant thing that I always I perceived it as

0:31:20.080 --> 0:31:21.800
<v Speaker 1>my mom wanted me to get a nose job. My

0:31:21.840 --> 0:31:24.400
<v Speaker 1>mom perceives it that I asked, you know, for a

0:31:24.440 --> 0:31:27.480
<v Speaker 1>nose job. So it's two different stories, but but the

0:31:27.560 --> 0:31:31.880
<v Speaker 1>same thing. That's the same thing, right, which it was,

0:31:32.000 --> 0:31:35.120
<v Speaker 1>and probably both are true, knowing just the way the

0:31:35.160 --> 0:31:42.680
<v Speaker 1>world works. Oh wait, what what? Amy whispering again? Whispering?

0:31:46.000 --> 0:31:49.080
<v Speaker 1>Um No, I think I think I told you guys

0:31:49.120 --> 0:31:52.240
<v Speaker 1>this story that it came. It never came out that

0:31:52.760 --> 0:31:55.320
<v Speaker 1>I felt this way or there was anything between us

0:31:55.600 --> 0:31:59.240
<v Speaker 1>until um in eleventh grade, I had a class, like

0:31:59.280 --> 0:32:02.040
<v Speaker 1>a health class, and it was Mrs Wildflower. She was

0:32:02.120 --> 0:32:06.120
<v Speaker 1>like this hippie, dippy perfect name, of course, right, and

0:32:06.160 --> 0:32:08.240
<v Speaker 1>we had to write down one thing in a paper

0:32:08.320 --> 0:32:11.560
<v Speaker 1>that we hadn't told anyone before that really heard us

0:32:11.560 --> 0:32:13.680
<v Speaker 1>and made us upset that we were angry about but

0:32:13.760 --> 0:32:15.640
<v Speaker 1>hadn't expressed it, and just write in a paper and

0:32:15.640 --> 0:32:17.400
<v Speaker 1>get it out and give it to her. And she

0:32:17.640 --> 0:32:22.800
<v Speaker 1>ended up calling my mom, which was I felt like,

0:32:22.840 --> 0:32:24.720
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, she betrayed me and I didn't know

0:32:24.800 --> 0:32:26.200
<v Speaker 1>to My mom called me in the bathroom. She's like,

0:32:26.200 --> 0:32:28.040
<v Speaker 1>I got a call from Mrs Wildflower and she read

0:32:28.080 --> 0:32:31.920
<v Speaker 1>me your paper. And I'm really hurt because I didn't

0:32:31.960 --> 0:32:33.840
<v Speaker 1>make you get a nose job. I didn't tell you

0:32:33.840 --> 0:32:36.480
<v Speaker 1>you weren't pretty. I didn't do any of this, and

0:32:36.520 --> 0:32:38.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, we'll never know what it was. But also

0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:40.680
<v Speaker 1>I was a young girl, and it's how I heard it,

0:32:40.760 --> 0:32:44.120
<v Speaker 1>no matter what she said, like you're saying, it's perceived differently.

0:32:44.920 --> 0:32:49.720
<v Speaker 1>So she was horrified and hysterically crying. I was hysterically crying.

0:32:49.800 --> 0:32:51.640
<v Speaker 1>Mrs Wildflower did a good thing. We got to talk

0:32:51.720 --> 0:32:53.800
<v Speaker 1>it out, and she was like, I never felt this way.

0:32:53.840 --> 0:32:55.600
<v Speaker 1>I thought you were you know, I think you're beautiful.

0:32:55.640 --> 0:32:57.120
<v Speaker 1>I thought you were beautiful before you didn't have to

0:32:57.160 --> 0:33:02.560
<v Speaker 1>get a nose job. So anyway, I'm wondering where this

0:33:02.600 --> 0:33:16.760
<v Speaker 1>story came from. WHOA Like wow? But anyhow, I would

0:33:17.400 --> 0:33:19.560
<v Speaker 1>say it was a good lesson though, because when my

0:33:19.640 --> 0:33:22.640
<v Speaker 1>daughters talk about their parents, I just don't say a

0:33:22.720 --> 0:33:27.080
<v Speaker 1>word because you know, I'm like, whatever you want, if

0:33:27.080 --> 0:33:29.240
<v Speaker 1>you feel, if you think it looks good, it looks good.

0:33:29.280 --> 0:33:32.200
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm so careful. Like you said, Jenny, you don't

0:33:32.240 --> 0:33:34.560
<v Speaker 1>know what to say. I just don't say anything because

0:33:34.720 --> 0:33:40.400
<v Speaker 1>how it really transpired and it was perceived apparently wrong

0:33:40.480 --> 0:33:44.320
<v Speaker 1>in my mind. But I don't know. No, I don't know, Jenny,

0:33:44.360 --> 0:33:46.640
<v Speaker 1>what do you think I would have? I think both

0:33:46.760 --> 0:33:53.000
<v Speaker 1>can be true, meaning both are true. You probably maybe

0:33:53.280 --> 0:33:56.520
<v Speaker 1>did want it, but then she probably didn't say the

0:33:56.640 --> 0:34:04.240
<v Speaker 1>right thing or not. Sometimes mom's effort up too Yeah,

0:34:04.320 --> 0:34:08.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean we're not perfect. Yeah, or maybe they I

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:10.920
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I'm trying to get inside Jackie's head. Maybe

0:34:10.960 --> 0:34:15.480
<v Speaker 1>like she thought Kelly would be happier, do you know

0:34:15.480 --> 0:34:18.120
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. So maybe she did put that on

0:34:18.200 --> 0:34:21.440
<v Speaker 1>to her saying you can get a nose job, because

0:34:21.480 --> 0:34:24.880
<v Speaker 1>maybe she thought she had expressed it so many times

0:34:25.000 --> 0:34:28.120
<v Speaker 1>that she Yeah, maybe it doesn't come from a bad

0:34:28.160 --> 0:34:30.560
<v Speaker 1>place of wanting to change your kid, but maybe you're thinking,

0:34:30.640 --> 0:34:34.439
<v Speaker 1>let me give my kid I think it is. Yeah,

0:34:34.480 --> 0:34:38.080
<v Speaker 1>but then okay, so right, so then I can totally

0:34:38.080 --> 0:34:41.680
<v Speaker 1>relate to this that I won't go into detail, but um,

0:34:41.800 --> 0:34:44.920
<v Speaker 1>the you want the kid. You want your kid to

0:34:45.080 --> 0:34:48.160
<v Speaker 1>feel confident and like go out there with their best

0:34:48.160 --> 0:34:50.879
<v Speaker 1>foot forward. And this is a tough life. And if

0:34:50.920 --> 0:34:53.520
<v Speaker 1>that's what they need and you have the ability to

0:34:53.520 --> 0:34:57.840
<v Speaker 1>provide it for them, and and you know, you're like, whoa, Okay,

0:34:57.840 --> 0:35:00.840
<v Speaker 1>why not. If that's gonna that's gonna help my child,

0:35:01.040 --> 0:35:04.000
<v Speaker 1>then that's what I'll do. But on the other hand,

0:35:05.000 --> 0:35:08.400
<v Speaker 1>you're supposed to be giving them the message of unconditional

0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:10.600
<v Speaker 1>love and love yourself the way you are and you're

0:35:10.640 --> 0:35:12.840
<v Speaker 1>perfect just the way you are, and go out in

0:35:12.880 --> 0:35:15.640
<v Speaker 1>the world and conquer it that way. So what's you

0:35:15.719 --> 0:35:19.200
<v Speaker 1>is the right way? You're damned if you do. You're

0:35:19.239 --> 0:35:23.920
<v Speaker 1>damned if you don't. I don't know. You're right, I

0:35:23.920 --> 0:35:26.799
<v Speaker 1>don't know either. You know, it makes me think, is

0:35:26.960 --> 0:35:33.080
<v Speaker 1>of the four of you, Kelly, Donna, Andrea, Brenda, who

0:35:33.160 --> 0:35:39.640
<v Speaker 1>do you think is the most comfortable in who they are? Andrea? Yeah,

0:35:40.000 --> 0:35:43.719
<v Speaker 1>I think so what do you think, Jenny? I like

0:35:44.040 --> 0:35:48.520
<v Speaker 1>Brenda was very comfortable and who she was. No, no, no,

0:35:48.880 --> 0:35:53.759
<v Speaker 1>it's to me it's Andrea. I never really haven't seen

0:35:54.320 --> 0:35:58.840
<v Speaker 1>Brenda like look in the mirror and feel self conscious

0:35:58.920 --> 0:36:02.839
<v Speaker 1>or feel like I've never seen that on the show yet.

0:36:03.120 --> 0:36:06.400
<v Speaker 1>I've seen that with Andrea. That happens. Cameria has it

0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:12.440
<v Speaker 1>a little bit, but Brenda is I think has her things.

0:36:12.480 --> 0:36:14.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean even right now, she wants to go home.

0:36:15.120 --> 0:36:18.680
<v Speaker 1>She feels like she doesn't have these close friends here

0:36:19.400 --> 0:36:23.520
<v Speaker 1>and she's like wants to go back home. That just

0:36:23.600 --> 0:36:26.440
<v Speaker 1>comes from like insecurity in the whole situation. She I mean,

0:36:26.440 --> 0:36:28.640
<v Speaker 1>I'd want to go home too, that all this had

0:36:28.680 --> 0:36:31.759
<v Speaker 1>happened to me. Yeah, But Jenna asked in right there

0:36:31.760 --> 0:36:34.000
<v Speaker 1>and didn't get picked the prettiest girl, like I'd be

0:36:34.040 --> 0:36:38.399
<v Speaker 1>like Sea Beverly jents. Right though they don't really ever

0:36:38.480 --> 0:36:43.040
<v Speaker 1>show her struggling with her appearance or how she looked like, no, no,

0:36:43.239 --> 0:36:51.160
<v Speaker 1>you're right, color her hair look. Yeah, it's true she

0:36:51.280 --> 0:36:54.799
<v Speaker 1>and she doesn't really blame herself. Well maybe a little

0:36:54.800 --> 0:36:56.759
<v Speaker 1>bit like just if she would have gone over to

0:36:57.160 --> 0:37:00.160
<v Speaker 1>the hotel room that night, then things with Dylan Helly

0:37:00.200 --> 0:37:03.560
<v Speaker 1>would be different. But she's nevers a little bit of

0:37:03.880 --> 0:37:13.080
<v Speaker 1>a narcissist, right, how so because she somehow makes the

0:37:13.120 --> 0:37:17.719
<v Speaker 1>situations about her often? Is it okay to say this?

0:37:19.560 --> 0:37:22.680
<v Speaker 1>Of course? Yeah, And I think sorry, I've been I've

0:37:22.719 --> 0:37:25.399
<v Speaker 1>been reading a lot about narcissists lately, and it's not

0:37:25.440 --> 0:37:28.640
<v Speaker 1>always what you think because there's like five there's many

0:37:28.680 --> 0:37:31.040
<v Speaker 1>different types of narcissists. You could be like the sweet,

0:37:31.840 --> 0:37:35.640
<v Speaker 1>sweet kind narcissists, Like I feel like she does often

0:37:35.680 --> 0:37:38.839
<v Speaker 1>make things about her and it's about like, I don't know,

0:37:38.960 --> 0:37:41.240
<v Speaker 1>so maybe she doesn't always have moments where she feels

0:37:41.239 --> 0:37:45.080
<v Speaker 1>insecure because she feels entitled, she feels you know, kind

0:37:45.080 --> 0:37:48.720
<v Speaker 1>of a little bit. Yeah, I'm so scared of that title.

0:37:48.800 --> 0:37:52.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm so scared of that word narcissist. Like I have

0:37:52.560 --> 0:37:56.960
<v Speaker 1>issues with that word because I've used it. I know

0:37:57.080 --> 0:38:01.920
<v Speaker 1>people that I'm pretty sure narcissist um. But it's such

0:38:02.080 --> 0:38:05.680
<v Speaker 1>there's so many different facets to a narcissist. There's so

0:38:05.719 --> 0:38:08.759
<v Speaker 1>many different ways that you can be one, or that

0:38:08.800 --> 0:38:10.680
<v Speaker 1>you can or you're not one, like you know what

0:38:10.719 --> 0:38:12.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like I get I get really nervous with

0:38:12.600 --> 0:38:15.360
<v Speaker 1>that term now because who's to say I'm not a narcissist?

0:38:15.440 --> 0:38:17.680
<v Speaker 1>Like if someone someone could look at me and think

0:38:17.719 --> 0:38:21.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm a narcissist or or and then how is it

0:38:21.000 --> 0:38:23.440
<v Speaker 1>okay I'm looking at someone else to either narcissists? Does

0:38:23.520 --> 0:38:27.279
<v Speaker 1>that make me a narcissist? Like, you know, it's I mean,

0:38:27.320 --> 0:38:29.560
<v Speaker 1>we could do. I've been studying it a lot lately.

0:38:29.640 --> 0:38:32.600
<v Speaker 1>And did you know that there's like a one percent

0:38:33.000 --> 0:38:35.960
<v Speaker 1>in every single one of us, so we all have

0:38:36.160 --> 0:38:39.560
<v Speaker 1>minor it's all varying, you know, degrees. It's it's a

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:43.640
<v Speaker 1>definite spectrum with narcissism. And again there's many different kinds.

0:38:43.680 --> 0:38:46.319
<v Speaker 1>There's the kind sweet narcissist that you were like, Oh,

0:38:46.640 --> 0:38:49.560
<v Speaker 1>I always thought narcissist meant this bad bad. It's not

0:38:49.600 --> 0:38:52.359
<v Speaker 1>always like that, but I just mean, I don't know, Yeah,

0:38:52.360 --> 0:38:54.080
<v Speaker 1>you're right, I guess it came up for me because

0:38:54.080 --> 0:38:56.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, I'm just gonna be an. I don't

0:38:56.719 --> 0:39:00.600
<v Speaker 1>think either of you are because you always care about

0:39:00.640 --> 0:39:03.000
<v Speaker 1>how the other person feels, meaning even just the three

0:39:03.040 --> 0:39:08.520
<v Speaker 1>of us, and narcissist typically wouldn't. It's not that they

0:39:08.560 --> 0:39:12.560
<v Speaker 1>don't even think about it, right, it's not. It's not

0:39:12.600 --> 0:39:15.839
<v Speaker 1>a purpose, it's just ingrained in them. Yeah, I mean

0:39:16.040 --> 0:39:19.040
<v Speaker 1>you're always you guys from the research I've been doing. Yeah,

0:39:19.040 --> 0:39:22.799
<v Speaker 1>I don't think why are you doing? I just want

0:39:22.840 --> 0:39:26.040
<v Speaker 1>to learn about it. But I don't think any of

0:39:26.160 --> 0:39:28.319
<v Speaker 1>us are. But I don't think so either, because we

0:39:28.360 --> 0:39:32.960
<v Speaker 1>get so upset if we think somebody else is feeling No,

0:39:33.200 --> 0:39:37.160
<v Speaker 1>did I make you feel? No, we do their actions

0:39:37.200 --> 0:39:40.560
<v Speaker 1>the three of us where it's like, that wasn't my intention.

0:39:41.160 --> 0:39:43.719
<v Speaker 1>Let me figure let's figure that out. Every single one

0:39:43.760 --> 0:39:45.200
<v Speaker 1>of us does that. But what I started to think

0:39:45.200 --> 0:39:49.399
<v Speaker 1>about when you said that Tori is Brandon versus Brenda. Yes,

0:39:49.560 --> 0:39:53.759
<v Speaker 1>if I had to say, Brandon is like the EmPATH.

0:39:54.239 --> 0:39:58.160
<v Speaker 1>He's always trying to like solve the problem, take care

0:39:58.200 --> 0:40:00.960
<v Speaker 1>of everybody, make his sister like she goes to him

0:40:01.000 --> 0:40:03.120
<v Speaker 1>for the fifty bucks. He doesn't even have the fifty bucks.

0:40:03.160 --> 0:40:10.080
<v Speaker 1>He's trying to figure it out, so he does. He

0:40:10.320 --> 0:40:12.880
<v Speaker 1>is the one that gets the less attention a lot.

0:40:13.840 --> 0:40:17.440
<v Speaker 1>He's okay with that though. Yeah, they would be interesting

0:40:17.480 --> 0:40:21.120
<v Speaker 1>for a therapist to like analyze. That would be kind

0:40:21.120 --> 0:40:24.000
<v Speaker 1>of cool to get a therapist to come on the

0:40:24.080 --> 0:40:27.879
<v Speaker 1>show to analyze the characters. Yeah, we do it like that.

0:40:28.680 --> 0:40:30.719
<v Speaker 1>We have to get a we have to find a therapist.

0:40:31.239 --> 0:40:35.560
<v Speaker 1>So if someone's listening that really knows the show, yeah,

0:40:35.640 --> 0:40:43.000
<v Speaker 1>because Dr Drew, it would be fascinating to analyze Kelly

0:40:43.080 --> 0:40:48.200
<v Speaker 1>and Jackie and I think Tory Donna and uh, what's

0:40:48.200 --> 0:40:51.120
<v Speaker 1>your mom? Felice Felice. I think there's a lot coming

0:40:51.120 --> 0:41:07.200
<v Speaker 1>with Felice. Yeah, there is. Yeah, going back to the show,

0:41:07.280 --> 0:41:10.000
<v Speaker 1>I felt like, um, what you said last week? Well

0:41:10.040 --> 0:41:14.719
<v Speaker 1>two things what you said last week? Amy about um

0:41:15.400 --> 0:41:19.319
<v Speaker 1>the sort of um, uh, what's it called? When you

0:41:19.360 --> 0:41:24.239
<v Speaker 1>see ahead? I'm blanking? Do you see what? Foreshadowing? Thank you?

0:41:24.680 --> 0:41:27.640
<v Speaker 1>Of Brandon and Kelly. I felt like there was even

0:41:27.760 --> 0:41:34.319
<v Speaker 1>more there this week, like a little flirty exchanges with them. Yeah, yeah,

0:41:34.360 --> 0:41:37.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering. I have no idea does that come soon later?

0:41:38.200 --> 0:41:41.360
<v Speaker 1>What season does that happen? Because I know what happens,

0:41:41.440 --> 0:41:45.560
<v Speaker 1>but not soon. It's not super so. So they're just

0:41:45.600 --> 0:41:50.640
<v Speaker 1>developing a really nice, sweet close friendship right right, because

0:41:50.680 --> 0:41:53.680
<v Speaker 1>it's not like when that does happen, all they have

0:41:53.760 --> 0:41:56.040
<v Speaker 1>to get to know each other, they are going a date, like, no,

0:41:56.320 --> 0:42:01.160
<v Speaker 1>they're way past that stuff. So though I did at

0:42:01.160 --> 0:42:09.000
<v Speaker 1>the end really feel prime Kelly and Dylan like now

0:42:09.200 --> 0:42:12.160
<v Speaker 1>they're really in a groove and like you see, because

0:42:12.160 --> 0:42:14.080
<v Speaker 1>we haven't talked about the scene at the kid at

0:42:14.120 --> 0:42:18.440
<v Speaker 1>the at the park or the playground, because that was

0:42:18.520 --> 0:42:23.600
<v Speaker 1>first of all amazing performance by both they. It was

0:42:23.760 --> 0:42:26.320
<v Speaker 1>I felt like that scene was compelling, Like I watched

0:42:26.320 --> 0:42:29.280
<v Speaker 1>it and I was actually like, I like the scene

0:42:30.280 --> 0:42:34.319
<v Speaker 1>and I can kind of remember doing it. Well, how

0:42:34.360 --> 0:42:36.960
<v Speaker 1>could you not? It was night, so obviously you shot

0:42:37.000 --> 0:42:44.000
<v Speaker 1>all night. And Luke Perry is eight. He is really amazing,

0:42:45.640 --> 0:42:49.279
<v Speaker 1>like he is such a good actor. Mm hmm, I

0:42:49.280 --> 0:42:52.840
<v Speaker 1>just remember it was it felt very like it was

0:42:52.920 --> 0:42:55.120
<v Speaker 1>just the two of us out there because I that

0:42:55.520 --> 0:42:57.839
<v Speaker 1>I didn't. I felt like there was no crew when

0:42:57.840 --> 0:43:01.239
<v Speaker 1>we were doing that scene, and it was very like

0:43:01.360 --> 0:43:04.200
<v Speaker 1>we were allowed to just go where we wanted to go.

0:43:04.400 --> 0:43:06.360
<v Speaker 1>There was no like set blocking that we had to

0:43:06.400 --> 0:43:10.000
<v Speaker 1>do for camera angles, and they weren't worried about the

0:43:10.080 --> 0:43:13.000
<v Speaker 1>lights blocking us. It was more about what we were

0:43:13.040 --> 0:43:16.520
<v Speaker 1>saying and the emotions that the characters were going through.

0:43:17.480 --> 0:43:19.600
<v Speaker 1>I remember feeling a lot of freedom with that scene,

0:43:19.680 --> 0:43:22.400
<v Speaker 1>is just as far as like what what what are

0:43:22.400 --> 0:43:24.319
<v Speaker 1>we going to get out of the scene? Who knows? Like,

0:43:24.480 --> 0:43:29.000
<v Speaker 1>let's seecause I was a little bit more raw, Like

0:43:29.040 --> 0:43:31.480
<v Speaker 1>there was some parts where you you couldn't even totally

0:43:31.520 --> 0:43:33.920
<v Speaker 1>see Kelly's face. Maybe I'm trying to remember. I think

0:43:33.960 --> 0:43:37.200
<v Speaker 1>you're in a black dress in that scene. Yeah, and

0:43:37.200 --> 0:43:41.040
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have any shoes on either, which you know,

0:43:41.960 --> 0:43:44.680
<v Speaker 1>you just can't have shoes on when you're just dealing

0:43:44.719 --> 0:43:48.879
<v Speaker 1>with so much emotional that she had to lose those

0:43:48.880 --> 0:43:51.160
<v Speaker 1>shoes and I was just walking around barefoot in that

0:43:51.200 --> 0:43:52.800
<v Speaker 1>grass and night. I was like, oh my gosh, you

0:43:52.880 --> 0:43:55.080
<v Speaker 1>must have been cold. But yeah, I did love that scene.

0:43:55.160 --> 0:43:59.120
<v Speaker 1>I felt like before that though, I was like, what

0:43:59.200 --> 0:44:02.160
<v Speaker 1>the F is these problems? Like she's on such a

0:44:03.360 --> 0:44:08.560
<v Speaker 1>rant all the time, Like God, she was irritating me.

0:44:07.719 --> 0:44:12.359
<v Speaker 1>Because that sort of made me understand her on a

0:44:12.360 --> 0:44:14.879
<v Speaker 1>different level. It is that the first time they acknowledge

0:44:15.960 --> 0:44:21.960
<v Speaker 1>that the phone call saved him. I think that and

0:44:22.000 --> 0:44:24.880
<v Speaker 1>then you saying yeah, and I just wanted to hear

0:44:24.960 --> 0:44:27.879
<v Speaker 1>your voice. So it's almost like you saved you save

0:44:27.960 --> 0:44:36.080
<v Speaker 1>each other. Yeah, that line made me. I feel like

0:44:36.120 --> 0:44:38.239
<v Speaker 1>they do this a lot with Dylan and Kelly. They

0:44:38.280 --> 0:44:40.799
<v Speaker 1>like put them out there, like you were saying, like

0:44:40.840 --> 0:44:44.320
<v Speaker 1>there's the observatory, there's the pool at night, there's this scene,

0:44:45.320 --> 0:44:48.320
<v Speaker 1>and it's really cool. It's like them against the world.

0:44:48.360 --> 0:44:51.640
<v Speaker 1>They're totally in a different universe, the soulmates, and it's

0:44:52.239 --> 0:44:55.560
<v Speaker 1>I love that they do this. Yeah, I'm thinking, Tory,

0:44:55.640 --> 0:44:58.560
<v Speaker 1>that's a good point. I'm thinking about it. We don't

0:44:58.640 --> 0:45:02.120
<v Speaker 1>see that with the are cast as much. Those one

0:45:02.200 --> 0:45:07.720
<v Speaker 1>on one intimate, dark, gritty you're outdoors somewhere totally removed

0:45:07.760 --> 0:45:12.760
<v Speaker 1>from the world really with just the two of them,

0:45:12.960 --> 0:45:16.799
<v Speaker 1>always at night. It's really cool. We get a lot

0:45:16.840 --> 0:45:18.680
<v Speaker 1>of David and Donna scenes with the two of them,

0:45:18.719 --> 0:45:22.319
<v Speaker 1>but it's always very right. But these are all see

0:45:22.440 --> 0:45:27.560
<v Speaker 1>too like deep, you know, it's they set the mood

0:45:27.600 --> 0:45:31.880
<v Speaker 1>moody and dark, and it's too like really flawed characters

0:45:31.920 --> 0:45:35.920
<v Speaker 1>like that have come together to and and find that

0:45:36.040 --> 0:45:39.560
<v Speaker 1>comfort in one another because nobody else can really relate

0:45:39.600 --> 0:45:43.520
<v Speaker 1>to the depths of their you know, what they've in

0:45:43.560 --> 0:45:47.400
<v Speaker 1>their mind, what their faults are. And I feel like

0:45:47.440 --> 0:45:50.560
<v Speaker 1>they relate on such a deep level that that they

0:45:50.560 --> 0:45:52.480
<v Speaker 1>don't really do that with the other characters. You're right,

0:45:54.080 --> 0:45:56.800
<v Speaker 1>but I feel like at that end when when they

0:45:56.800 --> 0:45:59.719
<v Speaker 1>when they took the picture of um they finally took

0:45:59.719 --> 0:46:03.200
<v Speaker 1>the picture her for the senior pole thing best couple

0:46:03.280 --> 0:46:09.120
<v Speaker 1>or whatever it was, umty, we see like we I

0:46:09.160 --> 0:46:11.320
<v Speaker 1>don't know. For me, I just saw the way Dylan

0:46:11.360 --> 0:46:14.960
<v Speaker 1>loved Kelly, like I could feel how much he loved her,

0:46:15.239 --> 0:46:20.680
<v Speaker 1>and that made me love her again, and that just

0:46:20.719 --> 0:46:26.200
<v Speaker 1>that last moment. Yeah, I I sort of hoped you

0:46:26.280 --> 0:46:29.200
<v Speaker 1>have that picture somewhere in a frame like that was

0:46:29.280 --> 0:46:31.440
<v Speaker 1>on the same way. I don't. I don't have that picture,

0:46:31.480 --> 0:46:34.000
<v Speaker 1>but oh my god, that I can. But if someone

0:46:34.080 --> 0:46:38.000
<v Speaker 1>does have it, let us know. Did anybody have a moment?

0:46:38.120 --> 0:46:40.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean, and I don't. I don't know if this

0:46:40.040 --> 0:46:44.960
<v Speaker 1>is just me where it was like Dylan and Kelly,

0:46:45.560 --> 0:46:49.440
<v Speaker 1>but it was Luke and Jenny. I thought, oh, that's

0:46:49.480 --> 0:46:52.560
<v Speaker 1>a picture of Luke and Jenny too. I have felt

0:46:52.560 --> 0:46:54.319
<v Speaker 1>at the very end of the show like I felt

0:46:54.360 --> 0:47:00.600
<v Speaker 1>like that was us. Yeah, yeah, agreed, it didn't You know,

0:47:00.680 --> 0:47:02.600
<v Speaker 1>when you're making it, you don't really think about it

0:47:02.640 --> 0:47:05.200
<v Speaker 1>because you're trying to I don't know what you're You're

0:47:05.239 --> 0:47:08.040
<v Speaker 1>just in the moment of the scene, and but you

0:47:08.280 --> 0:47:10.640
<v Speaker 1>it does gets blurred and I feel like that was

0:47:10.680 --> 0:47:13.319
<v Speaker 1>one of the moments when it felt really blurry for me.

0:47:13.480 --> 0:47:18.600
<v Speaker 1>But it was so heartwarming and like I miss I

0:47:18.920 --> 0:47:26.320
<v Speaker 1>miss that, miss those moments, right, And when she said

0:47:27.040 --> 0:47:31.440
<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to hear your voice like that, I

0:47:33.000 --> 0:47:40.360
<v Speaker 1>that was so accurate. M hmm. I'm the show is

0:47:40.920 --> 0:47:43.200
<v Speaker 1>ringing it out of me. I tell you. Sometimes it's

0:47:43.239 --> 0:47:48.040
<v Speaker 1>just like too much. Yeah, it takes takes me back

0:47:48.800 --> 0:47:51.399
<v Speaker 1>when I stopped like the episode, I'm like, what year

0:47:51.560 --> 0:47:55.080
<v Speaker 1>is it? A little bit like I really can get

0:47:56.040 --> 0:48:05.880
<v Speaker 1>into Yeah, you m I kind of love how it

0:48:05.960 --> 0:48:12.080
<v Speaker 1>is for you both re watching it. I will say this, though,

0:48:12.239 --> 0:48:17.640
<v Speaker 1>you were right. Kelly's hair does look darker again this week.

0:48:18.880 --> 0:48:23.200
<v Speaker 1>I noticed it now, not almost just a little what's

0:48:23.280 --> 0:48:29.360
<v Speaker 1>the like a toner, It had like it had highs

0:48:29.400 --> 0:48:32.399
<v Speaker 1>and lows, Like it felt like there was low lights

0:48:32.400 --> 0:48:34.640
<v Speaker 1>and highlights. Maybe it was, you know, when we would

0:48:34.680 --> 0:48:37.880
<v Speaker 1>go and do our movies of the week River and

0:48:37.920 --> 0:48:40.879
<v Speaker 1>they would we color our hair or whatever we would

0:48:40.920 --> 0:48:43.439
<v Speaker 1>do to it. Maybe this was after we came back

0:48:43.480 --> 0:48:47.120
<v Speaker 1>from one of those Oh I wonder okay, wait wait wait,

0:48:47.120 --> 0:48:53.479
<v Speaker 1>so if this aired in April we had then could

0:48:53.480 --> 0:48:55.279
<v Speaker 1>it be over Christmas break and you have been doing

0:48:55.280 --> 0:48:58.279
<v Speaker 1>a movie maybe the last episode? Yeah, it was like

0:48:58.320 --> 0:49:00.840
<v Speaker 1>the first episode back from a break. Tory and I

0:49:00.880 --> 0:49:05.360
<v Speaker 1>were talking Jenny before. The fashion wasn't super nothing stood

0:49:05.360 --> 0:49:09.520
<v Speaker 1>out to me, although you had for the yearbook photos

0:49:10.400 --> 0:49:13.640
<v Speaker 1>like Brandon in that suit. I actually liked Brandon in

0:49:13.640 --> 0:49:15.960
<v Speaker 1>that suit better than Dylan in that tux. To me,

0:49:16.160 --> 0:49:19.040
<v Speaker 1>Dylan looked better at the end when he was just

0:49:19.080 --> 0:49:22.440
<v Speaker 1>being Dylan. I'm of the outfits when Donna and David

0:49:22.480 --> 0:49:25.719
<v Speaker 1>were announcing on on the stage, like, your little color

0:49:25.800 --> 0:49:29.799
<v Speaker 1>coordinated striped outfit was so cute with he kind of

0:49:29.840 --> 0:49:34.480
<v Speaker 1>looked yeah, but it was like a blazer dress box.

0:49:35.000 --> 0:49:39.280
<v Speaker 1>It was like a fitted one. Right, that was cute,

0:49:40.560 --> 0:49:43.440
<v Speaker 1>going I'm going back on imad And I loved your

0:49:43.520 --> 0:49:48.839
<v Speaker 1>dress in the first scene, like that felt we got it.

0:49:49.040 --> 0:49:52.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's like Kelly, that felt you. That felt like

0:49:52.600 --> 0:49:55.960
<v Speaker 1>you in real life at the time. Yeah, like long dress.

0:49:56.000 --> 0:50:01.000
<v Speaker 1>Now like you're Daniel Steele's how do I can you

0:50:01.000 --> 0:50:03.480
<v Speaker 1>guys see it yet? Oh? There we go? Now star

0:50:04.360 --> 0:50:08.600
<v Speaker 1>Star is my hair darker. Oh my god, let's look

0:50:08.600 --> 0:50:14.120
<v Speaker 1>at her hair, man, I'm pulling it out. Whoa, Oh

0:50:14.200 --> 0:50:17.960
<v Speaker 1>my god. This first one, wasn't it. You had done

0:50:17.960 --> 0:50:20.240
<v Speaker 1>a couple episodes of melrose Place, and then you also

0:50:20.280 --> 0:50:24.040
<v Speaker 1>were doing Lies of the Heart, the story of Lori Kellogg.

0:50:24.080 --> 0:50:26.359
<v Speaker 1>But that seems a little later. Oh god, you're being

0:50:27.200 --> 0:50:29.799
<v Speaker 1>choked by that man. I'm being choked by that man.

0:50:29.840 --> 0:50:34.399
<v Speaker 1>Who is now my How to even explain that? Who

0:50:34.480 --> 0:50:40.200
<v Speaker 1>is that? Gregory Harrison did a lifetime Moviegory Harrison. Uh?

0:50:40.239 --> 0:50:43.760
<v Speaker 1>And yeah? And who is he? Agen? He is now

0:50:44.360 --> 0:50:51.560
<v Speaker 1>my ex husband's soon to your father in law. It's

0:50:51.600 --> 0:50:54.400
<v Speaker 1>so weird. I made out with I made out with

0:50:54.480 --> 0:50:59.920
<v Speaker 1>basically my ex husband's new fiancee's dad. I'm trying to

0:51:00.000 --> 0:51:01.799
<v Speaker 1>think of a time when you all will be together.

0:51:01.840 --> 0:51:05.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, your hair here is a little bit warmer

0:51:05.520 --> 0:51:08.319
<v Speaker 1>than your natural Kelly hare and maybe you were just

0:51:08.400 --> 0:51:10.320
<v Speaker 1>like I want to be a little different than Kelly

0:51:10.320 --> 0:51:12.239
<v Speaker 1>in this movie. And so they put a rinse on

0:51:12.320 --> 0:51:14.600
<v Speaker 1>it or something, and then it was still kind of

0:51:14.600 --> 0:51:18.480
<v Speaker 1>in there when it came out. Mystery solved. Mystery solved.

0:51:18.840 --> 0:51:22.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm more fascinated. And when all the all the all

0:51:22.920 --> 0:51:25.080
<v Speaker 1>those people you just talked about will be together, and

0:51:25.120 --> 0:51:28.360
<v Speaker 1>I think it'll be at your kid's weddings. Oh my gosh,

0:51:29.120 --> 0:51:37.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm there for that. Whoa. And then without consent that's

0:51:37.360 --> 0:51:40.719
<v Speaker 1>coming to that seems not too good either. They are

0:51:40.760 --> 0:51:44.759
<v Speaker 1>all very dramatic without consent. Who was in that one?

0:51:45.000 --> 0:51:50.319
<v Speaker 1>Was that Johnny Galecky? Yeah, I'm so good. And then

0:51:50.400 --> 0:51:54.960
<v Speaker 1>this is Mr Schoviz, I got you ulling for you.

0:51:54.960 --> 0:51:57.839
<v Speaker 1>You have the short hair, so that's later. We don't

0:51:57.840 --> 0:51:59.880
<v Speaker 1>have that yet. Who's that? It was that Rob Bestie's.

0:52:00.480 --> 0:52:08.040
<v Speaker 1>No Williams was in that? Oh my god? Wait, was

0:52:08.080 --> 0:52:10.960
<v Speaker 1>that when you were a piano player? No? That was

0:52:11.040 --> 0:52:14.440
<v Speaker 1>star Okay, okay, I think she was. Yeah, she was

0:52:14.480 --> 0:52:19.680
<v Speaker 1>a singer. Daniel Steele. She's Oh my god, that's that's

0:52:20.920 --> 0:52:23.680
<v Speaker 1>that's like major to like being a Daniel Steele movie.

0:52:24.080 --> 0:52:28.840
<v Speaker 1>Back then, that was like everything. Sorry, I've read every

0:52:28.920 --> 0:52:34.640
<v Speaker 1>Daniel Steel book. I love her. It was definitely fun.

0:52:34.960 --> 0:52:42.000
<v Speaker 1>Ah good. Kids now would be like, who's Daniel Steel? Yeah,

0:52:42.080 --> 0:52:46.399
<v Speaker 1>they don't even know who we are, so, oh my god,

0:52:46.440 --> 0:52:48.759
<v Speaker 1>you know what I've had to be Oh god, it's

0:52:49.120 --> 0:52:52.800
<v Speaker 1>at this point lately because you get that blank stare

0:52:54.560 --> 0:52:56.600
<v Speaker 1>and someone will be like I know you, And then

0:52:56.680 --> 0:52:59.439
<v Speaker 1>like the kids were and I said, oh, don't worry

0:52:59.480 --> 0:53:04.000
<v Speaker 1>your mom's I'm sure your mom's a fan. Yeah, you've

0:53:04.040 --> 0:53:06.919
<v Speaker 1>just embraced that now I do. I'm embarrassed that they're

0:53:06.960 --> 0:53:09.440
<v Speaker 1>just like and they and they look at their parents

0:53:09.520 --> 0:53:11.080
<v Speaker 1>or look at whoever they're with, like how do you

0:53:11.120 --> 0:53:13.280
<v Speaker 1>know when I was like that, like your your mom's

0:53:13.280 --> 0:53:15.319
<v Speaker 1>a fan, that's why. Just let me know each other.

0:53:16.040 --> 0:53:19.120
<v Speaker 1>Or this kid at the airport was screaming, excuse me.

0:53:19.239 --> 0:53:22.080
<v Speaker 1>His voice was so loud and it was early morning,

0:53:22.200 --> 0:53:24.319
<v Speaker 1>just gone off the longest light ever, and he was,

0:53:24.360 --> 0:53:27.800
<v Speaker 1>excuse me, my dad's a huge fan. I get a picture.

0:53:28.280 --> 0:53:34.520
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, yes, yes me, yes, yes, my dad.

0:53:35.520 --> 0:53:38.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, take a picture of the old girl

0:53:38.280 --> 0:53:42.680
<v Speaker 1>here that used to bother but doesn't father me anymore

0:53:42.840 --> 0:53:46.840
<v Speaker 1>like that. You know when that first started happening, I remember,

0:53:46.840 --> 0:53:49.520
<v Speaker 1>I was like whoa, whoa wa, whoa whoa. Oh. Remember

0:53:49.520 --> 0:53:51.799
<v Speaker 1>when we first started talking about how we didn't get

0:53:51.800 --> 0:53:54.759
<v Speaker 1>the looks anymore from a certain age of men, that

0:53:54.840 --> 0:53:58.200
<v Speaker 1>they just remember that that you're invisible. Yes, Remember I

0:53:58.239 --> 0:54:00.840
<v Speaker 1>told you. I was driving and I was like honking

0:54:01.280 --> 0:54:02.840
<v Speaker 1>and then he looked out and he saw blondeer and

0:54:02.840 --> 0:54:04.080
<v Speaker 1>he looked over and saw it was me, and he's

0:54:04.120 --> 0:54:07.120
<v Speaker 1>like and just kept driving. He was I think they're

0:54:07.120 --> 0:54:10.319
<v Speaker 1>going to get something great from Like I was devastated,

0:54:10.360 --> 0:54:13.239
<v Speaker 1>and Jen's like, yeah, this is what's happening. I was like, no.

0:54:13.719 --> 0:54:16.239
<v Speaker 1>And we had it very we wanted to write about it.

0:54:16.280 --> 0:54:19.520
<v Speaker 1>At some points we're like, God, it's such a thing,

0:54:19.680 --> 0:54:24.480
<v Speaker 1>like you, it's a transition for I forgot to tell

0:54:24.480 --> 0:54:29.040
<v Speaker 1>you guys my idea. You never told a special podcast

0:54:29.080 --> 0:54:30.960
<v Speaker 1>you were going to Texas and you never do. I

0:54:31.000 --> 0:54:33.560
<v Speaker 1>think take it to the text, yeah, because I don't

0:54:33.600 --> 0:54:35.520
<v Speaker 1>want to reveal it, because what if it is so

0:54:35.560 --> 0:54:40.560
<v Speaker 1>good we have a private OMG text yea, Chaine, take

0:54:40.600 --> 0:54:43.240
<v Speaker 1>it to the next I'm gonna take it to the text. Okay,

0:54:43.400 --> 0:54:47.040
<v Speaker 1>what are we doing next week? It is episode twenty six.

0:54:47.080 --> 0:54:51.359
<v Speaker 1>She came in through the bathroom window. That's a take

0:54:51.400 --> 0:54:54.480
<v Speaker 1>on a famous movie, right. Uh. He came in through

0:54:54.520 --> 0:54:57.759
<v Speaker 1>the back door. No, that's that's different. That's a poor

0:54:57.840 --> 0:55:06.640
<v Speaker 1>And you saw she gave it through the speaking of

0:55:06.800 --> 0:55:14.200
<v Speaker 1>old Jed. That was a real knee slapper. Oh my god, crying.

0:55:15.320 --> 0:55:18.640
<v Speaker 1>I think we gotta wrap on that I can't do

0:55:18.719 --> 0:55:33.400
<v Speaker 1>it anymore. Watch it, Cocker, cocker, She said, come on

0:55:33.680 --> 0:55:42.839
<v Speaker 1>the movie. I can't. Oh my god, we crack us up.

0:55:42.880 --> 0:55:45.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if we crack you up, but oh

0:55:45.600 --> 0:55:50.120
<v Speaker 1>my god, it's going to laugh with you guys every week.

0:55:50.160 --> 0:55:52.560
<v Speaker 1>That I gotta tell you. I need it, We all need.

0:55:52.640 --> 0:55:56.279
<v Speaker 1>Everybody out there has a good laugh. Please do that

0:55:56.440 --> 0:56:00.400
<v Speaker 1>has a good week. We love you, Love you. My

0:56:00.480 --> 0:56:03.400
<v Speaker 1>mom's a huge fan. My god, your mom's going to

0:56:03.520 --> 0:56:14.040
<v Speaker 1>hear this. That's even more embarrassing by gus By